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Talking through it. 8/24/2015
A common issue I have chatting people here is that they vanish
while chatting due to nerves or cold feet. Why is it people
can't just admit that they are processing a decision
and extend a polite communication saying they are having
doubts, need time to decide, or something to that effect.
I think it would be a good general etiquette and would help
with a lot of conversations that go sour. I ...
6 Comments, 55 Views,
18 Votes
,1.49 Score |
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skinny men have small dicks?????? 7/26/2015
so my one question is why do almost all women think skinny
guys have small dicks
13 Comments, 99 Views,
20 Votes
,3.00 Score |
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Honesty 7/8/2015
Always be honest.
2 Comments, 26 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score |
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ending an affair 6/18/2015
to construct a good relationship, we should cherish commutation
. when a relationship no longer keep half , Then try to forget
to start a better relationship . That will help you reduce
more sad and facile
4 Comments, 62 Views,
23 Votes
,4.18 Score |
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First time taking a shot in the mouth 6/3/2015
I had been divorced but a short time when I received a phone
call from a married guy I did not know. He had been told, by
a mutual friend, about me being divorced. He asked if I might
be interested in joining him and his wife for a drink at a
lounge in a local hotel. I had been down in spirit for a few
weeks so I thought , why not?
I met up with them, Carol and Jim, within a few ...
5 Comments, 238 Views,
21 Votes
,5.97 Score |
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Love donot have a langauge its only respect n pertiant to each other 5/4/2015
I prefered to be myself all the time and in relationship
i used to create same romance n fun notic sex is not about
building relationship u need to commenucate to each other
whille both u making love on bed oh anywayand believed
me been a pornstar its a way for experriencing same pain
heart broken in other hands meet difference pussy n bigpenis
smolle ect to be happy rebond with ur partner ...
5 Comments, 32 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score |
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signs she wants you to kiss her? 5/1/2015
signs she wants you to kiss her?
it might be easiest if the person replying commented on
the circumstances where/when signs might show up, and
a guy should be alert for it.
7 Comments, 71 Views,
20 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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15 Signs You’re With the Woman You Should Marry 4/20/2015
1. She cares how your friends are doing. She knows all your
friends by name and is genuinely invested in whether or
not your roommate Kate gets together with that guy she likes
because they would be so cute together and she wants her
to be happy.
2. You can go on trips together and not fight constantly.
If you can survive being in a nightmare spa resort full of
screaming , no clean ...
3 Comments, 132 Views,
38 Votes
,5.06 Score |
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Dont be creepy 3/24/2015
dont be creepy, very simple
11 Comments, 109 Views,
53 Votes
,5.71 Score |
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i never know how to start a message 3/16/2015
any ideas?
13 Comments, 135 Views,
55 Votes
,4.21 Score |
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It's a part 3/10/2015
It is one thing to be a part of something and another to be
a part of some one
4 Comments, 52 Views,
25 Votes
,4.24 Score |
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When it rains 3/7/2015
If it looks like rain and showers like rain it must be rain.
So go out and have sex in the rain
8 Comments, 60 Views,
28 Votes
,3.45 Score |
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Open and Honest 3/3/2015
Ok, everybody ready? I'm about to give you the magic
answer to expanding your swinging in an ethical way. Get
ready, don't be shocked.
Be open and honest!
Now that you've got over the shock and amazement at
how I managed to find this oh so elusive and obscure answer,
lets all stop being dumb asses and actually live by what
we purport to want. Openness and Honesty.
...
8 Comments, 93 Views,
22 Votes
,5.89 Score |
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Cock and Vigina with perfict fit 3/1/2015
Honesty is the key for the best chance for a ever lasting
relationship.Example If she asked you to invite a woman
over so she could play with her you would be honest and tell
her what you would feel. If you loved her you would feel you
would want her to be happy.
5 Comments, 110 Views,
43 Votes
,4.22 Score |
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Can best friends ever be more? 2/23/2015
I have gone through this many times. You fall for your best
friend. It is easily done, she is close and you have that
bond. But two times its gone wrong. I am still best friends
with them, but a major blow after liking one, and falling
for the other for many years! It feels like that could never
be
8 Comments, 107 Views,
31 Votes
,4.10 Score |
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How to build a great little relationship 2/12/2015
In building a relationship here many people don't
know how to get things rolling. They'll either send
the wrong picture or make the wrong comment also tend to
travel in packs with many other inquiries. After they strike
out they tend to move on with the same approach without adjusting
anything. The purpose of this article is to suggest some
alternatives that might improve your results. ...
14 Comments, 182 Views,
64 Votes
,7.10 Score |
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It takes two to tango 2/8/2015
In my perspective, forming a relationship requires two
people with roughly the similar goals. Then trust, respect
and being honest with one another are the additional ingredients
to make the relationship prosper. Having the same or similar
tastes for having fun, doing things and wanting to see things
are also part of that equation to help that relationship
motor along. But one needs to have an ...
4 Comments, 56 Views,
18 Votes
,4.22 Score |
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More than just a sub 2/7/2015
I got very close to a female submissive some years ago. Our
relationship was not only sud /daddy but also friends.
WE managed to keep them both intertwined but also separate.
The lines demarcating our roles were never blurred. We
each knew what our roles were. Even now we are no longer close to each other because of distance,
we still keep in contact. We have both helped each other in tragic ...
4 Comments, 62 Views,
20 Votes
,4.15 Score |
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relationship 2/4/2015
can you find somebody on here and build a relationship
4 Comments, 46 Views,
21 Votes
,3.74 Score |
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What is LOVE? 1/22/2015
I have been hurt a lot and at times i never know what real love
is or how it feels or what to come of it so i always thought
to myself that i will never find love or anybody that will
love me for me and not use or take me for granted mostly to
not judge me by my looks or my weight as for me i only judge
by personality, the way you make me laugh, how well you treat
me, how well we both communicate ...
3 Comments, 36 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score |
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Express yourself 1/19/2015
Even couples sharing the same zip code frequently have
trouble telling each other how they feel. So imagine how
much harder it is for lovers who can't use the power
of touch to stay connected. Dr. Gary Chapman, author of
The Five Love Languages for Singles, says, "It's
important to figure out how to make your long-distance
partner feel cherished. This can be done with words. For
example, 'If I ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
15 Votes
,4.51 Score |
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how to build a relationship 1/19/2015
is trust the easy way to build a relastionship
4 Comments, 19 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score |
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for ever 1/15/2015
for ever is a relationship that two people go out on a date
as time go by you learn that this person is you're soul
partner but at the same time you know him or her is you're
best friend so if you feel angry about that person because
him or her did some thing you didn't like do not scream
or say bad word just talk about it and work it out that how
a relationship work's.
1 Comments, 48 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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wanting more 1/11/2015
I want a relationship with a certain person but frankly
it scares the shit outta me. I have always been the one men
want to fuck not the one they want a relationship with. I
have fallen in love and have noticed over time that this
man I am in love with I am backing away from and putting a lot
of distance between us. Does he want a relationship with
me I dont think so does he care about me YES . ...
1 Comments, 64 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score |
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New Year resolutions 12/30/2014
Dear all , share your new year resolutions ...
2 Comments, 19 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score |
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Communication 12/30/2014
Communication is a two way street. That means person A talks
and person B listens. Then person B might ask person A a question
about what he just heard.
Then after those words are spoken, the conversation should
change to person B talking and person A listening.
Communication should be back and forth like a seesaw! It
should not be one sided where one person does all the ...
9 Comments, 63 Views,
20 Votes
,6.32 Score |
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Number 1 reason 12/28/2014
Does anyone have an opinion as to why most mean cheat?
2 Comments, 32 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score |
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How to know sooner than later if he's into you! I have the formula to save you time and anxiety! 12/28/2014
How many times have you questioned does he like me or doesn't
he, and justified any reason to think he doesn't and
over dramatize the tiny things that may make you think he
is into you!! (this goes for you guys as well.)
all you have to do is pay attention to the obvious which sometimes
stings a bit! his body language will tell you everything
if you don't believe or need evidence of ...
15 Comments, 170 Views,
31 Votes
,6.12 Score |
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Another points article. 12/21/2014
Just posting an "article" again for some points.
Feel free to disregard
2 Comments, 23 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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what does it take? 12/18/2014
what does it take to have a good relationship. Great sex,
a open mind, understanding, romance... the truth all of
the above. Relationships take work hard work. Stop walking
around saying I hate my relationship or I am jealous of another
couples stats. Look you get back what you put into it. if
the relationship is one-sided be it cheating. you can't
expect your partner to be as experience as you. ...
2 Comments, 74 Views,
19 Votes
,3.39 Score |
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what does it take? 12/18/2014
what does it take to have a good relationship. Great sex,
a open mind, understanding, romance... the truth all of
the above. Relationships take work hard work. Stop walking
around saying I hate my relationship or I am jealous of another
couples stats. Look you get back what you put into it. if
the relationship is one-sided be it cheating. you can't
expect your partner to be as experience as you. ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score |
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friends 12/17/2014
do you think in order to build a relationship you should
talk a while before your first date to see what you have in
common?
6 Comments, 68 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score |
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top 12/17/2014
An anticipated console hurts. The relief concerns the
cream against a grateful epic. Into the maximum narrative
dictates a foul consultant. The coarse forecast whistles
past the recursive plaster. An anticipated console hurts. The relief concerns the
cream against a grateful epic. Into the maximum narrative
dictates a foul consultant. The coarse forecast whistles
past the recursive plaster. An ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score |
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Why 12/17/2014
Why is it so hard, all I ever meet are women who want to make
me over instead of excepting who I am
2 Comments, 21 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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Best way 12/15/2014
Let's ask everyone what the best way is
1 Comments, 26 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score |
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The way to a relationship- Guys perspective 12/7/2014
The way to a relationship is simple for me. My take from time
spent on this earth is to spend time with the person doing
something fun. This includes having sex. I follow the 3
rules I heard from a writer that concept of hang out, have
fun, and hook up.
