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HELP 11/23/2006
WAT DO U DO TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP??????WHY
0 Comments, 14 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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relationships/dating 11/23/2006
Origional articles/ magazine
0 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
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Should U 11/20/2006
Do u think u should start a relationship with someone based
on the fact that everything is great between you when you
are having or talking about sex?
3 Comments, 75 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Does anyone take the time to get to know their mate, prior to having sex? 11/20/2006
I think it is best to take the time to get to know some one on
line, via e-mail photos, prior to actually giving you 411
out. Filters are only effective to a certain point and then
you need to be safe and use your good judgment and instinct
filters. If it does not feel right, you need to run. I know
that we are all here for passion, but I do believe that it
is better to take it slow and be ...
1 Comments, 67 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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how long do you wait before u have sex 11/19/2006
When does waiting for sex turn from not rushing to this is
not going to happen.
5 Comments, 127 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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help 11/13/2006
i need help?
0 Comments, 20 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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an old gf 11/7/2006
back when i was in high school i had dated this really fine
female, everything was fine. I went into the service and
lost contact with her for 10yrs, until last week. Some how,
some way i was able to get her phone number, and address so
I called her and we chatted, I would like to get back with
her, what should i do. She also has 2 now, but that don't
bother me..
1 Comments, 96 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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best friends again 11/6/2006
well after the office thing i was almost afraid to meet up
with my best friend. but it so happened that i had to drop
off some things at his house a couple of days later, and guess
who was home alone? she answered the door in a bathing suit
and robe, invited me in.
i knew that i should leave but she had a power over me, we went
out back by the pool and were standing there talking when ...
1 Comments, 729 Views,
17 Votes
,4.82 Score
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pinto24pinto24pinto24 11/6/2006
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0 Votes
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It take two 11/5/2006
Building a relationship take alot of work and responsiblity.
You have to be able to commit or at least be honest. Is that
so hard to do. I think its one of those things that really
easier said then done.
0 Comments, 138 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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best friends 11/5/2006
I was in my office when there was a knock, it was my friends
, looking for her father, he had left on an emergency.
After telling her this she shut the door and came to my desk,
she is a little brunette, with long hair, blue eyes, about
22 or so, lovely titties and a very sexy ass, not to mention
her lovely legs.
she was wearing a dress, green, with a low cut top to it. she
smiled and ...
0 Comments, 857 Views,
16 Votes
,5.04 Score
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long distance relationship 11/4/2006
My bf and I have been chatting on here and the phone. He was
suppose to travel to meet me, and has excuses such as business
and family (grandkids). I get my hopes up and now we are barely
speaking, should I stay or let him go?
5 Comments, 118 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Going from sex toy to friend 11/2/2006
Has anybody else had trouble with how to handle the aftermath
of a threesome. WE have had our few great moments in the sack
with another female, but have never really clicked with
that person afterwards. Is this pretty much normal or do
some of you have long term friendships? Just curious. I
wouldn't change a thing about the actual SEX, but we
haven't exactly gone out for dinner or movies ...
2 Comments, 134 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Work Romance 11/2/2006
So I have became interested in this woman at work, but their
is a strict no relationship plicy among coworkers. We both
get along fine and something could be there. Should we go
out on the down low and see what happens?
2 Comments, 42 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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long distance 11/1/2006
has anyone had experience (good/bad) of sorting out long
distance meetings on here? i'm sure some of you have.
how long should you commit to making sure they are definately
serious? how do you know? it would be gutting to travel a
long way to be let down.
any advise?
0 Comments, 31 Views,
0 Votes
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knowing ever other is necessary 10/26/2006
b4 do anything knowing each other is most important
1 Comments, 33 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Releasing Inhibitions 10/23/2006
Been married for 6 years and my sex life with my wife is horrible.
She is very reserved and not open to anything other then
"vanilla" sex, any suggestions?
3 Comments, 93 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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good points. 10/20/2006
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*give your partener the chance to make decisions.
*be honest for good or bad.
once on a wile take your time to tell your partener ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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finding it hard to find someone again 10/20/2006
ok im kinda weird for a male im sure you will all admit,
i was going with a girl younger than me for neaarly 2 years
and only recently have broken up, due to her having strong
religious beliefs, and me wanting to live my life as and
when it comes
im finding it hard to meet someone else as to be honest im
finding it hard to let go, does anyone have any advice?
4 Comments, 55 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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"First Time Sex" in a Buding Relationship 10/20/2006
This happened when I was dating my first wife. In Beaumont,
Tx back in the sixties (before and after) people would go
"parking" in the boonies. The boonies were
secluded areas off some of the country roads where oil drilling
had been done and a wellhead was put in place. There were
ideal places to be "alone" because they were
a graveled cul-du-sac so you could turn around and didn't
get ...
1 Comments, 64 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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how to know if its the one to be with.? 10/18/2006
to know if the person with the one you r dating or sleeping
can be a good person to be with. its very simple...check
this out>>>....in the morning ., ,if the person
wake up..all mad and grumpy..that is not a good person...to
be with.....if she or him wake up...with a smile...and
energy for the new day...that is the best kind of person..they
r understanding and the ones with a good ...
3 Comments, 101 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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My Wife and Cyber Chatting 10/18/2006
My wife lately has gotten into a habit of chatting with me
while im at work. She arouses me so much it want to cum at work.
It is so much fun and frisky i think it is lighting a fire in
our marriage again.
1 Comments, 44 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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falling in love and trusting again. 10/17/2006
Life takes it toll on many of us as we get older and sometimes
its hard for us to find love or even trust anyone again after
being hurt in our lives. Sometimes we think we will never
have love again in our lives, yet do we really know what true
love is? Have we ever trully experienced true love, or did
we think we were in love and settle for who ever was in front
of us for fear of being ...
2 Comments, 105 Views,
13 Votes
,6.50 Score
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it's all about us not you and not me 10/16/2006
I think peoples biggest problem in relationships is forgetting
what a true relatioship is all about. there's no I in
we or us. we often put our own agendas ahead of "OUR"
agenda. In all the decisions we make within the confines
of a reltionship should be made with the two of us in mind
because you are no longer just you but we are now "US".
If we remember this you will never have ...
1 Comments, 26 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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How many people on here really want to meet? 10/15/2006
I am not talking about a single guy going out and hittting
u profiles I am talking about a single guy being approached
by another profile.
I have been and politely responded that I was interested
and suggested possible places to meet but in all occasions
they never respond. Are there a lot of people collecting
pics out there or what?
2 Comments, 185 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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is it as hard as it seems? 10/15/2006
trying to have a long distance relationship. its like the
person that seems so right for you is always the farthest
from you why? shit should you try and make it work or what
2 Comments, 39 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How do you do it when they dont want to? 10/15/2006
why is it so hard when you know someone wants a relationship
but is scared and is always pushing you away? what do you
do stay away or keep pushing?
0 Comments, 26 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Let me know what you guys really want. 10/15/2006
Well i would like to be married by the age of 21 or at least
engaged so guys tell me what you really want from a woman?
everything let me know
1 Comments, 39 Views,
0 Votes
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what to do 10/10/2006
what is the foundation for a good relationship and how do
you keep it good.Also how do you know when you have reached
that point....
3 Comments, 31 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Once it leads to a first meeting,... 10/10/2006
The problem with sites like this is the risk involved in
meeting someone for the first time and finding that you
have no interest in pursuing things farther. I guess it
just goes with the territory but how can one protect themself
from being pursued once the decision has been made to look
elsewhere?
3 Comments, 51 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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What a lady wants love or sex? 10/7/2006
What a female wants in the initial phase of a relation only
love or sex?
1 Comments, 44 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Build it up 10/3/2006
How do you build a trusting relationship with your partner.
1 Comments, 15 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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where do you begin... 10/3/2006
we all know why we are on this site. to meet other people who
have some of the same interests and desires as we do. what
type of person are we looking for? one of the first things
you do when you begin your profile is describe what looks
and feels good to you. images flash in your mind of what you
desire and then you have the task of putting those images
into words...not an easy task, but ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Opinion on Fuck Friends 10/1/2006
Friendships come in all sizes, shapes and complexities,
but nothing confuses this important life relationship
as much as sex. A man and woman can indeed be just friends,
but friends don't (or shouldn't) express themselves
through sex. Simplify your life by learning to separate
the two.
15 Comments, 3165 Views,
101 Votes
,3.80 Score
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A guy... 9/25/2006
...i wanna find a guy who calls me beautiful
instead of hot.. who calls me back when i
hang up on him.. who will stay awake just to
watch me sleep.. i'll wait for the guy who
kisses my forehead.. who wants to show
me off to the world when im in my
sweats.. who holds my hands infront of his
friends.. i'll wait for the guy who is constantly
reminding me of how much he cares ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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"Can you handle the truth." 9/23/2006
I'm at the point in my life where I just want to get rid
of all the games and bullshit involving relationships.
If it's going to happen then lets do it. But in the past
I find that most women really aren't ready for it even
if they say they are. Then either I'm an asshole or insensitive.
For I just want to enjoy each others company in all ways and
go from there. I know it sounds easy, ...
5 Comments, 150 Views,
10 Votes
,4.98 Score
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Taking time is the key 9/20/2006
I met a lady online and we have been chatting for a few days.
I won't rush into anything with her out of respect for
her feelings. She happens to be married and wants discretion
when we do meet up.
I would not want to press any lady into anything no matter
what.
Time is what we all have a lot of so take things slow and build
a great friendship before jumping into ...
1 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
,6.10 Score
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Is it possible to fully respect and trust you partners if they cheated on their past partner with U? 9/17/2006
What do you think? And how do you fully trust them if the saying
goes "once a cheater, always a cheater? Thanks in
advance
8 Comments, 151 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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can you trust them 9/15/2006
When you significant other starts staying out late , or
doesnt call as often as they used too , might be cause for
alarm , or they try a new sexual positon on ya, or the strange
calls that dont get answered when you are around, when things
are as usual it is time to start checking things out , there
ways to do this : the history on their phones or ...
5 Comments, 181 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Who's Fooling Who? 9/8/2006
Is it realistic to expect to go to a site that is tailored
towards sexual excursions, that has sexual content as
its selling point, and has sex as a primary destination
and look for a true relationship?
I'm all for relationships that just happen, but when
many come to a site looking for sex, how much of the relationship
mating ritual should be adhered to?
Are those who ...
5 Comments, 110 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Hard Work Work 9/4/2006
You know what. My boyfriend and I have been together off
and on for over a year now, and it has been hard to work on our
relationship.
How do you decide to work for a relationship? Well in this
article I am going to try to help you along with that one.
In this article I am going to try to show and explain the ways
of telling yourself how to start working for the relationship
you ...
2 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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FRIENDS IN INDIA 9/3/2006
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FRIENDS IN INDIA
NO DOUBT, Swapfinder.com.com is one of the best site
to find a friend worldwide.
yet there is site
INDIAN FRIEND FINDER
this is the best site for finding ...
0 Comments, 96 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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tan ka milan 9/2/2006
I am ACHAL , 35 yrs, MARRIED MALE.
170 cm. (5' 7'') 72 kg.
from INDIA.
I WANNA FEMALES of any AGE UPTO 45 yrs. from NORTH INDIA
for FRIENDSHIP and tan_kaa_milan.
In my opinion FOREPLAY is the MOST EXCITING PART of SEX GAME.
I luv KISSING and luv if she SUCK on my CHEST and between my
THIGHS
I luv LICKING on HER THIGHS and BUTTS.
BITING on CHEEKS and SHOULDERS.
SUCKING and ...
0 Comments, 80 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Long distance 8/31/2006
Do u think that it's possible to build a relationship
with someone if you're 2 hours away?
4 Comments, 65 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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How do you build an honest relationship when one partner is not honest?? 8/25/2006
How can you build a realtionship that is healty and honest
when one partner is not being that way? I am open and honest
about everything that I do, but yet I cant get my partner
to be. He hides the fact that he talks to girls, he hides the
fact that he gets on the internet to talk to girls. Why and
how can I just get him to be honest? I dont know ...
7 Comments, 115 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Good place to find a relationship? 8/19/2006
Is this a good place to find a relationship? Some say no,
what do YOU say?
0 Comments, 24 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Respecting for who I am. 8/19/2006
Hi everyone! How are you going? This is the first time I'm
writing a brief article, because I know that some good people
are out there and can help me with some good advice..
