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Is it normal to remove body hair. 4/12/2005
Recently I have developed a phobia about being hairy. I
dont know why it just grew on me (ha ha thats a joke). I dont
like having a hairy body and do frequently remove hair from
my chest, stomach, pubes, testicles and bum. Is it odd for
a man to do this. Again a question to the ladies. Would you
think a man was strange that wanted to remove body hair ?
As yet no ladies have discovered that ...
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0 Votes
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Sex and Erotic Encounters 4/12/2005
I've noticed that alot of members are posting questions
about sex and erotic encounters and the differences between
the two. In my personal opinion both encounters erotic
and sexual are similar, yet different. They both are based
on a physical union, while erotic includes a lot of a romantic
atmosphere, and foreplay while a sexual encounter can
consist only of a meaningless physical ...
0 Comments, 72 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Advice 4/11/2005
My advice is for only young people, I advice all of them not
to believe first love. Why? After you'll know everything
yourself.
0 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
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How to keep a man happy 4/10/2005
Ladies, the old saying is that the way to a man's heart
is through his stomach.
WRONG!
The way to a man's heart is through his ego. The idea
of a woman that will cook for us, clean up after us, give us
some whenever we want it and generally wait on us hand and
foot is all tied to ego. We want to be made to feel like the
kings of our castle that we were in bygone days. We want to
feel ...
0 Comments, 71 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Don't be upset... 4/10/2005
Please please don't get all bent out of shape if while
checking out others on this site that they don't wish
to be with someone like you. it may be for a variety of reasons
that have nothing to do with you, It's more of a personal
choice what people are looking for... if you don't
like bald men or large women it should be up to only you to
deciede. Some women and men seem to have a real ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
0 Votes
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The Secret to great sex 4/10/2005
I hear a lot of people, especially guys, who think that the
size of the penis is directly connected to great sex. While
this definately can help or hinder an encounter, it's
definately not the most important ingredient.
Some say it's how one uses the equipment God gave them.
This is closer to the truth, but still missing something.
I've found, through experience, that the secret to
truly ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Big And Beautiful 4/10/2005
This is advice to all women.
Remember that you are all beautiful no matter what size
you are. I've come to relize that not all of us are suppose
to look like barbie dolls. Not all men are into smaller sized
women. Big women have real good curves too! What it all comes
down to is love yourself for who you are and dont let anyone
make you feel uneasy about your appearence the most ...
1 Comments, 297 Views,
18 Votes
,6.67 Score
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My wife has expressed interest in hooking up with another woman. What is the best way to go about m 4/9/2005
My wife has expressed interest in hooking up with another
woman. I'm extremely happy about this of course but
have no idea how to make it a reality. She wants me to be there
as an observer only which is fine with me but what is the best
way to go about setting something like this up?
0 Comments, 62 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Lonely lover 4/9/2005
I am having trouble finding love after being in a full time
relationship for a number of years withstanding numerous
anxious times the relationship unfortunately dissolved
since that time (6 years) I have not been able to find anyone
serious since I've been with other women since one-nighters
the longest has been about a month, what am I doing wrong??
1 Comments, 56 Views,
0 Votes
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Going down 4/9/2005
Why is it that a large number of men don't like to go down
on their girl, but expect a blowjob? For me pleasing my woman
orally is as good as it gets. I prefer going down on a woman
than getting a blowjob.
2 Comments, 89 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Swallow! 4/7/2005
I've read that some girls, (or males, ) on this site
do not like to swallow when it comes to giving a blowjob.
Well, I learned a trick back in high school that MIGHT help.
When you are sucking his dick really good. (I mean so good
until he tells you he is on the verge of cumming in your mouth!)
There is a little ridge between his testicles, and his dick.
Gently hold that part, and it ...
6 Comments, 649 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Female & Male Parts 4/7/2005
For the life of me I dont understand why some members are
under the impression that thier "private parts"
look "good" enough to show to other members
such as myself.
<br>
You can "never" go wrong with a pair of breast
cause breast will be breast saggy or perky.
<br>
A hard cock looks much better than a soft one in my opinion.
<br>
NOW here comes my arguement, not ...
5 Comments, 299 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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Go for the Points 4/7/2005
As a standard member it is difficult to make contact with
people you would be interested in getting to know better.
So, obviously, the Silver and Gold memberships are great,
and not that expensive, for a site like this. However, a
lot of people can't have Swapfinder.com charges appearing on their
credit card each month.
<br>
So, I say "go for the points". I realize it only
gets you a one ...
4 Comments, 140 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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Who sahres my love of love in the outdoors? 4/7/2005
Hoping to see how many fantasies the Swapfinder.com world can conjure
up regarding sex in the great outdoors.
<br>
I am constantly fishing and hiking, and have had one fine
encounter while camping in the White Mountains of NH.
<br>
It started as me getting scolded by a female forest ranger
because my camp fire was too close to an unused road (silly,
I thought), but ended up most ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
0 Votes
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Virgins In Today's World (A few pointers) 4/6/2005
Virgins in the Modern World…
<br>
I know there are a lot of frustrated virgins in the world
as well as on this site. Most women who only want to fu** would
not want a virgin. As sex therapist Dr. Ruth recently said
though, “In this day and age of rampant diseases, I try and
believe women would be smart and jump at the opportunity
of having a virgin as a ...
0 Comments, 132 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Are breasts an erogenous zone? 4/5/2005
Erogenous zones" are parts or areas of human body
that provide sexual arousal when touched. It is commonly
noted (and various magazines have had polls on this) that
apart from the genitals, the erogenous zones vary tremendously
between individuals - even within Americans. Some people
like to have their breasts caressed, some like their neck
or thighs being touched, or belly or feet etc. ...
1 Comments, 147 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Nipple Stimulation 4/5/2005
What is Nipple Stimulation?
Gentle rubbing or rolling of the nipple, or suckling of
the nipples to encourage contractions is called nipple
stimulation.
<br>
Why does Nipple Stimulation work?
Oxytocin, a hormone that causes contractions, is released
in the body when the breasts are stimulated. After the baby
is born, this release is important for the involution (returning
to ...
1 Comments, 82 Views,
0 Votes
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curious female 4/4/2005
I have never been with a woman before but have always found
them sexy and thought of them in ways that i would think of
a man I like .I have had friends that are bi and have flirted
with me but then i freeze up and shy away so what am i so affraid
of? I would to try it out.
4 Comments, 282 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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Advice to being successful that some members look for. 4/4/2005
Over my years as a member of the FriendFinder site I have
seen others ask for advice or complain about being successful.
Once again I am going to try and give you some of my suggestions
and tips to the ones that been asking for help. These are
some of the things that made me successful. I found what
I wanted, why not you? All it takes is to knowing how to use
the tools and how you go about ...
0 Comments, 221 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score
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Body Beautiful 4/3/2005
Come on girls, we all know that the majority of women are
not front page material for a men's glossy magazine.
<br>
While the ongoing battle to loose weight or the search for
that ever so simple diet continues i have a few tricks to
be and feel sexy even when you know that things aren't
how you want them.
<br>
Mood...
<br>
Lighting can make all the ...
2 Comments, 182 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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What do I do??? 4/1/2005
I have been living with a guy i met from Swapfinder.com and we r very much
alike and we get along gr8...problem is he has had a phone
buddy for 2 years and well u know how that is she just filed
for divorce from her husband and i think she is expecting
my bf to move there when it is done well enter me i have been
living with him for 3 mths and we have both expressed the
L word ONCE and then things got ...
7 Comments, 198 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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While Involved 3/31/2005
I always thought that being in a relationship meant having
it easier than anybody else. That's very wrong. There
are lots of guys that have a firm belief in rushing a relationship.
I on the other hand, would be the one to be your friend. Just
the other day my friend and I were on the phone and he told
me about some of the walls that his wife would keep up that
would cause him not to know to ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Do you believe them? 3/31/2005
I'm new here on HotMatch and I wonder how serious you
should take pictures and profiles of people? How serious
do you take the things people tell you in they're profile
and do you believe they're picture is real?
2 Comments, 89 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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The Cock Catalog 3/31/2005
I have enough unsolicited random cock shots to open a catalog.
I'm SURE there's one of every size, shape and color.
Some that are rather pretty and some that damn near blinded
me. One that I thought I was gonna need therapy over. STOP
IT!!!!!!!!!
<br>
Personally, I don't want to see a picture of your munchkin
unless I ask for it. I'd like to unwrap my own
present thank you ...
5 Comments, 554 Views,
31 Votes
,6.98 Score
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Straight guy looking to lose anal virginity 3/31/2005
I'm a straight guy who has a fantasy to lose my anal virginity
to a large room of guys. I would like to get my ass pumped for
hours.
<br>
The problem is that I've been trying to get a group of
guys on this site for months now. Why is nobody interested?
2 Comments, 260 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Is it strange not to like Oral Sex? 3/31/2005
It shocks most people when guys say that they are not into
oral sex. I am one of those people. It does not appeal that
much to me. I would rather give than recieve oral sex. I feel
this way because it takes to long for me too reach a climax
by oral. By the time it is reached I am tired and my partners
mouth is numb. Im just looking for a little input on this
subject.
2 Comments, 247 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Having a clue! 3/29/2005
After viewing and reading articles on this site , it leaves
me wondering what kind of men or man feels that by flopping
the their penis in a picture is something that the woman
here want to see.
As a man and straight man I have no interest in seeing another
mans penis. Women, is this what your looking for here? Is
that what sets the men apart here? If so I must have women
all wrong in my ...
1 Comments, 229 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Receiving Love ............ 3/29/2005
The more you give and receive love, the better you will feel
about yourself. The more you focus on what is wrong in your
life, the more you will create problems for yourself.
So you must focus on what IS WORKING in your life NOW. The
same with receiving love: the more you focus on how much
love you are already receiving, the more you will actually
have. And if you want to receive love from ...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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everyone keep sayin they dont understand? 3/28/2005
okay, boys and girls, men and women.ill go slowly, for
the slow one's.its the same on the computer some get
it some dont, my holler statement meant say hello, look
read, all my articles or advice questions.
i, m not all computer, literate or good typing, is it
neatness, directness, what.im not hard to understand
to the point.hope, everyone got that.love all ya wifey3223
or ...
0 Comments, 96 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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What up with this site? 3/27/2005
Hi everyone I've been a member on this site for over
a year and still have not met another member in person. I
have had a few people talk to me but nothing more I'm
not rude in any of my messages but still nothing am I doing
something wrong any advice would be welcome also if you
are in KC, MO and would like to meet up send me a message I
am a 27 year old man. All advice is welcome hope to ...
1 Comments, 192 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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To some men.. but NOT all of you 3/27/2005
To those men that feel the need to post a picture of their
cock. It's all good nice to see the goods, kinda like
window shopping before you pick out one you like.
BUT pls pls pls.. if your going to post the old boy for all
of us to view.. PLEASE give him a nice shave and a hair cut..
don't like to have to dig threw the bush to find the sticks..
<br>
Love ya all
Foxy
7 Comments, 259 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Are there any genuine people 3/27/2005
When I originally joined Swapfinder.com, being free and single I thought
it was a great opportunity to have some no strings attached
sex. I soon realised that meeting women was an impossibility.
I then saw it has an opportunity to put my fantasies into
practice and meet up with men. But guys will look, they will
wink and they will exchange messages but can I get to meet
anyone? No chance. Guys will ...
2 Comments, 169 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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How to get a friend to join us in a threesome? 3/26/2005
Hello everyone,
<br>
We have a friend that we would like to have a threesome with
and not sure how to go about getting her to join us. We all
flirt with each other and she shows us her tits all the time.
We think she is up with doing it but the one thing we are having
a problem with is she is married. What should we do?
1 Comments, 278 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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understanding men/women nature 3/25/2005
Men and women must understand their differences, and this
is all about nature.
What is sex in nature? It is for reproduction.
What is reproduction for man and what is it for a woman?
For a man it is half an hour job... the more women he meets,
the higher the chance to reproduce himself.
For a woman it is 9 months when their carry the baby in their
womb and few years until the can ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Any cannibus cuties on Swapfinder.com? 3/25/2005
I don't want to offend anyone, but am I the only one who
enjoys the eroticism of good bud and hot sexxx? Let me hear
from any women who know how have fun. I know there hvae to
some of you up for a fat bong and a hard dong
0 Comments, 93 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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What's the best way to make my penis bigger? 3/25/2005
I see so many different methods on the net but have not tried
any of them because I am not sure which one's work and
which one's are just a money making scam. The methods
I have seen include stretching using a type of brace or by
dangling weights from the end, pills that supposedly enlarge
the tissue that causes swelling of the penis and then there
are pumps. Has anyone tried to enlarge ...
3 Comments, 309 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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What do women really want? 3/24/2005
What is it that women really want? Thats one thing that I
have never been good with, whether I try or not. I try and
listen and do what they ask and I get nothing, I just act like
myself, nothing. What am I missing?
