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My First Swapfinder.com Date 3/15/2006
I had been browsing, chatting, and exchanging e-mails
for awhile with different people going on 2 years now and
still not hooked up with anyone other than the one guy I had
lunch with and never heard from again....... So, just checking
my messages I came across one with an interesting looking
photo........ he says "What will it take to get your
attention" ? Hummmmm I am thinking let me ...
1 Comments, 840 Views,
30 Votes
,5.49 Score
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Still lookin 3/14/2006
IM from MI and I still havent found that date that would give
it up on the 1st date wats good wit that?
1 Comments, 95 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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"Was It Weird For You, Too?" 3/13/2006
Why is it that the first time you meet a couple is always the
weirdest? It never seems to go like you planned. Either
the guy is too eager or the chick is not into it enough, or
just the physical attraction isn't there. Am I just
being too picky? Or is there something I'm not taking
into the big picture? Our first time was miserable. We had
this ugly dude with a heavy wife who seemed ...
6 Comments, 864 Views,
29 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Best ideas that have worked? 3/12/2006
For that first meeting, where is the best place? I don't
want any ideas that haven't worked well...I know one
answer won't fit all but was curious as to what has worked
and what has been a miserable failure.
0 Comments, 170 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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will she or won't she 3/11/2006
if you go out on a first date with a woman and at the end of the
date you end up having sex would you go out with her again?
If so would it be because it was easy or would it be because
you like her?
0 Comments, 233 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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My First Time 3/8/2006
It was a clear night in West Palm Beach, Florida. I had just
finished a nice meal at the 308th Bomb Group Aviation Theme
restaurant. I decided to top it off with a drink at the bar.
I ordered a drink and was enjoying the aviation scenery
and memorabilia in the bar area.
A nicely dressed man came in and took the seat next to mine.
I acknowledged him with the usual male nod. He ...
2 Comments, 797 Views,
16 Votes
,6.51 Score
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like a muthafuckn virgin 3/6/2006
a mad don. i just knew this site was a scam and be damned if
i still do. there are some lames just taking up space. anyhow,
fricking this girl leaves her frickn number and i call right.
oh yeah she's a slut and her texts kept up with her profile.
something fishy though. she wants to fuck right away. that's
cool but she don't wanna go to her place. that's
cool but she don't like motels and ...
0 Comments, 301 Views,
10 Votes
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If a woman wants to suck you dry on the first date.... 3/4/2006
I hooked up with this gal that was 70 miles away. I sent her
an e-mail, and she replied, with her real e-mail address,
and we exchanged abot 10 e-mails in about 10 minutes, she
finally said.... Here's my address, be here at 11:30
PM, and the door will be open. Just walk in and I'll be
naked on the couch. Just as she said, the light was on, the
front door was open, and when I walked ...
1 Comments, 1212 Views,
27 Votes
,3.77 Score
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Kiss Yes Or No 3/4/2006
If you are going out just to meet up with someone that you
meet off line, and you know you are just hooking up for the
night, is kissing aloud? A lot of people say that kissing
is too personal, so I have always wonder if you meet someone
off line is there going to be kissing or just all the other
stuff?
7 Comments, 500 Views,
21 Votes
,2.75 Score
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Love the Rain 3/3/2006
The rain poured down, as I walked to the coffee room. Why
did I go out today I should know not to listened to the weatherman.
Bright, Sunny and Warm. Well he got the warm part right.
But the rain.
<br>
Ding, ding.
<br>
The chime sounded as I entered the Coffee Room. Looking
around as I let the water drip off me, I checked my camera
bag to see that it was relatively ...
0 Comments, 163 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Est-ce que tu devras mentionner tes parents? 3/2/2006
Meme si sa fait partie du conversation, est-ce que tu devras
mentionner tes parents pendant une rendez-vous?
1 Comments, 63 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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how far? 3/1/2006
Depending on the type of girl, one can only go so far on a first
date. Usually kissing is o.k. by the end of the first date,
but how far is too far for a 2nd date, 3rd date, etc? Like i
said, it usually depends on the type of girl and/or how horny
she is, but in general... what's a good measure of advances?
1 Comments, 258 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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My First Anal "Date" 2/28/2006
Because of my exceptional size–the shaft of my dick is comparable
to a beer can--no woman has ever let me near her ass. But recently
I met a man with the most gorgeous female ass I have ever seen.
I never thought I was bisexual–I still don’t think I am.
If you saw this guy's ass, you would know what I mean.
And it just so happens that he’s an anal size queen. ...
4 Comments, 1499 Views,
46 Votes
,3.38 Score
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sex 2/25/2006
it's it ok to have sex on the frist date
2 Comments, 333 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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The first load 2/24/2006
Should you blow it on her face on the first date.
7 Comments, 1405 Views,
24 Votes
,1.54 Score
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IS IT JUST ME 2/23/2006
OR IS IT VERY AWKWARD WHEN YOU 1ST MEET THAT PESON AND ALL
YOUR THINKIN ABOUT IS DAMN WHEN WE GONNA JUST GET TO IT.
6 Comments, 785 Views,
14 Votes
,4.10 Score
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A Hit, Miss and Go 2/21/2006
My very first boyfriend took me to the city for a date. It
was tragic. He was a terrible boyfriend...
<br>
First we went to the Botanical Gardens, a huge, beautiful
park. We were walking through, talking, holding hands,
carving our names into a tree, and just normal couple
stuff. This was our first date.
When we got to a stranded, isolated little walkway surrounded
by lush ...
3 Comments, 952 Views,
16 Votes
,4.30 Score
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Most Akward date 2/20/2006
I am sure we all have had some strange first dates and want
to hear about them.
My most akward date was when i was meeting this guy for the
first time and everything was going great. we were talking
and feeling chemistry. then a few of his friend randomly
show up and join us and the date went to a get together.
4 Comments, 614 Views,
7 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Ideal First Date 2/20/2006
I am just curious right now and wondering what people view
as a perfect or ideal first date?
2 Comments, 250 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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they are scary! 2/18/2006
i rekon 1st dates can be the most scaryest thing! you dnt
know what they gonna be like or if you are gonna sleep with
them or not! what are your thoughts on 1st dates?!
4 Comments, 433 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Anyone get real nervious? 2/13/2006
I hate first dates they tend to feel awkward especially
if it's a group situation makes it hard to get to know
the person.
2 Comments, 127 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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1st bj 2/10/2006
it was weird getting head from a guy and i left when it was
over i guess i got freaked out. yet it was nice to get my load
swallowed
1 Comments, 530 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score
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Good place to meet? 2/10/2006
Where is a good spot to meet and if things go good where do
people go if they have a wife or husband so they are not seen?
1 Comments, 325 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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stole the tip 2/9/2006
i was on a blide date with this fine blonde. we went to a small
bar for an hour or two, then went to get dinner and a movie.
we went to a fairly nice place call the "olive garden".
dinner and wine was about 70 bucks. we seamed to be hitting
it off and was going to skip the movie and go to my place. 
so i payed for dinner and left 15 dollars cash for a tip on
the table. told my lovly date ...
1 Comments, 1006 Views,
16 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Who would it be? 2/8/2006
If you could meet anyone off of Swapfinder.com who would it be and why?
<br>
For me I would love the chance to meet Sali8ing4u. I would
love the chance to get to know the man behind the pictures.
He is sexy and smart ..the best combination you can find
in a man.
<br>
So don't be shy now...speak up and maybe your dreams
will come true...
<br>
<br>
VC
2 Comments, 287 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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My first Bi Encounter 2/7/2006
I am 35, happily married but not sexually stimulated by
my wonderful wife (who, I feel may not really like sex).
About a year ago I started to look at pics of Transexuals.
I would masturbate a lot after spending hours searching
on the net for pics of TS babes. Recently I graduated to looking
at pics of older men.
For some reason, and I cannot explain, I just couldn't
stop thinking about ...
0 Comments, 1464 Views,
35 Votes
,6.41 Score
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Some lunatic babes out there... 2/6/2006
I hooked up with a gal on Swapfinder.com and invited her to attend my company
Christmas party with me. She accepted, and we spent the
night together at my place, as we were leaving the next morning(2
1/2 hour drive). Well she wasn't feeling good, so I
told her to take my truck back to the Motel, and I'll
get a ride later. I ended up sleeping with another woman
that night from my company. In the ...
6 Comments, 1671 Views,
28 Votes
,1.29 Score
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profile fullfilled pt.1 2/3/2006
This is very erotic, but I don't know if you would call
it an erotic story, because it is true. We had tried several
ways to list on Swapfinder.com, but only received mild interest. After
making our current listing we had an almost immediate response.
A lady in her mid fifties contacted us and said she was here
just for the companionship but would like to know more about
what we wanted. Through emails ...
2 Comments, 940 Views,
32 Votes
,4.55 Score
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sex on first date 2/2/2006
how many people love to have sex on first date?
0 Comments, 220 Views,
8 Votes
,0.23 Score
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Who Pays? 1/30/2006
Whenever I go on a first date, or an date, I usually pay for
everything. It just feels wrong to let the lady pay if I am
taking her out. I would like to know how everyone feels about
this. Does the man paying for everything on a date make him
look like a big shot? Does it make him look nice? Or how about
the other way around, what if the man did not pay for everything
on a date, what ...
12 Comments, 584 Views,
14 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Sex of a first date? 1/29/2006
How many women would have sex on a first date? (Obiously
if it felt right) and how many would hold back regardless?
<br>
How many men would NOT have sex first date.
3 Comments, 401 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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1st time had Sex... 1/25/2006
We meet at last, both of us nervous with anticipation. I
<br>
watch you as u come through the door, you smile at me and some
<br>
of the anxiety melts away. We embrace, laughing a little,
<br>
smiling to each others eyes and holding one another so that
<br>
the warmth spreads to our bodies. We sit on the edge of the
<br>
bed, gentle ...
3 Comments, 1181 Views,
35 Votes
,6.85 Score
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Dumb Luck got me Sucked 1/23/2006
About 2 years ago one of my friends Seth called me up and said
he was in need of a wingman asap. It seems this girl he meet
on the internet wanted to hangout, but she didnt feel comfortable
unless she had someone with her. I had never meet either
one of these chicks before and really didnt know anything
about them.
<br>
I show up over at Seth's house and we are sitting around ...
1 Comments, 739 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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Tease 1/18/2006
I have found a girl that I work with, who is sorta commited
in a relatuionship with a man who is a friend of mine at work.
She and I work together everyday and we even talk a little
sexual to one another. We have become good friends. She
denies that she is involved with my friend , but he has told
me other stories. He has been known to lie about things Anyhow,
I think this girl is teasing ...
1 Comments, 491 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Today's Woman 1/16/2006
Liberated, educated, smart, sexy, but with an air of pretencious
aloofness, culminated with an attitude that beguiles
even themselves.
<br>
Of course this is not ALL women of today, just the ones that
think they are "all that"
<br>
Sure she has to be careful of , weirdo's sickos,
wackos and such men. But is she so immeshed into herself
that she no longer recognises a ...
1 Comments, 449 Views,
13 Votes
,4.32 Score
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Pattie my first ! 1/15/2006
I worked third shift at a 7-11 store my shift started at 11:00pm
about 7:30 my besst fried larry shows up with his wife Becky
and her sister Patti, and a fifth of jack danials, they are
on there way to a laundry mat aand invite me along. rideing
in the back seeat with Patti we begin to kiss. at the laundry
mat things befgin to really heaaatt up and we begin to fuck
on the washing machine. ...
0 Comments, 681 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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First Times 1/9/2006
To start with, I am not submitting this "to my peers
for critique" so if you are going to criticize my articles
for how I build up to the climax and character develop, just
stop reading my articles and certainly don't bother
posting comments. This story is about my first time with
a guy, simple as that.
He was friends with my sister. He was my friend too. He was
friends with ...
7 Comments, 2153 Views,
69 Votes
,8.23 Score
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BBW Need It Too 1/8/2006
Chatted with her for about a week. Set up to meet in the middle
of the afternoon at a local motel. She was a BBW...married...and
very horny...much to my advantage.
<br>
Sat and talked for all of 10 minutes after her arrival. As
she was seated, I got up, walked over to her and started DFKing
her. She was a great kisser. As I kissed her she massaged
my cock through my pants. I ...
3 Comments, 888 Views,
24 Votes
,7.79 Score
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for the ladies... 1/6/2006
if you were meeting a man from this site, a typical man from
this site, what do you think would be an appropriate first
date?
1 Comments, 451 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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Best First Date Fuck Ever ...must read...seriously 12/30/2005
Last summer I haphazardly met this guy online; well I responded
to an ad he posted but I really had no intentions of meeting
him. I admit, I was playing. But anyhow, we ended up chatting
via email while at work and the next day he invited me to meet
him at an event he was hosting. I was leary, but figured it
should be okay since it was a sizeable function. We met,
we had martinis, we ...
1 Comments, 1680 Views,
42 Votes
,4.85 Score
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My first date 12/30/2005
I took a family friend to a Sat Matinee, and she sucked my
dick through the whole movie!She said she saw her mom do
it all the time. I still get a hard-on every time I watch Sinbad!!!
0 Comments, 755 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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What is with men? 12/28/2005
I met a few men on here, had a good time, and when they leave
they tell you to call them or they will keep in touch with
you. Talk about being played. Why can't men be upfront
and say I don't want to see you or even call you. Men complain
about women being players, what about the men. Its funny
their profiles say, i don't want head games, and guess
what they play the head games.......
2 Comments, 582 Views,
18 Votes
,4.08 Score
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Go the distance? 12/28/2005
After exchanging emails, if two people agree to meet but
are 1 hour apart, who should drive the hour?
<br>
Agree beforehand on who? Always the guy?
<br>
Thanks in advance to all guys/ladies for all votes/replies!
<br>
-MJ
4 Comments, 199 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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I hadn'teven met him yet and now he was coming..... 12/27/2005
Not only a first date but an immediate date. I had met him
in a chatroom and we switched to yahoo. We went thru the usual
topics and he asked me how i like to be sucked. Whether i liked
to have tongue thrust down my cunt or if i liked to be licked
first. I flashed him a pic of my cunt being held open ready
for a dripping cock, and told him he could lick it however
he wanted to.
