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on a first date   6/19/2008

I think that a first date would be getting to know someone first before taking the step to having sex with that person on the first date.Maybe having sex on the 2nd or 3rd date would be better.


1 Comments, 159 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
prune52 71 M
13  Articles
first meeting   6/16/2008

made contact with lady on Swapfinder.com, chatted via Messenger and arranged to meet for coffee, what a delicious surprise when we met. extremely attractive young lady vivacious and confident. miracles do happen, relationship not yet consummated but we chat regularly. biggest problem finding the time for a discreet and secret liaison. By the way she is 14 years younger than me !!!!!


3 Comments, 331 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
ausmaleusa 65 M
1  Article
Old fashioned...   6/6/2008

Guess I am old fashioned...I don't see first dates as an opportunity for sex, I see it as an arena for getting to know someone, having the laughs, the giggles or the just sitting and staring at each other. Then again the staring doesn't happen if the homework is done.

If sex is going to happen then no force will be needed..it will be gradual and good as it is mutual.

...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_poking1234 36 M
3  Articles
most women on sirst dates have one on they min   5/27/2008

most women on sirst dates have one on they mind


2 Comments, 123 Views, 7 Votes
rm_mighty_guy23 34 M
4  Articles
1st date   5/19/2008

Is sex on the 1st date advisable?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
My First Swapfinder.com Relationship   5/18/2008

I had been a member a couple of months. I traded emails with a number of woman, but none of them wanted to meet in person even though I was just suggesting a visit to the local coffee shop. Most seemed more interested in keeping the fantasy alive in their mind then actually trying to live it!

I ran across this one woman's ad in an area that I travel to on business. She had some pretty ...


3 Comments, 441 Views, 22 Votes ,5.17 Score
Our first night, ready for dinner?   5/12/2008

We have done all the preperation, and the night is about to start. We have talked, e-mailed, chatted until I am tired of doing that. You decided that you wanted to meet for dinner, and I was more then happy to show up! I knocked on the door, and was pleased that you met me as all subs should. You were wearing a pair of socks and a tee shirt. You were waiting on your knees waiting to please, just ...


5 Comments, 164 Views, 1 Votes
rm_k_rule3002 43 M
8  Articles
Personal stories of people having sex for the first time   5/10/2008

Hello. My name is Nikki. I am 17 years old and was 16 when I lost my virginity. It was about 4 months ago (December 2007) with my boyfriend. I am not going to say his name for his protection. Well here's our story...

I met him in May of 2007 at our friend's graduation party. I didn't realize this then but he would be my first love and somebody I will always love. Well I didn't know ...


1 Comments, 405 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
well   5/9/2008

is ti ok to have sex on the first date?


3 Comments, 70 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
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1 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes
rm_thejew7669 36 M
1  Article
So This Would Be Nice....   5/5/2008

So, first dates... well, would have to start with coffee, especially if it's the first time yo meet the person. That being said, would most likely be Timmies lol... have a chat, see what the person's looking for, interested in, look for similarities to what you want and are looking for. If it seems like it could work, maybe hit up something to eat, somewere you won't be staring at the ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
hybridyellow21 37 M
2  Articles
What is wrong with moving slow?   4/30/2008

Is there something wrong with making someone wait for what they want, I mean they should know that they will get it so whats the rush. Yes, I make women wait for sex.... I know it sounds funny, butt its true. I think it is healthy to get to know some1 first, and move around bases as we come to them. Plus I love all the things you do between meeting some1 and having sex with them; for example ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
hornydubliner25 36 M
5  Articles
who puts out?   4/28/2008

Any women put out on a 1st date or have?


0 Comments, 113 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
wickedclownsfnm 37 M
3  Articles
First Date   4/19/2008

I remember my first date. I was set up with a girl I knew from a few years back, and man she was looking hot that night. She told me that was breaking up with her boyfriend because he abused her, and that we could be together. We had so much fun. She was beautiful and we enjoyed our time together. To this day I still think about her and wonder why she left me and went back with her ...


0 Comments, 381 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
coupleforyou84 39 C
3  Articles
fear   4/19/2008

the first date fears seem to always be with the woman. a man has his goals set. no matter the man honorable or dishonorable intentions. why is the woman such a hard case about keeping the guy at arms length when initiating the date in the first place


3 Comments, 165 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Where to meet   4/10/2008

If you had the choice of where to meet for the first date would it be: House/apartment Hotel Restaurant Bar


3 Comments, 103 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Lover_Boy1145 29 M
2  Articles
What is the best place to take a girl?   4/7/2008

I've been wondering for such a long time, where is the best place to make a good impression on a girl?


2 Comments, 68 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_budro7625 37 M
2  Articles
Crazy First Dates   4/4/2008

What is the craziest first date you've had?


0 Comments, 84 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_gygaz1978 35 M
2  Articles
whats your idea of a great one?   3/29/2008

For me it has to be something that will be remembered!!


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
rm_nymphobottom 60 M
3  Articles
Never say no   3/29/2008

I think it's impolite to tell a man no he cant sex you, so I never do say no.[bling 137874]...


6 Comments, 271 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_sexiizahi 39 C
0  Articles
Never forget   3/22/2008

First time I and my husband met each other and we went too fast. We had sex, talked and laughed. We were forget about we were on dating and decided to be together instead on dating. Today we are together for 3 years and have wonderful 1 year old. Now we like to have a female join us sex-style mean maybe we need have first date female and to get know who she is. Or go too far .... Holla us! or ...


4 Comments, 222 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
sex   3/20/2008

sex is a must


1 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_6666xxxxx 64 M
8  Articles
HOW   3/19/2008

HOW CAN I DATE A WOMAN ? PLZ I AM SO HORNY


0 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_6666xxxxx 64 M
8  Articles
A SEXY WOMAN NEEDED   3/19/2008

I AM ALONE OPEN MINDED HOT GUY IN NEED OF A GIRL FROM 35 TO 55 YEARS OLD . IT WILL BE MY FIRST DATE REALLY .


0 Comments, 33 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Kwenha 53 M
12  Articles
Tips on meeting women   3/19/2008



T Here are some things that I've noticed have an immediate affect on women's attitude.



Dress nice. I like jeans and t-shirts, but I get way more play when I wear slacks, nice shoes and a dress shirt.

Smell nice. No brainer, no one likes onion breath. Brush ur teeth and chew gum after everymeal! Bath! scrub it all! I've been in the locker room, some of the boys ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
wingman10 66 M
32  Articles
Spring Break Encounter   3/19/2008

I had three weeks off and was looking forward to a family vacation on the beach. It would be the Middle of March and the warm weather would be hit or miss but still warmer than the Tenneessee. The whole family was set to go so I rented a top floor , two bedroom condo over looking the beach. Fairly pricy. The week before the trip things started to go south. First of all my eldest ( 23yrs ...


3 Comments, 1022 Views, 27 Votes ,6.92 Score
JEFFJ19694YOU 55 M
4  Articles
SOOOOO GOOOOD   3/19/2008

I MET HER AT HER HOUSE WHILE HER HUSBAAND WAS AWAY. SHE CAREFULLY TOOK ME IN THE FRONT DOOR. WE TALKED A BIT AS WE SAT IN HER LIVING ROOM. SHE CONFIDED IN ME THAT SHE HAD NOT BEEN FUCKED PROPERY IN ABOUT 3 YEARS, HE WOULD CUM IN ABOUT 2 MINUTES. I ASSURED HER I WOULD TAKE CARE OF HER, SHE WALKED OVER TO ME AND TOOK MY COCK FROM MY PANTS AND BEGAN TO LICK THE HEAD OF IT, I PICKED HER HEAD UP FROM ...


3 Comments, 563 Views, 21 Votes ,2.26 Score
He couldnt keep it hard   3/18/2008

I was my first threesome and i was very nervous. The coulple i meet on Swapfinder.com and were looking for a single guy. Im bicourious and so are they she wants to watch her mans face as i fuck his ass. Ive never been with a man before but have been curious about taking a cock in my ass all my life. I do him while she watchs his face its not any different feeling than a womans ass. But when he trys to do me ...


3 Comments, 562 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
butterfly6369 54 C
0  Articles
Funny pickup line   3/11/2008

My best friend called me and said she was going to bring a guy she new to meet another friend of ours. We were all supposed to meet for breakfast the next morning. When we got there the guy and our other friend didn't seam to be interested in each other. But this guy and I hit it off right away. We were so involed in talking to each other that I forgot about my friends being there. ...


0 Comments, 478 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
A funny first date story from a trip I took to Austin Tx   3/7/2008

I am a 33 year old married guy that is in Austin.

When I am trying to get laid I'm always pretty honest because I want my potential lovers to know what to expect and see if we have any sexual chemistry. Sexual dissapointment is usually avoided this way. So here is what I told her...I'm not really all that handsome...I have a small dick...I have no stamina...I'm married and don't want ...


0 Comments, 261 Views, 0 Votes
rm_adolphus87 37 M
9  Articles
How do you ask?   3/5/2008

How do you ask someone out for a first date?


5 Comments, 139 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
Where to Go?   3/1/2008

I'm wondering what everyone's first date location would be? Of course it should be public, but should it be a dinner/lunch or drinks, coffee? In keeping with safety for everyone, I would think these would be the normal locations. But if presented with going to someone's house, would you accept or decline?


0 Comments, 39 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
is it me   2/27/2008

being 45 and married why do I feel like I am in high school when going very discretely to meet a women in the same boat, nervous shy its a great feeling but why do well me anyway choke up like a ?


0 Comments, 111 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
WE12BFUN2 64 C
19  Articles
Jewel #5   2/26/2008

Jewel had become my very willing sex toy and was happily devoting herself to becoming a completely sexual being. She loved it and the more she got the more she wanted. She lived with my wife and I but, we had set her up a love nest for entertaining and kept up on her training. She was totally willing to do anything sexual for me. She had now done several MFM and a couple of MMFM. My wife had ...


4 Comments, 232 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_rdudude69 58 M
2  Articles
My first date   2/25/2008

My first date was in high school on a class trip to a local Six Flags park. I started hanging out with a girl that I never really paid too much attention too, but soon realized we had quite a few things in common. As the day progressed we started going off on our own riding rides without our friends, having a good time, until we got on a ride similar to a ferris wheel, but it had three arms to ...


0 Comments, 160 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_newmie223 44 M
9  Articles
i remember my first date   2/23/2008

Be creative. Take a little time to think it through.

A three-hour date with a movie that lasts two and a half-hours is not a good way to get acquainted.

Then again, you don't want to be stuck staring at each other without a topic of conversation.

A daytime meeting takes the heat off.



Lunch or coffee is a good start (If you want to checkout a local ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
rm_dr333111 30 M
5  Articles
i am here for any sweet lady thinking to enjoy in EGYPT   2/20/2008

hi sweety ladies , how are all of you? i hope you are fine and pretty. i will introduce myself, my name is hany. i am 26 years old, i am a doctor living in egypt , i hope if you come to egypt you must enjoy every minute here and i am here to make sure of this , plz contact me hope we enjoy all together bye bye sweet baby


0 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_BX1000 51 M
7  Articles
Dating Question   2/18/2008

Are the movie, the best place for a first date?.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Frelinghuysen 53 C
1  Article
Are Bi women into threesomes THIS hard to find?   2/18/2008

We would just like a little insight here. We are a loving couple and have been looking for a sexy third for a while now. The thing is though that the supposedly bi women usually only want either the man or the woman alone. I know this falls into the "bi" description, but is no one bold enough for a threesome anymore? We are both attractive, and can as I stated get plenty of attention on our ...


3 Comments, 132 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
rm_Pornstar0317 31 M
3  Articles
The first date   2/14/2008

step 1 dont be nervous

step 2 talk

step 3 be funyy


1 Comments, 71 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
All the way   2/10/2008

How many people go all the way on a first date?


