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Help with fantasy 10/18/2005
I've developed this fantasy over the past year or so.
I really want to get together with a couple and have the woman
teach me how to give a blowjob. then, after she shows me how
to take a load in her mouth, i will kiss her deeply and get
my first taste of cum.
<br>
anybody in the virginia area that is willing to help with
my fantasy?
1 Comments, 298 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Let's be careful 10/17/2005
So as I stare down the barrel of the goof's pistol it
finally occurs to me, "If this guy's crazy enough
to beat up a woman on the street, he might be crazy enough
to shoot me." I try to keep something like that in mind
when I'm dealing with people on this site.
Let's face it, contacting strangers to have sex with
them is an unusual activity to say the least and some of the
people out ...
0 Comments, 72 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Should I be Pissed 10/16/2005
My wife recently returned from a conference. When I asked
how it was, she mentioned meeting a particularly handsome
speaker, who was extremely popular with the ladies. Of
course, she steadfastly denied being interested in him
until I loosened her tounge with a few glasses of wine.
<br>
She finally admitted that if she were single, she not only
would have fucked him, but would also ...
5 Comments, 1079 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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What do women really want? 10/15/2005
A simple question really, im just after a little advice
on what women are looking for in a man.
1 Comments, 198 Views,
1 Votes
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When illness gets in the way.... 10/14/2005
I would not consider myself happily married, just married
and in a holding pattern. My wife has, for the last seven
years since the birth of our second , gotten sicker
and sicker.
<br>
Especially over the past three years, as she has begun to
take more and more medications for everything from migraines
to depression to fibromyalgia, she has become more and
more disconnected from ...
4 Comments, 196 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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How does facial hair affect eating pussy? 10/13/2005
I have a question for all you girls out there that like to
have their pussies licked.
How does a mans facial hair, or lack of, affect how it feels
having your pussy eaten?
I have heard that a man with a beard feels better than one
who has a stubble, but I was reading in a blog that one woman
says that stubble feels good.
So let's hear what the rest of you have to say.
Is it better ...
3 Comments, 436 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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small breast 10/13/2005
why is it that most weman with small breast will show there
pussy but wont show there breast
8 Comments, 335 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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why it wont work 10/11/2005
hi everyone, i figured out why women dont meet up on here.
it is because sex to a woman is a personal connection. i seen
it in a womens eyes the other night. the way she was looking
into mine, it was like she was giving me her soul.
4 Comments, 149 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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why does my wife hold back 10/11/2005
we got into playing after we got to looking around the internet
at pics/videos on sites of people having 3somes. we agreeded
it might be fun. so we looked til we met this one guy and my
wife chatted with him over a oeriod of time and they got to
be good friends as we as him and i. so we had him over and it
went good seeing as how we were all nervous. lol. so we continued
to play with this ...
1 Comments, 367 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Fuuuuuuuuuck! 10/11/2005
Hi all! Something has happened here at Swapfinder.com that I seriously
didn't expect to happen. I fell for someone.
<br>
I've gone out with 7 guys here at Swapfinder.com in the past 4 months
and never thought about starting a relationship with any
of them before this last guy.
<br>
Facts are that we've been "dating" for
6 weeks. Out of the past 6 weekends, we've spent 4 of
them ...
4 Comments, 476 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Would you alter your body for your partner? 10/5/2005
My Fiance' recently told me that she would be more interested
in oral sex if I got circumsized. I shower 1-2 times a day,
and always wash before any intimacy, so smell or taste isn't
a problem for her. She apparently just prefers oral sex
without the extra foreskin involved. She says she is turned
off to the idea because she is an RN and sees uncircumcized
males in their worst condition ...
5 Comments, 269 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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white wine 10/4/2005
this is a genral advice line so here goes with some genral
advice for everyday life alway and i mean alway put white
wine on red wine stain always works stops it staining
0 Comments, 217 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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pls be honest 10/4/2005
my friend had been in this online relationship for about
5 months with this girl in my town finally they agreed to
meeet 1 on 1 and my friend flew in from lagos to spend the wk/end
and meet her . i had to show him the way to university of port
harcourt where the girl was studying. we were supposed
to meet her outside the mr biggs joint at uniport and as we
were sitting in ...
2 Comments, 140 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Getting back on the 10/2/2005
Hi
I have not had sex with my wife for months. She is great looking
and willing, but I can't get my self to do it. I think
I like novelty a lot, and this she is not. Can you suggest
any way of mixing my need to try new stuff (specially new
people) and my undestanding that my marriage needs sex?
Any advice is appreciated.
Tx
Roco
1 Comments, 194 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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understand the the female body. 10/1/2005
Experience can probably help all men out there in pleasing
their woman, but first you must understand the terminology
of the female body.
<br>
Vagina - Generally referred to as either the cunt or "the
hole, " the portion of the female genitalia that
protrudes inside of the body.
<br>
Labia - Generally referred to as the lips, the protective
cover to the vaginal opening.
...
2 Comments, 296 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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lifestyle is a choice that some claim can't be made 10/1/2005
A Twenty four seven lifestyle is a choice
that some claim can't be made. They choose to tell us
that it is impossible to have a D/S relationship twenty
four hours a day seven days a week fifty
two weeks a year. They may be correct. Let's
look at their point of view. Is it possible to have someone
tied up indefinitely, punished indefinitely, or at the
brink of orgasm indefinitely? Well no ...
0 Comments, 146 Views,
0 Votes
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a friend of mine's having a problem... 10/1/2005
A friend of mine doesn't feel like her boyfriend is
attracted to her anymore, and keeps hearing from others
that the attraction dies the longer you are together. What
can I say to her to help her realize that she is GORGEOUS,
and to not let these other people get to her anymore?
2 Comments, 83 Views,
0 Votes
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increasing the amount of cum 10/1/2005
Does anyone know how to increase the amount of cum we shoot?
I would love to increase the qauntity and there must be a
way but i haevnt seen it written anywhere. Any one here have
experience with that? I would appreciate your input.
1 Comments, 384 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Early Ejaculation 9/28/2005
If I go a long time without sex, I tend to ejaculate very soon
and with little stimulation. I recover very quickly and
have much more staying power after the first "blast".
Does anyone know why and are there any ways to desensitize
myself?
4 Comments, 188 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Ladies be real 9/26/2005
A lot of women come on here looking for love I don't think
this is a good platform for it. Let me know what you think?
9 Comments, 204 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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looking for an adult theater. 9/26/2005
Is there any way to find an adult theater in the area? I live
in South East GA. but i can't find anything close. I
even have looked in Jacksonville FL. with no luck. Please
help....
0 Comments, 224 Views,
0 Votes
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Pool sex anyone? 9/26/2005
I was swimming in the pool in the back yard one summer evening.
My husband was messing with something in the shed. He's
such a prude when it comes to sex! (which is one of the reasons
he's now an ex.)
Anyhow, I was contemplating how to get him into the pool
for a little naughty skinny dipping and hopefully some
hot sex. So I did what I knew would get his attention. The
next time he ...
6 Comments, 586 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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FACT: It’s illegal to be hung wearing tight clothes in Florida. 9/24/2005
No, it’s not a joke. If you’re large and you decide to wear
biking shorts, a Speedo or even tight fitting sweats that
show too much of your clothed dick, you can go to jail for
public nudity. The Floridians call it “Clothed Human Male
Genitals in a Discernibly Turgid State.” Turgid simply
means swollen or large. Look it up in the LexisNexis Municipal
Codes for ...
2 Comments, 313 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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A 20 year marraige saved without infidelity! 9/21/2005
I originally came to this site looking for some resources
to understand this midlife phenomenon it seems I just have
to go through (not that I wanted to!). It also served as a
diversion when I felt like if I didn't fuck something
I'd explode. I fought like hell to stay faithful to
my wife. If you're looking for a success story to help
you out in a similiar situation, well this artlicle is ...
1 Comments, 227 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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fantasy 9/19/2005
I've dated a few girls who told me they fantasized about
being . Of course, when I asked them to give me more
details, it wasn't exactly anymore (especially
since it always invovled the type of guys they were attracted
to). The point is, they were really turned on by the thought
of having sex against their will.
<br>
There's a great divide between getting punched in
the mouth, ...
2 Comments, 282 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Older women and younger men 9/16/2005
A big hullo to everyone out there right now!
<br>
As a young man of 19 years old, I was wondering what the older
women of this little "community" of ours (Or
older women in general, really) think about the possibility
of being with a younger man?
<br>
For me, and a lot of the men that I know, the idea of being with
an older woman is incredibly appealing, by far ...
5 Comments, 327 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Guys - Tips to spotting bogus profiles 9/15/2005
We've gotta help each other out. We end up wasting more
time dealing with bogus profiles than we do finding good
matches.
<br>
Watch out for profiles with a "hot" pic, but
no characteristic information filled out.
<br>
Another bogus one is where they direct you to a website outside
of Swapfinder.com. These also can make you succeptible to viruses.
<br>
Don't forget that lame ...
3 Comments, 252 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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She want to be Surprised MFM How To? 9/15/2005
My wife and I are looking to have a Bi MFM. The thought of this
gets us both very hot and we love talking about it as we fuck.
Telling her how I want to see her take a large cock inside,
and she returns with how she want to see me suck a large cock
as she fucks my ass. Only thing... She is very shy. How do
I get her to fuck another man? She doesn't want to meet
him till she very horny and ...
2 Comments, 767 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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MY Friend's Wife EX-boyfriend, is with her sister. 9/15/2005
Recently my friend's wife had cheated on him, and a
few days ago he told me he found out this guy who she cheated
with is dating his younger sister in law.
<br>
My friend is quite nervous and he doen't know if he should
tell his wife.
<br>
The younger syster lives with my friend's sister inlaw.
<br>
He tells me that his wife makes frequent visits to his sister
in ...
1 Comments, 401 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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should I 9/15/2005
MY WIFE WOULD LIKE TO FUCK A BLACK MAN AND SHE WOULD LIKE FOR
ME TO WATCH HER AND SHE WOULD LIKE FOR ME TO SUCK HIS COCK AND
IF WE DO IT WERE WOULD FIEND A BLACK MAN WE LIVE WERE THERE
ARE NOT ANY BLACK MAN
1 Comments, 243 Views,
4 Votes
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My Wife's New Fantasy! 9/14/2005
My beautiful wife and I have really enjoyed ourselves over
the last several years in the lifestyle. We've full
swapped with couples one on one, been to many group and hotel
parties, clubs, and I've arranged several gang-bangs
for her as well. For the most part all very erotic and sensual.
I love seeing her sexually excited by others and she likes
seeing me have fun with other women as ...
2 Comments, 747 Views,
12 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes. 9/14/2005
This was written by Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes.
<br>
Andy Rooney says:
<br>
As I grow in age, I value women who are over 30 most
of all. Here are just a few reasons why:
<br>
A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of
the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She
doesn't
care what you think.
<br>
If a woman over 30 doesn't want ...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Sex on Parkings and Outdoors 9/14/2005
I would love to hear from any Dutch people who know good parkings
or outdoors-sex places.
<br>
<br>
I have visited one parking a few times now, but I think it's
not being used much anymore. Just encountered one or two
other men.
<br>
<br>
And are there certain "rules of engagement"
when going to a sex-parking?
0 Comments, 380 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Addicted? 9/13/2005
I have a friend on Swapfinder.com who swears he is addicted, spends hours
and hours every week looking, writing...He does get laid
sometimes...Do you think a person can get addicted to a
sex site? hmmm...
6 Comments, 624 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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People should present themselves as they really are. 9/13/2005
If you are on here to actually meet people, why would you
put a picture that is 5 years old? say your 55, when in fact
you are 60 with a great face lift? say your divorced when
you have been married for 15 years? say who and what you are!
There are plenty of people who will meet you anyway, Takes
all kinds to make this ole world go round...that's
what keeps it interesting!
2 Comments, 193 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Cars 9/13/2005
Guys, keep your car clean, it tells a woman a lot about yourself.
It doesn't have to be some nice sports car or luxury
car. Just take care of it, it shows that you take care of yourself.
