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Why is the female orgasm so difficult sometimes? 2/1/2004
Why is it that for a man it's no doubt that they'll
be able to get off, but for a woman to orgasm it takes like
three times the effort?
0 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Privat chatroom 2/1/2004
I have a private chatroom but I do'nt know haw to invite
some one in it for a chat. Is there a nice persone who will
help me with this? I'm a standard member.
0 Comments, 15 Views,
0 Votes
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Cum load 1/31/2004
How do i increase the size of my load?
0 Comments, 24 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Re: Do women want to see men's junk on here? 1/31/2004
No, we don't. Or at least I don't. I mean, it's
not like having a picture of your cock on your profile will
make me NOT respond to you, but it's never once made
me REALLY WANT to respond. In fact, pictures of really big
cocks have inspired me not to respond because I'm not
sure if I can handle it. So don't think that just because
yours is big, we'll love you. And if it's small,
why ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
8 Votes
,5.80 Score
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So, you did not get a response and wonder why 1/31/2004
I guess I've been lucky with the response we have had
after we posted some sexy pictures. After we posted pics
it increased the views to our profile by 20 times than we
had with no pics posted. Well the point is when you have more
people that view you, you will get more response. Either
with a wink, added to their hotlist or with an e-mail from
them. In one day we had 31 e-mails saying ...
0 Comments, 66 Views,
11 Votes
,6.72 Score
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big hole 1/31/2004
how do you know if you're considered to have a big hole
or not?
0 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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To All Men Whose Wives Have Had Babies Recently.. 1/30/2004
I see all of these guys writing in saying that their wives
just had , whether it was a month ago or a year ago, and
I thought I would shed some light on the situation since
I have been there before. Almost 10 years ago I had my ..I
was 18 back then and got married 2 months after he was born..Back
when we were dating, when I was pregnant, my hubby and I did
it every day..And when I say every ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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What's the difference? 1/30/2004
It seems that most people understand what the term "safe"
sex is but I have been running across the phrase "safer"
sex a lot..and it doesn't seem to imply abstinence
or non performance...any thoughts?
0 Comments, 55 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Premature ejectulation or male multiple orgasims? 1/30/2004
Like many men out there I had a problem with not lasting as
long as I wanted. I looked everywhere and found some good
advice. this involved some toys, drugs, and liquer. But
the best advice was also the most simple: Excercise, relax,
and practice. I will leave the details to the books and services
who deserve the revenue from thier research.
<br>
But I found out something else ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Difference of a man & a woman 1/29/2004
The difference of a man and a woman goes back to the beginning
of time. A man has a strong sex life generally through life
to produce a off spring while women in modern times want
a man who can provide for the family that why in modern times
it is money. She will do what a man wants, sex at first until
marriage and a then she becomes a mother not a sex object
for the man while the man ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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I need opinions about using protection for 3somes 1/29/2004
Hi there. I'm a 36f and have been with the same partner
for about 18 years and we want to have a threesome. Since
I am new at this, my question is, if I were to be involved in
a threesome, is it alright to ask the other person to use
protection? I am looking forward to hearing some opinions
on this. Thanks!
0 Comments, 68 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Orgasms affect my hearing! 1/29/2004
Okay, so I have sent this in to Maxim and Playboy but neither
have responded. I am a 37yo female who has VERY intense orgasms
that affect my hearing...I lose most of my hearing for several
minutes to hours after cumming really hard. I want to know
what causes this and if it happens to other people!
<br>
Thanks,
<br>
Deaf Sexy girl !
2 Comments, 321 Views,
12 Votes
,6.69 Score
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HOW-TO's: male-to-female 1/28/2004
HEY (FEMME)GUYS: as another genetic male that's considered
myself "Transgendered" since a pre-,
here's my advice to you. Do an online search under "transgender"
in your area for you to find support groups that you can visit/join
to help you with your desires to dress/behave/appreciate
the female sex. While society accepts women that act, behave
and dress as men, we T-Girls need and DESERVE ...
3 Comments, 444 Views,
35 Votes
,6.59 Score
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Am I that bad 1/28/2004
Short, sweet, and to the point! i have been a member for about
3 months and have yet to have a date or for that matter any
bites..... Am I doing something wrong or did I say the wrong
things. Let me know how I can meet some ladies....
0 Comments, 42 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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RE: Test Cum 1/28/2004
Oh yes and it goes wit the saying "you are what you eat"!
Most men worries when their girlfriend refuse to give them
blow jobs, but ignore them when they say "honey do
you mind smoking for a while?" nicotine make sperm
test and smell bad so who would like to swallow them. So guys
avoid things like too much garlic, onions, smoking etc.
Pineapple give the sperms the best test. Most important ...
1 Comments, 127 Views,
8 Votes
,6.03 Score
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RE: How do I meet people 1/28/2004
I have met quiet a lot of great people from this site. As it
turns out most of them just happen to be on here because of
a pop up or sitting bored in the office and surfing. Although
it is an adult website I real suggest to be naked ONLY if you
have one of those playboy magazine men's body. I have
seen a lot of penises on here which were real a turn off, they
just look ugly! So avoid ...
1 Comments, 78 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Tips for making contact with someone you like 1/27/2004
1. Wink (wait for wink back)
2. Add to hotlist (wait for it back)
3. Make contact (wait for it back)
4. Invite to each other's network
5. Live happily ever after
<br>
Don't send me an invite to your damn network (where
I keep my most personal pictures) if you haven't taken
the time to get to know me, period.
<br>
The following is taken from my auto-response ...
0 Comments, 94 Views,
12 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Once you discover you're a submissive, Learn as much as you can... 1/27/2004
Now that you’ve discovered this wonderful thing about
yourself, it’s time to learn more about yourself. READ...
READ…READ…
<br>
I cannot stress this enough. Take the time to learn all the
different aspects of D/s, S/M, or the all-encompassing
BDSM. You don’t have to like pain, but if you do, that’s fine
too. So explore. What’s ...
0 Comments, 340 Views,
12 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Meeting others in the BDSM lifestyle... 1/27/2004
Okay. Now you’ve read every website you can find and every
book you could get your hands on. It’s time to talk to other
people in the lifestyle. Go to local munches and meetings
(if there are any near you), and meet others in the lifestyle.
Too many times, people are terrified to go to these things
because they don’t know what to expect. They fear they’ll
say ...
0 Comments, 270 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Dom/mes are not mind-readers... 1/27/2004
In getting to know your partner, he or she will be learning
about you too. It is “imperative” that you be completely
honest not only with him or her, but with yourself as well.
Tell him or her what you need, what you’re interested in,
what you’re afraid of, what you might want to try some time
in the future, but perhaps aren’t ready for yet. If you are ...
0 Comments, 209 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Get references... 1/27/2004
Whether they actually say or do something, or, if it is simply
an uneasy feeling you have, pay attention to ‘red flags’.
<br>
Get references, if possible (and not only email references).
Talk voice-to-voice with people who have played with or
been in a relationship with the person before. Talking
to a former playmate might seem a little awkward, but it’s ...
1 Comments, 166 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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Wanting More than great fucking 1/27/2004
I've met a guy here on Swapfinder.com. We have been going hot and
heavy for over 3 years now. It started out as just sex with
no strings attached. Now I want more. How do I go about it.
Yes he knows how I feel and I am the only one he is sexing.
1 Comments, 192 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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How can I start? 1/27/2004
How does one find swingers' parties? I am outside Chicago
and single. I have no clue of how to find such parties. I am
interested in practicing safe sex with nice people where
I can feel free to join in or not. Any advice?
0 Comments, 150 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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What's this thing called sex about? 1/27/2004
I have been on this site for quite a few years and have met
about 5 women. My question is, how come they don't always
look like their picture?
0 Comments, 74 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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RE EATING PUSSY 1/26/2004
If done correctly you can slowly and softly lick the clit
after she has cum and work her up to another orgasm very quickly.
Just think of it as the tide coming in then waves crashing
on the beach then a tidel wave. I have done this to several
women and they loved every flip of my tongue.
8 Comments, 5835 Views,
506 Votes
,5.05 Score
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Fucking without Passion! HELP!!!! 1/25/2004
How can a person bring passion back into fucking...there's
no kissing, no real foreplay, and even if we do get to just
the MAIN EVENT, it's kinda boring, lackluster, with
no KaBOom if you know what I mean...How I can tell a guy it's
weak..I really like him, I know he likes me...what can we
do...ps..he is really uptight about trying new things
and not being in control when we have sex!
1 Comments, 348 Views,
14 Votes
,2.02 Score
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the taste of cum 1/24/2004
There are a few things that will improve the taste of cum
from a man. Obviously the first thing is to have a plan for
the meeting...designed to meet the erotic needs of BOTH
people envolved. But, that said, knowing that I am meeting
one of you beautiful sexy men for one of those precious weekend
getaways designed to pamper us both....I ask that my lover
cut back on red meat for a couple of ...
16 Comments, 3616 Views,
405 Votes
,4.53 Score
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Men 's heigt 1/24/2004
I 'll answer on RCwis11, on the art. he wrote. Men 's
height is importend to woman because they look up to tall
man. The woman feels secured because te man can deffend
her and her childeren agaist others who are smaler.
It was realy importend in the past.
Nowadays woman have oftend that feeling but they do n't
really know why. It exists
0 Comments, 581 Views,
15 Votes
,1.91 Score
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Age Difference 1/23/2004
Ok, I'm going to be upfront... I love older women. I'm
not talking just a couple of years, but more like 10+ years
older than me. To me, older women are more erotic than younger
women. Don't get me wrong, younger women are very arrousing,
however older women just seem to have a little more experience.
Not just in sexually active time, but more time in their
bodies. They seem to know what ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Is there love 1/23/2004
Is it Love
<br>
I am wondering if my husband really loves me. Anyway i decided
to leave him.
<br>
My husband have a small dick. He told me that he wish to
give me a enjoyable sex life. He introduce men with
big dick to have me. But each time when I started to get
horny he will stop the man and continue by himself.
I dont really enjoy anything but i dont complain. ...
0 Comments, 80 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Re: help me out please 1/22/2004
Is it possible that your wife is simply to exhausted after
working and taking care of your to want sex? After a
is born, even for several years, the extra workload can
just wear people out. We (men) often do not realize how much
our wives/girlfriends do for us. Working eight hours then
coming home to cook, clean, and take care of a is rough.
I suggest looking at how long and stressful ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
0 Votes
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YOU GUYS NEED TO TRY THIS! 1/22/2004
MY GIRLFRIEND CAN ONLY CUM BY CLIT STIMULATION AND THIS
SOMETIMES DRIVES ME CRAZY. SHE LOVES MY BIG COCK IN HER BUT
CAN ONLY CUM IF I AM ON MY BACK AND SHE MOUNTS ME AND VIOLENTLY
RUBS HER CLIT ON MY PUBIC BONE. THEN WHEN SHE DOES CUM IT ALMOST
MAKE HER PASS OUT. THAT PART IS GREAT BUT I FEEL SOMETIMES
LIKE I COULD BE REPLACED BY A PIECE OF HARDWOOD. I BELIEVE
THAT SHE IS THAT WAY FROM ...
0 Comments, 86 Views,
8 Votes
,5.56 Score
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breast cancer and reconstruction surgery 1/22/2004
My wife is a brest cancer survivor and recently has had reconstructive
surgery. I am trying to interest her in the nudist lifestyle.
She's seems to be amenable to it but I am worried about
how others may react to her. The reconstruction is not perfect
but very good. There are some faint scars, etc. I know not
everyone would be insensitive to her but would like some
advice on how to handle ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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re: help me out please 1/22/2004
She's probably just tired. Babies are a lot of work.
I found that the more I helped out with the babies the more
fun I had. Yes, I know that may sound selfish but it worked
for us!
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Wanting a small breasted woman-help 1/22/2004
I am totally attracted to women with extremely small, or
virtually non-existent breasts. All you see are women
looking for "big cocks" or men looking for"big
boobs" in their profiles. How do those of us that are
looking for a little piece of reality find our prize? Are
their any any small breasted women out there looking to
be appreciated(both emotionally and physically)?
0 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Re: help me out 1/21/2004
Could your wife just be too tired. If she is too tired, trying
new things won't work. Consider looking at how long
her day is. Does your wife work then come home to cook, clean,
and take care of your ? We (men) often take for granted
the work the women in our lives do every day. Even if you are
splitting the work load 50-50 try doing a few extras (plannning
and cooking the meals, bathing ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
0 Votes
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for the guys 1/21/2004
Here are some tips for guys
1. set your cupid settings for what you want and distance
at 50 to 75 miles.
<br>
2. Click on whos online, then filter gender and distance.
This gives you all the females near you who are active, right
now.
<br>
3. Send email, dont say to much, but try to hint at what they
say they wanted.