4 Comments, 236 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
comfortable   2/5/2008

A few years ago I met a girl thru an on line profile, She lived very close so we talked a few times exchanged photos etc.When we finally wanted to meet, I wanted her to feel as comfortable as can be. I told her we can meet at a library, the police station parking lot, even told her she can hold my drivers license till we parted, she felt safe and I insisted so we met in the parking lot at a ...


0 Comments, 214 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Ditch or enjoy?   2/2/2008

Ok, first date and you of course have an idea of the person who you are meeting.

What do you do if that person, either physicaly or otherwise is not what you thought?

Do you find and excuse to scoot or do you see what this person is all about?


5 Comments, 182 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
rm_j_rogers_62 58 M
5  Articles
my first date with two men   2/1/2008

I remember my first dat with two men...*s* I called them to see if they wanted to hook up to which they replied sure. I met them on this site!! I met them and followed them back to thier place. As I parked my car I remember I was pretty nervous. I mean who were these two and what did they expect of a virgin, as far as being with another man?? I entered their condo and enjoyed a beer or two ...


3 Comments, 1074 Views, 25 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_SAMUELSAM39 55 M
2  Articles
WELL HELLO   1/27/2008

I MET THIS LADY WHILE AT THE DRIVE THROUGH AT A FAST FOOD RESTAURANT. SHE WAS THE LADY AT THE DRIVE IN WINDOW. I COMMENTED ON HER NICE WHITE SMILE AND SHE SAID THANK YOU. I ASKED IF SHE WAS MARRIED AND SHE ASKED ME WHY I WANTED SUCH INFORMATION, I SAID I WANTED TO SEE HER LATER THAT DAY. SHE NEVER ANSWERED ME YET TOLD ME SHE WOULD BE OFF AT 3. I MET HER IN THE PARK JUST DOWN FROM HER WORK, SHE ...


1 Comments, 412 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
rm_SAMUELSAM39 55 M
2  Articles
we met   1/20/2008

we met at a parking lot , she had seen my face pic and loved my cock, we talked for a bit and she immediately freed my cock and began to suck me, to make a long story short i shot cum down her throat and we dicided to meet again and fuck at her house while her husband was working, more to cum


1 Comments, 227 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
Jess and Paul-Our First Date   1/14/2008

The day had come, just as I had expected it to, but yet it all seemed like a dream. We had everything planned so that we would both feel comfortable about our first date, but yet, we both admitted that we were a bit worried about how it would go.

We decided to meet in another town, to minimize the "bumping" into either of our significant other, friends, or aquaintances. For some ...


0 Comments, 488 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
LadyKumsalot 61 F
4  Articles
On Profile Pictures   1/14/2008

It gets me every time guys... and some of you know because I have written you some very concerned notes about your chances of getting the girl you think you want with your profile pictures. Just consider me the Miss Manners of passion.com

Here is a hint. Guys are stimulated by the appearance of a woman's body alone. If there were pizza boxes or beer cans on the dresser behind her he ...


9 Comments, 545 Views, 47 Votes ,6.76 Score
rm_dr333111 30 M
5  Articles
looking for kind heart and good personality girl...   1/10/2008

i am looking for a kind girl with really really good heart and need to talk i will listen and also hope to find this kind woman to listen to me carefully. a woman i can open my heart with talk to her about me about all in my heart.is there any girl\woman kind here??? thanks...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
what do they want?   12/23/2007

do women ever just want to meet a guy for hot and heavy sex? do they wish to jump in the sack and get busy


2 Comments, 137 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
MeLoveBigDicks 43 F
5  Articles
Doing what you love to do   12/9/2007

Is going all they with someone, strange. on the first encounter. ie, giving head, swallowing nut, having anal

should you hold back, do it on separate occasions

should you just put it all on the front line on the first date.

what are your opinions.


7 Comments, 309 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Where To Meet   12/7/2007

Usually after I've chatted online with someone for a while, I like to meet somewhere neutral. I like for him to pick a public place that isn't out of the way for either of us like a restaurant or park.

I want to be able to get a chance to sit & talk in person to see if there's any physical attraction first, rather than waste our time.... just for one of us to be disappointed.


19 Comments, 673 Views, 51 Votes ,4.94 Score
sex on the first date   11/27/2007

just wanted to know what most people think about having sex on the first date if it makes the girl labeled a slut what about the guys?


7 Comments, 236 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Meet me at the what?   11/25/2007

This was one of those learning experiences, just something I don't care to repeat. I had met this woman online, we had chatted alot and seemed to really hit it off. She had given me her cell number but made me promise not to ever call her without emailing first. She told me she and her hubby were seperating but that they tried to spend as much time together with thier as possible. Made sense ...


2 Comments, 449 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
chocolate and wine   11/24/2007

make the night special...how do you do it? Two words: chocolate cake and red wine

Many will scoff at the idea but there are some very good wines that go with chocolate. You will have to do some prep work, you need to ask around and then buy a couple of wines and test them out. Invite a few friends over and suggest everyone brings one bottle of wine. You buy the chocolate cake or ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
“Robert Leroy Parker & Harry Longbaugh & the first date   11/10/2007

The Age of Aquarius is always associated with the year 1969 as I was staying with my older sister for the summer in New Mexico. A lot of historical things happened that year. Neil Armstrong stepped on the moon but I thought I was going to land on it at a drive in theater in 1969 at the age of 15. Something will happen for me that night that was just plain amazing and that something would feel ...


11 Comments, 292 Views, 25 Votes ,6.01 Score
My first internet date   11/9/2007

I had met a woman on internet about 8 months ago.We've talk so much on some instant messenger service and we got start to know each other well..Shes a mature BBW, thats my kind of a woman.Im a BBW lover, especially mature ones. She does travel abroad a few times per year normally.And a few times later she take my country to her own travel program, when i hear that i felt so happy.Cause it will be ...


1 Comments, 562 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Getting past 1st base on 1st date?   11/2/2007

How many have had TREMENDOUS 1st dates experiences here? I did- fell in love and still trying!


0 Comments, 131 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
The first date tells all   10/24/2007

I am a firm believer in the fact that first dates tell just how compatable people are with each other. The meeting for the first time you can tell if that person is one that you would see again. I think the biggest problem people have is they try to hard to impress on the first date. Always just be yourself, that is what people look for.


2 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_jonmark82 47 M
1  Article
Not to plan....   10/23/2007

I think the biggest problem with people and first dates is that they worry too much and over think everything!

Be yourself, don't plan any of the conversation and play it by ear. It either works or it doesn't! That's just the way love and well...everything else goes!


3 Comments, 76 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
rm_txscorpion 40 M
5  Articles
Could It Be True? (The Coup De Gras)   10/13/2007

As we stand on the balcony, passionately kissing with my fingers running through your hair, I begin to slowly let my tongue travel down your chin, to your neck, and down to the upper cleavage area. I tease you a little with my tongue before coming slowly coming back up your neck and moving towards your ear. I pause for a moment only to turn you around to gaze at the ocean view while I begin to ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
rm_txscorpion 40 M
5  Articles
Could It Be True? (The Beginning)   10/13/2007

I was just thinking about the ideal date and how I would envision it. Well, not better place to start than to put it in words on the blog. So this date that I'm describing will be described with the lady's persona being simply known as "you".

First, the mood and tempo needs to be set. The first thing is to start off simple with an afternoon picnic. A nice picnic blanket, an open picnic ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
imnotjustnormal 59 M
1  Article
What the HELL was she thinking??   10/13/2007

Oh My GOD!! Now I'm not a crude and rude kinda person but recently I went out on a date. And as things progressed and were getting hot..... WAIT! Lets go back to the begining.

I met this girl online and we chatted over the last year or so off and on, and decided to take it to that NEXT LEVEL. We ironed out the ground rules (you know, no strings attatched and the such)and decided to ...


9 Comments, 673 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
sheneedsit1964 44 C
3  Articles
going on a date without him seeing u   10/6/2007

Do u think guys would lay u just because they can , nasty and ulgy. Or do think he would turn u down easy , Sometimes I can't do a guy because of his breath , looks and ego, Even if his cock is big, I, m not a 10 but gosh men needs to take care of ther selves and not screw before they come to me, If you have had this proble talk to me, pamela


4 Comments, 273 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
First date pussy blow job   10/5/2007

We had met on Swapfinder.com and started to get to know each other. Trish had said she was looking for some fun on the side-strictly a sexual relationship-fuck buddies. We met at a local coffee house and got to know each other a little better. We had been very open about discussing what we had wanted from the start and her eyes kept drifting to the growing bulge in my pants. I in turn was enjoying the ...


2 Comments, 755 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
momba5050 44 M
1  Article
blind date   9/27/2007

When you go on a blind date and see the person for time and the person is not your type, when do you tell them its not going to work, right when you see her or when the date is over?


5 Comments, 185 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_sextogo100 65 M
3  Articles
My first "man on man"   9/27/2007

After dreaming for a long time of what it would be like to have another guy’s cock in my mouth and even better a nice hard cock slid into my ass, I started to look for someone to try it with. After a couple of no-shows, I arranged to meet another bi-curious guy at his apartment.

It was obvious when he let me in that he was as nervous as me, for it was the first time for both of ...


4 Comments, 1049 Views, 23 Votes ,6.86 Score
Rightofpassage06 46 C
1  Article
First date nightmare   9/24/2007

We took a friend of ours out dancing and we all got a little tipsy. The conversation of a threesome came up, like it usually does (but we all usually chicken out). Then next thing I know the girls are checking into a hotel room around the corner and the clothes are hitting the floor. I hop in the shower to let them have some fun and the next thing I know one of them is in the bathroom with me! ...


2 Comments, 794 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
Rocklincpl06 63 C
2  Articles
Current Pics   9/19/2007

Ok this may have happend to some or all of us in the lifestyle. A couple post pictures of themselves and you set up a date and time to meet them . Once you get there you see that they are nothing like the pictures and so what do you do? Your first reaction is probably one of anger. Here someone drew you to meet them under false pretense and then you try and be nice and calm and try and figure ...


6 Comments, 563 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
rm_PrinceBigga 53 M
9  Articles
A Trip to NY City   9/18/2007

A good way to impress a date is to take them some damn where. I've learned to use this little tool to my advantage if I really wanted to get in the damn pants sooner than later.

I met a young lady at my college homecoming and we really hit it off. Mind you I really wasn't looking at her measurements 32 26 45 (boy that ass was nice) We got to know each other fairly well. With me being a ...


0 Comments, 130 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
sluggo76 47 C
4  Articles
first time to a nudist camp   9/16/2007

well i went to my first nudist place the other day and well lets just say it wasn't as easy as i thought it would be. I thought i was just going to walk in there and just get naked just like that...no sorry it didn't happen that way, it took me 4 hours to take all my clothes off and i still wrapped my towel around me. But i finally got use to it and walked around naked got in the pool and ...


6 Comments, 916 Views, 20 Votes ,3.25 Score
loriemy837388939 41 F
5  Articles
A Secluded Place   9/8/2007

The first time.... We agree to meet in a secluded place, as I arrive you motion me to get into your car, feeling naughty and nervous I approach your car and slide in. We introduce ourselves and make small talk when you reach over and pull me close to you so you can smell my perfume on my neck. Feeling you lips brush my neck my nipples begin to harden and I pull your hand to my breast, feeling my ...


3 Comments, 640 Views, 24 Votes ,4.83 Score
rm_PrinceBigga 53 M
9  Articles
The Shopping Mall   9/2/2007

I don't consider myself artsy by any means but from time to time I will stop by a art gallery to pick up a few pieces of african art for the home or office. Recently I was in a gallery that sold Caribbean art. The attendant was a nice looking young lady that had a very strong and rich Caribbean accent. Of course my dick started to harden at each word that she spoke. She was really charming and ...


1 Comments, 399 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
Our first kiss   8/28/2007

Carrie (not her real name) and I had been acquantinces for some time. I had made some advances to her but had been rebuffed politely. That changed about a year or so ago when I had driven her home to pick up some stuff for a party that we were both attending. I was waiting for her by her bed and happened to notice something sticking out from under the pillow-I lifted the pillow and found a ...