He asked ...
1 Comments, 980 Views,
42 Votes
,6.85 Score
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The best 12/26/2005
This girl from Swapfinder.com met up with me and blew me in the parking
lot of starbucks
0 Comments, 719 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Old ,outdated photos or fake photos on Swapfinder.com profiles. 12/26/2005
Dear Swapfinder.com readers: I had been chatting and corresponding
with a gal from Swapfinder.com for about a month, and I finally decided
to meet her for a first date. She lived in a town of 10, 000
poople and lived about 4 hours from me. I went to meet her
at the local bowling alley in her town, she was in a bowling
league. I went to the bowling alley and I could not find her.
So I asked the guy behind the ...
1 Comments, 419 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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Forget about the last name 12/26/2005
Been talking to this guy on Swapfinder.com for some time now and decided
to meet.......Without knowing what I looked like he came
to visit.....he steps in the doorway and our eyes meet then
our lips meet and we ripped each others clothes off and made
our way to the bedroom .......fell across the bed and fucked
like there was no tomorrow..........and I dont even know
his last name........
6 Comments, 789 Views,
24 Votes
,2.90 Score
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It's either or a hit or miss! 12/24/2005
To tell you the truth...I knew this the whole time..but.does
everyone know this?Meeting and seeing a person is the first
step..Mostly easy for some, Like a magnet...drawn..to
each other..pouncing like a cat..clinging on...kissing
so passionatly..don't need to see anything...blinded
by lust....It happens we mate...and mate ...and...mate...till...we
realize we have to face reality..go to ...
1 Comments, 265 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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Not going so good 12/23/2005
On a first date you realize soon after meeting her your not
interested but she really like you. What should I do?
1 Comments, 134 Views,
1 Votes
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sex , OR NO SEX??? 12/23/2005
i always let my date what i want before our first date because
i dont want to waste my time like a school boy having dates
before we hold hands and after one month a kiss good night.
what i let them know i want to make love first date. and most
times the agree. if the dont agree the always are polite
when the say not this time maby some other time thank you.
but i never contact them again ...
0 Comments, 249 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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WHY ARE WOMEN SO DEFENSIVE IN FIRST DATE 12/21/2005
EVERY WOMEN I DATED HAS BEEN FUCKING HARSH ON THE FIRST DATE
BUT ONCE I GOT PAST THE FIRST DATE THEY EITHER CALLED ME IF
I DIDNT CALL OR NOTHING
I HATE FIRST DATES BEAUSE SOMETIMES ALL SHE WANTS TO DO IS
TALK AND HEAR WHAT SHE WANTS IF YOU SAY SOMETHING SHE DOESNT
LIKE SHE HATES YOU.
1 Comments, 176 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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what do you expect 12/21/2005
When you meet a girl/party of fuck friends what do you expect
or what do you want?
2 Comments, 1073 Views,
23 Votes
,3.24 Score
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Another Swapfinder.com First Date 12/16/2005
This woman sent me an email and said she was interested in
receiving (but not performing) oral sex. I emailed her
back and started a conversation that included a number
of emails. She was about 1 1/2 hours from me, and was only
available 3 days a week, so it was a while before we were able
to hook up.
<br>
I finally got over to see her. We met in a park near her house,
and ...
2 Comments, 790 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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I'm after a first date...... 12/14/2005
So what ARE the chances of a 36 yr old single straight male
getting a date from this site? Are there any single females
or couples about that want to show a newcomer the ropes?
Sex OR not on the first date!
1 Comments, 201 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Is it right 12/10/2005
Is it right if u have sex on the first date?
1 Comments, 456 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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First Dates are fun 12/9/2005
On a first date I send money and get to talk small talk. I eat
popcorn and drink a coke. I like first dates.
0 Comments, 157 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Genuine, We dont think so! 12/9/2005
We are starting to loose faith in this site and are wondering
is there any point in renewing our membership next month?
<br>
It seems that there are quite a lot of people on this site
who to talk to on here are really up for it and meeting up and
all the rest of the patter that they feed you while you make
arrangements and get to know them a little better, but when
it comes down to ...
6 Comments, 764 Views,
20 Votes
,6.57 Score
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Meetting Places 12/9/2005
What are some of the best first time meeting places?
0 Comments, 255 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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WHY IS IT SO HARD TO HOOK UP? 12/7/2005
WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR PEOPLE TO MEET AND FUCK, THIS IS WHAT
THIS SITE IS ALL ABOUT... WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT BEING
SINGLE OR MARRIED, WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT FALLING IN LOVE???
WHY CAN'T PEOPLE JUST MEET TO FUCK AND FULFILL THEIR
SEXUAL NEEDS... OF COURSE YOU HAVE TO FEEL SAFE WITH THE
PERSON YOU MEET AND MAYBE PICK THE LOCATION... BUT WHY ARE
PEOPLE SO UPTIGHT ABOUT HOOKING UP??? IF ...
5 Comments, 686 Views,
36 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Finding a single female 12/4/2005
I must say that finding any one on this site can be hard but
finding a single female that is bi to be with a couple is even
harder. Why is that? I have been looking on here for a while
now for a single bi female and all i keep finding are these
drop dead females that I think are just posting there pix
for the attention and the responces they get but they have
no intentions of a real meet. ...
0 Comments, 301 Views,
12 Votes
,4.04 Score
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coach 12/4/2005
I had a strange first date with the girl who lived in the next
apartment. She was sexy and one afternoon I asked if she
would like to go to dinner. She accepted and we set a time
after her afternoon appointment with a basketball coach
she was helping. She explained he and a who needed some
help with sign languge came over twice a week for a couple
hours and we could go after then.
I saw ...
1 Comments, 645 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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i am so horny and i want sexy any female 12/2/2005
hi i am looking for sexy hot woman i have big cock
ohh sorry !!! very big cock i love tits big tits and pussy
i alwys want to play with pussy and lick him more and more
times
my cock alwys hard and i alwys horny if i see any woman my cock
get hard and he want to fuck her
i love to fuck girls ass so much
i will love and i will fuck any time u want i mean all the time
i am ...
0 Comments, 169 Views,
2 Votes
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First impressions... 11/27/2005
Now I'm one who don't give a damn on how a preson
looks, but it is "written in stone"(although
I haven't found it..yet) that first impresions are
lasting impressions.
<br>
Is it true???
0 Comments, 85 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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roll 5's 11/25/2005
We were attending a conference in Reno and I managed to sit
beside her since I liked her smile. During the boring afternoon
I kept doodling about odds at the crap table and I could see
her looking. I put my knee closer to hers under the table
and soon hers was touching mine and stayed there. On break
she asked what I was writing and I told her about craps odds.
She asked if I really knew ...
1 Comments, 481 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score
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how do u let that person know? 11/23/2005
General question. . You go on a date with this person and
the vibe just isnt there. What is the most respectful thing
to do in the days to come? Ignoring is not an option in my book.
Thanks for your advice.
1 Comments, 178 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Put Out!! (For Men) 11/23/2005
Is it good to "put out" on the first date, (for
guys that is)?
1 Comments, 455 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Being there. 11/22/2005
I don't know if this has happened to anyone, but you
meet someone online. You spend a lot of time talking, flirting,
asking important questions, you know, getting to know
them. Then comes the day when you finally take the plunge,
hell, it may even be the same day for some brave people out
there, and you make a date. You get ready, make-up, perfume,
dressing up for the women, cologne and ...
18 Comments, 1499 Views,
64 Votes
,7.26 Score
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What makes a first date a great one? 11/22/2005
There are many opinions out there but what things make a
first date great instead just average. Is it the great kiss,
wonderful conversation, or the hot end to a great night
in bed so what is it.
0 Comments, 386 Views,
1 Votes
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Afternoon Delight 11/15/2005
She started that sunny Monday morning in February. She
wore her blue jeans, white shirt with a pink petal rose colored
jacket.
<br>
Her shirt hugged her breast just enough to show the outline
of her bra, it was tucked in her what looked like Levi 501
button ups that were boot cut, the fell over her black boots
that she had worn that day.
<br>
Her creamy tanned body stood ...
0 Comments, 2192 Views,
72 Votes
,8.46 Score
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Meeting for the first time 11/11/2005
Meeting people thru this site is great but it makes you very
nervous as well. With some people saying that they are something
that they are not..Or see that they show up and they do not
look like the pic at all.
2 Comments, 226 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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Take it slow.... 11/6/2005
...I like to make the first date a casual one....just talking
and enjoying each other's experiences and differences....that
way you can enjoy the next time you meet...and can feel more
comfortable.
1 Comments, 182 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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I want to give my my husband a great gift 11/4/2005
I was thinking about getting a couple to supprise my husband
w/ he is always on this site and wanting so bad to get w/ other
people. (for both of us) I wanted to supprise him by getting
this for him. We live in Rossville, Ga. We don't minde
to travel a little to meet someone. Maybe we can go for drinks
or dinner. Anyone think I should do this? For a supprise
to him.
1 Comments, 791 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Really Undercover 11/2/2005
It was my first day with the State Narcotics Task Force.
I had worked years ago in a regional Crime squad, doing the
same thing making undercover buys of Narcotics. This was
different, the Big Hats (State Troopers) were running
this unit. There was one other Black Male at the office when
I arrived, he was kind of a weight lifter type, no way was
he going on the streets buying any drugs. ...
0 Comments, 1533 Views,
35 Votes
,7.73 Score
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Blowjobs 10/30/2005
Why are blowjobs so much better on the first date? I think
its because the idea of having one done to you gets you hot
just thinking about it.
0 Comments, 462 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Question for the ladies 10/26/2005
Where do you like to go for a first meeting? A bar, diner,
coffee house, mall, or park?
1 Comments, 313 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Am I theOnly one? 10/23/2005
Am i the only one on here that actually needs sum basic communication
with sum1 before, wel.. getting down to it? as much as i understand
and apprecaite that sum ppl are on here for a quik drop ur
kegs and have it done wit....it just doesnt seem to work
that way with me...and time and time again im getting mesages
from blokes sayin "Id love to talk more..."
And then only wanted to talk ...
7 Comments, 705 Views,
24 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Wrong or Right? 10/19/2005
I have asked myself that question over and over and over
again.
Is it Right or Wrong to have sex with someone the first time
you meet them.
I have found myself in situations more often now then before
where I hook up with a guy from the website, the intensity
of our lust is over bound and we end up screwing.
I have no regrets of it because it is the thrill of the hunt
and the fact ...
7 Comments, 1011 Views,
39 Votes
,5.03 Score
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does it have to be so sweet 10/18/2005
Is it possible to just meet someone and go right into hot
nasty sex? Do you have to talk and get to know eachother?
Arnt they people put there who would just like to rip off
the other persons clothes and go right at it???
8 Comments, 1017 Views,
32 Votes
,5.40 Score
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Breaking the ice? 10/15/2005
I'm looking for a little advice/help on the subject
of first time sexual contact with a new person. Do women
like the aggresive, take control approach, or a slower,
creeping into it kind of approach?
2 Comments, 378 Views,
0 Votes
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The Burglary Alarm 10/3/2005
It was about 3AM, I had just finished writing a report, and
was patroling what we called the north country. There were
two one man cars patroling this area, about 15 square miles.
My main man Robert, a super cool white dude was riding the
other car. We had known each other before coming on the job,
he always good people.
The call came in as a 10-25, an alarm in our 10 code system.
...
1 Comments, 1502 Views,
35 Votes
,7.73 Score
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Show Up Or Call 9/29/2005
I have met alot of people on this site and many have seemed
honest and true.
Then there are SOME that you chat and have a really hot time
on the phone with them and set up a meeting and you both are
eager to see if there is a physical connection face to face.
<br>
You take time to ensure that you look nice and anticipate
the meeting or what may happen. But what is totally ...
4 Comments, 1096 Views,
40 Votes
,7.47 Score
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How's This For A First Date... 9/28/2005
We go out for an evening of dinner and wine. Throughout our
meal we are laughing and flirting. You tease my hand with
your fingers, as we nudge each other's feet playfully
under the table. You whisper to me that you want me all to
yourself, so we get up and start to leave. You have your hand
on my waist and lead me to the car. We stop to kiss and you hold
my face in your hands and tell me how ...
8 Comments, 1848 Views,
77 Votes
,8.44 Score
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Can you get a girl pregnant by cumming in her ass? 9/28/2005
I was just wondering about this...have never done it, would
like to try it, just want to make sure it won't cause
pregnancy. I know it can still transfer std's and stuff,
but i was just wondering about the whole pregnant thing?
7 Comments, 967 Views,
12 Votes
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A Carnal Encounter 9/28/2005
Michael and I had talked for, what seemed like months on
the net and phone. We talked about everything and anything
that came to us. I felt as if I had known Michael forever.
He was my friend, soul mate, and confidant. Tonight we were
going to meet. We decided to meet at Barnaby?s. I had passed
the place several time, on my trips, and agreed that would
be an excellent place for the ...
2 Comments, 1614 Views,
32 Votes
,3.33 Score
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not nervous 9/27/2005
i was going to go to a group party one night..i had dressed
up and gotten a pleasant buzz..ready to meet tha group.
i was really nervous. but, everyone was nice. i met a man
that i had seen on Swapfinder.com. he was fun to talk to. real fun, , about
midnite i was licking, sucking whip cream off his nipples,
dirty dancing with him!
we went to a bedroom to lay down together, i was not used to
so ...
4 Comments, 1176 Views,
28 Votes
,2.73 Score
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how???? 9/25/2005
ok, forget all this b/s... just help me out a lil... how do
you start a three som.. ok, we got everthing set up but don`t
know how to start it..
we got this one girlfriend who said yes to fucking my girlfriend,
but cant seem to get it right..she is married so we gotta
work around that .it will be my girls first time. so help
me out w/ tip or somthing.
now, we have talked to some ...
2 Comments, 825 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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The Sisters 9/16/2005
Kate and I were sitting around having a drink one evening,
warming up for a night of quality adult time together, when
the phone rang. It was Paula, Kate's younger sister.
I had been sleeping with Kate for a few months. She was living
in a building that I worked an extra duty security job. It
was great having a hot woman, living in the building. A few
months ago, I had arrested Paula's ...