<br>
4. give a wink
<br> ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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help me out please 1/20/2004
i have been married for a year and a half. the sex was ok in
the beginning but now it has really gone down hill. at first
i thought it was because of the birth or our new , but it
has been a year since he was born. her drive has pretty much
left, and when we do have sex it's the same way and same
routine. she doesn't ever want to try anything new
no matter small it might be. can someone ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
187 Votes
,8.26 Score
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How To Get Email Replies 1/20/2004
I see a lot of articles about this problem, and thought I’d
share my experience. Being bi-sexual, I think this may
help men and women sending email in here and hoping for replies.
Please be aware of who you are sending to; what kind of membership
do each of you have, for example. I’m noticing, Standard
members generally aren’t being allowed to view most profiles
and/or pictures.  ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score
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Big cock 1/20/2004
Latin men have very large cocks
3 Comments, 421 Views,
10 Votes
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How does this website work 1/20/2004
I have been a free Swapfinder.com member for a couple of months now but
have not had any contact from anyone. What do I have to do
to get people to contact me/reply to my winks etc?
<br>
I can't put a picture on the website due to the possibility
of getting recognised with work and so am at a loss about
what to do
<br>
Any suggestions?
0 Comments, 15 Views,
0 Votes
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What's with all the shaving? 1/20/2004
Why do almost all the pictures on this site show shaved women?
Am I the last male who actually is turned on by the sight of
a nice bush?
0 Comments, 14 Views,
0 Votes
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Be realistic... 1/19/2004
I keep reading about people on this site who are upset that
they cannot meet any one. These people also always seem
to be men. And they always seem to ask why. Well, here is the
answer, it may be harsh, but its probably the best answer
you are going to get.
<br>
Browse your area. Notice the section that says Men looking
for women? And the one that says, Women Looking for men? ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Should I Sell My Body 1/19/2004
I really want to be a male i dont care if i have a man
or a woman. I have Done everything i love giving head its
amazing. Do you think i should sell my body. I also want to
shave my pubes is this advisable for a man. Anyone want to
help
0 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Re:THERE IS HELP FOR BAD SPELLING 1/19/2004
It is a shame that such a well meaning and amusing note contained
a grammatical error.
"Check into one, trust me, they will help you not to
appear so ignorant."
One, the dictionary, is singular so it will help you if you
used many dictionaries they would help you.
<br>
A dictionary or "spell checker" can make the
written word pleasing to read.
0 Comments, 29 Views,
0 Votes
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Why are the women looking for women so flakey? 1/19/2004
I have to ask...why are the women on here so flakey with meeting
up? Are they just in fantasy land and want to daydream about
it? I mean its hard to get them to actually meet up...its
almost like pulling teeth. Women please, im a pretty bi
chick who is down to hook up so if you arent get off of this
site and stop wasting everyones time. Thanks.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
0 Votes
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Re: what would you do? 1/18/2004
No, you should not stick with him.
I'm sure you're a lovely person, but can I ask,
why did you marry him? Frankly, I'm tired of hearing
about the multitidue of deadbeat guys. Why do you keep marrying
them and procreating with them?
0 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Re: Try this hot sex position!!! 1/18/2004
I went to the author's profile and, yep, a young man.
I'd be willing to guess that almost any man over 35 knows
that position and also knows that if you role over it becomes
a variation of the "missionary with her legs inside
with more clitoral stimulation.
<br>
This is just another example of why the ladies here need
to try out some of us older guys. We know a lot more.
0 Comments, 9 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Guys who dont give oral on their women 1/17/2004
I cant believe in this day and age there are still a select
few men who wont eat pussy. I mean what is the problem guys?
If your chick doesnt smell good down there dont have sex
with her at all. There should be no excuse for a man to give
about this. Also, ive noticed these men will always want
the women to give them oral...WTF are you guys on drugs??
0 Comments, 7 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Contacting Members.... 1/17/2004
When you are out here searching for someone, I suggest actually
reading the profiles and not just looking at the picture
and then emailing them. Too often, I get emails asking questions
that would have been answered by simply reading my profile.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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dirty old men 1/17/2004
i am a 21 year old very attractive lesbian and set up my profile
on Swapfinder.com along with a nice photo well after a week i couldn't
beleive it i had 230 total views and when i went through then
180 were from old men from the age of 42 to 62 old enough to
be my granddad and what i have learned is do not put a pretty
photo of yourself whitch is a shame because genuine people
think you are not as ...
0 Comments, 175 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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How do I seduce my wife's best friend? 1/17/2004
This is not a rhetorical question or just a cute post. My
wife has a friend who just oozes sex. I have heard from both
her and my wife how every guy at her office is trying to get
into her pants - and I know why! Not only that but she is married
to perhaps one of the biggest dorks on the planet. She makes
it clear that she knows this and doesn't even pretend
to be in love with him.
...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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White guys/Black Women 1/16/2004
I notice there are lots of groups where white women and black
guys hook up. What about us white guys that have the hots
for black women?
<br>
You never see that. Is it because Black women are more uptight
about going out with white guys? I mean I here there is a shortage
of eligable black guys for black ladies but it appears there
are more white woman seeking black guys than ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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The first cut is the deepest, but the last one hurts the most 1/16/2004
Like most people, I've been through the heartache
and pain that goes with living and learning about love and
life. But how can I find it in me to ever trust and try again,
when after all this time I still find myself getting hurt
in relationships that seem to be going fine? Deep down I
have hope, but what I'm affraid of is that when I do finally
meet my true love, will I have anything ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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The secret to getting your girlfriend/wife/lover to cum 1/16/2004
Spend more time concentrating on what you're doing
to them as opposed to what they're doing to you. Start
things off by fingering, or going down. Before too long,
if you're practiced in the arts, you should get quite
a response. My rule of thumb is to always make my girlfriend
cum at least 4 or 5 times before I even get close. Trust me
on this one, it makes it better for both of you.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Re: Endurance Not All That 1/15/2004
Ditto Brother.
<br>
I always thought when I was younger that that's what
they wanted. Not all they wanted but a good part of it. I had
plenty of girlfriends that wanted to go for a long time and
that's what I did. It wasn't much for them to have
a lot (more than 10) orgasms and for me to have 2 -3. Then I
meet my first wife. The first time we made love after I had
my first ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
137 Votes
,7.85 Score
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How does one look like a "lady"? 1/15/2004
I'm a sexy bi-guy who's really into cross-dressing,
and the sexual adventures that come as a result. Although
I've only really engaged in such activities for a short
while, I desperately need help in the department of looking
my best. I wouldn't consider myself UGLY, but for crying
out loud, I am a man!...and they just don’t make these glamorous
articles of clothing for our bodies! ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
107 Votes
,7.22 Score
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Try this hot sex position!!! 1/15/2004
Ok, I've done the research and I cannot find this anywhere
(although I'm sure someone's done it). It's
a variation of a sexual position between a man and a woman...allow
me to explain.
<br>
For starters the man is on his back, and the woman is riding
him from on top (in a regular "straddled" position
face-to-face, nothing fancy). The woman then leans forward
so that the two ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
3474 Votes
,8.71 Score
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Not answering emails. 1/15/2004
I've read many comments from people on this site complaining
about others not answering an email. I really don't
understand why they're so irrate about it. I haven't
been a member very long and have received "many"
winks and emails. No way could I answer them all. If I wink
or send an email and don't receive a response I don't
worry about it or get angry. I just chalk it up to the fact ...
4 Comments, 364 Views,
189 Votes
,8.02 Score
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Returning the favor!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1/15/2004
I have been married to my high school sweetheart for over
20 years and I love him more than life itself. BUT....when
we were newlyweds I discovered that I couldn't achieve
an orgasm unless I touched myself during sex. So one night
during sex I suggested we try oral sex, at first he said no
but after a couple of weeks he gave in and did it. BUT!!! he
said only if we could have anal sex too. ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
99 Votes
,7.28 Score
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How to please a woman... 1/14/2004
Ladies, please try to be more specific when you say you want
a man who knows how to please a woman. You may think that that's
a universal skill, but no two women are the same.
<br>
Be specific. Someone who is into S&M make beable to give
women who are into that ripping orgasms, or vast amounts
of emotional satice faction, but might scare the hell out
of you when he pulls out his ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
159 Votes
,9.14 Score
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girl on girl 1/14/2004
I have never been with a girl and i am wondering what the best
way to find someone who isn't afraid to meet someone
as inexperienced as i am. i have tried on this site with not
so good results. Is there something else i should say or
do?
1 Comments, 41 Views,
53 Votes
,7.12 Score
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"Need Your Advice From Experts" Wifes First Cock While Swinging! 1/14/2004
Im writing this article because I would like to ask the help
of other swingers that have experienced this in their marriage.
We are a couple that has been soft swinging for the last 2
years. And I want to clarify what I mean by soft swinging,
there has been no penetration with our partners only oral.
My confusion was that this past week in our regular meeting
with our friends, my wife ...
1 Comments, 100 Views,
22 Votes
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So haben Sie den besten Sex Ihres Lebens 1/14/2004
Meist ist Sex gut, manchmal sensationell. Oft wird er aber
leider auch zur Routine.
Warum sorgen Sie nicht daf黵, dass Ihr Sex ab sofort immer
gro遖rtig ist? Helfen Sie einfach ein bisschen nach.
<br>
Es gibt so viele Momente, die Sex so unvergesslich machen:
Urlaubs-Sex, weil er an ungew鰄nlichen Orten stattfindet.
Vers鰄nungs-Sex, weil wir uns schon w鋒rend des Streits ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Older Men Younger Women 1/14/2004
Well i am in a realtionship with a man that is 46 and im 19.
Im wondering if anyone else has experienced this type of
relationship and if you have what problems you have came
across?
0 Comments, 48 Views,
17 Votes
,6.80 Score
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shave and have fun 1/13/2004
really u feel more happy if u shave, because women feel more
erotic when they see the clean shaven penice than with pubic
hair, if they feel happy, definetly u also get more happiness
from them.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
37 Votes
,6.62 Score
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Older Man/Much Younger Woman 1/13/2004
Is there anything wrong with a man who is 42 having a relationship
with a 24 year old woman? Does age really matter? I personnally
don't feel it does.
0 Comments, 19 Views,
17 Votes
,7.09 Score
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People without pics 1/13/2004
Try to be nice to people without pics posted. Sometimes
they just don't want people at work to see them on a site.
Just make sure they'll email you a pic.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
30 Votes
,8.63 Score
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RE to "Who's Viewed Me" On or Off 1/13/2004
I think the majority of 'Off' users do so because...
* They love viewing the photo(s) of members they've
pissed off during emails or actually met and can't
get enough.
* They actually know the member personally, but not letting
on.
* They're bi-curious, but too embarrassed to let anyone
know.
* They can't remember how to turn it back on!
<br>
NP
0 Comments, 0 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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RE: My girl won't drink my cum 1/12/2004
Maybe your girl won't drink your cum because she doesn't
like the way it feels in her mouth. I for one love to give oral.
Will suck it until it runs dry. But I can't stand the
cum in my mouth. It's off to a napkin it goes....Won't
get up and go brush teeth...but will turn head and spit onto
a napkin...While we're on this subject, I've
found that after a man a cum in a woman's mouth they ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
63 Votes
,8.74 Score
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think wisely 1/12/2004
look really if u are intrested in another man, try to convince
ur hubbby about that, how u feel happy with another guy,
definetly he will understand ur problem, if he loves u,
so then there will be no problem, but dont cheat him, u can
tell him about ur needs , no problem.goodluck.
0 Comments, 30 Views,
24 Votes
,5.63 Score
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try 1/12/2004
try once with a good understanding guy or girl, who are most
lovable by ur wife, they only go close to her, then u will
get what u want.
0 Comments, 4 Views,
14 Votes
,0.90 Score
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ejaculate control 1/12/2004
well for all you guys that suffer premature ejaculation
there is a way to delay it till you are ready, ,,
very easy:
TAKE IT OUT WHENEVER YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE GOING TO CUM.
I think thats the only way.
or does anyone have another solution????
0 Comments, 30 Views,
50 Votes
,6.91 Score
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Response to "My girl won't drink my cum" 1/11/2004
You need to find out if it's the taste she doesn't
like or if it's a gagging reflex problem. Maybe she
thinks it's 'unclean'. Talk to her and find
out why. Talking to her will make her realize that you're
concerned about her as a partner too, but then that's
always true. It can only help in the end!
If it's the taste, have her try some flavored jellies
or even chocolate syrup!
Good ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
28 Votes
,7.96 Score
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Re: Is it wrong 1/11/2004
If you are caught it will be wrong. Straying you run the risk
of liking it more than what you get at home - then how will
you handle that. If you do stray you have NO right to ease
any guilt you might feel by coming clean, you must shoulder
your own guilt.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
13 Votes
,7.00 Score
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Re:Advise on approaching couples - 1/11/2004
I just joined this board in hopes of finding a M/F couple
(male must be bi) to have my first 3-way. I find most guys
either are affraid to try it or are adimit that he is straight.