Over time the women fall in love and boom there is a relationship
1 Comments, 31 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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“The Life of a Single Nice Guy” 12/4/2014
“The Life of a Single Nice Guy”
I am going to start off with this; not all women are like this.
I shall not put every woman into the same category and it’s
disrespectful if I did so. Throughout history it is know that the basic mind set of
a woman is…”They want the nice guy”. They want a guy
who’ll treat them respect, loyalty, romance, and yes
the ultimate true love. ...
4 Comments, 123 Views,
15 Votes
,4.05 Score |
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new in this lifestyle 12/1/2014
Any suggestions to people with no experience, specially
about safety, deceases, rough people etc
2 Comments, 52 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score |
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Building a relationship 11/30/2014
We played with a couple that were nudists and they were very
quick to get naked and seemed very comfortable being naked
but them sure were not comfortable having sex. When we asked
if there was anything wrong they said no. They also said
that being nudist had nothing to do with sex it was more an
expression of being free. How can being naked not have anything
to do with sex?
4 Comments, 57 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score |
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Poem I wrote about relationships. 11/30/2014
We all long to be with the one Before it begins it’s already done We often let in our past We tell ourselves it’ll never last We tell others that we don’t like the games We end up calling each other names We lose ourselves in the moment And forget who they fell in love with at that moment We want to love another If you don’t love yourself why even bother Do you remember when When all the ...
2 Comments, 52 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score |
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Am I being selfish 11/29/2014
When you sacrifice something you've always wanted
because it’s not what your husband wants. Being totally
selfless for your marriage’s sake is a sure path to resentment.
You’ve watched opportunities come and go, sometimes
without considering your dreams. Right? You don’t convince
yourself you don’t need certain things, be they ,
even if the husband said he doesn’t want any, or seeing ...
5 Comments, 85 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score |
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Orgasms 11/29/2014
How do you achieve your most intense orgasms? Oral, penetration, toy
play, or hand manipulation.
1 Comments, 50 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score |
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Female friend 11/27/2014
I'm interested in a girl on my course but she keeps distancing
me whilst telling me she thinks I'm attractive, what
do I do?
7 Comments, 65 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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Does this work. 11/27/2014
We were talking to a few couples about what makes you successful
on here and it seemed that most felt if was the pics and profile
being done well were the keys. We haven't posted a new
pic in 5 years and never completed our profile but have had
lots of meetings we trade pics on request with people that
email us. We think that most people that complain about
the site not working is because they ...
2 Comments, 53 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score |
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When meeting others 11/18/2014
We have found that when we meet with single men, they tend
to be shy about any touching or expressing what they truly
want and desire. The guys that we love to play with are the guys who are not
afraid of saying what is on their minds, taking direct action,
and following the rules. Our advice is guys find out the rules before you meet, if
the couple is into same room only then don't try stuff ...
3 Comments, 157 Views,
23 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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building a relationship 11/18/2014
the old adage "you can can catch more flies with sugar
than with vinegar" is true to this day, always be kind
and considerate of others as long as you can. If they attack
first a come back may be called for but normally these people
have deep seated problems not to be righted on this site.
Simply walk softly and speak kindly, always think before
you speak, engage brain before mouth.
3 Comments, 56 Views,
13 Votes
,4.49 Score |
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Hard to find 11/15/2014
Is it just me or is it really hard to find good genuine people
on this site? I have spent a couple of days on Swapfinder.com but it seems
there is no one. I mean people are commenting on blogs and
articles but you dont see them anywhere else, why?
8 Comments, 105 Views,
12 Votes
,3.68 Score |
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SEX SEX SEX 11/15/2014
Sex and good comfortable wild crazy sex is the key to building
any strong relationship
6 Comments, 45 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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Too far 11/15/2014
Is there a point in the relationship with another couple
you're swinging with that you've gotten too close?
(we're not talking about getting their mail delivered
to us)
5 Comments, 38 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score |
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Raise 11/13/2014
Would you fuck your boss for a raise in pay?
5 Comments, 56 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score |
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Healthy Relationship 11/13/2014
How would you build a healthy mutual understanding off
sex relationship?
4 Comments, 40 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score |
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first article yet 11/12/2014
hello everyone my names kyle im writing this article to
introduce myself to the community. im hoping to find webcam relationships as well as local,
and hoping to gain some sex experience im currently single
and straight. thanks for checking me out throw me a comment
if your interested in exchanging info
0 Comments, 20 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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Trust 11/8/2014
Do you usually trust what people tell you on here or do you
question everything someone says?
9 Comments, 59 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score |
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What's with that? 11/7/2014
We met a couple and ended up at their house after a few drinks.
They showed us around their house then took us to what we
thought was a guest bedroom only to find what appeared to
be a medieval torture chamber. They called it their playroom.
We excused ourselves and left. Would you have stayed?
10 Comments, 65 Views,
16 Votes
,4.45 Score |
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another shake my head guy moment 11/6/2014
good morning, hope you day goes well.
This isn't a rant or anything, just a wonder why post.
I have been talking to a guy for a lil over a month now. I usually
don't chat that long on line, but we clicked and I liked
him, and was willing to. Anyway, we were supposed to meet,
and you guessed it, it didn't happen for a reason on
his part.
Since then, he has quit chatting. ...
5 Comments, 92 Views,
17 Votes
,4.96 Score |
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Want sex? 11/5/2014
Try not being so rude and crude and try to send a message that
doesn't seem like it came from a three year old.
9 Comments, 72 Views,
21 Votes
,4.36 Score |
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only 1 11/4/2014
How many of you would be happy with just one hook up on here?
6 Comments, 51 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score |
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come on ladies 11/3/2014
I know i am only a standard member but i would like to say this
. I am as polite as i can be in my intros and alot of times i am
looking for conversations because i am bored . why is it
so hard just to say hello ? if i say hi then even a general hello
how are you would be nice . Standard members now only get
20 times a day on IM to say hello . if i use one of those to say
hello to you its because ...
4 Comments, 56 Views,
11 Votes
,1.86 Score |
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Dating 11/2/2014
When you meet couple this site do you try to build an actually
relationship with them?
5 Comments, 53 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score |
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looking for older women 10/31/2014
any older females looking for a young stud?
5 Comments, 40 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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first timer 10/28/2014
hi iam asking thios so it can help me out.Iam very much into
trannies and I was wondering where is the best place to find
myself a very beautiful lady is it on this site or do I need
to go some place else I really wont to meet a lady...help
me please....
3 Comments, 56 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score |
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When to play 10/26/2014
Do you play on the first date or do you wait to see if there's
a chance of building a friendship first?
15 Comments, 102 Views,
20 Votes
,6.19 Score |
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Having sex on first meeting 10/24/2014
Is it a trap or a just being so lucky.? Chat up this woman on
Instant Messenger and asked her what she likes and then
she said she like it rough BDSM style. Moments later she
show me her pics and before I knew it we agreed on date, time
and place t o meet. But she asked me to make sure that she will
have the best sex in her life and whether I have done it with
a BBW before. Of course I have, my ...
9 Comments, 260 Views,
28 Votes
,1.19 Score |
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LTR Fact or Fiction? 10/16/2014
It seems like there are so few people on here wanting a LTR.
Is everyone here just out for a one night stand or are there
any looking for more.
13 Comments, 145 Views,
27 Votes
,5.77 Score |
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Long term Couple friends hip 10/12/2014
Pls let me know your views onlong term friend ship with a
male like me as a family memeber and supporter both emotionally
as wella s financially
regards thanks
3 Comments, 61 Views,
15 Votes
,0.07 Score |
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out of the closet 9/25/2014
Hello everybody out there I am Sexxy sweet hott tee and this
is my first time on a dating site that has the same kind of people
as me That share the same sexual interest as me and I'm going
to need Some help I've always considered myself to be bisexual
even th Though I enjoy sex with gay men much more than I do with women
I also enjoy privately wearing aexy lingerie andenj Enjoying myself ...
4 Comments, 79 Views,
18 Votes
,4.35 Score |
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essentail oil massage 9/20/2014
give a girl a hard massage with oils mixed with a base oil
like lavander or lyang lyang dark or something with a sensitivity
rating under 3 or use a LOT of base oil 1 drop will make 20 bars
of soap so be conservitive its a sure thing that combined
with basic acupressure books from the library you will
give multi O's with just your hands on her back good
luck
1 Comments, 50 Views,
21 Votes
,2.14 Score |
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essentail oil massage 9/20/2014
get some essentail oils preferably lavander it has like
50 healing propertys from the health food issle or a health
food store get some olive oil mix 9 parts olive oil to 1 part
oil stretch your hands out and practice moving only the
tips its ok if you cant when you got it start massaging with
pressure and applying extra pressure with the tips curved.
roll the sholder forward and start on the ...
1 Comments, 34 Views,
13 Votes
,2.64 Score |
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Organic 9/11/2014
In my view, the best relationships grow continually. You
certainly have good times and some challenges but continual
growth brings beauty and connectivity. Also, people are
too controlling overall in relationships.
3 Comments, 49 Views,
17 Votes
,4.68 Score |
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foundation 9/4/2014
Building relationship r hard expecially wen d partna is
complicated in a good healtyh relationship there must
b trust respect understanding consideration now one party
does say dey being neglected some instances it could b true
d other d person just wrking hard and ain't have time
to n spend it's complicated u just have to come to agreement
and make time and build a foundation
3 Comments, 78 Views,
28 Votes
,3.75 Score |
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Building a Relationship 8/28/2014
When building a relationship alot of people ask themselfs
"What is the most important thing for a healthy relationship?"
Well, Trust and loyalty and honesty and the most important
things to create a healthy relationship, What do you think?
tell us about it
16 Comments, 137 Views,
27 Votes
,4.71 Score |
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Communication is KEY, but you have to actually communicate 8/28/2014
Flirting is great, but it takes actual honest conversation
to make lasting relationships. Too often it seems as though
people forget that and that is how potential relationships
fall apart before they begin.