0 Comments, 40 Views,
0 Votes
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Male mutiples!!!! 9/12/2005
One day I was lucky enough to discover that although a guy
cannot actually have multiple orgasms the way women do,
you can draw out their pleasure so that it feels like their
orgasm is continuing long after they've finished
actually cumming. My guy considers this to be his own kind
of multiple orgasm and one hell of a great treat when I do
it. Now, the reason I don't do it all the time ...
1 Comments, 422 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Just a little question for ladies. 9/11/2005
Hey ladies, I would like to know how many e-mails on daily
basis do you receive from the members of opposite sex? And
according to what do you pick the people to hang around with?
5 Comments, 219 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Searching 9/10/2005
Why is it that when I try to search for a woman looking for
a man, I get a lot of woman looking for women only profiles?
Should these not show up in my search?
Do I need to become a silver or gold member to stop this from
happening?
2 Comments, 142 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What a rip-off and the importance of clothes 9/10/2005
I'm not into pain or , but occasionally, I find
it a turn off to rip the clothing off my partner. Just be sure
to ask first if it will be OK, so he/she can be wearing clothes
he/she doesn't mind getting torn.
<br>
I also find it to be very beneficial to make the removal of
clothes part of foreplay. Sometimes, I will purposely
leave my genitals covered until she begs for it. I ...
3 Comments, 135 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Body hair 9/9/2005
Do women prefer men that have hair on their chest? And also
whether they prefer men with or without facial hair like
beard/moustache/goatie?
<br>
I've heard that women like men to be shaven.
4 Comments, 591 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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General Advice 9/9/2005
This is to inform all users of this site that if you get on
here and expect to get hooked up it is not that easy. It is
just like dating and can become quite complicated. The
trick to this site is to just be honest or it will bite you
in the butt.
1 Comments, 275 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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co worker driving me crazy 9/8/2005
one of the girls i work with revealed to me that she was having
sex dreams about me, and one day she told me that she would
like the dreams to come true. we started to meet outside
of work, and we kiss on each other whenever we get a chance.
only thing wrong is that she tells me she wants to do it, her
mind tells her to go for it, but in her heart she cant. she
has been with her man for ...
3 Comments, 311 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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for women 9/7/2005
Do women like the men that are circumcised or rather uncut?
1 Comments, 148 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Casual Sex or LTR: Biology and Society 9/7/2005
Using a service like this one, the first things that comes
to my mind is “slutty.” Yet the more I think about it, how
is finding multiple men for casual sex any worse than one
bad long-term relationship?
<br>
There is a biological function for love; love-relationships
ideally satisfy one’s sex drive as well as one’s heart.
Socially, ...
1 Comments, 242 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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Couple Profiles 9/4/2005
I would like to add my opinion here by saying, that this is
a site where couples can hook up and meet other couples as
well as singles. So with that being said; how can you give
other couples or singles an idea of who they are meeting
(refering more to couples) without posting both people
in the couple on the profile. I feel if you dont put your pics
(face) on the profile then you have ...
2 Comments, 193 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Can someone tell me what I am doing wrong 9/3/2005
I was wondering if any other females have this problem or
is it just me.I love to have wild and rough sex sometimes.But
when I do sometimes when the man has my legs on his shoulders
and he is going in , it doesn't hurt but when he starts
pumping the bottom of my stomach starts hurting really
bad.Does any other females have this problem.It only hurts
that way.all the other ways it doesn't ...
6 Comments, 1287 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Always be yourself 9/3/2005
Always be yourself, I know we may try to change for someone
but why be unhappy, if that person cannot love us for whom
we are they are not worth it, been yourself will find you
your true love one day!
1 Comments, 90 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Married and playing alone 9/2/2005
I have had an acount on here for awhile and have had a few ecounters.
But for the most part traffic has been slow. I mainly like
to play with couples but it seems that the "MARRIED"
tag may be getting in the way. It seems that the male partner
in the couple would be more at ease with a married male as
opposed to a single male. Please Help.
<br>
Thanks,
Cinch48
2 Comments, 221 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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need womans advice 9/1/2005
ladies I need your advice.Here is the deal when my wife and
I have sex and she gets off she will only stay in to it until
I get off and then she is done.I would like to keep going more
than once.I can go for quite a while on the second and third
and forth go around.How can I get her to want to cummm!!!!
more than once. I hope you can give me some good advice that
will help
0 Comments, 77 Views,
0 Votes
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What is considered well hung? 8/31/2005
Simple but might be a "silly" question to ask,
but all over the place I read ladies asking for a "well
hung man" or someone with a large dick. What constitutes
well hung / large dick? Looking for measurements, and would
love to not just hear from the guys, but also what the ladies
out there think.
<br>
Thanks and a hui ho!
1 Comments, 660 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Helping the Shy.... 8/30/2005
My girlfriend is very shy, and not so willing to try too many
new things. I don't want to be pushy, because I really
care for her. But sex is just getting boring if its always
the same, no foreplay no fun sex....
<br>
I've bought her a vibrator, lubes, and encouraged
her to be advenutrous and playfull. I respect her very my,
and don't want to hurt her.
<br>
Does anyone ...
3 Comments, 246 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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new to Swapfinder.com 8/29/2005
me and my wife are new to Swapfinder.com. the fact of the matter is that
for a few years now i have wanted her to do this. and now that
it is happening. iam scared. she has had all the fun. she
has met a man and had sex. that does not bother me. what does
is she is chatting with this man. which by the way his wife
doesnt know about. this is bothering me. what should i do?
i dont want to stop her from ...
5 Comments, 332 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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play hard to get 8/29/2005
The more challenge a guy is for a women the higher the chances
the guy will succeed. That simple
2 Comments, 382 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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What's the deal 8/29/2005
Ok, I know our profile isn't the best, and we are not
Ken & Barbie types. We don't provide face shots
YET (key word) but we both work with the public, so that should
be understandable. Is there something we said wrong in
our profile, or are we just totally unattractive. Any advice
would be appreciated. Thanks
Christina & Dan
4 Comments, 414 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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need a womens advice.... 8/28/2005
I need some advice from the women out there. As my other submission
says i have not had any experiances from here and my wife
has. She got so many emails that the computer had to have
a bigger hard drive put in to accomidate them. She has sence
taken a vacation from here and said for me to continue on
my search for a playmate as it were. My problem is that i still
do not get any emails etc ...
0 Comments, 314 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Having feels for someone 8/27/2005
I have feelings for someone that dose not feel the same way
I do or atleast will not say she dose. I would like to know
if there is a chance that she might change her mind. We talk
alot and have alot in common to and when we talk I feel something
good.
1 Comments, 71 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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bbw 8/27/2005
WHAT IS IT ABOUT A BBW THAT MAKES ME HOT?
2 Comments, 204 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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How to keep from hurting her during sex 8/25/2005
I am of average size and no matter what if fuck her hard or
go to deep it hurts her.Im only 6.5inches and average in
girth .It does not matter what position it still hurts can
any ladies help
2 Comments, 552 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Wondering if your good or not? 8/25/2005
No, i'm not an expert or anything, but here's some
common sense. Don't know if your good or not, just ask.
If u really wanna know if ur making her/him feel good, ask
them how they like it. And not while ur goin at it. When ur
both just chillin, talk about it. Ask them where they really
love to get kissed, bitten, etc. What their fave position
is and why. If they don't like oral, don't give ...
3 Comments, 187 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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No Pubes! 8/24/2005
I really enjoy having hair free tackle and the additional
sensations gained from being so. Shaving daily is not practical
nor does it agree with my skin and I can't stand going
through the itchy week!! What are my options and does someone
know some magical technique. I don't really have the
balls to go and get professionally waxed or lasered. So......??
2 Comments, 476 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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bar sex 8/23/2005
i dont understand why people who still go out to the bars
, just do not get it.They all look around at each other like
its a shopping market.some like others that some may not
even notice, well that is until they get a little tippsy.Then
its a free for all, crapy conversation, the constant
undressing with the eyes, and of coarse the lies, oh how
the lies pour out.most of the people would ...
0 Comments, 200 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Friendly Fucks, or Fucking Friends 8/23/2005
I am just looking for some advise, me and my wife have been
married 8 yrs, and have 3 . Our sex life is good she started
meeting other men on Swapfinder.com, and started meeting them, and
called them fuck buddies, I did not mind, in fact i loved
it, she always came home and i got one hell of a fucking from
her. Bit reciently she met a guy, says she wants to be friends
with him, and want's me to be ...
3 Comments, 479 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Does this mean he is still in love with her? 8/23/2005
This is really a question for a friend that is on Swapfinder.com. She
is scared that her husband is in love with his ex-wife still.
He has two beautiful little with his ex-wife and
yet she calls him all the time and it has nothing to do with
the at all. She will call him asking little things
like can he call so and so for her and tell them to get in touch
with her? The thing is...he says he hates ...
5 Comments, 195 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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the art of , well getting laid 8/21/2005
Yes, getting laid is a art you have to have a true appreciation
for the joy of a oragsam.The feel of a cock in yor mouth and
the excitement of trying new things.Even things that you
never though you would do.I think you should be able to have
great sex with someone that you maybe don't want a relationship
with, but enjoy's the same joy of sex that you do.That
seems to be the hard part there ...
2 Comments, 191 Views,
11 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Is it really that weird? 8/20/2005
I am a very oral gal. It is something I enjoy doing very much,
but I do not prefer to receive. I have found in my experiences
that many men get upset by this.
<br>
I do have a reason for not preferring it, and that is because
I am a squirter and from my personal experiences it has freaked
men out bad enough from just normal sex, so I can only imagine
a reaction I would receive ...
8 Comments, 393 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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straight to gay? 8/19/2005
Okay, so I have a friend coming over for the weekend. He's
straight and I'm bi. I really find this guy attractive
and I want to sleep with him. Any way I could get him to go with
me even if just once?
3 Comments, 499 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What 's the best swing club in Vegas? 8/19/2005
Heading to Vegas soon and wondering were the best place
for a couple to go in Vegas? I apologise in advance for this
comment, but looking for a place where there are very attractive
and fit people there. I might only have one shot at this with
this girl, she might try swinging for the first time.
<br>
Thank you!
0 Comments, 102 Views,
0 Votes
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SHOULD I 8/17/2005
IM thinking about becoming a porn star but i dont know how
my family would handle it
2 Comments, 246 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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How long is to short after the death of your spouse 8/16/2005
How long should a person wait to start dating once again
after his or her spouse or significant other has passed
away?
4 Comments, 333 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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RE: use of Deoderent 8/16/2005
I tried to post this in the comment section and could not
get it to post
<br>
I am not a medical professional and do not state any claims
but I do read alot from professionals in the Natural Health
field and stating that skin is the largest organ in the body
to accept toxins and is probablly one of the largest reasons
for cancer as we are exposed every day to toxins even in our ...
1 Comments, 272 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Do nice guys always finish last? 8/15/2005
I'm basically one of the nicest guys anyone could possibly
meet I'm good looking(I have the pics to prove it),
intelligent, respectful, and a total gentleman but apparently
thats not what woman are looking for. It's become painfully
obvious that unless you sell or do drugs, been to jail a couple
times, or treat people like shit your not going to get anywhere
with a woman. In high school I ...
12 Comments, 255 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Extra Marital Dating - What Gets You Caught 8/15/2005
Just met someone. In a small community it is difficult to
get away with anything for long. What are the most common
mistakes that get you caught?
9 Comments, 509 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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i had a women call me annoying in the Swapfinder.com magazine? 8/15/2005
well, i guess ive grown alot since first joining Swapfinder.com. to
each his own, 1, 2, 3 people mostly women dosnt bother
me.i like to talk, to be open minded in everything , i do.
i get alot of sound advice, real, etc from the magazine.
i mostly like to get alot of the mens, ideals. i have alot
of cool people in my network, i cant be so crazy.when will
we learn to treat, speak to others, as wed ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Honesty 8/13/2005
Why do people make things difficult by lying or playing
games when they can save themselves some time by being honest.
If you are interested in somebody or not interested, just
be honest.
<br>
I understand that this site for entertainment or amusement
purposes for some people, but if that is why you are here,
then be frank and honest. It seems silly to me to waste your
time ...
