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Inside the female mind...need help 4/15/2004
I have never been able to read "signals", for
lack of a better word, that a woman is interested in me (or
not).
<br>
I know that you can't group all women in a single category;
they all react differently. I believe that there are some
pretty common indicators that a woman is interested in
you, and for some reason I have never been able to tell.
<br>
I remember going ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
7 Votes
,5.84 Score
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Swapfinder.com ? No Find. 4/15/2004
My journey with Swapfinder.com has been far more frustrating than any
other venture for a adult relationship I have tried. Invite
with no answers. Come into my network with no interest.
Send e-conversations and then poof!
Thousands of member that do not visit ever again. This is
another E ripoff. They are also associated with or are Passion.com
or Eroticy.Com which have similar results. Wish the best ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
9 Votes
,6.42 Score
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Re:Falling for 3some partner 4/15/2004
Whenever you come into a threesome what has happened is
always on the cards and should have been discussed with
your orginal partner beforehand. Now it has happened,
you will need to think very carefully what it is you want
from life and the relationship with the new partner. If
it is still go then woo her to see if the chemistry is there
strong enough for the two of you to stand/enjoy the ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Re:Why is it... 4/15/2004
Mexi, stay at it, being Gold you have the oopportunity to
look into the profiles of those that contact you and to contact
those you think might be interesting. Bad news that the
guy the was of the right age, was not interested, you are
so right to get to know a prospective partner before advancing
further. You must be sure that between you you will meet
each others needs. Good luck in ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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RE: Why is it? 4/15/2004
First off I have not found a site yet that shows you the age
range of the person you are viewing. That leads to
<br>
Second, if I am within a year or 2 (depending on the age spread)
I would contact you, in the off chance that you would be willing
to extend your options just a little.
<br>
The thing that really gets me about the "age range"
question, is that most ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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How do I meet people on this site??? 4/14/2004
Hi I am a Very attractive young male (23) from vancouver
and I am having a hard time finding couples and single females.
What should I do????? Basically I am asking for some advice
from some couples and single females on what they look for
on this site..
<br>
<br>
thanks stilllooking247
0 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Ladies what dildos are the best? 4/14/2004
My girlfiend and I have played with a few dildos, but they
all seem to agrivate her skin. We have fun until it hurts
her. I have heard other girls say the same thing.
We have tried cyberskin, condoms and always use lots of
lube. Is there a dildo that is made from a better material?
Is there another answer? Or should we just give up that kind
of play?
0 Comments, 226 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Different women, different situations 4/14/2004
Okay, here's the deal. I have one woman who is married
but wants a no-strings relationship with me. So, in other
words, sex all the time.
But another woman who is younger just wants to date, and
she is not into kinky stuff and doesn't know I use this
site, etc.
Should I get some cheap sex from the married lady first,
then start the serious relationship, or just pick one and
go with it?
0 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Ratings 4/13/2004
Hey ladies, you like to be rated and for the most part they
are all good, plus you erap the benefits of more points.
Guess what, the guys would appreciate the same courtesy.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Advice for Newbies--Definitions of popular terms 4/13/2004
Safe sex= Bring a baseball bat!
Athletic= Sumo Wrestler
Athletic= Can chew gum while giving head
Open-Minded= Will fuck a skunk
Dark Pictures= Probably not "eye candy"
We aren't Ken&Barbie= We are gargoyles
We are Ken&Barbie= Just ask my mother
See pics= Oh! Did you mean of us?
Well-endowed= Inherited major cash
Well-travelled= Like 40 miles of bad road
Well-travelled= ...
1 Comments, 25 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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where has the forplay gone???? 4/13/2004
what happened to having long nights of foreplay before
intercourse? dont get me wrong some nights you just want
to get down to the nitty gritty, but over the past couple
of girls i dated none of them really knew what proper foreplay
was all they knew how to do was screw and even that had some
to be desired. i might be weird but i believe foreplay can
sometimes be better than sex, and you ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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come see my free photos...... yeah right 4/13/2004
the most replies that i have recieved are by girls who are
like i am so glad that you wrote me... yata yata yata, here
is my personal web site, yata yata yata, come see my free
photos, ,, , then it asks for a credit card number.. what
the hell i paid enough for the damn site i am not gonna pay
to go see another one... figure it out and dont try to trick
people into paying more to see what ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Why Middle aged guys go out with 25 year olds. 4/13/2004
Ok I am a geezer. I am 46 but look about 35. I am happly married
and my wonderful wife lets me swing. She is not into it at
all any more. Says most of the guys we met at clubs were lousy
and could not keep it up. She did like the ladies however.
So I am out playing the field online, socially and dating
bars. I realy like women my age and older. Are the ladies
I meet in my age group charming ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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reply to Masterbation how to make it better 4/12/2004
Take a disposable douche and fill it 3/4 way full of warm
water while in the shower, then squeeze out the excess air
and then put the top back on. You'll be suprised at how
good it feels. When your done squeeze out the water and no
one will know the differ.
1 Comments, 186 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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How does a 23yo go about getting a 30-40year? 4/12/2004
I'm a young 23yo who loves older woman! I do I go about
getting an older woman? Do older woman like younger men?
Does maturity come into it or do some like younger and some
like older? Is there a sure fire way a young man can score
with an older gal? Please give some advice, cos I would love
to attract a mature woman.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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For Women - What's The Best Approach For Replying To Ads? 4/12/2004
I'm a new member and I've networked some very lovely
ladies in my local area. About twenty or so have accepted
me as a netorking friend. Should I browse and search for
matches? Or should I stick to the Networking list? It seems
to me that the women that have accepted are interested in
my profile and like what they see. I don't want to waste
time cold contacting people I don't know ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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He doesnt understand my free love. 4/12/2004
My boyfriend and I have amazing sex! Its really great, all
the time. But Id like it to get a little more wild and intense.
Id like to add more people. Have some fun you know? Ive done
all this type of stuff before, but he hasnt. Hes afraid that
Ill run off with someone, or enjoy them more. Or he might
just be afraid of losing me. Its not that I dont have those
same thoughts, but I trust him ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Re: Do women want to see? 4/12/2004
I can't speak for all women, but I myself would like
to see a picture of both. It really doesn't matter to
me which picture I see first, but in order to actually even
think about meeting a man, I definitely need to see a face
pic.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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What is it with all of the fakes on here 4/12/2004
Why is it when I had my gold memebership I only seemed to email
the women that were here for bulk mailing.. TO sponsor there
website and not on here to find sex... I had a very difficult
time when I had my gold membership.. HOw can I prevent this
from happening??????
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Good Ways to warm her up 4/12/2004
Foreplay is necessary to a good time, you should try a lot
of patting, touching, fondling etc. also try sucking on
her nipples and neck her, slowly kiss down to her clit and
dont rush
0 Comments, 1 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Ladies, make best use of your special asset, pussy juice... 4/11/2004
Women have what men want...delicious ass holes, long hot
tongues for licking cock shafts, sweet nipples for chewing,
tight pussies for cock squeezing, etc. but, to my amazement,
they rarely use their ultimate weapon to get what they want...They
do not use their pussy juice effectively!!!!!!
<br>
So, ladies, if you wish to totally control your man, institute
the following reward ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
196 Votes
,6.02 Score
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deprivedwomen.com 4/11/2004
A lot of responses I get from women on Swapfinder.com say that there real
email and information is on a site named deprivedwomen.com.
It requies a cyberage membership, but every time I use my
cyberage password, it takes me to a different site. Can
someone help me out here please?
0 Comments, 1 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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epilated pussy 4/11/2004
Shaving can be bristly and dangerous on super-delicate
pussy areas, waxing is messy and time-consuming. If you
can deal with the pan of waxing, try an epilator. It looks
like an electric razor but pulls the hair from the root as
you go, so you're in total control and it goes with the
contours of your body. The results are smooth and it’s easy
to manage. Just be careful if you're ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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So You Can’t have an Orgasm or Rarely Can, Here is a possible FIX! 4/11/2004
So You Can’t have an Orgasm or Rarely Can, Here is a FIX
<br>
Many women are afraid to admit they have trouble having
an orgasm or multiple orgasms.
<br>
This is a very normal thing if a woman has not really taken
the time to see how she herself can please her body in her
own comfortable setting and ALONE.
<br>
Less than 1 percent according to recent ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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what to do if your partners not willing? 4/11/2004
i have a big problem with my fiance'. we have been together
for over 2 yrs now and our sex life has become an unfunny joke.
in the begining we fucked all the time and it lasted for at
least an hour. now i am lucky to get a ten minute quicky once
a month. i have tried everything that i can think of to get
him interested but he does not pay any attention. his line
of thinking is that a ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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help with my ratings 4/10/2004
i cant c my rating can any one tell me what they are please
0 Comments, 2 Views,
81 Votes
,5.68 Score
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The Benefits Of Having At Least One Relationship With An Older Man In Your Lifetime 4/10/2004
The Benefits Of Having At Least One Relationship With An
Older Man In Your Lifetime
<br>
It should be noted that is works both ways, older woman younger
man. Just the experience of being with someone older can
be very insightful; it can show you a different kind of sexual
relationship.
<br>
This is not to say that same age relationships are bad, what
I am saying is ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
101 Votes
,8.30 Score
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Sexy ways to thrill your man 4/10/2004
Some sexy ways to thrill your man
1.Read from a sexy novel and make eye contact when you hit
a dirty word
2.Multitask during sex.When my girlfreind is on top, she'll
massage my chest to the rythm of her grinding
3.Put the condom on me. It's such a turn on to see you
prepare me that way
4.Swirl your tongue around the tip of my penis, and then
without warning take all of me in your ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
88 Votes
,8.37 Score
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Re: Being more showered 4/10/2004
Does your husband realise that if he keeps on the way he is
going he will push you towards your wish for female experience
where gals are clean, good smelling and try to keep the smell
of cigarettes out of their clothes. Bad smells are certainly
a turn off, he needs to smarten up to keep your interest.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
24 Votes
,6.65 Score
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Men what's right with them! 4/9/2004
Ok I'm going to apoligise now before i offend anyone.
IM SORRY
But seriously Why are all men so inconsiderate?
Ok lets start from the beginning up untill october last
yeah i was a virgin i lodt it to a one night stand he was 35 not
good looking and had a small dick (not beeing bitter but
the condom didn't fit it fell off as it was to big) he
also bit me when he went down on me now he ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
50 Votes
,5.04 Score
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being more showered is an issue 4/9/2004
my husband is an atractive man and i quit smoking now my senses
feel a little in over drive. he comes home reeking of his
paint booth and of stale cigeretts from others in his same
locker that put thier butted out half smoked cigs in it.
he wont let me wash (except when dirt shows) his jacket and
then comes home and is always doing something eles too busy
to take a shower untill he has ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
37 Votes
,6.96 Score
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RE: Mulitple Condoms 4/9/2004
It is NOT safer to use Multiple condoms at the same time.
Friction between the condoms can cause Holes in the condoms,
thus defeating the purpose of wearing one. Your best bet
is to use only 1 condom at a time.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
45 Votes
,7.68 Score
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Am I wrong to hold on? 4/9/2004
I wanted to find out what someone on the other side of the
game thinks for once, to make sure that I wasn't the
only one out here that feels the way I do. My situation is
rather simple, but I can never get a straight answer.
<br>
My husband has been in prison for over 6 years...and I've
been completely faithful. Not even masturbated. But the
other day, when out with a friend ...
6 Comments, 72 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Would like to know????????? 4/8/2004
Would someone please take a look at our profile (begginers)
and please lets us know what is wrong with us. Is it my age
or her weight or something else or a little bit of all. Your
advice on our profile will help us understand why we are
turned down by every couple we have contacted. Please tell
us the truth. Thanks to all in advance and please email us
with your comments. We will not ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
16 Votes
,6.36 Score
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Re: Help save my relationship 4/8/2004
You say your relationship may get screwed up by you BOTH
trying something you BOTH want to do? Guess what sweetie
- you are already on the way out if you are not willing to experiment.
From experience, if you are willing to give each other this
satisfaction, you will learn one thing from it. Are you
going to survive? You should get weeks of mileage over the
excitement of a shared experience ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
9 Votes
,6.20 Score
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To respond or not to respond - her is my dilemma! 4/8/2004
So many men email me, and get offended when I send them a polite
"Thank you, however for (insert reason here) I am
not interested. Good luck!".