1 Comments, 458 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
spoldrtn812 58 F
17  Articles
He blew it before he picked me up   8/25/2007

Most of my friends know I have never been with a white guy intimately. For those who don't know, I can't explain it other than to say, I have several friends that are white. I've just never found one that turned me on enough to have sex with!

Now I meet a guy here on Swapfinder.com he's italian and he's only dated african-american women for years. The pics are ...



6 Comments, 788 Views, 33 Votes ,4.34 Score
vincesmith67 44 M
3  Articles
aggressive enough   8/22/2007

Is it to sgrressive to whip i out at the end of a date and ask what are we going to do about this?


9 Comments, 182 Views, 13 Votes
cityblasts 58 M
2  Articles
Cook a great meal for HER   8/19/2007

Here is a recipe that i created that everyone loves

But before you prepare it prepare your setting, dont get someone else to do it for you, show her she is really special.

A nice lace table cloth, her favorite music , flowers and wine, candles and dim lights.

KEIV FILLETS

You will not find this recipe in any cook book

1 chicken breast thinly sliced ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
jack1801000 76 M
3  Articles
i hope 1st dates are comfortable, not tense, RELAX!!   8/18/2007

we tend to try too hard to present ourselves at first meeting. if we enter with a open mind, no negative vibes, and be upfront with our date, we can only hope he will be honest, and full of b/s, at the 1st sign of it, move on baby, not worth the time, go to a movie, read a book, visit a sick friend!!, bag the pretenders! jack form honolulu


0 Comments, 52 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
The Doctor Played My Skin Flute   8/6/2007

A sexual first.

Never before have I had a doctor suck my dick in a parking lot.

That has now changed.

The email came unexpectedly.

It was a business email and seemingly routine.

Then, came the phone call. The voice was deep and sultry from the woman on the other side.

She was intelligent, very intelligent.

She told ...



3 Comments, 989 Views, 19 Votes ,0.49 Score
rm_sergio9869 57 M
10  Articles
my first date   7/31/2007

It was ugly to wait...it was so good to experience sex


3 Comments, 262 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
DUTCHMAN2002007 79 M
4  Articles
FINDING SOMEONE ON Swapfinder.com !   7/14/2007

i am not one to complain as i have met a number of women on Swapfinder.com, but the internet is a minefield of intrigue and one has to be cautious and know its a minefield.

the internet can be its own fantasy, a guy is the president of a corporation, and he is really a janitor. soneone claims to be wealthy and you find out later, same person does not have a pot to urinate in

a guy i knew ...


1 Comments, 169 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
Her Pussy Was Too Small   7/6/2007

Her sexy ad appeared on Craigslist. He had not looked on it before.

He emailed her and she respoonded a few days later.

She said she liked his pics and his websites.

They set a time to meet.

She was waiting for him in the parking lot.

As he drove up in his black Mercedes, she was waitng in the shade in a dark blue SAAB.

...



3 Comments, 860 Views, 10 Votes ,0.60 Score
rm_bikergirl4u 52 F
2  Articles
Why can't we skip the first date jitters?   6/19/2007

I am a very confident woman, but I can't seem to get over the fear of that first face to face meeting. I can talk shit in my emails and over the phone, with absolutely no problem what so ever, so why, when it comes time for me to meet in person I get shivers and the cold sweets? If there is anything that I can do to get over this and you are willing to share. Please!!!!! Please! help a ...


6 Comments, 257 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
rm_Getsuwet88 45 M
2  Articles
Does having sex on the first date make you easy?   6/12/2007

What do people think of others that are willing to have sex on the first date? Is this a sign that they are not carefull about who they sleep with? Does it make you wonder if they do this with everyone? Or do you think it happens because they feel like they can trust you? Or maybe your just super hot and everyone wants to fuck you.


8 Comments, 215 Views, 14 Votes ,5.70 Score
when to have sex   6/9/2007

should you have sex on the first date and if not then why not it would be the same as any other time but you are just moving faster than what you normally would so should i have sex on the first date or not give me a reason why


2 Comments, 76 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
no way!   6/3/2007

have you met some one on line... they show you there pic's... they look good to you... you go to meet them... and they look nothing like the pic's they had sent you... what do you do?


26 Comments, 768 Views, 51 Votes ,7.12 Score
1forfunhere35 52 M
4  Articles
Swapfinder.com First Date   6/3/2007

I am writing today about my first Swapfinder.com Date. I have to admit that this whole experience has been overwhelming for me since I joined the community in May.

I had spent the last 3 years celibate in a sexless marriage. I finally gave up hope that this was going to change and found this site.

I have sent hundreds of e-mails and viewed even more profiles in my search. I ...


1 Comments, 395 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
A little wet n wild   6/2/2007

In high school like most teens, I loved going to the movies. A friend of mine and I went to see Bergman's Cries and Whispers. There's a scene where an ill person is comforted by an employee. Both are nude in the bed and the female employee has her hands around the other woman. It sent a rush of emotion through me. In another film I saw a number of times, Personal Best, with Mariel Hemingway and ...


0 Comments, 674 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
the difference in play   5/27/2007

what is the difference between sensual play and play that is sexual? thanks


1 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
fun   5/23/2007

having sex is fun


0 Comments, 74 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
1   5/23/2007

all i can say is just be your self keep your kool and maybe you'll get in that bitches pant but also be respectful.


1 Comments, 50 Views, 6 Votes
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
for yall   5/23/2007

beating off is something you shouldnt do get a gurl and beat the hell out of her pussy till she nuts thats what you should do pppppppppppppppppppppppppppzzzzzzzzzzzzzz


2 Comments, 80 Views, 7 Votes
sxcybigrl2 51 F
3  Articles
First Date   5/21/2007

I met this guy on a first date that lasted for a whole weekend it was wonderful. But it just did not last. So now I learn to enjoy the first date cause you can never get it back.


3 Comments, 315 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
MrRightnow4sex2 26 M
2  Articles
Is sex or thinking of sex with an older women alright   5/12/2007

If i am 18 and i have thoughts about having an older women to jus have sex with.Is that a legitimate fantasy.would older women do a 18 year old man.


3 Comments, 271 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
hgrn hg   5/9/2007

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0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
JustDick69 51 M
5  Articles
First FFM Experience   4/26/2007

When I was younger I was a DJ at a local Pool Hall every Friday night. This Friday night my GF came to the hall to spend some time with me while I worked. At about midnight one of her very cute petit friend’s arrive to have a couple of beers with us. As the night went on she drank a few to many. She was in no condition to drive home she deiced to come back to our place. The girls continue ...


0 Comments, 463 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
1958agoodyear 56 F
1  Article
My first night at a swingers club   4/26/2007

Hey Cutie,

I Am In Love!!!!

Fred called me everyday since Wed. As promised we were having diner at his place. He called on Sat right about the time I was trying to leave and I asked I could call him back so I could get on the road and be able to talk. (I went into work at 6am Sat and had to drive to Naples for a delivery, even stopped and got my oil changed. I did not have a ...


3 Comments, 1056 Views, 26 Votes ,6.26 Score
rm_fourtwozer0 38 M
3  Articles
Picking up girls at bars   4/24/2007

I recently turned 21 and am very interested in the bar scene, however I haven't been to one yet. Im sure picking up girls wont be much of a callenge to me but of course every little bit helps so thats what this article is about...got any tips?


1 Comments, 144 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
nbr1topdoc 69 M
1  Article
A fantasy first date...   4/21/2007

This story starts out with me waiting for you to show up for our first meeting. I responded to an ad you placed on this internet site, and we seemed to hit it off just emailing back and forth a couple times. I had suggested that we get together for a bite to eat and get some real face time.

You agreed and we decided to meet at this quaint little Irish pub. It was a cool day outside, ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_handsomecare 46 M
3  Articles
Would you bring a sex protection in the first date?   4/18/2007

Would you bring a sex protection (condom) in the first date?


15 Comments, 273 Views, 15 Votes ,3.74 Score
Blown on the first date . . .   4/13/2007

I was trying to figure out the other day at what point during my first date did I know I was going to get a nice, sloppy dick-sucking? And it occured to me that I realized that my load would be dripping off her chin, a soon as she ordered the lobster. Expensive, yes . . . but I think she was trying to tell me something by ordering the lobster . . .


2 Comments, 579 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_1dom1dom 48 M
4  Articles
Go through with it   4/11/2007

Has anyone agrred to do certain things to each other before they have met and are having second thoughts? By this I mean agreed to go down on them before you have met so you are pressure to do it before you know whether they are clean etc? Just a thought


0 Comments, 84 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Clintdriftwood 47 M
14  Articles
Should you or shouldn't you   4/7/2007

Well its a hard question. I mean we are here on a site asking for sexual relations and yet if you are lucky enough to meet someone who isn't wasting your time!! Should you try and bed them straight away or not?


3 Comments, 96 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Park Encounter   4/5/2007

Spring had finally sprung and the day was too beautiful to spend lunch indoors. I sent my wife, Susan, an invitation over IM to go for a walk with me and she quickly accepted. We met up halfway between our offices and headed to the nearby park. It was a fairly small park, but it had some picnic shelters, playground equipment, and restrooms. As we walked we chatted a bit and I couldn’t help ...


1 Comments, 429 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
kind of strange   4/3/2007

If you had strange encounters with other first dates that will reflect to you date.. so be cool and leave behind those bad encounters and think new..


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_msmocha69 38 F
2  Articles
The Meeting Part One   4/3/2007

The first person that I met was Len. He was about five foot eight, weighted about one eighty, caramel complexion with a freshly shaven baldhead and little to no facial hair. My first encountered with Len was about two years ago when I was heavily into my escorting business. We had talked back and forth on the phone for about a month straight scheduling meetings and him always calling them off for ...


0 Comments, 199 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_princet6969 58 M
1  Article
big surprise fills me up in size   4/3/2007

well here we goi met this young hot mature lady on this site, she invitedmeover i'm thinking yeah i'm gonna fuck that hot pussy. well i ring the doorbell, she comes to the door in a hot black sexy outfit, all 5'2 140 lbs of hotness, i lick my lips nad suddenly i get harder than hell thinking about tasting that sweet pussy. she said she had been waiting to meet me and was going to have some real ...


1 Comments, 686 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
lickmeslower 40 F
1  Article
WATERSPORT OR CUM   4/2/2007

I LOVE HAVING SEX MISSIONARY. SOMETIMES WHILE IM BEING FUCKED IT GET'S SO INTENSE I FEEL LIKE IM GOING TO CUM. IT'S AT THAT MOMENT THAT I PUT MY LEGS OVER HIS SHOULDER AND ARCH MY BACK. THERE'S THIS CERTAIN SPOT I CAN MAKE HIS DICK HIT IF I ARCH MY BACK THE RIGHT WAY. THE NEXT THING THAT HAPPENS IS I FEEL MY PUSSY WET LIKE A WATERFALL. IT'S NOT A COUPLE OF SQUIRTS. IT'S MORE LIKE A GUSHUNG ...


29 Comments, 1875 Views, 83 Votes ,7.17 Score
First Glory Hole Date   3/30/2007

Have You ever been at an Adult bookstore and not really know why there were hole in the walls. Well I was that stupid at the time. I was mainly having sex with women but found myself alone at this time and decided to try out a bookstore to see what it was about. I should also mention that all my life I have always liked looking at cocks. Well here I was in a booth and all of a sudden some one ...


2 Comments, 1147 Views, 24 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_craig3890 39 M
1  Article
Favourite First Dates   3/24/2007

What do classy girls like for a first date. What would you like to see the guy plan or do?


0 Comments, 98 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
hero4u24 36 M
3  Articles
Awkward   3/16/2007

What should i do on a first date that is going well but not great, its got the making for a great night but at the same time i don't want to push it and at the same time i don't want to not do anything what is the best way possible for this to end for me?