1 Comments, 245 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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am I gay 8/12/2005
I need some advice?
<br>
I have been married for many years and have had many girlfriends.
Particuarly asian girls as they are my favorite. Muslim
girls are the best in bed as they mostly have been trained
to serve men. These are girls whom have grown up in asia of
course.
<br>
I have had many girls give me a blow job including facials
as well as swallowing my love ...
4 Comments, 441 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Women- Fuck you Husbands Husbands-Love your Wives 8/12/2005
It is a fact that men cheat for sex and women cheat for love.
Not saying this is fool proof but a horny man is going to look.
A lonely woman is going to look.
3 Comments, 260 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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what are you thinking? 8/10/2005
a few says a go i was searching through this site and noticed
a lot of attached (partner not included)profiles did you
ever stop to think thats not a good thing if your attached
and not happy enough to be faithful your not in a good relationship
so get out of it and if you do just need a change of senery it
should work both ways or at least give your partner the respect
of letting them know ...
2 Comments, 219 Views,
7 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Experiencing Bi Sex Safely 8/9/2005
I am a married, bi-curious male. I have absolutely zero
interest in a relationship with a guy, but I am fascinated
with penises. I want to have a safe experience with another
guy, just to see what it is like. I don't want any strings
attached, and I am very secure in my marriage. I am scared
to death about diseases. How do I go about finding a safe
person without all of the ...
4 Comments, 597 Views,
7 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Out of Sight...Time to Play 8/9/2005
I am very torn right now. I have decisions to make concerning
the person I have grown to love and date for almost 2 years
now. She got herself caught up in some mess and is now incarcerated.
I plan to stand by her financially and emotionally, but
can I be faithful? It's hard because I love being touched.
I love the feeling of an orgasm, especially when it's
received under someone's ...
5 Comments, 409 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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experience 8/9/2005
what is the best way of gaining experience plz
0 Comments, 262 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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why do some women that respond to you want to send you to another site 8/7/2005
some of the women that have responded to me always want me
to join another site why would i want to do this i have join
this one and i am not going to join a whole buch of sites i take
it they are not for real
3 Comments, 181 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Can you beat this? 8/7/2005
I am on the edge of my seat waiting to hear from anyone who
can beat my “no sex” record.
<br>
<br>
What is the longest you have gone without having sex
with your partner?
<br>
Can you beat my record of 11 years of marriage of which 11
years were without sex? You may ask, “What the hell was she
thinking to stay in a sexless ...
3 Comments, 548 Views,
20 Votes
,6.70 Score
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How secure and private is this site? 8/6/2005
I thought this site was a private site, however this doesnt
seem to be the case. Out of curiosity I googled my handle
and was very surprised when the results listed all the sites
I am registered on. Clicking a link brought up photos used
on the site.
<br>
Gotta say I was pretty shocked, Id be curious to know if any
of you guys/gals had thought of this issue and if you have
similar ...
3 Comments, 344 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Shaved or natural 8/5/2005
Shaved or natural is the key here. To me I've had so many
that were shaved. That's if a woman isn't shaved
or trimmed real low it's really kinda like a turn off
for me. So what do you guys think and women I would like to
know what you think also.
2 Comments, 649 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Looking in CO. 8/4/2005
I'm in Longmont CO. visiting, looking for a gay bar
or adult book store close by that has seats and glory holes
in the booths, any help would appreaciated
0 Comments, 422 Views,
0 Votes
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My wife still treats sex like a dirty act..... 8/4/2005
My wife still treats sex like it is a dirty act, instead of
a wonderful experience between 2 people in love/lust.
What can I do to make her see the passionthat can be? Help,
I have tried everything I can think of.
3 Comments, 232 Views,
0 Votes
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Secret of a Good Pickup Line 8/4/2005
So I've been hanging out in chat a bit, surfing the different
chat rooms, and if there's one thing I've noticed,
it's the abundant supply of horrible pick up lines.
I've been observing for weeks and have collected many
different lines along with their effects. This, then,
is the definitive guide to Swapfinder.com Pickup Lines.
<br>
Words to avoid: fuck, suck, titties, cunt, cock, lick, ...
1 Comments, 209 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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It all in what you say 8/4/2005
I would like to give some advice to men in general. When you
take to a woman please be respectfull. I am so tired of having
our men partners say things like, Well lets get to it. Lets
get it done, I will get the job done, { like my husband can't?}
I will make you happier than you have ever been.{ like I've
never came before. Just stop to think before you speak.
You are a guest in our lives ...
0 Comments, 113 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Oral 8/4/2005
Do men generaly prefer to give oral rather than recive?
2 Comments, 335 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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The threesome effect - What you should know first 8/4/2005
So you have decided to add a third or a couple into your sexual
life. Wonderful and congratulations for coming to that
conclusion. Now that the easy part is over let us get to the
hard pieces. What, oh you thought that the decision was
the easy part. Sadly it is not. There is a lot more to a poly
relationship then many that initially agree to it even
realize.
<br>
Many times from ...
2 Comments, 443 Views,
9 Votes
,5.35 Score
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anal pleasure - the guide on how to 8/4/2005
I've seen a lot of threads regarding this subject.
There's been a lot of prudery on the parts of some, some
really good information and a few points that were questionable
at best.
<br>
I personally have had the pleasure of having a great deal
of experience with bottom play with the women I've
been with. I've found a system that has yet to not be
successful with a willing woman. ...
0 Comments, 427 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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You Should Try A Cock Ring 8/4/2005
What if I told you I had an item that could make your erection
harder, make your sexual sessions last longer, make sex
feel better for both you and your partner (male or female)
and would only cost you about $10 to $25 one time? Would you
believe me? You should because it’s true. Let me tell you
about the joys of a simple device, the Cock Ring.
<br>
My adventures with this ...
5 Comments, 545 Views,
9 Votes
,5.78 Score
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Brazian 8/4/2005
I have been thinking of getting a brazian wax as waxing larsts
longer but is it worth the pain?
2 Comments, 103 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Looking 4 - 1 Good (o)(o) GIRL-HELP 8/3/2005
I am only interested in meeting up with one good female that
is the same as me. You would think it to be fairly simplistic, NO
way. I think I am fairly attractive, slim with a pretty
face and some sexy pictures. I surf this site I wink, email, chat
and answer any email from a women. I dont answer couples
or men not because I dont like them but because I am looking
for a girl. I guess more ...
4 Comments, 299 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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What Sex Toy? 8/3/2005
What sex toy is the best for you?
Is the Rabbit as good as people say?
And whats the round buzzy clit tool I see quite often in porn?
2 Comments, 221 Views,
0 Votes
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What is the average? 8/3/2005
What is the average lenght of a man cock?
Does anyone know....
4 Comments, 458 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Photo snips 8/2/2005
We have recently joined & have seen many differant
pics, most bad, Some sexy and loads crude.
How do you decide what picture to put in?
I mean if you have a real great pussy shot on it's own
when your a couple do you post that or wouldn't you like
to know what the person looks like?
Fitting two people into such a small shot is going to be unviewable.
So what would you rather see fanny, ...
1 Comments, 112 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Just A simple Question 8/2/2005
I have a question. What does it take to get people to check
out your profile and to contact you. I may get a few but mostley
for men. I am more interested in why ladies dont check me
out. Can some one help?
1 Comments, 239 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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SEXUALLY ACTIVE 8/2/2005
Hi everyone. Ok I LOOOOOOVEEEEE to have sex, and a variety
of sex, but its all protected. Is it a bad thing, am i considered
a hoe, should i be ashamed, should i slow down, do i have a
problem, i mean wahts goin on? Is it that I just love sex so
much or waht? Will it be a problem for me when I do finally
settle down? Guys/Girls, please help me out, I'm really
startin to get worried about ...
1 Comments, 137 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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i need to get laid 7/31/2005
Can someone tell me why I don't get replys
3 Comments, 278 Views,
5 Votes
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shaving private places 7/30/2005
Shaving your privates is a must do. This day and age everyone
thats having sex should be well trimmed and shaved neatly.
Its more pleasureable to lick or suck bald skin than getting
a unwanted hair or hairs in your mouth. So if your thinking
about shaving and haven't please do yourself and your
other a big favor.
2 Comments, 328 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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what do most women want when responding to a profile 7/30/2005
what are most women want to hear when you respond to there
profile i have been here for awhile and have had very few
returned e mails what should write to get more replayes
1 Comments, 197 Views,
0 Votes
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Got the hots for my Humanities Instructor 7/29/2005
Got a serious issue!! My instructor for a college course
is one of the sexiest, cutest, most intelligent women I
have ever met. I have stayed after class a couple of times
to get some insight into some of the things we discuss in
class and found out that we have a few common acquaintances
and also attended the same college during our first yrs
of school. After the first test I realized she ...
2 Comments, 62 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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A simple kiss 7/28/2005
I was talking to a female firend the other day, yes a friend
and not a "friend". We were bitching about guys,
yes i am one -.-, as usual and she asked me to describe the
perfect kiss. I came up with this in that second.
<br>
stand there looking deep into some1s eyes, just standing
there, your lips move slowly closer and closer to gether,
my hand slowly slides to the side of her ...
1 Comments, 73 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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swinger clubs 7/27/2005
hi we are new to this. and we are wondering if there are any
swinger bars in wisconsin or minnesota. we would like to
check them out and see if we would like them. or do you have
to join a private club.
1 Comments, 213 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Daddy's little girl - True Story 7/26/2005
When dealing with a woman, who is the victim of sexual
abuse, patience is a necessity. Over seven year
ago, I had
a six and a half year relationship with a woman,
who was the
victim of childhood sexual abuse by her father. (Please
bear in mind that I have had other relationships with other
such victims - at least three, to the best of my knowledge).
She was very petite around 5 ...
5 Comments, 3259 Views,
18 Votes
,1.08 Score
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Story telling poeple what not to do in a bdsm relationship 7/26/2005
It started on a dark and stormy night Jaxson sits by the window
thinking about how she got where she has in this life. Jaxson
I is a tall woman of 5'9 and she is a heavy set woman with
flowing below mid back brown hair and she had the most beautiful
brown eyes you could ever see. Anyone could tell by looking
in those eyes that she carried a lot of secrets that scared
her mentally. Jaxson ...
0 Comments, 128 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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What do you really want????? 7/26/2005
What is your purpose here? What are you really doing on this
site?? Do you even know?? Well it seems that most of the women
here don't know what they want or what they are doing
here. It seems that most are just wanting to play that magic
game called "mind games".. THere are a lot of
people here playing the shell game. One that goes like this:
"go to this site if you would like to see more ...
1 Comments, 107 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Question to the ladies. Would you have sex with a married man. 7/25/2005
This is a question for the women.
<br>
Would you establish a relationship with a married man?
<br>
Would you have sex with a married Man.
5 Comments, 430 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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be honest 7/24/2005
Life does seem unfair at times. Here we are on Swapfinder.com and we're
pouring our hearts out; or are we?
We try to be honest, sincere and caring along with of course
horny. We sit back and wait and nothing happens. What the
hell is going on here? We were honest. I'm wonderful.
Where are all the hits.My advice is this, be the best you
can be. Be totally honest because if you get into a circumstance ...
0 Comments, 45 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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How often do people meet? 7/24/2005
Ive had my share of people that are interested at first and
set up a meet then back down at the last minute. I guess I can
understand why they do this but lets say you set up meets
with 10 people, how many on average dont fall through?
0 Comments, 86 Views,
0 Votes
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Does Penis Enhancement really work? 7/24/2005
Now before anyone asks, no I do not have a small penis. However
<br>
<br>
I
would like to increase my size by about an inch and my diameter
about
an inch and a half. I was curious to see if any other men have
had
experiences with penis enhancement and if you would be
willing to
share them.
5 Comments, 250 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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I dont think my profile is very effective, help me! 7/23/2005
Im not getting very many hits on my profile and Ive had a few
woman tell me that it just doesnt stand out like it should.
Without me blatantly lying on my profile how can I make it
stand out more? I do have a dim lighted face pic in it, and
its only dim lighted for security purposes, I do have more
that I am more than happy to send to people. Any advice for
a young, and apparently naive ...