<br>
I want to ask men a few questions - did you read my profile?
Was there anything in there that was unclear? Do you date
absolutely anybody that crosses your path?
<br>
Remeber that a little grace and respect can go a very ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
33 Votes
,7.65 Score
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Women! What's up with putting the shoe on the other foot? 4/8/2004
I've been in my fair share of relationships and I've
come to understand one thing... most women want men who
are considerate. But in the relationships I've been
in I've found it difficult to get a woman to understand
how I feel or how I precieve myself being treated. What's
the best way to get a woman to put the shoe on the other foot,
without doing the same thing? We all know two wrongs ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
16 Votes
,6.95 Score
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DO women want to see? 4/8/2004
Just curious if the women out there really want to see nudes
or partial nudes in the profile pics. would you rather ask
after seeing a clothed pic?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
23 Votes
,6.63 Score
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Help save my relationship!!! 4/7/2004
Help me! I am in serious relationship with my boyfriend
and i need advice. We both want to two different things out
of our relationship. i.e. Marriage, , etc. But the
thing is we want to try a threesome with another girl too.
We both think it might screw things up with us. What are we
to do?
0 Comments, 26 Views,
14 Votes
,4.42 Score
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Re: Men and Women Shaved 4/7/2004
As a bisexual woman, I have to say that I prefer both men and
women to be completely clean shaven. I love to perform oral
sex on both men and women. Nobody likes to have hair in their
mouth. It is a lot easier to deepthroat a guy if you don't
have to worry about suffocating in his pubic hair, lol.
One last thing guys, if you shave it all off, your penis will
look a LOT bigger.
2 Comments, 171 Views,
63 Votes
,9.13 Score
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Anal sex can be great 4/7/2004
Ok, here's the deal. Anal sex can be GREAT with the right
partner. My ex-boyfriend was rather well endowed, 8 inches
and really thick. When I finally tried anal with him, we
started by having lots of foreplay and he went down one me
and got me all wet and ready. Then he began to make love to
me from behind and that got me even hotter, I LOVE DOGGY STYLE!
He used a high quality lube and ...
2 Comments, 312 Views,
84 Votes
,9.25 Score
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Get her to do it. 4/7/2004
I want to get my wife in on a threesome. I don't necessarily
have to be involved with the other woman but I want her to
be. We had a small encounter like this once and it freaked
her a bit. Now that she's had a baby she's not happy
with her body and won't even think about doing anything
like that. How can I get her involved?
0 Comments, 174 Views,
22 Votes
,5.41 Score
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delaying the explosion 4/7/2004
If anyone has a problem cumming sooner than they would like
try a drug called clomipramine. The brand name of the drug
is Anafranil. It is an antidepressant but a big side effect
is how it delays ejaculation.
0 Comments, 37 Views,
19 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Get all your information upfront. 4/6/2004
A word of advice. Make sure u know what your getting before
u make a long drive. Ask for a recent photo, ask what that
person wants to get out of the meeting. If you are married
make sure they know. In short, make sure you both are looking
for the same thing before you drive an hour or two to meet
someone your not compatible with.
0 Comments, 16 Views,
11 Votes
,6.72 Score
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CAN YOU TELL WHEN A GUY IS WEARING A RUBBER? 4/6/2004
IM A GUY...AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH A LADY THAT CLAIMED
SHE CAN TELL(JUST BY FEE WHEN A GUY IS WEARING A RUBBER..LADIES...HELP...SOBER, IN
THE AFTERNOON, AWAKE, WITHOUT LOOKING...CAN YOU TELL
OR NOT ? ?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
11 Votes
,0.18 Score
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Censorship 4/5/2004
I've read through some of the articles on Swapfinder.com, and personally
I think it sould be a free for all, after all we are all adults
here or should be, but I have noticed that some people think
that some things shouldn't be allowed to be posted
here. Why, what are you all afraid of. Words do not corrupt
people, people corrupt people. Granted some things shouldn't
be posted on some sites but this ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
49 Votes
,6.84 Score
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Is my wife cheating? My situation!! 4/5/2004
I have been married for a few years. I got an offer to go out
of town to look at a move within my company. There was no problem
with this at first. I was gone a week and returned to find
out that she had went out with her best friend and her best
friend's cousin which happens to be her ex-boyfriend.
She told me about this. I didn't hear it from anyone
else. I find it suspicious that ...
2 Comments, 231 Views,
26 Votes
,3.24 Score
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BEST PLACE 4/5/2004
HAS BEEN A TERRIBLE EXPERIENCE WHEN EVERYTHING LOOKS THAT
IS GOING TO BE A PERFECT MATCH.. U GET THE DATE, U FEEL ATRACTIVE
TO EACH OTHER AND DECIDED TO GO FOR IT, BUT WHERE?...SO THEN
UR NOT REALLY IN A GOOD SHAPE TO BRING HER (HIM) TO YOUR PLACE
BECAUSE IS A MESS, AND THE WORST OF EVERYTHING YOU FORGOT
TO REMOVED ALL THAT PICTURES OF YOU WITH THE OTHER SPECIAL
ONE IN YOUR LIFE.. CAME ON ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
43 Votes
,7.32 Score
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Know what you want. 4/5/2004
Know what you want before you do something you regret. Then
when you do try it for the first time make sure that you trust
the person that you are trying it with. This way you can feel
comfortable even in the most uncomfortable positions.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
14 Votes
,5.70 Score
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Maybe a littel fast? 4/5/2004
When my gf gives me head and handjobs i do not last that long,
I mean i try to but its seems to not work, I even last longer
when jerking off, what should i do?
0 Comments, 9 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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Jus fooling around 4/5/2004
Me and my one friend ahve been foolling around with no strings
attached for about a year, its super wierd because we are
jus friends but do stuff all the time, is it jus mutual or
maybe is she looking for more?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
13 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Be forwarded to websites that charge / 'so called FREE' IDs 4/5/2004
I'm an idot - what can I say? - you live and learn!
<br>
I just got a reply from a girl who said that if I went to her
website and registered there, and then cancelled the membership
I wouldn't be charged. What fooled me was her saying
that she did it for her own saftey. 'If something happened,
they'd be able to trace you.' Fair enough, I thought.
<br>
It was one of ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
20 Votes
,7.85 Score
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Uploading Your Pic! 4/5/2004
A picture is worth a thousand words they say, but what kind
of words would you like them to be?
<br>
Posting a picture on one's profile does garner more
attention that one without any images, but how do you know
what kind of pictures to put up and how to take it. In this
2 parter, I will give my two cents worth.
<br>
Adding a picture to one's profile is an excellent ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
22 Votes
,6.01 Score
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I have a question 4/5/2004
Ok. This is for all the bigger girls out there. I'm not
a really overweight girl, just a little(which I am working
on), but why is it that it doesn't matter what your face
looks like, only your body. I'm not a bad looking girl,
and I have a pretty cool personality, but that just doesn't
seem to matter because I am a bit overweight. Why is it that
guys would rather have a skinny dumb chick ...
13 Comments, 175 Views,
21 Votes
,7.09 Score
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Re: jail or san fran 4/4/2004
hey u should diffently go to san fran. stuff the cops. even
beta leave the country. or go to some third world country
and take life easy. unless u were protestin abuse
and encouragin. i dont think that abuse should be
allowed. anyway good luck in ur discission
0 Comments, 7 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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do women perfer their men to be shaved or not? 4/4/2004
i am a guy that thinks everyone should try something different
every now and then. so i have shaved and it is wierd but fun.
the women that i have been with have mixed opinions but i
wanted to hear some more from different people. i like a
woman that is shaved, so should we follow suit and do the
same for her if she wanted me to or not?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
28 Votes
,5.29 Score
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did i do good the first time i had sex? 4/4/2004
hi, yesterday I had sex for my first time with a older woman
I met on the internet. We'd met up just to have sex. We
had sex for four hours and I didn't cum once until right
at the end. I was surprised as it was my first time and I thought
I'd cum right away because of this. Could anyone tell
me if it is normal to last this long the first time? Also I
couldn't get her to cum while a was ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Problems with winks 4/4/2004
I am a Silver Member, and I have received a few winks. The
problem is that I can't figure out who sent them. It
took me to the page that showed the people that have looked
at my profile, but it doesn't say who sent the wink.
Is there a way to figure out who sent the wink without having
to send everyone who has looked at the profile but not gotten
back to me an email. I prefer to meet ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
20 Votes
,7.46 Score
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Breasts and Arousal 4/4/2004
Ladies, have you ever been with a guy who just totally turns
you off when he fondles your breasts in an attempt to arouse
you and you immediately lose interest to go any further
sexually with this person? Men, if you are reading this
I hope some of you learn to please us women better and come
up with a better technique for breast play. First of all,
there is more to the breast than "just ...
1 Comments, 194 Views,
20 Votes
,5.55 Score
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Should I give my wife the chance? 4/3/2004
My wife is wanting to explore more of her sexual life with
other men.....I want to do the same but she has a problem
with it....I dont want to give in but i think it is hot that
she wants other guys....I need some advice....
0 Comments, 12 Views,
11 Votes
,1.48 Score
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Should I stay or should I go??? 4/2/2004
How do u find out if you b-firend is cheatin on u? Do u think
it's wrong that I havent met his mother and we have been
datin for 8 months? I dont know where he lives or his home
phone #.....Why is that??? He says wait it'll happen
but it's been 8 months....I'm not a psycho but
i wanna know if he's cheatin....tell me what u think
0 Comments, 7 Views,
0 Votes
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Dick Pic Or Face Pic? 4/2/2004
I don’t understand why so many guys display a dick
picture as the main picture on their profile or mail you
a dick pic when you ask for a picture of them. I’ve
met a few guys that have 8 pictures of their penis and none
of their face! In my experience a woman would much prefer
to see a picture of your face or your full body than your dick.
Personally, I always experience a ...
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searching... 4/2/2004
Is there any better way to meet women on this monster of a
site? I'm young and smart but I don't have to money
to be a silver member so I have a hard time looking at girls
profiles...etc. My screenname's NCWriterguy...contact
me if you can help...
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0 Votes
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What's up with the porn? 4/2/2004
Why do I keep getting replies from women who just give me
links to their porn sites? Is there any way to avoid this?
Any help will be greatly appreciated.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
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help with network 4/1/2004
not suire if this goes here or not. for some reason i can not
get my network to come up, is there anyone else having this
problem? what can i do to fix this? thanks for the help.
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were do i find stuff for crossdressers 4/1/2004
can any one tell me were to find some nice outfits for crossdressers
and is there any women who love bi crossdressers?
0 Comments, 49 Views,
1 Votes
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RE: Male Multiples 4/1/2004
Yes, male multiples are possible. I know. That is how I learned
to stop coming so fast when I was younger and really wanted
to impress my girlfriend who knew a lot more about sex than
I did. It is possible to have two, three or more orgasms in
one "session" and truely last all night long.
It is done by constricting your P.C. muscle and pinching
off the cum as you have an orgasm. Kinda like ...
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upgrading your member(ship) 3/31/2004
I too was a standard member and was tired of all the limits
so what I did was I took advantage of the sites that give you
points to basicly have fun. I did 25 reviews on dine.com
and my membership was upgraded to gold for a month which
gave me the time I needed to view the profiles of those members
that were gold and silver.It is very well worth it. this
is prime infomation so please take ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
2 Votes
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Winks 3/31/2004
Why do people send winks instead of using the free upgrades
available. I know that the price of upgrading is and can
be expensive so use the perks of this site to enhance your
membership
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Profiles 3/31/2004
If your profile does not match what a person is looking for
don't send winks or add that person to your hot list.
it is so common for people to wink you or add you to there hot
list because you look good but do not meet the requirements
of what you want in your profile this is very anoying so please
stop. this site is about mutual friends
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5 Votes
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RE: are there any older women looking for younger men 3/31/2004
Yes, there are, but I would suggest you redo your profile
if you want to receive responses from any of them. First
of all, you need a pic, a nice sexy one, not one of your cock.
I've mentioned in posts before that the best pic I've
seen was head to toe, standing, no shirt, bluejeans, top
button undone, suggestive, sexy, told me what I needed
to know. Also, you are a little too crude. ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
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RE: better profile and earning points 3/31/2004
To all you guys who can't figure out why women won't
respond to you, go to this article, click on his name and
check out his profile. Take some tips and update yours to
be comparable. The profile for this 21 yr old from GA runs
circles around most of the ones I've seen. He is not
some hunky supermodel guy, but if he were in my area... He
is just really freakin cute, and it comes through ...