How would someone find an open couple to play with. I don't
understand if guys are in a room playing with others (swinger
party)how they would not ocassionaly do something with
other men??? I have tried to ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Points on Swapfinder.com? 1/11/2004
I use Swapfinder.com all the time never had a point yesterday i got some
points which surprised me. What does one do to get points.
I would sure appreciate some info.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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about older women 1/11/2004
I keep having thoughts about the the whole Mrs. Robinson
fantasy, can anyone give me suggestions on how to persue
the matter.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Is it wrong? 1/10/2004
Was just curious to hear peoples opinions on cheating.I
am a married woman who loves my husband very much but want
to be with another man.Can this be helpful or make my life
at home more pleasant?Or will it crash and burn eventually?
Thanks!
0 Comments, 19 Views,
117 Votes
,6.77 Score
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How Do You Really Get to Know Someone Online? 1/10/2004
I have emailed several people and have gotten responses
from 95%...however, after the first couple emails they
just disappear without ever getting to know even a real
name; I know it isn't me because I dont' have a problem
in "real life". I clearly state what I am looking
for and all I get is members of the opposite sex with vulgar
pictures and lewd remarks! Has any one on Swapfinder.com been truly ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Getting Your Woman To Do Things She Normally Won't In Bed 1/10/2004
I know there are a lot of guys that wish they're wife
or girlfriend would do things in bed, but they just refuse
to try it.I've found a way that has proven very effective
for me.My problem was I wanted my wife to let me cum in her
mouth.She just flat out refused to do it.We talked about
it over several months but still no results.She would just
let me cum on her tits and anywhere else as ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
17 Votes
,7.37 Score
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Sexual pleasure 1/10/2004
About 2 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Recently
we gotten back together 3 days ago. Well the time we were
apart I started seeing someone else and we would have all
types of sex. Anal or oral. Mt girlfriend will let me stickl
my finger in her ass but not my dick. I enjoyed the sec with
the other person but my girlfriend and I were togerher for
5 years. So shoulf I break it off ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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RE: dine.com 1/8/2004
Well let me tell you I have done the dine.worthless.com
enough to have I cant tell you how many upgrades! Never have
recieved a ONE. The key here on Swapfinder.com to get any points or upgrades
I believe is to be a paid member. Otherwise we are out of luck!
0 Comments, 26 Views,
18 Votes
,7.63 Score
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dont get frustated 1/8/2004
dear friend , when get older u get more staying time is a myth,
one thing u should know that dont get excited, when u r in
intercource, try to control ur emotions, concentrate
on how ur enjoying with her, and ask her how she is feeling
when she is in lovemaKING, JUST COITUS IS NOT SEX, TOUCHING
, TALKING, EROTIC TALKING EVERYTHING INCLUDES IN SEX, SO
DONT CONCENTRATE ON COITUS ONLY. ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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cheeer up 1/8/2004
hey, why ru thinking about size, size is not atall matter
in sex, when it aroused 3.5 inch length is enough to satisfy,
because the erotic zones are upto 3 inc deep only in vazina,
so forget about size, concentrate on foreplay, play, afterplay.
goodluck.
0 Comments, 9 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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RE: older women...younger guy 1/8/2004
It's true. At least, i think so. Younger guys are attracted
to older women. I myself have tried to contact quite a few
but i guess they thought i made a mistake or something. I
dont know what it is about an older woman, I think they may
be sexier as opposed to just good looking. So dont dismiss
those younger guys ladies, they do want you.
<br>
cj0252
0 Comments, 14 Views,
35 Votes
,8.79 Score
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Nice guys finish last 1/8/2004
If you've ever heard the expression "nice guys
finish last" you're grossly mistaken. I don't
even think the nice guy is in the race to begin with. In fact,
I'd go as far to say that he's the one keeping score.
<br>
It's all happened to us once before. We meet a girl we
like, she starts having issues with her "asshole"
boyfriend, and you're there for her emotional support.
She ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
21 Votes
,5.35 Score
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Re: Penis enlargement pills 1/8/2004
To the writer wondering about enlarging his penis with
pills, and the same to women wondering if cream can enlarge
their breasts:
<br>
NO. NO. Take a breath and feel it: NO
<br>
There is no substance on Earth that will add tissue selectively
to these parts of your body. Women can add breast tissue
by gaining weight, since breasts are actually more fat
than ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
34 Votes
,8.27 Score
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First time FFM 1/8/2004
I'm a bisexual female, and my guy and I both have the
fantasy of inviting a second female into our bedroom. I've
had 1-on-1 encounters before, but never with my significant
other in the room, let alone in the bed.
<br>
I'm a possessive person, and so is he. While we relish
the thought of being with another girl together, at the
same time we're worried of our jealous natures ...
0 Comments, 66 Views,
26 Votes
,6.91 Score
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mmf 3 some... what if the guy starts to suck your cock 1/8/2004
i was having a mmf 3some and the guy started to suck my cock..
i always concidered myself straight but i seemed to really
enjoy it and the woman who i was licking out at the time seemed
to really get off on it too and we all had an amazing sex session..do
you think that i should have let him or stopped him???
9 Comments, 1351 Views,
67 Votes
,8.43 Score
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Virgin Needs Advice 1/8/2004
Start by reading my profile and then see if you can assist.
I'm an 18 yr old virgin male, who doesn't know how
to find someone willing to be my first. I am extremely shy
so I cannot simply walk up and meet someone, however I am
willing to do just about anything to have sex. Age doesn't
really matter, and I would like to be with a mature woman
at my first encounter. If you have any tips I'd ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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how do i get my wife to join in a 3sum after she gives birth? 1/7/2004
im looking for clever ways to convince my wife to have a 3
sum after she gives birth. she agreed to have a 3 sum now.
but then we found out she was expecting.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Discretion vs Safety for the ladies 1/7/2004
While discretion is a must for many of us, it's important
to be safe as well.
<br>
So you've met him, had a few drinks, perhaps a meal,
and want to go further. He's still a stranger right?
<br>
If you possibly have a friend who can be trusted with such
matters, let them know where you're going and check
in periodically. While it may seem a pain at the time, this ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
12 Votes
,5.80 Score
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Am I wrong 1/7/2004
I am a relativley good looking guy in his early twenties.
But i seem to think that image is a major issue on women's
minds. I think most women are looking for the Chippendales
dancers with a huge dick. Am I wrong here or what?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
0 Votes
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What do you think about tattoos 1/6/2004
I was thinking of getting a tattoo on my breast. I hear so
many cons..the main one being as you get older and your breast
starts to lose gravity...the tattoo starts looking awful.
Ladies...some input please.
1 Comments, 18 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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atlast 1/6/2004
atlast u found a good place to fullfil ur dreams, this is
the right place for people like u and me , am also fantasiging
so many days, atlast i found this place, i found likeminded
people, and now am happy. visit regularly this site, and
update ur profile, then u will get connected to so many like
minded people, goodluck.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
0 Votes
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take a chance 1/6/2004
hey dont get frustated, try regularlt instant message
centre, and try her in that, otherwise earn points by sending
articles or giving advises, then u can get connected to
people whom u want, ultimate option is update to silver
r gold mem.
0 Comments, 0 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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For the lady in "feeling used and abused". 1/6/2004
I can understand how you feel and greatly appreciated how
elequountly you expressed yourself, your situation and
how you feel about it. It is my belief that you are experiencing
with your other married man the same general kinda "thing"
most people who venture into an affair feel. Life is good,
all is well with the world (at least in some areas), and you
greatly look forward to spending ...
0 Comments, 0 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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interact 1/6/2004
search for good understanding likeminded couple, communicate
with them first, exchange ur ideas first, and then talk
in phone, regularly after knowing each other, meet directly
one day, express ur ideas without inhibitions, and try
ur fantasy, dont get nervous, everything will go smooth.
goodluck.
0 Comments, 0 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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RE: 12/20/2003, am i cheating if I go with a woman 1/6/2004
Dear woman, go with how you feel. If the other woman is willing
and you still wish to go to bed with her, then go for it. Otherwise
you will likely have regrets later. I've known two
other women in your situation (at least from what you describe)
and both are glad they went with their hearts, vice remained
"faithful". So I suggest you get goin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
0 Comments, 0 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Re: 1/5/2004, does size matter? 1/6/2004
I've found that there are some women who are extremly
desirious of long/large cocks, and they admit it and they
crave it. I did talk with one that was pleasant and nice in
her conversation with me, even after I told her that I was
less than 6 inches long. Her explaination basically ammounted
to not being physically satisfied with any cock shorter
than 9 inches nor less than 4 inches of ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Dont be desperated 1/6/2004
Don’t be desperated if someone let you down without even
gave a notice because he will find someone else will do the
same with him.
Conclusion: be woried if you let your partner down for no
reason so you’ll be desperated
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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ever wonder what is safe sex 1/6/2004
If you think about it even though you are wearing a condom
you can still pass on a sexual disease. For example if you
are fingering a woman and then move on to another where is
the safe sex. Eating one out and move to another same thing
there is no such thing as safe sex unless you stay with one
partner and you are both clean. I guess what I am trying to
say is you can get serious illness ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Threesome techniques 1/6/2004
My partner and I are anxious to try our first threesome,
but I don't know how I'm gonna go about pleasing
two chicks at the same time, it's gonna be awesome,
but how do I make them both happy?
2 Comments, 28 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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Getting old guys- all the b**^^g and complaining about Swapfinder.com 1/5/2004
I have seen WAY too many complaints on here about where are
the 'real ' women. I do know from guys , and a super
nice one I spoke on the phone to in my area last night, that
yes , there are 'bots' and others that lead to pay
websites.
Let me tell you this though, to see about four profiles that
I looked at ( men who have veiwed me) I can tell the guys bitching:
your profiles and ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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Premature ejaculation 1/5/2004
This method should allow you to masturbate and have sex
for longer without cumming!
<br>
<br>
Begin by bringing yourself to a point relatively close
to climax, and stop, allowing yourself to relax before
starting again. Each time you do this, bring yourself closer
and closer to orgasm until you cannot control it any longer.
You may want to practice with the aid of a ...
0 Comments, 56 Views,
78 Votes
,8.73 Score
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Fine Line Between Fantasy & Reality 1/5/2004
I have wonderful understanding husband that I have a great
relationship with, but lately I have begun to realize that
he does not understand that some things are only okay to
talk about during sex and that it is not a turn on for me to
listen to him talk about these things everywhere. For example,
It's ok to talk about a beautiful woman making love
to me during sex, but not every time we ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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re: how do we do this 1/5/2004
I think you can find your choice here on Swapfinder.com. Be honest and
open in your couple's profile, join a chat room from
time to time, get to know people, and i think you'll
find someone you enjoy being with. Johnf3900
0 Comments, 9 Views,
0 Votes
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womens dictionary 1/4/2004
Airhead (er*hed) n. >What a woman intentionally becomes
when pulled over by a policeman.
<br>
Argument (ar*gyou*ment) n. >A discussion that occurs
when you're right but he just hasn't realized
it yet. >
<br>
Balance the checkbook (bal*ens da chek*buk) v. >To
go to the cash machine and hit "inquire". >
>
<br>
Bar-be-que ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Are there any girls out there who like inexperienced guys? 1/4/2004
I am in, shall we say, very inexperienced in the realm of
sex. I ask this to all the ladies...are there women who are
interested in inexperienced guys...women willing to
take a man under their wing to teach him the sexual ropes.
But I'm mixing my metaphors.
<br>
Seriously, though, I am pretty good looking and relatively
intelligent but I have had bad luck with women in the ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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there is no question 1/4/2004
nike...just do it... eyes meet... flesh twitches with
anticipation...just do it...make it hard...make it wet...put
the pole in the hole...stroke it in and out and all the way
around... play with her asshole...play with his asshole...
and cum baby cum
0 Comments, 3 Views,
1 Votes
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Older men and younger women 1/4/2004
I myself are in a relationship with a older man. I think they
can work as long as both parties learn to comprimise. It
is hard sometimes to do that but, you can do it as long as your
willing and want to go that far. It wont work if you both dont
have the same frame of mind, on how make your relationship
work. I am with someone who is 27 years older than me, YES
it doesnt work sometimes but ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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too all of the guys out there wondering!! 1/3/2004
Women are people to! We like to get to know people out there
also! We dont like however men trying to tell us what we do
and do not want! We do have our own minds and can think for
ourselves if we say no to something we mean it we dont want
you to change our minds and we dont want you to try if we do
we will say "maybe or I'll think about it"
that is the only time you can try to change our ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Need advice. 1/3/2004
I need a little help here. I am trying to meet up with some
of the members but cannot get a reply from them. I've
got pictures posted and send winks everyday but don't
get any responses? Is there some secret that I don't
know about?
