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my very small penis   5/8/2004

I have a very small penis and when i look at most of the other men on this site i never knew that there were so many well hung guys around , i would be ashamed to stand naked next to them.I often wonder if other women including my wife make comparisons in thier minds of the big cocks to thier tiny cock guys.


0 Comments, 92 Views, 50 Votes ,6.91 Score
the guy with 7'' should be proud   5/8/2004

If i only had a 7'' cock like the guy wondering if his was big enough, just think of the reaction i get when my cock with a full hard on measures to only 3''.


3 Comments, 83 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
rm_finebrutha55 43 M
1  Article
Mailbox   5/8/2004

Is it just me or does it seem like people dont get the messages I send to them? I sent a few messages but no replies.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
rm_hunni26 47 F
1  Article
Fetishes   5/8/2004

So, how many of you couples out there enjoy certain "taboo" fetishes? What are you into? Does your "significant other" know what you're into? Or is it a secret desire that you feel your lover might object to?


0 Comments, 27 Views, 28 Votes ,2.93 Score
a day at the coast   5/7/2004

We decided a day at the coast would be lovely set off very early and arrive at the sea front parked the car and went to the nicest looking hotel for morning coffee and Danish The sun was up and the town quite as we walked along the sands the air was still and warm Lets paddle a little So we slipped of shoes and held hands as we walked to the pier I was feeling very horny and was ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 21 Votes ,5.35 Score
Masterfuldesires 63 M
5  Articles
Married Dom   5/6/2004

being a Married Dom has its challeneges, I have been married almost 6 years in a vanilla relationship. It does not meet the requirements of my BDSM lifestyle, my wife at first was open to my chosen lifestyle, but has now shut out the idea. <br> It is very difficult to find a sub willing to dedicate herself to me because Im married....But my search goes on..looking for ideas and ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
re... sex and cars,,   5/6/2004

hmmm, , maybee some one should add ford f-250 pickups, , RED , , thats what i have and i have sex at least 6 times per week, , , ,, btw there always was a good joke , , a man cant have sex in a sports car, , but he usually does when he steps out, !!


0 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_Romial43 38 M
18  Articles
How to capsize a boat...   5/6/2004

A boat carrying 60 people across a Texas lake capsized after the passengers all ran to one side to look at nude bathers. <br> <br> The incident happened on Lake Travis near Austin on Sunday. The nude sunbathers dived in to help pull the passengers to the bank. It's believed all of them made it to safety. <br> <br> Two women aged 20 and 25 were taken to ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Age Categories   5/5/2004

I'm not sure why this came to me... probably because everyone's trying to pigeon-hole themselves into some category of humanity. We're not Americans anymore; now we're Latino-American, Asian-American, African-American, and just plain white folk. So, we may as well set age categories too. <br> While there are exceptions to every rule, I believe the following adult category set ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: need of womans responce   5/5/2004

I personally don't see anything wrong with giving a guy oral first, although each man does differ in wait time to get going again. I'd rather give the guy oral first, if it means in the long run actual sex is gonna be longer. The only thing I can think of as to why the women your with think it's a pain, is due to the fact that they don't truely enjoy giving head in the first place. If ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 42 Votes ,7.55 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: My penis   5/5/2004

When you consider that 5-6 1/2 is the normal size, consider yourself lucky that you have 7. Just because a man is tall, doesn't mean he is going to have a bigger tool, just as foot size, hand size, etc........have no reflection on how well a man is endowed.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Cyber chat.   5/5/2004

Some may see it as taboo, others just may not be comfortable with it. If both parties invovled are okay with it, then there isn't a problem, don't be offended or take it that the other person just isn't into it because your married. Instead just move on until you find someone that also enjoys it. I personally tried it a very long time ago, although at first it was fun just to see what the ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 41 Votes ,6.92 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: wow, i didn't know   5/5/2004

To some of us women "yes" size does matter. Take into consideration that the average penis is 5-6 1/2 inches, this to me is totally acceptable. Personally, I don't want to be with a man and have him whip out a litte 3 incher. Now I maybe wrong, but if that's all you got, no amount of technique in using it is going to help.....just my opinion.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 36 Votes ,6.09 Score
a little info   5/5/2004

In the middle ages it was illegal to have sex without permission from royalty. So people would ask for permission from kings, lords or magistrates and when they gave permission they would hang signs in front of their dwelling that said, "Fornucation Under Consent of the King". Well, I am pretty sure that the education was pretty lame in that time, so the anagram was created to make the ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
who????   5/5/2004

Who is the girl in the picture on the home page in the community section. Red top on with black bottoms. She is quite striking. Okay, I think she is hot. Anyway, is she a member and if so from what part of the country does she hail??


0 Comments, 40 Views, 1 Votes
re: wow i did not know   5/5/2004

size does not really matter to a woman as much as it matters to the man who it belongs to. the thing is that in most cases the larger the dick a man has then the more confident he is. the higher self esteme the better a lover he makes. most men who have small dicks also have low self esteme and are not aggressive. not to mention the fact that most of the time these are the same men that ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
rm_travb3 48 M
1  Article
real meetings   5/5/2004

Just wanted some thoughts on really meeting people on here. It seems a lot of people are in it just for the perv. Are there real people looking to hook up or not? what does everyone think as im am very curious.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_resolution97 44 M
3  Articles
what's up with asians?   5/4/2004

as an asian, i just have to say, why do people shun me just because of my race? i'm not talking about mistreatment, fights, slurs, etc (although i have had my share of that, too), just talking about why women (including some asian women) just have no interest whatsoever in asian men? i love women of all races, and have been with a lot of different ones. every one was extremely satisfied. ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 50 Votes ,5.51 Score
need of womans responce   5/3/2004

I am looking for the best way to handle the situation of cumming to fast...If a woman gives me a blow job and I cum...within 10 mins I am hard again and ready to go for awhile...I do I get a woman to give me a blow job so I can cum quick then I can go again....Most women seem to think its a pain to get the first load then enjoy themselves...I need help with this ladies...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 19 Votes ,7.21 Score
hotbodvt 43 M
15  Articles
Beer Pong Cops   5/3/2004

Beer pong refs are not welcome. Listen, if I get called on “leaning” or “elbows” one more time I’m going to go Bertuzzi on someone. If I wanted rules I’d start playing chess. I play beer pong to drink my face off my body. The only stripes I want to see people wearing are ones drawn on with a Sharpie marker.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 9 Votes ,1.07 Score
passionatemover 59 F
2  Articles
Re Does Size Matter   5/2/2004

Personally I think it does, and its the width for me every time, I have also conducted a survey on this very subject and 77% of women agreed that size does matter. However its not the be all and end all of it, Being shown respect consideration, and treated like a person also goes a long way too.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER?   5/2/2004

