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Need your help! 1/15/2007
My current partner was a virgin when we met. Every single
time we have had sex, her vagina opening tears. We've
used tons of lube, different lotions, different positions,
etc., all to no avail. Any ideas on what we can try? I'm
not that huge. I'm only about 6-7", although
very thick.
4 Comments, 169 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Best way to shave your pussy???? 1/14/2007
I have been shaving my bikini line/pussy for many years......but
have yet to master the art! I ALWAYS end up with razor burn,
ingrown hairs, and irritation. I use women's shaving
cream/gel and a woman's razor. Tried every kind of
gel, cream, razors and after shave gel specifically meant
for women, but always the same result. I've been considering
trying an electric wet/dry razor, with ...
8 Comments, 359 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Oral sex and STD's... 1/14/2007
Do you know you can get an STD by just getting head?
0 Comments, 170 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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the way to go? 1/14/2007
hey all,
We have wanted to visit amsterdamn for a while, while there
we are planning to catch a few sex shows and maybe hire a .
Does anyone out there if the average one will go bi and fuck
both of us (male and female), this applies to both male and
female prostitutes.
thanks
2 Comments, 299 Views,
3 Votes
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Advice for what its worth , Learn to read , befor you , leap out with answers and looking for point 1/14/2007
So many go into a frenzy giving answers and miss the question
asked . They can't stop reacting like a pack of dogs
going after a prize chunk of raw meat .So many people give
senseless answers to questions asked , do they think you
will not notice a oxymoron answer . Do they think you are
so desperate for answers , you will make do with anyone given
no matter . Life has become so full ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
4 Votes
,0.14 Score
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age lies 1/13/2007
why do people lie about there age? a few years here and there
yse but do they not think yopu will notice when you meet or
do they think you are so desperate that although you wanted
someone who is 30 you willmake do with 555?
2 Comments, 58 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Pulling out.... 1/12/2007
So last night, I was doing someone doggie, and because I
didn't know that she had her tubes tied, I pulled out
and cummed on her back. Was that not the smarter thing to
do? She didn't tell me before hand.
2 Comments, 258 Views,
11 Votes
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i need advice about Swapfinder.com 1/10/2007
Hey everybody, i was just wondering how can i meet people
on here it seems like nobody replies, iverybody is looking
for older men. im 22 im aa nice guy, and i have a very good sense
of humor, is my profile not good. Help meet out guys. thanks
for your time
0 Comments, 48 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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When to make the right move 1/10/2007
How do you know to take the relationship to the next level?
Is it best to jsut go for it, or to ask and find out that way?
0 Comments, 32 Views,
0 Votes
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Having 1/9/2007
If someone is somking on or two joints a day, should they
stop so that their wife could have a better chance of conceiving????
1 Comments, 51 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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hope to 1/9/2007
meet a nice women or couple and have a lasting relationship.
knowing each other good, respecting and caring for feelings.
weather married single or involved. To know you are looking
forward to being with people who enjoy your interest.sharing
there loved ones being with a lonly housewife who needs
to be held kissed made love to and feel it so i can hope for
this in my mind and hopfully is ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
0 Votes
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message declined 1/8/2007
why do some people decline messages,
does no harm to chat to someone, or is it a case of the other
party blocking u.
has happened to me a few times but i just ignore it and move
on....
0 Comments, 22 Views,
0 Votes
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Best Way to Eat Pussy 1/6/2007
Thanx to all of you who read ouir previous articles on how
to give good head. Well, as you have asked..... its my husband
who has been doing alot of research on SEX. hope you like
this and if you do have any questions please do ask........and
now enjoy this article. best.........
When a woman finds a man who gives good head, (cunnilingus)
she's found a treasure she's not going to ...
3 Comments, 333 Views,
14 Votes
,6.98 Score
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masterbation before sex? 1/5/2007
so does anyone have any insight, thoughts, or advice as
far as masterbating before a sexual encounter. Say i know
i am going to be going over to a couples house, or getting
involved wiht someone later that night....and I know i
last several minutes if the females vagina is wet, hot,
and tioght, and enveloping my stiff cock, should I masterbate
to orgasm/release before i go over to ...
2 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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mfm 1/3/2007
the wife and i would like to have a mfm but have been unsucessful
in our search what is best thing to do bar hop or Swapfinder.com , still
havent conected on here
5 Comments, 213 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Can't have anal sex 1/1/2007
okay. I am a gay bottom and I recently cannot have anal sex
anymore. I loved being the bottom and now I feel like I have
to shit when I have a cock in my ass. Has this happend to anyone?
Have I lost the feeling for being a bottom? Anyone know of
anything that would take this feeling away so I can go back
to getting fucked?
3 Comments, 216 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Anal 12/31/2006
So I've been interested in anal sex for a long time,
but my g/f is not comfortable with the idea. Does anyone
have any tips or tricks about anal sex that might help her
be more comfortable?
1 Comments, 65 Views,
0 Votes
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Bi Guy with G/F 12/31/2006
So I'm a bisexual guy and I have a steady girlfriend.
She knows that I like dick as much as anything she's
got, so everything is pretty much on the table. Recently
I've been wondering what it would be like to have her
fuck me, either with a strap on or a dildo. I've heard
that a finger in your ass while you get a blow job can be fantastic,
too. Does anyone have any tips on how to break the ...
2 Comments, 280 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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The new age phenomenon 12/29/2006
Not so many years ago, the average relationship was ended
by the usual, its not me it you speel, or the other found
the other cheating, however since the mid to late 1990's
has seen the dating game enter a new age, the HIGH TECH age.
We now have an abundance off ways off notonly breaking up
with our nearest and dearest, but also a plethora of ways
off deviating and finding new ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
0 Votes
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you MUST put a face shot, even if it's blurry! 12/29/2006
guys,
dicks pretty much all look the same. Sure, size is different, and
I'm sure many of you are proud of your members, as well
you should be, but just because your dick looks great, that
doesn't mean that I will be attracted to you.. even
if it's a small and blurry pic , I Have to have some IDEA
of what you look like. so put one on your profile.
...
1 Comments, 68 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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MFM anyone? 12/28/2006
We are slim, attractive 30(s) couple seeking the impossible.
Or is it possible to meet a slim, attractive, athletic male,
25-35, who is willing to join us for a MFM.
All we need is another attractive guy to help us in our quest,
but don't seem to be having much luck so far.
We are both straight and this would strictly be nsa and a
one off.
Can anyone ...
8 Comments, 320 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Breaking the ice - First contact 12/28/2006
Curious question for the ladies out there. Being that this
is a swinging website. Or shall I say an adult site, how does
a guy go about grabbing the attention of the ladies he is
seeking ? Have a look at my profile and see what, if anything,
is wrong with it that prevents me from reaching out and making
contact. My message I send are not vulgar or rude. I have
what I believe is a good pic. ...
1 Comments, 90 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Wife Gone Cold 12/24/2006
I guess I should set the scene. My wife and I have been together
fourteen wonderful years. We have two great and we
have both kept ourselves in pretty good shape. Prior to
our we had fantastic, adventurous sex and loved to
fulfill each other fantasies and basically screw ourselves
to exhaustion! We even loved going on sexual picnics and
sunned bathed and skinnydipped. After the ...
4 Comments, 140 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Should a fantasy become reality? 12/23/2006
should a fantasy be acted on?
The fact that my ultimate fantasy has to do with me being
orally pleased by a complete stranger while I am "asleep"
is not unique. BUT, should I act up on it?
THAT'S the question.
Of course I know the risks involved, that's what makes
it so attractive and stimulating to me.
How many of you made a risky fantasy reality?
Please share ...
5 Comments, 88 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Dilema at the bus stop. 12/23/2006
You are driving past a bus stop. You come across 3 people
all waiting for a bus, However the bus has been cancelled.
The first person is a pregnant lady who is not far off going
inyo labour and urgently needs to get to hospital.
The second is your best mate who you have not seen since he
saved your life 10 years ago and you know you are deeply indebted
to him (you owe him .. BIG TIME).
...
1 Comments, 55 Views,
0 Votes
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A Woman Over 30 12/22/2006
WRITTEN BY A MAN
This is for all you girls 30 years and over.... and for those
who are turning 30, and for those who are scared of moving
into their 30's.. AND for guys who are scared of girls
over 30!!!!...
This was written by Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes.
Andy Rooney says: As I grow in age, I value women who are over
30 most of all.
Here ...
3 Comments, 74 Views,
6 Votes
,5.64 Score
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girls only 12/20/2006
Hello ladies, do any of you like my pics? Would any of you
like to talk? If so send me a message or an email ... hope to hear from you oh and I will make you happy.
2 Comments, 70 Views,
5 Votes
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be yourself 12/19/2006
Hello out there! This is the first time Ive posted an article
here so here we go. Ive met a few women on this site and even
met a few in person from this site. The biggest thing I can
tell you folks is just be yourself. Either the person you
want will take you or they wont. There is no sense in trying
to act like someone your not. Ive had a few good relationships
and even some great one ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
0 Votes
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getting old 12/18/2006
can you tell me why nobody seemsto be like theyre profiles?it
seems there is guys wanting to suck cock!!why is that?
1 Comments, 76 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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World Tour 12/16/2006
I’m planning to do a world holiday tour next year probably
around June. My intentions are to visit Egypt a few European
cities including my birth country England and Scotland,
Russia, Canada and finally the US, I would love to catch
up with Swapfinder.com members around the globe but getting replies
and responses seems to be an endless task, does anyone have
any ideas on how I can get more ...
2 Comments, 25 Views,
0 Votes
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Bondage for beginers 12/16/2006
I`m interested in tring out bondage but i`m bit weary of
the idea cos i`ve no experience on what i`d have to do. I`m
looking forward to my 1st experience with it but i was hoping
for some advice on how to behave an what to do. so any one can
help thanks.
P.S i am up for lessons with any1 offering
2 Comments, 67 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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GIVING A "GOOD" HEAD 12/15/2006
I regard oral sex as the highest form of expression of love
that can be exchanged between two people. There is nothing
that you can do which more clearly shows your love for him
than the worship you can provide to his cock!
Basic Penis
LOOK at his cock. I do not mean a glance, take his cock in
your hand and look at it like you are worshipping his cock.
When you first start to ...
5 Comments, 383 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score
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Great Mystery of Santa Revealed. 12/14/2006
1. What if there is no chimney?
If a house does not have a chimney, then Santa uses some of
his magic dust to make a chimney appear. Then the chimney
disappears as soon as Santa leaves.
2. What if we move?
Santa knows how to find all on Christmas Eve.
3. What if there is no snow?
A lot of places do not have snow at Christmas time; it doesn't ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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The Elf way 12/14/2006
The best advise Santa has ever been given was by an elf. He
to me to be like an elf next to a urinal - always on your toes!!
Merry Christmas
Santa...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Just wanted to get everyone's thought on... 12/13/2006
Hey everyone.
I just wanted to get everyone's opinion on something.
I am a male that likes to dress up in women's clothing.
I now that there are more of you out there but this is more
for the women, so here goes:
What is the biggest thing that turns you on about seeing
a man dressed as a woman? And for the guys out there.. What
made you start dressing and when? ...
2 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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After meeting the first time 12/13/2006
If a person is really hot after meeting the first time, make
sure to let them know! It's really exciting to have
a hot date, but you may not get a second chance if you don't
speak up about the encounter! If you don't like it,
what should a person do? Don't ignore the person, just
be honest. Let them know you are glad you had the opportunity
to meet, but you don't feel another is possible. ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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A Little Bit Of Courtesy Goes A Long Way 12/12/2006
The number one flaw I've seen from individuals on this
site is the fact that people just aren't courteous
to each other. If you receive an e-mail or wink from someone,
and you aren't interested just let that person know,
it isn't rocket science, there's even the auto
response tool included. We're all human here, so save
each other time and be thoughtful of others.