0 Comments, 13 Views,
0 Votes
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Re: Jealous and Truth 1/3/2004
First of all, if neither of you want to get divorced and actually
"be together" then your affair and your marriages
should be kept completely separated! Two choices: A: Stop
the questions and deal with it. B: Stop the relationship.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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poll: how many ltrs do girls recieve? 1/2/2004
I just want to know-
How many letters do girls receive and do you write, just
in an average week? How many view's do you get in a average
week?
0 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Not Into Oral 1/2/2004
Don't get me wrong - I love giving head, and I've
had some wonderful orgasms when my lovers go down on me...BUT,
I have my preferences for getting off, just like I have my
preferences for favorite sexual positions...
<br>
I love someone with talented fingers...I can't stand
these people who think it's some kind of challenge
to go down on me...it's almost as bad as guys who think ...
0 Comments, 0 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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What am I Doing Wrong? 1/2/2004
I am a good looking guy on here who is honest but the proble
I have is that I can not meet women on here. What am I doing
wrong. Please help
0 Comments, 2 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Ladies, you CAN answer every email...nicely. 1/2/2004
A lot of ladies have made very good points about the number
of emails they receive v. men. A very valid and understandable
point. No one can answer 200 emails a week and also have a
life.
<br>
But Swapfinder.com offers the auto-reply feature that can quickly
solve problems of no time and no response. It's very
simple. Just turn on the auto-reply feature, and put a nice
message there that ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Pornographic modelling 1/2/2004
What can I say? I've recently discovered this site
(and others) and actually posted pictures of myself on
the net. Not only am I not embarassed about having naked,
erect pictures of me available to the world, but I'm
kinda turned on by it. I think I'd like to get into porn
modelling for a (lucrative) hobby, but I've got no
idea how to go about it, and legit English companies don't
exactly ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Don't be shy 1/2/2004
If there's one thing that I've learned in my experience
with women, it's that being shy gets you nowhere FAST!
If you like something you see, you've got to go at it
with confidence. Confidence is the key. If you know you're
sexy, women will think you're sexy. If you know you're
a loser, women will think you're a loser. Don't
be a pussy, go get what you want!
0 Comments, 4 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Endurance Not All That 1/2/2004
I hear stories of men cumming to soon.I do not understand
that problem, because I last long after the girl I with
is tired.Then they ask me if they are not satisfing me, and
I have to explain that I am just differant from other guys
they have been with.Where one of these short timers has
to imagin baseball or something else other than sex to stay
a little longer, I have to focus on ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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BIG AND SCARY 1/1/2004
i have talked to many many women from online and met a lot
too. I have had my share of sexual experiences and i am very
good at talking and getting to know people online. The problem
that i have with a lot of girls my age is that when it comes
down to sex if that is the genuine goal and certain things
get said when they find out how im built they get scared..
See im not the longest cock but ...
3 Comments, 141 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Women, shave or trim your snatch 12/31/2003
This is a tip to women. I con't care what body image you
have of yourself, whether it is high or low. TRIM or SHAVE
your pubic hair.
<br>
It makes it far more pleasent to go down on you when the person
doesn't have to pull pubic strands out of your pussy
and keep them to the side.
0 Comments, 4 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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How do u take dick if u never took it b4? 12/31/2003
Yes i am an beginner and when i had my first experience last
night the guy was hot and he had a very nice size package.
But i know that it usually would hurt the first time, but
i guess i am wonderin is there anyway to ease the pain of taking
a man's dick for an amateur. Is there any positions
or any advice anyone can give me to help me take it like i want
to take it? IF u understand what ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Reply to: Men, Where are your heads? 12/31/2003
Let's first start out with a most obvious fact, I am
male, and I am 18. Now let's get to the important issue,
the meat of your article. Personally, even though I'm
male, I agree with you whole heartedly. I may, too, be old
fashioned--despite the fact I am not that 'old'
persay--but I really do not care. I love getting to know
women, and would love to just meet one at first. Yes, sex
is a ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
0 Votes
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Bi Married Men:- Myth or Madness? 12/30/2003
Well, it seems today the 'norm' is for the women
to all be 'bi' or they just are not invited to other
couples. So many have been 'forced' into it, and
no doubt there are many who love to play with other women.
But many do not. Anyway, the main point of this article is
that there is a strong undercurrent of bisexual married
men out there, whos wives have no idea that they either think ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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communicate 12/30/2003
hey already u had enjoyed a lot with threesome, u told that
ur wife also enjoyed, so communicate with her properly
try to know her feelings why she is not responding to ur proposal
tell ur feelings, and try to get remember those happy moments,
goodluck.
0 Comments, 12 Views,
0 Votes
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So..You want to Swing? 12/30/2003
I can tell you this......if you are new to the lifestyle,
you are in for a treat. You get to live out some of your fantasies
and enhance your marriage a lot.
My wife and I have only been swinging since May of 2003, but
we have found other couples thru Swapfinder.com who have become close
friends.
When you first decide you both want to try it, you can answer
a few adds in the personals or online. ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
2 Votes
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Why can't we find a match? 12/29/2003
It seems that there are alot of husbands out there that like
to watch as wife is pleasured. Why then can't we find
a straight lady who will let my wife watch as I pleasure them.
All the ones out there are bi and wife is straight she just
likes to watch. So where are all the straight girls who will
just cum and have some fun?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
342 Votes
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FAKES SUCK!!!! 12/29/2003
We are so tired of cupid giving us matches that only lead
to other sites. We have found that if someone gives you an
outside e-mail address right out of the gate they are usually
a fake. Anyone else feel the same way?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
371 Votes
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RE: Swapfinder.com wake up were frustrated! 12/29/2003
I am a new member. I submitted an article that I was reading
on the magazine three days later. Could it be what you wrote
was greatly lacking in content? On the other hand, maybe
it is a conspiracy. It’s not just here at Swapfinder.com, either. Look
around, does this kind of shit happen to you all the time?
Did you not get the raise you asked for, or that prime parking
spot, or how about that ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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help us out 12/29/2003
I need help trying to figure out why my husband wants to do
the swinging thing for the other females...i feel as tho
i am not worthy of him anymore
0 Comments, 20 Views,
1 Votes
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Dine.com 12/29/2003
I signed up for dine.com, reviewed 25 restaurants, and
received a free month of gold membership from Swapfinder.com immediately
thereafter. It works!
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Is it worth it? 12/29/2003
Im considering upgrading my membership in order to view
other peoples profiles and maybe try to contact some that
I am interested in. I know alot of these sites can be full
of fake people wanting you to visit another website and
pay more money, so I am being hesitant on registering. Guys
and Girls, what do you think?
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0 Votes
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Wondering the best way to start a 3-Sum 12/29/2003
We are trying to think of ways that would be comfortable
for all parties involved when it comes to the subject of
a 3-Sum. Like how would you bring up the subject? Then, how
if everyone seemed interested, how would you begin a 3-Sum
or 4-Sum? Like we just don't want to strip down and get
going with it, that doesn't seem 'fun'.
<br>
So is there any suggestion or true stories out ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
1 Votes
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making right a wrong 12/28/2003
I have to tell my boyfriend of 9 months that I lied to him aboout
my age. We are both in our thirtys andWe very close. Now he
has asked me to move in with him. I know that some things should
stay secret but now he will know my age. Its only five years
( im older) but he has made the point that he's finished
with older women.I never thought that we would get to this
point when we started to ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
31 Votes
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patience 12/28/2003
hey dont get frustated, afterall she is ur betterhalf,
dont get negative feelings, try to know, about her feelings,
respect her feelings first, try to understand her, take
a help of professional councillor , try to get close to
her feelings, u r telling that u have a great love on her,
that is enough, love is the medicine for all disorders on
this earth, wait for sometime, definetly u get ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
104 Votes
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Question on single woman and a married man 12/28/2003
Why is it that single woman on this site who have stated straight
out that they don't want any committment don't
want a married man to provide the sexual encounter. Is it
the fact that we're married?? I have a spouse who has
told me that she loves me but just isn't interested
in sex anymore and that if I need it to find it somewhere else
as long as I'm safe and she doesn't want to hear ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
140 Votes
,8.85 Score
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Getting her involved again 12/28/2003
Help, I need advise on how to get my wife involved in the mfm
threesome thing again. We did this a long time ago and both
enjoyed it very much, however she has not wanted to do this
for a long time saying she is "too old" or "she
doesn't need anyone else". I really loved seeing
her with another man and sometimes joining in was the best.
She used to enjoy this very much and said so.....and ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
61 Votes
,8.40 Score
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RE: why do they all ignore me 12/28/2003
First you have to be yourself and very especially HONEST!!!
Just relax, go into a chat room and have some fun. Don't
be ignorant or rude...don't come off all ready to drive
hundreds of miles for a fuck--you'll look desperate
if not slightly psychotic.
Just go in the rooms, try to meet people, follow the conversations
with the guys AND the girls. Keep the sex stuff for when you're
on ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
51 Votes
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WOMEN...If you do not tell them, most of them will not know what to do!!!!! 12/28/2003
hey simple fact, women love to be romanced, if you women
do not make it clear to your man, he will never be able to please
you... he is NOT a mind reader... he knows what HE likes,
you know what you like, now show and tell each other what
it takes to make you both pop!!!
0 Comments, 0 Views,
98 Votes
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How To Fall in Love 12/28/2003
Men, how can a woman make herself more endearing to you...make
you fall in love with them? Is there something in particular....Is
it being spontaneous or unpredictable? Ironing his shirts
and making his dinner??? Give me something here.....
0 Comments, 3 Views,
44 Votes
,5.76 Score
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Older Man, Younger woman 12/28/2003
Will a relationship between and older man and a younger
woman work? I have tried it and it didn't work. I am interested
in another younger woman and don't know if I am setting
myself up for another fall.
0 Comments, 4 Views,
78 Votes
,5.37 Score
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anal sex 12/27/2003
Hey guys, don't rush it. If your cock is over 6 inches
long remember sllllooooooowwwwww, please. It helps to
ease a finger up there while you are going down on the girl
to get her used to the idea. And get it lubed up good. A little
tongue action will do the trick. I have had it done by someone
who knew what they were doing (older guy) and someone who
didn't. What a difference. I ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
181 Votes
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double penetration 12/27/2003
Girls if you haven't tried this one...you should.
Make sure, if you haven't done anal before, that the
smaller cock goes in the back door the first time around.
When the two get in rhythm there is nothing better. I had
3 orgasms in 10 minutes the first time. But watch out. It
is adDICKtive.
0 Comments, 81 Views,
51 Votes
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I feel it was rude 12/27/2003
A few weeks or maybe a month ago I recieved a e-mail in my Swapfinder.com
box from a 50's some couple who was intrested in my for
a "private home use porn" In this mail they were
asking for personal information that frankly I don't
really feel like telling anyone through e-mails. Things
like my name, my phone #, things like that. Well first off
I am 25, and the idea of doing anything with ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
16 Votes
,6.80 Score
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RE: My man has a low sex drive 12/27/2003
I hate to tell you that this can be the case. If he had a low
sex drive to start with then having a stressfull job will
make it worse. I have the reverse - my wife has little interest
in sex - and like you I feel that I am missing something or
do I lack something that makes them less interested. Whenever
I think like this I have to tell myself that her decision
is the result of her wants ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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RE: Getting women horney 12/27/2003
Each woman is a different person and so they will have different
interests and sex drives. If you mess then she will be sexy
and want more sex with you than she would with others where
she has little chemistry. Treat each as a separate person.
0 Comments, 10 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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Where's the best place to find an older woman for sex? 12/26/2003
I'm in the market for a sexy, older woman. But, I'm
not sure where to go to meet one. How do you know if she's
interested in a guy who is as young or younger than her ,
and is in need for hot sex? I've tried on Swapfinder.com, but at most
I got a wink and no response from email.
0 Comments, 48 Views,
43 Votes
,7.77 Score
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Re: what this site is really about! 12/26/2003
that is totally so true about the women here in Cali. Laides
be more polite to us guys. atleast acknolege us for giveing
an effort! that would atleast make us guys feel alot better.
you never know you might have passed up the best thing that
could happen to you already.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
30 Votes
,6.77 Score
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Confused 12/26/2003
I aws dating a guy that was gi\oing thru a divoorce and after
a yaer he dec ided that it was cheaper to keep her, as that
old saying goes. It was a very hurtful relationship because
we were in love. We stayed in contact over the past 5 years
and I have gone on with dating other guys. Now after 5 years
have passed he is ready to make a move with following thru
his divorce nad wants me ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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Getting your woman to squirt 12/26/2003
Ok, there is a way to have your woman ejaculate externally.
