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ManThichSexfree 45 M
7  Articles
real date   11/8/2011

can you have a real date in adultfrienfinder for sex? i could'n find any girl in there if i am a vietnamese


4 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
WANT TO SEE WOMEN   11/7/2011

IAM ALONE WANT RELATIONSHIP @ SEX WITH WOMEN...


3 Comments, 98 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
ManThichSexfree 45 M
7  Articles
hen ho qua mang   11/4/2011

Ban co nghi la hen ho qua mang la trung thuc hay ko. Doi khi toi nghi nhung nguoi tren mang thong thuong la ko trung thuc, va hen ho qua mang cung la ko trung thuc, tuy nhien cung co 1 so it nguoi la trung thuc. Nhung that kho de tim duoc nguoi trung thuc tren mang fai ko ban.Hay gop y nha, thanks.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Training Date   11/1/2011

You are wearing a short red dress with black nylons . The dress flows smoothly over the curves of your soft figure . I grab you by the back of your neck and force you down over my desk. You turn and look at me with contempt.

Holding your head down with my left hand , I stroke my right hand down the seam of your body to the nape of your arching back . just above your ass cleavage. Pausing ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Your Smile   10/20/2011

Your Smile

Your smile is like a beautiful sunrise, spreading its rays of heated love through my very soul. It feeds my heart with the food of romance, passion, and desire that I crave. When you’re sad, angry or confused it fills your eyes with those cold tentacles of sadness that slides through my veins chilling me. When I see it so, the desire to rush forward and wrap my arms around ...


7 Comments, 199 Views, 26 Votes ,4.54 Score
Dunatis2k 37 M
0  Articles
Deal Breakers   10/18/2011

Relationships end for many a reason, and for myself now that I've gotten a few dates in the last while it's mostly been a lack of connection, but every so often there is a magical point where something is said, done or revealed that ends all potential.

It could be as benign as a difference of opinions on a single subject or some sort of physical imperfection that you just cannot deal ...


2 Comments, 60 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
fisherman197008 51 M
17  Articles
slow dancing   10/9/2011

As the weather gets colder, I enjoy dancing on a date, it is good excercise and a lot of fun. It also helps your mood and shows your partner that you can get into a rhythem, and if you can have rhythem in dancing you will have a better rhtthem in the bedroom. besides it is a good way to meet other singles and start a short conversation. It is also a lot of fun.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
How Long?   9/12/2011

How long should I wait before trying to have sex with a person I just started dating?


4 Comments, 49 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
toomanycars 50 M
1  Article
HPV anda Dating   9/11/2011

I have been talking to a woman I have known for a long time. We always had somewhat of a spark between us. Recently we have had some very long conversations where things might move to the next level. She has openly told me that she carries HPV and her ex-husband is a herpes carrier. She assures met that the herpes is not an issue as she is clean.

I am very clean and have never been ...


4 Comments, 94 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
WolfGrey87 37 M
5  Articles
Teasing ur date   9/11/2011

Can teasing your date too much be a bad thing that she'll get pissed?


1 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
baddbaddbadd 58 M
4  Articles
Are the people here for real?   9/3/2011

I often wonder how real the people are on here, do they visit Swapfinder.com as a novelty, being nosey?, curious? Or are they really looking? I am curious if there is a percentage that is known? I have found people on here that act like they are here for a reason, but they get a case of scruples when it comes time to actually meet! Are we "that" type of society? Wouldn't it be nice to live in the free love ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
mikelarry_02 32 M
3  Articles
dating   9/3/2011

why is dating so hard now and days, seems like everybody is breaking up. what is the problem with dating in 2011


1 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Devonprovidesfun 34 M
10  Articles
Ehh   8/30/2011

Dating hasn't really gone too well for me. I'm more prone to protect my feelings and just have friends with benefits.


1 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
bbw_austin22 35 F
3  Articles
austin texas?   8/30/2011

anyone single males under 50 live near austin texas?


10 Comments, 201 Views, 26 Votes ,3.56 Score
zokash22 29 M
11  Articles
kool   8/17/2011

dating is fun cause it gives you the time to see if ur really interested in the person and your not yet commited


2 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
toledofun669 34 M
2  Articles
hooking up?   8/10/2011

where would you say people hook up at the most?


3 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
toledofun669 34 M
2  Articles
does anyone actually date people on here?   8/10/2011

do people actually find good people on here to date and what kind of relationship comes of this?


4 Comments, 65 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
marcus10011986 37 M
1  Article
Looks vs Personality   8/7/2011

If you had to choose between looks vs personality, Which would you choose?


3 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
getting some   8/3/2011

Just trying to get points


2 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
jnuttyi27 39 M
10  Articles
Hotel or Motel   7/30/2011

What do you prefer hotel or motel


3 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
ebonypython4 37 M
2  Articles
420 dating   7/13/2011

Mary and I are the best of friends. She has been the end of a few relationships. If I may pose a question to the ladies what turns u on/off about a guy who smokes...? alot...


2 Comments, 53 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
passionfu1986 49 M
6  Articles
online dating   7/4/2011

offers a fresh lease of air and a feeling that one is still young no matter what the age. Add internet to the feeling and one gets to have the perfect combination of chance and opportunity with a probability of meeting newer people.

Internet or online dating has been instrumental in offering a newer lease of life to many who seemed to fear the whole concept of dating. The courage ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_sxylips79 45 F
1  Article
Black women/Italian men   7/2/2011

I absolutely love Italian men and i cant put in to words why i always in up dating someone who is Italian or mixed with Italian.

have u ever dated an Italian man or someone mixed with Italian?

black women/italian men...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
death of Swapfinder.com   6/29/2011

Has the death of Swapfinder.com come about? Any people who were here over 5 years ago maybe know what i am talking about


5 Comments, 98 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
nawtyman2001 25 M
1  Article
Girl with parental control issues.   6/22/2011

I recently got divorced from a girl who was arrogant, manipulative, unloving, self-centered and a cheater. oh and in the 5 months we were married, we didnt sleep together even once.

The first question youll ask me is why d fuck did u get married to her. We had been going out for what can only be described as forever and it came to a point where it was get married or get lost. Thinking i ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
how to meet   6/21/2011

anyone actually have any real luck here?


3 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Nice or naughty ;-)   6/17/2011

What do you go for in a relationship? NICE OR NAUGHTY?


4 Comments, 41 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
29Phx_Guy 42 M
10  Articles
Swapfinder.com experiences   6/5/2011

How many of you all have had good/bad experiences off Swapfinder.com?


4 Comments, 75 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
29Phx_Guy 42 M
10  Articles
Long terms relationships off Swapfinder.com   6/3/2011

Why are some people (mostly women) surprised by the fact men aren't looking for a LTR on Swapfinder.com?


2 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
29Phx_Guy 42 M
10  Articles
Long Term FWB   6/3/2011

Does that constitute a boyfriend gf relationship? Seems so...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
ahappycpl 55 C
24  Articles
wife strecht out   5/28/2011

My wife had made her first date but the guy never showed then we remembered that she had met him Sunday and we assumed he new we went to the casino on sat. Well to make a long story short she met a trucker there at the casino he was all over her he invited her to go see his truck she did . Sorry writing this on my cell story to long I already posted it on our blog if you want to know the rest ...


6 Comments, 301 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
Climber2665 35 M
1  Article
role reversal   5/18/2011

I have come to the conclusion that men and women of a certain age have completely switch roles.

Once men and women get to a certain age "21-25" and women "19-27" it seems that the roles we fit in have completely switch poles.

Men these days do want , know how to cook, clean, iron, shop, provide, and decorate. where as back in the day a bachelor was someone that usually didnt ...


7 Comments, 48 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
dsmguy1971 53 M
1  Article
Question for the ladies...   5/11/2011

Would you have a problem dating a bisexual man?

I just had my heart broken by a woman, who knew I was bisexual, but just could not handle it. She thought she wouldn't be enough for me, or worse yet, that I would give her some kind of social disease.


1 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_3some2013 29 C
2  Articles
dating   5/6/2011

Why find a date on the internet?


21 Comments, 235 Views, 39 Votes ,2.83 Score
justlooking4sexy 26 C
4  Articles
long term   5/4/2011

Hello my name is nyssa and my husbands name is doug. We are looking for a girl to join us to welcome into our family. This is for the both of us not just one.

We have been curious about this for a long time and we want to get out there and see if some ladies are interested. I hope this isn't too weird for us to be looking for an additional lover for the both of us. But if ...



7 Comments, 127 Views, 20 Votes ,2.87 Score
ahappycpl 55 C
24  Articles
my wife on her first date   4/20/2011

My wife has her first date this sat. I hope it finally happens she met him at a casino they have talked about 5 times he has ben building up a relationship he is married so nothing will come of it he just wants to fuck her and she wants to fuck him I'm so excited. She told me I wasn't alowwed to go and believe it or not that excites me a lot too


4 Comments, 191 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
How do I get her back   4/19/2011

Just got out of a relationship but want her back. how do I get what I want back?


1 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
akshayy 43 M
1  Article
Swapfinder.com SUCCESS STORIES IN INDIA   4/11/2011

India is known to be an anti sex country. Its probably why there is so much pent up sexual frustration in everyone. So much so that when a bikini clad woman, or a guy in trunks is shown in a bollywood movie, the audience starts panting for breath and guys take a little extra time in the washroom on returning home.

I had serious doubts about the success i would find on registering. Most ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Online expectations   4/10/2011

What are your true intentions when you are online looking to hook up fun only, short term , full filling a fantasy or searching for something real and deeper ?


4 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Online dating experiences good vs the bad   4/10/2011

If you have been dating or playing online for awhile now talk bout your experience does the good outweigh the bad ?


0 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_robbo2476 50 M
1  Article
36 and still single   4/4/2011

never been married or engaged, no where close. Is it really meant to be so difficult!?!?


4 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
ankit0054 40 M
1  Article
sex with strange woman   3/24/2011

i mat a strange woman in train she was not old enough and she was marrie . i did friendship, and asked for the sex experienced. she agreed and after i started she suck my dic and my nippal i really enjoyed. and wish that every sex lover get this opperunity....


1 Comments, 102 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
gr8north 56 M
3  Articles
Wow what a learning curve this is going to be   3/15/2011

I have been in a relationship for a quite a few years up until six months ago. I have had a few dates since (not from here) and I am blown away as to how much you forget about new relationships.