Tough question to answer. To some women size REALLY does matter, and to others it doesn't. I do however believe that most women would agree that girth is more important than length. I do have my own personal size preferences, and I will ask a man how "BIG" he is before I decide to sleep with him. I don't like to be all in the mood, and then have him whip out a 4 inch****. Just as all ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: There ought to be a law.   5/2/2004

Well first off, I am not a gay man, but i do suck ****, and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I don't like when there is a lot of hair around it. Why would I want to suck a ****, just to have to stop and spit hair out of my mouth. Give me a nice stiff **** that has been neatly trimmed or shaved any day.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Truth or Fiction   5/2/2004

Your right in your observations, there are many profiles that not only have the same wording, but also many that have the same pictures. Maybe some women do get their kicks this way, to see how many responses they can get. But, in defense to all the women, there are just as many men on this site that "PLAY" games, I know, I have encountered some of them. It's not really hard to pick them ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
do womean really hit their sexual peak after 40?   5/2/2004

i've read this magazine that gave said in one article that women really hit their sexual peak when they reach 40...it was said to be like one last hurrah before they reach memopause...now is this really true or one big hoax?


1 Comments, 31 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
RE: White Women Blackmen   5/2/2004

I can respond to this issue from personal experience. It is my preference to be with black men. I am naturally attracted to them and they have treated me much better than white men. When we are out in public I am always proud and have never had a bad comment made towards myself or my companion. However, I can relate that others always assume that sex is the reason. It is the same as ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
dick or face shots?   5/1/2004

well i for one love to see the dick shots. i find it absolutely wonderful that we women have the opportunity to see the package before we get it. granted i too like to know what the man's face looks like before i meet him but the picture of the dick is what captures my attention to begin with. there is nothing worse than having a greek god undress and him being only blessed in the looks ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 64 Votes ,7.31 Score
rm_Aubrey3OOO 34 M
1  Article
Photo secrets   5/1/2004

Does anyone know what makes a photo popular and makes people want to click and check out the person? I think my picture is okay, but I know it could be better. I know there's a science to an appealing picture but idk what it is. Thanks for the help!


0 Comments, 15 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
Anal milf   4/30/2004

After splitting up with my girlfriend of 3 years i began a relationship with her mum who is a very sexy 48 years old.At 35 myself i'm 10 years older than her .The tells me she doesnt mind but i believe otherwise as she keeps telling her mum she's a slut.Since i have slept with her and her boyfriend the definition of slut is hazy.Should i continue to see the mum at the cost of a friendship ...


0 Comments, 324 Views, 66 Votes ,7.19 Score
Shapely423542 60 F
10  Articles
To the men out there.......re: pic's   4/30/2004

For a guy....does the face photo make it or break it for you? Have you ever had the experience where you have seen a photo and not have been knocked off your socks but met anyway and then she turned out to be *much* better?


0 Comments, 37 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
RE: What's Up With This?   4/30/2004

I just had to make a comment. While I personally don't like every photo on the Swapfinder.com listing, they all produce some kind of reaction in me. They provide a touch of additional insight into the person who submitted the profile, and therefore make it easier to decide if I want to contact that person. It doesn't really matter if it's a man or woman who is showing their genitals, the image ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 17 Votes ,6.38 Score
The Quickest One Night Stand I have ever had   4/29/2004

One night I decided to call a chat line and I came across this 28 year old guy who was interested in me. He sent me a message asking me what I was looking for and I sent him one back and told him I was looking for an encounter with him. Then I had given him my information like where I lived and stuff like that but of course we talked about what we liked, what we didn't like, etc before I ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 137 Votes ,8.06 Score
rm_taispice 55 M
1  Article
Truth or Fiction   4/29/2004

Here's an observance I have noticed. I wish to see what others have discovered. I have noticed on several of the womens' profiles that the profiles are worded EXACTLY the same. The women do not even change one letter, much less the arangment of the profile. When you repsond, many times you are directed to a porn site or a prostitutes answering service. Just an trend I have noticed. I was ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
How to get more point for redeem   4/29/2004

How to get more point for redeem after getting all the point on the original.


0 Comments, 1 Views, 11 Votes
friendsfirst2004 59 M
83  Articles
RE: Lets meet!   4/28/2004

There are guys on this site that would rather chat and get to know you before even trying to meet. I would rather chat and try to see if there is a personality connection. If I just want sex, no questions asked, I can find any of a number of hookers. <br> If some one is looking for anything more than a one-night stand, they should get to know you somewhat before even ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
sexexplorer2009 32 C
1  Article
Pregnant women   4/27/2004

A lot of women and men find this a very touchy subject, but I can't get over how attractive and horny I find pregnant women! I just wondered what other people felt about this?


0 Comments, 34 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
dannyorg 50 M
1  Article
women in ads   4/27/2004

I look on here and there are a lot of gorgeous women in ads... are they for real or are they using this instead of papers. Do they want money for sex or do they just want sex???


0 Comments, 3 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
friendsfirst2004 59 M
83  Articles
RE: I am not a slut   4/27/2004

300 men in 20 years..... That depends on if you get to know them for a while, or just hop into bed on the first meet. The other question is - Are you seeing more than one guy at a time? And if so, do they all know? <br> Without details it seems you are playing the field and trying a new guy evey month on the average. 300/20 = 15 per year. That is a very high number. My ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
Are there any real women out there?   4/26/2004

Are there any real women out there? <br> In this high tech world we live in today, it becomes logical that meeting people would be greatly influenced. With the internet becoming a part of everyday life - email, chat rooms, dating service etc... The door has been opened for us to meet people, who would have never come into our lives otherwise. With this there is a certain amount ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Your One in a Million !   4/25/2004

I was sat here the other night feeling all sorry for myself with a cold, a massive downer and angry about the amount of time wasters we all seem to attract sometimes. <br> I got a call from a girlfriend and after listening to me moaning about how life is crap she told me to shut up and listen to her. <br> She told me that I should always feel special and unique. She ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 64 Votes ,5.47 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Pictures   4/25/2004

Let's see I can think of a few reasons people don't post a picture, but that story can be a long one. I for one do not have a picture posted on my profile, I chose not to put one in the beginning. Who knows I may add a picture later, but I highly doubt it. If someone passes by a profile because it doesn't have a pic, that's their perogative. I myself look at profiles with and without ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: No Action   4/25/2004

I believe it depends on the people involved. How long were emails, im's, phone calls, etc. exchanged. Do they feel comfortable with the person, do they feel they can trust the person? My boyfriend and I did meet someone from here, and had a great time- No sex involved, at least not yet. We met to see how we got along in person, did we still like each other after the initial meeting, were ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
RE: i am not a slut   4/24/2004

i agree with the woman who is choosey. i have had sex with more than 300 men in the last 20 yrs of my life. i have never had a std because i have been selective with whom i spread my legs for. i have also never had a large dick so i have not been streatched out. the average man does not have to strap a 2x4 to his ass to keep from falling in. i have just always loved sex, good sex! my ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 75 Votes ,7.93 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: White Women Blackmen   4/23/2004