Most of you have heard about it I'm sure. I have only
recently been able to get my wife to do it and she does it more
often during sex than before. We are trying to figure out
exactly what it is that we are doing to cause her to squirt
so any advice would help.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
43 Votes
,6.41 Score
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male to male oral? 12/25/2003
i have been so far a heterosexual male with many female partners.
only recently have i been, during sex, fantasising about
men (oral sex in particular). what should i do? is giving
another male head nice? help me...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
53 Votes
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RE: Patience impatient ones. 12/24/2003
I know how you feel. I first discovered Swapfinder.com a few years ago
in another state before they had the chat rooms. When I re-discovered
it, chat room and all--I enjoyed it much more because you
could not interact w/members in real time and not just via
emails.
I met a wonderful man the first day I entered the chat room
and we've been together ever since--nearly 7 months.
Go to the chat rooms, ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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RE: How to please a Man 12/24/2003
First of all, you need to know that a Man is not just a Dick....
converse with him and find out what he likes. I'll just
say it, most Men love a Lady in Public, and a Freak in the bedroom.
Therefore, learn to be as freaky as humanly possible. Be
the type of Woman he'll visit a strip club or buy that
XXX video to see. Visit your local toy store or Victoria's
Secret, pick out the ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
26 Votes
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The right tool for the job... 12/24/2003
Have dick, will screw - yea right!
<br>
But think again, if you think the length or girth of your
dick makes any difference to succesful love-making, think
again. In the background, there are a ton of subliminal
things taking place. If you want your partner to experience
an orgasm that'll top the charts, then begin by taking
note of the little things that make it possible.
...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Crossing over... to find a new girlfriend 12/23/2003
What is it with men like me who'll get involved with
a woman who is absolutely "pure, good and decent"
in every respect, but discovers that she doesn't "entirely"
fullfill the sexual aspect of my needs?
Yip, one can "lead a to water but you can't
make em drink it". Nooo, I'm NOT talking about
"swallowing"... I'm talking about trying
to get her to feel a little more adventuristic.
...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
15 Votes
,6.35 Score
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What about love? 12/23/2003
I am loving a man that can't seem to understand that
his crazy life is part of him and that means I am wanting it
too.. Do all men think that it is easier to go through life
alone? Or is there a man out there that understands that
love is love and that it will surpass all obsticals ... ene
what they call crazy times... I wish I could understand
them..If any one can help me out please feel ...
1 Comments, 36 Views,
28 Votes
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What am I doing wrong? 12/23/2003
Hello, I've been on Swapfinder.com for a while now and have only
gotten 3 or 4 replies. I write to older women all the time
and almost never get a response. I try to be a gentelman when
telling them I want to eat their pussy and my make long beautiful,
passionate love to them...but no answer. Maybe it's
because they are swamped with some many replies. Contact
me if you are a mature woman (30-50) ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
38 Votes
,4.81 Score
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How to please a man 12/23/2003
I see all these articles from men to men about how to please
women and that's all fine and well.
But about advice FROM men TO women about how to please their
man? I want to please my man and make him sexually happy.
I think I'm doing a good job so far, but give some ideas
here. He likes his dick to be played with...guys, give me
some suggestions.
0 Comments, 28 Views,
36 Votes
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My man has a low sex drive 12/23/2003
My man and I have sex about twice a week--though I would like
it more often.
He has a stressful job and a lot on his mind. I don't initiate
sex anymore because I'm tired of being told "no"
and figure that he will when he's in the mood--though
he will let me give him hand/blow jobs.
I've asked on a couple of occasion (I don't anymore)if
it's me, do I not sexually satisfy him enough or is ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
26 Votes
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RE: HELP ME PLEASE 12/23/2003
I'm in a relationship where the guy does not want to
be in a serious relationship and I CHOOSE to stay. So I have
to take responsibility for that end--I can't blame
him because he's been honest.
YOU need to take responsibility for remaining with this
guy. Why is he still with this woman? Pressure him to leave?
If he REALLY wanted to leave he would....and do you want
to be in a ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
25 Votes
,8.11 Score
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SO confused!! Please Help!!! 12/23/2003
I dont know what to do! I am back with my ex who Ive been with
for 7 yrs but the guy I was seeing while we broke up wants me
back or at least a friends with benifits kinda thing, and
I dont know what to do. I love him too but I was dedicated to
being faithful to my bf. But this other guy is so great, and
tempting. And I love his baby too as if he were my own. At one
point I did want a life ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
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Why do some mature woman prefer younger men? 12/22/2003
I've got a question for mature ladies outthere? Why
do you some of you prefer younger men and whats the criteria?
What does it take to attract and older women. I would kindly
appriciate replies from the 30 plus ladies. Personally, I
find mature ladies very very sexy, I guess the saying 'Woman
are like wines, they get better with age'.
<br>
69Koteliar
0 Comments, 34 Views,
107 Votes
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hitting a home run online 12/22/2003
I'm a 23 old male that wants to meet some girls on this
site and maybe meet and whatnot. I'm very open to anything
online. But I never can get anyone's attention...what's
the best approach to get a woman on this site to pay attention
and talk and get intimate?
0 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
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Is it wrong? 12/22/2003
My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for a number of
years. We have always had wonderful sex, whether it was
together, or flying solo. Our policy on swinging has always
been "no strings attached". My problem is that
I have met an amazing older gentleman who just so happens
to be great in bed. My husband knows that I have had sex with
this man, but he is unaware of the emotional ...
0 Comments, 74 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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ANSWER TO TOY STORY 12/21/2003
IF YOUR ASS BURNS WHEN YOUR PLAYING WITH YOUR DILDOE, IT
COULD BE A FEW ITEMS TO THINK ABOUT. FIRST, DID YOU FLUSH
OUT YOUR BUTT WITH AN ENEMA OR WITH A PLASTIC TUBE AND WARM
RUNNING WATER, IMPORTANT GET IT CLEAN, ANY RESIDUE COULD
BE IRRITATEING. TWO, THE LUBE YOUR USEING COULD BE HARSH
TO YOUR STRETCHED ANAL CHANNEL, USE BABY OIL ITS THE BEST,
CHEAP AND SAFE, EVEN IF YOU USE A RUBBER ON ...
2 Comments, 696 Views,
29 Votes
,5.95 Score
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HELP ME PLEASE! 12/21/2003
Am falling hard for this guy I've been seening lately.
One problem is that his has a girlfriend who is very jealous.
It's so bad to a point where I can't even look his
way in public when there together. Anywayz I've been
sleeping with him and found that I want to be in a relationship
with him. I just don't want to push him to break up with
his girlfriend and rush into a relationship with me ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
43 Votes
,6.26 Score
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wife is happy hubby will always be happy 12/21/2003
am really in confusion with my friends behaviour, he is
a best friend of me, one day i got a proposal from her wife
that she is in deep love with me, really am confused and shocked
after knowing this, and i tried my level best to educate
her that it will be a problem for her because if her hubby
my friend knows this, he will hurt, i explained this, but
in vain, and she told me that without ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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my profile 12/21/2003
To all you single women out there.Having read some of your
profiles, 9 out of 10 seem to say, you don't just want
to see pictures of our cocks.So I dont post any pics like
this but still don't get any replies.What do you want
to see?
0 Comments, 22 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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"More Topics" 12/21/2003
Why won't people answer the "more topics"
questions? People bitch because they don't get any
responses on Swapfinder.com. Perhaps if they'd answer some of
the questions, they'd get some responses. I know that
when I check out a ad, I always look at the "more topics"
responses. After all, that section tells what you like
and don't like. I'm not about to go out with someone
who's into bondage and ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Guard your heart with online dating 12/21/2003
Online dating has it's own unique part to play. Along
with that, it holds a set of dynamics that differ greatly
from traditional forms of meeting people.
The great thing is that it broadens the scope of opportunity
to meet MORE people than initially possible - because of
that, one has to perhaps "toughen up" a bit and
learn to be selective and VERY careful.
So wether or not you meet ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
1 Votes
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In response to "are there any Women on this site" 12/21/2003
Yes, there are. Now, it may be an issue to you that there are
more women in couples, that are looking for something a
little more adventuresome than you are, but I am here. And
I have gotten responses from other females as well. You
just have to realize that women are a little more skiddish
about this sort of thing, and much more likely to find some
little reason to not respond to you, ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Size and whether it matters!!!! 12/21/2003
It is not the size of the ship.
It is not the motion of the ocean.
It is the ships ability to remain in Port until all the
PASSNGERS have disembarked.
0 Comments, 18 Views,
13 Votes
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RE: BLOWJOB 12/20/2003
Hey there are now 2 women that love to give blowjobs...
I love the fact I can bring a man to xtc with my lips, tongue
and mouth. Guess I am the type of "serving" woman
that wants to give you pleasure this way but I wont bring
you a plate of food or clip your toe nails!! *wink*
I agree that any woman can please a man through intercourse
yet not every woman can do this with her lips, tongue ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
18 Votes
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RE:Worried and Confused 12/20/2003
I agree that each woman tastes different just like each
man does. Any kind of sweet fruit can change the taste of
a male or female...so if you want your man to enjoy the taste,
if he doesn't already...stock up on the fruit and fruit
juice.
0 Comments, 31 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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RE:Are there actual women on this site. 12/20/2003
Yes there are real women on this site. Personally I don't
respond to people who don't fit the profile i'm
looking for. If you don't fit someone's profile
of what they are looking for, don't respond. I met a
wonderful man through Swapfinder.com...keep on trying, the women
are out there. You just have to work a little at finding the
right one.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Monthly cycles for men? 12/20/2003
Do some guys experience "cycles" in their testosterone
levels on a monthly or periodically level? I find I'll
go through a stage of being incredibly horny for a week or
so, then the interest kindof frizzles out. Despite the
"lack of interest, I still CAN perform - it's
just the "sexual drive" I'm keen to understand
more about - any of you guys feel the same?
0 Comments, 1 Views,
4 Votes
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dont know what to say 12/20/2003
i have been a member for some tome now and i have emailed alot
of women for some reason they always want me to join another
site whats up with that?
so far i have had 3 (real) women email i wanted me to pay 2 she
is 18 years older then i and weights more then i and the 3 one
we really didnt click is there something i'm doin wrong?
is it i am emailing to mant women? is is it that Swapfinder.com is a ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Should we break up? 12/19/2003
I had been dating a lady for 6 years and we have a 4year old
. Two months ago we just starting argueing all
the time. It's gotten to the point that we don't
speak anymore. We decided that we need our space. I'm
trying to be nice about the situation because we have a .
She told me the other day my has the flu. Well with
the recent outbreak were are dying I asked her to let
my call me ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
74 Votes
,6.53 Score
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where is my husband coming from 12/19/2003
ok here goes,
we have been married 10 years and together 14. I have never
slept around on my husband and it took six months before
i would sleep with him. To cut to the story, he has slept with
this woman( i caught him in the carpark pants down) and after
a few months continued to have lots of contact and staying
the night there(it's his best mates wife)on the pretext
of drinking too much ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Fingering/Masturbation 12/19/2003
When i masturbate or finger myself, i get all wet, yet i still
don't or can't get off. What do i need to do, to actually
make myself get off. I mean what in the world does a girl have
to do to make herself cum.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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anything would be nice 12/18/2003
So can anyone tell me how you keep a good relationship good
over the miles? I have been dateing a great guy who lives
2 hours from me. I love spending time with him and we see each
other almost every weekend. The distance brings on the
" Are you still looking" questions evey now
and then from him. I really care for this man and he does make
me happy and he has said that he too cares for me ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
32 Votes
,8.02 Score
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HELP!! Should I or should I not?? 12/18/2003
I have known this lady for about six months now. She's
very outgoing and fun to be with. Recently, I seems to get
the feeling that she likes me. Now this is where the problem
starts because I am already married!! She knows about my
marital status but I think she doesn't mind and wants
to have some "discreet" relationship with
me as she also already has a boyfriend now.
<br>
So ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
25 Votes
,5.90 Score
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Can't Get Off When He's Going Down! 12/18/2003
I can't get off when a man goes down on me. I've had
many try, yet it does nothing for me. I actually get frustrated
and bored after a minute, and I have to pull him off of me.
And I've heard the line, "Well, you just haven't
had the right guy do it". That's crap. I'd
like to get off that way, I'd LOVE to get off that way...
but I think it's just impossible for me. Does anyone
have any ...
2 Comments, 81 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Advice on keeping spark 12/17/2003
I need some input on keeping some spark in the bedroom. By
the time my husband and I go to bed at night, we are both so
tired from work, and home that we have quickie sex,
and both go to bed not quite satisfied. I dont know how to
kick out the "same ole' same ole'"
and put some umph into our marriage.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Keep Swapfinder.com In the loop 12/17/2003
I've read many a complaint ie: Spammer's, Fakes,
Pro's I believe if we all keep Swapfinder.com in the loop then after
a peroid of time Swapfinder.com will take action... They do not seem
to have a problem taking are MONEY!!!