3 Comments, 126 Views,
0 Votes
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Men be willing to accept when your wrong!! 7/21/2005
Gentlemen,
<br>
We as men are often prideful, big headed, and just plain
offensive when it comes to women!!
<br>
We say anything to hurt their feelings, lower self esteem,
and switch it around so they feel like it their fault, but
it's not it's really ours.
<br>
Well I am one to admit when I am wrong as I have for a previous
question I brought in an article. I ...
3 Comments, 121 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Scams 7/20/2005
There seems to be a lot of scams out there these days, and
now they have found a way to get you in these sites too. Better
watch out for those who seem to want to get things going fast
and then they drop the bomb on you. MONEY.... All kinds of
reasons they need money and many wasy they try to get you
to send it. So watch out for those fast movers, they will
suck you in, chew you up, and ...
0 Comments, 81 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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sex with a co-worker good or bad idea 7/19/2005
I work in a store where we have a ups pickup everyday. The
driver that picks up is very hot and i would love to have sex
with him. He is married, I am engaged. My fiance is aware
of what I would like to do with the driver and doesnt have
a problem with it. The driver is also aware of how wet he makes
me. What do I do?
3 Comments, 208 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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sex buddy 7/19/2005
I'd be curious to hear if any married guys have managed
to get a sex buddy out there. Just someone to occasionally
have sex with, with the wife being kept out of the loop. And
how it came about.
2 Comments, 289 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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PUSSY HAIR! 7/19/2005
Women men don't like going down on a face full of hair....trim
it up even if its just your lips.....you'll benifit
from it beyond words!
3 Comments, 166 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Does size really matter ? 7/19/2005
I have seen many articles and books that says sizes don't
matter but I'm not all satisfy, I want to hear right
from those of you ladies who have tried many diferent sizes
from 3 to eight inches, have you notice any diferences in
pleasure ? My wife does not want to try in fear that she might
not like me any more. Please tell me the whole truth, thanks.
6 Comments, 434 Views,
0 Votes
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Getting Pregnant 7/18/2005
My wife is almost obsessed with becoming pregnant before
she gets to old (she is 37) and I am unable to do this for her
due to low sperm count. We have tried the male fertility
drugs etc. with no luck. She has mentioned finding another
man for strictly no-strings sex for the soul purpose of
getting pregnant. Is this all to weird or is it a reasonable
request?
5 Comments, 610 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Weak Cum Shot 7/17/2005
When I was younger, every time i would ejaculate it would
go really far. Now during the past 4 years or so (now I'm
26), it doesn't squirt far at all (it drops quickly
toward the ground versus being carried upward airborne),
and I can't feel that force like I used to...well sometimes
it DOES if its been like 4 days or so since getting off. I'm
just wondering if it's ok for me to be ...
3 Comments, 196 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Taste test 7/17/2005
You never know a woman until you taste her.Whenevr I see
a woman that turns me on it's the first thing I think
about-I wonder what she tastes like!!!!!!!
1 Comments, 113 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Profile help 7/16/2005
I can't seem to get any girls to respond to my profile.
Being a standard member I have to wait to be contacted. I
mostly get gay men who ask me to let them suck my dick and a
few guys saying their scouts for the porn industry, which
i am suspicious of. But I am wondering how can i get my profile
more attractive to the opposite sex.
2 Comments, 190 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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hey guys...just a good thing to know 7/16/2005
if you and your girl are dabbling in the world of swinging, or
if you are in the first stages of trying it i have a subject
to make noticed...for one try and make sure you love that
person more than you could ever love another.two would
be to get over the hardest part.if you are having troubles
with the idea of another dude slamming your woman with his
cock, how do you think she feels if ...
0 Comments, 173 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Attracted to Co-worker 7/15/2005
I am interested in hooking up with a co-worker. How do I find
out if she is interested? We are both married. Is there any
signs to look for?
3 Comments, 180 Views,
0 Votes
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ANAL SEX HOW-TO GUIDE 7/15/2005
Most men want to try having anal sex with a woman. Most women
are very apprehensive about anal sex.
<br>
Before any anal intercourse happens, there are necessary
steps that need to be taken.
<br>
Anal play is very important, and you should have three or
four sessions that involves anal play only. Don't
attempt anal intercourse early on. Preliminary work needs
to be ...
0 Comments, 420 Views,
16 Votes
,6.95 Score
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Pussy Licking - A woman tells how 7/15/2005
This applies not just to me, but to all women. We do have our
individual quirks, but for the most part, this will work
on all women. If you want to have sex with a woman, the best
thing to do is act like you really like her, but don't
act like you want sex!
<br>
Kissing is the start, the prelude to sex. If it is not good,
the juices will not flow, and you won't get much further ...
8 Comments, 700 Views,
27 Votes
,7.76 Score
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Married people: aka cheaters - think twice! 7/14/2005
I just went through a spell of thinking I needed another
woman...no, make that more women...to satisfy my cravings.
Turns out, the more time I spent hunting the elusive one-night
stands, I was ignoring the beautiful lady I took vows with.
I thought long and hard about what I was doing, how it might
damage my relationship, and how I would feel if she did it
to me. The fact is, whether ...
3 Comments, 211 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score
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don't trust the sag 7/13/2005
all sagitarius women aree nuts stay away from them trust
me it's not worth finding out on your own
4 Comments, 106 Views,
11 Votes
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Going Hairless 7/11/2005
For those thinking of going hairless...
Nair works great, but they're serious about the part
on the warning label that says not for use on genital areas!
You can get most of your pubic hair off with it, but keep that
stuff OFF the testicals. Yes, this is from personal experiance!
4 Comments, 239 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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What is skuirting made off? 7/11/2005
I read an article of skuirting and I know the idea of what
happens, but what is it that's skuirting out? Is it
urine or cum or combination? Just wondering.
2 Comments, 235 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Meeting women on Swapfinder.com 7/10/2005
Just because you meet a girl in Swapfinder.com doesn't neccesarily
mean that you can negate the "normal" factor
- meaning, just because you've sen her the way you want
to have her, it doesn't exactly give you license to
act like it's just gonna come to you when you meet her.
Women never want to feel cheap. Even if she is a buttnaked
freak. You still have to be nice, friendly and comforting;
Until ...
3 Comments, 200 Views,
13 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Sensuous Genital Massage 7/10/2005
The Yoni Massage
<br>
Yoni: pronounced yo-nee, is a Sanskrit word for the vagina,
loosely
translated as 'sacred space' or 'sacred
temple'. It offers an alternate meaning from the western
view of female genitals. In Tantra the Yoni is seen from
a perspective of love and respect.
<br>
The purpose of the Yoni massage is to create a space for the
woman (the
receiver) to ...
1 Comments, 125 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Winks 7/9/2005
I just got a wink and I don't know what to do. Now I've
had winks before, assumed there was interest, sent an
e-mail and got no responce. This happens most of the time.
I hate having the anticipation and then end up feeling like
a fool.
0 Comments, 249 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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First Impressions.... 7/8/2005
In times of relative boredom or perhaps general loneliness,
I've found myself scouring the online community for
companionship. Sometimes I'm met with wonderful
connections, intelligent conversation and gracious
inviting smiles while at other times I get the feeling that
I'm wading through a pool of sludge searching for that
one profile, response or lucky encounter that might be
prelude to ...
0 Comments, 154 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Looking at trying something kinky! 7/7/2005
Hello all:
<br>
I'm looking at trying something kinky and was wondering
where is a good place to go to find out what's out there
and maybe something that I'd like.
<br>
Any thoughts?
0 Comments, 119 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Two woman threesome - Some basic knowledge 7/6/2005
When getting together with two woman for a threesome, a
man should know the following. A man should understand
that, he is not the center of the universe. He is only an active
participant. He should only encourage and watch! If he
is needed, he will be asked. Most men believe that here is
their chance for a "double". He should understand
that most women, want to experience some ...
3 Comments, 248 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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Why is it that sex makes things so complicated? 7/6/2005
I think I have some insight as to why sex is viewed so differently
between men and women. This is going to take a few minutes
to explain, so please just bear with me. I’ll start with
s couple of points to ponder here for everyone first, then
some discussion to follow.
<br>
First of all, ask yourself from a purely “clinical” standpoint
the following ‒ ...
3 Comments, 170 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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anal 7/5/2005
I have been trying to get my wife to do anal, she says it hurts,
now I can't believe their would be as many women and
men doing anal if it hurts so much, Now that being said, I
had her use a dildo on me cuz I figured if I could do it so could
she, but it hurt, so whats the secret to pleasure with anal
sex??????????? how can we do this without pain?????????????
18 Comments, 734 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Happy but want more.... 7/4/2005
I am happy with the girl i have right now, i dont want to lose
her or anything. But the big problem is that i always look
at other girls, also i meet them, without her knowing about
it.(always safe!)
Is it so bad that i need/want more? We have sex almost every
day, so there is nothing wrong.
I have always been like that, i guess there must be more men(or
woman) out there who are like i ...
3 Comments, 110 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Meeting just a girl for a 3some type thing 7/4/2005
Me and my husband are hoping to find a girl for a 3some. I want
him to do her and maybe me get to try out the curiousity of
being bi. The problem is most people are couples or the girls
want u to enter in a credit card to go to their site or nobody
responds to your emails. Any advice... is it our profile
or what?? Is it just hard to find in our area. I just don't
know I mean maybe we are ...
5 Comments, 278 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Portals Gateways & The Like 7/4/2005
Just like the internet is a portal to everything; How a person
conducts themself online is a portal into their personality
offline!
0 Comments, 38 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Eyes or ears 7/4/2005
What has the most impact when you meet someone for the first
time? The way they look at you or the way they speak?
3 Comments, 69 Views,
0 Votes
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help with MFM play 7/3/2005
hi i'm a 21 yr old F and my hubby want me to have a MFM with
him and i dont know what do thing about that about him wanting
a other M with us he dosen't want to talk to me about it
or tell me his feelings on it or even why he likes it and i'm
not sure what to do he wants to watch and play i guess and i
dont know how i'll feel about haveing sex with another
guy in front of him plz help
4 Comments, 472 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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What's Important in a Relationship? 7/3/2005
This is For Everyone to think about.
So BE HONEST
Can You really Love a person if You always have thoughts
about being with other people?
<br>
What Do Most Of You look For in a Healthy relationship?
<br>
My Honest Answers To These Questions.
<br>
Yes You can, But It could be a diffrent type of Love. Like
the type of ...
1 Comments, 130 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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advice bi/lesbian ladies? 7/2/2005
hi there all that apply, as usual i am one of the many ladies
on here that is looking for her first interaction with another
lady with no response. so i was wondering what you bi/lesbian
ladies out there looking for fun would want to see more of
in the profiles or what would make a girl stand out and make
you want them.
jess
3 Comments, 167 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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erectile dysfunction-possible solutions 7/1/2005
I have this problem at times, and it is caused by medications
I take for high blood pressure.
<br>
I have tried viagra and it does not do anything for me.
<br>
I am sure there lots of men out there with the same kind of
problems. I would like to hear from other men who are trying
to cope with or who have other suggestions for solving this
problem.
1 Comments, 205 Views,
0 Votes
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She's not interested in oral 7/1/2005
My wife isn't interested in letting me lick her pussie,
after she started menapause. Please let me know what I can
do inorder to eat out again? Thank you. (rj150) 
1 Comments, 126 Views,
0 Votes
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How do I get my girlfriend to open up sexuallly? 7/1/2005
Okay, so I have this beautiful girlfriend whom I love to
death, but sexually she can be rather dull. This is a girl
who every time we have sex, pulls me to her and insists on
Missionary position everytime. She has insisted that
she gets nothing out of being on top and does not like giving
head because of the end product. She only seems to be willing
to experiment if I try and move her ...
3 Comments, 197 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Banned Words Fix 7/1/2005
I have posted this solution a couple times on how to get around
the "BANNED WORDS" issue on Swapfinder.com.
The easiest way that I have done it is the following...
<br>
1. Write your blog entry in Word or notepad or the like.
<br>
2. Copy and paste 1 or 2 paragraphs at a time into your blog
entry screen and then Add that entry.