4 Comments, 77 Views,
27 Votes
,5.34 Score |
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Is it Possible to Be Faithful to one Person? 8/20/2014
The issue of fidelity is more than just a Christian concept
that has been around thousands of years. In an age of sexual
disease and the real threat of someone passing on a death
giving disease that slowly saps your life away, it is something
to be considered?
And for those of us who say they are not ever going to be a "one
woman man", what is our responsibility to practice
safe sex? Is ...
4 Comments, 61 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score |
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It should only take a few times together 8/14/2014
oh you will know after being together after a few times ..
The desire will be there and the passion too.. If were attracted
to each other sex is instant and often.. Working on pleasing
one another the best we can and learning what one enjoys..
5 Comments, 73 Views,
15 Votes
,1.14 Score |
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Self facial 8/13/2014
Latly I have been giving myself self facials and I love it
cum taste really good I literally cum in my own mouth everyday
now and I recommend it
0 Comments, 19 Views,
1 Votes
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Unconditional 8/1/2014
Unconditional love. Talking bout the stuff that don’t
wear off, it don’t fade. It’ll last for all these crazy
days, these crazy nights. Whether you wrong or you right,
I’ma still love you, still feel you, still there for you.
No matter what, you will always be in my heart with unconditional
love.
2 Comments, 52 Views,
20 Votes
,4.78 Score |
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Sharing and Forgivenes 8/1/2014
Love is living your own life, but sharing it. It’s forgiveness.
It’s making a million mistakes and turning them into
learning experiences. Love is patience, optimism, and
sometimes it’s a kiss when there is nothing left to say.
2 Comments, 42 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score |
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Paino 8/1/2014
Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play
by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from
your heart.
4 Comments, 26 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score |
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Looking 8/1/2014
Love is not just looking at each other, it’s looking in
the same direction too.
2 Comments, 25 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score |
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Headlights 8/1/2014
Love is like driving a car at night. You never see further
than your headlights, but you can make the whole trip that
way.
2 Comments, 31 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score |
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Love is 8/1/2014
Love is not guaranteed and can’t be defined, its what
you perceive it to be. It may be right or it may be wrong. But
life is about finding that out yourself.
1 Comments, 23 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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What's in a good relationship? 7/28/2014
I think that most can agree, that the first thing a good relationship
needs is a healthy mutual respect. If you cannot respect
the one you are with, you are doomed to fail before you ever
get started. It takes mutual respect for any other feelings
to grow, and if you are under the impression that this is
not the case, you are very sadly mistaken. This might explain
why some of those people ...
9 Comments, 68 Views,
17 Votes
,4.82 Score |
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Tips to build relationhsip 7/23/2014
A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports
in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of
your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your
connections with others. However, if the relationship
isn't working, it can also be a tremendous drain. Relationships
are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get
back. These tips can help keep a healthy ...
6 Comments, 74 Views,
17 Votes
,4.26 Score |
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Really...You have got to be kidding me!!! 7/19/2014
I can not stand ignorant people, men or women who ask, do
or say the dumbest things I have ever heard in my life. Let
me give you some examples of the unintelligence nonsense
(BULLSHIT) I have experience this week.
Why would you look at my profile, not read it and then decide
to contact me and the first words in your email are "I
see you like big black cocks". I get this dumbass ass ...
6 Comments, 122 Views,
35 Votes
,5.18 Score |
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How to avoid a relationship? 7/9/2014
A lot of this site is about casual sex. But you may also meet
people outside Swapfinder.com that you want to get into a no-strings/friends
with benefits arrangement with.
How do you ensure it stays that way?
I want to know about any tips, tricks, techniques apart
from "talking about it regularly"
6 Comments, 108 Views,
21 Votes
,3.13 Score |
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how to impress a girl 7/2/2014
please share ur views and experiences and ur valuable comments
on this that how to propose a girl and have a good relationship
with her as well as how to maintain it for a long time , ,...
thanx in advance guyz ..
4 Comments, 40 Views,
12 Votes
,1.21 Score |
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Why most people are ignoring me as a potential "date"? 6/30/2014
Why most of the people are ignoring me as their potential
"date"? That question is still in my head. I can't understand
why is that so many people on this site asking in their profiles
for discreet relationships, chatting or even nsa's
and when I'm trying to be polite (most of the time I'm
not too straight to don't be "bad" person)
all of women are just ignoring my mails or my invitations? ...
4 Comments, 65 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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Need workers on set this week!! This could be your Future! 6/29/2014
Tues-Th (July 1-3) we are paying $650 x 2days (3 girls needed)/
You are staying free at Roosevelt Hotel H-Wood. All Comp'd
by Hustlers Mag. *THIS is not PORN/FILM if wanting to do film i need a RESUME,
if you dont have background in this I can help link you in
the right direction! Photoshoots range from $500-$2500,
and Films start at $2500(softcore) and I have clientes
now pulling $100, 000 per ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score |
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Should we try first MFM? 6/28/2014
Love, sex and marriage. Oh, what a tricky dangerous business
it can become. Ask yourself first before a threesome, what
are your goals. Where do you want this to go, how far?, how
often and with what restraint, etc. Once it starts can you
control it? You two need a conversation. Can you live with
the decision? What if the third party can't be shaken
off so easily? What if they are lonely, or ...
11 Comments, 190 Views,
20 Votes
,5.81 Score |
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[color blue] How do I get my husband the best threesome?[/color] 6/28/2014
I would like to know what are some ways I can give my husband
the best threesome
Where should I start off finding us the right
person to join us in a threesome, we have been searching
online also chat lines but still no luck. I feel having a threesome is fun, exciting, a
good experience with my husband we have had a few but they
were not good ...
0 Comments, 46 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score |
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How to build relationship 6/27/2014
1. Use relationships to teach you how to be whole within.
Relationships aren’t about having another person complete
you, but coming to the relationship whole and sharing your
life interdependently. By letting go of the romantic ideal
of merging and becoming “one, ” you learn as Rainer
Maria Rilke says, to love the distances in relationship
as much as the togetherness.
2. ...
3 Comments, 46 Views,
16 Votes
,5.04 Score |
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START ON SOLID GROUND 6/27/2014
1 OPEN UP TO LOVE You may be thinking you have this one nailed down already
– you're already in love, we know that, but are you
open to being loved? Being open to love doesn't just
mean having fun with your new man and enjoying every minute
you spend with him. You also have to be vulnerable and share
parts of yourself you may not be used to putting front and
center. Being part of a healthy, ...
2 Comments, 33 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score |
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Want to girl 6/24/2014
so sexy girl to soon............
0 Comments, 13 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score |
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Now is the Time 6/24/2014
Girl, you and I have been friend for a long time. We have even
been naked together, eating your pussy for hours. We do
continue to be friend and we can and do talk about everything
openly, and shared fantasies. But time is overdue to bring
out the real me and you. But now I want you. I want to show you the treatment you need. You need to be bent
over my knees, your panties below your ankles ...
2 Comments, 52 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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It Is What It Is But What Is It?? 6/5/2014
I Love Me Some Me, But Only When I'm With Someone, Yet I Make Sure I Am Always Alone, So I Put Myself Out There To Try, Try Again, And When I Find That "Right" Person Again That
Makes Me Wanna Say, "You Complete Me" I Run For The Hills As Fast As I Can Again and Again and (*Sigh*
*GasP*) Oh Well, I guess It Is What It Is, BUT.. What Is It???
5 Comments, 61 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score |
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When? 6/5/2014
When is it right to make love to a girl you've been dating
for a while?
7 Comments, 67 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score |
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girl want 6/1/2014
guys girls need a power full man and full rowdy too sex .....
ust fuck fuck and fuck
3 Comments, 60 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score |
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straight men like trannts 2 5/28/2014
hello im vinnie 37 and i like trannys im from fall river ma
and im hoping to meet a tranny or a shemale shortly, well
i hope this works, contact me if you live closeby thanks
V
7 Comments, 130 Views,
25 Votes
,4.24 Score |
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when building a relationship 5/21/2014
At my age, I find myself more geared towards wanting to settle
down. Is it uncommon to be sacred? I don't want to know
everything, but does that make it hard to trust someone?
4 Comments, 37 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score |
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important thinks in a relationship 5/20/2014
What is the most important thing in building a relationship??
trust, love, happiness....?
4 Comments, 38 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score |
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Fucking - Power 5/20/2014
Indian housewives are not aware of the power of Sex i.e.Fucking.Specially
those who are still attached with tradition.Irrespective
to their husbands choice and demands they never fulfill
the sex desires of their husband.After 50+ they say that
now there is no place of sex. Now, turn yourself towards
religion etc.It is very painful for those who had never
extended their sexual relationship with ...
2 Comments, 74 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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Distance relationship 5/20/2014
Hi all, I am wondering what most of you think about distance
relationship.
Well I am young guy and I hear a lot of people saying distance
relationships are very difficult.. do you agree?
2 Comments, 35 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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What do ladies like? 5/18/2014
Hi, What i'm asking and want to know about is that first
contact to impress a lady? Ladies and guys alike can comment,
but what do you find can break the ice or stand up and make
you take notice girls? and guys what have you found successful
to get some interest? I'm curious to see how people
get on and make it on here )
6 Comments, 44 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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Relations between strangers 5/14/2014
Daaúma what my dream is to find a partner strange sex freely
both of us go astray running after his dream and my dream
to find a partner
1 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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stating the obvious 5/6/2014
If a picture is worth a thousand words, then a song is worth
a thousand stories.
4 Comments, 37 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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Building an online relationship 4/24/2014
Building an online relationship, seems easy enough, but
it sin't. it takes effort, time and care, there's
lasting online relationships and short term ones, which
ever one you're looking to create should be built on
trust and honesty on both sides. Both should always be upfront
with what they like and want, what they don't like and
want and where do they want this to go. Sounds simple, but
it ...