2 Comments, 167 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Can Anyone help 3/23/2005
I'm not having alot of luck on Swapfinder.com. I have pictures and
a good profile (I THINK).I'm not having any luck getting
a chance to meet a couple. Some write back saying we can meet,
and then when iI go to set it up they don't answer anymore
e mails. Can anyone help me?
2 Comments, 119 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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want to know 3/23/2005
Why is it that every men dreams of seeing two girls having
sex. But woman dont like two men having sex. If a man is bi
sexual he is shuned by most women. and just the opposit with
two women
1 Comments, 144 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Why don't ladies respond to mens inquiries on Swapfinder.com? 3/23/2005
Why dont ladies respond to mens inquires on Swapfinder.com? It seems
to me that my response rate here on Swapfinder.com is very VERY low. Why
is my response rate so low. Maybe I am not saying the right
things during my inquires. Maybe I am not asking the right
questions. Maybe i am not impressing them. Maybe my profile
is not answering there questions. Maybe my profile is not
have enough information. I dont ...
0 Comments, 163 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Women on here are looking for a "Phantom" man...... 3/23/2005
This site cracks me up. I know that I don't have the looks
to be on the cover of "GQ" magazine, but I know
that I'm decent looking enough to attract a decent
looking woman. All the women on this site (that are decent
looking) seem to be looking for a man that doesn't exist.
He usually has to have the following qualities:
<br>
1. A 10 inch dick
2. Makes at least 75k a year
3. 6 ...
3 Comments, 193 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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i would like to know 3/23/2005
i have been on here for the past 2 years and not once have i
talked with or meet with a local single woman is this site
for real do people really meet local singles on here
0 Comments, 89 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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What's the deal with that? 3/22/2005
I was curious to see if this has happened to anyone else.
I have just been a member for a week, and I got a message from
someone who said she signed on through her boyfriends account
and was pissed because he was cheating on her. She wanted
to have some "angry, revenge sex" and wanted
me to email her at a seperate email address. So, whats that
all about? Is that stuff standard, or what?
1 Comments, 188 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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i would like to know how to get results 3/21/2005
yes ive been on this site for a couple months and havent even
had a chat session any advice on how to get some results would
be helpfull
1 Comments, 120 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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pussy licking good 3/21/2005
i was just wondering; how many guys really like licking
pussy? i myself love it! there's nothing like the feeling
of a woman cumming over and over from having her pussy ate.
do you do it because she wants you to or because you want to, or
both? it involves more than just licking and sucking. there
are so many other things you can do while eatting a woman.it's
great!
0 Comments, 155 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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advice on the cock shots guys 3/21/2005
granted i am not a hyprocrit. i love the cock shots, but!!!!
please get your dicks hard before you take the picture.
a limp dick is not attractive fellas. keep in mind that you
want to place a pic on your profile that will be flattering
to you. saggy balls does not do it either. if you know that
your balls are saggy then do not take a pic of them and place
it on your profile. i am somewhat ...
4 Comments, 269 Views,
15 Votes
,5.43 Score
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Cybersex to real sex -- some pointers 3/20/2005
I've read several posts on Swapfinder.com by people who just don't
"get" the cybersex thing and its allure. I've
also read a number of posts by people who have found themselves
disillusioned after meeting their cybersex partner in
real life.
<br>
These two subjects are related, and since I have some experience
with both, I thought I'd share my thoughts.
<br>
Back in the day, when ...
1 Comments, 147 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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staying pro-active on Swapfinder.com whilst in relationship 3/20/2005
When I met my lovely honey here on Swapfinder.com, we both agreed that
we wanted exclusivity, and would not do anything behind
each others backs.
<br>
We agreed that Swapfinder.com had served it's purpose and we would
just have eyes for only each other from then on in.
<br>
But it didn't stop her from using Swapfinder.com still, after our
first meet (during which we were supposed to be serious
about each ...
3 Comments, 293 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Working from home and the increased propensity for masturbation 3/19/2005
Recently I’ve been fortunate enough to be given the opportunity
to work from home. In a city such as Tokyo where the average
commute to work is approximately 1 hour each way the 5 second
climb down from my loft to the ground floor is a God-send.
Another advantage is being able to sit around in your jocks
and indulge in slovenly behaviour without the slightest
inhibition.
<br>
...
0 Comments, 278 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Bored Out of My Mind! 3/18/2005
I know I'm not the only one with this problem but I thought
I'd see what advice I could get here. My wife and I have
been married for over 20 years and overall the sex has been
great, but for whatever reason, she hasn't been herself
in bed lately. She literally just lays there waiting for
me to turn her on as long as I stay within her ever-changing
rules ('not in the mood for that'). She ...
1 Comments, 104 Views,
0 Votes
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Settting a meet on Vacation 3/18/2005
We are looking to set up some extra fun on a vacation. Has
anyone sucessfuly done this? Is there anything special
we need to do that helps? How easy is it to be safe in a semi-strange
location? If anyone has success stories or tips please
let us know.
<br>
SugarnSpice
0 Comments, 46 Views,
1 Votes
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How to turn a man on 3/17/2005
Ladies, it's a very simple formula to keep your man
interested. You need to be as slutty as you can without the
man losing respect for you. All women are sexy but if she
isn't feeling it, the guy isn't either. The problem
with men is that we truly believe that we are sexy as we are
because look at our competition!
0 Comments, 92 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Trading Pictures 3/16/2005
I find it funny how many men demand a picture of you before
they talk to you but don't have or seem offended if you
also want a picture of them. What is the deal? This should
be an equal playing field and not full of B.S.
3 Comments, 78 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Where are the real men? 3/16/2005
I am a BBW and have gotten a lot of attention from my profile.
However, most men seem to be playing games or something.
They want to chat, exchange photos and then they disappear.
Where are the men that are true to their profiles?
4 Comments, 152 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Putting Your Pic on Swapfinder.com 3/16/2005
I have noticed so many times that people post their photos
on Swapfinder.com with just their eyes blacked out. If you are truly
trying to hide your identity don't you think people
who know you can tell that is you? Also, you are usually standing
in front of something from your house which just further
serves to identify you. Start paying more attention if
you want to hide your identity.
2 Comments, 50 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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new things to try 3/15/2005
Steam-it-up solution: To make your passion less predictable,
tap into the fact that you're not amorous only during
a scheduled time slot. "Act on your erotic instincts
whenever they strike, despite the fact that it might seem
inconvenient at the time, " advises Kerner. Does
the sight of him washing his car rev your engine? Drag him
indoors and jump his bones. Who cares if it's Saturday ...
0 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Looking for a female to join us, but not for 3 months 3/15/2005
We are a couple who really wants to add a third(female) to
our sexual fun. For personal reason we don't want this
to happen for another 3 months. Does anyone have any thoughts
on if we should be seeking someone now for then or should
we wait for 3 months before we look. Some people may be discouraged
by having to wait however it sometimes takes time to set
up a meet.
Thanks
SugarnSpice
0 Comments, 138 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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best technique to not cum? 3/14/2005
ok guys wut are your most successful techniques to stop
ur self from cummmin, and keep having sex? Please share
ur secrets.
1 Comments, 489 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Having sex while ur girl is on her peroid? 3/14/2005
I would like to know if its good idea or not to have sex with
ma girl while she is on her period, since i wont see here till
a month later? Could anything bad happend by having sex
while she is on her period?
0 Comments, 213 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Camming with 3/14/2005
Hi
For the most part, being a bit of a voyeur, I enjoys the combinations
and permutations of different types of play.
I dont care if you are gay..it just doesn't appeal to
me, so I dont watch.
<br>
Unfortunately, however thankfully rare, I have seen people
on cam with running around!!
<br>
Now, I am not anyone to say what should or should not happen
in life, but, ...
4 Comments, 286 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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All about points 3/14/2005
I really dont care to write an article but this is all about
points because I want them...and I want them now..I understand
that nobody will read this dribble but what the helll..
I get points and anything that you get for free is good...so
if you want free points just copy and paste away... cause
you can get free points...well for a while...lol
1 Comments, 168 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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piercings 3/13/2005
My exgirlfriend really wanted me to get my cock pierced.
She really wanted me to get a prince albert, but she said
that she just wanted me to get one in general if not that.
I've been thinking more about getting one lately.
She said that she had a partner before that had one and that
if felt great. Does anybody have an opinion of whether it
would turn them on or not and I'd also like to ...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Some Advice for LI Women 3/13/2005
Women, on this site, seem to searching for relationships
with more substance, not just the one time quickie. Joining
a group is a good way to meet members, and make connections.
We have been members of the "Married but Looking II"
Group, on this site, for a little over a month. We have found
that being involved in the discussions, posted in this
group, gives us an opportunity to get to know ...
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ladies be yourself 3/12/2005
when talking with someone you meet on Swapfinder.com or other sites
please be somewhat honest when you describe yourself,
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would like to try another male 3/11/2005
what advice can you give someone who would like to try there
first same sex encounter?
2 Comments, 186 Views,
4 Votes
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I can't seem to make her trust me. 3/10/2005
I'm a 37 year old man, who has been in a relationship
for over 2 years. The woman I'm with was in a very long
term marrige that proved to be very trying on her mentally.
She's a wonderful person, but she's obsessed
with suspicion. I've never cheated on here, nor do
I want to be away from her. We've been seperated now
for about 3 weeks, with onagain offagain experiences.
I litterly ...
1 Comments, 109 Views,
3 Votes
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She cheated once, is she still cheating now? 3/10/2005
My wife and I have been together for 10 yrs, we have 3kids.
about 6 months ago I found out she was cheating on me, we talked
it over and dicided to save our marrieage and our .
<br>
She promised to stay away from this other guy in order to
gain my trust back. We even changed our phone and made it
a private number. We even seeked proffesianal help.
<br>
yesterday, I ...
4 Comments, 403 Views,
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Try it 3/9/2005
Guys try to please your partner then please yourself. And
watch how the whole thing changes for the good!
0 Comments, 46 Views,
2 Votes
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finding bi couples 3/9/2005
Do bi-couples truley exist?As a bi male I am not having much
luck finding them. I have starting emailing back and forth
with afew, then when you to set up a time to meet. They just
stop emailing you. Am i the oly one with this problem?
0 Comments, 161 Views,
2 Votes
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Advice to Married persons on Swapfinder.com 3/9/2005
Hi Guys and Gals,
<br>
This article is targeted at all the married individuals
on Swapfinder.com. Not the married people who are here to find a partner
or group them and their spouse, it is for the husbands and
wives who are cheating. Ouch, that’s a bad word isn’t it?
Yes, I should know, I am one of them. The dictionary defines
cheating as “being sexually ...
4 Comments, 333 Views,
14 Votes
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The speed of life 3/9/2005
It just late in life, sometimes too late, when we realize
how fast its gone.
Why?
It seems only time will give us the ingredient needed to
meditate about our experiences and how much we left undone.
No matter if someone told us about this before. We have deaf
ears for this kind of talk.
It seems unfair because, I bet, our life would be much more
worthwhile had we taken in consideration ...
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0 Votes
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bad experiences? 3/7/2005
i am thinking about hooking up with a very sincere sounding
couple i met on this site. has anybody out there had any bad
experiences hooking up with persons on this site, and if
so is there any advice you might be able to give to me? all
responses wiil be appreciated.
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0 Votes
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i cannot finish:( 3/6/2005
i as a rule love sex but the last six months, whether with
hubby or boy friends i can not seem to finish, i always finish
alone but never with my men, its confused me and i can not
work out why i have this problem do i need to relax more,
try
more or go to therpy and see whats blocking this wonderful
feeling , help please
4 Comments, 436 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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what's wrong with me? 3/4/2005
I can't seem to find a woman that I like that likes me.
I don't meet that many women but still I'm 29 years
old and have hardly experienced the opposite sex. Am I too
picky? Why are women so difficult to meet? Where are good
places to meet women?
1 Comments, 112 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Lube for anal sex 3/4/2005
I want to try anal sex with my girlfriend, but I don't
know which lube to use. Which one does the best and does not
dry out quickly?
4 Comments, 193 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Better tasting cum 3/4/2005
My girlfriend complains sometimes that my cum tastes bad.
Since this doesn't happen all the time, can it be related
to my diet? If so, what can I eat that will make it taste better?
3 Comments, 229 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Shaving question 3/4/2005
I have been shaving with a razor and shaving cream for a while
now, and would like to find something else that is quicker.
Are there any electric razors that are made solely for shaving
the genitals?
1 Comments, 209 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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This Is All About Selling Yourself-A Positive Piece 3/3/2005
I see a lot of people saying no one is hitting on them, they
get looks but nothing more.
<br>
This is all about selling yourself, putting your best foot
forward and making yourself known.
<br>
To do that, you put in your best photo first, show us what
you look like, have you got a nice smile? Well show us! Sure,
there are those those want to see your body, want cock ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Learn how to eat a Pussy 3/3/2005
How to eat Pussy
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat
pussy because there are too few of you out there. And I'm
not the only woman who says this.
<br>
Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college
try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will
help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head,
she's found ...
