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real date 11/8/2011
can you have a real date in adultfrienfinder for sex? i could'n
find any girl in there if i am a vietnamese
4 Comments, 52 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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WANT TO SEE WOMEN 11/7/2011
IAM ALONE WANT RELATIONSHIP
@ SEX WITH WOMEN...
3 Comments, 98 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score |
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hen ho qua mang 11/4/2011
Ban co nghi la hen ho qua mang la trung thuc hay ko. Doi khi
toi nghi nhung nguoi tren mang thong thuong la ko trung thuc,
va hen ho qua mang cung la ko trung thuc, tuy nhien cung co
1 so it nguoi la trung thuc. Nhung that kho de tim duoc nguoi
trung thuc tren mang fai ko ban.Hay gop y nha, thanks.
1 Comments, 15 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Training Date 11/1/2011
You are wearing a short red dress with black nylons . The
dress flows smoothly over the curves of your soft figure
. I grab you by the back of your neck and force you down over
my desk. You turn and look at me with contempt.
Holding your head down with my left hand , I stroke my right
hand down the seam of your body to the nape of your arching
back . just above your ass cleavage. Pausing ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score |
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Your Smile 10/20/2011
Your Smile
Your smile is like a beautiful sunrise, spreading its rays
of heated love through my very soul. It feeds my heart with
the food of romance, passion, and desire that I crave. When
you’re sad, angry or confused it fills your eyes with
those cold tentacles of sadness that slides through my
veins chilling me. When I see it so, the desire to rush forward
and wrap my arms around ...
7 Comments, 199 Views,
26 Votes
,4.54 Score |
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Deal Breakers 10/18/2011
Relationships end for many a reason, and for myself now
that I've gotten a few dates in the last while it's
mostly been a lack of connection, but every so often there
is a magical point where something is said, done or revealed
that ends all potential.
It could be as benign as a difference of opinions on a single
subject or some sort of physical imperfection that you
just cannot deal ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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slow dancing 10/9/2011
As the weather gets colder, I enjoy dancing on a date, it
is good excercise and a lot of fun. It also helps your mood
and shows your partner that you can get into a rhythem, and
if you can have rhythem in dancing you will have a better
rhtthem in the bedroom. besides it is a good way to meet other
singles and start a short conversation. It is also a lot
of fun.
1 Comments, 17 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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How Long? 9/12/2011
How long should I wait before trying to have sex with a person
I just started dating?
4 Comments, 49 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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HPV anda Dating 9/11/2011
I have been talking to a woman I have known for a long time.
We always had somewhat of a spark between us. Recently we
have had some very long conversations where things might
move to the next level. She has openly told me that she carries
HPV and her ex-husband is a herpes carrier. She assures
met that the herpes is not an issue as she is clean.
I am very clean and have never been ...
4 Comments, 94 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score |
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Teasing ur date 9/11/2011
Can teasing your date too much be a bad thing that she'll
get pissed?
1 Comments, 62 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score |
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Are the people here for real? 9/3/2011
I often wonder how real the people are on here, do they visit
Swapfinder.com as a novelty, being nosey?, curious? Or are they really
looking? I am curious if there is a percentage that is known? I have
found people on here that act like they are here for a reason,
but they get a case of scruples when it comes time to actually
meet! Are we "that" type of society? Wouldn't it be nice to live in the free love ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score |
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dating 9/3/2011
why is dating so hard now and days, seems like everybody
is breaking up. what is the problem with dating in 2011
1 Comments, 24 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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Ehh 8/30/2011
Dating hasn't really gone too well for me. I'm
more prone to protect my feelings and just have friends
with benefits.
1 Comments, 14 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score |
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austin texas? 8/30/2011
anyone single males under 50 live near austin texas?
10 Comments, 201 Views,
26 Votes
,3.56 Score |
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kool 8/17/2011
dating is fun cause it gives you the time to see if ur really
interested in the person and your not yet commited
2 Comments, 17 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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hooking up? 8/10/2011
where would you say people hook up at the most?
3 Comments, 46 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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does anyone actually date people on here? 8/10/2011
do people actually find good people on here to date and what
kind of relationship comes of this?
4 Comments, 65 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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Looks vs Personality 8/7/2011
If you had to choose between looks vs personality, Which
would you choose?
3 Comments, 46 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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getting some 8/3/2011
Just trying to get points
2 Comments, 38 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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Hotel or Motel 7/30/2011
What do you prefer hotel or motel
3 Comments, 55 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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420 dating 7/13/2011
Mary and I are the best of friends. She has been the end of
a few relationships. If I may pose a question to the ladies
what turns u on/off about a guy who smokes...? alot...
2 Comments, 53 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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online dating 7/4/2011
offers a fresh lease of air and a feeling that one is still
young no matter what the age. Add internet to the feeling
and one gets to have the perfect combination of chance and
opportunity with a probability of meeting newer people.
Internet or online dating has been instrumental in offering
a newer lease of life to many who seemed to fear the whole
concept of dating. The courage ...
1 Comments, 18 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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Black women/Italian men 7/2/2011
I absolutely love Italian men and i cant put in to words
why i always in up dating someone who is Italian or mixed
with Italian.
have u ever dated an Italian man or someone mixed with Italian?
black women/italian men...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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death of Swapfinder.com 6/29/2011
Has the death of Swapfinder.com come about? Any people who were here
over 5 years ago maybe know what i am talking about
5 Comments, 98 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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Girl with parental control issues. 6/22/2011
I recently got divorced from a girl who was arrogant, manipulative,
unloving, self-centered and a cheater. oh and in the 5 months
we were married, we didnt sleep together even once.
The first question youll ask me is why d fuck did u get married
to her. We had been going out for what can only be described
as forever and it came to a point where it was get married
or get lost. Thinking i ...
0 Comments, 78 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score |
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how to meet 6/21/2011
anyone actually have any real luck here?
3 Comments, 61 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score |
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Nice or naughty ;-) 6/17/2011
What do you go for in a relationship? NICE OR NAUGHTY?
4 Comments, 41 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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Swapfinder.com experiences 6/5/2011
How many of you all have had good/bad experiences off Swapfinder.com?
4 Comments, 75 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score |
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Long terms relationships off Swapfinder.com 6/3/2011
Why are some people (mostly women) surprised by the fact
men aren't looking for a LTR on Swapfinder.com?
2 Comments, 31 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score |
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Long Term FWB 6/3/2011
Does that constitute a boyfriend gf relationship? Seems
so...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
0 Votes
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wife strecht out 5/28/2011
My wife had made her first date but the guy never showed then
we remembered that she had met him Sunday and we assumed
he new we went to the casino on sat. Well to make a long story
short she met a trucker there at the casino he was all over
her he invited her to go see his truck she did . Sorry writing
this on my cell story to long I already posted it on our blog
if you want to know the rest ...
6 Comments, 301 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score |
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role reversal 5/18/2011
I have come to the conclusion that men and women of a certain
age have completely switch roles.
Once men and women get to a certain age "21-25"
and women "19-27" it seems that the roles we
fit in have completely switch poles.
Men these days do want , know how to cook, clean, iron,
shop, provide, and decorate. where as back in the day a bachelor
was someone that usually didnt ...
7 Comments, 48 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score |
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Question for the ladies... 5/11/2011
Would you have a problem dating a bisexual man?
I just had my heart broken by a woman, who knew I was bisexual,
but just could not handle it. She thought she wouldn't
be enough for me, or worse yet, that I would give her some
kind of social disease.
1 Comments, 73 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score |
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dating 5/6/2011
Why find a date on the internet?
21 Comments, 235 Views,
39 Votes
,2.83 Score |
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long term 5/4/2011
Hello my name is nyssa and my husbands name
is doug. We are looking for a girl to join us to welcome into
our family. This is for the both of us not just one.
We have been curious about this for a long time and we want
to get out there and see if some ladies are interested. I
hope this isn't too weird for us to be looking for an
additional lover for the both of us. But if ...
7 Comments, 127 Views,
20 Votes
,2.87 Score |
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my wife on her first date 4/20/2011
My wife has her first date this sat. I hope it finally happens
she met him at a casino they have talked about 5 times he has
ben building up a relationship he is married so nothing
will come of it he just wants to fuck her and she wants to fuck
him I'm so excited. She told me I wasn't alowwed
to go and believe it or not that excites me a lot too
4 Comments, 191 Views,
14 Votes
,2.34 Score |
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How do I get her back 4/19/2011
Just got out of a relationship but want her back. how do I
get what I want back?
1 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score |
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Swapfinder.com SUCCESS STORIES IN INDIA 4/11/2011
India is known to be an anti sex country. Its probably why
there is so much pent up sexual frustration in everyone.
So much so that when a bikini clad woman, or a guy in trunks
is shown in a bollywood movie, the audience starts panting
for breath and guys take a little extra time in the washroom
on returning home.
I had serious doubts about the success i would find on registering.
Most ...
1 Comments, 66 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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Online expectations 4/10/2011
What are your true intentions when you are online looking
to hook up fun only, short term , full filling a fantasy or
searching for something real and deeper ?
4 Comments, 30 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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Online dating experiences good vs the bad 4/10/2011
If you have been dating or playing online for awhile now
talk bout your experience does the good outweigh the bad
?
0 Comments, 33 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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36 and still single 4/4/2011
never been married or engaged, no where close. Is it really
meant to be so difficult!?!?
4 Comments, 73 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score |
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sex with strange woman 3/24/2011
i mat a strange woman in train she was not old enough
and she was marrie . i did friendship, and asked for the sex
experienced. she agreed and after i started she suck my
dic and my nippal i really enjoyed. and wish that every sex
lover get this opperunity....
1 Comments, 102 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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Wow what a learning curve this is going to be 3/15/2011
I have been in a relationship for a quite a few years up until
six months ago. I have had a few dates since (not from here)
and I am blown away as to how much you forget about new relationships.
It's such a steep learning curve for me because of the
things you take for granted when you're with someone
for an extended period of time. You have the initial physical
attraction which is ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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What turns you off? 3/14/2011
Just wondering what some of your big turn offs?