I can't speak for the so-called majority you talk about, because obviously I am in the minority. I for one have never fantasized about being with a black man, nor do I use a big black vibrator, just my perogative. I know plenty of women though that do prefer a black man, and no, its not just because they seem to be more well-endowed. My being one of those young women who prefer a black ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 18 Votes ,5.44 Score
Ladies ahoy.........   4/23/2004

My search began recently for a single bi-fem, to play with me and my partner or me alone. <br> Imgine my surprise when I find that genuine ones are few and far between. Ladies, gents, everyone, if I had realised that the single bi-fems were so much in demand I may have considered this route years ago when I was still single. <br> I'm sure many of you have encountered ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
promisesforU 43 M
1  Article
Marriage versus Most love one   4/22/2004

This is my point of view on the one that you most love person and the one that you married. The one that you married might not be the one that you most loved. The one you loved most due to certain reasons that you cannot be together hence the one you married might not be the most loved one.


0 Comments, 2 Views, 49 Votes ,3.84 Score
The art of kissing   4/21/2004

When a man kisses the upper lip of a woman, while she in return kisses his lower lip, it is called the 'kiss of the upper lip'. When one of partner takes both the lips of the other between his or her, it is called 'a clasping kiss'. A woman, however, only takes this kind of kiss from a man who has no moustache. And on the occasion of this kiss, if one of them touches the teeth, the ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 86 Votes ,7.84 Score
rm_will5175 78 M
10  Articles
Sex,a real let down   4/21/2004

I, m a male, and i've been a member off and on for a few years.I put my ad in for meeting woman and It seems I get more hits from men then woman, what happened to woman, don't they want to meet men ?


1 Comments, 91 Views, 42 Votes ,5.24 Score
What is the problem???   4/21/2004

Most people on here are either trying to go from 0 to 20 in one chat session or 0 to .001 over the course of a year. What in the world is the problem?


2 Comments, 37 Views, 30 Votes ,6.08 Score
Chatroom   4/21/2004

You have a chatroom for "bbw" so why not have one for the big boys so that as to norrow the odds?


0 Comments, 6 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
song-5 73 F
1  Article
What's with the photos   4/21/2004

Today I was browsing thru the men seeking a woman in the 51-55 age range in Florida, and saw numerous pictures of men with another woman. Of course, most were showing their cock in the woman and none of the cocks had a condum on them. I am trying to figure out the rational in posting this type of picture on a profile, much less WHAT ABOUT SAFE SEX. I don't know about the rest of the ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 20 Votes ,6.83 Score
Maybe I'm beating a dead here..   4/20/2004

Okay..so, like I said..maybe I'm beating a dead here, but I've yet to get a satisfactory answer to quench my wonder. Exactly how does one go about bringing an older lady who thirsts for a young body out of her shell? I'm beginning to become a pessimist in that whole department. I know older ladies, granted not all, but more than a handful of them want a young guy, but I do believe I'm ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 40 Votes ,6.43 Score
tricks4treats2 54 F
5  Articles
Quest for the unusual.   4/20/2004

I want to meet a guy with a cock that is 3 inches long and 6 inches in diameter. Any ideas of where I can find one? BTW why do I sneeze each time a guy licks my ass? Is the ass connected to the nose somehow?


0 Comments, 165 Views, 17 Votes
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
Sexual stuff   4/20/2004

What is your favorite position? What is your favorite thing to do during foreplay? What does the opposite gender have to do to turn you on? What are the different activities you like to do during sex?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
RE: cheap sex   4/20/2004

RE: Cheap sex <br> my young friend you had better wake up and smell the roses.in a few years you will be wishing you had not passed up that "cheap sex" <br> It may interest you that girls are human too and at times all they want is a busy tongue and a hard cock playing with their pussy. No dinner, no flowers, no booze... just take me to bed and fuck me.. <br> ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 47 Votes ,7.88 Score
best sex in my life(yet embarrassing)   4/20/2004

ok picture this u r with the most totally fine ass guys u know even pretty good size and it is around 2 am the guy says wanna try something new u say sure. u and him enter a catholic church and head up too the balcony it gets hot and heavy having the best sex of ur life and the thought of getting caught turns u on. ur finishing up and the preist walks right into u. (never returned yet


0 Comments, 30 Views, 36 Votes
Well what do you think   4/19/2004

When will people realize that people are just that PEOPLE. We all make mistakes but usually feel that we are right, so mutch so that sometimes we will bend the truth to seam so. Sometimes I feel that we all just need to lose all of our preconseptions and inhabitions and just let go, but even with a place like this you still have to fight it


0 Comments, 3 Views, 35 Votes ,6.85 Score
Private Dancer   4/17/2004

Hi, my name is Jo and I luv to dress up in uniforms, sexy undies and high heels. I get really turned on by dancing, stripping, and teasing as much as possible, while my partner videos. We are members of Swapfinder.com as a couple and if u want to find out more about us then check out our profile at Bananababe2004. Looking for generous voyeurs to watch. <br> J & J


0 Comments, 10 Views, 27 Votes ,6.29 Score
Do women really like men coming over their face   4/17/2004

While it's always good to watch your partner come via masterbation as it's the best way to find out how they come from finger play, how do you women feel about a man coming in their mouth or over their face? It's a bit messy for them and women can't really do the same thing to men.


1 Comments, 12 Views, 25 Votes ,3.80 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
Clothing   4/17/2004

What is your favorite piece of clothing on a man or woman that turns you on and why?


0 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
Pictures   4/17/2004

What is up with people not putting their pics on here? Most people would pass them up. It is like a rule of thumb to test drive a car before you drive it.


0 Comments, 1 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
Love at first site.   4/17/2004

Is there such a thing? Who believes in it? Who doesnt think it exists? Any opinions?


0 Comments, 6 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
friendsfirst2004 59 M
83  Articles
men posing as women   4/17/2004

Hey anyone got a problem with T-whatevers? <br> I am looking for women, and several of my 5 star matches look great until you pull them up and look at the 2nd or 3rd photo. Then you see the fact that there is no vagina but a dick hanging limp. <br> same thing for the women posing as men... <br> I relayed these to Swapfinder.com CS - they are still on the site as women ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 67 Votes ,8.02 Score
friendsfirst2004 59 M
83  Articles
RE: once a cock tease   4/17/2004

Be glad that you didn't run into a porn or pay-per-view site yet. <br> That is a tease that you WILL PAY FOR!