4 Comments, 408 Views,
25 Votes
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shaving issues 3/2/2005
hi everyone. ladies: one question. i try and shave my pussy
and it's so freakin' itchy and i get ingrown hairs
and everything....for days after! and then the hair grows
back in a few days anyways...is there a really amazing way
to keep it nice and trim and tidy or even completely shaved
(the front) without going through all this hassle?I'd
appreciate whatever help you may be able to ...
4 Comments, 363 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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My Boyfriends Sister 3/2/2005
Me and James have dated for over 5 years and i always loved
to watch his sister sara. i love the way see walked, smelled, i
mean she was beautiful. i just explored with another female
about 2 years ago and now i wanted a taste of sara. i could
never tell here though cause she was so hott
(she has 3 and and hubby)
we started going to the gym together and i could watch her
in her tight ...
1 Comments, 606 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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Be TRUE 2 Yourself 3/2/2005
SO MANY QUESTIONS CAN BE ANSWERED by the simple phrase "Be
true to yourself". If you feel uncomfortable with
the situation or have a feeling of trepidation, you'll
rarely feel good about the results if you go through with
it. Trust your gut instincts. I can count on one hand the
number of times I went against my gut and the result turned
out well. You may end up with the "what if" thoughts ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Outdated Members 3/1/2005
I'm a little pissed!I just wasted 10 credits only to
find out that the peoples profiles that I was interested
in haven't visited this site in over 6 months!!!This
site should reemburse you your credit(s) if a "member"
has not visited for a period of time.That's my opinion
and I'm sticken to it.
4 Comments, 131 Views,
8 Votes
,5.80 Score
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Just want to watch! 2/27/2005
One of my longest-held (and yet to be realized) fantasies
to watch a MF couple have sex. To be in the same room, but not
in bed; no interaction on my part- I just want to watch...and
to listen.
<br>
Any advice on approaching couples about this? I have an
OK sex life otherwise, but this is something I've always
wanted to indulge.
<br>
Thanks.
3 Comments, 143 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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what type of underwear 2/25/2005
Out of curiosity what type of underwear do all you ladies
find more attractive on men? Dose it depend on body type
package size color of cloth type of cloth ass shape hair
no hair? What is it that I should wear?
1 Comments, 134 Views,
9 Votes
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!!!THANK YOU Swapfinder.com Customer Service!!! 2/25/2005
A GREAT BIG THANK YOU TO Swapfinder.com:
<br>
For being so responsive and understanding about the Chat
issue.
<br>
You are appreciated in this group. It takes a great team
to provide the common sense and reality check for ALL MEMBERS
OF Swapfinder.com.
<br>
Your customer service team takes a lot of abuse and I greatly
empathize with each and every one of you. Keep up the good ...
0 Comments, 170 Views,
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The Words We Use To Describe Sex 2/23/2005
When you are in the heat of passion, and you start to talk
dirty (if you talk dirty), what are some of the words you
use to describe your genitalia or your partner's genitalia?
Or the sex act itself?
We all know the standards: cock, dick, pussy, tits, fuck.
I'm looking for some really creative, descriptive
language!
Do these terms turn you on? Make you laugh?
I had a girlfriend who ...
0 Comments, 70 Views,
1 Votes
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girls 2/23/2005
What happens when alot of girls are attracted to you at the
same time? It's so difficult choosing one. How can
they tell if you're single?
0 Comments, 43 Views,
2 Votes
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Women. 2/22/2005
Do women these days like a man to still take charge, in bed,
in a relationship, or should a man sit back and let the women
take over things for a while and relax. Men and Women let
me know what you think.
4 Comments, 176 Views,
1 Votes
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the need to know 2/22/2005
I have friends who told me they had women who had squirting
orgams when they cum. I have yet to find one. any women out
there that can
help me in my quest.
0 Comments, 147 Views,
1 Votes
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worth it 2/22/2005
We have found out that going down the road of trying new things,
has strengthened a all ready ample sexual relationship.
It gave us both even more confidence and helped us talk to
each other even more non-chalont after all the discussions
we've had on the subject, and i can say it will probably
only get better, Can't say we haven't had our weird
and awkward moments, but being prepared for ...
1 Comments, 62 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Fakes 2/22/2005
Hi everyone,
Well we have meet a few nice couples on here. One in particular
that we think is a very good match for us. But also have meet
many guys pretending to be a couple. We have our own ways
of detecting them but could always use more advise as some
of them are really very smart. Thanks for your time.
<br>
Steve & Linda
2 Comments, 104 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Boob Jobs 2/21/2005
Many men will hate me for saying this, but ladies, don't
get boob jobs. What you have is wonderful and the right guy
will appreciate the assets you were born with. Fakes also
feel wrong and aren't fun to play with and caress.
6 Comments, 154 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Sex, of course 2/21/2005
I'm a college guy looking to hookup with someone from
Swapfinder.com. I want to be discreet, so I did not put a pic up. But it
seems like no one notices you if you don't have a pic.
Is there a way to get attention without a pic?
0 Comments, 70 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Winks, but no emails.... 2/21/2005
When and if I wink at a man, you can be sure there will be an
email to follow. Is there a reason why men wink on this site,
and not follow-up with an email?
8 Comments, 359 Views,
14 Votes
,3.62 Score
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Why is it so pleasing 2/21/2005
I would like to know how is it that lesbians find so much excitement
in pleasing each other. They enjoy sex even more than a man
and woman sometimes. Humm.
1 Comments, 86 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Being Bitter & Upset About The Opposite Sex 2/20/2005
To anyone who is currently bitter or upset about the opposite
sex...
<br>
...stop, take a deep breath & relax. Just because the
guy/gal has made you this way doesn't me they are all
that way.
<br>
Nothing is more disturbing for me than to come across a womans
profile who appears to have a deep hatred & resentment
to all men. Thinking we are all the same, think the ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Outdated Profiles - Age, Seeking & "Not Looking" 2/20/2005
There are several people on here who have yet to update their
profiles. Some are outright sad...saying they are X age
when above/below it is different. Apparently they are
lying or just haven't changed their profile in a year
or longer. The same goes with what they are seeking. They
have checked wanting to meet for nearly everything but
when you read the profile...they only want to talk, ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Networks 2/20/2005
I personally don't care for them but that doesn't
matter. However when I see someone who has several dozen
or even hundreds of friends in their network it makes me
wonder what their purpose is. I see nothing wrong if you
actually talk &/or meet those in your network but can
you honestly tell me that those who have 100 or more people
have written each & everyone of those people...as
well as ...
1 Comments, 47 Views,
4 Votes
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Testimonies...Be For Real 2/20/2005
Why do people think that the testimonies are made for saying
things like "Great photos, I hope to meet..."
or "I wish I was in your area..." & related
comments. Do you not realize that it's for those who
have meet the person/people to talk about their experience/s?
<br>
I find it very pointless to flood it with messages about
the person when you haven't meet. Now it is ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
5 Votes
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Too Many Messages & Wrong Matches 2/20/2005
For the countless profiles that I keep seeing things such
as:
<br>
"Men, stop writing (I am/we are) looking for women
only..."
<br>
or
<br>
"Sorry I can't reply so soon, I'm getting
X (10, 50, 1000...) messages per day & can't keep
up..."
<br>
or
<br>
"No photo, no response"
<br>
Do yourself a favor & setup the message ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Updating Your Settings - Profile & Cupid 2/20/2005
Being an adult site, I would think people would be able to
properly update their settings in their cupid search &
profile. The both work together, so if you put under 'You
Want To Meet' Men & Couples but under Cupid Women
& Groups, then the match setting will be off (X's
in 'Gender'). Please take the time to make sure
both are set for the same so that you don't cause a false
or mismatch. ...
0 Comments, 27 Views,
3 Votes
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People, Please read the profiles! 2/20/2005
I have been a member on Swapfinder.com off and on for 5 years. The beauty
of this site is the ability for discerning individuals
to be gut wrenching honest about what they are looking for.
I am constantly emailed by people who do not remotely match
my profile! When I don't respond I'll get some
snide ass remark. A remark which is usually unwarranted,
unwelcomed and unsolicited! I utilize the auto ...
3 Comments, 160 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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Am I addicted to sex? 2/20/2005
I have a very high sexual appetite, I can never get enough.
I like to please my partner first then myself. I desire to
try a threesome and such. I think of sex constantly. What's
wrong?
2 Comments, 56 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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what do you think ? 2/19/2005
I am wondering how many men enjoy having sex with there woman
after she has had sex with another man this is a big turn on
for myself and the wife, we enjoy it and wonder how many other
men or woman enjoy the same thing , for some reason when i
make love to her after she has had sex with another man her
pussy feels so much diffrent not in the slippery dept either
in the way the insides feel ...
2 Comments, 274 Views,
8 Votes
,5.80 Score
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Leave previous baggage behind 2/19/2005
We have all had bad experiences. We have to find ways to put
bad experiencess behind and not bring them to a new relationship.
I once dated a guy who expressed it well. He asked why women
seem to expect all guys to be like the "bad" one,
just waiting for the to make a mistake!
Obviously, not ALL men or women have negative expectations.
When coming off a negative ...
0 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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general advice 2/18/2005
my advice is that if you need to contact someone but don't
want to pay to do it, weasel your way around it - like me. it's
a huge waste of time and the payoff... well usually fruitless.
c'est la vie.
0 Comments, 119 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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how do we do it 2/18/2005
all we want to do is meet a woman and have sex. but we just cant,
nobody is prepaird to. we have been members for a while now
and dont seem to be getting anywhere with it. what do you
suggest we do? please help us we are getting so frustrated
with it we didnt expect to get it overnight but this is silly
now. HELP!!!!!!
0 Comments, 119 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Preferences...Preferences 2/17/2005
Being a man on this site, the deck is already stacked against
you. Most couples are looking for women or other couples
and half the women's profiles are bogus and if you open
their profile, you start getting spam to you personal email.
My problem is the people that don't properly say what
they're looking for. The whole point of the search
option on this site is to filter profiles by what ...
1 Comments, 115 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Kama Sutra 2/16/2005
I am very intrigued by kama sutra and tantric massage. I
am wondering if any women would be able to share their experiences.
If there are any women in Vancouver who would truly like
to explore this area of their sexuality, I would like to
share it with you.
0 Comments, 32 Views,
0 Votes
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cumming in my ass.......? 2/16/2005
Is it safe to allow a man to cum inside of my ass? Does anyone
know for sure?
7 Comments, 858 Views,
20 Votes
,3.00 Score
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X Marks the Spot 2/16/2005
X Marks the Spot
<br>
The next time you and your lover are together, each take
a piece of paper and draw a picture or outline of your body
on it (even if it’s a stick figure!). Then, mark an X on every
spot you want your lover to touch, lick or kiss. When you’re
both done, trade papers. Now you have an erotic treasure
map that you can use to explore your ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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better tasting cum... 2/16/2005
I read somewhere that if you eat cetain foods, it'll
make your cum taste better! Anyone out there know about
this? Interested in knowing what type of food or drinks
can change the taste of my cum...
4 Comments, 299 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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no toys 2/16/2005
I keep asking my wife to go and buy some toys for our adventures
in bed, but she says that she dont need them. Now that is fine
but i like to use a dildo on a lady while i am giving her oral.
Is it possible that maybe she doesnt want toys because she
is afraid that she will enjoy them more than me or could it
be that i just have what it takes to satisfy her??????????????
3 Comments, 95 Views,
0 Votes
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Be careful what you wish for... 2/15/2005
because you just might get it? You know the old saying. I
had in my mind the ideal kind of guy I wanted and as a friend
with benefits. I met him through Swapfinder.com. He had it ALL going
on: 26 years old, six pack abs, great body, cute as Brad Pitt
or better, great personality, funny, successful and most
of all VERY good in bed but I'll get to that in a minute.
On our first date, we had dinner ...
3 Comments, 355 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Help 2/14/2005
How do you know when you having a ogasiem, i love sex but never
know when i'm going to have one, is their a feeling or
somthing that you notice as i'm not sure, the guy i'm
with is great makes me feel special, and i always make him
cum at least a dozen times when we're having sex, but
the question is how do you know when your having a ogasium???
or ready to cum??? HELP
1 Comments, 153 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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what now? 2/14/2005
Ok, so where to start...I have been a member of Swapfinder.com since
before I was married. I am not sure why I stayed here after
my wedding 6 months ago, but I did...and to be honest, I am
glad. I got married because we have been together for 7 years
and have three beautiful . I know, not a good reason,
but I do love this man...I am just not "in love"
with him....if that makes sense. My problem ...
4 Comments, 352 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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How do I tell her no? 2/14/2005
Does any other male have a girlfirend or sex partner that
always wants some dick? how do you tell them that you need
to slow down and take it easy on sex? Without hurting her
feelings or having her think that your getting it somewhere
else? My girl just wants sex all the time and its hard to turn
her down without some side effects from her.
<br>
Please Help!!