4 Comments, 41 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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Swapfinder.com 3/13/2011
dating on this site really sucks
9 Comments, 178 Views,
20 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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i cant fall in love 3/10/2011
why i cant fall in love
0 Comments, 20 Views,
0 Votes
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Dating.....a Woman's View 3/7/2011
When you are dating..... Farting is never an issue. When you are married ....You make sure there's nothing
flammable near your husband at all times.
When you are dating..... He takes you out to have a good time.
When you are married ....He brings home a 6 pack, and says
"What are you going to drink?"
When you are dating..... He holds your hand in public. When you are married ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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dating 3/1/2011
hi help me
1 Comments, 39 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score |
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Sexy Asian Girls 3/1/2011
I LOVE YOU!!!!
1 Comments, 66 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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Hooking Up 2/26/2011
Does having sex too soon contribute to relationships that
do not work out?
2 Comments, 68 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Dating seems to be the most mindless activity. 2/26/2011
I'd equate the act of dating with searching for gold
in a garbage can. Perhaps it's my naturally pessimistic
nature, but I can't see a point in dating when I know
I'm incompatible with 90% of the women around my age.
My thought process is too different, (not saying better
or worse) and most women can't see that far outside
of the box. I can never be myself when dating, I have to dumb
my ...
3 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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hard times for trust 2/21/2011
It is hard to believe it but it is not that easy meeting someone
for real. At least for us is being an awful experience sometimes
because people is very wary of us even when we show everything
they ask for. Sometimes you are not sure if you are trying
to date a girl or if we are under the attention of Scotland
Yard! And which is worse, after show them our photos, talk about
our life, our job, our ...
2 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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Black and white 2/21/2011
What is it these days that people can't get over an interracial
couple? My girlfriend's color shouldn't mean
anything to you, yet some people choose to glorify their
ignorance. Really, I laugh at all the pitiful people who
try to point us out in a crowd, or make the loud comments,
or just stop and stare. It's actually amusing to see
such stupidity these days. We have so much more to worry
about ...
3 Comments, 92 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score |
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FOR REAL 2/13/2011
how long does it take for ppl to get a meet of this site. are
ppl for real or fake
0 Comments, 13 Views,
0 Votes
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Offer for Pakistani Girls ... Genuine and Sincere 2/6/2011
My Dear Hotties,
I know most of you have a lot of imaginations and fantasies
to act out. The only thing that inhibits most of you from
going full bore is the social restrictions and the fears
attached to a girl in our society. Who doesn't want
to have sex after all these organs have been created with
the same purpose. Most of you do masturbate regularly as
far as my survey and ...
4 Comments, 141 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score |
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Terrified of Discovery 1/24/2011
I am a single dad. A father of three who are my entire
world. I am very responsible: I keep a clean house, cook
healthy meals for my , work hard, and I have never brought
another woman around them.
I rarely focus on myself. During the four days each month
that I do not have them I clean, and write music. I have recently
decided that I have been alone long enough, so here I am...on ...
3 Comments, 85 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score |
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It's Just Sex! 1/24/2011
Can anyone ever say sex is just sex? A one night stand is just
a one night stand, but how often can people actually be friends
with benefits? From personal experience I can tell you
that one person will generally come to expect more.
With a site like Swapfinder.com.com, it does seem more
likely to find someone who's willing to "just
have sex, " but if he/she becomes a frequent ...
2 Comments, 55 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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who hates this? 1/7/2011
when ur bf or girlfriend is always asking, "are u sure
u wanna be with me." that is one of the most annoying
things!
1 Comments, 29 Views,
9 Votes
,1.50 Score |
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What should i say? 1/7/2011
My ex wants me to break up her BFF cuz all we do is screw all
day and all night. should i just tell her to get lost?
1 Comments, 44 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score |
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Getting attached 12/29/2010
Basicly when ever i meet new people i tend to get attached
really easily. If i meet a girl just with the intention of
having a laugh and some fun i always end up getting attached
and miss them when im not with them. I just wondered if anyone
else has this issue? thanks
3 Comments, 64 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score |
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My AWESOME date! 12/23/2010
The evening started out great, I recieved a phone call,
and the lady on the other end told me she had free time if I
wanted to grab a drink! Sure, I said, I can head out in about
30 minutes! She said great, I will see you then! She gave
me the street and the number, and hung up! So I decide to hop
in the shower since I was hoping to get laid that night, I
thought it best to wash my partner in ...
1 Comments, 145 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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dating a married woman 12/21/2010
I would love to sent my wife on a date personally as a man knowing
that all she want is to go out and have a good time would you
date a married woman if the husband drove you guys around
2 Comments, 134 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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Dating improves happiness! 12/18/2010
Dating improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief.
...
2 Comments, 35 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score |
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why do girls play games. 12/18/2010
games are for
2 Comments, 28 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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Age ! 12/8/2010
Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you don't
mind, it doesn't matter....
8 Comments, 40 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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private lives and lack of interest on these sites 12/4/2010
i love this site but the lack of interest to our profiles
without face shots some of us have very high emd careers
and family our reputation is on the line so we must be desrete
on here i dont know why when we msg a person they do not respond
back because we want to chat and get a level of trust built
before we send private pics and kinda reveal our private
lives i just wish people on here would ...
4 Comments, 57 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score |
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What do women really like!? 11/15/2010
Just wondering what you women think about in dates. Would
you rather go to a nice dinner all romantic, or something
casual, like a movie and just hanging out in eachothers
company?
1 Comments, 38 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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dating? 11/15/2010
Anyone have any dates from this site how has it gone?
3 Comments, 36 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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whens a good time? 11/3/2010
so my g/f and i have an open relationship, and weve been together
for about 7 months now, and im wondering if it should stay
open or not?
2 Comments, 59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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interacial 11/2/2010
why are there still people who wont date outside their race
8 Comments, 124 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score |
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What do you think of blind dates? 11/1/2010
Would you ever go on a date where you have absolutely no clue
as to what the person looks like?
1 Comments, 13 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Right Time 10/27/2010
If you are friends with someone who enjoys your company,
and doesn't mind having a sexual relationship with
you, when's the right time to ask that person if anything
can go any further? I was in a similar situation, but it kind
of backfired. Instead of keeping it on a friends with benefits
level, feelings got involved and lets just say it didn't
end pretty at all.
1 Comments, 55 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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havveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 10/24/2010
llllllllllllllllllooooooooooooooooooootttttttttttttsssssssssssssssss
ooooooooooooooffffffffffffffffff ssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2 Comments, 14 Views,
0 Votes
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Getting To Date Number Two 10/17/2010
I've been keeping track of the things which turn dates
off and on. Of course, this is from a guy's point of view,
and most of this will apply toward men, but I think some of
these things can apply in a similar way to women.
--Avoid talking about ex wives, husbands, girlfriends,
or other dates. This gives the impression you aren't
over the previous person. If someone likes you, ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score |
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The actual first date. 10/10/2010
when you are past the meet and greet and if you get to the first
actual "date" I always try to start with a mutually
comfortable setting, dinner, or a movie, or dance. it makes
both parties feel more comfortable, but what if they change
things up. we should be willing to try new things, for example
on one of my first dates we couldn't agree on the restaraunt,
so we decided to just go for a drive. ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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add me 10/6/2010
add me friend tq
2 Comments, 15 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Top 10 Dating Tips 9/20/2010
Top 10 Dating Tips Dating Tips and Advice for Singles
Whether you are new to the dating scene, are reentering
the dating scene, or are a serial dater, you can use dating
tips and advice. No one is a dating expert – even the most
beautiful and wealthy people all struggle with matters
of the heart. Everyone can learn something about how to
date more, how to attract the types of people we ...
3 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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bangalore dating 9/20/2010
hii if any girl want to dating with me then mail me
1 Comments, 68 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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dating 9/4/2010
would anyoe date me?
2 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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vampires… 8/30/2010
…they say that a vampire cannot
enter your home unless you invite it in…so be careful who
you extend invitations to…
…we all know what a vampire does…it lures you in with its
beauty, its charm and its promise of ecstasy…as you invite
the vampire into your house, you invite it into you…because
once it is in your house there is no stopping it…it is ...
9 Comments, 147 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score |
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Lie 8/28/2010
Never lie or start off by telling the truth?
5 Comments, 71 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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meeting someone online 8/26/2010
Anyone was in a situation where they met someone online,
then someone else asks you, how did you 2 meet, and you're
kind of embarrassed to say that you met online??
7 Comments, 77 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score |
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older men, mature love. continued. 8/25/2010
however, what frightens me is mind control from a government
or higher power that would force a you to only associate with others of your age; and to to avoid those
older or younger than yourself with (i don't know) say mild electric shocks for any aberrant
behavior. America is free!
should the younger woman associate with or date older men.
of course you should! the generations have ...
4 Comments, 121 Views,
17 Votes
,5.25 Score |
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don't get caught in the wrong car, with the wrong guy. 8/25/2010
advice for dating someone blind:
ask about recreational drug use. when you're dating
someone unfamiliar to you, better check he's got you
in a drug-free environment. sorry.
what's in that (his) car your getting in? is it (the
car) drug-free? you don't wanna get stopped by the
cops, discover your date's trafficking, transporting
illegal substance backseat, or trunk; and have to ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score |
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why oh why? 8/23/2010
ive noticed in begining relationships that a few gurls
would go all out to please me sexually and it seemed to me
that after they felt like they had me, it would dwindle off!lol
i told one friend that she didnt want me to do nothing but
pay her light bill when she tried to put it on me the first
time- does anybody attract liers, cheats, and thieves
too?
1 Comments, 34 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score |
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why most woman dont want to show 8/18/2010
why most woman dont want to show them self are they scared
any thing
1 Comments, 23 Views,
0 Votes
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Is 'any hole a goal' 8/18/2010
Since we are all members of a website that is primarily aimed
at helping people find sexual partners the question arises...Is
any hole a goal, or are more people looking for the type of
person you would actually date if you met them in a bar. Do
men and women look at this differently? Personally I have
had many offers of sex, but many of the people offering it
are 'not my type' so am I guilty ...
8 Comments, 136 Views,
14 Votes
,4.42 Score |
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wat a girl wants 8/10/2010
deos a girl want a big dick that hurts or one they can barely
feel?