It's such a steep learning curve for me because of the things you take for granted when you're with someone for an extended period of time. You have the initial physical attraction which is ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
longnblack19 32 M
1  Article
What turns you off?   3/14/2011

Just wondering what some of your big turn offs?


4 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
scorpioz76 44 F
4  Articles
Swapfinder.com   3/13/2011

dating on this site really sucks


9 Comments, 178 Views, 20 Votes ,2.23 Score
jozzzzzjozzzzz 31 M
2  Articles
i cant fall in love   3/10/2011

why i cant fall in love


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
Dating.....a Woman's View   3/7/2011

When you are dating..... Farting is never an issue. When you are married ....You make sure there's nothing flammable near your husband at all times.

When you are dating..... He takes you out to have a good time. When you are married ....He brings home a 6 pack, and says "What are you going to drink?"

When you are dating..... He holds your hand in public. When you are married ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
kevin199083 34 M
2  Articles
dating   3/1/2011

hi help me


1 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Sexy Asian Girls   3/1/2011

I LOVE YOU!!!!


1 Comments, 66 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
swagsurfin24 30 M
4  Articles
Hooking Up   2/26/2011

Does having sex too soon contribute to relationships that do not work out?


2 Comments, 68 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Dating seems to be the most mindless activity.   2/26/2011

I'd equate the act of dating with searching for gold in a garbage can. Perhaps it's my naturally pessimistic nature, but I can't see a point in dating when I know I'm incompatible with 90% of the women around my age. My thought process is too different, (not saying better or worse) and most women can't see that far outside of the box. I can never be myself when dating, I have to dumb my ...


3 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
SexArchitects 42 C
1  Article
hard times for trust   2/21/2011

It is hard to believe it but it is not that easy meeting someone for real. At least for us is being an awful experience sometimes because people is very wary of us even when we show everything they ask for. Sometimes you are not sure if you are trying to date a girl or if we are under the attention of Scotland Yard! And which is worse, after show them our photos, talk about our life, our job, our ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Onlyeatblackpie 52 M
7  Articles
Black and white   2/21/2011

What is it these days that people can't get over an interracial couple? My girlfriend's color shouldn't mean anything to you, yet some people choose to glorify their ignorance. Really, I laugh at all the pitiful people who try to point us out in a crowd, or make the loud comments, or just stop and stare. It's actually amusing to see such stupidity these days. We have so much more to worry about ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
hotboi1183 41 M
10  Articles
FOR REAL   2/13/2011

how long does it take for ppl to get a meet of this site. are ppl for real or fake


0 Comments, 13 Views, 0 Votes
LovingPakiMan4u 53 M
1  Article
Offer for Pakistani Girls ... Genuine and Sincere   2/6/2011

My Dear Hotties,

I know most of you have a lot of imaginations and fantasies to act out. The only thing that inhibits most of you from going full bore is the social restrictions and the fears attached to a girl in our society. Who doesn't want to have sex after all these organs have been created with the same purpose. Most of you do masturbate regularly as far as my survey and ...


4 Comments, 141 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
asl74090 43 M
4  Articles
Terrified of Discovery   1/24/2011

I am a single dad. A father of three who are my entire world. I am very responsible: I keep a clean house, cook healthy meals for my , work hard, and I have never brought another woman around them. 

I rarely focus on myself. During  the four days each month that I do not have them I clean, and write music. I have recently decided that I have been alone long enough, so here I am...on ...


3 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
asl74090 43 M
4  Articles
It's Just Sex!   1/24/2011

Can anyone ever say sex is just sex? A one night stand is just a one night stand, but how often can people actually be friends with benefits? From personal experience I can tell you that one person will generally come to expect more. 

With a site like Swapfinder.com.com, it does seem more likely to find someone who's willing to "just have sex, " but if he/she becomes a frequent ...


2 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_SRQnpfl09 30 M
9  Articles
who hates this?   1/7/2011

when ur bf or girlfriend is always asking, "are u sure u wanna be with me." that is one of the most annoying things!


1 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
What should i say?   1/7/2011

My ex wants me to break up her BFF cuz all we do is screw all day and all night. should i just tell her to get lost?


1 Comments, 44 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
josh_f99 33 M
1  Article
Getting attached   12/29/2010

Basicly when ever i meet new people i tend to get attached really easily. If i meet a girl just with the intention of having a laugh and some fun i always end up getting attached and miss them when im not with them. I just wondered if anyone else has this issue? thanks


3 Comments, 64 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
baddbaddbadd 58 M
4  Articles
My AWESOME date!   12/23/2010

The evening started out great, I recieved a phone call, and the lady on the other end told me she had free time if I wanted to grab a drink! Sure, I said, I can head out in about 30 minutes! She said great, I will see you then! She gave me the street and the number, and hung up! So I decide to hop in the shower since I was hoping to get laid that night, I thought it best to wash my partner in ...


1 Comments, 145 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
ahappycpl 55 C
24  Articles
dating a married woman   12/21/2010

I would love to sent my wife on a date personally as a man knowing that all she want is to go out and have a good time would you date a married woman if the husband drove you guys around


2 Comments, 134 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Dating improves happiness!   12/18/2010

Dating improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief.

...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
READYMAN92 47 M
10  Articles
why do girls play games.   12/18/2010

games are for


2 Comments, 28 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Age !   12/8/2010

Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter....


8 Comments, 40 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
allwrkdup 46 M
1  Article
private lives and lack of interest on these sites   12/4/2010

i love this site but the lack of interest to our profiles without face shots some of us have very high emd careers and family our reputation is on the line so we must be desrete on here i dont know why when we msg a person they do not respond back because we want to chat and get a level of trust built before we send private pics and kinda reveal our private lives i just wish people on here would ...


4 Comments, 57 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
BubbaAllan 34 M
1  Article
What do women really like!?   11/15/2010

Just wondering what you women think about in dates. Would you rather go to a nice dinner all romantic, or something casual, like a movie and just hanging out in eachothers company?


1 Comments, 38 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_trcl9891 28 M
4  Articles
dating?   11/15/2010

Anyone have any dates from this site how has it gone?


3 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_kwidgey5 31 M
2  Articles
whens a good time?   11/3/2010

so my g/f and i have an open relationship, and weve been together for about 7 months now, and im wondering if it should stay open or not?


2 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
interacial   11/2/2010

why are there still people who wont date outside their race


8 Comments, 124 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Hnovaro55 34 M
10  Articles
What do you think of blind dates?   11/1/2010

Would you ever go on a date where you have absolutely no clue as to what the person looks like?


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
alwaysdown4tha69 38 F
2  Articles
Right Time   10/27/2010

If you are friends with someone who enjoys your company, and doesn't mind having a sexual relationship with you, when's the right time to ask that person if anything can go any further? I was in a similar situation, but it kind of backfired. Instead of keeping it on a friends with benefits level, feelings got involved and lets just say it didn't end pretty at all.


1 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
tydell123 33 M
2  Articles
havveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee   10/24/2010

llllllllllllllllllooooooooooooooooooootttttttttttttsssssssssssssssss ooooooooooooooffffffffffffffffff ssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


2 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
rm_always571 58 M
2  Articles
Getting To Date Number Two   10/17/2010

I've been keeping track of the things which turn dates off and on. Of course, this is from a guy's point of view, and most of this will apply toward men, but I think some of these things can apply in a similar way to women.



--Avoid talking about ex wives, husbands, girlfriends, or other dates. This gives the impression you aren't over the previous person. If someone likes you, ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
fisherman197008 51 M
17  Articles
The actual first date.   10/10/2010

when you are past the meet and greet and if you get to the first actual "date" I always try to start with a mutually comfortable setting, dinner, or a movie, or dance. it makes both parties feel more comfortable, but what if they change things up. we should be willing to try new things, for example on one of my first dates we couldn't agree on the restaraunt, so we decided to just go for a drive. ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Chineseboy8007 35 M
1  Article
add me   10/6/2010

add me friend tq


2 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Top 10 Dating Tips   9/20/2010

Top 10 Dating Tips Dating Tips and Advice for Singles

Whether you are new to the dating scene, are reentering the dating scene, or are a serial dater, you can use dating tips and advice. No one is a dating expert – even the most beautiful and wealthy people all struggle with matters of the heart. Everyone can learn something about how to date more, how to attract the types of people we ...


3 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_nish704 31 M
2  Articles
bangalore dating   9/20/2010

hii if any girl want to dating with me then mail me


1 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
dating   9/4/2010

would anyoe date me?


2 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
vampires…   8/30/2010

…they say that a vampire cannot enter your home unless you invite it in…so be careful who you extend invitations to…

…we all know what a vampire does…it lures you in with its beauty, its charm and its promise of ecstasy…as you invite the vampire into your house, you invite it into you…because once it is in your house there is no stopping it…it is ...



9 Comments, 147 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
Lie   8/28/2010

Never lie or start off by telling the truth?


5 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
gagonmycock14 42 M
27  Articles
meeting someone online   8/26/2010

Anyone was in a situation where they met someone online, then someone else asks you, how did you 2 meet, and you're kind of embarrassed to say that you met online??


7 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_abilove22 31 F
10  Articles
older men, mature love. continued.   8/25/2010

however, what frightens me is mind control from a government or higher power that would force a you to only associate with others of your age; and to to avoid those older or younger than yourself with (i don't know) say mild electric shocks for any aberrant behavior. America is free!

should the younger woman associate with or date older men. of course you should! the generations have ...


4 Comments, 121 Views, 17 Votes ,5.25 Score
rm_abilove22 31 F
10  Articles
don't get caught in the wrong car, with the wrong guy.   8/25/2010

advice for dating someone blind:

ask about recreational drug use. when you're dating someone unfamiliar to you, better check he's got you in a drug-free environment. sorry.

what's in that (his) car your getting in? is it (the car) drug-free? you don't wanna get stopped by the cops, discover your date's trafficking, transporting illegal substance backseat, or trunk; and have to ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
librawantsmore 48 M
1  Article
why oh why?   8/23/2010

ive noticed in begining relationships that a few gurls would go all out to please me sexually and it seemed to me that after they felt like they had me, it would dwindle off!lol i told one friend that she didnt want me to do nothing but pay her light bill when she tried to put it on me the first time- does anybody attract liers, cheats, and thieves too?