1 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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The Sweetest Cum She Ever Did Taste.... 12/12/2006
Ok then guys n gals, I have a question...
Can anyone inform me if there is a way of making making cum
taste better. I would like to make it a little more pleasent
for a lady that is not a fan but insists on doing it anyway...
god bless her... I have found a few tales of pineapple juice
and strawberries but I would like to know if they work. Also
are there alternatives?
...
4 Comments, 170 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Planning your First Gang Bang 12/11/2006
This started out as advice in a reply to a husband planning
the first Gang Bang for his wife and I liked how I wrote it
so much I am making my own post of it with a few more things
added.Here is a good way to make a group encounter happen
for you or the wife.
The DO's
1.The woman or wife decides who and how many guys will participate.She
is the one having sex ...
6 Comments, 1390 Views,
20 Votes
,5.68 Score
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just be your self 12/11/2006
its easyer to find good company if your not out to impress
any one .
be who you are ...do what you do.. and say what you know.
dont pretend to be someone your not being yourself is the
most erotic thing any one can do.
0 Comments, 14 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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my first time 12/10/2006
im about to meethalf of acouple this week.this is the first
time.im hoping it goes good its been awhile!!have you or
anybody else got any stories about your first time swinging
if so lets share i will let you all know the dirty little details
no names of course!!!!
1 Comments, 59 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How would you handle this situation? 12/10/2006
I have been a member of Swapfinder.com for almost 2 yrs now and have met
my share of nice guys and my share of jerks. Not too long ago
I was checking my site and discovered an email from
some of the young guys in the town where I live. I have lived
in this area for over 14+ years and have steered away from
any single guys that are the ages of my adult .
A day or two later my youngest , who was in her ...
8 Comments, 694 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Married but looking ? 12/10/2006
Married guys ... please ... be honest ( I know ... it doesn't
make sense) but you may as well be up front about it. Tell
who you are in your profile. You will be surprised how many
others are out there in a similar situation. If nothing
else, you may make some new friends.
The worst thing you can do here is to lie about your marital
status, meet someone and then have it come ...
2 Comments, 108 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Wife's first Bi experience? 12/10/2006
That is my wife in the picture, and if all goes well tonight,
she would have gone from bi-curious to bi-sexual by the
end of tonight.
She is currently visiting her ill father out-of-town,
and has just called to see if I would mind if she stays overnight
with her childhood girl friend. I gave her my full blessing,
since I have known for quite some time that my wife has had
a ...
1 Comments, 200 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Getting Wife into 3some and more 12/8/2006
My wife has expressed interest in having a 3some with another
woman, but this has ONLY happened when she is extremely
drunk. Afterward she claims there is no way she could do
that or any other form of swinging. Does anyone out there
no any magic that can possibly persuade her into the scene.
I do believe once she would try it she would enjoy it. I do
believe that she has bi tendencies. ...
4 Comments, 594 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Busted! 12/7/2006
Have you ever met a girl or guy and gone back to their place
to have sex, only to have the other half (wife or husband)
walk in on you. I have it'award for sure. There are plus
and minus to it, they may want to join in. Nothing like a whole
hottub of people can be fun.
I look forward to your responses on this!...
3 Comments, 181 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Wear a Condom or Don't wear a condom? 12/2/2006
Well, I hate them, but they may safe your life...Getting
tested is a good way to see if you are clean, but not always.
I guess, no matter who your with you are taking a change...
0 Comments, 107 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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What do older woman want? 12/1/2006
I'm a young fit guy and one of my biggest fantasies is
to hook up with and older woman (30-45 ish) However I'm
not sure how to approach them. It can be somewhat intimidating
to talk to a good looking woman that can take her pick from
guys all over the place. So woman, any pointers on what you
are looking for in a younger guy would be great. Also feel
free to contact me, I would be more than ...
0 Comments, 155 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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love and lust 12/1/2006
is there a god amount of people out there that have a mate
not into the lifestyle, but allow the other to participate,
and does it help the relationship?
2 Comments, 79 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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How do I? 11/30/2006
My partner has posted this artical....Having talked about
a threesome for some time now and knowing my partner ( although
not keen on the idea ) is slightly curious, I was hoping you
could give me some ideas as to how I can get her to really want
a threesome. The thought of watching someone screw her
blows my mind , I want reality to blow hers.
0 Comments, 279 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Ensure Your Profile is Accurate- It can prevent misunderstandings 11/30/2006
I have noticed, as have many of you fellow AFFers out there,
that many legimate people on Swapfinder.com have profiles that do not
accurately describe the person and/or the person's
desires. The proverbial physical misdescriptions (notice
I do not use the term "lie") for men are penis
size and for women waistline (example: "average"
waistline, when the person is "large"). In
the desires area, the ...
2 Comments, 41 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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I googled my profile 11/29/2006
So - on the advice I read in a question on the advice lines,
I went and googled my profile. I found 34 hits - all but one
with my profile pic on it. Now, for me, who cares?It is my
bottom, not my face and I am all about privacy, but for others,
who think their face is visible only on here - you are wrong
- your main profile pic is visible to everyone who knows
your handle. To those that ...
3 Comments, 316 Views,
16 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Membership and upgrade help 11/26/2006
Ok so I managed to get myself a profile on Swapfinder.com
and all seems well.
All apart from not being able to hardly do anything with
a 'standard' membership.
The next mission was to try and get enough points together
to get an upgrade, im now stuck at 1730 points which is still
not enough for silver. I keep trying to get more but by completing
the requirements I havent ...
4 Comments, 92 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Yin and yang 11/25/2006
My friends always tell me that me and my cousin are total
opposites while me being a big hornball it seems like my
cousin would rather buy a pair of jordan or smoke than get
laid. I've tried to help the poor buy but he don't
listen to me can anyone out there give me some advice: and
any ladies in philly get in contact with me. Its been more
than a year. Thank you in advance
1 Comments, 60 Views,
1 Votes
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delaying ejaculation. advice needed from men and women. 11/25/2006
Any one found a way to stop premature ejaculation, , thats
besides the sprays and creams they keep advertising about?
i know that this interests so so many men and woman.
6 Comments, 424 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Have you no manners? 11/21/2006
Keep in mind when you write to a profile (especially mine), you
are either interested in having sex (which is still an intimate
encounter strings or no strings in my book) or at the very
least, wanting to look at someone's personal and
private sex photos.
Remember HOW and WHAT you write to someone says a lot about
you and your personality.Also what your real intentions
are, and ...
17 Comments, 1958 Views,
45 Votes
,6.52 Score
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Cumming in the mouth 11/21/2006
My man and I have been together for quite a while and our sex
life is usually pretty good. By now, there really shouldn't
be any limitations between us, but I do have one.
We have been talking about oral sex and the whole "cumming
in your mouth" issue. He said that he is ready for me
to let him do that, but I am a little nervous about it. I know
it should be an even thing, since I ...
3 Comments, 316 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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cheating? 11/18/2006
Is it all right when your wife, who dosent ever want to have
sex, says to not let her know if you are getting it from somewhere
else. Is it all right to or is she just saying that so i will
leave her alone?
2 Comments, 169 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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How to get my wife to play with my ass 11/16/2006
she's always been fairly open to new ideas but won't
budge on this one. It's something that i really want,
but she refuses to talk about whenever i mention it, and
won't try it. i think she'd try it, but she's
too hung up on her conservative notions to try it.
any ideas?
3 Comments, 163 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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Gay Marriage? or innovation 11/10/2006
I do not know why homosexuals are putting so much effort
into be able to have the label as "married".
I think all that effort should be put elsewhere. Why do you
wanna be apart of something that is failing. Divorce is
54% chance of happening to anyone married. Why do you wanna
be part of that? I'm saying, it is a free country and
you have the right to choose but I'm also saying it is
the ...
2 Comments, 22 Views,
0 Votes
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Am I wrong ? 11/10/2006
My fiance told me he had a birthday fantasy of being in a threesome.
I in turn told him I also had a fantasy of being with a woman.
We decided to explore the idea of doing this, before we joined
friend finder, we set some rules down that we both agreed
upon. Which one of them was, this was going to be a one time
encounter. Now that we have women interested in our profile,
he tells me that ...
0 Comments, 166 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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what to tell husband 11/9/2006
my husband knows that i like women and he would love to see
me with another woman. he don't like me on the computer
and if he finds out i have an add placed he will freak. i don't
like not telling him. i don't know where he thinks i
am going to find a woman, it's not like i can just go around
asking women i see. he is really big on the truth. should
i tell him about the add or just find ...
3 Comments, 136 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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culture 11/8/2006
Is it normal in Japan for women to think its taboo to have
a relationship with a younger man even if the age difference
is only 5 years?
1 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Toronto Trip 11/7/2006
We will be in the north Toronto area the week of November
20th. staying at a hotel near the 401. Does anyone know of
a nice nightclub in the area where more adventurous people
go for entertainment, that we could go to meeting new people
or a new person to enjoy the night with? Drinks, conversation,
and if the chemistry is right... 
0 Comments, 38 Views,
0 Votes
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How To Deal With a Lying Mate 11/6/2006
In a relationship where a couple live together, and know
every detail of their own home, behaviors, etc., this is
when one partner's attempt to hide something they
shouldn't be doing becomes difficult.
One little thing can get the ball of suspicion rolling quite
easily, especially if that partner has been caught in lies
before. And if you catch them doing something dishonest ...
4 Comments, 83 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Sexual Positions: Getting Started 11/5/2006
When exploring sexual various sexual positions with your
partner/partners, there are several considerations
to practice. First, try to be considerate to those with
whom you are being intimate.
Second, the first time that you try something new it is best
to go cautiously. Ease into it gently and/or slowly. With
anal sex, I would recommend starting off gently and slowly
until you ...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Use your toung 11/2/2006
My advice guys is use that toung as much as you can and for
as long as you can. They love a talented toung.
2 Comments, 53 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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bi or not 11/2/2006
does it mean your bi if u let a man suck u off and enjoy it but
arent attracted to men at all
9 Comments, 266 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Women who Squirt!!! 11/1/2006
What percentage of women squirt when they cum?
Secondly, Do women get a different feeling if they squirt
during orgasm, if they don't squirt everytime they
cum?
0 Comments, 237 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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help needed 11/1/2006
i need some help getting the ladies to notice me...
...advise welcomed!
2 Comments, 90 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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tips for meeting new people 10/31/2006
hi to all , im in need of some advice on how to get a few things
started with other members , i just became a member and i
was wondering if there was any hope for us single guys, i
see a whole lot of females and couples only are searching
for females what can i do to make myself more available and
visible for the folks who want a young single hot guy?
2 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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what i've learned so far... 10/30/2006
well, what can i say... my luck here on Swapfinder.com has been pretty
good, i guess... it's actually gotten better after
i've gotten some testimonials... guess girls seeing
that not all guys are jerks when it comes to a good fuck buddy
relationship makes a big difference.... before my testimonials,
it was hard to gain the trust of girls on here... i mean, who
can blame them, they gotta watch out for ...
1 Comments, 53 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Why do most of the women on Swapfinder.com reject Married Guys? 10/29/2006
I've been on Swapfinder.com now for about 2 months,
and I keep running into a recurring problem that I wish some
women on here would explain. I am married and 98% of the women
on here won't have anything to do with a married guy,
as if we are non human aliens from another planet. Some of
them even have the audacity to write back and call me names
- "cheater", "slime", etc. It's
not ...