0 Comments, 5 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
friendsfirst2004 59 M
83  Articles
If I like your handle I will check you out   4/16/2004

iwantu2nite, fkmenow, hotnhorny, wet4uritenow, 12incheswaiting..... <br> Please get real. At best you want to get to know the person, and are so picky that there is only one man in the world for you or you are a true slut, most likely you are a pay site link. Guys, if you ARE that great why aren't you doing pornos instead of posting here? <br> Then there are the lead ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 25 Votes ,8.00 Score
Oh Those Lurid Pictures   4/16/2004

Recently received an invite and series of personal photos from a fellow interested in hooking up. All the pictures were "dick pics" featuring various women impaled upon said dick. Now I'm no prude, but it baffles me why a guy would assume upon first contact that I would want to see four different women with whom he has had sex. I suspect he considers them his reference. My problem was less ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 93 Votes ,9.21 Score
Crossdressing?   4/15/2004

Where are the women who enjoy dressing their husbands an boyfriends and like to share them with other men and women?


0 Comments, 118 Views, 29 Votes ,2.14 Score
friendsfirst2004 59 M
83  Articles
RE: I am not a SLUT!!!   4/15/2004

I agree, whole heartedly. If you get to know someone first, and actually say "NO" to people, you are not a slut. <br> I have had somewhere between 40 and 50 women in my life, I have turned down people. Many times, though who you thought was right turns into a wrong choice. Some things you find out almost immeadeately, others you discover later on, If you are not compatable, ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 57 Votes ,7.77 Score
rm_desertfox66 54 M
1  Article
It's a meat market in here!   4/14/2004

I've just gone through a large number of questions and comments and there are a few things that I believe that I have figgured out. First off, the dating scene is the dating scene. I've sent numerous winks and emails, and have received 30% mixed responses. That's pretty good I think. I don't get hung up on the fact that a woman "neglects" to respond. She's not being rude, she's just ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 45 Votes ,8.12 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
..."showered"...   4/14/2004

omy, that is awful . Especially because you soon will get to hear that you never minded before or something like that .If he says that it never bothered you before just say that it does now and it would be a big favour if he could try to meet you somewhere in the middle .Good luck .I just hope that you won't hear the normal phrases all the time .You really need a friend close to you who ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 53 Votes ,5.27 Score
DrCristoff 44 M
3  Articles
Swapfinder.com instant messenger   4/14/2004

It has happened more than once that someone will approach me on IM and start talking. We'll be going for a little while and then in the middle of conversation they leave the room. Now I know what you're thinking, that they just decided I wasn't what they were looking for and left. Thay may be it, but I mean the other person might seem to be really into it and then just up and leave, I was ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 14 Votes ,6.82 Score
rm_mga_69 54 M
4  Articles
Once a cock tease always a cock tease. Fits for many women here   4/13/2004

How many times have you guys responded to a profile, you fit their criteria perfectly and you never here from them? My guess would be quite often. I am in very good shape, very athletic, been told very good looking and a pretty good package. I respond to profiles looking for just that, even sending contact info and I never here from them. Why? Because, Once a cock tease, Always a cock ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 43 Votes ,6.64 Score
rm_mga_69 54 M
4  Articles
Suggestion   4/13/2004

There are many single men and women claiming to want group sex or get togethers with couples. These people should get together, even if you're not interested in the person, and try to arrange meetings with couples you do want to be with. Hell, whats the worst that could happen, a good time, new friends? Sounds pretty good to me.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 17 Votes ,5.67 Score
rm_mga_69 54 M
4  Articles
Take your "no sex wanted " adds to eharmony   4/13/2004

Look at the top of this page. What does it say? "The Worlds Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site". Helloooo, get a clue. If you want love and romance go to eharmony. Your adds just take up bandwidth. And to think you can't find the love of your life.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 38 Votes ,7.55 Score
what is it about people who cum to Swapfinder.com that are prudes   4/13/2004

you know im finding more and more that there are people who come to Swapfinder.com , but, not into the clean room , and then they have the nerve to be judgemental about what people are doing on this sight , for instance judging someone a slut for having sex, in a room or for being married and on here playing but , not as a couple . people grow up, if you enter the adult world of erotica what do you ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 35 Votes ,8.79 Score
checking out the profiles   4/13/2004

guys i know that you are stimulated mostly by sight , but , if your gonna check on a womens profile , READ it , to know what see is looking for , and don't beg if its not you.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 34 Votes ,7.01 Score
One Nite Stands   4/13/2004

ok this has happened to me twice in my whole 27 years....how are u supposed to act when the guy doesnt go home till the next morning!? i jsut get all what the heck am i supposed to do.....HELP!


0 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_funwithfems 57 F
7  Articles
thick or thin   4/13/2004

people are always giving numbers of what is considered a long penis, but what is considered a thin and average and a thick measuremant of a penis?


0 Comments, 31 Views, 34 Votes ,6.21 Score
rm_Okay4Greek 49 M
1  Article
What determines "a desirable man" to a woman?   4/12/2004

I am 30 years old, own a large house in a good neighnorhood, have a big dick, know several sexual techniques, am a very nice guy, am very likable, and MANY other great qualities. BUT... I have some handicaps. I have trouble walking (so use a walker) and my speech is sometimes slurred. <br> Why is my desirability ZERO?


0 Comments, 22 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Pop Rocks   4/12/2004

Pop rocks do work wonders!!!!!!!!!!! I used to use them while giving a guy a blow job. In California I found them at small covenience stores, or at Von's. Haven't seen any since moving out of California though.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Follow your lawyer's directions........   4/11/2004

I'm working in Manila trying to launch a new business and, even with the help of a topnotch law firm, it's difficult. Late one after noon I was working in a conference room with a female lawyer in her early 40's, not very sexy but sensuous (large breasts). <br> She noticed I was admiring her ass every time she leaned over the conference table to organaize documents. After most ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 97 Votes ,7.15 Score
The more effective morning work out.......   4/11/2004

Most mornings I work out in my condominium's gym before going to work and that requires me to get a key from a beautiful Indian woman at the front desk in the lobby. Her name is Lili and she has luscious lips (into which I yearn to insert my hard cock), gorgeous breasts (which I need to devour) and a really big ass (into which I want to push both my mouth and cock). <br> I've ...


0 Comments, 108 Views, 91 Votes ,6.04 Score
rm_andrew2276 40 M
1  Article
My wife and I   4/11/2004

My wife and I have been talking about tring new things. She tells me that she would like to be with a nother women. She does not whant me to take part in this but she does whant me there.I can steal get here off and I know that she is not faking it. I would love any help any body would like to give me. Thanks for your time.