0 Comments, 87 Views, 0 Votes
Fit_Big_Bearman 49 M
1  Article
Suggetions for first date or meeting?   3/12/2007

I believe the first meeting should be a casual meeting over coffee or something. Also no expectations to proceed further before the date. Meet first, feel attraction and chemistry before moving on further. What are your thoughts or suggestions for a first date or meeting? I'm interested in other ideas.


5 Comments, 180 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
Encounter with an older lady   3/12/2007

Browsing Swapfinder.com I found an interesting profile for a lady that was 10 years older then me. She was married for over 20 years, 2 grown older and stuck in loveless marriage. I had never been with an older woman and that had always been a fantasy of mine. We traded emails and then emails several times a day and then we progressed to talking on the phone everyday till we finally decided to meet face ...


1 Comments, 1314 Views, 24 Votes ,6.31 Score
nicco100 56 M
13  Articles
be yourself   3/10/2007

when you go on your frist date make it memorable have fun hopefully she will to.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
bicuriousmwm15 57 M
1  Article
My first TG experiance   3/1/2007

I had meet this person on another site. She was very nice looking and a sweet person to talk with. After talking for a couple weeks our schedules worked out. she invited me over and I went with an open mind. She met me at the door with an almost see though white skirt on and a teal blouse. Her nipples were already hard and showing though her blouse. we went straight to her bedroom and started ...


0 Comments, 944 Views, 21 Votes ,3.87 Score
It all business   2/27/2007

We managed go on business trip together but I arrived before you. Closing all the curtains in the room I bring out some candels and light them all over the room. Guess its a good thing we got a smoking room Then in the bath I draw a bath with some bubbles. I hear a shy knock on the door and I open it up.
Finally we get to see each other and all angst is gone as we look into each ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Our first meeting is all business   2/27/2007

We managed go on business trip together but I arrived before you. Closing all the curtains in the room I bring out some candels and light them all over the room. Guess its a good thing we got a smoking room Then in the bath I draw a bath with some bubbles. I hear a shy knock on the door and I open it up.
Finally we get to see each other and all angst is gone as we look into each ...


0 Comments, 99 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
_Irresistible0 38 F
2  Articles
There is nothing like having sex on the first date   2/17/2007

There is nothing like having sex on the first date. This is not something you would like to teach your .
On the first date both sides are nervous, confused as to what to expect and very excited to have met each other - this is of course in case both feel physical attraction.
I would not miss this state of being for anything in the world, it's one perfect aphrodisiac, and oh yes, I will ...


7 Comments, 826 Views, 30 Votes ,4.91 Score
Surprise First Date!   2/9/2007

A group of eight of us headed out to play a couple of golf courses over a long weekend before the fall set in. It was a coed group with five guys and three girls ‒ all reasonably good golfers. We’d been friends for a long time. Dave and Amy were the only “couple” so they slept together. Barb and Jan shared a room and the rest of us four guys shared two rooms. ...


1 Comments, 801 Views, 22 Votes ,6.73 Score
sweetass2share 52 F
1  Article
Now why didn't she come back?   2/6/2007

Not to sound like your mother, but just how filthy was your bathroom? While some people aren't into the superficial others of us, mainly the ones who list bathroom acitvities as a turn-off, prefer a little cleanliness with our sex.
Now I don't want or need to eat off your bathroom floor thank you very much, but I do want to leave a bathroom at least as clean or cleaner than when ...


0 Comments, 289 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
Forget the BS and enjoy!   1/25/2007

If you meet someone thru this site, forget all the crap about getting to kmow each other before you proceed! Both of you are after one thing and one thing only. SEX!!! It just all depends on opportunity. Get together, fuck, and if you enjoyed it, then get to know each other.


2 Comments, 95 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
olyguy1307 44 M
4  Articles
do you have sex on first dates?   1/24/2007

i was wondering how many people have sex on first dates or do you guys just fool around with oral?


3 Comments, 200 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
1st   1/22/2007

1st dates can go easy or totaly wrong


0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_83chevys10 40 M
4  Articles
First date   1/21/2007

What was the worst first date you have ever had and what do you think you would have changed now? Do you think it would have worked out or have been fun? whats up tell me some things about your first dates?


0 Comments, 59 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
Blogger Hookup   1/21/2007

The hotel was very classy.
He helped a Filipino woman navigate her baggage in the elevator and a family with three small girls negotiate their way into the elevator.
His highly polished snake skin boots glistened against the polished, glistening marble floors.
Then, he saw her. He recognized her from her profile pic.
He reached ...



0 Comments, 342 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Friends with NSA   1/20/2007

Such pretense surrounds the moment we meet And the following hours As if swept off our feet
We move beyond small talk We share our dreams We are a perfect fit Or so it seems
The night is upon us Our attractions peak Intense desires make Our defenses weak
Once in the bedroom Our intimacy expands All night at the mercy Of each other's hands ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_liquid3k12 38 M
5  Articles
Craziest First Date   1/19/2007

I am writing this article asking for everyone to wrtite an article on thier craziest or wierdest first fate


0 Comments, 122 Views, 0 Votes
ilove2fuck1985 39 M
2  Articles
fucking first time meet   1/18/2007

This is somethimg every man should enjoy and every woman should let happen


0 Comments, 460 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
londonspecial 59 M
6  Articles
first date nightmare   1/17/2007

why is it somepeople obviously lie about age and use old photos do they think when you turn up you will not notice the difference between 35 and 55?


5 Comments, 280 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
shelbyfireman 52 M
7  Articles
Normal setting   1/13/2007

I went on my first date with a couple. We went to a bar to get to know each other better. I was feeling a little worried at first, but they were really cool.
I picked them up at their house and drove to the bar. We met online and we wanted to see if we were compatible. The night went by very quickly, and we had a ball.
At the end of the night we decided that we would ...


0 Comments, 268 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
PussyLicker2974 34 M
4  Articles
car or motel or home   1/10/2007

How many of use have been out on a first date and then the other one on the date has started to make the first move in the car do you finish in the car, or go home , or to a motel . I want to know?


2 Comments, 221 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_DayManLI 63 M
3  Articles
well not so anymore   1/9/2007

are first dates the same as when going to dinner a movie a ride then a kiss on the forhead on her front porch, today it seems clubs extasy cocain hotels it seems fact!


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
callmeup67 45 M
5  Articles
clumsy first sex   1/8/2007

i got started late and had my first sex at age 17. I was very shy guy, my friend had to get a known highschool slut to do me, She was dry and i didnt know what the hell i was doing. It was a bad experience, my next one was 26 and she really showed me the ropes. Now I am an expert


1 Comments, 378 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_yukonyancy69 57 M
1  Article
I TOLD YOU TO STOP!!!!!   1/7/2007

I asked a young lady out one Saturday night. We had some dinner & drinks, then went night clubbing. We danced for about an hour. Then she asked me if we could take a seat for a while. I followed her to a booth that was fairly dark & out of view for the most part. I asked her why she wanted to sit there. She told me her eyes were hearting, & she would like to rest them. She asked if it would ...


5 Comments, 645 Views, 20 Votes ,2.36 Score
Not Exactly a First Date   1/6/2007

I'd taken this girl out twice with no more than a big hug and kiss. I had actually known her since we were both though she was five years younger. On the third time I took her to see Fantasia that had just been re-released after umpteen years. (This was many years ago, just before VCR machines.) The show was a double feature.
Somehow I knew something was on ...


0 Comments, 301 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
what to do in a first date   1/5/2007

NOTHING... absolutely nothing. based on my experience doing anything that's not you in the first date will back fire to you later. So my successful relations all startd with doing nothing in the first date. Just be myself, don't try to act anything, on't try to take any move. Then if it doesn't work out this means the relation will fall down later and it's better not to start it. If it ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Its_So_Hard_4u 35 M
4  Articles
Plan a Short Date   1/5/2007

No need to map out the rest of your lives together. Start with a simple, 1-2 hour date. If things go well, you can always extend the date. However, there's nothing worse than being on an all-day tour when you realized five minutes into the date that you have no future together. ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_freaks4sure 34 C
11  Articles
First Date   1/3/2007

I know a lot of people have had a lot of one night stands, but what would be the wildest one night stand you have ever had?


1 Comments, 376 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_tasteme1on1 45 C
2  Articles
We Want To Meet Bi-female, Help Us   1/3/2007

Hello All,
The question we have is how do you meet bi-females? We are a black couple looking to meet a bi-female near area. We have been on here for six month, but haven't been able to meet anyone in our area. We are nice and out going, sometimes a little shy, but we warm up quickly. What is the sercert? We are not really picky, we just want a thick ...



0 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
How far to go on the first date   1/3/2007

I would like to know how far people are willing to go on a first date. Being a guy I can say it can easily be all the way if the attraction and chemistry is there. the only thing is how often do you marry the person you slept with unless the sex is great.


0 Comments, 86 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Teasing you   12/30/2006

A fantasy
What I would love to do to you is come up behind you while your in the kitchen and pull your hair aside and start kissing your neck. I come up to your ear and I have this thing I do into your ear that curls your toes everytime I do it to you. I breath into your ear using my throat muscles to move the air. The way it hits your will renders you week and a case of hard ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
antine4onefem 44 C
1  Article
our first time   12/26/2006

we are very excited for our first three some.
It has been months of searching and we are hoping we are finally going to find someone!


0 Comments, 349 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
blackstar122006 46 M
10  Articles
A question   12/23/2006

Is it ok to show a woman where you live on the first date? Does it depend on the vibe that you receive from her?


0 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
first time   12/19/2006

first time i went one a date was ok we went to the movie and we hung out at home never ask for sex one a first date


0 Comments, 258 Views, 1 Votes
bigorgasmlicker 41 M
10  Articles
I Get Panic Attacks   12/19/2006

It's sometimes tough to meet someone for the first time.
Any of you guys feel "panicky"?
Just saying it like it is.

D.


4 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
my first date   12/15/2006

my first date was fun i really loved going to dinner and then going to the movies an at the end of the night a sweet kiss


0 Comments, 157 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
zebra299 64 M
8  Articles
Wild date   12/13/2006

Ok I met a gal online from the south and was comming to Indiana for a wedding. She wanted to see me. We have talk for 6 months online. Well when she arrived I was dress for dinner, but she wanted to freshen up a bit before dinner. I said sure. So she relaxed a bit went to the bathroom, then grab my hand and took me upstairs to the side of the bed; were she push me back on the bed with leg's ...


0 Comments, 442 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
rm_sohard4u224 44 M
1  Article
what u think ladys?   12/11/2006

just one Q. how meany ladys that get on this site~think about sex on the 1st date???? and is it wrong for a man to even try?....


1 Comments, 103 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Any cute ideas?   12/5/2006

I don't know about anyone else, but I find that movies + dinner is the most overused cliche in the book, and I've been thinking of more novel ideas and was wondering if anyone had any suggestions...


2 Comments, 101 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
"Best date location"   12/4/2006

My friends and I have been having this discussion often and have been trying to figure out where the best first date locatiion would be. I'm old school at heart and I still think dinner and a movie is a solid starting point to any relationship. With there being more in terms of modern convienences to do, what if anything these days fills the 'dinner and a movie' roll ?


2 Comments, 137 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
xmas   12/1/2006

so what are some good gift suggestions for people that you meet here on Swapfinder.com?...edible undies?...lubes/vibes..gift certificates to various stores?....


0 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
ALWAYS treat a gal like a lady.   12/1/2006

Always be yourself, compliment her, bring her roses and chocolate, give her a piggy back ride, play catch with football in a park, hold her hand and tell her she is beautiful, and that she smells wonderful, have a lovely picnic, and never look anywhere else but into her pretty eyes.


0 Comments, 37 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_awilk04 40 M
1  Article
Good first date   11/30/2006

Can I get some ideas?