2 Comments, 81 Views,
0 Votes
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Ladies - Your Idea of a fantastic licking 2/14/2005
Very simply from a ladies perspective your idea of a fantastic
licking... Yeah I know the basics and have tried all sorts
but would like to hear your opinions on what really turns
you on and hey even turn offs as we are doing it... Wouldn't
it be great if all us men could get it really right first time...please
let me know.
0 Comments, 73 Views,
0 Votes
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Honesty, the BEST policy? 2/13/2005
In all aspects of our relationships, permanent or temporary,
what is wrong with being honest? We have to use "handles"
because society requires us to hide our identities. In
writing our profiles, do we generally describe who we really
are? I doubt it, there's always some inflated ego involved,
it's human nature! Would you REALLY respond, IF everyone
gave a "true" description of themselves? ...
2 Comments, 62 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Is it possible to change your habits 2/13/2005
I've have only ever had sex with my current partner.
I'm 33, single and know it's acceptable to just
go have sex if I want. Just haven't been able to go out
and do it yet. I get tons of offers but I think I'm worried
about not getting into it like I want to or disappointing
someone else.
<br>
Any ideas to help me get over the last hump so I can make this
sexual appetite on ...
4 Comments, 156 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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the MMF taboo 2/12/2005
I have a "women" freind that is married and she
explained that she wants a three way with two men. Her husband
is shy about it and said no. The wife has expressed to me that
she needs more in her love life and gets hot just thinking
about two men with her. I am all for it and think of nothing
better for any women. How can the third party get on board?
Is he just worried about the "gay" ...
4 Comments, 363 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Enlargement Surgery Anyone? 2/11/2005
Enlargement surgery anyone? Don't be rediculous.
Phalloplasty can lead to scarring, erection discomforts
and impotence. Love your weenie the way it is!
1 Comments, 94 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Tell the truth 2/11/2005
Okay, so you 6'6" tall, athletic build, tanned
body, 10" dick, loads of money, lifes young dream!
Get a life. Tell the truthg! If you're married...tell
the truth, if you dont like something..tell the truth.
You paint a picture, people accept you as face value, everything
goes great, you're going to meet..........Oops.
You are really 5'5" a little on the cuddly side,
your six pack has ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Sacred and Satisfying Basic Sexual Needs 2/10/2005
I suppose most of us (if we have left the Parent's Guide
off) have received sexual invitations by e-mail.
<br>
Some years ago, I received a very clear invitation by Janet
(I don't know if this was her real name) to visit her
web page to study pictures of herself. As I had the feeling
that she was new to this business I answered her e-mail,
which was written in quiet an ...
0 Comments, 71 Views,
8 Votes
,0.70 Score
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When is the line crossed in Elderly Abuse and has it been crossed here? 2/9/2005
My neighbors (out of city) moved in 8 months ago Woman with
3 teenage . Listening to some of her aurguments (about
75 yards distance) didn't compel me to socialize with
them. But yesterday one of their dog's was grazed by
a passing car or one of the field hands for an oil company
across the street hit it or kick it I really don't know
I just heard the poor thing yelping. Well it had a ...
2 Comments, 227 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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What gives? 2/9/2005
Mostly I would like to know why it is that men can say that
they want nothing but "Sex" from a woman and
when a woman is only in it for purely sexual gratification
does the man then turn around and try to turn "sex"
into something more....I am completely baffled.
3 Comments, 202 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Gangbang??? 2/9/2005
I have recently been invited to a gang bang. I have never
been involved in one. I have been with couples 2 times, and
really enjoyed it.
What can I expect, and what are the things to do, and not to
do? Any advice? I have never meet any of these people.
0 Comments, 308 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Are the live webcams here for real ? 2/9/2005
Excuse me for asking a naive question, perhaps, but are
the "live" webcams we can watch on adult friend
finders for real? I am talking about the free member webcams
not the pay-for-view ones. Some feeds have instant changes
of positon that seem impossible if it were in fact "live."
I guess what I am asking is can one feed a pre-recorded video
into these webcams....is this what we are ...
1 Comments, 82 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Cum to quick 2/8/2005
When my wife and I have sex I cum to quick. I usually last about
5 minutes. If i have some drinks I might last about 15 minutes.
I had an affair 3 years ago and I could last an hour (no joke).
Any ideas on lasting longer? My wife doesn't like it
if I pull out or don't just keep banging away. I've
tried the slowing down method, but she grabs my ass and speeds
me up. She always cums, ...
6 Comments, 482 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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webcam sex 2/7/2005
How many couples out there have a pay-per-view website
or are thinking about doing it? Can you actually make decent
money doing it? A friend of mine said she and her guy do it.
She gets on all fours and types messages to the viewers,
encouraging them to masturbate; he gets behind and pumps
her full of lead, but has to be careful not to cum too fast.
I think it would be fun! What do you ...
0 Comments, 173 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Acting out fantasies & role-playing: 2/7/2005
You may think that they are both the same but you’d be quite
wrong, acting out fantasies is about doing something different
in particular that which your female lover has wanted to
do with YOU! Making love on the landing at the top of the stairs;
doing it out in the open, a near secluded area which can be
with the intention of enticing a willing participant;
Your version of the ...
0 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Need advice on swinging 2/7/2005
My husband and I are madly in Love and very happy with our
sex life. He makes me cum everytime multiple times. However
he wants to take me to the edge and give me the ultimate orgasmic
experience. I love him for wanting to do this and I am very
excited that he embraces my many kinky ways and sometimes
even knows me better then I know myself. He is giving me the
opportunity of a mfm ...
9 Comments, 395 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Watersports 2/7/2005
IHow do you approach the subject of a fetish to someone new??
I would love for my partner to piss on me, but not sure how
she will react. I love the warm sensation of being pissed
on. A fetish that was given to me by an earlier G/F who was
a bit on the domineering side. My new girl is great, but I'd
feel a bit embarrased to ask her to do it as she seems so nice.
Normal sex is fantastic, I ...
1 Comments, 144 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Web cam 2/7/2005
I want to buy a web cam. Can anybody give me the details on
the best produce to buy
1 Comments, 206 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Needing Advice 2/5/2005
A girl I regularly hook up with and I headed to a local Adult
Toy Store and picked up a few sex toys, she mentioned that
she wanted to try anal sex so we grabbed a small anal plug.
After arriving home we noticed that the package was a type
that could be opened without breaking a seal. I'm just
wondering if I should discard that item and try a different
one that comes in a sealed package, ...
5 Comments, 379 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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Simple thing to do for better sex 2/5/2005
Simple, inexpensive thing to do for better sex-take a multivitamin
particularly one with good "B" vitamin complex,
but any multi will do. Just in case some people haven't
thought of it yet. Do it at least 2 hours before sex.
1 Comments, 202 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Seriously .. need advice,feedback,truthful replies plz .. 2/5/2005
Been seperated almost 4yrs. in Aug. from a very kinky partner
whos fantasies eventually needed more reality, 17yrs
of marriage , a VERY SEXY n Attactive wife set in all ways
except this. Is there really a place for me in here u think
.. Miss the emotional, mental n physical feelings but
not the cheap, empty , lonely , cold ones .
3 Comments, 234 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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'Light Bondage'? 2/4/2005
Time and time again we see this in a profile. I take it no one
realises that when one person restrains another there
is nothing 'light' about it? Bondage, in any form,
is a matter of trust, right? I am just wondering if anyone
can explain this 'light' idea to us.....since
it seems so prevelant.
Admittedly, there are many things in the spectrum that
have shades of grey, a 'light' ...
5 Comments, 201 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Taken For A Ride 2/4/2005
There is a girl whom I met online. She seems to like sex very
much. We chatted almost every week for about a month. I suggested
that we meet and she agreed. We agrred on the date and the
venue. I suggested that we go to the hotel nearby after we
meet and she agreed and told me to book the room.
<br>
A week before she said that she's going out station.
Thereafter, I could ...
7 Comments, 422 Views,
8 Votes
,1.62 Score
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For fun or for other? 2/4/2005
Let me start by saying: I really dont know what the hell I'm
doing here.
That being said, I guess the next step is: does anyone feel
the same way? Now I am not usually the type of person who does
something that I don't think is effective, or even
efficient. My intentions for being here on this service
are purely selfish. I don't have much contact with
the outside world becauce im so ...
1 Comments, 64 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Shaved or Not... 2/3/2005
Why is it that most men love shave pussy and the site of it?
Is it the bare look, or the smoothness? I see this from my
hubby, everytime i shave smooth, his face spells horny.
So any good answers to if it is only my hubby or a general male
thing.
11 Comments, 493 Views,
18 Votes
,5.17 Score
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Nudes or Lingerie? 2/3/2005
I like taking photos in lingerie, scantily clad or otherwise.
What's the consensus on preference?
Is it all the way live on the nudity thing, or does a little
lingerie add a little more flavor?
13 Comments, 298 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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The best way to contact others! 2/3/2005
How is the best way to contact women? Do the women on this
site actually respond to a wink?
Or should I write a detailed message. Is it all a waste of
my time and thiers? Should I show my privates in my pic or
is that too forward? I personally have a little more class
than that. But as for women, thier private area is much more
sexy and I don't find that low class. Do I have double ...
2 Comments, 244 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Older woman 2/2/2005
Let's say you met an older woman that was your mom's
age. You were interested in her and she in you. Both of you
sent quality time together and really enjoyed it. Both
of you kissed and touched but, had not had sex yet. It keeps
coming up by both of you in a good way. What would you do?
3 Comments, 405 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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I need some advice 2/1/2005
I have been wanting to try a threesome or even swapping for
a while now but Im not sure how to ask my significant other
if she is interested. We have a great sex life already but
I think it might add some new spice that we both never knew
existed. Any advise on this issue will be greatly appreciated.
3 Comments, 212 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Soar Throat is it from what I'm thinking???? 2/1/2005
The Fist time I got down on my wife, i felt something on my
THROAT, but since is was the first time and I had no experience,
I felt, that I was just getting a cold and I let it go.
<br>
Last night I got down on her again, and guess what, I felt
the same feeling on my throat AGAIN, what is going on here??
<br>
Can you get it from eating pussy?
<br>
<br> ...
10 Comments, 494 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Blow a wad, or $wallow a Fraud??? 2/1/2005
So do us guys have to expect to blow a wad of our money before
you gals are ready to play under the sheets? (In my opinion)>When
a woman expects lots of money to spent on her before she'll
consider a man worthy of her erotic show case - isn't
that relative to the concept of ? & Even
then - who knows if the gal will make the guys money well spent
at the end of the nights escapades?!? Now ...
6 Comments, 209 Views,
3 Votes
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Toy store 1/31/2005
My wife and I want to go toy shopping, but are having trouble
finding a store. The e-stores on the net can be boring and
it's much more fun to browse in the 3rd dimension.
<br>
Anybody know of some good stores (not too seedy) in the Northern
Virginia / DC area?
<br>
Thanks!!
1 Comments, 99 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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If you're a MALE that's NEW to this site - READ THIS. 1/31/2005
I'm going out on a limb here, but I WISH that someone
educated me on this BEFORE I started exploring this site.
So, I'm going to give examples of my own blunders in
the hopes another gent doesn't do the same.
<br>
1) If you use the ICC and instant chat with a lady and she asks
for a picture, CLARIFY the type of picture you're going
to exchange BEFORE you exchange. I didn't ...
7 Comments, 580 Views,
38 Votes
,8.38 Score
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Sirter - In - Law I need your advise 1/31/2005
My Sister in law is 23 yrs old, single and she has had a hit
on me since I met my wife about
10 yrs ago.
<br>
She is hot, and atractive. I know she wants to have sex with
me, but I know she is my sister in law and i respect my wife.
<br>
She is HOT and SEXY and at times I want to think that she is
not my Sister -in-law, Should I do her? or should I continue
to ignore ...
9 Comments, 564 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Is she interested in me? 1/31/2005
I've been involved in this local group (Not related
to Swapfinder.com) for a couple of years now. This woman who attends
often has sort of become a friend at these functions, although
we never have seen each other outside of this venue. Last
Friday night we were there, and we had chatted as normal.
During a break, a couple of other guys and myself were stepping
outside for a cigarette. As I walked ...
1 Comments, 94 Views,
0 Votes
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My best friend keeps asking for advice but never takes it 1/28/2005
My best friend is very unhappy in her marriage and constantly
calls me to ask for advice. I often find myself simply listening
to her and offering an ear into which she can vent her frustrations.
But recently, I realized that she has asked for my opinion
and/or advice on what she should do but does not takes it!
<br>
For example, she called a few days ago to tell me that she ...
9 Comments, 166 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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What do you women consider a married man? 1/28/2005
The reason I ask is that I've seen several women here
say how bent out of shape they were to meet this great guy
only to find he's married. I'm not sure why a guy
would be stupid enough to make like he's single and
then tell the woman he's married after meeting her
and I don't know how these women find out if they are
not told.
<br>
My deal is with seperation. I am seperated ...
6 Comments, 219 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Anal Sex.... 1/27/2005
So my guy is a complete ass man and he absolutly LOVES anal.
