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The Itch (continues)   8/5/2009

I told you about how I got my itch scratched, with a perfect stranger. We had decided to name each other Dick and Jane. We had shared a few drinks and dances at a joint, left there and went to his hotel room and my itch was, oh so very well, scratched.

Our clothes were off within ten minutes of reaching his room and we headed for the shower, where we washed and played and climaxed ...


2 Comments, 408 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
Shayne91edge2 33 M
15  Articles
ideas?   7/17/2009

what do you like to do on your first date?

we can see how many people have common first date ideas!

me personnally for a first date, i like to go eat out somewhere, then watch a movie, then if lucky go back to someone's house for sexual or non-sexual activity.


6 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_meetin_peple 35 M
3  Articles
What is a no no?   6/22/2009

What is it that guys and gurls should never do on their first date?


5 Comments, 185 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
Best food   6/12/2009

What is the best type of food to take your date to on your first date if you want her to come back from a second date? Or does it really matter at all?


1 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
mshonee 41 F
1  Article
What to do   6/9/2009

fuck! just fuck!


16 Comments, 854 Views, 42 Votes ,5.78 Score
Hot Trish-Part I   6/8/2009

I had known Trish (not her real name obviously) for several years. I had always noticed her but thought of her as off limits as she was a friend etc. Anyway, one year she had made a comment to another friend that she thought I was quite fine-this did get back to me and I started thinking about her in a new way...I wondered how she would taste, I watched her as she bent down and looked carefully ...


0 Comments, 501 Views, 22 Votes ,7.21 Score
kvv202020 36 F
5  Articles
Public Place or My Place?   5/3/2009

Would it be better to meet in a public place like a resturant or bar or something or meet up at my place?


63 Comments, 1250 Views, 109 Votes ,5.09 Score
billy8675 47 M
4  Articles
My First Date...   4/21/2009

I was seperated for less than a month when I met a woman on the internet. We decided to go to a bar/restaraunt in the waterfront. We hit it off very well and after eating and having a couple of drinks she asked me what i wanted to do now. I replied"what would you like to do?" She said, "To be honest I would like to go back to my place to cuddle." I said that would be great and we left the ...


1 Comments, 399 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Fun   4/19/2009

I love first dates many when they come as 3 somes and 4 somes


1 Comments, 70 Views, 1 Votes
how to ask female or male date?   4/12/2009

1. Determine when the time is right to ask. Normally there has to be some familiarity. This method can work with out-and-out strangers but is not recommended. 2. Ask (her/him). If you get an answer other than yes we will proceed with overcoming objections. Overcoming objections is a sales tool and yes, you are selling yourself (to her). * "WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT WITH ME SOMETIME?" ...


2 Comments, 105 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Grooverat 47 M
3  Articles
Horror Stories   4/6/2009

Let's hear you first date horror stories, you tell me yours and I'll tell you mine is the deal.......


3 Comments, 103 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
secretblklover 34 M
9  Articles
meeting place   4/4/2009

what is a perfect meeting place to meet someone that is new to the swinging lifestyle?


2 Comments, 92 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
cocodick 39 M
3  Articles
Finally meeting the Swapfinder.com girl i chatted to for months   3/28/2009

After a couple months of chatting to this girl online i finally met her, she was even more that i expected in person, i instantly became speechless. We went out to eat all the while my palms were sweaty and my feet were shaking nervously. After that first night out we went out a couple more times till the night came, i asked her to come in and she accepted. Now you can just imagine how my heart ...


2 Comments, 453 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Just how important is the first face to face.   3/22/2009

I'll preface this by saying that I met my current wife on Swapfinder.com. We talked on the phone and sent e-mails....of course... but the first face to face meeting was critical. I wanted to make a good impression, so I proceeded to plan for cooking for her. We met in a parking lot, sat in her veh. for a while...looking and talking....then we went to the house. Told her that I was cooking for her. What ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
too nice?   3/20/2009

Whenever i got to know a nice girl in the last 3 months, and i really liked her, and everything just seems too good, she tells me that it wouldnt work because im too nice........ i just try that she has a nice time and feels comfortable. Is it possible too be too nice?


3 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_6666xxxxx 64 M
8  Articles
I need a passionate woman   3/13/2009

I want a woman to take care of my desires and let me take care of her needs I am open minded decent gentleman I respect sexy passionate ladies...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_bbw4u2injoy 46 F
2  Articles
hmmm one of my first dates   2/27/2009

OK so I've been on here for a little while now, and I've met some men and had my fair shares of conversations and as a women on here I have to say yes we are picky on who we talk to.. even if we are slutty or not we are picky... lol at least i am at times.. lol

so i had this date not to long ago he hit me up on the instant messenger.. and i some times sit there fuckin around mostly cuz ...


6 Comments, 571 Views, 21 Votes ,5.35 Score
mitchmister88 34 M
1  Article
what is your ideal first date?   2/24/2009

i would like to here them?


3 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lovestream 58 M
1  Article
First date fantasy   2/23/2009

My hope is that you find this arousing and stimulating enough to interact!Enjoy!........After a few e-mails we decide to meet.I make the trip to(your adress) to meet this gorgeous (your age and description)year young women for the first time....we have been flirting back and forth online for a while now.I think she is spectacular and i can't wait to meet her.She has this sexy shot posted on her ...


1 Comments, 131 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_BustyB1977 40 F
7  Articles
To Fuck or Not to Fuck   2/17/2009

Throughout the years, people has said not to fuck on the first date. What is the reasoning behind this? It the two of you are into each other, then why "engage in congress?" I mean what the hell can it hurt? Sex is a natural thing between humans, so who is to say that fucking on the first date is immoral? I mean the two of you might just have a sexual chemistry that is unlike no other and a ...


9 Comments, 291 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
harryboy1951 62 F
1  Article
I've Got a Stage Four Clinger!   2/17/2009

He sends you the most flattering emails you have ever read. He thinks you’re a queen with the style and grace of Jacqueline Kennedy. You realize the compliments are over the top, but you can’t help but eat it up with a spoon. He asks for your cell phone number so he can call you and hear the lilt in your melodic voice. He sends Instant Messages on a daily basis dreaming of the ...


8 Comments, 272 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
rm_kilo360z 29 M
12  Articles
My first Date   2/9/2009

For the females, what is some type of signs yall give on the slick, that let us know u ready to fuck..


1 Comments, 125 Views, 3 Votes
dppup 44 M
1  Article
getting started   2/7/2009

It seems that in this day and time everyone is on the defensive. Wouldn't life be easier if people just learned to enjoy life. I signed up on this site to meet people, and explore new opportunities. Since joining I am finding that people "talk the talk but don't walk the walk". It is hard to get started on here. Being straight forward with people makes them even more sceptical of an ...


2 Comments, 107 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
nastyin702 57 F
1  Article
The Focus Of The Date   2/1/2009

After a long absence from here, a good 2 years I returned almost a week ago. Same old issues.I get such a kick out of the ones that critique a man or woman if their bodies have the slightest imperfections.If they were getting so much play why are they here? All the Drama Kings and Queens should have stayed home and made someone else miserable.Now to the point of this article.Tonight I had a ...


4 Comments, 274 Views, 22 Votes ,6.49 Score
SotonGuy22 37 M
2  Articles
Tips for guys   1/25/2009

So, you're looking forward to your first date, but you don't know what to do or how to act?

Firstly, don't make it anything too extravagant for your first meet - You don't want to seem desperate, or an easy pushover financially (Target for gold-diggers).

On the date, just talk as you normally would. be yourself - humor helps a lot, but try and avoid cheesy jokes "just for the ...


1 Comments, 122 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
First date   1/20/2009

met a chick on here and we went out to a club. got drunk and went dancing. ended up taking her back to my house where we drank some more. went and layed down in my bed with my sleeping husband just at that time to make the room stop spinning. we ended up kissing which turned to feeling around with our hands. which quickly moved to groping and masturbating with each other. ...


3 Comments, 634 Views, 22 Votes ,5.65 Score
my first date !!!   1/16/2009

my first date was hot !! met a wonder a wonderfully hot and horny man on here. it was great. we went parking, one of my fantasies, we fucked hard, hot and heavy for awhile. he pounded me hard like i asked. wow !! what a night !!


7 Comments, 652 Views, 21 Votes ,3.37 Score
first time oral   1/8/2009

my first time with another man took place over 20 years ago while i was in the navy.i had never considered myself bisexual, i had grown up in a small midwestern town with the usual sexual experiences. backseat at a drive-in, backseat on a country road, you get the picture. my experiences expanded somewhat when i joined the service but that was mainly to include hookers and the occasional drunken ...


2 Comments, 770 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
yngstud4lady 31 M
11  Articles
first dates   1/7/2009

Any advice on what women look for on first dates? Little details they notice sometimes arent even on our minds.


1 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_wk40au 61 M
1  Article
my first possible bi experience   1/7/2009

i am a 45 year old male who has been looking for a while to meet up with a couple with a bi male. I have been contacting many couples withn about 500km of my place of residence for a few weeks until i really hit it off with a couple close by. I am attached, they have a family so it took a bit of organising but eventually we agreed on an evening to have dinner at their place. I arrived a bit after ...


1 Comments, 505 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
yea or no??   12/28/2008

hey there some fine ass girlz on this site but are they forreal???


11 Comments, 278 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
Which is better.....????   12/26/2008

...Going to a movie, a sports bar, or going out to eat???


3 Comments, 109 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
rm_wyatt007tb 46 M
1  Article
What do I do   12/7/2008

What dose a man have to do to get a date around here. Am I that bad looking


4 Comments, 108 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
TooTall_1964 52 M
1  Article
vagina size and looks   12/7/2008

I was just wondering, I have a preference for women with big lips on their vaginas, there is something about a big meaty hungry looking vagina that get me going. I wanted to know from the women, is this a problem for some guys? I just think that they look so good when they are all fired up with want, and if you start oral on it, the lips just fall open and the juice seeps out, it looks so tasty! ...


3 Comments, 238 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles
THAT 1ST LUNCH   11/30/2008

They had chatted for weeks ‒ e-mails, im’s, texts, by phone. They clicked so well that they decided they wanted to see each other in person. So, lunch it was!

They were so nervous about seeing each other for the very first time. They had both been concerned that the chemistry they shared through technology would not transfer in the flesh. But, Ohhhhhhh, did it!

...


5 Comments, 510 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
Do people still worry about kissing on the first date?   11/28/2008

I'm wondering what everyone thinks..


2 Comments, 111 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_lamsid 34 M
6  Articles
please explain?   11/20/2008

your most favorite first date lol..


1 Comments, 103 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Unprotected Sex!?   11/19/2008

There is alway a cure, so why not go unprotected - if it doesn't look attractive - think beer! what the hell anyway, it's a notch on your bed-post! If it has a pulse, surely it would do for until something else comes along?


8 Comments, 208 Views, 15 Votes ,0.07 Score
puddin084 42 C
4  Articles
first time around.   11/11/2008

what does a first really mean and what should it consist of?why are all first dates the same these days?no one really seems 2 go all out anymore.why is that?


6 Comments, 183 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
mrfreaakz 44 M
6  Articles
is sex on the 1st date rong?   11/10/2008

if u go on a 1st date and like what u see and get turned on and can help it then just get to sex, is it rong?


5 Comments, 133 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
sognatore0808 57 F
5  Articles
Our First Meeting!!!!!   11/8/2008

I knock on the door to your house where I know you are waiting for me. My heart is pounding fast and my panties are already wet from the driving over to your house and thinking about finally seeing you in person. You open the door and your sexier than your pictures showed. My heart is racing, you tell me to come in. You immediately lean towards me and kiss me, of course this makes me want you ...


9 Comments, 393 Views, 17 Votes ,4.96 Score
CREEPIN   11/2/2008

Why can't you have fun without the drama ladies?