1 Comments, 34 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
loveismylife1 44 M
2  Articles
why most woman dont want to show   8/18/2010

why most woman dont want to show them self are they scared any thing


1 Comments, 23 Views, 0 Votes
bootiebabe 42 F
3  Articles
Is 'any hole a goal'   8/18/2010

Since we are all members of a website that is primarily aimed at helping people find sexual partners the question arises...Is any hole a goal, or are more people looking for the type of person you would actually date if you met them in a bar. Do men and women look at this differently? Personally I have had many offers of sex, but many of the people offering it are 'not my type' so am I guilty ...


8 Comments, 136 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
fuckstud92 32 M
3  Articles
wat a girl wants   8/10/2010

deos a girl want a big dick that hurts or one they can barely feel?


1 Comments, 69 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
chichi691000 44 C
1  Article
dating asians   7/29/2010

i dont know why but i love asian ass.i cant get enough i like it all day everyday


2 Comments, 101 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_just2freakxx 40 C
0  Articles
She comes with Baggage   7/18/2010

By NADINE WILSON All Woman writer Monday, July 12, 2010The Jamaica Observer

IN the general sphere of things, men tend to travel light, while women have no problem tagging along heavy carry-ons. However, when it comes to relationships, both sexes are equally guilty of carrying excess baggage. The structure and nature of this baggage varies, with some having the potential to weaken a ...


2 Comments, 73 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
JohnHabernathy 36 M
1  Article
Whats the one thing that will kill a first date?   7/17/2010

I'm saying bad breath!


5 Comments, 67 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Hershey_Bar 35 M
1  Article
MONOGAMOUS or POLYGAMOUS?   7/14/2010

Greetings. I am currently single again after another long (2 years) relationship, and now that I've been looking around and doing some dating I have to ask your opinion on monogamy and polygamy. Since keeping options open seems to work better for some. But it still would be nice to have a steady thing who stays on call. But all opinions are welcome.


2 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
First date   7/9/2010

I recently met a younger woman on line, she had recently broke up with her boyfriend and wasn't interested in meeting. I grntly persued her offering only dinner and conversation.

We met at a restaurant two days after first contact and hit it off. I was sitting outside waiting for her; I recognized her immediately and my cock responded immediately. We were understanding of each other's ...


2 Comments, 132 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rm_vijay_k33 42 M
7  Articles
dating   7/8/2010

dating is special for all young middle age and old, now a days it has become fashan most of the people like to go for date and wanted to call on dates.


1 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
rm_vermontks 30 M
3  Articles
Is a hike a good first date   7/4/2010

Hiking and backpacking is my favorite summer activity. I'm just curious, do people think that going on a hike is a good first date or no. It's a great opportunity to spend some time talking, but walking up a mountain can get sweaty.


3 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
How to first ask a girl?   6/25/2010

How do you begin to ask a hot girl out who you don't know?


4 Comments, 56 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
finny197722 51 M
6  Articles
whats the best and worst date you been on   6/21/2010

whats the best and worse date you ever been on


3 Comments, 36 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
joker_77 47 M
1  Article
make love 1 night?   6/1/2010

do u make love on 1 night?


1 Comments, 41 Views, 0 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Maturity !   5/21/2010

Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had, and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated....


3 Comments, 39 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
asplo1 31 M
6  Articles
Dating quiz test   5/11/2010

hey there, mainly looking for ppl to talk to/ hang out with in my area or beyond! Adventure partners welcome!

I know i look very scary/serious in my pics but im totally not in real life, just the goofy ones look soooooo terrible! I "have my sh*t together" but if thats something thats really important to you then your probably looking for something a little more serious than i am. I like ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
11  Articles
Why Do Men & Women Cheat?   5/9/2010

No one wants to take the blame on this issue. Everyone wants to pass the buck. Guaranteed, no one is going to like my article because I put the blame exactly where it needs to be.

People cheat because they don't get what they need at home & they have the opportunity.

Let that sink in for a moment. I have never had a man cheat on me. Back off bitches, retract your claws. I don't ...


9 Comments, 199 Views, 29 Votes ,4.54 Score
translover24 38 M
1  Article
3 month rule   5/8/2010

when your dating someone, you should wait a least 3 months before you truely fall for them. the 3 months is use to feel them out to see who they are as a person. if you do this youll have less problems in the future with your significant other....


2 Comments, 45 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
OkanaganMan 36 M
6  Articles
First Date Spots   5/5/2010

As a rule of thumb I try not to involve eating on the first date. Nothing more attractive than filling your face with food as you get to know someone!! Of course, , if we are both hungry as a , , food is on the menu dont get me wrong. Whats your opinion on this?? Do you take a first date to restaurant or out for food??


1 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
asplo1 31 M
6  Articles
How 420 fucks shit up   4/23/2010

Ey man look hea 420's great but not wen deallin with 2 people togetha knoo wa i meannnnn


3 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
mzsunnyclit69 50 F
3  Articles
What should I tell him?   4/23/2010

Let me start by saying I was in a relationship with the most wonderful man on the planet. He was kind loving generous and caring, and the sex was good as well. But there was a certain spark missing from our relationship. So I suggessted we go to a toy store and get some adult toys to spice things up. He agreed, when we got to the store there was this very familiar face working the register, the ...


4 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
princeofmalta 62 M
2  Articles
teasers   4/21/2010

why do girls reg on this site then dont boder to reply to emails comlete waste of time we use our pionts to send emails and not eaven a reply.


2 Comments, 75 Views, 0 Votes
rm_mellow162 50 M
1  Article
What is Love?   4/17/2010

I've asked myself that question alot lately. Is it that feeling you get in your gut when you're around her or is it being at ease with her. I could go on and on. I've found that maybe I've become jaded searching for that one. Will I settle or will I continue to search for that pot at the end of the rainbow? It was so much easier in my youth when you had no reservations in your head. I think that ...


5 Comments, 42 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Obsession   4/10/2010

I got into an interesting discussion about sex with one of my girlfriends, and as it turns out she always seems to meet guys with an obsession. First, she dated a that was so into watching porn that he always tried pressure her into making their own home video. Then she dated a guy that always tried to pressure her into wearing some kind of uniform. So I was wondering how many women have met guys ...


2 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_flashur80085 48 M
1  Article
Arranging a date?   4/9/2010

Before I become a silver member for a month (all i could afford right now boohoo) I was wondering how quick a date or meet up can be arranged?

To give more detail, next Friday (16th April 2010) I have the house to myself for a weekend (who I live with doesn't matter but I aint got a partner). So I was hoping that maybe I would be able to chat to one of the ladies on here in order for ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
A matter of opinion   4/8/2010

I met this beautiful girl once and we hit it off right from the start, and everything seemed fine. We would meet from time to time but always with her friends. So one day I asked her, why don't we go out one night just the two of us. She simply responded, I can't unless it's with my friends. At this moment I was baffled and very confused. So naturally I asked her friend what's going on, and I ...


4 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
hotboi27 41 M
6  Articles
why why why   4/4/2010

why do we want what we can't have. but when u have it u dont want it.


2 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
hotboi27 41 M
6  Articles
sex   4/4/2010

if u have sex on the first date, do u come back for more or move on to the next one.


3 Comments, 44 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
The Fox and the Grapes   4/3/2010

One of my favorite stories: One hot summer's day a Fox was strolling through an orchard till he came to a bunch of Grapes just ripening on a vine which had been trained over a lofty branch. "Just the thing to quench my thirst, " quoth he. Drawing back a few paces, he took a run and a jump, and just missed the bunch. Turning round again with a ...


4 Comments, 115 Views, 14 Votes ,5.70 Score
neo_doctor 39 M
1  Article
dating in pk   3/19/2010

Dating in pakistan is one of the most cumbersome job , really as you find it hard to get a laid , make a way into you . Primarily because of social conservative approach, many still not broad minded , just a few of them see dating men , enticing activity of life .Girls too have their mercenary motives, as they try to approach those only who can make their lushes count .


2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
Flattery will get you nowhere.   3/18/2010

Like everyone else, I think it’s nice to get a compliment from someone. Of course it makes me feel good and strokes my ego a little bit. It’s a nice thing to pay an honest compliment.

But at what point does it become too much? That’s up to woman to decide for herself. Some might like to hear it over and over, but for me it makes me think a couple things about people who pay too ...


6 Comments, 143 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
Be Nice In Chat Rooms   3/16/2010

Maybe this is a wild assumption on my part, but I thought that people joined Swapfinder.com so that they could make connections with other people. If that is the case, then why do things that will build walls between you and other people?

Of course there will be people that you have little in common with or even people who you don’t like, for whatever reason. ...



5 Comments, 104 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
tykewando1987 37 M
1  Article
gsg   3/5/2010

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1 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes
TxAthlete4811_1 64 M
5  Articles
What is discreet?   3/3/2010

I read that women want a discreet partner. My idea of discreet and their idea appear to be two different things. The woman seems to mean discreet, as in you are my boyfriend when I want you. Whan I don't, go away.


2 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
dating   3/1/2010

dating is an art of culture of enjoying &understanding


4 Comments, 39 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
here's what you do:   2/18/2010

here's what you do:



Get ready. Make sure your condoms are fresh -- check the expiration date. Throw away condoms that have expired, been very hot, carried around in your wallet, or washed in the washer. If you think the condom might not be good, get a new one. You and your partner are worth it.

That dick has to be hard before you put a condom on it.

Open it. ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
vd46877 27 M
10  Articles
hello   2/7/2010

m vicky living alone i can stand in bed as long as u want.......n well built. my stats are 16"biceps 42" chest 33" waist 176cms ht 84kgs 7"cock......do reply u will enjoy.....pm me....i'll shw my pic


1 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes
gleefullythick 36 F
1  Article
How to meet sex-positive men?   2/4/2010

Here is my question/situation - I am on this site because I love sex. I don't mind hook-ups, but I really would rather be dating. I would really like to meet an open-minded, sex-positive type. Possibly for an open/poly relationship, possibly for monogamy, depending on the guy and the relationship.

Here on AFFF, the focus is really on hopping in the sack, which I understand, and am OK ...


