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why am i being let down? 4/12/2006
I have asked for a woman to show me the ropes, preferably
one with experience. Why is it now then i have had two separate
occasions, where it was their idea to meet and both have
let me down. One just once and one twice. I know for a fact
they were real people not computer generated, so why did
they back out with no explanation? I now feel i am wasting
my money, i don't mind a chat to get ...
1 Comments, 308 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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do first dates go good 4/10/2006
seems like everytime i meet someone for a first date something
goes wrong is there any advice to be giveing here
1 Comments, 82 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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The Single Most Heartbreaking thing....that could ever happen to a female 4/4/2006
I'm writing the article in royal blue because thats
exactly how i feel. Girls grab your tissues and prepare
to feel sorry for ya girl.....
it started on a friday night when i went to a brand mew club
with a homegirl. we saw alot of old high school friends there
(we're both sophmores in college) and one particular
boy caught my eye. i used to think his ...
7 Comments, 1715 Views,
41 Votes
,3.16 Score
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getingclose and meeting new people 3/31/2006
I think ive made some silyy misstakes on the way i have gone
about using this site i havent meet any one from here yet
id like to not not just looking for sex. Do any of you think
there is a problem over coming shy ness or what people expect
of you. Im quite knew to this i was to make some new freind
and have some fun any one think there is a problem being to
nice. I know you have to ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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My first encounter with someone met on Swapfinder.com 3/29/2006
My first encounter was with a woman I searched out on this
site. I was on business trip, and managed to set up a meeting
with a woman in the town I was visiting. We met at the bar in
the hotel at which I was staying. We were both nervous at
first, but after the second glass of wine, we were like old
pals. I suggested going up to my room, and she willingly
came along. Upon entering the ...
0 Comments, 320 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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FIRST DATE ? 3/27/2006
IM AT A LOSS FOR WORDS ON THE FIRST DATE ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE.
0 Comments, 77 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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Didn't happen yet 3/24/2006
Hi all,
We're on this program for one month now and except for
some winks and an odd superficial e-mail not much happened.
We know, updating helps, and so we did (still waiting for
it to happen). We also know that putting a picture improves
our chances and when we both agree we will download some.
We were told several times that it is difficult for a couple
to find a single girl. "Be ...
0 Comments, 107 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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First impressions 3/23/2006
I arrive at the restaurant about half an hour before our
meeting time to make sure that I get the most intimately
discrete table, and to have a starter drink to calm my nervousness.
We’ve written to one another over a month or two, haven’t
spoken yet, and have settled on this date to exchange first
impressions. If we agree on the presence of the chemistry
we hope to find, we ...
0 Comments, 275 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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good dates? 3/20/2006
what should a good first date contain?
1 Comments, 86 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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whats a good first date? 3/20/2006
hey every one tell me what u thing a good first date is?
1 Comments, 151 Views,
9 Votes
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Hot First Date 3/19/2006
I would love for my first date to be very hot like a spark of
fire. The first time I see my date I want our pussy between
our legs to be on fire and the only way we can put it out is we
get right down to business.I want to place my fingers inside
that warm wet pussy and thurst that pussy until she cums
all over my hand and lick her pussy too taste her sweet juices.
That's how I want my ...
0 Comments, 264 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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Was bungee jumping TOO extreme for a first date? 3/19/2006
I once decided to be totally original for a first date and
decided to take her on a totally random, exciting first
date - one for her to remember! She was a lively, adventurous
girl who liked outdoor persuits so i thought that it would
be a great way of making a first impression of an adventurous,
spontanious guy!
Anyway, we went and after a lot of persuasion she did the
jump ...
0 Comments, 76 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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How many put out on the first date? 3/17/2006
I think we all do but who knows. Chivalry, yep dead.
0 Comments, 195 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Blind Dates 3/15/2006
I've been on a couple and I have to say that one of them
went really well and the other I thought went well but she
wasn't interested. Funny, because we both talked
for a couple of hours and everything seemed normal. Just
one of those things.
0 Comments, 162 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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My First Swapfinder.com Date 3/15/2006
I had been browsing, chatting, and exchanging e-mails
for awhile with different people going on 2 years now and
still not hooked up with anyone other than the one guy I had
lunch with and never heard from again....... So, just checking
my messages I came across one with an interesting looking
photo........ he says "What will it take to get your
attention" ? Hummmmm I am thinking let me ...
1 Comments, 840 Views,
30 Votes
,5.49 Score
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Still lookin 3/14/2006
IM from MI and I still havent found that date that would give
it up on the 1st date wats good wit that?
1 Comments, 95 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Im lookin 3/14/2006
Im a looking for a new date?
0 Comments, 44 Views,
0 Votes
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"Was It Weird For You, Too?" 3/13/2006
Why is it that the first time you meet a couple is always the
weirdest? It never seems to go like you planned. Either
the guy is too eager or the chick is not into it enough, or
just the physical attraction isn't there. Am I just
being too picky? Or is there something I'm not taking
into the big picture? Our first time was miserable. We had
this ugly dude with a heavy wife who seemed ...
6 Comments, 864 Views,
29 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Best ideas that have worked? 3/12/2006
For that first meeting, where is the best place? I don't
want any ideas that haven't worked well...I know one
answer won't fit all but was curious as to what has worked
and what has been a miserable failure.
0 Comments, 170 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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will she or won't she 3/11/2006
if you go out on a first date with a woman and at the end of the
date you end up having sex would you go out with her again?
If so would it be because it was easy or would it be because
you like her?
0 Comments, 233 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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My First Time 3/8/2006
It was a clear night in West Palm Beach, Florida. I had just
finished a nice meal at the 308th Bomb Group Aviation Theme
restaurant. I decided to top it off with a drink at the bar.
I ordered a drink and was enjoying the aviation scenery
and memorabilia in the bar area.
A nicely dressed man came in and took the seat next to mine.
I acknowledged him with the usual male nod. He ...
2 Comments, 797 Views,
16 Votes
,6.51 Score
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like a muthafuckn virgin 3/6/2006
a mad don. i just knew this site was a scam and be damned if
i still do. there are some lames just taking up space. anyhow,
fricking this girl leaves her frickn number and i call right.
oh yeah she's a slut and her texts kept up with her profile.
something fishy though. she wants to fuck right away. that's
cool but she don't wanna go to her place. that's
cool but she don't like motels and ...
0 Comments, 301 Views,
10 Votes
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If a woman wants to suck you dry on the first date.... 3/4/2006
I hooked up with this gal that was 70 miles away. I sent her
an e-mail, and she replied, with her real e-mail address,
and we exchanged abot 10 e-mails in about 10 minutes, she
finally said.... Here's my address, be here at 11:30
PM, and the door will be open. Just walk in and I'll be
naked on the couch. Just as she said, the light was on, the
front door was open, and when I walked ...
1 Comments, 1212 Views,
27 Votes
,3.77 Score
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Kiss Yes Or No 3/4/2006
If you are going out just to meet up with someone that you
meet off line, and you know you are just hooking up for the
night, is kissing aloud? A lot of people say that kissing
is too personal, so I have always wonder if you meet someone
off line is there going to be kissing or just all the other
stuff?
7 Comments, 500 Views,
21 Votes
,2.75 Score
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Spank Me 3/3/2006
Entering the coffee bar, I looked around until I caught
a glimpse of her sitting in a corner booth. I ordered 2 coffees
and made my way over to her table. I introduced myself to
Cheryl and handed her a fresh coffee. We talked about the
things we liked and the music we enjoyed. We soon realized
that we had been talking for an hour and a half.
I suggested to Cheryl that we go for a walk and ...
0 Comments, 304 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Love the Rain 3/3/2006
The rain poured down, as I walked to the coffee room. Why
did I go out today I should know not to listened to the weatherman.
Bright, Sunny and Warm. Well he got the warm part right.
But the rain.
<br>
Ding, ding.
<br>
The chime sounded as I entered the Coffee Room. Looking
around as I let the water drip off me, I checked my camera
bag to see that it was relatively ...
0 Comments, 163 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Est-ce que tu devras mentionner tes parents? 3/2/2006
Meme si sa fait partie du conversation, est-ce que tu devras
mentionner tes parents pendant une rendez-vous?
1 Comments, 63 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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how far? 3/1/2006
Depending on the type of girl, one can only go so far on a first
date. Usually kissing is o.k. by the end of the first date,
but how far is too far for a 2nd date, 3rd date, etc? Like i
said, it usually depends on the type of girl and/or how horny
she is, but in general... what's a good measure of advances?
1 Comments, 258 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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Plsss some one teach me.... 2/28/2006
hi there....okay i'm lack in meetings gurls...so
how i can approach them?if i go for that what can i say....i'm
so lam....errmmmhope someone can mssg this..thanx!
0 Comments, 139 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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My First Anal "Date" 2/28/2006
Because of my exceptional size–the shaft of my dick is comparable
to a beer can--no woman has ever let me near her ass. But recently
I met a man with the most gorgeous female ass I have ever seen.
I never thought I was bisexual–I still don’t think I am.
If you saw this guy's ass, you would know what I mean.
And it just so happens that he’s an anal size queen. ...
4 Comments, 1499 Views,
46 Votes
,3.38 Score
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sex 2/25/2006
it's it ok to have sex on the frist date
2 Comments, 333 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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At the Movies 2/25/2006
I had a 1st date at the movies on a Sunday morning. We begin
watching the movie and before we knew it we all over each
other and taking off all our clothes and getting it on.
<br>
No one else was in the place but us and it was fun. Listing
to each other and making love the whole time. It was one of
the best dates I ever had.
0 Comments, 351 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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The first load 2/24/2006
Should you blow it on her face on the first date.
7 Comments, 1405 Views,
24 Votes
,1.54 Score
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where are all the bad girls 2/24/2006
they say there are bad girls have you ever met one and are
they really bad
0 Comments, 95 Views,
0 Votes
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IS IT JUST ME 2/23/2006
OR IS IT VERY AWKWARD WHEN YOU 1ST MEET THAT PESON AND ALL
YOUR THINKIN ABOUT IS DAMN WHEN WE GONNA JUST GET TO IT.
6 Comments, 785 Views,
14 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Matching dildos 2/22/2006
I recently had the chance to see a very romantic date situation!
My girlfriend and her friend decided to shop at an adult
store. The friend that she went with had called her and was
whispering "can you meet me at this location?"
Which was not told to her! So she said yes, and when she got
to the location, her friend said drive to this next intersection
and hang a left! What little did she ...
0 Comments, 616 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Most Akward date 2/20/2006
I am sure we all have had some strange first dates and want
to hear about them.
My most akward date was when i was meeting this guy for the
first time and everything was going great. we were talking
and feeling chemistry. then a few of his friend randomly
show up and join us and the date went to a get together.
4 Comments, 614 Views,
7 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Ideal First Date 2/20/2006
I am just curious right now and wondering what people view
as a perfect or ideal first date?
2 Comments, 250 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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they are scary! 2/18/2006
i rekon 1st dates can be the most scaryest thing! you dnt
know what they gonna be like or if you are gonna sleep with
them or not! what are your thoughts on 1st dates?!
4 Comments, 433 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Anyone get real nervious? 2/13/2006
I hate first dates they tend to feel awkward especially
if it's a group situation makes it hard to get to know
the person.
2 Comments, 127 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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first date sex? 2/12/2006
why do people make it a point alot of times when you first
talk to them about not having sex on the first date? Is it
that they have made the mistake before? Or are they just
setting parameters of what will and will not happen. It's
just a thing I have wondered. 
0 Comments, 135 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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another guy 2/10/2006
im curious and want to get laid by a guy but i got weirded out
2 otta 3 times since im used to soft skin not 5oclock shadow
on my balls
0 Comments, 351 Views,
6 Votes
,0.52 Score
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1st bj 2/10/2006
it was weird getting head from a guy and i left when it was
over i guess i got freaked out. yet it was nice to get my load
swallowed
1 Comments, 530 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score
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Good place to meet? 2/10/2006
Where is a good spot to meet and if things go good where do
people go if they have a wife or husband so they are not seen?
1 Comments, 325 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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stole the tip 2/9/2006
i was on a blide date with this fine blonde. we went to a small
bar for an hour or two, then went to get dinner and a movie.
we went to a fairly nice place call the "olive garden".
dinner and wine was about 70 bucks. we seamed to be hitting
it off and was going to skip the movie and go to my place. 
so i payed for dinner and left 15 dollars cash for a tip on
the table. told my lovly date ...
1 Comments, 1006 Views,
16 Votes
,5.19 Score
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do u remember yours 2/9/2006
what was yours like
0 Comments, 166 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Who would it be? 2/8/2006
If you could meet anyone off of Swapfinder.com who would it be and why?
<br>
For me I would love the chance to meet Sali8ing4u. I would
love the chance to get to know the man behind the pictures.
He is sexy and smart ..the best combination you can find
in a man.
<br>
So don't be shy now...speak up and maybe your dreams
will come true...
<br>
<br>
VC
2 Comments, 287 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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My first Bi Encounter 2/7/2006
I am 35, happily married but not sexually stimulated by
my wonderful wife (who, I feel may not really like sex).
About a year ago I started to look at pics of Transexuals.
I would masturbate a lot after spending hours searching
on the net for pics of TS babes. Recently I graduated to looking
at pics of older men.
For some reason, and I cannot explain, I just couldn't
stop thinking about ...
