Update 4/11 - So I'm getting bombarded by emails. People need to read my profile before emailing. If you're not close enough to meet up on a regular basis, don't email me. If your black, I'm sorry but every black man I've gone out with has been a "playa" and I'm not taking the chance on wasting my time on another one. So if you are the exception to the rule, sorry but a few bad apples spoiled it for the whole bunch. Age. if you're not old enough to drink or within a decade of social security, please move along. Sorry if this is harsh, but it can't be this difficult just to find a nice UNMARRIED guy (and I don't take "prefer not to answer" as an answer on that one) to have some ongoing fun with.

I’m a BBW, that’s big beautiful women. If you have issues with my size, that’s your prerogative. People are attracted to what they are attracted to, so if I don’t do it for you, don’t waste my time or yours.

I am a lady. We all know why we’re on this site but I’m still a lady and as such deserve respect. Any crude “wanna fuck” emails or IMs will be deleted and the member blocked.

There are plenty of women on this site that don't mind dealing with the drama of being with someone who is married or attached, I am not one of them. If you are married or attached please move on.

I am a well educated, well read, laid back, drama free, smart funny person. I get along best with people who can talk about something besides sex or sports. I've always been good at getting a conversation started and keeping it interesting. When I'm at home alone, I divide my time between the television and the computer. In my free time I like to go to museums or other cultural activities.

I’m looking for a FRIEND with benefits. Just to be very clear, that’s someone that wants to hang out and get to know me out of the bedroom as well as playing with me in the bedroom. I do not want any one offs, to me sex isn’'t fun if I don’t know the person. If you don’t want to get to know me then you’'re not really someone I want to know. That being said, I’m not looking for an LTR although I’m open to the possibility. I’m drama free and really would like to keep it that way. No worries about me getting clingy. If I was looking for a soul mate, I’d be on eharmony. I’m also not into long drawn out IM relationships, I’d rather get to know someone in the real world.

Sexually, I’m looking for a physical connection so I’m totally into the kissing and cuddling part. I’m very oral and love giving and receiving. Up to this point my experiences have been very basic and I’d love to do some experimenting. I don’t like anal and I’m not into pain. If you want to be tied up, I’m happy to oblige. I’m not into women at all, so couples please do not contact me.

I’m in IT so I hang out with and tend to get along with people younger then myself. That means I’m up on music and pop culture. I’m not opposed to someone my own age, but they have to be young at heart. I’m a geek at my core, playing video and board games (I rock, literally, at Guitar Hero). I love my electronics (he who dies with the most toys wins). I’m a movie freak and love everything from blockbusters to indi artsy stuff. I write romance novels and erotica.

WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.



My Ideal Person: I don’t really have a type. Like I said up above, I am partial to younger guys. I’m looking for someone without a lot of baggage. If you want to talk incessantly about your last girlfriend, please tell someone else. I’m looking for someone that wants to have a lot of fun and laughs and make a really good friend along the way. If you email me, I would really love a face pic with it.