When we first started dating I had only tried anal once,
maybe twice. I told him that and he said he would be gentle,
lots of lube and gentle entry.... WOW I love anal now! The
best is when your guy enters from behind and pleasures you
with your favorite toy vaginally. If you are open for new
things ladies, I highly recommend it!
5 Comments, 585 Views,
21 Votes
,6.47 Score
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Shultz 1/27/2005
The following is the philosophy of Charles Schultz, the
creator of the "Peanuts" comic strip.
<br>
You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just
read the e-mail straight through, and you'll get the
point.
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
<br>
2. Name the last five ...
0 Comments, 78 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Attention 1/27/2005
Hello everyone, I was wondering what I could do to get my
profile more attention. I've got photos up and have
done everythin Swapfinder.com suggests but still very little interest.
Any help would be appreciated.
4 Comments, 199 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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men and being too personal- what the heck? 1/26/2005
I don't understand men and I don't think I ever
will. One question I have is: How is it that kissing is too
personal when they've met a woman from a site like Swapfinder.com,
but fucking someone (especially without protection)
and cumming inside of someone is not? Is there anyone that
can clarify this for me at all?
5 Comments, 404 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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why do the men cum so damn fast? 1/25/2005
Why do the men cum so dang fast any way?I mean it's not
even 5 mins in to the wet, hot pussy and bam there you go and
now off to sleep. Why is this? We want more we need more.Heal
we want to cum too, I know I do.You know we just don't
always want our pussyes ate, I want to cum all over your dick
so why not let me?I want to feel the dick deep in side of me
with my eyes rolling back. I want ...
18 Comments, 685 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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Why do women shy from personals? 1/25/2005
Since I was perhaps 16 years old, I have always noticed that
anywhere there were personals, men have outnumbered women
disproportionately. I have always wondered why. Any ideas?
Really, women as a whole outnumber men so at least it should
be 50-50. But it looks like it ranges from about 2 men to 1
woman to as high as 10 men to one woman most every place I see.
Obviously, women have ...
3 Comments, 149 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Adult Nursing 1/24/2005
I am wondering if any one here could tell me about adult nursing.
I went out with a man who said he was in to this. He says it's
when you lie across a woman and suckle on her breast for an
extended period of time. Does anyone have any other info
on this ? This was the first time I had heard of it.
1 Comments, 419 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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what should i do 1/24/2005
where do i start , well i'm a married woman and my marriage
has been on rocky ground for awhile and so has my sex life
, for a month now my husband has not gave me any sex and i can't
understand why when before our sex life was awesome and
we all know men just love sex and can't do with out it
. but everyday i'm so horny and thats all i think about
anymore and when i go to bed he just turns ...
13 Comments, 428 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Looking for a photo friend 1/24/2005
I would like to meet up with a person to take some suggestive
errotic photos of me. I have none and am hoping I can get a
person (male/female)to lend me a hand. I like to take pictures
but I am prone to not liking photos of me. If you have talent
with a camera, please drop me a line. Thanks!
2 Comments, 237 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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men and attachment 1/23/2005
I have a question for guys here: now I'm not on here looking
for a relationship, just a friend or two with benefits.
That said, when I am with a man and we are hugging and kissing
sensually, as well as fucking....does he not ever feel
anything toward this woman? I don't expect someone
I spend twelve straight hours with to fall in love with me
or anything- but is it too much to ask that I ...
6 Comments, 545 Views,
15 Votes
,4.36 Score
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No Profile Photo(s) = No Interest 1/23/2005
This should possibly go into "Rants & Raves",
however it would also appear to be good, and much needed
general advice:
<br>
I never cease to be amazed at the number of photo-less profiles.
Probably 2/3 of what the "Cupid" feature returns,
along with at least that many who view our profile or send
mail have not even a single photo in their profile.
<br>
The "Filter" ...
2 Comments, 251 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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Knowing the difference! 1/23/2005
My husband loves to share me with other men. His biggest
turn on is watching me and hearing me as I cum with other men.
And when I'm making love with my husband we can both
feel the love we share for each other. But when I'm with
other men he knows exactly where my heart is and it's
NOT with the other men. There is a BIG difference between
making love and having sex. More people need to ...
2 Comments, 610 Views,
22 Votes
,6.97 Score
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Are you shy? Read this. 1/22/2005
Hi. I just replied to a member who said that they were shy.
I wanted to post something about this topic, because I think
there are a few men and women out here who are shy and can benefit
from what I have to say.
<br>
First, I share your pain. I was terribly shy as a ,
and right up until college. Even today, I can be a bit shy
or quiet.
<br>
But I'm working on ...
3 Comments, 337 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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THE BEST TIME AND PLACE TO MEET A WOMAN. 1/22/2005
Timing and location are important when it comes to meeting
a woman. Now are you guy(s) tired of going to the same places
to try to meet woman Some guy(s) go to the grocery store to
meet woman and some go to bars.For all of you AVERAGE JOES's
out there, I can help increase your odds of meeting(more)woman.
<br>
Lets start out with timing. Why is timing so important when
meeting ...
0 Comments, 549 Views,
24 Votes
,2.79 Score
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need advice 1/22/2005
i am married and sex is a good dream in my house.my sex drive
is very high. should i look for someone new or what?
7 Comments, 455 Views,
14 Votes
,1.38 Score
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how can i shoot a load? 1/22/2005
i know some women might be offended by this but i am just asking
a question. how the hell do some men shoot there load? i know
about the pc muscle and how to contract it but do i do this
before i feel the need to cum or a few seconds before, or do
i hold it in then contract the muscle? just looking for a
hint here anyone?
1 Comments, 549 Views,
16 Votes
,1.95 Score
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Are you shy (Part II) 1/22/2005
Please read Part I first... this part won't make a lot
of sense without it 
<br>
<br>
<br>
Okay... asking someone out. Yikes. If you are like me, this
is the hard part. Yes, it may seem easier online, because
you don't have the butterflies in your stomach (or
not as many). But, you still have the jitters on the first
meeting/ date. I think the reason ...
1 Comments, 229 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Guys looking for bi-girls for threesomes 1/20/2005
I am sure that the majority of couples on this site are looking
for a girl for a threesome. I understand the urge and have
experienced the search and have learned some things. First,
let your girl do the shopping. This is one of the most important
things b/c even if she is chill with you doing it, it will
come back to haunt you afterward. Second, make sure the
rules are set before you ...
4 Comments, 6763 Views,
541 Votes
,5.52 Score
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Be Honest 1/20/2005
I know us guys dont like to be honest w/ women when it comes
to sex. We like to seduce, romance and sweet talk them to
have sex. Most women want to here but sometimes they dont.
I have learned just to be honest. Lots of times I just come
out to women in a smooth intelligent way and let them know,
"Baby I just want wonna fuck, ok" yeah
9 Comments, 2525 Views,
271 Votes
,1.84 Score
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I LOVE OLDER LADY'S 1/19/2005
I am a 44 year old male that thinks older lady's are very
sexy. I find myself looking at them more so then lady's
my own age and would love to find a older lady or couple with
a lady that wants sex. I think soft and gentle is one thing
that makes it so sexy and warm. Would love to hear any ideas
or comments that anyone has to offer....
0 Comments, 205 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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the best way...the Army Way...The Amway... 1/19/2005
Is there a fool-proof way to get some of these damn women
to notice you? I'm thinking that for some of these women,
they would be more impressed with a picture of your wallet
or portfolio, rather than your cock. The cock pictures
are, if I do say so myself, a bit in your face. It's always
amazing to me how much better looking you become when you
have money, i.e-Larry King, Donald Trump. So ...
7 Comments, 367 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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katgurl....here is how it turns out... 1/18/2005
this is how i approach my wife...
<br>
monday...make coffee, breakfast. comment on her looks,
dress, etc. make small talk. go to work. come home, clean
the house, do the dishes, fix supper. (i always ask if there
is something she would like to eat). she comes home, i ask
about her day, give her a peck on the cheek. after supper
i try to sit near, touch her forearm, rub her ...
2 Comments, 145 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Joining a group.... 1/18/2005
There is no better way to meet the neighbors than group sex.
(Of course Southern women can't really do group sex.
Too many thank you notes!). But there are some ground rules
about groups that I think I should share with you.
1)Avoid groups that show up with a lot of bruises and missing
teeth. This may not be a true group; it may be a gang masquerading
as a group. Learn the difference.
...
0 Comments, 115 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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The flat wife was my good guy friend's experience.. 1/18/2005
My best male friend thanked me so much for writing this article
about his fucking flat chested so called 'wife'.She
was, and i emphasize WAS, cold as shit and never cared for
his needs. It doesn't stop there.Her pussy was soooo
hairy he would get lost in her untrimmed bush, when he Tried
to tongue her, he was polite and told her she was great when
he really wanted to ask her to shave that ...
10 Comments, 570 Views,
18 Votes
,1.08 Score
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cumming in my wife's mouth 1/18/2005
My wife loves to suck on my cock but, she don't like it
when I cum in her mouth! What can I do to make her like swallowing
my cum?
9 Comments, 562 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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What am I doing wrong here? 1/18/2005
Hey, help me out. I seem to be running into a series of perpetual
FUBARs when it comes to dating. Seems like every time I meet
a woman online (here or another site), things start going
well: we talk for a bit, e-mail, and then one of two things
happen - either a) she stops talking to me, or b) we arrange
to meet, and I get stood up.
<br>
This is happening waaaay too often. I'm ...
8 Comments, 239 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Fate's sense of humor... 1/17/2005
Ok so I prefer dark humor... shoot me. This may not give you
a laugh but I got a good laugh at my own expense. I seem to have
made it a habit to fall for unavailable men, in one respect
or another.
<br>
On the one hand, I have *Steve, who is fun, funny, intelligent,
interesting, hot as hell, sexy and likes many of the same
things I do. We have a wonderful time together, ...
8 Comments, 205 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Wife needs a fireman...any firemen out there? 1/17/2005
Hi everyone, Need some help. My girlfriend has a fantasy
of having swinging evening with a fireman and his wife/girlfriend.
We live in the Sacramento area and would love to find a couple
that would love an erotic evening with another hot couple.
Please write. Boom
1 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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smokers 1/17/2005
If you are a smoker, please tell us non smokers that you smoke,
it's usually a turn off to us non smokers. when we meet
you for the first time, we want to know what we are getting
into to! and who wants to kiss someone that smells like an
ashtray, yeak! no thanks, I don't care if you look like
Brad Pitt! Besides, you know by now that it's bad for
your health, so quit!!!!
3 Comments, 125 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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oral sex 1/17/2005
i have recently started dating a girl i've known for
a long time. she loves receiving oral sex, could any women
out there give me some advice on giving her oral sex she'll
never forget
4 Comments, 274 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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let's be a bit more creative... 1/17/2005
Why, in all of the erotic stories, does the man have "a
nine or ten inch throbbing cock"? It's usually
the "biggest one Julie had ever seen in her life".
And, of course, "she didn't know if she would
be able to take it all." Come on guys...lets be a little
more creative and less repetitive and generic. Use some
different criteria. Have the guy have "an average
size and semi-flaccid ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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how to foreplay? 1/17/2005
my wife of 30 years has for the last few years been shutting
down on me. for sometime she has not let me touch her breasts,
claiming they hurt. yet when she goes to the doctor for annual
exams she never mentions anything. i went with her a couple
of times and tried to bring it up and she denied having any
pain. yet when we got home, "cant touch" and
won't explain. that's the first problem. ...
8 Comments, 236 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Why do I need a picture.... 1/17/2005
Why do you need to see me? That I don't understand. Most
of our relationship is going to be held in the dark of a cheap
motel room anyway. And besides, looks aren't everything.
Be a little more understanding and forgiving. So I've
been in a few axe fights...I thought scars were suppose
to be sexy.
4 Comments, 194 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Fustrations of Dealing With This Site 1/17/2005
Can anybody tell me if it is possible to cut and paste into
the article writing field, from other programs like MS
Word? I've tried it, but it dosen't seem to work.
Twice now, I've spent several hours writing really
hot fantasies, only to see them disappear when I tried to
post.
Also, they tend to be very detailed and long. Is there a limit
to what is shown when posted, I recall seeing ...
2 Comments, 93 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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good gals bad boys 1/17/2005
Whats up with always seeing very atractive nice girls with
known losers. I meen thats all I see is guys who treat the
girls like crap and they take it. I am an atractive (I've
been told) male who treats women right, not verbably critisizing
them or hitting them, I treat them like queens from taking
them to movies and dinner to opening the car door for them
to you name it the list goes on. ...
1 Comments, 75 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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I'm looking for other 'hot wives'.... know anyone? 1/17/2005
I would really like to find some women who are in a similiar
situation as I am. Which would be that I am married, but my
husband and I both enjoy me sleeping with other guys. But,
he doesn't play. Some people call it cuckolding, some
would call me a hot wife, whatever it is, it's not swinging.