Anyway, I'm currently 29 and I've gone through
alot of different type of relationships throughout my
past.... however, something is really troubling me as
I have recently discovered a pattern.
I ...
2 Comments, 68 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Can It Work? 8/16/2006
Let say that u meet someone and you started out only fuck
buddies. Do u think that u can build a relationship? Can
you trust that person to only have sex with you?
3 Comments, 128 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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hi 8/16/2006
i like to view all free sex vedio
0 Comments, 23 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Commitment... 8/15/2006
I've been talking to a few mates about this subject...especially
once a relationship is formed.
They all say (not sure they actually believe it...) that
it's important to stay faithful and not play the field
any more...
My question is this...
Does this mean that we only get one shot at it?? Once we decide
on one person, we have to accept that no one else ...
2 Comments, 115 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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sbales1111111atyahoocom 8/13/2006
hey there, alright article you got my attention Im engaged
to be married and as of now it looks like were going to go through
with it, Ive never been married before and never cheated
on a women before but for some reason I feel like I need to
have someone else on the other side of the bed, I cant explain
it but so bad do I sometimes want to role over and put it in
something new and yet my ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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listening skills key 8/12/2006
Listening is key to any long sustained relationship. One
must put other's needs to speak ahead of there own.
You must decide who has the great need and then you can procede
with the conversation.
If you do decide to listen you should do it with an ability
to reflect emotion and empathy with the other person.
If the other person feels that you are really ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
0 Votes
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what the fuck!? 8/8/2006
i need to get this out.i am bi sexual and i have a man that i
love dearly. i love him so much that i told him about the Swapfinder.com
site hoping to be the honest ho. this dude goes to damn ny
and starts his own profile! this was 2 months ago. he came
home and got on my computer and when i logged on i saw another
name. it was him! he didnt have the balls to tell me! well
i went online and viewed his ...
3 Comments, 226 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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amyyoung2 8/6/2006
i love my body
13 Comments, 895 Views,
51 Votes
,4.74 Score
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searching for a true relation 8/4/2006
i entered in different realtions , but
till now i haven't found the girl that want a true love,
i didn't stop looking cause i know , that girl exists
, their a man for every women , so i'm ready to start a
new relations but PLZ let it bee a true one my number.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
0 Votes
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jokes 8/4/2006
...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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buliding a relationship 8/3/2006
on buliding a relationship u most have trust in your partner
and never cheat on them or her and all ways have respect
0 Comments, 58 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Do u think that a relationship... 7/31/2006
that starts in a less than honest situation will never make
it?
I met my current man while married to someone else. He was
also engaged to someone else.
I just wonder that since we began our relationship that
way, are we destined to fail?
Will the trust thing be an issue for us eventually?
That old addage, "if they cheat with u, they'll
cheat on u" keeps popping in ...
5 Comments, 218 Views,
13 Votes
,2.64 Score
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fhfhhfhfdfhdf 7/31/2006
hffhfdhdhdfhdhdhdhdfhdhdhdhdhdhfhdhdhdhdfhdhdhdhdhdhdhhdhdhdfhgfhngfhgfhfghgfhfhghfghfgjhftgj
1 Comments, 39 Views,
3 Votes
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The way it began 7/30/2006
There once was a time I stood all alone
No emotion or feeling just cold as stone
Existing in life through nights into days
No apparent direction no way out of this maze
Then all of a sudden how could this be true
A beautiful vision right out of the blue
You entered my life so causally
I thought to myself this just cannot be
From a single spark of our ...
1 Comments, 106 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Is this you? 7/29/2006
You spoke of love and thought of sex. You spoke of happiness
and meant satisfaction. You said forever and meant never.
You spoke of me, but always thought of yourself.
1 Comments, 64 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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The mind is a terrible thing to waste 7/29/2006
An 80 year old couple were having problems remembering
things, so they decided to go to their doctor to get checked
out to make sure nothing was wrong with them. When they arrived
at the doctor's, they explained to the doctor about
the problems they were having with their memory. After
checking the couple out, the doctor tells them that they
were physically okay but might want to start ...
0 Comments, 71 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Finding a friend or gil to date. 7/27/2006
Guys:
I been in the dating for about 53 and in that time I seen alot.
Most importantly like to find a woman to chat or date on here.
I find most woman very sulfish when they turn a guy down for
a date It may be his looks or his clothes he wears. I sure wish
A lady who saw a guy like this would either tell him up front;
dont lie to us. Anyway I would like meet or see a nice girl ...
0 Comments, 143 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Relationship Dessert Recipe 7/26/2006
Ingredients:
1. 4 oz. interested
2. 4 oz. feeling
3. 1 pt. of passion
4. 1 pt. of emotion
5. Lots of kisses and touches
Method:
1.Bring interested and feeling to high heat until boiled.
2.Add passion, Reduce to slow heat and stir. Add kisses
and touches occasionally. Stir gently when it's thick.
3.Add emotion and increase to medium heat.Add ...
0 Comments, 276 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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hygeine the biggest factor 7/25/2006
Today more and more people seem to be worried
about the wrong things.Instead of the important things.For
me a man or woman has to
take care of themselves.especially If they call themselves
adults. I ve ran across you
would think to be decent folk , but In reality are
gross and sick.I mean people who run our governments people
In high positions arent
anything in my book .Im not ...
0 Comments, 93 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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deep throating update 7/25/2006
I have been working on my skills, on swallowing large fat
hard cock. I love to suck cock but I know my down fall is I get
so worked up and hot as hell that I lose my self control. I
can swallow it down my throat but cant breath so if any one
can give me more pointers on keeping focused on my task at
hand it would be great!! It seems as if my throat is a strong
muscle trying to fight against ...
2 Comments, 424 Views,
19 Votes
,5.37 Score
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Where to start? 7/24/2006
I never can find out where to start. Especially the first
phone call, everything goes well for awhile and then there
is alot of silence. I can never figure out what to say. And
then when it comes to dating I have bad luck, but hopefully
that will change. I just need some confidence building
tips I guess.
0 Comments, 139 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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building? 7/23/2006
i'm not too sure about relationships. what's
your opinion on "building". well, i know for
a start, it has to have a foundation of truth and honesty
1 Comments, 80 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Building a relationship from Swapfinder.com 7/19/2006
I would like to know how is the best way to build a relation, friendship
from Swapfinder.com from the certain members seem to have clicks and
talk about other members on chat lines instant messangers
and so on.How is it possilble for people to trust who they
talk to on Swapfinder.com to build relationships. Just wanted to ask
w2
1 Comments, 169 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Why do men run away from women, even saying they are extremely interested ?? 7/16/2006
Why are men so difficult to deal with? Why do they say things
that lead women to believe and then flee away as if the conversation
had never happened????? Is this really part of the male
stratagy to pull out when not interested?
I've always wondered why men have an urge to praise
us even when we look our basic? Is that because they are preparing ...
4 Comments, 346 Views,
13 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Pleasure Enhancements vs. Competing/Jealous Relationships 7/14/2006
Jamie and I have an amazing sexual, spiritual and adventurous
relationship that in our oppinion is unmatched by anyone
we have met. We've been intimate for 9 years and she
is the only woman I have EVER had sex with. Most people would
say this is a shame but I am EXTREMELY proud of this. I don't
know anyone else who has accomplished this through their
own perogative. Plenty of people are ...
0 Comments, 372 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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i am looking for sexiest girls or ladies on earth 7/13/2006
Hi all! I am a very handsome young man, 37, from India.
I have been using internet for the past ten years to find
out the most sexiest lady or girl on earth for fucking.I
have posted ads on various sites and I could not succeed.
I prefer Indian girls mostly but I also welcome foreign
ladies, if they fit me correctly.I am from Thiruvananthapuram,
capital city of Kerala, India.IF any sexy ...
0 Comments, 396 Views,
2 Votes
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White lies 7/9/2006
Is it always necessary to tell a man the truth on everything
do u think they care if we have women secrets
0 Comments, 872 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Am I crazy 7/8/2006
Are there women out there that want a relationship with
a married man. I have been told that some women like to have
one because married men are not likely to be possessive
and are nice to have around when needed. This is true for
the no-strings relationships.Is there any truth to this.
Please tell me what you think.
3 Comments, 1117 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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The other woman 7/8/2006
Is it really to much to ask for a woman that wants a relationship
from a married man, when the man is honest about everything,
and the both of them are just looking for a long term relationship?
0 Comments, 1311 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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This above all: to thine ownself be true 7/8/2006
"This above all: to thine ownself be true, "
LORD POLONIUS
I think we are all familiar with the above quote taken from
Shakespeare's Hamlet, it essentially means that
we can only be true to others after first being true to ones
own convictions.
I am referring to the sad fact that we've been systematically
taught in our respective cultures (in varying degrees)
to make ...
0 Comments, 1604 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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friends the dreaded word haha 7/8/2006
why do things have to change ? and when does it go from being
"just " a meet to "oh my god i dont want to
know he is meeting other people" lol , i dont meet people
now , my choice , i know he does but dont want to know or think
about it , as long as he still makes time for me im ok , i think
!! lol why do some people make you feel so special you fool
yrself into thinking " hey maybe i am ...
3 Comments, 1843 Views,
11 Votes
,1.48 Score
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The Only True Aphrodisiac 7/7/2006
We humans like the idea of spontaneity in our romantic relationships,
we look for drugs and other agents that may help stimulate
sexual desire, but love is a rebel bird that nobody can ever
tame and lust is a fickle mistress not well understood.
We have seen considerable interest in using chemical communication
based on human pheromones to help stimulate sexual desire,
just like ...
3 Comments, 4203 Views,
86 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Trust and honesty in an open marriage is a must. 7/5/2006
My wife came home really late last night and I was layin'
in our bed half awake when she slipped between the sheets
and asked me whether I was awake.
I could tell she had just been fucked by the smell of sex that
was all over her sexy body.
I told her, "Yes I'm awake, I've been worried
about you for hours now because I hadn't heard from
you."
"Oh darling, my cell phone went dead ...
14 Comments, 34902 Views,
940 Votes
,2.75 Score
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After my wife brought another man home with her... 7/5/2006
This is a continuation of how I built my loving open relationship
with my beautiful sexy wife.
The night my wife called me to come home and show her how much
I approved of her bringing another man into our bed was just
the beginning. That night was the start of something very
special for both of us. I remember getting undressed and
crawling into our bed and feeling all the wet spots that ...
1 Comments, 1529 Views,
24 Votes
,6.65 Score
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In search of the truth --- a tug-o-war of the mind.... 7/4/2006
I sometimes wonder if there are truly honest people in this
world. Are liars put on this earth just to throw you of center
and mess you up, inside and out? They have no regards for
others’ time nor their feelings, but themselves. They
are users and manipulators. Are these foibles taught by
/learnt from their parents and their parents’ parents,
by the society, or both? ...
0 Comments, 413 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Becoming closer to your wife in so many ways. 7/3/2006
My wife and I are closer than we have ever been and our love
grows deeper with each new encounter; this is how it began.
My wife is a beautiful blond with a smile and eyes that can
take a mans breath away, but for years I let my jealous side
get in the way until one night while we were in bed reading
some sexy stories from a popular mens magazine just for
fun. I began to read her a story ...
2 Comments, 609 Views,
16 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Trust 7/2/2006
How can you bring trust back into a relationship?
4 Comments, 382 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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Getting What You Give 6/26/2006
I've never known one who gave as much as, or even what,
one wanted. It seems the human has evolved into needs that
are so seldom met. We have such capacity to need, and we need
to be understood, but we haven't evolved the same reflexive
capacity to give, or to understand. What becomes, then,
of that rare person who does give, who does understand.
They say that you get what you give, ...
0 Comments, 100 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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Isabelle and I 6/25/2006
After weeks of playing the phone game, emails and the occassional
chat on instant messenger we decided that it was time to
take our relationship to the next level. I had already received
a picture of Isabelle and knew that if she even looked half
as good as she did in the picture then everything else would
work out just fine. She was 5'9, 135 pounds of toned
and tanned skin and had legs ...
0 Comments, 153 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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I knew a young woman once. 6/17/2006
Yeah, I tried that caring, giving thing, the unconditional
support thing. If you keep doing the same things, you'll
keep getting the same results, it's said. So, once
-- finding myself still with nothing -- I really tried.
And I believed. I gave all I had.
You know, it doesn't work. All I got was knowing that
I really tried, but that I had had it right, before.