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Anal Sex 3/31/2004
How do I convince my homophobic partner to try anal sex?
He thinks that if he likes anal that he might be gay.
2 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
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Email address leak from Swapfinder.com 3/31/2004
I received an email in my PERSONAL EMAIL ACCOUNT from one
of the user from Swapfinder.com. The problem is i recently just join
and have not contacted anyone yet! Not even a single person!
HOW DID HE GET MY PERSONAL EMAIL ADDRESS??? Please becareful
with the email address that you use to sign up with Swapfinder.com. Some
how the person was able to get hold of my email address from
Swapfinder.com. Thank God that that email ...
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How to Meet Someone Out Here 3/30/2004
For guys, this is not an easy task. The odds are not in your
favor. There are three ways to use this site to meet women.
<br>
1. Search and e-mail. Search the profiles for your area
and the type of woman you want. Then send them an e-mail.
Include a picture if you can. Make sure you read their profiles
first, and tailor the message to what they're looking
for,
<br>
...
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Re to: "Jail or San Francisco" 3/30/2004
I don't understand some things here! Just what was
"nature of your crime"? Can you actually be
arrested and convicted of a felony for only participating
in a demonstration?!
Also, since when does someone have to "pay"
to be on
probation?
I think you should listen to your family.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
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Three, Definitely Three 3/29/2004
Your husband will get over the negative feelings, I hope.
That seems to be an unusual circumstance, and has little
chance of happening again. If your desires lean towards
women in your play, then that is the optimum game for you
two. He will accept this as he does your preferences. I empathize
with both of you, because too many people either fail to
articulate their feelings or lie ...
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55 Votes
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Male multiples!! 3/29/2004
Hey, I heard recently that it is possible for men to have
muliple orgasms by learning to strengthen their PC muscles.
I know this has major affects on the stregth of a womans orgasm,
but is it true that it can lead to men having dry orgasms and
therefore lasting longer. If so does anyone know of anywhere
I can get any info on this and methods etc. As I have serveral
male friends who would ...
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45 Votes
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sex with a young stud 3/28/2004
Alot of younger men do know what there doing. I know this
from experience. from making girls soak my bed to screaming
so load neighbors stop over to tell us to make sure everythings
ok. To all the young and old people that agree with me let
me know with a vote! - tacohandler
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Re: safe oral 3/28/2004
I use a condom MOST of the time when I go down on a guy that I
don't know really well. A tip: put the condom on with
your mouth. Makes him kinda forget about the whole comdom
thing. And its very erotic. Look up at him with wanting eyes
while you slowly roll it over his shaft down to the base.
Maybe hum or moan a little. Its even better when you used
a flavored condom. Damn! I'm ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
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Where are the real women you ask? 3/28/2004
Where are the real women? That seems to be the question asked
time and time again on this site. Well guys I'm here
to tell you that we are here but, what you must realize is
that we are real in all shapes and sizes the majority of us
aren't super models and haven't had cosmetic
adjustments done so what you see is what you get.
<br>
I'm not sure exactly what most men are seeking ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
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Oral Technique 3/28/2004
I love to go down on a woman. I'm always looking for new
things to try. I'd like to hear about any tricks or techniques
that others have found to be particularly effective.
0 Comments, 14 Views,
2 Votes
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Why do people get mad when you ask when the last time they were tested was? 3/27/2004
I believe that honesty is a priority when swinging. If you
cant trust the people you are intimate with , then dont bother.
So why do people get mad when you ask them when the last time
they were tested was?...You would think that they would
want the same information from you for their health and
safety. I have and my spouse and I are not into contracting
any "party favors" as we are ...
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three or four? 3/27/2004
We are a couple. We have been together for 5 years...have
2 boys together, and one on the way...before we got pregnant
this time, we discussed our fantasies, as we are open about
everything with each other. We decided, seeing as I am bisexual
and he loves watching two women, that we would bring a third
party into the mix and find a female playmate. We did that,
and we both got extremely ...
0 Comments, 86 Views,
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not chicken...just cautious 3/27/2004
I have seen alot of people being referred to as "chicken"
on the articles on here, because they wont just jump in the
sac and "meet" with anyone that messages them...Well
to that I say BRAVO! It would take a complete idiot to do that
or someone that did not value their own health, or life,
or the health and lives of future or present partners. There
is alot of diseases and freaks out there ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
66 Votes
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why is it that the men on here keep bugging when it states right in my profile seeking females or couples? 3/27/2004
I am starting to get very frustrated with the men on here.
They bug and bug and insist on "fucking" when
they just started talking to us, when we clearly state on
our profiles FEMALES or COUPLES...maybe they need to learn
to read ENGLISH and take a hint!
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Re: Kind Tip To Swapfinder.com Women 3/27/2004
Why would anyone want to date you? Please don't take
this wrong - I'm *really* not trying to insult you or
anything. It's a legitimate question.
<br>
I'm not gay or anything, but just going by the one article,
you sound - well, boring. If you were a woman, I wouldn't
want to go out with you, partly because you sound boring,
and partly because you'd probably be one ugly hairy ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
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how to get my girlfriend and another girl at the same time? 3/26/2004
I want to get a threesome with my girlfriend, another girl, and
myself.She only wants to do it with someone she doesnt know
and we just meet(ex.go down the shore/mts.and meet another
girl).She doesnt want anyone to know and she THINKS i will
like the other girl better.I told her that i COULDNT like
another girl as much as i love her.How do i get this to work?
0 Comments, 5 Views,
32 Votes
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trying to get my girlfriend to go anal. 3/26/2004
I want to have smash my girlfriend in the ass.She did it once
before she was my girl in a threesome with me and my boy.He
did it.But, now i cant cause it hurts her.What the f*ck should
i do?
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41 Votes
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Good IMC 1st Lines? 3/26/2004
Hi all,
Recently I've been trying to use IMC more to interact
with people here. As we all know, there are a million guys
on here for every 1 girl and the need to be catchy and stand
out (but not offensive) is high.
<br>
When you try to initiate a chat with someone, you have about
20 spaces to be unique, which is challenging to say the least.
<br>
To all the dudes: ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
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GET TO KNOW PEOPLE IN YOUR AREA FASTER 3/25/2004
If you use this site even just a little. Do yourself a favor.
START the instant messaging system as soon as you log into
Swapfinder.com. This gives everyone online in your area a chance to
talk to you RIGHT NOW. No more waiting for emails, no more
ditched responces because you are not the worlds master
poet. Also use the who's online now feature located
in the community portion of the home page and ...
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Does this site really work, for males or females, for silver/gold or Standard members? 3/25/2004
I have been a member of Swapfinder.com since more than a Year, and recently
I read many advices posted by different members of thsi
site. I totally agree with many of them, who say THIS SITE
DOESN'T REALLY WORK !! Infact, if Swapfinder.com has the guts to
post this advice, I might as well say THIS SITE SUCKS !
Since I joined this site, my profile has never been approved
!!! Even afetr amking all possible ...
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37 Votes
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herpes 3/25/2004
dont fall into a false sense of security and think that using
condom is a sure bet of protection agains herpes, a business
associate and i went on a business recently and he had the
pleasure of having two girls accompanying him for the evening,
a week later after we'd return to our home country.
we met up and he told me that the girls are not clean, i was
a bit worry when he told me that he ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
20 Votes
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are there women who like to cross dress there men 3/25/2004
i was wandering if there are actualy any women on here who
would love to dress there man up as a women then make love
to them all night.
0 Comments, 25 Views,
14 Votes
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Sex after shaving 3/25/2004
I have found it very stimulating and sexy if my partner lets
me shave her pussy and ass bald. I really like licking a clean
beaver and ass. Also some of my partners really get turned
on by shaving me and tell me there is nothing more arousing
than doing it after wards.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
28 Votes
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Men Shaving- In response to article listing ID of 62305 3/25/2004
I personally have been shaving since I was 13 years old.
When I got married to my high school sweetheart, one of the
things I just had to suggest was joining me in keeping a smooth
and hairless genital area. The razor thing was always nerve
racking, especially when she offered to shave me! I just
couldn't bring myself to let anyone near me with a razor.
We discovered dipilitory creams. The ...
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tips for online hook ups 3/25/2004
just like in real life you must have some game..you cannot
expect to log on and get off..take you time and get to know
people, make it interesting and have some fun you will have
much more success if you put a little effort into it...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
9 Votes
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Not worth the time... 3/25/2004
I did the standard member thing for quite some time, since
I was not sure if I wanted to cough up the money for a dating
site. After a while, I though, hokay, standard members
do not get anywhere. The site is very obviously designed
to induce you to pay for membership. So I took the plunge,
you only live once.
<br>
Now being a gold member, I can tell you that I will not renew ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
8 Votes
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Re: What can I do 3/24/2004
Guy please heed her advice, she does not feel good about
another guy having sex with her. Your pressure will only
bust your relationship.
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54 Votes
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"Women; and the Things That Make, Them Who They Are" 3/24/2004
Most men don't realize what a woman is. They are the
sun in the morning and the moon at night. They are here on
earth as equals not to be dominated or abused. Women are
all special in there own way. The touch of a woman is a gift
not a demand. Think about the next time you have sex, feel
the soft skin, smell the way that a woman can only smell.
Run your hands through there silky hair that ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
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Licking a couple? 3/24/2004
Hi, I am posting this again, this time as a question under
'advice'. Has anybody licked a couple as they
have sex? I am really curious about it; I guess if a woman
gets her clit licked as a man is inside her, the feeling must
be great. I find the idea incredibly arousing, though nobody
seems to talk about it and the only porn I have seen where
it actually happens is about FMF threesomes, ...
1 Comments, 60 Views,
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Points mean prizes! 3/23/2004
Ok, just to clarify what a few people have been saying on
the site about standard members using their points:
<br>
*For 100 points you can read someone's profile.
*For 1000 points you can contact someone.
<br>
Reading someone's profile is very useful for checking
whether you're dealing with a , a psycho
or a real, genuine person. I'd strongly advise doing
it, it ...
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Taco's girl 3/23/2004
When did that start ? And how far were you already , how did
you react to it when she brought it up ? If that is her opinion
it is her opinion , sorry but that would be all you could
do and now there is this big , fat BUT a kind of but you shouldn't
tell her , ok? Ask yourself a few questions and try to get
to the bottom of it because something doesn't quite
fit here.Were you really already ...
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MEET MORE MEMBERS THIS WAY 3/23/2004
Here is a little trick I have discovered here on Swapfinder.com. When
you first log into the site, activate the instant messaging
system, so that other online members may contact you.If
you also want to see who is online in your area scroll down
a little and click on "who's online now".
You can then select gender regions and also your cupid distance
from you too. If you see a member that has under ...
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113 Votes
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men senidng pics 3/23/2004
a pic of the face or at least the chest if you dont want to show
your face right away would be better than a dick.
After awhile they all look alike.
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Illinois Couple 3/23/2004
We are not interested in swinging, just finding an attractive
woman to join my wife and I for sexual encounters. My wife
has never been with another woman and she fantasizes about
watching me with another woman. A win/win situation for
me but everyone seems so fake. Women advertise on Swapfinder.com about
wanting to meet couples but when presented with the opportunity
back out. My wife and I are ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
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is this really worth it?? 3/23/2004
ok not for nothing I'm not a bad looking guy but between
all the fake stuff on this site and the few let downs I've
I'm about to give up on this site out of all the emails
you've gotten on this website what percent work out
to be successful?
0 Comments, 12 Views,
21 Votes
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RE: Giving Him Anal 3/23/2004
The first time you try it, insert 1 or 2 fingers and massage
his prostate while you give him oral sex. I guarantee that
he will love it. The prostate is between his anus and penis,
and it feels like a hard "lump", different from
everything else. Be prepared for a huge load of cum...it
won't take long.
<br>
After that, try using toys (starting small, and then getting
larger). ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
46 Votes
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Re: Head Shot VS. Cock Shot 3/23/2004
Of course, we ladies, want to see your face. Who cares about
the cock shot? We ladies know how a cock looks like. (rolls
eyes).
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Re - Fake Ad's by brian 352004 3/23/2004
I saw your article and I must say your right about the woman
linked to porn sites. A few are real proffesional hookers
to.