11 Comments, 270 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Free sexual love! vs. Intimate Relationship Love: 10/28/2006
Research in progress, your input's
wanted:
My hunch (I may be wrong), and I'm a psychologist, is
that ultimately if we have enough hot sex,
our energies are going to pull us toward intimate relationship,
if we listen openly to our insides. So if those of us, including
me, who just love hot wet hard electric lust, and want to
keep it that way,
stay open to all of ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Meeting people 10/28/2006
I'm looking to meet someone on Swapfinder.com to meet--maybe just
to hang out or maybe for a hook-up. I'm in a new area and
I don't really know that many people. However, it seems
like it's tough to actually do that here. I have a basic
membership and I don't want to plaster my picture on
the internet. Is it possible to meet anyone without a silver
or gold membership and without a pic? And if ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Orgasms 10/27/2006
Women how many of you fake orgasms to get things over with?
1 Comments, 81 Views,
0 Votes
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how do you get over someone that you love when he is married to someone else 10/26/2006
9 mnths ago i met this guy that has the same common goals as
me and i new he was married but kept telling me that it was
over between them. Now he is staying with her and wants to
keep me on the side but my feelings for him is strong. How
do i move on and leave it alone.
4 Comments, 130 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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mfm threesome 10/25/2006
I am in a very strong long term relationship with my partner
of 17 years, but he is really wanting to takes things further,
he wants me to get involved in MFM threesome, but the thought
of it terrifies me, mainly because I'm not comfortable
with my body as I am flat chested, and feel sure that I would
be laughed at, or am I just being silly?
6 Comments, 562 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Exotic dancer/stripper 10/24/2006
With financial pressures sometimes the idea or thought
of being a dancer/stripper comes to mind. Do you think someone
who does this for a living is cheap or does it lower your opinion
of them? Or do you feel they are doing it to make a living and
pay the bills? I think most people whether they admit it
or not-desperate or for the money have contemplated the
idea.
5 Comments, 124 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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should i 10/22/2006
i have feelings for my one girl friend but she has a man should
i tell her or leave it alone?
0 Comments, 11 Views,
0 Votes
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How to get good oral? 10/22/2006
How do I get my girl to give me head?
0 Comments, 23 Views,
0 Votes
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Ladies 10/17/2006
if a (sane) guy really likes u, there ain't nothin thats
gonna get in his way. and if hes not sane, y would u want him?
we r all beautiful, smart, funny women, and we should not
waste our time figuring out why a guy isnt calling us.
when a guy is into u, he lets u know it. he calls u, he shows
up, he wants to meet ur friends, he cant keep his eyes or hands
off of u.
...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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hey there 10/17/2006
just wanted to you need to becarefull who you meet on here
0 Comments, 24 Views,
3 Votes
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What do you all think 10/16/2006
Hi, everyone just a question to ask all of you. Is it just
me that thinks that dunkeyman is asking all these dumb questions
to just get lots of points? I have been reading lots of these
questions and sure feel that anyone could answer these
questions with out asking them, of others.But then I quess
we all do things here for points.
0 Comments, 17 Views,
0 Votes
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Lactating 10/16/2006
I am currently talking with a woman who is turned on about
the idea of inducing lactation.
I know there are ways, but from what I here, it takes forever,
and I would have to massage and suck on her breasts a few tomes
a day.
I heard there are things you can take, like herbal supplements
that work.
Can anyone help me out.I think I want breastmilk more than
she wants to lactate.
2 Comments, 184 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Guys not able to hook up here 10/15/2006
Here are the top 5 reasons for the guys that are unable to
hook up in order:
1. You haven't fully read the profile you are responding
to
2. You don't have any pics up
3. You send VERY brief emails
4. You have only filled out part of your profile
5. You haven't spent enough time emailing people
11 Comments, 1373 Views,
46 Votes
,3.23 Score
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Good Substitute for Oral Sex? 10/15/2006
Not really sure you want to go down
on her just yet?
Get some gloves, latex or non-latex and a SOFT artist's
paint brush.
Get some KY lubricant.
You can lubricate the paint brush heavily and deliver her
many, many climaxes with a sensation similar to a tongue.
It needs to be a high quality, soft brush.
Get ...
174 Comments, 98456 Views,
2269 Votes
,5.29 Score
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boyfriend 10/14/2006
My boyfriend isnt freaky enough in bed I would ask him to
role play and he would say know or if were having sex I would
ask him to do it ruff and he is like no. What can I do?
1 Comments, 51 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Am I Bi 10/14/2006
I really dont know what to do about whats going on with me.
Im glancing a women on the slick and looking at them in ways
that I look at men really. I dont know if Im just curious to
see what its like to be with a women or is this just a phase?
6 Comments, 96 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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do girls like it in the ass 10/14/2006
well?
5 Comments, 191 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Halloween Costume 10/12/2006
So I thought of the perfect custome, but I'm not crafty
enough to make it. Anyone willing to lend a hand at this task?
It may require a lot of fabric work...and it is a character
from my most favorite movie of all time. Even if you can't
help try to guess anyways, this could get intresting.
0 Comments, 20 Views,
0 Votes
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Why Are People Always So Surprised. 10/12/2006
If you read the articles and questions posted on the Swapfinder.com
forums one thing always seems to keep on making frequent
repeated appearances. It's that people somehow expect
that the members on here are somehow going to be different,
more honest and more open than you'd find in real life.
Surely, if you've managed to crawl through the almost
infinite number of websites that make up the ...
0 Comments, 79 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Buying someone's affection: good or bad? 10/11/2006
Why is it that some people out here think that if you buy them
things, take them out on nice dates, you love them more,
but if they don't get the same treatment in return,
you don't love or care about them at all.
There is someone that I cut ties off with completely a while
back. Now it started out as a fling, we would just meet up
for sex. But after a few months, we began to have ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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New menber needs help with this Community 10/11/2006
I'm not sure if this is the proper place to post this
so forgive me if it's not. I'm a new standard member
trying to figure out how to join without the wife finding
out, as, lets just say, she would not understand. She is
into money and does all the bills with a fine comb. Anyway
being new to chats I feel like I'm drowning in the ocean
and not being able to get help. I've accumulated ...
1 Comments, 125 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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how many people have you hook up... 10/11/2006
how many people have you hooked up with on Swapfinder.com?
6 Comments, 167 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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why is it so hard... 10/11/2006
whay is it hard to get females to do anal sex? Is it because
I have a big cock?
6 Comments, 240 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Shaved? Un-Shaved? 10/11/2006
Do you prefer your partner to be shaved? or un-shaved?
5 Comments, 199 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Body Art 10/10/2006
Anyopne have advice for someone considering body art for
the first time? Particularly in the realm of tatoos?
1 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Body Art 10/10/2006
Anyopne have advice for someone considering body art for
the first time? Particularly in the realm of tatoos?
0 Comments, 5 Views,
0 Votes
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Anyway to tell real people that are interested 10/8/2006
Anyway to tell real people that are interested or just the
pic collectors / viewers?
0 Comments, 77 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Disappearing network Friends 10/8/2006
We haven't quite figured out why every time time we
schedual a meet or get to the point of schedualing a meet
, ,, the network friend drops off the face of the earth or
doesnt respond to the last email we sent. Any Ideas as to
why this happens?
2 Comments, 55 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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How much Penis length is good 10/7/2006
Houw much penis length is good enough to satisfy a lady?
Does it matters for a lady very much?
3 Comments, 127 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Any Ideas? 10/7/2006
Hi everyone 
I would like to ask the ladys something? or the men if they
do this as well?
My question is... 2 days ago i shaved the hair around my dick,
and since then! it has been very prickly  and sticky due
to the lack of hair there now.
Has anyone any ideas on if there is something i could use
to help sort this out?
Thanks.
4 Comments, 192 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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shaved or hairy 10/6/2006
i was wondering if gals like shaved dick or hairy dick?
4 Comments, 218 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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Obsession or Fetish 10/6/2006
is there a difference?
Explaining who you are and what you want is important, especially
on this website.
I think about eating pussy every waking minute. When I see
a woman, or fantasize about a woman. The first andpretty
much only thing I think about is eating her out.
It's what I think about when masturbating.
1 Comments, 23 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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So how should you take it? 10/2/2006
You start talking to a newbie to the swinging lifestyle,
chatting more and more. Almost everyday. Pics are starting
to be sent. (hardcore from one side - ours of course) .....then
slowing they start sending theirs. (R rated at best) Then
poof.......they are gone - no contact.
Scared?
Someone on their side changes their mind?
Not liking what they see?
5 Comments, 298 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Second Best Reason Gays Chase Straights 10/1/2006
THEY LOVE THE ATTENTION Straight people, like all of us,
enjoy being lifted onto an ardent admirer's pedestal.
With that in mind, some of them know that there's a wealth
of wooing to be had if they flirt-even if only ever so slightly--with
their gay friends. A straight lipstick-lesbian look-alike
will lean in and coo, "What's it really like to
be with a lady?" Or your married racquetball ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Biggest Reason Gay Guys Chase Straight Guys 10/1/2006
EVERYONE IS STRAIGHT To paraphrase Harvey Fierstein in
Torch Song Trilogy, we live in a world where every movie,
every TV show, and every billboard tells us we're straight.
Heck, even the flagrantly homoerotic Abercrombie &
Fitch ads toss in a bikini-clad woman for every 10 buff shiftless
dudes, lest we think the fellas aren't hankering for
female companionship. With such a thick coat of ...
2 Comments, 64 Views,
6 Votes
,5.64 Score
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Appreciation 10/1/2006
i'd like to thank everybody
for mailing numerous e-mails. Since I posted a couple of
articles. And I love reading your comments and advice it
all helps for the future, a big thank you to all the ladies
it's amazing how much knowledge you can pass on to a
little guy like me hehe.
And a small thank you to the guys that obviously have been
taking lessons from the ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
0 Votes
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making women squirt 10/1/2006
I was wondering how many guys made their women squirt? i
have tried a few times and heard it was a good technique.
Do women like it?
4 Comments, 124 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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50 creative ideas guaranteed to heat up your man 9/30/2006
Has your sex-life gotten a bit monotonous? Is your man not
as attentive (or desirous) as he once was? Maybe you think
that the change is just a result of the natural progression
of a maturing relationship, or aging, or both. I’ve got
news for you: it isn’t.
Perhaps your man has adapted by finding other interests
to fill his time, or maybe he is uniquely equipped ...
15 Comments, 4293 Views,
155 Votes
,6.95 Score
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Our secret little online life 9/30/2006
How many of you feel that you couldn't
tell people about your little profiles on an adult site.
I found myself walking around where I live, wondering if
I was being recognised by anybody on this website, it was
quite an invigorating feeling knowing that somebody is
looking at you ( preferably female ) knowing my secrets
about my profile. 
It certainly put a smile on ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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I love sex 24/7 9/30/2006
nice to see you remaining so positive ( you always are a breath
of fresh air )In what appears to be a tumultous storm for
many here at the moment , keep up the good work you are a true
friend to all see you bent over in your pic, read your blog
entry, and all I can do is imagine you bending over like that
and me licking your squeaky pussy til you cum all over my
tongue, mmmm. that's my ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
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Professional profile adjustments 9/30/2006
Hello everybody
I have had some luck with this website and I have been interested
in getting my profile adjusted.Looking at the professional
editors option I was just wondering if it's worth paying
out for it to be done. Can anybody tell me if they've
had that done on the profile and did it have any success.
I've been reading through the workshop and I ...
1 Comments, 116 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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womens nickers 9/29/2006
please respond.......
i know only wear womens underwear i am not a cross dresser
in other respect , how many other men like doing this . howmany
wives would like to see there men in nice underwear mens
is so boring why should only the women have nice silky and
frillynickers
please comment
cheers likeit1957...
2 Comments, 101 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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The contradiction of women 9/29/2006
I want to know how women can say they want a nice guy but then
have no respect for them for it.
How they say looks don't matter, but then judge you
by a profile photo and a couple of ticked boxes.
They want strong, yet gentle.
Macho, yet sensitive.
Serious, but can make them laugh.
Financially secure, but not a workaholic.