<br>
Happy Holidays.
0 Comments, 10 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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being fat 12/17/2003
so what if your fat, im fat and i can drive a man wild because
of experince, like a mans dick, its not just the size of his
dick, its how he use's it. it the same with us fat people,
its not just what you see its what you get. just wild, wild
sex
3 Comments, 87 Views,
13 Votes
,6.83 Score
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All Men should leave Swapfinder.com 12/17/2003
Besides the tremendous men to women ratio on Swapfinder.com (something
like 20 or 30 to 1), you can understand that women must be
inundated with responses from men. As a man, this is very
frustrating with not getting responses, its the numbers.
So it is my opinion that we men should leave this site. Why
pay for this?? Its ridiculous! As a standard member, you
can't view profile, pictures, send email ...
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Everything happens for a reason 12/17/2003
Everything Happens For A Reason
Author Unknown
<br>
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right
away that they were meant to be there... to serve some sort
of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you
are or who you want to become.
<br>
You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes
with them, you know that every moment that ...
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I want ANAL 12/16/2003
My girl friend has made me wanting to be anal. She was very
excited the first time I played with her ass. After my thumb
in her, we went on to bigger and better things. Now she can
take me with little seduction and no lubication and loves
it. She evens orgasms from it. This activity has become
our form of birth control (that is when she is fertile, I'll
cum in her ass).
Being envious of ...
1 Comments, 100 Views,
246 Votes
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Mastrubation 12/16/2003
I love to jack off!! Is is ok to jerkoff 4 times a day?? Is it
normal to shoot huge loads of cum? I can squirt my load about
2 feet is that also normal?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
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Stay or leave? 12/16/2003
my wife and I are at an impass. she isn't much interested
in sex and I can't get enough. let me be clear, she orgasms
every time and enjoys it while we are doing it, but once I
cum that's it! she is never up for a second round no matter
what i do, I have done every romantic scenario you can think
of. I have sent her into an hour frenzy of orgasm after orgasm
and as soon as I came once we ...
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2 Votes
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RE: extra padding!!! 12/16/2003
To the lady who asked if they need to wait for her to lose weight
before swinging!!! NO YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT LOL. I
myself am plump and in the process of losing weight. At first
I was really nervous if the other guy & girl would like
me or not, but we wanted to try this so much that weight didn't
stop me. There are plenty of men and women that like the plumper
ladies, or as my hubby calls ...
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0 Votes
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I met someone on Swapfinder.com that I know!!!.... 12/16/2003
What do I do, if I have met someone that goes to the same college
as I do, and suddenly, I know who it is? I know exactly who
it is and now I think things are going to be a little wierd
between us when we see each other at school. I don't
want to let him know that i know, until the maybe later, because
if we ever did anything together, it would be really really
wierd!!!!!!
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can any one help me get my mother 12/15/2003
i would love to get with my mother but i dont know how, i would
like it to be a long term relationship and i would like any
advice on how to get her etc...
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men 2 men anal sex guide 12/15/2003
1. try to insert one finger ( with lucricant)slowly, follow
by the second and the third finger after the anus got used
to it
<br>
2. After that try with a small dildo and gradually try bigger
one after that
<br>
3. Please ask the the other guy that this is your first time
and do it gently with lots of lubricant, after that relax
if you don't it going to hurt
...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
33 Votes
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Re: My girlfriend 12/15/2003
Here's my advice for what it's worth. First, determine
which you cannot live without...your girlfriend, or sex
with other women. If you decide you cannot live without
your girlfriend, figure out a way to subtly introduce the
idea of bringing other women into the relationship (maybe
initiate the idea via fantasy discussions). If her response
is an obvious and adament "no, " relinquish ...
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Re: Women are too confusing 12/15/2003
Another guy's perspective...
<br>
Whether or not you cheated on your wife depends on the content
of the discussion(s) the two of you had prior to her bringing
her friend into the relationship. If she agreed only to
bring her along so the two of you could have some fun TOGETHER,
then you cheated, because you did something without her
knowledge or consent (it's impossible for ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
21 Votes
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Whats up with the pay sites 12/15/2003
I was wondering if any one else out there was fed up with the
extra pay sites? For example when you send an email to a woman
and the only response that you get is the "check me
out at whateaver.com" or get the membership to this
or that in order to get my phone number. Whu can't these
people just be straight foreward? What do you all think?
0 Comments, 21 Views,
73 Votes
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RE:Cheating on my Wife 12/14/2003
hello earth calling...why the hell did you get married
in the first place if you still want to experience how good
a (*)(* some one else is?????
And i wont say it makes of you a bad person..just another
regular man..if you want to be just another statistic go
ahead screw arround
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re:Swapfinder.com is great 12/14/2003
We do not agree, Swapfinder.com is great at marketing the site to suit
their own agenda (ie, maximum cash intake.) This site is
full of timewasters and Swapfinder.com should do more to stop them,
but doesn't as they don't care so long as you sign
over your credit card details.
Swapfinder.com are are always pushing their own products onto you,
as though this is going to guarantee a genuine meeting.
It doesn't. So don't be ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
1 Votes
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Trying to be faithful 12/14/2003
I dont understand i was with someone for 4 years and it was
the best time of my life. Now i cant be faithful to a woman
for more than a couple months. Could this be because im only
24 or is there something wrong???
0 Comments, 2 Views,
1 Votes
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bestfriends 12/14/2003
how do i get my bestfriend to know i want to have sex with her?
we have both discussed being with another woman before
but not each other.
0 Comments, 22 Views,
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Re: Overcoming physical barriers to giving good head 12/14/2003
Be careful now. Try not to mess with going deep on the shaft
anyway. Being a guy, I can say that, yes, it is nice when a
girl can take in most or all of my cock. However, I never mind
if she just likes to or would rather suck on the head. What's
more important here is technique.
<br>
The same thing goes with guys, so look at it this way. There
are always guys trying to stick ...
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Re: frustrated virgin 12/14/2003
In all honesty, and coming from personal experience here,
I would HANDS DOWN recommend that you find the right person
first. Don't just go and fuck the first girl you meet
that only wants to have sex with you. Make sure to get in a
relationship with her first, and find out if you 2 are ready
for it. As much as you want to do it now and can't wait
to do it, you will regret it INFINITELY ...
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Re: HELP! S.O.S. BLUE-BALLS SYNDROME IS TURNING FATAL! 12/14/2003
This is easy (well, sorta).
<br>
It's called the "real world."
<br>
NEVER does Swapfinder.com claim to be the only source of "action"
or "interaction" in the world. The simplest
and most efficient way is to go out there to a coffee house
or jazz club or airport (or wherever you are) and just pick
up a conversation with a woman that looks good for you.
<br>
Besides, if ...
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When is it OK to cheat 12/13/2003
I have been married for 12 years and for that time period
my sex life with my wife has almost none existent. Since
we have been married, I would say that we have sex on average
about once a month. Even when we first got married we weren’t
having sex on a regular basis. When we were dating we were
like bunnies any place and anytime, but then she got pregnant,
we married and since then ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
3 Votes
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Anal 12/13/2003
i really am into anal sex. one time i made my boyfriend try
it and it was just.... so different. But the more and more
he did it the more and more i would tear and bleed. What is
wrong, why can't we make it as awsome as it was at first?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
166 Votes
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Overcoming physical barriers to giving good head 12/13/2003
I'm very petite with a proportionately petite mouth
and a strong gag reflex. I can get my guy off quite well on
tongue technique and sucking on the head, but when he tries
to push deeper I gag horribly and almost throw up. It is not
sexy and I have no interest in finding a guy who wants his
dick puked on. I would like to be able to give good head. How
do I get past my "physical ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
107 Votes
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What do Women Want? 12/13/2003
OK, I'm a married man in an open relationship. We've
been married for over 25 years and been open for over five.
However, when a man places an add for an open no strings attached
relationship, whether it involves chatting, exchanging
pics, web cam or perhaps an encounter, most women are turned
off by either the approach or the photo included.
However, when I read women looking for men in ...
2 Comments, 54 Views,
3 Votes
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OMG! Where did you learn that! 12/13/2003
Hello all...I have heard that on more than one occasion!
It is in reference to a little trick that will help women
have a mind blowing orgasm. For women with any hang-ups
about anal penetration please keep an open mind. It may
take a little time to ease into this guys so be patient with
your woman and the reward will be great for you as well. I
suggest that after foreplay the woman ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
24 Votes
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No Luck 12/13/2003
I am a personable out going guy, However I have very limited
time to find anyone so I use Swapfinder.com. So far Swapfinder.com has been a bust.
Can anyone give some tips on how to improve my results?
1 Comments, 58 Views,
0 Votes
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Nonsexual Q. about Dell/Roxio CD 12/13/2003
Hi!
This question has nothing to do with sex!
I figured since this is worldwide a few people out there
might can help me out!
I have a Dell 4600 and use the basic Roxio which comes with
it. The problem - some songs, after recording & finalization,
play back a 'cracking' sound (most like the popping
of an old scratched record). It happens mostly in my car
('03 Civic), but also on my ...
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Married Sex 12/11/2003
I think I have had enough of married sex. It is getting very
boreing because my wife is not into the participation part
of it. I am not saying we do not have sex, becuase that would
be a lie, but it is when we are getting it on and all that I do
not feel like she is fully into it. I am almost thinking that
she is not liking being with me anymore. We have been married
for 6 years and we have ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
15 Votes
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Communication is the key.... 12/11/2003
Communication is the key to any success in a relationship
being it friends, friends with benefits, sexual, or even
an intimate relationship where you are in love. If you don't
have the communication there, then you wont go anywhere
with the partner. You need to talk and let them know what
you are feeling, how you are feeling, if it hurts, feels
good, more, less, that sort of thing. ...
0 Comments, 0 Views,
9 Votes
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Breast reduction, looking for advice from men... 12/11/2003
Two years ago I had a breast reduction and am asking men questions
to see what their opinion is. I don't know if you guys
know the whole procedure but wont get into detail about
it. Anyway, I have scars stemming from about 6 inches from
underneath my arm pitts, and all the way over to my breast
bone. Then there are scars also from underneath each of
my breasts all the way up to the ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
7 Votes
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For everyone looking for a one night stand 12/11/2003
If you are looking for a one night stand but you want to be
picky about if the other person is married or not doesnt
seem to make much sense to me if you want sex no strings then
thats what it means NO STRINGS stop worrying about the other
persons life and worry about your own
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35 Votes
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relation dificulty 12/11/2003
Hi,
I had a girlfriend for over 6 months. When it came to sex,
she liked forplay very much, but she didn't want me
to penetrate. In the beginning I had no problems with that,
and I said her we would wait a while. But even after 5 months
she didn't want me to penetrate her. She told me it wasn't
my fault and a few days later we broke up. Now she's in
love with someone else, but does the ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Why does my penis shrivel up after I cum? 12/11/2003
I was woundering if any other guys had this problem, or if
any of the woman would help me out. After I cum my penis usually
shrivels up to about 1-1.5". It is really embarassing!!
I'm 7" hard, but look like a baby 10 minutes after
I cum. Also, It takes me about 3-4 hours to get hard again.
(I'm 28 yrs old) Please help me!!!!! Is there anything
I can take to prevent this from happening, or ...
3 Comments, 80 Views,
11 Votes
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first time threesom 12/11/2003
My fiancee and I have been together for almost five years,
and we recently began thinking about adding a thirdd person
to our experience. This is a friend of ours that we have known
for about six months, and we both find her attractive. Neither
of us really know how to approach the subject of a threesome
with her. Any advice in the field would be helpful.
Thanks.
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17 Votes
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Some Advice? 12/10/2003
Is it me or is there a lot of questions asked here in the “Advice”
column? I was seeking some advice on something and decided
to check here; but when I clicked on an article, it was the
same basic question I had, which was certainly no help.
Just a helpful hint for those of you writing questions in
the “Advice Articles, ” try asking on the “Advice ...
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Free BJ's 12/10/2003
Okay, I Have yet to meet a person from this site but then the
other day a girl offered to give me a blow job, for free, no
strings attached...I don't know why but i paniced,
thinking it was a set up or worse. Needless to say I didn't
go...was I wrong, am I being paranoid or smart?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
10 Votes
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Old bitches 12/10/2003
1)Remeber, if a old women is mean to you, she hasn't
had it in a while...POUNCE on her...she needs it...and
this woman aka bitch, will reward you with many things...the
worst is her need for you all the time, so be careful.
<br>
2)Old woman driving hot rod...need I really tell you she
likes to get wildly fucked??? Approach her. worste thing
is you get to fuck her friend, either ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
9 Votes
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what to do if she wants to be friends 12/10/2003
theres this girl ive been chasing and when i ask her out she
says shell go but it seems like she really doesnt want to
so i normally never bother to call and this repeats itself?