I 'm on the site from the begining of the year and I met
some very fine woman to. They are few but they are worth to
look for.
Keep heads up, they are there but they are waiting till you
discover them.
Janpetat
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14 Votes
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MMF Threesome - Do Heterosexual men like this? 3/21/2004
I am in a frightening position. My love and lover wants a
MMF threesome. I love him very much and would like to please
him but at the same time am suspicious of his motives. Are
heterosexual men interested in MMF threesomes, and if
so why? I am sincerely interested in responses from members
of both sexes, hetero, bi or gay.
0 Comments, 78 Views,
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in touch 3/20/2004
if you are a standard member what is the best way to get in
touch with other memebers , with out joining ?
0 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
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Why doesn't anyone want a friend? 3/20/2004
Never understand why women today won't allow a man
to be their "friend" sexually. This seems especially
true if you've just gotten out of a relationship. It
doesn't mean I'm on the rebound, or looking for
a serious commitment. Just a friend to have a sex life with,
and vice versa, of course. Someone explain this to me.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
3 Votes
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Virgin guy 3/19/2004
Is it a turn on to some women if an attractive guy like me is
a virgin simply because he just hasn't meet the right
woman to give up his viginity to?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
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3SOME ETIQUTE 3/19/2004
Is there 3some etiqute? I have had a couple now and always
semm to want to spend more time with the girl who has joined
in, i still do spend time with my wife but not as much is this
bad? We do always still have great sex after the lady has
left.
2 Comments, 233 Views,
5 Votes
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Fell in love 3/19/2004
I had a discreet affair with a married woman. But what started
out as fun quicly turned into love. I fell for her and she
fell equally as hard for me. However she has stated she can't
leave her husband although she claims to want to. I can't
go on being her secret and knowing that she is there with
him. Yet i can't seem to distance myself from her. I
have tried. What can i do?
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RE: how do i get my boyfriend a threesome 3/19/2004
This may not be the advice you are looking for, but you can
tell him you have arranged a 3some after inviting one of
his friends over (male) and see his reaction. If it is as
i think then after being together for 9 years and saying
he will not marry unless you have a 3some, maybe this will
change his perspective.
<br>
Personally i would say fuck him for making demands like ...
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re: should you tell 3/19/2004
Do you know how your man feels about that sort of thing? If
he is interested in that (which he probably is) then mention
to him that it is something you are interested in...
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Don't get too emotional too soon!! 3/18/2004
Well, just a word of advice to people on the network since
dating, romance and relationships are being made so easy
these days with the help of the Internet.... Just be careful!!
I am not saying you should not date, romance or have a relationship
with people you meet on the Internet, I am just saying to
be careful, don't get your emotions involved too soon,
get to know the person a bit, do ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
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Guys, Help Yourselves 3/17/2004
I see alot of guys complaining about not getting any responses,
and while I agree that it's rude (as long as the person
fits my profile I at least send a no thanks), some of you might
get better responses if you made a few changes. First, don't
be crude. Even girls like me who are just looking for sex
don't respond to names like screw me now or tag lines
that say just looking to fuck. ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
6 Votes
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Breast website information... 3/17/2004
I am looking for some good, free breast websites. Specifically
breast play (sucking, squeezing, licking etc.) Can anyone
tell me if there are any out there? I have done searches but
they all come up to the regular porn sites. Are there any
out there that are specifically for those who like to suck
breasts and be sucked? Help. thanks in advance.
Dandydanni2
0 Comments, 37 Views,
2 Votes
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whats wrong? 3/17/2004
what is wrong with my profile? i'm going to give up on
this shortly. the women i have been with say i'm really
good in bed, and have the perfect size penis for every hole.
and yet i can not seem to get any women on here!!!!!!!!!!!
0 Comments, 1 Views,
0 Votes
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Still Wondering 3/17/2004
still wondering why u feel so sad. like ur all alone. that
no one is in ur corner or that u feel as if u cant and/or wont
love u. well stop feeling like that. the only reason why
u are so hurt is because u are still thinking about the past.
take it from a lesson learn. if u want someone to love u. then
love urself. put urself 1st on ur list. then make a man work
for u. if he acts like u ...
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response to what kind of pics we like 3/17/2004
Personally, I could do without the dick shots, as long as
it isn't teeny and it works, I'm good. I would much
rather see face shots and body shots. This is about sex,
sex is about attraction and I can't tell if I'm
attracted to a guy just by looking at his crotch. The person
who attracted me most on this site had a nice face shot and
then a pic of his whole body, just jeans, no shirt, ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
3 Votes
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Trim that snatch.... 3/16/2004
I realize that this is a matter of personal taste but the
majority of guys I've found prefer a pussy that is nicely
trimmed at the very least. Shaved is great, and a close trim
is very good. But I've seen some women that have never
trimmed and you'd need a weed wacker just to find an
opening.
0 Comments, 13 Views,
2 Votes
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RE: Quick Question 3/16/2004
Sounds to me like you already know what to say. Why is it so
hard to just say it like it is? The worst thing in the world
is trying to figure out exactly what someone else is thinking.
It becomes a game. At least if you say what you feel/think,
then you have taken a step in the right direction. You cannot
be responsible for what the other person feels, but you
can make sure that you ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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RE: Sex, Dreams, and a woman I know.... 3/16/2004
No harm in going out and being social, and strengthening
what you have already (friendship). But were it me, I would
draw a very definite line between friendship and romance
where you work. Speaking from experience here, I had a failed
relationship that just would not end - the girl that I had
a brief romance with fell hopelessly in love and it became
almost a Fatal Attraction thing. She ...
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RE: Should I screw another guy just cause my boyfriend wants it? 3/16/2004
If your boyfriend really respected your feelings, then
it would not be an issue. He'd back off at your request.
Have you tried telling him that some fantasies should remain
fantasy? If it is not a shared fantasy, it seems less than
fair.
<br>
Stick to your guns. It's your body, not his, and if you
don't want to share, then don't.
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How do you know? 3/16/2004
Why is that when you are a couple looking for another couple
and it clearly statesthat on your profile that you get all
kinds of repsonses from single people looking ofr single
people thinking that they can take you away from the partner
that you have???
0 Comments, 2 Views,
1 Votes
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RE: RE: Virgin... Good or Bad? 3/16/2004
Thanks so much for the words of encouragement. But, Í'm
kind of getting to the point where now, when it actually
happens it will never live up to my expectations. I'm
am starting to think I should just get it over with. Is that
a bad idea? Should I keep waiting only to have it be a disappointment?
I think I'm the only 21 year old virgin ever!
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
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how to use this site 3/16/2004
yes its hard to chat with people for example on instant messenger.cause
there not even polite to write back at least recognize that
is a human being on the other side who has intrest in them.a
polite thank you, but am busy would go a long way.
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Communication 3/16/2004
One of the biggest problems in these days of sexual freedom
and promiscuity is that one partner will often develop
stronger feelings for the other. To this increasing dilemma
I offer one word of advice ‒ communication. Simply stating
your feelings and views towards the relationship on a semi-regular
basis decreases confusion and really maintains the parameters
of the relationship. ...
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0 Votes
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Avoid "Standard" Members? 3/15/2004
It seems that a large percentage of Standard Members are
are just a waste of time. We're considering having
contact with only Silver or Gold Members. That'll
at least weed out the playing on mommy and daddy's
computers.
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2 Votes
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Help! I need replies to my emails 3/15/2004
I have been a member for three months. I have sent out in excess
of 100 emails to members that seem compatable and I have
yet to receive any replies! My profile is very straight
forward, I think; and again, I only email those members
with similar needs.
<br>
Can anyone out there give me any ideas how to improve my style?
Better profile, better picture, etc.
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Help me!! 3/15/2004
Well recently my girlfriend decided that we would no longer
have oral sex because she said she wanted to have a better
relationship with God and in order to have this better relationship,
we would have to cut some things out of our relationship.
That is/was the only thing we really do. We don't have
sex because she wants to wait. Now she's taking away
oral sex. What should I do about this ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
99 Votes
,6.43 Score
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I'm wondering? 3/15/2004
Are all the guys I meet on here just interested in my tits
because of how big they are? I didn't put a pic of my tits
on my profile because I feel like that is about the only thing
guys want to see. I have a great body and a very nice pussy
but all guys ask me is about my tits. So tell me is that all
a guy wants is my tits?
0 Comments, 46 Views,
1 Votes
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How should I proceed? 3/15/2004
I tutor high schoolers part time, and the mom of one of my
students is absolutely gorgeous. The problem is that she's
married and a little older than me (which isn't a problem
for me, but might be for her). I think she may be interested
in me, but I'm not sure. What are some signs I can look
for to tell? And how should I hit on her if I decide she is interested?
0 Comments, 18 Views,
0 Votes
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3 some question? 3/14/2004
My girlfriend and I have been having a threesome with another
woman for sometime now. This weekend my girlfriend was
out of town, and I ended up hooking up with our 3some partner.
We both agreed not to say anything, but now I'm not sure.
Is it cheating, should i tell my girlfriend.
0 Comments, 65 Views,
73 Votes
,8.20 Score
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Giving him anal! 3/13/2004
Hi i'm 19 and up untill 5 mnths ago i was a virgin i have
since slept with 4 men and they have all be one nighters except
my current one to whom we have become fuck buddys how ever
i gett he feeling i am not very good in the sack throught lack
of experince as it seem to be me who is enjoying it more than
him apart from the fact he tell me i give good head. I suggested
that the next time we ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
76 Votes
,8.10 Score
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Girls in a strap-on dilldo 3/13/2004
I'm a str8 guy that dreams about role play with a woman
in a strap-on doing me doggie stlye......is this something
you women think about......if so let me know.
0 Comments, 19 Views,
48 Votes
,7.60 Score
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Problems with orgasm 3/13/2004
I have a question for anyone who can give me some advice on
this subject. I had a hysterectomy over 10 years ago and
had everything removed. my sex drive is better than ever
but when i have an orgasm I don't cum as much as I use to
and I don't want my lover to think that he is not turning
me on. Sometimes we do use a lubricant during sex because
of the dryness but I hate the feeling of not ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
1 Votes
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Turn Offs 3/13/2004
Men, posting a picture showing you fucking another woman
or licking someone ass is a total turn off. No woman want
to see a man fucking someone else, even though we know you'll
fucking someone and we're not looking for a relationship,
we still don't want to see you fucking. Wise up.
0 Comments, 236 Views,
1 Votes
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i need help 3/13/2004
i have known this girl for about 7 years, we have always been
friends and it wasn't till our senior year in high school
that is turned to a relationship, well after high school
i joined the USMC and went to iraq, when came back to the states
she had gotten into a relationship with another guy, well
we kept in touch and remained friends, well i left to go to
cuba on a deployment in oct. and ...
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0 Votes
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Do those pills really work 3/12/2004
I am a man with average size and I was just wondering if any
one had taken any of those penis suppliments claiming to
make it bigger or harder. Before I spend my money on them,
I want to know if they really work.
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0 Votes
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Just accept NO !!! 3/12/2004
I just received a reply form a lady who gave a great explanation,
this might be 1 reason why the women dont reply. She said
after sending out a reply of (No thanks) ther would reply
back pleading thier case again. If you get a reply of (No
Thanks) then just leave well alone. I enjoy Swapfinder.com and I do like
at least getting some reply even if it is a no. Just my 2 cents.
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0 Votes
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How can you tell if a couple is for real or it's just a guy wishing? 3/12/2004
We have met several couples on Swapfinder.com.We've only met with
one. We get alot of respons from other couples but it always
ends up with just the guy talking all the time and of course
there is only one picture and never a meeting. We wounder
if we just put to much preassure for pictures and a casual
meeting(like having a cup of coffee to talk). Please let
us know if there might be more to it that ...
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0 Votes
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Is anal all that?? 3/12/2004
People who have never tried anal sex, probably don't
understand the special bond it takes to enjoy anal sex.
It has to be a mutual trust not just a fuck in the ass. Two partners
have to feel comfortable and trust the other or it is a major
pain in the ass, When done correctly it is amazing and very
exciting for both...
tom953
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0 Votes
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The end of my road. 3/12/2004
Well my problem with my gf is getting worse. I thought i can
hold on but guess i can't. It just so fustrated. How
many men out there can tolerate with a woman that doesn't
have sex with ya? She doesn't like sex...okay fine
i respect that, but lately i ask her if she can give me a handjob,
and she said yes. Okay then friday came, so i remind her,
then she told me she's tired and not in ...
