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Fantasy 5/2/2006
I have a fetish for stockings and for the last few years i
have a really strong urge to get dressed up in my wifes sexiest
lingerie and stockings and her take me from behind with
a strap on.
I know that if i even mentioned this i would next see her in
the divorce courts, but i'd love to try it.
Any advice?
0 Comments, 57 Views,
0 Votes
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Honestly 5/1/2006
Since I have some experience with this site, I figure I should
offer this advice....Since it seems to need to be said.
I have met (in real life)a few of the women that I have contacted
on this site. I also know of a few other people that have met
people through this site. Now, you would think this would
be common sense, but it seems that it isn't. When you
are describing yourself to ...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Fake People 4/30/2006
Well, through time and experience, I have come to the conclusion
that there are a lot of fake people on this site. Fake people
are spammers and when you email them, they email you back
with an email address for you to email them with. Then the
spam comes when you send a message to those people. The spam
contains links trying to lure you to another pay site.
Here's some general ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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No more ingrown hairs? 4/30/2006
I am a male that loves to have a smooth pubic area and my wife
loves it also but I have a problem with ingrown hairs. I tried
shaving everyday and all the different technics mentioned
in this site and a few others and I still get them. I actually
enjoy plucking them out because it stays smoother longer.
I have thought about laser removal but I don't have
that kind of funds. The ...
1 Comments, 122 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Gas Wars II 4/29/2006
I recently filled up my car with gas. The
price? Nearly $50. This $3 a gallon gas (some say it will
soon hit $4 a gallon) is having a very negative effect on
our family pocketbooks.
Individually, we can't do much about this situation,
but if enough of us stick together and work together, we
can help bring down the price of gas.
We urge you to join our ...
3 Comments, 73 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Tips on Using Swapfinder.com for Ladies, #2, Photos (Again) 4/29/2006
Having had several relationships with women I've
met on Swapfinder.com, I know about the volumes of email you guys get,
and how repetitive most of it is. That being said here are
some thoughts with regard to whether or not to post a photo
on Swapfinder.com. I would tell you to go for it. When looking at profiles
on Swapfinder.com, I tend to pay more and better attention to profiles
which are distinctive in some way. Photos ...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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what would you do? 4/27/2006
I met an amazing girl through some friends, they told me
beforehand that she had herpes....after i met her and got
to talking to her, she was amazing, a real connection and
similar values and interests....but what about the H?
what would you do?
0 Comments, 57 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Should we? 4/27/2006
we were looking for a third(woman). But have gotten several
offers from couples. We didn't really want to go this
route, but agreed to meet a couple. We have never done this
or even met a couple. I am not sure how comfortable we would
be. Should we go ahead and meet them anyway?
0 Comments, 28 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Looks or personality 4/27/2006
Do women generally prefer a guy to look great or have a great
personality?
So far in my very limited experience women tend to prefer
looks, which is great if you are a male model but for most
of us average guys where does that leave us?
would love to know what other people think on this
andy
1 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Need some advice 4/26/2006
My wife and I have decided to expand our sex life and ask another
woman to join us. I am not sure what we are doing wrong but
it seems so impossible to find someone to fill that role.
Are we going about this the wrong way as we have only looked
on the internet, not sure where else to look in a small town.
We could use some advice if anyone has any....
0 Comments, 48 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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overweight wife 4/26/2006
My wife has gotten bigger and bigger over the last 4-5 years
and is now to the point where she is no longer attractive
to me. I find her size a complete turn off. If I were to address
this issue with her she would begin crying and say I was picking
on her. I have dropped hints to her in the past but she never
seems to catch on. I am at a lose as to what I should do. She
and I rarely have ...
1 Comments, 237 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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If my wife sucks in bed......? 4/26/2006
I am a MWM 47 years old. My problem is that my wife really sucks
when it comes to sex. Not that she literally sucks, because
she won't engage in any oral sex, she just sort of lays
there while I do all the work. She will occassionally stroke
my cock, but even that is rare.
So my question is.....if my wife sucks in bed and I am the
only man she has ever slept with( and I am ...
3 Comments, 290 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Where is the "Network Manager"? 4/25/2006
I have thought of posting some more pictures in an album.
I click the "create albums" section and it refers
me to the "network manager", but it does not
tell me where it is. Maybe I am not techie enough, just need
some directions! Any advice out there?
1 Comments, 85 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Do ladies enjoy MMF encounters 4/24/2006
I am thinking of hinting to my girlfriend about the possibility
of having a threesum with another man. From my point of view
I am turned on by the thought of seeing her with another guy
and it would allow me to have some fun with a man (which i greatly
desire) without going behind her back. As a general rule
are ladies excited about having more than one man at once
or is it something that ...
5 Comments, 312 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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dryness during sex? 4/24/2006
this question is mainly for the ladies (because they obviously
have a vagina) but guys can help me out too.
The other day i was having sex with this girl and although
she was extremely wet during foreplay, she got dry when
we actually started intercourse. And for a while i was having
sex with another girl where the same thing happened, and
i'm not sure why it is.
Now the ...
4 Comments, 195 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Help, am i paranoid or not? 4/24/2006
Hi, i have a big problem - i cant decide whether my girl is
cheeting or if im just being paranoid, moste people would
probably say if you think she is cheeting you should just
toss her, though i dont want to if im not sure so let me tell
you what i know...
it all started about 1.5 years ago when i mouved to poland
for 3 months and found a new girl, me and the girl im with now
where ...
0 Comments, 72 Views,
0 Votes
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Tips on Using Swapfinder.com for Men, #1 4/24/2006
When submitting a profile photo to Swapfinder.com, consider using
a black and white photo (gray-scale). It takes up less memory
and so can usually be bigger than the same photo in color.
You end up getting more detail in the picture while still
getting what you want across. So you have more "bang
for your buck". Also black and white photos tend to
even out one's skin tone so the photo ends up looking ...
0 Comments, 56 Views,
1 Votes
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Tips on Using Swapfinder.com for Ladies, #1, Photos 4/24/2006
When submitting a profile photo to Swapfinder.com, consider using
a black and white photo (grayscale). It takes up less memory
and so can usually be bigger than the same photo in color.
You end up getting more detail in the picture while still
getting what you want across. So you have more "bang
for your buck". Also black and white photos tend to
even out one's skin tone so the photo ends up looking ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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HAs any member had the experience of another member(man or woman)stalking them? 4/23/2006
I have heard from one other member friend of mine that she
was stalked.I believe that women get that more than the
men do, but there are exceptions.What is your take on the
whole issue?
1 Comments, 100 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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First meetings 4/22/2006
How should I go about with meeting a fellow interested member.Should
we meet in a quiet, not so crowded place or a very busy food
court at the loacl mall?Comments?
0 Comments, 72 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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sister-in-law 4/21/2006
Tell me how I can get my sister-in-law in bed and fuck her?
4 Comments, 652 Views,
5 Votes
,0.21 Score
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What are women really looking for on here? 4/19/2006
I've talked to a few women on here, and as far as I get,
is just to chatting online. Am I sending wrong signals?
What are women really looking for here? Can anyone offer
any suggestions on how to get further?
0 Comments, 111 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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COUPLES NOW GETTING INTO HAVING 3-4somes 4/18/2006
Hey there im just a lil bit curious to know from any others
that have this kind of experience where a straight couple
is thinking about havin a threesome with another girl possibly
2 more girls. What i wanna know is what are the pro's
and con's of getting into such and what issues the couple
may face.
1 Comments, 100 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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WHO'S TO BLAME??? 4/17/2006
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.
They were a
loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When
the boy was
around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine
bottle open.
He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle
and keep it
in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally
forgot the
matter.
...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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winks and hot list 4/17/2006
Ok so people wink at me, ad me to their hotlist.
Yet they never make contact. I can't help but wonder
why. Is it they are worried about rejection? Or just very
shy?
Why not make contact they may be the right one, who knows.
5 Comments, 235 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Just sex. 4/15/2006
One of the most things you have to remember when you are swinging,
especially for the first time, is it is just sex... It's
just for fun... there are NO feelings there. It is hard some
times seeing your partner with another for the first time.
you just have to think about the one you are with and that
you are there to have fun
0 Comments, 54 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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game plan 4/15/2006
I have found that talking about rules of play BEFORE you
get to meeting is very helpful. Things you need to discus
are well birthcontrol? and what things you are willing
to do or not willing to do. Separate rooms or same room. I
have run into this were our couple we are to play with hasn't
talked about these things and well... it gets pretty bad
sometimes
0 Comments, 26 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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A bit confused.. 4/15/2006
I met this guy off here and he and I had agreed to be regulars
or so I thought. Anyways for the past 3 weeks we were bed buddies.
Then this last week, I was supposed to meet him on Thursday
nite and I never heard back from him. I asked him about it
on Friday and he said that he thought I was doing something
else and he had met up with another girl. Then hes started
acting strangely ...
9 Comments, 602 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Shave or don't shave? 4/15/2006
A man who shaves the hair off his genitals;is he considered
feminine?I shave and I believe it is very hygenic and it
has a more appealing appearance.What does anyone think
about this?
0 Comments, 75 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Cum and get it.... advice 4/15/2006
Don't eat yellow snow... there's my advice to
you. Now cum on what advice can you give an inocent (I am,
honestly) person like myself... lol
Swingingmole
0 Comments, 64 Views,
0 Votes
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threesome fantasy 4/15/2006
i am trying to find a women to join me and my husband for my
threesome fantasy but i'm not having much luck, any
hints and tips on how to find that person would be a great
help, and if you fancy it yourself give us a e-mail.
0 Comments, 59 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How do I make my site noticeable? 4/14/2006
Hi guys. Was wondering if I could get some pointers on how
to make my site stand out/attract attention. Please check
it out and feed back with advice, as I'm new to this and
want to make the most of this site! Thank you
0 Comments, 27 Views,
0 Votes
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Why Not Wax? 4/13/2006
For those ladies (and guys) who have tried shaving some
or all of the hair from their hot spots and were less than
satisfied with the results, I may just have the answer!
For many of us, there is nothing more erotic than the look
and feel of a soft, bare pussy...and some girls enjoy when
their men are completely hair-free as well. Personally,
I like a man to have some hair down there, but ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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BDSM on a Budget 4/13/2006
There are a great number of people who wander onto toy websites
every day researching the various toys and instruments
one is required to have in order to have a quality BDSM experience.
Unfortunately, some of these toys can be rather expensive.
For the Master or Mistress who is experienced, has been
into the lifestyle for a lengthy time, or has embarked on
a more professional ...
0 Comments, 74 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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7 Tips To GETTING Good Head 4/13/2006
"My girlfriend never wants to go down on me."
How many times have you heard that or even said it? "She
thinks its gross." "She says it makes her sick."
"She's a prude, a bitch, frigid." "That's
not gonna change; it's just the way she is and she ain't
never gonna change."
Not necessarily.
She might never change, that's true. But what if maybe...just
maybe by ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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my problem 4/13/2006
I'm married man from a beautiful woman more than beautiful
and i loved her too much, but there's a problem between
us that i love sex too much and i like her to make it with man
and woman and she refused the idea all the time. And above
a 7 years i want her to do that, also i visit a psychics doctor
to help me in this situation she told me that i'm sick
and i must have a treatment in sexual ...
4 Comments, 253 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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To stray or not to stray 4/12/2006
Ive been married 7 years now and it seems like my wife has
lost all intrest in sex which is odd cause I am 10 years her
senior and I would have sex with her once aday twice on sunday
if she would let me I have try different things and even talking
to her abuot more sex but nothing seems to work and no she
not getting it elsewhere should I
3 Comments, 88 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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telling the spouse 4/12/2006
whats the best way to tell your wife/girlfriend, that you
are bi-curious?
1 Comments, 189 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Oral and wife 4/12/2006
How do I get my interested in both giving and receiving oral?
0 Comments, 52 Views,
0 Votes
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Testimonials 4/10/2006
I wrote a testimonial for someone I met off here.Now he has
a stalker and she has contacted me from the testimonials
I wrote for him. I found this tacky and very high school,
asking me questions she should be asking him. Becareful
when you write these ya just never know what could happen.