<br>
3. click on Edit Blog
...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Choices 6/30/2005
you should never do something that does not feel right.
who cares what others think, it only matters how you feel.
you should never let someone control you unless its in a
playful way. sex is not everything in a relationship, what
about emotions? if someone is only fulfiling your sexual
desires, leave them and find someone who can make you 100%
happy.
0 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Golden Rule 6/29/2005
There are a lot of articles about members sending e-mails
and not getting responses. There is a simple tool on the
reponse page to scroll to say your not interested. I am a
new member but I have seen this as a major issue.
<br>
Now I will agree when a person is e-mailing someone who does
not remotely
meet any of the criteria stated in the profile is annoying.
Give the person ...
2 Comments, 117 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Timing is almost everything 6/28/2005
BE ON TIME, please try to be ON TIME, not too early and not
too late. This advice about timing comes into play when
the two of you meet each other, arrive at an activity, and
DURING SEX.
1 Comments, 52 Views,
0 Votes
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What's a good way to stand out? 6/28/2005
I've been on here a while as a regular member, and I'm
curious for ways to get more results. I'm good looking,
fairly intelegent, and I'm all about meeting new people.
What can I do to help myself out?
2 Comments, 96 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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This Love 6/28/2005
This Love
Saying, whispering all the things I need to hear
Talking, dismissing away all that I have to fear
Having, knowing that my body you have earned
Learning, showing me all that you have learned
Slowly, easily piece by piece you undress
Touching, teasing your hands across my breast
Prying, pricking your way into my heart
Probing, licking your tongue on my most sensitive parts ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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New Beginnings 6/28/2005
New Beginnings
New beginnings, the joy bringing a baby into the world
He's hoping for a boy but she wants a girl
A new baby, one of life's most precious things
Besides getting married, the exchanging of rings
Now the baby is here and things need to be done
You're both prud new parents, its your very first one
You swore to each other in your marriage vows
The baby's now here are ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Forever 6/28/2005
Forever
It's so amazing the way I feel whenever you're
around
Devestation my heart feels my feet barely touch the ground
The tingling that comes from within make me happy that we
waited
Just the aura of your gentleness makes my body feel elated
Your breathe upon my neck is like a cool winter's breeze
And I'm excited like a waking up on Christmas
Eve
My love for you is strong and ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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All through the night 6/28/2005
All Through The Night
I feel that we are made for each other by the way our hearts
combine
While making love all through the night our bodies entertwine
Just thinking of your gentle touch makes me shiver deep
within
The more I miss your presence makes me want that touch again
Only one hug would mean so much it makes my body yearn
A single kiss could grant one wish it makes my body ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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A Special Place 6/28/2005
A Special Place
A place in my heart, a place in my mind
A place in my soul is where you will find
The key to a woman so gentle and kind
Who makes you feel special all of the time
<br>
A place in my mind, a place in my soul
A place deep in side me so out of control
I'm different from all women cause I'm pure and
whole
And treat me correct and find treasures untold
...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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A Woman's Advice to Men Writing Profiles 6/27/2005
Gentlemen: We all know that this is a sex site. That is not
the same thing as saying that it is a forum where taking leave
of all decorum and common sense will be rewarded. Few women
feel any need to see a picture of your penis unless it should
come with a warning label. Keep it in your pants. Give a little
thought to the sort of pictures that women find sexy. A well
toned stomach ...
5 Comments, 559 Views,
31 Votes
,7.75 Score
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Why married couples cheat? 6/27/2005
Why married couples cheat?
<br>
I need to get some feed back from everyone. man, Women, couples,
singles etc.
<br>
Is it because it gets boring to keed having sex with the same
partner?
<br>
Lost of Spark in marriage?
<br>
<br>
let me know what you think.
5 Comments, 254 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Treat others as you would like to be treated 6/26/2005
Many people here think they have a corner on the market when
it comes to treating people like dirt. Just remember how
it was when you were on the receiving end, how you felt. If
some one has a standard membership here doesn't mean
that they are the bottom of the barrel. If they wink at you
the least you could do is acknowledge the wink and if you
wish not to hear from them again tell them. ...
3 Comments, 58 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Woman 6/25/2005
Why is it that woman dont seem to have a kinky side when it
comes to sex but when given the opportunity they are more
wild than the men?
5 Comments, 170 Views,
0 Votes
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Whats expected? 6/25/2005
We are new to this swing thing and we were just curious about
what is expected or what generally happens the first time
a couple is togther?
2 Comments, 136 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Shaving 6/25/2005
My girl really likes it when I shave below the waist, and
because I like ti when she does as well, I try to comply, but
it is such a pain in the ass. Any suggestions on ways to make
this process a bit easier?
1 Comments, 221 Views,
0 Votes
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boy shorts 6/25/2005
I prefer boy shorts to thongs but why did they have to make
it sound so gay?
1 Comments, 128 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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3somes 6/25/2005
why is it that most couples want another woman for a 3some
and not another man????
3 Comments, 172 Views,
0 Votes
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best invention 6/25/2005
The best invention in the world is the internet the next
best adultfreindfinder
0 Comments, 27 Views,
0 Votes
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3some 6/25/2005
I had a threesome with a couple and let the guy do oral on me
am I gay???
7 Comments, 391 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Age difference 6/25/2005
Anyone got an opinion on what age difference is not acceptable.
Im talking legal only here not kiddie stuff like i am attracted
to older women is that okay?
2 Comments, 98 Views,
0 Votes
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pics of penises 6/25/2005
do guys really think women want to see pics of their hairy
penises. thank god I know better
2 Comments, 129 Views,
0 Votes
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why isnt everyone on here using the IM 6/25/2005
The best source on here is the IM. the download version that
is
you can search who is online and it is sorted by distance
from you its great
1 Comments, 215 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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setting up a meeting 6/25/2005
Just wondering why so many people on this site never really
want to meet up anyone know???
0 Comments, 38 Views,
0 Votes
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They Say The First Step Is The Hardest 6/25/2005
I'm a 22 year old virgin filled with hormones begging
her to have sex! I have so many ideas and sexual fantasies
but only one thing is holding me back. I'm a virgin.
<br>
I'm contradicting myself, I know but I'm sure
this is a problem that many women go through.
<br>
People tell me to wait til I'm in love. People tell me
to just go for it.
<br>
I'm not in love. I ...
1 Comments, 332 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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what the hell is really going on? 6/25/2005
so this where i start my partial bitching/and just plain
dont understand women piece.my situation is as follows:i
am a man 30 years old and she is a woman 26.she likes have sex
and then go home .allow me to explain, she picks me up , we
fuck she takes me home .i have been doing this with this chick
for off and on (because shes in arizona im in california)
about (geeze i just added it up ...
4 Comments, 117 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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thick penus verses long penus 6/24/2005
It is of my opinion that a thick penus is better for a woman's
vagina then a long thin penus. There is more feeling along
the vagina walls when it is filled with a fat thick penus,
where as a long one will hit the end more readily and cause
pain especialy if the vagina is short in length. I have an
average length of 6 and half inches and have only one complaint
of hurting a gal by hitting ...
1 Comments, 108 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Need advice Ladies 6/24/2005
I'm thinking of buying a vibrator to use with my lover.
My question is this:
First, is there any brand/type of vibrator that works best,
and second, what other areas of a woman's body, besides
the obvious, give pleasure with one.
Thanks, any tips will be most appreciated.
0 Comments, 125 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Any men?? 6/23/2005
If there are any men out there looking for a hot bbw 22 years
old and 44DD. Under 30 please. The bigger the better.Very
eager to please, message me with contact info if interested.
1 Comments, 178 Views,
0 Votes
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Hymen??? 6/23/2005
I have what i believe a unique problem,
My wife has had sex with me many times and a few others and
yet i believe she medically still ahs her "cherry"!!!
Help what can i do and what causes this? Medically she is
still a virgin.
0 Comments, 154 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Please do not show up with unexpected toys 6/23/2005
We met someone that we had talked with for about six months,
we hit it off so we decided to get a hotel room to play in. The
man walked in with a suitcase and we were like ok. Then he
pulls out this huge dildo, I mean cock huge, my reaction
was what do you think you are going to do with that. First
of all it was not my kind of toy and second I do not know where
your toys have been, and if ...
1 Comments, 258 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Looking for a swingers dance/club in Metro Detroit Suburbs 6/22/2005
We know there are swinger clubs/dances in the Metro Detroit
Area and Suburbs.
Can someone recommend one that we could attend where we
would feel welcome even though we have not attended a dance
before? nothing worse than testing the waters and feeling
like you're being looked at like an outsider.
P.S. Don't need your votes just an answer to the question.
Thanks
1 Comments, 134 Views,
0 Votes
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Would you join a "Clean Fucking Buddies" group if.... 6/22/2005
It appears to me that having safe sex with someone, even
a one time thing itn't at the top of peoples list of most
important issues for the groups.
<br>
I would like to know if and how many people would be interested
in joining a "Clean Fucking Buddies" intrest
group if I started one.
<br>
You know that type of group that you can't join unless
you have been tested three ...
0 Comments, 128 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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31 things for girls too read and follow. 6/19/2005
1. We're not as perverted as you think we all are.
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
2. No matter what YOU say, your ex-boyfriend IS a
LOSER.
<br>
<br>
<br>
3. We like you to give us hugs and kisses sometimes
too.
<br>
<br>
4. Don't argue with us when we call you beautiful.
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
5. ...
1 Comments, 238 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Cum in my mouth 6/18/2005
I love to cum in my own mouth and swallow. I was just wondering
how many other guys like to do it.
5 Comments, 389 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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Problems cumming 6/18/2005
I had a bad experience when I was 13.
To cut a story short....
I was going out with a good looking girl at school. we were
at my house one night and basicaly, she asked me to be her
first. At the time, i wasn't ready for such a thing and
politly said no.
Turns out she'd told everyone at school i'd
her.... the concequences was that i got the hell kicked
out of me every day for about 2 ...
1 Comments, 217 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Trouble with sex in the morning 6/17/2005
I'm just wondering if I am weird or something, he he.
In the morning I find it extremely difficult to have sex
with a partner, even though in my experience that seems
to be a time when a woman is interested in playing. My problem
is not getting an erection; rather, it has to do with not
having the desire to have sex when I still feel so sleepy.
Maybe this is an usual situation. I know it ...
0 Comments, 79 Views,
0 Votes
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Love, Friendship and Marriage........The SEX 6/16/2005
Do the above actually ever work hand in hand? I wonder. I
adore my other half, he is my best friend, our marriage though
very young, is great and th sex is the bomb!!!
So I get to say WOO HOO for me.
How about you?
Why are you here?
Is it that you are great friends with you respective other...but
they just don't rattle your cage anymore?
Is it a last ditch attempt at trying to ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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What the fuck??? 6/16/2005
Do people honestly believe they are gonna meet he love of
thier life in this place? I mean seriously, this is like
goin to the singles night at the local pick up joint...the
best you could dream for is that you might, if very lucky,
get laid.
I wonder about a lot of the people I read about in here that
say ove is wha they seek...love for the moment perhaps.
This is a plave to have fun, ...
4 Comments, 171 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Girls opinion needed 6/16/2005
Lately I have been going through a tough time, with a long
single patch in my life. I want to know if Im unattractive,
physicaly, So I'd appreciate some honest answers
from woman if they could spare the time? It may sounds stupid
to anyone else, but it matters to me. Please let me know.
<br>
Thanks.
1 Comments, 99 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Butt Problem 6/15/2005
My wife enjoys anal sex with my fingers, toys, and my cock.
She can even take all four of my fingers to the base of my hand
in her ass. BUTT, the problem is after I anally penetrate
her with my dick and we orgasm(usually no more than 10 minutes)
she develops hemmroids the following day. I always play
with her ass to stretch it first and I'm not rough during
penetration but it only seems to ...
2 Comments, 712 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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are they afraid? 6/15/2005
Hello all! I am only a standard member so I can't email
someone unless they email me first. I recently found out
that you could build up points and contact anyone. Well
I saved my points and finally the day I was to email them came!
So I emailed all four of the women, In my emails I told them
about my profile, I was not leud to them at all. (They were
also standard members.) So I sent to ...