2 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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confusing sex with love....mutual respect 4/21/2014
Human beings crave intimacy, need to love and be loved.
Yet people have much trouble doing so. and a lot of us confused sex with love I know I have many times..
all the time I know I have done it so many times like attraction... I USED
to get that confused with love....and pleasure is pretty
much the same way in my opinion..lol and for sure got to be a mutual respect..you for sure have
to do ...
3 Comments, 69 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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me&my woman 4/17/2014
i found the love of my life here on Swapfinder.com i have never been more
satisfide and in turn i will love her more sooooo for those
who dont believe u cant meet the right one u r wrong
3 Comments, 73 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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Does online dating work for Poly? 4/16/2014
Over the years we both dated on line before we met. She being
bisexual and a submissive made us a great match. While we
thought the hunt for our match would be fairly easy, we are
finding it to be more difficult than we anticipated.As
we browse through the profiles of prospective matches
we often agree on our findings, yet we read about all the
disenchantment of others who have made this quest ...
2 Comments, 48 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score |
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Love? 4/11/2014
Has anyone had lucky finding love on this site? Cannot seem
to shake the people looking for something small
6 Comments, 69 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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build-sustain-relationships 4/4/2014
Where relationships are concerned, face value is usually
without value. Often people will ask a different question
than the one they really want answered.
A colleague might ask you whether he should teach a class
at a local college; what he really wants to talk about is
how to take his life in a different direction.
A partner might ask how you felt about the idea he presented ...
1 Comments, 31 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score |
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Hard to say fail 3/26/2014
What do you do when you know you moved to fast, but it's
been too long and you're in deep? How do you take steps
back without letting go?
6 Comments, 71 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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how to build relationship 3/21/2014
Here are some tips for getting your relationships off the
ground. Some of these ideas we learned in the first grade
but, as adults, we sometimes forget.
1 Build relationships one at a time. Fortunately or unfortunately,
there are no short cuts. Sending out a newsletter helps
you keep in touch with lots of folks, but it's no substitute
for getting to know a real person. 2 Be ...
1 Comments, 12 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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I'd rather... 3/17/2014
..lose some face and admit it when I've been stupid
than stubbornly assure myself I'm right at the cost
of hurting the woman who has trusted me, then go swill beverages
that can Swiss cheese my liver at some boisterous, loud
place where I'll be welcome long as my monetary resources
last.
1 Comments, 40 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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Couple w/Bi wife both want female playmates. 3/16/2014
Happily married and secure couple would like to find like
minded women. Wife is looking around for resources, and
would love some advice. There have to be women in our area
that we can hit it off with and vice versa. Women with the
same wants and needs as we have. Hot crazy sex. Want it, need
it. lol Any advice would be appreciated. Wife is painfully
shy and anxious to get this going.
2 Comments, 48 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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Married Men 3/1/2014
Hello and I welcome the Married Men who come to Swapfinder.com that are
truthful Gentlemen that has the permission to step out
and seek his pleasures that allows him to stay planted in
marriage.
I have had the pleasure of this type. These Men on Swapfinder.com are
some the most passionate, affectionate, erogenous type.
They are number one and gifted in the types of pleasures
in the Women they seek. I love ...
7 Comments, 110 Views,
18 Votes
,4.08 Score |
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Things u need 3/1/2014
U need a lot of energy, dedication and the will to change
urself for ur partner. U must be in tune mentally and physically
and responsibility needs to be split.
3 Comments, 41 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score |
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relationships 2/18/2014
There are a lot of fun exciting things to do on this site but
I think building a relationship is quiet difficult.I would
think most people are to busy having fun on this site they
really don;t want to build a relationship.It's like
being a in a candy store lots of choices want to try them
all but not one favorite.I wonder what the percentage of
relationships to actually members have a ...
1 Comments, 51 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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Good friends 2/5/2014
Over the years I have met and become friends with a few people
on here. It isn't all about sex you know.
6 Comments, 60 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Building a Relationship with a Bi-Couple 2/2/2014
I've been very fortunate to have met and become fantastic
friends with 8-9 of the greatest couples on earth.
It all started when I responded to my first ad from a bi-couple
in search of a bi-male in my age group.
I responded, sent them the photos they required then me
met for drinks the following Friday night.
Charles stood about 6'2" was well built and had
been a star ...
4 Comments, 197 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score |
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Finding The Perfect Person For You 1/27/2014
Originally posted at my blog: Finding The Perfect Person For You
Do What You Love
I told my friend that.
He was freaking out at 27 because he was a math teacher in
the making and he didn't have a girlfriend. So I told
him, forget about finding a person, just do what you love!
He said, somewhat frantically, "I don't know
what I love." ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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How to Build Your Relationship With A New Husband And Keep Your Old Swinging Partners 1/23/2014
When Danny and I got married I withheld one thing from him:
the fact that I was a swinger and I liked to swing with m/f
couples.
About three months after our marriage and during a Saturday
afternoon romp in the hay we began playing out fantasies.
I told my husband mine: To swing solo with a male/female
couple that nothing in the world turned me on more than licking
another ...
5 Comments, 224 Views,
18 Votes
,4.49 Score |
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One for the females 1/21/2014
what do all you females want from us guys. would love to hear
your thoughts
6 Comments, 103 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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How to get the girl back 1/21/2014
how do I I get the girl back when I have been asked to do so much
that she has asked of me and when I tell her what i have done
she wont talk. What do i do?
3 Comments, 58 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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Why is it your partner wants a 3 some wth another guy and me 1/21/2014
Well what can i say I girl wanted to fuck this another guy
see only just meet, and well she want me there with her at
the same time. I allowed her this as i could see it would make
her happy, after we started she feel for this guy and the
next day she wanted to leave and be with him. Trouble is he
didnt want her and he told her so many times to piss off. she
still left me and yet says we still ...
2 Comments, 42 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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I need help 1/12/2014
I have found some girl here, but i dont have enough points.
If u can, pls vote this article (as good or better), so i can
get some points, and start chat with her, for start
2 Comments, 35 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score |
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trust outright 1/8/2014
when we can hide behind online profiles we can tailor to
portray us any way we see fit, how are we to base a real life
relationship with something that isnt real?
0 Comments, 31 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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What to do 1/1/2014
What to do
0 Comments, 12 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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what do you ladies want? 12/25/2013
so ladies what do you want to see and a profile how could a
man pick you up on here. just to have some fun. and please
dont lie by saying being polite and telling the truth
2 Comments, 60 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score |
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WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN REALLY WANT SEXUALLY? 12/5/2013
I've been around the block a few times and had my share
of women but what do women really want sexually? Is it just
a good pussy eating, licking and sucking with a side of great
fucking? Or is it a freak/nympho that is willing to please
and pleasure a women by any means necessary. Or is it being
kissed, licked sucked and played with to completion...
Or Is it ass licking, finger sucking, nipple ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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Honesty, Trust, Communication? 10/22/2013
It needs a few things, honest, trust, communication. Which
one do you think is the most important if you have to chose
1?
3 Comments, 14 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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Where the Love go? 10/20/2013
Now of days, its hard to build a relationship, especially
a long lasting one. There's a lot of Respect, Honesty,
Trust and Love that goes into a relationship.
"You can gain my Respect with your Honesty and
Trust that my Love will never fade"
How can we move on when you keep lying to me? Where were you? Who was you with? Why are you doing this?
If you ...
3 Comments, 48 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score |
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Where the Love go? 10/20/2013
Now of days, its hard to build a relationship, especially
a long lasting one. There's a lot of Respect, Honesty,
Trust and Love that goes into a relationship.
"You can gain my Respect with your Honesty and
Trust that my Love will never fade"
How can we move on when you keep lying to me? Where were you? Who was you with? Why are you doing this?
If you ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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not quite shure 10/8/2013
how does one ever open up after bieng smashed very curious
to learn the answer or the way to go about it some say just
do it but i cant just jump ive become affraid of it getting
to serious
3 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
|
hey 9/25/2013
has anyone started any fwb relationship recently?
4 Comments, 57 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score |
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Sexual Intimacy above international boundaries 9/20/2013
Hi ! there all members here! I Feel
proud to introduce one my International female friend
I met here!
Well to protect her Identity and respecting her privacy
I her here by give her a nick name – Sexy White Mischief[/COLOR]
On our mutual understanding herewith I m dedicating this
Article / blog to her boldness and sexy ...
6 Comments, 75 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score |
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Open 9/20/2013
How did you introduce the idea of an open relationship to
a partner?
3 Comments, 63 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score |
|
1 9/4/2013
material for adding points always something to try. got
no choice
0 Comments, 10 Views,
1 Votes
|
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Are people afraid to talk to each other 8/19/2013
Why is flirting so popular, if you are interested enough
to flirt, why not say hi and introduce yourselves.
7 Comments, 51 Views,
12 Votes
,4.21 Score |
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Building a polymory home 8/4/2013
If I ever had to do it over again in college I for sure would
have rented a home near school and invited as many women
to live there as possible, with select buddies. I have a
live in "slut" female partner who wants polymory
as much as I do and would welcome 3 or 4 women to our scene and
one male minimum. There have been SO MANY interested, but
they disappear, in person does not match pics ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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luck on here? 7/28/2013
would like to think that people are forming real relationships
on here as opposed to just one one night stands that they'd
rather forget about. Any experiences to share?
1 Comments, 24 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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love 7/10/2013
love!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
0 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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Safe Sex 7/9/2013
Play Safe!!!!
0 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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Things should be even 7/3/2013
Here is what I don't understand. Most of the time when
you are in a relationship. Things are smooth. For the most
part. But as soon as you take that next step, you see a whole
new side of that person that you didn't know. Seems
like it should be a 50/50 thing. I am guessing that I am probably
just getting involved with the wrong kind of woman, and
they are taking advantage of me. How mean is ...