1 Comments, 69 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score |
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dating asians 7/29/2010
i dont know why but i love asian ass.i cant get enough i like
it all day everyday
2 Comments, 101 Views,
12 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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She comes with Baggage 7/18/2010
By NADINE WILSON All Woman writer Monday, July 12, 2010The Jamaica Observer
IN the general sphere of things, men tend to travel light,
while women have no problem tagging along heavy carry-ons.
However, when it comes to relationships, both sexes are
equally guilty of carrying excess baggage. The structure
and nature of this baggage varies, with some having the
potential to weaken a ...
2 Comments, 73 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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Whats the one thing that will kill a first date? 7/17/2010
I'm saying bad breath!
5 Comments, 67 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score |
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MONOGAMOUS or POLYGAMOUS? 7/14/2010
Greetings. I am currently single again after another long
(2 years) relationship, and now that I've been looking
around and doing some dating I have to ask your opinion on
monogamy and polygamy. Since keeping options open seems
to work better for some. But it still would be nice to have
a steady thing who stays on call. But all opinions are welcome.
2 Comments, 41 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score |
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First date 7/9/2010
I recently met a younger woman on line, she had recently
broke up with her boyfriend and wasn't interested
in meeting. I grntly persued her offering only dinner and
conversation.
We met at a restaurant two days after first contact and hit
it off. I was sitting outside waiting for her; I recognized
her immediately and my cock responded immediately. We
were understanding of each other's ...
2 Comments, 132 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score |
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dating 7/8/2010
dating is special for all young middle age and old, now a
days it has become fashan most of the people like to go for
date and wanted to call on dates.
1 Comments, 27 Views,
0 Votes
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Is a hike a good first date 7/4/2010
Hiking and backpacking is my favorite summer activity.
I'm just curious, do people think that going on a hike
is a good first date or no. It's a great opportunity
to spend some time talking, but walking up a mountain can
get sweaty.
3 Comments, 42 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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How to first ask a girl? 6/25/2010
How do you begin to ask a hot girl out who you don't know?
4 Comments, 56 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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whats the best and worst date you been on 6/21/2010
whats the best and worse date you ever been on
3 Comments, 36 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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make love 1 night? 6/1/2010
do u make love on 1 night?
1 Comments, 41 Views,
0 Votes
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Maturity ! 5/21/2010
Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences
you've had, and what you've learned from them,
and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated....
3 Comments, 39 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score |
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Dating quiz test 5/11/2010
hey there, mainly looking for ppl to talk to/ hang out with
in my area or beyond! Adventure partners welcome!
I know i look very scary/serious in my pics but im totally
not in real life, just the goofy ones look soooooo terrible!
I "have my sh*t together" but if thats something
thats really important to you then your probably looking
for something a little more serious than i am. I like ...
1 Comments, 30 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score |
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Why Do Men & Women Cheat? 5/9/2010
No one wants to take the blame on this issue. Everyone wants
to pass the buck. Guaranteed, no one is going to like my article
because I put the blame exactly where it needs to be.
People cheat because they don't get what they need
at home & they have the opportunity.
Let that sink in for a moment. I have never had a man cheat
on me. Back off bitches, retract your claws. I don't ...
9 Comments, 199 Views,
29 Votes
,4.54 Score |
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3 month rule 5/8/2010
when your dating someone, you should wait a least 3 months
before you truely fall for them. the 3 months is use to feel
them out to see who they are as a person. if you do this youll
have less problems in the future with your significant
other....
2 Comments, 45 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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First Date Spots 5/5/2010
As a rule of thumb I try not to involve eating on the first
date. Nothing more attractive than filling your face with
food as you get to know someone!! Of course, , if we are both
hungry as a , , food is on the menu dont get me wrong.
Whats your opinion on this?? Do you take a first date to restaurant
or out for food??
1 Comments, 37 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score |
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How 420 fucks shit up 4/23/2010
Ey man look hea 420's great but not wen deallin with 2 people togetha knoo wa i meannnnn
3 Comments, 32 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score |
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What should I tell him? 4/23/2010
Let me start by saying I was in a relationship with the most
wonderful man on the planet. He was kind loving generous
and caring, and the sex was good as well. But there was a certain
spark missing from our relationship. So I suggessted we
go to a toy store and get some adult toys to spice things up.
He agreed, when we got to the store there was this very familiar
face working the register, the ...
4 Comments, 89 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score |
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teasers 4/21/2010
why do girls reg on this site then dont boder to reply to emails
comlete waste of time we use our pionts to send emails and
not eaven a reply.
2 Comments, 75 Views,
0 Votes
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What is Love? 4/17/2010
I've asked myself that question alot lately. Is it
that feeling you get in your gut when you're around
her or is it being at ease with her. I could go on and on. I've
found that maybe I've become jaded searching for that
one. Will I settle or will I continue to search for that pot
at the end of the rainbow? It was so much easier in my youth
when you had no reservations in your head. I think that ...
5 Comments, 42 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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Obsession 4/10/2010
I got into an interesting discussion about sex with one
of my girlfriends, and as it turns out she always seems to
meet guys with an obsession. First, she dated a that was
so into watching porn that he always tried pressure her
into making their own home video. Then she dated a guy that
always tried to pressure her into wearing some kind of uniform.
So I was wondering how many women have met guys ...
2 Comments, 51 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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Arranging a date? 4/9/2010
Before I become a silver member for a month (all i could afford
right now boohoo) I was wondering how quick a date or meet
up can be arranged?
To give more detail, next Friday (16th April 2010) I have
the house to myself for a weekend (who I live with doesn't
matter but I aint got a partner). So I was hoping that maybe
I would be able to chat to one of the ladies on here in order
for ...
1 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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A matter of opinion 4/8/2010
I met this beautiful girl once and we hit it off right from
the start, and everything seemed fine. We would meet from
time to time but always with her friends. So one day I asked
her, why don't we go out one night just the two of us.
She simply responded, I can't unless it's with
my friends. At this moment I was baffled and very confused.
So naturally I asked her friend what's going on, and
I ...
4 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score |
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why why why 4/4/2010
why do we want what we can't have. but when u have it u
dont want it.
2 Comments, 19 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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sex 4/4/2010
if u have sex on the first date, do u come back for more or move
on to the next one.
3 Comments, 44 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score |
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The Fox and the Grapes 4/3/2010
One of my favorite stories:
One hot summer's day a Fox was strolling
through an orchard till he came to a bunch of Grapes just
ripening on a vine which had been trained over a lofty branch.
"Just the thing to quench my thirst, " quoth
he. Drawing back a few paces, he took a run and a jump, and
just missed the bunch. Turning round again with a ...
4 Comments, 115 Views,
14 Votes
,5.70 Score |
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dating in pk 3/19/2010
Dating in pakistan is one of the most cumbersome job , really
as you find it hard to get a laid , make a way into you . Primarily
because of social conservative approach, many still not
broad minded , just a few of them see dating men , enticing
activity of life .Girls too have their mercenary motives,
as they try to approach those only who can make their lushes
count .
2 Comments, 41 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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Flattery will get you nowhere. 3/18/2010
Like everyone else, I think it’s nice to get a compliment
from someone. Of course it makes me feel good and strokes
my ego a little bit. It’s a nice thing to pay an honest compliment.
But at what point does it become too much? That’s up to woman
to decide for herself. Some might like to hear it over and
over, but for me it makes me think a couple things about people
who pay too ...
6 Comments, 143 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score |
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Be Nice In Chat Rooms 3/16/2010
Maybe this is a wild assumption
on my part, but I thought that people joined Swapfinder.com
so that they could make connections with other people.
If that is the case, then why do things that will build walls
between you and other people?
Of course there will be people that you have little in common
with or even people who you don’t like, for whatever reason. ...
5 Comments, 104 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score |
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gsg 3/5/2010
gr\swgrwgsfg
1 Comments, 10 Views,
1 Votes
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What is discreet? 3/3/2010
I read that women want a discreet partner. My idea of discreet
and their idea appear to be two different things. The woman
seems to mean discreet, as in you are my boyfriend when I
want you. Whan I don't, go away.
2 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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dating 3/1/2010
dating is an art of culture of enjoying &understanding
4 Comments, 39 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score |
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here's what you do: 2/18/2010
here's what you do:
Get ready. Make sure your condoms are fresh -- check the
expiration date. Throw away condoms that have expired,
been very hot, carried around in your wallet, or washed
in the washer. If you think the condom might not be good,
get a new one. You and your partner are worth it.
That dick has to be hard before you put a condom on it.
Open it. ...
2 Comments, 45 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score |
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hello 2/7/2010
m vicky living alone i can stand in bed as long as u want.......n well built. my stats are 16"biceps 42" chest 33" waist 176cms ht 84kgs 7"cock......do reply u will enjoy.....pm me....i'll
shw my pic
1 Comments, 8 Views,
1 Votes
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How to meet sex-positive men? 2/4/2010
Here is my question/situation - I am on this site because
I love sex. I don't mind hook-ups, but I really would
rather be dating. I would really like to meet an open-minded,
sex-positive type. Possibly for an open/poly relationship,
possibly for monogamy, depending on the guy and the relationship.
Here on AFFF, the focus is really on hopping in the sack,
which I understand, and am OK ...
11 Comments, 187 Views,
27 Votes
,4.40 Score |
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chasing 2/3/2010
I am just wondering why it is that most of the men on here love
to keep after you and beg you to meet up with them, then when
you finally give in and decide you will, they end up either
standing you up or saying something came up and they just
cant make it. Is it just the thrill of the chase that they
enjoy or what
6 Comments, 77 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score |
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Finding a FWB 1/24/2010
So finding a friend with benefits has been tougher than
I thought. I've tried for a while and just haven't
found the one yet. i was reading the articles on the site
and voting to just get points, then started reading the
replies and they were better than the articles. So I decided
to get everyone's opinion on finding a good fuck buddy.
I'm sure someone on here has had success in this area.
...