1 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
activebdsm1 50 M
10  Articles
guys try to hard   11/1/2008

it is way to hard for a guy now a days why dont the girls just make it easy and choose the guys.


2 Comments, 109 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
justjewles63 57 F
3  Articles
hey who all had dates though Swapfinder.com   10/25/2008

I had 5 great dates here thoough Swapfinder.com they are sweet people on here. If nothing pans out for further dates, they end up Fanntastic Friends. Thank You Swapfinder.com ...


14 Comments, 364 Views, 25 Votes ,3.57 Score
Giving me a hand   10/24/2008

Pauline (not her real name) and I had met online through the usual Swapfinder.com flirts and then emails. Chatting with her one day and stroking my cock she asked me what I was doing that night. I told her I was going to jack off while chatting with her-not sure where this came from as I had never done this before. She was intrigued, and asked if I had a cam so she could watch. My face flushed and my ...


6 Comments, 662 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
78luv69 46 F
4  Articles
First date no no's   10/18/2008

Never go to a movie on the first date. You don't get a chance to talk or see the person. Unless you just want to go in the back row and do sex stuff.


6 Comments, 234 Views, 19 Votes ,4.44 Score
The_Enz 48 M
3  Articles
First Date Rule?   10/9/2008

How many of you out there have rules on how far you will go on a first date?

Do you break those rules, if the person inspires you to?

Personally, I have 3 general rules for first dates, and they actually apply to the 2nd, 3rd or any date.

1. Do what you want to do, within reason.

2. Don't let yourself get into dangerous situations.

3. Don't put up ...


3 Comments, 217 Views, 19 Votes ,4.31 Score
zero1762553I4 38 M
6  Articles
chat   10/4/2008

be4 get to your first date. get to know your partner well is important? or no? well at least it wont bored u to death


1 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
togethertoplease 76 M
1  Article
Are women coy or is it just me   9/30/2008

I have sent over 70 emails trying to gently encourage a safe first meeting at a place of her choice but have as yet not met one single woman in person. I would be happy with a friendship not opposed to more but how do you convince the woman your worth the trouble


0 Comments, 59 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
idoluvoral 68 F
1  Article
Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back…. Part 2   9/21/2008

Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back…. Part 2

He stood up and stepped out of the hot tub and as I stood up in the hot tub he offered me his hand and guided me as I stepped out. Once we were both out he reached for a towel and wrapped it around me. Then he grabbed one for himself and quickly dried off as he stood there in his magnificent nude glory. He tossed his ...


1 Comments, 480 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
idoluvoral 68 F
1  Article
Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back….   9/21/2008

We met on an Internet service and exchanged several e-mails and photos before deciding to meet for a drink and possibly more.

I arrived at the local hotel lounge a bit early, . As I walked through the door it took my eyes a few seconds to adjust to the darkened room. I noticed that the band was just setting up and there were not many people ...


1 Comments, 741 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
Superman_Puso 39 M
1  Article
first date   9/13/2008

In the car I just can't wait, to pick you up on our very first date Is it cool if I hold your hand? Is it wrong if I think it's lame to dance? Do you like my stupid hair? Would you guess that I didn't know what to wear? I'm too scared of what you think You make me nervous so I really can't eat

Let's go, don't wait, this night's almost over Honest, let's make this ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
chocolatechip089 35 M
1  Article
kissing on the first date   9/12/2008

You have gone on a date and its wonderful, you really had made agreat connection with each other through out the whole night. Its finally over and your walking her to the door, you do the whole cliche thing, and now for the moment.......do you kiss her or not? And if so which is more offensive not kissing or kissing. Consider the fac the he is a gentlement and like to wait.


2 Comments, 82 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
bustybi4u2 56 F
2  Articles
Lust in the Garden of Eden   9/7/2008

Lust in the Garden of Eden:

Like so many relationships this one started on-line. The new singles bar has a Keyboard and webcam these days. There are advantages and pitfalls to this type of dating, but then again there are advantages and pitfalls to just about everything in life.

After a week or two of chatting on line about a lot of intimate details of their live, s Bruce and ...


6 Comments, 273 Views, 20 Votes ,4.78 Score
rm_4446hot 58 F
9  Articles
WITH A CPL   9/7/2008

MY FIRST DATE WITH A CPL WE MEET FOR LUNCH I HAD GOLD DRESS ON BLACK HEELS WITH BLACK & WHITE UNDERWEAR ON A NICE LITTLE CEFI THAT FOUND ON LINE SO EVERYTHING WAS NEW TO ALL OF US SO WE ALL SHOW UP TALK AND LAUGH AND SAME TO HIT OFF AND I LIKE THEM BOTH AND HE LIKE AND DID SHE WE MADE PLAN MEET AGIAN IN A WEEK SO WE TALK ON THE PHONE BY EMAIL AND THE HEAT WAS UP AND THE FEELING OF THE DAY ...


1 Comments, 319 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
first ever date   9/2/2008

i had my first date when i was just 5 years old.... we were very poor and it was a treat fer christmas . anyway i ate it an nearly choked on the seed, i didnt know that they had any in em.! you all will be pleased t hear i have had many since then.


1 Comments, 192 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
YOU'RE IN BED-THEN YOU SEE IT   8/31/2008

You meet and everything is going well.You end up in the bedroom ready to do it. You both strip naked. Then you see it. A bump, blister, redness, or something that you think could be a std. You could be wrong. It might be nothing. How do you stop without hurting your date's feelings? what is the polite way to handle this sition?


4 Comments, 292 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
idswinger8888 49 M
1  Article
Why does Asian Ladies prefer caucasian man?   8/31/2008

Any particular reasons?


6 Comments, 272 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
The Man of 20   8/29/2008

I had been a member of Swapfinder.com for a couple of months. I had a profile but no pictures and no responses.

I decided to take matters into my own hands and view the profiles of local members.

It was then that I noticed the Man of 20.

He bore a striking resembleance to the actor Jake Gyllenhaal, though somewhat thinner.

He was 20. I was 49. Should I? Shouldn't I? I ...


6 Comments, 750 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
beware the fake pic!   8/27/2008

the first time i hooked up with someone from a site, it was a classic fake pic ordeal. the pic looked very nice and we arranged to meet in a bar. well i got there and i got a text "can't make it that far bad leg come meet me in my halls" (she was in uni by the way) anyway i new something was up as it was only 5mins away lol!

i gave her a ring when i got there and she came to let me in. ...


2 Comments, 261 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
rm_Cmen4Utoo 74 M
1  Article
Best type of venue for 1st Date?   8/16/2008

I wonder sometimes where is the best place to meet for the first time. A public place is often safest for all parties, but a hotel or home probably sends out the signal that sex is available and wanted/needed. It probably depends on how pre-meet contact has gone. What do you think?


1 Comments, 110 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
desire_me_baby 50 F
2  Articles
Relationships??   8/16/2008

Well, everyone thinks that a "relationship" is only dating and being exclusive...but a relationship DOES begin with friendship and honesty. I've had the opportunity to meet some men on Swapfinder.com and there were only 2 men that I though were EXTREMELY classy, upfront, and honest with me. The others were liars...they lie on their profiles to get women into bed then they finally tell the truth when it gets ...


4 Comments, 84 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
First Date Advice   8/13/2008

Choosing something to do on a first date can be very difficult. You and your date do not know each other and this means that you do not know what they do and do not like doing. Ask your date what they would like to do, but if they do not have any suggestion be decisive and make a suggestion, such as your favourite restaurant. Make sure they understand what type of place it is and make sure it is ...


2 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_wand35567 59 F
1  Article
never had this.   8/9/2008

I never had oral sex before what should expect? and i mean never!


6 Comments, 394 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
SensualMale367 57 M
1  Article
Do women really know within 5 minutes?   8/7/2008

If she is going to have sex with a guy on a first date? I will admit that when talking to women on here in the past, the discussion of sex often comes into play. This is a sex site but, how often have you (ladies) measured up a guy to fuck him on the first date? How did it happen and when did you know?


4 Comments, 253 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
tallNhot24 40 M
9  Articles
On the first date   8/6/2008

Ladies, what is your first date policy? Do you specifically plan on not having sex on the first date no matter what or do you plan on winging it and seeing how things go?


2 Comments, 106 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
mixedaddy 46 M
2  Articles
What works   8/5/2008

What works on getting that first date. Tell me your expereinces


0 Comments, 30 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Anticipation   8/2/2008

Sometimes the waiting and anticipation is just as exciting as the eventual meeting. Or so it seems at the time. However, it is sometimes easy to forget that the physical touch is irreplaceable.

We had talked about getting together sometime. We had spent much time chatting with each other, getting to know each other.

We would spend time chatting about such sensuous subjects, such ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
butterfly6369 54 C
0  Articles
Funny pickup line   8/1/2008

My best friend called me and said she was going to bring a guy she new to meet another friend of ours. We were all supposed to meet for breakfast the next morning. When we got there the guy and our other friend didn't seam to be interested in each other. But this guy and I hit it off right away. We were so involed in talking to each other that I forgot about my friends being there. ...


0 Comments, 478 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
What happens after you play FOOTSIE   7/17/2008

I recently met a gentleman from Swapfinder.com. He is a physican........so, I thought he would have a great deal of class.

We went to a nice pub for a drink, a get to know you ice breaker.

We sat in a booth, had a drink. All of a sudden, he starts playing "FOOTSIE" with me under the table. It doesn't sound too bad, but he put his socked foot between my legs!! No lie!

It was a ...


3 Comments, 524 Views, 12 Votes ,0.68 Score
sex on the first date   7/16/2008

i want to know how do most women feel about having sex on a first date. i like to get to know more about that person first.


1 Comments, 324 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
rm_sexiizahi 39 C
0  Articles
Never forget   7/13/2008

First time I and my husband met each other and we went too fast. We had sex, talked and laughed. We were forget about we were on dating and decided to be together instead on dating. Today we are together for 3 years and have wonderful 1 year old. Now we like to have a female join us sex-style mean maybe we need have first date female and to get know who she is. Or go too far .... Holla us! or ...


4 Comments, 222 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
eyesopen63 67 C
2  Articles
HMMM Cheating while Swinging??   6/28/2008

Ok picture if you will................... Your a couple, your in love and you are involved in what some people would die to be in if their partners would allow, your swingers!!! Best of both worlds, you get to experience that fmf fantasy that I think all men have had and she gets to experience whatever her fantasy is and life goes on.................. Why then would either partner need to ...


3 Comments, 430 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
on a first date   6/19/2008

I think that a first date would be getting to know someone first before taking the step to having sex with that person on the first date.Maybe having sex on the 2nd or 3rd date would be better.


1 Comments, 159 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
prune52 71 M
13  Articles
first meeting   6/16/2008

made contact with lady on Swapfinder.com, chatted via Messenger and arranged to meet for coffee, what a delicious surprise when we met. extremely attractive young lady vivacious and confident. miracles do happen, relationship not yet consummated but we chat regularly. biggest problem finding the time for a discreet and secret liaison. By the way she is 14 years younger than me !!!!!


3 Comments, 331 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
ausmaleusa 65 M
1  Article
Old fashioned...   6/6/2008

Guess I am old fashioned...I don't see first dates as an opportunity for sex, I see it as an arena for getting to know someone, having the laughs, the giggles or the just sitting and staring at each other. Then again the staring doesn't happen if the homework is done.

If sex is going to happen then no force will be needed..it will be gradual and good as it is mutual.

...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_poking1234 36 M
3  Articles
most women on sirst dates have one on they min   5/27/2008

most women on sirst dates have one on they mind


2 Comments, 123 Views, 7 Votes
rm_mighty_guy23 34 M
4  Articles
1st date   5/19/2008

Is sex on the 1st date advisable?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
My First Swapfinder.com Relationship   5/18/2008

I had been a member a couple of months. I traded emails with a number of woman, but none of them wanted to meet in person even though I was just suggesting a visit to the local coffee shop. Most seemed more interested in keeping the fantasy alive in their mind then actually trying to live it!