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1 Votes
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you 'd better enjoy this site with him together 12/9/2003
You should find out what he realy want in bed adn what kind
of woman he is looking for here, then make yourself better
in bed , I 'm sure he will stop looking around here....hope
it helps. Tracy
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In Praise Of Younger Women 12/9/2003
Why not a woman my age? Well, at 38 I'm getting a little
older, and I'm just not sure I could carry all of that
excess baggage. Fella's, tired of being judged and
paying the price for what other men did to her in the past?
A little bit fed up that her idea of an "open"
relationship means that she can go out clubbing with the
girls and "open" her thighs to the first disease
ridden drunk who ...
0 Comments, 96 Views,
2 Votes
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I would like a 3 some or 4 some 12/9/2003
I want to have a 3 some with me and my girlfriend and another
guy but she doesnt want that is there something you can suggest
for me? I also would like a 4 some with a another couple but
like i said she doesnt want that any suggestion would be
great..We are very sexual and she had a couple of fuck buddys
before me and i dont want her to stop because she has me now
i want to join in with her ...
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i need to know.... 12/8/2003
i need to know if its ok to have sex while im on my period. and
if im at a greater risk of getting pregnate. please respond
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Recently went on a bunch a dates given the cold shoulder, I dont understand 12/7/2003
I recently have been on several dates recently. All nice
women, some of them barely have anything going on in their
lives, so i have to find ways to keep the conversation going.
Anyway...The dates I thought went well, had a good constant
conversation, made them laugh a bit. I ended the date like
a gentleman, paid for the dinner, and said goodnight. But
from 3 of them I have gotten the "i ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
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RE: Interracial Relations- - Open your mind 12/7/2003
To the person that wrote this Article: First let me say,
that I do agree with many aspects of your article. Me being
a black woman, I've run into my fair share of racism,
hate, and stupidity. BUT - I must say that when you come into
a site, who's tagline is "Find a sex partner"
you should come to expect people treating other people
like objects, like things, like trophies, based on ...
0 Comments, 110 Views,
31 Votes
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How do you get replies? 12/6/2003
I'm 24 fairly attractive guy, (see profile), could
you please tell me your views, why i am receiving only limited
reponse from women i contact?
0 Comments, 66 Views,
101 Votes
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BE WHAT U ARE!!!! 12/6/2003
Whenever you meet someone, please be honest and just stay
the way you are. This is ver important no matter what. Don't
fake yourself. You have to be tru to yourself and the other
person as well.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
11 Votes
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STILL LOOKING FOR A BI WOMAN ON Swapfinder.com 12/6/2003
Until now we haven't find yet a bi woman for us to play.
But we don't have to give up. We have to keep on searching
and searching until we could find one for us.
We hope we will have luck before christmas.
0 Comments, 14 Views,
17 Votes
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IS THERE REALLY A BI WOMAN? 12/6/2003
We are happily married mixed couple and we are searching
for a bi woman on Swapfinder.com. Are there really real bi Swapfinder.com members
in the Swapfinder.com who will be interested to meet us? We just hope
so. We wish we could find a real one.
0 Comments, 15 Views,
1 Votes
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all the sex a person wants!!!! 12/6/2003
People, please write a whole article, not just a question!
There are some good qustions here, but no responses or answers.
If you have questions without answers, go to the chat screen
and ask them.
SEX: How to get it on Swapfinder.com? Good luck, it is'nt here.
Women, and what they want? They don't know so how can
anyone else. The best way to start trying to please them ...
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5 Votes
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The Key to a EXCELLENT SEX 12/5/2003
Sex is not rocket science. I'll say that again: SEX
IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE. If you can remember one thing remember
this, sex is 75% MENTAL and 25% skill, i.e. it starts with
the mind. It doesn't matter if you are short, tall,
fat, thin, well-hung or barely hangingg at all. If you hips
are too big, your tits too small, if you have a head full of
hair or running neck and neck with George ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
96 Votes
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How to get a free one month gold upgrade on Swapfinder.com 12/5/2003
There is a way for standard members to get a free, yes i said
free, one month gold upgrade. Swapfinder.com doesn't keep it a
secret, in fact, its right there on the main page!
All you have to do is write and have posted 25 restaurant
reviews on dine.com, and then you are eligable for the upgrade!
Once your reviews are posted, the points will be posted
to your Swapfinder.com account. Just click on the points ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
115 Votes
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I Need Help!!!!! 12/5/2003
Okay, here's the deal. My girlfriend and I have been
dating for almost a year, and I've never been able to
get more than a little kissing from her. I'm willing
to wait a little while for sex if I have to (with her, it'll
be worth it) but I really want to get at least some more serious
making out soon. What should I say/do to convince her?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
25 Votes
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i want strippers but i cant find any hot ones that will do "more"! 12/5/2003
I REALLY WANT SOME STRIPPERS THAT WON'T JUST DO THE
TYPICAL DANCES. I WANT THEM TO DO MORE BUT I CANT FIND ANY
WILLING TO. ANYONE KNOW OF ANYONE?
0 Comments, 6 Views,
20 Votes
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My Roomate's FRIEND... 12/5/2003
I am a guy and I have a girl roomie. Her friend, "Jackie"
is the person I am interested in but I don't know how
she feels about me. I have only met her a few times. As soon
as I think I am getting around to asking her out, I feel that
she becomes delibrately stand offish and I am concerned
that I might be doing something wrong. We both would be happy
together because I think the ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
38 Votes
,6.81 Score
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Disabled partner 12/4/2003
My wife is disabled and unable to satisfy me.
I would love to meet another woman for sex but my wife does
not approve. I have not directly asked the question but
I know what her response would be.
I have no intention of leaving her but if she found out it
would affect her health badly.
I look after her most of the time and do not get out much.
I masturbate and she gives me oral but it ...
1 Comments, 29 Views,
22 Votes
,6.13 Score
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How do I get her? 12/4/2003
I have this friend at school who is pretty good looking.
She is very nice, and I love talking to her. Since we graduate
this year, I was wondering how to tell her i want to be more
than friends. Not just the dating part but a little more,
since I know she has done more. Any advice would be great.
Also if you can help me with how to get a girl as a girl friend,
that would be great too. I ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
13 Votes
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threesomes 12/4/2003
we have started having threesomes with my friend, my wife
loves it, but the problem is ive started to want them to
fuck on their own....am i wrong?
0 Comments, 14 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Respect 12/4/2003
Guys, respect your women! If you respect them then they
will respect you. Don't cheat on them, don't always
make sexual comments, don'tuse them....RESPECT
THEM!
0 Comments, 2 Views,
9 Votes
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How far should you travel to meet a stranger? 12/3/2003
I've met a few people from this site and have driven
quite a distance for the meeting. How far should someone
drive for a "potential" meeting with the person
they plan on hooking up with? There is never any guarantee.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
80 Votes
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BE SURE 2 SEND A PHOTO! 12/3/2003
Guys, (and girls too, actually).
Be sure to send a pic with your response! So many people do,
so why would we risk taking the chance. If you don't
have one online, Swapfinder.com will let you mail it
to them, and for $15 they will post it. It's worth it
if it gets you more responses! Also, Say a little about yourself,
and what you're looking for. Most important...be
honest!
0 Comments, 3 Views,
89 Votes
,9.17 Score
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How do I make my wife horny? 12/3/2003
I think that every since I got married a little over a year
ago my wife has despised sex. We've gone from 7-10 times
a week to me begging to get laid twice a month. Is this normal.
My drive is just getting more intense and I've addressed
it to her but I can't seem to get her to understand the
urgency of my need. It's not going away are there any
methods of seducing her that anyone can give ...
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0 Votes
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help me -cant get a woman 12/2/2003
im 39 years age not had steady a woman for years what im i doing
wrong i dont drink booze only glass wine now then dont like
going to nightclubs what do i do and im shy
0 Comments, 5 Views,
37 Votes
,2.90 Score
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How can a woman become multi orgasmic? 12/2/2003
I've got a very hot partner. However, she can only have
one orgasm and then she is done. I've tried fucking
her slowly and sometimes if I wait too long she "misses"
her orgasm. I have been with multiple partners and can make
other women cum over and over again. Any suggestions for
my girlfriend?
0 Comments, 11 Views,
27 Votes
,6.29 Score
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What would make my wife excited to give me head? 12/2/2003
My wife is very disinterested in giving me a blowjob. It
was very common when we dated, but since getting married,
she prefers to ignore my desire to have my dick sucked. I
am ready to take my wares to someone that likes to do this
since I am always giving her oral. I would like to know if
there are any techniques or ways to get her interested again
in oral sex that gets me to the point of ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
22 Votes
,5.89 Score
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I need some advise on something... 12/2/2003
i am bisexual and i am shy i have played around with my girlfriend.
she is married now and i want to be with her again. we go out
on friday night and when im with her i get excited and i want
to do something with her but i am very shy and i never even
let her know how im feeling so the night goes by and then i
go home and nothing happends. is there anyone out there
that can give me some ...
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the art of giving good head 12/1/2003
First of all you have to love doing it. If you don't like
it you cannot give it all you have. Not just be okay with it
but for it to actually get you going yourself. First lick
the tip of his cock with the tip of your tongue slowly. Then
flatten your tongue and swirl it around the head of it. Take
him deep within your mouth and close it around him. He should
jerk good and hard at this ...
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Re: The Lying Ex! 12/1/2003
Honestly that's not true in all cases, I've become
really close friends with some of my ex's. I still talk
to them a lot and we still get advice from each other and such,
just because one of them or maybe a couple of your ex's
just couldn't be your friend afterwards you shouldn't
really judge them all like that. It would be nice though
to just have them say they couldn't deal with being ...
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0 Votes
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something wrong with transexuals? 12/1/2003
is there something wrong if a very pretty woman has a dick?would
u get with her still or push her away?i know a very hot transexual
and she want me so much should i go 4 it?
0 Comments, 98 Views,
6 Votes
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how many women like anal sex? 12/1/2003
my woman says she will never take it in the ass how would the
best way 4 me to go about getting her to agree with me and open
her ass?
0 Comments, 15 Views,
6 Votes
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I WANT TO FUCK MY COUSIN 12/1/2003
Recently I went to party and met my sister-in laws aunty,
my god I was gobsmacked by her beuty.
Long blonde hair , georgous ass and tits that were so perfect,
all I could think about was making love to her all night,
but she is a relative now isn't she?
<br>
I haven't been able to stop thinking of her since I am
married and dont want to ruin the family, but I really need
this ...
0 Comments, 151 Views,
14 Votes
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what to do 11/29/2003
A lot of times a member may find themselves in the perdicament
of adultry. I know that most of us here are here for sex, but
there are a select few who would like to keep it as clean as
possible. I logged on one day to find that a beautiful woman
had sent me a message. I replied and we began to chat. After
a couple of weeks we met at a local resteraunt to have coffee
and discuss our ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
1 Votes
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re: husband is overseas 11/29/2003
Listen, if your husband is over seas and you wan't to
fool around; ask him. If you truely love him you'll
wait. when a husband and wife enter into that sort of bond
it takes a lot to keep it going, but only a little to ruin it.
If he is okay with it you must understand that he is probably
doing it as well. If this is okay with you then maybe you should
also take it to the next step. Swing. ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
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looking for help 11/29/2003
Hi i am 28 and have a huge fantasy of being with another woman
for a long time now.Well i have a problem i live in Dartmouth
Nova Scotia and i don't know anyone to help me with this
problem i only have a few girlfriends and they are not into
other woman i would love to meet someone around here in my
area but i don't know how to go about meeting someone.
If you have any ideas on how to help ...
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0 Votes
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winks and hotlists 11/29/2003
I'm a standard member and use the winks and hotlists
as a way to tell other members that I'm interested.So
all you gold and silver members that get added to a hotlist
or winked at check to see if they are a standard member, cause
if they are you have to make first contact in order to get
a response.I hope this helps more people hookup.
0 Comments, 50 Views,
4 Votes
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Re : when your guy says he needs some space? 11/29/2003
I am not attempting to speak for all men, but the few times
I have felt like “I needed some space” is when:
<br>
1. She is demanding more attention than I am able or willing
to provide to her.
2. She is getting too involved or attempting to make decisions
about my lifestyle. (I.e. my friends, family, money, wardrobe,
etc.)
3. She is giving the impression that ...
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0 Votes
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Am I the only that feels this way? 11/28/2003
Have you ever IMed with a person, you've met, you plan
a lovely weekend together...and while you are IMing during
the week proir to our meeting he disappears? But you can
still see him typing? And you ask him a question about the
upcoming weekend...and you have to wait for 20 minutes
for him to answer???
<br>
Am I being overly sensitive...??? But to me, that just sounds
too ...