2 Comments, 98 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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How do you differentiate dating ?! 1/15/2010
So when you go out on a date and continue to date this person,
is that dating? Cause i have become utterly confused on
this situation. To me i would think if you continue to go
out on dates that means your dating, if you talk on a regular
basis, see each other a few times a week. Would call that
dating, or just friends who hang. When can you define dating?
or even a relationship? Guys can send ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score |
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proper protocol in this day and age 1/8/2010
i know i really can't go by what my grandparents or parents
say the proper protocol is for dating in today's world,
but who exactly do i use as an example? some of my friends'
standards seem a little bit faster than i would like, and
others slower. do i pick a medium ground and go from there.
is there even a protocol for dating behavior anymore? e.g.
is she easy if she sleeps with you on the ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Dating Tips For Men- Attracting Beautiful Women Without Effort 1/4/2010
Most guys can find themselves falling in love with the idea
of being able to attract beautiful women without much or
any effort at all. Yet, you and I both know that this is more
a fantasy than anything else. When you want to attract beautiful
women, the truth is, you are going to have to put forth some
effort. They key is to learn exactly where you will get your
best rewards for the efforts that ...
3 Comments, 95 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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dating ideas 12/30/2009
Continuing to date your spouse after you are married is
one way to keep romance alive, say many marriage counselors
and relationship experts. But no one ever seems to offer
suggestions on where to go or what to do on a date with your
husband or wife. After all, going to the corner bistro every
Saturday night eventually loses its charm. To help you
brainstorm for your next date night, here are ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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dating 12/30/2009
Dating shouldn’t cost you a lot of money, especially if
you are following the advice that volume counts when trying
to meet someone new.
With that in mind, here are more than twenty cheap date ideas
covering a wide variety of interests, likes, activities
and hobbies. Got an even tighter budget? Then try the free
dating idea suggestions instead. Run around in the sprinkler together, ...
2 Comments, 22 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score |
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sex on date 12/30/2009
I know that I am not quite" suited to this dating site.
I'm here because I love sex, I love having my love making LOVE to me
in front of others or alone. I'm a nudist at heart but
also...I'm the green-eyed monster. I know about men
and eye candy at nudist places but are you ALL like that.
When I find my prince, is he really a frog that will lie? I
have great first dates, lovely meal and ...
2 Comments, 16 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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how do you know for sure? 12/24/2009
i want to ask women i see for a date sometimes but remember
when i have found out that they are not into men! so my question
to you women is ... just how can a man know when to put himself
out there? i am not against lifestyles just want to date
a woman!
1 Comments, 71 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score |
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Let it be ... 12/10/2009
Meeting up for the first time can be an experience worth
while. As for many of us the worth while experience tense
to be in our minds are a nice good fuck or just an expensive
date. For those who want to know what really happens. post
your stories here
3 Comments, 89 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score |
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this is for my aspecial friends .. >:) 12/8/2009
Merry Christmas,
Two words that can evoke so many emotions with us. Two words
that can trigger memories from our past. Two words that
should bring warmth and joy into our days. Two words when
spoken from the heart convey love and caring to special
friends.
It is my hope that your memories of Christmas past will put
a smile on your face and ...
7 Comments, 106 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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how to dat girls 11/24/2009
will all you do is be nic to the girl and dont be a ass hol and
dont cheat if your dating a girl or then she will kick you
to the curv
3 Comments, 19 Views,
6 Votes
,1.09 Score |
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from the dictionary of dating 11/21/2009
ATTRACTION - the act of associating horniness with a particular
person.
LOVE AT 1st SIGHT - what occurs when two extremely horny,
but not entirely choosy people meet.
DATING - the process of spending enormous amounts of money,
time, and energy to get better acquainted with a person
whom you don't especially like in the present and will
learn to like a lot less in the future. ...
3 Comments, 58 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score |
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wife 11/14/2009
Getting home after a long day’s work, my wife hit me with
her top story of the day. Her best friend, Kaye, had announced
her husband of many years had abruptly left her. There wasn’t
much more detail other than the guy had apparently pre-arranged
it and even left Kaye with a good bye letter complete with
financial details and other minutiae. As shocking as that
was, a couple of ...
4 Comments, 473 Views,
25 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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jane 11/14/2009
Jane liked sex in general, but she especially liked to give
head. She was always amazed when some of her girlfriends
said they didn’t really enjoy giving their boyfriends blowjobs,
and that they disliked cum in their mouths. For her, there
was little that got her hotter than sucking cock. She was
kneeling between Steve’s knees as she eased her hands firmly up the inside of his legs. She ...
2 Comments, 171 Views,
12 Votes
,5.27 Score |
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ANy fun 11/5/2009
Looking for fun in the area. If interested hit me up
1 Comments, 10 Views,
0 Votes
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lil johnny's date 11/1/2009
Pappy sees Little Johnny walking with a lantern and asks,
"Where ya going boy?" The Johnny smiled and replied, "I'm a-going
courting Peggy-Sue."
The Father said, "When I went a-courtin', I didn't
need me no dang lantern."
"Sure Pa, I know." Johnny said. "And look
what you got!"
1 Comments, 34 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score |
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sex 10/29/2009
I want sex when my mind free that time I enjoy with my sex partner
3 Comments, 41 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score |
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Blind date... 10/17/2009
Blind date... its pretty fun.ANd having sex in the 1st date...
its more than anything to say...
1 Comments, 11 Views,
2 Votes
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Dating experience ! 10/2/2009
Dating experience can only be understood backwards,
but they must be lived forward. ...
4 Comments, 74 Views,
38 Votes
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I got the small town blues,lol. 9/24/2009
I live in a small town and love the beauty, and friendly feel
of the place, lol, but, definately feel the difficulty
of meeting new women. I was given some new advice recently
and am going to give it a try.Instead of doing the search
on my own I'm going to enlist the help of my married or
paired female friends. Its been to long since I was in the
single world.I'm not into the bar scene and ...
2 Comments, 83 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score |
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Non existent after 50 ! 9/19/2009
The dating scene for people over 50 is just nearly non
existent.
At least for me it is. ...
6 Comments, 100 Views,
19 Votes
,1.54 Score |
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meeting 9/13/2009
how long should you chat to someone online before meeting
them?
8 Comments, 132 Views,
16 Votes
,3.72 Score |
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Sex while driving 9/4/2009
How many guys have had a women sit naked in their lap and have
sex with them while behind the steering wheel and driving
the vehicle? I know the obvious comment is 'that's
dangerous' well of course it is but.... still want
to know if you've done it.
12 Comments, 205 Views,
18 Votes
,4.35 Score |
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Meeting Someone New 9/1/2009
Hi to all you single people out there who, like me, are looking
to meet someone new. That doesn't neccessarly mean you are looking to get
invloved again, or does it? The thing is I'm not, or at least that is what I have convinced
myself, not looking for another relationship that is.
However I am sick and tired of playing solo and I don't
see myself paying for fun but the thing is, though it ...
1 Comments, 71 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score |
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How to Tell That The Date Isnt Going Well 8/22/2009
Your date probably isn't going well if any of the following
takes place during it:
1) He keeps telling you that you remind him of his Mother;
2) He says he has to go home early to feed his cat- and he's
highly allergic to them and doesn't own one;
3) He gets up to go to the bathroom, looks at you and says "See
you around";
4) He insists he has to end the date ...
2 Comments, 111 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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BE YOURSELF! 8/20/2009
I believe everyone is looking to find that right person
to spend their life with. How can you expect to find a life
partner if you are not being yourself on a date. This goes
for both sexes male and female alike. Another thing, dont
pick out your dates flaws, but try to focus on their good
points. For example if your date has a mole on his/her chin.
Dont let that insignificant mole, deter you ...
1 Comments, 26 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score |
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looking 4 sexy ladies 8/14/2009
i'm looking 4 a woman just to please her i wanna a woman
that got that pussy that's gonna squirt she must be
in atlanta area!
1 Comments, 26 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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What colognes do women like these days? 8/11/2009
???
Seems like there's nothing popular these days with
them.
1 Comments, 35 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Physical attraction? 7/17/2009
Attraction is always more than just physical, but if you
were to ignore everything but the physical, what do you
find attractive? Or another way of saying it is, "What
turns you on?" Again, I'm only talking about
physical attributes.
Of course, things are always subject to change, but my top
10 physical attributes that I find especially attractive
would be (in no particular order): ...
13 Comments, 113 Views,
20 Votes
,3.76 Score |
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Some brief ideas on dating 7/14/2009
Over the years I have noticed that most people seem to have
an inherently conflicted notion of what dating is. I think
there are some basic misconceptions of what dating is that
only allow you to limit yourself. With them you will then
have less selection, enjoyment, friends, and potentially
miss the good relationship(s) you were trying to find in
the first place. For example, many people ...
2 Comments, 65 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score |
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Where is the best place for a 1st date? 7/13/2009
Tell me folks?
2 Comments, 52 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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take things easy 7/12/2009
When you first start dateing don't get to attached
learn about the person your dateing before you make anything
serious.
1 Comments, 15 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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dating rules 7/2/2009
No one ever said dating was easy. First dates are awkward,
second dates are expectant and the dates that follow that
-- during which two people really start getting down to
the business of getting to know each other -- present hundreds,
if not thousands, of opportunities for missteps, faux
pas, blunders and mistakes. That is to say nothing of the
myriad chances for problems to which you could ...
1 Comments, 26 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score |
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The Idea of Monogomy 6/23/2009
Is mongomy existant or just another self fulfilling profecy?
Do people these days ever trully dedicate themselves to
any one person? From my experiences I would have to say,
"NO!" Especially at younger ages. What constitutes
true mongomy anyhow? Is it as simple as not fucking someone
else? Is it breaking the rule if you exchange nude photos
with someone? If you go out on a date? If you feel the ...
3 Comments, 48 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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shopping for new girlfriend??? 6/21/2009
Well it's been 29 years since Consumer's Reports
reviewed girlfriends (CR, Aug 1972). Since then, styles
have changed, new features have been introduced, and the
market for girlfriends has changed substantially. So
we here at CU decided another report was needed.
As in a car or a computer, you should ask yourself what you
need a girlfriend for before obtaining one. This will,
in large ...
1 Comments, 31 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score |
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Trust & Suspicion ! 6/2/2009
Sometimes for some people it takes years to build up
trust in a relationship, and it only takes suspicion, not
proof, to destroy that trust. ...