3 Comments, 239 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Anal sex with wife!! 6/15/2005
I have never performed anal sex. I know to some women it is
painful. As with men. A couple of my female freinds, have
talked to her and tried to explain to her how enjoyable it
can be. I respect her limits, i just hope one day soon her
limits will change. She has suggested me doing it with another
woman.
2 Comments, 217 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Do People Read the Profiles before Responding? 6/15/2005
Do people really read what someone puts in their posting?
I get too many responses from guys who either don't
read, or choose to ignore, concerns that are important
to me. Example: I say no married men, but sure enough I get
guys who think I will overlook that fact because they are
sooooo fantastic. Or No Smoking. I don't want to kiss
an ashtray, and I don't know why guys think I will ...
6 Comments, 198 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Erection Enhancers 6/15/2005
Are there any good Herbal drugs that give firmer long lasting
erection that actually work. Has anyone tried any and could
recommend some.
0 Comments, 204 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Pittsburgh Calling. 6/14/2005
Or, "Radio Free Pittsburgh"? Whichever you
prefer.
<br>
Here is a call out from a great guy, who has lots of passion
and life to offer and share, to any girl in the Pittsburgh
area that might be interested.
<br>
I see that there are a lot of very nice women here that live
quite close to me. I could practically shout out my window,
and they would hear me. But, I have ...
1 Comments, 177 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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To do or not to do? 6/14/2005
Hi I am about to go on a date with a woman that I have done some
volunteer work with for a few years. We have sometimes flirted
with each other but nothing more for whe was married. She
has recently divorced her husband again. Apparently they
have been on and off again for years. She has three boys.
<br>
The question is how do I recognize if she wants to have sex.
I don't think ...
3 Comments, 147 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Sex on the side or cheating? 6/14/2005
Ok, age old question. I enjoy sex and my wife doesn't.
I get my due once every two weeks whether or not I need it.
Great, once a day is more to my liking and maybe even twice
a week with a little ENTHUSIAM! Am I wrong to go elsewhere
or should I be faithful. I am not going to leave my kisd and
I do love my wife, but it is getting difficult in a passionless
marrage. I have not cheated ...
4 Comments, 189 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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What shall I do when she asks me to do it 6/13/2005
This is to my friends having more than girlfriends. I was
deeply in love with two gals and used to have sex with them
alternatively. By the time passed, one of them came to know
about my relation with the other. To my surprise she didn't
tried to avoid me, but she asked me to call the other one too
for sex together! But I don't know how shall I say about
this matter to the other one. ...
1 Comments, 175 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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why wount peple join 6/12/2005
how come people wont joinmy group are Topic(s): Advice,
Anal Sex, Interracial
0 Comments, 35 Views,
0 Votes
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ED drugs 6/12/2005
Hey- can anyone tell me if theres a difference in the way
that these ED drugs effect you? I understand that Cilias
supposedly lasts longer.. But does Levitra give firmer
erections? or does Viagra provide more vigor even though
it is not as long lasting? And what about if you double up
on the dousages? Does that make a difference?
<br>
Just curious
2 Comments, 191 Views,
0 Votes
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Passion of the Storm 6/12/2005
It's storming tonight. The sky bursting with streaks
of light, the rain pounding down. Looking out the window
at the beauty of nature's passion I know the sudden
urge to feel it against my skin. Eyes reflecting the next
streak of lightning, excitement burning that much brighter.
Moving through the quiet house on bare feet, careful not
to wake anyone and slipping out the patio door into the ...
2 Comments, 127 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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What is wrong with people 6/12/2005
I have been asking myself over and over again this question.
I have been on this site for a couple of years plus under another
handle the same time.I have revamped my profile at least
5 times, put new pics on, changed my ideas on what i want
but still i get a limit of replies.Any suggestions?
2 Comments, 302 Views,
6 Votes
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How do I get her to try? 6/11/2005
I would like my wife to let me cum in her mouth, but she says
she does not like the taste. It as only happened once, by
accident, but she did gag, either from the taste or the surprise.
I'm not asking her to swallow even, I'm okay if
she wants to spit it out after.
<br>
Women, how did you overcome your fear of taking it in the
mouth? Men, if you had/have a partner that was ...
2 Comments, 127 Views,
1 Votes
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Swapfinder.com Scam? 6/10/2005
I went to the appropriate page to turn my renewal off. When
I do this that page shows "OFF", yet my homepage
still shows "ON".
This happened last month and I was charged. I wrote requesting
a refund and my letter was ignored.
LOOKS LIKE A SCAM TO ME
3 Comments, 128 Views,
1 Votes
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which is better 6/10/2005
is it better for me to use a head shot or cock shot look at my
photos if you can and tell me or e mail me
2 Comments, 88 Views,
1 Votes
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exercising your kiegels 6/9/2005
I think it very important to excercise your kiegels. Every
time I urinate, I cut off the flow and count 10 seconds, this
is very good for bladder control. Being single, every morning
while watching the news on TV I play with my penus and get
it hard then I press my kiegels a 100 times. Then while sitting
in a reclining chair I cause my penus to come up from a low
position to a high position ...
3 Comments, 90 Views,
3 Votes
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Other woman 6/9/2005
We have been swinging for about a year .The first couple
we were with was okey. We started to be friends but I wasn't
attracted to the husband. The wife is great, she talked
us into meet just her. Ist broken rule. She spent a weekend
with us, slept in the middle, 2nd broken rule. She asked
my husband to meet her separtly, He declined. Almost 3rd
broken rule. He still wants to see her as a ...
2 Comments, 218 Views,
6 Votes
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men in speedos 6/9/2005
Ladies, Do you find it sexy when a man is on the beach in a speedo
or little bikini.
8 Comments, 333 Views,
9 Votes
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Anally deprived 6/7/2005
For some reason i am obsessed with anal sex. I think about
it all the time, and want it all the time. However, my girlfriend
doesn't like to do it. So this really sucks for me. The
weird thing is that when we do have it, which is usally once
every couple months, she usually has an orgasm or it occurs
without any pain. I don't know what it is but she just
has this really neagative outlook on ...
2 Comments, 197 Views,
1 Votes
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KINKY - To Be Or Not To Be... 6/7/2005
My husband and I are about to embark on a sexual adventure.
We’re going to live out our deepest, wildest fantasies,
turning wet dreams into reality. I have a very real question,
that, I am sure many women ask…what if?
<br>
I guess it comes down to fun versus consequences. I would
like to know how other people; women in particular differentiate
love from sex? How can you have ...
5 Comments, 564 Views,
6 Votes
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Clit Piercing 6/7/2005
Hello,
<br>
I have seen a picture of a clit that has been pierced. It looked
so hot that I have tought of getting mine done. Only I dont'
want to make my clit less sensitive. Can someone message
me and let me know if it makes you hornier, or if it makes your
clit less sensitive.
thanks abear
5 Comments, 465 Views,
9 Votes
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your relationship and sex sites 6/6/2005
If you have a mate that's always on sex sites that does
not always mean u do not satisfy your mate. It most likely
means that ur mate is open to things u may not have discussed
or he/she is willing to bet that u are not wanting or prepared
to do.
3 Comments, 81 Views,
7 Votes
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able to go the extra mile 6/5/2005
When you are in the pussy sometimes that extra pump may just
enough for to cum so men go until she can't
0 Comments, 117 Views,
6 Votes
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electro pads 6/5/2005
hello,
just wondered if some of you could give me useful tips and
advice on how to use electro pads, where to apply them for
better results and if they can also be fun for males (even
though I am more itnerested in using them for giving pleasure
to a woman. Just bought the device and am new to that particular
one....any help will be much appreciated
thanks
1 Comments, 113 Views,
3 Votes
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how to attract women to view / contact you? 6/3/2005
Hi all, I'm a married man and my wife doesn't know
that I use this site. I'm hesitate to post pic with my
face as i don't want anyone that know me and recognize
me and somehow tip it to my wife. Anyone has any good suggestions
on how to get members attention as being a Standard Member?
5 Comments, 251 Views,
7 Votes
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Darth Vader 6/3/2005
Anakin was trying to hard to hold onto the girl e loved. He
was with her because he could not fully COMMIT to becoming
a Jedi. So he was neither a good Jedi(he became a Sith lord)
or a good husband(he practically strangled his poor wife.)
<br>
Ladies does this ring true with your man?
0 Comments, 92 Views,
3 Votes
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The wonders of a VIBRATOR 5/31/2005
Ok everyone knows that many single women today own a vibrator.
But there is nothing more erotic to me than bring one to bed
when I am with a man. There are many ways to use it in that situation.
1. Use it to masturbate for him. This will turn him on and
show that you are comfertable with your sexuality.
2. Use it on your clit during intercourse this will cause
an amazing sensation.
...
4 Comments, 389 Views,
28 Votes
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My wife of 10 years just found my panties and toys. 5/31/2005
I am a closet married bi male . I have been married for ten
years. I have been a closet bimale for 14 years . I did not
admit to myself i was bisexual untill a few years ago. Well
my wife came home today and found my dildos and panties I
left in the bathroom.
Boy did i have some explaining to do.
She has not left me yet. How do i make her understand why i
could not tell her about my ...
9 Comments, 805 Views,
9 Votes
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Places to meet others in Peoria area 5/31/2005
Was just wondering if anyone could tell me where I could
go to meet other like minded females in the Peoria area.
Not interested in meeting men or couples just women. Thanks
0 Comments, 59 Views,
3 Votes
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Its OK to feel the way you do... 5/30/2005
I consider myself conservative.. yet my true feelings
want me to discover myself.
<br>
I have been faithful so far.. yet.. the inner me feels that
I should have an intimate and discreet relationship.
<br>
I know it is disrespectful to seek out an intimate relationship...
yet I feel that so long as I build a friendship and not hurt
her feelings.. it should be ok.
...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Your First Email!!! 5/29/2005
I believe part of your success using Swapfinder.com is how you write
your emails.
<br>
A long time ago I used to cut and paste my emails. Almost no
one would respond to my email. Then I tried the one-liner
emails. There were no responses from the one-liners. I
was confused and left the Swapfinder.com world.
<br>
I learned a bit more and came back to Swapfinder.com, I wanted to test
my skills. The emails ...
0 Comments, 197 Views,
8 Votes
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Never through it to the wind 5/28/2005
Caution-I't s an unsafe, sometimes creepy world out
there. Unfortunatley we can't have the free sex of
the past, it's a life and death situation now.Get to
know your partner-where theve been and where there going-Everything
we have must be built on ultimate trust!!!!!!!!We have
no choice now!
1 Comments, 52 Views,
4 Votes
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Help for a newcomer 5/27/2005
Lemme put MY 2 cent in this mix of rampant sexuality.
<br>
First off I am a REAL-LIFE Virgin, who has always been into
the foot fetish scene dominatrix Couples/Lez...just
about everything. However I have NEVER had a chance to do
anything at all. Not even go on a date or see a tittie in real
life! it's really fuckin pathetic, I think.
<br>
So basically any ...
0 Comments, 74 Views,
1 Votes
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Truth In The Story 5/26/2005
For every reaction, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
In order to gain anything, one must first give up something
in return. These are the supposed founding principles
of our modern society, written in stone or not. I spent many
years pondering existence. I spent many years pondering
why? I could never quite put my finger on exactly what makes
mankind keep on ticking. Finally after ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Men are stupid! From a male for the ladies. 5/26/2005
Ladies you have got to learn that men are stupid. I don't
mean from a book, intellectual regaurd. I am speaking
completely from the male female perspective. The reality
of relationships. As males we are concrete when it comes
to relationships we don't know how to read between
the lines which is what all of you normally expect. At some
point you ahve to realize you are asking for too much. ...
3 Comments, 144 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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How do I come across as real? 5/26/2005
Question for ya. I know myself well enough t' say I come
across superficially as cold and arrogant. Now, I want
to be honest, but that coldness is not exactly something
I want to project.I don't want all warm and fuzzy, neither.
I'm human: I have good and bad traits, few of which I
intend to hide.Any suggestions on how to do a happy medium?
2 Comments, 63 Views,
0 Votes
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Oral Sex on wife. 5/25/2005
I have been marrie to my wife for 10 yrs. And I just recently
got into oral sex on her.