0 Comments, 49 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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taste of cum 4/9/2006
can anybody tell me how to make my cum taste better...would
like to do this for the ladies
so..ladies and gentlemen give me some advice
10 Comments, 587 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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E-Mails 4/7/2006
Girl's this is a question for you. Say a guy approaches
you through an E-mail, What is the worst thing he can say?
What approach can he use to increase the odds of you responding
favorably?
1 Comments, 112 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Instant messaging - what's the point? 4/6/2006
I've tried on numerous occasions to instant message
people with no results. I'm not being mean or derrogatory
but I get absolutely no responses. Has anyone else had similar
results? How do you set up friends for instant messaging
if you can't get people to respond? What am I doing wrong?
1 Comments, 75 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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How to tell if he's safe 4/6/2006
May not be the best category to ask...but safe sex category
won't come up for us. We have finally decided on the
right man to enjoy our first threesome with. She and I are
very excited about it! But we are concerned about safety.
For her to really let loose and enjoy, I want to ensure to
my best ability that he is really free from anything that
could harm us later. He has assured us..we ...
0 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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oral sex, but how? 4/5/2006
I love to give oral sex to girls. But some of them don't
liketo get. Can you tell me why? I know some of my girlfriends
had double orgasms with oral sex, why can anyone refuse
oral sex? And women don't like it when I'm hard,
they like to be touched softly, gently. Is there any females
that can tell me the key to the great oral sex? Thanks and
ciao...
1 Comments, 95 Views,
0 Votes
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What Are Friends For? 4/5/2006
What Are Friends For?
During my days at school, i've always been actively
involved in anything n everything under the sun. I'm
also a very socializing type of person, therefore i have
made friends with practically everyone. Friends of all
shapes n sizes, male or female, nerds or sluts... i'm
always being invited to hang out with them. Then college,
uni til now.. i've several hundreds of ...
1 Comments, 58 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Nice Guy, naughty curious? 4/4/2006
I'm not even sure how long I've tried to find a date,
I think years. I understand that I'm still "young".
But, I want to find someone, maybe even if it's just
for fun. And if ever there's the possibility of a relationship,
I would like to try that as well. I want to think of myself
as romantic capable ( I want to make the best life for that
special someone )My question is this... How ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Types of friendships 4/2/2006
Special People
> > To the special people in my life. I am sending this
to you to see how many of you actually read your email. Is
anyone really out there? Your response will be interesting!
Here it goes:
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to
do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Couples getting unwanted emails 4/2/2006
Hello everyone, I was chatting to a couple today (they were
nice people, and genuine so although we weren't matched
we got on OK).
But as we chatted i realised, that I was only chatting to
them as their profile said they were looking for; men, women,
couples (man and woman).
And this was incorrect, as with a lot of couples they were
only seeking either similar couples or bi ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Too soon 4/2/2006
Many say they are not in to endless emails, but I think that
comm. back and forth can save one from a dissapointing experience,
many people want to meet too soon, this If you type like
I do, takes work and time.
0 Comments, 41 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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STANDARD members use chat 4/2/2006
Hi all,
As a standard memeber I find a great way to meet others on
this site is to frequent the chat rooms like the OHIO one
so you can chat to people in your area and then if you want
you can go and have private chats and arrange meets etc so
i would advise anyone to use thsi method and would be curious
to know what others think. Hope this is helpfull to all.[COLOR...
0 Comments, 90 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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what would you do?? 4/1/2006
we was in the pub the a few weeks ago and i got a phone call from
my mates (not a good mate, someone i drink with now and then)
girlfriend , she found out he has been seeing her best mate
and she asked me if it was true, i lied cause he is my met, but
she has heard it from a few people, the other night she turned
up at my flat in tears, because she didnt want to leave him
and said she would ...
2 Comments, 74 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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guys stickin' w/ a girl?? 3/31/2006
would a guy still stick around a girl (in an Swapfinder.com-type relationship)
if he wouldn't otherwise be getting any even if he didn't
think the girl was hot enough? or is it essential that he
finds the girl at least somewhat attractive (either physically
or mentally)? i think i'm pretty average and a guy's
said i could make it as a suicide girl if i got a tat or body
piercing  but is it possible ...
9 Comments, 290 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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questions--i'm SO CONFUSED!!! (w/ guys) 3/31/2006
so i don’t consider my one and only ex a ‘common male’ (he
didn't check girls out or even look in the mirror!)
and so i pose some questions that just boggle me!! oh...
and pardon my stream of consciousness--i think it kinda
reflects my confusion, too  if some things weren't
clear, let me know and i can try to clarify things... but
i'd really like to know what you ...
1 Comments, 151 Views,
5 Votes
,5.43 Score
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Ladies Seriously!!! H*A*T*I*N*G ON EACH OTHER WENT OUT IN THE " 90's " 3/28/2006
OK, OK FIRST OFF THIS IS THE SEXY DOMI MA
"NataleeDelSoulXXX"
recently known as ChinaXXX --- BUT MY POINT TO YOU IS WHEN
A GORGEOUS LADY WALKS BY WE SOMETIMES SIZE THEM UP OR GIVE
THEM A UNUSUAL LOOK, YET WE DONT EVEN KNOW IF THIS CHIC IS
A PRE- MED STUDENT WHO ENJOYS READING OR JUST CHILLIN AT
HOME BEING A PLANE JANE.... BUT NOOOOOOO, WE ARE THINKING,
"LOOK AT ...
0 Comments, 150 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Sexual Predation: Are females the most cunning gender? 3/26/2006
Yesterday I wrote an article. Directly, I questioned how
knowledgeable males are about female sexuality. Indirectly,
I posed the same question of women regarding their knowledge
of male sexuality. Afterward, a communication with a male/female
couple reminded me of how difficult females can be. We can
be the most unforgiving and ungracious of the two genders.
It is this reminder that brings ...
2 Comments, 444 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Sex Cravings 3/25/2006
I always crave sex either with someone, cam-2-cam, or alone.
I am always thinking about it no matter what I am doing, it
is always in the backof my mind. Is this normal or am I an addict?
1 Comments, 174 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Mutual Pleasure - Is it that difficult to understand? 3/25/2006
Are there other members (male or female) who relate to the
following?
You are having sex with someone for the first time. They
profess to know and practice many of the things you find
enjoyable ‒ lots of foreplay, Kama Sutra, ,
et al. You initiate one or more of these pleasurable activities,
only to discover that this person is clueless. Even worse,
this person fails the ...
5 Comments, 346 Views,
18 Votes
,5.85 Score
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Picking up. 3/24/2006
If a guy wanted to pick up on you and get ur phone number and
probably have sex with you. What would he need to do?
0 Comments, 146 Views,
2 Votes
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Fake pix 3/24/2006
I've noticed a few pics in member's profiles that
I'm sure I've seen on the net before. There is a
pic of a sweedish(?) model named Koika, if it was really
her we'd be onto her in a second, she has the BEST nipples.
These people obviously don't intend on meeting anyone
and I think they're just wasting our time.
0 Comments, 149 Views,
3 Votes
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Single Men... how to seem more attractive online 3/24/2006
I've gotten some rude emails from men who are upset
because I said "no" to them. Gentlemen, it's
time to chill out. Here are my personal lists of turn-off
and turn-ons, listed as Character Traits.
Here are some of my major turn-offs:
1) Victim Mentality - "You don't understand,
its always bad for me."
2) Desperation / Begging / Impatience.
3) Self-Righteous Anger - "No WONDER ...
0 Comments, 253 Views,
12 Votes
,4.21 Score
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Free sex and social behaviour 3/24/2006
Sex is something that is gifted to living beings by God.It
is up to the men and woman how to use it and view it.Sex is an
approved pevelege between man and woman if they are married
to each other and not approved if they dont.Sexual urge
is a hard temptation of control. So excessive sex between
couple can result in enlargement of family. In other words
this can contribute to uncontrollable ...
0 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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A little effort 3/24/2006
Just wondering how many people here send others emails
and winks but get nothing in return.
It would be nice if some people would at least give you an
indication that they're still visiting this site
and/or checking their email.
It's sort of like saying "hi" to someone
at a party and getting the cold shoulder.
I guess if you get a lot of emails it's time consuming
weeding out the ...
2 Comments, 213 Views,
5 Votes
,5.43 Score
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loose vagina 3/22/2006
Many years ago before we offically got involved in the swinging
lifestyle and a few years after our youngest was born reather
suddenly my wifes vagina became quite loose, then shortly
after it seemed she cared little for intercourse with me.
She enjoyed giving head so I was taken care of. When I quizzed
her about becoming so loose her response was that her stiches
must have come loose, ...
1 Comments, 471 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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How To Make Love To A Single Woman 3/20/2006
A Good Friend(Male) of mine said this really helped him!
Thought I would share it with you ppl! Good Luck!
We do not intend for this report to be an abbreviated sex
manual. Its purpose is to introduce you to some basic principles
and philosophies of the sexual fulfillment of single women,
and to encourage you to learn as much as you can about a single
woman's sexual needs, wants, and ...
3 Comments, 834 Views,
31 Votes
,5.44 Score
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Discretion 3/19/2006
We ALL really are a bunch of animals. Look at the number of
people who are married and/or in a relationship that look
outside those realms for some good animal instinct driven
sex. We have too much invested in our lives with the one that
we are with. Yes, we may truly them. To just throw it all away
on a "fling". The animal within. You know what
I mean. When you're alone and horny and would ...
0 Comments, 937 Views,
16 Votes
,2.69 Score
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Threesomes 3/19/2006
Threesomes can be alot of fun, but they can be the end of a
relationship if your not careful. First, if you want your
partner to have a threesome with you, you have to be willing
to try it both ways. You cant expect a woman to have a threeway
with another woman and not want to try it with a man. Its give
and take. If your not willing to try it both ways, maybe you
shouldnt try it at all.
1 Comments, 1843 Views,
45 Votes
,4.25 Score
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MMF threesomes 3/19/2006
If a man wants to give his partner the most intense and satisfying
night of sex she will ever have, all he has to do is make love
to her with another man. Pamper her with 4 hands all over
her body, 2 mouths and tongues kissing and licking from
head to toe. Hold her in your arms, kissing and caressing
her while another man fucks her slow and hard. Whisper in
her ear how beatiful, sexy and ...
32 Comments, 13608 Views,
659 Votes
,6.67 Score
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Here are some tips on anal fucking!!! 3/18/2006
I just go this info from a lady at SFF would you believe it!!
As for the big "O" I think we women need to understand
anal sex and how to enjoy it as much as your man. I'm sure
all of you have a man that is desperate (even if he doesn't
ever mention it) to have your ass. Of course - its tighter,
different, and naughtier. Girlfriend!!! Get over it.
If you and your partner do it ...
0 Comments, 354 Views,
19 Votes
,5.23 Score
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Tantric Orgasms??!?!!? 3/17/2006
Can someone please enlighten me. I have a friends with benifits
that gives the greatest head i have ever had. (i do believe
she could suck start a leaf blower, NO JOKE) however i have
these mini explosive orgasms with no ejaculation. I completely
feel that i have cum and i am totally satisfied afterward
but she says i didn't. i really can't tell would
this be concidered a tantric orgasm or ...
0 Comments, 195 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Ugh What to do What to do. 3/16/2006
First, I am a newbie over to this part of the site,
so don't beat me down for posting in the wrong place.
Be nice to me (lol)
Okay advice needed.
To some it will simply be
"duh, forget about him"
If it were that simple, then I wouldn't be having the
issue now would I?
I will keep it simple.
Hubby and I met guy and wife in early Oct
...
5 Comments, 430 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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A question for the ladies 3/16/2006
How would you feel, ladies, if your guy whom you've
been with for a while told you he thought he was bi and wanted
to experiment with other men. Is this something that many
women could live with. I think if my partner told me she had
desires for other women I could live with and support this.
Is it likely I would get the same from her assuming, of course,
that I would be ultra safe with the ...
2 Comments, 132 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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we need sex and liberty 3/16/2006
HELLO DEAR FRIENDS ,
Y BELEAVE IN LOVE AND RESPECT ITS ALL VERY IMPORTANT ,
FOR AGREAT HEALTHY LIVE YOU MUST BE ACTIVE IN YOUR SEXUAL
RELATIONSHIP IF YOUR NOT HAPPY WITH YOUR PARTNER YOU MUST
FIEND IT IN OTHER PLACES , I BELEAVE IN SERVERAL RELATIONSHIPS
AT THE SAME TIME THAT WAY Y SUGGEST IF YOUR NOT FULLY SATISFIED
TRY IT WITH A NOTHER PARTNER.