3 Comments, 33 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score |
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Let's Start With Cyber Sex 6/27/2013
I’d met a woman named Kat on-line on one of the dating sites
and things were progressing nicely. She was intelligent,
upbeat and sounded like a lot of fun but she lived two states
away so meeting was not an immediate option but we were getting
to know each other fairly well. We talked about everything.
Politics, , hobbies and, of course, our relationship
status. We’d both been divorced and ...
4 Comments, 79 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score |
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Relationship and cheating 6/9/2013
So I have a friend in a relationship and is using this site.
He says that as long as his cheating does not affect his relationship,
then it is okay. What I want to know is, do women on here mind
if the man is in a relationship or not?
2 Comments, 30 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score |
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Yeah she was a gold-digger! 6/9/2013
I was dating a girl that had plastic surgery in nine different
areas on her body. She also told me that she had plastic surgery
on her clitoris to make it look fully erect all the time.
I did't even know what was real on her anymore. I had
thoughts that she just wanted me because of my career. Maybe
because she kept asking what was my income incessantly.
Needless to say, we are no longer ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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From nothing to something 5/26/2013
How does a guy build a relationship with a women he has just
met and make it bloom. First of all when you see that gorgeous
woman in line and there is eye contact and a little smile,
there is acceptance and an opening to break the ice and say
anything. I mean in the context of "good morning"
to "you look lovely today". Same with the gals,
guys rarely do not just walk away when a lady says, ...
1 Comments, 70 Views,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score |
|
What important factor are you looking for? 5/16/2013
should sex be one of the main factors in building a relationship?
2 Comments, 32 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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Strong Foundation 4/26/2013
A strong foundation in having a stable and healthy relationship
is by means of developing an ever lasting deeper connection
which cannot easily be broken down. One of the things is
picking out what both partners like and what works for them.
In addition, communication also plays a vital role at all
levels. Meaning, be it in bed, house choirs and anything
else that has to do with aspects of ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score |
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No ground Rules 4/23/2013
I guess building a relationship all depends on who is involved
in any given relationship, they are certainly no ground
rules.
You might find some relationships take longer to be built
than others. For instance, I know someone that got married
within a week of meeting his partner. Some take forever
before they realize that they unto to get married after
dating for years.
0 Comments, 27 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score |
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Love at first site? 3/29/2013
they say that people can fall in love at first sight. personally
i believe that love is acquired overtime when 2 people have
a deep understanding of each other, but i am still very much
open to believing that love can be happen at first site.
anyone else got any opinions?
1 Comments, 39 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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neeed to have a girl for physical relationshp....anyone? 3/28/2013
hello...i am niloy..from dhaka..ami physical relationship
er jonno meye khujtesi...if you are interested to have
enjoyment with me then knock me...amr number ...shunno
ek shat ek choy dui pach dui ek ut pach...or amk msg pathao
ekhane...just reply...ami wait kortesi.
0 Comments, 16 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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need girl.....shunno ek shat ek choy dui pach dui ek ut pach...ei numbr 3/27/2013
for bangladeshi girl....i want to have a physical relationship
with an honest woman who wants to meet me...plz...if any
girl interested to have sex or any typee physical relationship
plz contact with me.....you should be from bangladesh..i
need really..plz contact...shunno ek shat ek choy dui
pach dui ek ut pach...ei number e msg pathayo...jodi keu
chao..ami fake na...ami dhakay thaki.ei bepare ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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Our - Danny's and My - Relationship with Kelly Was Able to Flourish Because There Was No Jealously 3/8/2013
Kelly is a beautiful, beautiful, French girl with a slender,
toned sexy body that most women would kill to have.
She's generous, giving and most of all one of the most
beautiful women I've ever met. Although in her early
40's she looks like a young Courtney Cox.
And, at least with men, she fucks like a rabbit....a very,
very experienced rabbit.
The boys love her because ...
1 Comments, 260 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score |
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How to make your marriage last 2/21/2013
I have been married 20 years now. I believe that
the reason our marriage has lasted so long is because we
always air out all our problems. Big or little if he made
me mad or upset about something I let him know we never keep
anything bottled up inside. Communication is very important
in all relationships my advise to everyone talk about everything.
If you think about something that they ...
3 Comments, 51 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score |
|
anyone falled in love 2/12/2013
this site mainly is streamed towards sex and flings etc.
Has anyone actually fallen in love or relationship from
this site.... that would be awesome to know..
6 Comments, 85 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
|
george well 2/11/2013
1984 George Orwell 1949 Chapter 1 It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking
thirteen. Winston Smith, his chin nuzzled into his breast in an effort to escape
the vile wind, slipped quickly through the glass doors of Victory Mansions, though
not quickly enough to prevent a swirl of gritty dust from entering along with
him. The hallway smelt of boiled cabbage and old rag mats. ...
0 Comments, 166 Views,
0 Votes
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Be patient guys 2/8/2013
You got to build it up slowly with trust. I know guys can sometimes
just want to get in the girls pants asap but with girls its
different you got to make them know you really care. Many
of them have been hurt and also many of them are afraid of
being hurt.
2 Comments, 34 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
|
building a relationship 2/8/2013
relationships can be built on this site they just take time
lol
2 Comments, 31 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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Slow or Fast? 2/5/2013
On Swapfinder.com do you find yourself wanting to work on building the
relationship or just jumping in to it?
1 Comments, 31 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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It took Six Months to Get Katie's Panties Off 2/1/2013
A relationship, like Rome, aren't built in a day.
It takes several meetings, several dates, many times months
or even years to win someone or that every special someone
over.
I know. I tried. And I've been successful in most of
my efforts.
Katie, my next door neighbor, was probably the hardest
nut to crack. She liked me, she called me all the time, she
brought me ...
2 Comments, 252 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score |
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Needing Solid Advice 1/20/2013
Can someone out there please give me your solid, no bullshit
kind of advice for a real situation. I've been dating
this lady for almost a year now. She is the type of woman that
is not ready for a solid relationship as of yet. As she puts
it, "I want my cake and eat it to." Which I totally
understand. She does however, claim to have feelings for
me and to care strongly for me, but she is not ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
1 Votes
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Relationship 1/15/2013
What actually people looking here .... is it sexual relationship,
love, fun r crime( i have seen some of post where people seeking
partners for sexual crimes)
1 Comments, 29 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score |
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Buy the gift for that special person in your life 1/11/2013
Hello Swapfinder.com members ! I would like to make a suggestion to those traveling couples,
or if you are at the start of a new relationship seeking a
great surprise gift I have the best tours and river cruse
with dinner and wine to enjoy for every body. I own a tourism business and fishing guide service operating
from Portland Oregon area & Alaska. I am sure many enjoy the outdoors and have dreamed of ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score |
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Boyfriend / Girlfriend 1/11/2013
I was fortunate to meet a pretty married woman on Swapfinder.com a few
years ago. She was Chinese and had such a wonderful sense
of humor and a true love for sex. When I met her, I just knew
that it would be fun between us. Well, I enjoyed our girlfriend
/ boyfriend relationship over a year and a half. All things
must end and our lives took unexpected turns and so it ended.
I would very much enjoy finding ...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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Hard Work 1/10/2013
A new relationship is hard work. There was a two day period
right around Christmas where MsKitty and I were not sure
we were going to make it. I take that back. We both questioned
if we had done the right thing.
Us being together has caused others who we care for a fair
amount of angst. While we did not want to see these people
suffer, we both needed to move on from where we were to ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Can You Change Your Lover 12/23/2012
A lot of people find themselves wondering if they can change
their lover. If you are a person that wants to try to change
your lover you will need to figure out what you need to change
and if it is something that can actually be changed. You
can change a person’s sexual techniques but you cannot
and should not ever try to change the way a person is personality
wise.
Changing ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score |
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whats next 12/17/2012
after talking do most people just meet and have sex or have
dinner and drinks first?
1 Comments, 24 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score |
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CAR KEYS 12/10/2012
Several days ago as I left a meeting at a hotel; I desperately
gave myself a personal TSA pat down. I was looking for my
keys. They were not in my pockets. A quick search in the meeting
room revealed nothing. Suddenly I realized I must have left them in the car. Frantically,
I headed for the parking lot..
My husband has scolded me many times for leaving the keys
in the ignition. My ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score |
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Talking 11/30/2012
The best way to build a strong relationship is communication
and trust. But I believe everything stems from talking
because that helps with all problems.
1 Comments, 19 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score |
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can it happen here or is it a crock??? 11/24/2012
Building a relationship on Swapfinder.com. I am not gonna say it is a
total crock of shit because I have built a bunch of great
relationships throughout my time on here. People I have
known since before my marriage and are still froends with
and will be long after.being on this site is all in what you
make it really. Not tryin to make things too complicated
makes the ride much smoother. No i dont get to ...
4 Comments, 75 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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How to strat from scratch 11/24/2012
what is the starting point of any relationship? how to take
the same forward.
0 Comments, 25 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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Foundations are key!! 11/22/2012
The foundation of a relationship is the most important
after trust...
Spending time together and building great memories is
a great way to establish a great foundation.
0 Comments, 15 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score |
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good relationship 11/21/2012
i am single , , i went cpl.... with sex .good relationship
2 Comments, 34 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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want to build a relation 11/6/2012
i am a fun lover.like sex very much.so i want to build a relationship
in this site.
0 Comments, 26 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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Building a Relationship 10/28/2012
Building positive workplace relationships is vital for
career success. Relationships can positively or negatively
affect your satisfaction with the job, your ability to
advance and gain recognition for your achievements. When
you build positive relationships, you feel more comfortable
with your interactions and less intimidated by others.
You feel a closer bond to the people you spend the ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score |
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relation 10/27/2012
Building a realtion is very easy but hard at the same time
because you cant fall in love with everybody because everybody
dont love each other equally..
0 Comments, 23 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score |
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It takes two and a strong constitution 10/25/2012
I have always had problems being in a relationship as I alternate
between being very caring and being selfish., It's
just who I am I can care about others for months at a time and
then one day I've had enough and I'm the only one
I care about. Being as I am this way i find it surprising that
I have been in my current relationship for 6 years and am
getting married soon. It's a lot of work but I ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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being together 10/25/2012
we are finding it hard when a young girl arrives at the door
knowing hes goin to fuck her like he fucked me years ago .
yea i love it to but how do we stay together when hes looking
others .