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Em_Blue 47 M
2  Articles
Razor Of Lust - A Unique Take on Body Shaving   4/11/2004

The warm blade slides over my skin. Patchouli wafts up in the steam, making my nostrils flare. I'm hot. I feel like I'm getting sexy and clean. I wonder if my date will notice, or comment, or care. It doesn't matter. I shave for them, but really hairless skin is my desire. <br> It began more than 10 years ago in a dorm shower. I was experimenting. Hairless armpits. Smooth ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 10 Votes ,0.80 Score
rm_beamer47 68 M
9  Articles
pop rocks   4/10/2004

we used to us pop rocks, i1d get my cock wet and cover it with pop rocks then fuck. it drove the ladys wild. now where can i get pop rocks again, i cant find them anywhere


0 Comments, 10 Views, 47 Votes ,5.77 Score
re: longest time being eaten out   4/10/2004

I have had the experience of being eaten out for almost 4 hours. I to am a squirter, and my man wanted to see how long he could do this before i stopped squirting. He basically wanted to see if he could dry me out. It did happen at almost 4 hours. He only accomplished this the one time and no one else ever got that far.


0 Comments, 30 Views, 26 Votes ,6.69 Score
re: who fakes orgasms   4/10/2004

Just wanted to reply to your message. I am one of the fortunate ones that cums very easily. I would not worry about ur husband leaving u for someone that would cum easier than you. Me and my hubby had a 3some and he ended up leaving me for her, it wasnt for her cumming easily ability. It took at least an hour to get her off all the time, whether it was me or him doing it. She admitted she ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
snowmanhot 91 M
31  Articles
Length   4/10/2004

Have often seen references to length -as not important or a explained as a male fetish. One use where length is important is enjoying unusual positions with a women´s legs closed, from either the front or the rear - length helps to reach where it will feel the greatest for you gals.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 43 Votes ,7.47 Score
Re to: "Wake up single guys..."   4/10/2004

First of all you should have backspaced and placed your article in the proper section. Secondly, you are so living in a dream world! You're talking about "permission", "referrals" and "values", etc. etc. Blah, blah, blah... This is a SEX site! People are here to get laid, not to have to listen to someone as if they are married to them! It's not my fault you gave your phone number to an ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
snowmanhot 91 M
31  Articles
RE:Do You think it is O.K. to sleep......   4/9/2004

It must all depend on the chemistry that occuirs between the two of you a to when or if you will have sex -make love as you are looking for the perfect mate. As to how you find such a person will depend on how many you look at on the way, you keep looking until you find one that you find that you cannot live without - then wait for 6 months and if you still have this feeling, you have ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
Longest time being eaten out   4/9/2004

I just wondered what's the longest period of time you've eaten out a sweet, juicy pussy, especially w/a woman who squirts! In my own experience, several years ago, I had the opportunity/experience to have a man go down on me for about two hours! It was one of the most exhiliarating experiences and the only reason he stopped was because I was getting a leg cramp! (smile) I just kept ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 28 Votes ,7.04 Score
Why do some people just don't get it?   4/8/2004

Why don't some people understand that when we have clear specifications in the profile, it really means something. Age below 39 means you must be 39 or less. Not 40, not 43, not 45. We sometimes will make exceptions but that's when we are interested in them, not the other way around. They just have to understand that.


0 Comments, 22 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
jbiglord 35 M
3  Articles
Are the Swapfinder.com parties really popular, and whose attending   4/8/2004

I am curious about attending an Swapfinder.com gathering, but don't know exactly what to expect. How's the atmosphere, the people, and whats expected once you get there.


0 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
tricks4treats2 54 F
5  Articles
Re:Network friends without photos   4/8/2004

I am one of the people who is guilty of not posting pics on Swapfinder.com. I would suggest that you read the "terms of use" policy of Swapfinder.com specifically the "5. Content Posted on the Site/CDA:" section. After reading this I decided that I would never post a pic of myself on any FriendFinder site. If you're comfortable with posting your pics after reading that I will be glad to check them out as I am ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 38 Votes ,7.64 Score
RE to: "Fur"   4/7/2004

Turned on by fur? You are very young and through no fault of your own, apparently oblivious to what humans do to animals in order to make themselves feel important, show their superficial social status or ignorantly flaunt money they can waste. That's not your fault. We were all taught that people who wore fur were in a better class and that animals were put here for us to do with what we ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
INbangers 77 G
2  Articles
RE: Network section   4/7/2004

My take on the network section is that it is for the member to keep a list of their friends and have a convenient way to contact them. Although Swapfinder.com has taken away that part of the section and replaced it with the 'bulletin'. I miss the ease of mailing my network to update them. Whether someone wants every Tom, Dick & Harry seeing who they hook up with is their personal choice. Not for ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 29 Votes ,6.45 Score
mrlooove 52 M
1  Article
WHY   4/6/2004

Why do most ladies on this site join your network, only to egnor your mail and any attempt to chat to them.Can some one please explain this to me.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
welshy1966 56 M
2  Articles
how can you get 300 points by voting 10 times   4/6/2004

on the points page it says vote on an article max 10 times to earn 300 points..yet it also says theat each vote is only worth 20 points each...is there a trick to this.is it a printing error or am i just thick? lol


0 Comments, 2 Views, 68 Votes ,7.59 Score
tough meeting.....   4/6/2004

I am not sure what your saying in your replys or to your emails to your prospective women. From experience, I can say that I have had alot of luck on this site, and believe me, I am not paid to say that nor do I have any affliation with Swapfinder.com. I am a married man from southern california, who has a fairly simple profile on Swapfinder.com. I am a standard member, but at one time was silver. In terms ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
rm_johnbig7 60 M
11  Articles
members beware of this scam   4/6/2004

Up until some time ago Swapfinder.com had as an extra, a link to worldsex.com on its homepage. May I warn all members not to visit this site. It is part of an internet phone dialer fraud. When you log on to this site you are asked if you want to join this site which charges a premium rate. Even if you click no it still registers on your computer. Without you knowing everytime you log on ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 37 Votes ,8.91 Score
Shapely423542 60 F
10  Articles
Men responding to other men pretending to be a woman.   4/6/2004

Do men actually get alot of responses to their ad's from other men who pretend to be females? I ask this because of the sheer fact that alot of men, especially very good looking ones, seem to ask for much more than I am comfortable with in terms of showing myself online. Alot of times there is an inference made that 'I must be a guy if I don't wanna show my pussy' or my face. I use ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
JT0470 80 M
5  Articles
whats up with these women   4/6/2004

I have been on Swapfinder.com for over one year and so far I have detected that when you get someone to email you back my own age they are just playing games on there computer. I have been stood up three times and arranged a meeting with two women who sent me a picture which showed them 100 lbs lighter and much younger looking. WHATS UP WITH THIS!!!!! I would like to ask you ladies if you might ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 25 Votes ,7.89 Score
The Ex Factor   4/5/2004