0 Comments, 51 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Contact 3/15/2006
Physical contact is so important as it shows a level of intimacy
that goes beyond the bedroom. I feel that it shows a level
of respect that you are there to support your partner.
0 Comments, 51 Views,
0 Votes
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How long does it take? 3/15/2006
I've been a member for a little while now and was wondering
how long does it usually take to hear from others, that you
contact? What results people have had with this aspect
of the site? I'am wondering whether or not of staying
around and upgrading or just giving up. I try to contact
someone every other, or couple of days if I dont get any feedback.
I was wondering if I was doing ...
1 Comments, 118 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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how to aproach women 3/15/2006
ok ladies if i get this wrong just let me know, but some of
the guys out there really need this advice. when you are
trying to get a woman to sleep with you guys you have to be
a bit more tacktful than "hey nice tits wanna fuck?"
it would be helpfull if you didnt mention her tits or stare
at them all through the night. most of the women i have known
were much more impressed with a guy who ...
1 Comments, 151 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Premature Ej 3/15/2006
i know it embaracessing but i like a lot of other ppl suffer
from premature ejactulation.. can someone plz give me
some advice on wat to do.. i am not interested in takin any
medicines and stuff.. does anyone know any REAL and NATURAL
way to help me from this.. please post soon.. really need
the advice.. thanks
0 Comments, 154 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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how to get wife to do ffm with me 3/14/2006
we have had several mmf encounters been to red light district
and watched her woit a many men and joined in looking for
advice to get her to do ffm with me ive shared her i want the
same
1 Comments, 198 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Just about ready to give up 3/14/2006
I know this may sound like a broken record and perhaps I should
be posting this in the rants and raves section or maybe I
already know what I should do but just want to hear it from
other people.
Myself like many other people unfortunatly are married
to a spouse who has very little interest in affection and
sex. I've talked to her about this until I'm blue
in the face.
The other ...
0 Comments, 83 Views,
0 Votes
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Lasting longer and holding it in 3/13/2006
Having sex with insatiable women sometimes makes us guys
orgasm quicker than you ladies. When it happens more than
once, then it really begins to bug us. In my case, my newest
playmate is really having a great time with me. That is...
until I bust. I don't want to give her the impression
I'm a quickshooter... she's just so damn hot ya
know? Anyway, does anybody have any advice to lasting ...
1 Comments, 216 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Penises 3/13/2006
Since we have been on Swapfinder.com and searching for people's
profiles, trying to find out more about these people, we
have came across tons of penises. Why do men think if they
post their penis then more women or men would respond to
them quickly? Most women are not intersted in looking at
your penises. They are mostly interested in you. Your face
is most important. And, of course your bodies. why ...
3 Comments, 136 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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what if 3/12/2006
if a woman is unsure she want's to have sex and at first
she say's yes, then she say's no and she's
unsure what she want's to do then don't do anything
that would be the safest thing to do.
1 Comments, 128 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Partners in the sex industry 3/12/2006
Guys who have partners in the sex industry, be they pole-dancers,
, hookers, call them what you will.
I've often wondered how guys feel about their partner
'entertaining' strangers?
Does it have an effect on their private sex-life? It must
be tough?
0 Comments, 147 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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things athat impt on first date. 3/12/2006
WHAT MUST YOU KNOW ABOUT GOING ON THE FIRST DATE?
1 Comments, 464 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Going Down after getting off 3/11/2006
I am mostly looking for advice from the ladies. Many years
ago I dated a woman who was 15 years my senior, she liked me
to go down her and lick her pussy after we had intercourse
and I had just ejaculated in her. This really tunred her
on so I would do it often. I have only done with the two woman
and the second time it freaked the person out. Ladies what
do think is this a turn on or ...
11 Comments, 472 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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men, wanna get laid more on Swapfinder.com? 3/11/2006
Another thing i have found it that it is always women say
"this is what you need to do to get more chicks on here"
i have never read a man's opinion, therefore am gonna
post my own, so if you don't want to read it FUCK OFF.
My system is simple,
1 if she looks too good, then its fake, not saying that real
women cannot look that good, its just, if it looks professionally
done, then ...
1 Comments, 184 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Watching 3/9/2006
Ok people, s. Is there anything wrong with wanting to watch
your partner with another person.
1 Comments, 85 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Should I OR Shouldnt I 3/8/2006
i keep asking myself this question...my so call dilema....i
have my ex Swapfinder.com lover's collection of porn and dont know
if i should give it back to him or just sell it or give them
away....
I havent heard from him at all since before christmas and
he apparently took me off his yahoo messenger list...(woman
have a way of knowing things)
So apparently they ...
3 Comments, 98 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Life in the fast lane 3/8/2006
It has long since been one of my top fantasies to have sex
in a fast moving vehicle. Let me explain....not as a passenger,
as such, but to be riding the driver!
Obviously, I don't want this to be the last sexual encounter
I ever have, so it will remain a fantasy, but does anyone
know of a place where such dreams can become a reality without
anyone being maimed??
1 Comments, 50 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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The object of my desire 3/6/2006
This is Mike, the male half of the coupel chapsgirl69. I
believe that women in general are a beautiful counterpart
to man. We see beauty in many things but, a woman is in my opinion
the most beautiful of all creation. A woman can make you
find yourself using all five of your senses if you really
stop to think about it. Sure we have things in the world that
catch our attention but, it's the ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Cumming during Anal Sex 3/6/2006
I have cum on several occasions during anal sex. I am on the
receiving end of the anal sex and it feels very good. I guess
this is what would be termed an anal orgasm. Is it because
the guy hits a special spot in there like the male prostate
or something. It is totally hot.
0 Comments, 273 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Taking cum in my mouth? 3/6/2006
Want someone to cum inside my mouth, but I don't know
if I want to swallow, would like to take it in my mouth and
let it drip out and on to my face and chest. Any ideas on how
to take cum in your mouth but not swallow it.
2 Comments, 229 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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whats wrong ? 3/1/2006
i get no messages or anything . What is wrong with my profile
?
1 Comments, 135 Views,
3 Votes
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Annal pleasure in Women? 3/1/2006
I know that a man(well, however) who is penetrated can feel
pleasura even get an orgasm by the rubbing of the prostatic
gland by he´s partner aparatus.
<br>
The question is, does woman can feel pleasure because of
a biological fact like a gay man does? Is there an explanattion
of how can woman feel pleasure during annal sex?
0 Comments, 114 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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woman to woman 3/1/2006
Is it really possible to meet another woman on here? I'm
beinging to wonder since no one responds at all....in a
possive or negative way.
0 Comments, 86 Views,
1 Votes
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Ladie's, Help needed once again! 2/27/2006
Every now and then we all sit and reflact on our lives. Especially
as we start to age.
I am starting to get a little older, wiser and better.
My thought process has changed over the years, along with
everything else. Where I used to think about women as an
accomplished goal now I think of women as partners rather
than acquisitions. I have been looking for a couple of weeks
now at ...
2 Comments, 169 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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anal 2/27/2006
Do not forget to use lube when doing it in the butt, also make
sure she goes before you do it. Trust me!
1 Comments, 573 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Best way 2/27/2006
I was just going to ask the ladies what responses on here
actually catch your eye enough to respond to the sender?
0 Comments, 272 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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shopping scam. 2/25/2006
Be warned shopping scam.In the supermarket car park while
packing shopping in your car, you may be approached by 2
fit 18 year old girls in tight tiny tops.They wash your windscreen
with tits hanging out and ask for a lift to the next shop as
payment.On the way they strip and go down on each other, then
1 climbs in front and sucks you off.The other girl nicks
your wallet.I had mine stolen ...
5 Comments, 473 Views,
14 Votes
,4.90 Score
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fights 2/24/2006
Dont just start a fight with a women to have sex with her.
2 Comments, 125 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Give you the run around about send ing a picture what do you do? 2/24/2006
I want to know if anyone else is having this problem. You
are asked to send a picture, a picture and you do. They say
that they would really like to meet you after seeing your
picture. And you ask them to send a picture also, but they
give you a line that they would really like for you to see
them in person. What do you do forget about it move on to the
next person. Go a head and meet them ...
2 Comments, 237 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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dont have anal and straight wihtout proper hygiene 2/23/2006
dont have straight and anal and then again straight without
washing ur dick. since this is not hygenic and can lead to
infection in the pussy.
1 Comments, 147 Views,
1 Votes
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Getting the best out of SeniorSizzle 2/21/2006
I joined SeniorSizzle a few weeks back and having spent
some time in here thought I’d share some observations on
my experiences to date ‒ might be of use to others.
<br>
Motive for me was to see if I could arrange for uncomplicated
liaisons in Dublin when I travel there on business. So after
trawling the Web for likely swinging sites I settled on
SeniorSizzle as it ...
1 Comments, 217 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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How to do anal 2/21/2006
I am a bi male who has given oral plenty of times and been a
top guy. I use my own toys on myself to pleasure myself, but
I am sure the real thing would feel much better. While I have
no problem being patient getting myself used to my biggest
toy (8 Inches), I want to know how to best prepare for CLEAN
anal sex. I get most turned on by watching a guy or girl get
pounded in the ass and ...
0 Comments, 544 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Not exactly what I was looking for 2/20/2006
When I decided to actually pay for use of this site, I had
a little different agenda than now. I was foolish enough
to believe I could really find sluts looking to fuck anyone.
DUH! It didn't take long to figure out that wasn't
going to happen, and even less time to realize that wasn't
really what I wanted. After having almost zero luck finding
any women who had even a slight interest ...
4 Comments, 266 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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* FOR WOMEN * -- Tell me about you 2/20/2006
I see a lot of profiles from women that say something like,
"I'm hot and I want you to fuck me." Followed
by a list of the various attributes that a potential applicant
must have or must not have.
<br>
I'm sure there are lots of men for whom an offer of commitment-free
sex is enough, but do you really want some guy who's
only redeeming quality is that he's hard-up to get
laid?
...
2 Comments, 146 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Heads Up Guys - No...the OTHER Head... 2/19/2006
As I spend another 20 minutes trolling through the inevitable
cock shots that my daily email delivers to me, I feel compelled
to write an open letter to all of you boys out there. I've
had a few guys ask me - because I make it a practice to respond
to all of my emails - why is it that I just can't seem to
"get a date/root/directions to club nirvana"?
<br>
Well heads up guys - ...
19 Comments, 973 Views,
43 Votes
,7.17 Score
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Is it okay with you? 2/19/2006
So tell me is it okay with you? Are you secure with the whole
world knowing you have a profile on A.F.F. ? Let me tell you
that when the first time that one of my ex-girlfriends mothers
told her that i had a profile online it made me think. I knew
that if an ex saw me i wouldn't mind but, do i really want
my ex's mom viewing me! The idea of her seeing my nude
video intro. kinda turned me ...
0 Comments, 158 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The Simple Law of Supply and Demand 2/19/2006
This article is for all you guys who are so discouraged by
the man to female ratio.
<br>
I'm amazed at all you guys. You work so hard to improve
yourselves. You work out, write articles, seek out answers
and have such a desire to do all the things right to please
a woman. As a woman, this is very nice to see.
<br>
The simple law of supply and demand dictates that you will ...
2 Comments, 265 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Rookie on this Site? 2/19/2006
Any femaleadvise fora rookie onthis site?
3 Comments, 182 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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"Motel 6 or The Hilton" 2/18/2006
When you deside this is a person you want to have sex with.
does it matter how much you spend on the room? After all a
bed is a bed.
3 Comments, 222 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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"ORAL SEX" 2/18/2006
Over the years i've had many partners that i gave oral
stimulation too. To me they loved it better then intercourse.
Some would not give me oral in return.
I would like to know what i can do to get more oral sex?
3 Comments, 282 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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trying to figure out how to meet a sex partner after years of being over worked 2/16/2006
looking for advice -
i am a 41 male that has been out of the dating an the intimite
area's of life for about 16 years now due to a few medical
reasons - especially social anxiety an i am looking for
my first female partner that will understand my needs,
wants an desires.