11 Comments, 187 Views, 27 Votes ,4.40 Score
herahottie 51 C
2  Articles
chasing   2/3/2010

I am just wondering why it is that most of the men on here love to keep after you and beg you to meet up with them, then when you finally give in and decide you will, they end up either standing you up or saying something came up and they just cant make it. Is it just the thrill of the chase that they enjoy or what


6 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Finding a FWB   1/24/2010

So finding a friend with benefits has been tougher than I thought. I've tried for a while and just haven't found the one yet. i was reading the articles on the site and voting to just get points, then started reading the replies and they were better than the articles. So I decided to get everyone's opinion on finding a good fuck buddy. I'm sure someone on here has had success in this area. ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
sexylady4ever4 38 F
0  Articles
How do you differentiate dating ?!   1/15/2010

So when you go out on a date and continue to date this person, is that dating? Cause i have become utterly confused on this situation. To me i would think if you continue to go out on dates that means your dating, if you talk on a regular basis, see each other a few times a week. Would call that dating, or just friends who hang. When can you define dating? or even a relationship? Guys can send ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
chrisomaha 44 M
11  Articles
proper protocol in this day and age   1/8/2010

i know i really can't go by what my grandparents or parents say the proper protocol is for dating in today's world, but who exactly do i use as an example? some of my friends' standards seem a little bit faster than i would like, and others slower. do i pick a medium ground and go from there. is there even a protocol for dating behavior anymore? e.g. is she easy if she sleeps with you on the ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_krisshh81 33 M
14  Articles
Dating Tips For Men- Attracting Beautiful Women Without Effort   1/4/2010

Most guys can find themselves falling in love with the idea of being able to attract beautiful women without much or any effort at all. Yet, you and I both know that this is more a fantasy than anything else. When you want to attract beautiful women, the truth is, you are going to have to put forth some effort. They key is to learn exactly where you will get your best rewards for the efforts that ...


3 Comments, 95 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
sexydude188 36 M
8  Articles
dating ideas   12/30/2009

Continuing to date your spouse after you are married is one way to keep romance alive, say many marriage counselors and relationship experts. But no one ever seems to offer suggestions on where to go or what to do on a date with your husband or wife. After all, going to the corner bistro every Saturday night eventually loses its charm. To help you brainstorm for your next date night, here are ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
sexydude188 36 M
8  Articles
dating   12/30/2009

Dating shouldn’t cost you a lot of money, especially if you are following the advice that volume counts when trying to meet someone new.

With that in mind, here are more than twenty cheap date ideas covering a wide variety of interests, likes, activities and hobbies. Got an even tighter budget? Then try the free dating idea suggestions instead. Run around in the sprinkler together, ...


2 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
sexydude188 36 M
8  Articles
sex on date   12/30/2009

I know that I am not quite" suited to this dating site. I'm here because I love sex, I love having my love making LOVE to me in front of others or alone. I'm a nudist at heart but also...I'm the green-eyed monster. I know about men and eye candy at nudist places but are you ALL like that. When I find my prince, is he really a frog that will lie? I have great first dates, lovely meal and ...


2 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
wantluvtoo2 60 M
1  Article
how do you know for sure?   12/24/2009

i want to ask women i see for a date sometimes but remember when i have found out that they are not into men! so my question to you women is ... just how can a man know when to put himself out there? i am not against lifestyles just want to date a woman!


1 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_xl71167 47 M
1  Article
Let it be ...   12/10/2009

Meeting up for the first time can be an experience worth while. As for many of us the worth while experience tense to be in our minds are a nice good fuck or just an expensive date. For those who want to know what really happens. post your stories here


3 Comments, 89 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
this is for my aspecial friends .. >:)   12/8/2009

Merry Christmas,





Two words that can evoke so many emotions with us. Two words that can trigger memories from our past. Two words that should bring warmth and joy into our days. Two words when spoken from the heart convey love and caring to special friends.





It is my hope that your memories of Christmas past will put a smile on your face and ...


7 Comments, 106 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
how to dat girls   11/24/2009

will all you do is be nic to the girl and dont be a ass hol and dont cheat if your dating a girl or then she will kick you to the curv


3 Comments, 19 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
from the dictionary of dating   11/21/2009

ATTRACTION - the act of associating horniness with a particular person.

LOVE AT 1st SIGHT - what occurs when two extremely horny, but not entirely choosy people meet.

DATING - the process of spending enormous amounts of money, time, and energy to get better acquainted with a person whom you don't especially like in the present and will learn to like a lot less in the future. ...


3 Comments, 58 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Venom101 49 M
8  Articles
wife   11/14/2009

Getting home after a long day’s work, my wife hit me with her top story of the day. Her best friend, Kaye, had announced her husband of many years had abruptly left her. There wasn’t much more detail other than the guy had apparently pre-arranged it and even left Kaye with a good bye letter complete with financial details and other minutiae. As shocking as that was, a couple of ...


4 Comments, 473 Views, 25 Votes ,4.02 Score
Venom101 49 M
8  Articles
jane   11/14/2009

Jane liked sex in general, but she especially liked to give head. She was always amazed when some of her girlfriends said they didn’t really enjoy giving their boyfriends blowjobs, and that they disliked cum in their mouths. For her, there was little that got her hotter than sucking cock. She was kneeling between Steve’s knees as she eased her hands firmly up the inside of his legs. She ...


2 Comments, 171 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
elloco6262008 40 M
1  Article
ANy fun   11/5/2009

Looking for fun in the area. If interested hit me up


1 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
lil johnny's date   11/1/2009

Pappy sees Little Johnny walking with a lantern and asks, "Where ya going boy?" The Johnny smiled and replied, "I'm a-going courting Peggy-Sue."

The Father said, "When I went a-courtin', I didn't need me no dang lantern."

"Sure Pa, I know." Johnny said. "And look what you got!"


1 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
m9810414263cas 49 M
1  Article
sex   10/29/2009

I want sex when my mind free that time I enjoy with my sex partner


3 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
udrivemecrazy4u 33 M
3  Articles
Blind date...   10/17/2009

Blind date... its pretty fun.ANd having sex in the 1st date... its more than anything to say...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Dating experience !   10/2/2009

Dating experience can only be understood backwards, but they must be lived forward. ...


4 Comments, 74 Views, 38 Votes
rm_lovelicken48 61 M
1  Article
I got the small town blues,lol.   9/24/2009

I live in a small town and love the beauty, and friendly feel of the place, lol, but, definately feel the difficulty of meeting new women. I was given some new advice recently and am going to give it a try.Instead of doing the search on my own I'm going to enlist the help of my married or paired female friends. Its been to long since I was in the single world.I'm not into the bar scene and ...


2 Comments, 83 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Non existent after 50 !   9/19/2009

The dating scene for people over 50 is just nearly non existent.

At least for me it is.
...


6 Comments, 100 Views, 19 Votes ,1.54 Score
3way4fun87 31 C
10  Articles
meeting   9/13/2009

how long should you chat to someone online before meeting them?


8 Comments, 132 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
joozee1 61 F
7  Articles
Sex while driving   9/4/2009

How many guys have had a women sit naked in their lap and have sex with them while behind the steering wheel and driving the vehicle? I know the obvious comment is 'that's dangerous' well of course it is but.... still want to know if you've done it.


12 Comments, 205 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
rm_slutsteve4u 68 M
1  Article
Meeting Someone New   9/1/2009

Hi to all you single people out there who, like me, are looking to meet someone new. That doesn't neccessarly mean you are looking to get invloved again, or does it? The thing is I'm not, or at least that is what I have convinced myself, not looking for another relationship that is. However I am sick and tired of playing solo and I don't see myself paying for fun but the thing is, though it ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
How to Tell That The Date Isnt Going Well   8/22/2009

Your date probably isn't going well if any of the following takes place during it:

1) He keeps telling you that you remind him of his Mother;

2) He says he has to go home early to feed his cat- and he's highly allergic to them and doesn't own one;

3) He gets up to go to the bathroom, looks at you and says "See you around";

4) He insists he has to end the date ...


2 Comments, 111 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
littlecasper5 34 M
2  Articles
BE YOURSELF!   8/20/2009

I believe everyone is looking to find that right person to spend their life with. How can you expect to find a life partner if you are not being yourself on a date. This goes for both sexes male and female alike. Another thing, dont pick out your dates flaws, but try to focus on their good points. For example if your date has a mole on his/her chin. Dont let that insignificant mole, deter you ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_decius28 44 M
1  Article
looking 4 sexy ladies   8/14/2009

i'm looking 4 a woman just to please her i wanna a woman that got that pussy that's gonna squirt she must be in atlanta area!


1 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
revsfan12 44 M
1  Article
What colognes do women like these days?   8/11/2009

???

Seems like there's nothing popular these days with them.


1 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_BigBanginMT 48 M
3  Articles
Physical attraction?   7/17/2009

Attraction is always more than just physical, but if you were to ignore everything but the physical, what do you find attractive? Or another way of saying it is, "What turns you on?" Again, I'm only talking about physical attributes.

Of course, things are always subject to change, but my top 10 physical attributes that I find especially attractive would be (in no particular order): ...


13 Comments, 113 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
Canafax 42 M
5  Articles
Some brief ideas on dating   7/14/2009

Over the years I have noticed that most people seem to have an inherently conflicted notion of what dating is. I think there are some basic misconceptions of what dating is that only allow you to limit yourself. With them you will then have less selection, enjoyment, friends, and potentially miss the good relationship(s) you were trying to find in the first place. For example, many people ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
d_star8 40 M
10  Articles
Where is the best place for a 1st date?   7/13/2009

Tell me folks?


2 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
take things easy   7/12/2009

When you first start dateing don't get to attached learn about the person your dateing before you make anything serious.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
dating rules   7/2/2009

No one ever said dating was easy. First dates are awkward, second dates are expectant and the dates that follow that -- during which two people really start getting down to the business of getting to know each other -- present hundreds, if not thousands, of opportunities for missteps, faux pas, blunders and mistakes. That is to say nothing of the myriad chances for problems to which you could ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_void_gadson 45 M
1  Article
The Idea of Monogomy   6/23/2009

Is mongomy existant or just another self fulfilling profecy? Do people these days ever trully dedicate themselves to any one person? From my experiences I would have to say, "NO!" Especially at younger ages. What constitutes true mongomy anyhow? Is it as simple as not fucking someone else? Is it breaking the rule if you exchange nude photos with someone? If you go out on a date? If you feel the ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
shopping for new girlfriend???   6/21/2009

Well it's been 29 years since Consumer's Reports reviewed girlfriends (CR, Aug 1972). Since then, styles have changed, new features have been introduced, and the market for girlfriends has changed substantially. So we here at CU decided another report was needed.

As in a car or a computer, you should ask yourself what you need a girlfriend for before obtaining one. This will, in large ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Trust & Suspicion !   6/2/2009

Sometimes for some people it takes years to build up trust in a relationship, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy that trust. ...