4 Comments, 60 Views,
11 Votes
,1.48 Score |
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I need to know!!! 6/1/2009
I have a question for the ladies, How much does a mans height
effect you willing to give him a chance?
1 Comments, 49 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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A Woman's Rule of Thumb ! 5/25/2009
If it has tires or testicles, you're going to have trouble
with it.
4 Comments, 46 Views,
12 Votes
,2.09 Score |
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what would you do? 5/14/2009
Okay you see a pic of some one and think... Hot!
and out of impulse... send them a wink... a e-mail... with
out really reading the profile....
then you go back and read the profile... to find they are
disabled... In a chair... the only thing that they can do
is oral....
what do You do?
this did happen to me... granted the guy lives over 500 miles
away... ...
25 Comments, 444 Views,
65 Votes
,5.01 Score |
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How long do you wait? 5/7/2009
How long do you wait before you agree to meet someone in person
that you have contacted online? I am sharing my personal
experiences here, but am also curious to know about others'.
I have met quite a few people from dating sites and adult
sites, and my time period varies widely depending on the
person I am in contact with. I have met with people as quickly
as a few days after the first email, ...
6 Comments, 101 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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WHY IS HARD TO GET NOT INVOLVE 5/4/2009
EVERY TIME I DATE SOME ONE I GET TO INTO IT AND DONT KNOW HOW
TO STOP THAT AND ENDS UP TO BE A LONG RELATIONSHIP SO ANY IDEAS
OR COMENTS?
3 Comments, 49 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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Seeking Sex Toys 4/25/2009
The wife and I have been swinging for 5 years now and all our
are gone.We are thinking of adding something a little
different to our play.There is a local college near by and
we both have fantasies about younger partners.I want a
younger girl about the age of our youngest, who is 19.The
wife has the same fantasy except she wants a young man.We
want to teach them what sex is all about.Anyone done ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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Why do we date 4/9/2009
Well there may be alot of reasons, but one thing for certain
is that we all need the feeling of another body against us,
the feeling of someone's soft smooth skin gently cruising
up and down our lips and bodies. We most likely date because
it's in our genes and we need to socialize and practice
with other humans.
1 Comments, 9 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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yhrth 4/8/2009
er
2 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
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Women at strip clubs 4/7/2009
Why is it that when a woman goes to the strip club with her
man, their table gets ignored. I paid the same cover charge
as everybody else, and went there for the same reasons.
I don't know why it is that people look at me strangely
when I go out to the topless stripclub with my husband. With
as many people being bisexual as there are these days, why
do stripclubs still belong to men? I can ...
8 Comments, 185 Views,
13 Votes
,4.15 Score |
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Mature Women 4/4/2009
I have recently moved to Manhattan and my work schedule
is playing havoc with my sex life. I have a taste for mature
women, any advice on where to meet women interested in having
a no-strings relationship with a young man dying to get
them off?
1 Comments, 103 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score |
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group sex for married women 4/4/2009
Are married women into group sex with multiple male partners?
I would like to watch my wife be pleasured but am afraid to
bring it up to her. Also is interracial sex a turn on for most
women, both my wife and I are white and would like tosee her with a black male or males.
3 Comments, 89 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score |
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How To Ask Someone Out 3/31/2009
Surfing the singles scene can be an extremely time consuming
and often frustrating pursuit of love, especially if you
are unsure about how to make the first step.
While I can't give you a "magic formula"
that guarantees success every single time, I can give you
some basic guidelines on how to proceed, and hopefully
succeed!
When you see someone you would like to ask out, the ...
8 Comments, 191 Views,
17 Votes
,5.11 Score |
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dont rush in to relationship 3/31/2009
Imagine yourself marrying this person and then, ten years
down the road, you’re reminiscing. “Oh, honey, do you remember
the first time I said ‘I love you’?” How do you want that memory
to be? I think some people treat the words so casually, that
they forget soon after, but there are some who will forever
keep the memory because they prevented prematurely ...
4 Comments, 60 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score |
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INTIMATE DATING 3/31/2009
In the dating world, it seems that everyone expects the
love of their life to fall from a tree and knock them dizzy
with bliss. The facts of the matter are hardly as hit-and-miss
as our secret desires would like them to be. When someone
has a spell of good luck, it’s rarely because of some undeserved,
haphazard gift bestowed upon them. If you look back to the
period prior to any favorable ...
4 Comments, 67 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Looking when you've gotten older! 3/27/2009
Have you ever been date hunting and be guilty of looking
at people your age or near your age and thinking, "SURELY
I CAN'T LOOK THAT OLD?...
22 Comments, 230 Views,
45 Votes
,1.41 Score |
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my best friend! 3/26/2009
On fine Thursday, sitting quietly with my friends under
the tree, I got a phone call. “Hello?!” “Hi sexy, Nitish here!! Remember me?!” he asked. “Eh hi... Of course I remember you” I said “listen, am coming to meet you in 10 mins.. got a load of things
to tell you”.. “ok, am waiting in the compound of U.O.M.. call me when you ...
4 Comments, 188 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score |
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why dating 3/25/2009
well us is one of the top 5 worlwide with this problem so lets
do something about it just get here and date people
2 Comments, 19 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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hello their 3/10/2009
wanna cam to cam with me
3 Comments, 53 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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body or mind...!? 2/27/2009
So which is them. 1. A rock hard body and chizzled abbs
2. A sound mind and an great smile.
Which do you prefer, a. in general and b. on dating sites..?
2 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score |
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woman beaters 2/20/2009
I am thoroughly confused why do women stay in abusive relationships?
it seems so easy you get beat on and you leave so you don't
get beat on again. so WHY?
2 Comments, 20 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score |
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recently started seing some one 2/19/2009
Hey there ive recently started seing some one we are only
dating at the moment my question to everyone out there is
it wrong to continue being on a website like this and to still
be sleeping with other people
3 Comments, 63 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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Is it really true 2/19/2009
Do we need to date before sex?
0 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score |
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Friends w/ Benifits Vs Fuck Buddies by Candyanne1220 2/16/2009
I have always tried to explain to people my view on friends with benefits and fuck buddies. Some
people lack the intelligence to understand or differentiate
the two types of relationships.
Fuck Buddies ( FB ):This is where two people just meet, fuck and peace out after they are done blowing
their loads. That is great once and awhile and it can be a
turn-on but it shows no emotion and no ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score |
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WHY just be plutonic with x'S ? 1/25/2009
cAN any1 say for certain that a casual but not often sexual
encounter with a x, but recently turned friend . Be positive
for the new formed friendship?
0 Comments, 52 Views,
1 Votes
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older women and younger men 1/22/2009
So since this is a site where people can get together, just
how many happen between distant ages? I don't feel
strongly one way or another, but since we're all here
All I know is that everyone needs some love- so someone needs
to step up
2 Comments, 125 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score |
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who having haveong fun 1/21/2009
I HAVE THIS MALE FRIEND I GET WET WITH WHEN I NEED TO RIDE A
POLL. BUT I AM BI AND HE DON'T NO IT SO LATELY HE HAS OVER
30 REASON WAY IT WAS A NO SHOW BUT I AM AND NO SHOW IT HEATED
HE WANT TO ASK ME WHY I DOING SHOW AND WHO I SEEING HE LIVE OUT
FROM TOWN AND I REAL CAN FUCK WHO I WANT AND WHEN I WANT TO AND
HAVE TO TELL HIM THAT ALL THE TIME BUT LATERLY I HAVE NOT BEEN
FEELING HIM I LOVE LAYING ...
2 Comments, 43 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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dating 1/20/2009
how do u date some onefor so long and then not get married
2 Comments, 94 Views,
4 Votes
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Dolls Dating Do's & Dont's "What Women Like" 1/15/2009
No- I'm not going to play 'match
maker' but I'm going to try and give you the gift
of incite into what women like, want, and how to capture
their attention via the internet, so that you can make your
own matches!
What women like to hear
in an email:
Weather it's a woman ...
7 Comments, 256 Views,
27 Votes
,6.19 Score |
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What do with a hot sexy woman 1/13/2009
I am a Bi woman who want to make sure I am make love a woman in
the right way and how to make sure she come back for more.
let no I no what like to do to a woman and I no what like to be
done to me. is there anytime else that woman like HELP ME
OUT.
I WANT TO TURN THE HEAT UPhappyf;{=}
1 Comments, 55 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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dating 1/10/2009
dating is good thing
1 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score |
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Could You Find a Date-Mate Here? 1/9/2009
Ladies and gentelmans, gays and lesbians, couples and
threesome, in this worldwidewebsite could you find a date-mate
and had an/some experience/s?Please
note how many dating you have....
4 Comments, 129 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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yea or no?? 12/28/2008
hey there some fine ass girlz on this site but are they forreal???
0 Comments, 22 Views,
2 Votes
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General sex questions 12/23/2008
How to have sex is actually quite simple. When a man's
penis becomes hard, he places it inside a woman's vagina,
and moves it in and out. This creates friction which is pleasurable
for both the man and the woman. After a while, this friction
will usually cause the man to have an orgasm and ejaculate.
It may also cause the woman to have an orgasm, although it
can take a bit of experimentation and ...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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sex 12/15/2008
How many girls like cock and how many like little ones
7 Comments, 125 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score |
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body 12/14/2008
do most women like a athletic body or some fat and or a really
fat man.
0 Comments, 27 Views,
0 Votes
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yummy story hehehhehehe 12/13/2008
this past summer i was with one of my friend and i went through
a drive thru and he flirted with the cute girl at the window.
it was summer so we both had shorts on and i watched her eyes
as they checked out my husband's lap. he told her what
motel we were at and the room number. she then told us she
was getting off right now and she would be right out so we
waited and to my amazement she came ...
8 Comments, 307 Views,
16 Votes
,2.83 Score |
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The Naked Man 11/25/2008
Anyone know about "the naked man" move on a first
date? Basically what happens is a guy goes on a date with
a girl way out of his league. So he knows there isin't
gonna be a second date. As a hail mary, what he does is make
up an excuse to go up to the girl's apartment and while
she's not there, strip naked. The girl comes in and
boom! shock and awww... She is impressed by his confidence
and at ...