<br>
i do not make good first impressions an if given the chance
i am a hell of a nice guy to help anyone ...
0 Comments, 112 Views,
0 Votes
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Patience -- Or How to be Kind to Newbies 2/16/2006
I'm amazed at how insensitive folks can be, both here
and everywhere else in the world. I was recently reading
an advice post by a newbie who was having troubles figuring
out how to use the site. When I first created an account here,
I experienced the same thing, wondering what's up
with the site restrictions, posting, finally finding
out about the points system, etc.
<br>
...
1 Comments, 85 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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The power of pictures 2/16/2006
I have on my own blog 3 entries with the same pic as leader.
Well it is not completely the same picture. I enlarged my
own dick with software and you probably are not surprized
by the outcome: the bigger my dick, the more viewers I had.
<br>
true me:................264 viewer
bigger me:..............291 viewers
extraordinary big me:...381 viewers
all pics published at ...
0 Comments, 137 Views,
0 Votes
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Curious about 3-somes 2/16/2006
I am just wondering about 3-somes...I've been wanting
to have a 3-some with my girlfriend and another female...But
she does not like the idea at all...I brought it to her attention
once in our 2 year relationship to find out how she felt about
it and whether or not she would try it or not...Only to get
her thinking that I do not find her attractive anymore....Now
I am still attracted to her ...
4 Comments, 186 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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oral sex 2/14/2006
this is mostly for the huys. now most of us expect the woman
to perform oral sex on us but very few of us do the same. i would
think that by now more guys would have figured out that if
you can lick a woman the right way she is a lot more likely
to come back for more. but it is not like we can just shove
our faces into it and thats all. we need to spend the effort
to learn what our ...
0 Comments, 143 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Guys you are wasting your time here 2/13/2006
Guys you are wasting your time here. In my area there are
about 17, 000 men hunting hunting after about 1600 women.
your odds are better to win at the track then they are of you
getting laid from this site. In the real world guys, women
out number us 3 to 1. Here even the fat ugly women can be picky,
in the real world guys, we can be picky, particualy if you
are a GOOD man, lets face there ...
4 Comments, 244 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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reminders of you 2/12/2006
Love the inner
- Beware the inner
The one who could feel love
- The one who bullies others
Believe in the impossible
- Who won't admit insecurity
Looking at this mysterious world
- Overcompensating with self-flattery
As an endless horizon to pursue
- Too stubborn to learn
The one who had hope
- The one who won't grow up
And ...
1 Comments, 172 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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shaved 2/12/2006
how can i make the shaving experience less irritating
2 Comments, 335 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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how do you rim without getting an infection 2/11/2006
I'm interested in trying rimming, Mouth to anus. Is
there any special hygiene that should take place prior
to the event. I know this sounds stupid but we're just
not sure how to go about it safely. Any suggestions?
6 Comments, 603 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Hair or no Hair 2/11/2006
I was wondering about shaving my balls. I did it along time
ago because a lady ask me to. I will admit it felt good clean
shaven but how do other people (women/men) fell about it.
6 Comments, 364 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Orgies? Gangbangs? Any real stories? 2/10/2006
We have been members for a short while and have had one experience.
The question now is about gangbangs & or an orgy. The
pros & cons, likes & dislikes & the best way
to put one together. Somebody give us a little insight as
we have never taken part in something like this yet. Would
like to hear your experiences...
0 Comments, 333 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Can somebody help my Pussy??? 2/10/2006
So....
<br>
The big project this week has been to strip two layers of
tile off of a 95 year old maple floor and restore it to it's
original glory.
<br>
An hour ago I put the first coat of urethane on and sat back
well prepared for a four hour wait. A DVD, two Guinesses,
and two fat joints. Yes, sir. I was all set.
<br>
Now, normally I'm a pretty thorough guy. ...
1 Comments, 159 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Love 2/10/2006
How can you meet for sex with no strings and not have some
connection emotionaly?
1 Comments, 151 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Keep It REAL 2/7/2006
I've met some nice, fun, and open minded people on Swapfinder.com.
I read some blogs about a women who met some guy and his pic
was'nt even him. Thats just wrong. Then after she exposed
him he had all these bad things to say about her, but she used
her real pic. Then it happened again to her. Come on guys,
I agree some women are on Swapfinder.com for fun, but there are some that
are down.
<br>
All I'm ...
0 Comments, 63 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Why is it that,when your profile matches others... 2/6/2006
We view them, but don't respond ??? I'd really
like to hear from as many of you as possible. I want to get
a better understanding of how this site and the people on
this site communcate. Just want to know. Thanks for your
response, Peace&Blessings
0 Comments, 91 Views,
1 Votes
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QUALITY over QUANTITY 2/5/2006
Once and for all, yes, penis size does matter, but not in
the way
that you think.
<br>
The mistake men have made when it comes to the their penis
size is
believing that bigger is always better; men with abnormally
larger
penises have been under the impression in my experience,
that the
size of their dick alone, satisfies a women sexually and
completely.
That thought ...
2 Comments, 344 Views,
17 Votes
,5.81 Score
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advice needed 2/5/2006
Hi all, I bet you get this all the time and must be sick of it,
but in the spirit of community...
Can anybody help me with my profile?
just take a quick check through and tell me upstraight if
it's crap or not, and what I could do to improve it.
I'm fairly new to this site and its a challenge trying
to get a foot in the door but with your advice I feel I will
gain a lot of confidence.
...
0 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Straight men who enjoy butt plugs 2/5/2006
I wondered if i was totally eunique or if anyone else out
there like this too.
<br>
I am straight and always have been, however when i'm
having sex with a woman i love to have a plug in my butt!
<br>
Anybody think thi sis odd? Just met up with someone last
week and they thought i t was very strange and took the piss
out of me.
<br>
Anyone else into this?
2 Comments, 256 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Never hate before knowledge!!!! 2/5/2006
Never hate by just knowing the person not.Contact with
him/her then know what he/she is ready for.if person of
fate then do as he/she is doing too.
9 Comments, 585 Views,
26 Votes
,1.41 Score
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I'm not sure how I feel about this... 2/4/2006
I'm re-posting this to find out how non-swingers feel
about this as well...
<br>
I had my first encounter with a swinging couple recently...
I'm not quite sure how I feel about it.
<br>
Here's the story:
<br>
My friends invited me to a birthday party for one of their
... It was the wife's 30th birthday, and they
had 15-20 people over.
<br>
When ...
0 Comments, 180 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Infatuation 2/3/2006
I wonder whether it is truly possible to become infatuated
with another Swapfinder.com member (assuming they have no picture
in their profile)on the basis of their profile, e-mails,
and posts?
1 Comments, 89 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Has any one actualy got together here 2/3/2006
Has any one actualy got together with any one and had sex
from this site? Or are most women just about talk or trying
to get you to a site to pay? I anyone here for real
5 Comments, 263 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Male Musk 2/3/2006
All animals have a scent. What is a mans musk? Is it in his
urin like most animals? is it in his sperm, genital sweat?
No guessing does any one know for sure?
0 Comments, 92 Views,
1 Votes
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When are you considered gay 2/3/2006
I want to know at what point is a man or woman considered gay.If
a woman is with another woman and a man it is hot or erotic.Men
love this so is she gay or bi? If a man sucks another man is
he gay? Is the receiver gay? At what point is it gay-bi-or
just sexual fun.Who are we to judge what it is?I think if
you like sex with a member of the same sex only then and only
then are you gay or a ...
3 Comments, 1297 Views,
1 Votes
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Safety Tips for WOMEN 2/2/2006
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point
on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!
<br>
<br>
2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans. If a
robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT
TO HIM. Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more
interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he
will go for the ...
1 Comments, 233 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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A question for the ladies only 2/1/2006
Do any of you really watch the male cams on this site? I have
been asked a couple of times to get one and broadcast it from
people who write and then disappear into thin air but i just
wanted to know if the general population of females on this
site truly do watch and get their juices flowing. No disrespect
intended but is there any room left for another "jerk
off" cam when on any given ...
1 Comments, 147 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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What is a guy to do to attract you ladies? 2/1/2006
I am told that I am good looking, interesting to be with,
that my profile is good on here (Don't have a cock pict
for my main profile pict), that I have a good personality
and get along well with others.
<br>
However I just can't seem to find a lady to become friends
with. I work from time to time in bars running sound for bands
and see lots of nice ladies (though I guess I am too ...
1 Comments, 286 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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How many of you... 1/31/2006
How many of you know of someone who has died of AIDS? Does
anyone on Swapfinder.com know someone who has died of this disease?
Doctors & Nurses don't count.
0 Comments, 534 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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what do you women look for on this site 1/31/2006
let us know , ,what gets your attention is it a pic of my nine
inches , , is it a pic of me with another woman, is it ?????
help us guys out ladies i write nice respectfull messages
, , because that is how i am in real life, get about a fifty
pecent reply , , but then when it comes time to getting down
and dirty it is like pulling teeth to meet with you ladies
fill us in please
0 Comments, 284 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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what do you women look for on this site 1/31/2006
let us know , ,what gets your attention is it a pic of my nine
inches , , is it a pic of me with another woman, is it ?????
help us guys out ladies i write nice respectfull messages
, , because that is how i am in real life, get about a fifty
pecent reply , , but then when it comes time to getting down
and dirty it is like pulling teeth to meet with you ladies
fill us in please
0 Comments, 145 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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people that want to play 1/30/2006
What really burn's my bridge is people that advertise
they are looking.When you respond to there ad, they are
all ready in a realationship !If they are no longer looking, they
should take there ad off of here.I am a standard member, and
I acomlate point's to contact people that might like
to get togeather.Is there any one else out there that agree
with me?
4 Comments, 180 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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You shouldn't have to be afraid to talk about sex!!! 1/30/2006
I'm joined a couple of dating sites before finding
this one.... It always amazes me how few people can actually
be honest and up front about sex!!!
<br>
Outside of this site, people seem to tell you what they think
is socially acceptable... But OMG you can't talk about
it up front...LOL
<br>
So you trade some e-mails/phone calls, meet up with them
for a drink, and end ...
1 Comments, 173 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Is ID confirmation safe? 1/30/2006
With all of the ID theft issues out there... I'm a little
concerned about sending in a copy of my photo ID. Most on-line
sites let you verify your ID with a credit card...
Has anyone had ...
<br>
Sorry I had to re-post this....Put it in the wrong category
originaly
2 Comments, 216 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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South Western PA members, please read.. 1/30/2006
There is a fake among us.. Anyone interested or contacted
by Playdoll190876.. She's not who she says she is.
<br>
An ex boyfriend from way back has made this bogus profile.
He used this 'chick' to try to befriend me and offer
advice on my love life, always leading back to him of course.
I started to think somethin was goin on, it was pretty obvious.
Time would pass and I would ...
3 Comments, 523 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Bitchs & Bastards 1/28/2006
I'm really baffled today, this week actually, over
some things I've learned on this site. I've realized
that somehow the married person playing alone is lowest
on the "moral" totem pole here, and like I said,
it's baffling. Somehow, a 19 yr old girl looking for
her first gangbang is OK. What would your father say? The
35 yr old single mom who just wants a weekend fuck-buddy.
What kind of ...
3 Comments, 592 Views,
12 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Help 1/28/2006
I have been trying to meet a couple, or a woman, For the
last 4 monthe's with no luck.Posted pic's answered
ad's.What am I doing wrong?
2 Comments, 443 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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advice from me 1/27/2006
You should never have unprotected sex, because you never
know what you are getting yourself int. You should always
encourage your partner to use protection. You should never
take the risk of contracting an STD.
0 Comments, 218 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Perpatrators Vs. The Real Thing 1/27/2006
I would like to begin with a simple truth...A person that
talks the talk but does not walk the walk should not bother!
<br>
I am tired of all the fakes on this site. Why is it that someone
spends there time filling out a profile with frivalous
information when they do not intend to follow through with
the topic. Lets face it people, we are here for one thing,
SEX! I ...
1 Comments, 749 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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100 Nuns 1/27/2006
The nuns at the local convent had their daily announcement
session.