I ran across this one woman's ad in an area that I travel to on business. She had some pretty ...


2 Comments, 441 Views, 22 Votes ,5.17 Score
Our first night, ready for dinner?   5/12/2008

We have done all the preperation, and the night is about to start. We have talked, e-mailed, chatted until I am tired of doing that. You decided that you wanted to meet for dinner, and I was more then happy to show up! I knocked on the door, and was pleased that you met me as all subs should. You were wearing a pair of socks and a tee shirt. You were waiting on your knees waiting to please, just ...


5 Comments, 164 Views, 1 Votes
rm_k_rule3002 43 M
8  Articles
Personal stories of people having sex for the first time   5/10/2008

Hello. My name is Nikki. I am 17 years old and was 16 when I lost my virginity. It was about 4 months ago (December 2007) with my boyfriend. I am not going to say his name for his protection. Well here's our story...

I met him in May of 2007 at our friend's graduation party. I didn't realize this then but he would be my first love and somebody I will always love. Well I didn't know ...


1 Comments, 405 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
well   5/9/2008

is ti ok to have sex on the first date?


3 Comments, 70 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_Cindy1994 37 F
0  Articles
Daddy Found Me   5/8/2008

I met two nice daddy’s on line the other day, which lived pretty close to me. One was just right, over fifty, and by his description sounded very nice to look at. He didn’t send me any photos though, and I only watched him play with his cock on my computer. A wonderful cock, but no idea what he looked like. And one was very young. He was beautiful! Nice body, pretty face and nice hard ...


2 Comments, 2314 Views, 53 Votes ,2.65 Score
fdgdfgdf   5/8/2008

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1 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes
hybridyellow21 37 M
2  Articles
What is wrong with moving slow?   4/30/2008

Is there something wrong with making someone wait for what they want, I mean they should know that they will get it so whats the rush. Yes, I make women wait for sex.... I know it sounds funny, butt its true. I think it is healthy to get to know some1 first, and move around bases as we come to them. Plus I love all the things you do between meeting some1 and having sex with them; for example ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
hornydubliner25 36 M
5  Articles
who puts out?   4/28/2008

Any women put out on a 1st date or have?


0 Comments, 113 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
wickedclownsfnm 37 M
3  Articles
First Date   4/19/2008

I remember my first date. I was set up with a girl I knew from a few years back, and man she was looking hot that night. She told me that was breaking up with her boyfriend because he abused her, and that we could be together. We had so much fun. She was beautiful and we enjoyed our time together. To this day I still think about her and wonder why she left me and went back with her ...


0 Comments, 381 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
coupleforyou84 39 C
3  Articles
fear   4/19/2008

the first date fears seem to always be with the woman. a man has his goals set. no matter the man honorable or dishonorable intentions. why is the woman such a hard case about keeping the guy at arms length when initiating the date in the first place


3 Comments, 165 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Where to meet   4/10/2008

If you had the choice of where to meet for the first date would it be: House/apartment Hotel Restaurant Bar


3 Comments, 103 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Lover_Boy1145 29 M
2  Articles
What is the best place to take a girl?   4/7/2008

I've been wondering for such a long time, where is the best place to make a good impression on a girl?


2 Comments, 68 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_nymphobottom 60 M
3  Articles
Never say no   3/29/2008

I think it's impolite to tell a man no he cant sex you, so I never do say no.[bling 137874]...


6 Comments, 271 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
sex   3/20/2008

sex is a must


1 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
JEFFJ19694YOU 55 M
4  Articles
SOOOOO GOOOOD   3/19/2008

I MET HER AT HER HOUSE WHILE HER HUSBAAND WAS AWAY. SHE CAREFULLY TOOK ME IN THE FRONT DOOR. WE TALKED A BIT AS WE SAT IN HER LIVING ROOM. SHE CONFIDED IN ME THAT SHE HAD NOT BEEN FUCKED PROPERY IN ABOUT 3 YEARS, HE WOULD CUM IN ABOUT 2 MINUTES. I ASSURED HER I WOULD TAKE CARE OF HER, SHE WALKED OVER TO ME AND TOOK MY COCK FROM MY PANTS AND BEGAN TO LICK THE HEAD OF IT, I PICKED HER HEAD UP FROM ...


3 Comments, 563 Views, 21 Votes ,2.26 Score
He couldnt keep it hard   3/18/2008

I was my first threesome and i was very nervous. The coulple i meet on Swapfinder.com and were looking for a single guy. Im bicourious and so are they she wants to watch her mans face as i fuck his ass. Ive never been with a man before but have been curious about taking a cock in my ass all my life. I do him while she watchs his face its not any different feeling than a womans ass. But when he trys to do me ...


3 Comments, 562 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
rm_adolphus87 37 M
9  Articles
How do you ask?   3/5/2008

How do you ask someone out for a first date?


5 Comments, 139 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
Where to Go?   3/1/2008

I'm wondering what everyone's first date location would be? Of course it should be public, but should it be a dinner/lunch or drinks, coffee? In keeping with safety for everyone, I would think these would be the normal locations. But if presented with going to someone's house, would you accept or decline?


0 Comments, 39 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
is it me   2/27/2008

being 45 and married why do I feel like I am in high school when going very discretely to meet a women in the same boat, nervous shy its a great feeling but why do well me anyway choke up like a ?


0 Comments, 111 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
WE12BFUN2 64 C
19  Articles
Jewel #5   2/26/2008

Jewel had become my very willing sex toy and was happily devoting herself to becoming a completely sexual being. She loved it and the more she got the more she wanted. She lived with my wife and I but, we had set her up a love nest for entertaining and kept up on her training. She was totally willing to do anything sexual for me. She had now done several MFM and a couple of MMFM. My wife had ...


4 Comments, 232 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_BX1000 51 M
7  Articles
Dating Question   2/18/2008

Are the movie, the best place for a first date?.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Frelinghuysen 53 C
1  Article
Are Bi women into threesomes THIS hard to find?   2/18/2008

We would just like a little insight here. We are a loving couple and have been looking for a sexy third for a while now. The thing is though that the supposedly bi women usually only want either the man or the woman alone. I know this falls into the "bi" description, but is no one bold enough for a threesome anymore? We are both attractive, and can as I stated get plenty of attention on our ...


3 Comments, 132 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
rm_Pornstar0317 31 M
3  Articles
The first date   2/14/2008

step 1 dont be nervous

step 2 talk

step 3 be funyy


1 Comments, 71 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
All the way   2/10/2008

How many people go all the way on a first date?


4 Comments, 236 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
Ditch or enjoy?   2/2/2008

Ok, first date and you of course have an idea of the person who you are meeting.

What do you do if that person, either physicaly or otherwise is not what you thought?

Do you find and excuse to scoot or do you see what this person is all about?


5 Comments, 182 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
rm_j_rogers_62 58 M
5  Articles
my first date with two men   2/1/2008

I remember my first dat with two men...*s* I called them to see if they wanted to hook up to which they replied sure. I met them on this site!! I met them and followed them back to thier place. As I parked my car I remember I was pretty nervous. I mean who were these two and what did they expect of a virgin, as far as being with another man?? I entered their condo and enjoyed a beer or two ...


3 Comments, 1074 Views, 25 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_SAMUELSAM39 55 M
2  Articles
WELL HELLO   1/27/2008

I MET THIS LADY WHILE AT THE DRIVE THROUGH AT A FAST FOOD RESTAURANT. SHE WAS THE LADY AT THE DRIVE IN WINDOW. I COMMENTED ON HER NICE WHITE SMILE AND SHE SAID THANK YOU. I ASKED IF SHE WAS MARRIED AND SHE ASKED ME WHY I WANTED SUCH INFORMATION, I SAID I WANTED TO SEE HER LATER THAT DAY. SHE NEVER ANSWERED ME YET TOLD ME SHE WOULD BE OFF AT 3. I MET HER IN THE PARK JUST DOWN FROM HER WORK, SHE ...


1 Comments, 412 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
rm_SAMUELSAM39 55 M
2  Articles
we met   1/20/2008

we met at a parking lot , she had seen my face pic and loved my cock, we talked for a bit and she immediately freed my cock and began to suck me, to make a long story short i shot cum down her throat and we dicided to meet again and fuck at her house while her husband was working, more to cum


1 Comments, 227 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
Jess and Paul-Our First Date   1/14/2008

The day had come, just as I had expected it to, but yet it all seemed like a dream. We had everything planned so that we would both feel comfortable about our first date, but yet, we both admitted that we were a bit worried about how it would go.

We decided to meet in another town, to minimize the "bumping" into either of our significant other, friends, or aquaintances. For some ...


0 Comments, 488 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
rm_dr333111 30 M
5  Articles
looking for kind heart and good personality girl...   1/10/2008

i am looking for a kind girl with really really good heart and need to talk i will listen and also hope to find this kind woman to listen to me carefully. a woman i can open my heart with talk to her about me about all in my heart.is there any girl\woman kind here??? thanks...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
what do they want?   12/23/2007

do women ever just want to meet a guy for hot and heavy sex? do they wish to jump in the sack and get busy


2 Comments, 137 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Meet me at the what?   12/14/2007

This was one of those learning experiences, just something I don't care to repeat. I had met this woman online, we had chatted alot and seemed to really hit it off. She had given me her cell number but made me promise not to ever call her without emailing first. She told me she and her hubby were seperating but that they tried to spend as much time together with thier as possible. Made sense ...


2 Comments, 449 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
MeLoveBigDicks 43 F
5  Articles
Doing what you love to do   12/9/2007

Is going all they with someone, strange. on the first encounter. ie, giving head, swallowing nut, having anal

should you hold back, do it on separate occasions

should you just put it all on the front line on the first date.

what are your opinions.


7 Comments, 309 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Where To Meet   12/7/2007

Usually after I've chatted online with someone for a while, I like to meet somewhere neutral. I like for him to pick a public place that isn't out of the way for either of us like a restaurant or park.

I want to be able to get a chance to sit & talk in person to see if there's any physical attraction first, rather than waste our time.... just for one of us to be disappointed.


19 Comments, 673 Views, 51 Votes ,4.94 Score
sex on the first date   11/27/2007

just wanted to know what most people think about having sex on the first date if it makes the girl labeled a slut what about the guys?


7 Comments, 236 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
My first internet date   11/9/2007

I had met a woman on internet about 8 months ago.We've talk so much on some instant messenger service and we got start to know each other well..Shes a mature BBW, thats my kind of a woman.Im a BBW lover, especially mature ones. She does travel abroad a few times per year normally.And a few times later she take my country to her own travel program, when i hear that i felt so happy.Cause it will be ...


1 Comments, 562 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Getting past 1st base on 1st date?   11/2/2007

How many have had TREMENDOUS 1st dates experiences here? I did- fell in love and still trying!


0 Comments, 131 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
The first date tells all   10/24/2007

I am a firm believer in the fact that first dates tell just how compatable people are with each other. The meeting for the first time you can tell if that person is one that you would see again. I think the biggest problem people have is they try to hard to impress on the first date. Always just be yourself, that is what people look for.


2 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_jonmark82 47 M
1  Article
Not to plan....   10/23/2007

I think the biggest problem with people and first dates is that they worry too much and over think everything!

Be yourself, don't plan any of the conversation and play it by ear. It either works or it doesn't! That's just the way love and well...everything else goes!


3 Comments, 76 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
rm_txscorpion 40 M
5  Articles
Could It Be True? (The Coup De Gras)   10/13/2007

As we stand on the balcony, passionately kissing with my fingers running through your hair, I begin to slowly let my tongue travel down your chin, to your neck, and down to the upper cleavage area. I tease you a little with my tongue before coming slowly coming back up your neck and moving towards your ear. I pause for a moment only to turn you around to gaze at the ocean view while I begin to ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
imnotjustnormal 59 M
1  Article
What the HELL was she thinking??   10/13/2007

Oh My GOD!! Now I'm not a crude and rude kinda person but recently I went out on a date. And as things progressed and were getting hot..... WAIT! Lets go back to the begining.

I met this girl online and we chatted over the last year or so off and on, and decided to take it to that NEXT LEVEL. We ironed out the ground rules (you know, no strings attatched and the such)and decided to ...


9 Comments, 673 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
sheneedsit1964 44 C
3  Articles
going on a date without him seeing u   10/6/2007

Do u think guys would lay u just because they can , nasty and ulgy. Or do think he would turn u down easy , Sometimes I can't do a guy because of his breath , looks and ego, Even if his cock is big, I, m not a 10 but gosh men needs to take care of ther selves and not screw before they come to me, If you have had this proble talk to me, pamela


4 Comments, 273 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
First date pussy blow job   10/5/2007

We had met on Swapfinder.com and started to get to know each other. Trish had said she was looking for some fun on the side-strictly a sexual relationship-fuck buddies. We met at a local coffee house and got to know each other a little better. We had been very open about discussing what we had wanted from the start and her eyes kept drifting to the growing bulge in my pants. I in turn was enjoying the ...


2 Comments, 755 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
momba5050 44 M
1  Article
blind date   9/27/2007

When you go on a blind date and see the person for time and the person is not your type, when do you tell them its not going to work, right when you see her or when the date is over?


5 Comments, 185 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_sextogo100 65 M
3  Articles
My first "man on man"   9/27/2007

After dreaming for a long time of what it would be like to have another guy’s cock in my mouth and even better a nice hard cock slid into my ass, I started to look for someone to try it with. After a couple of no-shows, I arranged to meet another bi-curious guy at his apartment.

It was obvious when he let me in that he was as nervous as me, for it was the first time for both of ...


4 Comments, 1049 Views, 23 Votes ,6.86 Score
Rightofpassage06 46 C
1  Article
First date nightmare   9/24/2007

We took a friend of ours out dancing and we all got a little tipsy. The conversation of a threesome came up, like it usually does (but we all usually chicken out). Then next thing I know the girls are checking into a hotel room around the corner and the clothes are hitting the floor. I hop in the shower to let them have some fun and the next thing I know one of them is in the bathroom with me! ...


2 Comments, 794 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
Rocklincpl06 63 C
2  Articles
Current Pics   9/19/2007

Ok this may have happend to some or all of us in the lifestyle. A couple post pictures of themselves and you set up a date and time to meet them . Once you get there you see that they are nothing like the pictures and so what do you do? Your first reaction is probably one of anger. Here someone drew you to meet them under false pretense and then you try and be nice and calm and try and figure ...


6 Comments, 563 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
sluggo76 47 C
4  Articles
first time to a nudist camp   9/16/2007

well i went to my first nudist place the other day and well lets just say it wasn't as easy as i thought it would be. I thought i was just going to walk in there and just get naked just like that...no sorry it didn't happen that way, it took me 4 hours to take all my clothes off and i still wrapped my towel around me. But i finally got use to it and walked around naked got in the pool and ...


6 Comments, 916 Views, 20 Votes ,3.25 Score
loriemy837388939 41 F
5  Articles
A Secluded Place   9/8/2007

The first time.... We agree to meet in a secluded place, as I arrive you motion me to get into your car, feeling naughty and nervous I approach your car and slide in. We introduce ourselves and make small talk when you reach over and pull me close to you so you can smell my perfume on my neck. Feeling you lips brush my neck my nipples begin to harden and I pull your hand to my breast, feeling my ...


3 Comments, 640 Views, 24 Votes ,4.83 Score
rm_PrinceBigga 53 M
9  Articles
The Shopping Mall   9/2/2007

I don't consider myself artsy by any means but from time to time I will stop by a art gallery to pick up a few pieces of african art for the home or office. Recently I was in a gallery that sold Caribbean art. The attendant was a nice looking young lady that had a very strong and rich Caribbean accent. Of course my dick started to harden at each word that she spoke. She was really charming and ...


1 Comments, 399 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
Our first kiss   8/28/2007

Carrie (not her real name) and I had been acquantinces for some time. I had made some advances to her but had been rebuffed politely. That changed about a year or so ago when I had driven her home to pick up some stuff for a party that we were both attending. I was waiting for her by her bed and happened to notice something sticking out from under the pillow-I lifted the pillow and found a ...


1 Comments, 458 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
spoldrtn812 59 F
17  Articles
He blew it before he picked me up   8/25/2007

Most of my friends know I have never been with a white guy intimately. For those who don't know, I can't explain it other than to say, I have several friends that are white. I've just never found one that turned me on enough to have sex with!

Now I meet a guy here on Swapfinder.com he's italian and he's only dated african-american women for years. The pics are ...



6 Comments, 788 Views, 33 Votes ,4.34 Score
vincesmith67 44 M
3  Articles
aggressive enough   8/22/2007

Is it to sgrressive to whip i out at the end of a date and ask what are we going to do about this?


9 Comments, 182 Views, 13 Votes
cityblasts 58 M
2  Articles
Cook a great meal for HER   8/19/2007

Here is a recipe that i created that everyone loves

But before you prepare it prepare your setting, dont get someone else to do it for you, show her she is really special.

A nice lace table cloth, her favorite music , flowers and wine, candles and dim lights.

KEIV FILLETS

You will not find this recipe in any cook book

1 chicken breast thinly sliced ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
The Doctor Played My Skin Flute   8/6/2007

A sexual first.

Never before have I had a doctor suck my dick in a parking lot.

That has now changed.

The email came unexpectedly.

It was a business email and seemingly routine.

Then, came the phone call. The voice was deep and sultry from the woman on the other side.

She was intelligent, very intelligent.

She told ...



3 Comments, 989 Views, 19 Votes ,0.49 Score
rm_sergio9869 57 M
10  Articles
my first date   7/31/2007

It was ugly to wait...it was so good to experience sex


3 Comments, 262 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
DUTCHMAN2002007 79 M
4  Articles
FINDING SOMEONE ON Swapfinder.com !   7/14/2007

i am not one to complain as i have met a number of women on Swapfinder.com, but the internet is a minefield of intrigue and one has to be cautious and know its a minefield.

the internet can be its own fantasy, a guy is the president of a corporation, and he is really a janitor. soneone claims to be wealthy and you find out later, same person does not have a pot to urinate in

a guy i knew ...


1 Comments, 169 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
Her Pussy Was Too Small   7/6/2007

Her sexy ad appeared on Craigslist. He had not looked on it before.

He emailed her and she respoonded a few days later.

She said she liked his pics and his websites.

They set a time to meet.

She was waiting for him in the parking lot.

As he drove up in his black Mercedes, she was waitng in the shade in a dark blue SAAB.

...



3 Comments, 860 Views, 10 Votes ,0.60 Score
rm_bikergirl4u 52 F
2  Articles
Why can't we skip the first date jitters?   6/19/2007

I am a very confident woman, but I can't seem to get over the fear of that first face to face meeting. I can talk shit in my emails and over the phone, with absolutely no problem what so ever, so why, when it comes time for me to meet in person I get shivers and the cold sweets? If there is anything that I can do to get over this and you are willing to share. Please!!!!! Please! help a ...


6 Comments, 257 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
rm_Getsuwet88 45 M
2  Articles
Does having sex on the first date make you easy?   6/12/2007

What do people think of others that are willing to have sex on the first date? Is this a sign that they are not carefull about who they sleep with? Does it make you wonder if they do this with everyone? Or do you think it happens because they feel like they can trust you? Or maybe your just super hot and everyone wants to fuck you.


8 Comments, 215 Views, 14 Votes ,5.70 Score
when to have sex   6/9/2007

should you have sex on the first date and if not then why not it would be the same as any other time but you are just moving faster than what you normally would so should i have sex on the first date or not give me a reason why


2 Comments, 76 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
no way!   6/3/2007

have you met some one on line... they show you there pic's... they look good to you... you go to meet them... and they look nothing like the pic's they had sent you... what do you do?


26 Comments, 768 Views, 51 Votes ,7.12 Score
1forfunhere35 52 M
4  Articles
Swapfinder.com First Date   6/3/2007

I am writing today about my first Swapfinder.com Date. I have to admit that this whole experience has been overwhelming for me since I joined the community in May.

I had spent the last 3 years celibate in a sexless marriage. I finally gave up hope that this was going to change and found this site.

I have sent hundreds of e-mails and viewed even more profiles in my search. I ...


1 Comments, 395 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
A little wet n wild   6/2/2007

In high school like most teens, I loved going to the movies. A friend of mine and I went to see Bergman's Cries and Whispers. There's a scene where an ill person is comforted by an employee. Both are nude in the bed and the female employee has her hands around the other woman. It sent a rush of emotion through me. In another film I saw a number of times, Personal Best, with Mariel Hemingway and ...


0 Comments, 674 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
the difference in play   5/27/2007

what is the difference between sensual play and play that is sexual? thanks


1 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
1   5/23/2007

all i can say is just be your self keep your kool and maybe you'll get in that bitches pant but also be respectful.


1 Comments, 50 Views, 6 Votes
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
for yall   5/23/2007

beating off is something you shouldnt do get a gurl and beat the hell out of her pussy till she nuts thats what you should do pppppppppppppppppppppppppppzzzzzzzzzzzzzz


2 Comments, 80 Views, 7 Votes
sxcybigrl2 51 F
3  Articles
First Date   5/21/2007

I met this guy on a first date that lasted for a whole weekend it was wonderful. But it just did not last. So now I learn to enjoy the first date cause you can never get it back.


3 Comments, 315 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
MrRightnow4sex2 26 M
2  Articles
Is sex or thinking of sex with an older women alright   5/12/2007

If i am 18 and i have thoughts about having an older women to jus have sex with.Is that a legitimate fantasy.would older women do a 18 year old man.


3 Comments, 271 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
JustDick69 51 M
5  Articles
First FFM Experience   4/26/2007

When I was younger I was a DJ at a local Pool Hall every Friday night. This Friday night my GF came to the hall to spend some time with me while I worked. At about midnight one of her very cute petit friend’s arrive to have a couple of beers with us. As the night went on she drank a few to many. She was in no condition to drive home she deiced to come back to our place. The girls continue ...


0 Comments, 463 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
1958agoodyear 56 F
1  Article
My first night at a swingers club   4/26/2007

Hey Cutie,

I Am In Love!!!!

Fred called me everyday since Wed. As promised we were having diner at his place. He called on Sat right about the time I was trying to leave and I asked I could call him back so I could get on the road and be able to talk. (I went into work at 6am Sat and had to drive to Naples for a delivery, even stopped and got my oil changed. I did not have a ...


3 Comments, 1056 Views, 26 Votes ,6.26 Score
rm_fourtwozer0 38 M
3  Articles
Picking up girls at bars   4/24/2007

I recently turned 21 and am very interested in the bar scene, however I haven't been to one yet. Im sure picking up girls wont be much of a callenge to me but of course every little bit helps so thats what this article is about...got any tips?


1 Comments, 144 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
nbr1topdoc 69 M
1  Article
A fantasy first date...   4/21/2007

This story starts out with me waiting for you to show up for our first meeting. I responded to an ad you placed on this internet site, and we seemed to hit it off just emailing back and forth a couple times. I had suggested that we get together for a bite to eat and get some real face time.

You agreed and we decided to meet at this quaint little Irish pub. It was a cool day outside, ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_handsomecare 46 M
3  Articles
Would you bring a sex protection in the first date?   4/18/2007

Would you bring a sex protection (condom) in the first date?


15 Comments, 273 Views, 15 Votes ,3.74 Score
Blown on the first date . . .   4/13/2007

I was trying to figure out the other day at what point during my first date did I know I was going to get a nice, sloppy dick-sucking? And it occured to me that I realized that my load would be dripping off her chin, a soon as she ordered the lobster. Expensive, yes . . . but I think she was trying to tell me something by ordering the lobster . . .


2 Comments, 579 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Clintdriftwood 47 M
14  Articles
Should you or shouldn't you   4/7/2007

Well its a hard question. I mean we are here on a site asking for sexual relations and yet if you are lucky enough to meet someone who isn't wasting your time!! Should you try and bed them straight away or not?


3 Comments, 96 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Park Encounter   4/5/2007

Spring had finally sprung and the day was too beautiful to spend lunch indoors. I sent my wife, Susan, an invitation over IM to go for a walk with me and she quickly accepted. We met up halfway between our offices and headed to the nearby park. It was a fairly small park, but it had some picnic shelters, playground equipment, and restrooms. As we walked we chatted a bit and I couldn’t help ...


1 Comments, 429 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
kind of strange   4/3/2007

If you had strange encounters with other first dates that will reflect to you date.. so be cool and leave behind those bad encounters and think new..


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_msmocha69 38 F
2  Articles
The Meeting Part One   4/3/2007

The first person that I met was Len. He was about five foot eight, weighted about one eighty, caramel complexion with a freshly shaven baldhead and little to no facial hair. My first encountered with Len was about two years ago when I was heavily into my escorting business. We had talked back and forth on the phone for about a month straight scheduling meetings and him always calling them off for ...


0 Comments, 199 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_princet6969 58 M
1  Article
big surprise fills me up in size   4/3/2007

well here we goi met this young hot mature lady on this site, she invitedmeover i'm thinking yeah i'm gonna fuck that hot pussy. well i ring the doorbell, she comes to the door in a hot black sexy outfit, all 5'2 140 lbs of hotness, i lick my lips nad suddenly i get harder than hell thinking about tasting that sweet pussy. she said she had been waiting to meet me and was going to have some real ...


1 Comments, 686 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
lickmeslower 40 F
1  Article
WATERSPORT OR CUM   4/2/2007

I LOVE HAVING SEX MISSIONARY. SOMETIMES WHILE IM BEING FUCKED IT GET'S SO INTENSE I FEEL LIKE IM GOING TO CUM. IT'S AT THAT MOMENT THAT I PUT MY LEGS OVER HIS SHOULDER AND ARCH MY BACK. THERE'S THIS CERTAIN SPOT I CAN MAKE HIS DICK HIT IF I ARCH MY BACK THE RIGHT WAY. THE NEXT THING THAT HAPPENS IS I FEEL MY PUSSY WET LIKE A WATERFALL. IT'S NOT A COUPLE OF SQUIRTS. IT'S MORE LIKE A GUSHUNG ...


29 Comments, 1875 Views, 83 Votes ,7.17 Score
First Glory Hole Date   3/30/2007

Have You ever been at an Adult bookstore and not really know why there were hole in the walls. Well I was that stupid at the time. I was mainly having sex with women but found myself alone at this time and decided to try out a bookstore to see what it was about. I should also mention that all my life I have always liked looking at cocks. Well here I was in a booth and all of a sudden some one ...


2 Comments, 1147 Views, 24 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_craig3890 39 M
1  Article
Favourite First Dates   3/24/2007

What do classy girls like for a first date. What would you like to see the guy plan or do?


0 Comments, 98 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
hero4u24 36 M
3  Articles
Awkward   3/16/2007

What should i do on a first date that is going well but not great, its got the making for a great night but at the same time i don't want to push it and at the same time i don't want to not do anything what is the best way possible for this to end for me?


0 Comments, 87 Views, 0 Votes
Fit_Big_Bearman 49 M
1  Article
Suggetions for first date or meeting?   3/12/2007

I believe the first meeting should be a casual meeting over coffee or something. Also no expectations to proceed further before the date. Meet first, feel attraction and chemistry before moving on further. What are your thoughts or suggestions for a first date or meeting? I'm interested in other ideas.


5 Comments, 180 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
Encounter with an older lady   3/12/2007

Browsing Swapfinder.com I found an interesting profile for a lady that was 10 years older then me. She was married for over 20 years, 2 grown older and stuck in loveless marriage. I had never been with an older woman and that had always been a fantasy of mine. We traded emails and then emails several times a day and then we progressed to talking on the phone everyday till we finally decided to meet face ...


1 Comments, 1314 Views, 24 Votes ,6.31 Score
bicuriousmwm15 57 M
1  Article
My first TG experiance   3/1/2007

I had meet this person on another site. She was very nice looking and a sweet person to talk with. After talking for a couple weeks our schedules worked out. she invited me over and I went with an open mind. She met me at the door with an almost see though white skirt on and a teal blouse. Her nipples were already hard and showing though her blouse. we went straight to her bedroom and started ...


0 Comments, 944 Views, 21 Votes ,3.87 Score
It all business   2/27/2007

We managed go on business trip together but I arrived before you. Closing all the curtains in the room I bring out some candels and light them all over the room. Guess its a good thing we got a smoking room Then in the bath I draw a bath with some bubbles. I hear a shy knock on the door and I open it up.
Finally we get to see each other and all angst is gone as we look into each ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
_Irresistible0 38 F
2  Articles
There is nothing like having sex on the first date   2/17/2007

There is nothing like having sex on the first date. This is not something you would like to teach your .
On the first date both sides are nervous, confused as to what to expect and very excited to have met each other - this is of course in case both feel physical attraction.
I would not miss this state of being for anything in the world, it's one perfect aphrodisiac, and oh yes, I will ...


7 Comments, 826 Views, 30 Votes ,4.91 Score
Surprise First Date!   2/9/2007

A group of eight of us headed out to play a couple of golf courses over a long weekend before the fall set in. It was a coed group with five guys and three girls ‒ all reasonably good golfers. We’d been friends for a long time. Dave and Amy were the only “couple” so they slept together. Barb and Jan shared a room and the rest of us four guys shared two rooms. ...


1 Comments, 801 Views, 22 Votes ,6.73 Score
sweetass2share 52 F
1  Article
Now why didn't she come back?   2/6/2007

Not to sound like your mother, but just how filthy was your bathroom? While some people aren't into the superficial others of us, mainly the ones who list bathroom acitvities as a turn-off, prefer a little cleanliness with our sex.
Now I don't want or need to eat off your bathroom floor thank you very much, but I do want to leave a bathroom at least as clean or cleaner than when ...


0 Comments, 289 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
annarborgoth 46 M
0  Articles
My Ass Hurts And My Knees Are Weak   2/6/2007

The only date I've had off the Dilly went rather poorly. She kept calling and begging me to come over and meet her, but even though I was not really in the dating mood at the time, I caved in to stop her from calling. It was flattering but annoying! I hate when people call three times a day; once is more than enough! When I went over to her apartment, we sipped some beers and chit chatted ...


2 Comments, 920 Views, 23 Votes ,1.96 Score
Forget the BS and enjoy!   1/25/2007

If you meet someone thru this site, forget all the crap about getting to kmow each other before you proceed! Both of you are after one thing and one thing only. SEX!!! It just all depends on opportunity. Get together, fuck, and if you enjoyed it, then get to know each other.


2 Comments, 95 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
olyguy1307 44 M
4  Articles
do you have sex on first dates?   1/24/2007

i was wondering how many people have sex on first dates or do you guys just fool around with oral?


3 Comments, 200 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
1st   1/22/2007

1st dates can go easy or totaly wrong


0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_83chevys10 40 M
4  Articles
First date   1/21/2007

What was the worst first date you have ever had and what do you think you would have changed now? Do you think it would have worked out or have been fun? whats up tell me some things about your first dates?


0 Comments, 59 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Friends with NSA   1/20/2007

Such pretense surrounds the moment we meet And the following hours As if swept off our feet
We move beyond small talk We share our dreams We are a perfect fit Or so it seems
The night is upon us Our attractions peak Intense desires make Our defenses weak
Once in the bedroom Our intimacy expands All night at the mercy Of each other's hands ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
ilove2fuck1985 39 M
2  Articles
fucking first time meet   1/18/2007

This is somethimg every man should enjoy and every woman should let happen


0 Comments, 460 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
londonspecial 59 M
6  Articles
first date nightmare   1/17/2007

why is it somepeople obviously lie about age and use old photos do they think when you turn up you will not notice the difference between 35 and 55?


5 Comments, 280 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
PussyLicker2974 34 M
4  Articles
car or motel or home   1/10/2007

How many of use have been out on a first date and then the other one on the date has started to make the first move in the car do you finish in the car, or go home , or to a motel . I want to know?


2 Comments, 221 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
callmeup67 45 M
5  Articles
clumsy first sex   1/8/2007

i got started late and had my first sex at age 17. I was very shy guy, my friend had to get a known highschool slut to do me, She was dry and i didnt know what the hell i was doing. It was a bad experience, my next one was 26 and she really showed me the ropes. Now I am an expert


1 Comments, 378 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_yukonyancy69 57 M
1  Article
I TOLD YOU TO STOP!!!!!   1/7/2007

I asked a young lady out one Saturday night. We had some dinner & drinks, then went night clubbing. We danced for about an hour. Then she asked me if we could take a seat for a while. I followed her to a booth that was fairly dark & out of view for the most part. I asked her why she wanted to sit there. She told me her eyes were hearting, & she would like to rest them. She asked if it would ...


5 Comments, 645 Views, 20 Votes ,2.36 Score
Its_So_Hard_4u 35 M
4  Articles
Plan a Short Date   1/5/2007

No need to map out the rest of your lives together. Start with a simple, 1-2 hour date. If things go well, you can always extend the date. However, there's nothing worse than being on an all-day tour when you realized five minutes into the date that you have no future together. ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_freaks4sure 34 C
11  Articles
First Date   1/3/2007

I know a lot of people have had a lot of one night stands, but what would be the wildest one night stand you have ever had?


1 Comments, 376 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_tasteme1on1 45 C
2  Articles
We Want To Meet Bi-female, Help Us   1/3/2007

Hello All,
The question we have is how do you meet bi-females? We are a black couple looking to meet a bi-female near area. We have been on here for six month, but haven't been able to meet anyone in our area. We are nice and out going, sometimes a little shy, but we warm up quickly. What is the sercert? We are not really picky, we just want a thick ...



0 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
How far to go on the first date   1/3/2007

I would like to know how far people are willing to go on a first date. Being a guy I can say it can easily be all the way if the attraction and chemistry is there. the only thing is how often do you marry the person you slept with unless the sex is great.


0 Comments, 86 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
blackstar122006 46 M
10  Articles
A question   12/23/2006

Is it ok to show a woman where you live on the first date? Does it depend on the vibe that you receive from her?


0 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
bigorgasmlicker 41 M
10  Articles
I Get Panic Attacks   12/19/2006

It's sometimes tough to meet someone for the first time.
Any of you guys feel "panicky"?
Just saying it like it is.

D.


4 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
my first date   12/15/2006

my first date was fun i really loved going to dinner and then going to the movies an at the end of the night a sweet kiss


0 Comments, 157 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
zebra299 64 M
8  Articles
Wild date   12/13/2006

Ok I met a gal online from the south and was comming to Indiana for a wedding. She wanted to see me. We have talk for 6 months online. Well when she arrived I was dress for dinner, but she wanted to freshen up a bit before dinner. I said sure. So she relaxed a bit went to the bathroom, then grab my hand and took me upstairs to the side of the bed; were she push me back on the bed with leg's ...


0 Comments, 442 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
rm_sohard4u224 44 M
1  Article
what u think ladys?   12/11/2006

just one Q. how meany ladys that get on this site~think about sex on the 1st date???? and is it wrong for a man to even try?....


1 Comments, 103 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Any cute ideas?   12/5/2006

I don't know about anyone else, but I find that movies + dinner is the most overused cliche in the book, and I've been thinking of more novel ideas and was wondering if anyone had any suggestions...


2 Comments, 101 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
"Best date location"   12/4/2006

My friends and I have been having this discussion often and have been trying to figure out where the best first date locatiion would be. I'm old school at heart and I still think dinner and a movie is a solid starting point to any relationship. With there being more in terms of modern convienences to do, what if anything these days fills the 'dinner and a movie' roll ?


2 Comments, 137 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
ALWAYS treat a gal like a lady.   12/1/2006

Always be yourself, compliment her, bring her roses and chocolate, give her a piggy back ride, play catch with football in a park, hold her hand and tell her she is beautiful, and that she smells wonderful, have a lovely picnic, and never look anywhere else but into her pretty eyes.


0 Comments, 37 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_awilk04 40 M
1  Article
Good first date   11/30/2006

Can I get some ideas?


1 Comments, 121 Views, 0 Votes
renegade10000 42 M
2  Articles
looking luv in all the wronge places   11/27/2006

when going on a first date you want to open a dailoge. So, you're gonna want to go somewhere that you guys can talk and have a good time. One place you don't ever want to go on a first date is the movies. JUST DONT DO IT. unless you guys did something fun before. Its a bad idea because you guy are going on the first date to get to know each other and you cant exactly do that in a movie. ...


2 Comments, 190 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
rm_ca_micheal 44 M
6  Articles
how to get to the point?   11/27/2006

see how does it all start? i mean theres all this talk on here but when its face to face its not to the bed rite away. so anyone know what to do?


0 Comments, 99 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_theDeziner 42 M
3  Articles
How much of a slut should i be?   11/27/2006

ok, so i hook up with a tgirl, finally, and on our first date, within like 15 mins i'm suckin on a dick. and loving it! first blowjob ever! i would've gotten fucked too but we hooked up later than we were supposed to, and i had to be someplace else. am i too easy?


0 Comments, 507 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
niceguy9862 39 M
2  Articles
What is normal?   11/27/2006

I fairly recently met someone from this website for the first time, I felt really quite uncomfortable (by no means her fault) because I did not know what was the accepted way to behave. I know the polite way to act around others but this was the first time it was an arranged meeting for sex, it was weird. It goes against the grain a little to just dive in and go for it without really ...


3 Comments, 220 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
rm_chocolate21 33 F
6  Articles
First threesome in 4 years   11/27/2006

My bf and I are preparing to have our first threesome. This is my first in 4 years, his first ever. We both have been anticipating it for the longest, but I'm also a little nervous because it has been a while since I have been intimate with a woman. Now I know what to do and everything. Any advice on ways to break the ice when we all meet?


4 Comments, 503 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
scrtlvn 54 F
10  Articles
Getting over the nervousness   11/25/2006

When getting ready to meet for the first time, how do you get over the nervousness? Even after chatting for a while, getting to "the day" can lead up to some axieties. What's the best way to show up and "go from there"? Should a person wait longer to meet or just go for it?


6 Comments, 223 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_loverbob85 38 M
5  Articles
SEX   11/23/2006

DO U HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE?????????


2 Comments, 178 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
WhyceeWilliam 62 F
4  Articles
My Soul Mate   11/19/2006

AHHH the first date happened 6 months after I had started talking to this man online. I was in the midst of a divorce and I was feeling depressed and so low on self esteem it wasnt funny. He and I clicked so well. We talked about everything, our past lives and loves. We spoke about our feelings for each other. Phone sex was the best. This man could make me cum just by the moan in his ...


1 Comments, 364 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
WhyceeWilliam 62 F
4  Articles
Gray Eyes?   11/19/2006

We chatted on Swapfinder.com for some time. Then I gave him my phone number. OH the sexiest gravel voice I had heard in a long time. We had a lot in common. I was 49 and he said he was 53. PERFECT, a man of maturity.. hahaha..(you will see why I am laughing later in this story) I was a bbw, he loved bbw women. He said he had gray eyes, I am a sucker for a black man with hazel or gray eyes. He said he ...


3 Comments, 386 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
dirtroaddiva 53 T
0  Articles
My First Tranny   11/12/2006

The first time that I had sex with a Tranny was in Italy in the 70s I was a young and walking the red light district looking for something that interested me. I found that most of the hookers were not turning me on, then I saw this tall red head walking my way swinging a bag of fruit. She was wearing a short mini skirt and a top that was open to the middle of her cleavage. She was cocky ...


1 Comments, 1564 Views, 37 Votes ,5.95 Score
bigboy69foryou 37 M
10  Articles
sex as soon as hooking up   11/8/2006

who agrees or dissagrees with fucking on the first hook up?


11 Comments, 343 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
piano bar   11/4/2006

How about a piano bar for a first date?


1 Comments, 36 Views, 0 Votes
RomanS1969 46 M
2  Articles
How to go about it   10/31/2006

First Dates are exiting. However, meeting someone from Swapfinder.com can be many more times exiting. You don't even know what the person looks like in real. Did he or she describe themselves correctly? Did you have a different image in mind? I think it is healthy not to have too high expectations. You can always be pleasantly surprised. So go out and enjoy. But please, be honest. Ciao!


1 Comments, 172 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Showing up is a huge step   10/30/2006

Having enjoyed some success with online dating, I have found that many of the ladies that I met, were surprised that I would make good and meet. It further shocked them, that my profile was fairly accurate. Certainly, I was somewhat shocked in that it is hard for me to imagine why a guy would not want to meet with a nice woman who is interested. This assumes that you have both passed the ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
knightpanthera 25 M
1  Article
how fast should a relationship develop?   10/30/2006

Really how fast should a relationship develop from first meeting? I mean its fair to say when both parties are ready, but im really asking the length of time that is good for you. Perhaps you feel better referring to amount of dates before you make a commitment. Personally, I wait about three dates till committing myself to someone. But It usually gets serious before the end of the second ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 0 Votes
badkitty823 67 F
1  Article
Be waiting, blindfolded.. A fantasy comes true   10/27/2006

We had been chatting for a few weeks off and on. Making arrangements to meet and not being able to. I was getting very discouraged because he was my fantasy and I just wanted it, needed it so bad. On Friday afternoon we spoke again. We still hadn't met and I was tired of trying to have coffee or chat somewhere. So we decided he would just come over quickly to lick and suck my pussy. ...


5 Comments, 694 Views, 25 Votes ,7.78 Score
Phantasymal 41 M
7  Articles
Getting through the Shy Barrier   10/23/2006

A few people, not all have issues with having Shy tendencies and the first date jitters its not uncommon especially with meeting with someone you've never talked to or hardly talked and/or seen before. Getting beyond this after the point of contact when you meet them can be a challange, since shyness tends to blank your mind and the jittery feelings of your nerves shaking your hands, knees, ...


1 Comments, 95 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
LTjigger 57 M
5  Articles
Office Encounter part two   10/23/2006

When last I left you I was recounting how my inept secretary turned out to be a great fuck. What stunned me was when her mom brought over a few things and figured out what was going on and wanted to play also!
Tina's mother Octavia was not what I had expected. She was a garish woman with the same small waist as her but a little more curve to her hips which made a beautiful ...


2 Comments, 750 Views, 19 Votes ,5.23 Score
GreatSex4AllN06 104 C
0  Articles
Never would have dreamed....   10/22/2006

This story is not for the faint of heart or those just looking for a very quick story: Our first night together was not only unforgettable but also unforseen. There had been moments where I thought the night would never happen and sitting back thinking about it I am so glad it did. We finally decided that he would come down after he got some stuff done at home. It seemed like the ...


2 Comments, 758 Views, 26 Votes ,6.15 Score
rm_1stan10 62 M
1  Article
should I get drunk for this one   10/20/2006

People lie about how thay are. and I am what I say. Should I just get drunk before I go so thay look good?


1 Comments, 88 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
asheboroqriosguy 42 M
9  Articles
the first date>   10/19/2006

take a look to your mirror..and make sure everything its right and its how you wanna look for a person the first time.make a cross with your own saliva on your forehead.and say...god here i come. this is for a good luck....


1 Comments, 51 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
fake   10/17/2006

Why do girls insist on being fake on the first date? It's not like i won't remember the show she put on, i mean seriously. I cannot stand someone who cant be themself and relaxed on a first date


1 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_icuyumyum 64 M
9  Articles
Make me yours forever!   10/17/2006

I was at a party once were I was talking to a women. After about 20 minutes she wanted to go for a walk, so we did. As we were walking she stopped and kissed me. It was good and I went to give her another one when she said "kiss me and make me yours forever". I backed off and said don't you thing we should get to know each other first? She agreed and we went back to the party. The rest of ...


0 Comments, 454 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
you_like_it_69 38 F
1  Article
What is up with this???   10/15/2006

Okay, so I met this guy online...and he was really sweet and completely perfect. So we decided to meet. Well, when we talked online he alwasy talked about how romantic he was and how love to go on nice and dates, and how he loved to dance. So we decided to meet and he drove down here and since he is not from around here I chose where we would go...this little bar here in town called City ...


4 Comments, 433 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
cousin of girlfriend   10/15/2006

my recent past saw me going to a family dinner thing with my ex girlfriend. it was your average meet the family thing, everyone sitting around chatting and trying to get throught he boring event.
one thing that was not boring was my girlfriends cousin vicky, she was a brunette, about 5'3, a body to die for with about 36 size breasts, and one cute little ass.
she was ...


0 Comments, 910 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
dunkeyman 54 M
3  Articles
I think going all the way on the first date takes courage and spontanuity   10/14/2006

Is it wrong to like a loose woman? I mean doesn't it take a sense of trust and courage to end up in the sack the first night. Do I have a problem if I NEVER call a woman back if we have to wait 4ever to get it on! I mean if she has so much going on she can't or doesn't want to I'm cool with that but I gotta get some from somewhere and I"m not torturing myself until she's ready then later ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm__seth01 49 M
6  Articles
OMG!!!!   10/14/2006

My first date we had already do it..


0 Comments, 179 Views, 1 Votes
SexyLadyNeedsU 45 F
2  Articles
Public Meetings   10/13/2006

Ladies, if a man asked you to meet at his place, PLEASE do not go. Especially if it is the first time meeting and after only one email or chat! Men say this and that, but they are not always what they say. A lot of men out here email, chat, and even talk, but very FEW actually date women who just want to meet and no sex at the end. If you really want to meet ...


7 Comments, 431 Views, 19 Votes ,0.88 Score
Watching Can Be Fun On a First Date   10/10/2006

We joined Swapfinder.com back in May 2004 and immediately upgraded to Silver Membership to be able to enjoy more of what we were looking for. Our desire was, at least for now to undress in front of another couple and have sex while they watched us and video taped the action. There are not many couples out there looking for such a tame activity. We however were able to find a couple ...


2 Comments, 417 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_morninguy65 58 M
1  Article
met on here?   10/10/2006

just wondering if anyone has met anyone here? and it turned out to be love?


0 Comments, 102 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Worst of the first   10/10/2006

Okay, here is my worst of the first (and it is probably pretty lame):
I met Shelly when she dropped by to visit a guy who rented a room in my house. We hit it off and, after verifying that she was available and my buddy was not interested in her, I asked her out. We had a wonderful time, had dinner went for a long walk and later that night when we were having a nightcap at a ...


0 Comments, 227 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
First Time Question   10/10/2006

How many of you have actaully ridden in the car with on a first date from this or other sites?


0 Comments, 97 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Signs of life   10/10/2006

I knew her from a church we attended. She came over with her friend while a friend of mine was to make it a "foursome" just for conversation. There was never any hint of things going beyond conversation (which never turned sexual in nature).
She was obviously more attracted to me and willing to go farther than I had expected. So much so that she appeared "clingy" and "pushy". ...


1 Comments, 280 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
Chubby4topchsr 37 M
4  Articles
judging ur new man   10/10/2006

u have to be able to read ur new date, and dontdo what i did and let them walk all over u. I used poor judgment and paid 4 it in pain and suffering


0 Comments, 54 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_blackmeat04 37 M
10  Articles
how far   10/9/2006

how far are you willing to go on the first date?


0 Comments, 81 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_ladyt6957 66 F
2  Articles
Where to go on a first date   10/9/2006

I get emails from men and they have asked me what would you like to do, where would you like to go? I just wanted to see what other people feel would be a good place to go on a first date.


4 Comments, 142 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
fisrt date   10/7/2006

I think on a first date, a guy should always act like a gentleman, treat his gal like a princess, otherwise whats the point of going out anyone else agree or do u think he should be forward and go for it, i dont think that but what abt you?


2 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
2_big4u_tohandle 44 M
4  Articles
first date sex   10/6/2006

has anybody slept with the gal after first date on the same night


1 Comments, 267 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_co_richie 36 M
1  Article
MILF   10/5/2006

This was my first time ever meeting anyone from this site. It happened to be her birthday and her husband was out of town, so he said for her to find someone to play with. we went to dinner then back to her place for some great fun. she was quit a bit older than me, but was a great teacher, thank you for a great night, you know who you are.


2 Comments, 935 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
rm_kirchman 45 M
1  Article
where to go   10/4/2006

was wanting to get others ideas on where to go and what to do for the first date with some one you meet from match


1 Comments, 60 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_freak4u8 39 M
12  Articles
how far to go   10/3/2006

Exactly how far are you willing to go on your first date.


3 Comments, 47 Views, 0 Votes
Hillbilly2007 52 M
4  Articles
first date   9/29/2006

I had just broke up with my girlfriend of over 4 years. When a woman from work invited me out with friends of hers. The evening was fairly nice, a few drinks, a game or two of pool. Later that evening my co - worker took me back to the parking lot of work. Do to my drinking I had to lack a leak, so I was not able to go in the plant. My new friend took me around the backside of the ...


0 Comments, 486 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_tensgo4 56 M
1  Article
have you progressed past the first encounter?   9/29/2006

I'm sure many people meet thanks to Swapfinder.com, but I want to know how many make it to a second date.. third even. How many have become partners, lovers, friends and have lasted???


5 Comments, 187 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
jackstep 62 M
4  Articles
Office Interlude   9/26/2006

Marily and I had worked in the office together for a few years and had shared thoughts and ideas. It was a very pleasant relationship until one day when I was looking over some papers and she can up behind me and started to read them. Marilyn was an adorable redhead with a very nice figure. She always dressed nice and stood about 5'6" and had perky breasts that revealed very nice nipples ...


2 Comments, 486 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
Sex Date   9/26/2006

She met me at the door wearing a lace bra and matching panties, twirled slowly for me and pulled me inside, shutting the door after me. She is years younger my age and we had flirted, talked, and both knew we were getting together for no strings attached sex. She has firm, pointy breasts and hips that make my mouth water every time I see her. We kissed for the first time, holding nothing ...


2 Comments, 393 Views, 19 Votes ,5.23 Score
rm_ous16 39 F
10  Articles
A Virgins Worst Nightmare   9/24/2006

Since this is such a big event, the girl announces to her boyfriend that after dinner, she would like to go out and make love for the first time.
* * * * * * * * *
Well, the boy is ecstatic, but he has never had sex before, so he takes a trip to the pharmacist to get some condoms. He tells the pharmacist it's his first time and the pharmacist helps the boy for ...


4 Comments, 625 Views, 23 Votes ,4.53 Score
bc209670 36 M
11  Articles
awkward moments..... no thanks   9/24/2006

Dating to put it plainly just blows. All it is is two people claiming to be somebody else in order to be accepted. If I wanted to go back to high school again I'd invent a time machine. The main reason I ventured into this site is to avoid these bothersome situations. And I just happen to be lucky enough to live in the times of the internet. Otherwise I would be shit out of luck. So I ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
The Orange County Blond   9/24/2006

TheOrangeCountyBlonde had not answered my emails after showing an initial interest. After a few weeks, I sent her another one. She responded and let me know that some life things had stopped her and she was very interested in meeting me.
We set up a date and confirmed it the day before. We were to meet in Irvine.
I loved to meet in Irvine. It was ...



0 Comments, 274 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
Holy crap   9/22/2006

I meet a girl on another site once and you couldnt really see her face that well.When we meet face to face it was a girl that i work with.Well we were both nervous and stuff at first but then we remembered why we were meeting up.We ended up having a good run of sex for about two years untill she moved.So remember kiddies be carefull who you are meeting it might hit close to home.


1 Comments, 345 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
sweetnjuzygem 55 F
1  Article
In Their Eyes   9/22/2006

Two very horny, man and woman, meet up in a well lit public place. They both have passionate desires just waiting for the right moment to unleash themselves. They come face to face, and just stare endlessly into one anothers eyes. They can see themselves doing many wild things as they stare deeply back and forth between them. They move closer, and closer, right till their bodies are ...


1 Comments, 186 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
First date surprise   9/20/2006

After some emailing and phone chats, I drove about 40 minutes to meet a woman for the first time. She sounded nice on the phone, pleasant voice, easy laughs. I was surprised that she invited me directly to her house rather than meet in public, but it was a Sunday and she said she just wanted to lounge around the house all day in sweats, just relax.
As it turned out, we talked for ...


2 Comments, 789 Views, 34 Votes ,5.67 Score
nymphoforlife86 28 M
9  Articles
best way to impress on a first date?   9/18/2006

hey guys and girls, just wanting to know ur opinions on what you think are some vital things to do to impress on a first date? i know a few myself, but would like to hear others opinions


1 Comments, 78 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
How do you know if a first date is going well?   9/11/2006

How dou you know if a first date is going to be a last date? Women: What do I need to do and look for?


3 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_sexandlife12 41 M
3  Articles
what should we do?   9/11/2006

what we should do on the first date? kiss her? huge her? or just give her a smile to show your love? if any one know, let me know also.


2 Comments, 50 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
BigTigger48 45 M
2  Articles
First Date Etiquette   9/8/2006

1. Pick a place that doesn't have "sex expected" written all over it. Bowling Alley, Outdoor Brunch resturant .... not Hotel resturant or porno movie theater
2. Pick a place that is easy to find.
3. Don't bring your or your friends along.
4. Don't invite them to your house.
5. Have enough money to at least pay for your own meal. ( Men and Women ) ...


1 Comments, 107 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
Why can't they all be like that?   9/8/2006

I had been single for a couple of months, but having custody of my left little time for me. I had spent many of my evenings, after the went to bed, chatting online and had finally managed to make a few online friends. This one lady in particular sounded pretty nice. Although she lived over an hour away, we had talked on the phone a few times and exchanged pictures. Finally she got tired ...


2 Comments, 324 Views, 11 Votes ,5.41 Score
rm_dont_know82 42 M
4  Articles
ideal first date????   9/5/2006

i like to go out and have coffee nothing to heavy that comes on the second


2 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_toungfukher 40 F
1  Article
should i get in volved?   8/25/2006

I met this guy on Swapfinder.com and he's got this huge cock.We had been talking through email for a week.Then I couldn't take it any more, I had to fuck him.So we hooked up at Barns and Nobels, had a quick bit & talked for an hour.I wasn't really all their, I was thinking about how much longer I would have to wait to get that huge cock in my tight little pussie.It did not seem like he was going to ...


7 Comments, 1344 Views, 32 Votes ,5.87 Score
rm_jroca2006 36 M
2  Articles
first dates suck   8/24/2006

When you go out with this person for the first time.It just like a test you have to do everything perfect. Thats why first dates suck.


4 Comments, 46 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
VaBeach9inches meets a sexy lady   8/24/2006

As you come in the door we hug and I give you a gentle kiss. You respond with a hug and take my hand to show me around the place. We start in the great room, with the TV and sofa being the main attractions. Then we move to the kitchen where you offer me a drink, we fix ourselves drinks, I take a sip of my diet coke and captain morgan, then move to the den and sit it on the table. You ...


1 Comments, 215 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
A Secretary's tale with her Boss   8/23/2006

My very first encounter with a man - my boss he decided to take me on a date- my first and his first with a much younger gurl. We went for a drive in his car - one hand on the steering and my hand clasped in mine we talked about everything under sun. He told me about his sex life with his wife which was active but he needed more and more and his wife was not much upto it so he decided he ...


1 Comments, 1037 Views, 22 Votes ,5.05 Score
mightymouse2384 33 M
1  Article
What is the ideal first date?   8/18/2006

I want to know what everyone would do on a first date. Either meeting someone in public or from online. What would you do?


1 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
rm_utbogie 38 M
4  Articles
first date   8/18/2006

the first date is like an interview. you are getting to know the person


1 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
How to act....   8/10/2006

I don't know if everyone has ever had a date but if you have you won't forget your first official one. You're kind of uneasy and not yourself and then you open up and most of the time it turns out to be a great experience. Well I'm kind of having a first date again. This time around the woman is 11 years older than me instead of being a year younger. I think I should be ok and calm ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
sirlokispassion 52 M
1  Article
Her first time   8/4/2006

This was written by Jessikitty about her first night with me.....
She drove in silence, music too distracting to think about what was ahead. What WAS ahead, even she didn’t know, and it both terrified and excited her to distraction. She could barely hear the thoughts in her head over the sound of her quickly beating heart. She had only a few directions to remember when ...


0 Comments, 545 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
fhfhhdfhfhdfhhdfhhdhhdh   7/31/2006

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1 Comments, 96 Views, 3 Votes
peachez_w_cream2 46 C
19  Articles
first time   7/29/2006

go to a persons house and you thought about them by bringing them roses and some candy as u pick them up tell them that your looking for to the next date and leave them with a kiss.


1 Comments, 190 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_freefacials4 45 M
1  Article
Getting Response?   7/26/2006

Hi. I have been on here for a while and I have had a few emails but nothing seems to develop. Does anyone have any advice on how to get the ball rolling on this site? Is it good to be straight forward or should you ease into things? I prefer the straight forward method but that does not seem to be working. Help!
Freefacials4


4 Comments, 252 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
horney but dont know what to do   7/16/2006

i rencenty went to visit a guy from Swapfinder.com he was a cute guy with a large cock. i have lived a lesbain life for seven years and started having dreams about sleeping with men. i get to this guys house knowing i want the sex from him but got nervouse and chicken out i left there with my head down low saying to my self dam dam dam. he did try to talk sweet enough for me to want to do it. but my ...


3 Comments, 610 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
jackstep 62 M
4  Articles
Once I saw her   7/13/2006

I was having a chat in the Swapfinder.com room when she entered and we did the basic Hi and How r u things. She was hot, living with a guy who is on the road five days a week and she was horny as heck. We chatted and she liked my profile and then told me she was home alone and wearing a black mini skirt, no panties, black bra and tank top. She wanted to do more then chat and we started off by me ...


0 Comments, 516 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
Our Meeting   7/10/2006

We had chatted by email and on Swapfinder.com for several weeks telling more and more about ourselves and our ideas. I recalled sending a note that asked if she was trimmed or shaved because I love to suck pussy lips and suck on the little love button that can send a lady over the edge. I get a rush when the lady cums tightening all her leg muscles crushing them up both sides of my head as I slow ...