0 Comments, 89 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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be nice to a girl 11/25/2008
Care. Care for her. If you are in middle school carry her
binder and do things such as opening the door for her, giving
a bouquet of flowers on special events like her birthday
etc. Listen. Listen to what she is saying. Do not stop her while
she is speaking, just listen to her. Kind. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress.
A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice ...
1 Comments, 15 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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sex 11/12/2008
You should always have it
2 Comments, 79 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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How not to come across? 11/11/2008
I know this is probably a very old question and there will
be lot's of people saying "groan not again"
but I'm fairly new to this and would like some sensible
answers. They say first impressions count so how do you
make an impression with a single email without sounding
like a complete ar@*$#le? Any answers would be gratefully
recieved from both male and females.
0 Comments, 32 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score |
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What next 11/5/2008
Here I am an well aged, well preserved fairly good looking
60 year old lady. Being a Southern lady, I was raised to believe
a gentleman all ways comes first in any relationship. But
being a retired business woman, I also know we as ladies
have wants and needs that need to be fulfilled as well. So
hence the dilemma between one's self. Go for it or just
satisfy the partner. I say go for it. If you ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score |
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Why do I feel invisialbe 10/28/2008
I live in a College town filled with mostly early 20 something
girls. I am in my late 20's and have been out of school
for a while now. I bartend part time and I feel like more and
more I am invisible to women. I work out and keep my self up.
I can be pretty thick when it come to a women flirting with
me and I pick up on it. But anymore they don't even talk
to me for more than 10min and loose ...
3 Comments, 42 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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So ladies you want a relationship, but are you really READY for one? 10/17/2008
Hi All,
I'm taking some time out to vent. But I want to make some
points here that have to do with why I am frustrated. It won't
get me anywhere but hopefully I can get it off of my chest.
If you like, don't like, agree, disagree, post a comment,
let me and my other blog readers hear it.
Okay, so the biggest complaint I've heard from the
many women I've communicated with ...
1 Comments, 42 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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Blind dating 10/12/2008
I have heard a lot about blind dating. Have seen quite a few
times in reality show but didnt have the taste of real life
blind dating. I am not sure if anyone of you have any chance
to have a blind dating till now. I havent but I am quite open
to it. I think it needs courage from both the partners. In
a conservative society its much rare compared to an relatively
open society. Blind dating has ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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bdsm secrets 10/5/2008
always believe that inside each woman there is a submissive
thing but i always wonder why they don't show it to the
right person . BDSM is really a wonderful world full of fun
. i wish everybody gr8 luck here and in life
0 Comments, 21 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score |
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Whatever happened to dating? 9/21/2008
We are an older married couple where the wife plays and the
husband enjoys watching or at least hearing about things
later on.
We didn't always operate that way... having entered
into the Swinging Lifestyle way back in the 70s... we started
when the lifestyle was almost entirely just 'couples'
and the occasional '3some' situations.
Also, even before we met and married and ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score |
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Why is it hard to meet women? 9/18/2008
I have to admit that I honestly don't know where to look
in Australia for women that want a relationship. I mean
there are night clubs and all that but you never meet anyone
that you would like to call later.
I have been told that I am a Gentleman and I am sweet but I find
this doesn't help. What am I doing wrong?
It appears women have a preset idea what they want and I have ...
1 Comments, 31 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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To scaired to date 9/13/2008
From 5 date sites, have discovered ladies lie out there
ass on profiles, show naked pictures professing how incredible
they are and once ya get to know them realize they are full
of crap. Its a game to just get a guys attention to see if he
will respond to her add. they have no intention of dateing,
sex, or anything else. I have had better luck asking a girl
on the street out on a date, or yahoo, ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
3 Votes
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My Swapfinder.com Mission 9/6/2008
The dating scene is brutal. Nine chances out of ten when
you find someone you want to be with or feel is right for you
something happens and you end up single once again. That
heartache and pain is unbearable at times, and takes seemingly
forever to get past.
This is exactly why I signed up here. I am a busy man with career
goals who is working on his master's degree in journalism.
I ...
2 Comments, 66 Views,
9 Votes
,0.22 Score |
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Dating a married women 9/1/2008
We are a couple who has been married for 37 years. We've
been in the lifestyle off and on since 1975.
What we are doing now is something that we have found adds
a lot of new interest to an already exciting lifestyle and
that is 'dating'.
Yes, old-fashion dates... anything form just meeting
for a drink to a romantic dinner or a movie or hitting the
dance floor at a local club. ...
1 Comments, 192 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score |
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Best place to find women looking for friend with benefits 8/23/2008
Where is the best place to find women looking for sex?...
besides on the internet?
0 Comments, 73 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Kissing a girl.... 8/23/2008
If i kiss a girl for the first time is it too much to start kissing
her neck and chest if I want to move it to the next phase? My
ex loved it and i'm just wondering if this is ok for the
first time kissing a new girl?
0 Comments, 20 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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Why Games 8/19/2008
As people why do we tend to play games and play with peoples
emotions? We tend let the best things in front of us go by.
We let the most honorable person for the relationship.
Why cant we see whats right in front of us that sometimes
that person is right there in your face but we begin to act
so blindly to it Take an extra step and really see the heart
and that person and sometimes you can find ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
14 Votes
,0.26 Score |
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unresponsible women 8/16/2008
why women are allways late in their dates
why we have to everytime to wait zzzzzzzzZZZzz
why to be so hard to get laid
why they are always with something unplesant
...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score |
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Dating gals of all ages! 8/15/2008
What is the difference between girls/women aged: 8,
18, 28, 38, 48, 58. 68, and 78?
At 8 -- You take her to bed and tell her a story.
At 18 -- You tell her a story and take her to bed.
At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take her
to bed.
At 38 -- She tells you a story and takes you to bed.
At 48 -- She tells you a story to avoid ...
8 Comments, 122 Views,
41 Votes
,2.06 Score |
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Our First Date 7/21/2008
I met this beautiful lady with the most sensual body under
the sun. I was afraid to ask her out but I did and she said yes,
that made me light up. I went to her house to pick her up and
she ws still getting dressed when I got there. She said you
are more than welcome to wait in the living room I will be
done in about 5 mins now let me give you a little more info
about her body she was around 5'7" ...
2 Comments, 152 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score |
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Dating after twenty years. 7/16/2008
I've recently started dating after twenty years of
marriage and a divorce. I am here to say that you can find
your someone if you look hard enough and wade through all
the weirdos and freaks, happiness can be obtained through
a little hard work.....dont give up.
1 Comments, 42 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score |
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Oregon Area 7/6/2008
Any chicks in the Sutherlin to winston area in Oregon???
0 Comments, 22 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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DON'T BE STUCK UP/ LIGHTEN UP 7/3/2008
THE AVERAGE LIFE SPAN OF A HUMAN IS 90 YEARS OLD. WHEN YOU'RE
20 SOMETHING OR 30'S CHEER UP. DO YOU HAVE TO BE RICH AND BEAUTIFUL TO BE STUCK UP? SOME PEOPLE
ARE SUCH BABIES. LIGHTEN UP WILL YOU. SOME PEOPLE ARE BORN WITH MORE PROBLEMS THAN THAT.
JUST BE THANKFUL THAT YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM.
P.S. IF YOU ARE ONE OF THEM I'M KIDDING.
OH WHAT DO YOU FEEL ABOUT STUCK UP PEOPLE ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
11 Votes
,0.74 Score |
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whoah 6/29/2008
date cool
0 Comments, 21 Views,
8 Votes
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What a woman wants 6/26/2008
I find that most men try to please women by appealing to the
standards that society places. For example, many men think
that they can win favor with women by buying them gifts,
by impressing them by talking about their jobs, or by showing
off their material possessions. I find, though, that the
best way to form a strong connection with women is to take
the time to find out about THEM. What are ...
6 Comments, 78 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score |
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Date on blind. 6/26/2008
What you usually espect when you are going on a blind date???
Nothing??? Somethig fabulos??? Or you are so deprest to
take what ever it comes infront of you??
0 Comments, 13 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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dating 6/21/2008
who here is looking for a date in the IL area?/
0 Comments, 24 Views,
8 Votes
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What women want 6/6/2008
so i've been on quite a few dates in my life seeing as
how now i'm 25 and its always diff each time. How come
every girl wants to be difficult?
3 Comments, 96 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score |
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The Green Eyed Monster 6/4/2008
Ok, I've given some advice
a few times but never asked for any so please be patient with
me. LOL. A few of you may recognize me, and some may not but
I am separated and dating only, not looking for sex at all
until I meet Mr. Right! Anyway, I have been dating(no commitment)
a local guy that I met at a memorial service for a mutual friend.
We have gone out for supper a ...
17 Comments, 187 Views,
13 Votes
,2.98 Score |
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10 SURE MISS PICK UP LINES 6/2/2008
1. Man: "Haven't we met before?" Woman: "Yes, I'm the receptionist at the V.D.
Clinic."
2. Man: "Haven't I seen you some place before?"
Woman: "Yeah, that's why I don't go there
anymore."
3. Man: "Is this seat empty?" Woman: "Yes, and this one will be too if you sit down."
4. Man: "So, wanna go back to my place?" Woman: "Well, I don't know. ...
3 Comments, 49 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score |
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10 WAYS TO END A BLIND DATE EARLY 6/2/2008
1. At dinner, guard your plate with fork and steak knife,
so as to give the impression that you'll stab anyone, including the
waiter, who reaches for it.
2. Collect the salt shakers from all of the tables in the
restaurant, and balance them in a tower on your table.
3. Wipe your nose on your date's sleeve. Twice.
4. Make funny faces at other ...
3 Comments, 38 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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Could You Fall In Love With A Blow Up Doll? 5/27/2008
Don't laugh (oh, go ahead)---there really is a "doll
fetish" and it's called agalmatophilia.
There are websites devoted to "Real Dolls",
and even a documentary was made of the men who love them.
It was kind of creepy.
That film, "Lars and the Real Girl" has a plot
where a nice but delusional man purchases a high end sex
doll for a relationship.
...