Mother superior walked out in front of the 100 nuns with
a very serious frown on her face. She began to speak.....
<br>
Mother Superior: "A sinful deed was committed here,
yesterday."
<br>
99 nuns: "Oh, no!"
1 nun: "Hee, Hee, Hee!"
<br>
Mother Superior: "Today I found a pair of men`s ...
0 Comments, 249 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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sex on the beach 1/27/2006
A guy is walking along the beach, when he meets a girl with
no legs, crying.
"Why are you crying?" he asks.
<br>
"I've never been hugged, " she says. The
guy hugs her, but she continues crying.
<br>
"Why are you crying?" he asks.
<br>
"I've never been kissed, " she says. The
guy kisses her, but she continues crying.
<br>
"Why ...
0 Comments, 170 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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profile help - in your own words! 1/26/2006
Writing a profile can be very daunting, especially if you
aren't very self-confident. It's hard work blowing
your own trumpet sometimes!
<br>
BUT, using the online profile compiler to make your profile
for you can result in a profile that is meaningless to most
people, and hints that you may be completely inarticulate.
(If you are a girl looking for guys, let's face it, it ...
0 Comments, 120 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Why Keep Viewing and Winking If You Don't Follow Through 1/25/2006
Why would someone continue to check you out, make "winking"
advances, but never follow through with the contact. Either
get on with it or move on. It is flattering, but why are most
people on this site? They likely are looking for some action,
not just a tease.
5 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Gangbang - how to get your ass prepared? 1/24/2006
ok...I posted this in health, so if you are ready again...my
apologies.
Its slut here and I have done a few naughty things in my time
but this is a big-in'. We are about to embark on a major
gangbang...2 chix and 20 guys...
I'M SCARED!!!
I don't know what to do to get my body ready - in particular
my ass...there has to be some way to get it "stretched" ...
5 Comments, 767 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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my skepticism is lessening 1/24/2006
I have been extremely skeptical about the whole idea of
Swapfinder.com. I went from being a silver member to dropping to standard,
and then saying I would try Gold and if that doen'st
work just ignore the site all together.
<br>
Answering questions in a profile is important but there
are times that i just dont want to spend the extra money becuase
it seems to not work as much as I want ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
6 Votes
,5.64 Score
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Help 1/23/2006
I am having a hard time with connecting with people.I need
your advice, what am I doing wrong?When I was younger, I
hade no problem's I would meet with couples and have
mind blowing orgasams.This is when I first tryed bi, and
it was great.There is nothing like eating a jucy pussy with
a hard cock deep inside!The orgasam she had was increadible, my
face was so wet, and when he came oh god ...
1 Comments, 55 Views,
0 Votes
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Just say so... 1/22/2006
I am sure this is not a new thing and I am guilty of it myself,
but I would like to just remind people that if you don't
want to meet or even if you change your mind for whatever
reason, just say so. If you have met and you decide that it
is not going to work out then don't just fade away, tell
them how you feel. Don't think in the interest of not
hurting someones feelings that if you give ...
0 Comments, 198 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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An afternoon on the Internet 1/22/2006
It continues to amaze me where a hypertext link can take
you. I was reading the local paper this morning and opinion
article by Vin Suprynowicz, a nationally syndicated Libertarian
columnist and author, which led to a bookstore link which
led to books on sex of course, which led to steelballs.com.
I drilled down through the site and there are some useful
suggestion about behavior, posture, ...
1 Comments, 119 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Why do men want or need to stay friends after a split? 1/22/2006
I met a man on Swapfinder.com back in October and we hit it off immediately
and he asked if we could be monogamous and not date other
people so I agreed. This went on until Christmas and we spent
a lot of time together and the sex was amazing. We spent the
day before Christmas Eve together and that night. We exchanged
gifts...he bought me a beautiful diamond braclet. Then
after Christmas I ...
1 Comments, 394 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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how well does this site work? 1/21/2006
this question is mainly aimed towards standard members,
being that i am one,
but id like to hear anyones comments...
<br>
<br>
how well does this site work?
<br>
i just signed up a few days ago and im just curious as to how
well this site is going to work for me...
1 Comments, 36 Views,
0 Votes
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How many people are honest? 1/21/2006
Just curious as to how many people actually follow through
with plans made on this site? It has been my experience that
not very many that I come in contact with who say they want
to meet ever follow through.
0 Comments, 38 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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A tired question 1/21/2006
Ladies,
Please provide me with a little advice as to what I can do
to get attention as a single male.
0 Comments, 57 Views,
1 Votes
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My POV & Actual Qs' for advice. 1/19/2006
Dear Fellow Friends;
<br>
I really wish people would learn to read and post “questions
for advice” and nothing else in this section!!
<br>
My wife and I have an open marriage. She was able to find several
men on Swapfinder.com willing and able to drive to our local health dept
for a free HIV test and committed to sexual abstinence until
the test results were shared ...
0 Comments, 127 Views,
0 Votes
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Why do single guys get a bad rep here? 1/19/2006
I'm pretty new here (been here for about a month). A
lot of women's profiles say "no single men."
I know there are women here who are in relationships, bi,
etc....but why are so many women against even talking to
a single male?
4 Comments, 82 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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What do I do? 1/19/2006
Here's my story. I have had 15 miscarraiges in 10 years.
I'm very happily married and try very hard to want and
have sex with my man but it's just not there. Can anyone
tell me why? I've been seeing a shrink and I'm able
to talk anout things and have fun but sex is still a problem
for me. I rarely masturbate anymore and since I have had
so many miscarruages you can imagine how my ...
5 Comments, 299 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Question... 1/18/2006
am i correct in thinking that 99.99% of women dont like the
idea of having sex with someone considerably younger than
they.....
<br>
for example, myself?
<br>
i just turned 18 3 months ago...
3 Comments, 78 Views,
0 Votes
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Philofecies 1/15/2006
I lick girls' rumps. I like to lick girls' rumps.
Girls like to have their rumps licked. Most girls won't
admit they've had their rump licked, let alone enjoyed
having their rump licked. But believe you me, if you lick
a girl's rump, she'll love you for life. In fact,
that was my high school yearbook quote.
<br>
My conviction to 'slurping the brown pucker'
doesn't stem from ...
3 Comments, 97 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Gentlemen: Please use a better line to catch attention on Webcam Broadcast!!!! 1/15/2006
We all know what it is that you are here to see!! After all
we women are here to see the same. There is a greater amount
of men on the site so you have to be really strategic when
trying to catch our attention when on the web cam. Be patient
and it will CUM. Don't demand "Show your tits",
"more Pussy!"
Compliment and be kind. It's more exciting that you
read my profile and like ...
1 Comments, 86 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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dazed and confused 1/14/2006
What else can I do? Ok I've taken lots of advice and changed
some things to still see no results. Ladies what is wrong
with my aproach, I've gone from dazed to confused about
how to meet women on this site . I read the magazine , I try
chat, I have the webcam . Reading that alot of women have
said the are tired of pricks but still chase them , not being
a quitter I'm here for advice , I ...
5 Comments, 127 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Cheating? 1/13/2006
Alright, here it goes. My wife cheated on me. I have never
cheated on her and never thought of it until she had done
it to me. Now I am looking to cheat on her and using this service
to do it. Am I stupid or what?
8 Comments, 321 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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who are you here for??? Yourself or mutual pleasure 1/13/2006
Why is it that most of the men on here are advertising that
they are here to please the women first and foremost but
when you actually hook up that is not the case at all... Let
me guess that is just their bait to get you hook line and sinker???
Or are there really men out there into mutual satisfaction????
5 Comments, 297 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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Proving your worth. 1/12/2006
In a community full of uncertain intentions, such as the
internet is, it is very difficult to meet and build relationships
with people whom you find an attraction toward.
<br>
What are your views or advice regarding proving your worth
and honourable intentions, and showing that you are not
one of the many weirdos portraying themselves as something
that they are not.
1 Comments, 229 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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History 1/11/2006
Well I try to be a honest person and upfront but when it comes
to explaining my past and that I'm a felon and on parole,
GIRLS RUN AWAY! I try to explain but whats a guy to do? Lie?
Don't ask don't tell? Very confused.
1 Comments, 115 Views,
0 Votes
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Life, friends & family 1/10/2006
First of all, i'll just like to say..........
Life is like a Dick... When its Hard Fuck IT.
<br>
<br>
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some
items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large
and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf
balls.
<br>
He then asked the students if the jar was ...
0 Comments, 143 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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Introducing the topic of swinging/3somes, etc ... 1/9/2006
Does anyone have any suggestions of how to bring up the topic
of 3-somes, or swinging, to my husband? I don't have
a clue how he'd feel about it - I've asked him in
the past to share his fantasies and he will not. He seems
to be amused when I flirt with his friends, but that's
not sex.
<br>
I've shared a few of mine (pretty mild ones) and he hasn't
shown interest. Am I doomed? ...
3 Comments, 287 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Big Booty 1/9/2006
Man, I love girls with a nice slender top and nice ass. Cause
when they bend over, Its like the world just opened up for
you, what do you think?
3 Comments, 92 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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Ladies, Please don't just read this one.... RESPOND TOO PLEASE 1/9/2006
My pen name is Theo, and before I go any further I am attached/married.
Yes I know that 96% of the ladies on this sight will now be
immediately turned off and not even look at my profile.
But let me ask this one question, why is it if a man finds himself
married to a woman who is no longer interested in having
a passionate relationship with him and he goes looking
elsewhere he's a low life ...
1 Comments, 282 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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My first time 1/5/2006
I couldn't get it in! I was hard, she was hot, but I just
couldn't get my prick into her vagina! It was very frustrating,
and not surprisingly I didn't get another chance with
thatparticular girl.
<br>
But I remember that I did feel very close toher, even though
nothingactually happened...she was the first girl I had
ever seen naked, and she was looked very beautiful to me.
0 Comments, 113 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Testimonials - what do you think? 1/5/2006
I'm just curious - have any of you left a testamonial
for someone else? why?
Have you asked someone for a testamonial? Do you believe
other testimonials? Why would you leave a testamonial
that just says the person looks hot and you want to get with
them.
3 Comments, 152 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Meetings 1/4/2006
You should always meet in a public place for the first meeting
and never get alone with the person until you feel confident
enough that they are not going to try anything inappropriate.
1 Comments, 116 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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the secret to those formulas for men 1/4/2006
hey guys save your money all those natural products that
increase stamina are a combination of vitamin B, ginseng, yohimbine,
and multivitamins. do yourself a favor by a multiple vitamin
and practice your kegel excercises muscle used to stop
yourself from peeing
0 Comments, 118 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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What Next 1/4/2006
I have been talking, either on-line or telephone for hours, with
an older lady (12ys older than  for some time now ( we live
good distace apart) she has said see loves me and I her. We
are both married.We have each other pictures though they
are old she has seen me on cam in the nude.I would love to meet
her and have her. But the distance is so hard. I do not feel
good when I don't hear ...
3 Comments, 87 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Frustration 1/3/2006
I've been a member of Swapfinder.com and had very little luck. I'll
email girls and they won't email back or will and then
won't respond to my follow-up. It doesn't help
that I live in a small town now. What does a guy do to bee successful
here?
2 Comments, 121 Views,
1 Votes
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i want it 1/3/2006
HOw do i get to meet more people and get people who are willing
to meet and want to eather just get to know me for a one night
stand or some thing long term i want to be easy going and im
up for trying new things im not very good at just leting go
and puting my self out there dose any one have any advice
and help on how i can make my profile more inviting and people
more willing to meet me? ...
0 Comments, 203 Views,
0 Votes
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Hairy Back 1/2/2006
I want to get all the hair of my hubby's back and we have
tried self waxing but he breaks out in red bumps. We shave
it but it comes back thicker. Does anybody know what works
best??
3 Comments, 167 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Cock Shots 1/1/2006
Hey Girls:
If you see a nude pic of a huge cock without any body attached
to it, you can be sure that it is fake. If you are into big ones,
don't trust it....
1 Comments, 196 Views,
5 Votes
,0.21 Score
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toys to play with 1/1/2006
I'll start off with saying that I have an awesome relationship
with my wife. ww have basically two forms of lovemaking
that we do. we have our intimate lovemaking which consista
of back massages, tender kisses, lots of touching and a
general slow full lovemaking. Then we have our "SEX"
where it's more animal where we delve into tying up,
blindfolding, and it is more aggressive.