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0 Votes
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Re: Anal -v- Vaginal 3/11/2004
My partner loves oral first to get her good and wet and then
some fingering of her G-spot she then likes to ride me with
me not moving so she can control where my cock goes and it
always make her cum.
<br>
Anal always follows and she likes it deep and slow so she
can feel everything, if you reach round an play with her
clit at the same time she'll cum over again and almost ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
1 Votes
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Re: Piercing my dick 3/11/2004
As a woman who has had the insane pleasure of being with a
man that had one of these painful sounding and looking things,
do it!! then gimme a call 
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Answer to "Tell or Not" 3/11/2004
No, do not tell your friend about the affair with his woman.
You said it's over now, so why hurt him just to releave
your guily conseance?
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0 Votes
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Re - Virgin... good or bad. 3/11/2004
Hi 21soon,
Like you wrote, some men like to have sex with a virgin, others
hate it. For me, I like it very mutch.
Men should know that you 'r a virgin before you have
sex because, when he likes you, he can be more patient and
so help you to discouver fine sex.
Janpetat.
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0 Votes
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Nude or Not to Nude - that is the question 3/11/2004
Are close up shots of the penis preferrable to just plain
old head and shoulder shots? What type of pictures would
get the most response from a female or couples looking for
a "third" partner?
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1 Votes
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VIrgin... Good or Bad? 3/10/2004
Hi... I am a 21 year old virgin. I was wondering if this is
the sort of thing men are into or does it turn them off. I have
heard both ends of the spectrum... either they like to "conquer
new territory" or they hate it because a virgin has
no experience. Just wondering what the men's thoughts
were on it. Also, is this the sort of this the men I date should
know???
thanks!
0 Comments, 5 Views,
100 Votes
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How Do I keep and EXPERIENCED man happy? 3/10/2004
I have recently started dating an old flame who has definitely
been around the world sexually, and I need some advice from
the men here. What can I do that might be different and that
might get him REALLY going. We have done some of the toys
for me, adult movies, spanking and all the common stuff
but what else can I do? Let me add that he has done all the orgies,
3-somes, etc, and I just ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
0 Votes
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Want a one night stand but can't seem to find someone willing 3/10/2004
Here is the deal, I am man who has never had a one night stand...ever.
I just want to meet a woman and have fun with no commitment,
no strings, nothing. Just casual contact, foreplay and
possibly sex. In fact sex isn't really that important
for this. Just one time where each of us can let go and just
have fun.
<br>
All of my life my best friends were women and my ...
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0 Votes
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Wanting to enjoy receiving a male anal gang bang? 3/10/2004
To the guy who said he had been fucked up the ass last weekend
for the first time, enjoyed it, and now was being offered
the same thing by his buddy and four of his friends.....
IF you are POSITIVE that they are all HIV negative, then
if I were you I'd GO FOR IT !! Have some KY on hand, start
out with a dildo or butt plug, then a larger diameter one,
then take on the guy with the thinnest ...
1 Comments, 296 Views,
4 Votes
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Re: Jerking off in underware... 3/10/2004
Hey dude, can't see it doing anything except giving
you pleasure, if it turns you on, go for it. I'm sure
the laundry detergent manufacturers would agree! LOL.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
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Is this considered cheating? 3/10/2004
Im married and recently my wife and i had a conversation
about threesomes. she is completely into it and even gave
me some names of people she wouldnt mind doing it with. she
even told me that if i wanted to have sex with anyone of them
without her being involved that she would not mind as long
as i tell her. is it cheating if your wife is ok with it? should
i be worried that she is ok ...
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0 Votes
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Re: Should I Screw another.... 3/10/2004
I can see your way and his. However there are two ways of looking
at this because I've wanted to do the same thing.
My wife, at one time, would not even consider it, but now
that she's been working out and gaining a lot of self
confidence, meeting more and more people at the club, ect...
She's changing. I was "joking" about "it"
again the other night with her and the threesome talk came ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
1 Votes
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What should i do 3/10/2004
the other morning when i got up to go to the bahtroom there
was thes red spots all over the head of my penis and it sort
of worried me. but buy the next moring they were gone. is
it be something that i should go see my doctor about?
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0 Votes
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Anal sex is the best 3/10/2004
me and my girl have had anal sex a few times and it is such a
turn on. it is more so a turn on for me i think because of the
trust she has in me to be gental and carful and respect her
limits and wishes, that and it feels sooo good. guys you
need to try it. it is nice
0 Comments, 5 Views,
1 Votes
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Hard to Stay Hard 3/10/2004
This is my problem and was wondering what can be done about
it....I have a problem stressing with my girlfriend while
we're trying to make love and it causes me to lose my
erection; I've looked this up online and found out
that I'm stressing that I'm worried about not
being able to please her.....She responds to everything
I do to her, but the thing of it is, is that I'm still stressing ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
0 Votes
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Looking for a woman 4 a woman... 3/10/2004
When being around sexy woman I am very turned on. Some of
them play the game like they are into woman but won't
go pass first base. Others you just don't know even
though they hang out with you and know that you are in to woman
but tells you that isn't there thang. what do you do?
1 Comments, 5 Views,
2 Votes
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To the women of Swapfinder.com... 3/10/2004
I have a question for the ladies. So alot of older (30+) women
say they'd love a younger, more virile guy. But when
a younger guy (me) goes and talks to them, they back away.
What's the deal?
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0 Votes
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re,,, penis size,, 3/9/2004
most women ive come across definatly do appreciate a man
thats well hung, , not only long but thick, , and also a
man that knows how to use the tool that he has, , but ill bet
if a poll is taken most women do not care for little needle
dicks, or 2 pump chumps, , also a man thats confident and
not a woose, , sporting an 8 incher, thats 6 1/4 in girth
does have its advantages , , lol, , ...
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0 Votes
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Regarding PLEASE HELP 3/9/2004
The best answer I can give you and any other woman who is with
a selfish inconsiderate man is HELP YOURSELF. You deserve
someone who treats you like a woman deserves to be treated,
and that is loved, cherished, and worshipped. As for orgasms
well those are the one thing women can give themselves nonstop..lol
If he is willing to learn let him watch you giving yourself
pleasure..with your ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
1 Votes
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Which does a guy/ women perfer 3/9/2004
I was wondering which does a guy/women perfer does he/She
perfer a girl to be shaven, have a little hair, or alot just
wondering i mean i shave but i was wondering
0 Comments, 5 Views,
1 Votes
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RE:Oral sex 3/9/2004
I don't think you're alone in not being able to
get off from oral. I've gotten amazing head and not
been able to orgasm. Just 'cause you're a male
doesn't mean that you can always cum. You need to be
relaxed and have no distractions. You also have to not worry
about not finishing. I've found that as soon as I worry
about not being able to orgasm is when I start to "lose
interest." ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
1 Votes
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re: size matters 3/8/2004
wome looking for 8 inches you say. well all i could say is
like when guys look for girls huge boobs they look great,
espiacially when your boob man. but an actractive women
that has only only average size breasts majority of men
would still have sex with her. I suspect the penis thing
is a somewhat similair situation. some women prefer the
big guys but and seek those ones out but i think ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
45 Votes
,3.60 Score
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Forced Lactation (Breast Milk) 3/8/2004
My lover wants to suck milk from my very large breasts. He
claims there is a techniqur of nipple suction and massage
that will make any woman start giving milk. Any ideas or
suggestions.
1 Comments, 269 Views,
47 Votes
,5.84 Score
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Should I screw another guy just cause my boyfriend wants it? 3/7/2004
Hey, I'll try to make this as short as possible. Its
actually pretty easy, I think. It has been a fantasy of my
boyfriend's for a long time to have me screw another
guy while he's there and to give him a blow job. I really
don't want to. I know, call me crazy, but I just really
don't want it. And it bothers me, in fact, it hurts a
lot. I have asked him to drop it, but he says he can't
and ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
51 Votes
,6.65 Score
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Make her squirt 3/6/2004
I have been with over 50 women in my 32 years and have found
that over 70% of them had monstrously wet explosive drenching
orgasms...Ilove it and have had many friends ask me how
I do it.
First, the woman must be in touch with her own sexuality
and be able to cum. second I found that missionary with her
legs wide and held back by her shoulders elevates her hips
and puts your cock right ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
93 Votes
,7.85 Score
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Younger guy seeking an older woman! 3/6/2004
Hi everyone.
I'm an 18 year old who needs an older woman. However
they all seem to be uninterested in someone my age! Is it
true that all older women are not interested in someone
my age?? Help!
0 Comments, 28 Views,
13 Votes
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Where are all the hot men??? 3/6/2004
I joined this site because I am moving soon and just got out
of a bad relationship. I wanted to meet someone to just have
a good time with for the next few months that I am here. All
the men that have responded are either not my type or just
want the occasional one night stand. Dont get me wrong one
night stands are good from time to time but whats up with
all the hot muscular men? Where ...
9 Comments, 748 Views,
34 Votes
,2.79 Score
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missoctober says WATCH OUT FOR THIS GUY 3/6/2004
i tried my best to be nice while i was here. but ive got to say
there are some real assholes on this site. i dont really
believe in doing this, and i wasnt going to do this, but girls
stay away from thunderthzzz, hes a genuine misogynist.
he why im leaving. ive probably got the handle a little wrong,
but beware. hes good, and he will fuck you over. i just got
an email from him that said ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
21 Votes
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what do I do to engage in diverse sexual activities? 3/5/2004
I suppose first you’d have to determine the kind of sexual
activities that interest you ? What do you desire most in
your bedroom? Are there an secret fetishes that are dying
to expose themselves? You might want to start off small
and work your way. There are plenty of diverse sexual tricks
that are available to be sought. They can range from a simple
whip of the buttocks to a golden ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
12 Votes
,5.80 Score
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What is and How do you have a blow job HELP 3/5/2004
Please help i would love to know wnat a blow job is and how
do u give one as i've been put in this position before
and have managed to get out of it everytime. Both ways men
on women and women doing men please help
0 Comments, 18 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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re: anal gang bang 3/5/2004
I think a numbing agent would defeat the purpose, wouldn't
it? Just be sure to use gobs of KY and remember that it's
your body; don't let anyone get to the point of injuring
that pucker hole of yours. 
0 Comments, 40 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Qwert... calm down! 3/4/2004
Trust me, finding someone sincere about their profile
is difficult on this site. However, all the people in it
are real. They get pissed off, irritated, worried, etc..
Maybe if you let up on the throttle a little bit you might
have some luck. In order to satisfy your immediate need
for sex have you tried any local swingers bars, raves, hell
if you need it that bad go pay for some ass! ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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fl bbw Swallow Shmallow 3/4/2004
Now don't get me wrong, a woman that swallows is probably
one of my biggest likes. But, a woman that gives great head
up to the point of finishing her man off gets my utmost respect.
Some women can, some women can't. Swallowing in many
ways is as nasty as it is a turn-on, I have never kissed a woman
after she has swallowed. So if I don't want it in my mouth,
why should I expect her to ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Re:How to find a woman that does not cheat 3/4/2004
Maybe you are coming from the wrong direction. Anyone will
not cheat if they they choose not to, if they feel its important
to to your relationship. The decision not to cheat must
be by the individual and cannot be just at your request.
You must both want it. Be happy that you have found out early
that those you have met so far are not for you. If you try to
impose your will on another ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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RE: Wife squirts....... 3/4/2004
Listen, I'm pretty sure you know what is oozing out
of your wife, but I'll induldge. The liquid is the female's
version of "cum". It is an odorless liquid that
is excreted in a similar fashion as urine, but is not the
same substance. Women such as your wife are a hard find because
they only squirt like that when they have been hammered
correctly. So, my hat's off to you sir!! Have fun ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
13 Votes
,7.00 Score
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Forced orgasms...why? 3/4/2004
First of all, I have found that in every sexual experience
that I have had I have always been the one to put out the most
and receive little or nothing in return. I have given many
orgasms at a time, but it is hard for me to gain one. The only
way I can do this is to force it. I don’t like having to rush
myself because someone can’t keep up with me. For instance
just last week ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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she only wants one "O" 3/4/2004
My wife, in 16yrs. of marrage has only had one orgasm from
intercourse, however, I do lick and suck her clit until
she explodes. In fact, I most always get her off orally, often
after I've finished. With this in mind I don't
think she has an overly sensitive clit.