0 Comments, 2884 Views,
37 Votes
,7.72 Score
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My first time 8/30/2005
was then 22 years old, worked as a computer
professional in SEEPZ Bombay. My boss was a married 32 years
old
female. Her name was Anita.
Anita was Bengali. Her husband was a Marketing manager
in other software company. He looked after both Indian
and overseas markets. He would always be very busy
with his work. So was Anita. Whenever there was a
critical situation, she would be ...
3 Comments, 2423 Views,
45 Votes
,5.79 Score
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question for you married women catch 22 8/24/2005
im single, so how could i convince you im genuine, discreet
and considerate if i cant actualy meet you to prove it?
n.s.a sounds good to me!!!
0 Comments, 324 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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which is the best way to keep her attention after initial contact? 8/24/2005
i tend to want to find out about someone first general chit
chat like what they have done today blah blah.
but what i really want to do is ask what turns her on an how
can i satify her every desire without coming across as a
perv.
which method is best to encourage an actual meet?
mr general chit chat or mr cant wait to rip your knickers
off?
0 Comments, 205 Views,
3 Votes
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A Very Unexpected "First Date" 8/16/2005
This is not just a fantasy--it really happened. The fantasy
is that it WILL happen to me again.
<br>
One night when I went to visit a woman at her home for the first
time, I was surprised to see that she had answered the door
with only her robe on.
<br>
When she saw that it was I, she let the robe drop to the floor,
exposing her naked body. Then she said, "Well, come ...
1 Comments, 1235 Views,
22 Votes
,4.45 Score
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A First For Maggie 8/16/2005
We had meet at a bar, a gay one.
In the day, it was all we had really. We sat had a few shots,
I gave her a few single syllable words, accompanied with
smiles of fained interest, and
went back to her apartment.
She lived on the cornor of Date and Ala Wai Blvd. She had been
sombody once, and now all that was left of her
was the faded remnants of her youth propped up in portraits ...
1 Comments, 1421 Views,
34 Votes
,6.39 Score
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The best _____. 8/14/2005
If you could fill in the blank, what would you say is the best
part of a first date?
<br>
(i.e. The best kiss, the best dinner).
<br>
Besides that, what are they key things that most of you look
for on first dates? Is it all about sex? (Especially on this
site)
1 Comments, 436 Views,
0 Votes
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First-time experiences from Swapfinder.com . . . 8/13/2005
I've been on and off Swapfinder.com since 2001. I've met probably
eight women in person as a result of Swapfinder.com, and I've actually
had sex with five of them.
<br>
Ironically, all five that I did have sex with happened on
the first (and some times only meeting). But I will say all
of those meetings were preceeded by several phone conversations,
IM sessions and exchange of pictures.
<br>
...
5 Comments, 1150 Views,
15 Votes
,3.74 Score
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How should the perfect first date end? 8/12/2005
Woman or stereotypied as whores if they want sex on the first
date. they are not whores just human. If the attraction
is mutual then go for it. We are all adults. Why can't
a first date end in sex? We meet people on this site and the
men some times offer to travel or fly you in. Some even offer
you dream vacations with luxurious accomadations. If
it is the first time meeting this person and ...
2 Comments, 643 Views,
29 Votes
,6.75 Score
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first meeting with d and k 8/10/2005
it was over a year ago and i met this great couple here on Swapfinder.com.
we chatted online for weeks and finally decided to meet.
i had to take time off work because i'd have to travel
200 miles one direction to visit them. k, she was all excited,
d, was, too. it was my first time to meet a couple for the possibility
of a sexual encounter. we had dinner together then went
back to their place ...
2 Comments, 456 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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first date!! 8/9/2005
Hi guys!!Here is a very simple question but i guess the answer
is TRICKY!!
How can u make the first date a way to bed???
0 Comments, 468 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Can the sensational feelings of a first kiss be duplicated? 8/7/2005
You know the feelings that I am talking about. You have been
flirting back and forth now for nearly a month just trying
to seduce the other person while aligning your schedules
to get the opportunity to meet for the first time. You have
been exchanging e-mails back and forth, at first simplistic
and general and then very detailed and descriptive. You
may have even "rubbed one out" while ...
1 Comments, 215 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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BLIND DATES 8/6/2005
IS IT ME OR BLIND DATES A WASTE OF TIME. MY FRIEND AND I HAD
A BLIND DATE WE SPENT ALL DAY PREPAREING FOR THIS ENCOUNTER.
THE GIRL I MET WAS KEEN BUT MY MATE DIND'T HAVE ANY LUCK.
CAN PEOPLE JUDGE A CHARECTER IN THE FIRST FEW MOMENTS ON
MEETING OR DOSE IT TAKE TIME. I BELIEVE THAT MOST PEOPLE
WHO GO ON BLIND DATES ARE NERVEOUS AND THAT NERVOUSENESS
CAN REFLECT ON THE WHOLD SAGA OF BLIND ...
0 Comments, 149 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Our First Date 8/2/2005
My wife and I will be married for 13 years this October. But
it almost ended before it started. We met in the Air Force
at Lowry AFB in Denver Colorado. While I was waiting for
my classes to start I would perform different duties around
the training squadron. One day I had to a plumber
in the women’s side of the dorm. The plumber was banging
away on a pipe in this room and I was standing ...
2 Comments, 513 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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The First Night With Kevin* 8/2/2005
I remember when I first saw my old man naked, we where getting
ready to fuck, I took one look at him, and said " No FUCKIN
WAY!!!", " I have no idea what you expect me to
do with that, but I'm sorry because I can not help you".
He laughed a long time, really hard gut laughs, and said"
Whats the matter baby?, You never seen a cock this big?".
Well me, being all of 5 feet 2 inches, and 110 ...
0 Comments, 1651 Views,
31 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Not using condoms 7/31/2005
If u get youself involved with some chick who wants to just
skip the condom and wants your dick inside of her - BACK OFF
MAN!!! - probably many other dicks without condoms on them
have been where your dick is about to go; at the VERY LEAST
bag that fucker with a Trojan or a Durum, and fuck that bitch
like a motherfucker hard and like hell!
1 Comments, 343 Views,
17 Votes
,1.15 Score
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Ouch she's hot 7/30/2005
The hot sun bore down as I walked the parking lot looking
for her. I looked back and forth. My mind was racing with
hundred of thoughts, what could happen what was going to
happen. Keep it cool and just be observant.
<br>
She drove up in a new silver Nissan. The car had been cleaned
in detail and it shone brightly. She opened her door while
I glanced in and she was simply a ...
1 Comments, 321 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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Flowers 7/30/2005
I recently went on a first date, and brought flowers. I got
the reaction of what the hell did you get these for? Am I being
too old fashioned, or do women not like to receive flowers
from a gentleman?
6 Comments, 355 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Sonja first time with Black 7/29/2005
When the doorbell rang Sonja’s palms were damp with perspiration.
She knew what waited on the other side. Sonja was aware that
her life would never be the same as she opened the door. On
the other side stood the key to Sonja’s destiny he towered
over her, James was a six foot four 230 lb mountain of a black
man. Standing at five eight and 145 lbs Sonja was astonished
at the ...
3 Comments, 2264 Views,
39 Votes
,6.82 Score
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She Said I Was her First 7/27/2005
We had meet at a bar, a gay one. In the day, it was all we had
really. We sat had a few shots, I gave her a few single syllable
words, accompanied with smiles of fained interest, and
went back to her apartment. She lived on the cornor of Date
and Ala Wai. She had been sombody once, and now all that
was left of her, was the faded remnants of her youth propped
up in portraits ...
1 Comments, 703 Views,
19 Votes
,4.31 Score
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all the way? 7/24/2005
what percentage of the time would you say a meet and greet
lead to more on the first night?
2 Comments, 505 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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sex on the first date. 7/24/2005
How many people walk into a first date with intentions on
sex?
0 Comments, 360 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Sex in the park 7/21/2005
Recently I contacted a lonely, married, woman online.
We arranged to meet at a coffe shop that is a discreet distance
from both of our houses. In the parking lot we decided to
go for a drive into the mountains to discuss what each of
us is looking for in an exmarital relationship. Whil talking
I discovered that her husband has been neglecting her emotionally
and physically for a few years ...
2 Comments, 1034 Views,
26 Votes
,5.83 Score
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one night in the sky 7/20/2005
i used to work in a skycraper in downtown Miami and one night
a decided to have dinner in the roof of the 54 stories building.
the night started like i planned the candles in different
colors and scent, music, the sky was clear blue with a lot
of stars everything was set for when she come. around 11
of the night she appeared as planned she looked gorgeous
with a red dress, black shoes her ...
0 Comments, 257 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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What do mature ladies want on here? 7/17/2005
A first date with a mature lady on this site - what will they
want?
Will it be sex on the first night?
Will they want to get to know you better first?
<br>
Obviously, everyone is different but what do the majority
want?
<br>
Any input from you ladies out there would be welcomed.
2 Comments, 492 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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But it was an accident! Well, almost.. 7/14/2005
I gotta tell you about my 33rd birthday. It fell in the middle
of the week that year and I worked that day. I hadnt planned
anything for that night but about 10 days ahead of time my
mother was trying to set me up with a slightly older divorcee
named Cassie. They both worked in the same office, and mom
thought she needed to get out. We talked on the phone several
times and agreed to meet ...
0 Comments, 1070 Views,
18 Votes
,4.35 Score
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To err is human, to be a loser unique 7/13/2005
as first dates go, this one was a real "winner."
he picked me up 30 minutes late. we had previously decided
on dinner, then, a movie. when we got to the place we were
supposed to dine, he said the service was that of a 10 year
old with a severe case of ADHD. then, he bullied the
waiter to the point i was afraid to eat my food out of the fear
that they may have spit in it. when he ...
1 Comments, 97 Views,
49 Votes
,8.34 Score
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At her door 7/12/2005
After the first date, you'd walk the girl to her house,
right? So you arrive at her house, talk a little more, and
then both of you start to stare around: to the wall or sky.
Then you get that it is the time to say goodbye. But can you
take it further?
Now, every guy in here wants to end the first night with a
goodnight kiss. So you plan your move towards her lips.
But what if she pulls ...
1 Comments, 302 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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am I doing this right 7/9/2005
maybe I just don't know how to work this site, but I don't
seem to be having much luck. does anybody have any advice?
2 Comments, 345 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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WHAT WOULD YOU DO ON THE FIRST DATE 7/8/2005
Ok. We have all been tempted to do things on the first date,
that have turned into a complete disaster! I know I have...
I have gone as far as actually trying to kiss the girl because
you she looked to good. So I'm going to ask this questions.
You meet somone on this site, you have been talking to that
person for a week now and you have hit it off better then expected?
You want to make ...
0 Comments, 276 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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You these on the first date. 7/8/2005
Ok. We have all been tempted to do things on the first date,
that have turned into a complete disaster! I know I have...
I have gone as far as actually trying to kiss the girl because
you she looked to good. So I'm going to ask this questions.
You meet somone on this site, you have been talking to that
person for a week now and you have hit it off better then expected?
You want to make ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Best Orgasm Ever! 7/7/2005
I worked in a motel and was seperated from my husband going
through a divorce I really needed to go out and have a good
time. I had been checking a guy out staying at the motel and
thought what the hell..so i called his room and asked if
he had any plans for the weekend? We went out and the whole
time we were at the bar I kept thinking damn I need to see him
naked..so I said lets go back to ...
6 Comments, 1975 Views,
49 Votes
,3.77 Score
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How to act 7/7/2005
How should someone act on their first date. I mean, if you
are a sheep shearer and can't string two woprds together,
or if you are a prude, what do you do?
Would you just be yourself like everyone says they are or
do you act and portray yourself the way you think she would
like you to be. Because when you make the attraction, usually
the other person will then take you for what you are.
1 Comments, 156 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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where to go 7/7/2005
Could i please have a few ideas from you wonderful people
out there as to where to take a lady on the first date.......don't
be afraid to be creative.
1 Comments, 131 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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"The Wrong Number" 7/5/2005
After answering the phone, I heard this voice ask"what
should I wear tonight?" CAught off guard; I replied"as
little as possible" or "my favorite thing on
you would be me." I can hear the blush in your voice
as you reply, "I think that I have the wrong number."
Quickly I reply"are you sure, it sounds as if you
are looking to have fun." "If that is the case,
you have the right number." You ...
0 Comments, 758 Views,
25 Votes
,5.01 Score
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Gotta be carefull 7/4/2005
First time i decide to finally hook up with someone on this
site was a couple months ago...i mean things seemed ok..she
said she was married and that they agreed to have an open
relationship...my mistake was not talkin to the man before
anything happened..later that night her husband stops
back at the house kinda drunk..then leaves lookin upset...then
bout 15 minutes after she recieves a ...
3 Comments, 803 Views,
23 Votes
,2.78 Score
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group sex on first date??? 7/4/2005
i met this crazy chick once we had sex on the first date at
her house and her girlfreind walked in on us cause she was
bi but she joined in it was great bt think i should still date
this chick
1 Comments, 865 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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SHould you have sex on the first date 7/4/2005
I have been interested in this girl who really wants to sleep
with me. I really want to have sex with her our first date
but if i dont push it i think she will. SHould i go with it or
should i wait
2 Comments, 325 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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are you real? 7/4/2005
I was just wondering, how many time it take you to find out
that, the person, girl or guy, in this case a girl, on the
other side of the screen is just a joke, that the other person
is not realy interested in any relationship but just "fuc...."
around and laughing at you.
1 Comments, 198 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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itz can't forgot my first ......... 7/2/2005
itz pain , pain..nothing more
0 Comments, 1162 Views,
27 Votes
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Making out or going all the way on first date? 7/1/2005
Who likes to just make out on the first date, and not necessarily
take it all the way?
3 Comments, 217 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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The top two mistakes women make 6/30/2005
This goes for first contacts too, "If not mostly"
1) For God sakes save.."What do you do?" for
later. It screams golddigger If asked too soon.
If he's a CEO, or a garbage man, It tells a wise man your
all about is income.... It's a yellow flag for a guy
looking for LTR.
2) Don't fish for compiments. You may very well be showered
with them after you get to know eachother better. But ...