You know its wrong. She cheated on you. Bitch. She went behind your back, and got with him, and lied to your face. She's no good for you, think about what you've got now, a nice loving girl, it's wrong. So why do i keep wanting her? Yeah she was pretty fit, but she wasnt anything special. It wasn't like we had an intense spiritual connection or anything like that. I didn't even ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 28 Votes ,7.66 Score
Fur   4/4/2004

Does anyone else get really turned on by fur, also are younger guy - older women as good as people say they are, i'm 19 and am interested in having a relationship with an older woman.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
lonewolf557 53 M
13  Articles
nylons   4/4/2004

My question is to all the women what type of nylons do they prefer to wear control top , thigh highs , garter belts, or crochless panty hose. As a man I preder I women either in garter belts, thigh, highs or crotchless panty hose but any type of nylons really turns me on.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
BiLadypleez 45 F
4  Articles
profiles   4/4/2004

Everyone including standard members should be allowed to view the whole profile of anyone who winks/emails/ or contacts them in any way! Also, Swapfinder.com should make a subheading untder magazine for BITCHES or SUGGESTIONS to Swapfinder.com! thank u.


1 Comments, 29 Views, 43 Votes ,8.30 Score
rm_SlackHard 44 M
1  Article
RE: No more Cock pics!   4/3/2004

This has been up and down the board, from what I've read here, and I have to admit, I'm guilty of having a picture of my unit on my profile. It's safer. There's no identity shown, and it (if done right) gives a general idea of body-type, complexion, and things like that. <br> That being said, has anyone else noticed the irony of women complaining about pictures of cocks all over ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 44 Votes ,8.06 Score
sultrymistress 62 F
3  Articles
Tour guide   4/3/2004

I'm presently in Newport Beach Ca and looking for someone to show me around to all the fun hot and sexy spots. <br> Sultrymistress


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
Do you thing it is ok to sleep with a guy right after you meet them   4/3/2004

Is it ok to sleep with a man right after you meet him and do you think someone is a slut if they have sleep with over 5 diffrent people in 2 months time? Tell me what you think ? I just got Divorced three months ago and now i am single. I want to find a person that wants to be with me for who i am. Tell me how to find the right man?


0 Comments, 18 Views, 14 Votes ,6.66 Score
where are they ?   4/3/2004

I know there are lots of older ladies out there that are deprived of sexual fun. what I cannot understand is why are they not interested in an older gent. I am not as good as I was 25 or 30 years ago but still very able to please a sexy lady. <br> so come on you older gals (any age actually) speak up and lets have some fun.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 21 Votes ,6.34 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Why dont you want to try black?   4/2/2004

Your right, there are caring, genuine black men not only on this site but out in the rest of the real world too, there are men like that in every race. You ask why women dont want to try "black", some do, some don't. Some women like myself just aren't sexually attracted to a black man. I can and do have black fiiends, just not sexually. Not only do I have black friends, I am also dating a ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
Older Men   4/2/2004

Hello My husband and I have been having a little bit of trouble finding a couple to have fun with. We have been looking and looking. On most profiles there is a problem with his age. He is 50 and I am 25. People just don't realize that even though a man or woman is old that doesn't mean that they are dead. They still crave sex. My husband is the best that I have ever had. I have been active ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 39 Votes ,8.94 Score
kittysosweet 54 F
6  Articles
Please Shower!!!! Personal Hygiene is a Must!   4/2/2004

I went out on a date with this and thought I was gonna puke! What the hell is wrong with some of these people, he really stunk so damn bad! I myself was so embarassed for him, you know I was sickened and just totally shocked, he was very funky! His feet were funking up the whole room, I thought my house plants were gonna die! No kidding No Bullshit! Guys please keep up on your personal ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 48 Votes ,9.40 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: I dont think Swapfinder.com is genuine   4/2/2004

Sorry you feel this way, but my experience has been very different. I first came to this site 2 days ago, since then I have recieved approx. 15 first responses, that yes I have tried to answer as quickly as I could. I even got 2nd and 3rd responses from some of these people. You think that this site is out to make $$$$, thats not real big news, most sites on the net, are there to make ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: What is a Standard Membership good for?   4/2/2004

You do have a good point, in giving the 10 or so free contacts to see if this site is really going to work for you. The chances of a silver or gold member contacting a standard I think is the same as any other they may contact. Some will respond to those ads that pique their interest, while others will respond to ads that have pics. Whether your a standard, gold or silver member doesnt ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 12 Votes ,6.33 Score
rm_tagmein 56 M
6  Articles
Much appreciation for the Customer Service of Swapfinder.com!   4/1/2004

Since being on this site, I must say I've enjoyed the response I've been generally getting. Most people on here are sincere, responsive and friendly. Especially in giving a newcomer, like myself, good advice on navigating my searches to find new friends and lovers! And when I had problems getting on the site, losing passwords/handles, a quick email or two to the service department, ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
HyperTim1265 48 M
1  Article
Female Pubic Hair Designs: Shapes, Trimmed or Shaved   4/1/2004

I am Curious? Has your partner ever offered to design their pubic hair to a shape, such as a Heart, Lightening bolt, V, something else? <br> Have they done this as a surprise or gift on a special occasion? Did they trim the area from a natural state to a stripe or completely remove all of the hair? Did you enjoy it? Or Hate it? <br> Reason I ask is that I ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 52 Votes ,9.06 Score
do many lesbains   4/1/2004

i am tired have to filter through the lesbains on this website! i think the lesbian need to have there place in this websie. They need to say off the woman part of it! i have to go through 60 names before i can find one that wants to date a man! What do you like about this?


0 Comments, 12 Views, 28 Votes ,4.99 Score
Is anyone really out there?   4/1/2004

I have sent emails, sent invitations to join my network, and sent winks to various other members and have yet to receive any responses. What's up??? Are there any real people out there or are all of the woman's profiles just made up? What could I do differently to get responses?


0 Comments, 1 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
RE: Married Men   3/31/2004

Well, as for me, my wife has always been less interested in sex than I have. And, over the years, I've tried talking to my wife about having more sex. I've done all the things that would help, like doing laundry, dishes, helping around the house and the . But, still, we only get together about twice a month. I buy lingerie, no luck. I buy toys, and make time, no luck. And now, she has ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
married people   3/31/2004

Married people are human beings also. When they first meet there mate there is a splendid affair and as time goes on the one or other changes in a ever changing world.When it is the wife that no longer needs sex the husband has no outlet for his sexual desires and they are real. Married people are going to fulfill there needs like everyone else does.So try a married man or woman you will ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
Is there any descent women left out there ?????????????   3/31/2004

I just have to ask. Are there and descent women left out there? When I join this site it was with the hopes that there were. What I've gotten for responses, with very few exceptions, are nothing more than a bunch of women, who are using this site to advertise for their personal webpages or some other pronographic site. If that is what I had wanted. I guess I could have found that on my own. ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_one4fun34 68 M
3  Articles
tough meeting   3/31/2004

I've chatted with a few people on the site and have tried to meet a couple of times but haven't had alot of good luck. I've only actually met some one once and unfortunately we weren't compatable. I've been given fake phone numbers and had a couple of no shows. I don't get it. If you are here to find someone I would think that you would at least follow up even if it's to say no.can't ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_one4fun34 68 M
3  Articles
first meeting   3/31/2004

How do you all handle first meetings? I'm kind of nervous, It may sound funny coming from a guy but I am. I'd think it would be even worse for women. Have most of your meetings worked out? I only managed to meet one person so far on this site and we just did't click. I have to believe that there are others out there who are serious about this. Do others have similar problems or am I doing ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_FullFigure1 68 F
11  Articles
Re: WHY???   3/31/2004

To some people, sex is a very important -- if not THE MOST important part of a relationship. So, in order to find a sexually compatible mate, what more perfect place to look than a sexual site? We all know that sex isn't the only thing there is to a relationship, but you have to admit ... it's a damn good start!!


0 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_a1funcpl69 60 C
2  Articles
re: married men [reply to anna]   3/31/2004

a few things to say about your reply: <br> 1. sex 'on the side' is not a violation of the COMMITMENT. Sometimes it makes a relationship better to have someone else on the side to fulfill a certain desire. or do you really think you should immediately leave your partner if you're sexually frustrated? <br> 2. Respect: I do respect my wife a lot more since she said that ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
Re: Married Men   3/30/2004

In response to why I would not be with the married man. My response is that if I wanted a cheating husband I would not have divorced mine. Usually once they cheat they will always cheat. If he does end up leaving her he will cheat on the next girl too.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
lovethempuffy 63 M
5  Articles
Puffy nipples--how rare are they really?   3/30/2004

As you can see from my name, I am particularly attracted to women with puffy nipples. General photo surfing turns them up very few and far between. Are they really that rare in the general female population? Or are women who have them more prone to be shy about it for some reason? Does anyone know if they are more common among certain nationalities, or areas of the world? All opinions and ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 17 Votes ,4.82 Score
CptJohnson 45 M
2  Articles
To all Swapfinder.com members.   3/29/2004

I'd like to start by saying that I've have success on this website meeting 2 fine girls who I see on casual basis. Its been lots and lots of fun and I plan to continue to use this site. <br> Im going to bring up a topic that I've seen on some of the messages, and I'd like to throw in my 6 cents. <br> I've contacted lots of females, and I've had females contact me. ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 39 Votes ,8.53 Score
rm_outthere268 56 F
2  Articles
she wanted her   3/28/2004

I told her - i told her once - i told her twice - a women's pusssy would would pleas her. <br> She didn't beleive me until kate came. kate was 30 - well built - pretty brown hair , brown eyes. Hot <br> <br> I wanted her. She worked and her sweat gstened. Her ass was rock hard and I fantasized about my cockenetrating deep inside he I got off every day ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
My answer to the article "WOMEN"   3/28/2004

My view point on telling a guy what i like during sex goes like this, ,, ,If i told everyone to do the same thing, why not just be with the same man..I want to explore new and more interesting habits with men...its amazing how the personality tells you so much about the way they are in bed. So guys don't always ask what she wants you to do ...use your imagination....


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
GrapeNuts 60 M
2  Articles
Redeeming Points   3/28/2004

I would like to know if (we) as Gold and Silver members redeem our points to apply it to having Standard members contact us? We can redeem them for extended Silver and Gold memberships and highlight profiles, so why not Standard Member to view Gold and Silver Members.


0 Comments, 161 Views, 34 Votes ,8.72 Score
No more wasted money Here!!!!!!   3/27/2004

This site is suck's ." There are nothing but cyberwomen on this site, who have no intention of ever getting together with anybody"!


0 Comments, 5 Views, 16 Votes ,5.77 Score
BiLadypleez 45 F
4  Articles
RE:BITTING IS IT CRAZY OR IS IT JUST ME?   3/27/2004

I don't think that bitting it crazy except when u draw blood! That is rediculious! Bitting is a turn on to me. I enjoy the back of my neck bit but no blood! I also enjoy nibbling...but NOT into pain! Perhaps you got urself mixed up in a bad situation. Perhaps next time u get with someone, find out what their likes/dislikes are before u go to have sex with them...Believe it or not, some ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_justme042265 59 M
1  Article
fake swingers there everywhere   3/27/2004

I have recently noticed on this site and others like it that when it comes to swinging the men seemed threated by another single male wanting to join them. yes i know what your thinking ...and for the most part it is true. there are a lot of jerks out there but there are also a lot of nice guys just wanting to be a part of something it's not like we want to marry your women we just want ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
blasterh2o 36 C
4  Articles
is it better for a guy or girl?   3/26/2004

we all know when a girl cums it feels better you can tell by the way the get(screaming, scratching biting, shit like that)But i found out how to tell if a girl having a cock in her feels better then a guy having his cock in some pussy................................... <br> <br> put your finger in your ear................. <br> do you feel the inside of your ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 111 Votes ,0.45 Score
MEET ONLINE MEMBERS NOW!   3/25/2004

Hello-This message is for all members whether you are a gold, silver or standard member. Help yourself out. Swapfinder.com is here to help you find what you are looking for. When you first log into Swapfinder.com do yourself a favor and activate the instant messaging system. No matter what grade of member you are you can be contacted or contact others right there right now. Very easy. Also Swapfinder.com has this great ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 23 Votes ,7.68 Score
Making Frozen Popsicles Can Fire Up a Partner's Lust!   3/25/2004

Years ago I wanted to give my lady a gift–a kind of friendly shock just to add some spontaneity to our lovemaking. I was living in California’s High Desert, where it can get pretty toasty in the summer time. <br> And that’s when I got the idea of giving her a “frozen popsicle.” <br> We had just followed up an hour of foreplay, during ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 72 Votes ,8.90 Score
For the Women   3/25/2004

I have been on this site for almost one year, and I have noticed many women here do not post their real photos. I know this because I have seen those same photos elsewhere on the internet, or astoundingly, used by other women on the site! Women, please either post photos with your own looks or tell the person you will send them a photo - and a recent photo at that. Please be honest! ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 14 Votes ,6.82 Score
rm_johnbig7 60 M
11  Articles
I am confused? Can someone answer this question for me?   3/24/2004

I am confused and somewhat perplexed. Could someone answer this question for me? When one uses the search aspect of this site to find suitable women, why o why is it that a good 50% of the women, whoose profile is sent back to you have not logged on for a good 3 years. Surely it is not rocket science to work out that if they have not logged onto this site for three years, then surely, they ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 65 Votes ,9.92 Score
Re: A second come   3/24/2004

Being young, and a woman, you should have no phsyical problem having multiple orgasms. All the time in fact. The only thing preventing you from reaching your goal is either your lovers, or you. Sex is mostly in the mind, and the body follows. Most women are immediately ready for round two after they cum. Have you tried masturbating, or learning about your G-spot? You really have to know ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 36 Votes ,8.85 Score
Are there any REAL women on here?   3/24/2004

I am wondering if there are any real women on here because it seems everyone I email sends me to a website.