I've been feeling a litle lonely when looking at joining
groups or reading posts. And I can't ...
6 Comments, 1097 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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advice for the lovelorn... 1/17/2005
What exactly is a lovelorn? Is it the opposite of a hatelorn?
(I think that I was married to one of those hatelorns one
time). And if you are lorn, is there a cure? I mean is there
lorn lotion, or lorn elixir? Just wondering about these
things that really matter.
1 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Women's veiws in crossdressing 1/17/2005
I would like to have members supply me with their opinions
on crossdressing. More specific, what do women think about
men wearing lingerie? I am a hetro male that just happens
to have a penchant for lingerie. What are your womens'
views on this? And also, are there any women that would enjoy
helping their man fulfill his feminine desires?
6 Comments, 823 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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how do we judge..... 1/16/2005
How do we judge each other? Our society had become so superficial.
What else could explain the obscentity of "The Swan"?
But on a deeper level, how do we judge each other. Do we use
our eyes or our ears...or our souls? I really think we need
to revamp just how we judge each other, and ourselves for
that matter. It has to be deeper and more substantial. It
has to be more intense and ...
0 Comments, 77 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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What should I do? 1/16/2005
Women,
<br>
should I just be myself or should I be someone totally different???
5 Comments, 110 Views,
9 Votes
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just say no..... 1/16/2005
Just say no, my people, to having sex with Republicans.
They are notoriously selfish people, who are about only
one thing...sticking it to the little man. If you are a little
man, a blue collar man, how can you fuck someone who is steadily,
everyday trying to fuck you. So the next time you get that
quiver in your loins, ask your soon to be fuck partner who
they voted for. It could save your ...
5 Comments, 101 Views,
4 Votes
,0.14 Score
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LIE as much as you can 1/16/2005
OK, you like several women at one time but you are attached.SHE
is always asking you about your time and how you spend it
and who you spend it with. As a female, i say lie your ass off
baby. She will feel no harm, you can feel such fun as you never
dreamed. Just cover your ass and do not let on that she is
in any way not good enough(like your others). Please hear
me-you need a good ...
2 Comments, 172 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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never ever be yourself... 1/16/2005
Never, ever, ever, ever be yourself. In most cases, and
I'm including myself here, we are assholes and bitches.
We can't help it, it's just the way we are. So, no
you don't want that side of you to come out right at the
beginning of a relationship. Save it for the serious times.
Initially become just the opposite of yourself: kind,
considerate, funny, and interested in others. Get your ...
1 Comments, 40 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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How long should i give him? 1/15/2005
I find myself on the receiving end of the cheating spouse.
He contacted me through my ad here. I knew when we met he was
married and it was just for sex. However, things progressed
into a very emotional, electrifying, caring, loving relationship.
We have awesome sex and he tells me he loves me every day,
yet he is still married and says he wants out. She moved out
of state right after ...
22 Comments, 1000 Views,
44 Votes
,4.05 Score
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Bi-Courious or Bi-Sexual??? 1/15/2005
What is the line that seperates you from bi-courious to
bisexual? I am 18 and for the past four weeks or so I have been
having these fellings that are demanding me to try something
new (the new being girl on girl). So i came to Swapfinder.com and i gave
way to what my horomones were asking for thinking that after
i did some experimenting then it would just go away and for
about a week it did leave but ...
3 Comments, 250 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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"I need advise for my profile" 1/15/2005
I need a profile review please. Any and all comments are
welcome. I'm a big boy so be brutally honest. All responses
will be appreciated. I also would like to know if being a
Standard member is a complete waste of time? And are Silver
and Gold members doing any better than I am? Is Swapfinder.com a waste
of time? Any opinions welcome.
1 Comments, 70 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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cheating 1/15/2005
Wife and i have talked about haveing someone come over while
i was working one day she called and told me she was super
horny and asked if she could have someone come over i told
her it was not a real good ideal she had someone come over
any way i had ask her in the past to make a movie if she ever
did it no movie i cant be made at her because i had ask her to
do it awhile back but she told ...
1 Comments, 74 Views,
0 Votes
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cheating???? 1/15/2005
Wife and i have talked about haveing someone come over while
i was working one day she called and told me she was super
horny and asked if she could have someone come over i told
her it was not a real good ideal she had someone come over
any way i had ask her in the past to make a movie if she ever
did it no movie i cant be made at her because i had ask her to
do it awhile back but she told ...
3 Comments, 361 Views,
9 Votes
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How do I get a picture? 1/15/2005
I know I'll get more responses if I have a picture posted
with my profile, and if I respond to someone they'll
want a picutre, but how do I go abut getting one? I'm
single, so I don't have a partner to take one, and my
friends don't know about my interest in this site,
so I can't ask one of them. What can I do?
9 Comments, 239 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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they are not into you 1/14/2005
If someone you are dating doesn't seem to be interested
in you anymore, you should talk to them to find out if they
are still interested in pursuing the relationship, and
don't be afraid of the truth, you know the saying, "the
truth shall set you free"...why be with someone that
doesn't feel the same about you...find someone that
will appreciate you.
0 Comments, 50 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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cheating 1/14/2005
It seems as though cheating on our spouse is so easy today,
mostly because of the internet. If you feel that you have
the need and desire to cheat on your spouse, it's best
to end the marriage. You don't know what is behind that
door, if you meet another person and become romantically
involved, it can develop into something very serious...it
may feel good to fulfull that adventure or ...
6 Comments, 251 Views,
12 Votes
,3.68 Score
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don't ever stare.... 1/14/2005
The next time you are getting a blow job from one of those
self-righteous Republican harpies, and her fucking wig
comes off in your hand while you fucking her chubby cheeks,
please...please...please don't stare. Just let
her finish, let her swallow and then get the HELL out of there.
1 Comments, 111 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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how or when do you say you had enough? 1/13/2005
I've had a trouble marriage for the past 10 years . Partial
due to me being a workaholic and not fully understand what
a woman wants bfore here I was single and been with a lot of
women but never nothing this serious. Anyway now I hear
shes starting to see someone else and that crush me . what
should I do?
2 Comments, 42 Views,
0 Votes
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My wife doesn't like to perform Oral Sex 1/13/2005
My wife and I have been married for 10 years.
I'm 5 yrs older than her, our sex life is ok, but not to
a point where I would like it to be.
<br>
I love Oral Sex, and she does her best to satisfy my needs,
but I would almost have to beg her every time we have sex in
order to get a blow job.
<br>
Can you help.
6 Comments, 148 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Compromises,Trade Offs and Making Right Choices 1/13/2005
One thing I have learned thru my failed marriage is about
compromises, trade offs and making right choices.I put
off going to school and investing in my own business ventures
for years while trying to maintain a failing relationship.I
always kept my eye on the BIG PICTURE of my hopes and dreams
thinking the woman I loved had the same interests and turning
a blind eye to the tell tale signs ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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getting laid 1/13/2005
My husband and I have a great relationship. We even watch
porn together. I found that I was getting very excited watching
the women go at it. Having sex with a woman became my fantasy.
I thought if I came to one of these places I would definately
find someone. 1. ONLY GUYS REPLY 2. ONLY GUYS REPLY. Am I
doing something wrong in here? Check me out and give me some
advise please.
1 Comments, 135 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Where am I going wrong? 1/13/2005
I haven't been a member of this site very long (maybe
about 6 weeks), but in that time of all the people I've
sent emails to, only one has replied. I seem to be having
a lot of trouble meeting people for anything on this site
(be it sex or just getting to know someone) and to be honest
it's a little frustrating because I have absolutely
no idea what I'm doing wrong. I mean, I don't think ...
2 Comments, 217 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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My wife has zero interest in sex. 1/12/2005
Please help me! I am interested to know what can be done to
"jump-start" my wife's libido. We are
in our late 30's and will sometimes go for months, many
months without so much as even a little bit of intimacy.
It is taking its toll on me! If I try to initiate sex, she often
gets mad at the mention of sex. When we are together, it's
as though she just wants me to hurry up and get it ...
7 Comments, 212 Views,
7 Votes
,0.49 Score
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So You Are Middle Aged Couple And In The "Lifestyle" 1/12/2005
You eagerly await each contact that approaches you from
finding your profile here. You have made it what seems to
you to be exciting, with humor and causes interest. You
aren't overweight, much.... You're human and
middle aged it's "Normal" you both are
"Normal" you have so many things to give and
share in a new and so hard to find friendship, experience,
education, love, time and energy ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Don't know the answer.... 1/12/2005
In reading some of the profiles on this supposedly sexual
website, I get a lot of women who just want a good man, and
even a few that mention wanting a good Christian man! I'm
missing something here. Something in this whole concept
is just flying right past my brain. But who am I to judge.
We are all lonely and all need someone to warm those long
lonely nights.
1 Comments, 77 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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don't fuck Republicans.... 1/11/2005
Do not fuck/date Republicans. End of discussion. They
are evil, greedy people and the women are especially priggish
and cruel. But if you ever get a chance to ass-fuck an uptight
Republican woman...DO IT! DO IT! Teach her who is boss.
7 Comments, 278 Views,
12 Votes
,0.86 Score
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Contacts 1/11/2005
I have made several connections her on Swapfinder.com. I've made
some great friends and I've had a great experience,
so far. I have found that several who have contacted me have
told me they want ed to chat and etc. and when I try to chat
with them, they either ignore you or sign off. I am of course
referring to the other instant messenging services out
there. I have not had any luck communicating ...
0 Comments, 175 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Looking for advice from married women who have successfully found sex outside marriage 1/10/2005
I am pursuing the idea of having sex with another man. My
husband is the only man I have ever slept with and I'm
hoping that will change soon. I'm not sure yet if I want
a one-time experience or a fuck buddy. I do know that the
city I live in is small and it feels even smaller when I start
contemplating having sex with another man and no one knowing
about it.
<br>
I would like ...
4 Comments, 283 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Why is it that older women? 1/10/2005
Ok, Why is it that older women don't pay an ounce of attention
to me until they see me with another older women? For instance,
I took a friend of mine to the symphony the other night. A
mutual friend(female) saw us there and told me later that
if she had known that I was interested she would have been.
The truth is I would much prefer and older women to a younger
one. It is not a mommy ...
1 Comments, 106 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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MFM Action 1/10/2005
OK so insted of 2 couples what's wrong with single guys
coming into the relationship, there certainly isn't
any shortage! My girlfriend is 29, slim, sexy, with 32A
bust and long hair, with full lips and doesn't seem
to mind at all pleasing two men. We've done this a few
times and she's always looking at me while sucking
or fucking another man to see if I mind, well to tell you the
truth I ...
1 Comments, 410 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Been here a month and nothing, what do I do ? 1/10/2005
Hi everyone,
I have been here a month now on Swapfinder.com. Living as a seperated
single father I am finding it tough to meet women so I came
to Swapfinder.com to find women to meet. My intentions are to meet women
go out and see where things go from there, no expectations.
Not saying that I am not into one night stands as well, I have
no problem with them, but I'd rather see someone more
than once. I ...
3 Comments, 194 Views,
9 Votes
,5.35 Score
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how big is big 1/9/2005
ladies this is for you can you help me answer this question
how big is a big cock
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
i am 5incheslong 3inches wide and 2 inches thick is that
big
7 Comments, 397 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score
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nude pictures 1/9/2005
I have nude pics on my profile that I paid a photographer
in Maryland to take. I don't get up that way very often
and would like the same type of erotic nude pics taken. I
live in Charlottesville, Virginia and think it would be
cool to find another photographer. Any help?
0 Comments, 73 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Passion Can Be Its Own End... 1/9/2005
I have been somewhat dimayed at times to find so many individuals
on Swapfinder.com seeking that which can be accomplished on any number
of non-adult personals web sites. Understanding the reasons
I personally commited to its use, I also intrinsicly understood
that this (of course)would not be the case for all. So grave
a dispairity however I never anticipated. When one enters
the internal search be ...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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How can a beautiful woman be taken serious? 1/8/2005
Hello all... as you can see from my photos I am very attractive.
My concern is this... I am seeking someone who can compliment,
a man who is as attractive and sexy as I. Instead I am getting
emails from all sorts and I mean sorts that make you say blah!
I did however meet a fine latin man... thought we would have
a spicy latina relationship, but he left with the sauce.
Hmmmm are there ...
7 Comments, 225 Views,
11 Votes
,1.11 Score
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Giving Head 1/8/2005
I want to know what a man really likes when he recieved oral
sex..I want responses from men only
29 Comments, 1133 Views,
43 Votes
,6.94 Score
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help me please 1/7/2005
i need help from who ever i can get it from im 18 and i need to
know how do i know what a girl wants or not and how long do i
have to stay a virgin help me please
5 Comments, 107 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Overcoming sexual hinderances 1/7/2005
My wife is so uptight in bed that she just lays there and doesn't
do anything but jack me off and let me fuck her. i perform
oral on her all the time and make her cum but she will not return
the favour or try new things. how can i approach her so as
not to put her on the defensive and get her to try new things.