3 Comments, 496 Views,
15 Votes
,2.98 Score
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A nightmare first date 6/30/2005
I must preface this by stating that I was an Alterboy in my
youth prior to becoming a lapsed Catholic.
<br>
I had a temporary duty assignment to Kenya while in the Army.
I was staying at a Hilton and went to the bar to talk to my Kenyan
counterpart. After a few drinks I noticed a very attractive
woman a few chairs from us. After I finished with the Kenyan,
I went to talk to the ...
0 Comments, 305 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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Kisses muah! 6/29/2005
If you kiss a guy on the first date, does that mean your planning
to do more with the guy in the future? I have often asked women
this but they are hesitant to answer. I dont understand
how a girl can feel perfectly fine to kiss one type of guy
on the first date but not other types. Is it that you lose
yourself in the moment with some guys or what, I just dont
get it.
0 Comments, 158 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The Perfect Man 6/29/2005
I met he perfect man on Swapfinder.com; he was tall, dark, handsome,
smart, damn he was perfect. The first time we met I knew we'd
have amazing, fucking, crazy, cumming in buckets sex.
Boy was I right. The first time I ever had simultaneous orgasms
with someone was with him. He shoved his long, hard, thick
cock in my pussy and I was so loud I KNOW the neighbors heard
and were jealous. He showed ...
5 Comments, 1578 Views,
45 Votes
,4.33 Score
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yearning for more! 6/29/2005
he answered my site, ,i liked his reply, , added him to
my hotlist..he gave a phone number to call, said he would
be in my state for a wedding, and wanted to hook-up, , i didn't
call..but thought about him often..he replied again with
phone number and was going to be here agian for a few days..
i called him..liked the sound of his voice and easy manner..we
decided to meet for a drink and go ...
1 Comments, 773 Views,
15 Votes
,4.66 Score
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Location 6/28/2005
What's the best place for a first date? Is it better
to be super-safe and go somewhere crowded, or would it be
better to go somewhere more intimate and leave yourself
open?
1 Comments, 147 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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First Meeting 6/27/2005
A few years ago I met a 43 year old divorced lady online who
lived about 3 hr away. We chatted online and innuendo led
to erotic chat and eventually making each other cum online.
We learned what each of us liked and it was very similar.
We agree to meet at a hotel midway between on a Saturday.
I immediately went to a room which she was in and the first
time I saw her, I took her in ...
0 Comments, 708 Views,
16 Votes
,4.30 Score
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Our First 6/26/2005
We met a gal through Swapfinder.com. As my wife is bi, she chatted with
her for awhile, said HI on cam and then met for coffee. She
ask if it was alright with me for a girl on girl, and I said
sure, but it turned out our date wanted to play with us both.
She came to our house and we spent the afternoon together.
Since then we have become great friends (with benefits).
1 Comments, 782 Views,
15 Votes
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What maeks a good first date? 6/25/2005
A friend and I were discussing this not long ago. He thinks
that a very fancy date with lots of romantic (and expensive)
things are necessary. I believe that all that time and money
is wasted until you get to know someone. There are ways to
have a very pleasant evening without going overboard.
What do you all think?
1 Comments, 98 Views,
4 Votes
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expectations!! 6/19/2005
wow, talked to him on-line and phone for 5 months...we seemed
to be on the "same page"..he knew what i liked
and he told me what he wanted..ummm, was exciting to anticipate
our "meeting"..we agreed to share costs..being
a practical type, didn't expect him to pay everything,
it was going to be my party too!!
we talkedon computer the day we were to meet, , he made arrangements
for half-way ...
1 Comments, 1016 Views,
24 Votes
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a Libarians Longing.... 6/19/2005
It was a nice spring June morning just passed.......I logged
onto to Swapfinder.com.....after only being in chat for a short while
a name appeared that aroused curiousity. Without hesitation
I responded with a Hello........she responded back. We
discovered we were both in the same city, same area of town.
I asked her what she was doing...and she immediately told
me she was getting ready for work, but ...
0 Comments, 666 Views,
17 Votes
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respond to what you think will happen 6/17/2005
Sunday I have a date with a beautiful woman. She's 5"11,
120 lbs, and she is have white and have spanish. She goes
to the University of Miami and hasn't been with a man
in 5 months. She doesn't want to spend the night with
me in my hotel room(she 1/2 hour north of LA and I'm San
Diego) cause she is so horny and doesn't want to have
sex the first date. I would like to see what men ...
0 Comments, 325 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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dating vs hooking up 6/15/2005
I'm curious what behaviour people would find offensive
or acceptable on a first meeting, and how those expectations
may differ on a traditional date as opposed to a planned
potential sexual encounter.
1 Comments, 166 Views,
7 Votes
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My First Mating with John (2) 6/14/2005
As John began to undress me he started exploring my ears
and nipples with his tongue. My cock was throbbing to be
released from my shorts and as he slid his face down my chest
he avoided direct contact with my shaft. My shorts fell
to the floor and I was completely naked before him, he still
in a stylish suit although his tie had been removed.
<br>
I seized the moment and ...
2 Comments, 792 Views,
26 Votes
,5.83 Score
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Ugh.1st dates.... 6/14/2005
Hi nice to meet you, can we move on to our 3rd date now &
just get naked?
1 Comments, 214 Views,
3 Votes
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Unforgettable First Date!!! 6/14/2005
First date I had was attending a high school dance. We were
at that age where our bodies just oozed with hormones. It
was so evident when we were on the dance floor. Neither one
of us spoke much. Our bodies did all the talking. She was
a little older
than I was and very hot in her skin tight mini dress.
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We loved to slow dance as we pressed our bodies ...
1 Comments, 1503 Views,
33 Votes
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First date with Jack 6/12/2005
I never had an experience quite like this. I met him on a web
site, we chatted briefly and we decided to meet at a local
bar. His online picture was a little dark but I had a rough
idea what he looked like. I didnt know what to expect so I
got to the bar a little early. I ordered my beer and shot of
crown royal and stood at a table right inside the door so
I can watch who was coming and ...
2 Comments, 1715 Views,
50 Votes
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The Paw... 6/12/2005
I have found out while dating anyone from this site, on
Our first date no matter how I tell them I just want to become
friends first before we actually bang each other, ,and
they agree to it, ,they still on Our first date, ,are all
over me and pawing me, God forbid if you invite them to the
couch, ,you are then done for, Whats with you guys, ,do
you NOT understand the meaning of friends ...
2 Comments, 594 Views,
6 Votes
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wifes first black cock 6/8/2005
my wife happended to meet this dingle black home owner after
cleaning for him for 8 or 9 mounts he had the balls to ask her
if she knew any married white women looking to try some black
cock we had been fantisieng about that for a long time then
one night he called and said his company had put him up in
a ritsy hotel and envited us down to see him it was a super
turn on going to take my ...
4 Comments, 2532 Views,
40 Votes
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Nervous at first 6/6/2005
It seems that the first time I'm with a women, I get very
nervous. Sometimes it affect my ability to get get a hard-on.
After the first, there doesn't seem to a probablem.
Antone else have this problem? Any advice on how to over
come it?
0 Comments, 367 Views,
4 Votes
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The First Meeting 6/6/2005
Hi all, just wondering if anyone had any good ideas or what
works for you as a place for a first meeting? or what do you
do on that first meeting?
I personally try to meet somewhere that's public (very
public) and that provides a place to sit and relax to talk.
I mean after all, after we talk, or while we are talking,
we can decide to go to that restaurant, bar, etc... provided
we are ...
0 Comments, 175 Views,
2 Votes
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how it went 6/4/2005
We are meeting for the first time. We have exchanged pictures.
We have exchanged e- mail. We have chatted on line. I am meeting
you at the airport. You are flying in from another part of
the state. I am nervous and I hope you are also.
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I changed my clothes at least ten times trying to find just
the right thing to wear for our first meeting. I settled
on a floral ...
1 Comments, 317 Views,
11 Votes
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How would you make someone not feel nervous 6/2/2005
I am going to be one of those very nervous first time girls.
I'm hoping someone will gently introduce me to the
first time experince of being with a female.
So next time all you girls or guys go and meet the other person
for there first time experince with the same sex then maybe
you could stop and think that they maybe as nervouse as all
hell so try and suduce them and make them feal ...
0 Comments, 265 Views,
10 Votes
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Be who you claim to be! It never pays to pretend 6/2/2005
I met a girl the other night who was not at all who she claimed
to be. I kissed her once because I was drunk, but she left
a bad taste in my mouth, so I left. How disenchating!
0 Comments, 181 Views,
2 Votes
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My date with Robert from Swapfinder.com 6/2/2005
We had emailed and chatted for over two months before we
finally met. He knew everything abouth me. I arrived at
his home about 10 am, he's long divorced and had several
failed relationships with natural women and he was convinced
that a willing crossdresser would be better. He was so nice.
Dim lights in a comfortable living room. Soft music and
cocktails on the couch. A lot of small talk, ...
1 Comments, 1325 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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What is it that would turn you completely OFF on a first date? 6/1/2005
That can be a very difficult question for some, only because
it seems as if the more your date has in common with your general
requirements, the more you'll let them slide on things
that you may dislike.
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However, I don't care how much money a man has or how
great-looking he is (or even how big his dick may appear
underneath those fine slacks), the minute he starts to
brag, ...
1 Comments, 268 Views,
9 Votes
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Recent date with a member 5/25/2005
I arrived early about 9:30 am. The house was very dimly lit
as i entered the door. He was very nice and pointed to the
bathroom to get dressed. I joined him in the living room
where he had a porno film on the big screen. He handed me a
drink of vodka and orange juice and he was very sweet as he
started a conversation. His sound system was incredible
and had a great selection of music. And ...
1 Comments, 1487 Views,
47 Votes
,1.75 Score
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out of town 5/24/2005
Like most meetings on Swapfinder.com, the connection was long distance.
She lived about 200 clicks south of me, in the second biggest
town in New Mexico. We are spread pretty far apart here in
the Southwest.
The electricity must have come thru the wires, because
it was lust at first encounter. We hit it off and decided
that we had to meet one of these days, and then it grew into
how about next ...
1 Comments, 269 Views,
5 Votes
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1st Date Sex Leads to Long-term Relationships 5/24/2005
It's possible that I'm the only person this ever
happens to, but I doubt it. I have had 3 relationships lasting
about one year. two of those involved sex on the first date.
The shortest of the three made me wait for a couple of weeks.
If you meet somone special you should not wait to have sex
with them. Everyone knows that at some time or another you
have had sex on a first date. If ...
0 Comments, 280 Views,
9 Votes
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surprised 5/24/2005
we were sitting at a pub next to the sea. it was a breezy night.
we chatted and laughed. he asked me if someone ever petted
with me before. i asked him what is that. he was surprised
by my reply. then we left the pub as he offered to pet with
me. he led me to his car and we petted, sucked..
1 Comments, 1512 Views,
38 Votes
,3.57 Score
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sex on the first 5/23/2005
ok so here it is again. now im sure in some point in time everybody
has done it, some people regret it, some people live for
it, but why does it seam that it is always intense and exceptionaly
good
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10 Votes
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1st 3sum 5/21/2005
My wife Rose and I had been fantasizing about her getting
fucked by another man for quite a while. I looked around
on the web for months before I finally talked to Mike. I told
him I wanted to see a current STD test including proof of
-HIV. Mike had some experience arranging gangbangs and
3sums. It took some time to convince Rose to at least meet
with Mike.
<br>
...
3 Comments, 1524 Views,
42 Votes
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2005-04-29
The Skirt
20 years. 20 years of marriage. 20 years of control. 20 years
of frustration.
I married my high school sweetheart half way through university.
His background and family didn’t want us to live together
unless we were married and we wanted to save rent. I was a
virgin until our honeymoon night. I was looking forward
to experiencing sex so much, but it went flat. He came inside
me so fast that I barely felt anything except pain. It didn’t
get a lot better. He only seemed to think of himself, leaving
my pleasure ignored. One time I asked if he could lick me
below, but he got so angry that he slapped me and left a bruise
on my cheek.
He wouldn’t let me go out by myself. I had to defend my whereabouts
to him constantly. When we did go out together he was always
looking around to see who was watching me. I wasn’t bad looking,
but I ended up wearing frumpy clothes to avoid gathering
attention ‒ which I so desperately wanted!
Four years ago I decided it was time for something
to change.
I was getting older, yet there was no talk of children. I
stopped taking my birth control without him knowing. I
knew my cycle, and at the right time, I enticed him to have
sex. After three or four months, I found
out I was pregnant.
I thought that if he had a child to love, he would love me as
well. How mistaken I was!
After two years of mental abuse, I knew that he loved
neither
me nor my son. Then he left. I came home from work one day,
and all his things were gone! There was a message for me to
call his lawyer. How blind I was! He had been seeing another
girl on the side for years! He had finally run off with her,
leaving me with our son and the house. He offered to leave
me to house if I didn’t seek child support. I was OK with that
as I didn’t want him to have any rights with our son. I sold
the house and moved in with my sister. She has two
kids and
kicked her husband out. She is in business and took control
when things were going badly.
I moped around for a few months, not sure what to do with my
life. I started working for my sister’s company, which
worked out well, and hung around the house, not sure what
to do. Sis started to encourage me to get out a little. She
was always telling me how sexy I was. My son is still breastfeeding
three or four times a day, and I’m a 38DD
because of it. I have
a nice bum, and I have managed to get in pretty reasonable
shape after the baby.
Then she showed me “the skirt.” She had bought it, but could
never bring herself to wear it. It was black and short. Not
mini-short, more of micro-short. I tried it on for her to
see. If I pulled the top down just to the top of my bum crack,
the bottom would cover my privates ‒ only just. I felt so
sexy in that skirt! I dreamed about going out in it and getting
attention. I looked for tops to go with it and found just
what I needed. I don’t like bras and wear one as little as
possible. My nipples are big and hard much of the time, not
to mention they occasionally leak. I found a lemon yellow
t-shirt that fit and hung beautifully. It showed the shape
of my breasts, let my nipples poke out, and stopped about
two inches above my belly button. Of course it was
several
inches out from my stomach at that point, but that added
to the effect! But when could I wear it? Who could I go out
with, dressed like that?