1 Comments, 121 Views, 0 Votes
renegade10000 42 M
2  Articles
looking luv in all the wronge places   11/27/2006

when going on a first date you want to open a dailoge. So, you're gonna want to go somewhere that you guys can talk and have a good time. One place you don't ever want to go on a first date is the movies. JUST DONT DO IT. unless you guys did something fun before. Its a bad idea because you guy are going on the first date to get to know each other and you cant exactly do that in a movie. ...


2 Comments, 190 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
rm_ca_micheal 44 M
6  Articles
how to get to the point?   11/27/2006

see how does it all start? i mean theres all this talk on here but when its face to face its not to the bed rite away. so anyone know what to do?


0 Comments, 99 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_theDeziner 42 M
3  Articles
How much of a slut should i be?   11/27/2006

ok, so i hook up with a tgirl, finally, and on our first date, within like 15 mins i'm suckin on a dick. and loving it! first blowjob ever! i would've gotten fucked too but we hooked up later than we were supposed to, and i had to be someplace else. am i too easy?


0 Comments, 507 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
niceguy9862 39 M
2  Articles
What is normal?   11/27/2006

I fairly recently met someone from this website for the first time, I felt really quite uncomfortable (by no means her fault) because I did not know what was the accepted way to behave. I know the polite way to act around others but this was the first time it was an arranged meeting for sex, it was weird. It goes against the grain a little to just dive in and go for it without really ...


3 Comments, 220 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
rm_chocolate21 33 F
6  Articles
First threesome in 4 years   11/27/2006

My bf and I are preparing to have our first threesome. This is my first in 4 years, his first ever. We both have been anticipating it for the longest, but I'm also a little nervous because it has been a while since I have been intimate with a woman. Now I know what to do and everything. Any advice on ways to break the ice when we all meet?


4 Comments, 503 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
scrtlvn 54 F
10  Articles
Getting over the nervousness   11/25/2006

When getting ready to meet for the first time, how do you get over the nervousness? Even after chatting for a while, getting to "the day" can lead up to some axieties. What's the best way to show up and "go from there"? Should a person wait longer to meet or just go for it?


6 Comments, 223 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_loverbob85 38 M
5  Articles
SEX   11/23/2006

DO U HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE?????????


2 Comments, 178 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
WhyceeWilliam 62 F
4  Articles
My Soul Mate   11/19/2006

AHHH the first date happened 6 months after I had started talking to this man online. I was in the midst of a divorce and I was feeling depressed and so low on self esteem it wasnt funny. He and I clicked so well. We talked about everything, our past lives and loves. We spoke about our feelings for each other. Phone sex was the best. This man could make me cum just by the moan in his ...


1 Comments, 364 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
WhyceeWilliam 62 F
4  Articles
Gray Eyes?   11/19/2006

We chatted on Swapfinder.com for some time. Then I gave him my phone number. OH the sexiest gravel voice I had heard in a long time. We had a lot in common. I was 49 and he said he was 53. PERFECT, a man of maturity.. hahaha..(you will see why I am laughing later in this story) I was a bbw, he loved bbw women. He said he had gray eyes, I am a sucker for a black man with hazel or gray eyes. He said he ...


3 Comments, 386 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
First dates are fine   11/14/2006

My first date was not super extra-ordinary. I picked up my date at her house and we went out to a movie and to eat. It wasn't anything thrilling - cause I didn't have much in the way of cash and so we ate at a pretty cheap place. But I guess the conversation was good cause we ended up necking in the car at the end of this dirt road out in the country. One thing led to another and it ...


0 Comments, 186 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
bigboy69foryou 37 M
10  Articles
sex as soon as hooking up   11/8/2006

who agrees or dissagrees with fucking on the first hook up?


11 Comments, 343 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
piano bar   11/4/2006

How about a piano bar for a first date?


1 Comments, 36 Views, 0 Votes
LTjigger 57 M
5  Articles
Love the baby sitter!   10/31/2006

When I was in my early thirtyies I was the dad of a four-year-old. A coworker of mine had a girlfriend who had a day-care for . She watched my for me. Her name was Ann. She was twenty-four, about five-foot-two, one hundred-five pounds, with long brunette hair. She was very petite and very sexy. She had a small tight ass and small tits with beautiful nipples pointy nippels that showed even ...


1 Comments, 1950 Views, 43 Votes ,8.22 Score
RomanS1969 46 M
2  Articles
How to go about it   10/31/2006

First Dates are exiting. However, meeting someone from Swapfinder.com can be many more times exiting. You don't even know what the person looks like in real. Did he or she describe themselves correctly? Did you have a different image in mind? I think it is healthy not to have too high expectations. You can always be pleasantly surprised. So go out and enjoy. But please, be honest. Ciao!


1 Comments, 172 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Showing up is a huge step   10/30/2006

Having enjoyed some success with online dating, I have found that many of the ladies that I met, were surprised that I would make good and meet. It further shocked them, that my profile was fairly accurate. Certainly, I was somewhat shocked in that it is hard for me to imagine why a guy would not want to meet with a nice woman who is interested. This assumes that you have both passed the ...


1 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
knightpanthera 25 M
1  Article
how fast should a relationship develop?   10/30/2006

Really how fast should a relationship develop from first meeting? I mean its fair to say when both parties are ready, but im really asking the length of time that is good for you. Perhaps you feel better referring to amount of dates before you make a commitment. Personally, I wait about three dates till committing myself to someone. But It usually gets serious before the end of the second ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 0 Votes
badkitty823 67 F
1  Article
Be waiting, blindfolded.. A fantasy comes true   10/27/2006

We had been chatting for a few weeks off and on. Making arrangements to meet and not being able to. I was getting very discouraged because he was my fantasy and I just wanted it, needed it so bad. On Friday afternoon we spoke again. We still hadn't met and I was tired of trying to have coffee or chat somewhere. So we decided he would just come over quickly to lick and suck my pussy. ...


5 Comments, 694 Views, 25 Votes ,7.78 Score
Phantasymal 41 M
7  Articles
Getting through the Shy Barrier   10/23/2006

A few people, not all have issues with having Shy tendencies and the first date jitters its not uncommon especially with meeting with someone you've never talked to or hardly talked and/or seen before. Getting beyond this after the point of contact when you meet them can be a challange, since shyness tends to blank your mind and the jittery feelings of your nerves shaking your hands, knees, ...


1 Comments, 95 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
LTjigger 57 M
5  Articles
Office Encounter part two   10/23/2006

When last I left you I was recounting how my inept secretary turned out to be a great fuck. What stunned me was when her mom brought over a few things and figured out what was going on and wanted to play also!
Tina's mother Octavia was not what I had expected. She was a garish woman with the same small waist as her but a little more curve to her hips which made a beautiful ...


2 Comments, 750 Views, 19 Votes ,5.23 Score
LTjigger 57 M
5  Articles
Office Encounter   10/23/2006

A few years ago my receptionist had recently quit on me, so I ran an ad in the newspaper for a part-time receptionist. I finally hired Tina, a pretty twenty-year-old. Right off the bat I knew I shouldn’t hire her, but her beautiful auburn hair, big green eyes, flat tummy, tight little butt and big breasts got the better of me!
That first week, she made many mistakes, so I ...


0 Comments, 697 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
GreatSex4AllN06 104 C
0  Articles
Never would have dreamed....   10/22/2006

This story is not for the faint of heart or those just looking for a very quick story: Our first night together was not only unforgettable but also unforseen. There had been moments where I thought the night would never happen and sitting back thinking about it I am so glad it did. We finally decided that he would come down after he got some stuff done at home. It seemed like the ...


2 Comments, 758 Views, 26 Votes ,6.15 Score
Needsmoreloven 38 M
1  Article
1 date important   10/22/2006

Well first off it is always good to start out with a possitive attitude when you greet them. During the date engage conversion that interest them, example talk about there job or what they want to do in there future. Its important to pretend to be paying attention. The more talking they do the less you have to boar them with your stupid jokes or stories that happend way back when. The ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
greeneyedmonstr 60 M
1  Article
Is it just me?   10/22/2006

Or, has anyone noticed that people with the word SEXY in their screen name are just setting us up for a fall. Has anyone actually met someone with the word SEXY in their name who looked the part? Has anyone attempted to meet someone without a picture, only to get to the door and receive a greeting from the Creature from the Black Lagoon? Help me here.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
zande_r553 37 M
10  Articles
sleeping on first date   10/20/2006

how many girls have had sex on the first date, and did u like it?


0 Comments, 139 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_1stan10 62 M
1  Article
should I get drunk for this one   10/20/2006

People lie about how thay are. and I am what I say. Should I just get drunk before I go so thay look good?


1 Comments, 88 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
asheboroqriosguy 42 M
9  Articles
the first date>   10/19/2006

take a look to your mirror..and make sure everything its right and its how you wanna look for a person the first time.make a cross with your own saliva on your forehead.and say...god here i come. this is for a good luck....


1 Comments, 51 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
fake   10/17/2006

Why do girls insist on being fake on the first date? It's not like i won't remember the show she put on, i mean seriously. I cannot stand someone who cant be themself and relaxed on a first date


1 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_icuyumyum 64 M
9  Articles
Make me yours forever!   10/17/2006

I was at a party once were I was talking to a women. After about 20 minutes she wanted to go for a walk, so we did. As we were walking she stopped and kissed me. It was good and I went to give her another one when she said "kiss me and make me yours forever". I backed off and said don't you thing we should get to know each other first? She agreed and we went back to the party. The rest of ...


0 Comments, 454 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
you_like_it_69 38 F
1  Article
What is up with this???   10/15/2006

Okay, so I met this guy online...and he was really sweet and completely perfect. So we decided to meet. Well, when we talked online he alwasy talked about how romantic he was and how love to go on nice and dates, and how he loved to dance. So we decided to meet and he drove down here and since he is not from around here I chose where we would go...this little bar here in town called City ...


4 Comments, 433 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
The Cute Chocolate Woman With Freckles   10/15/2006

Thump!
The phat throbbing head of my phallus entered her outer folds.
Her flower gave away to the gentle pressure of my initial thrust.
The audible entry into her love box hinted of the intense pleasure to be had.
To assuage any discomfort, I withdrew my phallus a little to allow her body to adjust to the trauma of penetration. ...



0 Comments, 186 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
cousin of girlfriend   10/15/2006

my recent past saw me going to a family dinner thing with my ex girlfriend. it was your average meet the family thing, everyone sitting around chatting and trying to get throught he boring event.
one thing that was not boring was my girlfriends cousin vicky, she was a brunette, about 5'3, a body to die for with about 36 size breasts, and one cute little ass.
she was ...


0 Comments, 910 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
dunkeyman 54 M
3  Articles
I think going all the way on the first date takes courage and spontanuity   10/14/2006

Is it wrong to like a loose woman? I mean doesn't it take a sense of trust and courage to end up in the sack the first night. Do I have a problem if I NEVER call a woman back if we have to wait 4ever to get it on! I mean if she has so much going on she can't or doesn't want to I'm cool with that but I gotta get some from somewhere and I"m not torturing myself until she's ready then later ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm__seth01 49 M
6  Articles
OMG!!!!   10/14/2006

My first date we had already do it..


0 Comments, 179 Views, 1 Votes
SexyLadyNeedsU 45 F
2  Articles
Public Meetings   10/13/2006

Ladies, if a man asked you to meet at his place, PLEASE do not go. Especially if it is the first time meeting and after only one email or chat! Men say this and that, but they are not always what they say. A lot of men out here email, chat, and even talk, but very FEW actually date women who just want to meet and no sex at the end. If you really want to meet ...


7 Comments, 431 Views, 19 Votes ,0.88 Score
Watching Can Be Fun On a First Date   10/10/2006

We joined Swapfinder.com back in May 2004 and immediately upgraded to Silver Membership to be able to enjoy more of what we were looking for. Our desire was, at least for now to undress in front of another couple and have sex while they watched us and video taped the action. There are not many couples out there looking for such a tame activity. We however were able to find a couple ...


2 Comments, 417 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_morninguy65 58 M
1  Article
met on here?   10/10/2006

just wondering if anyone has met anyone here? and it turned out to be love?