Affectionate, but not clingy...
The list goes on.
Ladies ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
0 Votes
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sister in law 9/28/2006
How can I get my sister-in-law to have sex with me?
3 Comments, 350 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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clit licking 9/27/2006
evey girl is different, try clockwise circles, counter
clockwise, up and down, left to right, etc... try everything
until you see a possitive responce. moaning, screaming,
flow of juice squirting out of her pee hole like theres no
tomorrow. just keep at it. they'll let u know.
1 Comments, 109 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Want/Need Advice? Ask the Fuckline! 9/23/2006
Want/Need Advice? Ask the Fuckline!
Hello! Thank you for at least taking the time to read this!
Now I'm not claiming I can work miracles, Nevertheless,
I seem to have a knack for listening to people and assisting
them to see each situation at all angles so they can make
an objective and hopefully satisfying decision. So whether
it's SEX, the Opposite Sex, or No Sex Ask Climaxual
at ...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
0 Votes
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Smart Use of Points 9/22/2006
Here's a general advice regarding smart use of points.
If you did not confirm your ID, the only worthwhile reward
from redeeming your points is 1. highlighting your profile
in search for one month and 2. be a featured member for 50
points per day.
The reason is: you cannot redeem your points for one month
worth of silver/gold membership unless your ID is confirmed.
...
2 Comments, 82 Views,
9 Votes
,5.78 Score
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Cams 9/22/2006
I haven't been able to watch any cams for 2 weeks now,
and I know I'm far from alone. I've email A F F twice
about it and they haven't answered or fixed the problem.
Anyone else have a similar experience?
If anyone from A F F is redaing this, will the problem be fixed
any time soon?
Angry,
UK.
2 Comments, 62 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Guys...get a clue 9/22/2006
I've been on this site off and on for four years and as
you can tell, I have a bit of "age" on me as well.
Most of the guys I have observed in chatrooms need to get
a clue about the ladies. The "lines" and "approaches"
look like you think you are trying to buy a used car or something.
Treat the ladies well and you will be fine. Treat them like
a piece of meat....and you'll spend your ...
0 Comments, 71 Views,
9 Votes
,5.78 Score
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is it to late 9/21/2006
I've been married for twenty one years and although
our sex life has not been bad there just seems like I'm
missing somthing. I could eat her out for hours and can stay
hard more than long enough to get her off but is there not
one thing a woman wants that will put her over the edge somtimes
i feel like I've come close but no cigar we have had some
real intense anal encounters and she seems ...
2 Comments, 84 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Computer fears. Is someone following me? 9/20/2006
I'm not a computer expert. Not at all. I'm not a
cracker or a hacker, but I'm not without some resources.
I use a desktop so whatever I say here is for desktop PC and
not a laptop.
There are some applications I use my Windows OS (Operating
System) to run, others, like coming here, or viewing other
adult oriented material, I prefer to step out of the box
and use Linux. Linux is also immune ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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pulling out 9/20/2006
Okay, there was this conversation I was in earlier today
about guys pulling out and finishing by hand or just finishing
in the girl. I prefer cumming in the girls pussy, ass or mouth.
I found out that of the guys I was with about 2/3 prefered
to pull out. What do most people prefer
3 Comments, 125 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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pulling out 9/20/2006
Okay, there was this conversation I was in earlier today
about guys pulling out and finishing by hand or just finishing
in the girl. I prefer cumming in the girls pussy, ass or mouth.
I found out that of the guys I was with about 2/3 prefered
to pull out. What do most people prefer
1 Comments, 30 Views,
0 Votes
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Clit Piercing question(s). Please Help 9/20/2006
The Mrs. is planning on possibly getting her clit pierced.
We were wondering if there are any physical advatages of
this or is it more pycholgical. The other question which
way is more enjoyable to get the piercing vertical(up and
down) or Horizontal(From one side to the other).Please
help and thanks for any advice or info
0 Comments, 67 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Best CD Clothing 9/19/2006
When playing with a CD/TS how would you like them to dress
as:
School Girl
Cheerleader
Nurse
Secretary
Slut
Panties and Bra
Other
0 Comments, 27 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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remember that first instinct 9/18/2006
Listen to this ! Do you ever have that gut instinct to just
hit on some one at first glance. I will be walking down the
street and see a woman and just strike up a conversation
about nothing . I dont hold back come right out tell them
you think they're hot! Whats the worst that can happen?
I'll say something like " hey, are you single
or are you looking to be". "I have tried the whole ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
0 Votes
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The Difference Between Sex and Making Love 9/17/2006
The answer to
"What is making love"
Please forward this letter to your friends, and give it
to your lover. I hope this letter will make for a better relationship
between men and women. Maybe even help the relationships
grow closer, if anything, it might make for a better time
in bed with your lover.
I have been asked many times "what's the ...
2 Comments, 80 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Sex help? 9/17/2006
Hey, I'm a virgin. How do I get past this. No du have sex,
but how do I go about getting into a relationship with a woman.
Yeah so I have never really had a girlfriend either, I am
just afraid they will say no. Besides the ratio of guys to
girls here is 4 to 1. I just want a relationship with a woman,
sex isn't all I want but I want some one to do me. I am not
ugly or dumb or ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
0 Votes
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Bald pussy.....without the itch...what's the secret?? 9/16/2006
OK GUYS...I get it!! Most of you prefer the look and feel
of a hairless private area...
But how in the world does a lady:
#1- clean up and stay that way without a lot of daily upkeep?
Guys you know what it's like, if you don't shave
that face every day, the regrowth appears really quick.
#2- What do you do to avoid ingrown hairs and red
bumps if ...
4 Comments, 197 Views,
15 Votes
,5.89 Score
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Eating Pussy 9/16/2006
Would women rather just be teased with some oral sex or would
they rather be brought to orgasim through Oral ssex then
fucked? That is my general question for all you women out
there....
3 Comments, 219 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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On PERCEPTIONs 9/16/2006
Different people have different perception. One man's
meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought
a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented,
"Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon
hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey.
He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and
commented, "The husband is ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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What to do? 9/16/2006
There was this young girl a few years ago, who would like
to listen to good pop and rock music on the walkman. Her parents
would not approve of it. So she would stealthly come over
to my house and ask me to let her listen to the music on the
walkman. Once while listening to music on the walkman she
came in close contact with me and wanted me to feel her all
over. I was fascinated by this ...
1 Comments, 48 Views,
0 Votes
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Internet Sexual Revolution 9/11/2006
Thanks to the Internet a lot of people is being able to enjoy
more their sex life. Either by finding the partner to play
their desired fantasies, have the sex that they ever dreamed
of or play with different or multiple partners. Lots of
people while married, attached or any other form of restricting
relationship are being able to keep that condition and
not give up its freedom of being ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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What is a Real Master 9/11/2006
A Master is above all the trainer of his slave.
There is a power exchange where the slave being collared
by his Master, would sign a contract and be owned by Him.
A Master has to know how to satisfy His slave's sexual
needs. I iniciated and gave training to many slaves and
subs. Slaves get their sexual satisfaction by being dominated
and pleasing the Master. A real Master should not be a ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
1 Votes
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The age old gay question... 9/9/2006
I hear alot... If i sucked a penis am i gay, if i touched, played
with, looked at, got excited over, even got fucked anally.
I am pretty sure that gay being a sexual preference means
preference on love and relationship. If you want to make
love to a guy and then spend alot of time with him, tell him
your deep secrets and kiss him as if you love him, not want
him sexually, then you may ...
4 Comments, 188 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Why are some older females so open & horny? 9/6/2006
My exes dad owns a small shop and has an employee, a married
lady, alright looking, not hot but nice personality.
When i use to be with my ex, i got to know that lady, about 34.
She use to be very sweet to me, nice and you'd think she
was very normal, which made her appealing.
I use to tell everyone how nice she was, a couple years back,
then later i would hear her ...
0 Comments, 126 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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How can i meet more people? 9/4/2006
What is the easiest way to meet the most people on this site?
Ive tried the im and it does not work at all, ive been trying
chats which worked ok, but i want to know if there is anything
better.
2 Comments, 58 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Silence's 5 Points - Guide to Success 9/4/2006
This will be familiar to members who use the chatrooms:
"Does anyone ever hook up in here?"
Well, yes, we do....and you do NOT need to be any of the following:
rich, well-hung, handsome, thin, or athletic. Take me,
a 330 pound average divorcee. I have met several dozen women
from the chatroom in the past 2 years, made some real-life
friends, and had mutually satisfying sex with a couple ...
15 Comments, 422 Views,
29 Votes
,7.95 Score
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Need help bringing excitement into the bedroom!! 9/3/2006
I have been seeing this woman for almost a year now. I love
everything about her and she loves me. At first we were like
two rabbits. Sex was amazing. Now, it seems like a routine,
the same old thing...she gets off multiple times and then
says she is done (I don't even cum anymore). I would
love to try new things but I don't know how to bring this
up. I would love for her to just let her ...
8 Comments, 113 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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learn to relax 9/2/2006
After reading several questions in the advice section
on how to have my partner please me or how to have an orgasm
I knew it was in the best interest to tell all that it is not
only about knowing how to please your partner in bed and
foreplay in the beginning but also to learn how to relax
while having sex and enjoy each other this alone will increase
the pleasure in which you both will ...
1 Comments, 60 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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How to improve your blog writing 9/1/2006
As a writer, it is always a dangerous thing to give others
writing advice, especially if you criticize someone else's
grammar or spelling. Invariably, when I write that kind
of story, I make all sorts of errors of my own.
As a blogger, you must try to make complete sentences and
if you can't spell, which I can't, then write out
your blog in a word document where the spell check and grammar ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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What I Want from You 9/1/2006
I find a lot of the profiles and photos on here amusing. First
things first, I'm not bashing anyone, what you do and/or
post on here is your business.
I just feel like I shouldn't have to post a half (or fully)
nekkid picture of myself just to get your attention. I like
sex and other activities as much as the next person on here,
but I want people to see me for who I am, not how ...
2 Comments, 106 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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If you are Married your already Fucked! 8/31/2006
Whats wrong with all of you women? Most of you were in a less
than perfect marriage at some point in time if you are over
40 and on this sight. Don't you know how much you are
appreciated by the married guy who is stuck. You really
have nothing to lose and who knows maybe you can be the one
to set him free. No one knows how it may work out. I need someone
to prove to me that my life could ...
2 Comments, 93 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Try The Spin Spa!!! 8/30/2006
I felt very sensuous and wanted to
make a special friend feel good. I had purchased a Spin Spa
to put lotion on my back for the most part since it frequently
got dry and I had not one to put lotion on it.
I took the Spin Spa with me to an ocean front room that I frequently
rent for liaisons. I decided to massage my friend, the LA
Attorney with the spin spa to ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
0 Votes
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private or public 8/30/2006
New to this. What is the difference between public and private
viewing when using a web cam on the friend finder im.
Mariner4222
1 Comments, 35 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What to do 8/29/2006
Let me start off by saying I have had a MM encounter once.
I love to be with women. But when I'm horny I not only
think of women but of being with men. When I'm realy
realy horny I want to get together with men. Now I don't
realy want to suck his dick (not that i wouldn't) but
i realy want is to be fucked in the ass, , and fuck him in the
ass. When I'm in this frame of mind i can't find ...
2 Comments, 250 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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i cant find anyone on here been looking for a while no luck 8/28/2006
ive been looking for girls on here for a long time and have
had no luck very few girls even luck at my profile( hint hint
maybe haha) but i wouldve thought at least a few messages
or so but no luck anyone ele having this same problem? or
any takers from texas? haha but anyways i kinda need some
help i guess fixing something cus till now no luck.
0 Comments, 42 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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connecting 8/28/2006
Just wondering if anybody on this site is having any luck.