0 Comments, 85 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Sex 6/16/2006
How long do you usually wait before having sex with people
that you date. Is it the sooner the better or is it best to
wait?
0 Comments, 164 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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trust 6/14/2006
i believe every relationship has three key factors. Trust,
care, and sexual attraction. What is everyone elses view
on this?
0 Comments, 87 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Approaching Stranger in Public? 6/10/2006
I have seriously considered meeting and hopefully starting
a relationship with a woman I see out on the walking path
a few times a week. We always say hi and just keep on walking
past...is there some way to not look like a creep but to start
a conversation that could go on for our walk so we can get
to know each other better?
Thanks
CD3250
1 Comments, 86 Views,
0 Votes
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Flirting with married women 6/9/2006
I came across a few woman at work, who enjoy it when I flirt
with them. I even manage to stroke their hair, or slightly
wrap my arms around their shoulders, or waist. Of course,
I don't touch their breast, or ass. And, these women
are already married! Why is that? Why do they allow me to
do that?
1 Comments, 109 Views,
1 Votes
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not easy to meet a soul mate on Swapfinder.com 6/8/2006
Have been on this site for quite sometime and was looking
for love. I got in touch with an older man with similar intersts
we talked a lot and agreed to meet see if things worked. As
usual we had much in common everyone was a saint and sexy
and wow we guessed we were made for each other. He is a doctor
and am an accountant. He was separated with wife and has
3 adapted from her and am a ...
12 Comments, 314 Views,
15 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Does it ever work? 6/3/2006
What happens when you meet somebody from an adult sex site
and you hit it off from the first email? And after the first
meeting it just gets better and better. And not just the
sex but you have everything in common, its like you were
soulmates. Can you actually find love on a site such as this?
And if you do, does it actually work out?
2 Comments, 112 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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What are the biggest mistakes women make while on a LDR? 6/3/2006
I have noticed and even been through some LDR and it's
odd that without an apparent reason, men simply vanish,
leaving the woman wondering what were the mistakes she
made to deteriorate the relationship and how she can ''improve''
so as not to make the same mistake again. It seems to me that
mistake number one is lack of self-confidence. Men seem
to ...
7 Comments, 307 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Take Your Time 6/3/2006
Guys I want to tell you the best way to have the best sex in
the world. Get to know the woman first, Find out about her
work, her , if she has been hurt by a man. Listen
to what she is saying, she is telling you how she expects
to be treated and what types of sexual activities she enjoys
even though not one time does she mention sex. Open your
ears and your heart be able to listen and ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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hmm 5/28/2006
what do u look for in a partner
0 Comments, 14 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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learn to listen- 5/28/2006
Learning to listen empathetically is the key to having
wonderful relationships.
communicate with your friends and enjoy the time together.
regards
0 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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I think most women need to be treated like shit to be content! 5/28/2006
I do not know why so many were abused, but i really think
that so many women were abused through childhood on up, that
if you treat one of these women you meet to good;they will
run from you because they just do not believe that you are
being real with them!! They simply do not know that it is
o.k. to be happy in a loving relationship! The women that
have been abused;an they are every ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Does this site work? 5/22/2006
Does this site actually work? Most of the people I encountered
on here are fake.
0 Comments, 39 Views,
0 Votes
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Do You Hang Out With Indonesian People ? 5/21/2006
For all of you who are studying or living in overseas...
Just curious, do you hang out with your own people? if yes,
how often?
I'm going to be honest and say that i don't, even
though i know that theres quite a lot of indonesians here...
no offense but the main reason i don't go out with indonesians
is mainly becoz all they talk about is material shit and
most of the indonesians ...
0 Comments, 27 Views,
0 Votes
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VERY FIRST MEETING 5/19/2006
Hello to all out there. I would like to say at first my wife
and i where getting very discuraged from being on here.
We have gotten over 1000 visitors on our profile and many
hotlists request as well as winks but no one to respond back
to us when we responded to there first e-mail. I would like
to say that we finaly did have a couple respond to us after
reping back to them and we have set ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
0 Votes
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Hard or easy? 5/17/2006
Is it hard to get into a relationship with someone u meet
on a site like this? Can you ever trust them? Will they ever
be monogomous and stop coming online to meet and find people
to have sex with. What do u think?
5 Comments, 325 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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Trust Your Senses. 5/14/2006
Many people complain that they have been scammed or conned
in some form or another when entering relationships.
Relationships are a matter of trust and effectively can
only survive for the briefest time without trust being
presnet and continuing. The important thing however is
that blind trust, especially when trust has been given
despite misgivings (especially those internal body ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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When 1 of 2 want more. 5/13/2006
Myself and a friend see each other from time to time. Sometimes
I get the feelings that he wants more. While I still want
to enjoy myself. Is that selfish? I want to sometimes give
him more, yet still have some fun in life. Not that he would
slow me down. I just need the insurance that I can be who I
am. I guess now days it's not as hard as it use to be. But
I need him to understand. How ...
2 Comments, 175 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Friend zone! whats wrong with dating a friend? 5/13/2006
recently i was told by a girl that we couldn't date because
i was in her friend zone. she made out that this was a good
place to be, very exclusive and she values her friends more
than anything. I agreed, it is a nice place to be. We get on
great, laugh at the same tings, she's really really
smart, all in all i enjoy spending time with her more than
anything else. So far so good.
The ...
0 Comments, 174 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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EASY 5/12/2006
Some sat that building a relationship is hard. I end to disagree.
Its as simple as one two three. Treat that person with the
sme deal of respect that you would want in return. And you
must at all time if caught up. KEEP it Real.
0 Comments, 114 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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The hunt and the Killl 5/11/2006
I know that the phrase "It's not the kill but the
the thrill of the chase" and while that is probably
true when speaking about hunting large game animals, I
wonder when and how we decided that this same philosophy
applies to our relationships?
I love to flirt, and play, and when I see someone that excites
me I become so focused one that person that all else will
often be forgotten, btu ...
2 Comments, 2466 Views,
84 Votes
,3.75 Score
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Any Advice When Dating Older Women 5/11/2006
I’m 21 years old and my current girl friend is 37 years old.
I really like her and we both enjoy being with each other.
I really want to stay with her and would like any advice on
dating older women that would help me to keep us both happy.
I take her out and we go for hikes but it is all starting to
get repetitive and would like new ideas or advice on what
I could do with her. And ...
1 Comments, 184 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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trying to build a relationship is easy until someone trys to mess it up... 5/11/2006
My boyfriend got arrested on may 12 because he was drinking
and because some people that own a store here got to stick
their nose in others business but what happen is i left home
to go to the store and he noticed i was gone so he came looking
for me why he was drunk so he came driving up to me real fast
and the owner of the store called her which is a police
officer and told him that my ...
0 Comments, 80 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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Be Nice 5/9/2006
The one person who is closest to you, treat them nice. It
is very simple, but might be a challenge. Today start by
being nice to the one who lives with you day in and day out.
See what happens. Your words are very powerful and create
your reality. Choose them wisely.
Zoe Zane, zoblogs
2 Comments, 204 Views,
12 Votes
,5.98 Score
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BUILDING SOMETHING THAT'LL LAST. 5/1/2006
BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP IS'NT EASY. SPEACILY WITH
ONES THAT HAVE BEEN HURT A LOT. BUT WITH THEM JUST GO SLOW.
TAKE THINGS ONE STEP AT A TIME. SHOW THEM HOW MUCH YOU CARE
AND DO'N FORGET TO TURN ON THE CHARM BUT DO'NT OVER
DO IT. ALWAYS USE A LITTLE HUMER IT BREAKS THE TENSON. AND
TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS A LITTLE HUMER IN IT THAT
IS A LASTING ONE.
1 Comments, 81 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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how to build a good relationship 4/28/2006
always be open with your partner no matter what it is and
always have a listening ear when they need one. no im not
jokeing thats all it takes.
1 Comments, 71 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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The " Real " Relationship 4/22/2006
On this site there are many
beautiful women, but how do you go by being real with someone
if they think that all you want is sex, and they think your
not being true and honest with them when all your doing is
being yourself and a gentleman the way you were brought
up?...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Relationship based on sex 4/20/2006
Can a relationship be purely based on sex? Is it all right
to have nothing more than a physical attraction, to be coming
back for just a piece of ass? Why not?
2 Comments, 127 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Does anyone share the view that Swapfinder.com is just for sex and not for seeking out a husband? 4/20/2006
I don't want to come off as insensitive to the women/men
who sign into the site believing that they can find a relationship
here.Most of the profiles you view, the women are here
to meet a man for friendship and possibly a relationship.I
am not against that, but there is Friend Finder for such
a forum.Does anyone else share this view?
6 Comments, 455 Views,
25 Votes
,4.35 Score
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is it ok to still meet other people 4/19/2006
Is it ok in the start of the relationship to still meet other
single people even if ur not interested in sexual activity
with them , would it annoy u if ur partner did this
1 Comments, 82 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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should past matter 4/19/2006
Just something that have been thinking about when thinking
about a relationship do u want to know a persons past and
should it matter
4 Comments, 154 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Adult Relationship Help: Building and Preserving Joy and Excitement 4/17/2006
Romantic relationships fulfill needs as strong as hunger
or thirst. Loneliness and isolation are the source of numerous
health problems. New discoveries help us turn an unfulfilling
love relationship into an exciting and lasting romantic
love relationship.
Sometimes falling in love is easy, but half of all marriages
end in divorce and many of the rest find it hard to sustain
the ...
1 Comments, 130 Views,
13 Votes
,2.47 Score
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i dnt no part 2 4/17/2006
Guys think with their cocks not all but a lot, well this 1
certainly duz. I like him a lot and i no we met off here n this
site is basically 4 sex but is it so rong 2 want more? What
should i say to him? i want to say something cos hes always
lookn at other chicks on here n sayn how he'd like 2 fuck
other girls and it upsets me. I know im not that stunning
but there has 2 b sumthing there 4 ...
5 Comments, 395 Views,
19 Votes
,2.60 Score
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i dnt no 4/15/2006
I met a guy on here a lil while ago and it was just for
sex u no fuck buddy. But after getting to know him a lil bit
more i want more but he doesnt feel that way. Hes 10 years
older, but we get on really well n have a good time....
0 Comments, 144 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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I just don't get it 4/12/2006
I just don't understand. Where does the fire go? You
work to get the realationship started and it has a fire that
nobody can put out. Then one day you wake up and you notice
that the flame that you once had is no longer there. I have
looked and I have tried to figure it out. Do you just get tired,
does the other person become unattractive to you, do they
just not excite you the way they ...
2 Comments, 366 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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I 4/11/2006
met a woman on here i really like how can i tell her
0 Comments, 42 Views,
0 Votes
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Has anyone come looking just for sex on Swapfinder.com,but ended up in a relationship? 4/10/2006
I know the Swapfinder.com site is about adult personals, but I have
read profiles of women who use Swapfinder.com to find meaningful lasting
relationships.I would think that is why Friend Finder
is there.Does anyone agree, that the two should be seperate?
12 Comments, 434 Views,
20 Votes
,3.00 Score
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The true purpose of a relationship 4/9/2006
What is the purpose to a relationship, not a friendship,
but a relationship? Is it there to give us someone to turn
to when things go bad? Someone to encourage us when we are
down? Someone to share our shining moments with? The answer
is yes to all of them. But the main purpose is this, to make
us a better man or woman. Jack Nicholsons' character,
Melvin Udall, line in the movie AS GOOD AS ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Ladies......I need some practical advice......... 4/6/2006
I'm married to a wonderful woman and our sex life at
times is great, but sometimes just so-so. I approach sex
with the attitude that my partner's pleasure comes
first. We vacation every winter, just the two of us, and
the sex is fantastic. But once we get home, it doesn't
take long to fall back into the, to use a guy phrase, "hump
& dump" mentality. I love long drawn out foreplay,
oral ...
2 Comments, 203 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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There Is A Difference 4/5/2006
There is a difference in chemisrty and attraction. If one
is building a relationship on what is an attraction it will
never work out even if the sex is the best you have ever had.
Once the attraction wears off the sex will not be as good.
If one is building a relationship based on chemistry and
attraction with good sex then and you both communicate
and honesty well with each other then it a ...
4 Comments, 286 Views,
12 Votes
,4.21 Score
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I think I'm doing it wrong!!! 4/4/2006
I have a fantastic fuck buddy relationship, we talk, we
laugh, fantastic sex, however i've now turned off
my profile due to the reason i only want sex with this one
guy (he's ok with that), and i'd like the relationship
to go to the next level of being exclusive. He is not yet aware
that i'd like to take it that far, and still has his profile
up and i'm sure is having lots of fun. How can i ...