My question to you gals is this: I'd love to make her
"multi-orgasmic".But how? After she's
had the big O she says she just ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Am I an asshole? 3/4/2004
My fiancee and I have a semi-open relationship. Meaning
that we are allowed to have sex with other people as long
as either she or I (depending on who is doing the fucking)
is informed. All of a sudden she said she wants us to stop
this. Granted she hasn't made use of it yet. But I have,
and want to continue to do so. This is not to say I don't
love her. In fact when I am with her I ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
9 Votes
,6.42 Score
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Why do they do this ? 3/3/2004
Why do most people on here always ask for pics? I understand
that you would atlaest like to see their face so you know
somewhat who you are talking to or with.Which is fine. But
then they ask for naked ones.Now why do they do this?And
when you tell them that you donn't have any, then they
hang up on you.(no ok, or even a by, no nothing).And also
when you talk to some one on here. Why donn't ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
0 Votes
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how do I go about drawing submissive women to my profile? 3/3/2004
There are a lot of submissive women just waiting and longing
to be dominated by a nice strong master. Some are into more
rough play, while others just like a rugged handling and
to feel as though they are being smothered with sweet loving.
If your into to actual role-playing complete with costume
then I reccomend you indicate so in your profile. Otherwise
you can make a friendly indication ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
0 Votes
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Ladies...How do I shave ? ? 3/3/2004
My husband likes to see ladies, and be with ladies that have
shaved around their pussy....I would be glad to do it, but
I am afraid of the irritation that you have to live with...If
you know a way that works, I would love to hear how you do
it...Thanks
0 Comments, 4 Views,
1 Votes
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Playing seperately 3/3/2004
I am curious how many of the swinging couples play seperately
and what kind of out come this has had on your relationship.
Isn't the whole reason for doing the "lifestyle"
to enhance YOUR sexual relationship?
1 Comments, 8 Views,
0 Votes
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Alphabet Oral... 3/3/2004
Just thought I'd toss this out there. A former girlfriend
of mine used to go nuts when I went down on her, particularly
when I would trace the alphabet with my tongue over her clit.
Also alternatingly sucking on the clit as you trace. Worked
awesome on her, so figured others ought to give it a shot.
0 Comments, 17 Views,
1 Votes
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Bicuriosity 3/3/2004
We been married for 25 years lately we have talked about
having sex with other people of the same sex. He wants to
see me with another woman and I am really considering it.
He also wants to experience an encounter with a male. Any
advice?
3 Comments, 104 Views,
0 Votes
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dining 3/3/2004
We like it slow and in a teasing manner-remember, women
are like an oven, you have to warm us up. If you go in for it
too fast and we are not warmed up yet, you ruin it for us and
yourself. If you do it right, you will have your woman begging
for the fast licks and the ramming tongue. Start slow with
light licks and very gentle sucks, as our clits are sensitive,
continue this until she ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
0 Votes
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SNEAKING AROUND 3/2/2004
Plenty of times men are able to find themselves a satisfying
mistress to cater to their sexual needs, only to go home
to their unsuspecting wife and . Honestly, although
it’s relatively easy to coordinate, this is not the best
arrangement. Chances are your wife will find out, and even
if your relationship has expired, I am sure you still have
a certain amount of care and respect for ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
48 Votes
,7.67 Score
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please help 3/2/2004
Sometimes my wife squirts a clear liquid when she climax,
is she peeing or cumming?
0 Comments, 5 Views,
27 Votes
,5.56 Score
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SUBS AND DOMS 3/2/2004
Don’t ever be afraid of who you really are from a sexual standpoint.
You’ll want to find someone sensitive to your needs, despite
your interest in being a sub. Lots of times doms think that
because you are a sub, that means they can do whatever they
please and can claim full range over all sexual deeds. This
should not be the case and perhaps your best bet would be
explaining ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
39 Votes
,6.49 Score
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STARTING UP A CONVERSATION 3/2/2004
Often, women are just as struck with how to approach men.
We don’t know what to say and worry that we will come off as
dorks. You’ll have to find a topic that is particularly
enlightening or mutually interesting. Make sure you come
across as someone worth spending more time with and getting
to know. The last thing you want to be boring and calculated.
Women love compliments, ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
31 Votes
,7.17 Score
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Please help ladies 3/2/2004
My wife Keeps saying it is ok for me to have sex with someone
else without her, We have been swingers for 7 yrs and have
always done it as a cpl, does she really mean it?
0 Comments, 21 Views,
22 Votes
,4.81 Score
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Joining networks 3/2/2004
I have asked women to join my network and I get a lot of women
join who don't want to date men of other nationalities.
Why do they join your network if they do not want to date men
of other nationalities? Do they just want to meet some of
the people already in your network or what?
0 Comments, 34 Views,
21 Votes
,4.36 Score
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Instant Messaging 3/2/2004
I think that instant messaging is the perfect place for
people to meet and get to know each other better, but not
enough people open their instant message center when they
log in to Swapfinder.com. Why is this?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
54 Votes
,8.75 Score
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Nipple rings 3/2/2004
What to girls thing about nipple rings on guys? I have got
mine pierced a few years ago, and never had any problems...until
now. The past two girls I've been with have been really
freaked out/turned off by them. Is it time to get rid of them?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
17 Votes
,1.00 Score
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Would you like to swing on a star ? 3/1/2004
Would you like to swing on a star,
Carry moon beams home in a jar,
And be better off than you are,
Our would you rather get a .
<br>
A is an animal that lays down and spreads,
She gets a little extra if you ask for some head.
She comes in quickly and she leaves just as fast,
You better have some, cause she just wants cash,
And in the end there you are without a life, ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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how to know if a womens gonna cheat 3/1/2004
i've recently (6months ago) gotten out of a relationship
with a women who repeated cheated on me... i'd forgiven
her every time and the only reason i didn't forgive
her the last time was cos she decided to tell me right after
i'd found out about my parents splitting up (less then
5 minutes after i told her). so i broke off the engagement
and ended it 3 weeks later, only cos she wouldn't ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
19 Votes
,6.29 Score
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How can i hold on any longer? 3/1/2004
Well i'll make the story short. I've been going
out with my girlfriend for about 6 years now. As i can remember
we only have sex about 10 times or maybe less. I know she loves
me and i know when u love someone there doesn't have
to be sex involve. But the point is she's mentally forcing
me to look somewhere else for sex. I'm a young adult
who's at the age of high sex drive. There's ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
16 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Help me understand 3/1/2004
Hey people this is damon4769. I am just having trouble figuring
things out here. I have been added to a hotlist by a silver
member and when I wink at them i get no feedback. I have been
emailed by a gold member have replied more then once to the
email they sent and get no feedback. I agree with alot of
people when they say that most people are rude and don't
have the common courtesy of ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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re: leaving this site 2/29/2004
It seems to me that this site is absoulutley polluted with
fake women or companies that try to get guys to go through
other paysites What a rip off!!!!!!!!!
0 Comments, 22 Views,
99 Votes
,9.05 Score
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Pictures 2/29/2004
Why do most of the women on this site refuse to show their
face in their pictures. Don't get me wrong, I love seeing
your tits and pussies... but face is equally important.
Let's hear it for more pictures with faces.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
27 Votes
,6.50 Score
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Ditch em 2/29/2004
I cant believe this. My gf of 10 months broke up with me cause
I go away to college and she cant handle me bein away. Its
bullshit, 3 days after we break up I find out shes in love
with this other guy and is dating him now. I feel like Im on
an episode of Jerry Springer...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Pics 2/28/2004
To all the men out there who have their pictures on Swapfinder.com I would
like to give you alittle advice. It is always great looking
at a picture of a nice hard cock but I think most women on here
agree with me when I say that seeing a face shot would be nice
to. There is more to a man then the size of his buddy. Myself
I love a man's eyes and smile. So please when you are
adding pictures to you ...
0 Comments, 155 Views,
65 Votes
,8.53 Score
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Would you tell? 2/28/2004
How do you find out if another female is Bi or not? Say you
had a friend that you find attractive. How do you find out?
0 Comments, 27 Views,
30 Votes
,5.89 Score
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what age do ladies on Swapfinder.com consider to be to young for a male 2/28/2004
I have been a member for a month and everytime i get the response
you are to young. I have gotten this over and over again,
and i thought I would askk the members. I am 21 single male
in live in the dallas area.
0 Comments, 101 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score
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I want my wife to swing with guys and gals how do i convince her 2/27/2004
We are a married couple in our mid forties, considered to
both attractive and her very attractive..we have a medioca
sex life, although i have tried to spice things up. I have
suggested to her a number of times to fuck another guy or
girl to see if thats works for her. But she seems disinterested
in the idea, With me not necesserly in the same room. Have
told her to just go out and meet ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
21 Votes
,6.84 Score
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Sleazy Names 2/27/2004
Sleazy Names
(Advice Article)
I will never reply to a sleazey name...I would be so embarassed
if it turned up in an email when I was in company. Please consider
your name...is it one you can reply discreetly to when at
work? Its hard to convince someone watching that "FuckUboy"
is a business associate. Your choice...but don't
complain when people don't want to reply to you. Look
to your ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
25 Votes
,7.78 Score
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Help? 2/27/2004
My girlfriend and I recently started having a threesome
with another girl. Things have been find, except for last
weekend. My girlfriend went out of town, and after one too
many drinks at the bar, I ended up going home with our threesome
partner. Is this cheating? And should I tell my girlfriend?
0 Comments, 47 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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new to lifestyle,do,s and dont's on first time meet 2/26/2004
i am meeting someone for the first time, a little nervous
and excited. would like some pointers, don't want
to turn her off by being to eager.
0 Comments, 10 Views,
22 Votes
,6.97 Score
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Guys who like strap-ons 2/26/2004
I'm a st-8 guy that day dreams about getting fucked
up the ass by a woman wearing a strap-on dilldo.....is this
something women sometimes think about?
0 Comments, 17 Views,
28 Votes
,5.81 Score
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how do i get someone to leave me alone.... 2/26/2004
this guy that i met online wont leave me alone...its like
he is obssessed...he somehow knows when im online even
though i am invisible and whenever i go to a chat room all
of a sudden he appears there too....wht is up with that...i
dont understand how he is doing that...is there some kind
of program that tells him everything i am doing on my puter
and how the hell did he get access to my ...
3 Comments, 48 Views,
19 Votes
,6.68 Score
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Friends with benefits? 2/26/2004
Does such a relationship truly exist? Is it possible to
be just fuck buddies? I'm in one right now. Everything
was cool, then in the middle of sex the other night she said
she loved me. She hasn't mentioned it since, and I've
pretended like it didn't happen. What should I do?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
9 Votes
,5.35 Score
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Re:Re:How To Get Email Replies... in my opinion... 2/25/2004
Thank you for your reply to my article. I appreciate your
opinion, but I might have been slightly misunderstood.
I do agree in etiquette and replying to your email. Unfortunately,
some members are only allowed a certain amount of outgoing
email. In reference to rudeness, I take offense to those
that are not considerate enough to read my profile and tell
me more about themselves. I mean, we ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
46 Votes
,8.75 Score
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Is the a pill I can take. 2/25/2004
I love sex but I don't have a high sex drive (like my man)
is there a pill I can take to help with that????
0 Comments, 30 Views,
9 Votes
,1.29 Score
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RE to: "Staying Abreast on Janet . . ." 2/24/2004
I think the ultimate reason for crap like this 'happening'
is for sensationalism. "I have no real talent or I
can't seem to cut it in today's 'media society'
because all I really am is a relic from the past, just pumping
out the same ol' rehash music and dance moves hoping
that the younger people with money in their pocket will
spend it on what they think is new, provocative and exciting." ...
0 Comments, 0 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Staying Abreast on Janet, and Much More... 2/23/2004
Staying Abreast on Janet, and Much More...
I am not a Superbowl watcher. But i did watch the half time
show for Justin T. Why the hell did he have to take the top
off Janet Jackson??? Was there any need? Other than old-fashioned
sensationalism! And what the hell was SHE thinking? In
public...exposing her right breast! Wasn't that
public exposure? And what was that nipple ornament she
was ...