We have been on this site since march 2006 and have had no
luck. We get several people looking at our profile and some
people even write to us. After about the second email they
just disappear. They never say anything they just seem
to ignore you. Is anybody else having this problem. If you
would like check out our profile ...
5 Comments, 115 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Whats so great about 3some 8/27/2006
Whats the difference of having a one on one sexual encounter
and having a threesome or is it just a different experience
with someone else? Is it more pleasurable than doing it
with a one on one?
0 Comments, 54 Views,
0 Votes
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Make a playdate and show up. 8/26/2006
I recently hit it off with a guy (or so I thought) on here and
we emailed every day practically for almost 2 weeks. Our
conversations ranged from sexy to getting to know about
each other's likes dislikes and he was not real pushy
but made it clear he was very attracted to me.
So we set up a playdate and we both were very hesitant about
where to meet not wanting to seem as ...
5 Comments, 121 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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guys guys guys 8/26/2006
Why is it we have somany penis size surveys be happy with
what ya got if you all were more involved in acutaly getting
to know your partner and what she really liked you all would
know that size isn't everything their is more to sex
love and intamacy then penitration with some huge monster
try learning every thing she likes to make her experiance
with you devine take it from me i am an ...
1 Comments, 56 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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guys guys guys 8/26/2006
Why is it we have somany penis size surveys be happy with
what ya got if you all were more involved in acutaly getting
to know your partner and what she really liked you all would
know that size isn't everything their is more to sex
love and intamacy then penitration with some huge monster
try learning every thing she likes to make her experiance
with you devine take it from me i am an ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
0 Votes
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Trouble Getting It In 8/24/2006
For the past year I was going through some really difficult
stuff with my ex boyfriend and quite frankly didn't
ever feel like sex because I felt so depressed.
However, now that I'm together with a new guy, I'm
finding that sex is pretty much impossible. After penetrating
only a tiny bit we have to stop because the pain is so terrible.
I've always been rather small ...
2 Comments, 224 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Do big cocks have a harder time getting hard? 8/24/2006
Don't know if it is statistically true about black
guys having bigger cocks than while guys. I have seen a LOT
of white guys on here with really big cocks, as well as a lot
of black guys.
My question is to guys with BIG ones. Maybe 9" or 10"
or bigger.
A lot of the porn or web cams I have seen with guys with bigg'uns,
they cum before their cocks are rock hard.
...
0 Comments, 110 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Still a virgin!? 8/23/2006
This is probably the hardest (and most potentally embarrising)question
I have ever asked. What do you ladies think/feel about a
guy still being a virgin at 26? and the main reason why is
to save for that special someone or marriage. (and trust
me, I've been tempted to break it Many times
0 Comments, 86 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What would you do if you are not sexualy happy, but you love your wife. 8/23/2006
I am a Hispanic man, I came to this country 8 years a go and
have been dedicated to work and build a future for my self.
I married 2 ½ years ago to my ex-girlfriend after I date her
for only 4 months, on a log distance relationship. I dated
her for 2 years long time ago, when I was 19 years old, then
we broke up and she went her way and I went my way. After many
years latter I so her again ...
0 Comments, 66 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Sending the first e-mail: Getting Attention 8/22/2006
In the world of online dating, you have about 10 seconds
to make a good first impression, so good writing skills
can really make your correspondence sparkle.
You've found a profile and you'd like to contact
him/her. It may not be your first connection at this website,
but without the right opening line, it could be more difficult
to get a response. So how do you make contact ...
0 Comments, 70 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Is it Gay? 8/20/2006
Is it gay for a straight male to be interested in a Ts? after
all the Ts does look like a woman
0 Comments, 78 Views,
0 Votes
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Camming for military guys 8/18/2006
id go to chat rooms and give pussy shows mostly
the guys would get off id get off and that'd be it
there got to be a few guys in the military that im'd me.
i have a soft spot in my heart for em. there was one that was
stationed in germany and we got so we chated alot. well things
changed from just having fun on the cam to him wanting to
have me meet his parents...he talked about ...
2 Comments, 120 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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responses 8/17/2006
Why is it when i e-mail ladies they wont respond? What should
i do to get some responses?
1 Comments, 70 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Predictable 8/16/2006
Predictable
I was reviewing the U.S. statistics on marriage and divorce
and I was surprised at the numbers. Overall the numbers
suggest that most marriages last but you must look closely.
I’ll give a few stats here…
The percentage of the total population that gets married
is 59% as of 1999.
This is down from 62% in 1990 and down from 72% in 1970. ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Test Your Mate 8/15/2006
Test Your Mate
I don’t get involved with people and their relationships
unless asked. When asked, depending on whether it is a woman
or man or couple, I begin with a series of questions. If it
is a couple, I will ask them questions privately and then
together.
The questions are poignant and to the point and often about
sexual, emotional and spiritual ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
0 Votes
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Favorite position. 8/14/2006
What's your favorite sex position?
6 Comments, 228 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score
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Nudism and Photography in Eastern Connecticut 8/14/2006
My only qualifications for writing this article
are experience, the worlds most effective teacher. A few
months ago I was fed up with taking dingy photos of myself
in the nude indoors. As spring was coming on, I though, perhaps
I can experiment with outdoor naught pics. After some careful
work, I found safe ways to get pictures of myself and others
in naughty pics in the ...
2 Comments, 156 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What to do if you get a traffic ticket 8/14/2006
Remember, this advice was sent by a retired State Farm Agent!
This system has been tried and it works in every state. If
you get a speeding ticket or went through a red light or whatever
the case may be, and you're going to get points on your
license, this is a method to ensure
that you DO NOT get the points. When you get your fine, send
in a check to pay for it. If the fine is ...
4 Comments, 192 Views,
11 Votes
,6.16 Score
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DICTIONARY FOR DECODING WOMEN'S PERSONAL ADS: 8/14/2006
40-ish...............................49.
Adventurous....................Slept with everyone.
Athletic.............................No breasts.
Average looking..............Moooo.
Beautiful...........................Pathological
liar.
Emotionally Secure.........On Medication.
Feminist...........................Fat.
...
2 Comments, 162 Views,
15 Votes
,6.81 Score
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stress and shingles 8/14/2006
Some people are faced with alot of stress and sometimes
the resulting shingles can be painful.
Try to relax more and exercise and take a vitamen B complex
pill.
I hope you enjoy most days do not let the little things in
life drag you down.
0 Comments, 15 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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On again off again relationship. 8/12/2006
So the woman I left a year ago manages to work her way back
into my life. I left her because I thought she was getting
serious with someone else. Turns out the other guy was a
jerk and she couldn't stay with him.
We shared the best sex and I also felt closeness like I've
never felt before.
Should I make an attempt to get her back into my life?
The sex was ...
3 Comments, 101 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Just plain Rude 8/12/2006
So, I'm a Mac user and no matter what anybody thinks
about that, you should know
what kind of customer support Swapfinder.com provides.
The following response is from Swapfinder.com's Tech Support
guy "Curt C.".
Here was my fairly innocent question to Swapfinder.com's customer
support.
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Type. Misc./Other Questions
Handle. nyceguysj
Date. 08/11/2006
COMMENT.
I have a built-in ...
4 Comments, 65 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Why do men lie about dick size and should they lie??? 8/8/2006
Well, honestly I've had my share of men lying about
how big their dick is. No its not need to lie about so why do
men lie? They lie to impress the opposite sex, when in the
end we will find out anyway...so why lie in the first place?
Maybe they lie at first because they think they wont get
any by telling you the truth in the beginning, maybe the
lie because they want to make themselves feel ...
3 Comments, 110 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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friendly neighbor 8/8/2006
I have this older and very sexy neighbor. whenever I see
her outside, she always stares at me for long periods of
time. I even caught her staring at me while I was taking a
shower once. I'm pretty sure she's married, so
what should I do?
2 Comments, 210 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Cuming inside or not 8/6/2006
Guys, If there was no concern of disease or pregnancy do
you prefer to cum inside her pussy, ass, mouth or to spray
it all over her body. I prefer to cum in her wet pussy.
Women, Same question. If you had no of disease or getting
pregnant where do you prefer the man to cum.
1 Comments, 159 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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THE CHEMISTRY ISNT THERE??? 8/5/2006
What do you do if, after one meeting you simply find the chemistry
just isnt there or you dont really feel comfortable with
the partner or partners? I have experienced this with a
couple (man and woman) recently and just didnt feel I wanted
to continue seeing them. They still call, and I have sort
of put them off for now, but how do you just go ahead and say
"not interested"? I always try ...
2 Comments, 126 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Great motorcycle story 8/4/2006
Joe wanted to buy a motorcycle. He doesn’t have much luckuntil,
one day, he comes across a Harley with a For Sale sign
on it. The bike seems even better than a new one, although
it is 10 years old. It is shiny and in absolute mint condition.
He immediately buys it and asks the seller how he kept itin
such great condition for 10 years.
“Well, it’s quite ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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What's a bi guy looking for? 8/4/2006
I am a married guy that was straight all my life until about
18 months ago. My wife of 20+ years have pretty much gone
celibate. I decided to look out side my marriage for a discreet
encounter. As it was, I couldn't find any women to play
with, but kept getting hits from guys who would perform
oral on me. Finally after much trepidation, I decided to
hookup with a guy to receive a BJ. ...
3 Comments, 375 Views,
8 Votes
,6.03 Score
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Ladies I need a little help 8/3/2006
HI
My name is Dave, I'm laid back kind of guy and I'm
looking to have some fun, love to eat out , party , dance,
and make other people laugh. I've been on this site
for awhile now, and Ive had many e-mails, and have talked
to some really sweet people, we'll e-mail back and
forth a few times, seem to get along, But I'm having
trouble meeting up for drinks, etc...I usually ask to
meet at ...
0 Comments, 133 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Bodily Functions 8/1/2006
Okay, this is not something crude and rude, just a question.....How
do people handle having sudden "bodily functions"
happen during sex? For awhile I had a problem with urinating
during sex. OKAY...got that fixed with a bladder tack.
Every once in a while when I am really excited and my partner
and I are going at it, I have gas of all things. Do I just nonchalantly
say "excuse me"? Or laugh ...
5 Comments, 239 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Virginity 8/1/2006
Why is it not okay for a guy to be a Virgin but it is okay for
a woman to be one
0 Comments, 36 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Do Woman Found Guys or Girls Sexy If They are Virgins 8/1/2006
OK guys i got a topic for the girls
me and my mate (who is Virgin)
are have abit of a chat and have a few beers and i say too him
that
woman found guys who have;t had sex before
sexy and a real turn on for them
he says i am full of sh%t dont know what i am talking about
so ladies Gentelman
let me prove him wrong what do u think
and your thought on the matter
0 Comments, 35 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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interacial and age sexisms 8/1/2006
You know is seems from my experience that it is generally
more accepted for female to be with an older men that for
a Man to be with and older women.
Also why is it that most white women have an easier time hooking
up interacialy than a why guy. Are black girls generally
less interested in white guys than white girls are in black
guys. Is it all about the giant cock?
...
4 Comments, 132 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Female bi sexual roomate and intimate relationships 8/1/2006
Okay, So here is a problem that I am lost on. What would you
do if you have a very fine female roomate that you find very
attractive, and could easily fall in Love with, but she
is bi sexual. You know that you could have a sexual relationship
with her but she leans more towards females so the relationship
would never build into any long term 'more than sex'
relationship. I know for most ...
0 Comments, 57 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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setting up a three some 8/1/2006
If you know that your girl MAY be interested in a threesome
but would never admit it what is the best way to go about bringing
it up. Especially if you have an idea of who she may be interested
in adding to the mix. My partner is hard to read on this. I
think she may accept it but if I am wrong and bring it up wrong
it may cause the relationship to crash.