My sister had her friend, a professional photographer,
over a few weeks ago. They were talking about glamour photography
and how she’d like to practice before hiring a professional
model. I volunteered and we played around for a while. In
the end there was only on picture she liked, and she gave
me a copy. It was more work that I expected, but it was a hot
picture! She also got one of my sister in “the skirt”.
Then I found Swapfinder.com. Could I find someone on there to help me
get through my desires? Would there be a place for me to wear
my new sexy outfit? Could I find someone who could give me
the pleasure I’d never had?
It didn’t take long to find out. I put up the pictures I had,
along with a pretty broad description of what I wanted.
Within hours of it going live, hundreds of responses started
coming in. It was hard to keep up, but boy, did it give me some
confidence in myself! One of the first guys I chatted with
invited me to meet him and a couple of his friends invited
me to a bar on Thursday night. It was going to happen! I was
excited all day about it, thinking about how sexy it would
be and how people would look at me! I called a cab and went
out in the wind and rain. My coat didn’t show much to the cabbie,
but I could tell that he was liked what he could see. In the
bar, I found my “date” right away.
Why are men so mean? In the first five minutes of
me showing
up dressed so sexily for him, he laughed at me, put me down,
called me nasty names, then wanted to touch me! I admit that
my outfit said “touch me!”, but it sure would be nice if we
could have established a bit of a rapport first!
Then it happened. I was just about in tears, wanting so badly
to get up and go home, when a girl in the booth next to us came
over. Did she ever tell those guys where to go! She told them
straight out how nasty they sounded and how hurtful the
words were! I was so in awe of her forwardness. Then she said,
“Would you like to come with me, these guys certainly don’t
seem to have much to offer you!”
Bernice was my age, my height, brown hair, green eyes, a
little heavier than me, wearing a tight black skirt and
a stretchy black t-shirt. She wasn’t wearing a bra either,
but she didn’t show as much as I was. I got up to follow her,
and she suggested to go to another bar to get away. I agreed,
we retrieved our coats and got a cab. Bernice had just had
a fight with her boyfriend. He’d gone out for a smoke (part
of the argument) and she told him she was leaving and moving
out. While he was out of the bar, getting drenched for the
sake of a smoke, she heard the guys berating me and decided
to step in.
As we walked into the second bar, all eyes turned and all
conversation stopped. I almost wanted to run away, then
decided to make the most of it. I did a quick turn to say something
to Bernice, and made sure that my skirt lifted enough for
everyone to see that there was nothing underneath. There
was a bit of a collective gasp. We sat in a somewhat secluded
booth and ordered some wine. We started to talk about our
pasts, our lives, and our desires. She too had had some bad
experiences with guys, and told me how turned on she was
by women, particularly me. She gently asked if she could
touch my breasts. Of course she could! She was so gentle
and it was so exciting! I asked her to touch lower down, where
nobody by I had touched with hands before. She didn’t even
have to lift my skirt to find me damp. She whispered “Lets
leave that for later” and I agreed.
At that point, two rude guys who had been watching
us came
over and went straight into some rude remarks and suggestions.
We told them in no uncertain terms where they could go! I
let Bernice take the lead, and loved the feeling of control
when we turned them away, knowing that they wanted us! A
little while later, over our third drink, another guy came
in and joined them. We could see that they were setting him
up for a tongue lashing from the two of us, and he
approached.
He was kind, polite and gentle. We invited him to sit between
the two of us. Sure enough, he’d been set up, but
he refused
to be crude or suggestive, though he did let us know how sexy
he found us. As a “reward”, Bernice suggested that he touch
both of us below and let his friends smell what they had lost
out on by being so rude! Yes, he went for it, yes they saw it,
yes they gave him a very hard time!
By this time I had a good buzz going. I don’t drink much and
I was feeling it. Bernice wanted to touch me again. I agreed
as long as it was reciprocal. My touching her soft breasts
was such a turn on! I could feel my body reacting as she touched
my breasts. At this point the manager came over, sat with
us for a minute (bringing drinks “on the house” and told
us that while he appreciated our business, we should be
careful as he could get in trouble for allowing “lewd acts
in public” as could we. We stopped the touching, but held
hands and got drunker (is that a word?). We couldn’t stop
completely, and then it happened. Her hand between my legs
brought on my milk. Two wet circles appeared over
my nipples.
The thin yellow t-shirt showed everything! The manager
came over again (with more drinks), but I think this time
was just to see me better. He didn’t give us a hard time, though
there was a tiny reminder. At this point I had to pee. There
was a long line in the women’s room, and I didn’t want to wait!
I walked boldly into the men’s room. There were a few clunks
as jaws hit the floor over my teeny skirt and wet shirt. I
walked up to the urinal, spread my lips with my fingers,
and peed perfectly straight where I wanted it. No worries
about panties or skirts for me! I was already pretty wet
between the legs, so I didn’t worry about an extra few drops.
I washed my hands and boldly walked back to Bernice. I was
tipsy and tired.
“Are you ready to go home?” I asked Bernice. She started
to cry. She did not want to go back to her boyfriend’s place,
and she had nowhere else to go. That was a problem with an
easy solution. I told her that my sister would be more than
pleased to have her in the house for the night, and I certainly
would! We caught a cab, she stopped by her place to get a small
bag, and we went to my house. Sis was still up and was astounded,
shocked, and turned on by my appearance. She was thrilled
that I’d found Bernice, and did all she could to make her
feel at home.
But we were ready for bed ‒ not sleep, bed. On my double bed
with satin sheets, Bernice showed me things that I wish
I known 20 years ago. The taste of a woman was so invigorating,
the feel of gentleness and soft breasts on mine was what
I’d always wanted! We were naked on the bed, and she pulled
a couple things from her bag. I wasn’t sure what they were,
shaped very funny yet familiar. She said, “don’t worry
Kerry, this will do more for you than I can do, and she slipped
it into my vagina and turned it on. The sensation was unbearable
yet so pleasuring. I was so full, yet something was tickling
my clitoris. It kept building and building, thought I was
going to scream! I don’t know how long it was, but I had an
orgasm for the first time ever, then I passed out.
The next thing I knew, light was coming in through the window,
and I was in my bed hugging a beautiful, buxom, brown haired
lady. We took a shower together before my son woke up. I introduced
them, and they fell in love with each other. Over breakfast
with sissy we talked of the future. We had an extra room (in
the basement with me) where she could move in. We talked
about a few conditions, and agreed on it being a trial month
to decide if she wants to stay, or if we want her to stay.
<br>
She can have her own room, but I’m hoping that she can spend
most nights in my bed!
Kerry
April 29, 2005 Soulmate113 on Swapfinder.com and gmail
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Typoglocemia 5/10/2005
Don't delete this because it looks weird. Believe
it or not you can read it ...
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I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht
I was rdanieg The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid Aoccdrnig
to rscheearch taem at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't
mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt
tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit ...
2 Comments, 471 Views,
32 Votes
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Date with work colleague 5/6/2005
I'm due to take a girl from work out for a drink on Friday.
We both have partners but agree it could be fun seeing each
other. Is it a case of what our partners don't know won't
hurt them?
2 Comments, 525 Views,
9 Votes
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Don't take to meet your parents! 4/17/2005
Recently I separated from my wife and I have really been
hitting the dating scene hard. Against my better judgement
I went out on a date with a 33 year old women, who I met while
checking out at a local suoermarket. She was the checker.
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I told her in advance where I was taking her to dinner. To
my amazement her parents happen to be dining at the same
restaurant, at the exact ...
0 Comments, 623 Views,
11 Votes
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is it ok to goto somoene's home? 4/14/2005
after you meet - what is the your policy on going back to someones
home?
4 Comments, 494 Views,
14 Votes
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First date top five. 4/14/2005
Dating people is a very difficult game, and if you don´t
take some things into consideration, first dates can drive
people away quite fast.
<br>
Howerver, if you follow these three rules you might find
yourself having breakfast with that special someone,
before "the third date".
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1. Take good care of your hygiene. Although there is people
out there that like dirty ...
0 Comments, 302 Views,
18 Votes
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big women, big fantasy 4/14/2005
I met this gal on the internet. She was a little heavy but
loves to suck cock. Small, big no difference, just as long
as she could taste that sweet cum run down her throat. Well,
we had the chance to meet one weekend, since we both decided
to drive 1/2 way and get a room with a Jacuzzi and a big bed.
Driving there I could almost feel her hand on my rock hard
cock. It kept me excited all ...
3 Comments, 1046 Views,
20 Votes
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what do you do on your first date? 4/11/2005
where do you go, what do you do? and even better do you split
the cost.. who pays?
1 Comments, 423 Views,
12 Votes
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She was Awesome 4/10/2005
I saw he bio on Swapfinder.com, she was just what i was looking for, a married
woman. We e-mailed for a couple weeks, then i asked if she`d
like to meet for lunch and get aquainted. We did, i picked
her up near wherew she lived, 3 miles from me. i asked her
where she would like to go, she said lets just go talk some
where private. I drove out to a park 5 miles out of town. We
chated a bit, she said i ...
0 Comments, 988 Views,
21 Votes
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The first encounter 4/8/2005
She put down the phone thinking, my god ‒ what have I done?
But he sounded OK and quite genuine and the worst that could
happen is that she would have to show him the door out if there
was no chemistry or desire at all.
<br>
It had been a fairly long day and things had not gone according
to plan and she would never drink alone, so it was a good excuse
to have a drink ...
1 Comments, 429 Views,
16 Votes
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The First Date 4/6/2005
The first date has become like a interview. First the parents
have to be pleased that there is going to be safe
and you are a nice person. And where to take your partner
on the first date, do you pay or share the nights costs. Sometime
during the date, the conversation moves to what you do,
how much you earn, and what are your future prospects. There
is no such thing as a first date ...
1 Comments, 819 Views,
46 Votes
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Sex 4/4/2005
We really like the first swing party we went to. It was an
older couple that was into clean fun sex. they provided
everything to make it safe and we were very impressed as
a new couple to this way of life. Why cant every party be like
this? If anyone knows where we can find all the clean ones
let us know!
0 Comments, 729 Views,
12 Votes
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Sex 4/4/2005
I have heard that sex on first dates is a bad thing. Well its
going on 2 years and we are still loving every second of it!!
We even met at a beer tent which made it even more interesting.
I sure gave it to her that night! She can still feel it. Now
we enjoy having sex with others too, and ive heard thats
bad too!! Ha ha Sincerly Male half
0 Comments, 389 Views,
9 Votes
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Is anybody out there? 3/31/2005
Has anyone out there actually meet anyone from this site.
Is it a waste of my time and energy. I've tried this site
before in the past with absolutly no responses. I have heard
from one or to women who seemed "interested"
but I'll reply to their message but never hear from
them agian. Am I doing something wrong? Does anybody have
any good advice? Just wanted to know.
5 Comments, 459 Views,
4 Votes
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First Time Import 3/29/2005
Our first date went almost as well as we could have dreamed.
We had been married for about 5 years when we joined Swapfinder.com.
After a lot of fantasy play at home, we decided it would be
nice to try a third. I was worried that I wouldn't be
able to do it and my husband was worried about the possible
emotional entanglements. We found a nice guy from another
country who was visiting our area. ...
2 Comments, 759 Views,
22 Votes
,4.69 Score
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He came back! 3/29/2005
sooo .. I ran across this guy here on Swapfinder.com from my home town
.. since the population of my town is a budding 30, 000 thats
not TOO strange, but since I'm only a standard member,
it makes it hard to actually FIND the local fucks!
<br>
We communicated back and forth for maybe 2 days, spoke on
the phone where we hit it off beautifully and then the following
day he came over to my ...
0 Comments, 1011 Views,
33 Votes
,4.34 Score
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My First Squirt !!!!!!! 3/28/2005
I am new to the dating scene and truthfully , new to computers
. But i have ended up in some chat rooms , and oh my god , it is
blowing my mind . I think it is soooo cool . If for no other
reason i get really nervous when meeting women face to face
. Here , I can sort of get a feel for what a woman is like , whether
they like me , and also see photos and vice versa . Well , I
met a lady ...
2 Comments, 503 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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So I recently made love to a much younger woman... 3/26/2005
She is 22 and I am almost 50. Introduced over a nice dinner
by a mutual friend who was, in effect, her mentor. I don't
really know what struck her fancy; I was relaxed and warm,
but it was probably the wine. I had never before met any woman
who easily talked about anal...very interesting...We
had only just met...Her mentor showed no surprise, however.
<br>
I was further surprised to ...
3 Comments, 1065 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Don't Rush The First Kiss....Savor The Build Up... 3/26/2005
I recently had the opportunity to meet a wonderful lady
that I found through Swapfinder.com. We both needed to be discreet and
agreed that friendship would come before anything else.
Our meeting point was a matinee show at the local movie theater.
To be honest, I had only hoped for someone I could simply
enjoy spending time with, just laughing and talking. As
we sat and chit chatted waiting fo the ...
2 Comments, 284 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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interracail dates 3/22/2005
has anybody here experienced having a date with someone
who is not or his own race? can somebody tell me what the feeling.
2 Comments, 221 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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Where to go? 3/20/2005
As a man i know it is extremely hard to make a good impression
on a woman, but i have found that a good help is the location
of the first date. I would like to know from women, where
do you like to go and what do you like to do?
1 Comments, 211 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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our first sighting 3/19/2005
My first date with a person from Swapfinder.com turned into one of the
nicest times i have had. and horny.
We had been talking for some time on IC and had got hot and
steamy in cyber. We had promised each other the possibility
of playing out all our fantasies, and the tings we were going
to do to each other should not be allowed in print.
And here we were meeting for the first time. We knew how ...
3 Comments, 885 Views,
23 Votes
,3.71 Score
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just to let you know... 3/19/2005
On a first date please do not tell people all your baggage
it scares them. I know people say you should be honest and
you should but I don't know all my family baggage and
they have been around for years. So take you time when telling
people about yourself.
1 Comments, 229 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Advise? 3/17/2005
Any advise for an Swapfinder.com newbie? What is the best way to meet
people for sucsessful meetings? I am just looking for fun,
new experiences
2 Comments, 128 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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No show 3/17/2005
Follow up .
She asked to meet, well wye not i thout ? been talk for a long
time on computer.