4 Comments, 60 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
rm_smoothswag 35 M
1  Article
I need to know!!!   6/1/2009

I have a question for the ladies, How much does a mans height effect you willing to give him a chance?


1 Comments, 49 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
A Woman's Rule of Thumb !   5/25/2009

If it has tires or testicles, you're going to have trouble with it.


4 Comments, 46 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
what would you do?   5/14/2009

Okay you see a pic of some one and think... Hot!

and out of impulse... send them a wink... a e-mail... with out really reading the profile....

then you go back and read the profile... to find they are disabled... In a chair... the only thing that they can do is oral....

what do You do?

this did happen to me... granted the guy lives over 500 miles away... ...


25 Comments, 444 Views, 65 Votes ,5.01 Score
How long do you wait?   5/7/2009

How long do you wait before you agree to meet someone in person that you have contacted online? I am sharing my personal experiences here, but am also curious to know about others'. I have met quite a few people from dating sites and adult sites, and my time period varies widely depending on the person I am in contact with. I have met with people as quickly as a few days after the first email, ...


6 Comments, 101 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_mustangluck 28 M
3  Articles
WHY IS HARD TO GET NOT INVOLVE   5/4/2009

EVERY TIME I DATE SOME ONE I GET TO INTO IT AND DONT KNOW HOW TO STOP THAT AND ENDS UP TO BE A LONG RELATIONSHIP SO ANY IDEAS OR COMENTS?


3 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Seeking Sex Toys   4/25/2009

The wife and I have been swinging for 5 years now and all our are gone.We are thinking of adding something a little different to our play.There is a local college near by and we both have fantasies about younger partners.I want a younger girl about the age of our youngest, who is 19.The wife has the same fantasy except she wants a young man.We want to teach them what sex is all about.Anyone done ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Poetbyday 34 M
9  Articles
Why do we date   4/9/2009

Well there may be alot of reasons, but one thing for certain is that we all need the feeling of another body against us, the feeling of someone's soft smooth skin gently cruising up and down our lips and bodies. We most likely date because it's in our genes and we need to socialize and practice with other humans.


1 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
BRON13 37 M
7  Articles
yhrth   4/8/2009



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2 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes
rm_shannsammy 35 C
1  Article
Women at strip clubs   4/7/2009

Why is it that when a woman goes to the strip club with her man, their table gets ignored. I paid the same cover charge as everybody else, and went there for the same reasons. I don't know why it is that people look at me strangely when I go out to the topless stripclub with my husband. With as many people being bisexual as there are these days, why do stripclubs still belong to men? I can ...


8 Comments, 185 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
stamina001985 43 M
3  Articles
Mature Women   4/4/2009

I have recently moved to Manhattan and my work schedule is playing havoc with my sex life. I have a taste for mature women, any advice on where to meet women interested in having a no-strings relationship with a young man dying to get them off?


1 Comments, 103 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
best_dom_cairo 48 M
5  Articles
group sex for married women   4/4/2009

Are married women into group sex with multiple male partners? I would like to watch my wife be pleasured but am afraid to bring it up to her. Also is interracial sex a turn on for most women, both my wife and I are white and would like tosee her with a black male or males.


3 Comments, 89 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
How To Ask Someone Out   3/31/2009

Surfing the singles scene can be an extremely time consuming and often frustrating pursuit of love, especially if you are unsure about how to make the first step.

While I can't give you a "magic formula" that guarantees success every single time, I can give you some basic guidelines on how to proceed, and hopefully succeed!

When you see someone you would like to ask out, the ...


8 Comments, 191 Views, 17 Votes ,5.11 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
dont rush in to relationship   3/31/2009

Imagine yourself marrying this person and then, ten years down the road, you’re reminiscing. “Oh, honey, do you remember the first time I said ‘I love you’?” How do you want that memory to be? I think some people treat the words so casually, that they forget soon after, but there are some who will forever keep the memory because they prevented prematurely ...


4 Comments, 60 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
INTIMATE DATING   3/31/2009

In the dating world, it seems that everyone expects the love of their life to fall from a tree and knock them dizzy with bliss. The facts of the matter are hardly as hit-and-miss as our secret desires would like them to be. When someone has a spell of good luck, it’s rarely because of some undeserved, haphazard gift bestowed upon them. If you look back to the period prior to any favorable ...


4 Comments, 67 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Looking when you've gotten older!   3/27/2009

Have you ever been date hunting and be guilty of looking at people your age or near your age and thinking, "SURELY I CAN'T LOOK THAT OLD?...


22 Comments, 230 Views, 45 Votes ,1.41 Score
rm_girly1608 25 F
1  Article
my best friend!   3/26/2009

On fine Thursday, sitting quietly with my friends under the tree, I got a phone call. “Hello?!” “Hi sexy, Nitish here!! Remember me?!” he asked. “Eh hi... Of course I remember you” I said “listen, am coming to meet you in 10 mins.. got a load of things to tell you”.. “ok, am waiting in the compound of U.O.M.. call me when you ...


4 Comments, 188 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_mustangluck 28 M
3  Articles
why dating   3/25/2009

well us is one of the top 5 worlwide with this problem so lets do something about it just get here and date people


2 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
l0velynic0le31 38 F
11  Articles
hello their   3/10/2009

wanna cam to cam with me


3 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
body or mind...!?   2/27/2009

So which is them. 1. A rock hard body and chizzled abbs

2. A sound mind and an great smile.

Which do you prefer, a. in general and b. on dating sites..?


2 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
woman beaters   2/20/2009

I am thoroughly confused why do women stay in abusive relationships? it seems so easy you get beat on and you leave so you don't get beat on again. so WHY?


2 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
thewayulikeit00 39 M
1  Article
recently started seing some one   2/19/2009

Hey there ive recently started seing some one we are only dating at the moment my question to everyone out there is it wrong to continue being on a website like this and to still be sleeping with other people


3 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Is it really true   2/19/2009

Do we need to date before sex?


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Luv2eatPuss305 41 M
4  Articles
Friends w/ Benifits Vs Fuck Buddies by Candyanne1220   2/16/2009

I have always tried to explain to people my view on friends with benefits and fuck buddies. Some people lack the intelligence to understand or differentiate the two types of relationships.

Fuck Buddies ( FB ):This is where two people just meet, fuck and peace out after they are done blowing their loads. That is great once and awhile and it can be a turn-on but it shows no emotion and no ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
rm_jmannyj85 38 M
1  Article
WHY just be plutonic with x'S ?   1/25/2009

cAN any1 say for certain that a casual but not often sexual encounter with a x, but recently turned friend . Be positive for the new formed friendship?


0 Comments, 52 Views, 1 Votes
older women and younger men   1/22/2009

So since this is a site where people can get together, just how many happen between distant ages? I don't feel strongly one way or another, but since we're all here All I know is that everyone needs some love- so someone needs to step up


2 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_4446hot 58 F
9  Articles
who having haveong fun   1/21/2009

I HAVE THIS MALE FRIEND I GET WET WITH WHEN I NEED TO RIDE A POLL. BUT I AM BI AND HE DON'T NO IT SO LATELY HE HAS OVER 30 REASON WAY IT WAS A NO SHOW BUT I AM AND NO SHOW IT HEATED HE WANT TO ASK ME WHY I DOING SHOW AND WHO I SEEING HE LIVE OUT FROM TOWN AND I REAL CAN FUCK WHO I WANT AND WHEN I WANT TO AND HAVE TO TELL HIM THAT ALL THE TIME BUT LATERLY I HAVE NOT BEEN FEELING HIM I LOVE LAYING ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
ais0869 34 M
2  Articles
dating   1/20/2009

how do u date some onefor so long and then not get married


2 Comments, 94 Views, 4 Votes
Fukcdoll 42 F
3  Articles
Dolls Dating Do's & Dont's "What Women Like"   1/15/2009

No- I'm not going to play 'match maker' but I'm going to try and give you the gift of incite into what women like, want, and how to capture their attention via the internet, so that you can make your own matches!

What women like to hear in an email:

Weather it's a woman ...


7 Comments, 256 Views, 27 Votes ,6.19 Score
rm_4446hot 58 F
9  Articles
What do with a hot sexy woman   1/13/2009

I am a Bi woman who want to make sure I am make love a woman in the right way and how to make sure she come back for more.

let no I no what like to do to a woman and I no what like to be done to me. is there anytime else that woman like HELP ME OUT.





I WANT TO TURN THE HEAT UPhappyf;{=}


1 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
01717222560 36 M
10  Articles
dating   1/10/2009

dating is good thing


1 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
rm_dengongo7 39 M
3  Articles
Could You Find a Date-Mate Here?   1/9/2009

Ladies and gentelmans, gays and lesbians, couples and threesome, in this worldwidewebsite could you find a date-mate and had an/some experience/s?Please note how many dating you have....


4 Comments, 129 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
yea or no??   12/28/2008

hey there some fine ass girlz on this site but are they forreal???


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes
UltimateRapid 34 M
2  Articles
General sex questions   12/23/2008

How to have sex is actually quite simple. When a man's penis becomes hard, he places it inside a woman's vagina, and moves it in and out. This creates friction which is pleasurable for both the man and the woman. After a while, this friction will usually cause the man to have an orgasm and ejaculate. It may also cause the woman to have an orgasm, although it can take a bit of experimentation and ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_Shaunmega 41 M
2  Articles
sex   12/15/2008

How many girls like cock and how many like little ones


7 Comments, 125 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
bigmoose693 39 M
4  Articles
body   12/14/2008

do most women like a athletic body or some fat and or a really fat man.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
rm_lymzleehk 48 F
1  Article
yummy story hehehhehehe   12/13/2008

this past summer i was with one of my friend and i went through a drive thru and he flirted with the cute girl at the window. it was summer so we both had shorts on and i watched her eyes as they checked out my husband's lap. he told her what motel we were at and the room number. she then told us she was getting off right now and she would be right out so we waited and to my amazement she came ...