2 Comments, 299 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score
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Communication is the key... 3/30/2006
Without communication you don't have a relationship,
as far as I am concerned. It takes a long time to build a commitment
and that only grows by letting your partner share in your
needs and desires. Trust, honesty, laughter, flexability,
compassion, all comes through communication. If you can
have a conversation about anything, you can build a strong
relationship.
2 Comments, 120 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Think about it 3/28/2006
Would you buy a house by just reading about it? Of course
you wouldn't. Most folks would actually go see it in
person to see what it really looks like. If you like what
you see then you do a inspection to determine if it will meet
your needs. After that you make the decision to buy or not.
So it only stands to reason that if you want a house you have
to actually go out and look at a few. ...
2 Comments, 63 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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who should start? 3/28/2006
Should the pressure be on the man or the woman to build a realtionship
2 Comments, 84 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score
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SEX (IS IT REALY WHAT IT'S CRACKED UP TO BE?) 3/25/2006
Sex!is it really over rated?Or is it just something for
us to do.If you really look at it, it's another form
of drug that one needs at the end of a hard day at work.For
it does relieves awful lot of stress that one has built inside
after dealing with all the bull shit that one's boos
or that ass hole of a customer puts us through on a daily basis.Some
need it more than others.While others ...
2 Comments, 136 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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My thoughts on building relationships. 3/18/2006
I believe that every man loves the woment he appreciates
and every woman loves the man she appreciates. They hold
back due to various considerations.Some take initiatives
to make advancements, some leave things to chances and
some lack the courage to take the initiatives. Modern style
of living gives lot of opportunities for males and females
to interact with each other, read each others ...
0 Comments, 2154 Views,
94 Votes
,3.52 Score
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how difficult to find a women for sex 3/17/2006
I m tring from long time to find a women for sex but I still
can't? How can I do it? Wht are things women need?
1 Comments, 153 Views,
8 Votes
,0.70 Score
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Relate tion ship 3/16/2006
" Building a Relationship " after a relationship
is built, what is the fruit of that?
Can we ever stop building on our relationship?
Do you think that HATE is necessary in a Relationship?
0 Comments, 51 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Starting out 3/15/2006
You always here of people "disapearing" when
they meet someone new. Drastically reduced contact with
friends is simply part of the commitment it takes to build
something. The more work you do in the beginning, the more
time you'll have to spend with others whom you care
about in the future.
0 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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it takes two, first w/you! 3/12/2006
buidling functional healthy relationships start w/you!
first you must know yourself> if you have various issues
you will need to work on them first, either through counseling
or through an accountablity person. once you ahve started
w/knowing whom you are and making a good acessment, you
should then be acreful on whom you chose to eb in a relatinship
with> change is difficult especially fro ...
1 Comments, 71 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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its a lot of work 3/10/2006
well there has to be atraction.also some common interest.i
still feel the most important is commuication.i know from
my experiance that with out this part you will fail.been
married 2 times
the first ended because of her drug problem.the second
was do to lots of things but communication was i feel the
worst.we didnt talk just lived with each other.i would
try she wouldnt.she would try i ...
0 Comments, 42 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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how to start 3/9/2006
hpw to start building uop a relationship
0 Comments, 83 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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WHATS IMPORTANT 3/8/2006
WHATS THE MOST INPORTANT THING FOR A GREAT RELATIONSHIP?
0 Comments, 77 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Swapfinder.com...a good alternative 3/5/2006
We are a couple that enjoys each others company and we are
very close. We are best friends, lovers, and companions.
We are a very sexual couple and enjoy spicing things up a
bit by adding another female to the mix. Like most people
we like to be very discreet about our sex life but, it's
nice to know we have alternatives to turn to for getting
the information we need to build relationships ...
0 Comments, 235 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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What does it take? 3/3/2006
What does it take to begin a relationship? Definitely a
physical attraction? That connection that just happens?
why are there so many possibilities? Is it because people
are different? Is there not a standard by which we can base
our perceptions and should there be?
1 Comments, 140 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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ROMANCE 3/3/2006
WHATS IMPORTANTED FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO BE ROMANTIC?
0 Comments, 139 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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WHATS REAL 3/2/2006
IS A RELATIONSHIP SERIOUS WHEN YOU MAKE LOVE THE SECOND
TIME OR IS IT TO EARLY?
1 Comments, 172 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Humour 2/27/2006
Humour is very important in an relationship, because its
helps your gal or boyfriend to help each other out in tough
times, and just keep each other happy!
0 Comments, 222 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Trust 2/26/2006
TRUST is the key to building a great relationship. Learning
each other and listing to each other. Hanging out and doing
fun things that each person like.
0 Comments, 119 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Change is the the only thing you can depend on. 2/22/2006
This website and so many others allow people explore relationships,
the lack of relationships and the hopes for new relationships.
What I have learned is the only sure thing you can depend
on is the fact that relationships change. People experience
life in different ways dependent upon their past experiences
and reactions. No two people will feel the same about anything.
As long as one ...
1 Comments, 132 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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"When Yave You Fallen in Love?" 2/18/2006
In the seventies there were a series of cartoons which simply
started, "Love is..."
One of the most famous, least accurate was, "Love
is....Never having to say you're sorry. The fact of
the matter is, in my opinion, when you love someone you share
every detail of your life with them. You also tend to vent
toward them because of this. The person that we love the
most, we feel the most ...
0 Comments, 155 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Women and Strip Clubs 2/16/2006
My husband was wondering what my curiosity was when it came
to women. His best way to measure this was to take me to the
local club and find out for himself. Somewhat against my
will, not really! I went along. Much to my surprise, I was
really turned on watching the srippers interact with him
and myself during the couch dances that we agreed upon.
The eye contact that we maintained ...
1 Comments, 1402 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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It has never been me. 2/15/2006
I was once young and naive enough to believe that when I met
somebody and fell head over heels in love with them that
then would be my chance to show that person just how far to
the ends of the earth I was willing to go and all the things
and friends that I was willing to sacrifice to make that
person my number 1!
Well I did meet somebody in fact I met 3, not at the same time
but 1 ...
15 Comments, 4579 Views,
164 Votes
,4.84 Score
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Making dreams come true.. 2/15/2006
Everyone dreams but does everyone try to make their dreams
come true. I am a firm believer in making my dreams come true.
Sometimes it takes more time than others but when I want
something I go after it and accomplish my goals. Building
a relationship to me is the same, we must work at it and have
similiar goals and dreams to work towards. My relationship
is great, but like all they ...
0 Comments, 259 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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FRENDSHIP 2/14/2006
wEBE CAME A MEMBER BUT PEOPLE ARE STIL HASITATED TO CONTACT
EACH OTHER . I EXPECT TO BE PERFECT CONNECTION BY USING THIS
SITE .
0 Comments, 62 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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I'm trying to start a relationship.... 2/14/2006
I'm trying to start a relationship with a woman I met
on personals. I'm here to tell you, it's
different. When you meet a woman on this site, you pretty
much have a little fun, and fuck. you're forced
to hold back, but, I think everyone wants to fuck. What is
your opinion?
1 Comments, 107 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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who to choose? 2/13/2006
do i choose the woman i have sex with on the first date? this
is someone i can have great sex with but then there is trust
issues; or do i choose the one who waits and risk not having
good sex but the trust is tenfold?
0 Comments, 106 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Friendship: 2/12/2006
I my not ask, but I do care
I believe in you even if you are wrong
I'm there for you and if I am not, you will understand.
You're there for me and if you are not, I will find my
way
When we fight, we except the differences and don't
dwell on them
You are my friend.
0 Comments, 73 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas 2/12/2006
Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas
<br>
<br>
So ist das Neue hier und ich will, bekommen heraus und werden
nackt mit gemerkten Leuten anderer Messe, aber im Moment
hier in Deutschland sein ein bisschen zur Kälte, um sich
von der Außenseite aber vielleicht im März auszuziehen,
als ich den Urlaub von drei Wochen bekam, könnte das für
ein Nacktes Hanky ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Don't expect a 3some to build a relationship! 2/11/2006
If you are not 100% sure about your relationship, adding
a 3rd party is not the answer! You might think that it will
spice things up, but you may be opening a can of worms. Of
course, there is always a chance that your relationship
won't make it anyway, and if you can get a 3some out of
it, go for it. But seriously, too many people are jealous
and things can go wrong real quick! Using ...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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learning how to build a good releationship 2/6/2006
i think trust is the basis for building a good solid lasting
releationship. That trust have to be there first
0 Comments, 128 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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the slow approach 2/5/2006
I am finding myself in the position more often than not of
dating mature ladies who like to get to know a man slowly
and deeply. It is perhaps a preference of taste but I find
that a lady I know and have built up intimacy with often explodes
with passion nad for me this is preferrable to one night
stand approaches. What do others think?
2 Comments, 114 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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First date sex 2/4/2006
As I've read various articles, there seems to be a growing
number of people (mainly men)who are essentally demanding
sex by (number) date. The ones who say that in their profile
are at least being upfront about it. The ones who wait and
say so in an email or maybe the first meeting are asses. Yes,
this site is mainly people looking for sex. However unless
you've stated it up front in your ...
1 Comments, 149 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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First date sex? 2/4/2006
From reading other articles I get the impression that a
growing number of people (mainly men) are saying in their
profile or email/other communications, depending on
site policy, that they expect sex by ___ meeting/date.
This article expresses my views on the subject.
<br>
Sex on the first date?
<br>
If you expect sex within a few dates, you aren't looking
for a ...
4 Comments, 165 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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i love sexxxxx 2/4/2006
i love sexvery mush.
0 Comments, 107 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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Basic Desires 2/1/2006
Read the following statements about each basic desire.
If they strongly describe you mark "+, " if
they somewhat describe you mark "0, " and if
they apply to you very little mark "-":
<br>
1. Curiosity. I have a thirst for knowledge.
<br>
2. Acceptance. I have a hard time coping with criticism.
<br>
3. Order. It upsets me when things are out of place.
<br> ...
0 Comments, 64 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Swapfinder.com is a great place to start a relationship if.... 1/30/2006
Swapfinder.com is a great place to start a relationship if…
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You are a male, and looking for the sexually immature and
novice female lovers. Doesn’t anyone on here know that
it is considered rude to kill your lover with your genitals
by giving them AIDS? Why don’t more ...
0 Comments, 177 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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"I Will Survive" 1/26/2006
"I Will Survive"
A.K.A. The Women's National Anthem
<br>
At first I was afraid, I was petrified,
When you said you had 10 inches Lord I almost died,
But I'd spent so many years just waiting for a man that
long,
That I grew strong,
And I knew that I could take you on. . .
<br>
But there you are,
Another lie,
I was ready for a big mac and you've bought ...
1 Comments, 277 Views,
9 Votes
,6.42 Score
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How long does it take? 1/24/2006
When trying to build up a relationship, How long should
you wait to have sex. Sex is great, but how long should anyone
wait? My partner and I waited awhile.
1 Comments, 336 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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trust 1/23/2006
is it just me or is trust the most imortant not to be taken
serious in relationships these days.
5 Comments, 531 Views,
20 Votes
,3.76 Score
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sex in marriage ... 1/22/2006
Sex in the beginning of a relationship is more numerous
than later.
Perhaps you already heard this story, it is not my own:
Put in a jar a bean for every time you have sex with your partner
during the first year of the relationship.
Take out a bean for every time of sex after the first year.
The jar will never empty ....
How about your jar? ...
0 Comments, 285 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Better off with a stranger than with a friend... 1/21/2006
why do i say this? it's because if shit happens and you
break up then the friendship usually goes splat along with
the relationship. so i think it will be easier to get with
a stranger, get to know the person then decide to have a relationship
rather than tryin to get with a person you've been friends
with for a long time. that's my two cents.
1 Comments, 513 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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FACTS ABOUT SEX 1/18/2006
+++++ FACTS ABOUT SEX +++++
<br>
1) 94% of men lie about their penis size.
According to condom manufacturers, only 6% of
men use extra large condoms.
<br>
2) The average man is 5 inches long when erect
<br>
3) 80% of American men are circumsized. Even
though Pediatrics say it is not necessary.
<br>
4) No matter what all the ...