We both ...
1 Comments, 195 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Question for the ladies. 12/31/2005
ladies do you like it when a man shaves his balls or do you
like them hairy? is it unmanly if he shaves them?
5 Comments, 232 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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A Threesome Question 12/30/2005
I recently experienced a threesome with a husband and a
wife, my first time. I was very excited to finally have the
chance to try a fantasy of mine but I must admit I was disappointed
in it. Have some of you had more experience in threesomes
could offer some advise? Show I not give up on it and try again?
Let me hear what you think
2 Comments, 418 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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''LoveSick'' 12/29/2005
I've been wrestling with this psychological problem
for a while. I have a deep-seated infatuation with gloriously
beautiful women with Great aSSe's, beautiful legs, luscious
tit's and Well shaved pussy's.Please tell me
how one gets out of this morass. Or is this the end of life
as I once knew it?
<br>
Help, ~P~
0 Comments, 115 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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2005-12-28
these places who send you emails and say "we met on
the dating site" suck!! They send you these emails
that are supposed to be from some girls and when you open
them they say they have a web page and it's free to see
them, then they will email you back. These are lies, anything
that asks you for your credit card number is not free!!!!!!!!!
Comments, Views,
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beginner's advice/question 12/28/2005
ey, i'm brand new on here, and i was wondering if anyone
would like to post/go over the main procedure for how this
site works? the best ways to go about getting in touch with
people from on here, the faux-pas and the ettiquette to
be mindful of etc... that would be really helpful. thanks!
<br>
<br>
-c
0 Comments, 62 Views,
0 Votes
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wise man 12/28/2005
a wise man once said to me, "watch out where the huskies
go, and don't you eat that yellow snow" ...best
advice anyone ever gave me
0 Comments, 83 Views,
0 Votes
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ok so how do you know if you are addicted to sex? 12/28/2005
Is it totally at all possible to be addicted to sex or do you
just make up for the fact that you aren't getting what
you need from the person you are with and have flings? I mean
sex is great and wonderful..and I know I don't get what
I need from home and when the chance arises...which it often
does I can find someone to play with if I like....so can someone
tell me how you know if you are ...
4 Comments, 476 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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hotmatch points 12/28/2005
If I have accrued slightly over 1, 000 points on Swapfinder.com, what
would be the most useful and productive way to redeem those
points from this service? Thanks to any who are familiar
enough with the system to offer their opinions.
0 Comments, 99 Views,
0 Votes
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First Contact 12/28/2005
Generally speaking, ladies, what is the best way for a guy
to contact you after exchanging emails? IM, phone call,
etc...?
<br>
Also, at what point do you ask for face pic and/or other information
if the guy has not yet given that?
<br>
Curious.
<br>
Thanks in advance to all guys/ladies who voted/replied...
<br>
-MJ
2 Comments, 100 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Masterbation 12/27/2005
Men masterbate because there eather lonley very horney
watch to much porn or r just pervs haha. i jerk off at least
4 times a week and i love to do it where someone can see my throbing
penis because i love the fact someone is watching. i noticed
i love to jerk off in the morning because i wake up stiff all
ready so exploding cum on to a piece of paper towel gets me
ready for the day! i ...
1 Comments, 99 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Guys and feelings 12/25/2005
Most of my friends are women and they usually have the same
complaint - their boyfriend/husband/boy toy won't
talk about how they feel.
<br>
As I guy, I do feel, but I don't think I've ever actually
felt anything nearly as deeply as a woman. I wanted to know
why.
<br>
I found the answer lies in the neurological differences
between men and women.
<br>
When a ...
1 Comments, 64 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Christmas 12/25/2005
MERRY CHRISTMAS, HAPPY HAUNAKKAH, HAPPY KWANZAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope everybody ana theirs is having a truly wonderful
holiday!! You know, Christmas should be a time when, for
at least a little while, we can put aside our differences
and celebrate the holiday in what ever way we will. Unfortunately,
things don't always work out that way. Currently,
I'm caught in the middle of a 3-way family ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
0 Votes
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Is he just not that in to me..... 12/24/2005
He's almost 50 years old. In the 7 months we've
been together, he never good for more than one night per
week. We're monagamous and he has asked for an exclusive
relationship. I am very fond of him, but I have never been
with any man who is only able to "hit it" only
once per week. In the absence of more plentiful intimacy
I find myself craving more. Actually I've occasionally
thought ...
3 Comments, 201 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Not Me 12/23/2005
You just finished having anal sex with your G/F. She then
puts on a strap on and demands it's your turn. What should
you do?
12 Comments, 436 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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for the ladies 12/23/2005
ok heres a question for all you ladies out there who dont
like hair on your men. what happens if you hook with a guy
at a club bar wutever and you get to his place and you take
his shirt off and he has chest hair or pubic hair. what are
you gonna do or say? or how will you tell your new bf?
0 Comments, 96 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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bored at work ..dont get caught with adultfinder 12/21/2005
tips for cpu maintance when using adult finder.
<br>
1- join www.Swapfinder.com.com
2- clean your cookies and your temp files (tips from the
IT guy)
3- clean your history
4- try chatting on msn with members from finder...the day
will go faster
5- try to remain productive...
6- learn how to use your alt-tab, Hide icon, on most web
pages...
7- i you have a flat ...
1 Comments, 291 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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question 12/19/2005
What exactly is this "Mon Chalet" I keep hearing
about?
2 Comments, 218 Views,
0 Votes
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Fucking too long 12/19/2005
My girlfriend can fuck all night, but I have meet women
who after a while she says I need to stop because it hurts.
even when we use lots of oil it still hurts. so can you do it
too long??
0 Comments, 182 Views,
0 Votes
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oral sex 12/19/2005
Is it true that most women will cum by eating there pussy.
Is there a proper way to do this??
0 Comments, 300 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH? 12/18/2005
I personally think of sex constantly. I need to cum at least
once a day, sometimes more, so that means a lot of materbation
because my gf only wants it about 2 or 3 times per week. Am
I asking too much or is she being too stingy?
1 Comments, 123 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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ONLY CUMS SOMETIMES? 12/18/2005
when my gf and i have sex, i can tell right away if she is going
to cum or not within the first 2 min. My question is, how come
she can only cum missionary and even that, she doesnt cum
very often? I have never had a woman that was so hard to please..
3 Comments, 89 Views,
0 Votes
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Enlargement 12/17/2005
I'm curious if any of the guys here has ever found a penis
enlargement item that has actually worked? I'm not
too upset about mine, as it's considered "average",
but I, like most other guys, wouldn't mind "being
all I can be". I understand completely that most women
are mostly interested in the motion of the ocean, and I've
never been badly criticized for my performance, but it
would be ...
4 Comments, 574 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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my life on Swapfinder.com, & keeping it reaL. 12/16/2005
WHY? ARE so many men on Swapfinder.com still even after, my so real to
the point profile. Men, Im a player to game knows game. I
Lived with a man , I know how yal do! Ive said it, wrote it done
books, been a book. I met this one claims to be a electrician, educated,
living home with mom inbetween homes. asking me for keys
in a week>? lol then asking about money, my bussiness
& more. why? cant yal ...
3 Comments, 147 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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My dilemna-do any of you have this problem?? 12/15/2005
I'm a fairly attractive guy who gets more than his share
of attention from the ladies.I get "hit on"
all the time. No problem with that; it's nice to know
that there are some who find me attractive enough to send
out some signals. If I were looking to be a player, I'd
probably be happier than a pig in slop. Bottom line: I'm
not attracted to those who are attracted to me. The ladies
to ...
1 Comments, 145 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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To Cum or not to Cum 12/14/2005
Okay, I'm dating two women. Each is aware of the other,
but that's not the point. We are all in the 45-50 range
Woman #1 has an incredible sexual appetite and is totally
uninhibited. A very sensous woman. I can make her come by
just kissing her and petting. When we finally get our clothes
off and "get rolling" she will come so many times
we both lose count. and she comes really hard. She ...
1 Comments, 125 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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touch of experience 12/14/2005
The human body is very sensitive, whether it be male or female.
I have come to find out that the sides of your upper torso
are extremely sensitive. I can recall many belly rubs that
turned into a lot more. Gentle massaging around the tummy
and up the sides to the sides of the breast; of either sex,
can cause them to become very aroused. When the sides are
lightly kissed it's almost ...
0 Comments, 128 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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finding someone to play 12/14/2005
it seems to me it's very hard to find a decent single
women on Swapfinder.com? Can anyone give me some advice
as to what to do.
0 Comments, 53 Views,
0 Votes
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G- spot 12/14/2005
Like most men, I constantly tried to give more to my girlfriend
in the bedroom. I read up on how to find the G-spot, if it exists.
I read that it was an inch or two up on the inner wall of the
vagina. With that knowledge, I departed for our next date.
As our date progressed, the sexual foreplay followed suit.
On the way back from the movie, we began groping each other
in the car. I ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
0 Votes
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Size VS knowledge 12/14/2005
Does size really matters? Most of men have 5 to 6 inches.
My last girlfriend expected me to have 9-10. That is really
rediculus. Like 0.5 percent of whole population of the
world has over 7 naturally. Of course now days, there are
surgeries which allows men to have that kinda length, but
normally, it doesn't. So does it really matters? Or
is it knowledge that counts ?
2 Comments, 189 Views,
0 Votes
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cunnilingus : the art 12/14/2005
Having performed cunnilingus for many years, I can state
categorically there is no simple, "seven step procedure"
or magic formula, or recipe that works on all. Everyone
is unique. However, there is one thing that will serve you
well, the willingness to learn. Let her teach. Who better?
Admit it you don't know it all any never will. Some women
may want you to lick here or there and in ...
0 Comments, 214 Views,
0 Votes
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Candle wax (The Taper Caper) 12/14/2005
I recall watching a video a while back that had a scene where
the couple dripped hot wax on each other directly from a
candle. It looked pretty erotic and I thought it would be
something different to try.
So I attempted to re-create the scene. My reaction was one
of "Holy Shit...that's freakin hot!!"
It literally left welts!
I was told that most household candles aren't really ...
0 Comments, 145 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Being more confident 12/14/2005
My encounters with women have been rare and quite meaningless.
As such, I feel I am not adequate for a real relationship
or something.
<br>
Is there anything specific to do to break out of my shyness/poor
self esteem?
1 Comments, 104 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Cock Ring 12/14/2005
Do they really make you last longer?
<br>
How about penis pumps do tehy get you hard?
0 Comments, 255 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Dry Vag 12/14/2005
I have a friend and sometimes she suffers from a dry vagina.
It doesn't appear to be because she isn't turned
on but just more to do with the fact that she's 30 years
my senior. My advice for this situation is while you are
having fun in the bed to subtly lather her up down there with
your own saliva from your tongue. There aren't any
problem once penetration has been made and the saliva is ...
0 Comments, 229 Views,
0 Votes
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How does a younger guy go about getting together with an older woman for sex 12/13/2005
I am a young attractive 21 year old and though I do like girls
my age, I find myself staring at older women all the time.
I'm all about a milf!! I have been with a couple older
women and it's great! I guess my question is how about
finding older women that would wanna be with a younger guy
and do women mind being with a younger guy?. I notice older
women "looking" sometimes but I don't ...
1 Comments, 238 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Looking for married woman 12/13/2005
Where is a good place to pickup married woman? Do alot of
married woman go out to bars looking for men?
0 Comments, 140 Views,
0 Votes
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Why 12/13/2005
Why do women contact you?, and e-mail you saying they want
to get together with you, than stop talking to you all together?
2 Comments, 111 Views,
0 Votes
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The do and don'ts of.... 12/13/2005
Ladys do not tell a man in your profiles that you want a nice
guy, they are out there so don't be so picky! I AM ONE!
2 Comments, 96 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Do not report to Swapfinder.com, you'll ruin eveything!! 12/12/2005
My husband, Stud Puppy received an E-mail from “frigginDoIt”
while seeking out his FWB (I’ve already found mine, thank
you) and “she” turned out to be a con trying to get people
to register at another on line sex web site. I told him not
to report “her” to Swapfinder.com because they will
just shut down her personal and then ...