0 Comments, 102 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Worst of the first   10/10/2006

Okay, here is my worst of the first (and it is probably pretty lame):
I met Shelly when she dropped by to visit a guy who rented a room in my house. We hit it off and, after verifying that she was available and my buddy was not interested in her, I asked her out. We had a wonderful time, had dinner went for a long walk and later that night when we were having a nightcap at a ...


0 Comments, 227 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
First Time Question   10/10/2006

How many of you have actaully ridden in the car with on a first date from this or other sites?


0 Comments, 97 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Signs of life   10/10/2006

I knew her from a church we attended. She came over with her friend while a friend of mine was to make it a "foursome" just for conversation. There was never any hint of things going beyond conversation (which never turned sexual in nature).
She was obviously more attracted to me and willing to go farther than I had expected. So much so that she appeared "clingy" and "pushy". ...


1 Comments, 280 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
Chubby4topchsr 37 M
4  Articles
judging ur new man   10/10/2006

u have to be able to read ur new date, and dontdo what i did and let them walk all over u. I used poor judgment and paid 4 it in pain and suffering


0 Comments, 54 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_blackmeat04 37 M
10  Articles
how far   10/9/2006

how far are you willing to go on the first date?


0 Comments, 81 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_ladyt6957 66 F
2  Articles
Where to go on a first date   10/9/2006

I get emails from men and they have asked me what would you like to do, where would you like to go? I just wanted to see what other people feel would be a good place to go on a first date.


4 Comments, 142 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
fisrt date   10/7/2006

I think on a first date, a guy should always act like a gentleman, treat his gal like a princess, otherwise whats the point of going out anyone else agree or do u think he should be forward and go for it, i dont think that but what abt you?


2 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
2_big4u_tohandle 44 M
4  Articles
first date sex   10/6/2006

has anybody slept with the gal after first date on the same night


1 Comments, 267 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
First date are very intense   10/6/2006

the first date most of the time determines if you will continue seeing that person again . most personally most of my first dates have ended up in a one night stand thumbs to that my people. if you get a date who has nothing incommon with you during the first 30minutes believeme it can be seriously be a let down. So later my peeps i will givge you more next time


0 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_co_richie 36 M
1  Article
MILF   10/5/2006

This was my first time ever meeting anyone from this site. It happened to be her birthday and her husband was out of town, so he said for her to find someone to play with. we went to dinner then back to her place for some great fun. she was quit a bit older than me, but was a great teacher, thank you for a great night, you know who you are.


2 Comments, 935 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
rm_kirchman 45 M
1  Article
where to go   10/4/2006

was wanting to get others ideas on where to go and what to do for the first date with some one you meet from match


1 Comments, 60 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_freak4u8 39 M
12  Articles
how far to go   10/3/2006

Exactly how far are you willing to go on your first date.


3 Comments, 47 Views, 0 Votes
First Date with an young Girl   10/3/2006

It was a sweet moment when I met her in that crowded Bus.I was sitting and she was standing.My head was touching her breast which she allowed with a smile.I felt that her nipple got erected as she was not wearing bra inside. Then I suddenly asked her to sit and stood behind her.As there was rush nobody was watching us.I slowly slipped my hand inside of her blouse and cupped her nipples ...


0 Comments, 503 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_freak4u8 39 M
12  Articles
the first one   9/30/2006

how far are you willing to go on the first date or does it depend on the other person.


0 Comments, 36 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Hillbilly2007 52 M
4  Articles
first date   9/29/2006

I had just broke up with my girlfriend of over 4 years. When a woman from work invited me out with friends of hers. The evening was fairly nice, a few drinks, a game or two of pool. Later that evening my co - worker took me back to the parking lot of work. Do to my drinking I had to lack a leak, so I was not able to go in the plant. My new friend took me around the backside of the ...


0 Comments, 486 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_tensgo4 56 M
1  Article
have you progressed past the first encounter?   9/29/2006

I'm sure many people meet thanks to Swapfinder.com, but I want to know how many make it to a second date.. third even. How many have become partners, lovers, friends and have lasted???


5 Comments, 187 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
jackstep 62 M
4  Articles
Office Interlude   9/26/2006

Marily and I had worked in the office together for a few years and had shared thoughts and ideas. It was a very pleasant relationship until one day when I was looking over some papers and she can up behind me and started to read them. Marilyn was an adorable redhead with a very nice figure. She always dressed nice and stood about 5'6" and had perky breasts that revealed very nice nipples ...


2 Comments, 486 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
Sex Date   9/26/2006

She met me at the door wearing a lace bra and matching panties, twirled slowly for me and pulled me inside, shutting the door after me. She is years younger my age and we had flirted, talked, and both knew we were getting together for no strings attached sex. She has firm, pointy breasts and hips that make my mouth water every time I see her. We kissed for the first time, holding nothing ...


2 Comments, 393 Views, 19 Votes ,5.23 Score
rm_ous16 39 F
10  Articles
A Virgins Worst Nightmare   9/24/2006

Since this is such a big event, the girl announces to her boyfriend that after dinner, she would like to go out and make love for the first time.
* * * * * * * * *
Well, the boy is ecstatic, but he has never had sex before, so he takes a trip to the pharmacist to get some condoms. He tells the pharmacist it's his first time and the pharmacist helps the boy for ...


4 Comments, 625 Views, 23 Votes ,4.53 Score
bc209670 36 M
11  Articles
awkward moments..... no thanks   9/24/2006

Dating to put it plainly just blows. All it is is two people claiming to be somebody else in order to be accepted. If I wanted to go back to high school again I'd invent a time machine. The main reason I ventured into this site is to avoid these bothersome situations. And I just happen to be lucky enough to live in the times of the internet. Otherwise I would be shit out of luck. So I ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Drofpussology4u 66 M
43  Articles
The Orange County Blond   9/24/2006

TheOrangeCountyBlonde had not answered my emails after showing an initial interest. After a few weeks, I sent her another one. She responded and let me know that some life things had stopped her and she was very interested in meeting me.
We set up a date and confirmed it the day before. We were to meet in Irvine.
I loved to meet in Irvine. It was ...



0 Comments, 274 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
Holy crap   9/22/2006

I meet a girl on another site once and you couldnt really see her face that well.When we meet face to face it was a girl that i work with.Well we were both nervous and stuff at first but then we remembered why we were meeting up.We ended up having a good run of sex for about two years untill she moved.So remember kiddies be carefull who you are meeting it might hit close to home.


1 Comments, 345 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
sweetnjuzygem 55 F
1  Article
In Their Eyes   9/22/2006

Two very horny, man and woman, meet up in a well lit public place. They both have passionate desires just waiting for the right moment to unleash themselves. They come face to face, and just stare endlessly into one anothers eyes. They can see themselves doing many wild things as they stare deeply back and forth between them. They move closer, and closer, right till their bodies are ...


1 Comments, 186 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
First date surprise   9/20/2006

After some emailing and phone chats, I drove about 40 minutes to meet a woman for the first time. She sounded nice on the phone, pleasant voice, easy laughs. I was surprised that she invited me directly to her house rather than meet in public, but it was a Sunday and she said she just wanted to lounge around the house all day in sweats, just relax.
As it turned out, we talked for ...


2 Comments, 789 Views, 34 Votes ,5.67 Score
nymphoforlife86 28 M
9  Articles
best way to impress on a first date?   9/18/2006

hey guys and girls, just wanting to know ur opinions on what you think are some vital things to do to impress on a first date? i know a few myself, but would like to hear others opinions


1 Comments, 78 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
How do you know if a first date is going well?   9/11/2006

How dou you know if a first date is going to be a last date? Women: What do I need to do and look for?


3 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_sexandlife12 41 M
3  Articles
what should we do?   9/11/2006

what we should do on the first date? kiss her? huge her? or just give her a smile to show your love? if any one know, let me know also.


2 Comments, 50 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
BigTigger48 45 M
2  Articles
First Date Etiquette   9/8/2006

1. Pick a place that doesn't have "sex expected" written all over it. Bowling Alley, Outdoor Brunch resturant .... not Hotel resturant or porno movie theater
2. Pick a place that is easy to find.
3. Don't bring your or your friends along.
4. Don't invite them to your house.
5. Have enough money to at least pay for your own meal. ( Men and Women ) ...


1 Comments, 107 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
Why can't they all be like that?   9/8/2006

I had been single for a couple of months, but having custody of my left little time for me. I had spent many of my evenings, after the went to bed, chatting online and had finally managed to make a few online friends. This one lady in particular sounded pretty nice. Although she lived over an hour away, we had talked on the phone a few times and exchanged pictures. Finally she got tired ...


2 Comments, 324 Views, 11 Votes ,5.41 Score
rm_dont_know82 42 M
4  Articles
ideal first date????   9/5/2006

i like to go out and have coffee nothing to heavy that comes on the second


2 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
first dates   9/4/2006

first dates can be very fun but at the same time can make you very nervous whats the best thing to do to make your self not nervous


0 Comments, 26 Views, 0 Votes
rm_passhn4_2 46 M
3  Articles
Angela and Tony's ride   9/2/2006

Andréa held on tight, as the motorcycle seemed to cut through the late spring breeze in slow motion. Her long brown hair whipped sensually in the wind attracting the gazes of any passersby. Secretly she wished she had brought something to tie it down with. She had considered cutting her hair and now she was sure she'd try something new. Hmmmmm...something new. That could be Tony. ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
GoodNPlenty29 54 M
3  Articles
Checking the Connection?   8/28/2006

With chat, email, IM, phone etc...., it's still not until we meet face to face before we know if there is a tru sexual connection? I'd prefer to meet someplace neutral and public for a first meeting. Is this too cautious and conservative, what are other members thoughts?


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
First Sex Experience...............   8/26/2006

I want to start off by saying i think your website is a great thing and that i was glad to see realistic stories about first time sex. Most of the stories you get from friends are edited so they are not as embaressing and the internet has so much trash on it. But onto my story.
I was twenty one when i lost my virginity. This girl and i had been friends for a long time and we meet ...


0 Comments, 442 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_toungfukher 40 F
1  Article
should i get in volved?   8/25/2006

I met this guy on Swapfinder.com and he's got this huge cock.We had been talking through email for a week.Then I couldn't take it any more, I had to fuck him.So we hooked up at Barns and Nobels, had a quick bit & talked for an hour.I wasn't really all their, I was thinking about how much longer I would have to wait to get that huge cock in my tight little pussie.It did not seem like he was going to ...


7 Comments, 1344 Views, 32 Votes ,5.87 Score
rm_jroca2006 36 M
2  Articles
first dates suck   8/24/2006

When you go out with this person for the first time.It just like a test you have to do everything perfect. Thats why first dates suck.


4 Comments, 46 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
VaBeach9inches meets a sexy lady   8/24/2006

As you come in the door we hug and I give you a gentle kiss. You respond with a hug and take my hand to show me around the place. We start in the great room, with the TV and sofa being the main attractions. Then we move to the kitchen where you offer me a drink, we fix ourselves drinks, I take a sip of my diet coke and captain morgan, then move to the den and sit it on the table. You ...


1 Comments, 215 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
A Secretary's tale with her Boss   8/23/2006

My very first encounter with a man - my boss he decided to take me on a date- my first and his first with a much younger gurl. We went for a drive in his car - one hand on the steering and my hand clasped in mine we talked about everything under sun. He told me about his sex life with his wife which was active but he needed more and more and his wife was not much upto it so he decided he ...


1 Comments, 1037 Views, 22 Votes ,5.05 Score
rm_Adamata5 68 M
0  Articles
Our First Meeting, a True Story   8/21/2006

We had messaged one another for quite a while. She, from her uncluttered desk at work, me from my quiet apartment. Her English was okay, my Chinese not even close, so we IM’ed in English. She told me of her work, her husband, her and how at times she yearned more excitement than she was getting. We talked about meeting, but our busy lives seemed destined to prevent it until by ...