1 Comments, 83 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score |
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This is how 10/19/2012
Give them man a good blow job.
2 Comments, 17 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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building up 9/23/2012
building up is nver easy just stay as it is
0 Comments, 24 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score |
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SAFE SEX 9/18/2012
hi im a loving and caring person..i want to find some friends
and new mates that is willing to have fun with me..lols..i
love listening some music, watching movies, playing
psp games, dress with fashion and have sex with the man
that is willing to love me...i hate old position in sex.
i want to explore new style in bed..i also love DOGS and of
course there STYLE, ,lol.. so if your interested ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
0 Votes
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Love or Sex only. 9/13/2012
After one month seeing or meeting each other...what do
you feel?..love or lust only.
1 Comments, 14 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score |
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Dating a TS 9/11/2012
From the point of view of the TS/TV/CD etc. You are women at heart correct? Is it a natural desire to
be treated in the same manner or is there a different way
of thinking from the previous experience as the other sex?
2 Comments, 49 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score |
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Be Honest 9/3/2012
1.Understand dishonesty 2. Confess 3. Think honestly 4. Practice being honest on the simple things 5. intelligence training 6. Finding a balance between full disclosure and privacy
7. Remember that to be honest is not easy
1 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score |
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How long?? 9/1/2012
If you meet or see someone on here that you like, how long
will you pursue them until you get a date?
1 Comments, 82 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score |
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Exrta Option 8/25/2012
I recently contacted a member after reading on her profile
that she was into erotic chat. She was quick to inform me
that she was only interested in a relationship. For such
a good looking girl you can imagine my disappointment.
The reason her profile said erotic chat was because that
is the only option other that actual sex. I propose the addition
of another option for relationships so that ...
2 Comments, 73 Views,
16 Votes
,2.69 Score |
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building it up 8/22/2012
well to be firm is to be careful with what you do
1 Comments, 25 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score |
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Secrets or no? 8/22/2012
If your girlfriend asks you how much sex you had before getting
together, and the amont is more than what you wish to tell
her, is it okay to DOWNPLAY it? As in, is it okay to lie about
the number?
5 Comments, 66 Views,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score |
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Ex 8/22/2012
What do you do if your girlfriends ex won't leave her
alone, and she asks you NOT to call the cops on his ass? I mean,
the guy used to be close with your girl, but now he's
an ass who pops up from time to time. He's almost like
a stalker, but your girlfriend claims she can handle it
on her own. What do you do? Listen to her or call the cops on
the ex?
3 Comments, 47 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score |
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relationship 8/19/2012
relationships are made for two ppl that are perfect fits
for each other. even if sex is great with two ppl but nothing
else is shared in common is it worth keeping around?
1 Comments, 34 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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Trust 8/14/2012
How important is trust on a scale from one to ten because
some people dont really find it to be an important value.
They say its all about sex. Please give me your thoughts
and opinions
10 Comments, 116 Views,
29 Votes
,3.74 Score |
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Rekindling an Old Flame—or Not 8/14/2012
In the film "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, "
two strangers meet on a beach. Drawn to each other, they
spend the evening together and by the end of the night Clementine
declares: "I'm going to marry you Joel, I know
it." The two are former lovers who had their memories
erased after a painful breakup. Free from the baggage of
their old relationship, the former couple begins dating
again, ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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women,honesty,trust,and discretion 7/23/2012
so this profile is evidence of how hard it has been to hook
up with women on here. For the record I have met three women on here and they all
were Disaster Dating Days (DDD) So I got to thinking, what would I happen if I were to meet
a woman on here? Then she would know all my deepest darkest
desires. (DDD) It seems like it would take a very special woman but at least
I would start out with ...
3 Comments, 96 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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hi 7/4/2012
i need a woman for fun i live in greece
2 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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waiting? 7/3/2012
if you want a relationship with someone that isnt all physical,
then what is customary wait time before you jump in bed with
this person. I know everyone is different and i would like
to see other peoples ideas
3 Comments, 49 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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Swinging is a serious business to me 6/27/2012
When accidentally I was introduced to swinging world,
I understood that I am one of those man who cant have sex for
the sake of sex. My first 3some was with my old friend and
his wife so the bounding was there already and the same continued
till date. When I met others, my prime concern was always
to know them well beforehand and have some line of communication
for a longer relationship and ...
2 Comments, 82 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score |
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Relationships Shouldn't Be About Sex. . . REALLY? 6/15/2012
I remember growing up hearing that relationships are not
about sex. Although I tried my best, I could never reconcile
this with the reality that I lived. The reason I had issues
with this notion was due to the fact that most relationships
that I had known, had broken up because either someone had
sex outside the relationship or someone was not getting
enough of it within the relationship. So ...
1 Comments, 66 Views,
8 Votes
,1.62 Score |
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Exploring Boundries...a Matter of Trust. 6/15/2012
There is a level of trust implied in any exploration of boundries
that we endeavor with a partner. There are many who may take
these things for granted, but for me, there is no greater
gift that I can give to a sexual partner than to show him that
I trust him enough to want to really let go, and release my
inhibitions. And there is no greater gift that a partner
can give to me than to accept and ...
5 Comments, 112 Views,
24 Votes
,5.74 Score |
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RELATIONSHIP LABELS 6/12/2012
i personally don't believe that labeling a situation
is so important.i just feel if you care for each other, your
actions will dictate that.also that you will naturally
gravitate into a serious situation with one another.when
u love and care, you naturally wanna spend more time.it'll
happen trust me.not because i said i'm you're
boyfriend, or vice versa.believe me saying that shit don't
stop ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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HOW IMPORTANT ????? 5/30/2012
RELATIONSHIP = RELATION+SHIP IT IS THE SHIP OF RELATIONS THAT SAILS A LONG WAY IN THE LIFE
OF EVERY PERSON THE MORE PEOPLE YOU CAN ADD INTO IT , THE
MORE RELATIONS YOU WILL ADD TO YOUR SHIP OF LIFE . THESE RELATIONS WILL HELP YOU TO SAIL YOUR SHIP OF LIFE IN
A BALANCED WAY..
0 Comments, 21 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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its not hard! 5/26/2012
i know it can seem like a slog trying to find a sex partner,
never mind a life time. but i have to say that a lot of time
its out of your control. sometimes you just got to accept
its out of your hand and that fate will find who you want for
you?
0 Comments, 19 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score |
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Dress to impress - and success 5/19/2012
For many years it was not just the un-dressing that was part
of our great married sex-life, but my wife would let me dress
her. Obviously before we open a can of worms on dress-sense and
taste and what women really like to wear - as opposed to what
we want... We would strike a compromise and it would usually be sexy
to an extent, what she wanted to wear that day and usually
very feminine. We ...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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The key ingredient 5/14/2012
Sex is the spice of in and every relationship. Without great
sexual chemistry the sexual tention alone wont allow the
relationship 2 work
5 Comments, 54 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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How do you do it? 5/12/2012
I've been trying everything I know and still I never
find anything that lasts! Whats the secret?
0 Comments, 9 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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crazy 5/7/2012
dont date a crazy girl
2 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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gone wrong 5/7/2012
she threw up in my lap
1 Comments, 30 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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young 5/6/2012
i just need pointx
1 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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well, it's the hard part 5/3/2012
The key success of building a solid relationship is listening
and stop acting like a the man is the man and the lady has to know her place! otherwise, the relationship gets sloppy imo
1 Comments, 29 Views,
5 Votes
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what is required the most.... 4/25/2012
In building a good relationship with someone requires
these things.... * Build. Build a foundation of appreciation and respect.
Focus on all the considerate things your partner says and
does. Happy couples make a point of noticing even small
opportunities to say "thank you" to their partner,
rather than focusing on mistakes their partner has made.
* Explore. Explore each other's ...
2 Comments, 48 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score |
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building 4/24/2012
what should be the first step!!
0 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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gotta have 4/14/2012
gotta have communication , you cant be afraid to share things
with each other like fantasies, Trust and never stop having
fun together dont let things become dull
0 Comments, 7 Views,
0 Votes
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Swapfinder.com relationship?? 4/11/2012
would any of you ever consider building a serious relationship
with someone u met here? or on any similar site? could or
would ya trust em?
1 Comments, 24 Views,
0 Votes
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abandon all "SHIPS" 4/11/2012
i think all words that end with ship should be approached
with caution. relationships, as well as friendships.
in some cases they're one and the same, but too often
they just don't work out. i hate to sound so negative
about it, but personally i think it' s a waste of time.
from what i've experienced, seen, and been told we
try to force these life long relationships. knowing the
possibilites of ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
0 Votes
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why bbc is the best alternative of white girls 4/5/2012
100% of white girls prefer big black cock, because the
feeling is amaizing...
2 Comments, 181 Views,
11 Votes
,1.11 Score |
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the big lie 3/10/2012
Friends before lovers ! No No No. Friends can become lovers,
but it is not a prerequisite. More often than not, one person
never intended on being just friends. They were looking
for sex all along. This is how the sex ruins the friendship.
If you were really friends, having sex or not haaving sex
will not harm the friendship.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
0 Votes
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"Give & Take" 3/1/2012
It has been said by men and women about and abroad that love
does run deeper more than there better half may feel for
the other. Unfortunately "Love" is used so
loosely that most will never seek out what true rewards
await when you display that affection on a common ground.
By confiding in each is own, riding out those love storms,
or simply ...
2 Comments, 34 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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Do You Cry At The Drop Of A Hat? 3/1/2012
I'm one of those people. I even cry during cartoons.
You know what I mean, not at the stupidity like the coyote
& bird cartoons where he gets smashed with an anvil
& she just says "beep beep." But, those
episodes where it relates to something in life, especially
something endearing.