8 Comments, 307 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
spankertanker85 38 M
1  Article
The Naked Man   11/25/2008

Anyone know about "the naked man" move on a first date? Basically what happens is a guy goes on a date with a girl way out of his league. So he knows there isin't gonna be a second date. As a hail mary, what he does is make up an excuse to go up to the girl's apartment and while she's not there, strip naked. The girl comes in and boom! shock and awww... She is impressed by his confidence and at ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_madhurblog 41 M
13  Articles
be nice to a girl   11/25/2008

Care. Care for her. If you are in middle school carry her binder and do things such as opening the door for her, giving a bouquet of flowers on special events like her birthday etc. Listen. Listen to what she is saying. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her. Kind. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress. A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_GotDick920 34 M
1  Article
sex   11/12/2008

You should always have it


2 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
How not to come across?   11/11/2008

I know this is probably a very old question and there will be lot's of people saying "groan not again" but I'm fairly new to this and would like some sensible answers. They say first impressions count so how do you make an impression with a single email without sounding like a complete ar@*$#le? Any answers would be gratefully recieved from both male and females.


0 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
What next   11/5/2008

Here I am an well aged, well preserved fairly good looking 60 year old lady. Being a Southern lady, I was raised to believe a gentleman all ways comes first in any relationship. But being a retired business woman, I also know we as ladies have wants and needs that need to be fulfilled as well. So hence the dilemma between one's self. Go for it or just satisfy the partner. I say go for it. If you ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rm_bartender123 42 M
1  Article
Why do I feel invisialbe   10/28/2008

I live in a College town filled with mostly early 20 something girls. I am in my late 20's and have been out of school for a while now. I bartend part time and I feel like more and more I am invisible to women. I work out and keep my self up. I can be pretty thick when it come to a women flirting with me and I pick up on it. But anymore they don't even talk to me for more than 10min and loose ...


3 Comments, 42 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
wildmanohyeah4u 46 M
0  Articles
So ladies you want a relationship, but are you really READY for one?   10/17/2008

Hi All,

I'm taking some time out to vent. But I want to make some points here that have to do with why I am frustrated. It won't get me anywhere but hopefully I can get it off of my chest. If you like, don't like, agree, disagree, post a comment, let me and my other blog readers hear it.

Okay, so the biggest complaint I've heard from the many women I've communicated with ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
hotbngcock 44 M
6  Articles
Blind dating   10/12/2008

I have heard a lot about blind dating. Have seen quite a few times in reality show but didnt have the taste of real life blind dating. I am not sure if anyone of you have any chance to have a blind dating till now. I havent but I am quite open to it. I think it needs courage from both the partners. In a conservative society its much rare compared to an relatively open society. Blind dating has ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
egypt_delight1 49 M
13  Articles
bdsm secrets   10/5/2008

always believe that inside each woman there is a submissive thing but i always wonder why they don't show it to the right person . BDSM is really a wonderful world full of fun . i wish everybody gr8 luck here and in life


0 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
whitewhife4black 71 F
6  Articles
Whatever happened to dating?   9/21/2008

We are an older married couple where the wife plays and the husband enjoys watching or at least hearing about things later on.

We didn't always operate that way... having entered into the Swinging Lifestyle way back in the 70s... we started when the lifestyle was almost entirely just 'couples' and the occasional '3some' situations.

Also, even before we met and married and ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
rm_Tallman12 49 M
4  Articles
Why is it hard to meet women?   9/18/2008

I have to admit that I honestly don't know where to look in Australia for women that want a relationship. I mean there are night clubs and all that but you never meet anyone that you would like to call later.

I have been told that I am a Gentleman and I am sweet but I find this doesn't help. What am I doing wrong?

It appears women have a preset idea what they want and I have ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_Silkhands65 59 M
3  Articles
To scaired to date   9/13/2008

From 5 date sites, have discovered ladies lie out there ass on profiles, show naked pictures professing how incredible they are and once ya get to know them realize they are full of crap. Its a game to just get a guys attention to see if he will respond to her add. they have no intention of dateing, sex, or anything else. I have had better luck asking a girl on the street out on a date, or yahoo, ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes
rm_yesirr1 41 M
1  Article
My Swapfinder.com Mission   9/6/2008

The dating scene is brutal. Nine chances out of ten when you find someone you want to be with or feel is right for you something happens and you end up single once again. That heartache and pain is unbearable at times, and takes seemingly forever to get past.

This is exactly why I signed up here. I am a busy man with career goals who is working on his master's degree in journalism. I ...


2 Comments, 66 Views, 9 Votes ,0.22 Score
whitewhife4black 71 F
6  Articles
Dating a married women   9/1/2008

We are a couple who has been married for 37 years. We've been in the lifestyle off and on since 1975.

What we are doing now is something that we have found adds a lot of new interest to an already exciting lifestyle and that is 'dating'.

Yes, old-fashion dates... anything form just meeting for a drink to a romantic dinner or a movie or hitting the dance floor at a local club. ...


1 Comments, 192 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
Best place to find women looking for friend with benefits   8/23/2008

Where is the best place to find women looking for sex?... besides on the internet?


0 Comments, 73 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Kissing a girl....   8/23/2008

If i kiss a girl for the first time is it too much to start kissing her neck and chest if I want to move it to the next phase? My ex loved it and i'm just wondering if this is ok for the first time kissing a new girl?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_myman233 39 M
1  Article
Why Games   8/19/2008

As people why do we tend to play games and play with peoples emotions? We tend let the best things in front of us go by. We let the most honorable person for the relationship. Why cant we see whats right in front of us that sometimes that person is right there in your face but we begin to act so blindly to it Take an extra step and really see the heart and that person and sometimes you can find ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 14 Votes ,0.26 Score
hotsexy03071989 35 M
1  Article
unresponsible women   8/16/2008

why women are allways late in their dates

why we have to everytime to wait zzzzzzzzZZZzz

why to be so hard to get laid

why they are always with something unplesant

...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Dating gals of all ages!   8/15/2008

What is the difference between girls/women aged: 8, 18, 28, 38, 48, 58. 68, and 78?

At 8 -- You take her to bed and tell her a story.

At 18 -- You tell her a story and take her to bed.

At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take her to bed.

At 38 -- She tells you a story and takes you to bed.

At 48 -- She tells you a story to avoid ...


8 Comments, 122 Views, 41 Votes ,2.06 Score
mzsunnyclit69 50 F
3  Articles
Our First Date   7/21/2008

I met this beautiful lady with the most sensual body under the sun. I was afraid to ask her out but I did and she said yes, that made me light up. I went to her house to pick her up and she ws still getting dressed when I got there. She said you are more than welcome to wait in the living room I will be done in about 5 mins now let me give you a little more info about her body she was around 5'7" ...


2 Comments, 152 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
Jester4lif1965 59 M
2  Articles
Dating after twenty years.   7/16/2008

I've recently started dating after twenty years of marriage and a divorce. I am here to say that you can find your someone if you look hard enough and wade through all the weirdos and freaks, happiness can be obtained through a little hard work.....dont give up.


1 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_Whattup1010 31 M
10  Articles
Oregon Area   7/6/2008

Any chicks in the Sutherlin to winston area in Oregon???


0 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
rm_trippy1010 46 M
2  Articles
DON'T BE STUCK UP/ LIGHTEN UP   7/3/2008

THE AVERAGE LIFE SPAN OF A HUMAN IS 90 YEARS OLD. WHEN YOU'RE 20 SOMETHING OR 30'S CHEER UP. DO YOU HAVE TO BE RICH AND BEAUTIFUL TO BE STUCK UP? SOME PEOPLE ARE SUCH BABIES. LIGHTEN UP WILL YOU. SOME PEOPLE ARE BORN WITH MORE PROBLEMS THAN THAT. JUST BE THANKFUL THAT YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM.

P.S. IF YOU ARE ONE OF THEM I'M KIDDING.

OH WHAT DO YOU FEEL ABOUT STUCK UP PEOPLE ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 11 Votes ,0.74 Score
rm_zx3v 33 M
1  Article
whoah   6/29/2008

date cool


0 Comments, 21 Views, 8 Votes
rich_jerk 40 M
2  Articles
What a woman wants   6/26/2008

I find that most men try to please women by appealing to the standards that society places. For example, many men think that they can win favor with women by buying them gifts, by impressing them by talking about their jobs, or by showing off their material possessions. I find, though, that the best way to form a strong connection with women is to take the time to find out about THEM. What are ...


6 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
rm_Marko83_Kg 31 M
2  Articles
Date on blind.   6/26/2008

What you usually espect when you are going on a blind date??? Nothing??? Somethig fabulos??? Or you are so deprest to take what ever it comes infront of you??


0 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_knightnite7 44 M
6  Articles
dating   6/21/2008

who here is looking for a date in the IL area?/


0 Comments, 24 Views, 8 Votes
hotcpl4threeway 41 C
1  Article
What women want   6/6/2008

so i've been on quite a few dates in my life seeing as how now i'm 25 and its always diff each time. How come every girl wants to be difficult?


3 Comments, 96 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
rm_yurPhantaC1 52 F
5  Articles
The Green Eyed Monster   6/4/2008

Ok, I've given some advice a few times but never asked for any so please be patient with me. LOL. A few of you may recognize me, and some may not but I am separated and dating only, not looking for sex at all until I meet Mr. Right! Anyway, I have been dating(no commitment) a local guy that I met at a memorial service for a mutual friend. We have gone out for supper a ...


17 Comments, 187 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
10 SURE MISS PICK UP LINES   6/2/2008

1. Man: "Haven't we met before?" Woman: "Yes, I'm the receptionist at the V.D. Clinic."



2. Man: "Haven't I seen you some place before?" Woman: "Yeah, that's why I don't go there anymore."



3. Man: "Is this seat empty?" Woman: "Yes, and this one will be too if you sit down."



4. Man: "So, wanna go back to my place?" Woman: "Well, I don't know. ...


3 Comments, 49 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
10 WAYS TO END A BLIND DATE EARLY   6/2/2008

1. At dinner, guard your plate with fork and steak knife, so as to give the impression that you'll stab anyone, including the waiter, who reaches for it.



2. Collect the salt shakers from all of the tables in the restaurant, and balance them in a tower on your table.



3. Wipe your nose on your date's sleeve. Twice.



4. Make funny faces at other ...


3 Comments, 38 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_its4sunny 37 M
9  Articles
Could You Fall In Love With A Blow Up Doll?   5/27/2008

Don't laugh (oh, go ahead)---there really is a "doll fetish" and it's called agalmatophilia.



There are websites devoted to "Real Dolls", and even a documentary was made of the men who love them. It was kind of creepy.



That film, "Lars and the Real Girl" has a plot where a nice but delusional man purchases a high end sex doll for a relationship.

...