I don;t think I am being unreal wanting oral sex, to try anal
as well as ...
4 Comments, 213 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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YOUNGER MEN/OLDER WOMAN 1/7/2005
I LOVE OLDER WOMEN! IF THEY'RE MARRIED IT'S EVEN
BETTER. MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WAS WITH MY FATHER'S COUSIN
FROM GERMANY. SHE WAS 41 AND I WAS 18. WHY IS IT SO HARD TO HIND
WOMWEN IN THEIR 60'S AND 70'S TODAY? ANY IDEAS
WHERE TO FIND WILLING OLDER (MARRIED PREFERED) WOMEN IN
THE WESTCHESTER, METRO NY AREA?
0 Comments, 239 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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head games 1/7/2005
Well, I had my first bi experence the other nite. I really
thought that it was going to be more enjoyable than it was.
While I must consider that my first time might not be that
great, due to inexperence itself, I was not prepared for
the mental part of it all. It really does tend to play with
your head, (no pun intended), and make you question a
lot about your self. mentaly, & moraly. Yes ...
3 Comments, 274 Views,
15 Votes
,4.66 Score
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Some photo advice for the guys and gals!! 1/7/2005
Sorry but some of the people here on Swapfinder.com need to re-think
their profile pictures.
<br>
Ladies let me tell you, there is nothing finer than a sweet
pussy and a great looking picture of a good looking one is
always nice but some of you just don't fit into that
category. Ladies sorry to say but some of you just don't
need to be showing that off.
<br>
And guys, let ...
0 Comments, 117 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Big penis in pics 1/6/2005
OK guys so you have a big penis , IS ThAT all you have to offer?
Do you really think that`s what is going to atract women
? Based on comments from women they don`t give you guys a
second look . Do you tell all your potential dates that you
have a big penis and they just fall over themseves to get
in your pants? Maybe thats so, there seems to be a lot of women
who specifically ask for a big ...
1 Comments, 83 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Help! 1/6/2005
If you are a couple, if you are in love, if you are intelligent,
if you have a great sense of humor, if you are in the greater
Los Angeles and O.C. areas, if you are serious about swapping
and if you hate liars. PLEASE! Please contact us. No! seriously
PLEASE contact us.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Seeking to satisfy intense desires 1/6/2005
I am sure that I am not the first to ask but this is a first for
me. I have never been with another woman. Nor, have I been
with any other man except my husband of 17 years. We are now
seeking another woman to join us for discreet adult pleasures.
I am not quite sure what to expect or how I will feel when it
actually happens. When I fantasize about it, it's
extremely hot and satisfying. I ...
1 Comments, 175 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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Chat rooms 1/6/2005
I have told people this in answers to questions and replies
to articles, but I feel the need to put my own article in here,
just to put an exclamation at the end of my sentence. I can
not stress enough the importance of the chat rooms towards
one's Swapfinder.com experience. Sure, the premium memberships
help some, because they allow you to see pics and initiate
contact, but the best way to find ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Political animals/symbols? 1/6/2005
Okay, I realize that this might not be the proper venue for
such a discussion, but I'm just curious what fellow
freaks like me have to say on the issue. I do not feel that
the Republicans won this year's election; I believe
that the Democrats lost it, and that all comes down to two
words: Karl Rove. The Republican strategist perfectly
marketed the Bush/Cheney campaign, from its pro-Bush ...
2 Comments, 44 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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do breast enlargement pills work? 1/6/2005
My girlfriend would really like to inprove her breast size
from an A cup to a B cup. She has a great body and I think she
looks great and I like her A cup (why would you need more than
a mouth full?) but she says she will feel better about herself
if she gets larger breasts.
The thing is she wants to buy herself inplants and I would
rather not see her go threw the pain and fakeness of ...
4 Comments, 140 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The Survival Against Yourself 1/6/2005
The survival against yourself
The theory of a person’s life, is what has been installed
in them during its early stages of there life, from how they
react, behave and communicate etc. during there life.
So therefore the surroundings and teachers are the deciding
factor in how a person’s life will develop. This is not a
new discovery, but a vital ingredient in my theory.
...
0 Comments, 121 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Points for the poor 1/6/2005
I've already talked about what a help it can be toward
one's Swapfinder.com experience to use the chat rooms here. Now,
I'd like to take a little time to talk about another
way people can help themselves achieve better results
from Swapfinder.com: the points system.
<br>
We all know there are limits with the free standard membership.
We are only allowed a certain number of profile views and ...
2 Comments, 90 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score
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Hey, voters! What's the score? 1/6/2005
This article has been cut & pasted from a question I
asked, but I'm wondering which part of the magazine,
questions or articles, is viewed more. That's why
I am putting it here, too. Without any further ado ...
<br>
I have a question for everyone who votes on the articles
and advice questions: what's the deal with the scoring?
First off, how does Swapfinder.com come up with its numbers, ...
2 Comments, 62 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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opinions PLEASEEEE 1/6/2005
Why is it that when the question about marriage some folks
say separated but still r married, separted but still
doing the wife, and heres my favorite single but still
doing the soon 2 b x-wife her sister and their neighbor....what
cant u say u r separted and r and divorced and r and single
but really r?? I have been on this fun site 4 almost a year
and i have made more friends(chatting)and ...
2 Comments, 73 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Dont get mad and upset 1/6/2005
Hey guys and girls,
<br>
Over the past few weeks I have talked with several different
members who were really getting flustered because it seems
no one will back up what they talk about in their communications.
Please dont get upset. We are for real and will back up anything
we say. but alot of others do not mean to "lie"
about things they say or things they would like to do.At ...
0 Comments, 151 Views,
15 Votes
,4.51 Score
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Help! I'm so lonely. 1/5/2005
I live with my and their dad but we are not in a relationship.
<br>
The problem is I want to find someone else but am worried
that I'll have problems due to, being still overweight
from having my , because I have very young
and beacause I still live with their dad, no-one seems to
understand that we aren't in a relationship, we are
in seperate rooms and only live toghether so we ...
5 Comments, 224 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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barebacking vs ejaculation 1/4/2005
I noticed in one recent question regarding barebacking,
that the majority of responders posted negative comments.
Yet many of them confess to oral preferences. Do you feel
that oral sex with out condoms is ok? or is it a good idea to
use condoms when going down on someone?
1 Comments, 179 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Getting wife to like lingerie/toys 1/4/2005
Just a quick question what is the best way to get the wife
interested in toys and lingerie? Some say surpise her with
a toy. Some have said take her to the store. I have asked her
but she does not seem super excited. Maybe I am just being
to reserved and she is saying yes but I am expecting her to
hit me over the head and say lets go right now. What have some
of you people done when ...
1 Comments, 71 Views,
0 Votes
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Write better, not more. 1/4/2005
This is a reply I wrote to a message I recently received,
with some advice on how to get noticed and replied to. Others
may find it useful.
<br>
<br>
<br>
It's been two days. That may seem like a while to you,
but not so much, on this side of the equation. I don't
know how long you've been on Swapfinder.com, but you should realize
that Wisconsin currently has 92, 294 men ...
0 Comments, 119 Views,
14 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Onsite sex parties.... 1/4/2005
Hey everyone! We hear that some people are nervouse about
attending on site parties due to the assumed presure to
get naked and have sex. We know for a fact that at alot of these
places there are dance floors and bars with in these events.
If you choose not to partake in the sex you dont have to you
can choose to just socialize in the rest of the areas. If
you choose to just have sex with ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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how to fit inside asshole? 1/4/2005
im a bit embarassed to be posting this... but im seeing this
girl... who wants to have anal sex with me.... but my cock
wont fit inside her asshole.. we've tried lubricating
it, sliding in fingers to expand hole, etc but didnt work....
its not even close to fit.. any advice?
4 Comments, 227 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Im really sonfused and lost sexually 1/4/2005
Hey everybody im 18 bi-curious horny wild and a virgin.
I have a question for all u ppl. Everytime when I become horny
and hard I become really slutty and want to do it with everyonegirls
BBW women and want to get fucked by guys like lots of guys
with nice cock or TS/TV/TG and fantises about it and even
fantises about my mom (she is married dad lives with us,
she 43 5'5 thick body 40c tits ...
2 Comments, 140 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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How do you approch a couple 1/4/2005
Hi, I am new to swining and I was wanting some advice on how
to approch a couple on the frist meeting?
0 Comments, 47 Views,
0 Votes
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Pubic grooming 1/3/2005
A little input from the ladies. Do you prefer your man to
be trimmed, shaved or natural with the pubic hair?
0 Comments, 35 Views,
0 Votes
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7 inches or bigger for my wife 1/3/2005
I'm looking for someone who can help me find anyone
who has a cock that's 7 inches or bigger for my wife!
The other day while I was fucking her she, said that my cock
felt like it was smaller than the last time we fucked...So,
I asked her if she wanted a bigger cock next time and she asked
where would I find one! Told her that if she needed a big cock,
I try and find her one for her. Is ...
0 Comments, 162 Views,
2 Votes
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The truth about women 1/3/2005
We are a rare breed that fights amongst ourselves yet will
protect each other also. Women can be a million times more
manipulative than a man ever dreamed of being. Men are generally
with a woman for about one of six different reasons.
1. Love
2. Sex
3. Money
4. Companionship
5. Someone to care for them
6. A combination of all of the above.
<br>
Now with almost no ...
0 Comments, 120 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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What am I missing 1/2/2005
I have been married for over 15 years. When we had our ,
my wife's role changed from wife to mother. I am no longer
part of her priorities. I work two jobs so she can be home
with the . I offer full support with household duties.
I try to be there for her at all times. I have planned outings
for us or for her with friends, but they are always cancelled
because the need her. No matter what ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
0 Votes
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Shave or Wax? 1/2/2005
I am thinking about going hair-free for the first time.
Ladies, which do you recommend, shaving or waxing? Waxing
sounds pretty painful, but shaving sounds like it would
be very itchy and hard to keep up...
7 Comments, 556 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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Holiday Joy for Your Man 1/1/2005
Hopefully my lady freinds aren't the only women in
the world who believe in both, giving and receiving. This
suggestion is for the ladies. The closer the holidays come,
the more stress we're all under. To combat this, stop
and pick up a naughty Mrs. Claus out fit and put it on the next
time your St. Dick comes over. Ambiance is key, so make a
romantic presentation. Having a candlelit, ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
0 Votes
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Proof of Purchase(The gift that keeps on giving) 1/1/2005
Gift certificates are usually given when: a) you're
pressed for time or b) you have little to no creativity in
the gift-giving department. Well, here is a way to present
a gift certificate to your loved one while rendering the
aforementioned reasons inapplicable. In just about any
stationary or gift wrapping store, you can get gift certificates
customized according to your own description. ...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
0 Votes
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For the Ladies(Christmas Desert is Served) 1/1/2005
Now ladies, two of your favorite things in the world are
food and gifts. So why not incorporate the two with some
help from Frederick's of Hollywood? Not only do they
offer a wide variety of intimate apparel for men and women,
they also offer Body Treats from their Boudoir Cafe. Their
Gourmet Body Painting Kit is available in several flavors,
including the ladies favorite: chocolate. You ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
0 Votes
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Another Holiday Jewel(Rub-A-Dub Dub) For the Fellas 1/1/2005
I gotta lady freind who's kinda weird. She gets aroused
when she sees eggnog. "I automatically think of soaking
in a bathtub full of it. It's so creamy and thick, and
tastes sooo good!!!", she states. Now, her fantasy
may not be common place, but me personally, I think a warm
bath with your lover is a relaxing and sensual way to deck
the halls. Besides setting the atmosphere with ...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
0 Votes
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Creating the Perfect Porn Set 1/1/2005
So let's just say that your little romantic getaway
is only ten feet from the living room. That's ok. You
can turn your bedroom into a love palace with a few simple
steps:
<br>
1. Replace your light bulb with a red one. The color red is
commonly associated with sex, so it's a step in the
right direction.
<br>
2. Music is key when trying to create the atmosphere. ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
0 Votes
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Creating the Perfect Porn Set 1/1/2005
So let's just say that your little romantic getaway
is only ten feet from the living room. That's ok. You
can turn your bedroom into a love palace with a few simple
steps:
<br>
1. Replace your light bulb with a red one. The color red is
commonly associated with sex, so it's a step in the
right direction.
<br>
2. Music is key when trying to create the atmosphere. ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
0 Votes
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bi sex 1/1/2005
i am a bi sexual sub i like cpls. the biggest problem is married
guys just want to have sex in private they don't seem
to want there wifes to know. i like being used in front of
the wives to.
2 Comments, 338 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Three years sex starvation 1/1/2005
Well, I have been married now for 7 years.
I actually didn't marry my wife for love. She was disabled
even then 8 years ago, and got exploited (financially,
not sexually) by a whole bunch of people. It disgusted me,
married her a year later and kicked out all those leeches.
Unfortunately, I started to find out a lot of lies later
on.
This is really the reason for me to join Swapfinder.com.
...