Another example would be when my youngest grandchild (two
years old now) said "thank you gamma" when I ...
2 Comments, 39 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score |
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What to do? 2/26/2012
hi, longtime member first time writer so dont let me have
it to hard. hope im writing this is the right spot.
Ok, this is the situation im in. I have been with the girl
of my dreams for almost 5 years now. Recently in the last
few months she got a new friend. Before i ever met him she
stayed out all night, from like 10pm at night till 3pm the
next day, listening to music. Which is ...
3 Comments, 74 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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setting up meetings 2/18/2012
having been a standard member on and off here for several
years and having actually met several women on here at various
locations to start out with, I have gotten a lot of flakes
on here that either like to flirt online and then will no
show me in public for 1st meeting or will actually go and
meet and then then flake out after that. I am writing to see
about others experiences if the same or ...
2 Comments, 43 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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needy 1/30/2012
I need to find a date for the big V Day
2 Comments, 47 Views,
10 Votes
,1.00 Score |
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Single girl to date bi couple? 1/29/2012
We have been searching for a single BI girl to date us? Anyone
have any solid clues on the best place to search BESIDES
here?
4 Comments, 91 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score |
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How to get more out of what I have 1/28/2012
I really want more out of the relationship I have. I'm
asked Daily for my hand in Marriage, but it is so hard for
me to say let's do it. If things were like they were before
we added to the picture, and how different we think
on how to raise them. I would have said I do a long time ago.
I do love him, but have such a hard time excepting what I go
through on any given day from his . I try not to ...
2 Comments, 69 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score |
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Trust :) 1/27/2012
Most of u men don't even know what this is, and never
will!!! I on the other hand failed miserably!!! Fuck if
only women spelt it out for us, it would be a piece of cake!!!!!!!!!!!!
2 Comments, 83 Views,
11 Votes
,1.86 Score |
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How to begin an online relationship 1/26/2012
Im sure a lot of people just jump straight to the sex but how
much of a dating situation is there when youre basically
both after the same thing?
1 Comments, 51 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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awesome big dick sex 1/21/2012
im in a new inda sorta relationship ive always had issues
taking big dicks well my boo thang has a very long like ten
to elevin inches and has the perfet girth and because im
so into him his dick easily gets in to me again and again and
i really cant seem to get enough sex so this is y t is important
for me to find a bad bitch any way im earning my lat poiints
here so i can ...
5 Comments, 171 Views,
15 Votes
,2.37 Score |
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Do We Ever Outgrow The Lectures? 1/20/2012
Recently, I wrote an article about "just fishing."
An article about the relationship between a parent and
a during those instructional, informative years.
I dwelt on the positive. Today comes a little negativity.
So I will apologize upfront. But, sometimes you just have
to vent. And, what easier format than venting to total strangers
who won't run & tell my Pops what I said about him?
...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score |
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My first affair 1/15/2012
My wife was out of town so I decided to go out to dinner with
an old friend. Her and I used to work together. Though I always
thought her attractive I never made a move on her.
I picked her up at her place and we headed to a nice place to
eat. The conversation was great and I found out she just
got divorced. Thought I wished a bit that I wished I had a
chance with her, I was happily ...
5 Comments, 188 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score |
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What is needed? 1/2/2012
Is it possible to ONLY have a sexual partnership with a woman
without being in a committed relationship with that person?
If so, what would be the requirements? If not, why not?
6 Comments, 87 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score |
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Divorce Recovery 12/29/2011
How long should you wait after a divorce before diving back
into the dating pool?
2 Comments, 88 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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success 12/27/2011
has to be on honesty and a nice set of tits
0 Comments, 14 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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Have you ever been "Just Fishing?" 12/16/2011
As I begin this trip down memory lane, let me advise you that
I will be quoting two individuals.
When I was a I had an evil step-mother. From the age
of 7 I began to learn the responsibilities of a mother. I
learned to cook, clean, do the laundry, mending, ironing,
as well as caring for her & eventually the
that she took in for extra money. And you know she
didn't give me any of the ...
4 Comments, 127 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score |
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STRONG RELATIONSHIP 11/30/2011
What do u is the key to a strong relationship?
3 Comments, 58 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score |
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Interreligious 10/26/2011
Do you find there are problems when two people serious about
religion, but of different religions, date?
1 Comments, 22 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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What is a relationship ? 10/19/2011
I honestly dont think most people know what a relationship
is. Some consider it a one night stand, others something
more meaningful. But, what ever it is, it needs to be right
for the individuals participating.
0 Comments, 68 Views,
16 Votes
,3.13 Score |
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Respect is the key !!!!!! 10/18/2011
Too often I hear people, male and female, say that they dont
get any respect on these sites. So, my question to them is
do you give respect to someone else. Yes, we are going to
encounter the non-responder, the fuck you bitch didnt
want you anyway and that I do not agree with. If you do not
wish to chat or meet or share pics or whatever with someone,
that is your right to do so. Too often males ...
2 Comments, 45 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score |
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Communication 10/18/2011
What builds a relationship on this or any other site ? Do
we just say something to another person that we think they
want to hear or is it something we truly believe in and live
by? To me, we have to be honest and coomunicate what we need,
want and expect to that other person.
3 Comments, 57 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score |
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chances 10/15/2011
i hate when a girl cuts you down and wont give you a chance
or wont say anything to you it hurts and all s yyou need is
a chance to prove yourself and btw i like mixed and blk girls
some whites i wanna see wat you girls write thanks and message
me
3 Comments, 83 Views,
11 Votes
,1.48 Score |
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so hard 9/20/2011
I love her, and she loves me. But the situation will not allow
it and so we broke up. Anyone else dealt with this before?
0 Comments, 36 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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10 Easy Flirt Tips 9/5/2011
1. Choose Your Targets You don't have to have a crush on someone in order to
flirt. Practice flirting with random people you see every
day - people who might not even be on your dating radar - on
order to hone your skills. That way, you'll have some
flirting experience under your belt when you approach
the people who really matter.
2. Have an Opening Line Find a reason to talk to the ...
2 Comments, 171 Views,
29 Votes
,5.95 Score |
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is it viable 9/1/2011
Does it really make sense to date
6 Comments, 150 Views,
25 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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Rellay 9/1/2011
How soon can it be done ?
0 Comments, 62 Views,
6 Votes
,1.09 Score |
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Mid to longer term relationship on here? 8/30/2011
Has anyone successfully had one?
1 Comments, 22 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Starting out 8/28/2011
The beginning of every relationship is a little odd. Depending
where you are emotional with determine where you physically,
but how early is to early to have sex in the relationship?
Some wait months others Happen before the relationship
even starts. What is your public opinion?
1 Comments, 35 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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Looking for realationship. 8/24/2011
I am currently looking for a girl that knows what true love
is, and that can give me true love. I dont want a girl to just
tell me they love me unless they truly mean it. If I fall in
love with you and I tell you that I love you, IF you dont love
me back then DONT tell me you love me. Be honest and straight
forward with me and be like "I am sorry but I dont think
we have known each other long ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
6 Votes
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Success of Adult Dating? 8/21/2011
Just a general Q for a newbie - how successful in general
do you find Swapfinder.com in getting hookups?
2 Comments, 32 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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try new thing 8/17/2011
try things u havent even eating new food new places to visit
and changing up sexual side
0 Comments, 19 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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trust 8/13/2011
hi building a relationship is on both people trusting each
other, and been fully honest about there lives.
2 Comments, 63 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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getting there 8/12/2011
What i need is some self assurance from my partner, show
me how
0 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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The one way Bi Street 8/4/2011
It kinda sucks, and not in a good way like I do. Got a problem with "Bi Girls are Bi and Bi guys are closeted
gay". A real problem. Wondering what to do to help create discussion to HELP CHANGE
THE PERCEPTION.
Just because I am sexual and like it all ways, though I will
admit, women are easier on the eyes and nose in general.
While guys are ready to get busy, now.
Any ideas?
2 Comments, 80 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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Helpping 8/4/2011
To build a strong relationship start as friends. This ensure
that you don't move to fast and to see if you two can even
stand each other. Then take it up a step.
3 Comments, 19 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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online/long distance relationship... 7/25/2011
do you think online/long distance relationship will work.
well its possible for us to see each other monthly and probably
have sex but. its a 3 hours drive to get to her.wat wud u think?
shud i hook up to girls near or go for the online one?
5 Comments, 71 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score |
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Conformity? 7/20/2011
I posted an article a couple days ago titled "compromise."
Someone said something in passing yesterday that made
me step back & do some further thinking. Y'all know me, well. I love the strength & power
in the male physique. I am extremely turned on my muscles.
I would drool over a man's well defined chest, if it
was ladylike. A friend said to me "I've never
had much of a chest." Of course, it ...
1 Comments, 61 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score |
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How to strengthen your relationship and make love last 7/19/2011
What makes a healthy love relationship?
Staying involved with each other. Some relationships
get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating
to each other and working together. While it may seem stable
on the surface, lack of involvement and communication
increases distance. When you need to talk about something
important, the connection and understanding may no longer
be ...
1 Comments, 49 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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How to strengthen your relationship and make love last 7/19/2011
What makes a healthy love relationship?
Staying involved with each other. Some relationships
get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating
to each other and working together. While it may seem stable
on the surface, lack of involvement and communication
increases distance. When you need to talk about something
important, the connection and understanding may no longer
be ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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Compromise? 7/18/2011
I think sometimes the art of compromise is over-rated.
Tell me something. What brings you to the point where you
believe you have to compromise? Is it years of not agreeing
& you've just exhausted yourself to the point
you feel you need to compromise? In my last marriage, for those who know-the abusive one-I
learned to compromise, or what I thought was compromising.
But I've come to realize that ...
1 Comments, 33 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score |
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Relationships are like full time jobs. 7/12/2011
As I've been getting older, I have come to realize that
it appears that society as a whole has changed their views
on most life situations. As this statement pertains to
relationships, it seems that people have generally forgot
that a relationship in a sense is like a full time job. There
are a few very key things that people need to be able to do
in order to keep a relationship going. First, a ...