10 Comments, 683 Views,
26 Votes
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keep it clean 11/28/2003
hygene is crucial. many wemon arent being orally gratified,
and it is most likley due to the foul odor of their pussy.
if you want to recieve oral pleasures....have a freshly
deuched box with your pubic hair nicely manicured.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
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straight guy dating other guys for sex 11/27/2003
I'm a straight guy and thanks to some bi curious women
I've been with it has made me bi curious too. Afterall,
if a woman can love sucking or anal then a guy should be able
to enjoy it too. I'm straight and have no romantic interest
in guys but a select few hot guys make me want to get on my knees
and satisfy them. However, been straight makes me scared
about being with guys. To me its ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
111 Votes
,7.07 Score
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Help with wife's inhibitions 11/26/2003
I have a hard time getting my wife to open up to new experiences.
I have gotten her to take some nude pics and talk about fantasies,
but she won't open up to chatting online with other
couples or singles. I would love to get together with another
couple, but she is so hesitant about sex that I don't
ever see this happening. Any help on getting her to relax
would be appreciated.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
150 Votes
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Re: Husband Overseas 11/26/2003
You are in a delema, you know that morally it is wrong to cheat
on your hubby, but also since you are so horny, it is emotionally
wrong not to while he is away. If he is going to be away for
a long time then, why not try masturbating. Or save up the
tension for when he comes home. Or go for it and fuck your
brains out, it is a perfect opportunity to expand your sex
life and learn what you ...
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RE: husband is overseas 11/26/2003
Well we are in the same situation as you. I am currently away
over seas and my wife is back at home. We both are haveing
to deal with being horny on a regular basis. When we are together
we love to play together with others as well as each other.
The key for us is we always play together. We discussed what
we would do with swinging while we are apart and decided
to keep it to ourselves and ...
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0 Votes
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Create a Fantasy Bedroom 11/25/2003
Colors may be the single most important factor in creating
the mood of your room. Psychologists have been studying
the effects of colors on the mood for many years and believe
that colors play an important role in eliciting responses.
For example a yellow room is thought to be playful and optimistic
while a red room signifies stimulation and passion. Fortunately
we do not have to limit ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
118 Votes
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bedroom for passion 11/25/2003
You can wine, dine and dance until the wee hours, but nothing
heats up your nights together like a sexy boudoir. So if
advertisement
<br>
<br>
you're ready to transform your sleeping quarters
into sultry surroundings, follow these steps for adding
intrigue and indulging your senses. One warning: Making
these moves may be hazardous to your sleep.
<br>
...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
36 Votes
,7.64 Score
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How to Get Totally Satisfied in Bed 11/25/2003
Breathe Your Way to a Big O
One common reason women take longer than men to reach their
peak is that they aren't breathing properly. Most
women breathe too shallowly. Deep breathing, on the other
hand, delivers more oxygen to all your muscles, including
the ones in your vagina, which allows them to rev up their
orgasmic engines. To quicken your response time so it's
the same as his, take ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
109 Votes
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Re: What do you have to do to get a response? 11/25/2003
I agree that a "wink" just means, "I viewed
your profile and thought it was what I was looking for"
but like "I added you to my hotlist, " it doesn't
mean anything unless you send an e-mail telling her what
you liked about it!! A lot of writers do not check their grammar
and spelling. A few words that are mispelled can be overlooked,
but not the whole letter!! I know that I personally ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
84 Votes
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Prove your identity!! 11/24/2003
My wife and I have been members on Swapfinder.com as a couple looking
for a bi-female for about a week now and we have been ignored
by 90% of everyone we tried to send a message to. We suspect
it's because we don't have any photos posted yet.
Well, a photo is just that, a photo. It doesn't prove
the photo is the person you are communicating with. I wonder
why most of the beautiful women only have one ...
0 Comments, 178 Views,
4 Votes
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So much profile effort ...... so little traffic ! 11/24/2003
Help !!
<br>
I am looking for some input on profile building. I have been
trying to hit the right 'tone' and convey as much
info as possible into the description. The key facts I want
to get across are that I am well educated, very flirtatious,
have a dry sense of humour, am reasonably experienced and
I always prioritise my partners pleasure. I have included
photos so women can ...
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0 Votes
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My profile - Good or Bad? 11/24/2003
I want to mainly get responses from women out there. What
do you think of my profile?
<br>
61' model, brown top, light colored exterior, bright
blue headlights, good shape, original parts. Only had
2 owners, been around the block a few times, but not too much
damage, nor repairs to be done. Has soft cushiony seat,
takes curves with no problem, good mobility, lots of tread
left, ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Giving Women Oral Pleasure 11/24/2003
I posted this Article long ago here, but thought I would
give it again. This is for those Ladies (and men) that are
Frustrated at not knowing just what to do, and how, when
going down on a Beautiful Woman. This is from an Older, experienced
Virgo, and I think it may be needed again.
<br>
Guys, don't be in a hurry, good things take time to accomplish.
Take your time with foreplay, ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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what should i do 11/23/2003
im 31 average looking, i have been with my boyfriend now
for 4yrs when we first got 2 gether he asked me 2 marry him
and 2 have his , at the time i was seperated from my first
husband and waiting on my divorce he had said he would put
the ring on my finger once my divorce was finalised. Recently
he has decided he doesnt want 2 get married but 2 stay as we
r and now says he doesnt want any ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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I Need to Be Watched 11/23/2003
I love to show off my pussy to older men in public. I wear a
knee lenth loose skirt with no panties and stockings and
boots. I pull my skirt up while I drive to give guys in higher
vehicles a better view. Outside, in the park I sit in a way
on the grass that shows off my pussy from a certain angle
then when a guy I like walks by I give him a show. Often men
will sit near so they can get a ...
0 Comments, 129 Views,
7 Votes
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contacting some one thats interested in you 11/23/2003
member to contact women. So far I’m doing the contacting.
The ones that contact me have different sites I have to join
to get their info. Please explain this to me. I’m
really interested in this woman on the site but Received
two different hotmail addresses from her and I e-mail responses
to them with my personal info and I here nothing back please
help. I feel like my ...
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0 Votes
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Is it LOVE or just a "Fuck Buddy"? 11/22/2003
Ijust a good friend to him. Basically a piece of ass for his
convenience.
<br>
have fallen in love, AGAIN!! But, the problem is the man
I love doesn’t love me. We met on Swapfinder.com, and have been seeing
each other 7 months. Throughout that time, he has done things
that most women wouldn’t tolerate. Nothing major, but
still enough for them to say enough. He has treated me like ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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please help need refresher on deep throating 11/22/2003
Hi hope someone can help refresh my skills on deep throating.I
have done it in the past but cant seem to get there now with
the man Im with now.I love giving blow jobs it gets me off
every time, but I remember it felt so good taking it down
my throat.My man Im with now is much larger but is that the
reason? Is it too big to swallow or am i loosing the touch?
Is there such a thing as being ...
0 Comments, 180 Views,
5 Votes
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Why are some men so shallow 11/22/2003
Ok Here is my Question. Why are some men on this sight so shallow.
Some men want the perfect women for sex Come on its just sex.
Why do us women have to be perfect just to have sex.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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To shave or not to shave 11/22/2003
Ladies, do you like a man who is clean shaven? Please let
me know one way or the other. I've been thinking about
it but not sure if women like it.
0 Comments, 36 Views,
3 Votes
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RE: Shaved...the way it should be done... 11/21/2003
My ex partner and I did the same that you are thinking of doing.
The best way we learned was with Soothing Aloe Vera Shaving
Gel. It comes out a gel and when rubbed it turns into a foam.
You also want to get razors that have the protective wire
so you don't get cut in the weirdest, but painful places.
It works great, and you get a smooth and clean feeling afterwards,
plus, having the ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
80 Votes
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What do you have to do to get a responce? 11/20/2003
Question What is it that you have to do to get noticed or to
have a responce on Swapfinder.com. I am polite well minded and don't
look that bad(although i have no pic but well described.
I send winks. but no responce. Please help
0 Comments, 22 Views,
84 Votes
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CAN ANYONE TELL ME OF GLASGOW/PAISLEY GROUP SEX CLUBS 11/20/2003
I AM JUST WONDERING IF ANYONE CAN TELL ME OF ANY GROUP SEX
CLUBS IN THE GLASGOW/PAISLEY AREA BECAUSE I AM WANTING
TO MEET LOTS OF PEOPLE AND HAVE LOTS OF SEX.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
25 Votes
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BAD SPELLING! 11/20/2003
Is it just me, or is bad spelling a turn off to others also?
I think, (I'm not sure) that all computers have a spell
check. If I'm wrong, bother yourself to find a dictionary.
Reading a profile with NO picture and you trying to describe
yourself with nothing but incorrect spelled words only
makes me wonder...why did you NOT attach a photo?! (Or shood
i sey i dooh no wye!)
0 Comments, 21 Views,
50 Votes
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Chat Room Behavior 11/19/2003
Can you be successful in finding a relationship here? I
was fortunate in less than a week I found a woman in the same
situation as myself we live less than 5 miles from each other.
We have met enjoyed great sex together and look forward
to a long and mutually beneficial friendship.
<br>
Here are some words of advice based on behaviors I have personally
observed.
In your ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
37 Votes
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Its ALL about the first impression 11/19/2003
Does a woman know within the first five minutes whether
or not she wants to sleep with a guy based on first impressions?
I heard this once but I want to see if I can use this article
as a way to sort out the truth from the fiction. If you feel
that your judgement of first impressions are excellent
or in your favor....please mark accordingly. If you feel
that impressions are not as ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
79 Votes
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EYES ARE INTERESTED , BUT NOT MY COCK 11/19/2003
Hi there . thought id get some male advise on this subject...As
far back as i can remember it has taken more than just a good
looking naked female to arrouse me.
sure i get hard like any other , but at 39 i find im harder for
longer while im masterbating ....
I often question womens ability to entertain and entise
a man , but also i wonder ifthis is just asking too much.
these days i ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
35 Votes
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5 pics out of 100! 11/19/2003
To all you gentlemen who want to know why no responses?!!
Well how about looking at my who is viewing me list 5 out of
100 had a pic posted! F I V E ! Answer any questions?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
29 Votes
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Re: Shaved or not to shave 11/19/2003
Personally I prefer a man to be as clean as I am. I am shaved
and dont exactly like it when an ungroomed man expects me
to suck on his cock, which would also involve choking down
his nasty fuckin hair too! I have the best answer for alot
of male questions! If YOU wont do it dont expect US to do it
either!
0 Comments, 29 Views,
34 Votes
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My cock farted once? 11/19/2003
One time - My GF was jerking me off like a mad cow - And my cock
was soooo hard .. Then it farted ?
<br>
Has this happened to anyone else before ?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
23 Votes
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Eating Mature PUSSY 11/18/2003
A mature woman is NOT, thank god, a 20 something with little
experience. She is a woman that has driven around the block
quite a few times, whether with one or many man. The mature
woman has a need to have her pussy loved in the way that she
KNOWS works for her. Lets have her invite you back for more
sex since you now know what to do...
<br>
first, her pussy needs to be ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
23 Votes
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RE: You men want more responses?? 14 helpful suggestions 11/18/2003
That was a GREAT article, and 100% true as well! However......
(always the however)
<br>
In my perusals of the various profiles and chat rooms here
on Swapfinder.com, I noticed a few other things that if everyone were
to take a few minutes to consider, could make a match for
either sex, couple, or group that much easier to accomplish.
<br>
1. Make sure you have accurate ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
9 Votes
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The right way to anal 11/17/2003
, put another
finger into it.
She must be relax and enjoy the the finger movement. When
the hole is fit for three fingle, it is the right time to put
your cock in.
You may like to have a plastic glove to prevent your finger
get dirty.
Wearing a condom is a must for anal sex.
The best position to start with or easier to enter is the
lady lying on her back and raise both feet up and ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
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The right way to anal 11/17/2003
She must be relax and enjoy the the finger movement. When
the hole is fit for three fingle, it is the right time to put
your cock in.
You may like to have a plastic glove to prevent your fingerAnal sex is one of the best I ever enjoy.
Most girl will find it pain and refuse to it, but, if both
of you know the trick, it will be the most wonderful place
you will want to do it everytime.
...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
1 Votes
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mmm when live seems so borring 11/17/2003
when life seems so borring, just fine your self someone
to play with like a man or a wome or both more th merrier i say..
<br>
so when life seems so borring lick, suck and fck i say all
at once or in any order that you may
0 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
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Men's & Woman's Genital Size Up! 11/17/2003
Okay this might sound weird and I haven't tested it
out yet but I was kinda thinking about how a man or a woman
can size up a person's size down there by judging what
car the person drives. For exampe one car can be big and wide
meaning the guy or ladies gentials are big and wide and so
on forth tell me what u think?
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