0 Comments, 86 Views,
2 Votes
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Approches 1/1/2005
This is kind of silly but I was wondering what is the best
way to approach women in social scenes... breaking the
ice and such at bars/clubs any advice from Women or men would
be appreciated
Thanks
1 Comments, 72 Views,
0 Votes
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Cock Ring ? Need help 12/31/2004
What type of cock ring would some one suggest. I have heard
about them, never worn one and want to save time but getting
a good one the first time
1 Comments, 114 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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stalled sex in relationship 12/30/2004
OKay, this is merely my opinion on the matter.We have met
a lot of couples who say there sex life has slowed down or
it sucks. I am a 30 year old man , married almost 10 years now.
Our sex life slowed for bit like others. Ours got back on
track when we let go of inhibitions and stopped being shy
and emabarrased about what we wanted sexually.We started
sharing our fantasies with one another, ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Giving women oral sex 12/30/2004
Something new to try, Learn Morse code and spell out things
on your woman's clit. You can always start with the
basic S-O-S which is ...---...
Do that faster and faster. All those dots and dashes smacking
her will have her launching her own distress.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
0 Votes
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Learning how to please a woman 12/29/2004
Sex is like good wine...You need time to savoury and appreciate.
First sexual encounter is always a bit nervous and apprehensive
so not really the best sex...It will improve when (if) you
learn a lot more about each other's body and mind.
<br>
Where to touch, how kiss (two inches of tongue in my mouth
sounds horrid to me. What to say and when to say to please
and get the best for ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
9 Votes
,5.78 Score
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Straight or Gay; caution, don't mix them up 12/29/2004
Alright, I'm sure I'm not the only one that this
has happened to but it bears mentioning. For you Gays...
If I am listed as a male seeking a female then don't try
to contact me... I'm not interested in a male so don't
think you can persuade me or other straight men otherwise.
Look for someone that has the same intentions as you. Don't
come over to the straight side looking for your kind ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
0 Votes
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Married, but looking? 12/29/2004
Hi there,
<br>
Is it wrong for married people who are not satisfied sexually
by their partner to go looking elsewhere to find that fulfillment.
<br>
I'm curious cause I've been married 18yrs and
have never had a good sex life. I have never cheated on my
wife or thought of it until I discovered this site.
<br>
<br>
I await what others say with interest.
...
4 Comments, 102 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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WHAT THE F*CK 12/29/2004
I need some help in figuring out what I should do about my
current situation. I am married and was looking for some
extra, on the side, fun. I found it with an amazing man. We
have come to care very deeply for one another which is something
neither of us had wanted or expected due to my circumstance.
Lately he has become rather jealous of my husband as occassionally
he asks if I have given ...
7 Comments, 136 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Testical Cancer 12/29/2004
I have had one testical removed due to cancer. Everthing
works fine though and I am still fertile. Is this likely
to concern a female sexual partner?
0 Comments, 59 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Men who think they can do it as well as a woman... 12/28/2004
I have posted an ad seeking a female playmate and yet I keep
getting responses from men who say they can do it as well
as a woman, Sorry guys only a woman can lick a pussy like a
woman likes to have it licked. Who would know better than
a woman.......
3 Comments, 35 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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How to shave 12/27/2004
My wife wants me to shave my balls smouth. How do I go about
it. I have them trimed with some elictric clipers but that
leavs stubble and wife doesnt like that. My ball sack has
a lot rinckles and I am scard to use a razer on them. Or can
I. Anybody have any sugestions.
5 Comments, 209 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Rules for Meeting/Dating Online 12/27/2004
From meeting people this way, I have gotten to understand
a few things. While they are common sense to most, you would
be surprized.... and I thought I would share them with you,
as follows:
<br>
1. Not everyone will be attracted to everyone else... learn
to take rejection and to give it without being rude.
<br>
2. There is always someone else that the person you are ...
4 Comments, 144 Views,
45 Votes
,7.83 Score
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What makes a lady more adventurous? 12/27/2004
I'd like to direct this mostly to ladies who had reservations
about swinging in the past, but are now open to it. I'm
curious about what happened in your attitude and thinking
that made it OK for you to do it. My fiancee has some moral
issues about it, and I'm not pressuring her. But she
does respond very excitedly when going down on me and I talk
about someone fucking her doggy at the same ...
2 Comments, 49 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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How to pick the one? 12/27/2004
Dear All,
<br>
I am an ancient Asian going to be antique (haven't been
dating for so long I almost forgot how to handle one). I am
skepticle about this sort of thing since I haven't
met anyone from this exciting site before.
<br>
I am ancient because I think having sex should start from
getting to know each other for a while until you both think
that the chemistry does ...
4 Comments, 66 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score
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Some advice please 12/27/2004
Well, I just registered and I paid my dues for a three-month
silver membership. I am attempting to get some company
for a day or two before I head back home. Unfortunately the
forums here are so asininely organized and moderated that
I cannot find decent information on this subject, without
wallowing for hours in the slow as molasses forums, so I
must waste your time here by asking for ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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veiwing profiles 12/26/2004
im a standard member, but sometimes when i get an email or
a wink or even when im searching sometimes, it lets me view
the profile, but most of the time it doesnt, does neone know
why this is? is it an error or something? because id like
to know how im veiwing them occasionaly if im a standard
member
1 Comments, 42 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Penis Pumps and how it affects attitude 12/26/2004
Due to my ignoring my diabetes for years, i finally had to
have a penile pump installed in order to get an erection.
As a woman, how would you feel about a man that has to use something
like that in order to get hard? I mean all of the spontaneous
sex is now gone. Once you get started going, both have to
stop in order to get it pumped up to play.
2 Comments, 84 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Size 12/26/2004
What is the general standard for measuring penis length?
I assume it is erect from the tip to base along the top (dorsal)
edge. Right?
1 Comments, 77 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Oral Sex 12/25/2004
With all the women I've had sex with over the years,
I've only met one who didn't like oral sex. When
I attempted to go down on her, she pushed me away and when
I asked her to go down on my she said no way. Sex with her was
just the plain old missionary style. She wouldn't
even let me play with her pussy or clit, just climb on board,
dump a load and get on off. Over the course of 7 years we ...
2 Comments, 34 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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Be careful little dick where you go... 12/24/2004
Actually, I just wanted to write this as a warning to others
to be careful who you chose as a 'third' party.
I am thinking of two different encounters that turned out
badly for both couples involved. In both instances, it
was a fantasy of the man to have a threesome with his girlfriend
and another woman. In both instances the woman chose the
'other woman' and they chose a close friend that ...
5 Comments, 465 Views,
54 Votes
,5.80 Score
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Can I have some advice on how to get the best out of this site as I am new to this? 12/23/2004
I have writer this article to see what people think of my
profile, as I have had no luck at meeting or chatting to any
one on this site. I joined Swapfinder.com around 4 months ago as a way
to meat new people for some sexy fun, as I am quite shy when
it comes to chatting up girls. But I seam to be blanked by
every one I get in contact with. I have tried sending nice
simple emails asking if they would ...
5 Comments, 204 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Should I say goodbye? 12/23/2004
I've had an on-line relationship with a lady who lives
4 hours away. It has been on-going for over two years. We
are able to meet several times during the year but mostly
it's communicating by telephone. Four weeks ago,
she met a local man and is seing him two or three times each
week. They go out to dinner and he takes her to movies and
stageplays. Should I try to compete for her attention ...
8 Comments, 279 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Obese Lady 12/23/2004
My problem is that I married a girl that I loved and although
she was curvy when we married (I like a few curves) she has
now become obese. We separated around 2 months ago after
16 years of marriage. The trouble is that I don't find
rolls of fat particulatly attractive, especially when
I take the trouble to keep in shape. We still had great sex
but I could only bring myself to do it every ...
15 Comments, 357 Views,
18 Votes
,1.90 Score
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How to Become a Great Pussy Licker - Resources 12/22/2004
Here is a short list of valuable training guides to giving
a woman great pleasure by performing oral sex on her:
1. DVD by Nina Hartley - Cunninglugus
2. Book by Kim Cattrall(Sex in the City) Satisfaction.
Check out the "Basic Position" and related
sections.
3. Book by ?author - She Comes First
Hot Lover's Tip - Don't be afraid to ask. Have her
show and tell.
<br>
...
2 Comments, 124 Views,
8 Votes
,0.47 Score
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Gen Advice 12/22/2004
Remember that Swapfinder.com's Terms of Use must
be observed here. If you see anything inappropriate for
Swapfinder.com, please contact our abuse teamRemember
that Swapfinder.com's Terms of Use must be observed
here. If you see anything inappropriate for Swapfinder.com,
please contact our abuse teamRemember that Swapfinder.com's
Terms of Use must be observed here. If you see ...
2 Comments, 85 Views,
9 Votes
,1.50 Score
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First Date and the Fun Part 12/22/2004
Hi boy's and girls ,
<br>
i would like to know from you some do's an dont's
.... on the first encounter.
<br>
for example i found out that oral sex is fine even for the
first time , but when it comes to different sexual position
it's mostly for the first time only the missionary
.
<br>
You might be asking why , simple reason is in my opinion that
you have ...
3 Comments, 106 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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What is your advice, Women?? 12/22/2004
I am a bit frustrated. I wonder why women tend to have sex
first night with other woman then never get in touch again
when they lie say they loved it and wwants to stay in touch
with me. One even asked if we could get in touch and regularly
play and turn off profiles. I agreed, but discovered she
betrayed afterwards by not getting in touch with me all
of sudden.
<br>
Then ...
2 Comments, 121 Views,
13 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Fucking for free 12/22/2004
I think that a guy should be able to fuck anyone for free as
fuck buddies. Its ok if the girl agrees to it.
8 Comments, 214 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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avoiding repeats 12/22/2004
I would like to ask that we all becareful and notice whom
we are contacting through winks and messages. I received
one around three months ago and meet the gentleman, we have
had a on again off again thing going. Yesterday while checking
my messages, after I have avoided him for a month, low and
behold. The saddest part was being an engineer you would
think that he could come up with ...
1 Comments, 254 Views,
21 Votes
,2.75 Score
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to shave or not to shave, an informal poll 12/21/2004
Ladies, do you like your men's pubic hair shaved/trimmed
or do you like it natural? My experience is yall like it shaved.
Also, any advice on the best techniques for shaving down
there for guys? it's a pain in the ass.. haha
8 Comments, 233 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Sore neck? 12/19/2004
I used to suffer from a sore neck when I would go down on my
wife. I had heard many remedies for this but none worked.
I finally found something that works, and solicits interaction
from her. When I start to feel my neck start to stiffen, I
turn so that I'm laying on my side and my wife rolls with
me. Now I can rest my head on her inner thigh and just go to
town. Now, from this ...
4 Comments, 53 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Webcam 12/18/2004
Hello all. Ijust bought a webcam. It works fine on the desktop
but Its a black screen when I tranmit on Swapfinder.com. Anybody have
any ideas how to fix this problem? Thanks
0 Comments, 14 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Hey ladies! Non smoker or prefer not to say? Does this matter? 12/17/2004
I have recently updated my profile and would like to know
if a non-smoking guy would turn off women who smoke? Or should
I leave it as "prefer not to say"? Non-smokers
are usually the ones that would be turned off by smokers,
but it makes no difference to me. I don't want to have
someone reject my profile b/c they thought I smoked, but
I also don't want to get rejected b/c they thought I ...
3 Comments, 49 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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What do you think? 12/17/2004
Hey there all. I am sort of new here and I was just wondering
how well you think my personal ad is and do you think it needs
improvment or do you think that I would get any good responses
from some friendly ladies?
0 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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What do you ladies think of male2male sex 12/17/2004
For many many years I have fantasises about sexual fun with
another guy. I did a little oral when I was in my teens but
now I am on my own and free to be more adventurous. I get nervous
about how I will feel about myself but do get very excited
at the thought.
<br>
What should I do ?
<br>
I adore the female sex but I would like to know what ladies
think of a guy who ...
2 Comments, 190 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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Call the plumber! 12/17/2004
I recently had my first man/man experience and it was amazing.I
came once, and that was it.Usually I can climax at least
two or three times.I was really nervous, but I did manage
to come once, so what the hell?The guy I was with came like
a volcano three times and probably could have gone another
round.He was offended that despite his efforts, I was
unable to get off.It felt great, but it ...
3 Comments, 115 Views,
17 Votes
,3.13 Score
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photo's and size 12/17/2004
I have a couple of questions 1) what sort of photo's
are the ladies looking for ? 2) I've always wanted to
know how you are supposed to measure the size of one's
penus? is it from the top (looking down) or as i have recently
been informed from the base?
5 Comments, 74 Views,
11 Votes
,0.92 Score
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threesomes 12/17/2004
How can I introduce my wife in having a threesome? She's
not sure if she wants to do it or not! I had a threesome(mfm)
and the girl enjoyed every minute of it! And I'm sure
that my wife will like it too! If, she gives it a try...So,
how do I get her to have a threesome? Can anyone tell me what
to do?
3 Comments, 158 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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