0 Comments, 40 Views,
30 Votes
,6.28 Score
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What to watch out for when purchasing porn 2/23/2004
So, you've decided to purchase porn via mail or online
(at least you should; it avoids the embarassment of bumping
into a co-worker whose in line to buy a strap-on). Are there
any pitfalls to watch out for? More than there are in the
Everglades! Here's one principled pervert's
advice if you should try to buy porn via the postal sevice.
<br>
1) If they don't ask for your ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
785 Votes
,8.00 Score
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sex and the bbw 2/22/2004
After reading an article and being pleased at someone saying
that larger women can have fun....!
I would like to add something to that!
Us BBW's do like sex, we can have wonderful sex!
Don't judge us by our size!
So many men on Swapfinder.com do, don't judge the book by it's
cover!
We can do the same things 'normal' sized women
do, in fact most bbws are very active in the bedroom!
We love ...
6 Comments, 164 Views,
31 Votes
,7.65 Score
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Oral Pleasure??? 2/22/2004
I am myself a hopeless romantic. When I am with a hardcore
woman, its easy to say anything to her to referance getting
head. But, when I want to be more "Mr. Feelings",
or sensual, what is it that i could say, short, sweet and
to the point, Hey on your knees and suck it!!
0 Comments, 2 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Ice breakers? 2/22/2004
I have yet to meet someone on this website but am making plans
with someone. It is kind of akward always talking online
to a person and then meeting them for the first time, I guess
its not my strong point. I'm basically looking for
some suggestions to help break the ice and whatnot with
this person. Any suggestions?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What to do when your wife wants to use a dildo on you 2/21/2004
Its very simple...I you like anal play, try it, if you have
bi tendencies(not the same thing), or if you and your wife
are adventurous, give it a try. My gf and I did and I love for
her to do me in the ass. Its not for everyone, but you never
know till you try.
0 Comments, 26 Views,
99 Votes
,6.99 Score
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fisrt date 2/21/2004
Just thought I would write and tell you of my experiences
on this site. I am glad that the fella who wrote the article
found a single female. There are, as I have found, many genuine
single women on here. I was browsing and came across a single
35 yr old who wanted a no strings relationship, purely for
sex . I thought, what the heck, I’m 45 and probably too old
but wrote anyway. ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
33 Votes
,6.45 Score
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videotaping the moment 2/20/2004
My husband and I are free-spirited people with a normal
and perfectly sex life. We've done things like light
bondage and taking photos of one another, etc. We are also
very open with one another and any partners we encounter.
The thing that has me somewhat bugged is that I would like
to make a video of us with someone else running the camera
for a change. The idea really turns us both on ...
1 Comments, 72 Views,
42 Votes
,8.16 Score
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How would you feel? 2/20/2004
It is certainly worth thinking about but as with most things
there are two sides to the story of women's repression.
Men today are expected to live in two worlds, each extremely
demanding. The world of work involving the need for success,
domination and competition and the domestic world of love,
responsibility and peaceful co-existence. Society still
deems that men shall put women in a ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
21 Votes
,4.61 Score
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why do ppl feel they must put in their profiles that they are disease free???? 2/19/2004
Why do ppl feel that they must put in their profiles that
they are disease free? I mean really if you werent, wouldhnt
you either not tell or go and see your doctor and have it cleared
up????? I could see if it is a few ppl doing this but it seems
like there are more like 75% of the profiles that i read say
this?
I guess just stupid stuff that ppl feel that have to put in
their ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
47 Votes
,6.68 Score
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Winning her back 2/18/2004
My girlfriend recently broke up with me and said she just
wanted a little time away. Later I found out that she was
trying to get with a guy (my friend) who she had, for lack
of a better term, a huge crush on for years. Then things did
not work out between them and I tried to talk to her about
"us" again but ever since then shes been avoiding
me. I think she is blaming me for things ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
0 Votes
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Self-Orgasm 2/18/2004
How can you give yourself an orgasm without toys?
0 Comments, 12 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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picking a picture 2/17/2004
Should the cover photo on the personal add be face or body
to catch the eye of the right person? Just a quick question
to get the opinion of my peers.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Casual Sex - True or not true? 2/17/2004
Can one have just casual sex without getting emotions involved?
If you have a one night stand and the person gets up and walks
away without a word, kiss, smile or some aknowledgement
then one does tend to feel an emptyness or a upscure feeling!
true or not?
0 Comments, 5 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Got Milk? 2/16/2004
I was wondering how does a female start to lactate. I mean
I know how and why's of how it works. But, what about
if you have no , can a woman start to lactate somehow?
0 Comments, 25 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Female Ejaculation...is it a myth? 2/16/2004
Ok, I've read articles and also have seen videos where
there are women that squirt when they cum. Ever since I saw
an article on the subject, I've been more than intrigued.
I must know how to do this! When I have sex, I enjoy penetration,
oral the 9 yards. However, I can't seem to squirt. Is
this something that women can really do or is it a myth. How
does one achieve such mind ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
7 Votes
,5.84 Score
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Not looking for strings! 2/15/2004
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We
have an amazing sexual chemistry. We talk openly about
things that we would like to try. He of course wants to experience
a threesome with another woman and I am excited by the thought
of it. I get excited by the idea of being with another woman
and having him watch. We have talked about him joining in
with me while the other woman ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Don't do this LOL as much as we would all love to 2/15/2004
I never have quite figured out why the sexual urges of men
and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the
whole Venus and Mars thing. And I never figured out why men
think with their head and women think with their
heart. And I never yet have figured out how the sexual desire
gene gets thrown into a state of turmoil when it hears the
words "I do."
<br>
One evening ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Straight, but very curious 2/14/2004
I love women. I love the contours of their bodies. I love
the smell of a hot wet pussy grinding into my face. But lately
I find myself fantasizing about things that I would have
found repulsive before. I can't stop thinking about
sucking cock. It's become an obsession that keeps
growing in my mind. It started out as a kinky thought that
I entertained when I needed something new get aroused. ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Toys up the ass? 2/14/2004
Do you think its wrong to use sexual toys up your ass to help
stimulate you with masterbation?
0 Comments, 19 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Responses are good therapy. 2/14/2004
I feel I should add to this string for one thing. People try
too hard to be nice by not responding or saying no and not
giving a reason why. A "No" response with a reason
may help people to improve themselves for someone else.
Admit it, we are all insecure here enough as it is. We could
meet people live otherwise. But the internet is a forum
for those shy and insecure to boost ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Truth or dare! 2/13/2004
I have recently found out that my husband is searching for
something more sexually. I have found this out by coming
across an email he has received. The email wasn't quite
clear as to whether or not they were male, female, part of
a couple or single. It just stated that they would be willing
to meet to do some explicit things to my husband. In the email
it did mention bisexual but ...
0 Comments, 94 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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what to do when your partner wants to use a dildo on you 2/13/2004
My sex partner wants to use a strap-on and fuck me from behind.
I'm not real open to this but it is one of her best fantasies.
Should I let her fuck me with a strap-on or just tell her I'm
not comfortable with this ?
0 Comments, 13 Views,
96 Votes
,7.63 Score
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what to do 2/13/2004
Does anyone have any good ideas on what to as entertainment
for a swingers party?
0 Comments, 36 Views,
0 Votes
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what to do??????????????? 2/13/2004
What do you do when you decide that you don't want the
third person in your relationship anymore? How do you tell
them you don't want to see them without them turning
into a stalker.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
0 Votes
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About ADF for college students 2/13/2004
OI, is this 'ere ADF an effective means of getting some
tail, 'specially considering the fact that I'm
a college guy, Id like to hear back from guys my age, and some
reports on their good luck and bad luck
0 Comments, 11 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Get the maximum from your sexual encounter 2/12/2004
To get the maximum from a sexual encounter in a 1 to 1 sex try
following:
-Sex in the bathtub/ swimming pool/under the shower
-Massage each other prior to the sex act
-Tear each other's clothing to open the opposite sex
partener's private parts
-Try all sex positions. One way a women can make the women
on top position interesting is;keeping the cock in the
pussy cirle around 360 ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
103 Votes
,8.78 Score
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what to do, what to do? 2/12/2004
I wish someone could tell me what you gotta do to find true
love. cus i sure aint finding it. any advice?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
36 Votes
,3.24 Score
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RE:How do I trust men again? 2/12/2004
As you have been burnt, so have I, wife decided separation
was better as she could not face up to the lies that were told
to becom married. I vowed that I would never a marry again
and that I would not let any woman close enough to become
long term, until I found one that I could not see my future
without her and then waited for another year. You need to
treat each person you meet as an ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
42 Votes
,8.62 Score
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How To Meet New People Thru Winks ;-) 2/12/2004
"What the heck is a wink?" "Do they do any
good?" These are just 2 of the many questions that
popped up when Swapfinder.com installed the SEND A WINK button. Being
an Standard Member, there was no way to contact other people
that shared your similar interests. Gold and Silver members
had the ability to contact anyone. This was all well and
good, but us Standard Members couldn't initiate any
contact. ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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PUPIC HAIR IS IN AGAIN! YIPPI! 2/12/2004
XXX MOVIES ARE NOW CUMMING BACK THE WAY IT STARTED OUT TO
BE! THE FAMIOUS RON JEREMY THE SEX ACTOR AND DIRECTOR HAD
THIS TO SAY! "PUBIC HAIR IS CUMMING BACK ALONG WITH
A STORY LINE AND MAYBE LOVE STORYS AS WELL!
WHY? YOU ASKED? THE FILM INDUSTRY IS GOING BACK TO THE BASICS!
JUST LIKE THE MINI SKRIT WENT OUT AND CAME BACK!SO ALL YOU
PUBIC HAIR LOVERS YOUR IN LUCK! AND FOR THOSE LADYS WHO ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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How To Get Email Replies... my opinion... 2/11/2004
I see a lot of articles about this problem, and thought I’d
share my experience, or at least my opinion. Being bi-sexual,
I think this may help men and women sending email in here
and hoping for replies. Please be aware of who you are sending
to. What kind of membership do each of you have, for example.
I’m noticing, Some members generally can’t view most profiles
and/or pictures. ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
124 Votes
,8.96 Score
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Re:Husbands Sharing Wives and Not Getting It! 2/11/2004
You don't have to get it, just make your choices and
let others make theirs !!!!!!!
0 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How many times do you wank a day? 2/11/2004
I wank anywhere from 1 - 5 times a day depending on how sore
my wanker is. I actually think that I wank a little too much,
is wanking 3+ times a day too much?
0 Comments, 99 Views,
0 Votes
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give her that great orgasm !! 2/11/2004
You may need to test the waters on this one.the next time
you are having sex with your female partner just when she
is about to orgasm gently slip your lubed finger to her butt
and swirl around the hole and very carefully slip it in, cautiosly
go deeper as long as it doesnt hurt she will have a gusher!!
0 Comments, 1 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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how do i get sex stories about familes , ???? 2/10/2004
i am really interested to get some hot sotries about familes
sex such as and mother , and father , sister
and brother , two sisters ????? any idea , anyone has his
own experiences to share it with us ?????? pls help
0 Comments, 99 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The best way to break up 2/10/2004
I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 years. Things
just arent going as we had planed. We have lived together
for three of the four years. She has a from an ex, but
the has never seen him. The problem is that the calls
me dad. She has no where to go either. The house we live in
is mine. I guess what I realy want to know is what to say to
her to get here to leave. But i want to still ...
0 Comments, 27 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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PLEASE use spell check!!! 2/10/2004
It is so disappointing to click on an article in the "magazine"
section of Swapfinder.com, and find almost every story filled with
spelling errors. Every writer should know failure to use
spell check is a sure way to alienate readers!! Why would
the Editor's of Swapfinder.com allow such error filled stories
to be published on their site? Please make the effort to
produce work of a higher quality and stop ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
63 Votes
,7.48 Score
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RE: BBW Needs Some Help 2/10/2004
It doesn't sound like you need someone to take control.
To me, it sounds like you just haven't found the right
partner yet. Sex for the sake of sex is one thing, but sex
as part of a loving relationship is another. It sounds like
you have reservations about sex for the sake of sex and wish
for a more committed relationship before you submit to
your desires. There is NOTHING wrong with ...
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RE: BBW needs some help 2/10/2004
My advice would be to take things slowly. Find a guy who is
willing to invest the time to help you get over things. A
guy who is willing to stick by you and cuddle even if things
don't come to sex. If you take your time, build up trust,
and are better able to relax I think you'll find things
come naturally. There are plenty of kind, patient men out
there.