<br>
We are both new to this experience and I ask her if she enjoys
what i do to her and he says yes.
<br>
What can she do to avoid the strong odor that she releases
from down there?
<br>
is it Normal to have that strong odor?
can she uses something to get rid of this off ...
2 Comments, 233 Views,
4 Votes
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My wife is not much into sex 5/25/2005
My wife is not much into sex, she is in her late 20's and
I don't understand why she only likes sex a few times
a month.
<br>
Little background.
We have been married for 10 years and We have . I
was her first man in her life.
<br>
I was in a relashinship with another women before i married
my wife. she was older than me and she loved! sex! and now
I mess it.
...
5 Comments, 221 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Swapfinder.com or alt??? 5/25/2005
Have you guys had better luck on Swapfinder.com or alt? Which do you prefer
and why? Thanks!
0 Comments, 111 Views,
0 Votes
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Flanking?? 5/25/2005
The most sensitive parts of the body are sometimes the least
visited. But I love every part of a man, even the bottocks.
I wanted to mix adrenaline with ecstasy, so what's
a good flanking manoeuvre??
0 Comments, 76 Views,
2 Votes
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The next morning, cont. 5/24/2005
Well the next morning I was supposed to pick up Sharon at
a coffee shop at 7 am but she overslept and stood me up. She
had promised to do me again, clean the boat and go with me
and my dive buddy and sun herself while we hunted for fish
by spear guns. Well I had connection problems with my boat
and could not start it so had to cancel diving plans Anyway
Nikki 41 year red head hottie shows ...
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Lick, suck or what? 5/24/2005
Ladies I would like to know what makes you cum too cum the
hardest (the big one)?
Do you it licked top to bottom, side to side, across the top
only, in and out, the clit sucked, sucked and licked at the
same time, licked and fingered, sucked licked and finger
all at once, ass play with oral, etc?
Also, would you tell someone how to do it if they couldn't
hit your spot?
4 Comments, 281 Views,
1 Votes
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my woman might be bi 5/24/2005
my woman has had several curiosities about being with another
woman over the years. I tell her that if she ever wants to
try that she has my permission but she can never bring her
self to do it.
3 Comments, 90 Views,
4 Votes
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Problem Cumming 5/23/2005
Sometimes I have trouble getting off. I have had this problem
ever since I lost my virginity, which was the first time
I was with a 29 year old hottie under some trees by the beach
in Grand Cayman. I was 15 years old. The next night no trouble
at all. I have this problem sometimes with a new girl or a
regular girl friend. Sometimes it even happens when I take
Viagra. Like today, Sharon ...
0 Comments, 114 Views,
2 Votes
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Masturbabtion I love It so very much' 5/23/2005
WASNT really sure which category this falls under.It seems
that i cant get enough i believe i was born oversexed .Even
though the wife satisfies me thorouhly .I still find the
need to ejcualate 3 or four times a day.Love reading erotic
stories and all the porn i can find to feed my craving.Its
like a beast inside trying to venture out and crys out for
release.Feels so good to stroke up and ...
0 Comments, 119 Views,
2 Votes
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FOREPLAY SECRETS!!! 5/23/2005
Let me tell you.. Always start with FOREPLAY!
Never ever forget that!
<br>
Base on my experiences, most women are need to be seduced
to bring up their big big libido.
<br>
So..
Let me tell you my secrets..
Well.. it’s worth to try
<br>
Start with Her Hands!
1. Hold her hand gently in yours. Kiss the backs of her fingers.
Fingers are a woman's most ...
1 Comments, 99 Views,
7 Votes
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getting the second email 5/23/2005
I've been a member for a couple of months now and have
gotten a few responses to my profile, but after we each exchange
1 email back and forth, the woman haven't sent a reply.
Now I haven't been rude or crude in my email, even if
they ask for a fantasy of mine after telling me one of theres.
The women have even asked if I'm serious about meeting.
I wouldn't be here if I wasn't, but I'm ...
0 Comments, 161 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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toys and clothes 5/22/2005
ok people i would like to know so good websites and or places
to buy sexy outfits and toys for my girlfriend. She likes
to dress up and look sexy for me and she loves using all kinds
of toys. so let me know some places to buy this stuff everybody.
0 Comments, 63 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Ever wonder how to have a winning personal ad? 5/21/2005
If you've been on Swapfinder.com for any length of time you've
seen tons of profiles. I've noticed that many of the
women seem to mirror each other because a lot of them say
the same things in terms of what they want in a relationship.
I've enhanced mine several times trying to generate
more interest just like everyone else. I draw the line at
being dishonest about who and what I am and want though. ...
1 Comments, 140 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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It's what's inside that matters 5/21/2005
I'm one of those people who needs to lose about 25 lbs.
Right now, I would say I am average to ample. I hold my weight
well, and unless completely naked, it's hard to tell
I am overweight. Not being conceited, I am attractive,
honest, open-minded, and easy-going. For the last month
I have been eating right, and exercising, and feel really
good about my progress. However, I have a problem ...
2 Comments, 101 Views,
9 Votes
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making a pass 5/21/2005
I've often wondered how a married guy can discreetly
make a pass to married lady where the message is clear, yet
there is a way to back peddle if isn't interested in
that sort of thing. I think that possibly a smile combined
with long, lingering eye contact might be the ticket? Is
this true ladies?
0 Comments, 110 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score
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PHOTOS 5/21/2005
Just a short message to all you men who don't have photos
on your profile...
<br>
I can't tell you how many times I don't respond
to the emails I receive from you because I get tired of asking
for a photo. You need to realize the ratio of men to women
is huge! Women are getting bombed with responses from men,
and the only way to weed through them is by what is written
first off, ...
6 Comments, 323 Views,
22 Votes
,5.17 Score
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I want to watch my wife with another man 5/21/2005
I need help. I want to watch my wife with another man--or
two or three.
<br>
A little backround...We have been together for 10 years,
but my job has forced me to move out of state. She wouldn't
move, so we have decided to stay together but lead separate
lives...date others, etc. I am only home on the weekends.
<br>
This is working out fairly well, but I have found that the ...
1 Comments, 255 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Do fems for couples really exist? 5/20/2005
I'm wondering if anyone has some good suggestions
on meeting a fem for a bi relaionship with a couple...
<br>
Obviously it is difficult, because so many couples are
looking for women...
<br>
In my case it is the wife looking for a girl for a threesome,
not the husband.... and still we have difficulties...
<br>
Tried the ads (such as Swapfinder.com), tried the local bars, ...
2 Comments, 104 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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How do you tell your husband you are bi? 5/20/2005
Any suggestions would be helpful!!
<br>
I've had a few minor experiences, but find myself caught
up in the girl/girl fantasy more often these days...
<br>
How do I bring this up to my hubby? Should I just try to find
someone to bring home and surprise him? I know that most
guys would be all about it, but I wonder if it will somehow
upset him? Anyone been in this situation ...
0 Comments, 137 Views,
2 Votes
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being noticed & seeking attention. not the case !! 5/18/2005
Hello all wifey again, I Had a man ask me do , I do all ......I
post or is it me looking for attention like others on here.
Well, Im not fake ;;;;;; I, m very real & TRUE. What
I give is what you make of our time & experience. We can
talk, play dominos look at the wall, its all on our connection.
I feel , Im alot of fun .I havent gotten any complaints &
i recieve new ones daily.Thank you ...
0 Comments, 83 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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I'll call; I'll wait; I'm busy; I'm not.... 5/17/2005
it started w/ an agreement -- no attachments. We were not
going to bring our lives into this arrangement. Purely
fun and dangerous. We knew -- one look into each others eyes
and we verbally warned each other -- this would be dangerous.
<br>
No lies, no matter what. We are adults and in charge of our
own feelings. No lies.
<br>
Well, now this terrible year has almost ...
1 Comments, 169 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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she wants big one 5/16/2005
My wife wants to be fucked by a man or more with a large dick.
I hurt her with only 7.5. How should we prepare her for a big
one.
6 Comments, 379 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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On pictures... 5/16/2005
We all know the drill; looks should not be the deciding factor
in whether or not someone interests you. However, the reality
of the matter is, ther must be some type of spark, some inital
attraction that draws you to a person. The physical is what
starts the ball in motion, and the intellecutal/spiritual/emotional
connection that develops keeps the ball rolling.
Being a veteran of ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Golden Showers 5/15/2005
I have been having sex with a married man for a number of years
now... he has always told me he wants a golden shower and
wants it to come from me... I can not do it... I have tried
and tried... I just don't know how to go pee, while I
am doing that. Can I get some advice.... I know he would love
you for it... and if I succed... I will post the story on here,
to let everyone know how great ...
4 Comments, 676 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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Abstinence-- Good or bad? 5/15/2005
I think it depends on the situation, whether one can consider
abstinence in a positive or negative light. Sometimes,
though, I think it stinks. On the other hand, I think mutually
acknowledged attraction is key to breaking abstinence.
No deep thoughts there. Any comments?
4 Comments, 59 Views,
1 Votes
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How do I stay friends with one who has a crush on me ? 5/15/2005
I mae the greatest girl.. She is very wise & I see her
as a good friend.. I opened up to her quickly , as we share
alot of things & beleifs. Now she says she has a crush
on me & wants to leave the room we share. I don't
have those feelings, but can't imagine her gone. I
told her we will always have our friendship. I hope this
is enough. Is there more i can say, or shall I just let it go
?
0 Comments, 80 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Help! Is a friend always a friend. 5/14/2005
OK. I have a female friend - never had sex with her - and we've
both been through alot this past year and a half. I made a
pass at her last year and she blew a gasket, but we're
still friends. The last couple months we've been flirting
quite a bit, have gone porn shopping together, shared a
cabin together, celebrated Beltane - I jumped through
the fire naked - and neither of us have made ...
0 Comments, 81 Views,
0 Votes
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Are scars a turn-off? 5/13/2005
I have a few scars from two different emergency surgerys
on my tummy. They are faded but big and noticable. I try to
keep in good health and keep my body fit. Are scars a turn-off?
Would this make a difference in your attraction to me if
we were to meet? Would you want to know up front? Or is it unimprotant?
I'm just curious on people's opinions.
9 Comments, 254 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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question for women Do you like moustaches? 5/12/2005
Hi there was just wondering if women find moustaches attractive
or too 70s, also is oral sex better or worse if the guy has
one. thanks for replies.
8 Comments, 392 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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Now What 5/11/2005
i am a survior of being sexual abused as a , now what??
how do I over come when a man starts to touch me, how do I over
come the the dirty feeling??
2 Comments, 188 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Things Are Different 5/11/2005
When my boyfriend and I were still in the early stages of
our relationship, we went through the formality of sharing
our experiences of telling our parents and families of
our sexual preference. His family was less accepting of
the news, but that would be another article for him to share.
<br>
However, I felt compelled to tell my story because of the
reactions I get when I tell ...
1 Comments, 198 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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to share or not to share 5/11/2005
My boyfriends fantasy is for me to be with another woman.
I know he would like to join in. I told him he could with me,
however I am not interested in allowing him to penetrate
another woman. I sometimes feel I am being unfair. I need
to know if in fact I am being unfair or if I am justified of
my feelings.
3 Comments, 280 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Being Ignored in Chat rooms 5/11/2005
I was just wondering how to enter into chat rooms and get
others to talk to you? I have entered many times and tried
to talk to some and nothing just like I am not there. I was
just wondering how is the best way to get started cause I
think I am doing something wrong?
1 Comments, 182 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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A general Question for all 5/10/2005
If someone winkd at you or sends you mail and your a standerd
member how would you responed. Also This might be dum but
when someone tells you to IM them and they give you a different
sreen name do they mean on Swapfinder.com or not. If so How would I do that?
I'm trying to learn!
1 Comments, 150 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Another one 5/9/2005
I have been in a long-term relationship for a long time without
previously having any other sexual relations and am now
wanting to discreetly try to gain some more sexual experiences
with another woman or women. It doesn't really matter
if she finds out. She knows how I feel. How long does it take
to happen? Is what I am doing wrong or unusual?
2 Comments, 139 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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alot of people ask me to do article instead of question 5/8/2005
We, ll I dont because. I realized you all dont read articles.