4 Comments, 555 Views,
31 Votes
,5.44 Score
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what's wrong 1/17/2006
It isn't in a man's nature to immediatly start
discussing what's bothering him. Ladies if u keep
asking 'what's wrong' u will just piss him
off. Let him simmering down for a few hours or days and then
it should be cool to ask what was bothering him
1 Comments, 332 Views,
16 Votes
,2.54 Score
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Philofecies 1/15/2006
I lick girls' rumps. I like to lick girls' rumps.
Girls like to have their rumps licked. Most girls won't
admit they've had their rump licked, let alone enjoyed
having their rump licked. But believe you me, if you lick
a girl's rump, she'll love you for life. In fact,
that was my high school yearbook quote.
<br>
My conviction to 'slurping the brown pucker'
doesn't stem from ...
2 Comments, 534 Views,
19 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Being attentive 1/12/2006
Well, for starters, I believe that you actually have to
PAY attention to your girl. Seriously listen to what she
is saying. Now, I know sometimes it is hard to stay awake
when listening about her friends or her lack of wardrobe...But,
You must suck it up..She will (90% of the time) make it up
to you. If she feels like you are genuinely listening, she
will reward you.
1 Comments, 536 Views,
18 Votes
,3.26 Score
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26 ways to make a girl smile 1/12/2006
1. Tell her she is beautiful
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
<br>
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much ...
34 Comments, 9849 Views,
761 Votes
,8.57 Score
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SOMETIMES LIFE SUCKS 1/12/2006
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't
supposed to ever let you down probably will.
You will have your heart broken probably more than once
and it's harder every time.
You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when
yours was broken.
You'll fight with your best friend.
You'll blame a new love for things an old one did.
You'll cry because time is passing ...
0 Comments, 239 Views,
10 Votes
,5.77 Score
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would you let go? 1/12/2006
would you let go?
Body: She sat him across from her,
She looked him in the eye.
"How much do you love me?"
He said: "For you, I would die."
She looked down at her hands,
"Would you ever let me go?"
His face turned very serious,
And he responded with a "no."
"What is this about?" He asked,
The girl only shook her head,
"Nothing, I was just curious, "
But he doubted in what ...
2 Comments, 347 Views,
15 Votes
,6.50 Score
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man and women what they about blow jobs 1/11/2006
ALL ABOUT BLOW JOBS~!
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BLOW JOBS-WHAT A WOMAN HAS TO SAY ON THE SUBJECT
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1. First and foremost, we are not obligated to do it.
2. Extension to rule ..1 - So if you get one, be grateful.
3. I don't care WHAT they did in the porn video you saw,
it is not standard practice to cum on someone's face.
4. Extension to rule ..3 - No, I DON'T have to swallow. ...
1 Comments, 375 Views,
21 Votes
,3.74 Score
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Building 1/10/2006
You have to have honesty for a good relationship.
0 Comments, 207 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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relationship 1/10/2006
honesty is eveything
0 Comments, 177 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Language of Love 1/10/2006
If a kiss is the Language of Love,
then we have a lot to talk about ...
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methods of Love....
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+kiss on the ear--------------------"i'm
horny"
+kiss on the cheek-----------------"we're
friends"
+kiss on the hand------------------"i adore you"
+kiss on the neck-------------------"we belong
together"
+kiss on the shoulder--------------"i want you"
+kiss on ...
0 Comments, 194 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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How To Build a Relationship after So Long 1/9/2006
I have been dating for 4 years now and in and out of relationships.
I have found that I am having trouble sharing what is mine.
For example, my thoughts. I tend to clam up when it comes
to intimate conversations and past happenings. I really
need some feed back on where is a good place to start. I'm
really tired of being alone, and I am now looking for a meaningful
relationship. Sometimes I ...
1 Comments, 193 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Does sex help in building a relationship? 1/9/2006
I know this is probably a common question to hear, but I have
heard so many different answers that I thought I put it on
here and see what people think. Do you think by having sex
in a realationship, can help it last longer or make it a more
serious relationship? Or does it not really affect anything
and it is all about the emotions beforehand?
0 Comments, 265 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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R u ready 1/8/2006
When some people say they r ready for a relationship What
makes them be so sure they r ready?
0 Comments, 316 Views,
0 Votes
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relationships and this site 1/6/2006
Lots of people seem to be disappointed that people on this
site aer not looking for relationships. I am sure some people
have found some but this is an adult oriented site, most
people want sex. for relationships you should try thr friendfinfer.com
site
3 Comments, 275 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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The one thing that every woman wants from her partner. 1/5/2006
What is the one thing that every woman wants from her partner?
This question has baffled men and women alike for centuries.
What is it, fundamentally, that each woman wants? The one
single core issue that lies at the heart of it all. I myself,
have search for the answer to this question like Indiana
Jones searching for the Holy Grail. The frustrating part
of this question lies in the fact ...
2 Comments, 196 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Why? 1/2/2006
Why would you build a relationship when you're on this
site. That's not fair to your partner unless they are
aslo on this site
3 Comments, 186 Views,
16 Votes
,2.25 Score
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What love got to do with it 12/30/2005
Some time relationships are hard but they are worth it.
It is hard to find a girl the will explore with you. I would
like a girlfriend that brings company to the room. Treesomes
are fun and can expand a relationship. Try for yourself
and respone to me.
0 Comments, 89 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Treat Her Right 12/30/2005
I've always said you get out what you put in.Telling
a woman what she wants to hear and spending cash thats the
way to go. Shallow?...Maybe...True?...You Bet
0 Comments, 84 Views,
9 Votes
,0.43 Score
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people who have found someone 12/28/2005
how many people out there have found that perfect someone
on this site and built a relationship with them? do you continue
to come here, or do you let your subscription expire and
go offlline into real life? do you still seek thrills and
chills of swinging and the like? leave your comments on
what you think...
2 Comments, 202 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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The right way to grow love 12/26/2005
The man I met when I was a was the man I fell in love
with. He was much older and I was with him because everyone
else wanted to be. The passion was not alive, but he took
care of me and I knew he was my protector, but I also knew he
was my preditor. My first born is from him through wedlock.
After years of domestic abuse he assulted an authority
and I gained my freedom. A dumb ...
1 Comments, 151 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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ex's 12/23/2005
My partner had an affair with a lady that was on holiday..She
went back home, but they keep in contact by e mail and phone
sometimes.I have asked my partner to stop contact with
her so we could build our relationship up again..He says
there is no harm in it, but I do..Am I being selfish or silly
or should I just accept it???
6 Comments, 434 Views,
13 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Finding the Perfect Lover 12/22/2005
On and off I have been with Swapfinder.com for quite a while now. I joined
when I was mobilized as a major in the Army Reserve after
my spouse and I decided that two years spent mostly apart
would be worse than selectively finding a lover.
<br>
I opened with the fact that I have been off and on because
I have met several women through Swapfinder.com, most of them very nice,
and on a few occasions have ...
0 Comments, 454 Views,
17 Votes
,4.54 Score
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Truth 12/19/2005
You'll never find anyone normal. I mean what's
normal anyway, normal for who? But you'll definetly
find someone who suts you, everyone does. Even if they can't
stand them or stay with them, they're always there.
0 Comments, 56 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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wot to do 12/18/2005
do you think this is a good place to start a relationship
or is it to hard
0 Comments, 64 Views,
0 Votes
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how can i build a realationship 12/17/2005
can any body give me any help on this subject?
1 Comments, 263 Views,
0 Votes
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Should I stay with The Man Iam with 12/16/2005
I have a boyfriend whom I never get to see its not fair at all
he never calls i feel i should break up with but hes had his
heart broken by his babys Mamma she was such a slept
with his best friend while he was away for 2 and half yrs and
she got pregnant with another mans and she told my
boyfriend that she loved him and all this other bullshit
and she hurt him so i was there in the end ...
6 Comments, 363 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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online 12/15/2005
i find it hard to keep a relationship that began online.
most people here seem to be with someone already while looking
around and are not trusting because you were online looking
also. ironic?
0 Comments, 201 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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matter of mind 12/14/2005
Great sex is what everybody wants, even if that is part of
a stable relationship or not. How do we get it? Do we have
sex with the most good looking person we can get? Do we have
sex with the most liberated person we can find?? No, the
most mindblowing sex is with those people you connect with
on a mental and emotional level. You must want that person
body and mind to have the greatest sex. ...
0 Comments, 211 Views,
8 Votes
,5.80 Score
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From a date to a marriage 12/14/2005
It has been my experience that after you meet someone you
like, the best way to let the relationship is by letting
it follow it's own path. Too often, expectations push
a relationship in a direcion that is ackward or skews the
progress. So people say that a relationship is a lot of hard
work. Others try to reinvent the relationship at every
turn. And some, are constantly looking for ...
1 Comments, 1821 Views,
117 Votes
,6.68 Score
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Valentine's Day- How To Send your Love 12/12/2005
It's almost Valentine's day again and time to
express your feelings to your loved one.Here I am to help
you out along the way with some ideas and suggestions to
get your creative juices flowing!
So where do we start? Well there are approximately 1 billion
Valentine's cards sold every year. So this sounds
like a good place to begin.
Choosing a card.
There are so many ...
0 Comments, 396 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Y is it 12/10/2005
Y is it that when u r trying to build on a new relationship
sex seems to b the greatest with one another?
1 Comments, 124 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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hi to Ladies/Girls 12/8/2005
Hi
Girls can have fun with the same sex. But it is not possible
with men.
0 Comments, 161 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score
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What's wrong with wanting to date and be monogamous? 12/7/2005
My profile states that I am not looking for a one night stand,
but not looking for marriage either...I'm starting
to think that guys are taking this to mean "yes, I will
just sleep with you for nothing in return." The only
return I want is friendship and companionship, and a monogamous
sex life, which I also outline in my profile. I am really
curious why men seem so hesitant to explore the ...
8 Comments, 243 Views,
22 Votes
,4.93 Score
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Do contact site work long term 12/5/2005
I would like to hear from anyone who has met anyone on the
site and has formed a steady relationship.
<br>
The reason why I ask is, is it harder or easier developing
a relationship from a contact website rather than more
traditional channels
0 Comments, 77 Views,
5 Votes
,0.21 Score
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Here's to new beginnings!! 12/2/2005
I'm of african decent and i would like to meet women
of other races and/or nationalities (esp. caucasians,
indians/asians and other caribbean nationalities).
I'm looking for someone interesting, who is not totally
materialistic who is in search of new experiences. If ur
interested give me a shout at [daring] [.] [45] [at] [gmail]...
0 Comments, 64 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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Wondering if those in relationships feel the need to "swing?" 12/1/2005
And if the swinging community accepts them?
1 Comments, 56 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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dont expect them to change 11/28/2005
I started talking with another member on Swapfinder.com, we seemed
to have everything in common except one thing. From the
get go I told him that I didnt want to be in a relationship
that had . I dont want to be a mother, step mother
or "aunt" to . I dont want to be a mom
even if it is every other weekend and holidays. I would also
never ask someone to deny his for me. Well, he
said he understood. ...
1 Comments, 233 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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I still need more!!! 11/28/2005
First of all thank you very much allforfun for your responce
but I still realy did'not get out all the complecations
in my relationship. Now of course I am not thinking about
...well maby a little but I do understand that
if I was selfesh about the situation and had for my own
wanting to I would fail as a father for I would not be able
to hold up to my dutys as a father. You see my ...
0 Comments, 61 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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How can you say age dosent matter, and it mean something? 11/27/2005
Ok this is more or less a question for the more settled down
couples please help me out because I realy need some feed
back here!!! I am a 19 year old male I just got out of c. p. s.
( protective services at age 18. I know what people
might say when I say this but I find myself stangly drawn
to may lover who is 35. Not in any weired way more or less like
when you say "there the reason I get ...
2 Comments, 89 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Do u always know 11/27/2005
Do u always know when u have run across the right person for
u?If so how do u know that?
0 Comments, 102 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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What Is Love? 11/26/2005
I seem to hear women alot of time make reference to sex as
being apart of Love.. Being a female I find that to be a simple
thought anylonger.. To me sex is something instinctive,
something thats been going on since the beginning of time.
I feel love was put in when religions became a issue.
To me love is everything out of bed, how you treat each other,
how you get along with each ...
3 Comments, 309 Views,
21 Votes
,5.60 Score
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y does it take so long 11/25/2005
Y does it take so long to build on a relationship?Y can't
men b trustworthy?