1 Comments, 92 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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shuldn't the other person show a little affection 8/1/2006
i have a friend who doesn't show affection or compassion
especially with me going through cancer treatments i have
always been there no matter what i have bent over backwords
to always be there for her and her family no matter who i was
seeing at the time
i mean the way i see it even in anytype of friendship shouldn't
you show a little respect and compassion for the other person
just by ...
3 Comments, 74 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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THE OBSTACLE IN OUR PATH 7/30/2006
In ancient times, a king had a boulder placed on a roadway.
Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove
the huge rock. Some of the king's wealthiest merchants
and courtiers came by and simply walked around it.
Many loudly blamed the king for not keeping the roads clear,
but none did anything about getting the big stone out of
the way. Then a peasant came along ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Making a real adult film 7/29/2006
OK so here is the deal. We have been discussing our fantasies
more lately, and because we have tried so many things, it
is becoming increasingly difficult to fnd new ones.
One that was brought up was participating in a real adult
movie. The more I think about seeing my wife in an adult move,
or being in an adult movie with her, the more I like the idea.
We have no desire to ...
2 Comments, 159 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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What do women think about a man with one testicle? 7/28/2006
Does it bother you at all or no?
1 Comments, 103 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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A great joke combined with an incredible true story for a must read. 7/27/2006
So why are women in Phoenix so paranoid about sex? I don't
know but even on
Swapfinder.com they protect their non-virginity like Fort Knox. I
know us guys are wearing
out our hands. I know sales of dildos and vibrating eggs
and bullets and
assorted other female sexual aids are Hugh sellers in this
area. Honestly I've
noticed prices are far higher then other cities I've
visited. How can us ...
0 Comments, 109 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Touching 7/25/2006
Touching might be called kissing with the hands. If you
can imagine an energetic flow coming from your hands and
fingers when you touch another person, you will be able
to connect on a deeper energetic level. Touch your lover
everywhere, especially on the seven chakra centers. Employ
the seven levels of speed and pressure, from the most yin,
or slowest and lightest, barely brushing the skin ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Meeting someone online? 7/24/2006
I met this wonderful girl online and we hit it off immediately.
We talked for like 2 hours on the phone, and everything was
great. I've never met anyone online before, so what
are some tips to make sure everything goes smoothly.
1 Comments, 79 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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swinging 7/24/2006
where is the best place to meet people for a first time meet
to see if compatible for a swing
4 Comments, 220 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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feeling good 7/23/2006
smile there you go it looks good on you.
0 Comments, 14 Views,
0 Votes
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best way to respond to a an Swapfinder.com profile 7/23/2006
Ok I'm just curious whats the best way to respond to
an Swapfinder.com profile ladies what will get you to write a guy back, some
time all I can think of is a one or two liner email I'm
sure to you thats not very attractive or original.
1 Comments, 164 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Be careful 7/23/2006
If you are going to be on this site without your spouse knowing,
you better be real careful they never find out, the results
can be devastating
0 Comments, 119 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Cheating 7/22/2006
If you're gonna cheat, make sure you love your wife
and don't wanna leave. A friend of mine told me a story
of cheating when he and his wife were having problems and
he was considering leaving. He met and started seeing another
woman and ultmately left. He went on to tell me that having
the other woman only complicated things because she made
him feel good when the wife was constantly ...
2 Comments, 159 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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FOR WOMEN ONLY 7/21/2006
Men's Pet Peeve. LADIES! LADIES! LADIES!
You
hardly ever answer our email. There's a quick reply
button immediately above our message! It takes but a few
seconds to hit it and send. You don't even have to go
to another page. The best one is the second one up. "I'm
not seeing anyone new right now" If you have the time
you could count another 7 up and say "I just ...
3 Comments, 149 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Beware of impersonators 7/21/2006
I've been browsing through this site for the past few
days and I've fount that a lot of guys set their sex as
female to trick people to thinking that they are women.
For instance, when I try to view a profile of a 'girl'
who is online, I see the profile of a man and not a woman.
1 Comments, 95 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Past, Present and Future 7/19/2006
The matureness doesn't count the Past,
the cleverness doesn't count the Present,
the magnanimouness doesn't count the Future.
...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Tell us about Caligula's in Atlanti City 7/19/2006
If you have been to Caligula's in Atlantic City we would
like to know how you liked it or not.
Was it upscale, clean, was the crowd comfortable? How was
the facility? We thank you for any help on this Club.
...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
0 Votes
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Japanese Bondage 7/19/2006
Japanese Bondage
From Wikipedia
Shibari (literally meaning "bondage"), is
a Japanese style of sexual bondage or BDSM which involves
tying up the bottom (or uke) in intricate patterns, usually
with several pieces of thin rope. Shibari differs from
Western bondage in that, instead of just immobilizing
or restraining the bottom, the bottom gains pleasure ...
0 Comments, 86 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Female Ejaculation 7/19/2006
Female Ejaculation
the "other" female orgasm
Different techniques will accomplish different things.
We all know about the clitoris and the effects of stimulating
it, but the G-spot is not clear to everybody - men as well
as women. Here is a different technique to accomplish some
different orgasms. Orgasms that not every woman is aware
of and that - as a result - may ...
11 Comments, 418 Views,
16 Votes
,5.63 Score
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love 7/19/2006
hey all. do not take love so seriously, there will be more.
just think of all the people that you said you loved then
you found someone else to love. when your love leaves you
don't get so worked up. there will be others.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
0 Votes
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New users, be warned, you may get mentally assaulted 7/17/2006
This is a topic of such sensitivity that my choice of words
could end up making me very unpopular again.
Some of you who know me, may have already guessed that I'm
just about to leap to the defense of the 'Innocent'
section of the user base who just don't see value in
all the flaming here and the new users who are unaware of
the constant seemingly illogical torrent of ...
1 Comments, 160 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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One nigths stands. 7/16/2006
Do not expect any more than a one nigth stand when meeting
a lady though Swapfinder.com. They only seems to want sex.
3 Comments, 228 Views,
3 Votes
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TOO CLINGY 7/15/2006
Another problem too see if anyone else has experianced,
I meet a woman on here a few times for some casual meets and
she became really clingy, always wanting to know if i was
meeting other people and what i was doing, i dont wanna piss
her off cause she is a nice woman and we have a laugh, but she
isnt the type of woman i would be in a relationship, i told
her on the first ...
1 Comments, 104 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Never take the shorcut home... 7/14/2006
So I'm driving home from work at about 1 am the other
night. There was an accident at the intersection of my first
stop. So I figured I'd take a shortcut through the park
and miss the traffic jam. Shortly after I entered the park
I hit something very large...well, it ended up being some
homeless guy I can only presume. He was dressed in all black
and I couldn't see him at all...until I ...
0 Comments, 108 Views,
2 Votes
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Can you build a relatonship 7/13/2006
Can a married man who loves his wife, build a relationship
with a woman that only needs the physical attention and
the safety knowing that he has only been with her and his
wife? Can she be content with that arrangement?
2 Comments, 129 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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I always ask a lady are they BI SEXUAL. 7/13/2006
I was begining to like this lady and she blew my mind by telling
me she was BI SEXUAL always ask first.
1 Comments, 95 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Swimming With Sharks 7/13/2006
I don't know if it's just me but since I have been
on the site (2 weeks), I have had nothing but fake leads from
apparent spam artists and what appears to be moonlighting
cyber-hookers.
I am a good looking guy and far from boring and caveman-like,
and yet I get nothing but fake leads. I'm strating to
believe that this site is a front for frauds, or a fraudulent
business.
...
2 Comments, 107 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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dominatirix? 7/12/2006
I am just wondering if anyone
knows how to get into being a dominatrix?...
2 Comments, 71 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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is there something wrong with me? 7/12/2006
I have very large tits which I can't stop showing off.
I am on my web cam when ever I get the chance but also I walk
around home with no clothes on, we have no nets at the windows
and anyone can see in.
I have often been doing housework and dusting window sills
etc when the postman has arrived.When the window cleaner
comes I make sure I am in the same room as he is cleaning the
windows.
...
1 Comments, 387 Views,
13 Votes
,4.32 Score
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Some newcomer reflections and ask for HELP. Thanx!! 7/12/2006
Hello everybody!
I registered in this website some days ago. I am a foreigner,
new in Prague and with interest in finding girls with also
interest in playing together and have a nice time... The
website offers a lot of possibilities, but is also too big
to get along with it quickly, and I find some of the older
members really forgetting which is the aim of this website:
have fun and find ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Keeping It Hard-Who knows what to do? 7/11/2006
Well, here goes. It seems there is always someone talking/questioning
the time a man stays hard before coming. There are many men
who say they fuck allnight long, and I have to ask, "Are
you ok? Is there anything causing you not to cum?".
This seems to be a macho thing for men, as well as a turn-on
for women. The truth of the matter to me seems to be something
different. The average time ...
3 Comments, 237 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Is it wrong to want a relationship and sex with a woman of another race? 7/11/2006
I like women, all women. If I fine you attractive (BBW, in
between or petite)I'm interested. I do however love
being with women outside of my race. Is this wrong? What's
your opinion.
6 Comments, 122 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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What prompts a woman to click on a male profile? 7/9/2006
During the recent time when clicking on "who's
on line" was liable to send you anywhere, I enjoyed
clicking on a few extra pages. It was an eye opener seeing
what was going on all over the world. Women from China and
Japan?? European pictures far more erotic than from this
country. Cd's that would put many women to shame. I
even saw my own picture! The most amazing thing was that
only ...
3 Comments, 366 Views,
15 Votes
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are orgies safe 7/9/2006
Are orgies safe any bad experience
1 Comments, 205 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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3 some 7/9/2006
Im bi and have had 2 women and male but never 2 guys , whats
it like
2 Comments, 230 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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XXX MOVIES 7/8/2006
Does anyone know of any adult mfm threesome movies where
the woman has two cocks in her pussy at the same time or where
she is being licked by one guy while the other is fucking
her doggie style?
Thanks for your help.
2 Comments, 150 Views,
2 Votes
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Nature, red in tooth and claw! 7/8/2006
Nature is often called "red in tooth and claw",
this means covered in blood, and comes from a fairy tale
called Wolfking; it is a story of times past repute with
epic adventures, this quote is very much like "survival
of the fittest"!
Okay, maybe that was a bit too oblique, however, there was
a point to it, perhaps if I add that, an artist named Foucault
once created a painting ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
2 Votes
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How to evaluate a profile and score big on first contact. 7/7/2006
How to evaluate a profile and score big on first contact.
Now this is from a man's viewpoint but I'm sure
you women will recognize many similarities. Also this
is advice for guys that don't have profile photos that
look like Adonis, Mel Gibson or whatever currently makes
women's tongues hang out. Nor is this advice for people
looking for quickies. Keep those dick pictures out ...
3 Comments, 617 Views,
24 Votes
,7.45 Score
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Meditation and sex efficiency 7/6/2006
Health is very important for sexual efficiency. Efficiency
for males inculdes prolonged stiffness of cock and withstanding
power. A sound and good nervous system is must for this.
It has to be maintained.In my personal experience meditation
is a very realistic and powerful means for maintaining
good nervous system. This practise also gives good ideas
for stimulating women.For woman this ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Games people play! Ex stress 7/4/2006
Hey, I just want to say I hate games people play. The games
my ex and I play just to make ourselves feel good about how
we are apart. The dumb phone conversations trying to see
what they are up to, without letting them know what were
up to. It is even more complicated when a is involved
because many times the gets caught in the crossfire.
I try not to think about what she is doing, but ...
0 Comments, 141 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Help us out... 7/3/2006
Just wanted to let all the ladies out there know that -- and
this will come as no shock to any of you probably -- but as
a general rule men are pretty much clueless...don't
get me wrong, we have our moments ...but if you really want
something, no matter if it's a sexual request or a simple
manners issue -- chances are far better if you actually
ASK US/TELL US! Most women must expect us to ...