4 Comments, 44 Views,
12 Votes
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Should Ex's be friends? 5/27/2008
My ex and I broke up about a year and a half ago, and it wasnt
clean let me tell you. But I ran into her at the store a few
weeks ago and we had a really nice chat, exchanged numbers
and she asked me if I'd want to meet up sometime. Then
she calls me a few hours later saying her new man didnt want
me in her life and she asked me to delete her number from my
phone. Lemme tell ya this guys a real ...
5 Comments, 47 Views,
12 Votes
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First impressions... 5/27/2008
How much/badly are first impression's dependant
on what one thinks of someone/people. Is it look's
( e.g. Profile 1st pic preview) you see/or run. Or do you
after that impression get to know the/learn different?
2 Comments, 17 Views,
8 Votes
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how 5/27/2008
whats the best and fastest move on the first date
1 Comments, 46 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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sexy and young 5/27/2008
all sexy girls
1 Comments, 63 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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hot bitch 5/25/2008
hot bitch
1 Comments, 66 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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The first date is great...... 5/24/2008
Any advice on why after a great first date the 2nd date is
just ok and you feel the magic is gone?
9 Comments, 113 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score |
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do they? 5/24/2008
Do people actually find someone to meet and date on this
site?
3 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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When to know 5/15/2008
I was curious about when to know its time to break up with
someone. Have a feeling but not sure if im ready to be alone.
Just have feeling this isnt going anywhere.
1 Comments, 19 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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The 3 day rule & why people play games... 5/9/2008
I don't understand the waiting 3 t 4 days rule before
U contact someone that you're interested in !!!
Personally if a girl waits th traditional 3 or 4 days before
calling / textin I automatically think she plays games
& that diminishes my interest towards her straight
away.
If U meet someone on Friday night, get on with them brilliantly,
why is it th chances are if U contact ...
5 Comments, 78 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score |
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can anyone tell me how I can meet more women 5/7/2008
I'm looking for a relationship with a girl that is around
my age, but I don't know if I doing something wrong or
if there's something wrong with my profile. I have
been in the chat rooms and the IMC but I don't seem to
be getting anywhere in the dating scene. can anyone give
me some advice on how I can get better results or if there
is something I need to fix.
3 Comments, 47 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score |
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How to seduce your lover! 5/5/2008
Fabulous Foreplay To Seduce Your Lover!
Have you forgotten how to seduce your lover, or are you jumping
into bed too quickly and not taking the time to make your
partner feel sexy and special? Here you have some seductive
tips, tricks and techniques to try in the bedroom.
We're in so much of a hurry to jump into bed nowadays
that I think we've lost the art of good old-fashioned ...
2 Comments, 125 Views,
16 Votes
,4.45 Score |
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Why is what is far for a woman not far for a man? 5/2/2008
Now I am a man who has been divorce for sometime. I am also
not afraid to admit that if the right single or couple came
along I would join them in a heart beat.
Though as I scan all the listings of single women in my area,
I find it funny how many say " No married man",
but in the bio, they are married themselves and the hubby
doesn't know they are on this site.
Know don't get ...
1 Comments, 79 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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gender and skin in judgement.. 4/21/2008
Hello I am very interested in
finding someone that is interested in meet someone to be
friends with on Swapfinder.com.
It has been many of lonely waisted years following a need
less dreams of finding a friend on Swapfinder.com.
I have made it possible several times for standard member
to view my profile, and they are able to contact me.
I have sent ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Older or Younger? 4/20/2008
When dating someone, do you tend to go out with younger or
older people?
3 Comments, 34 Views,
0 Votes
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scrubs 4/19/2008
why do scrubs always try to make themselves feel better by lying about their jobs and why they have no
teeth or brains
1 Comments, 39 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score |
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What I consider a good date 3/21/2008
To me, a good date, especially the first date, consists
of having fun, whether it be at dinner, out dancing, or just
going to a movie. I shouldn't have to say "no" more than once.
We should be in the process of getting to know one another,
finding out what our particular interests are, and what
makes us smile. Conversation, I think, is the best way to begin the process
of learning about one ...
6 Comments, 115 Views,
14 Votes
,5.38 Score |
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WHAT SHOULD I DO 3/20/2008
I AM USED TO FUCKING MY NEIGHBOUR'S WIFE . SHE COMES
TO ME AT MY FLAT AND I SOMETIMES GO TO HER HOUSE WHEN HER HUSBAND
IS NOT THERE . I ENJOY HER AND SHE ENJOYS ME BUT I AM GOING TO
GET MARRIED , WILL I CONTINUE ?WHAT SHOULD I DO?
5 Comments, 175 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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CAN I 3/20/2008
I AM USED TO FUCKING MY NEIGHBOUR'S WIFE . SHE COMES
TO ME AT MY FLAT AND I SOMETIMES GO TO HER HOUSE WHEN HER HUSBAND
IS NOT THERE . I ENJOY HER AND SHE ENJOYS ME BUT I AM GOING TO
GET MARRIED , WILL I CONTINUE ?
2 Comments, 101 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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CAN I ASK HER ? 3/20/2008
CAN I ASK MY WOMAN IN THE FIRST DATE IF SHE HAS AIDS ??????????
3 Comments, 77 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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SHE WANTS MORE 3/20/2008
I FUCK HER EVERY WEEK 3 OR 4 TIMES BUT SHE ALWAYS ASKS FOR MORE
. I AM TOO BUSY TO GO TO HER EVERY DAY . WHAT SHOULD I DO...
2 Comments, 96 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score |
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I U R IN Q8 3/19/2008
I NEED A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP . A REAL SEXY WOMAN FROM KUWAIT
. IF U R READY TO HAVE FUN , EMAIL ME .
1 Comments, 14 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score |
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How do I meet a married woman for some fun? 3/2/2008
Being new to Swapfinder.com, I can't even read emails that are sent
to me so I have been going in the Lower Midwest chat room to
see if there are any married women in my area. There don't
seem to be many in there when I'm online.
I do see a lot that match my Cupid setting that are online
when I am there, but I don't have any clue how to contact
them. I know this is Swapfinder.com's way of trying to get me to ...
1 Comments, 83 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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Where to start? What to do? 3/2/2008
Let me preface this by admitting I'm very frustrated
with my recent dating experiences (or lack thereof). My
first problem is that I can't find appropriate places
to meet women. I've tried bars, parties, online dating
sites, the wilderness... no luck after 4+ years. I did date
someone I met at a bar, but (surprise) she turned out to be
an alcoholic. Because of previous failed relationships,
I'm ...
2 Comments, 62 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score |
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the men that deserve a chance 2/22/2008
So many times I have heard , men are assholes, from ladies
on this site . But hey what about the other half of us that
are real and are here to meet someone and take the time to
get to know them . Why are we put in the catergory of the assholes
right away just cus we are a man ? If I had the answer to that
then maybe I would be rich .lol. But seriously now ladies
, dont judge all of us men just ...
4 Comments, 171 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score |
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Sex on the 1st date... 2/19/2008
I have dated several women in my life, some of witch I had
sex with on the first night, others maybe by the 3rd date.
The ones that I have slept with on the 1st date always complain
to me that they shouldn't have moved so fast. They often
tell me that they didn't want me to lose respect for
them by sleeping with me on the first night. However, I don't
see it this way. In-fact one of those girls I ...
5 Comments, 122 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score |
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Dating Question 2/18/2008
What's the best way to approach an older woman?
0 Comments, 15 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score |
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Is there something you forgot to tell me? 2/18/2008
Ever had anyone you were meeting "forget" to
mention something important? Health issues, husbands,
wives, ? Height, weight, lifestyle issues, standards
of living?
I admit that there have been a few times when I forgot to mention
the fact that I'm a pro-domme, so got to experience
a truly priceless reaction when they came into my living
room and saw all the dungeon equipment lying ...
1 Comments, 129 Views,
14 Votes
,4.90 Score |
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FIRST TIME FUCK 2/8/2008
WHAT WILL MAKE YOU FUCK SOMEONE ON THE FIRST DATE.
4 Comments, 115 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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can you forgive after they have cheated? 2/8/2008
can you forgive after they have cheated?
5 Comments, 45 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score |
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Dateing my flatmate? 2/8/2008
Hi i am in university, and i have started getting off with
one of my flatmate. is this a bad idea or shall i just go with
it? thanks
2 Comments, 40 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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Guys and girls and friends only 2/8/2008
Ok, I know what I think about this and I also know what some
of the people I work with and or hang out with say about it,
I would like to hear what some of you cool Swapfinder.com people think
about it. I think that a guy can be friends with a female and not have
sex, just hang out do things together what ever and sex never
even enters into the picture on either side. I know this
can be done cause I have ...
8 Comments, 53 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score |
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Are their real people in here. 1/6/2008
Hi, I want to know are their any real people in here?? I mean
they even want to meet and take forward their desire's
or charateristics defined by them or mostly are here for
that fun on the net?? And how do i trace partners.?? please
pour in with your experience on how to convert ur online
encounter into a real life encounter...
1 Comments, 70 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score |
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"now I lay me down to sleep" 12/25/2007
I pray for a man, who's not a creep. One who's
handsome, smart, and strong. He's not afraid to admit
when he is wrong. One who thinks before he speaks? When he
promises to call, he doesn't wait 6 weeks. I pray that
he is gainfully employed. Won't lose his cool when
he's annoyed. Pulls out my chair & opens my door.
Massages my back & begs to do more. Oh! Send me a man who
will make love ...
1 Comments, 25 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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In this day and age, why is online dating still frowned upon? 11/13/2007
The first time a tried on-line dating was 8 years
ago and I ended up meeting someone I dated for a couple of
years. I told only a handful of people how we met
b/c I actually cared what people would think of me. My circle
of friends at the time thought on-line dating was
for desperate people who
had no other choice but to meet other ...
1 Comments, 56 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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Seems like more of us are doing it? 10/14/2007
I don't know if it's just my age group, my particular
group of friends, or mere coincidence, but lately it seems
like everyone I know is just having sex, rather than dating.
And why not? We're young (I'm 25), horny (oh SO
horny!), and it's fun. I just wonder if it's a change in public opinion, or
merely a short-lived phenomenon. For myself, I'm
moving towns in a few short months, and don't feel ...
2 Comments, 78 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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blind dates 10/14/2007
do they work?