0 Comments, 1464 Views,
35 Votes
,6.41 Score
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The first date 2/7/2006
I had been going to ren faires for quite some time (maybe
fifteen years on and off) just as a paying patron and I met
this woman and fell for her. She was large framed and had
the very biggest breasts I ever saw. We went to the big faire
and decided we would rent costumes to wear and did so. Man
when she came out dressed the bodice pushing up and out these
giant mamms I was in shock my jaw ...
0 Comments, 226 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Some lunatic babes out there... 2/6/2006
I hooked up with a gal on Swapfinder.com and invited her to attend my company
Christmas party with me. She accepted, and we spent the
night together at my place, as we were leaving the next morning(2
1/2 hour drive). Well she wasn't feeling good, so I
told her to take my truck back to the Motel, and I'll
get a ride later. I ended up sleeping with another woman
that night from my company. In the ...
6 Comments, 1671 Views,
28 Votes
,1.29 Score
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new to dating in Japan 2/5/2006
It is so much fun to be out and enjoying dating in a new country.
I really like it!
<br>
The first look into her eyes and then the pleasure of watching
the body language and chemistry develop, of course it is
sometimes a real hit and miss game - but that is part of the
learning experience.
<br>
Anyone feel the same way in Japan, particularly?
0 Comments, 214 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The first time I went out with Suzie! 2/3/2006
It was the end of summer, and joe had stopped by to help me
put moter mounts on my dodge, we started out by reading the
Chiltons manual and smocking a little pot. everything
was going well untill we got under the car, at that moment
the cheerleader across the street decided to come out and
play with on of those tennis balls on a string that you practice
with, of course she was in a short ...
0 Comments, 296 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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worse mistake I ever made on a date part 2 2/3/2006
It all started at a McDonald's I had been sent to work
at for the week, it was about 30 miles from my home.And I was
new to the state and did not know many people here yet. on
my last day of work, a pretty girl came up and asked me to take
her and a friend to the drive in. I asked who her friend was,
expecting it to me some dude, she pionted out this vary sexy
blonde girl, I said sure I ...
0 Comments, 191 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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sex on first date 2/2/2006
how many people love to have sex on first date?
0 Comments, 220 Views,
8 Votes
,0.23 Score
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worse mstake I ever made on a first date! 2/2/2006
I was new to the state and did not know very many people yet,
I had just started a job at Mcdonld's, the boss came
in and said they needed someone to work at a store about 30
miles away, for the week, I said would, on the last day at
the new store, a really cute girl came up to me and asked me,
if I had a car, I said sure and pointed out my Starthy and Hutch
torino out in the parking lot,
0 Comments, 271 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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if it is just to meet for sex!!!! 1/31/2006
it is quite easier and cheaper to just bump uglies in the
suburban but where would you woman perfer to do it , , now
please give serious replies or past experiences so we can
plan for great adventures with the woman with whom we men
meet on here
0 Comments, 82 Views,
1 Votes
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Who Pays? 1/30/2006
Whenever I go on a first date, or an date, I usually pay for
everything. It just feels wrong to let the lady pay if I am
taking her out. I would like to know how everyone feels about
this. Does the man paying for everything on a date make him
look like a big shot? Does it make him look nice? Or how about
the other way around, what if the man did not pay for everything
on a date, what ...
12 Comments, 584 Views,
14 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Sex of a first date? 1/29/2006
How many women would have sex on a first date? (Obiously
if it felt right) and how many would hold back regardless?
<br>
How many men would NOT have sex first date.
3 Comments, 401 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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if your interested and know she is?? 1/27/2006
what are some good ways to let her know your intentions,
wether they are genuine or not!!!
0 Comments, 143 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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profile fullfilled pt.1 1/27/2006
This is very erotic, but I don't know if you would call
it an erotic story, because it is true. We had tried several
ways to list on Swapfinder.com, but only received mild interest. After
making our current listing we had an almost immediate response.
A lady in her mid fifties contacted us and said she was here
just for the companionship but would like to know more about
what we wanted. Through emails ...
2 Comments, 940 Views,
32 Votes
,4.55 Score
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first date 1/27/2006
your home is the best place to have your first date, because
this where you will feel the most comfortable.
0 Comments, 171 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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1st time had Sex... 1/25/2006
We meet at last, both of us nervous with anticipation. I
<br>
watch you as u come through the door, you smile at me and some
<br>
of the anxiety melts away. We embrace, laughing a little,
<br>
smiling to each others eyes and holding one another so that
<br>
the warmth spreads to our bodies. We sit on the edge of the
<br>
bed, gentle ...
3 Comments, 1181 Views,
35 Votes
,6.85 Score
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writchlit man or sexgod ?and can you be that too? 1/22/2006
well where to begin first of all lets start with me i am a ts
pre op actually pre everything ie: i look like a guy most
of the time so remembering that
lets look at writchlit ok
to begin with he was verry much a gentleman from the begining
polite yet was sincere and honest in his aproach ..
from the begining writch displayed a verry profesional
front verry well thought out
this is a ...
0 Comments, 249 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Dumb Luck got me Sucked 1/21/2006
About 2 years ago one of my friends Seth called me up and said
he was in need of a wingman asap. It seems this girl he meet
on the internet wanted to hangout, but she didnt feel comfortable
unless she had someone with her. I had never meet either
one of these chicks before and really didnt know anything
about them.
<br>
I show up over at Seth's house and we are sitting around ...
1 Comments, 739 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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Tease 1/18/2006
I have found a girl that I work with, who is sorta commited
in a relatuionship with a man who is a friend of mine at work.
She and I work together everyday and we even talk a little
sexual to one another. We have become good friends. She
denies that she is involved with my friend , but he has told
me other stories. He has been known to lie about things Anyhow,
I think this girl is teasing ...
1 Comments, 491 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Pattie my first ! 1/15/2006
I worked third shift at a 7-11 store my shift started at 11:00pm
about 7:30 my besst fried larry shows up with his wife Becky
and her sister Patti, and a fifth of jack danials, they are
on there way to a laundry mat aand invite me along. rideing
in the back seeat with Patti we begin to kiss. at the laundry
mat things befgin to really heaaatt up and we begin to fuck
on the washing machine. ...
0 Comments, 681 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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A Hit, Miss and Go 1/12/2006
My very first boyfriend took me to the city for a date. It
was tragic. He was a terrible boyfriend...
<br>
First we went to the Botanical Gardens, a huge, beautiful
park. We were walking through, talking, holding hands,
carving our names into a tree, and just normal couple
stuff. This was our first date.
When we got to a stranded, isolated little walkway surrounded
by lush ...
3 Comments, 952 Views,
16 Votes
,4.30 Score
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First Times 1/9/2006
To start with, I am not submitting this "to my peers
for critique" so if you are going to criticize my articles
for how I build up to the climax and character develop, just
stop reading my articles and certainly don't bother
posting comments. This story is about my first time with
a guy, simple as that.
He was friends with my sister. He was my friend too. He was
friends with ...
7 Comments, 2153 Views,
69 Votes
,8.23 Score
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BBW Need It Too 1/8/2006
Chatted with her for about a week. Set up to meet in the middle
of the afternoon at a local motel. She was a BBW...married...and
very horny...much to my advantage.
<br>
Sat and talked for all of 10 minutes after her arrival. As
she was seated, I got up, walked over to her and started DFKing
her. She was a great kisser. As I kissed her she massaged
my cock through my pants. I ...
3 Comments, 888 Views,
24 Votes
,7.79 Score
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1st,2nd,3rd time with a man Pt2 1/8/2006
So there i was, mouth tasting of cum, watching Charlton
Heston fighting advanced humans and apes, when something
flew passed me. i turned around and a man gave me an ok sign.
Then he stood up and beckoned me to follow. He went to the
toilets, i decided to follow. he went into the toilets and
entered a cubical. I followed him. Without any preamble,
he sat me down, slid his trousers and pants ...
0 Comments, 568 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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1st,2nd,3rd time with a man Pt1 1/8/2006
It was the summer time here in rainy ole England and most
of my friends were on holiday. So i got some money off my mother
and went to the cinema. 'Beneath the Planet of the Apes'
was on. I entered the picture house and sat down near the
back, but not at he back. There were not many people there,
about 20 in a cinema that held about 500. The film had been
on for some time when someone sat ...
0 Comments, 475 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Tutoring our weaknesses Part 2 1/7/2006
First impression, I was set up.
Julie planned it all, I was just along for the ride.
<br>
Carrot? she couldn't have found out about.......
<br>
See I was 9 and Dad wanted to me to race to improve his buisness,
and live out his dream.
He had made national number status but he (like I was to be)
but he was too big.
Cursed me with the same.... and I knew that.
So while ...
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Tutoring our weaknesses, Part 1 the Setup 1/7/2006
Me and Julie had alot in common, except what we were good
in at school.
She had math and english down cold, I had social studies
and sciences.
And we were both socially inept with hair trigger tempers.
We met in the library as studying in the commons was like
trying to concentrate
at a concert. So it went for weeks, both at the same table
untill we started helping each other.
At ...
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for the ladies... 1/6/2006
if you were meeting a man from this site, a typical man from
this site, what do you think would be an appropriate first
date?
1 Comments, 451 Views,
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Fake emails 1/3/2006
I emailed a girl on here recently and she emailed back surprisingly,
giving me her email addy. So I emailed her and she said to
go to another site to see her. I hate that. That's the
equivalent of playing games. I don't wnat to go all
over to see a girl's profile. I hate that.
0 Comments, 278 Views,
14 Votes
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My first date 12/31/2005
My first date was a mess. I was sweating like crazy and didn't
know what to say.I was 13 mind you. She didn't notice
i don't think but i was a wreck.
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Best First Date Fuck Ever ...must read...seriously 12/30/2005
Last summer I haphazardly met this guy online; well I responded
to an ad he posted but I really had no intentions of meeting
him. I admit, I was playing. But anyhow, we ended up chatting
via email while at work and the next day he invited me to meet
him at an event he was hosting. I was leary, but figured it
should be okay since it was a sizeable function. We met,
we had martinis, we ...
1 Comments, 1680 Views,
42 Votes
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My first date 12/30/2005
I took a family friend to a Sat Matinee, and she sucked my
dick through the whole movie!She said she saw her mom do
it all the time. I still get a hard-on every time I watch Sinbad!!!
0 Comments, 755 Views,
14 Votes
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What is with men? 12/28/2005
I met a few men on here, had a good time, and when they leave
they tell you to call them or they will keep in touch with
you. Talk about being played. Why can't men be upfront
and say I don't want to see you or even call you. Men complain
about women being players, what about the men. Its funny
their profiles say, i don't want head games, and guess
what they play the head games.......
2 Comments, 582 Views,
18 Votes
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Go the distance? 12/28/2005
After exchanging emails, if two people agree to meet but
are 1 hour apart, who should drive the hour?
<br>
Agree beforehand on who? Always the guy?
<br>
Thanks in advance to all guys/ladies for all votes/replies!
<br>
-MJ
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I hadn'teven met him yet and now he was coming..... 12/27/2005
Not only a first date but an immediate date. I had met him
in a chatroom and we switched to yahoo. We went thru the usual
topics and he asked me how i like to be sucked. Whether i liked
to have tongue thrust down my cunt or if i liked to be licked
first. I flashed him a pic of my cunt being held open ready
for a dripping cock, and told him he could lick it however
he wanted to.
He asked ...
1 Comments, 980 Views,
42 Votes
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The best 12/26/2005
This girl from Swapfinder.com met up with me and blew me in the parking
lot of starbucks
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Old ,outdated photos or fake photos on Swapfinder.com profiles. 12/26/2005
Dear Swapfinder.com readers: I had been chatting and corresponding
with a gal from Swapfinder.com for about a month, and I finally decided
to meet her for a first date. She lived in a town of 10, 000
poople and lived about 4 hours from me. I went to meet her
at the local bowling alley in her town, she was in a bowling
league. I went to the bowling alley and I could not find her.
So I asked the guy behind the ...
1 Comments, 419 Views,
13 Votes
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honesty 12/26/2005
Well, the idea is that since we are here we are all looking
to get laid. Why not be honest about it. Once you get to the
meet stage, the visual and the tactile should tell you if
the juices are flowing. If so, go ahead fuck like there is
no tomorrow or whatever. Either or, be kind to your partner....we
may be horny but we all have feelings. Enjoy.
0 Comments, 199 Views,
2 Votes
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Forget about the last name 12/26/2005
Been talking to this guy on Swapfinder.com for some time now and decided
to meet.......Without knowing what I looked like he came
to visit.....he steps in the doorway and our eyes meet then
our lips meet and we ripped each others clothes off and made
our way to the bedroom .......fell across the bed and fucked
like there was no tomorrow..........and I dont even know
his last name........
6 Comments, 789 Views,
24 Votes
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It's either or a hit or miss! 12/24/2005
To tell you the truth...I knew this the whole time..but.does
everyone know this?Meeting and seeing a person is the first
step..Mostly easy for some, Like a magnet...drawn..to
each other..pouncing like a cat..clinging on...kissing
so passionatly..don't need to see anything...blinded
by lust....It happens we mate...and mate ...and...mate...till...we
realize we have to face reality..go to ...
1 Comments, 265 Views,
10 Votes
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Not going so good 12/23/2005
On a first date you realize soon after meeting her your not
interested but she really like you. What should I do?
1 Comments, 134 Views,
1 Votes
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sex , OR NO SEX??? 12/23/2005
i always let my date what i want before our first date because
i dont want to waste my time like a school boy having dates
before we hold hands and after one month a kiss good night.
what i let them know i want to make love first date. and most
times the agree. if the dont agree the always are polite
when the say not this time maby some other time thank you.
but i never contact them again ...