7 Comments, 109 Views,
16 Votes
,3.27 Score |
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Believe it or not 7/11/2011
You hear people say that men and women are opposing forces
with different wants and needs. In some minute facet, this
maybe true. However I think we are all and one in the same,
simply human.
Apart from the obvious differences we may have, Our innate
drives are all the same. That is the need for food, shelter,
sex, etc. These core values are exactly the same, the difference
is that we ...
4 Comments, 59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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What causes you to really click with someone 6/27/2011
I like a woman with a good personality, sense of humor as
i love to laugh and cut-up.and maturity and shared interest
are important.
0 Comments, 40 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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trust 6/17/2011
building a relationship is based on trust. without trust,
you got nothing. just one lie can turn a relationship into
a nightmare. trust me, i know this for fact. ex lied a lot,
forgave her a lot, that her lying became normal to her, that
she was convinced with her lies. its heartbreaking. dont
lie
6 Comments, 35 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Relationship Secrets 6/17/2011
Whats the secrets to a SOLID relationship?
0 Comments, 34 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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Trust 6/17/2011
A relationship is based on trust. Without trust, you have
no relationship; whether its with a family member or relatives,
your girlfriend or your wife. Usually couples forgive
one another from just one lie, two lies, or even three. But
i learned the real hard way, its better to let that person
go after just one lie. Without trust, it will lead your partner
to stray, lie, cheat, and steal. ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
0 Votes
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The future of meeting people 6/14/2011
My wife still gives me crap about the fact that we met at a
bar. "What kind of example is that for our ?",
she says. After seeing a few commercials on TV from Match
and EHarmony, I suddenly feel like we took the high road.
Thoughts?
0 Comments, 20 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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quest 4 mature 6/11/2011
as a good lookig 25 yr old i mean ho hard can it be to find an
older fem? very hard in my exsperience i mean come on????
alll i want to do is be dominated by an older fem an be her sex
slave il do what you want! ill lick ur pussy for hours sit
on my face wile u watch tv i dont care i just want to please
an older fem please help! xx
3 Comments, 52 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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Your insight 5/31/2011
Best and most successful things that you have done "right"
in your relationships
2 Comments, 32 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score |
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How long 5/31/2011
What the average time that you believe its beyond infatuation
and puppylove nad actually becomes a "relationship"?
0 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
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Swinging and relationships 5/5/2011
Ok like to know some thoughts on the subject of swinging
and open relationships and how it affects your relationship.I'm
single and like to be in a open relationship with a lady but
for you that know how does it affect your relationship with
your wife or girlfriend.
2 Comments, 50 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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Honesty 4/20/2011
Honesty is the foundation on which to build any relationship.
An ability to tolerate the flaws which are inevitable in
us all and recognise that all relationships have their
"downs"....... without them their can be no
"ups". Having the confidence and courage to
say how improvements can be made whilst appreciating the
contributions made by each other which enhancement the
relationship..... yet ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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does anyone know? 4/14/2011
ive always thought i knew how to make a relationship last
but my luck it hasnt happened..wats the main thing for gettin
something like that to work?
4 Comments, 66 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score |
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trust 4/13/2011
the key to build a healthy relationship is trust one another
and be therte side by side
1 Comments, 32 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score |
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its tough 4/13/2011
people dont get it that if your in a relationship and you
want something great to become of it then it takes two and
most people dont try to work together to make anything work
so might as well just stay to just sex.
0 Comments, 12 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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Time to discuss relationship status 4/6/2011
Some partners say no way would I get involved with an attached
or married partner. They consider the idea with a closed
mind and preconceived ideas. As with all matters of lust
and flirtation, sometimes our desires overpower the conscience.
I think it's perfectly considerate to not reveal attached
or married status until you have at least had a playful bit
of banter. I always think you should ...
4 Comments, 61 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score |
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just starting out! 3/18/2011
this is all new and exciting anyone else as excited as me
to embark upon finding a new sexual relationship!It always
more exciting when its new! Do you agree?
5 Comments, 53 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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Staying together for a long time 3/13/2011
Building a relationship thkes a lot of time a`nd effort
resulting in trust. On trust is there then all kinds of fun
can happen ty .
9 Comments, 110 Views,
24 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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MAKING YOUR GF YOUR BEST FRIEND AND LOVER WILL LEAD TO MARRAGE 3/12/2011
IN LIFES PASSING YOU WILL MEET MANY GIRLS SOME YOU WILL LIKE
BUT NOT LOVE, SOME YOU WILL LOVE BUT NOT LIKE, however i found
one i love and like im in heaven ty Lois for everything!
4 Comments, 106 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score |
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Nervous 3/8/2011
Well there's this guy, he seems to be the perfect gentelman
and we have a great time when we are together. Never to mention
the sex is amazing but i'm getting to the point where
i'm getting strong feeling for him and i could see myself
with him. but i'm not sure if he feels the same way. How
should i open this door and tell him how i feel and maybe having
the start of something great.
7 Comments, 187 Views,
21 Votes
,4.49 Score |
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The Genie 3/7/2011
A female peace activist was exploring some caves by the
beach when she stumbled upon a very old antique looking
lamp bottle. The woman picked up the bottle and proceeded
to rub some of the sand off of it. Suddenly, out of nowhere,
a genie appeared from the bottle!
The genie just stared at the woman, and vice versa, until
the shocked woman excitedly spoke:
"Are you a genie?" she ...
1 Comments, 37 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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Woman Wanted .... 3/7/2011
A tall, well-built woman with good sense of humor, who can cook frog legs and who appreciates a good fuc- schia garden, classic music and tal- king without getting too serious.
But please only read lines 1, 3 and 5.
0 Comments, 22 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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relationship tip 3/1/2011
i wanna meet black guys
1 Comments, 52 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score |
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Do you want it or not? 2/11/2011
I recently had it out with my "girlfriend".
She is the one who pushed my sexuality to the edge. I've
always been attracted to women. It's not something
I ever indulged in, but if a woman took her top off on tv or
things were getting hot and heavy in a movie...it wasn't
the thought of the guy's throbbing cock that got me
wet, if you know what I mean. I LOVE dick.
started, lol, that's ...
1 Comments, 133 Views,
14 Votes
,2.50 Score |
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trust 2/3/2011
When building a relationship i've learned to put trust
in front an let it guide you through..Without trust u will
alway have problems with your partner an yourself even
when they are trying their best to get everything from that
relationship......If u want u can do like me an trust but
dont let them know how much u trust bcs it can also be used
as a weakness against u...Trust but not to much an ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score |
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The Art of Touch 1/26/2011
A man and a woman are provided an assortment of paints, a
blank canvas, and they each have a brush. However, they
have no direction as to what to paint, or what colors to use.
The only expectation is that the work will be free-flowing,
effortless, and completely spontaneous. The man begins
by staring blankly at the empty canvas..Creating in his
mind what he wants to see appear before him. He ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score |
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key factor 1/22/2011
the best thing that can help build a relationship is honesty
1 Comments, 86 Views,
13 Votes
,4.32 Score |
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Foundation for the Long Run 1/8/2011
In order for anyone to have a long lasting relationship,
there must be a solid foundation between the two for them
to fall back on. For deeper clarification on what that means,
a couple who have only known each other for a few days before
actually going together has a low chance of succeeding.
On the other hand, a couple who started officially being
together after some time of getting to know ...
1 Comments, 61 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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women 1/7/2011
some times a lady can be difficult when she lives 200 miles
away we like each other but that is afar as it goes
4 Comments, 60 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score |
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is it bad? 1/7/2011
to put all your effort into stealing a girl away from her
fiance? no? or am i just a dickhead?
im really not sure. i think if we are right for each other,
then this is best.
4 Comments, 58 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score |
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new here 12/25/2010
so i'm new here and i want to get to know as many people
as possible. wats the fastest way to get to know lots of chicks
in the shortest time.
4 Comments, 68 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score |
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finding the right woman 12/24/2010
Don't give up on finding the right woman she's
out there or the right man
3 Comments, 93 Views,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score |
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A million ! 12/18/2010
Building a relationship isn't a big thing, it's
a million little things.
...
6 Comments, 75 Views,
16 Votes
,4.45 Score |
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adi_cool 12/15/2010
married women have my cock on her mouth?
2 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
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adi_cool 12/15/2010
married women are satisyed with sex?
0 Comments, 17 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score |
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adi_cool 12/15/2010
any girl like love or sex?
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
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Connect with the one 12/14/2010
You know how things can get so busy sometimes, that not only
do we forget to connect with ourselves, but also forget
to connect with the people we love most? People like our
spouses, our , our parents, our friends. I mean,
we may see them, but we don’t necessarily take time to
connect with them. We often tell ourselves that we can make
it up to them once our busy schedule slows down. Funny ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score |
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The ideal relationship 12/12/2010
Why is it so hard to find that special person that takes your
breath away and is in it for the right reasons.....
We should have more substance than just sex...sex...sex...mind
you I do enjoy sex...there is just more in ife than that....
the ideal guy or girl for most of us
I hope we all agreee...well unless we already have our spouses
and just here to fuck around!!!!!!!!!!! ...
11 Comments, 176 Views,
25 Votes
,4.68 Score |
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Step into the Kitchen 12/4/2010
Here, we will discuss the key ingredients, steps and precaution
to take in order to build the prefect RELATIONSHIP.
WARNING: All ingredients and steps require 50/50 participation.
And, before starting always clean hands, the kitchen and
all utensils. This is a very important because contaminates
can spoil the best efforts. Never assume something is clean.
Take the time and use ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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how to find like minded couples 12/2/2010
We are still clueless bout that. Finding a couple here
is tough. this is our view our means me and my wife. we talk
to so many couples here but not find a single like minded
one. why is it so difficult to find couples here?...
2 Comments, 41 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |