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Best and worst 1st dates 5/23/2012
I want to know what is the best ideas for a 1st date and the
worst.
I took a girl to a great dinner and a very nice concert and
that was the end of it. What went wrong? who knows.
4 Comments, 115 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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First Impressions do count 5/18/2012
You never get a second chance to make a first impression.
When meeting a member for the first time. I let him decide,
that tells me right away what kind of man he is. If he picks
McDonald's or Starbucks or Tim Horton's (uncomfortable
seats, the next person sitting two feet away from you, lousy
coffee)Well that is my first impression ( no class, cheap
person, and selfish lover) And then show up ...
6 Comments, 271 Views,
28 Votes
,5.19 Score
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how to: mistakes 5/3/2012
I'd like to list here all the mistakes all men should
avoid in their first dates:
After much hard work and worry, you have your first date
with your newest find. The next step is to set your mind right
and avoid the biggest mistake you could make, messing up
on your first date. All the hope, money spent, preparations
could end up just frustration and a bruised ego. Let’s
take a look ...
1 Comments, 113 Views,
16 Votes
,3.57 Score
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first kiss 5/2/2012
are you gonna wait to kiss me or what?
3 Comments, 98 Views,
10 Votes
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maybe this weekend? 4/25/2012
Well this is the weekend maybe? i havent had much luck on
here but i finaly got another member to chat with me and i
told her of my whereabouts this weekend! I am on a journey
to a city 300 miles away and i have a room booked at a hotel.
I am on business actually but hoping to meet a great gal to
boot! my wife? well she has been ignoring me for about 3 months
now, and i need to meet up and expand ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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How many? 4/24/2012
How many first dates actually end up into something better?
0 Comments, 53 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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First Date 4/24/2012
whats your experience of a first date..
1 Comments, 49 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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Tell Me Abt Ur First Date 4/16/2012
First date Experience
0 Comments, 3 Views,
0 Votes
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how long til sex? 4/11/2012
How long does one wait til sex on a first date?
2 Comments, 64 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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date 4/9/2012
what do you want on a first date
0 Comments, 5 Views,
0 Votes
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Gifting on the First Date 3/25/2012
Let's say you meet someone here on
Swapfinder.com/Eros and the dialog leads to a mutual desire for a No
Strings Attached (NSA) hook-up. You agree to meet at a coffee
shop and if all signs are "go" you can dash off
to an agreed upon location for your intimate dance session.
Would it be weird or appreciated if a person brought a gift
to the initial meeting? Nothing of a sexual nature, but ...
5 Comments, 198 Views,
14 Votes
,2.18 Score
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What to expect? 3/23/2012
First time doing this online hookup, what do you find your
first dates have been like? Is it just a hookup or is it like
every other date you've been on?
1 Comments, 59 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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What appeals to me 3/20/2012
I like to meet a guy who is confident respectful and social
and not someone who thinks that having sex on the first date
is essential.
First of all I like having sex with someone I like and who
I have had a chance to connect with and have gotten to know
a little before I hop in bed, on a table or elsewhere with
a person.
I know that for a lot of guys here on this site... they ...
4 Comments, 106 Views,
23 Votes
,3.60 Score
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Not A Date 3/10/2012
What is so awkward is when you go out on a double date and your
girl and her friend leave the araea. You have never met her
friend's man. You don't know if he is Mr. Good guy,
a dog, gay or what. It becomes who will blink first. Most
of the guys turn out to be dogs, too.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
0 Votes
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first time 2/21/2012
i was dressed to kill best lingerie feeling so hot i wanted
more than my freind to look at me i wanted to experiment a
little as isaid this new feeling that started to take me
over compelled me to act like the horny bitch i felt inside
i wanted to feel his hands on me touch me he said i looked beautifull
and thought a real woman had some how gotten into the house
laughed and asked him to run his ...
10 Comments, 1148 Views,
35 Votes
,4.03 Score
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Tucson Mary 2/17/2012
Tucson Mary Fantasy
It was a typical bright, sunny Tucson afternoon. It was
warm, a great day to have a fun afternoon around the area.
Late in the afternoon, I headed to Jeff’s Pub, a friendly
place in Tucson. Since it was mid-afternoon, the bar was
only about half full, with several seats available, and
I chose one at the bar, on the end near the door. There were
probably ...
0 Comments, 179 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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What about a first meet 2/14/2012
Hi all, A quick question for the ladies. What is your take on a first
meet and sex, I think it would be a good idea to meet chat for
a bit to make sure that there is a mutual desire and then go
from there. A friend told me that he just wants to get down
to the sex, and my stance is that although I am meeting for
great NSA pleasure that a little talking before is a good
thing. Let me know.
0 Comments, 62 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Does a woman..... 2/5/2012
want to still have sex with a man on the first date, even though
they believe they will never want to date this guy again.
And what do you say to the guy if he persists on more sex or
another date cause you have now lead him on with sex on that
date. I mean as a guy, if the sex is good I want more. If a woman
tells me to 'F' off and never talk to her again,
then I get the point. I just believe ...
2 Comments, 107 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Where to go and what to do!? 2/5/2012
Hi, I've always been unsure as to where to go and what
to do on that ever important first date.
And one thing I've noticed is that the guy is always
a bit hesitant to ask the other party their likes and dis-likes,
and what they'd like to do as it comes across as you havin
no clue as to where to go and what to do.
From my experience (limited it is), it doesn't really
matter, the ...
2 Comments, 80 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Mid-Week Mid-Day Fun 1/30/2012
Two weeks ago I happen to be working from home... (I do 2 days
a week normally)... and had the site up with my eye on the
IM.... noticed a lady very close to me.... We started chatting....
Obviously distracted me from my work...LOL.... We seemed
to be hitting it off, at least electronically, so after
a short time we exchanged #'s and spoke on the phone....
Turns out she was a very hot very ...
5 Comments, 510 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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Single girl to date bi couple? 1/29/2012
We have been searching for a single BI girl to date us? Anyone
have any solid clues on the best place to search BESIDES
here?
0 Comments, 155 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Sex 1/23/2012
What are the odds that if the person is nice, funny, cool
and nothing else wrong with the person. The chemistry is
great and everything is there, that you will have sex with
them on the first date?
0 Comments, 69 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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wld you rather go to the movies or a walk in the park 1/17/2012
wld you rather go to the movies or a walk in the park?
2 Comments, 56 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Reality....... round 1 1/9/2012
Dinner, for chain Italian, ( no not OG...that place sucks)
was actually not bad. It was more the company, as always.
We lingered at the table after dinner, talking, kidding,
laughing, flirting. There was a slight pause and then I
looked at her and asked "Do you want to play?""Yes"
she replied readily, a smile crossing her lips. Me being
from out of town I asked "Where?" "My place
is not available ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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No Show 1/9/2012
Why is it that I have frequently met people online &
we set up a get together/meeting place...and when it comes
down to it, they don't show up. Why not just communicate
to the other person that you can't make it. Sounds too
much of a coincidence to have so many "all of the sudden"
cant make it things that come up.
7 Comments, 117 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Bisexual Confession 1/8/2012
I have had good and bad responses to admitting my bisexuality
on the first discussion of sex and getting to know each other.
When do you think is the best time to tell a potential or new
partner of your sexuality. I hate to hide it myself.
6 Comments, 447 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Why do we get so nervous? 1/6/2012
I may be the only one that gets this way, but why do we get so
nervous when we finally meet. I mean after we have chatted
for ever, probably talked on the phone, even swapped dirty
pictures, you would think that you could meet someone and
not get nervous. Maybe it is just the thrill of the hunt.
I don't know, what do you think?
1 Comments, 74 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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hey girls 1/6/2012
Heyecan ve Macera Arayan Bayanlar
0 Comments, 18 Views,
0 Votes
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Nov. 30 1985 1/3/2012
I was 14 years old. I had been dressing in girls underpants
and dresses in the privacy of our home for years. This particular
night we were visiting our Aunt, Uncle, and cousins Lee
and Becky. Lee had a date with his girlfriend and that left
me alone with my sister and Becky. Out of the blue my sister, Kim, tells Becky about my sissy
ness and suggest they make me over. Becky laughs at first
but ...
1 Comments, 177 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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dates 12/27/2011
good date locations
1 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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First Date Suggestions 12/16/2011
Where is a good first date suggestion?
3 Comments, 69 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Losing My Virginity 12/12/2011
My First time was with a man and I was 20 years old. He was a
husky man like me, but when we chatted it was awesome. We
had met online so of course I was hesitant to meeting in person
especially for sex. When I summed up the courage and stopped
being a pussy I accepted his offer for lunch. When I saw him
in person he was adorable and had a great smile. He didn't
ask me, but waited for me to ask ...
3 Comments, 619 Views,
19 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Turner effect 11/22/2011
Fist dates are probably the most difficult thngs 2 go thu
during a relationship, first dates are what determine
if you guys hv a future 2getha or not, cause the 1st impression
counts.so during 1st dates try and avoid all thngs that
are a turn off 2 ur partner evn tho how much both of you are
sexualy starved watch your limits cause sometimes too
much lust can be a turnoff, but fully exploit their ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
0 Votes
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Best Place 11/18/2011
Other then dinner and a movie which is highly cliche what
is a great place for a first date or for a first time meeting
someone thru this website?
5 Comments, 108 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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To early or not 11/17/2011
Well alot of people have this belief that on first dates
everything should be kept formal and that the furthes you
can ever go is a kiss.well its these kinds of propaganda
that will limit you from knowing what could have bin the
most exciting first date.during your first date dont restrict
yourself to formality be open bring out what u realy want
from your partner but at the same time dont be too ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
0 Votes
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online time counts 11/13/2011
with todays internet activity for most people, the online
contact nowadays is really considered the 1st date. we
can spend hours on end chatting and when we finally meet,
if everyone is who they said they were, then we are essentially
on our 2nd and 3rd date really.
2 Comments, 75 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Fast Food 11/11/2011
What about fast food as a first date then something more
exciting like drinks? You still get to eat, but you don't
have to spend five hours with each other if ya don't
want!
5 Comments, 42 Views,
8 Votes
,1.62 Score
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What's the problem with sex on the first? 11/10/2011
What's the problem with having sex on the first date?
I don't really see much wrong with it if its done in the
right manner. I've had sex on the first date with at
least 90 percent of the women I've been with...if not
more. I dont judge, it was chemistry, vibes and romance.
Most of the time other dates followed.
2 Comments, 113 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Idea First Dates 11/10/2011
My idea first date is something kinda simply but effective.
Dinner and walking though the park is a good one, allows
you to get to know each other. The beach or the shore is another
nice spot. Fun spots would be go carts or a carnival.
1 Comments, 40 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Nervous !!! 11/2/2011
i ALWAYS GET NERVOUS ON FIRST "DATES". hOW DOES
EVERYONE COPE ?
3 Comments, 48 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The Man with the Sedan 11/2/2011
We met of Swapfinder.com a while back. He was into my tits really badly
and wanted to meet. I picked a safe place, Dunkin Donuts
right by me. He was in the area anyway on business.
He asked me what type of car I would be driving, I told him
" a Saturn". I asked him what kind of car he drove,
he replied "a Sedan".
I drove into the Dunkin Donuts parking lot and there he was,
with his coffee ...
8 Comments, 824 Views,
26 Votes
,5.29 Score
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my first date 10/28/2011
I was 17 years of age when I went on my very first day. The guy
was 16 years of age. We went to the same school and took classes
together. I was very attractive to him, but was afraid to
tell him. So one day I built up enough courage to finally
talk to him. I spoke to him and he was very excited. He asked
my out for a date and I accepted it. He took me to movie and
I really enjoyed it. He ...
12 Comments, 1064 Views,
51 Votes
,3.36 Score
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Doing it on the first date 10/26/2011
Is it bad that I consistently have sex on first dates nowadays?
And do you believe this to be the case?
1 Comments, 83 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Sex on the first date yes or no? 10/25/2011
Curious to see how people feel about having sex on the first
date?
7 Comments, 80 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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fuck on the first date? 10/21/2011
how many have done it? did it turn into a serious relationship
or just a casual thing?
0 Comments, 55 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Always a challenge 10/20/2011
First dates or meeting are always a challenge for either
party. What will the other person think, how do I react,
will they reject me..and the list goes on and on..Just be
yourself and let the cips fall where they may..
0 Comments, 12 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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What do u say to someone online to beak the ice 10/14/2011
I feel kinda awkward when I send someone a msg for the first
time. It's like what is the best way to introduce yourself
to a pic and a mailbox?
2 Comments, 70 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Successful First Date 10/14/2011
Why do guys always equate not scoring with a girl on the first
date -- even a blind date -- to losing a video game? When I
overhear guys discussing the hot date they went on the night
before, I can't help but laugh when they tell their
friends "I was so close, but I didn't get laid."
This is usually followed by an extremely sad look on the
friends' faces, followed by them shaking their heads
; ...
2 Comments, 47 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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My first encounter with a couple 10/11/2011
I met this couple on Swapfinder.com, they were sweet. All along I had
more interaction with the female, and I think she picked
up my hesitancy to meet them as a couple since I had never
done that before. So, we set up a date, of which I was of the
impression it was going to be only me and the lady. I got to
their place, met the woman and was told the husband is not
around and wont be coming till later maybe ...
4 Comments, 758 Views,
21 Votes
,3.99 Score
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Shortest amount of time. 10/8/2011
What is the shortest amount of time it has taken you to have
sex with someone upon first meeting them in person?
12 Comments, 264 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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Hi one of my first dates 9/29/2011
Hi anyone want to share their first date story on here. I
have one I had never met her before she found my profile where
I had put I was single and looking we chatted for a few weeks
then I asked her if she had a cam so I could see her she did and
she was very pretty I asked her on a date not thinking it would
lead to much we went to watch a movie that wasn't very
good nither of us liked it so we ...
1 Comments, 194 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score
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do you jump right in? 9/12/2011
How many people meet people on here and just jump right in.
you know horizontal mambo. or do you take your time. dinner
or lunch mayb e coffee?
2 Comments, 65 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Old school dating 8/31/2011
Does anyone have luck with 'old school' dating
these days or is it all internet based - most of my friends
who date folk over last few years seem to rely on internet.
0 Comments, 30 Views,
0 Votes
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My first day 8/31/2011
I am talking about my first day of love. it is so romantic
at that time (8 years ago). In contrary, it is so bad right
now because the first love gone and leave the mess around
me....
0 Comments, 64 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Favorites 8/30/2011
My favorite places to take a first date are interesting,
exciting places. Such as amusement parks and carnivals
and fairs. Please tell me your favorite places.
2 Comments, 20 Views,
1 Votes
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sluts 8/30/2011
humans are on this earth to reproduce. why
are girls/guys considered sluts if they have sex with more
than one person...we're just "practicing reproducing"
lol. its sooo frustrating! ...
12 Comments, 322 Views,
36 Votes
,4.96 Score
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Take her snow skiing 8/28/2011
This is not mine, I read it on another site somewhere.
Their first date was a snow skiing trip up in the mountains.
They had a wonderful time and was on the way back home.
She had to pee, and ask to stop at the first service station.
She held it and held it until it she had gone as long as she
could.
Very sheepishly told her new boy friend her problem, he
said he ...
0 Comments, 229 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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what is the best... 8/25/2011
what is the best thing to do on a first date that might win
you over?
1 Comments, 40 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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whats in a date 8/23/2011
a date for the first time should be spontaineous i think
what about u
0 Comments, 29 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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who will have sex on first date - younger women or older ones 8/21/2011
From my experience younger women are more open to sex on
first date. One would think that older women (55-60+) will be open just
as well, but they are not. any of you women out there have a thought about this? I am at a stage that I prefer the older ones, but they are harder
to get...
6 Comments, 145 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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I lost my virginity on a first date. 8/19/2011
I made it through high school with my virginity intact.
It was partly being afraid of getting a girl pregnant and
'having to get married' which was how things were
in those days; all fathers in rural Alabama, white and black,
had guns in their home and I didn't want my chance at
a good future to end there. And to be honest it was partly
being overweight, a nerd, wearing thick glasses, and ...
2 Comments, 732 Views,
22 Votes
,5.17 Score
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It's Better to Chat Often Before the First Date 8/19/2011
So many people are anxious to "meet" that they
often go head first into the first date without really getting
to know one another. Frequently, the end result is awkward
conversation and startling revelations. The fact is,
there are two total strangers involved in most first date.
Yet, if the same two people immerse themselves in IM chats,
and get to know each other a little better, that ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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first date tips for men 8/19/2011
Plan. Women are suckers for a man with a plan because it shows
you have initiative, can think ahead, and aren’t shy
about taking the lead. Don’t punt and ask her what she
wants to do. Be a man! You’re the one doing the asking,
so it’s your duty to come up with something that she’ll
enjoy. When a woman is with a man that has a plan, they feel
they can relax and really enjoy themselves. ...
2 Comments, 135 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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lake 8/17/2011
a nice first date walking around the lake skipping rocks
and chilln at watching the stars
0 Comments, 19 Views,
0 Votes
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Going Sideways 8/12/2011
I've found that women like when you penetrate at an
angle. What do you think?
2 Comments, 59 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Best Place 7/30/2011
Where is the best place to take a girl out to?
0 Comments, 28 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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3rd Base 7/30/2011
How can you get a girl in the bed on the first date
5 Comments, 52 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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How to know if she's interested? Do NOT Touch Her! 7/27/2011
The best way to know if a woman is interested on the first
date....is: FIRST...do not touch her. be friendly, engaging etc but
do not touch her physically.
Second...IF she is interested in YOU, she will find a way
to touch you. It may even appear to be accidental, but if
a woman is truly interested in you, SHE WILL FIND A WAY TO
TOUCH YOU!!!! Maybe just a touch to your arm, taking ...
7 Comments, 383 Views,
24 Votes
,5.74 Score
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First as Mindy 7/24/2011
I would not classify this as a first "date",
but it was my first as Mindy. A couple of days ago I had the
day off work and the house to myself all day. As soon as I was
alone I rushed to the shower and bathed, shaved and slipped
into Mindy. I put on red silky panties and a red silky baby
doll nighty, full make up with bright red lipstick and a
black short cropped wig. I modeled for myself in ...
4 Comments, 635 Views,
17 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Swapfinder.com first dates 7/17/2011
Do people on this site treat first dates arranged here like
a first date arranged in 'real life' or prefer
the thrill of going somewhere knowing it's for lustfult
reasons....?
7 Comments, 172 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Present on 1st date 7/12/2011
Hi All, just wanna to share my recent case. I have a reply
from a target lady for 1st date, since she said she was unhappy
and wanna to have someone to share, then I suggest to have
dinner with drinks, after several chat on texting and phone.
then before the dinner, she asked me to buy her a little present
(a small purse, for carrying credit card plus coins), so
as to make her happy. I ...
2 Comments, 302 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Casual (no investment) or Bedazzle (new outfit, hair cut) 7/10/2011
I wonder what most people think about meeting someone new
for the first time? I have lately been showing up just as
I am. I figure if they like me for how am I on a day to day basis
then they probably really like me .. What do you think ?
7 Comments, 226 Views,
17 Votes
,4.26 Score
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did you wait 6/29/2011
Whats the shortest time you have spent getting to know someone
before you met them ?
6 Comments, 136 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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how long 6/29/2011
How long on average do you wait before you meet up with someone
in person ?
1 Comments, 40 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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We started in the shower 6/28/2011
Mike left the front door open..told me to walk in and get
undressed when I arrived and join him in the shower. I entered
and heard water running, ,walked into the bedroom and
noticed the bathroom door open ..one light was on..a candle..music
in the bedroom..I took off my clothes and walked in the bathroom..the
shower was large ..made of large glass bricks and stone..no
door..six jets..I entered ...
4 Comments, 695 Views,
22 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Erotic first dates 6/24/2011
What are the hottest, most erotic first dates that people
have had?
7 Comments, 275 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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First virgin encounter 6/20/2011
I would like to introduce to the viewers about myself. I
am a Male, 24 years of age & a Civil engineering from
........ I am 5’11”, Slim, and Fair guy from Bangalore,
with a Penis measuring 5”. I was a easy going guy with many
friends of both sex, but after completion of engineering
I am not able to meet them and have fun. Today I want to make
the world know about the incident, which made ...
3 Comments, 365 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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Naughty Girl: A Fantasy About First Erotic Encounter 6/15/2011
I meet you for our first lunch at a pub, and am immediately
attracted to you. Your self description ("real cute,
petite, brown hair, hazel eyes, 105#, 34-26-36) didn't
even come close to preparing me for how hot you are. And that
fire in your eyes, oh my...I want to drag you out of there
and devour you for lunch immediately!
But I decided I better play it cool. I start to shake your ...
0 Comments, 263 Views,
10 Votes
,6.37 Score
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Tips for first dates 6/11/2011
What would you recommend doing on a first date and what time
of the day would you do it?
0 Comments, 102 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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What should a fist date be? 6/10/2011
First dates usually are go to the movies or dinner. Some
people I know think fist dates are a good reason to go to the
bar and have a drink where it can make people relax more but
there is also the easy mistake of drinking to much and making
a fool of ones self. I generally think a first date is usually
done in a relaxing setting such as getting a coffee or somewhere
open outside.
0 Comments, 67 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Do You "F" on First Dates 5/31/2011
Now I know there are differences between hookups nad FWB
but say you meet someone out of the blue brand new, you hit
it off and deciede to go on a date, do you know prior to the
date if you are or arent going ot sleep with them or does it
depend on how the dates goes, or is there no way on the first
date
6 Comments, 190 Views,
14 Votes
,2.34 Score
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A First Meeting 5/30/2011
My 1st and only time playing this role was after my previous
long-distance relationship of 3 years had ended, and I
was doing some exploring and searching. It was only about
my 3rd or 4th time experimenting in B&D play. I had experimented
a bit with a ex, but we were both amateurs trying to figure
out what we liked and didn't. I had done a lot of reading
and research, and he had 1 experience with ...
6 Comments, 954 Views,
38 Votes
,6.97 Score
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Beyond pleasures 5/14/2011
We have both had so many experiences with others. Both of
us have our own experiences to bring to the table. That is
an attractant and reassurance, rather than a detriment.
I would so rather have a lover and husband with experience.
Someone that can play my body like a violin.
I have always been honest in all my past relationships.
I have told others exactly who I am, what I want, ...
0 Comments, 150 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Pictures From 1989 Are Not Still Okay 5/9/2011
The last time I actively tried to meet somebody online nearly
scared me off. The fact the photo seemed faded should've
been a clue but I now I swear the photo had to be from the early
90s because it was like the Swapfinder.com profile's grandmother
showed up to meet.
Up to date photos, people.
4 Comments, 136 Views,
15 Votes
,4.05 Score
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Dont ever ask or expect sex on the first date 5/8/2011
Rule of thumb, sex is great but get to know the guy/girl before
you slip it in. Break that tension and enjoy eachother.
who knows, you may meet the one.
2 Comments, 97 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score
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Karen Meets Jack 5/7/2011
Karen Meets Jack
By Jack Hoff
It was a very hot day when Karen and Jack finally met. They
didn’t have any real plans, they just were going to talk
for a while and get to know each other better.
The meeting was planned for a park near where Karen lived.
That way, out in the open, if this didn’t turn out to be
right, it was safe – for both. ...
0 Comments, 173 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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How many? 5/6/2011
How many people have sex on the first date? When it most acceptable
to bone??
1 Comments, 97 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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sex or no? 5/4/2011
how many ppl have sex on a first date, and how many are against
sex on a first date?
3 Comments, 77 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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is it ok? 4/14/2011
every girl that ive been on a 1st date with even the good goody
girls ive always had sex on the first date..does that make
me a bad person cause man im very sexually active and i dont
see a problem with it.
5 Comments, 135 Views,
14 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Unexpected hotel fun m4m 2 4/10/2011
The night was here and it was finally time for me to lose my
anal virginity. I would be lying if I said I wasn't nervous
but completely excited too. Paul had met me at my hotel room
and we spent the afternoon getting me ready with a warm shower
cleaning me in all the right areas. I was once again in another
town so the fear of being outed was gone or as Paul put it I
could just let go and release ...
9 Comments, 908 Views,
16 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Unexpected hotel fun m4m 4/4/2011
I was visiting another state on business, while staying
at the hotel I decided to get out and walk around. As I left
my room, I saw another guy going into his room as he opened
the door he made eye contact and smiled, thinking nothing
of it I nodded and walked by. I went to the lobby and boaught
a coke and sat at the little cafe. After a few minutes I was
approached by the guy from the hall. He ...
5 Comments, 1303 Views,
24 Votes
,7.45 Score
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Is It Harder now? 4/3/2011
Yeah, I'm ten years older than my first Swapfinder.com date, but
I can still get it hard. Has dating changed so much in ten
years?? When I first met someone on Swapfinder.com it was easy. I humbly
and honestly don't believe that I'm uglier so
why is it more difficult to get responses? Are women more
cautious than ten years ago? Have they abandoned Swapfinder.com for
the safer, more mainstream sites? Please let me know, I've
been ...
2 Comments, 156 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Have faith in who you want and what it takes 3/26/2011
When a man and a woman find each other attractive and further
that possible desire for each other they make a date. Now
taking into consideration the fact that they really have
no understanding of who they really are, what their personalities
possess. What deep seated desires, traits, attributes,
idiosyncrasies, habits, true intentions, etc...are.
So when you do go out on that first date and it ...
0 Comments, 49 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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this wasn't a date 3/17/2011
i was in the city on business.i stopped at this small bar
for lunch and had a few beers.as i sat there reading over
some forms this guy walks up to my table.he say i noticed
your alone and wondered if you mind me joining you for lunch.
he said i hate to eat alone when i'm away from home.i
look around and didn't see any open tables and said
sure sit down.he sat and ordered lunch.he said ...
1 Comments, 413 Views,
19 Votes
,4.44 Score
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If it's all about the sex! 3/14/2011
When meeting someone from here for the first time, should
sex be expected? After all, this is a sex site, or should
it be put out there thats what i'm here for?
1 Comments, 72 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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first time meets 2/28/2011
So I am going to meet a girl sometime this week for the first
time. I am kind of excited and a bit nervous but I know she
will be more nervous than me. I am a fairly confident guy
so I know I can set her at ease with the situation and then
we can get down to some dirty fun
1 Comments, 89 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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fresno Ca. 2001 2/25/2011
2001 while living in Fresno, ca while working out i met this
girl named Monique. As i was getting done with my cardio
workout very sweaty and tired she smiled at me. I then went
and started doing my arm curls she went and started doing
the same next to me. I then said" do you come here often
i haven't seen you here before" she responded
saying that she had recently moved from the San jose area ...
0 Comments, 205 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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first date 2/24/2011
I would sure like to go out on a first date lillys lounge but
I can't even see her profile but maybe if I keep getting
points some day I'll be able to talk to her and ask her
out
0 Comments, 22 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Reasons for being on Swapfinder.com 2/17/2011
I have come across several people here on Swapfinder.com that state
in their profiles that they are here for NSA sex and hot great
fucks, but then when you contact them it's a different
story, I could understand more if the person would just
be an adult and come out and say "hey I'm not interested"
instead of the games they try to play, if you are into games
then you should close out your account and go ...
2 Comments, 267 Views,
21 Votes
,6.84 Score
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is it .... 2/11/2011
is the first date always the best one??
0 Comments, 9 Views,
0 Votes
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How do you like them to go? 2/11/2011
If im i a date with someone i wish to take them out on the town.
A night filled with a dinner, movie, and a long chatty walk
with ice cream/and or frozen yogurt. Call me a but i've
never gone wrong taking a girl out on a simple evening. What
do you like to do for a first date?
0 Comments, 34 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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whats up 2/1/2011
does any one off here ver met for some fun lets chat and meet
1 Comments, 57 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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my last first date 1/20/2011
i had a date tuesday night and i went terrible turned out
it wasnt blind cause i knew her how akward was it, very i seen
her today and we just acted like we didnt know each other
2 Comments, 151 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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superhero ever 1/19/2011
I was thinking this morning about my childhood and the things
I liked as a . I always loved the Saturday morning cartoons
and really dug one in particular. My absolutely most favorite
superhero ever!!!
0 Comments, 128 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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what annoys girls 1/19/2011
gng on first date.. what annoys girls during date? what should i do to make my chances for bed
0 Comments, 71 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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i always love 1/8/2011
head on first dates. very fun. its getting to the point where
if that doesnt happen on a first date, i really start to ponder
if the girl likes me or hates me. ive always been a poor judge
on that however.
4 Comments, 98 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Guess what? 1/7/2011
what do you call a girl who puts out on a first date? its a girl
im gonna all for a second date 
3 Comments, 129 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score
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Whats your worst? 12/31/2010
Just kind of curious what everybody's worst first
date was?
Mine was when I had this whole big night planned, dinner
reservations, gonna go roller skating. This whole cute
little first date bit. Got into a car accident, then other
guy flips out over a small dent in his rear fender. Made a
whole awwwwwwwkward situation, ruined the whole night.
4 Comments, 161 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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6 misunderstood first-date signs 12/24/2010
6 misunderstood first-date signs
By Julie Taylor
You’re on a first date, and it’s going
horribly. Or is it? It turns out that it’s all a matter
of perspective. The elements that are making your date
a disaster could actually signal something much sweeter.
Read on for the six signs that your doomed date is anything ...
3 Comments, 530 Views,
29 Votes
,4.54 Score
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What is the best way to start 12/18/2010
how do u make someone feel comfortable around you when you
first meet them...is it something to say that can break
the ice between you and them...what can you say to keep the
conversation interesting to them?
1 Comments, 85 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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why is it so hard to get a first date. 12/18/2010
dateing i give up trying to find someone.
4 Comments, 60 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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If you hook up here the girl should know what you want right 12/18/2010
some girls play dum.
2 Comments, 43 Views,
2 Votes
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pushing your wife to date a bull 12/14/2010
I have ben trying now for 8 months to push my wife to go out
on a date and hopefully fuck him then come and tell me all
about it I think I'm getting close
10 Comments, 807 Views,
17 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Looking for love 12/9/2010
WHat is people exactly looking for. I hope that in a first
date you can see chemistry. IF there is no chemistry then
what are you sppose to do. I love bbw and hope to find one soon
1 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Creatvity vs. reality 12/9/2010
I enjoy a nice walk in the park, maybe sitting by the waterside,
or near a 's playground, a hike and grilling
on the hibachi or eating sack lunches. That would be a nice
first date to me. But reality says that for safety's
sake it's got to be somewhere more public. Meeting
at some shopping type of place might be alright if some common
interests have been established. Clubs may provide the ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Prove it with a BJ (m4m) 12/8/2010
Years ago I found myself in love with this hot chick named
Sara who worked at a small office near where I worked, The
only problem was she had a boyfriend named Kenny that was
twice my size and rumored to have friends in high places
namely the mafia. I knew it was a bad idea letting the little
head do my thinking. I managed to get closer and closer with
her as the weeks progressed but she ...
4 Comments, 1089 Views,
29 Votes
,7.35 Score
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this one is funny 12/5/2010
well i had been talking to his guy for some time and well we
finly made a date to go to the movies well the day came and
we went it waz packed ad i know he waz funny and liked to play
games well i had to to the bathroom half throu the movie he
had his feet up on the seat infrount of him well i asked to
pleas move them so i can pass well he didnt move them so to
not disturbe the movie i went to ...
1 Comments, 310 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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wal mart first date 11/28/2010
I had been emailing several girls on Swapfinder.com and was interested
in a few. I had been chatting with this girl that worked at
wal mart and she wanted to meet. I asked her to tell me how
i could meet her and tell it was her. She said where she would
be and that her bra size was a 38. Well i went to wal mart and
walked up to the one i thought was her and asked if those were
38 DD's. She said yes and ...
10 Comments, 879 Views,
24 Votes
,1.99 Score
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hi friends 11/28/2010
hi i want a date to see ho a first date look like
1 Comments, 31 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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What to do when your date is shorter than expected 11/28/2010
People might seem taller in pictures than in real life.
What does someone do when their date turns out to be shorter
than they expected? Is it fair to deny them a second date
based on that?
4 Comments, 86 Views,
2 Votes
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Butterflies and the like.... 11/15/2010
Aren't most meetings full of stomach butterflies
on both sides?
I think once we realize that's the case, then we can
relax. Certainly the person you're meeting is feeling
the same stress you are. Understand that and you can relax.
Whatever happens....well....happens!
1 Comments, 68 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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For those of you that have met people here 11/1/2010
Did you actually go out somewhere and meet up like a date,
or did you just hook up? Just curious as to what people prefer!
2 Comments, 73 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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I NEED TO GO GOLD 10/23/2010
hey guys im bored all alone at home... i ready to hook up but
i need to go gold... ne advise to do it the cheap way
1 Comments, 19 Views,
0 Votes
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most common 10/12/2010
whats the most common place for a first meeting?
1 Comments, 53 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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hooking up 10/12/2010
is it aquward meeting someone on Swapfinder.com for the first time?
4 Comments, 88 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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So how do you edge into this life safely? 10/10/2010
This is so different from when I was young , I have a hard time
deciding where jump in. I am unsure of meet and greets. Not
everybody can wind up desires at the flip of light switch.
Also how can you know if its safe? I guess instinct should
tell a person but people can have herpes and warts type things
that they don't even know ? How have you battled throught
this and found the pleasure we all ...
1 Comments, 108 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Learning new things 9/26/2010
[image] I would say I am quite open to try new things,
to test other ideas, to learn about everything. I guess
I am a curious person. Yeah, I could say that.
I have started my sexual life at the age of 18, and was born
in a generation that was bombed with information about
safe sex. I'm from 1978 so all the HIV protection talk
had reached it highest when ...
3 Comments, 345 Views,
15 Votes
,3.59 Score
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I dont know 9/21/2010
To be honest. Ive had sex with one girl. And it was 2 years
ago....Everytime im about to have sex with a girl, i cant
even get hard, i always feel like im going to have a bad preformance,
or i simply just wont get hard. I mean I know I can get hard,
its just that ussually when Im about to have sex, I wont.
I have no clue.
Any tips?
5 Comments, 168 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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girls for first date... 9/21/2010
is there any girl here who wnna come date with me....
0 Comments, 94 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Japanese beauty 9/13/2010
I was finished work and went to a local club for a few beers
and started chatting with a few Japanese girls. They were
there after work also and as we chatted one girl in particular
showed some interest in me. She was dressed in a white silk
top and a tight mid thigh length black skirt. Her eyes were
so friendly and her face was a very happy face, I felt so comfortable
with her. I asked if she ...
3 Comments, 975 Views,
30 Votes
,7.85 Score
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play it safe or make a move 9/12/2010
lets say its not a date your actually just hanging out as
friends..... do single girls always want more or are some
people just friend ?
0 Comments, 49 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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sex on the first date 9/8/2010
how do you feel about sex on the first date
11 Comments, 249 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Where to meet 9/6/2010
It seems that most of us dont trust anyone so the first date
is usually a meeting in a public place. The only problem
is that a lot of the people on here want to be dicrete. Hmmm
sounds almost like a problem. What do you think.
4 Comments, 141 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Sex on the first date ! 8/30/2010
I believe in having sex on the first date. At my age there
may not be a second date. ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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What did u gift your online friend on ur first sex date? 8/28/2010
When you met your online friend for first sex date, what
did you gift him/her? I usually carry chocolates n flowers
for the girl.. or any other things which she would like...
what about you all? I hope its not 'condoms'..
0 Comments, 61 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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taking a few liberties 8/27/2010
"Taking a few liberties, aren't you?",
she asked, as I caressed her bare thigh with my hand. We were on our first date, an afternoon
drive in the country.
"Yes, you could put it that way, " I replied,
enjoying the drive. I always enjoy it when I can drive with one hand and touch pretty
legs with the other. Her legs were beyond pretty, they were incredible.
"Well, I don't ...
2 Comments, 321 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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first dates 8/26/2010
I think physical activities are beneficial on a first date.
it takes you out of the norm from going to a dinner and a movie
typical date. plus, the girl or guy will get to know you more
and have more things to say when there is something physical
involved and the guarantee that there wont be that awkward
silence moment.
0 Comments, 22 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Using a heavy bag for cario training. 8/22/2010
Not only is a heavy bag fun for training, it can also provide
an awesome cardio workout. Make sure to anchor it well, especially if you can hit or
kick hard. Use bag gloves to avoid injuring the hands.
Move around the bag as if it were an actual opponent and punch
continually. Keep the hands up, just under the chin when
not punching. Start with a 1 minute round. If you punch ...
2 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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What to do on a first date? 8/16/2010
Most people I know consider the standard dinner and a movie
the perfect first date. But, for me this just does not seem
to be a good way to get to know the person. I would rather do
something interactive like play putt putt golf, go to a
theme park, a baseball game or something different. Even
the park would be a good place to go. Does anyone agree with
me on this?
2 Comments, 94 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Easy First Date 8/11/2010
Found out it is much easier to have a first date without any
sexual expectations.You are both relaxed and are in a restaurant
or coffee house and you will be surprised that a good number
will not mind having sex with you that day later.
0 Comments, 140 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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My First Date "No Expectations" Policy 8/7/2010
Meeting here is fraught with sexual stimulation. I am sure
there are some guys who assume every women here is a slut
in heat ready to mount the biggest dick she can find.
Then there's all the arousal of the emails and chats
often accompanied by salacious photos. Virtually every
exchange is sexually charged. Which often leads to unrealistic
expectations created by hopeful perceptions ...
1 Comments, 117 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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KY moonshine 8/4/2010
I had been sent to Kentucky to teach a new method to University
faculty and all my expenses were paid. After I checked in
the Crowne I received a call from the University that transportation
would pick me up at 8a.m. At 8 the next morning I got a call
and was informed that my ride was there. I went to the lobby
and a lady was there to drive me. As we got in her SUV I noticed
her skirt ride up her ...
1 Comments, 616 Views,
16 Votes
,4.60 Score
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meeting 8/4/2010
A first date is any type of initial or previously acquainted
meeting between two individuals where an effort is made
to ask, plan and organize some sort of social activity.
Dating can vary between cultures, lifestyles, religion,
gender, etc. In many countries and cultures it is the process
that romantic relationships are developed and future
spouses are found. Often, people are set up on dates by ...
1 Comments, 67 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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what is a good one. 7/28/2010
what is the best place to go on a first date?
0 Comments, 22 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Why 7/22/2010
Why are first dates so difficult?
11 Comments, 349 Views,
27 Votes
,3.56 Score
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Do you have sex? 7/19/2010
Do you have sex on the first date? I don't speak english
very well. Sry for the small article
5 Comments, 88 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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WORK AS USUAL 7/1/2010
I landed myself a woman that most regular guys would run
screaming from. Her name is Clarissa and she is one whopper of a big woman,
just the way I like them! Fat and all that! Mmmm dayum! Yeah, most guys would call me a freak because I dig picking
up chicks at the local bingo hall. But for a guy that's looking for a huge hunk of lovin',
it's just the place to find them! I run around the bingo ...
2 Comments, 344 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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who makes the 1st move? 6/30/2010
i have always made the 1st move on a date when we seem to click.
Should i feel weird when i get moved on?
4 Comments, 140 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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sex 6/15/2010
my first date was super.the sex was damn good. just a nice
smiling babygurl with a so much hairy on her pussy. i was
amazed when i saw that she never shaved her pussy ever. but
2 me, i so much luv it. cause i deal with matured women not
a baby. when she saw my cock, she was like..damnnnnnn too
big for me. but when i pushed it little by little inside her
pussy..she got used to it, and kept asking ...
1 Comments, 217 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Opposites Attract? 6/9/2010
At what point do you end a date due to lack of compatibility.
i've found my self in alot of 1st/last date situations
where I consider some one too different and cut my loses.
Now as I'm older I see alot of people who shouldn't
be together, yet they all appear happy. are they just crazy?
or do I judge to quickly?
1 Comments, 57 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Take me in to the ballgame. 6/8/2010
I and two fellow members of the staff at work were attending
a conference in Baltimore and were staying at the Omni.
The other two were not fellows but were married women. I
was single. The first night there I went to the hotel bar and was checking
out the action when I noticed one of the women come in and
order a drink. She was several tables away and I was doing
fine with a cute redhead who had ...
3 Comments, 1035 Views,
27 Votes
,6.19 Score
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Scared Sh**less? 6/6/2010
So it's your first date and your kinda nervous. You
wanna make sure everything you say is the right thing to
say to get her in the bed. Well bad news....just kidding
haha it's not that hard. What i do is i just be the way
i am all the time. Make sure your a gentle man but not trying
to do to much to make her think your, ...well a bitch i mean
really most girls now days like the bad boys but still ...
0 Comments, 81 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Always Tough 6/2/2010
Always remember that is is a little stressfukll, but don't
make it hard on yourself. You are growing up and it is an exciting
part of being an adult. Keep up the good work.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
0 Votes
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Live & Learn ! 5/25/2010
Some people live and learn. Some just live. ...
2 Comments, 58 Views,
16 Votes
,1.22 Score
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that first time meeting 5/17/2010
so who all feels like they worried bout meeting that person
for the first time? walkin in to where ever you meeting him
or her or them and realizing that this not what you had in
mind?
0 Comments, 83 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Does he love me?-Sings that he loves you 4/29/2010
, ,Love is a many splendored thing"is a wanderful
o;d song.We all have a basic need to be loved.When we are
we are content whit maternal love and familial
bands.As we mature and we form romantic relationships, initially
we may want to keep things light and un complicated.But
as relationship deepen most individuals feel innate need
to love and be loved in return.
1 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The older we get ! 4/28/2010
The older we get, the fewer things seem worth waiting
in line for, especially a first date. ...
1 Comments, 113 Views,
27 Votes
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What would you do differently? 4/24/2010
A friend posted a question to generate some discussion
on her blog. She asked what would you do differently in your
life if you had the chance to go back. I replied to her blog
glibly, "I'd do Katie differently."
Coincidentally, that happened to be the truth. It was just
before my high school graduation. I was green as grass.
Very little experience with girls. A few little kisses
that ...
4 Comments, 142 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes 4/24/2010
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A Nice Guy Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women
never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female
friends that always seemed to date "jerks"…
but for some reason they were never romantically interested
in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually ...
2 Comments, 194 Views,
23 Votes
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expectations 4/20/2010
I just recently took a girl out on a date and one of the first
things she tells me is if I am looking at getting into her
pants then Im with the wrong girl. She goes on to tell me she
is a player. I have no clue what to think.
2 Comments, 248 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Sex on the first date 4/20/2010
How about just having a woman come over that you met on Swapfinder.com
and just getting down to business. I think thats ok as long
as both parties agree upon it which is exactly what happened
to me last night. Enough of the chit chat, next girl that
contacts me on here I am just going to ask her what is she looking
for if you know what I mean, quit beating around the bush.
2 Comments, 285 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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On one condition ! 4/17/2010
A woman was sitting at a bar enjoying an after work cocktail
with her girlfriends when Steven, a tall, exceptionally
handsome, extremely sexy, middle-aged man entered. He
was so striking that the woman could not take her eyes off
him.
This seasoned yet playful heartthrob noticed her overly
attentive stare and walked directly toward her (as any
man would.) Before she could offer her ...
2 Comments, 213 Views,
19 Votes
,0.22 Score
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should i try 4/16/2010
should a guy trey for it on the first date?
2 Comments, 62 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Kiss and tell? 4/9/2010
To the ladies... any of you go back and tell your gf's
all about your first date with a guy and whether or not you
kissed?
2 Comments, 131 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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hey 4/7/2010
does anyone fuck on the first date
1 Comments, 34 Views,
4 Votes
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nerves 4/5/2010
So who here gets a little nervous on the 1st meet and what
do you do to overcome that?
2 Comments, 164 Views,
12 Votes
,4.21 Score
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sex on first dates 3/31/2010
do you make sex on the first date ?
in my opinion is a bad thing but i like to view awnsers
5 Comments, 144 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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had a good first date 3/29/2010
met a wonderful woman on here the other night for dinner
anyone else had a good experience
2 Comments, 61 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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How do you "date" someone on Swapfinder.com? 3/24/2010
I haven't met a HUGE amount of women off of here, but
a first date? Every time I actually have met someone off
of Swapfinder.com, it has always been either they come to my house, I
go to theirs, or we meet at a hotel and just fuck.
A first date? Who has had one?
6 Comments, 366 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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who should make the 1st move? 3/23/2010
Is this something that should be discussed prior to meeting.
I have always felt confident in making the 1st move; but
i can usually read a woman pretty good when things start
to heat up. However, I have had many woman make the 1st move
on me and caught me totally by surprise.
3 Comments, 101 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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does anyone ever forget their first date? 3/5/2010
I remember mine and how bad it was
2 Comments, 38 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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dating 2/25/2010
What is it like for a guy to go on a first date with another
guy.
1 Comments, 304 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Is it important to make her cum more than once on the first date. 2/21/2010
Just what is it that makes her come back for more, is it really
good to really lay it on her or save some for the future???
11 Comments, 251 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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The River 2/18/2010
[font face=Perpetua]We finally decide that it’s
time for us to meet on our first date. I asked you to meet me
in a public place, but one were we could also find the perfect
private spot, just in case. I chose a park that is nestled
at the bottom of a hill along the banks of the River. The trail
goes to the left and to the right. Most folks go the left because
the trail is longer and it ...
5 Comments, 450 Views,
21 Votes
,6.22 Score
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hi any1 near delhi/ggn/ncr read on 2/7/2010
any ladies in delhi looking for males check this out....u
won't regret
buzz me
1 Comments, 30 Views,
0 Votes
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amaizing 2/6/2010
my first date was amizing enouigh i can, t forget it simply
1 Comments, 91 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What I worry about? uh... 1/31/2010
I suppose a lot are here because they haven't succeeded
very well in dating previously. Not saying that's
everyone, but some.
I suppose things would be much easier if we all knew what
to look for and so in a date. I personally do well until climax
and that's where I mes up... WITHOUT FAIL!
So here's a few things I worry about when I'm getting
ready for a date. Why don't you guys ...
1 Comments, 33 Views,
0 Votes
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What I expect to happen on a first date. 1/29/2010
We would take a walk or go somewhere where we could have a
long talk to find out about each other. A Hot Tub would be
nice, as would a quiet restaurant. Whereas a movie, concert,
amusement park, and similar places would take too much
of our attention away from each other. We would both be asking
questions, and listening attentively to the answers.
If the chemistry is ...
3 Comments, 64 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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amaizing 1/20/2010
my first date was amaizing.i can, t forget it in my life.
1 Comments, 54 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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opinion 1/16/2010
ok i belive that steps to building a relationship are to
only go as far asthe other person is willing to go. some people
feel that they want to go "all the way" on the
1st date. I have to admit i do as well bt i usually only go as
far as the other person wants to
1 Comments, 19 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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dinner and a movie 1/12/2010
mayb it is the changing of the times but i dont do the dinner
and movie route. for me it is either movie or dinner not both,
i just feel like spending 3plus hrs together on a first time
going out is a tad much.
1 Comments, 19 Views,
0 Votes
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My first...and sadly, my last! 1/10/2010
About 10 years ago, I was on another dating site and was contacted
by a local woman and after a few e-mails, she asked if I'd
be interested in meeting (and screwing) even if it was a
"one time, and only one time" rendezvous. Being a guy, I didn't poinder her rationale or even
think it odd. She came over in the middle of the day, smartly dressed and
she was very charming. I had to reaffirm my ...
3 Comments, 836 Views,
21 Votes
,2.26 Score
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LADIES THAT SOUNDS GOOD ON THE PHONE ARE UGLY??? 1/10/2010
They have a saying that ladies that sounds good over the
phone are ugly is this true or false i really would love to
know i have the experience so am on the believing side but
my mind can be changed......
2 Comments, 94 Views,
0 Votes
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Dating first time with your date - Some Dating tips about what you need to do 1/6/2010
Meeting your date first time gives a range of emotional
feeling in your mind which will be soo thrilling and also
terrifying. Dating with a singles for the first time will
make a lot of chemistry changes in our body. At Bepenfriends
we give a dating articles in how to tips what will help your
first meeting with your date go smoothly:
1) Be on time!
Timeliness is first tip in ...
8 Comments, 168 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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What should you expect on a first date 1/5/2010
As we all know this is a age old question however, it seems
more complicated for me now that I am trying to meet someone
on a web site to fulfill a fantasy. Do I hope everything is
fulfilled on the first date? yes, but whats the person I
am meeting hoping for? hopefully, the same after all, they
too are using the same site! So is it safe to move fast or move
slow?
3 Comments, 51 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Share your best first "meet and greet" with a couple 12/27/2009
I'm interested in hearing about other members first
"times" with meeting other couples. It can
be a first time meet and greet, first play date, or even first
time at a party/cub.
4 Comments, 324 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Knock Knock 3 12/22/2009
Well We rest a little I'll be running My finger gingerly
behind Your ear ( were in the missionary position ) I'll
be kissing Your lips then I'll stick the tip of My tongue
in Your parting lips. My other hand will be rubbing Your
lower lips, to get You nice and moist again! I'll move My mouth from Yours and move My hands to Your
excited nipples and I'll rub and give You some slight
pinches, ...
1 Comments, 89 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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SHOULD U? 12/18/2009
SHOULD U HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE? I SAY YES Y NOT?
3 Comments, 83 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Best? 12/10/2009
I think dinner and a movie as a first date is kind of lame...
Whats your favorite place to take the special someone for
the first time? (not straight to the bed) <-even though
that would be a great start...
Ideas?
8 Comments, 114 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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would you go out with me ? 12/9/2009
would you go out with me ?
3 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
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First Date role play scenario 12/7/2009
NOTE: This article is intended as first date icebreaker.
The guest should be male (or equipped with strapon). The
guest appears at the host's door and introduces self
as a state blowjob inspector. The inspector (guest) then
interviews subject (host) with questions and administers
a fild test. Questionaire is included below:
STATE ...
1 Comments, 152 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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is this an ideal first date? 12/7/2009
hi beautiful, after several chats i can see us deciding
to meet. in a quiet little bar anywhere. i had been attracted
to you since first reading your profile. after a drink & a few laughs, we look into each others
eyes & know why we are there. when i suggest we go, you
just put your hand on my thigh & smile. i lead you by the
hand outside to a near-by hotel. once behind locked doors i pick you up ...
1 Comments, 80 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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How can some men be so stupid.... 12/6/2009
I am just wondering how come some men (especially with no
picture) will accept meeting someone, especially someone
that is out of their league, without any contact via phone
to know that the person is real. Do they actually seriously
think that an absolutely beautiful woman is going to contact
them when they have no picture and want to meet them with
out any contact? And, when the beautiful ...
19 Comments, 653 Views,
29 Votes
,4.54 Score
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my first love 12/4/2009
it was a very snowy night, i was home alone , waiting getting
bored, my male friend called me to see if he could come over,
i said yes.we went up to the bedroom, and laid on my bed watching
t .v.
i felt his hands carressing my back, and he whispered in
my ear how much he loved me, and wanted me. i started to get chills, he reached around and kissed me
passionatley, we ...
2 Comments, 243 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Meeting people 12/1/2009
If you're going to post a pic and meet the person, might
be a good idea to make sure it's actually YOU!
3 Comments, 32 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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look like you are going out 11/16/2009
Please dress like someone is going to take you out on the
town.Slob you are not the type of women that i date, your
hair is a mess, bad etiquette, all you can do is type nice
and confuse me.maybe i need to be less horny , and quit saying
fuck it .
1 Comments, 64 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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cherry 11/14/2009
Interestingly enough, I first met Cherry after chatting
with her husband online with chat. He told me they
were looking for a man she could be with and have some fun,
outside of his presence.
We arranged for me to pick her up one late Saturday night
when the snow was falling at a rate of about 4 to 5 inches an
hour. The good thing was there was no wind.
After I ...
1 Comments, 1250 Views,
35 Votes
,7.29 Score
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Knock knock 2 11/8/2009
I'll slide my tongue from your mouth to your neck, then
I'll slide my my tongue to your breast tantalizing
your nipples till their hard, then I'll nibble the
tips with My teeth as gently as I can, I'll stop their
and blow as soft as I can with warm air so you could feel the
pleasure of where my tongue had just been! I'll be saving
the best for last so I'll begin to use my hands next,
using my ...
1 Comments, 129 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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First date relativism 11/6/2009
I will say that when it has comes to first dates, it really
all depends on what you consider a date.
If your looking for a realationship...its a whole different
approach than a first date with a potential hookup or a first
date with a swinger, or a first date which a blind date.
For people really interested in long term....I recomend
some coyness. Its not a neccesity, I have a ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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???????????????? 11/3/2009
SEX ON THE FIRST DATE..........
4 Comments, 90 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Knock knock! 10/31/2009
This story is for a lady who I'll call Mass(O.S.Y.N.G)
Knock knock, you'll open the door dressed in your see
through nightie, you'll have a big grin from ear to
ear as an a approval of what you see. You'll invite me
in, I'll hand you one white rose, to symbolize the pureness
of our first meeting. Next a yellow rose to symbolize our
new found friendship. Last, a ...
1 Comments, 99 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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practise safe sex 10/19/2009
Would you always use a condom if you dont know the person
and having casual sex.Is this something to keep in mind
or is it more enjoyable to go with the flow.
3 Comments, 90 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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1st date,..... 10/17/2009
1st date.. i think its something most of them will cherush
for life long if it s a pure relationship... right..
2 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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The first date kiss ! 10/5/2009
If you kiss on the first date and it's not right,
then there will usually be no second date.
So ya better make it a good un ! ...
6 Comments, 126 Views,
41 Votes
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1st 10/3/2009
wat is there to do on the firts date
2 Comments, 53 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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What not to Do ( Opinionated ) 9/24/2009
This is a small article based on my own screw ups with a first
date. Most of it is a no brainer but Im sure someone will find
it useful.
1) As much as you want the date to go flawlessly don't
become a control freak over small issues like time and when
you are meeting.
2) Don't call/text the person you are going on a date
with to much before the date with inane things like "
When ...
1 Comments, 182 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Great First Date !!! 9/24/2009
On a first date that I had once my date and myself went out
to dinner. After a some what late dinner being in downtown.
We decided to go for a walk on our walk we discussed my things
one of which was our love of art work. So in passing by a certain
building with a huge lobby with art work displayed. We go
inside admired the display when I noticed a door that seemed
to lead nowhere. I take my date ...
1 Comments, 481 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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how many girls have had sex on the first date 9/22/2009
and regreted it
3 Comments, 153 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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my first date 9/13/2009
ended up in a group sex party lol
11 Comments, 1241 Views,
27 Votes
,5.13 Score
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4 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
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A possible line for you to use ! 8/25/2009
Wouldn't you just love to say this to someone on a first
date?
Wipe your mouth, there's a tiny bit of bullshit
around your lips. ...
2 Comments, 85 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Language barrier... 8/17/2009
I met a girl after two months exchange of messages... Even
though the messages were in English (which isn't the
mother language - neither for me or her) and there wasn't
any problem to be noticed.
On the first date we had a walk, talk and some hot wine while
walking around the Christmas market - I guess that I was
as nervous as she was, but after a while I notice that I was
mainly the ...
3 Comments, 200 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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What would you do? 8/12/2009
What would you do on a first date to make it more likely that
you will get laid?
9 Comments, 205 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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The Itch (continues) 8/5/2009
I told you about how I got my itch scratched, with a perfect
stranger. We had decided to name each other Dick and Jane.
We had shared a few drinks and dances at a joint, left there
and went to his hotel room and my itch was, oh so very well,
scratched.
Our clothes were off within ten minutes of reaching his
room and we headed for the shower, where we washed and played
and climaxed ...
2 Comments, 408 Views,
19 Votes
,6.55 Score
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ideas? 7/17/2009
what do you like to do on your first date?
we can see how many people have common first date ideas!
me personnally for a first date, i like to go eat out somewhere,
then watch a movie, then if lucky go back to someone's
house for sexual or non-sexual activity.
6 Comments, 55 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Woman to Woman 6/23/2009
As I look through all these first dates articles, none talk
about women dating women. I find that a little odd, don't
you? I think since we are on an adult site, it might be a topic
of interest for someone other than myself. I have a friend, we have been friends for over a year now.
We share everything, fantasies (including what we would
do with each other) fears, joy, frustration with and
men ...
3 Comments, 315 Views,
16 Votes
,4.30 Score
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What is a no no? 6/22/2009
What is it that guys and gurls should never do on their first
date?
5 Comments, 185 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Best food 6/12/2009
What is the best type of food to take your date to on your first
date if you want her to come back from a second date? Or does
it really matter at all?
1 Comments, 63 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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What to do 6/9/2009
fuck! just fuck!
16 Comments, 854 Views,
42 Votes
,5.78 Score
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Public Place or My Place? 5/3/2009
Would it be better to meet in a public place like a resturant
or bar or something or meet up at my place?
63 Comments, 1250 Views,
109 Votes
,5.09 Score
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The Meet-----Chapter One 4/22/2009
The suspense is killing you, the anticipation of what may
be allows your sweet juices to flow free and you cannot believe
how wet you are between your thighs. You have tried not to
think of sex , as already you are a wire spring tightly coiled
by your nervous fears and hopes; once again you question
your sanity through all of this. You see your reflection
through the mirror behind the bar and ...
0 Comments, 93 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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My First Date... 4/21/2009
I was seperated for less than a month when I met a woman on
the internet. We decided to go to a bar/restaraunt in the
waterfront. We hit it off very well and after eating and
having a couple of drinks she asked me what i wanted to do
now. I replied"what would you like to do?" She
said, "To be honest I would like to go back to my place
to cuddle." I said that would be great and we left the ...
1 Comments, 399 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Fun 4/19/2009
I love first dates many when they come as 3 somes and 4 somes
1 Comments, 70 Views,
1 Votes
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how to ask female or male date? 4/12/2009
1. Determine when the time is right to ask. Normally there
has to be some familiarity. This method can work with out-and-out
strangers but is not recommended. 2. Ask (her/him). If you get an answer other than yes we will
proceed with overcoming objections. Overcoming objections
is a sales tool and yes, you are selling yourself (to her).
* "WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT WITH ME SOMETIME?" ...
2 Comments, 105 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Hot Trish-Part I 4/6/2009
I had known Trish (not her real name obviously) for several
years. I had always noticed her but thought of her as off
limits as she was a friend etc. Anyway, one year she had made
a comment to another friend that she thought I was quite
fine-this did get back to me and I started thinking about
her in a new way...I wondered how she would taste, I watched
her as she bent down and looked carefully ...
0 Comments, 501 Views,
22 Votes
,7.21 Score
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Horror Stories 4/6/2009
Let's hear you first date horror stories, you tell
me yours and I'll tell you mine is the deal.......
3 Comments, 103 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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meeting place 4/4/2009
what is a perfect meeting place to meet someone that is new
to the swinging lifestyle?
2 Comments, 92 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Finally meeting the Swapfinder.com girl i chatted to for months 3/28/2009
After a couple months of chatting to this girl online i finally
met her, she was even more that i expected in person, i instantly
became speechless. We went out to eat all the while my palms
were sweaty and my feet were shaking nervously. After that
first night out we went out a couple more times till the night
came, i asked her to come in and she accepted. Now you can
just imagine how my heart ...
2 Comments, 453 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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Just how important is the first face to face. 3/22/2009
I'll preface this by saying that I met my current wife
on Swapfinder.com. We talked on the phone and sent e-mails....of course...
but the first face to face meeting was critical. I wanted
to make a good impression, so I proceeded to plan for cooking
for her. We met in a parking lot, sat in her veh. for a while...looking
and talking....then we went to the house. Told her that
I was cooking for her. What ...
1 Comments, 125 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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too nice? 3/20/2009
Whenever i got to know a nice girl in the last 3 months, and
i really liked her, and everything just seems too good,
she tells me that it wouldnt work because im too nice........
i just try that she has a nice time and feels comfortable.
Is it possible too be too nice?
3 Comments, 101 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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I need a passionate woman 3/13/2009
I want a woman to take care of my desires
and let me take care of her needs I am open minded decent gentleman I respect sexy passionate ladies...
1 Comments, 85 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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hmmm one of my first dates 2/27/2009
OK so I've been on here for a little while now, and I've
met some men and had my fair shares of conversations and
as a women on here I have to say yes we are picky on who we talk
to.. even if we are slutty or not we are picky... lol at least
i am at times.. lol
so i had this date not to long ago he hit me up on the instant
messenger.. and i some times sit there fuckin around mostly
cuz ...
6 Comments, 571 Views,
21 Votes
,5.35 Score
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what is your ideal first date? 2/24/2009
i would like to here them?
3 Comments, 50 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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First date fantasy 2/23/2009
My hope is that you find this arousing and stimulating enough
to interact!Enjoy!........After a few e-mails we decide
to meet.I make the trip to(your adress) to meet this gorgeous
(your age and description)year young women for the first
time....we have been flirting back and forth online for
a while now.I think she is spectacular and i can't wait
to meet her.She has this sexy shot posted on her ...
1 Comments, 131 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Icecream Social 2/21/2009
I'm still a bit new here and have enjoyed finding my
way around Swapfinder.com and learning about the different
communities here.
I had my first Swapfinder.com meet and greet with an
amazing lady, and I have to say it was everything I was hoping
for and much more. We met for lunch and some light conversation.
45 minutes later we felt comfortable enough to move ourselves
to her ...
0 Comments, 183 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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To Fuck or Not to Fuck 2/17/2009
Throughout the years, people has said not to fuck on the
first date. What is the reasoning behind this? It the two
of you are into each other, then why "engage in congress?"
I mean what the hell can it hurt? Sex is a natural thing between
humans, so who is to say that fucking on the first date is
immoral? I mean the two of you might just have a sexual chemistry
that is unlike no other and a ...
9 Comments, 291 Views,
17 Votes
,3.83 Score
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I've Got a Stage Four Clinger! 2/17/2009
He sends you the most flattering emails you have ever read.
He thinks you’re a queen with the style and grace of Jacqueline
Kennedy. You realize the compliments are over the top,
but you can’t help but eat it up with a spoon. He asks for your
cell phone number so he can call you and hear the lilt in your
melodic voice. He sends Instant Messages on a daily basis
dreaming of the ...
8 Comments, 272 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Whats the Chances of having a good catch? 2/16/2009
Im a single independant hispanic male. Living confortable
in South Florida. Looking to meet with ladies only. Whats
Swapfinder.com about?
0 Comments, 22 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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My first Date 2/9/2009
For the females, what is some type of signs yall give on the
slick, that let us know u ready to fuck..
1 Comments, 125 Views,
3 Votes
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getting started 2/7/2009
It seems that in this day and time everyone is on the defensive.
Wouldn't life be easier if people just learned to enjoy
life. I signed up on this site to meet people, and explore
new opportunities. Since joining I am finding that people
"talk the talk but don't walk the walk".
It is hard to get started on here. Being straight forward
with people makes them even more sceptical of an ...
2 Comments, 107 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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The Focus Of The Date 2/1/2009
After a long absence from here, a good 2 years I returned
almost a week ago. Same old issues.I get such a kick out
of the ones that critique a man or woman if their bodies have
the slightest imperfections.If they were getting so much
play why are they here? All the Drama Kings and Queens should
have stayed home and made someone else miserable.Now to
the point of this article.Tonight I had a ...
4 Comments, 274 Views,
22 Votes
,6.49 Score
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Tips for guys 1/25/2009
So, you're looking forward to your first date, but
you don't know what to do or how to act?
Firstly, don't make it anything too extravagant for
your first meet - You don't want to seem desperate,
or an easy pushover financially (Target for gold-diggers).
On the date, just talk as you normally would. be yourself
- humor helps a lot, but try and avoid cheesy jokes "just
for the ...
1 Comments, 122 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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First date 1/20/2009
met a chick on here and we went
out to a club. got drunk and went dancing. ended up taking
her back to my house where we drank some more. went and layed
down in my bed with my sleeping husband just at that time
to make the room stop spinning. we ended up kissing which
turned to feeling around with our hands. which quickly
moved to groping and masturbating with each other. ...
3 Comments, 634 Views,
22 Votes
,5.65 Score
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my first date !!! 1/16/2009
my first date was hot !! met a wonder a wonderfully hot and
horny man on here. it was great. we went parking, one of my
fantasies, we fucked hard, hot and heavy for awhile. he
pounded me hard like i asked. wow !! what a night !!
7 Comments, 652 Views,
21 Votes
,3.37 Score
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to date or not to date, that is the question 1/14/2009
or is it the answer?
0 Comments, 17 Views,
1 Votes
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How was ur first sex date? 1/13/2009
My first sex date was in my university campus and we end up
doing it in our library. It was great fun. There was a floor
only for teachers or lecturer in our university where only
few students were allowed.. me n my partner luckily got
a chance to go there and we got sooo horny that we had sex while
standing.. and it was amazing experience as we were totally
tensed and scared if anyone catches us ...
0 Comments, 186 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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first time oral 1/8/2009
my first time with another man took place over 20 years ago
while i was in the navy.i had never considered myself bisexual,
i had grown up in a small midwestern town with the usual sexual
experiences. backseat at a drive-in, backseat on a country
road, you get the picture. my experiences expanded somewhat
when i joined the service but that was mainly to include
hookers and the occasional drunken ...
2 Comments, 770 Views,
17 Votes
,4.40 Score
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first dates 1/7/2009
Any advice on what women look for on first dates? Little
details they notice sometimes arent even on our minds.
1 Comments, 75 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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my first possible bi experience 1/7/2009
i am a 45 year old male who has been looking for a while to meet
up with a couple with a bi male. I have been contacting many
couples withn about 500km of my place of residence for a
few weeks until i really hit it off with a couple close by.
I am attached, they have a family so it took a bit of organising
but eventually we agreed on an evening to have dinner at
their place. I arrived a bit after ...
1 Comments, 505 Views,
9 Votes
,1.29 Score
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yea or no?? 12/28/2008
hey there some fine ass girlz on this site but are they forreal???
11 Comments, 278 Views,
11 Votes
,1.48 Score
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Which is better.....???? 12/26/2008
...Going to a movie, a sports bar, or going out to eat???
3 Comments, 109 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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wife on the first date 12/17/2008
i met my wife on our first date and we had sex, never looked
back and our happyly married to this day. we are comforable
enough now where we think we would someone else to share
the joy we do when in bed. any thing like questions on how
to keep a strong marriage i think we might be able to help
or if you would like to be a person looking to join us for some
fun (ladies only please) where just ...
0 Comments, 463 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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these are hard 12/13/2008
I don't like first dates. Too many akward moments.
Just keep in mind a few drinks will break the ice!
0 Comments, 44 Views,
0 Votes
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What do I do 12/7/2008
What dose a man have to do to get a date around here. Am I that
bad looking
4 Comments, 108 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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vagina size and looks 12/7/2008
I was just wondering, I have a preference for women with
big lips on their vaginas, there is something about a big
meaty hungry looking vagina that get me going. I wanted
to know from the women, is this a problem for some guys? I
just think that they look so good when they are all fired
up with want, and if you start oral on it, the lips just fall
open and the juice seeps out, it looks so tasty! ...
3 Comments, 238 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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THAT 1ST LUNCH 11/30/2008
They had chatted for weeks ‒ e-mails, im’s, texts, by phone.
They clicked so well that they decided they wanted to see
each other in person. So, lunch it was!
They were so nervous about seeing each other for the very
first time. They had both been concerned that the chemistry
they shared through technology would not transfer in the
flesh. But, Ohhhhhhh, did it!
...
5 Comments, 510 Views,
13 Votes
,2.81 Score
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Do people still worry about kissing on the first date? 11/28/2008
I'm wondering what everyone thinks..
2 Comments, 111 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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please explain? 11/20/2008
your most favorite first date lol..
1 Comments, 103 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Unprotected Sex!? 11/19/2008
There is alway a cure, so why not go unprotected - if it doesn't
look attractive - think beer! what the hell anyway, it's
a notch on your bed-post! If it has a pulse, surely it would do for until something
else comes along?
8 Comments, 208 Views,
15 Votes
,0.07 Score
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What people think on a first date? 11/13/2008
What do most people think about when on a first date ? Would
love to see some post. I know I was thinking of alot of thinks
when I went on a couple first timers.
0 Comments, 46 Views,
0 Votes
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first time around. 11/11/2008
what does a first really mean and what should it consist
of?why are all first dates the same these days?no one really
seems 2 go all out anymore.why is that?
6 Comments, 183 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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is sex on the 1st date rong? 11/10/2008
if u go on a 1st date and like what u see and get turned on and
can help it then just get to sex, is it rong?
5 Comments, 133 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Our First Meeting!!!!! 11/8/2008
I knock on the door to your house where I know you are waiting
for me. My heart is pounding fast and my panties are already
wet from the driving over to your house and thinking about
finally seeing you in person. You open the door and your
sexier than your pictures showed. My heart is racing, you
tell me to come in. You immediately lean towards me and kiss
me, of course this makes me want you ...
9 Comments, 393 Views,
17 Votes
,4.96 Score
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CREEPIN 11/2/2008
Why can't you have fun without the drama ladies?
1 Comments, 83 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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guys try to hard 11/1/2008
it is way to hard for a guy now a days why dont the girls just
make it easy and choose the guys.
2 Comments, 109 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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hey who all had dates though Swapfinder.com 10/25/2008
I had 5 great dates here thoough Swapfinder.com they are sweet people
on here. If nothing pans out for further dates, they end up Fanntastic
Friends. Thank You Swapfinder.com ...
14 Comments, 364 Views,
25 Votes
,3.57 Score
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Giving me a hand 10/24/2008
Pauline (not her real name) and I had met online through
the usual Swapfinder.com flirts and then emails. Chatting with her
one day and stroking my cock she asked me what I was doing
that night. I told her I was going to jack off while chatting
with her-not sure where this came from as I had never done
this before. She was intrigued, and asked if I had a cam so
she could watch. My face flushed and my ...
6 Comments, 662 Views,
20 Votes
,4.91 Score
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What do you think of a first date? 10/22/2008
What do you think of a first date? What's on your mind
? Are you thinking about getting some at the end of the night
because she ordered the lobster and you had the regular
burger?
0 Comments, 31 Views,
1 Votes
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First date no no's 10/18/2008
Never go to a movie on the first date. You don't get a
chance to talk or see the person. Unless you just want to
go in the back row and do sex stuff.
6 Comments, 234 Views,
19 Votes
,4.44 Score
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First Date Rule? 10/9/2008
How many of you out there have rules on how far you will go
on a first date?
Do you break those rules, if the person inspires you to?
Personally, I have 3 general rules for first dates, and
they actually apply to the 2nd, 3rd or any date.
1. Do what you want to do, within reason.
2. Don't let yourself get into dangerous situations.
3. Don't put up ...
3 Comments, 217 Views,
19 Votes
,4.31 Score
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chat 10/4/2008
be4 get to your first date. get to know your partner well
is important? or no? well at least it wont bored u to death
1 Comments, 12 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Are women coy or is it just me 9/30/2008
I have sent over 70 emails trying to gently encourage a safe
first meeting at a place of her choice but have as yet not
met one single woman in person. I would be happy with a friendship
not opposed to more but how do you convince the woman your
worth the trouble
0 Comments, 59 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score
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Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back…. Part 2 9/21/2008
Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back…. Part 2
He stood up and stepped out of the hot tub and as I stood up
in the hot tub he offered me his hand and guided me as I stepped
out. Once we were both out he reached for a towel and wrapped
it around me. Then he grabbed one for himself and quickly
dried off as he stood there in his magnificent nude glory.
He tossed his ...
1 Comments, 480 Views,
17 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back…. 9/21/2008
We met on an Internet service and exchanged several e-mails
and photos before deciding to meet for a drink and possibly
more.
I arrived at the local hotel lounge a bit early, . As I walked through the door
it took my eyes a few seconds to adjust to the darkened room.
I noticed that the band was just setting up and there were
not many people ...
1 Comments, 741 Views,
17 Votes
,3.97 Score
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first date 9/13/2008
In the car I just can't wait,
to pick you up on our very first date Is it cool if I hold your hand? Is it wrong if I think it's lame to dance? Do you like my stupid hair? Would you guess that I didn't know what to wear? I'm too scared of what you think You make me nervous so I really can't eat
Let's go, don't wait, this night's almost
over Honest, let's make this ...
1 Comments, 51 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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kissing on the first date 9/12/2008
You have gone on a date and its wonderful, you really had
made agreat connection with each other through out the
whole night. Its finally over and your walking her to the
door, you do the whole cliche thing, and now for the moment.......do
you kiss her or not? And if so which is more offensive not kissing or kissing.
Consider the fac the he is a gentlement and like to wait.
2 Comments, 82 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Flirt 9/10/2008
i dont know how to get flirt here. im new comer
here. who want to help me? i've a special gift 4 u... nice to meet u're all here..............
0 Comments, 37 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Lust in the Garden of Eden 9/7/2008
Lust in the Garden of Eden:
Like so many relationships this one started on-line. The
new singles bar has a Keyboard and webcam these days. There are advantages and
pitfalls to this type of dating, but then again there are advantages and pitfalls
to just about everything in life.
After a week or two of chatting on line about a lot of intimate
details of their live, s Bruce and ...
6 Comments, 273 Views,
20 Votes
,4.78 Score
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WITH A CPL 9/7/2008
MY FIRST DATE WITH A CPL WE MEET FOR LUNCH I HAD GOLD DRESS
ON BLACK HEELS WITH BLACK & WHITE UNDERWEAR ON A NICE
LITTLE CEFI THAT FOUND ON LINE SO EVERYTHING WAS NEW TO ALL
OF US SO WE ALL SHOW UP TALK AND LAUGH AND SAME TO HIT OFF AND
I LIKE THEM BOTH AND HE LIKE AND DID SHE WE MADE PLAN MEET AGIAN
IN A WEEK SO WE TALK ON THE PHONE BY EMAIL AND THE HEAT WAS UP
AND THE FEELING OF THE DAY ...
1 Comments, 319 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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exciting 9/4/2008
its nice 2 meet ppl
0 Comments, 17 Views,
0 Votes
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first ever date 9/2/2008
i had my first date when i was just 5 years old.... we were
very poor and it was a treat fer christmas . anyway i ate it
an nearly choked on the seed, i didnt know that they had any
in em.! you all will be pleased t hear i have had many since then.
1 Comments, 192 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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YOU'RE IN BED-THEN YOU SEE IT 8/31/2008
You meet and everything is going well.You end up in the bedroom
ready to do it. You both strip naked. Then you see it. A bump,
blister, redness, or something that you think could be
a std. You could be wrong. It might be nothing. How do you
stop without hurting your date's feelings? what is
the polite way to handle this sition?
4 Comments, 292 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Why does Asian Ladies prefer caucasian man? 8/31/2008
Any particular reasons?
6 Comments, 272 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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The Man of 20 8/29/2008
I had been a member of Swapfinder.com for a couple of months. I had a profile
but no pictures and no responses.
I decided to take matters into my own hands and view the profiles
of local members.
It was then that I noticed the Man of 20.
He bore a striking resembleance to the actor Jake Gyllenhaal,
though somewhat thinner.
He was 20. I was 49. Should I? Shouldn't I? I ...
6 Comments, 750 Views,
20 Votes
,3.76 Score
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beware the fake pic! 8/27/2008
the first time i hooked up with someone from a site, it was
a classic fake pic ordeal. the pic looked very nice and we
arranged to meet in a bar. well i got there and i got a text
"can't make it that far bad leg come meet me in
my halls" (she was in uni by the way) anyway i new something
was up as it was only 5mins away lol!
i gave her a ring when i got there and she came to let me in. ...
2 Comments, 261 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Bad First Date 8/18/2008
If this happens to you...RUN! I met this girl online. After
talking and some phone sex, we decided to meet. She lived
in an appartment, so I met her there.
Here was playing video games and she just invited me
into her room for a quicky. While I have nothing against
a quicky.....this was a small appartment and her was
right outside. Needless to say, I did not want to be a part
of ...
5 Comments, 467 Views,
20 Votes
,4.40 Score
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Best type of venue for 1st Date? 8/16/2008
I wonder sometimes where is the best place to meet for the
first time. A public place is often safest for all parties,
but a hotel or home probably sends out the signal that sex
is available and wanted/needed. It probably depends on
how pre-meet contact has gone. What do you think?
1 Comments, 110 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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Relationships?? 8/16/2008
Well, everyone thinks that a "relationship"
is only dating and being exclusive...but a relationship
DOES begin with friendship and honesty. I've had the
opportunity to meet some men on Swapfinder.com and there were only 2
men that I though were EXTREMELY classy, upfront, and honest
with me. The others were liars...they lie on their profiles
to get women into bed then they finally tell the truth when
it gets ...
4 Comments, 84 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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First Date Advice 8/13/2008
Choosing something to do on a first date can be very difficult.
You and your date do not know each other and this means that
you do not know what they do and do not like doing. Ask your
date what they would like to do, but if they do not have any
suggestion be decisive and make a suggestion, such as your
favourite restaurant. Make sure they understand what
type of place it is and make sure it is ...
2 Comments, 70 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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never had this. 8/9/2008
I never had oral sex before what should expect? and i mean
never!
6 Comments, 394 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score
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Do women really know within 5 minutes? 8/7/2008
If she is going to have sex with a guy on a first date? I will
admit that when talking to women on here in the past, the
discussion of sex often comes into play. This is a sex site
but, how often have you (ladies) measured up a guy to fuck
him on the first date? How did it happen and when did you know?
4 Comments, 253 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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The perfect first date 8/6/2008
Men or Woman, were do you like to go on a first date? Do you
keep it consistent and within your comfort zone or do you
mix it up based upon your company?
0 Comments, 37 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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On the first date 8/6/2008
Ladies, what is your first date policy? Do you specifically
plan on not having sex on the first date no matter what or
do you plan on winging it and seeing how things go?
2 Comments, 106 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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What works 8/5/2008
What works on getting that first date. Tell me your expereinces
0 Comments, 30 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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First Bi experience - first Date 8/2/2008
I would love to chat with a guy for a couple weeks. Then after
that meet him in public...have a few drinks. Then after
being there for a while he would lean over to me and say "I
want you to suck me off" We would then leave and drive
to a private, dark place. I would then get into his car and
suck him until he exploded. Then we would both be on our way!
Maybe hooking up again in the ...
0 Comments, 510 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Anticipation 8/2/2008
Sometimes the waiting and anticipation is just as exciting
as the eventual meeting. Or so it seems at the time. However,
it is sometimes easy to forget that the physical touch is
irreplaceable.
We had talked about getting together sometime. We had spent
much time chatting with each other, getting to know each
other.
We would spend time chatting about such sensuous subjects,
such ...
1 Comments, 71 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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What happens after you play FOOTSIE 7/17/2008
I recently met a gentleman from Swapfinder.com. He is a physican........so, I thought he would have a great
deal of class.
We went to a nice pub for a drink, a get to know you ice breaker.
We sat in a booth, had a drink. All of a sudden, he starts playing "FOOTSIE"
with me under the table. It doesn't sound too bad, but he put his socked foot
between my legs!! No lie!
It was a ...
3 Comments, 524 Views,
12 Votes
,0.68 Score
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sex on the first date 7/16/2008
i want to know how do most women feel about having sex on a
first date. i like to get to know more about that person first.
1 Comments, 324 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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HMMM Cheating while Swinging?? 6/28/2008
Ok picture if you will................... Your a couple, your in love and you are involved in what some
people would die to be in if their partners would allow,
your swingers!!! Best of both worlds, you get to experience that fmf fantasy
that I think all men have had and she gets to experience whatever
her fantasy is and life goes on.................. Why then would either partner need to ...
3 Comments, 430 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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enigma. 6/26/2008
What to do on first date..........make her laught try to
get her under your skin then call her at your place.........if
you have luck she will come to you and then evrything is easy........but
if not that is not good for you 
0 Comments, 24 Views,
3 Votes
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