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WHY ARE WOMEN SO DEFENSIVE IN FIRST DATE 12/21/2005
EVERY WOMEN I DATED HAS BEEN FUCKING HARSH ON THE FIRST DATE
BUT ONCE I GOT PAST THE FIRST DATE THEY EITHER CALLED ME IF
I DIDNT CALL OR NOTHING
I HATE FIRST DATES BEAUSE SOMETIMES ALL SHE WANTS TO DO IS
TALK AND HEAR WHAT SHE WANTS IF YOU SAY SOMETHING SHE DOESNT
LIKE SHE HATES YOU.
1 Comments, 176 Views,
7 Votes
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what do you expect 12/21/2005
When you meet a girl/party of fuck friends what do you expect
or what do you want?
2 Comments, 1073 Views,
23 Votes
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Another Swapfinder.com First Date 12/16/2005
This woman sent me an email and said she was interested in
receiving (but not performing) oral sex. I emailed her
back and started a conversation that included a number
of emails. She was about 1 1/2 hours from me, and was only
available 3 days a week, so it was a while before we were able
to hook up.
<br>
I finally got over to see her. We met in a park near her house,
and ...
2 Comments, 790 Views,
8 Votes
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meeting 12/15/2005
you never know what ur going to get. people either dont show
and just like to send you for a ride, or are not anything like
what they said. no need to lie or exagerate, everyone knows
what goes on, but people still respect the truth.
0 Comments, 175 Views,
3 Votes
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I'm after a first date...... 12/14/2005
So what ARE the chances of a 36 yr old single straight male
getting a date from this site? Are there any single females
or couples about that want to show a newcomer the ropes?
Sex OR not on the first date!
1 Comments, 201 Views,
3 Votes
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couple looking for hot females only for threesome 12/13/2005
We are a married couple looking for a threesome with a hot
woman only(no guys). If you are interested hurry and reply
before she changes her mind.
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1 Votes
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Is it right 12/10/2005
Is it right if u have sex on the first date?
1 Comments, 456 Views,
9 Votes
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First Dates are fun 12/9/2005
On a first date I send money and get to talk small talk. I eat
popcorn and drink a coke. I like first dates.
0 Comments, 157 Views,
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Genuine, We dont think so! 12/9/2005
We are starting to loose faith in this site and are wondering
is there any point in renewing our membership next month?
<br>
It seems that there are quite a lot of people on this site
who to talk to on here are really up for it and meeting up and
all the rest of the patter that they feed you while you make
arrangements and get to know them a little better, but when
it comes down to ...
6 Comments, 764 Views,
20 Votes
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Meetting Places 12/9/2005
What are some of the best first time meeting places?
0 Comments, 255 Views,
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What would you do on your first date? 12/8/2005
Well..
<br>
1 Remember to bring yourself
2 Just be yourself!
3 Don't bring anything else
<br>
LOL 
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When to say When 12/8/2005
Okay you meet a person on Swapfinder.com or in a bar. The person you meet
is reluctant to get to the bottom of things? You know you
2 are there to get to one point usually. That is sex.
So you make your move this is a trick withing itself. You
come out and say lets go to bed usually you go home alone.
There is a technique I have heard of but never tried. Called
Geek dating.
For instance ...
0 Comments, 193 Views,
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Blind Date 12/8/2005
Most all bachelors have been the victims of a blind date.
<br>
Numerous well meaning friends and relatives are always
willing to "fix up" unsuspecting bachelors
with girls whom they describe as "perfect for you".
<br>
However, from the description given, it is difficult to
imagine what these girls may be like. After considerable
research, as a public service, I have ...
0 Comments, 704 Views,
12 Votes
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WHY IS IT SO HARD TO HOOK UP? 12/7/2005
WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR PEOPLE TO MEET AND FUCK, THIS IS WHAT
THIS SITE IS ALL ABOUT... WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT BEING
SINGLE OR MARRIED, WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT FALLING IN LOVE???
WHY CAN'T PEOPLE JUST MEET TO FUCK AND FULFILL THEIR
SEXUAL NEEDS... OF COURSE YOU HAVE TO FEEL SAFE WITH THE
PERSON YOU MEET AND MAYBE PICK THE LOCATION... BUT WHY ARE
PEOPLE SO UPTIGHT ABOUT HOOKING UP??? IF ...
5 Comments, 686 Views,
36 Votes
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Finding a single female 12/4/2005
I must say that finding any one on this site can be hard but
finding a single female that is bi to be with a couple is even
harder. Why is that? I have been looking on here for a while
now for a single bi female and all i keep finding are these
drop dead females that I think are just posting there pix
for the attention and the responces they get but they have
no intentions of a real meet. ...
0 Comments, 301 Views,
12 Votes
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Adult Swim 12/4/2005
We both loved to swim the best type of exercise is what everyone
says about swimming only most people who do swim can manage
to do it when there isn’t lots of around. Our routine
really dictates that early mornings are not available
to swim so we have always done it weekends and at nights or
during the day at holiday time. It was during one such trip
on a Tuesday to the local ...
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i am so horny and i want sexy any female 12/2/2005
hi i am looking for sexy hot woman i have big cock
ohh sorry !!! very big cock i love tits big tits and pussy
i alwys want to play with pussy and lick him more and more
times
my cock alwys hard and i alwys horny if i see any woman my cock
get hard and he want to fuck her
i love to fuck girls ass so much
i will love and i will fuck any time u want i mean all the time
i am ...
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Daddy Found Me 12/2/2005
I met two nice daddy’s on line the other day, which lived
pretty close to me. One was just right, over fifty, and by
his description sounded very nice to look at. He didn’t
send me any photos though, and I only watched him play with
his cock on my computer. A wonderful cock, but no idea what
he looked like. And one was very young. He was beautiful!
Nice body, pretty face and nice hard ...
2 Comments, 2314 Views,
53 Votes
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Is it just me? 12/1/2005
Is it just me or what that on first dates the butterlies and
tension that build up are the best feeling in the world
0 Comments, 134 Views,
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coach 12/1/2005
I had a strange first date with the girl who lived in the next
apartment. She was sexy and one afternoon I asked if she
would like to go to dinner. She accepted and we set a time
after her afternoon appointment with a basketball coach
she was helping. She explained he and a who needed some
help with sign languge came over twice a week for a couple
hours and we could go after then.
I saw ...
1 Comments, 645 Views,
10 Votes
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First impressions... 11/27/2005
Now I'm one who don't give a damn on how a preson
looks, but it is "written in stone"(although
I haven't found it..yet) that first impresions are
lasting impressions.
<br>
Is it true???
0 Comments, 85 Views,
4 Votes
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how do u let that person know? 11/23/2005
General question. . You go on a date with this person and
the vibe just isnt there. What is the most respectful thing
to do in the days to come? Ignoring is not an option in my book.
Thanks for your advice.
1 Comments, 178 Views,
5 Votes
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Put Out!! (For Men) 11/23/2005
Is it good to "put out" on the first date, (for
guys that is)?
1 Comments, 455 Views,
6 Votes
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Being there. 11/22/2005
I don't know if this has happened to anyone, but you
meet someone online. You spend a lot of time talking, flirting,
asking important questions, you know, getting to know
them. Then comes the day when you finally take the plunge,
hell, it may even be the same day for some brave people out
there, and you make a date. You get ready, make-up, perfume,
dressing up for the women, cologne and ...
18 Comments, 1499 Views,
64 Votes
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What makes a first date a great one? 11/22/2005
There are many opinions out there but what things make a
first date great instead just average. Is it the great kiss,
wonderful conversation, or the hot end to a great night
in bed so what is it.
0 Comments, 386 Views,
1 Votes
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Be Yourself 11/21/2005
If you go on a first date having hopefully done at least a
little "homework" on each other then hopefully
you already know if you'll be at least minimally compatible
.. I mean come on .. with enough information from the other
person you can pretend to be the dream date and get more dates
but what then?... eventually your gonna get sick of being
the ideal person .. I say just be yourself and ...
0 Comments, 144 Views,
6 Votes
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roll 5's 11/17/2005
We were attending a conference in Reno and I managed to sit
beside her since I liked her smile. During the boring afternoon
I kept doodling about odds at the crap table and I could see
her looking. I put my knee closer to hers under the table
and soon hers was touching mine and stayed there. On break
she asked what I was writing and I told her about craps odds.
She asked if I really knew ...
1 Comments, 481 Views,
8 Votes
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Today's Woman 11/13/2005
Liberated, educated, smart, sexy, but with an air of pretencious
aloofness, culminated with an attitude that beguiles
even themselves.
<br>
Of course this is not ALL women of today, just the ones that
think they are "all that"
<br>
Sure she has to be careful of , weirdo's sickos,
wackos and such men. But is she so immeshed into herself
that she no longer recognises a ...
1 Comments, 449 Views,
13 Votes
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Hi! 11/11/2005
Maybe I'm an idiot but I found that there are forums
here but they are called "Magazine" ... so I
was mistaken.
<br>
First dates? I would tell about them that I found that MOST
of the people here are NOT here for the real purpose of the
site. This way they don't even want to lift their asses,
they are glued to the computerchair. Maybe they are enjoying
their secter but very ...
0 Comments, 162 Views,
7 Votes
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Meeting for the first time 11/11/2005
Meeting people thru this site is great but it makes you very
nervous as well. With some people saying that they are something
that they are not..Or see that they show up and they do not
look like the pic at all.
2 Comments, 226 Views,
10 Votes
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Take it slow.... 11/6/2005
...I like to make the first date a casual one....just talking
and enjoying each other's experiences and differences....that
way you can enjoy the next time you meet...and can feel more
comfortable.
1 Comments, 182 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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I want to give my my husband a great gift 11/4/2005
I was thinking about getting a couple to supprise my husband
w/ he is always on this site and wanting so bad to get w/ other
people. (for both of us) I wanted to supprise him by getting
this for him. We live in Rossville, Ga. We don't minde
to travel a little to meet someone. Maybe we can go for drinks
or dinner. Anyone think I should do this? For a supprise
to him.
1 Comments, 791 Views,
6 Votes
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Would join a group... 10/31/2005
Dear Swapfinder.com members;
<br>
How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group,
where the membership requirements are. That you must be
willing to go with a current group member or the group’s
moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within
thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test
results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...
0 Comments, 251 Views,
5 Votes
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Blowjobs 10/30/2005
Why are blowjobs so much better on the first date? I think
its because the idea of having one done to you gets you hot
just thinking about it.
0 Comments, 462 Views,
8 Votes
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Question for the ladies 10/26/2005
Where do you like to go for a first meeting? A bar, diner,
coffee house, mall, or park?
1 Comments, 313 Views,
6 Votes
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Am I theOnly one? 10/23/2005
Am i the only one on here that actually needs sum basic communication
with sum1 before, wel.. getting down to it? as much as i understand
and apprecaite that sum ppl are on here for a quik drop ur
kegs and have it done wit....it just doesnt seem to work
that way with me...and time and time again im getting mesages
from blokes sayin "Id love to talk more..."
And then only wanted to talk ...
7 Comments, 705 Views,
24 Votes
,5.97 Score
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GOING ALL THE WAY 10/22/2005
LAST NIGHT WAS OUR FIRST DATE. WEVE BEEN TALKING ONLINE
& ON THE PHONE FOR THE LAST WEEK OR SO. WE REALLY FELT
COMFORTABLE TALKING WITH EACH OTHER ABOUT ANYTHING &
EVERYTHING. WE WERE GOING TO GO OUT FOR DINNER, BUT LAST
MINUTE SHE CHANGED HER MIND & JUST WANTED ME TO COME
TO HER PLACE TO WATCH MOVIES. WHEN I ARRIVED SHE WAS ALREADY
DRINKING WINE. SHE OFFERED ME A GLASS, WHICH I ACCEPTED. ...
0 Comments, 918 Views,
8 Votes
,1.62 Score
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Wrong or Right? 10/19/2005
I have asked myself that question over and over and over
again.
Is it Right or Wrong to have sex with someone the first time
you meet them.
I have found myself in situations more often now then before
where I hook up with a guy from the website, the intensity
of our lust is over bound and we end up screwing.
I have no regrets of it because it is the thrill of the hunt
and the fact ...
7 Comments, 1011 Views,
39 Votes
,5.03 Score
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does it have to be so sweet 10/18/2005
Is it possible to just meet someone and go right into hot
nasty sex? Do you have to talk and get to know eachother?
Arnt they people put there who would just like to rip off
the other persons clothes and go right at it???
8 Comments, 1017 Views,
32 Votes
,5.40 Score
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Really Undercover 10/18/2005
It was my first day with the State Narcotics Task Force.
I had worked years ago in a regional Crime squad, doing the
same thing making undercover buys of Narcotics. This was
different, the Big Hats (State Troopers) were running
this unit. There was one other Black Male at the office when
I arrived, he was kind of a weight lifter type, no way was
he going on the streets buying any drugs. ...
0 Comments, 1533 Views,
35 Votes
,7.73 Score
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Breaking the ice? 10/15/2005
I'm looking for a little advice/help on the subject
of first time sexual contact with a new person. Do women
like the aggresive, take control approach, or a slower,
creeping into it kind of approach?
2 Comments, 378 Views,
0 Votes
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My First Tranny 10/5/2005
The first time that I had sex with a Tranny was in Italy in
the 70s I was a young and walking the red light district looking
for something that interested me. I found that most of the
hookers were not turning me on, then I saw this tall red head
walking my way swinging a bag of fruit. She was wearing a
short mini skirt and a top that was open to
the middle of her cleavage. She was cocky ...
1 Comments, 1564 Views,
37 Votes
,5.95 Score
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Show Up Or Call 9/29/2005
I have met alot of people on this site and many have seemed
honest and true.
Then there are SOME that you chat and have a really hot time
on the phone with them and set up a meeting and you both are
eager to see if there is a physical connection face to face.
<br>
You take time to ensure that you look nice and anticipate
the meeting or what may happen. But what is totally ...
4 Comments, 1096 Views,
40 Votes
,7.47 Score
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How's This For A First Date... 9/28/2005
We go out for an evening of dinner and wine. Throughout our
meal we are laughing and flirting. You tease my hand with
your fingers, as we nudge each other's feet playfully
under the table. You whisper to me that you want me all to
yourself, so we get up and start to leave. You have your hand
on my waist and lead me to the car. We stop to kiss and you hold
my face in your hands and tell me how ...
8 Comments, 1848 Views,
77 Votes
,8.44 Score
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Can you get a girl pregnant by cumming in her ass? 9/28/2005
I was just wondering about this...have never done it, would
like to try it, just want to make sure it won't cause
pregnancy. I know it can still transfer std's and stuff,
but i was just wondering about the whole pregnant thing?
7 Comments, 967 Views,
12 Votes
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A Carnal Encounter 9/28/2005
Michael and I had talked for, what seemed like months on
the net and phone. We talked about everything and anything
that came to us. I felt as if I had known Michael forever.
He was my friend, soul mate, and confidant. Tonight we were
going to meet. We decided to meet at Barnaby?s. I had passed
the place several time, on my trips, and agreed that would
be an excellent place for the ...
2 Comments, 1614 Views,
32 Votes
,3.33 Score
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not nervous 9/27/2005
i was going to go to a group party one night..i had dressed
up and gotten a pleasant buzz..ready to meet tha group.
i was really nervous. but, everyone was nice. i met a man
that i had seen on Swapfinder.com. he was fun to talk to. real fun, , about
midnite i was licking, sucking whip cream off his nipples,
dirty dancing with him!
we went to a bedroom to lay down together, i was not used to
so ...
4 Comments, 1176 Views,
28 Votes
,2.73 Score
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how???? 9/25/2005
ok, forget all this b/s... just help me out a lil... how do
you start a three som.. ok, we got everthing set up but don`t
know how to start it..
we got this one girlfriend who said yes to fucking my girlfriend,
but cant seem to get it right..she is married so we gotta
work around that .it will be my girls first time. so help
me out w/ tip or somthing.
now, we have talked to some ...
2 Comments, 825 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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First Chat Meeting 9/17/2005
One late night, I entered the adult chat room. The dialogue
was typical for the setting, and I waited on ths side awhile
before posting... augusta here seeking local female...
I got a few greetings and traded mails with a couple females
who were being particularly playful. One of them invited
me to a private room where we we talked some erotic talk and
exchanged answers to screening ...
0 Comments, 613 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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The Burglary Alarm 9/16/2005
It was about 3AM, I had just finished writing a report, and
was patroling what we called the north country. There were
two one man cars patroling this area, about 15 square miles.
My main man Robert, a super cool white dude was riding the
other car. We had known each other before coming on the job,
he always good people.
The call came in as a 10-25, an alarm in our 10 code system.
...
1 Comments, 1502 Views,
35 Votes
,7.73 Score
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The Sisters 9/14/2005
Kate and I were sitting around having a drink one evening,
warming up for a night of quality adult time together, when
the phone rang. It was Paula, Kate's younger sister.
I had been sleeping with Kate for a few months. She was living
in a building that I worked an extra duty security job. It
was great having a hot woman, living in the building. A few
months ago, I had arrested Paula's ...
0 Comments, 2884 Views,
37 Votes
,7.72 Score
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The other sister 9/13/2005
I was sitting with Kate on the bed, we had just finished making
love, she was a hot little white woman, blonde highlights,
small breast. She was hot in bed, loved it all. I had met her
while working an extra duty job, as security in her apartment
building. My partner, had been fucking her neighbor, made
for a great extra duty job.
The phone rang and it was her sister Paula. I ...
0 Comments, 1386 Views,
21 Votes
,5.85 Score
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Yikes 9/13/2005
first dates are terrible some of the time if you are treating
them like first dates. You need to be yourself, if the other
person does not like that then you have the chance to get
out early, before any emotional damage is done.
0 Comments, 3803 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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It was hotter than expected. 9/12/2005
I have been searching on Swapfinder.com a while for a playmate, male
or female. Although its been a while since I jumped in the
sack with a male, 30 years to be exact, I finally took the
plunge. I haven't had much luck finding a female friend
here on Swapfinder.com but have been corresponding with a male here
offering me oral service. I was hesitant at first but began
to feel more comfortable as we ...
0 Comments, 802 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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My First Sex Ever on My First Date with this Woman 9/11/2005
The year was 1975. I was 20 years old and in college. A girl
in my class noticed that I had typed my report and asked me
if I would come to her apartment and type her report too.
<br>
When I arrived there, I was amazed to find out that she had
nothing prepared yet for me to type. We began to study together
until she brought out the old typewriter (this was long
before computers) ...
0 Comments, 1079 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Lack of Touch.. 9/2/2005
Susan was one of my martial arts student. I have always had
a secret passion for Susan; however it was not appropriate
for me to make a move on her because her boyfriend was also
in my class.
Many months later, I had a surprise visit by Susan. She said
she was just passing by the neighbourhood and thought she
pay me a visit. I asked her to come in and she sat on the sofa
opposite me. ...
0 Comments, 708 Views,
13 Votes
,4.15 Score
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My first time 8/30/2005
was then 22 years old, worked as a computer
professional in SEEPZ Bombay. My boss was a married 32 years
old
female. Her name was Anita.
Anita was Bengali. Her husband was a Marketing manager
in other software company. He looked after both Indian
and overseas markets. He would always be very busy
with his work. So was Anita. Whenever there was a
critical situation, she would be ...
3 Comments, 2423 Views,
45 Votes
,5.79 Score
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question for you married women catch 22 8/24/2005
im single, so how could i convince you im genuine, discreet
and considerate if i cant actualy meet you to prove it?
n.s.a sounds good to me!!!
0 Comments, 324 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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which is the best way to keep her attention after initial contact? 8/24/2005
i tend to want to find out about someone first general chit
chat like what they have done today blah blah.
but what i really want to do is ask what turns her on an how
can i satify her every desire without coming across as a
perv.
which method is best to encourage an actual meet?
mr general chit chat or mr cant wait to rip your knickers
off?
0 Comments, 205 Views,
3 Votes
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The Beginning 8/18/2005
It all began one January night In Nashville. I went to my
favorite bar there on Printer’s Alley to listen to some
blues and have a drink. I got there early enough that I could
get a seat at the bar. While waiting for the band to start
playing, I took in the sights and sounds. That is when I noticed
her,
<br>
She was a 5’-10” Blonde. Of course, she was with ...
0 Comments, 473 Views,
9 Votes
,1.29 Score
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Get It At The Window 8/18/2005
It is required that we ask customers if they are using debit
card, credit card, or cash. I asked an older lady and she
responded by asking if I was married or single. I said married
and she smiled. She saw the bulge in my pants and slipped
me her number. I called her after work and she invited me
out to her home. She came to my truck because her
was inside and she told me she had ...
0 Comments, 785 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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how to act on first dates??? 8/17/2005
why do some people want to be someone they are not on first
dates??? if sooner r later da person you r seein will see
the real you
0 Comments, 207 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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A Very Unexpected "First Date" 8/16/2005
This is not just a fantasy--it really happened. The fantasy
is that it WILL happen to me again.
<br>
One night when I went to visit a woman at her home for the first
time, I was surprised to see that she had answered the door
with only her robe on.
<br>
When she saw that it was I, she let the robe drop to the floor,
exposing her naked body. Then she said, "Well, come ...
1 Comments, 1235 Views,
22 Votes
,4.45 Score
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A First For Maggie 8/16/2005
We had meet at a bar, a gay one.
In the day, it was all we had really. We sat had a few shots,
I gave her a few single syllable words, accompanied with
smiles of fained interest, and
went back to her apartment.
She lived on the cornor of Date and Ala Wai Blvd. She had been
sombody once, and now all that was left of her
was the faded remnants of her youth propped up in portraits ...
1 Comments, 1421 Views,
34 Votes
,6.39 Score
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The best _____. 8/14/2005
If you could fill in the blank, what would you say is the best
part of a first date?
<br>
(i.e. The best kiss, the best dinner).
<br>
Besides that, what are they key things that most of you look
for on first dates? Is it all about sex? (Especially on this
site)
1 Comments, 436 Views,
0 Votes
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First-time experiences from Swapfinder.com . . . 8/13/2005
I've been on and off Swapfinder.com since 2001. I've met probably
eight women in person as a result of Swapfinder.com, and I've actually
had sex with five of them.
<br>
Ironically, all five that I did have sex with happened on
the first (and some times only meeting). But I will say all
of those meetings were preceeded by several phone conversations,
IM sessions and exchange of pictures.
<br>
...
5 Comments, 1150 Views,
15 Votes
,3.74 Score
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How should the perfect first date end? 8/12/2005
Woman or stereotypied as whores if they want sex on the first
date. they are not whores just human. If the attraction
is mutual then go for it. We are all adults. Why can't
a first date end in sex? We meet people on this site and the
men some times offer to travel or fly you in. Some even offer
you dream vacations with luxurious accomadations. If
it is the first time meeting this person and ...
2 Comments, 643 Views,
29 Votes
,6.75 Score
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first meeting with d and k 8/10/2005
it was over a year ago and i met this great couple here on Swapfinder.com.
we chatted online for weeks and finally decided to meet.
i had to take time off work because i'd have to travel
200 miles one direction to visit them. k, she was all excited,
d, was, too. it was my first time to meet a couple for the possibility
of a sexual encounter. we had dinner together then went
back to their place ...
2 Comments, 456 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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first date!! 8/9/2005
Hi guys!!Here is a very simple question but i guess the answer
is TRICKY!!
How can u make the first date a way to bed???
0 Comments, 468 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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What to do? 8/8/2005
The all important question that has many answers, none
of which seem right. What to do on a first date? Myself, I'm
always fond of keeping things light and flowing. I like
to start with the coffee or a drink routine. It's quick,
easy and also allows for important talk time that dinner
and a movie seems to lack. From there something simple like
a walk along the water or in a park, something ...
0 Comments, 142 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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I need that relaxing massage! 8/8/2005
After a warm bath I lead you to the bedroom and the pre-warmed
bed. I lay you face down and dribble warm, scented oil over
your neck and shoulders and begin to massage your upper
body. I work down your back, kneading your spine with my
thumbs. I pour more oil over your bum and let it dribble between
your cheeks. I masage your bottom, easing your cheeks apart.
I pull your legs wider and ...
0 Comments, 140 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Can the sensational feelings of a first kiss be duplicated? 8/7/2005
You know the feelings that I am talking about. You have been
flirting back and forth now for nearly a month just trying
to seduce the other person while aligning your schedules
to get the opportunity to meet for the first time. You have
been exchanging e-mails back and forth, at first simplistic
and general and then very detailed and descriptive. You
may have even "rubbed one out" while ...
1 Comments, 215 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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BLIND DATES 8/6/2005
IS IT ME OR BLIND DATES A WASTE OF TIME. MY FRIEND AND I HAD
A BLIND DATE WE SPENT ALL DAY PREPAREING FOR THIS ENCOUNTER.
THE GIRL I MET WAS KEEN BUT MY MATE DIND'T HAVE ANY LUCK.
CAN PEOPLE JUDGE A CHARECTER IN THE FIRST FEW MOMENTS ON
MEETING OR DOSE IT TAKE TIME. I BELIEVE THAT MOST PEOPLE
WHO GO ON BLIND DATES ARE NERVEOUS AND THAT NERVOUSENESS
CAN REFLECT ON THE WHOLD SAGA OF BLIND ...
0 Comments, 149 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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on the first date 8/6/2005
What is the best thing to to on a first date? for me there are
meny thing like to do and one of thim is good sex.
0 Comments, 301 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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Not using condoms 7/31/2005
If u get youself involved with some chick who wants to just
skip the condom and wants your dick inside of her - BACK OFF
MAN!!! - probably many other dicks without condoms on them
have been where your dick is about to go; at the VERY LEAST
bag that fucker with a Trojan or a Durum, and fuck that bitch
like a motherfucker hard and like hell!
1 Comments, 343 Views,
17 Votes
,1.15 Score
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The First Night With Kevin* 7/31/2005
I remember when I first saw my old man naked, we where getting
ready to fuck, I took one look at him, and said " No FUCKIN
WAY!!!", " I have no idea what you expect me to
do with that, but I'm sorry because I can not help you".
He laughed a long time, really hard gut laughs, and said"
Whats the matter baby?, You never seen a cock this big?".
Well me, being all of 5 feet 2 inches, and 110 ...
0 Comments, 1651 Views,
31 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Ouch she's hot 7/30/2005
The hot sun bore down as I walked the parking lot looking
for her. I looked back and forth. My mind was racing with
hundred of thoughts, what could happen what was going to
happen. Keep it cool and just be observant.
<br>
She drove up in a new silver Nissan. The car had been cleaned
in detail and it shone brightly. She opened her door while
I glanced in and she was simply a ...
1 Comments, 321 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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Flowers 7/30/2005
I recently went on a first date, and brought flowers. I got
the reaction of what the hell did you get these for? Am I being
too old fashioned, or do women not like to receive flowers
from a gentleman?
6 Comments, 355 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Sonja first time with Black 7/29/2005
When the doorbell rang Sonja’s palms were damp with perspiration.
She knew what waited on the other side. Sonja was aware that
her life would never be the same as she opened the door. On
the other side stood the key to Sonja’s destiny he towered
over her, James was a six foot four 230 lb mountain of a black
man. Standing at five eight and 145 lbs Sonja was astonished
at the ...
3 Comments, 2264 Views,
39 Votes
,6.82 Score
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She Said I Was her First 7/27/2005
We had meet at a bar, a gay one. In the day, it was all we had
really. We sat had a few shots, I gave her a few single syllable
words, accompanied with smiles of fained interest, and
went back to her apartment. She lived on the cornor of Date
and Ala Wai. She had been sombody once, and now all that
was left of her, was the faded remnants of her youth propped
up in portraits ...
1 Comments, 703 Views,
19 Votes
,4.31 Score
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fist date 7/27/2005
What do you like to do on a first date? me i like to have sex
on the firse date because yes it is goog to get to know the
person first but youall know that the good sex is more importon
to me.
0 Comments, 103 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Our First Date 7/25/2005
My wife and I will be married for 13 years this October. But
it almost ended before it started. We met in the Air Force
at Lowry AFB in Denver Colorado. While I was waiting for
my classes to start I would perform different duties around
the training squadron. One day I had to a plumber
in the women’s side of the dorm. The plumber was banging
away on a pipe in this room and I was standing ...
2 Comments, 513 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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all the way? 7/24/2005
what percentage of the time would you say a meet and greet
lead to more on the first night?
2 Comments, 505 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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sex on the first date. 7/24/2005
How many people walk into a first date with intentions on
sex?
0 Comments, 360 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Sex in the park 7/21/2005
Recently I contacted a lonely, married, woman online.
We arranged to meet at a coffe shop that is a discreet distance
from both of our houses. In the parking lot we decided to
go for a drive into the mountains to discuss what each of
us is looking for in an exmarital relationship. Whil talking
I discovered that her husband has been neglecting her emotionally
and physically for a few years ...
2 Comments, 1034 Views,
26 Votes
,5.83 Score
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one night in the sky 7/20/2005
i used to work in a skycraper in downtown Miami and one night
a decided to have dinner in the roof of the 54 stories building.
the night started like i planned the candles in different
colors and scent, music, the sky was clear blue with a lot
of stars everything was set for when she come. around 11
of the night she appeared as planned she looked gorgeous
with a red dress, black shoes her ...
0 Comments, 257 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Help! 7/19/2005
Ok heres the deal, I am 26 years old I joined this site to get
laid! If more works out then cool, but so far I have had no
sucsess! Are there any ladies out there that can help out????
0 Comments, 148 Views,
2 Votes
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What do mature ladies want on here? 7/17/2005
A first date with a mature lady on this site - what will they
want?
Will it be sex on the first night?
Will they want to get to know you better first?
<br>
Obviously, everyone is different but what do the majority
want?
<br>
Any input from you ladies out there would be welcomed.
2 Comments, 492 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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But it was an accident! Well, almost.. 7/14/2005
I gotta tell you about my 33rd birthday. It fell in the middle
of the week that year and I worked that day. I hadnt planned
anything for that night but about 10 days ahead of time my
mother was trying to set me up with a slightly older divorcee
named Cassie. They both worked in the same office, and mom
thought she needed to get out. We talked on the phone several
times and agreed to meet ...
0 Comments, 1070 Views,
18 Votes
,4.35 Score
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At her door 7/12/2005
After the first date, you'd walk the girl to her house,
right? So you arrive at her house, talk a little more, and
then both of you start to stare around: to the wall or sky.
Then you get that it is the time to say goodbye. But can you
take it further?
Now, every guy in here wants to end the first night with a
goodnight kiss. So you plan your move towards her lips.
But what if she pulls ...
1 Comments, 302 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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am I doing this right 7/9/2005
maybe I just don't know how to work this site, but I don't
seem to be having much luck. does anybody have any advice?
2 Comments, 345 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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WHAT WOULD YOU DO ON THE FIRST DATE 7/8/2005
Ok. We have all been tempted to do things on the first date,
that have turned into a complete disaster! I know I have...
I have gone as far as actually trying to kiss the girl because
you she looked to good. So I'm going to ask this questions.
You meet somone on this site, you have been talking to that
person for a week now and you have hit it off better then expected?
You want to make ...
0 Comments, 276 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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You these on the first date. 7/8/2005
Ok. We have all been tempted to do things on the first date,
that have turned into a complete disaster! I know I have...
I have gone as far as actually trying to kiss the girl because
you she looked to good. So I'm going to ask this questions.
You meet somone on this site, you have been talking to that
person for a week now and you have hit it off better then expected?
You want to make ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Making the right choice... 7/8/2005
it's tough trying to decipher what the right move is
on a first date...I guess the only thing you can do is either
go for it and let the chips fall as they may, or play it conservatively.
There is no middle ground, it seems.
0 Comments, 72 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Best Orgasm Ever! 7/7/2005
I worked in a motel and was seperated from my husband going
through a divorce I really needed to go out and have a good
time. I had been checking a guy out staying at the motel and
thought what the hell..so i called his room and asked if
he had any plans for the weekend? We went out and the whole
time we were at the bar I kept thinking damn I need to see him
naked..so I said lets go back to ...
6 Comments, 1975 Views,
49 Votes
,3.77 Score
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How to act 7/7/2005
How should someone act on their first date. I mean, if you
are a sheep shearer and can't string two woprds together,
or if you are a prude, what do you do?
Would you just be yourself like everyone says they are or
do you act and portray yourself the way you think she would
like you to be. Because when you make the attraction, usually
the other person will then take you for what you are.
1 Comments, 156 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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where to go 7/7/2005
Could i please have a few ideas from you wonderful people
out there as to where to take a lady on the first date.......don't
be afraid to be creative.
1 Comments, 131 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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"The Wrong Number" 7/5/2005
After answering the phone, I heard this voice ask"what
should I wear tonight?" CAught off guard; I replied"as
little as possible" or "my favorite thing on
you would be me." I can hear the blush in your voice
as you reply, "I think that I have the wrong number."
Quickly I reply"are you sure, it sounds as if you
are looking to have fun." "If that is the case,
you have the right number." You ...
0 Comments, 758 Views,
25 Votes
,5.01 Score
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Gotta be carefull 7/4/2005
First time i decide to finally hook up with someone on this
site was a couple months ago...i mean things seemed ok..she
said she was married and that they agreed to have an open
relationship...my mistake was not talkin to the man before
anything happened..later that night her husband stops
back at the house kinda drunk..then leaves lookin upset...then
bout 15 minutes after she recieves a ...
3 Comments, 803 Views,
23 Votes
,2.78 Score
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group sex on first date??? 7/4/2005
i met this crazy chick once we had sex on the first date at
her house and her girlfreind walked in on us cause she was
bi but she joined in it was great bt think i should still date
this chick
1 Comments, 865 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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SHould you have sex on the first date 7/4/2005
I have been interested in this girl who really wants to sleep
with me. I really want to have sex with her our first date
but if i dont push it i think she will. SHould i go with it or
should i wait
2 Comments, 325 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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are you real? 7/4/2005
I was just wondering, how many time it take you to find out
that, the person, girl or guy, in this case a girl, on the
other side of the screen is just a joke, that the other person
is not realy interested in any relationship but just "fuc...."
around and laughing at you.
1 Comments, 198 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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All way's okward so cut to the chase !! 7/3/2005
Let's face it first dates are allway's a little
strange..So why can't we Cut to the chase just let each
other know what we want..Maybe we could commpromise and
every body's happy..Sounds Good any how but it'dd
never work....
0 Comments, 167 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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itz can't forgot my first ......... 7/2/2005
itz pain , pain..nothing more
0 Comments, 1162 Views,
27 Votes
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Making out or going all the way on first date? 7/1/2005
Who likes to just make out on the first date, and not necessarily
take it all the way?
3 Comments, 217 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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What to say? 7/1/2005
First dates are a nightnmare. What questions should be
asked? I'm forever worried that I might be so nervous
that I don't ask the right questions. So how do you start?
0 Comments, 191 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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The top two mistakes women make 6/30/2005
This goes for first contacts too, "If not mostly"
1) For God sakes save.."What do you do?" for
later. It screams golddigger If asked too soon.
If he's a CEO, or a garbage man, It tells a wise man your
all about is income.... It's a yellow flag for a guy
looking for LTR.
2) Don't fish for compiments. You may very well be showered
with them after you get to know eachother better. But ...
3 Comments, 496 Views,
15 Votes
,2.98 Score
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A nightmare first date 6/30/2005
I must preface this by stating that I was an Alterboy in my
youth prior to becoming a lapsed Catholic.
<br>
I had a temporary duty assignment to Kenya while in the Army.
I was staying at a Hilton and went to the bar to talk to my Kenyan
counterpart. After a few drinks I noticed a very attractive
woman a few chairs from us. After I finished with the Kenyan,
I went to talk to the ...
0 Comments, 305 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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Kisses muah! 6/29/2005
If you kiss a guy on the first date, does that mean your planning
to do more with the guy in the future? I have often asked women
this but they are hesitant to answer. I dont understand
how a girl can feel perfectly fine to kiss one type of guy
on the first date but not other types. Is it that you lose
yourself in the moment with some guys or what, I just dont
get it.
0 Comments, 158 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The Perfect Man 6/29/2005
I met he perfect man on Swapfinder.com; he was tall, dark, handsome,
smart, damn he was perfect. The first time we met I knew we'd
have amazing, fucking, crazy, cumming in buckets sex.
Boy was I right. The first time I ever had simultaneous orgasms
with someone was with him. He shoved his long, hard, thick
cock in my pussy and I was so loud I KNOW the neighbors heard
and were jealous. He showed ...
5 Comments, 1578 Views,
45 Votes
,4.33 Score
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yearning for more! 6/29/2005
he answered my site, ,i liked his reply, , added him to
my hotlist..he gave a phone number to call, said he would
be in my state for a wedding, and wanted to hook-up, , i didn't
call..but thought about him often..he replied again with
phone number and was going to be here agian for a few days..
i called him..liked the sound of his voice and easy manner..we
decided to meet for a drink and go ...
1 Comments, 773 Views,
15 Votes
,4.66 Score
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a bathroom 6/28/2005
My friend joked that a first date should always be someplace
where a bathroom is handy.
0 Comments, 190 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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How do i break the ice 6/28/2005
A friend of a female friend who wants us hooked up, new to
town, gorgeous. Whats the best way to show interest?
0 Comments, 172 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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Location 6/28/2005
What's the best place for a first date? Is it better
to be super-safe and go somewhere crowded, or would it be
better to go somewhere more intimate and leave yourself
open?
1 Comments, 147 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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First Meeting 6/27/2005
A few years ago I met a 43 year old divorced lady online who
lived about 3 hr away. We chatted online and innuendo led
to erotic chat and eventually making each other cum online.
We learned what each of us liked and it was very similar.
We agree to meet at a hotel midway between on a Saturday.
I immediately went to a room which she was in and the first
time I saw her, I took her in ...
0 Comments, 708 Views,
16 Votes
,4.30 Score
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Our First 6/26/2005
We met a gal through Swapfinder.com. As my wife is bi, she chatted with
her for awhile, said HI on cam and then met for coffee. She
ask if it was alright with me for a girl on girl, and I said
sure, but it turned out our date wanted to play with us both.
She came to our house and we spent the afternoon together.
Since then we have become great friends (with benefits).
1 Comments, 782 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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What maeks a good first date? 6/25/2005
A friend and I were discussing this not long ago. He thinks
that a very fancy date with lots of romantic (and expensive)
things are necessary. I believe that all that time and money
is wasted until you get to know someone. There are ways to
have a very pleasant evening without going overboard.
What do you all think?
1 Comments, 98 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Reminded by another story 6/22/2005
My roomate once told me he had never been to a strip club.
THis is how I discovered Syn City.
that night i took him there to meet one of our friends that
was waitressing there and i figured it would be the last
of it.
i found out htat night that they had a weekly fetish night.
having performed at a number of fetish nights i figured
i would go and check it out.
i arrived alone and in ...
0 Comments, 485 Views,
4 Votes
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expectations!! 6/19/2005
wow, talked to him on-line and phone for 5 months...we seemed
to be on the "same page"..he knew what i liked
and he told me what he wanted..ummm, was exciting to anticipate
our "meeting"..we agreed to share costs..being
a practical type, didn't expect him to pay everything,
it was going to be my party too!!
we talkedon computer the day we were to meet, , he made arrangements
for half-way ...
1 Comments, 1016 Views,
24 Votes
,5.06 Score
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a Libarians Longing.... 6/19/2005
It was a nice spring June morning just passed.......I logged
onto to Swapfinder.com.....after only being in chat for a short while
a name appeared that aroused curiousity. Without hesitation
I responded with a Hello........she responded back. We
discovered we were both in the same city, same area of town.
I asked her what she was doing...and she immediately told
me she was getting ready for work, but ...
0 Comments, 666 Views,
17 Votes
,5.81 Score
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respond to what you think will happen 6/17/2005
Sunday I have a date with a beautiful woman. She's 5"11,
120 lbs, and she is have white and have spanish. She goes
to the University of Miami and hasn't been with a man
in 5 months. She doesn't want to spend the night with
me in my hotel room(she 1/2 hour north of LA and I'm San
Diego) cause she is so horny and doesn't want to have
sex the first date. I would like to see what men ...
0 Comments, 325 Views,
5 Votes
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How did this happen? 6/16/2005
I was on a date last night with a beautiful woman. Her name
is Sara and she was just as intelligent as she was beautiful.
We went to dinner, had a little walk on the beach during sunset.
Everything was going perfect. After that she invited me
back to her place for a movie, I couldn't wait to spend
more time with this woman. She lived around a half hour away
so we continued the deep ...
0 Comments, 503 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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dating vs hooking up 6/15/2005
I'm curious what behaviour people would find offensive
or acceptable on a first meeting, and how those expectations
may differ on a traditional date as opposed to a planned
potential sexual encounter.
1 Comments, 166 Views,
7 Votes
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My First Mating with John (2) 6/14/2005
As John began to undress me he started exploring my ears
and nipples with his tongue. My cock was throbbing to be
released from my shorts and as he slid his face down my chest
he avoided direct contact with my shaft. My shorts fell
to the floor and I was completely naked before him, he still
in a stylish suit although his tie had been removed.
<br>
I seized the moment and ...
2 Comments, 792 Views,
26 Votes
,5.83 Score
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My first Mating with John (1) 6/14/2005
I really didn't see this coming. I'd been logging
into websites and meeting online for months but no one had
connected in a visceral way and I used that lack of intimacy
to feed my fear of exploring my growing interest in M2M sexual
encounters.
<br>
I would read stories about all consuming orgasms that resulted
from extended anal play and cock worshiping and get soooo
hard. I ...
0 Comments, 985 Views,
11 Votes
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Ugh.1st dates.... 6/14/2005
Hi nice to meet you, can we move on to our 3rd date now &
just get naked?
1 Comments, 214 Views,
3 Votes
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Unforgettable First Date!!! 6/14/2005
First date I had was attending a high school dance. We were
at that age where our bodies just oozed with hormones. It
was so evident when we were on the dance floor. Neither one
of us spoke much. Our bodies did all the talking. She was
a little older
than I was and very hot in her skin tight mini dress.
<br>
<br>
We loved to slow dance as we pressed our bodies ...
1 Comments, 1503 Views,
33 Votes
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First date with Jack 6/12/2005
I never had an experience quite like this. I met him on a web
site, we chatted briefly and we decided to meet at a local
bar. His online picture was a little dark but I had a rough
idea what he looked like. I didnt know what to expect so I
got to the bar a little early. I ordered my beer and shot of
crown royal and stood at a table right inside the door so
I can watch who was coming and ...
2 Comments, 1715 Views,
50 Votes
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The Paw... 6/12/2005
I have found out while dating anyone from this site, on
Our first date no matter how I tell them I just want to become
friends first before we actually bang each other, ,and
they agree to it, ,they still on Our first date, ,are all
over me and pawing me, God forbid if you invite them to the
couch, ,you are then done for, Whats with you guys, ,do
you NOT understand the meaning of friends ...
2 Comments, 594 Views,
6 Votes
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...Lusty Dar 6/11/2005
...well...we had been talkin on line for a few days...Dar
is a married lady and I'm married....she was very much
wanting to meet...but as i work around the province alot
i was unable to get to her town..until one day this spring...
<br>
I saw her online and told her where i was staying....she
told me she'd be right over...she was working for a
Legal firm not to far away, noon hour ...
0 Comments, 409 Views,
8 Votes
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On line Romance 6/8/2005
We had been chatting on line for some time and were getting
along extremely well. We had exchanged many very erotic
details of what our first date would be like. My Lord the
deatils we shared were a preamble so accurate, it was like
a script from a movie, or almost like "De Ja Vu".
The Itallian restaurant we met at was dimly lit by candle
light and the tables were impecably staged with ...
0 Comments, 277 Views,
7 Votes
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wifes first black cock 6/8/2005
my wife happended to meet this dingle black home owner after
cleaning for him for 8 or 9 mounts he had the balls to ask her
if she knew any married white women looking to try some black
cock we had been fantisieng about that for a long time then
one night he called and said his company had put him up in
a ritsy hotel and envited us down to see him it was a super
turn on going to take my ...
4 Comments, 2532 Views,
40 Votes
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Wine and cheese show 6/7/2005
I was great, she was beautiful, we had a great time. she took
me home and gave me a tour of her house..starting in the bedroom
and I really didn't see much else of the house.
0 Comments, 287 Views,
1 Votes
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My experience.... 6/7/2005
I am 27 years old and reside in Maryland. I am married with
a one year old. My wife is a great women. She does a great job
with our and all, but just does not satisfy me sexually.
I am talking the same position all the time... Can you believe
that!! Well, I have been exploring options for about 2 months
now. Anyway, I meet this woman at a local club I go to occasionally
to relieve ...
0 Comments, 718 Views,
13 Votes
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Nervous at first 6/6/2005
It seems that the first time I'm with a women, I get very
nervous. Sometimes it affect my ability to get get a hard-on.
After the first, there doesn't seem to a probablem.
Antone else have this problem? Any advice on how to over
come it?
0 Comments, 367 Views,
4 Votes
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The First Meeting 6/6/2005
Hi all, just wondering if anyone had any good ideas or what
works for you as a place for a first meeting? or what do you
do on that first meeting?
I personally try to meet somewhere that's public (very
public) and that provides a place to sit and relax to talk.
I mean after all, after we talk, or while we are talking,
we can decide to go to that restaurant, bar, etc... provided
we are ...
0 Comments, 175 Views,
2 Votes
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how it went 6/4/2005
We are meeting for the first time. We have exchanged pictures.
We have exchanged e- mail. We have chatted on line. I am meeting
you at the airport. You are flying in from another part of
the state. I am nervous and I hope you are also.
<br>
I changed my clothes at least ten times trying to find just
the right thing to wear for our first meeting. I settled
on a floral ...
1 Comments, 317 Views,
11 Votes
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How would you make someone not feel nervous 6/2/2005
I am going to be one of those very nervous first time girls.
I'm hoping someone will gently introduce me to the
first time experince of being with a female.
So next time all you girls or guys go and meet the other person
for there first time experince with the same sex then maybe
you could stop and think that they maybe as nervouse as all
hell so try and suduce them and make them feal ...
0 Comments, 265 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Be who you claim to be! It never pays to pretend 6/2/2005
I met a girl the other night who was not at all who she claimed
to be. I kissed her once because I was drunk, but she left
a bad taste in my mouth, so I left. How disenchating!
0 Comments, 181 Views,
2 Votes
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My date with Robert from Swapfinder.com 6/2/2005
We had emailed and chatted for over two months before we
finally met. He knew everything abouth me. I arrived at
his home about 10 am, he's long divorced and had several
failed relationships with natural women and he was convinced
that a willing crossdresser would be better. He was so nice.
Dim lights in a comfortable living room. Soft music and
cocktails on the couch. A lot of small talk, ...
1 Comments, 1325 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Will that first date come 6/1/2005
As we are all in hear to find what we find sexually arrosing
and i think i will find it in a female it looks so relaxing
and fun so pussy wetting to touch of lips make me cum over
and over till it cant be couped her to the girls out there
looking to find there fun in female
GO GIRLS GO
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8 Votes
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What is it that would turn you completely OFF on a first date? 6/1/2005
That can be a very difficult question for some, only because
it seems as if the more your date has in common with your general
requirements, the more you'll let them slide on things
that you may dislike.
<br>
However, I don't care how much money a man has or how
great-looking he is (or even how big his dick may appear
underneath those fine slacks), the minute he starts to
brag, ...
1 Comments, 268 Views,
9 Votes
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Recent date with a member 5/25/2005
I arrived early about 9:30 am. The house was very dimly lit
as i entered the door. He was very nice and pointed to the
bathroom to get dressed. I joined him in the living room
where he had a porno film on the big screen. He handed me a
drink of vodka and orange juice and he was very sweet as he
started a conversation. His sound system was incredible
and had a great selection of music. And ...
1 Comments, 1487 Views,
47 Votes
,1.75 Score
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out of town 5/24/2005
Like most meetings on Swapfinder.com, the connection was long distance.
She lived about 200 clicks south of me, in the second biggest
town in New Mexico. We are spread pretty far apart here in
the Southwest.
The electricity must have come thru the wires, because
it was lust at first encounter. We hit it off and decided
that we had to meet one of these days, and then it grew into
how about next ...
1 Comments, 269 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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1st Date Sex Leads to Long-term Relationships 5/24/2005
It's possible that I'm the only person this ever
happens to, but I doubt it. I have had 3 relationships lasting
about one year. two of those involved sex on the first date.
The shortest of the three made me wait for a couple of weeks.
If you meet somone special you should not wait to have sex
with them. Everyone knows that at some time or another you
have had sex on a first date. If ...
0 Comments, 280 Views,
9 Votes
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surprised 5/24/2005
we were sitting at a pub next to the sea. it was a breezy night.
we chatted and laughed. he asked me if someone ever petted
with me before. i asked him what is that. he was surprised
by my reply. then we left the pub as he offered to pet with
me. he led me to his car and we petted, sucked..
1 Comments, 1512 Views,
38 Votes
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sex on the first 5/23/2005
ok so here it is again. now im sure in some point in time everybody
has done it, some people regret it, some people live for
it, but why does it seam that it is always intense and exceptionaly
good
0 Comments, 284 Views,
10 Votes
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1st 3sum 5/21/2005
My wife Rose and I had been fantasizing about her getting
fucked by another man for quite a while. I looked around
on the web for months before I finally talked to Mike. I told
him I wanted to see a current STD test including proof of
-HIV. Mike had some experience arranging gangbangs and
3sums. It took some time to convince Rose to at least meet
with Mike.
<br>
...
3 Comments, 1524 Views,
42 Votes
,5.78 Score
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cant do them!! 5/12/2005
although i try so hard i just can't seem to impress the
woman i am after. so i think i may stop tryin to impress them
and try harder to press 4 my dreams rather than the dreams
of others.... hopefully i can find similar dreams
0 Comments, 154 Views,
4 Votes
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Typoglocemia 5/10/2005
Don't delete this because it looks weird. Believe
it or not you can read it ...
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I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht
I was rdanieg The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid Aoccdrnig
to rscheearch taem at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't
mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt
tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit ...
2 Comments, 471 Views,
32 Votes
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The Cock 5/9/2005
I recently began having conversations with a man that like
me is bi-curious we talked awhile before finally meeting
on a back road to check each others packages out. I talk to
him awhile and he didn't really feel as though he wanted
to show what he had between his loins. I got into his vehicle
and he pulled out his cock and I must admit that it had a pretty
tight heat and once I wrapped ...
0 Comments, 1254 Views,
29 Votes
,2.84 Score
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Date with work colleague 5/6/2005
I'm due to take a girl from work out for a drink on Friday.
We both have partners but agree it could be fun seeing each
other. Is it a case of what our partners don't know won't
hurt them?
2 Comments, 525 Views,
9 Votes
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Communication. 5/4/2005
You know, it is tough to feel if a first date went good or bad,
when u cannot find who you went with to talk to them. Even
if it was a bad date, that person should tell you.
0 Comments, 95 Views,
5 Votes
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2005-04-29
The Skirt
20 years. 20 years of marriage. 20 years of control. 20 years
of frustration.
I married my high school sweetheart half way through university.
His background and family didn’t want us to live together
unless we were married and we wanted to save rent. I was a
virgin until our honeymoon night. I was looking forward
to experiencing sex so much, but it went flat. He came inside
me so fast that I barely felt anything except pain. It didn’t
get a lot better. He only seemed to think of himself, leaving
my pleasure ignored. One time I asked if he could lick me
below, but he got so angry that he slapped me and left a bruise
on my cheek.
He wouldn’t let me go out by myself. I had to defend my whereabouts
to him constantly. When we did go out together he was always
looking around to see who was watching me. I wasn’t bad looking,
but I ended up wearing frumpy clothes to avoid gathering
attention ‒ which I so desperately wanted!
Four years ago I decided it was time for something
to change.
I was getting older, yet there was no talk of children. I
stopped taking my birth control without him knowing. I
knew my cycle, and at the right time, I enticed him to have
sex. After three or four months, I found
out I was pregnant.
I thought that if he had a child to love, he would love me as
well. How mistaken I was!
After two years of mental abuse, I knew that he loved
neither
me nor my son. Then he left. I came home from work one day,
and all his things were gone! There was a message for me to
call his lawyer. How blind I was! He had been seeing another
girl on the side for years! He had finally run off with her,
leaving me with our son and the house. He offered to leave
me to house if I didn’t seek child support. I was OK with that
as I didn’t want him to have any rights with our son. I sold
the house and moved in with my sister. She has two
kids and
kicked her husband out. She is in business and took control
when things were going badly.
I moped around for a few months, not sure what to do with my
life. I started working for my sister’s company, which
worked out well, and hung around the house, not sure what
to do. Sis started to encourage me to get out a little. She
was always telling me how sexy I was. My son is still breastfeeding
three or four times a day, and I’m a 38DD
because of it. I have
a nice bum, and I have managed to get in pretty reasonable
shape after the baby.
Then she showed me “the skirt.” She had bought it, but could
never bring herself to wear it. It was black and short. Not
mini-short, more of micro-short. I tried it on for her to
see. If I pulled the top down just to the top of my bum crack,
the bottom would cover my privates ‒ only just. I felt so
sexy in that skirt! I dreamed about going out in it and getting
attention. I looked for tops to go with it and found just
what I needed. I don’t like bras and wear one as little as
possible. My nipples are big and hard much of the time, not
to mention they occasionally leak. I found a lemon yellow
t-shirt that fit and hung beautifully. It showed the shape
of my breasts, let my nipples poke out, and stopped about
two inches above my belly button. Of course it was
several
inches out from my stomach at that point, but that added
to the effect! But when could I wear it? Who could I go out
with, dressed like that?
My sister had her friend, a professional photographer,
over a few weeks ago. They were talking about glamour photography
and how she’d like to practice before hiring a professional
model. I volunteered and we played around for a while. In
the end there was only on picture she liked, and she gave
me a copy. It was more work that I expected, but it was a hot
picture! She also got one of my sister in “the skirt”.
Then I found Swapfinder.com. Could I find someone on there to help me
get through my desires? Would there be a place for me to wear
my new sexy outfit? Could I find someone who could give me
the pleasure I’d never had?
It didn’t take long to find out. I put up the pictures I had,
along with a pretty broad description of what I wanted.
Within hours of it going live, hundreds of responses started
coming in. It was hard to keep up, but boy, did it give me some
confidence in myself! One of the first guys I chatted with
invited me to meet him and a couple of his friends invited
me to a bar on Thursday night. It was going to happen! I was
excited all day about it, thinking about how sexy it would
be and how people would look at me! I called a cab and went
out in the wind and rain. My coat didn’t show much to the cabbie,
but I could tell that he was liked what he could see. In the
bar, I found my “date” right away.
Why are men so mean? In the first five minutes of
me showing
up dressed so sexily for him, he laughed at me, put me down,
called me nasty names, then wanted to touch me! I admit that
my outfit said “touch me!”, but it sure would be nice if we
could have established a bit of a rapport first!
Then it happened. I was just about in tears, wanting so badly
to get up and go home, when a girl in the booth next to us came
over. Did she ever tell those guys where to go! She told them
straight out how nasty they sounded and how hurtful the
words were! I was so in awe of her forwardness. Then she said,
“Would you like to come with me, these guys certainly don’t
seem to have much to offer you!”
Bernice was my age, my height, brown hair, green eyes, a
little heavier than me, wearing a tight black skirt and
a stretchy black t-shirt. She wasn’t wearing a bra either,
but she didn’t show as much as I was. I got up to follow her,
and she suggested to go to another bar to get away. I agreed,
we retrieved our coats and got a cab. Bernice had just had
a fight with her boyfriend. He’d gone out for a smoke (part
of the argument) and she told him she was leaving and moving
out. While he was out of the bar, getting drenched for the
sake of a smoke, she heard the guys berating me and decided
to step in.
As we walked into the second bar, all eyes turned and all
conversation stopped. I almost wanted to run away, then
decided to make the most of it. I did a quick turn to say something
to Bernice, and made sure that my skirt lifted enough for
everyone to see that there was nothing underneath. There
was a bit of a collective gasp. We sat in a somewhat secluded
booth and ordered some wine. We started to talk about our
pasts, our lives, and our desires. She too had had some bad
experiences with guys, and told me how turned on she was
by women, particularly me. She gently asked if she could
touch my breasts. Of course she could! She was so gentle
and it was so exciting! I asked her to touch lower down, where
nobody by I had touched with hands before. She didn’t even
have to lift my skirt to find me damp. She whispered “Lets
leave that for later” and I agreed.
At that point, two rude guys who had been watching
us came
over and went straight into some rude remarks and suggestions.
We told them in no uncertain terms where they could go! I
let Bernice take the lead, and loved the feeling of control
when we turned them away, knowing that they wanted us! A
little while later, over our third drink, another guy came
in and joined them. We could see that they were setting him
up for a tongue lashing from the two of us, and he
approached.
He was kind, polite and gentle. We invited him to sit between
the two of us. Sure enough, he’d been set up, but
he refused
to be crude or suggestive, though he did let us know how sexy
he found us. As a “reward”, Bernice suggested that he touch
both of us below and let his friends smell what they had lost
out on by being so rude! Yes, he went for it, yes they saw it,
yes they gave him a very hard time!
By this time I had a good buzz going. I don’t drink much and
I was feeling it. Bernice wanted to touch me again. I agreed
as long as it was reciprocal. My touching her soft breasts
was such a turn on! I could feel my body reacting as she touched
my breasts. At this point the manager came over, sat with
us for a minute (bringing drinks “on the house” and told
us that while he appreciated our business, we should be
careful as he could get in trouble for allowing “lewd acts
in public” as could we. We stopped the touching, but held
hands and got drunker (is that a word?). We couldn’t stop
completely, and then it happened. Her hand between my legs
brought on my milk. Two wet circles appeared over
my nipples.
The thin yellow t-shirt showed everything! The manager
came over again (with more drinks), but I think this time
was just to see me better. He didn’t give us a hard time, though
there was a tiny reminder. At this point I had to pee. There
was a long line in the women’s room, and I didn’t want to wait!
I walked boldly into the men’s room. There were a few clunks
as jaws hit the floor over my teeny skirt and wet shirt. I
walked up to the urinal, spread my lips with my fingers,
and peed perfectly straight where I wanted it. No worries
about panties or skirts for me! I was already pretty wet
between the legs, so I didn’t worry about an extra few drops.
I washed my hands and boldly walked back to Bernice. I was
tipsy and tired.
“Are you ready to go home?” I asked Bernice. She started
to cry. She did not want to go back to her boyfriend’s place,
and she had nowhere else to go. That was a problem with an
easy solution. I told her that my sister would be more than
pleased to have her in the house for the night, and I certainly
would! We caught a cab, she stopped by her place to get a small
bag, and we went to my house. Sis was still up and was astounded,
shocked, and turned on by my appearance. She was thrilled
that I’d found Bernice, and did all she could to make her
feel at home.
But we were ready for bed ‒ not sleep, bed. On my double bed
with satin sheets, Bernice showed me things that I wish
I known 20 years ago. The taste of a woman was so invigorating,
the feel of gentleness and soft breasts on mine was what
I’d always wanted! We were naked on the bed, and she pulled
a couple things from her bag. I wasn’t sure what they were,
shaped very funny yet familiar. She said, “don’t worry
Kerry, this will do more for you than I can do, and she slipped
it into my vagina and turned it on. The sensation was unbearable
yet so pleasuring. I was so full, yet something was tickling
my clitoris. It kept building and building, thought I was
going to scream! I don’t know how long it was, but I had an
orgasm for the first time ever, then I passed out.
The next thing I knew, light was coming in through the window,
and I was in my bed hugging a beautiful, buxom, brown haired
lady. We took a shower together before my son woke up. I introduced
them, and they fell in love with each other. Over breakfast
with sissy we talked of the future. We had an extra room (in
the basement with me) where she could move in. We talked
about a few conditions, and agreed on it being a trial month
to decide if she wants to stay, or if we want her to stay.
<br>
She can have her own room, but I’m hoping that she can spend
most nights in my bed!
Kerry
April 29, 2005 Soulmate113 on Swapfinder.com and gmail
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Afternoon Delight 4/22/2005
She started that sunny Monday morning in February. She
wore her blue jeans, white shirt with a pink petal rose colored
jacket.
<br>
Her shirt hugged her breast just enough to show the outline
of her bra, it was tucked in her what looked like Levi 501
button ups that were boot cut, the fell over her black boots
that she had worn that day.
<br>
Her creamy tanned body stood ...
0 Comments, 2192 Views,
72 Votes
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What to do !! 4/21/2005
All the ladys out their what should a young single man like
my self do to get a frist date with the ladys out their
0 Comments, 175 Views,
4 Votes
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Don't take to meet your parents! 4/17/2005
Recently I separated from my wife and I have really been
hitting the dating scene hard. Against my better judgement
I went out on a date with a 33 year old women, who I met while
checking out at a local suoermarket. She was the checker.
<br>
I told her in advance where I was taking her to dinner. To
my amazement her parents happen to be dining at the same
restaurant, at the exact ...
0 Comments, 623 Views,
11 Votes
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Outdoor activites 4/15/2005
can be a great first date. Hiking, playing with dogs, frisbee.
Low key and fun. A nice alternative to traditional things.
0 Comments, 150 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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is it ok to goto somoene's home? 4/14/2005
after you meet - what is the your policy on going back to someones
home?
4 Comments, 494 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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First date top five. 4/14/2005
Dating people is a very difficult game, and if you don´t
take some things into consideration, first dates can drive
people away quite fast.
<br>
Howerver, if you follow these three rules you might find
yourself having breakfast with that special someone,
before "the third date".
<br>
1. Take good care of your hygiene. Although there is people
out there that like dirty ...
0 Comments, 302 Views,
18 Votes
,3.40 Score
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big women, big fantasy 4/14/2005
I met this gal on the internet. She was a little heavy but
loves to suck cock. Small, big no difference, just as long
as she could taste that sweet cum run down her throat. Well,
we had the chance to meet one weekend, since we both decided
to drive 1/2 way and get a room with a Jacuzzi and a big bed.
Driving there I could almost feel her hand on my rock hard
cock. It kept me excited all ...
3 Comments, 1046 Views,
20 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Unforgettable! 4/13/2005
First date I had was going to school dance. We were at that
age where our bodies just oozed with hormones. It was so
evident when were on the dance floor. Neither one of us spoke
much. Our bodies did all the talking. She was a little older
than I was and very hot in her skin tight mini dress.
<br>
We loved to slow dance as we pressed our bodies together.
The heat was intense. She ...
0 Comments, 1329 Views,
26 Votes
,3.46 Score
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what do you do on your first date? 4/11/2005
where do you go, what do you do? and even better do you split
the cost.. who pays?
1 Comments, 423 Views,
12 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Cruising down 95 4/10/2005
I had spoken to this women a few times online but had yet to
see her. I told her that i would be going to a goth club in south
miami so that my buddy could hang out with his girl that was
bartending.
she agreed to meet.
i had figured she would just show up, say hello, then be off.
as usual i was wrong.
the club was pretty crowded for a change and was hard to see
who was who. my ...
0 Comments, 323 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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She was Awesome 4/10/2005
I saw he bio on Swapfinder.com, she was just what i was looking for, a married
woman. We e-mailed for a couple weeks, then i asked if she`d
like to meet for lunch and get aquainted. We did, i picked
her up near wherew she lived, 3 miles from me. i asked her
where she would like to go, she said lets just go talk some
where private. I drove out to a park 5 miles out of town. We
chated a bit, she said i ...
0 Comments, 988 Views,
21 Votes
,5.35 Score
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First dates good or bad? 4/9/2005
Personally I am not fond of first dates. It is like going
on a job interview. Granted this site helps with that, but
not completely. You see her for the first time and she sees
you. So much is based on the first impression. What if I am
nervous and acting like a bumbling idiot? Then that is what
she sees. Face it we are all as cool as we think we are.
0 Comments, 95 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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The first encounter 4/8/2005
She put down the phone thinking, my god ‒ what have I done?
But he sounded OK and quite genuine and the worst that could
happen is that she would have to show him the door out if there
was no chemistry or desire at all.
<br>
It had been a fairly long day and things had not gone according
to plan and she would never drink alone, so it was a good excuse
to have a drink ...
1 Comments, 429 Views,
16 Votes
,3.72 Score
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Sex 4/4/2005
We really like the first swing party we went to. It was an
older couple that was into clean fun sex. they provided
everything to make it safe and we were very impressed as
a new couple to this way of life. Why cant every party be like
this? If anyone knows where we can find all the clean ones
let us know!
0 Comments, 729 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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Sex 4/4/2005
I have heard that sex on first dates is a bad thing. Well its
going on 2 years and we are still loving every second of it!!
We even met at a beer tent which made it even more interesting.
I sure gave it to her that night! She can still feel it. Now
we enjoy having sex with others too, and ive heard thats
bad too!! Ha ha Sincerly Male half
0 Comments, 389 Views,
9 Votes
,1.07 Score
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Feeling Comfortable 4/3/2005
First dates are always tough. Surely both people are nervous
whether they admit it or not. My personal idea on setting
up a first date is to make it comfortable for both of you.
Pick a setting that is agreeable for both. I prefer to meet
in a public place. That way, if either party has reservations
about what is going to happen next, we are both safe. I always
like to let the lady have ...
0 Comments, 120 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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My Own Personal Favorite Date. 4/1/2005
A few years ago, my then lover set up Valentines that I'll
never forget. It was our first year together as a couple
and she wanted to impress me with my dream date and did she
ever do a good job at impressing me. I came home from work
expecting something special and entered the house and
there was my beautiful girlfriend wearing nothing but
her blue jeans and no top on what so ever. She ...
0 Comments, 253 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Best Date 3/31/2005
"Living in Sweden"
I meet a blond girl in a park, summertime. We drink wine and
later we go to bed in her cousin bedroom with my cousine and
her friend. It was a very nice summer that summer.
"Easyfuckinghotsummer"
0 Comments, 296 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score
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Is anybody out there? 3/31/2005
Has anyone out there actually meet anyone from this site.
Is it a waste of my time and energy. I've tried this site
before in the past with absolutly no responses. I have heard
from one or to women who seemed "interested"
but I'll reply to their message but never hear from
them agian. Am I doing something wrong? Does anybody have
any good advice? Just wanted to know.
5 Comments, 459 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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First Time Import 3/29/2005
Our first date went almost as well as we could have dreamed.
We had been married for about 5 years when we joined Swapfinder.com.
After a lot of fantasy play at home, we decided it would be
nice to try a third. I was worried that I wouldn't be
able to do it and my husband was worried about the possible
emotional entanglements. We found a nice guy from another
country who was visiting our area. ...
2 Comments, 759 Views,
22 Votes
,4.69 Score
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Who's afraid off a firts date? 3/29/2005
Who's afraid off a first date?
<br>
It's probable that you'r excited on a firts date.
That's not a problem. It means that you have feeling.
Never be worried...
0 Comments, 78 Views,
0 Votes
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My First Squirt !!!!!!! 3/28/2005
I am new to the dating scene and truthfully , new to computers
. But i have ended up in some chat rooms , and oh my god , it is
blowing my mind . I think it is soooo cool . If for no other
reason i get really nervous when meeting women face to face
. Here , I can sort of get a feel for what a woman is like , whether
they like me , and also see photos and vice versa . Well , I
met a lady ...
2 Comments, 503 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Second date 3/26/2005
Well hi again folks, met this girl about 3 weeks ago, on
this site.
Got talking a lot , was nice but was looking for more.
First date was a disaster no show , there was a problem at
here side not mines, so thout thats the end, but got talking
the next day things where going fine so aranged a second
date (trusting or what)but she was there , went back to
my place talked a good bit , ...
0 Comments, 414 Views,
9 Votes
,1.50 Score
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So I recently made love to a much younger woman... 3/26/2005
She is 22 and I am almost 50. Introduced over a nice dinner
by a mutual friend who was, in effect, her mentor. I don't
really know what struck her fancy; I was relaxed and warm,
but it was probably the wine. I had never before met any woman
who easily talked about anal...very interesting...We
had only just met...Her mentor showed no surprise, however.
<br>
I was further surprised to ...
3 Comments, 1065 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Don't Rush The First Kiss....Savor The Build Up... 3/26/2005
I recently had the opportunity to meet a wonderful lady
that I found through Swapfinder.com. We both needed to be discreet and
agreed that friendship would come before anything else.
Our meeting point was a matinee show at the local movie theater.
To be honest, I had only hoped for someone I could simply
enjoy spending time with, just laughing and talking. As
we sat and chit chatted waiting fo the ...
2 Comments, 284 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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back again 3/24/2005
Well hi there folks, just to add , eventuly met here , mmmmmmm
very nice , startd talking , then things turnd to sex ,
good been waiting a wile .
So has she , started to kiss here , good no probs, then
here neck , and worked down, after a wile whent to bed , she
knows how to treat poeple, as i hope i do, when finishd just
lay there , in each othere arms , was a great night looking
forward ...
0 Comments, 168 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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interracail dates 3/22/2005
has anybody here experienced having a date with someone
who is not or his own race? can somebody tell me what the feeling.
2 Comments, 221 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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Where to go? 3/20/2005
As a man i know it is extremely hard to make a good impression
on a woman, but i have found that a good help is the location
of the first date. I would like to know from women, where
do you like to go and what do you like to do?
1 Comments, 211 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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our first sighting 3/19/2005
My first date with a person from Swapfinder.com turned into one of the
nicest times i have had. and horny.
We had been talking for some time on IC and had got hot and
steamy in cyber. We had promised each other the possibility
of playing out all our fantasies, and the tings we were going
to do to each other should not be allowed in print.
And here we were meeting for the first time. We knew how ...
3 Comments, 885 Views,
23 Votes
,3.71 Score
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just to let you know... 3/19/2005
On a first date please do not tell people all your baggage
it scares them. I know people say you should be honest and
you should but I don't know all my family baggage and
they have been around for years. So take you time when telling
people about yourself.
1 Comments, 229 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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3Some first date 3/18/2005
I met 2 girls when out with a few mates one night and after
chatting with them and having a few drinks, asked if I could
meet them again. They were in my town on holiday and said
to meet them again it would have to be within the next 3 days
as they were going home, but they would meet me on one condition,
if they met up with me and my mates were not invited and not
to be told!! (Turned out ...
0 Comments, 499 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Advise? 3/17/2005
Any advise for an Swapfinder.com newbie? What is the best way to meet
people for sucsessful meetings? I am just looking for fun,
new experiences
2 Comments, 128 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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No show 3/17/2005
Follow up .
She asked to meet, well wye not i thout ? been talk for a long
time on computer.
And geting on great, so next step should be meeting, was
very nervice , haven done anthing like this before, so
she made the date , time , place for meeting great, gave
here plentyopertunety to call of but no definetly be there
.
Well buger me after traveling miles , waiting a couple of
houres ...
1 Comments, 157 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Watch out for lies!! 3/17/2005
I have noticed on this site that many men lie on their profile.
For instance, I met a guy who said he was 5'9 and built.
He also claimed to have 8" and lots of stamina. When
I met him in person he was shorter than me, I'm 5'6,
and he wasn't built. He also had the smallest thing
I had ever seen. Remember, even though most men are honest
you don't really know what you are getting no matter ...
4 Comments, 620 Views,
23 Votes
,3.60 Score
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Have you noticed? 3/17/2005
I have noticed that when I arrange a date in public for safety
sake that men say sure that works. Shortly after they are
asking questions like where do you live and actually expecting
directions. If I was willing to tell where I lived there
would be no need for a public meet the first time around.
0 Comments, 173 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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1st Dates from Swapfinder.com 3/17/2005
If you are meeting someone from Swapfinder.com for the 1st time it is
always best to meet them in a public place. I know this is
said a lot but I have really met men who were very jealous
of me on 1st meet. I wasn't allowed to spaeak to anyone
but him, including the waitress. I have also met men you
were carrying weapons had had no reason to be. Honestly,
I have met a lot of strange people so I try to ...
1 Comments, 234 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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my first gay fuck in a rr 3/15/2005
my 18th bday i went to a gay bar and was givin some drinks i
wanted to be fuckd but i was scared i was aproched by a man
and he asked if i was even 18 i told him it was my bday and he
gave me a few shots i was a little drunk and had to piss so i
went into the craper and went to the bathroom whene i was
done i asked the man to help me get something and took him
out side we went outback and ...
0 Comments, 1407 Views,
27 Votes
,2.08 Score
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htool 3/14/2005
The first date with someone like you would have to be special,
at least a jacket nice pants and well cleaned shoes.
<br>
Arrive with at least one Rose (your favourite determined
by chatting).
<br>
Dinner by candle light at a nice restraunt.
0 Comments, 70 Views,
1 Votes
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at the club 3/11/2005
I met this guy over the weekend at a club. It was really crowded
and I was dancing when he came up behind me and started dancing
with me. As I turned to see who it was, he started kissing
my neck and then without a work put his hand straight down
the front of my pants and starts fingering me, right in the
middle of the dance floor with tons of people around us.
I didn't even know who he ...
3 Comments, 1435 Views,
36 Votes
,6.60 Score
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It was June 3/11/2005
When we first met on Swapfinder.com. She came to my place. We talked and
took a long walk on the beach at sunset. We talked held hands
and kissed. Sat in the sand and had agreat time. The moon
was great and so was her kiss. We went back to my place and
I knew she like candels with champagin and strawberys.
Whell that was it. We stated to undress each other kissing
each part we undressed until we were ...
0 Comments, 276 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Order Up? 3/10/2005
I have met a few ladies off of here, none really were who they
said they were, nor were they what I am personally looking
for.
<br>
First date: was a sweet girl, met at Starbucks, just to break
the ice in a public place. Talk a bit. Then we decided to go
to dinner.
<br>
We went to a fairly nice restaurant, she chose where to go.
I had $300 with me, and we went to ...
1 Comments, 576 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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is it safe to sleep with some one 3/8/2005
you really dont know they say there clean but are they really
people with aids are not going to tell you they have it and
what if they dont know they got it
0 Comments, 206 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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The worst first date 3/8/2005
OK so THis guy was so cute so smart and Just perfect, ... So
I thought. I met this guy threw a friend who braged he was
great we agreed to go on a date. He picks me up at my apt. and
it started out pretty normal. He had flowers awaiting me
in his car and then said he "needed" to inroduce
me to some one before the date continued. If any thing i had
expected an ex wife ex girlfriend whos ...
1 Comments, 948 Views,
34 Votes
,2.61 Score
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WOW what a babe 3/8/2005
well , i was excited...a girl answered my call...we meet
at a coffee shop once to see if we clicked....well heres
what happened...
<br>
The next day she called me at work...told me to meet her at
a hotell in the area..the next day i drove to the location...a
little nervious...she gave me a room #.. i knocked on the
door..it opened with ease...
<br>
there she was on the ...
0 Comments, 529 Views,
10 Votes
,0.80 Score
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he was irresistible 3/8/2005
well one evening on the eve of x, mas i was bored to death
so i decided to kill my boredom by getting online to see if
i could get someone to chat with.and well guess what?i entered
one adultfriender chatroom and i wrote boldly on my message
title asking if there was any one from my country in the room, and
ohh my god this wonderful guy just pm me and told me he stayed
just a few miles in ...
1 Comments, 854 Views,
23 Votes
,3.48 Score
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EXACTLY WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME! 3/8/2005
Ok everyone after that first & second date, things
seem to be going well, the both of you appear to be comfortable
with one another, both you have an urge to merge but only
one of u can beat the other too it.
<br>
So this an individual question.
In everyones honest opinion.... when do is it the right
time to make THE move?
<br>
DARQMACHINE
2 Comments, 250 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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False impressions 3/7/2005
A number of articles have been written on the number of members
who create a false persona through either their profiles
or their chat sessions. I wonder how any of these people
hope to form any relationships either short term or long
term. My first date with a lady was in anticipation of a little
extra padding and I accepted that. When she arrived, she
was many stone past that and dressed ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Arranging a first Swapfinder.com date 3/6/2005
I'm new and have wondered what relevant information
I should give/expect from a prospective mate. So far I'm
doing just about everything short of signing on to a silver/gold
account to show I'm being sincere. Pretty soon I'll
be confirming my ID and responding to messages left in my
inbox.
<br>
What else should I know and expect from someone interested
in me?
2 Comments, 263 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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The Perfect Date!! (Roomance) 3/5/2005
This is my fantasy date. The name mentioned is totally fantasy.
Grab a drink, u will b here for a while. I hope you enjoy.........................................
I come pick u up at somewhere around 8 or 9. I greet you at your
door with a dozen red roses. Hiding behind those roses are
a set of soft and sensual awaiting to taste the moisture
and curvature of your . After I plant a night ...
2 Comments, 345 Views,
18 Votes
,2.03 Score
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The First Date 3/5/2005
The first date has become like a interview. First the parents
have to be pleased that there is going to be safe
and you are a nice person. And where to take your partner
on the first date, do you pay or share the nights costs. Sometime
during the date, the conversation moves to what you do,
how much you earn, and what are your future prospects. There
is no such thing as a first date ...
1 Comments, 819 Views,
46 Votes
,1.87 Score
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sex 3/4/2005
Is sex on a first date a good idea? I like sex so I always want
to have sex but sometimes I think that if you wait longer
and build a relationship with the person it will become
much more meaningful and the sex will become that much better.
Thoughts?
5 Comments, 184 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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COME ON GUYS FUCK BUDDIES NOT BABYSITTERS 3/4/2005
Have to share this experience with you as it really is the
biggest turn off ever. Ok so I have my profile on here because
I want to meet for real. Not cyber not erotic mail but for
real. No lies not complications. Have, since joining had
a couple of meets with guys and had a couple of guys who after
arranging meetings chickened out. See guys its not just
the woment that do that. Anyway ...
5 Comments, 1535 Views,
43 Votes
,3.84 Score
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Weekend on the Water 3/1/2005
One day in an email, I mention I have a friend with a 26-foot
sloop in the water off the west coast. Suddenly Ken gets
excited. Our first trip together is a weekend in a small
craft on the ocean. Three marvelous days and two erotic
nights together. We arrange to meet at the airport and I
land just a few minutes before Ken's plane touches
down. In the short bus ride downtown we sit near the ...
1 Comments, 660 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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What should first dates should be? 2/26/2005
First date should be the most exciting part of a relationship.You
feel different mixes of emotions, like in love feeling, aggressiveness
too. And of course first date is unforgettable
0 Comments, 84 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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remembering your first make out then fuck session? 2/25/2005
I remember being at the drive-in movies with a really hot
chick from the next town over (chris). She was a strawberry
blonde (5'11'34b) and she has wearing a cute litle
white minishirt that had a v-shape cut in it showing off
the leg. Her tight blue tanktop had been soaked with mountain
dew from the dumb food guy looking at her when he handed her
the drink. So she took it off to only show ...
1 Comments, 577 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Our First Time 2/24/2005
I close my eyes and I dream of the day I'm standing behind
you whispering in your ear as I slowly slide the zipper of
your dress down until I can just see the outline of the curves
below. As my hand slowly slides down your shoulder I begin
to lightly caress the back of your neck ever so softly with
my lips. Moving closer my breath ever so softly brushes
against the hair on the back of your ...
0 Comments, 264 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Does anybody else get this? 2/24/2005
imagine if you will a lady that you really like, you approach
talk for a little while. then when it's time to ask her
out your brain comes out with multiple things to say. then
you open your mouth and say something so stupid you feel
as if you are depriveing a village of its idiot.
this is what happens to me does it happen to you?
3 Comments, 155 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score
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Mr. Right vs. Mr. Right Now 2/22/2005
This question I pose to the women:
On a first date or when considering going out on a first date
with a guy, what criteria distinguishes between a some
guy for tonite versus some guy who is a keeper?
1 Comments, 229 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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