4 Comments, 44 Views, 12 Votes
rm_its4sunny 37 M
9  Articles
Should Ex's be friends?   5/27/2008

My ex and I broke up about a year and a half ago, and it wasnt clean let me tell you. But I ran into her at the store a few weeks ago and we had a really nice chat, exchanged numbers and she asked me if I'd want to meet up sometime. Then she calls me a few hours later saying her new man didnt want me in her life and she asked me to delete her number from my phone. Lemme tell ya this guys a real ...


5 Comments, 47 Views, 12 Votes
rm_its4sunny 37 M
9  Articles
First impressions...   5/27/2008

How much/badly are first impression's dependant on what one thinks of someone/people. Is it look's ( e.g. Profile 1st pic preview) you see/or run. Or do you after that impression get to know the/learn different?


2 Comments, 17 Views, 8 Votes
rm_poking1234 36 M
3  Articles
how   5/27/2008

whats the best and fastest move on the first date


1 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_poking1234 36 M
3  Articles
sexy and young   5/27/2008

all sexy girls


1 Comments, 63 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
hot bitch   5/25/2008

hot bitch


1 Comments, 66 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
The first date is great......   5/24/2008

Any advice on why after a great first date the 2nd date is just ok and you feel the magic is gone?


9 Comments, 113 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
MrBibs 53 M
9  Articles
do they?   5/24/2008

Do people actually find someone to meet and date on this site?


3 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
When to know   5/15/2008

I was curious about when to know its time to break up with someone. Have a feeling but not sure if im ready to be alone. Just have feeling this isnt going anywhere.


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_Leeds69_Mmmm 41 M
2  Articles
The 3 day rule & why people play games...   5/9/2008

I don't understand the waiting 3 t 4 days rule before U contact someone that you're interested in !!!

Personally if a girl waits th traditional 3 or 4 days before calling / textin I automatically think she plays games & that diminishes my interest towards her straight away.

If U meet someone on Friday night, get on with them brilliantly, why is it th chances are if U contact ...


5 Comments, 78 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
rm_jaye028 43 M
1  Article
can anyone tell me how I can meet more women   5/7/2008

I'm looking for a relationship with a girl that is around my age, but I don't know if I doing something wrong or if there's something wrong with my profile. I have been in the chat rooms and the IMC but I don't seem to be getting anywhere in the dating scene. can anyone give me some advice on how I can get better results or if there is something I need to fix.


3 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
vikingluso 65 C
823  Articles
How to seduce your lover!   5/5/2008

Fabulous Foreplay To Seduce Your Lover!

Have you forgotten how to seduce your lover, or are you jumping into bed too quickly and not taking the time to make your partner feel sexy and special? Here you have some seductive tips, tricks and techniques to try in the bedroom.

We're in so much of a hurry to jump into bed nowadays that I think we've lost the art of good old-fashioned ...


2 Comments, 125 Views, 16 Votes ,4.45 Score
Why is what is far for a woman not far for a man?   5/2/2008

Now I am a man who has been divorce for sometime. I am also not afraid to admit that if the right single or couple came along I would join them in a heart beat.

Though as I scan all the listings of single women in my area, I find it funny how many say " No married man", but in the bio, they are married themselves and the hubby doesn't know they are on this site.

Know don't get ...


1 Comments, 79 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
gender and skin in judgement..   4/21/2008

Hello I am very interested in finding someone that is interested in meet someone to be friends with on Swapfinder.com.

It has been many of lonely waisted years following a need less dreams of finding a friend on Swapfinder.com.

I have made it possible several times for standard member to view my profile, and they are able to contact me.

I have sent ...



0 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
that1collegeguy 26 M
1  Article
Older or Younger?   4/20/2008

When dating someone, do you tend to go out with younger or older people?


3 Comments, 34 Views, 0 Votes
coupleforyou84 39 C
3  Articles
scrubs   4/19/2008

why do scrubs always try to make themselves feel better by lying about their jobs and why they have no teeth or brains


1 Comments, 39 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
What I consider a good date   3/21/2008

To me, a good date, especially the first date, consists of having fun, whether it be at dinner, out dancing, or just going to a movie. I shouldn't have to say "no" more than once. We should be in the process of getting to know one another, finding out what our particular interests are, and what makes us smile. Conversation, I think, is the best way to begin the process of learning about one ...


6 Comments, 115 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
WHAT SHOULD I DO   3/20/2008

I AM USED TO FUCKING MY NEIGHBOUR'S WIFE . SHE COMES TO ME AT MY FLAT AND I SOMETIMES GO TO HER HOUSE WHEN HER HUSBAND IS NOT THERE . I ENJOY HER AND SHE ENJOYS ME BUT I AM GOING TO GET MARRIED , WILL I CONTINUE ?WHAT SHOULD I DO?


5 Comments, 175 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
CAN I   3/20/2008

I AM USED TO FUCKING MY NEIGHBOUR'S WIFE . SHE COMES TO ME AT MY FLAT AND I SOMETIMES GO TO HER HOUSE WHEN HER HUSBAND IS NOT THERE . I ENJOY HER AND SHE ENJOYS ME BUT I AM GOING TO GET MARRIED , WILL I CONTINUE ?


2 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
CAN I ASK HER ?   3/20/2008

CAN I ASK MY WOMAN IN THE FIRST DATE IF SHE HAS AIDS ??????????


3 Comments, 77 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
SHE WANTS MORE   3/20/2008

I FUCK HER EVERY WEEK 3 OR 4 TIMES BUT SHE ALWAYS ASKS FOR MORE . I AM TOO BUSY TO GO TO HER EVERY DAY . WHAT SHOULD I DO...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_6666xxxxx 64 M
8  Articles
I U R IN Q8   3/19/2008

I NEED A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP . A REAL SEXY WOMAN FROM KUWAIT . IF U R READY TO HAVE FUN , EMAIL ME .


1 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
lookin4fun_okc 59 M
1  Article
How do I meet a married woman for some fun?   3/2/2008

Being new to Swapfinder.com, I can't even read emails that are sent to me so I have been going in the Lower Midwest chat room to see if there are any married women in my area. There don't seem to be many in there when I'm online.

I do see a lot that match my Cupid setting that are online when I am there, but I don't have any clue how to contact them. I know this is Swapfinder.com's way of trying to get me to ...


1 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Where to start? What to do?   3/2/2008

Let me preface this by admitting I'm very frustrated with my recent dating experiences (or lack thereof). My first problem is that I can't find appropriate places to meet women. I've tried bars, parties, online dating sites, the wilderness... no luck after 4+ years. I did date someone I met at a bar, but (surprise) she turned out to be an alcoholic. Because of previous failed relationships, I'm ...


2 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
bikerdudeinwisc 49 M
1  Article
the men that deserve a chance   2/22/2008

So many times I have heard , men are assholes, from ladies on this site . But hey what about the other half of us that are real and are here to meet someone and take the time to get to know them . Why are we put in the catergory of the assholes right away just cus we are a man ? If I had the answer to that then maybe I would be rich .lol. But seriously now ladies , dont judge all of us men just ...


4 Comments, 171 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
spin_x89 50 M
2  Articles
Sex on the 1st date...   2/19/2008

I have dated several women in my life, some of witch I had sex with on the first night, others maybe by the 3rd date. The ones that I have slept with on the 1st date always complain to me that they shouldn't have moved so fast. They often tell me that they didn't want me to lose respect for them by sleeping with me on the first night. However, I don't see it this way. In-fact one of those girls I ...


5 Comments, 122 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_BX1000 51 M
7  Articles
Dating Question   2/18/2008

What's the best way to approach an older woman?


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
PassionatePoly 68 F
20  Articles
Is there something you forgot to tell me?   2/18/2008

Ever had anyone you were meeting "forget" to mention something important? Health issues, husbands, wives, ? Height, weight, lifestyle issues, standards of living?

I admit that there have been a few times when I forgot to mention the fact that I'm a pro-domme, so got to experience a truly priceless reaction when they came into my living room and saw all the dungeon equipment lying ...


1 Comments, 129 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
boss159 65 M
5  Articles
FIRST TIME FUCK   2/8/2008

WHAT WILL MAKE YOU FUCK SOMEONE ON THE FIRST DATE.


4 Comments, 115 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
can you forgive after they have cheated?   2/8/2008

can you forgive after they have cheated?


5 Comments, 45 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
Dateing my flatmate?   2/8/2008

Hi i am in university, and i have started getting off with one of my flatmate. is this a bad idea or shall i just go with it? thanks


2 Comments, 40 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Wolff61957 64 M
11  Articles
Guys and girls and friends only   2/8/2008

Ok, I know what I think about this and I also know what some of the people I work with and or hang out with say about it, I would like to hear what some of you cool Swapfinder.com people think about it. I think that a guy can be friends with a female and not have sex, just hang out do things together what ever and sex never even enters into the picture on either side. I know this can be done cause I have ...


8 Comments, 53 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Are their real people in here.   1/6/2008

Hi, I want to know are their any real people in here?? I mean they even want to meet and take forward their desire's or charateristics defined by them or mostly are here for that fun on the net?? And how do i trace partners.?? please pour in with your experience on how to convert ur online encounter into a real life encounter...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
bSEXe2011 40 M
1  Article
"now I lay me down to sleep"   12/25/2007

I pray for a man, who's not a creep. One who's handsome, smart, and strong. He's not afraid to admit when he is wrong. One who thinks before he speaks? When he promises to call, he doesn't wait 6 weeks. I pray that he is gainfully employed. Won't lose his cool when he's annoyed. Pulls out my chair & opens my door. Massages my back & begs to do more. Oh! Send me a man who will make love ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
lovelyflfemme 41 F
4  Articles
In this day and age, why is online dating still frowned upon?   11/13/2007

The first time a tried on-line dating was 8 years ago and I ended up meeting someone I dated for a couple of years. I told only a handful of people how we met b/c I actually cared what people would think of me. My circle of friends at the time thought on-line dating was for desperate people who had no other choice but to meet other ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
rm_ummmmmmhhh 31 M
1  Article
Seems like more of us are doing it?   10/14/2007

I don't know if it's just my age group, my particular group of friends, or mere coincidence, but lately it seems like everyone I know is just having sex, rather than dating. And why not? We're young (I'm 25), horny (oh SO horny!), and it's fun. I just wonder if it's a change in public opinion, or merely a short-lived phenomenon. For myself, I'm moving towns in a few short months, and don't feel ...