0 Comments, 173 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Help us out... 7/3/2006
Just wanted to let all the ladies out there know that -- and
this will come as no shock to any of you probably -- but as
a general rule men are pretty much clueless...don't
get me wrong, we have our moments ...but if you really want
something, no matter if it's a sexual request or a simple
manners issue -- chances are far better if you actually
ASK US/TELL US! Most women must expect us to ...
0 Comments, 183 Views,
0 Votes
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What now?? 7/3/2006
A few months ago was my first time with a guy... I now want
to explore more. I joined this site in hopes that i could
find something
Any advice on how i should go about setting something up??
I want someone i can learn from and not be a one time thing
0 Comments, 234 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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how to stretch foreskin 7/3/2006
how ac i stretch my foreskin so it stays back and is nice and
sloppy on my head. I was out at a party with my lady and a friend
we met had a realy sloppy skin. it just stayed back when retracted
and made him look cut.
0 Comments, 674 Views,
9 Votes
,0.43 Score
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I though all men liked blow jobs!!! 7/1/2006
For the first time, I met a man that didn't enjoy blow
jobs. I was apalled by this information to say the least.
I have been told that I give really good blow jobs, so that
is the weapon I use to get a man to get him all hot and bothered.
When it came time to reward this odd man for his valiant and
successful efforts to please me, I didn't know what
to do. I attemted to give him a blow job ...
4 Comments, 449 Views,
15 Votes
,2.82 Score
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A Question to get a friend involved 7/1/2006
I have a lady friend, who I would like to do a 3 sum with. I would
like to have another guy involved. I mentioned it 2 other
times. 1st time she laughed, and the 2nd she asked if I really
wanted to see here with another guy, I said we would all be
involved. I felt really weird about bringing it up again.
I could tell she is not really into it because, she said it
may affect our ...
0 Comments, 174 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score
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looking for fun 6/30/2006
why does it seem that there are many people on this site but
very few if any will meet in person to play and have fun?
the groups seem to get no active people willing to meet and
play
1 Comments, 195 Views,
3 Votes
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To shave or not to shave…. 6/29/2006
Tendency is (for both women and men) to keep their genitals
trimmed or shaved. Aside from making it very sexy, it also
raises the level of feelings one might have.
But one of the problems associated with shaving is irritation
that can produce small acne-like buttons bringing the
whole sexy and feelings down to almost a halt.
There is lots of different ways out there.. From ...
2 Comments, 527 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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dont 6/28/2006
Don't believr anyone on this site. Allmost everyone
is lying. Almost..... maybe a few true.
1 Comments, 143 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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How can I get my wife to try sex toys? 6/25/2006
I have been tring for many year to get my wife try vibrators
and things. She doesn't ever masturbate. She has attempted
to a few times in her life and she says that it just doesn't
feel right.
4 Comments, 96 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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stupid oral sex question for the ladies 6/22/2006
i know everyone is different and everyone has their preferences
but many moons ago, i ran into a woman who loved giving oral
sex but was adamant about me not returning the favor. she
said she hated the feeling and loathed the very thought
of anyone doing that to her.
is this opinion popular amongst women?
have so many guys done such a piss poor job, many women are ...
5 Comments, 303 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Problems with this site 6/19/2006
If you are having problems with this site and not getting
them resolved.Here are a couple of suggestions.Never
hit the back button.If you know the info is wrong hit refresh.after
hitting refresh it will prbably ask you to resend info ect...
hit yes or ok.That should help with the majority of problems.
When I first had these problems I thought I had lost 2800
points.I just did not ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Meeting 6/19/2006
Make sure they tell you the truth before meeting them. I
met some woman and she was not what she said. She said she
was 5 foot 110 lbs and ended up being 5'3' and almost
160 lbs. She said she was trying. I walked out on her without
paying for the drinks. FUCK HER>
2 Comments, 85 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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nickers 6/18/2006
hi
i am a straight guy married with two my wife and
i have good sexual life and sometimes e have another guy
over for a threesome , we both love it . the other day i was
at home buy myself doing the housework , and when i was making
the bed ect i decided to try some of my wifes nickers on that
were lying around (clean ones)i found that i liked it , the
feel the material , and the way it ...
0 Comments, 232 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Soft or Hard? 6/17/2006
So I have had different experiences with different women
and I have found that some like it soft and some like it hard
and rough. Does it just depend on the woman? I have also found
that starting off slowly and working into a more rapid pounding
is most desirable. I guess my question is what is the right
technique for fucking, and does it just depend on the woman?
3 Comments, 109 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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sex positions 6/17/2006
there is this girl and when we have sex she says its easier
for her to orgasm on bottom in missionary position. i need
help cuz this means she doesnt like being on top so much.
idk what it is. maybe im just too good on top. can you give
me something new that she might like.
1 Comments, 134 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Anal Enjoyment 6/17/2006
My girlfriend has always enjoyed anal stimulation with
either my fingers or my tongue. Several weeks ago we ventured
into full anal sex for the first time. Being very careful
and using lubrication we were amazed at how easy and enjoyable
it was. Since then we have done it several times and she more
or less admits she prefers it especially if we use a dildo
in her front at the same time.
...
1 Comments, 212 Views,
7 Votes
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41 mistakes men do during sex 6/16/2006
Body: Fellas! Read this and take notes! Not all of it is true
for every female, but alot of it is true for most!
1) NO KISSING???
Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous
zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour
and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out
nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate
form of foreplay.
2) BLOWING ...
1 Comments, 329 Views,
16 Votes
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Tell the truth 6/16/2006
I think in a relationship that telling the truth to your
partner is the most important thing. I never lie to my wife
and we have a great relationship. We totally respect each
other and I believe this is the foundation of lasting relationships.
Without honesty in a relationship divorce is going to come.
0 Comments, 27 Views,
1 Votes
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IM IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER!!!! 6/15/2006
I AIM TO PLEASE AND THAT IS NOT JUST APART OF MY PROFESSION
AS A DANCER!
I LOVE DOING IT, THE TRICKS, THE SPLITS, CLAPPING MY ASS,
SLIDING ON THE POLE, LAP DANCING WITH MY VIP ONLY GUYS-
* * BUT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THE FIRST THING THAT IS GOING ON
IN YOUR HEAD AND HOW DOES IT FEEL WHEN A STRIPPER SUDDENLY
APPROACHES YOU AND STARES INTO THOSE DREAMY EYES AND SLOWLY
SITS HER VERY ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Say what you mean... 6/14/2006
When contacting others on this site, please just be honest
up front with your desires/wants. It just makes things
easier.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
0 Votes
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Effective Communication Skills = Long-term Romantic Compatibility 6/14/2006
Despite our verbal fluency, experts
actually characterize much of our communication as nonverbal!
As a result, awareness of and use of nonverbal signals are
important skills in successful relationships. Nonverbal
communication takes on different levels of significance
during different stages of a relationship. Early on, flirting
and attraction-enhancing behaviors are ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Common Courtsey 6/13/2006
I think we need to take note of the word adult in the site's
name "Swapfinder.com". We are not in high
school, or in a bar trying to pick up a live one. This not replying
to e-mails is childish, & rude. If your not interested
is a short reply to much to ask.
How much trouble is it to type, " Thanks for your e-mail,
I (We) are not interested, Good Luck". We are all adults
on ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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younger men with older women 6/12/2006
I was wondering, what is the best way for a younger guy to
get with an older woman, even for a long relationship. Younger
girls are fun, but I heard that most women are in their sexual
peak around their 40s, while guys its 20s. Most older women
just see me as a nice boy, but nothing more. Ive been with
some girls my age, but my friends who have been with older
women said it is a mind ...
1 Comments, 240 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Non-Stop Hunt for NSA 6/12/2006
The true "No Strings Attached" has been an extremely
difficult thing for me to find. If I were ready to settle
down for a relationship, I would be please with the opportunities
that have come up so far. As it is, I am looking for those special
NSA flings and they are just few and far between.
Part of it is the community I live in. There are a lot of young
religious, ...
2 Comments, 14 Views,
0 Votes
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Women: Facial Hair? 6/10/2006
I would like to hear from women what they think about facial
hail. What do you like? Why? What can't you stand? Why?
0 Comments, 31 Views,
0 Votes
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How To Roll A joint 6/8/2006
How To Roll A joint
big sized rolling paper (about 5cm by 11cm). I usually use
"King Size Smoking" manufactured by Miquely
Costas
& Miquel S.A., Spain. For small one person joints you
can also use regular size rolling paper (Rizla, Mascotte,
Drum).
You can find rolling papers in a good tobacco store.
a piece of thick (writing) paper or thin cardboard, size
about 2cm by 6cm ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
0 Votes
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If I would ever let a guy suck me off 6/7/2006
I get little emails all the time about guys wanting to meet
up to suck me off. The email will be short saying something
like "Hey! just wanted to know if I could suck you off.
Let me know if you are interested. Bubba" They come
from all types of men. I am labled straight in my profile
too. It's really old.
My advice to these guys is to try a new approach. You DO NOT
HAVE ANY GAME! If I ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
0 Votes
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ECHOoooOOOoooo 6/6/2006
A and his father were walking on the
mountains. Suddenly, the fell, hurt himself and screamed,
"Ahhhhhh!" He heard the voice repeating, "Ahhhhhh!"
He yelled, "Who are you?" He received the answer,
"Who are you?" He screamed, "Coward!"
He received the answer, "Coward!"
He looked to his father to find answer. The father screamed, "I
admire you!" The voice answered, ...
0 Comments, 316 Views,
3 Votes
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Unloading before an encounter 6/5/2006
You get a date with a knockout. She's looking and smelling
great. The night goes better than you could have planned.
Before you know it, she pulls her panties down and mounts
you. Overwhelmed by the situation, you lose your edge and
fumble. Premature ejaculation happens to the best of us
especially if you're really into the person and it's
been a while since your last encounter. I ...
1 Comments, 108 Views,
0 Votes
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Does it work size inlargement 6/5/2006
Hi you see all these adds for pumps/creams/stretchers/pills
.DO THEY WORK? if so witch ones and how do you use them and
how often do you use them .(you allways hear that size does
not matter but if given the choice between a 5 inch and a 8
inch 9 out of 10 women would pick the 8 inch
2 Comments, 91 Views,
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Be more tolerant 6/4/2006
Last week i posted a message on here asking if anyone wanted
a meet in Doncaster. It was the first article id posted in
the magazine. Didnt realise there was different catogories
to post articles in!!(yes derrr I know)
The amount of flack we got for posting it in the wrong bit.
Get a life and be more tolerable you grumpy F###s, we can
all make mistakes!!!
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Some help for the well endowed 6/2/2006
When I found that my length troubling my partner, I change
positions subtley. You can modify the missionary position
by placing your legs outside hers so that it is easier to
control the length of penetration at the same time keep
contact with the clitoris and by squeezing her thighs with
your thighs add a little pressure to affect her G-spot.
The same goes for coming from behind.
The ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
0 Votes
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A place for men who are "TOO" well endowed 6/1/2006
Okay, first off, this isn't a place for bragging about
how big you are. So if you post something like that with the
intent of bragging/showing off/etc., I can promise your
post will be removed.
This article has the sole purpose of "helping"
men, who like myself, are finding it extremely difficult
to find a mate who can accomodate our size (oral, anal, vaginal
sex).
It is ...
5 Comments, 359 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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is it wrong 6/1/2006
is it wrong to have sexual thoughts about your female older
neighbor?
1 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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How should i interput her signals. 5/31/2006
I have this close women friend that is quite spiritual.