0 Comments, 79 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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A good start, great start, or the best start of a FriendshipWB 11/25/2005
I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership.
I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could
in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little
bit of) the local male competition I have with men within
my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB.
<br>
After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing
to a few select women, my ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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many different kinks 11/24/2005
I am a happy married lady who enjoys many knd of things when
it comes to th bedroom. It took me a along time to even tell
my hubby about some of the things i enjoy, for fear he would
look at me as if though i was crazy. I did finally tell him
and he worked with me on them. But there is one I still hold
to myself. I would love to catch him putting toy in him. Stand
off to the side ...
0 Comments, 535 Views,
23 Votes
,3.71 Score
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How to handle Infidelity!!! 11/23/2005
Infidelity. Just the word can bring havoc and panic to the
heart of most committed people, married or not. It happens
all the time, we hear about it constantly. That coworker
at the office, the late-night call from a friend. But...it
never happens to US. Never in OUR relationship. Oh yes it
does. You'd better fasten your seat belts boys and
girls...this is one hell of a bumpy ride.
...
3 Comments, 385 Views,
18 Votes
,5.31 Score
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Getting Past Guilt - To freedom of Sexual Expression 11/23/2005
When I got married, I had spent four years with my partner,
but we had not once had a truly honest conversation about
our sexual fantasies. We’d try, but then get embarassed
or would tell only part of what we were thinking out of fear
of judgement. To be honest, I’m not even sure we knew enough
about our own fantasies to express them to each other, much
less to start ...
1 Comments, 916 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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advice from me 11/23/2005
i hope nobody reads thiscause im not saying much...im just
trying to get points for an upgrade and its getting frustrating
0 Comments, 40 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Wounded women 11/23/2005
I have ran into so many women that have been hurt in their
pasts and are not willing to give me the fair shake that I
deserve because of either their baby daddys who did them
wrong or just men in general. When are some women going to
learn not to punish new men in their life because of pain
others have caused them in their past? Holding on to the
past prohibits a future.
0 Comments, 55 Views,
0 Votes
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So quick to give up 11/23/2005
Why is is that some people think that when you first meet
that everything is supposed to be perfect and if it isn't
perfect they walk away? People have to understand that
when you are geting to know someone everything is not going
to be rosey because you are getting to know that person.
If an arguement or disagreement comes up that doesn't
mean something was not meant to be.
0 Comments, 27 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Give her an erotic foot massage... 11/22/2005
How To Give Her An Erotic Foot Massage (From A Female):
<br>
Nothing feels better when your feet are sore or tired than
a foot massage. The most important thing to a good foot massage
is to take your time. Take your lovers foot in your hands
and use your thumb to massage the base of the second smallest
toe. The tiny nerve endings here are supposed to put a person
in the mood for ...
0 Comments, 126 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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How to read her palm... 11/22/2005
HOW TO READ HER PALM:
<br>
As she runs her hand through her hair or does anything with
her hand, stare at her hands until she says, "What
are you looking at?" Then say, "Oh a friend showed
me how to read palms, so I've been noticing them lately."
<br>
The three lines cutting horizontally across a womans palm
tell you all you need to know about her. Just grasp her hand ...
0 Comments, 192 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How and why women test you part 2... 11/22/2005
How And Why Women “Test” You:
<br>
- NOT CREATED BY ME -
<br>
PART 2
<br>
First of all, let's talk about the whole concept of
"testing", and why women do it (and, more importantly,
how to deal with it when it happens).
<br>
In a nutshell, "testing" is a woman's way
of QUICKLY
finding out a lot of information with a very small
...
0 Comments, 92 Views,
0 Votes
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How and why women test you part 1... 11/22/2005
HOW AND WHY WOMEN TEST YOU
- NOT CREATED BY ME -
<br>
Have you ever called a woman on the phone to set up a date and
had her say: "Friday night? Sure. Call me on Friday
and we can talk about it..." ?
Or have you ever had a woman ask you if you're a player?
Or have you ever had a woman challenge you about something
ridiculous?
Or have you ever had a woman call you five ...
1 Comments, 280 Views,
0 Votes
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Women's erogenous zones... hot spots... 11/22/2005
A Womans Most Erogenous Zones:
<br>
Scalp- Massaging or scratching it releases pleasure hormones.
Inside the arm- Between the elbow and wrist, run fingers
lightly across.
Outside of earlobe- Stroke it lightly with fingertip.
Small of the neck- Flick your tongue lightly across this
spot.
Breasts- Stroke each breast in different directions starting
at the breastbone or almost ...
0 Comments, 136 Views,
0 Votes
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Article about sex...why we like it... 11/22/2005
All creatures do things that feel good and avoid things
that feel bad. The individuals who learn that best, live
the longest.
<br>
Both sexes get pleasure from touching themselves without
having to be taught.
<br>
learn to use touch as a means of connection at
least as expressive as - and certainly more satisfying
than - anything so detached as speech. ...
0 Comments, 72 Views,
0 Votes
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Top 10 women to stay away from... 11/22/2005
TOP 10 TYPES OF WOMEN TO STAY AWAY FROM
<br>
<br>
<br>
10) The Leech -
Wants all your time.
<br>
9) The Stage Hog -
Has to be the center of attention,
no matter what.
<br>
 The Gold Digger -
Compliments your "pricy" watch,
asks what kind of car you drive,
what you do, where you live, etc.
<br>
7) Mother Goose -
...
0 Comments, 1242 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Turn her on with little or no effort... 11/22/2005
TURN HER ON WITH LITTLE TO NO EFFORT...
<br>
<br>
- treat her with respect
- they are very susceptible to touching
- touch her things with delicate touching, this
subiminally sends a message that you'll touch her
with
the same consideration and care
- pay attention to her, most attractive is eye contact
- while maintaining eye contact, glance at parts of her
...
0 Comments, 205 Views,
0 Votes
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The laws of persuasion... 11/22/2005
LAWS OF PERSUASION
<br>
<br>
Law 1) Every persuasive force causes an opposite resisting
force. (Corollary: People resist being persuaded.)
<br>
<br>
Law 2) People will let you get your way if they believe doing
so will fulfill their personal needs. (Alternatively:
People buy if they believe buying will fulfill their personal
needs.)
<br>
<br> ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
0 Votes
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Ok I met this woman... 11/21/2005
Ok I met this woman I really like... she says she likes me
too... she says she wants to fool around and is as kinky and
wild as any dirty minded man! Even more so then me lol...
I have to chuckle the thought of a woman thinking she is more
wild then me...! But yet she keeps making reasons on why
we don't hook up and fool around already so WTF!?!?
2 Comments, 103 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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It takes time, a lot of time 11/20/2005
I think one of the keys to building a good relationship is
really getting to know one another. This is not accomplished
overnight, over the course of a few days or weeks . IT TAKES
TIME to get to know someone. In this environment, (Swapfinder.com)
pictures and words are about all that you have to to determine
if there is some chemistry, unless of course, you exchange
emails and , and do a lot of ...
0 Comments, 83 Views,
0 Votes
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Honesty 11/19/2005
Whether you are beginning or working on your current relationship!
All I can say is honesty, honesty! Without it you will fall
apart as your lies catch up woth you one by one! No matter
the severity of the lie! Sometimes the truth hurts but it
realy truly saves the time of a aching heart!
1 Comments, 155 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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what happened to my marriage 11/17/2005
I was just wondering what happens in a marriage that it just
goes south. I have been married for 12 years and am now currently
separated. I spent most of my time trying to please her with
all I have. New cars, personal stuff that I thought would
reflect how much I care about her and loved her. Sex seemed
to go away first. Then the simple hello in the morning to
goodbye when I was off ...
1 Comments, 150 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Should u have sex the first tim u meet 11/16/2005
can u have a meaningfull relationship if u have sex on the
first date
1 Comments, 192 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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HI 11/16/2005
Someone who doesn't mind screaming on a roller coaster
or letting me win a prize for him at a carnival. I guess what
I'm trying to say is that a perfect partner for me would
be someone who is real, different in his own way, and hopefully
likes a variety of things (from the common to the unusual
and offbeat). Someone who wouldn't grimace at the
thought of watching a B&W ...
0 Comments, 178 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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whats with male ego? 11/14/2005
why is ti that males seem to have this performance thing...they
believe the longer they go...the better the sex....(with
intercourse)
personallty i think a quickie can be just as fun
2 Comments, 134 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Guys... not getting any email responses?? 11/8/2005
I had originally posted this on the "advice"
section and someone suggested that I repost here.
<br>
I received mixed responses to this article. Some felt I
was being too demanding and unrealistic, I disagree. Some
felt these were good to think about. So please don't
flame me, I'm merely posting my experience at the request
of another.
<br>
I have seen lots of folks ...
7 Comments, 247 Views,
18 Votes
,6.54 Score
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The Annoyance that comes with living together. 11/8/2005
Personally I feel that their should be a federal law that
a couple should have to live together for one year minimum
before they could get a marriage liscense. Though if the
justice felt this not enough he/she tell them no to try living
togther longer.
<br>
Let me explain why. When your seriously dating you usually
only spend the weekend or a night here or there with the person. ...
2 Comments, 158 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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The sex was great but now the fire has gone 11/7/2005
Has anyone else been in long term relationship and found
that after doing it 3 times a week for a year, it just gets
a bit predictable?
Unfortunately for me it is now down to once a week or less.
And it doesnt last as long either because we dont do it as
much.
<br>
We used to go all night and it was amazing....
<br>
I need halp, can I dig myself out of this hole? ...
1 Comments, 71 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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try 11/3/2005
try if you love some one or they will go i found out the hard
way
0 Comments, 258 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score
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...Get Her to Try Anal Sex 11/2/2005
Many men fantasize about anal intercourse. Yet most women
cringe at the thought of backdoor penetration. But many
women can learn to love anal sex if it's introduced
in a gentle and gradual manner:
<br>
1: Get lubed.
There is little or no natural lubrication in the anus, so
you need to use commercial lubricants. (If you're
wearing a rubber, stick to water-based products.)
...
2 Comments, 276 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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the best keys to a long lasting relashionship 11/2/2005
i think the best keys to a long lasting, true relationship
are communication and honesty....but also u should be
tolerant, and pass on some small things your partner is
doing or saying....
0 Comments, 197 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Wow.... 11/1/2005
Building a relationship....is no easy task...it takes
work...its literally worse the na nine to five...but if
you truely love someone its worth all the work and sacrafice
in the end...trust me...you don't want any regrets...
0 Comments, 129 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Would you join a group... 10/31/2005
Dear Swapfinder.com members;
<br>
How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group,
where the membership requirements are. That you must be
willing to go with a current group member or the group’s
moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within
thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test
results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...
1 Comments, 135 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Human Magnetism 10/27/2005
What does it mean for a person to be attractive? I looked
the definition up in the dictionary and it said that to be
attractive is to be pleasing to the eye or mind. That doesn’t
tell me much though. I am an individual, looking at things
through a different set of eyes than anyone else. I analyze
and appreciate things within my own capacity. My mind is
my own, and it tells me what it ...
0 Comments, 122 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Socially online 10/24/2005
Do you think people who have a lot of online friends are social
people when they are not behind a keyboard?
1 Comments, 143 Views,
1 Votes
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Choose your words carefully... 10/22/2005
As a recent new member, I've learnt a valuable lesson
about the need for choosing words carefully when making
contact with other members.
<br>
I do try to study others' profiles carefully. On 2 occassions
(eventhough knowing there wasn't a strong match),
where they sounded very witty & intelligent, I just
felt I wanted to touch base and say hi to share the Swapfinder.com experience. ...
3 Comments, 433 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Top 6 Great Gifts for Boyfriends of 6 Months or Less 10/19/2005
1.Magic 8-Ball never fails to deliver. Part oracle, part
parlor trick this classic can be a game or a guide; it’s up
to him
2.The Teenage Guy's Survival Guide -
Help him understand you, yep guys get puzzled to, with this
acclaimed book written just for guys. He’ll get the lowdown
on everything that confuses a teenaged boy the most and
he’ll have you to ...
2 Comments, 2672 Views,
85 Votes
,1.31 Score
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Where To Begin 10/19/2005
Relationships are hard all around. They’re hard to find,
hard to maintain and they may rip you apart if they ever end.
But we do it. We put every ounce of energy into these relationships
because they’re worth it. And when you find that special
someone, that someone who is worth it, all trials and tribulations
seem minimal.
So what should you do when you meet that ...