<br>
As for a "take ...
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1 Votes
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Shaving for Men 2/10/2004
I'm a big fan of shaved women. For one thing, it's
just so much easier going down on a shaved woman... No little
hairs getting stuck in your throat, and I think a shaved
woman just looks very sexy.
<br>
But what about shaved men? I've gone shaved sometimes,
and while I find it nicer and more 'clean' feeling,
my partner seems rather indifferent to it, so most of the
time I just ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
2 Votes
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Increase sperm count? 2/10/2004
I have a question.
<br>
I did it with my girlfriend 9 times saturday. The first three
times were great but each time after that I had to strain
to come and only came a few drops.
<br>
Are there any supplements to take to increase your sperm
count for a Fuck-a-thon?
<br>
I need up to a week to reload. Anything that will help replenish
my sperm faster?
...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
2 Votes
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Little help over here 2/10/2004
I have been haveing a hard time geting my dick rock hard latly.
I can get an erection all easy and stuff but it just isn't
nice and super hard like it used to get. Does anyone have
any advice?
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0 Votes
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bigger cocks 2/9/2004
do you women out there really like bigger cocks? if so how
big? well most of the women i know like big cocks so tell me
what you think
0 Comments, 18 Views,
84 Votes
,4.75 Score
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After many threesomes... 2/8/2004
After many threesomes before we were married, had
and she gained weight...she now is balking at the idea how
could I get her back into the swing of things. Especially
when she talks about on occassion? Thanks for any help you
could provide.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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cheesey lines 2/8/2004
usually when i try pick up women i try to use a cheesey pick
up line just to break the ice and not as a means to impress
her. sometimes it really does work just as a conversation
starter, and other times i just get "the look".
the majority of the time though i usually end up with her
number if not more. for an example one time i used "how
do you like your eggs....scrambled, poached, or ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
478 Votes
,4.85 Score
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fuck whenever you get an opportunity 2/8/2004
I have read about a lot of people in this site asking advise
on whether they should go ahead and fuck/ and in turn become
unfaithful to their lifepartener and live their fantasy.
My advise to all such people is you only live once. Live life
to its fullest, fuck around whenever you have the opportunity.
You dont have to be let it known to your partener. However,
Love your partener and do not ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
105 Votes
,2.73 Score
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personal selfish poeple 2/8/2004
it give alot of poeple who while into the swinging scene,
when they meet start after things start in a good way, act
in a jealous way, (not able to cum when the other in the room,
not able to get hard....)those poeple just do not want to
understand that it is about sex and not relationship. what
are the sing to find those kind of poeple and to leave them
on the side?
0 Comments, 41 Views,
26 Votes
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Love You First 2/7/2004
Easier said then done. Do you ever have those "I hate
me" days? I think we all do. Do you have more than your
fair share? Your not alone. Here lately, I have been feeling
very worthless, nothing makes me happy. I have come to a
solution for it, but it has not found its way to me yet. Find
something that shakes you up inside, something that makes
your day worth waking up to. It could be a ...
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18 Votes
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re: you can't change your mind now 2/7/2004
You are not alone! This scene has played before and it will
happen again and again. Being human we all think we can "handle
it" until someone comes along and really rings our
spouses bell. Your husband thought that he was the worlds
best fuck and until HE found this new lover that knows just
how to do the things that really ring your bell. Uh-oh! That
wasn't supposed to happen in his mind. ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
12 Votes
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Asking 2/6/2004
How do you ask someone you know that you would like them to
join you and your husband in a threesome without freaking
them out?
0 Comments, 13 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Whats it like??????? 2/6/2004
I would like to have a 4 or 5 some with my husband me and 3 or
4 other girls has anyone done this and what is it like???
0 Comments, 4 Views,
9 Votes
,1.72 Score
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First Time 2/6/2004
And advice about letting a women join you and your spouse?
0 Comments, 179 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Shaving 2/6/2004
How do you make the itching stop when you shave??????
0 Comments, 2 Views,
7 Votes
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RE: sex more than once a day 2/6/2004
Each of us have varying sexual needs. From when I was 49 I
was having sex 1-4 times a day - every day and it was enjoyable
- my wife initiated this sex a third the times. Then she had
an accident and now I still want the same amount of sex but
only get it once a month on average. Anyone else will have
different appetites, just enjoy yours although it is very
hard when your wife does not ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
55 Votes
,6.37 Score
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To come out or not to come out. 2/6/2004
I am 27, I have known that I am gay for sometime. I live in small
town Canada and find it difficult to a) find a partner and
b) decide whether or not to come out.
<br>
My family is pretty religious and would not be too supportive.
My friends are all very open minded, easy going people.
In fact a good friend of mine came out back in September and
no one even batted an eye.
...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
4 Votes
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Any guys actually get laid on Swapfinder.com? 2/6/2004
I have been on here for six months now and I haven't gotten
any action. I am not bad looking, polite, d/d free and well
hung, yet I have never hooked up here. My profile is not offensive
and I have tried a couple different kinds of pics from g rated
to x rated. I don't even get replies saying 'no
thanks' from anyone. I have talked to a couple other
guys that say the same thing. I have ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
32 Votes
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stay as virgin until you get married 2/6/2004
just an advise for those youngsters stay virgin until marriage.
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46 Votes
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I have wanted to try this for a while.girls would you find this a turn on 2/6/2004
an ex girlfriend introduced me to something I would not
have tried by myself. she was very attentive and her timming
was impecable, just as I was about to cum she would push one
of her fingers up my ass(the first time she did this I was
not ready for that to happen at all) but the next time she
warned me and I had never experienced anything like it in
my life I came for what seemed like a ...
0 Comments, 79 Views,
79 Votes
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Re: Male shaving, an alternative 2/5/2004
Some woman like men shaved because of the clean, neat appearence,
but it's itchy and a little silly looking. Instead,
try a little pruning. First, trim for depth, about a half
inch to three quarters looks good. To short can look patchy.
Take it down shorter around your dick and ball sack. Then
shape the top and sides into a tiangle. Eliminate all hair
growing on your cock, she wants to ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
1940 Votes
,8.36 Score
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You can't change your mind now! 2/5/2004
My new husband has always liked watching me perform for
and with other men. At first I was very uncomfortable with
this, I felt like if I enjoyed it, he would secretly feel
betrayed, and I told him so. He assured me he wouldn't
and so I did it for him.... and I found that I really didn't
enjoy it, it was either men I didnt really find attractive,
or men that didn't really know what they ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
34 Votes
,7.73 Score
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what to do 2/5/2004
i have kind of a reputation at the bar i go to as a great lay.
it is a ego boost but it is also getting in the way of a woman
i am really interested in, and she keeps asking how many
of the women in the bar i have slept with. i keep avoiding
the question and say not as many as you think. i really dont
know what to say and if she asks how many women ive really
been with i'm really in ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Does she want to swing ??? 2/4/2004
Hi:
<br>
My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We have a great
marriage and a great sex life. I am pretty open when it comes
to sex. I always have been but she was much more reserved
when we met.
<br>
About 2 years ago, we went out for Halloween to a local club
that gets very crowed (standing room only). She dressed
as a biker and really liked the ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
15 Votes
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Virginity Advice 2/4/2004
First off, it's not wrong for someone to be 18 or 19 years
old and still be a virgin. The advice that I can offer any
girl is to make sure it's with someone who will listen
to you. It will, most likely, hurt like hell you're
first time, so make sure it's a guy that you can trust
enough so that if you feel uncomfortable then you can tell
him and he will stop. The first guy I ever had sex ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
16 Votes
,7.39 Score
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Be genuine. 2/4/2004
I've belonged to this site for awhile and I never noticed
there was anything more to it than the pictures of well-hung
men. Today, in an effort to earn points, I started reading
the articles, etc. Jesus. I am 44 years old. I have had sex.
It never, I have to repeat this, NEVER goes the way these
articles read. Real sex is still good though, isn't
it? Do we have to have our intelligence ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Penis enlargement pills 2/3/2004
I was looking into buying some of those penis enlargement
pills. But I would rather talk with someone who has taken
them before, so that I know what all is involved. If there
are men who have taken these type of pills, did they work?
What where your measurements before and after? How long
did it take to achieve your results? And if you have any before
and after photos, could you please ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
58 Votes
,2.80 Score
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What do I do 2/3/2004
I have been talking on Im to a lady for a couple of months.
She contacted me for sex but wanted e-sex first. We have
talked this way for awhile now and every time I ask about
meeting she says be patient. I think I have been very patient
for the last 4 months. Everything she asks me to do I do at
her request but when I ask simple questions she avoids the
answer. Should I continue to talk ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Am I alone? 2/3/2004
I'm a 45yo male, always been straight, happily married
with family etc.Recently I've been fantasising about
dressing in sexy women's clothes(stockings, heels
etc)and sucking a guys cock, and maybe even letting him
fuck me.The idea of m/m sex as a man doesn't excite me, just
the crossdressing part.Anyone else in AFFland like me?If
so, I could use some help.
1 Comments, 209 Views,
11 Votes
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Getting More Women Members 2/3/2004
Swapfinder.com, take a page from some of the really good dating services.
Give women free memberships in at least the Silver area.
The ratio of men to women will get more men to sign up just
to be able to contact the women who will join if they don't
have to pay. Or at least offer half price for women.
0 Comments, 20 Views,
20 Votes
,7.72 Score
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adult entertainment business 2/3/2004
Hey!!!! I am wondering if anyone knows how to look into getting
started in the adult entertainment business..I am interested
in finding some info I just have no idea where to start..if
you have any info. please let me know! thanks!
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0 Votes
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having a moral conflict 2/2/2004
okay, I work at a movie theater in Queens, and the other day
this really hot girl came in with her friend. Me and one of
my friends/coworkers were admiring her for a minute, and
then when the food we ordered came, he suggested that I go
talk to her. Normally, and he knows this, I shy up about talki
to girls, but he wasn't going to let me get away with
it this time, so he nudged me into ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Love small breasts 2/2/2004
Help me out here. Almost all the profiles are searching
for big cocks or big boobs. Are'nt there any women out
there who are proud of their small or non-existent breasts.
some of us men are turned on and excited by the tiny, firm
little ones. Stand up and be proud of your tiny ones, and
while you're at it, E me!!! Kurt
0 Comments, 12 Views,
14 Votes
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Women going to strip clubs 2/2/2004
For women to find the right strip club to have fun at is hard.
The best ones we have found and we have been all over the country
is in the ST.louis area, manily PT's strip club. After
midnight its about 50 % women and 50 % men, lots of couples
and single girls, have fun.
1 Comments, 246 Views,
10 Votes
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3Way 2/2/2004
My girl and I have talked about 3way sex before and we are
both interested, but can not agree how to find the person.
I feel that we should build a relationship with the girl
first, but her thoughts are more geared toward meeting
someone online and just doing it. I don’t know what the best
way is to go about this, I would be more comfortable with
someone that I know, but she thinks ...
1 Comments, 18 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Re: what do you do if your wife isnt into sex as much as you? 2/2/2004
The original author complained that his wife didn't
like sex as much as he did, and that she only liked basic missionary
while he liked a variety of things.
<br>
In answer to the first problem (difference of sex drives)
I can only say to deal with it. If sex drives were in synch
there would be a lot less cheating and infidelity in the
world.
<br>
To answer the second ...
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4 Votes
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what do you think. 2/2/2004
ok i have never done this befor. i have been with the same
girl for the last 2 years. She is the only person i have had
sex. I would like to try a three some and see how a nother girl
would be. i just dont know how to ask her.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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how do i tell my best friend no? 2/1/2004
how do i tell my best friend without hurting him that i donot
want to have an intimate relationship with him nor do i want
to become his girlfriend. he has been pursuing me for the
13 years that we have known each other and i have never let
it go beyond friendship. dont get me wrong he is a wonderful
person but i have expressed to him that i dont want to be more
than friends. he keeps ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why is the female orgasm so difficult sometimes? 2/1/2004
Why is it that for a man it's no doubt that they'll
be able to get off, but for a woman to orgasm it takes like
three times the effort?
0 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Privat chatroom 2/1/2004
I have a private chatroom but I do'nt know haw to invite
some one in it for a chat. Is there a nice persone who will
help me with this? I'm a standard member.
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