6 Comments, 75 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score |
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What Level Are You On? 10/13/2007
I have a simple question that shouldn't require much
thought. The only person you need to be honest with is yourself.
How important is an education to you when you are looking
for someone on this site? Do you care if they are a college
graduate or a high school drop out?
The reason I am asking is because I ran across a post a while
back that left me laghing me azz off for at least 2 ...
4 Comments, 96 Views,
13 Votes
,6.83 Score |
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what do i need to do 9/12/2007
I've been on this site for awhile, how do you interact
with people?
1 Comments, 33 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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How to tell a girl u Like her 9/11/2007
1) Get inspired. Look back on the times when you enjoyed
being around her, discovered that you have a lot in common,
or realised that you had tremendous respect for her.
2) Put yourself in her shoes. Based on what you know about
her, imagine what language or situations might make her
uncomfortable, and avoid them. If you are unsure, err on
the side of caution. Avoid ...
1 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Not having SEX in our relationship 9/11/2007
I need some advice from Swapfinder.com Communtiy.
I`m a male at 51 yrs, and my girlfriend is 42 yrs old.
We are both divorce from other people.We live together
for five(5) years, and dating for one year prior to me moving
into her home.I sold my house before we started dating.
I haven`t had any sex or even foreplay that I love to do for
hours.And this is going on for over ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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How many people do you date at once. 9/6/2007
Do you date just one person???Do you date more than one???Why
do you date more or why dont you date more??? Love to hear
what everyone thinks.
1 Comments, 58 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Is Less More? 9/5/2007
Okay im going to be honest, at 22 I'm pretty cautious
about whom and when conserning my sexual partners. As of
recently ive had a sexual relationship with a man much more
experienced than i and for the life of me i cant figure out
whether it was an annoyance for him or a turn on seeing as
he wouldn't say either way. So I'm asking men,
does a woman's level of sexual experience hinder or
help your ...
3 Comments, 86 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Ladies: Welcome a new member 8/27/2007
Specifically white ladies that enjoy black
men who appreciate them! Please allow me to introduce a close personal friend of
mine. tbdlover1
He's a great guy but he's kinda shy and very new
to this. I told him about Swapfinder.com because he
has his hands full with business and the . I talked him
into trying a standard membership first.
So ladies of ...
1 Comments, 86 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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Why is so HARD? 8/25/2007
Hello everyone, why is it so hard to find an bi-female that
is willing to join us? We are not a bad looking couple, we
are willing to get to know people. Maybe we need soe help,
can some fellow memeber give some advise?
3 Comments, 88 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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Men Lieing 8/24/2007
Why do men still feel the need to lie to a woman, even when
they met them on a website like Swapfinder.com? Is it just a guy thing?
3 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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I almost let one get by me.... 8/6/2007
I met a guy here about two years ago.
He was very attractive, well groomed, a gentleman and he
had a beautiful home. We went on a date and I left clear on
the fact I would not see him again. Why, if he had so much going
for him, would I not want to see him again? He talked entirely
too damn much. Mostly he talked about his EX. By the end of
the date I was so tired of his ...
1 Comments, 157 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score |
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Broadening My Horizions 8/3/2007
I will be 42 years old in a matter
and I am still single and it started me to wondering Why am
I still single?
Well, the biological clock is not a factor. I've been
married and divorced. I've multiplied the earth 3
times. So, why should I even be concerned? Because I want
some "roll over dick"! You know, you roll over
in the middle of the night and climb on? ...
4 Comments, 202 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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help 7/29/2007
I live in Canton, Ohio and I was with the same woman ever since
I was 22 and now that we have reacently parted I would like
to get back out on the dating sceen so, what is the easiest
way to meet women on here? Has anyone?
1 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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not a freak 7/23/2007
Internetgirl is sitting in front of her computer reading through many emails of guys that seem to have only one thing on their mind. It's boring, it's
repetitive and she usually just hits the "Delete"
button after reading the first paragraph... Unless she
really likes it... which she does... "Here's an interesting one" she thinks
to herself as she's reading Chris' message. "This guy
is ...
1 Comments, 96 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score |
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I'm just wondering.... 7/21/2007
When do you guys tell a woman that you are into MMF?
I'm just wondering because I would swear I have not
met more than 2 bi guys in my life, yet here you all are, hanging
out on line at places like hustler personals. Wow!
Circle jerks and the heterosexual male?
Also, if you're a bi guy, do you think you can be happy
in a monogamous relationship with either just a man or a ...
1 Comments, 115 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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flirting for women 6/17/2007
Flirting Tips Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that
men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used
to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority
of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to
them first or at least express a larger clue that you were
interested in checking them out.
#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score |
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What qualities would you want in your partner 5/29/2007
One of my friends blogs asked whats do
you really want from a woman. This was my answer, do any of
you come close?
The Must Have Qualities 1. Open Minded (very) 2. Independent 3. Must want but not need me 4. Must accept me and all my oddities 5. Must be able to handle money 6. Must have a reasonable level of cleanliness about her.
7. Should be ...
1 Comments, 43 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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first date questions 5/27/2007
when meeting someone on this website or others like it how
does it differ frm say a date with a stranger? ive yet to meet
someone face to face but i keep thinking that im not going
to keep my mind on talking insted i know alot about this person
both physically and sexually anybody have an advice or
stories?
2 Comments, 57 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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why women date jerks 5/27/2007
can anyone tell me why breath taking ladies go after the
jerks who treat them like trash? anyone
1 Comments, 60 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score |
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stood up 5/27/2007
being stood up is a terrible thing tou think its no big deal
but all your doing is fucking yourself out of a good time
and when you say your coming over and gonna call and never
do its like telling me im getting some and lieing to me
1 Comments, 23 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score |
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proper first date 5/27/2007
if you think dinner and a movie is boring what would you prefer?
1 Comments, 39 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score |
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kkk 5/23/2007
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3 Comments, 29 Views,
6 Votes
,0.23 Score |
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pussy 5/23/2007
eating pussy is the best pppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuusssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
3 Comments, 68 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score |
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What do ladies really expect? 5/13/2007
What does a lady really expect on a first date? Dinner, conversation
and treated with respect is a given, but what else?
1 Comments, 48 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score |
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Starting Over 4/24/2007
It has been so hard for me to start over, cause i was married
for 27 years, so this dating is really hard for me. Ive met
a few guys. And i have been hurt. i guess thats what life is
all about. i guess dating is like learning how to walk again.
Thanks.
1 Comments, 155 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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How do you go about it? 4/20/2007
If you are a married guy, which over half of the men on this
site are, how do you find the right situation for a hook-up?
2 Comments, 83 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score |
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Dating after 10 years 4/11/2007
Well I just got divorced after 10 years. I need help on what
to do on dates any more?
1 Comments, 39 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Going on a date? 4/8/2007
If you are going on a date.. Ask yourself are u prepared?
Some thoughts on do's and donts on a date...
Dos:
1. Make sure you send them a updated photo (Before u meet) 2. Talk on the phone with them 3. Dress nice, smell nice 4. Be able to have a conversation 5. Movies/lunch/dinner great way to start 6. Guys be a gentleman, pay for the girl 7. Guys bring the condoms if you want any. ...
4 Comments, 194 Views,
12 Votes
,4.04 Score |
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Humor 3/12/2007
I've noticed that a good sense of humor is often vital
to dating. If you can tell a joke, you can get laid.
3 Comments, 47 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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Where have all the average people gone? 3/12/2007
This site seems to have lost its touch. Where did all the
women go? Seems harder to get a chat out of most ladies. Single
men out number single women by 9:1.
4 Comments, 148 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score |
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the Right chemistry. 2/27/2007
Sometimes two people can take one look at one another and
just melt. Almost if they were practiclly meant for each
other. the connetion was heaven sent. Such moments are
indeed memorable and are a combiantion of where luck, fate
and God's touch seems to fall into place. They make
life interesting and give making the right connection
an electrical zeal.......a zeal that is never ...
1 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score |
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Going shopping during his lunch break 2/19/2007
It was one of those days for me where it seemed like nothing
was going right and I had decided to call it a day and turn
in early for the night. I am normally up all night as I work
nights, or I was working nights untill recently. The gentlemen
that I have been seeing for a few months, emailing back and
forth for a few months now the sex is great always leaves
me craving for more. He sends me a ...
1 Comments, 195 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score |
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I think that we should only be friends 2/11/2007
How many of you guys have heard this line from a woman in your
life? It's a woman way of saying she doesn't want
you as a boyfriend in a nice way.
What so many guys fail to realize is that one a woman views
as a friend, she will never view you as boyfriend material.
I've seen so many guys invest their time in a woman that
had no interest in making them their boyfriend, but strung ...
5 Comments, 125 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score |
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Dating Good Men That Want Great Sex 1/30/2007
Im a little confused. If you ask men what they want most in
women they want to marry or date? They usally respond great
sex.
Some how I dont believe this. When I find a great guy and give
him great sex he always thinks that I have been to sexually
active or Im a slut.
They dont stop to think that maybe I had an older man for many
years that taught me many many things.
I believe in ...
8 Comments, 331 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score |
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Age Difference... 1/30/2007
Now I know this question gets brought up a lot, but I wanna
know people's opinions on age differences in dating.
Meaning, is it ...'the bigger the age gap, the more
casual the realationship' or are some gaps too big
thats its simply 'wrong'.
I know it's all down to personal opinion and preference,
but as I am particularly attracted to the idea of an older
woman, I just wondered ...
2 Comments, 80 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score |
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how do you kno when its time to break up 1/23/2007
i just need to kno when its time to let go of a relationship
that isnt goin anywhre..
1 Comments, 48 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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what women want 1/18/2007
what is it that women look for first in a man when they consider
dating?
5 Comments, 94 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Me and the office slut have alittle fun 1/15/2007
Now being me i was into alot of sex, but i usualy never got
it. My wife was a total slut but i divorced her for cheating
on me with her boss. But enough about me back to the story
I was sitting in my small cubicle. It had posters and a calender
on the side. I sighed abit and leaned back in my chair. Footsteps
came from my left. I turned and noticed a gorgeous women,
Katie. She ...
1 Comments, 255 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score |