2 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
blind dates   10/14/2007

do they work?


6 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
rm_txscorpion 40 M
5  Articles
What Level Are You On?   10/13/2007

I have a simple question that shouldn't require much thought. The only person you need to be honest with is yourself. How important is an education to you when you are looking for someone on this site? Do you care if they are a college graduate or a high school drop out?

The reason I am asking is because I ran across a post a while back that left me laghing me azz off for at least 2 ...


4 Comments, 96 Views, 13 Votes ,6.83 Score
rm_hussla81 43 M
9  Articles
what do i need to do   9/12/2007

I've been on this site for awhile, how do you interact with people?


1 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
How to tell a girl u Like her   9/11/2007

1) Get inspired. Look back on the times when you enjoyed being around her, discovered that you have a lot in common, or realised that you had tremendous respect for her.



2) Put yourself in her shoes. Based on what you know about her, imagine what language or situations might make her uncomfortable, and avoid them. If you are unsure, err on the side of caution. Avoid ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
diamonddave4267 68 M
5  Articles
Not having SEX in our relationship   9/11/2007

I need some advice from Swapfinder.com Communtiy.

I`m a male at 51 yrs, and my girlfriend is 42 yrs old.

We are both divorce from other people.We live together for five(5) years, and dating for one year prior to me moving into her home.I sold my house before we started dating. I haven`t had any sex or even foreplay that I love to do for hours.And this is going on for over ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
How many people do you date at once.   9/6/2007

Do you date just one person???Do you date more than one???Why do you date more or why dont you date more??? Love to hear what everyone thinks.


1 Comments, 58 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_minniep14 38 F
1  Article
Is Less More?   9/5/2007

Okay im going to be honest, at 22 I'm pretty cautious about whom and when conserning my sexual partners. As of recently ive had a sexual relationship with a man much more experienced than i and for the life of me i cant figure out whether it was an annoyance for him or a turn on seeing as he wouldn't say either way. So I'm asking men, does a woman's level of sexual experience hinder or help your ...


3 Comments, 86 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
spoldrtn812 59 F
17  Articles
Ladies: Welcome a new member   8/27/2007

Specifically white ladies that enjoy black men who appreciate them! Please allow me to introduce a close personal friend of mine. tbdlover1

He's a great guy but he's kinda shy and very new to this. I told him about Swapfinder.com because he has his hands full with business and the . I talked him into trying a standard membership first.

So ladies of ...



1 Comments, 86 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_tasteme1on1 45 C
2  Articles
Why is so HARD?   8/25/2007

Hello everyone, why is it so hard to find an bi-female that is willing to join us? We are not a bad looking couple, we are willing to get to know people. Maybe we need soe help, can some fellow memeber give some advise?


3 Comments, 88 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
carusich 55 F
1  Article
Men Lieing   8/24/2007

Why do men still feel the need to lie to a woman, even when they met them on a website like Swapfinder.com? Is it just a guy thing?


3 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
spoldrtn812 59 F
17  Articles
I almost let one get by me....   8/6/2007

I met a guy here about two years ago. He was very attractive, well groomed, a gentleman and he had a beautiful home. We went on a date and I left clear on the fact I would not see him again. Why, if he had so much going for him, would I not want to see him again? He talked entirely too damn much. Mostly he talked about his EX. By the end of the date I was so tired of his ...


1 Comments, 157 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
spoldrtn812 59 F
17  Articles
Broadening My Horizions   8/3/2007

I will be 42 years old in a matter and I am still single and it started me to wondering Why am I still single?

Well, the biological clock is not a factor. I've been married and divorced. I've multiplied the earth 3 times. So, why should I even be concerned? Because I want some "roll over dick"! You know, you roll over in the middle of the night and climb on? ...



4 Comments, 202 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_HotJK1972 49 M
4  Articles
help   7/29/2007

I live in Canton, Ohio and I was with the same woman ever since I was 22 and now that we have reacently parted I would like to get back out on the dating sceen so, what is the easiest way to meet women on here? Has anyone?


1 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_trisha311 48 C
1  Article
not a freak   7/23/2007

Internetgirl is sitting in front of her computer reading through many emails of guys that seem to have only one thing on their mind. It's boring, it's repetitive and she usually just hits the "Delete" button after reading the first paragraph... Unless she really likes it... which she does... "Here's an interesting one" she thinks to herself as she's reading Chris' message. "This guy is ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
I'm just wondering....   7/21/2007

When do you guys tell a woman that you are into MMF?

I'm just wondering because I would swear I have not met more than 2 bi guys in my life, yet here you all are, hanging out on line at places like hustler personals. Wow!



Circle jerks and the heterosexual male?

Also, if you're a bi guy, do you think you can be happy in a monogamous relationship with either just a man or a ...


1 Comments, 115 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
docholliday1842 32 M
14  Articles
flirting for women   6/17/2007

Flirting Tips Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
long_haired_bi_M 43 M
8  Articles
What qualities would you want in your partner   5/29/2007

One of my friends blogs asked whats do you really want from a woman. This was my answer, do any of you come close?

The Must Have Qualities 1. Open Minded (very) 2. Independent 3. Must want but not need me 4. Must accept me and all my oddities 5. Must be able to handle money 6. Must have a reasonable level of cleanliness about her. 7. Should be ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
first date questions   5/27/2007

when meeting someone on this website or others like it how does it differ frm say a date with a stranger? ive yet to meet someone face to face but i keep thinking that im not going to keep my mind on talking insted i know alot about this person both physically and sexually anybody have an advice or stories?


2 Comments, 57 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
why women date jerks   5/27/2007

can anyone tell me why breath taking ladies go after the jerks who treat them like trash? anyone


1 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
stood up   5/27/2007

being stood up is a terrible thing tou think its no big deal but all your doing is fucking yourself out of a good time and when you say your coming over and gonna call and never do its like telling me im getting some and lieing to me


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
proper first date   5/27/2007

if you think dinner and a movie is boring what would you prefer?


1 Comments, 39 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
kkk   5/23/2007

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3 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,0.23 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
pussy   5/23/2007

eating pussy is the best pppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuusssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy


3 Comments, 68 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_Eulessguy78 35 M
2  Articles
What do ladies really expect?   5/13/2007

What does a lady really expect on a first date? Dinner, conversation and treated with respect is a given, but what else?


1 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
hotpants4u1954 63 F
2  Articles
Starting Over   4/24/2007

It has been so hard for me to start over, cause i was married for 27 years, so this dating is really hard for me. Ive met a few guys. And i have been hurt. i guess thats what life is all about. i guess dating is like learning how to walk again. Thanks.


1 Comments, 155 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
shelbyfireman 52 M
7  Articles
How do you go about it?   4/20/2007

If you are a married guy, which over half of the men on this site are, how do you find the right situation for a hook-up?


2 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Dating after 10 years   4/11/2007

Well I just got divorced after 10 years. I need help on what to do on dates any more?


1 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Jazmine101 27 F
2  Articles
Going on a date?   4/8/2007

If you are going on a date.. Ask yourself are u prepared?
Some thoughts on do's and donts on a date...
Dos:
1. Make sure you send them a updated photo (Before u meet) 2. Talk on the phone with them 3. Dress nice, smell nice 4. Be able to have a conversation 5. Movies/lunch/dinner great way to start 6. Guys be a gentleman, pay for the girl 7. Guys bring the condoms if you want any. ...


4 Comments, 194 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
Humor   3/12/2007

I've noticed that a good sense of humor is often vital to dating. If you can tell a joke, you can get laid.


3 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
sexxykycouple69 36 C
2  Articles
Where have all the average people gone?   3/12/2007

This site seems to have lost its touch. Where did all the women go? Seems harder to get a chat out of most ladies. Single men out number single women by 9:1.


4 Comments, 148 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
waldorf6 54 M
15  Articles
the Right chemistry.   2/27/2007

Sometimes two people can take one look at one another and just melt. Almost if they were practiclly meant for each other. the connetion was heaven sent. Such moments are indeed memorable and are a combiantion of where luck, fate and God's touch seems to fall into place. They make life interesting and give making the right connection an electrical zeal.......a zeal that is never ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
2lvsecretly 61 F
4  Articles
Going shopping during his lunch break   2/19/2007

It was one of those days for me where it seemed like nothing was going right and I had decided to call it a day and turn in early for the night. I am normally up all night as I work nights, or I was working nights untill recently. The gentlemen that I have been seeing for a few months, emailing back and forth for a few months now the sex is great always leaves me craving for more. He sends me a ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_PhuckBuddy 45 M
1  Article
I think that we should only be friends   2/11/2007

How many of you guys have heard this line from a woman in your life? It's a woman way of saying she doesn't want you as a boyfriend in a nice way.
What so many guys fail to realize is that one a woman views as a friend, she will never view you as boyfriend material. I've seen so many guys invest their time in a woman that had no interest in making them their boyfriend, but strung ...


5 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Dating Good Men That Want Great Sex   1/30/2007

Im a little confused. If you ask men what they want most in women they want to marry or date? They usally respond great sex. Some how I dont believe this. When I find a great guy and give him great sex he always thinks that I have been to sexually active or Im a slut. They dont stop to think that maybe I had an older man for many years that taught me many many things. I believe in ...


8 Comments, 331 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
iwantyouforsex69 30 M
1  Article
Age Difference...   1/30/2007

Now I know this question gets brought up a lot, but I wanna know people's opinions on age differences in dating. Meaning, is it ...'the bigger the age gap, the more casual the realationship' or are some gaps too big thats its simply 'wrong'.
I know it's all down to personal opinion and preference, but as I am particularly attracted to the idea of an older woman, I just wondered ...


2 Comments, 80 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
northcarolina727 33 F
8  Articles
how do you kno when its time to break up   1/23/2007

i just need to kno when its time to let go of a relationship that isnt goin anywhre..


1 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
what women want   1/18/2007

what is it that women look for first in a man when they consider dating?


5 Comments, 94 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
pleaseGAPEmeee 28 T
5  Articles
Me and the office slut have alittle fun   1/15/2007

Now being me i was into alot of sex, but i usualy never got it. My wife was a total slut but i divorced her for cheating on me with her boss. But enough about me back to the story
I was sitting in my small cubicle. It had posters and a calender on the side. I sighed abit and leaned back in my chair. Footsteps came from my left. I turned and noticed a gorgeous women, Katie. She ...


1 Comments, 255 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score