1 Comments, 212 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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What would you think? 12/12/2005
What would you think if someone was interested in getting
to know you better, but revealed to you that they were a virgin?
Would you accept it or stop talking to them?
1 Comments, 272 Views,
0 Votes
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Is Stud Puppy slow or what!? 12/11/2005
Howdy everyone, is my husband slow or what?
<br>
My husband, Stud Puppy, received an E-mail from “frigginDoIt”
while seeking out his FWB (I’ve already found mine, thank
you) and “she” turned out to be a con trying to get people
to register at another on line sex web site. I told him not
to report “her” to Swapfinder.com because they will ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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am I bi 12/11/2005
My husband and I have been having a discusion this evening
about as to wether or not I am Bi.
As a I would get together with a girlfriend and
we would finger and Kiss one another... This happened a
few dozen times.
Later after my husband and I got together a very good friend
of mine and I spoke in detail about getting together. She
was very attractive and I wish now that we had. The ...
3 Comments, 322 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Where are all the sexy ladies at? 12/10/2005
So I'm just wondering... Where are all the sexy ladies
at? Had my profile on here for weeks now and not a response..
is it me? What do I do to get some more hits or whatever?
<br>
Jerome..
3 Comments, 1886 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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“Bi” Confusion... What's with the Double Standard... 12/9/2005
I confused about something... I’m a bisexual male who gets
zero responses from emails and “winks.” I posted a question
about this last week and got a few responses from women who
told me that they won’t get involved with bi-males, but
they are bisexual or bi-curious. What’s the difference?
Is this a double standard? Why is it o.k. for a women to be ...
1 Comments, 184 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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4 questions to make you feel stupid..... 12/9/2005
4 QUESTIONS TO MAKE YOU FEEL STUPID! GOOD LUCK!!!
<br>
Below are four (4) questions. You have to answer them instantly.
You
can't take your time; answer all of them immediately.
DO NOT SCROLL
DOWN UNTIL YOU HAVE THE ANSWER IN YOUR HEAD----NO CHEATING!!!!!
<br>
First Question:
You are participating in a race. You overtake the second-place
person.
What position are ...
5 Comments, 252 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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Is there any such thing as sucking a dick too hard or a womans breast suffocating you? 12/8/2005
Ok I am married and hubby said I sucked his dick to hard and
that my boobs suffocate him...I don't get it. My boobs
are not that big. What man says stuff like this? I don'g
get it. I mean my huby is 11 yrs older than I am and you would
think if I walked up grabbed his cock and said come fuck me
he would. I can't honestly say he isn't or is cheating
but how do you know and should his ...
16 Comments, 354 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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mmf 3some 12/6/2005
How many couples out there eve thought about bring another
male into the bed room.
2 Comments, 287 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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STD'S 12/5/2005
Isnt anyone afraid of contracting a std? I read about gang
bangs, glory holes, swapping
Isnt anyone afraid of catching something?
1 Comments, 231 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Hair or no Hair? 12/5/2005
WHat do men perfer women with hair or no hair? I perfer my
women with no hair or very little. But I know some guys that
love a women with a lot of hair. How do women feel on this subject?
2 Comments, 223 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Any advice Wifes Vagina. 12/3/2005
For about 2 months my wifes vagina had a very bad smell to
it, Even after 2 to 3 days and me taking showers, my penis
would still have the smell on it. She has always for 18 years
had a very clean, pleasant, tasty vagina. And then this?
2 more months have passed and she is back to normal, very
good stuff. I did not talk to her about it, and was somewhat
suprised she didnt say anything. ...
4 Comments, 546 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Faith and Sex 12/3/2005
Hi all, we are a deeply commited religious couple who believe
that our sexuality is a gift from God.We also do not go along
with much of what is taught by traditional religions that
sex is dirty.we would like to hear from others of faith who
are involved in this lifestyle since we are considering
the same ourselves.please lets us know of your experences.Thanks
share
1 Comments, 222 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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love the one your with 12/3/2005
Give the respect and carring you would want back to you.
0 Comments, 129 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Shy guy looking for way's to hook up with hot ladies 12/2/2005
I am a very shy guy have never been agressive with ladies
and have always been afraid of rejection from hot ladies....
does or has anyone ever been through this .... does any hot
ladies have any sugestions on how an average slim guy can
get lay'ed buy hot ladies with out making an ass of my
self... Thanks for any suggestions....
2 Comments, 259 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Recognizing a Stroke 12/2/2005
Recognizing a Stroke
<br>
A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within
3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke...totally.
He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed
an getting to the patient within 3 hours which is tough.
<br>
"RECOGNIZING A STROKE"
<br>
Thank God for the sense to remember the "3" steps. ...
3 Comments, 171 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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well if thats it then I guess thats that 11/29/2005
this is refering to funloveing2cpl post to my last question
I never thought after geting your response in the relationship
mag that you would say that but here it go's.I am not
useing her just that she said she would do these things so
I accepted it but now that you think of it haha I have felt
like that for a while......and hated every thought so it's
not that she realized anything but ...
1 Comments, 156 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Average Penis size 11/29/2005
What is average size for a penis?
What is considered small?
what is considered large?
2 Comments, 445 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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what would you do???? 11/29/2005
Hey I was wandering if I could get as many people as I can to
tell me if you would cheat or try and y if you were in this situation
I am in. You see I am a 19 year old male with a 35 year old woman.
I care for her truly but at the same time dought her feelings
for me. You see I am stuck in a rought I am on probation for
some false charges out of galveston from past times in c.
p. s. ...
1 Comments, 230 Views,
0 Votes
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People 11/26/2005
Don't take anything to heart there is more bs, on here
then anything else, or should I say big talkers.I have
heard everything from A-Z and very little of it was true,
yes
I do know a lot of you know what I am talking about.
Jump163.
0 Comments, 30 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Meet? how soon? 11/26/2005
I have never felt that a person on Swapfinder.com allowed me to get to
know them enough so that an in-person would be safe/comfortable.
Why do guys think that "hi I saw your picture - let's
get together this weekend" is even remotely acceptable???
4 Comments, 282 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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If I wriggle the toe of my shoe into your crotch at dinner will I get a "rise" out of you? 11/26/2005
Tell me boyz, do you like it when a woman plays
footsies under the table?
<br>
Teasin' you as she works her
way up your pant leg, either running her bare
toes under the fabric of your trousers or just grazing her
shoe clad foot along the top of the fabric and teasing your
groin? Does your cock get all "hippy-happy"?
Is it ...
4 Comments, 182 Views,
13 Votes
,6.00 Score
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What should I be looking for first in a person? 11/26/2005
I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership.
I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could
in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little
bit of) the local male competition I have with men within
my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB.
<br>
After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing
to a few select women, ...
1 Comments, 82 Views,
0 Votes
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What's a girl have to do? 11/26/2005
I'm very imterested in exploring sex with another
woman, but it seems that either I have to want to play with
a man too or no one will give a lady like me a chance. Admittedly
I have no prior experience with another woman but I am not
expecting to just jump into bed with another attractive
lady! Acually just the chance to chat with another woman
who likes both men and women to get some ...
1 Comments, 110 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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So you wanna get kinky, eh? 11/25/2005
I am asking the ladies of this site if they'd be game
for putting a little variety into their sex lives?
<br>
Would you be up for :
<br>
1)Light bondage (having her hands restrained, being blindfolded,
and/or being spanked)?
<br>
2)Exhibitionism (sex or being exposed in public)?
<br>
3)Videotaping sex?
<br>
4)Sex toys during sex?
...
1 Comments, 112 Views,
0 Votes
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I'd like a MFM threesome. 11/23/2005
My wife and I don't have a very satisfying sex life.
I've been giving a lot of thought to a MFM threeway with
her. I'm not sure how to approach her with the idea.
Anyone out there got an idea?
2 Comments, 227 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Vertically challenged men 11/23/2005
Years ago, a popular pop singer recorded a tune entitled
"Short People". The gist of the tune stated
that he didn't like short people.
<br>
I'm a "shorty" and would like to know why
most women find us short guys so un-appealing. The vast
majority on this site are looking for tall men. Cmon, us
lil dudes can hang with the best of them.
<br>
Show the lil guys some love!!
3 Comments, 120 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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IM a newbie:) 11/23/2005
I was just kinda curious how many people have had some success
with this site? I am looking forward to meeting some people
and just wanted to know how things were going with everyone?
0 Comments, 145 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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How can i actually meet people from Swapfinder.com? 11/23/2005
I have beenusing this site for years and have never actually
had to opportunity to meet any ladies from my area. i use
the chat room , i have been a gold member, i post pics and try
to talkt o people from my are...(that Swapfinder.com says are compatable),
but noone is ever really intrested. What am i doing wrong?
anyone give me some advice?
0 Comments, 113 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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confused and frustrated 11/23/2005
I like to think i have a reasonable personality, looks wise
i guess it depends on the person. but i have had from female
friends and other women some positive comments as being
good looking to okay. I will admit to to actually sometimes
just the one night thing. which i still believe honesty
what is happening, and also still treating a woman with
some kind of respect. after all we are both ...
0 Comments, 196 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Straight Ass Advice (Episode 2) 11/22/2005
(cheesy intro music plays in background)
<br>
(T, in background, wearing a plaid jacket and matching
bowtie)Live, almost, in his room, it's "Straight
Ass Advice with DaLucky1.The show that gives our emailers
advice straight from the 's mouth, our resident
"psycho"analyst, DaLucky1.
<br>
Now here's the man who still think the Power Rangers
are real...("They are, ...
2 Comments, 196 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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is he cheating.... 11/22/2005
We do still have sex, just not very often. Says he just into
it lately, says he thinks he is going through a mid life crisis?
Should I believe this, or starting wondering if he is getting
it else where? Guys would really like to hear your opinions
4 Comments, 528 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Thinking of selling body til i catch up on money. 11/21/2005
Money is tight right now with work being slow.I need some
tax free cash for a few weeks and thought about doing a few
guys for some cash.I have done it once before when i did dancing.I
figured bacholer parties would be a good way to make some
Money in one shot.I know many look down on this but it is the
oldest business around.Just tring to figure out a way to
make a lump of cash faster thsn ...
6 Comments, 403 Views,
7 Votes
,0.75 Score
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things that us guys find annoying about women LOL 11/21/2005
1. If your good looking you don't have to remind us every
5 minutes.
2. If you don't like the way we do the laundry then don't
ask us to do it. After all what is the big deal with seperating
whites with bright colors. Same dirt same load LOL
3. This is for women that like fast sex. STOP wearing pants
so tight that it takes a come-along to pull them off.
4. And I'm serious about ...
1 Comments, 121 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Need a little help 11/20/2005
I have a simple question what does it take to get some attenetion
on this web site. I tried to have a detailed profile and I
even became a gold member but I still dont get any responses
can any one help.
2 Comments, 169 Views,
0 Votes
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What to do? 11/20/2005
We are a couple that has been together for 2 years. We recently
started swinging and the question has come up about having
the s/o ex-gf/bf be the extra female /male in the mix. What
do other people feel about this? I myself am not sure what
I think about this.
1 Comments, 259 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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College; ivy or ashes your choice! 11/20/2005
Hey, keep it down, I'm
trying to study.These are the words that should "echo"
the halls of
higher education, instead, some post high
high school individuals tend to view
otherwise and the halls of higher
education "echo" the words, LETS PARTY!
College is not the place to
experience failure, there are far better
places to learn that life lesson.
0 Comments, 120 Views,
0 Votes
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HOW TO SHAVE PUSSY 11/20/2005
First things first. Ladies if you have never been shaved
before
you are in for a real treat. I love having someone else shave
my pussy
for me. I find the shave itself very erotic and I really love
the end
result.
<br>
If the hair on your pussy is really thick and long, then the
best
place to start is with the scissors or an electric beard
trimmer. Take
off as much of ...
0 Comments, 144 Views,
0 Votes
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What do you think? 11/17/2005
I have read in magazine articles about the so called sexual
peaks of men and women.Most of the articles claim that a
man reaches his sexual peak around the age of 20, while a
woman doesn't reach hers until her mid-30's.
I find myself agreeing with this.Honestly, though I believe
it works out just fine this way. Now that my husband is older,
I get a lot more foreplay than I did when we were ...