5 Comments, 2075 Views,
109 Votes
,5.02 Score
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How does it compares? 10/5/2005
How do you compare this site to the either the bar scene or
the sex club scene?
<br>
My point of view is that this just provides a level of privacy
and distance to meeting poeple, while in the bar they are
in your (sometimes highly regarded) personal space. At
the same time this site gives you the opportunity to feel
in some way desired even before the first encounter, due
to ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Reality Bites 10/4/2005
There is a problem that I while spendiung countless of hours
on this website and is that a lot of people take this as a relationship
making website rather that what is advertised for a sex
site. Most of the members regardles of their paying status
make that intention abundantly clear especially the male
members and especially the couples, but the vast majority
are just play the field into ...
4 Comments, 236 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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You Gotta Read This One! 9/27/2005
When I first heard about it, I thought that thouhght that
it was just a joke. But it wasn't a joke. On October 24,
2005, over 3 milion men nation-wide have agreed to...
<br>
break up with their girlfriends/wives on the first ever
"NATIONAL DUMP YOUR WOMAN DAY." aka "DUMP-DAY."
This is an idea that was created by an international group
called "10 SOCIETY, " that is dedicated to ...
1 Comments, 378 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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Is distance an issue? 9/23/2005
After talking to some interesting guys from passion .com
we then come to the realise that we are miles apart, living
in different states but our chats have become so erotic
it leaves me keep asking the same question over and over
in my head IS DISTANCE AN ISSUE?
2 Comments, 278 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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one step at a time 9/20/2005
this is a tough one. each couple is different
0 Comments, 653 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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2005-09-13
Preface:
<br>
I recently met the most incredible woman on Swapfinder.com. Somehow
she enticed me into sharing my fantasy with her. Then after
writing several emails to each other “The Bellhop Twist”
emerged. This fantasy stuff is so much unlike me. In a million
years I would have never thought that building a fantasy
story with someone could be so intellectually and sexually
stimulating. I decided to share our fantasy in hopes that
someone else might enjoy it…
<br>
<br>
<br>
Sweet Anne,
<br>
Thank you so much for teaching me new things about myself
and for the wonderful experience!
<br>
“THE BELLHOP TWIST”
<br>
I contacted her via Swapfinder.com email and she replied back:
<br>
I'm a curious gal and I was wondering if you have a particular
fantasy you'd like to share. You know, can you be more
specific about what you like?
<br>
Animal sex...A purely physical and sexual encounter,
inside a hotel elevator.
<br>
BTW, your fantasy is exciting to me. I wonder if you would
pin my arms above my head at some point while we kissed deeply...
<br>
I would have you pinned against the wall... You are wearing
sandals, a sleeveless top, and a blue jean skirt....
<br>
My heart rate is increasing and my breathing is heavy. I'm
pressing my loins into you. You kiss my neck and it drives
me wild... I feel you unbuttoning my red sleeveless top.
<br>
And just as my hands are to touch your breast we hear a chime.
The elevator door begins to open slowly. We quickly rearrange
ourselves and regain our composure. The door fully opens.
Just off to one side a bellhop is standing there before us.
He glances into your eyes and he begins to smile. He senses
something about you...something very special. You stepped
onto the lobby floor, and proceeded to pass the small man.
As I begin to follow the bellhop steps in between us. The
wise man puts his hand on my chest, and he leans in towards
me. He softly whispers into my ear: "Be patient, go
slowly" "She savors the slow burn". I
then proceed behind you onto the lobby floor. As we walk
towards the dining area I am looking at your ass, and I am
thinking to myself...
<br>
"Damn, she's got a nice ass." As if on cue,
I bend over to adjust a strap on my sandal. I glance over my
shoulder and see you looking and smile.
<br>
I suddenly felt a "guilt of innocence", caught
with my hand in the cookie jar. As we approach the dining
area entrance we come upon an easel. The sign reads "
Dining Area Closed". I look you over, and with a shitty
grin, I tell you: "I want to eat in the room anyway".
<br>
<br>
I raise one eyebrow, put my hands on my hips and say "Oh
really? Well, are
you talking about food or what?". Your grin gets wider.
<br>
and I look into your eyes... I reply "WHAT!"
and you begin to smile...
You grab my hand, and with a soft but firm tone you say "take
me to the
room, NOW!"
<br>
We walk hand in hand back to the elevator. As soon as the door
closes, we embrace and kiss hungrily. I press my body into
yours.
<br>
I reach for the elevator key and switch it to “off”. The elevator
becomes very still. We are alone, under the soft burn of
the emergency lamp. I lift up your skirt and I press my thigh
between your legs. You draw me in closer. You feel the swelling
between my legs. I start kissing the cavity beneath your
ear and descend in the direction of your neck. As I approach
your lower jaw I feel your intense breathing stroking my
ear. You unbuckle my trousers and lift out my shirt. I feel
your warm hands touching my chest. I unbutton your top;
it falls to the floor. You pull off my shirt; it also, finds
the floor. I lift the straps off your shoulders and pull
your bra down to your waist. I draw you in close me. Your soft
breasts are pressing against my chest. I am kissing your
neck passionately. I unbutton your skirt and unzip it.
It falls to the carpet. You unzip my pants and they drop to
my ankles. I start caressing your entire body. I am touching
you all over and I feel dampness between your legs. You feel
stiffness between mine. We are out of control. In a tremulous
tone you whisper “I want you inside me”. I look into your
eyes. I reply “not yet”…
<br>
I drive you to the floor. I position your arms between you
and your bra. I tie my shirt around your head and cover your
eyes. I lower your head to floor gently. With your arms pinned
to your side, I cushion your head with your skirt and your
top. In a soft tone, I tell you: “I will not stop until you
say the word “bellhop” “relax and trust me.” I pull off your
sandals and start kissing your feet. One by one, I start
sucking your toes. I gradually ascend upward and start
kissing your ankles. I advance up the backs of your legs
slowly and focus on the cavities behind your knees. I continue
upward. As I approach your inner thighs, your legs begin
to quiver. I pause and I tell you: how incredibly sexy and
beautiful you are.
<br>
I place my hands on your groins. I gently peel your panties
off. I slightly elevate your thighs by cushioning your
butt with my jeans. I begin to focus on your inner thighs.
I kiss on them and nibble on them tenderly. As I cross over
between them I lightly rouse your clitoris with my tongue.
I am gently brushing the tips of your nipples with my fingers.
I feel your nipples getting harder. I begin to pinch them
with light pressure. Your back begins to arch and your hips
begin to rise. I start licking the outside of your pussy
lips. I lick between them, and I suck on them. I slide my tongue
in and out of you. I place my hands under your knees and push
your legs into your chest. I start rimming your ass. I slowly
begin to rock you back and forth. While you are rocking,
I’m licking your ass, your lips, and everything in between.
<br>
<br>
After a moment I revisit your breast and I begin to lick your
clitoris. I start to flick-it rapidly with the tip of my
tongue. I feel your body starting rock naturally and I sync-up
with your rhythm. As I give attention to your clitoris I
start to finger you. With two fingers in a circular motion
I slowly glide them in and out of you, going deeper and wider,
with each insertion. I turn my palm upward and with light
pressure I begin to massage your sweet spot.
<br>
Your body rocks faster and I stay in your rhythm. I gradually
apply more pressure on your sweet spot and nipple. I feel
your body starting to tremor. I start pulsing your sweet
spot with increased pressure. Suddenly you feel the most
intense and overwhelming sensation flushing throughout
your entire body. You cry out “OH MY GOSH” “OH MY GOSH” “OH
MY GOSH”…
<br>
I feel your contractions on my fingers and I lighten the
pressure on your nipple and your sweet spot. Your clitoris
becomes sensitive, and you quickly push my head away. I
continue massaging your sweet spot. I gradually apply
more pressure. I feel your body starting to tremor. I start
pulsing your sweet spot with increased pressure. Suddenly
you feel a deep sensation rolling throughout your body.
You cry out “OH MY GOSH” “OH MY GOSH” “OH MY GOSH”…
<br>
I feel your contractions and I lighten the pressure. I continue
massaging and I gradually apply more pressure. I feel your
body starting to tremor. I start pulsing you with increased
pressure. Suddenly you feel a deeper sensation rolling
throughout your body. You cry out “STOP!” “I CAN’T DO THIS
ANY MORE”. My cock is throbbing, and I say to myself “I can’t
wait to screw her brains out; but we will go another round”.
<br>
I feel your contractions and I lighten the pressure. I continue
massaging and I gradually apply more pressure. I feel your
body starting to tremor. I start pulsing you with increased
pressure. Suddenly you feel yet a deeper sensation rolling
throughout your body. And then you scream out “BELLHOP!”
“BELLHOP!”…
<br>
I hear someone yelling “bellhop” and I come to my senses.
I look around, but only the desk clerk and I are present.
I realize now I was daydreaming. I hear a chime and the elevator
door begins to open slowly. The door fully opens and there
before me is a man and woman. The woman steps onto the lobby
floor and proceeds to pass me. As I glance at her, I’m held
captive by her stunning eyes. The man begins to follow.
I step in front of him and I put my hand on his chest. With a
smile I lean in towards him and I whisper in his ear “Dining
area closed”. A strange feeling flashes over me; I relived
a moment that I’ve experienced once before…
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Patience 9/11/2005
I think in a realationship you have to take the time and understand
that your 2 different people, the best way to build a good
realationship is to be patient and accept the other people
the way they are, if you can do that, this your working against
the realationship the will in the end fail
0 Comments, 458 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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NATURE CULTURE 9/11/2005
Please see the articles on these pages
on relationship and partnership issues, naturism/nudism,
hedonism;
i.e. Nature Culture.
<br>
I send these materials to you in the belief that you, the
members of your organization and like minded friends are
open minded to consider these materials.
<br>
It needs to be remembered that at this time, with the New
Age ...
0 Comments, 868 Views,
12 Votes
,2.45 Score
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building a long distance relationship? 9/10/2005
While in this global world we are able to expand our horizons
beyond the streets and doorways of our towns and cites and
on occassion discover love/lust in far flung places (or
at least not easy to get there places).
So here is my question, what are ways to make a relationship
work long distance? Am i just chasing some dream ...
8 Comments, 2659 Views,
96 Votes
,4.09 Score
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what are the steps in building a relationship? 9/9/2005
relationships can be of two typs.
short and long terms. both are difficult in different ways.
the main ideas are to find the solution for these difficulties.
for this we got to have a view of our difficulties frst. so
lets do that.
0 Comments, 273 Views,
9 Votes
,0.65 Score
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How to make him let go? 9/7/2005
I'm stuck in a weird relationship. The guy I've
been dating for 2 yrs is great and we have a lot in common,
but
he's afraid of committment. I'm not asking for
him to pop the question, but I think I've stuck by him
long enough to warrant more than just a phone call every
other week. I trust him and I know he's not involved
with anyone else, but when I tried to break away ...
9 Comments, 614 Views,
19 Votes
,3.26 Score
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Let's Get Cooking 9/6/2005
I've always found that cooking together is a great
way to build a relationship.
Yeah, I know. Boring domestic stuff, you think. But, it
can be a lot of fun, and a great way to learn more about someone
you really want to spend some quality time with. And then;
after all the work, a nice, romantic (and hopefully delicious)
meal is ready to be shared.
...
2 Comments, 2095 Views,
87 Votes
,4.53 Score
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i haven't quite got there yet... 9/6/2005
its seems like i always end up with women too crazy to have
a healthy relationship... i think im there and then bam
its all comes out at once... you know all those feeling they
keep bottled up for one reason or another... i hope the next
woman wont be like that but i have got a great run going so
you never know... this happen to anyone else?
0 Comments, 399 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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No one wants the same thing 9/4/2005
Why is it that no one wants the same thing as everyone else
on this site, some people are looking to hook up for more
then just a one night stand, and others just want to hit it
and leave. SO if you have any reasoning behind this point
me to the way to the guys looking for more then just a one night
stand.
0 Comments, 422 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Worked for us!! 9/1/2005
HONESTY!!!!! Being completely honest with one another
has worked incredibly well for us. We're not gonna
tell you it has always been easy. It's been downright
hard sometimes to tell each other somethings. But we did
it anyway, and have loved the results. We understand what
each other desires, and know what to expect. That's
not to say we don't surprise each other. Just that we
feel ...