Also what isnt a question to you is to me? Also being called
illeterate isnt nice, I agree with 1 of my Swapfinder.com friends. THIS
AINT A SPELLING BE, YOU ALL WOULDNT WNT TO HEAR MY COMMENTS
ON YOU! this is not for us to judge one another, as a couple
said on here. Never thought nore expected people looking
for the same , asking, saying ...
1 Comments, 73 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Does Penis Size Really Matter? 5/7/2005
I think its kind of humorous when I ask a man to describe his
dick to me and he starts to stammer and stutter as he, almost
apologetically tells me that he is "just average".
What size is that I ask? Without exception he will almost
whisper that he is not huge, just average. Average is relative
in my book.
Men have that whole performance anxiety thing happening.
I understand it to a ...
6 Comments, 782 Views,
29 Votes
,6.75 Score
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Deciding if its a go as a couple 5/6/2005
When meeting with another couple or person there is a moment
when as a couple when you have to decide is it a go or do we say
no thanks.This can be awkward and many times it seems difficult
to discuss this with your partner in the company of the potential
hook-up.
To avoid this we always try to chat, exchange photos and
talk on the phone before meeting. We make it clear that we
aren't ...
3 Comments, 188 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Having fun 5/5/2005
What is so wrong about having fun these days? It's like
no matter what you do, someone you know won't like you
doing it. So what? It's for you, not them.
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being sexy 5/4/2005
I think that sexiness is a state of mind. If u can look at yourself
and see a sexy person, that quality will rub off on other
people, and attract them to you.
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Not turn up 5/4/2005
For the men.
Why do u set up as place to meet then not turn up?
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What should I do? 5/3/2005
Several months ago, prior to our marriage, I found out that
Brenda was trying to set up a lunch date with an out-of-town
with a guy she met online.
When I questioned her about it, she became very defensive,
stating that I no longer trusted her, then went on to say
that if anything were to happen, that she would call me immediately.
I reminded her that our agreement was that I would ...
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Does Swapfinder.com work? 5/3/2005
Does Swapfinder.com really work or is it just full of fakes? I'm
not an unattractive guy, my profile is not obscene or in
poor taste, I have pics (not of my manhood, but of my face
and upper body from the waist), and I don't come out
with bad or obscene laguage when trying to start a conversation
with someone. So what is it. Is it just my area I am in is full
of fakes or what? I'm not looking for ...
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loss of a friend. 5/1/2005
okay, heres the thing. and i need just a little bit of guidence.
i made a true female friend some years ago. we were so strong.
a best friends for life kind of thing.
now ive always been a strong believer of platonic relationships
(my other best friend is female and ive known her all my life,
and even though people say we should get together...nothing).
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Would you critique my profile? 4/29/2005
Is anybody willing to critique my profile? I have not had
my profile on Swapfinder.com for very long and I'm wondering if
anyone would want to give me some feedback. Tell me what
you think about it. I would appreciate an honest and straight
forward opinion of what you think. Just curious.
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A Little Attention 4/29/2005
Hi. I've been on this site for a little while and I was
wondering if there are any secrets to meeting people on
here. Whenever I go into the chat rooms it seems like everyone
knows everyone else and I can't seem to break into the
conversation. I understand that it'd be better if
I were a premium member but I can't afford that so does
anyone have any suggestions for me?
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Color Coded Sex 4/29/2005
REPORTED TO Swapfinder.com:
Hi! Good morning everyone! I just read somewhere that people
want it to know how to recognize everyone when they meet.
Can I suggest people wearing one of those bright wristbands?
You know the ones people are using now to support a cause
or organization. It could be a bright wide rubber band or
a rubber bracelet. What do guys think?
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...
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priority first 4/27/2005
I met a girl on this site, we chatted for a while, then we got
together and went out a couple times, and had a great time
, ,I would like to see her again , but my schedual doesn't
permit it for a while , ,she's angry and thinks I'm
not interested anymore, , which is not the case at all, ,
I explained the situation, , but she got sarcastic and
left...I tried to contact her since then but I ...
1 Comments, 163 Views,
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Being Successful in Sex 4/27/2005
I have good news for people on here that feel discouraged,
down, or inadequate. My life has been up and down. I'm
58 and loved and lost multiple times. I've owned four
businesses and only half of them successful. I've
had to deal with being transgendered, bi-polar, and fighting
in an unpopular war and I'm still here and possitive.
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No matter how bad you think your life sucks ...
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Mistakes Women Make 4/27/2005
A woman can know when she found a man that really cares for
her and what she really wants.
Here goes! Usually tha easiest way is when "she dosent
believe a word he said"
SUPPRISED!
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Usually 89.9% of the time a man is being pushed away because
the woman probably see him as 'too good to be true'(he
definately can't be real). The reason for this is the ...
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HOW TO MEET PEOPLE FROM THE INTERNET 4/27/2005
First of all there is lots of fakes and bad people on the net,
but if you follow few principles you have the chance to find
some very nice people to have the best time of your life with.
First try to talk alot with that person. Than go more intimate
by getting his/her photo phone number and finally the address
and/or a place to meet. Females tend to be more hesitant
and more picky to get ...
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my three months on Swapfinder.com 4/26/2005
I have been a gold member for the past three months and all
of my contacts have been just plain flirts or come-ons with
no action. I have had a number of dates with women in the three
months and most of them say average frame but when u look
at them they are quite a bit overweight. I admit I am overweight,
but I admit it and don't try to pull the wool over the
women's eyes. Just admit that ...
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Is It Polite To Ask For Pics Right Away (Online Dating Ettiquette) 4/26/2005
As couple that is new to this online dating scenario, we
have consistently found ourselves in a situation where
we were attracted to a couple by their profile...began
talking a lot and are either left wondering what they look
like or are disappointed by the picture we finally recieve.
Which is left us wondering when the polite time to ask for
a pic is. For all you newbies like us out there ...
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ARE WE HOOKED FOR LIFE? 4/26/2005
We have been talking about swinging for a while. She loves...CRAVES
big dicks and unfortunately, I do not have one...if I did
I'd be deadly. She gets really wild when I used large
dildos on her, it unleashes a side of her that I have not seen
before. Anyways, we just recently had our first threesum.
We met him online and quickly invited him over when he met
our requirements(9" or bigger, ...
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wanting the womans view 4/26/2005
We have all ready asked the mans view thought and feelings
but now we are wondering what women think about this if you
are a couple and your man likes you to have sex with other
men and then he wants to have sex with you and hear all the
details while you are still wet and dripping do you women
like this dose it feel the same as the first man or is it better
hotter wetter the second time ...
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THE TROUBLE WITH LOVE IS.......................... 4/25/2005
So, the trouble with LOVE is........? Well, for starters,
love (in my opinion), is an over-rated expression that
is given way too much credibility. It is also technically
just a desire to have. Don't agree, well, ask yourself
this question, how many times have you seen an awesome pair
of shoes, a bag whatever, and said the famous three words,
"I love this". Well how long then after you have ...
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Dating with an STD 4/25/2005
Ok people got a good question for you. What if you were to
meet someone and you two clicked really well, when yall
were really close and comfortable with each other they
told you that they had an STD. Would you still want to be with
this person or would you drop them like a hot potatoe?? This
is for men and women I need to know your opinions. So hit me
up with your responses.
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What men want 4/23/2005
Well it is always a challenge to figure out what the brothas
want or if they are comfortable or love what you have to offer.
Then again getting a man is easy, keeping him is the real
deal.
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The idea i'm trying to give is that a lot of sistas out
ther thinks that all a man wants is to get between their legs.
Mind you majority does want to get there, but what about
the other ...
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SOLUTIONS TO TEAR DOWN THE FIRST TIME ISSUE 4/23/2005
In my experience, Ive noticed that for many couples its
very difficult to get into the lifestyle the first time
because that usualy means that all theis complexes and
prejudices came out. Its a little scary to open in a very
intimate way to a person even when you know them. One technique
Ive usually try is my proffesional aproach.
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After meeting with the couple or person; and ...
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comparing 4/22/2005
Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow.
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The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
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Don't judge a person by a persons reputation, get to
know them first. Then decide what you think of them
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do it properly!! 4/20/2005
ok guys, we've all got one, but PLEASE when you take
a picture of it at least do it propperly, no one wants to see
a cock sticking out of a pair of shorts or from under a t shirt,
just looks so tacky. so come on, GET 'EM OFF!! and show
what you're offering propperly! I expect there are
many who agree with this!
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how do you feel being with Triose 4/20/2005
I know one thing, if we dont take everything with limit it
will became some kind of possession and will lead us to addiction.
that is what happeneing with alcohol, or food resulting
obesity, drug.......... sex is also the same.
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dont you think it is a kind of disease when everygthing is
beyond its limit? I Know a man from this site he travels alot
and whenever he ...
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Does intelligence really matter? 4/19/2005
Just wondering if I am the only one who needs a sex partner
that has a brain. I met a nympho or what I considered a nympho
in a nightclub a few years back. I considered her hot, 5 foot
5, 105 lbs, long red hair, creamy complexion, and mid size
breasts. She was enthralled with me and therefore she would
bang me whenever I could find the time to meet up with her.
In fact, she wanted me so ...
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Understanding Men 4/19/2005
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't
want
you, nothing can make him stay.
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2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
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3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character,
leave him alone.
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4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
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5. Stop trying to change yourself for a ...
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Handling Gossip 4/16/2005
I have found that the best way to handle gossip, when it concerns
yourself is to simply ignore it. If its true, well, so what...
And if its not true, well, yes, you guessed it.. so what!...
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It takes way too much energy to chase down each and every
he said she said type of thing. Its not worth it. You know
what is true and what is not. If people you know don't
want to ...
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how do you handle hook up endings? 4/15/2005
After you meet how do you handle the ending?
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Just shake hands and say thanks? What if you don;t want arepeat
and the other person/s do?
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Look Inside, Not Out 4/14/2005
I'm one of those people who needs to lose about 25 lbs.
Right now, I would say I am average to ample. I hold my weight
well, and unless completely naked, it's hard to tell
I am overweight. Not being conceited, I am attractive,
honest, open-minded, and easy-going. For the last month
I have been eating right, and exercising, and feel really
good about my progress. However, I have a problem ...
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I need this answered 4/14/2005
Why is it when you hook up with a guy he says he wants to see
you again and then he doesent ever come around again? I have
read many profiles and there are just as many who say they
want LTR as there are those who want no strings.So are there
any men out there who realy want LTR?
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A question about online etiquette 4/14/2005
I have been watching the "who's online now"
page, hoping to find local ladies who are chatting, or on
IMC.
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Often, when I find them, and click on the chatting or IMC
link, I get no reply, and find them gone from the chat, or
get no reply to the IMC page.
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Wondering if I am viewed as "stalking", which
is not my intent.
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Do ladies feel uncomfortable ...
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Do you choose become a angel or a devil ? 4/14/2005
I think more interesting to see god from hell...what do
you think ?....... sometimes you only need god when you
unhappy....what do you thin ?
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1000 Words 4/13/2005
I've been on this site a good while. I've picked
up on some patterns in profiles. I'll addres two.
I'm a single straight woman looking for my male counterpart.
In searching male profiles it seems some straight men find
it necessary to emphasize their lack of interest in other
men. This leads me to believe they've had the circumstance
to have to reject offers from other males. Also ...
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Men, how soon is too soon for sex? 4/13/2005
If you know that you don't respect women who will give
you sex too soon, why do you encourage, push for it or even
ask? Do you like having sex with women who you don't
even respect? How soon is too soon to YOU? Is it the first
date after a few drinks? Is it on the second or third date?
Is it after a few weeks or a few months of dating/seeing one
another? I think this is always a ...
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Is it normal to remove body hair. 4/12/2005
Recently I have developed a phobia about being hairy. I
dont know why it just grew on me (ha ha thats a joke). I dont
like having a hairy body and do frequently remove hair from
my chest, stomach, pubes, testicles and bum. Is it odd for
a man to do this. Again a question to the ladies. Would you
think a man was strange that wanted to remove body hair ?
As yet no ladies have discovered that ...
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