And geting on great, so next step should be meeting, was
very nervice , haven done anthing like this before, so
she made the date , time , place for meeting great, gave
here plentyopertunety to call of but no definetly be there
.
Well buger me after traveling miles , waiting a couple of
houres ...
1 Comments, 157 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Watch out for lies!! 3/17/2005
I have noticed on this site that many men lie on their profile.
For instance, I met a guy who said he was 5'9 and built.
He also claimed to have 8" and lots of stamina. When
I met him in person he was shorter than me, I'm 5'6,
and he wasn't built. He also had the smallest thing
I had ever seen. Remember, even though most men are honest
you don't really know what you are getting no matter ...
4 Comments, 620 Views,
23 Votes
,3.60 Score
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1st Dates from Swapfinder.com 3/17/2005
If you are meeting someone from Swapfinder.com for the 1st time it is
always best to meet them in a public place. I know this is
said a lot but I have really met men who were very jealous
of me on 1st meet. I wasn't allowed to spaeak to anyone
but him, including the waitress. I have also met men you
were carrying weapons had had no reason to be. Honestly,
I have met a lot of strange people so I try to ...
1 Comments, 234 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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The worst first date 3/16/2005
OK so THis guy was so cute so smart and Just perfect, ... So
I thought. I met this guy threw a friend who braged he was
great we agreed to go on a date. He picks me up at my apt. and
it started out pretty normal. He had flowers awaiting me
in his car and then said he "needed" to inroduce
me to some one before the date continued. If any thing i had
expected an ex wife ex girlfriend whos ...
1 Comments, 948 Views,
34 Votes
,2.61 Score
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my first gay fuck in a rr 3/15/2005
my 18th bday i went to a gay bar and was givin some drinks i
wanted to be fuckd but i was scared i was aproched by a man
and he asked if i was even 18 i told him it was my bday and he
gave me a few shots i was a little drunk and had to piss so i
went into the craper and went to the bathroom whene i was
done i asked the man to help me get something and took him
out side we went outback and ...
0 Comments, 1407 Views,
27 Votes
,2.08 Score
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at the club 3/11/2005
I met this guy over the weekend at a club. It was really crowded
and I was dancing when he came up behind me and started dancing
with me. As I turned to see who it was, he started kissing
my neck and then without a work put his hand straight down
the front of my pants and starts fingering me, right in the
middle of the dance floor with tons of people around us.
I didn't even know who he ...
3 Comments, 1435 Views,
36 Votes
,6.60 Score
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Order Up? 3/10/2005
I have met a few ladies off of here, none really were who they
said they were, nor were they what I am personally looking
for.
<br>
First date: was a sweet girl, met at Starbucks, just to break
the ice in a public place. Talk a bit. Then we decided to go
to dinner.
<br>
We went to a fairly nice restaurant, she chose where to go.
I had $300 with me, and we went to ...
1 Comments, 576 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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he was irresistible 3/8/2005
well one evening on the eve of x, mas i was bored to death
so i decided to kill my boredom by getting online to see if
i could get someone to chat with.and well guess what?i entered
one adultfriender chatroom and i wrote boldly on my message
title asking if there was any one from my country in the room, and
ohh my god this wonderful guy just pm me and told me he stayed
just a few miles in ...
1 Comments, 854 Views,
23 Votes
,3.48 Score
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EXACTLY WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME! 3/8/2005
Ok everyone after that first & second date, things
seem to be going well, the both of you appear to be comfortable
with one another, both you have an urge to merge but only
one of u can beat the other too it.
<br>
So this an individual question.
In everyones honest opinion.... when do is it the right
time to make THE move?
<br>
DARQMACHINE
2 Comments, 250 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Arranging a first Swapfinder.com date 3/6/2005
I'm new and have wondered what relevant information
I should give/expect from a prospective mate. So far I'm
doing just about everything short of signing on to a silver/gold
account to show I'm being sincere. Pretty soon I'll
be confirming my ID and responding to messages left in my
inbox.
<br>
What else should I know and expect from someone interested
in me?
2 Comments, 263 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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sex 3/4/2005
Is sex on a first date a good idea? I like sex so I always want
to have sex but sometimes I think that if you wait longer
and build a relationship with the person it will become
much more meaningful and the sex will become that much better.
Thoughts?
5 Comments, 184 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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COME ON GUYS FUCK BUDDIES NOT BABYSITTERS 3/4/2005
Have to share this experience with you as it really is the
biggest turn off ever. Ok so I have my profile on here because
I want to meet for real. Not cyber not erotic mail but for
real. No lies not complications. Have, since joining had
a couple of meets with guys and had a couple of guys who after
arranging meetings chickened out. See guys its not just
the woment that do that. Anyway ...
5 Comments, 1535 Views,
43 Votes
,3.84 Score
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Weekend on the Water 3/1/2005
One day in an email, I mention I have a friend with a 26-foot
sloop in the water off the west coast. Suddenly Ken gets
excited. Our first trip together is a weekend in a small
craft on the ocean. Three marvelous days and two erotic
nights together. We arrange to meet at the airport and I
land just a few minutes before Ken's plane touches
down. In the short bus ride downtown we sit near the ...
1 Comments, 660 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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remembering your first make out then fuck session? 2/25/2005
I remember being at the drive-in movies with a really hot
chick from the next town over (chris). She was a strawberry
blonde (5'11'34b) and she has wearing a cute litle
white minishirt that had a v-shape cut in it showing off
the leg. Her tight blue tanktop had been soaked with mountain
dew from the dumb food guy looking at her when he handed her
the drink. So she took it off to only show ...
1 Comments, 577 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Our First Time 2/24/2005
I close my eyes and I dream of the day I'm standing behind
you whispering in your ear as I slowly slide the zipper of
your dress down until I can just see the outline of the curves
below. As my hand slowly slides down your shoulder I begin
to lightly caress the back of your neck ever so softly with
my lips. Moving closer my breath ever so softly brushes
against the hair on the back of your ...
0 Comments, 264 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Does anybody else get this? 2/24/2005
imagine if you will a lady that you really like, you approach
talk for a little while. then when it's time to ask her
out your brain comes out with multiple things to say. then
you open your mouth and say something so stupid you feel
as if you are depriveing a village of its idiot.
this is what happens to me does it happen to you?
3 Comments, 155 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score
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Mr. Right vs. Mr. Right Now 2/22/2005
This question I pose to the women:
On a first date or when considering going out on a first date
with a guy, what criteria distinguishes between a some
guy for tonite versus some guy who is a keeper?
1 Comments, 229 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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very bi-curious and very nurvous too... 2/22/2005
I have been bi-curious for a long time and have only recently
gotten up the nerve to go this far i have been talking here
with a guy not living too far from me. He is willing to come
to my area and meet with me. I am sooo nurvous about it and
have actualy not met with him or cancled because i am soo
nurvous. What do i do and how do i get myself to go thru with
it???
2 Comments, 723 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Best places? 2/21/2005
I'd say best places to take a girl on a first date is a
nice food, movie, maybe something else? Too lame or good
enough?
3 Comments, 103 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Best first date place 2/21/2005
I find that the best place to go on a first date is a nice cozy
bar, where you can chat and get to know your date. Also nice
to be able to have a few drinks as it sooths the situation.
<br>
Hope this helps
1 Comments, 111 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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SHOULD YOU 2/20/2005
WHAT IF YOU REALY LIKE THE GUY AND HE LIKES YOU SHOULD YOU
FUCK HIM ON THE FIRST DATE? I HAVE HAD THIS PROBLEM COME UP
I WANT TO BUT NOT FOR SURE IF I SHOULD. THE OLD TIME QUESTINS
COME TO MIND WHAT IF HE THINKS I AM EASY. WHAT IF HE HITS AND
RUNS. HOW DO WE GET PAST THIS WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE ADULTS BUT
SOME TIMES WE DON'T ACT IT.
8 Comments, 837 Views,
26 Votes
,2.81 Score
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places to go 2/18/2005
Ive always been pretty creative for first dates and i was
just wandering what were some of your creative ideas for
places to go and things to do on a first date and im not really
talking sexual stuff more of just for fun.
1 Comments, 142 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Don't do it gurls!!!! 2/18/2005
Imust tell all u folx out there, ...if you want to keep a
man or woman in your life for more than onenight, never
give away all the goodies within the first month that u know
them...tease them a bit, but not to the point u may not be
able to back out...you guyz know how some folx get...honey
they are crazy and u don't even knowit.....Anyway
guyz and chix....don't give itupon the first date ...
2 Comments, 359 Views,
17 Votes
,2.98 Score
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First Dates, a big deal? 2/13/2005
Why do we seem to have so much difficulty in being ourselves?
Shouldn't we just be "real" on a first date,
as we would hope to be in the rest of our lives? Be yourself,
show who you are and find out who your date is, it's not
difficult. There's enough stress, and pressure,
in society today. Make things "easy" for everyone,
BE REAL! Thank You!!
1 Comments, 105 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Sexy Ts Jessica and Cindys First Date 2/11/2005
It all begins with lunch where we become friendly and acquainted
as we gaze into each others eyes for the very first time.
We soon discover we are both gorgeous, shapely blondes
over 6'in heels with long, smooth legs and a love for
elegance. Your big blue eyes draw me right in and we soon
discover we are VERY attracted to one another. We knew physically
we were, but their is something else ...
0 Comments, 520 Views,
25 Votes
,4.79 Score
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My First Sexual Encounter with a Woman 2/6/2005
I was 29 years old! It was 3am. We were in my dorm room and had
been talking for hours. I was pathologically shy, and afraid
to make the first move. She was incredibly patient. Finally
I kissed her. I was shocked to feel her tongue deep in my mouth.
She was beautiful. Her brother was actually a fashion model.
She could have been a fashion model too - that's how
beautiful she was. But she ...
2 Comments, 1101 Views,
32 Votes
,3.90 Score
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Worst First Dates 2/5/2005
I just had my absolutely worst first date. I had spoken to
"Jo" several times on the phone and she told
me she worked for a local dating service. I thought it odd
she was using a different online service (not Swapfinder.com) to look
for people to date herself. We had quite a few intimate conversations
and I had checked out her profile online. Non-smoker social
drinker goes to Church weekly. Well ...
0 Comments, 450 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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We Met on Swapfinder.com 2/4/2005
Michelle and I have wanted to have a threesome for some time
now. I had enjoyed one in a previous life, so I wanted her
to pick what she wanted. Also her birthday is coming up,
and I wanted her to have one to remember.
We joined Swapfinder.com although I had some misgivings. I really thought
it would be a waste of time and money. Was I ever wrong! We
hooked up with a very nice guy who lived two ...
2 Comments, 991 Views,
35 Votes
,3.94 Score
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The Pressure 2/2/2005
What i have found in i guess my little experience dating
is that with all the excitement and anxiety of a first date
there is also another element it is the pressure one feels
on a first date. Thinking, "will be we be able to talk
to one another?" will he like me? will i like him? what
does he expect?... these are the things i'm sure goes
through every single person right before or while ...
1 Comments, 695 Views,
32 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Losing my virginity 2/1/2005
I was a virgin until I was 20. I was in the Air Force stationed
in Knob Noster MO. Because of my shyness the only way I could
communicate with women was through letters. This happened
in 1975. I was writing to this black woman in Arkansas. She
was 18 years older than me. At the time all I could think about
was sex and how horny I was. I was masturbating at least 3
times a day. ...
0 Comments, 700 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Not looking for a BBW 2/1/2005
I've met a few women off of Swapfinder.com. For the most part, my
experiences have been good. Let me say that I am in good shape
with a medium build. Larger women are just a real turnoff
for me. I tried once and could not even get an erection. Physically
i just cannot have sex with a large woman.
<br>
So I met this one woman who said a 'few extra pounds'.
She ended up to be very large. I ...
4 Comments, 591 Views,
17 Votes
,0.44 Score
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A fantastic date with a "newbie" 1/30/2005
I had a fantastic date with a guy who is a "newbie"
on Swapfinder.com. This was his first date, and I am so happy that I could
be the very first. I wish to "show him the ways"
of the fun I have found on Swapfinder.com.
The date started out great , with us playing pool and having
a couple of drinks. I made sure to bend over very nicely for
him with each shot I attempted. I can't play pool worth
a shit, but I ...
2 Comments, 1440 Views,
49 Votes
,6.09 Score
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Last Minute 1/30/2005
We met through a site much like this and chatted online for
about one month. She would usually messenger me when she
can and we'll chat, arousing each other, saying things
like we were lovers.
<br>
Then we decided to meet up. We planned to meet up at a shopping
mall and then adjourned to a hotel nearby.
<br>
I booked the hotel and the day arrived. I waited for her ...
0 Comments, 251 Views,
6 Votes
,0.52 Score
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First date with a BBW 1/30/2005
My first date with a BBW took place in Boise Idaho. She was
about 450 pounds. I remember when her friend drove her to
my place to visit me for the first time. She was into some
kinky things. Well not to be outdone, I had some toys of my
own. She got all hot and bothered when I inserted a dildo
into my ass. She took some photos for her collection. It
got her so hot that she gave the ...
1 Comments, 609 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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A first date 1 1/28/2005
I picked her up at home and went out to dinner. Went to pick
up some beer.
After a few drinks things started happening. We went to
my house and started talking moved on to kissing.
0 Comments, 401 Views,
10 Votes
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Complete Honesty 1/27/2005
I cannot stress this enough, on a first date it is so important
to be honest. When I say complete honesty I’m not talking
about avoiding those extravagant lies, like attending
Yale on a cross-country scholarship or go mountain biking
with starving orphans in your spare time. When meeting
someone new you must be honest with portraying your personality.
If you are sarcastic, be ...
3 Comments, 865 Views,
50 Votes
,6.85 Score
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Like it or Dislike 1/26/2005
I have nothing against safe sex but I hate condoms, I guess
you just have to Know who your fucking, or not worry about
it.
1 Comments, 163 Views,
8 Votes
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The perfect Match??? 1/24/2005
I have been surfing this site for about a month know, and
it amazes me how people view themselves compared to others.
Average Joe wants a super model, 40 yr olds won't look
at anybody over 30, and plain Jane wants a Chippin'
Dale, but only if he well hung. Call me crazy, but I think
our expectation are aimed a little too high. I would love
to meet someone like that, but can't seem to get ...