But lately she has been quite friendly toward me. She puts
her hands on my shoulders and rubs (real nice) and touches
my hands gently. One day we were alone and she hugged me from
behind; real close. It turned me on. She has been wearing
above the knee dresses and skirts; nice newer style. We
have been friends for a few years now. I ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Why do women like to receive and not give? 5/31/2006
The mrs. and I are kinda new to the swing thing. we met a couple
had a so so time with them and a lot of fun together.we talked
about threesomes mmf and ffm. agreed on it. we ran into a
freind of ours on a site and hooked up with him, mfm. she loved
the hell out of it. now its my turn and her mind changed she's
not in to fmf. whats up with that.we are still looking for
a couple that we ...
2 Comments, 108 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Venus Butterfly??? 5/30/2006
Is this the correct term...i think it is...
when your partner stimulates your clit, pussy and anal
area at the same time with there fingers.....
Am i correct?? Tell me your experiences with this....
I want to try this with "Mr.Intense"....
Last nite... "Mr.Intense" fingered me in the
ass and i was shocked at first BUT it felt really good...
so good i ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
1 Votes
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women i need help 5/29/2006
i enjoy my woman going out and fucking another man, then
coming home to me .so i can make love to her. this makes me
so hot, they are hard to cum by.should i give up on trying
to finding one??/ know any one??what do you think about
it??
2 Comments, 131 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Hair 5/21/2006
So whats the "proper" ammount of pubic hair
for guys? Just wondering.
1 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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cyber sex 5/21/2006
I am sure that I will be laughed right out of this magazine.
Butttt here goes. I hear a lot about cyber sex, my question
is what constitutes being in an affair where cyber sex is
involved? Is it like fantasyland sex? Describe it for me.
Thank you someone.
0 Comments, 61 Views,
0 Votes
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What should I do? 5/21/2006
I need some opinions on this, as to what I should do.
I met this really kool downt to earth girl she is a really
nice person, but here is how it goes, I also met this guy and
he told me some things that was not totally the truth, he
knew of this girl and that i liked her but never met her. On
the night that I was suppose to meet her he was suppose to
go out with me coincidentally ...
2 Comments, 136 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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For those about to SHAVE, we salute you 5/21/2006
This point is mostly for men...I'm not here to sing
the praises of shaving becuase I'm already sold...but
I am going to offer a suggestion on what razor to use. Shick
Quatro...that's the only one I use on my balls and the
first one I let a woman use on me. It's not the amount
of blades that matters but is has this little wire mesh that
covers the blades really just let's it glide and I ...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
0 Votes
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Web Cams 5/21/2006
What is the best web cam to use for Swapfinder.com. We are looking for
something that has high quality images. Thanks
0 Comments, 53 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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LOVE vs. SEX 5/20/2006
OK...I read enough of these that I decided to write in on
the situation. First of all LOVE and SEX are 2 very differrent
things. They can be mutually exclusive, and then we all
hope to find them together.
You ever have a past sexual experience that was just INCREDIBLE...and
you were not really that attracte to the person? Of coarse
you have, we all have...GREAT SEX...no LOVE. ...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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How can I have her give it a try? 5/20/2006
I have a girlfriend, who I would like to do a 3sum with. I would
like to have another guy involved. I mentioned it 2 other
times. 1st time she laughed, and the 2nd she asked if I really
wanted to see here with another guy, I said we would all be
involved. I felt really weird about bringing it up again.
I could tell she is not really into it because, she said it
may affect our relationship. ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
0 Votes
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Is it easier for a woman to get laid on this site then it is for a man 5/18/2006
I am rally curious about whether it is easier for women have
more sex and relationships with people from this site then
men.
Do women find it easier to find someone faster and more often
then men?
Ladies, if you were looking for a man, what would catch you
eye to make you want to look at his profile?
Men, what do you put in your profiles that get women to look ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
1 Votes
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Best way? 5/17/2006
I was just wondering how is your best way to get a girl to "squirt"?
I'm having a tough time doing it. She feels it coming
but just cant go all the way with it.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
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Women can we please stop? 5/17/2006
What is wrong with some of the women in the world. Faking
orgasmns and telling men that they are satisfying them
and how big their penises are knowing that they are lying.
Do not massage the male ego even though we know it is a fragile
thing tell them the truth so that other women wont have to
suffer through the lies of how big they are and how they have
never had any complaints.
2 Comments, 127 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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General Advice 5/16/2006
Hot dogs with relish, mustard, and ketchup usually does
the job. Put onions on depending on how you feel.
0 Comments, 34 Views,
1 Votes
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Protection 5/16/2006
Protection is overrated, don't use it unless you have
to.
3 Comments, 154 Views,
9 Votes
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Finally Free Permanent Hair Removal System ????? 5/16/2006
I just looked at the web site for this system and would like
to know if anybody has used this system and does it does as
advertised???
0 Comments, 81 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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My answer to "How do I get more responses/views" 5/16/2006
I'm posting this article because I see a common question
popping up in the Advice Line forum. It's always men,
typically new members asking why they aren't getting
more responses or views. This article is advice for these
men, women may like it too.
Disclaimer:
I haven't had that much success with this site. Having
said that, I'll claim I'm an expert because I've
posted ...
8 Comments, 371 Views,
14 Votes
,6.82 Score
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New look 5/16/2006
So I decided to continue with the plans that I made when I
was 20 and I just finished my dreadlocks. Now does anyone
have any pointers on their up-keep?
While we are on self improvement....
Is it better to tan in the sun for short periods, 30 min to
1.5 hours, or longer periods with sun screen?
Ok well that's it for now.
0 Comments, 16 Views,
0 Votes
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A Sometime Hooray for Swapfinder.com 5/15/2006
I have to admit being on Swapfinder.com for over two years on and off,
I can state I've met my fair share of people. I have met
some great people who I am still keep in contact with and
even have a vacation planned this upcoming weekend with
one of my "regulars". I know the the ratio of
men to women is sometimes screwed but keep the faith guys.
Hell, one of my best friends is a guy that I've met ...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How can I get her to go further 5/13/2006
My wife and I talk about swinging all the time, and get real
close , but can't seam to take the plung.
2 Comments, 156 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Need your advice and comments 5/12/2006
I spend night after lonely night couped up in my house and
i am a very sexually active person and sometimes i feel that
i stay horny to much. I mean i have lost lovers over this reason
because i want to much sex and most of them could not handle
me...please help. Is there away to decrease my sexual craving?
Thanks
6 Comments, 425 Views,
12 Votes
,1.21 Score
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How do YOU introduce yourself on IM? 5/12/2006
I imagine this is for the dudes mostly--You're trying
to get someone's attention on IM. What do you say when
you page them? Madames, what gets your attention?
If you don't like to give away your great lines, maybe
you could give a hint?
0 Comments, 152 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Sex with an X 5/12/2006
Can having sex with your X be a good thing or make things worse?
1 Comments, 225 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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What do you like to do to a peron sexually? 5/12/2006
Do you like alot of foreplay? Do you go down on your partner?
Do you like anal? Do you play w/ sex toys?
1 Comments, 61 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score
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How To Determine If Somone Wants You!! 5/11/2006
How To Determine If Somone Wants You!!
If a man/woman wants you, nothing can keep him/her away.
If he/she doesn't want you, nothing can make him/her
stay.
Stop making excuses for a man/woman and his/her behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's
not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live ...
1 Comments, 89 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Doggy Style Position 5/11/2006
You can achieve a lot of the same sensation and benefits
of the rear entry position with one or both partners standing.
If standing, the partner being penetrated can bend at the
waist, spread their legs, and use a wall or piece of furniture
to support themselves on.
Another variation is to have the partner being penetrated
scoot to the end of the bed, with their upper body on the ...
2 Comments, 173 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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simple things to remember about Talking Dirty 5/11/2006
Be authentic in your dirty talk
Find your dirty talk voice
Expand your dirty talk vocabulary
Practice dirty talk when you're alone
Establish ground rules with your partner
Start slow the first time
Experiment with your voice
Make dirty talking a two way conversation
1 Comments, 99 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Any Advice When Dating Older Women 5/11/2006
I’m 21 years old and my current girl friend is 37 years old.
I really like her and we both enjoy being with each other.
I really want to stay with her and would like any advice on
dating older women that would help me to keep us both happy.
I take her out and we go for hikes but it is all starting to
get repetitive and would like new ideas or advice on what
I could do with her. And ...
2 Comments, 125 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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how do you feel about a ts and female being together? 5/11/2006
i was just wondering how you all would feel about this...
Need some advice and tips any comments would be appreciated....Thanks
0 Comments, 42 Views,
4 Votes
,0.14 Score
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can a guy last too long? 5/10/2006
whenever my girlfriend and i have sex she always finishes
first and then pretty much just lays there like a dead body.
then after a while she kinda starts complaining and trying
to hurry me up. whats the big hurry? she also says that it
starts to hurt after a while. i thought girls liked it when
guys lasted a little while. i mean its only like an hr or so,
so i dont see what the problem ...
5 Comments, 156 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Threesomes Yes or No 5/10/2006
My girlfriend and I have a very active and varied sex life
and we like to experiment. Recently we watched a porn video
together and she admitted many years ago she took part in
a MMF threesome. We have sinced discussed the possibility
of both MMF and MFF threesomes. She is curious about making
love with a woman and I have admitted that I have some desires
of sex with a man. We love each ...
1 Comments, 283 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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If you need to explore other people do it 5/10/2006
Just because you are married or dating doesn't mean
you should limit yourself to that. You may learn something
new that will enhance your relationship....
0 Comments, 50 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Need some imput from you................... 5/9/2006
I just have one question for everybody. I am finding out
that my new bf refuses to forget about his dead wife of 5 years.
We finally got together after 27 years of not seeing each
other; after me telling him no, I would not hook up with him
on his conditions. Namely that I give my his last name
instead of his real dad’s last name.
Now after 27 years of not seeing each ...
2 Comments, 125 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Oh Yeah, About Personal ads? WTF? 5/8/2006
I love going through the personals, but there are a few things
that are getting on my nerves.
There are certain things that the vast majority of people
put into their personals that are just plain stupid. Mostly
I'm talking about the women, cuz I don't read the
guys very often, unless I'm very bored. But let's
go through some of these idiocies....
1. I like to have fun
This ...
1 Comments, 107 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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joy of exhibitionism 5/7/2006
Hi there. I'd just like to know how much
I'm sure a lot of the pleasure in swinging, etc. derrives
from the freedom of being naked in company. I certainly
enjoy showing off my cock. How about you?
0 Comments, 68 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Married guys playing alone 5/6/2006
Hello all
I have learnt so far that there is hardly anyone out here
that wants anything to do with a married guy who is here without
his wife's knowledge. That got me thinking ..
Yeah, cheating is not something I am proud of .. but as long
as discretion can be assured and no one gets in trouble or
harm, I think it is alright. I am sure there are guys like
me who would ...
5 Comments, 286 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Mistakes 5/5/2006
Most of the people think that having mistakes is not fun
at all. But some mistakes are too much fun to only make once....
0 Comments, 529 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Am I Still Wanted??? 5/5/2006
My husband
and I have been looking for a threesome. Last night in bed
I told him I wanted to hear what he wanted out of a threesome.
During his comments he said " I want you watching while
I am scewing her". I can't help but wonder am I
still wanted? Is he tired of the same old thing and just want
me out of the picture for a night? This hurt my ...
11 Comments, 908 Views,
20 Votes
,3.89 Score
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sex with sis 5/4/2006
I've wanted to do my sis for about 10 yrs now.we haven't
talked as much about it lately like we used to a while ago.i
have almost gotten her to try it about 4 yrs. ago but she got
nervous and stopped and said it wasn't the right time
or place.i'm 29 shes 27 now, and i still want her sooo
very bad.how can i get her to talk about it again and get her
to really finally try it just once, i know ...
8 Comments, 750 Views,
14 Votes
,0.10 Score
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General advice 5/2/2006
Be cool, stay in school.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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