1 Comments, 250 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
HARD_LOVIN_MAN 46 M
0  Articles
The Perfect Date!! (Roomance)   7/10/2006

This is my fantasy date. The name mentioned is totally fantasy. Grab a drink, u will b here for a while. I hope you enjoy......................................... I come pick u up at somewhere around 8 or 9. I greet you at your door with a dozen red roses. Hiding behind those roses are a set of soft and sensual awaiting to taste the moisture and curvature of your . After I plant a night ...


2 Comments, 345 Views, 18 Votes ,2.03 Score
rm_mikedog5175 49 C
1  Article
Disappointed   7/9/2006

My husband and I have been members here for about 2 months. We have talked to several nice people on here. We started talking to a woman on here and we both clicked really well with her. After talking on the phone some and swaping e-mails back and forth we decided it was time to meet. We all set a time and a place that we would meet and even talked to each other a few hours before we were ...


3 Comments, 730 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
A great first date   7/2/2006

I was on Swapfinder.com one night when I was IM'ed from this woman. So I said what the hell, we started chatting and we had much in common, she also sent me a picture. We talked on the phone and made plans to meet. So the next weekend she asked me to her place, I took a bottle of wine with me. When I got there and knocked on her door she answered wearing a robe and said she was running late and asked ...


1 Comments, 418 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
nsaforfun258 43 M
1  Article
waiting   7/2/2006

im still wating for a first date. i cant seem to get anyone from here to get with me. do you have any help for me.


3 Comments, 183 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_bbunny0005 42 F
0  Articles
Cowboys   6/30/2006

A few months ago i took a chance on meeting a guy from this site. We had exchanged a few emails on here. Then we exchanged . And finally after a few more emails and a phone call or two we hooked up and went on a date. I was scared but excited to. I'm running late as always and I'm thinking the whole time what if hes not as cute as the picture or as he sounded on the phone. So I was ...


3 Comments, 1303 Views, 26 Votes ,3.67 Score
somesexforUnme 64 M
4  Articles
Full steam ahead!   6/26/2006

Do most women want to find out more about their partner on the the first date or is it more likely that they want to climb into bed and discover the compatability during sex?


0 Comments, 216 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
rm_deb122750 73 F
1  Article
My First Date With The Guy From California   6/20/2006

I received an e-mail from a guy from California. He said he would be coming into town for a convention and gave me the dates. I looked up his profile, and he was married. I gave him a short reply stating I didn't go out with married men, but thanks anyway. He sent me several e-mails after that, asking me questions, such as do I need a rental car? Or my hotel is...., am I close to ...


0 Comments, 821 Views, 26 Votes ,5.18 Score
rm_Iceman037 54 M
1  Article
Anonymous Sex   6/15/2006

Last week I had a very exciting first date. We met here on Swapfinder.com and decided to meet the same evening. I went to her house and when I entered the sleeping room, she was already nacked in bed. We opened a bottle of champaign and a few minutes later my trousers. She was alrady wet and hungry. She took my dick and sucked it hard as I sucked her pussy well. We fucked around, had our orgasm ...


1 Comments, 758 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
Who stole my undies   6/14/2006

Was seeing this guy for awhile, then decided we could "hook" up. He always seemed fine, really nice guy to be with. Fun, chatted, wasnt overly perverse. Yet, after the second time we "hooked" up I went to finally leave. I couldnt find my underwear any where, and decided I would have to leave with out them. Not the thing that I wanted to do. But, with having a , I had to go. Just a piece ...


0 Comments, 991 Views, 31 Votes ,3.34 Score
rm_Edge357 53 M
2  Articles
Your fantasy first date, right here   6/13/2006

(If you think this is strange, check my profile)
How would you describe the ultimate fantasy date? Some of those on the profiles are a little dry.
For my fantasy date (a FANTASY, right?), it had better not be boring ‒ because that would be unbelievably stupid, if not against some kind of law of nature, to have a boring fantasy.
So we would start out ...


1 Comments, 138 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
johnphx711 56 M
4  Articles
Kiss till you cum   6/9/2006

I have been chatting with a few people online, and all of a sudden, someone I had never talked with showed up and said hello. Being bored at work, I struck up a conversation with her. She asked me when I was getting off (from work), and I told her. She asked me if I wanted to grab a drink, and I said yes. I figured what the heck, I can meet her f2f, and decide if I wanted to ask her ...


1 Comments, 239 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_horny18girl2 36 F
1  Article
first dates from Swapfinder.com   6/8/2006

my first date with a guy from Swapfinder.com was actually pretty good. we didnt have sex, mind u, but we both had a good time. i personally liked the fact that we didnt have sex on the first date. im stilla virgin after all and he was looking for more of a relationship before sex. we kinda matched pretty well, and as long as that happens, sex on the first date is not something to be taken so ...


0 Comments, 421 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
xSouthernGirlx 42 F
1  Article
Where To Meet   5/23/2006

I seem to be having alot of guys wanting to meet me at my house onthe first date...i have a huge problem with that, i think in most cases you should meet in public making the situation comfortable for both people...You never know about people and bringing a stranger in to you home is just crazy...Just looking for some imput..what do you think?


13 Comments, 891 Views, 33 Votes ,6.27 Score
Suckmytitss88 39 F
1  Article
Sex on first date   5/21/2006

Does you guys here expect sex on the first date with gals here? Does it matter if you doesn't get it?


3 Comments, 627 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
rm_Soapystacey 48 F
2  Articles
What do u do when he cant fuck good?   5/20/2006

like i met this guy last nite and he has a huge dick but he cant work it! What should i do?


35 Comments, 2629 Views, 59 Votes ,2.81 Score
New York Memories   5/17/2006

I keep playing this scene in my mind over and over again. The following is very close to what actually happened.
One evening while living in New York City, I wandered to Washington Square Park. While sitting among a group of people listening to some folk singers I noticed this large older man making his way through the crowd. I then lost track of him until he sat down beside me. ...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
nascarbaby2 55 F
16  Articles
Is it okay to have sex w/ a guy on the first date?   5/12/2006

Well i had a guy that likes me asked me out on a date the evening went great, we went out to eat and then to a movie and he payed for it all..Then we went to a bar and had a few drinks and played some darts. Then we left and he took me home and he opened my door and let me out and walked me to the door he gave me a kiss on the cheek and was going to his car and i called him back up and ...


7 Comments, 1586 Views, 34 Votes ,3.51 Score
rm_kiddfamous 44 M
8  Articles
a kiss   5/1/2006

who here has ever kissed on a first date? Is it right to kiss on a first date?


3 Comments, 174 Views, 0 Votes
thickandtasty619 39 F
7  Articles
DO YOU??????   4/29/2006

DO YOU FEEL THAT IT IS OK TO FUCK SOMEONE ON THE FIRST DATE???????? OR SHOULD YOU WAIT AND HOW LONG


17 Comments, 1784 Views, 55 Votes ,4.77 Score
rm_spunky5112 67 F
14  Articles
spunky's yum-yum young thang!!   4/28/2006

omg, , a young type contacted me said he would be in my state for a training session for his job..now, i try to be sensible with agw stuff..and 28 was a tad young..but his message was so nice and not the standard nasty talk i usually get from young types, ,and a few older gents too..so we decided to hook-up..i drove to his hotel and a true gentleman ..he was waiting for me outside and ...


0 Comments, 1032 Views, 20 Votes ,6.83 Score
ExtreamPleas1000 53 M
115  Articles
Having sex on the first date.   4/25/2006

When having sex on the first date should the guy have condoms or the girl. because I have meet women on the first date and had sex right away. When my plan was just to meet.


2 Comments, 323 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_RyuEli 48 M
1  Article
holely photos   4/24/2006

Why are there so many photos that have the face cut out? If you can't put your full photo up why bother to put a photo up at all? If you don't want to be recognized why bother to be on a site like this to begin with.


1 Comments, 158 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
rm_friend604025 55 F
4  Articles
Who should pay?   4/24/2006

hello,
please help me a guy from here asked me out he said i should pay for dinner and a motel or hotel to fool around, i dont feel as a woman i should have to pay . i was raised where a guy should pay for dates and such things any ideas or help on this subject. please


11 Comments, 594 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
rm_MultiOOOOs 47 M
1  Article
Give the woman the lead   4/20/2006

In my experience on Swapfinder.com it seems that giving the woman the lead on the first date is the best thing to do. And give her the option to go home without being pushy on the subject of having sex. This I have found reaps benefits on future dates and show the woman that you respect her as a person. And if there is no chemistry between you, then at least it leaves the door open for friendship. ...


7 Comments, 2497 Views, 107 Votes ,7.12 Score
Curiosity fullfilled...   4/19/2006

So the direct approach is always the best...We were contacted by a female who expressed her desire to try new things. Actually she wanted the girl - girl eXXXperience, but the misses convinced her that she would want to try a couple. When she did THAT NIGHTwe met at a hotel and fulfilled her deepest erotic fantasies. A curiosity no more...she couldn't stop telling us how much of a ...


0 Comments, 222 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
look4fun696922 51 C
1  Article
Gettng good service!   4/12/2006

I need to let this out. I was a little reluctant to have another man with my husband, but after enough fantases and a little encouragemnt, I decided to try.
A intersting (younger) man replied to Swapfinder.com and the next thing I know, I was on the way to the restraunt where he worked.
I felt really comfortable with him. He sat with us and talked. My husband brought up topics that I ...


3 Comments, 1563 Views, 47 Votes ,6.26 Score
why am i being let down?   4/12/2006

I have asked for a woman to show me the ropes, preferably one with experience. Why is it now then i have had two separate occasions, where it was their idea to meet and both have let me down. One just once and one twice. I know for a fact they were real people not computer generated, so why did they back out with no explanation? I now feel i am wasting my money, i don't mind a chat to get ...


1 Comments, 308 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
do first dates go good   4/10/2006

seems like everytime i meet someone for a first date something goes wrong is there any advice to be giveing here


1 Comments, 82 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
grwnsxystallion 31 F
1  Article
The Single Most Heartbreaking thing....that could ever happen to a female   4/4/2006

I'm writing the article in royal blue because thats exactly how i feel. Girls grab your tissues and prepare to feel sorry for ya girl..... it started on a friday night when i went to a brand mew club with a homegirl. we saw alot of old high school friends there (we're both sophmores in college) and one particular boy caught my eye. i used to think his ...


7 Comments, 1715 Views, 41 Votes ,3.16 Score
DAVIS69AM 50 M
6  Articles
FIRST DATE ?   3/27/2006

IM AT A LOSS FOR WORDS ON THE FIRST DATE ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE.


0 Comments, 77 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
bluerabbit4u2 61 C
1  Article
Didn't happen yet   3/24/2006

Hi all, We're on this program for one month now and except for some winks and an odd superficial e-mail not much happened. We know, updating helps, and so we did (still waiting for it to happen). We also know that putting a picture improves our chances and when we both agree we will download some. We were told several times that it is difficult for a couple to find a single girl. "Be ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
bobtheforester 60 M
4  Articles
First impressions   3/23/2006

I arrive at the restaurant about half an hour before our meeting time to make sure that I get the most intimately discrete table, and to have a starter drink to calm my nervousness. We’ve written to one another over a month or two, haven’t spoken yet, and have settled on this date to exchange first impressions. If we agree on the presence of the chemistry we hope to find, we ...


0 Comments, 275 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
good dates?   3/20/2006

what should a good first date contain?


1 Comments, 86 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_funfoxtom 39 M
5  Articles
whats a good first date?   3/20/2006

hey every one tell me what u thing a good first date is?


1 Comments, 151 Views, 9 Votes
How many put out on the first date?   3/17/2006

I think we all do but who knows. Chivalry, yep dead.


0 Comments, 195 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
rm_ballguy3 44 M
15  Articles
Blind Dates   3/15/2006

I've been on a couple and I have to say that one of them went really well and the other I thought went well but she wasn't interested. Funny, because we both talked for a couple of hours and everything seemed normal. Just one of those things.


0 Comments, 162 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score