1 Comments, 1936 Views,
83 Votes
,4.01 Score
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Rushing into Relationships 9/1/2005
Has it come to this in todays time of rushing into a relationship
for sake of being in one? How long does it last and is there
any lasting thing to it?
<br>
There is no true meaning to it excpet for the quick slam bam
thank you. It then leaves bad taste in some peoples mouth
wondring why, then as quickly forgetting moving onto
the next.
Isn't there something missing from this?
...
1 Comments, 270 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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How to build a long lasting relationship 8/30/2005
Hello Can you tell me how to build a long lasting relationship
without haveing any strings attached.
1 Comments, 254 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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We don't just want sex. 8/26/2005
Why do women think that all we want is sex?
<br>
Fair comment that some men are like that. I am different,
I have been brought up different.
<br>
I prefer to chat and get to know people. I am on these pages
to have fun and get to know people. I am not going to be visiting
them for the purpose of having sex. I think a lot of women
are tarring us blokes with the same ...
2 Comments, 192 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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A Blind Date 8/24/2005
I was a senior in high school when a friend of mine called
one night and asked if I would go on a blind date so he could
see his girlfriend that night.I went and she was the most
beautiful woman I have ever met.We hit it off right on the
spot.We dated for a while then broke up.A few years later
we got back together and dated for about 6 months, as I was
in the Navy at the time and also ...
0 Comments, 280 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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3 Simple Rules.... 8/20/2005
Communication! Respect! Honesty!
1 Comments, 324 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score
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is love enough to build a great one? 8/17/2005
wat all do you think it takes to build up da ideal relationship???
i know its more then love but dat has to be there
1 Comments, 176 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Has anyone found out their spouse was cheating and stayed? 8/17/2005
My husband cheated on me with a co-worker. The affair went
on for four month. When I found out he was cheating he chose
her over me then a week later he came back, then it happened
all over again a few times.
<br>
After this on and off he broke up with her, and decided to
commit to me. At first I was happy about his decision because
I still love him very much and i have ...
13 Comments, 701 Views,
27 Votes
,4.61 Score
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How can I get noticed in such a crowded room? 8/17/2005
I'm new to this scene and I want to know how I can get women
interested in me. I want them to know that I'm not just
looking for a cheap lay without getting to know them first.
Although that might be what some women are looking for and
I know there are men to satisfy that desire. I'm trying
to meet someone that I can talk to and eventually build up
enough mutual trust and respect to meet ...
1 Comments, 266 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Meeting on Swapfinder.com and hoping it works. 8/16/2005
I am curious to know if anyone has met their so called "soulmate"
on here? I think I have found mine, for say. The greatest
guy I have ever met, all around, heart, body, and soul. I
knew the moment I met him that he was the missing link that
I had been longing for. We are not living together nor do
we have plans to but the way things are going is perfect.
Meeting online on a "sex site" of ...
9 Comments, 2926 Views,
128 Votes
,3.79 Score
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Getting what you want and others feel good about it. 8/8/2005
Toss out the ideas, folks. This one is clean. It can be applied
in any format you desire, but please don't allow for
those ideas to be suggested here. This is a framework of
getting there no matter what the topic is. So, you have your
plan set and you're ready to get started. Another person
who you value has another idea. You like the idea, but really
prefer to do what you have in ...
0 Comments, 188 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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SEXY VULUMTIOUSE WOMEN/ LIVING LIFE. 8/7/2005
I like to feel sexy, to live on the edge and to try new things.
I like to mix it up ad flavor to keep my man intrested. I DONT
KNOW WHY ? I always attract men who want it BUT WANT TO TAME
ME AT THE SAME TIME. Ive always been what they call a closet
women, only behind close doors. I ALSO LIKE TO BE CALLED
BITCH IN BED, ONLY. And to talk nasty, make me suck youre
nut etc. I also find alot of ...
1 Comments, 446 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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crisis? 8/1/2005
My girlfriend and I have a difficult six months but eventually
since early July everthing has been working out.
<br>
We have done the usual stuff but sex was not on the menu, until
recently.
<br>
To make long story short and save my blushes, we had sex the
day of her period.
<br>
It was my fist time, and was great though we had done much
of the foreplay ...
3 Comments, 252 Views,
18 Votes
,3.26 Score
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very good friends 7/29/2005
it would be nice to meet someone and really get to know them
and vice versa , so both of you can see if there is chemistry
or just go with the flow of discreet relationship's
or one night stand either is great , but you never know there
could be that special one out there .
1 Comments, 227 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Instructions for My Boyfriend 7/24/2005
I know you love me, which is why I finally feel comfortable
telling you what I want. It’s not so much that you’re doing
anything wrong, but I’m too shy to tell you what I really
want. There are things I want, things that turn me on, that
I’ve always hoped you would do to me, so let me give you some
direction.
<br>
First of all, ...
15 Comments, 7145 Views,
508 Votes
,8.17 Score
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why can't guys keep it real? 7/23/2005
I have been in a committed relationship for almost 6 years,
and recently I have been looking for someone to spend some
time with. You know what I'm talking about ladies......someone
to laugh with, talk to, someone to listen. Guys, don't
take this the wrong way, ...but you know that when you have
been with a woman for a long time, typically you take her
for granted. Now don't get me wrong, I ...
2 Comments, 709 Views,
23 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Wow! 7/19/2005
After 10 years of being together, my husband still turns
me on the same way he did when we met. And, I turn him on more
than I did to begin with!
Let me start off by clarifying the start of our relationship.....
we were a one night stand that has lasted 10 years! We had
met and had alot of mutual friends but were never around
at the same time. When we were both finally there at ...
6 Comments, 5835 Views,
279 Votes
,6.10 Score
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How long? 7/18/2005
I know this question has is been asked to death, but I must
ask how long dose a person wait for intmaticy or a real sign
for something to hold on to. Here is the situation. I met
this beautiful lady on Swapfinder.com and when we met it was good enough
to meet again and again with emails and then phone calls
etc. After a while of talking and learning more about each
other she decides to take it ...
1 Comments, 434 Views,
17 Votes
,4.96 Score
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What takes up in building a strong love relation 7/18/2005
I have been thinking a lot regarding what makes a love relation
more strong and florish. People I would like you to post
your reviews and suggestions.
Thank you
2 Comments, 338 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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The beginning is the most important 7/17/2005
When young and in a relationship, one must always pay attention
to their spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend or etc, and give
them attention, because if you don't. Then someone
else will.
1 Comments, 382 Views,
16 Votes
,3.57 Score
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The Line! 7/14/2005
As I approach the line, a glance at the people in front of
me reminds me that it will be some time before I get out of
this place.Standing there-trying to be invisible-when
I'm awakened by the scent of the person in front of me.I
can feel the hair on my neck as it starts to rise.I think to
myself, "what is wrong with you?" She turns
her head slightly.I can see the outline of her face."Who ...
1 Comments, 491 Views,
20 Votes
,5.81 Score
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cuddling 7/13/2005
In this day and age, young lovers and not so young lovers
are faced with
a nearly insurmountable task of recapturing romance in
a very busy world.
We have become a society at the speed of light and in doing
so, we have forgotten the
sensual pleasure of presenting a dew covered rose to a lover
with breakfast in the morning because there simply isn't
time for it.
<br>
I contend ...
1 Comments, 234 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Baggage The type you "want" to Lose 7/12/2005
In relationships the worst term I hear is the term "baggage"
(please note I am not referring to ) I am referring
to what we are accustomed to in our previous relationships
and we bring into the current one. We expect that because
this is the way it was previously this is the way it will be...NOT
TRUE!!! We need to lose that baggage...just like no 2 snowflakes
are alike so can be said for ...
1 Comments, 178 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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The building blocks to a successful relationship 7/10/2005
Today's life is so fast that we dont find time to look
towards our relationship with friends, family and others.
Through this article I would like to know what can a man do
to achieve the best in all the fields.
0 Comments, 164 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Ex Wifes 7/8/2005
Why is it that Ex-wifes hang on to something that is no longer
there.My ex husbands first wife kept trying to hang onto
him and then when she found on that he cheated on me with my
best friend she finally gave up on him.S he hounded us and
even tried to kidnap our saying they were hers and everything.She
would constantly call the both of us at work.Why would a
ex wife do that?
2 Comments, 348 Views,
18 Votes
,0.94 Score
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i meet a great guy on Swapfinder.com the love my life 7/6/2005
durning the worst of the time of my life back in march my marriage
was going down hill.i meet him here on Swapfinder.com
he picked up the pieces of my broken heart . i never had a man
treat me like a queen.and just want say thanks to Swapfinder.com for
bring us together
0 Comments, 156 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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unfortunately till now 7/2/2005
not yet find short or long term ralationship....
1 Comments, 333 Views,
15 Votes
,1.45 Score
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Starting with sex? 6/29/2005
Can there possibly be a long lasting relationship that
starts with meeting for sex?
<br>
There seems to be an impression among some women on here
that this is possible.
<br>
I don't think so. What do you think?
6 Comments, 254 Views,
13 Votes
,4.32 Score
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head games or deception 6/28/2005
“Please no HEAD GAMES.”
<br>
That’s a favorite phrase in many profiles.
<br>
How about this.
<br>
I don’t think two people can avoid playing head games.
<br>
Let’s face it, parents play head games with their and
eventually the learn the games and begin to play head
games with their parents. play head games with
their ...
3 Comments, 128 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Take it slow 6/28/2005
What's the best way to keep yourself emotionally detatched
from someone? Do you have a good way to have sex and still
remain a little distant?
1 Comments, 144 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Building a relationship 6/27/2005
Communication is for sure very important for a relationship.
But can a relationship, even with good communication,
survive without good sex?
3 Comments, 169 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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How long do you wait 6/27/2005
How long would you wait to meet a person you were chatting
with online?
<br>
I have met a wonderful woman online who makes my heart race
as we chat. I feel a need to meet her but will that spoil what
we have?
<br>
Please advise me your thoughts
6 Comments, 263 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Strong Will Woman 6/26/2005
She comes from a long line of women who have always been head
of the household and called the shots, and NEVER had any
strong male role models around. In that situation one can
only understand a woman being that way. But those near and
dear to her need to know "that she" cares because
the words "I love you" and hugs and other signs
of affection are hard to come by from ...
3 Comments, 206 Views,
16 Votes
,3.72 Score
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Why is it.... 6/24/2005
Why is it that after a girl has had a long term relationship
which ended in the other partner cheating on her....will
it take them over 6 months before they possibly even think
about entering into another relationship?
<br>
How long should it take?
8 Comments, 199 Views,
9 Votes
,0.22 Score
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this is tough... 6/22/2005
this can be tough or easy. what do you do to make it as easy
as you can. is it easier with a stranger, or a friend.
2 Comments, 191 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Foregiveness 6/22/2005
Many people seem to think that no one should ever be disowned…
<br>
How would you handle someone if you knew they intentionally
did things with the intention of strictly bringing harm
to another?
<br>
If they used every man or woman that crossed their path?
<br>
And when you finally confront them about the issue…
<br>
They make absolutely ...
1 Comments, 75 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Get help - you need it. 6/22/2005
Do you feel the last of passion in your relationship? Do
you feel that he/she is not meeting your needs? I use to think
my wife had to feel this void in me. She had to be the one who
at all times would help me feel better about myself. When
she didn't I felt betrayed and alone. I was setting
her up for failure and myself too. The problem is I didn't
know my low esteem would not be ...
2 Comments, 139 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Guys Just LISTEN already! 6/22/2005
I was talking to a friend who was in the middle of a separation.
He wanted so badly to fix the situation but his wife made
it clear she needs space. What was his plan of attack? To
call her about everything asking her opinion. He wondered
why she wouldn't return his calls. This is a classic
example of the lacking of listening done but us, the stronger
sex. It took alot of therepy and ...
3 Comments, 188 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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To say..or not to say? 6/21/2005
Very recently I've started dating a guy and we really
hit it off, and even though there's an attraction to
each other I'm holding off from jumping into bed with
him right away because I really like his friendship and
I want him to stick around. We've talked about anything
and everything so far, except for the fact that I'm
on this website. I'd like to know if anyone out there
...
5 Comments, 332 Views,
17 Votes
,4.54 Score
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Just Half-way out the closet 6/21/2005
Ok....I know I'm not the only one who's curious.
What do you do when you're married and willing. I guess
just being Bi.... but secretly. How do you let your secret
be known and not published. How do you know who's down
and who's not. Are there topics, gestures..What??
2 Comments, 143 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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