1 Comments, 397 Views,
16 Votes
,6.36 Score
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Knowing what you are really getting into. 1/22/2005
Not sure if I am just too catious or not. How many people here
are going to say whatever they need to to get you to meet.
Whether or not I am what they are looking for I put it out there
and let you decide. I wish that more people would just lay
it on the line, excactly what they are all about. I guess
you never really know until you meet. Whishing it wasn't
so.
0 Comments, 356 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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meeting peaple 1/21/2005
i am a manx man who has had no success or meetings
as yet is this because the isle of man is to small and would
i have better luck if i was to
maybe travel to the mainland?
0 Comments, 354 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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fucked for the first time 1/20/2005
In an attempt to satisfy my horniness, I decided to join
this website. It wasn't long before had had plenty
of guys begging to meet me. I was nervous, though. First
of all - who were these guys? I wasn't too keen on just
meeting just any guy. And, hile I was incredibly horny,
I was still a virgin. Tired of masturbating and longing
to have some cock, I wandered into a chat room.
...
4 Comments, 3605 Views,
127 Votes
,8.29 Score
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How far is to far.. and are there limits? 1/20/2005
I was on a date at one time with someone i had just meet a couple
days prior.. During the date she was flirty and seemed she
was coming on to me. But i wasnt sure. Are there signs to tell
if they want it.. and signs if they dont.. because at the
end of our date we didnt do anything except a goodnight kiss.
But i didnt want to have a one night stand.. Can you ask the
person if they want to ...
0 Comments, 353 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score
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Define first dates... 1/19/2005
I've been stalking this woman for about three months.
I've watched her dress, bath and fuck secretly almost
everyday (except Christmas and Arbor Day). But now that
her boyfriend had that unfortunate drive-by shooting
accident, and is no longer in the picture (or even among
the living), I have gotten the nerve to ask her out. Does
this qualify as our first date? I just want to know what to ...
0 Comments, 500 Views,
14 Votes
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learning from dating 1/18/2005
Just as life, you can learn from a bad experience (bad date),
as well as the good...it may help you understand better
what you are and aren't looking for in your next date,
so that you choose someone that is more compatable to you.
so, on your next bad date, chaulk it up to a learning experience.
also, make sure you get to know someone online and on the
phone before you actually meet ...
1 Comments, 238 Views,
18 Votes
,3.94 Score
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how was your first encounter 1/18/2005
Many new members join this site every day and I am curious
on how people acted during their first encounter? Where
was it held? Was the person as attractive/unattractive
as they appeared in photos? Were you pleased with how they
performed and was it clear on what you wanted?
3 Comments, 317 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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get the digits 1/18/2005
If you plan to meet someone from this site and you have been
chatting via email for a while, make sure you are able to
get their phone number before meeting...first of all,
you want to make sure the person is who they say they are,
as far as a man or woman, old or young, etc, and also, if they
are running late or don't show you have a way to contact
them, so that you don't have to wait ...
1 Comments, 900 Views,
54 Votes
,5.55 Score
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Have you noticed... 1/17/2005
Have you noticed that all of these people who do not have
photographs all look the same. Check it out. They all have
the same outline and shape. What's that all about?
Is it the same person? Could we all be the same fucking loser??
O my God, I hope not. I don't want to be "Cock4U"
from Seattle. He's a sick fucking bastard. Please
God, don't let it be this way....
2 Comments, 130 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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glad I did it 1/16/2005
I just had to share my experience. I have been chatting with
guys for a few weeks as I want to find a guy for sex. Yes I am
being honest, I dont want a long term relationship, been
there done that got the t shirt. I want sex, sure if the guy
is generous and kind then thats a bonus but I want sex and
as I get older I want more and more!!!
<br>
I arranged to meet a guy today, my ...
6 Comments, 1536 Views,
39 Votes
,6.66 Score
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First meeting with Zoom968 1/16/2005
Finally, after numerous emails, text messages and phone
calls our schedules permitted us to meet.I sat in my car
anxiously awaiting his arrival, I glimpsed his car parking
and felt a tingle of excitement rush through my body. Well
the moment of truth is here our eyes met and we both grinned
in mutual admiration.I invited him into my car as we were
conversing, I noticed his sexy full lips ...
1 Comments, 830 Views,
29 Votes
,3.64 Score
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First meeting with Zoom968 1/15/2005
Finally after much email and telephone foreplay our schedules
permitted us to meet. As he approached my car I could feel
the tingle of excitement rush through my body, we glanced
into eachothers eyes and smiled. I could tell we were both
feeling alittle awkward so I invited him into my car to talk.
He was so polite trying not to stare at my breasts. We ended
up passionately kissing and our ...
1 Comments, 402 Views,
16 Votes
,3.13 Score
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First MM experience 1/14/2005
I am a guy. I'm curious about being with another guy.
I have never acted on my curiosity, but I am thinking about
trying to get a date. I should also add that I am pretty shy
at first. What shoud I do at a first meeting? Should I get
to know the guy for a couple meetings, or do we get naked on
the first date?
3 Comments, 666 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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Black Men Get Raw Deal With Other Races, Why ? 1/12/2005
Well Ive Been a member now since September, and i find it
real strange that as much as i try to meet talk or just give
and recieve mail to the opposite sex there seem to be a problem,
so being bold as i am i decided to write about it here.
<br>
At first i tried to be real friendly and caring in my initial
communications to various women but after a short while
it seemed to fall ...
3 Comments, 336 Views,
13 Votes
,5.66 Score
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Had my first date with a couple! 1/9/2005
I had my first date with a couple (man & woman) on Saturday.
They are very attractive, very secure in their relationship,
and she called all of the shots. I liked that. He made sure
that we were all comforatble before, during and after the
date.
I have never been with a woman before, so I am sure I was a bit
like a nevous 13 year old boy, when I kissed her, and asked
silly questions like ...
6 Comments, 1879 Views,
84 Votes
,6.46 Score
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First Date or First Meeting? 1/6/2005
Wouldn't it better just to call it a frist meeting?
Date seems more like a must do..must finish get together,
with an expected response of sorts before the evening is
over.
<br>
Why should any of us feel obligated to do this or that or make
the right kind of impressions? Let's be honest with
one another from the start.
<br>
Make it clear that you're going to meet one ...
3 Comments, 749 Views,
57 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Do's and don'ts of a first date. 1/5/2005
Some first dates turn into a second date. Some first dates
turn into a total disaster. That all depends on the guy;
Some guys do not have any common sense when it comes to making
a first impression on a woman.
When taking a first date out you want to totally take control
of where to go. Don't ask your date for suggestions
on where to go.If you do that she will think that you are ...
3 Comments, 620 Views,
33 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Lunch dates 1/4/2005
Lunch dates are by far the best way to go..this way if things
arent working out there is less akwardness when its time
to go ..there is no goodnight kiss..alot less pressure..defnatly
something i try to stick to..and hey if your having a great
time you can moce it all the way through dinner..just some
friendly advice for those who hate the first date akwardness
2 Comments, 428 Views,
22 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Not what I exspected 1/3/2005
One evening chating online I got a phone call from a girl
i meet online about a week before. She was a hottie for sure.
She surpized me with what she said next. She wanted me to
meet her at a motel about 30 miles from my house at 2 am. She
said she could use a friend to keep her company till she felt
like driving again. I was there in 15 minutes easy. I showed
up and she answered the door, ...
1 Comments, 738 Views,
20 Votes
,1.59 Score
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my first time. 1/2/2005
The first woman i ever had sex with had me over to her house
to spilt wood .it was in the summer and very hot all i wore
was some cutoff jeans.as i was getting most of the wood split
she asked me in to the house for some lemonade.she had on
a loose top that was just tied between her breasts and they
looked so nice and soft moving around in that shirt.she
bent over when she handed me my ...
3 Comments, 671 Views,
14 Votes
,6.18 Score
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ice breakers 12/31/2004
What kinds of things are good things to do for a first date.
Some thing that is an ice breaker so you can get to know someone.
1 Comments, 463 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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First BiSexual 3some (part 2) 12/28/2004
So now he and I stood at the edge of the bed as she was on her
knees sucking both of us....
<br>
She stood up and kissed me softly and then kissed her husband
softly. She pulled us by our cocks onto the bed. She layed
on her back and motioned me to her pussy with her finger,
" eat my pussy" she giggled. Her pussy was beautiful,
wet, pink, perfectly trimmed. I was dizzy with ...
0 Comments, 911 Views,
24 Votes
,6.20 Score
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First BiSexual 3some (part 3) 12/28/2004
I'm on the bed missionary position, legs being held
spread eagle, lube oozing out of my ass, and I guided his
huge cock to my little virgin brown starfish...
<br>
I feel the pressure from his penis head pushing in and I closed
my eyes. Slowly my sphinter began to streeeetch. Damn it
hurt like hell! I was telling myself to relax, but my butt
kept pushing against him. He felt ...
1 Comments, 1079 Views,
37 Votes
,7.30 Score
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My first BBW internet date 12/25/2004
My very first Internet date was with a younger BBW I had met
on a local yahoo group over three years ago. She was divorced
with two teenage , living about an hour and half's
drive from where I lived. She stood about 5'4",
shoulder length blond hair and deep blue eyes.
<br>
We had been communicating for a couple of weeks before we
made a date on a Saturday morning. She said that ...
1 Comments, 455 Views,
37 Votes
,5.95 Score
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My first date with a woman to woman 12/24/2004
I had to re-do this article because of stupid Swapfinder.com somehow
refreshed it and it went gone! LOL.
<br>
Now since 7 years old when I first saw playboy magazine in
the attic of my aunt's home, I fell in love with women's
pussies and beautiful boobs. However, the playboy magazines
were so boring already by the time I discovered Hustler
magazine introducing real-alike pussy licking deep. ...
2 Comments, 1156 Views,
82 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Our first meeting... 12/23/2004
I had met this younger gal on a yahoo group that I belong to.
We had communicated with each other for a couple of weeks
and she lived about a two hour drive from me. We finally made
a date for me to come out to where she lived so we could meet.
She lived with her boyfriend outside of a small farming
community. I half jokingly said to her, that if she was serious
about things, that she ...
1 Comments, 477 Views,
34 Votes
,4.86 Score
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first meet 12/23/2004
what are a few common first meeting do's and dont's
when swinging?
0 Comments, 245 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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First Bisexual 3some (part 1) 12/23/2004
My first 3some with a bisexual married couple was also my
first bisexual experience. Last year, I became overwhelmingly
bi curious. I experimented with toys and got on Swapfinder.com and started
check'n out other options. Instantly men wanted to
"break me in" and I admit I flaked out a lot on
single m/m hook-ups because I got scared.
<br>
But after some time on Swapfinder.com and customizing my profile ...
1 Comments, 1242 Views,
45 Votes
,6.30 Score
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What did I do wrong? 12/23/2004
I recently had a first (and last) date with a lady whose profile
I found here in Swapfinder.com. I received her profile via cupid, we
apparently were a perfect match, I wrote to her, she replied,
we continued emailing to each other for a while and finally
decided to meet in a restaurant, have dinner, chat... During
the dinner everything went well, we had a good time, and
both seemed very comfortable ...
18 Comments, 1411 Views,
59 Votes
,5.54 Score
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First Date Fun 12/21/2004
If one goes all the way on a first date should you count the
person out for a long term relationship
5 Comments, 235 Views,
13 Votes
,0.63 Score
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meet a girl at net 12/21/2004
it is my first time make a date with a girl online. that day
i meet her on the supermarket. then we go to shopping....she
look so perfect 36d 25 35 for me. i feel horny all the time
with her. i ask her can i go to her house she say i will call
u later tell u.
<br>
after few days, she call me come to her house. when i came
to her house, she just wearing sexy and pajami waiting ...
1 Comments, 373 Views,
35 Votes
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Seems we have known eachother a lifetime, part 2 12/20/2004
Laying there within your embrace, You use your finger and
start to circle it around my nipples, enticing them to harden.
I am surprised with myself when I begin to feel my cock twitching,
coming to life again. It has been a long
time since I have felt this aroused. Granted, our conversations
were very erotic and easy to visualize that on several occasions
it was easy to become fully ...
1 Comments, 79 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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What happened to the sex life? 12/17/2004
Ok, here’s the low down. I joined Swapfinder.com.com
right after we separated. Every month or so I would access
the site and see what/who is out there. Last week my wife
had asked me to take some photos of my anatomy so that she
would have something to look at during her “private moments.”
I told her she was crazy, but on the inside this excited me.
So, when she ...
1 Comments, 198 Views,
31 Votes
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My Neighbor Upstairs. 12/17/2004
I met her online and gave her my phone number. She called
me shortly thereafter, and it was then we discovered we
lived in the same building. She lived two floors above me.
She agreed to come down for a cup of hot chocolate. when she
got to the door, she was wearing a loose t-shirt and sweats.
when she came past me to enter, her perfume nearly buckled
my knees. It was that good. As we ...
1 Comments, 539 Views,
49 Votes
,4.73 Score
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My first dates --Great 12/6/2004
I travel to a city on business about 150 miles from my home.
I have not had much luck meeting ladies in my local area so
I decided to try the city 150 miles away. I did the regular
Swapfinder.com thing and able to arrange two dates over a three week
period.
<br>
One of the ladies was a lady in her 50's as I am. We met
at a local resturant to see if we were going any further.
After dinner ...
0 Comments, 291 Views,
46 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Great Expression Smile 12/5/2004
I was chat with a lady here in Swapfinder.com, when she wrote. what are
you doing tomorrow. Said fucking you. She give me her phone
and name and told me to meet her for drinks. We met but not
for drinks. In the parking lot I saw her car so I walk up to
it and got in. There she was a sexy red head, with some sexy
lips between her legs. Man I was just shock, so she asked
me what was I thing. I told her ...
1 Comments, 335 Views,
66 Votes
,0.89 Score
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Worst dates ever!!! 12/5/2004
Tell us about some of your worst first dates ever. What went
wrong? What was the turning point? Give us your crazy dating
stories even if they weren't first dates.