1 Comments, 266 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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what is wrong with me? 11/16/2005
i seem incabaple of making the right decisions when talking
to girls in real life, I'm now 20 years old a virgin,
only kissed a few girls, and i feel like shit.
<br>
i'm not a bad guy, im considerate, nice, i go out and
drink, im not unnatractive but no ones ever interested.
<br>
i sign on this website and i hit up even the most sexually
otugoing women here and no one ...
5 Comments, 508 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What do you think? 11/15/2005
Ok we just moved down to Tampa and my girlfriend is in the
middle of job hunting. She's in the medicle field and
although she has alot of experience in the field...there
is so much redtape to go through for each interview she goes
on. And she has been applying everywhere, but waiting around
for all the background checks ect. just lets the bills pile
up even higher. So heres my ...
2 Comments, 245 Views,
0 Votes
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Lessons Learned 11/15/2005
Learned lessons---
<br>
I've learned that you cannot make a person love you.
All you can do
is stalk them & hope they panic & give up.
<br>
I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people
are just
assholes.
<br>
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust,
and it only
takes, suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.
<br>
I've learned ...
0 Comments, 452 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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I want to see a black man FUCK my wife. I think? 11/14/2005
Lately I have had a fantasy about seeing my very sexy wife
get fucked by a nice size black cock. I also have been wanting
to see her with 2 or more guys at once. I love her very much.
sometime we are very cheesy and very loving. But thinking
of her getting fucked by a nice hard black cock turns me on
some much. Is something worng with me.
7 Comments, 1051 Views,
12 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Help, I need some advice 11/14/2005
Hi all, and thanks for taking the time to read this.
I have been married to a great woman for a little over 5 years,
we get along great, we have alot in common, and yes I do love
her, however one thing that we don't have in common
is our degrees of sexuality. I have always had a pretty high
sex drive and had some great sexual experiences before
marriage. Unfortunately my wife does ...
2 Comments, 506 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Is it wrong to just want sex? 11/14/2005
I've just recently gotten out of an abusive relationship,
moved to the other side of the country (and back to the us
from canada) and started a new life. I like sex. I want to
have sex. I don't want to seek out a commitment. I don't
want a serious relationship but if one happens I wouldn't
turn it down. Now my question; is it worng to only want sex?
How honest should I be when I meet ...
7 Comments, 688 Views,
13 Votes
,4.15 Score
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red wings 11/13/2005
so how many people have done it or have had it done to them
eat or be eaten at that time of the month and how was it to give
or recieve
2 Comments, 669 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Just when I was haveing fun,Love bites me ! 11/13/2005
Yes , right so it goes.when your not lookin to fall in love
it sneaks up behiend you and !!!!!! Dam !!!! though theres
a problem . shes attached So I get what I asked for ...some
fun , now and then .but I feel like it could be so much more
.Maybe thats just because I cant have it all though ! What
do you think? I think she lights up my life , makes me smile
, has a great attitude, not to ...
0 Comments, 560 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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what to do? 11/11/2005
What do you do if your wife or husband doesn't want to
swing, or add a third to the equation? I've tried just
fantasizing that her dildo was another guy going deep inside
her, or masterbating thinking about it....but it just
doesn't cut it! I want the real thing and I can't
get her even remotely excited about trying it. The last
time we seriously disscussed bringing a friend of mine ...
2 Comments, 1265 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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The Magic of Latex Gloves: I WISH I HAD KNOWN BEFORE! 11/11/2005
I read an advice article on here about latex gloves and tantra
massage. I began to learn more about tantra and did it my
own way....without the gloves. What a mistake!
Recently, I came met a woman on here who indicated she had
already found her playmate and did not want to meet other
men. When she read about my tantra skills, she contacted
me.
We ...
4 Comments, 7543 Views,
198 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Are alot of these profiles...Fake? 11/10/2005
It seems to me there are a ton of fake profiles on here
2 Comments, 297 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Straight Ass advice by DaLucky1 11/9/2005
Okay, let's see who's in the box this week...
<br>
J.H. from Philly writes...(mumbles)..nude photo included...oh..OH!!!
How in the hell did she do that with the snake and the bottle???
<br>
( T, save that email, and put her on speed dial...damn if
I don't hit that..)
<br>
Okay, next letter comes from Virginia...C.S. writes, "You
damn fool..."(chuckling, thank ...
2 Comments, 187 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Nice men/bitches. Do i be a bitch? 11/8/2005
Could someone please tell me why women, who dont treat men
with the respect they deserve, keep them???????
<br>
I have known quite a few people who are in relationships
and treat their men like dirt. one example, an old mate,
does nothing at all in the house, (its one of those mates
you go to and you make your own coffee because they cant be
bothered), spends all her blokes money ...
3 Comments, 336 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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What's the deal? 11/8/2005
Why do I keep getting emails from Swapfinder.com about new matches yet
when I log in they are never online or at least not in chat?
1 Comments, 139 Views,
1 Votes
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Reaching Her: A Lesson in Male/Female Relations 11/7/2005
Men and women are alike and different sexually. We are alike
in that we both has sexual needs and fantasies. Each want
to experience a sexual high better than before, whether
with someone or in self-pleasing fantasy conjured by the
mind. Yes, I say the mind. Afterall, sex is not as physcial
has we believe but more mental. This leads me to my second
point of being different.
<br> ...
1 Comments, 125 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Anal Taboo 11/7/2005
My partner is very close to me, but i havent ever talked about
anal sex with her. I have the feeling from passing comments
that the social stigma that it is bad and disgusting is engrained.
However she is the sought of woman that is sexually experimental
in other ways so i think if it werent for her misconceptions
she would be willing to try it hopefully enjoy it (I wouldnt
want to do it ...
1 Comments, 120 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Bump in the night... 11/6/2005
Early before dawn,
Late after dusk,
Something's going on
Seems like in a rush...
<br>
People go behind closed doors,
Empty rooms, or dark alleyways...
And they make magic,
in their own little special way...
<br>
The time is usually right
About 2 or 3 in the morn,
That's where "The Booty Call"
Is the norm...
<br>
They can do it quick,
Or take their ...
0 Comments, 90 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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MISTAKES MADE BY MAN IN BED 11/6/2005
MISTAKES OF MAN IN BED
<br>
<br>
1) NOT KISSING FIRST.
Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous
zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour
and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out
non essentials. A properly passionate kiss is the ultimate
form of foreplay.
<br>
2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR.
Admit it, some at school ...
2 Comments, 256 Views,
10 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Shaving 11/5/2005
I use a razor to shave my cock and balls. I was wondering if
anyone knows of something that I could us so I don't
have to shave all the time.
Thanks
3 Comments, 341 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why people "LIE"... 11/3/2005
HMMM... WHY DO PEOPLE LIE??? tHAT'S A QUESTION THAT
FOR AGES WAS ALWAYS SWEPT UNDER THE RUG.. NOW, DON'T
GET ME WRONG, THERE ARE A SELECT FEW(RARE QUANTITY)WHO
ACTUALLYTELL THE TRUTH... HOWEVER, FOR THE OTHER 99.7%OF
THE POPULATION, WE LIE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
<br>
THINK ABOUT IT...WE LIE ON OUR TAXES, WE LIE TO OUR SPOUSES, WE
LIE TO OUR BOSSES, WE LIE TO OUR PARTNER OR ...
1 Comments, 81 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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dose size matter 11/2/2005
can any lady tell me if size matter realy matter if the guy
know how to use his tool the right way
3 Comments, 289 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Hot Older Women.................................. 11/2/2005
Lately, I'm more attracted to older women. There is
something very erotic about women in their forties and
fifties, but do they have much of a sex drive?
<br>
~P~
10 Comments, 337 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Why don't Kiwi women dress more sexy? 10/31/2005
I know we are a socioty of jeans and tee shirts, but why won't
women dress up in nice skirts, high heals and sexy pantyhose
any more. I get verry turned on when a woman makes the effort
to be sexy and seductive, any ideas?
2 Comments, 69 Views,
0 Votes
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HELP PLEASE 10/30/2005
Ok here goes I have been a member of Swapfinder.com for
about 2 years now, when I first started out I was a standard
member looking for a male, and I found that male but we have
a long distance relationship from time to time he come to
where I’m at, then I became a silver member looking for a
female to put some spice in my life and to fulfill my fantasy
of being with a woman I ...
1 Comments, 102 Views,
0 Votes
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Men: How to get laid on Swapfinder.com if you are having trouble 10/30/2005
I have seen a lot of articles and blogs from men on here complaining
about getting laid. I recommend the following?
<br>
1. Write blogs and articles. Demonstrate intelligence
and passion.
<br>
2. Show respect for the women you contact on here. Most do
not like one liners and give me some pussy lines.
<br>
3. If you are not having luck with women, try ...
6 Comments, 315 Views,
14 Votes
,5.70 Score
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first time swingers 10/29/2005
Okay things you really need to think about and talk about
with your partner BEFORe you go too far. first off.. IT'S
JUST SEX!!!! no feeling there not going to loose your partner.
It is hard the first time to see your partner with another
person. but just remember it is just sex. Another thing
talk about rules. like for us we have the no cumming in her
mouth unless she says so rule. ...
0 Comments, 86 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Finding first bi experience 10/27/2005
I'm a married male who wants to find another male (prefferably
married) who wants the same. I find lots of guys here with
the same interest but after contact none seem serious.
Does anyone really exist who wants to try this?
2 Comments, 235 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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what is up? 10/26/2005
Why doesn't anyone ever seem to actually want to hook
up?
0 Comments, 135 Views,
0 Votes
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Nice Guys Should Read 10/26/2005
Hi,
<br>
I have been observing guys in the last 10 years.
<br>
I have a strong feeling that nice guys dont seem to understand
why they get used and then damped quickly claiming later
that they should have got a better treatment and why women
dont find nice guys attractive.
<br>
I can come up with these guidelines:
<br>
1., Dont beleive in fairy tales. ...
6 Comments, 882 Views,
33 Votes
,5.90 Score
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What Do Women Prefer Standard Condem Or Spirled 10/25/2005
I'm am wondering which condem women prefer best. Is
it the standard condem or the ribbed ones or even the spirl
(twisted tip).
0 Comments, 222 Views,
0 Votes
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Am I tooo old fashioned??? 10/25/2005
There's a cutle little lady at a local convenience
store very near to my residence. In sooooooo many ways,
she's exactly what I've been looking for. She's
attractive and flirts with me ALL OF THE TIME!! She's
very cute, funny and a joy to be around. BUT, SHE'S MARRIED.
I like her a lot and sometimes picture myself with her because
I believe that she wants to be with me(for what ever ...
6 Comments, 162 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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how to use a condom 10/23/2005
Here's How:
1. Take a condom out of the wrapper carefully; do not rip
it, do not use your teeth, do not use a knife or scissors.
<br>
2. Take out the condom and put it on as soon as there is an erection.
<br>
3. Always handle the condom with care, if it tears it is useless.
<br>
4. Cup the condom between your fingers to put some lubricant
or spericide ...
1 Comments, 487 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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What do you think? 10/19/2005
My wife and I have been looking to meet and potentially hook
up with couples but have not had too much luck. She wants
to have her fantasy but not until we have been with another
couple. How many of you out there have had trouble meeting
your first couple and what should we expect? We are both
ready to and willing to take the next step in this lifestyle.
Is there something that we are ...
2 Comments, 184 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Should SHE be pissed? 10/19/2005
I recently posted an article entitled, "Should I
be Pissed, " that expressed dismay over the fact
that, if she were single, my wife would have, "given
it all, " pussy, ass, swallowing, whatever he wanted,
for a, "one night stand, " with a particularly
attractive dude that she recently met at a conference.
That really bugged me because, although she loves to get
fucked and do the things ...
3 Comments, 665 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Can someone figure this out 10/18/2005
I have been asked by a dear friend of mine.To see if someone
can help him with this.This friend of mine is married but
has been separated from his wife for 7 years and has nothing
to do with her.But his wife will not sign the divorce papers.But
him and his girlfriend is very happy together.He wants
to know if anyone can figure this out.This is a dream of his
in his words:
<br>
...
2 Comments, 465 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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