0 Comments, 150 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_Adamata5 68 M
0  Articles
Pseudoadultary: A Scenario   8/20/2006

I agreed to meet Adam. Trepidation aside, I decided to be brave…..to see in person what this stranger looks like, to watch how he carries himself, to look into his eyes and to know if therein lies personal comfort, fear, dishonesty or delight. I told my husband about it, with a bit of fear and a bit of bravado as my meeting with a prospective lover came before any lover meeting he ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
mightymouse2384 33 M
1  Article
What is the ideal first date?   8/18/2006

I want to know what everyone would do on a first date. Either meeting someone in public or from online. What would you do?


1 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
rm_utbogie 38 M
4  Articles
first date   8/18/2006

the first date is like an interview. you are getting to know the person


1 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
rm_newderection 62 M
1  Article
When it clicks   8/15/2006

I have had many first dates, but the best ones are the ones where I was contacted by the other person first. One in particular was a lady that had her profile hidden and choose to contact me. After a few emails of sharing interests we met at a local Bar for few drinks. We had a nice conversation to get acquainted, our personalities did not clash, and found out we shared a few values about ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
How to act....   8/10/2006

I don't know if everyone has ever had a date but if you have you won't forget your first official one. You're kind of uneasy and not yourself and then you open up and most of the time it turns out to be a great experience. Well I'm kind of having a first date again. This time around the woman is 11 years older than me instead of being a year younger. I think I should be ok and calm ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
sirlokispassion 52 M
1  Article
Her first time   8/4/2006

This was written by Jessikitty about her first night with me.....
She drove in silence, music too distracting to think about what was ahead. What WAS ahead, even she didn’t know, and it both terrified and excited her to distraction. She could barely hear the thoughts in her head over the sound of her quickly beating heart. She had only a few directions to remember when ...


0 Comments, 545 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
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1 Comments, 96 Views, 3 Votes
NOHOLESAFE 54 M
0  Articles
YOUR HEART KNOWS WHAT YOU WANT,EVEN IF YOU DON'T   7/29/2006

THERE SHE WAS AGAIN, I'D SEEN HER PROFILE, SEEMED THAT SHE WAS DISAPOINTED WITH HER LUCK HERE AND READY TO LOOK ELSEWHERE, MAYBE ALREADY GONE.SHE DID HAVE A GREAT PROFILE PICTURE, A VERY PRETTY, VERY WET LITTLE PUSSY RIGHT IN YOUR FACE, ONLY BAD THING, I DON'T LIKE SHAVERS, I LOVE HAIRY LITTLE MUFFINS, VERY EROTIC, MAYBE I'M JUST DIFFERENT.SHE WAS IN MY TOWN, I WAS LONELY, WHAT THE HELL ...


3 Comments, 310 Views, 15 Votes ,4.36 Score
peachez_w_cream2 46 C
19  Articles
first time   7/29/2006

go to a persons house and you thought about them by bringing them roses and some candy as u pick them up tell them that your looking for to the next date and leave them with a kiss.


1 Comments, 190 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
Expat_lover_KL2 74 M
9  Articles
Best Policy   7/29/2006

So waht is the best policy during the first date. Honesty, straight from the heart?


0 Comments, 65 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
lexsmoke78 46 M
9  Articles
Blind Dates   7/26/2006

Blind Dates can be scary and also they can be great.From some of the ones I know that were great they were not relationship material.In actuallity they were one night stands.But hey we all have different rating systems.But the ones that were scary I think it was about two. One I went to see what she looked like and she came out looking like "jabba the hut".And the other she ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_freefacials4 45 M
1  Article
Getting Response?   7/26/2006

Hi. I have been on here for a while and I have had a few emails but nothing seems to develop. Does anyone have any advice on how to get the ball rolling on this site? Is it good to be straight forward or should you ease into things? I prefer the straight forward method but that does not seem to be working. Help!
Freefacials4


4 Comments, 252 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
think possitve   7/25/2006

Never mind love, life itself's a continious lecture n our various experiences remain various lecturers.hpe we get 2 know one another better.Make u'rself happy at all times n dont 4get u're always in ma heart.u're gorgeuos.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_Nitrowom 38 M
12  Articles
first meeting   7/25/2006

Iam not so expierienced in the first dating...but i dunno...should the person talk in sex in his first meet or not


0 Comments, 118 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
First dates are like job interviews.   7/20/2006

The clock strikes eight and you know that the big day has finally arrived. You jump into the shower and then jump out just as fast. Tripping over your damp towel, you wonder where the clothes are that you were just wearing. A quick brush of the teeth and a few runs of the comb throught your hair, you remember your clothes were left in a pile outside the bathroom door (on a dirty floor). ...


0 Comments, 103 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
This is somewhat of a first date   7/20/2006

I'm new to Swapfinder.com and i was thinking when your first email you recieve from a member you really like from their profile. How do you respond to let them know how much you like what you've read.DO you keep it short or do you tell them a little or alot about yourself Thanks w2


0 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
horney but dont know what to do   7/16/2006

i rencenty went to visit a guy from Swapfinder.com he was a cute guy with a large cock. i have lived a lesbain life for seven years and started having dreams about sleeping with men. i get to this guys house knowing i want the sex from him but got nervouse and chicken out i left there with my head down low saying to my self dam dam dam. he did try to talk sweet enough for me to want to do it. but my ...


3 Comments, 610 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Our Meeting III   7/15/2006

Well from last time, Celia and I had met at a Wendy's and then got in Celia's new Vette and headed down the road for an impromptu picnic. We got on a hidden (by a girlfriend of hers) pontoon boat and wound up at a heavily treed area with a path. Celia asked me to close my eyes and stripped down to a string bikini and was ready to lead me ashore. I stopped our advance so I could catch up ...


0 Comments, 194 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
jackstep 62 M
4  Articles
Once I saw her   7/13/2006

I was having a chat in the Swapfinder.com room when she entered and we did the basic Hi and How r u things. She was hot, living with a guy who is on the road five days a week and she was horny as heck. We chatted and she liked my profile and then told me she was home alone and wearing a black mini skirt, no panties, black bra and tank top. She wanted to do more then chat and we started off by me ...


0 Comments, 516 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
Our Meeting Continued   7/12/2006

She took my hand and led me to her new vette. There's no trunk in this car is there? She laughed, not to speak of. As she unlocked the doors I saw the little six pack cooler on the floor on the passenger side. Hop in. I got in and buckled the seat belt. So where is our picnic grounds? You'll see she said as she wheeled out onto Novi Rd. We headed out to a lake in the area. She ...


0 Comments, 162 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Our Meeting   7/10/2006

We had chatted by email and on Swapfinder.com for several weeks telling more and more about ourselves and our ideas. I recalled sending a note that asked if she was trimmed or shaved because I love to suck pussy lips and suck on the little love button that can send a lady over the edge. I get a rush when the lady cums tightening all her leg muscles crushing them up both sides of my head as I slow ...


1 Comments, 250 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
rm_mikedog5175 49 C
1  Article
Disappointed   7/9/2006

My husband and I have been members here for about 2 months. We have talked to several nice people on here. We started talking to a woman on here and we both clicked really well with her. After talking on the phone some and swaping e-mails back and forth we decided it was time to meet. We all set a time and a place that we would meet and even talked to each other a few hours before we were ...


3 Comments, 730 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
Bad first date   7/9/2006

I had set up a date with a woman that I worked with. We were really excited about this because we both liked each other. On the day of the date my grandmother got sick and went into the hospital. I forgot to call this woman. When she got to my house I was gone so she left and got a tattoo at the local tattoo shop. The nexty morning she came to my house and well... It was all worth the wait ...


0 Comments, 123 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
WHAT PARTY!!!!!!!!   7/8/2006

Hi i would like to share experience i had last week first iam a crossdresser and love being a woman most of the time a lot of my friends or too so the other night my gurl friend came by and while was getting ready we got to talking about sex and how much we love big dildos and after 2or3 glasses of wine we started geting hot and botherd one thing led to anthor and befor i knew it i had 4 ...


0 Comments, 445 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
A great first date   7/2/2006

I was on Swapfinder.com one night when I was IM'ed from this woman. So I said what the hell, we started chatting and we had much in common, she also sent me a picture. We talked on the phone and made plans to meet. So the next weekend she asked me to her place, I took a bottle of wine with me. When I got there and knocked on her door she answered wearing a robe and said she was running late and asked ...


1 Comments, 418 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
nsaforfun258 43 M
1  Article
waiting   7/2/2006

im still wating for a first date. i cant seem to get anyone from here to get with me. do you have any help for me.


3 Comments, 183 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_bbunny0005 42 F
0  Articles
Cowboys   6/30/2006

A few months ago i took a chance on meeting a guy from this site. We had exchanged a few emails on here. Then we exchanged . And finally after a few more emails and a phone call or two we hooked up and went on a date. I was scared but excited to. I'm running late as always and I'm thinking the whole time what if hes not as cute as the picture or as he sounded on the phone. So I was ...


3 Comments, 1303 Views, 26 Votes ,3.67 Score
somesexforUnme 64 M
4  Articles
Full steam ahead!   6/26/2006

Do most women want to find out more about their partner on the the first date or is it more likely that they want to climb into bed and discover the compatability during sex?


0 Comments, 216 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
rm_deb122750 73 F
1  Article
My First Date With The Guy From California   6/20/2006

I received an e-mail from a guy from California. He said he would be coming into town for a convention and gave me the dates. I looked up his profile, and he was married. I gave him a short reply stating I didn't go out with married men, but thanks anyway. He sent me several e-mails after that, asking me questions, such as do I need a rental car? Or my hotel is...., am I close to ...


0 Comments, 821 Views, 26 Votes ,5.18 Score
rm_ozmassageguy 49 M
5  Articles
Staying cool on a first date   6/15/2006

I just got back from a midday date, took a day off work to go see someone I have just met for the first time.
Whoa... She has eyes like you wouldnt believe and is alot of fun. It made me think just how hard it is to stay cool on a first date when you have a very hefty physical chemistry with someone youve just met. Last thing I want to do is come across as desperate and gagging ...


0 Comments, 254 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_Iceman037 54 M
1  Article
Anonymous Sex   6/15/2006

Last week I had a very exciting first date. We met here on Swapfinder.com and decided to meet the same evening. I went to her house and when I entered the sleeping room, she was already nacked in bed. We opened a bottle of champaign and a few minutes later my trousers. She was alrady wet and hungry. She took my dick and sucked it hard as I sucked her pussy well. We fucked around, had our orgasm ...


1 Comments, 758 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
Good ideas?   6/14/2006

Any good ideas for a first outing with someone you have met off Swapfinder.com


0 Comments, 42 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
zebra299 64 M
8  Articles
Car Shopping   6/14/2006

Ever driven down a highway or road and saw a cute guy or girl and wonder if they were free (single or available). Well I have it beats looking in bars and other places. To me it a kind of cat and mouse game. So, the next time your driving take a chance ask for her or his cell you never know what a great date they be me. Remember NO SPEEDING.


0 Comments, 144 Views, 4 Votes
rm_Edge357 53 M
2  Articles
Your fantasy first date, right here   6/13/2006

(If you think this is strange, check my profile)
How would you describe the ultimate fantasy date? Some of those on the profiles are a little dry.
For my fantasy date (a FANTASY, right?), it had better not be boring ‒ because that would be unbelievably stupid, if not against some kind of law of nature, to have a boring fantasy.
So we would start out ...


1 Comments, 138 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
johnphx711 56 M
4  Articles
Kiss till you cum   6/9/2006

I have been chatting with a few people online, and all of a sudden, someone I had never talked with showed up and said hello. Being bored at work, I struck up a conversation with her. She asked me when I was getting off (from work), and I told her. She asked me if I wanted to grab a drink, and I said yes. I figured what the heck, I can meet her f2f, and decide if I wanted to ask her ...