1 Comments, 82 Views,
16 Votes
,2.83 Score
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Don't judge everyone on looks 12/3/2004
I don't know about you but I've met some great people
on Swapfinder.com and believe me the way they discibed themselves or
the pics the submitted weren't always accurate. However
I will say that I've met women who are not the prettiest
who have been the sexiest and willing to try new things on
many occasions. So I've learned to not judge just on
the person's looks and to always give them a chance
and ...
7 Comments, 227 Views,
68 Votes
,7.49 Score
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"Expectations vs Reality" 12/1/2004
I have had expectations many times and fortunately, the
reality was never too shocking. There are many ways to be
deceived when "dating" online. Everyone has
heard the horror stories about "older" men
preditorizing or boys by internet deceptions.
We also have heard the wonderful stories of relationships
that started online and ended in a "happy marriage".
But, what of the humorous things ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
73 Votes
,8.73 Score
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How do you get that first date. 12/1/2004
I have been on this site for about six months, I have several
friends in my network, but nothing else. How do you get someone
to respond to the first date question and get them to go out
with you. I would really like this site to help me, as I am
really getting frustrated. Anyone got any ideas.
4 Comments, 73 Views,
29 Votes
,1.84 Score
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sex or not on a 1st date 12/1/2004
Can any of you relate to this? As a male, I have found that
if you are on a 1st date with a woman then it is about 50/50
if she will have sex but then quite likely on the second but
if a guy is bi and meets another guy then goes one goes to the
others house, the likelyhood of sex is more likely to be
about 95%.
Is this true for most or is it just me?
I wonder also if this is the same for ...
8 Comments, 209 Views,
66 Votes
,2.99 Score
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do you put out on first date 11/30/2004
Does a woman put out on the first date or is she considered
easy?
14 Comments, 187 Views,
47 Votes
,6.05 Score
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First Hook Up from Swapfinder.com vs. First Hook Up from Your Mother 11/29/2004
OK, before I continue would most not disagree that there
MAY be a difference here? I mean, your average conservative
person looking for a date may not tend to stumble upon Swapfinder.com...
looking for that "dinner and a movie" then if
you're lucky that kiss good night... mission accomplished,
let's move on to the dreaded second date and MAYBE first
base in sight...
<br>
Mom would be proud, ...
3 Comments, 364 Views,
69 Votes
,7.08 Score
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what do women like to do? 11/27/2004
what would be the ideal first date in college? dinner and
drinks, dinner and a movie, just going out for drinks?
1 Comments, 160 Views,
39 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Personality profiles 11/26/2004
Who has checkout how well the personality profiles work
to match people? Please tell me about your experiences
with meeting you personality "MATCH?"
1 Comments, 63 Views,
20 Votes
,2.61 Score
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my first time 11/26/2004
omg i really wasnt sure if i was ready my first time but it
was so perfect that i couldnt miss the opportunity. my boyfriend
and i went to his dads wedding and then of course the newlywed
couple was off on honeymoon so the apartement was vacant...and
we were all dressed up and had just come from a great night
together and so i told my mom it was too late for her to pick
me up and that i ...
2 Comments, 467 Views,
91 Votes
,5.77 Score
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First Date 11/25/2004
I had "met" him in an Swapfinder.com Chat room and we had talked
for hours when "R" told me he had to go , he had
to be at work in 6 hours and and he was leaving for Holiday
for 2 weeks and would be back an he woudl love to talk to me
again. When R returned we resumed our friendship and started
making plans for mt to visit him there, in his country.
Finally the day arrives, he has todl me he has a ...
0 Comments, 322 Views,
55 Votes
,5.32 Score
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Kindness 11/25/2004
I usually like the guys who ask you where you would like to
go and such that seems to have an effect on the impression
you get course...the old fashioned guys would open your
door and such that get great marks I think also.
5 Comments, 235 Views,
108 Votes
,7.18 Score
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She is amazing! A romantic story... 11/24/2004
Here is a story to make anyone with doubt find hope! I joined
Swapfinder.com on a whim one day, I suppose just to see what kind of people
were in my area. Sure I had heard the stories - both good and
bad - but figured, what the heck, you never know until you
try.
<br>
The first night on the site I was doing the 'surf'
- and there she was! Wow, the picture caught my eye (still
go back and ...
2 Comments, 233 Views,
32 Votes
,7.65 Score
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Do relationships of Swapfinder.com last 11/24/2004
Since I am a newbie I hope you wont laugh to hard at this question.
Do relationships on Swapfinder.com last?
<br>
It seems to me that they would be transient by nature. That
most would fufill their need and move on leaving only memories.
<br>
Has any one kept a partner from here? Are you willing to elaborate?
2 Comments, 91 Views,
36 Votes
,6.60 Score
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First Meeting 11/23/2004
After long email/IM contact with this person, I am wondering
the safe way of meeting them face to face -- Any help out there?
3 Comments, 34 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score
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Make it nice 11/22/2004
Make sure when a guy takes you out that he treats you nicely.
4 Comments, 153 Views,
59 Votes
,3.68 Score
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Kissing on the first date 11/17/2004
How do you make the move to kiss on the date? Is it ok to kiss
on the first date? I'm inexperienced and don't
know.
0 Comments, 43 Views,
25 Votes
,3.13 Score
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First dates and sex ! 11/16/2004
I have been on many dates over the years and have had sex on
the first date many times. My question is how many of you
have less respect for a person if they sleep with you on the
first date versus making you wait until the second or third
? If you continue dating and even get serious, is a woman
who sleeps with you on the first date more likely to cheat
on you in the future or could it be ...
7 Comments, 145 Views,
47 Votes
,7.74 Score
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First date.... last date. 11/15/2004
First date.... last date.
<br>
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Respectful and interesting, even, but no chemistry to
be seen, heard or felt. Before we left for the meet, we knew
there would be no play that day. Within minutes of seeing
each other we knew there’d be none at all anyway. A Gent he
was. Naww He didn’t open doors for me or a lot of all that which
i happen to like, butttt ...
1 Comments, 104 Views,
54 Votes
,7.62 Score
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sex 11/15/2004
on my first date i try to suck her ass, if she says no then theres
no second date
0 Comments, 61 Views,
35 Votes
,0.68 Score
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Great First Dates for me... 11/15/2004
A first date, should be getting to know the person your with,
good communication, finding out if your compatible, seeing
if there is chemistry between you, and basically relax
and enjoy the night. Sometimes it takes a few dates to really
understand what's going through a persons mind.
2 Comments, 105 Views,
55 Votes
,6.25 Score
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standing in the light 11/14/2004
i went to a party that i didnt want to go
un-awhere what what going to happen. my mate drag to a big
party i was invited too but he drag me along we brought some
lager and beers to buy our way in the party was in full swing
which was good
as i cought hide away from the host and enjoy the party. i
saw sexy girl looking at me around about midnight she walk
over and started to chat small ...
0 Comments, 175 Views,
26 Votes
,3.35 Score
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stripper and couples 11/14/2004
I'm a part-time exotic dancer and I can speak for most
(but not all) dancers when I say this. Guys, GO AHEAD AND
BRING YOUR LADIES to the strip club!! I love to see women
watch me perform. There is a right and wrong way to do this
however. The wrong way would be to bring your lady when she's
not in the mood, or to ignore her once you get there! Instead,
talk sexy about both the dancer and ...
3 Comments, 449 Views,
124 Votes
,8.59 Score
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My Lover, My Buddy 11/12/2004
The meeting of two new lovers was fresh on my mind, knowing
that after our initial first acquaintance, soon the passion
which I felt, and I hoped that he felt would be there the next
time we engaged. The intellectual intercourse we had at
the candy store was most comfortable, making me yearn for
his touch, his warmth, his passion.
I thought to myself, can this handsome man be for real? ...
1 Comments, 147 Views,
36 Votes
,7.73 Score
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Getting the straight guy (ok Bi guy MM) 11/12/2004
I met him my first day on the job. He as a punk. Shaved head
though, but heavily tatooed and pierced. He was sex on a
stick. He was a real flirt with the ladies. He was always
making them melt with his charms. But he had a softer edge
when it was just me and him. He let it slip that he was not 100%
straight. It was then I decided to take a slow road. For the
next few weeks, we'd ...
2 Comments, 452 Views,
32 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Pulling out during an encounter. 11/11/2004
I met an older lady on Swapfinder.com. She was a housewife in her 40's
and I'm in my 30's. She had never met anyone on here before
and we chatted for a few months befor we met. She was reluctant
to meet anyone and always said that she needed someone to
come over and ravage her and leave her dripping wet. Anyway
she finally invited me over to her house. We talked for a
awhile and then I started ...
2 Comments, 254 Views,
32 Votes
,5.49 Score
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Fell For It 11/7/2004
She seemed like the perfect date for me. We exchanged emails
several times after she responded to my initial inquiry
and agreed to meet for dinner on a Thursday night in Fairhope,
AL. It took some kind of planning for me to rearrange my work
schedule to be in her area at the designated time. After
driving 175 miles out of my way to meet her at 6 PM , she failed
to show up. No call...no ...
2 Comments, 98 Views,
27 Votes
,5.34 Score
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The Meeting (A True Encounter) 11/6/2004
I can barely contain my smile as I knock on the room door knowing
that you are waiting for me. My anticipation has been building
all day knowing that it would culminate in our being together.
I wonder what your thoughts have been and if you have been
anticipating being together as much as I. I wonder what
you will be wearing and what you are doing as you wait for
me. I wonder what ...
2 Comments, 141 Views,
26 Votes
,5.61 Score
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ouch 11/5/2004
I recently went out with a woman that I knew from highschool.She
was the most popular girl there and the prettiest in town.She
meets me at my place driven there by her ex-boyfriend the
next thing i know hes coming along for the ride we get to the
restaurant she starts coming on hot and heavy to me.The
next thing I know im fighting said ex he leaves then she comes
back to my place we do it ...
3 Comments, 538 Views,
39 Votes
,6.09 Score
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New to Swapfinder.com 11/4/2004
Hi everyone!
<br>
I'm new to Swapfinder.com, and I'm trying to find out how to
go about meeting people. When you aren't a Silver/Gold
member it seems to be quite difficult. When I see someone
that I'm interested in by searching is there a way that
I can let them know that I'm interested. I know that
I might get more attention by posting a picture I simply
need to try to remain discrete.
...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
37 Votes
,7.55 Score
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why are people never themselves? 11/3/2004
You ever noticed how plastic a person can be on a first date?
It's like a in church, on their best behavior, with
their plastic smile..why can't they be themselves?
3 Comments, 50 Views,
59 Votes
,8.16 Score
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why first is not as good as third 11/3/2004
whenever I meet a new partner it takes a few days till we get
to make each other come heavily why it s rear to happen on
first date.
0 Comments, 33 Views,
18 Votes
,2.44 Score
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wish I could get a first date 11/2/2004
comeing back at this again you guys are right so women what
do we do?you are looking for men married or not why do you
ingnore us? are we meaning us men saying the wrong things
or are you that picky or you only looking for rich and gooding
looking guys because if so then in are looking for very shollow
men, and if so you then you all are liveing in a dream world
that can hurt you more than ...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Advice wanted as I approach my first date 11/1/2004
I will hopefully be going on a date with someone from this
site very, very soon.
<br>
Anyone with any advice on how to approach this first meeting
would please me if they could offer advice
2 Comments, 5 Views,
6 Votes
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wish I could get a first date from Swapfinder.com 10/29/2004
My wife has gotten three men from Swapfinder.com but I haven't gotten
any at all any tips on how to succeed?
4 Comments, 40 Views,
23 Votes
,4.18 Score
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My First Date 10/27/2004
My first date was so romantic. He picked me up and pampered
me and opened my door. He was a great gentleman and made me
feel good. I just want to give advice to the guys and tell
them to respect their girl and love her.
3 Comments, 519 Views,
50 Votes
,4.37 Score
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sex.sex.sex 10/27/2004
Sex on the 1st date is great, but i think it hurts the relationship
every 1st date that i have had sex on has turned out not to
last 
0 Comments, 24 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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first Swapfinder.com meeting 10/26/2004
I had replied to a profile and the wife contacted me, we arranged
to meet for coffee and see if we hit it off and then ... She
was interested so we went to a motel where I proceeded to
undress her as she was slowly removing my clothes too. After
a short while mutually caressing we moved to the bed and
got to know each other a bit better. The little noises she
made as my hand s moved over ...
0 Comments, 135 Views,
56 Votes
,4.25 Score
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How far to go? 10/23/2004
I'm about to meet someone after only a short while chatting
online, is it sensible to go all out on the first date or to
wait and build up slowly? I'm open about sex and have
a healthy mind, body and soul when it comes to sex... I'm
not looking for long term love, I choose people that like
me are looking for more fun out of life...
2 Comments, 72 Views,
40 Votes
,5.87 Score
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Red Alert, Listen to this! 10/21/2004
If you meet somebody that you really like, and you want to
have a serious relationship, that will last then I advice
you that don't sleep with him the first time you go out,
it is important you tease him and seduce him in a good way,
look at him, stand up and walk very close to him, whisper
to him, touch his hand, feel close to his body, but only tease,
healthy tease, and if he also wants ...
2 Comments, 24 Views,
44 Votes
,6.87 Score
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Sex on first date.... 10/21/2004
There are alot of guys out there that like sex on a first date.
In ways, that sometimes makes a lady feel cheap if she goes
along with it. I don't want to feel like a slut either
if I do go along on a first date. What would you do in this case?
Have sex or wait?
3 Comments, 233 Views,
82 Votes
,6.24 Score
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Should one go down on the first date? 10/18/2004
My friends,
I've have been wondering for some time now if the majority
the members here consider "going down" on the
first date "taboo?". Though many of us use our
membership to get laid on the first date, I find that alot
of the encounters that I have come in to will not go down nor
want to receive it. "Straight to the sex". By
in my own personal opinion, oral sex is a ...
3 Comments, 60 Views,
27 Votes
,6.40 Score
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a succuss story 10/17/2004
I actually wanted to let every member out there know that
this site works. I found my current boyfriend or should
I say he found me here. He sent me a message in May and then
we messaged for a while. We didn't met durning that
time. He went back to an old girlfriend I never let this one
go thou I messaged him and said send a message if you ever
are in the area. And he did he had broke up ...
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