1 Comments, 239 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_horny18girl2 36 F
1  Article
first dates from Swapfinder.com   6/8/2006

my first date with a guy from Swapfinder.com was actually pretty good. we didnt have sex, mind u, but we both had a good time. i personally liked the fact that we didnt have sex on the first date. im stilla virgin after all and he was looking for more of a relationship before sex. we kinda matched pretty well, and as long as that happens, sex on the first date is not something to be taken so ...


0 Comments, 421 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
rm_ADEYEMI92 40 M
1  Article
DID SHE REALLY LOVES ME   6/8/2006

It was like a joke whwn she called me, couldn"t beleive she could get me .I quickly reply to her calls but only to be told there is a conference she want me to attend.I did not decline to her wish and appreciate her motives.She asked me to contact the organiser of the conference and to contact her for my participation.I did and later get to know that the team of the conference is on sexual ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 0 Votes
Make sure to ask for a recent photo   6/7/2006

Before you meet for a first date make sure that you ask for a "recent" photo or more than one photo..it's really annoying to meet someone that has sent you a pic of 10 years ago..


0 Comments, 69 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_Imacuminu 48 M
1  Article
Married first dates   6/7/2006

This is for the married women who are engaged in extramarrital sexual affair.
Have you met a man on ADF and hooked up successfully? If so, will you do it again?


0 Comments, 250 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_drummguy04 37 M
1  Article
first time with sex   6/7/2006

I have gone on many a date and I usually do everything that a normal gentalman does, like flowers paying for their expenses for the night etc., but none of these relations end up at the end of the road. I was wondering if anyone had any tips to help me out.


0 Comments, 121 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
StrokingDeeper 58 M
5  Articles
Where?   6/4/2006

On a first date where is the best place to meet?


0 Comments, 30 Views, 0 Votes
a little shy   6/1/2006

-fiction- They wanted to meet. They had talked about it for years. They decided the "timing was perfect". Introductions were made and they confessed they invisioned the 1st meeting to go something like this: "We meet friday just before lunch at a local resturaunt. Have some lunch and get to know each other. If all goes well, we head back to our place nearby to play." As friday ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Fealing Safe   5/30/2006

First dates are ackwared and you want to say and do the right thing and make your partner happy but that dosent allways happen. Each of you know why your meeting .To have sex .Make your juices flow.Id like to meet some one for the first time in a movie theater. Say our hellows and make shure were still excited in what were about to do . Pick out a older less crouded movie.Get some popcorn ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 0 Votes
rm_schoolmann 59 M
1  Article
Together for the First Time   5/30/2006

Together for the first time
Sara,
I have thought about you often and it almost seems regularly. I have been thinking about the touch of your skin, the smell of your perfume and the softness of your hair. I know that your eyes will be sparkling, and a wanting smile on your face. I can’t wait till we meet.
The sound of your voice is enduring, confident. ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_willing4both 39 M
1  Article
How do I go on a first date?   5/28/2006

I am a pretty shy guy, but am trying to break out of that. I am 21 yrs old and have never even been on a date. I don't know how to rate myself in level of attractiveness, but I don't think I am the worst out there. I want to know how do you tell if someone likes you? What are the signs? Do girls want guys to make the first move? What do you do on a first date?


0 Comments, 29 Views, 0 Votes
You can have a first date with me in the RGV Valley   5/27/2006

You know, one thing that I noticed about this website is that it is called Swapfinder.com, however it seems that most people here just want to chat, or if there is any physical interaction, it seems to be mostly lesbian action. Where are the females that love to have hot sex and cant get enough of it? Are there any really out there? I live in McAllen, Texas and I seem to be horny all ...


0 Comments, 141 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
xSouthernGirlx 42 F
1  Article
Where To Meet   5/23/2006

I seem to be having alot of guys wanting to meet me at my house onthe first date...i have a huge problem with that, i think in most cases you should meet in public making the situation comfortable for both people...You never know about people and bringing a stranger in to you home is just crazy...Just looking for some imput..what do you think?


13 Comments, 891 Views, 33 Votes ,6.27 Score
BE careful   5/22/2006

Always be careful when you first meet someone for the first time.


0 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Suckmytitss88 39 F
1  Article
Sex on first date   5/21/2006

Does you guys here expect sex on the first date with gals here? Does it matter if you doesn't get it?


3 Comments, 627 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
rm_Soapystacey 48 F
2  Articles
What do u do when he cant fuck good?   5/20/2006

like i met this guy last nite and he has a huge dick but he cant work it! What should i do?


35 Comments, 2629 Views, 59 Votes ,2.81 Score
New York Memories   5/17/2006

I keep playing this scene in my mind over and over again. The following is very close to what actually happened.
One evening while living in New York City, I wandered to Washington Square Park. While sitting among a group of people listening to some folk singers I noticed this large older man making his way through the crowd. I then lost track of him until he sat down beside me. ...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
JayandMay 53 C
3  Articles
Promise Small, Deliver Big   5/15/2006

handleWhen hooking up there can be many obstacles. The worst is not showing up where and when one promised. Leaving a horny gal waiting is just not nice!
I have learned a lot running my own amateur XXX site for the past 10 years, and the biggest lesson is, Promise Small and Deliver Big. An easy example is it's always OK to show up 5 minutes early, but to arrive 1 hour late ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
ERdosDdos 51 M
4  Articles
My 2nd Date   5/15/2006

After 10 day here with Swapfinder.com, and reading lots of articles, questions and answers, you ar quite disillusionated.The chances for male standard-members are not realy good, if you are realistic. So it surprised me even more to get a wink from a 32-year old woman nearby. Of course I get in contact with her immediately. After a nice chat we agreed for a date at friday afternoon 6 o'clock at the ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
clintonnlulu79 30 M
10  Articles
too much   5/12/2006

On your first date you must beinterested but stand offish. You never want to crowd your date. Be polite but not the boy next door. Very suddle touching is a must pecarful not to over do it. Don't talk to much or try to seemed over interested. Be honest because you hve no idea how far this first date is going to get you. Dont become cocky. One slip and your back in the loser pool.


0 Comments, 54 Views, 0 Votes
rm_fiersomestud 36 M
5  Articles
Flow of date   5/12/2006

Before you go to your date, you have to run over most of the details. For myself, I think of every possibility, if I run out of gas what bypasses can I take, or on how can I extend to her.. But most importantly, I always try to bring self-esteem and a cute-cocky manner onto the table. In most of my dates, I usually set the flow, since I am good at improvision and I can easily warm the ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
NB_bi_couple 60 C
2  Articles
Steamy First Encounter   5/12/2006

I was going to the hotel's steam room and thought it would be a hot place to meet. In a public place, naked... Very exciting for a first encounter and you get a direct look at who you're meeting.
I usually go to that spot a few times a year to relax and enjoy the warm steam during the winter. They also have the pool, a gym and the men's changing room has lockers, showers and a ...


0 Comments, 428 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
nascarbaby2 55 F
16  Articles
Is it okay to have sex w/ a guy on the first date?   5/12/2006

Well i had a guy that likes me asked me out on a date the evening went great, we went out to eat and then to a movie and he payed for it all..Then we went to a bar and had a few drinks and played some darts. Then we left and he took me home and he opened my door and let me out and walked me to the door he gave me a kiss on the cheek and was going to his car and i called him back up and ...


7 Comments, 1586 Views, 34 Votes ,3.51 Score
nascarbaby2 55 F
16  Articles
What do you look for in a first date?   5/11/2006

Myself i look for a guy w/ a sense of humor, good communication, honesty and trust...Just want to know what you think or feel?


0 Comments, 49 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_pockets10k 39 M
1  Article
Any Tips for New Swingers on that First Swing?   5/6/2006

I'm new to swinging, and I was just curious what insight some of you may have for someone about to make his or her first hookup with a (more or less) stranger...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 0 Votes
rm_kiddfamous 44 M
8  Articles
a kiss   5/1/2006

who here has ever kissed on a first date? Is it right to kiss on a first date?


3 Comments, 174 Views, 0 Votes
I am so NERNOUS   5/1/2006

Well it started a few weeks back chattin on line. I am a strait male and have never touched another guy in a seual way. I have always wondered what it would be like, to feel another guys cock and all. By the way I have been married for over 15 yrs and love her to death. We have a great sex life and use toys as part of it. We have a lot of fun in using them, what she doesnt know is how ...


0 Comments, 252 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
12licker22 63 M
10  Articles
first date and sex   5/1/2006

i had sex on first dates and it went well. ussaully chatted awhile to feel out the wierd. seems to work for me.


0 Comments, 103 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
thickandtasty619 39 F
7  Articles
DO YOU??????   4/29/2006

DO YOU FEEL THAT IT IS OK TO FUCK SOMEONE ON THE FIRST DATE???????? OR SHOULD YOU WAIT AND HOW LONG


17 Comments, 1784 Views, 55 Votes ,4.77 Score
rm_spunky5112 67 F
14  Articles
spunky's yum-yum young thang!!   4/28/2006

omg, , a young type contacted me said he would be in my state for a training session for his job..now, i try to be sensible with agw stuff..and 28 was a tad young..but his message was so nice and not the standard nasty talk i usually get from young types, ,and a few older gents too..so we decided to hook-up..i drove to his hotel and a true gentleman ..he was waiting for me outside and ...


0 Comments, 1032 Views, 20 Votes ,6.83 Score
dal77 53 M
2  Articles
A Great night of dancing!   4/25/2006

The first date i went out on was with the girl I thought was gorgeous. She said she would go out dancing with me. I went to pick her up and she answered the door in a short mini skirt and halter top. Everyone can probably figure out I had a raging hard on all night long. We went out dancing and it was terrific. She had some great moves and could really shake her ass. After awhile I found ...


0 Comments, 177 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
ExtreamPleas1000 53 M
115  Articles
Having sex on the first date.   4/25/2006

When having sex on the first date should the guy have condoms or the girl. because I have meet women on the first date and had sex right away. When my plan was just to meet.


2 Comments, 323 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_RyuEli 48 M
1  Article
holely photos   4/24/2006

Why are there so many photos that have the face cut out? If you can't put your full photo up why bother to put a photo up at all? If you don't want to be recognized why bother to be on a site like this to begin with.


1 Comments, 158 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
rm_friend604025 55 F
4  Articles
Who should pay?   4/24/2006

hello,
please help me a guy from here asked me out he said i should pay for dinner and a motel or hotel to fool around, i dont feel as a woman i should have to pay . i was raised where a guy should pay for dates and such things any ideas or help on this subject. please


11 Comments, 594 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
rm_MultiOOOOs 47 M
1  Article
Give the woman the lead   4/20/2006

In my experience on Swapfinder.com it seems that giving the woman the lead on the first date is the best thing to do. And give her the option to go home without being pushy on the subject of having sex. This I have found reaps benefits on future dates and show the woman that you respect her as a person. And if there is no chemistry between you, then at least it leaves the door open for friendship. ...


7 Comments, 2497 Views, 107 Votes ,7.12 Score
Curiosity fullfilled...   4/19/2006

So the direct approach is always the best...We were contacted by a female who expressed her desire to try new things. Actually she wanted the girl - girl eXXXperience, but the misses convinced her that she would want to try a couple. When she did THAT NIGHTwe met at a hotel and fulfilled her deepest erotic fantasies. A curiosity no more...she couldn't stop telling us how much of a ...


0 Comments, 222 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
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Gettng good service!   4/12/2006

I need to let this out. I was a little reluctant to have another man with my husband, but after enough fantases and a little encouragemnt, I decided to try.
A intersting (younger) man replied to Swapfinder.com and the next thing I know, I was on the way to the restraunt where he worked.
I felt really comfortable with him. He sat with us and talked. My husband brought up topics that I ...


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why am i being let down?   4/12/2006

I have asked for a woman to show me the ropes, preferably one with experience. Why is it now then i have had two separate occasions, where it was their idea to meet and both have let me down. One just once and one twice. I know for a fact they were real people not computer generated, so why did they back out with no explanation? I now feel i am wasting my money, i don't mind a chat to get ...


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