0 Comments, 1 Views, 18 Votes ,6.94 Score
Hotnhornycpl694 59 C
1  Article
BITTING IS IT CRAZY OR IS IT JUST ME?   3/24/2004

WELL WE MET A COUPLE A FEW WEEKS AGO aT A MEET IN GREET IN OUR TOWN AND I THOUGHT SHE WAS GOING TO BE REALY FUN... I ADMETT WE ALL DRANK ALOT AND MAYBE TOO MUCH BUT THIS BITCH STARTED BY BITING THE BACK OF MY NECK SOOOO BAD IT DREW BLOOD... YES DREW BLOOD !!! WELL I THOUGHT MAYBE IT WAS AN ACCIDENT BUT THEN SHE BIT THE TOP OF MY PUSSY SO HARD THAT IT ALLSO DREW BLOOD, ,, ,, AFTER THET I ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 41 Votes ,8.33 Score
Re shaved pussy!!   3/23/2004

I am the oppisite I love it when a man shaves me and we shower and he eats me afterwards I think it is a turn on not a turn off!!!!!!!


0 Comments, 14 Views, 203 Votes ,9.12 Score
Re :Why do Fat girls say they have an average body type   3/23/2004

Well I am a BBW or(fatgirl what ever you chose to call it ) and not at all unhealthy or unattractive.........I have been slim and had more men approach me now then when I weighed less.......so if you dont like bigger woman fine then go for what you like, but dont put anyone down because of weight or what they look like, that shows you have problems with in you .......leave us "big" girls to ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 23 Votes ,7.33 Score
Young guy Older woman.   3/23/2004

I've been traceing all articles Older v Young. And I agree with soldier369. It's true, Older ladies should at least let us know, it's good we trying to contact them. So Please Ladies send at least a wink or thanks. Mike1978oct18


0 Comments, 20 Views, 122 Votes ,8.71 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
Polite!(NY man)   3/22/2004

Amen! That is exactly what I try to say all the time .One more sentence doesn't hurt .And I am so glad that a lot of men and women here speak up and say it too:We aren't just profiles , there are souls and people worth treating nice at the other end .And now I just found myself in the splendid situation to perhaps having to hurt a few because my list of friends(network?) just is ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
rm_panamanian2 37 M
1  Article
No Women   3/21/2004

It is hard to get a woman here. What attracted me to this site was the amount of women I saw in my are when I performed a search. But a majority of them are outdated. And alot of them our fake fronst for some porn website that they will spam you with once the have your email address


0 Comments, 25 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
GETTING QUEER WITH CARLA part 1   3/20/2004

HAVING TAKEN THREE DIFFERENT COCKS ON OR IN MY MOUTH BETWEEN REACHING PUBERTY AND GRADUATING COLLEGE, I GUESS YOU COULD SAY I WAS A BIT BI-SEXUAL WHEN I MET, COURTED AND MARRIED JOAN. OF COURSE I WAS CLOSETED AND CONSIDERED MYSELF CURED SINCE THREE FULL YEARS HAD PASSED SINCE I HAD BRIEFLY AND DRUNKINGLY SUCKED A LITTLE BIT ON THE VERY LAST ONE RIGHT IN MY COLLEGE DORM ROOM. WHILE JOAN ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 28 Votes ,7.55 Score
rm_babystrange 43 M
1  Article
Gallery -> Hotlist   3/20/2004

I quite often surf the new member galleries. However, when I see a woman who grabs my attention for whatever reason I have to go through the long winded process of browsing for her so that I can wink. Personally I think that this system would be far neater if we could wink or add to hotlist any one we see whether we're browsing, looking at new member galleries or whatever. Any thoughts on ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
A Little Bird   3/20/2004

If you had to choose an animal that you'd like to be, what would you choose? I would choose to be a little bird. Here is my story. <br> I am a bird. What kind does not matter. I was sad...heartbroken. I was flying mindlessly. I was crying...my tears falling to the earth like rain. He came along. Flying circles around me...happy...teasing me. He finally noticed that I wasn't ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
help... this site just isn't working   3/19/2004

I am having no luck what so ever at this. Any advice? I use the chat rooms and have a premium membership and use it to send out mail but no one responds.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 25 Votes ,7.89 Score
Moved from one state to another   3/19/2004

I have neen a member with adult for quite a few years now..but within the last year moved states. I had plenty of luck in my old state but the ladies in my new state don't want to meet in person. All they want to do is chat. I have been up here for 6 monthes now and have seen no action. I do not understand this...how can the ladies in different areas be so different?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
Im not that kind of girl, yeah right!   3/19/2004

why is it that most women will come on to you and blatantly flirt with you, even if you are with someone else? <br> then when you approach them and respond to their flirting, she says something along the lines of, " i am not that kind of girl, what do you take me for" <br> it seems women want every man to be interested in them, until they are, then it's "next"


0 Comments, 4 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
RE: Freaks   3/18/2004

You're asking guys to play nice... <br> I've played nice for a month now, and got a grand total of ONE wink. <br> It seems like here at Swapfinder.com, Nice Guys DO finish last.


0 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_kc_wildfire 52 M
2  Articles
Anyone Know Of Any Good On-Line Sites To Buy XXX DVDs?   3/18/2004

I have found one or two decent sites but I'm looking for a site that handles a lot of bi-sexual (mmf) videos to purchase. Any help would be appreciated. <br> Thanks


0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
rm_kc_wildfire 52 M
2  Articles
Curious About Shaving   3/18/2004

I have been wanting to shave the area around my crotch and also my balls for a while now. I finally shaved everything except for the balls and I was wondering what the best way to do that was? Razor? Nair? Or what? <br> Thanks for the help.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
dynamut 45 C
3  Articles
pics   3/18/2004

How come just about every profile i look at with a pic or two on it, has no face shots? Its kinda disappointing, I mean what would you have me look for an attractive looking person or a trimmed bush or a rock hard cock? Please include a face shot as well as the nude body shots, you may actually get somewhere faster.


0 Comments, 29 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Older Women   3/16/2004

I was married to a older woman for 21 year's.She was 23 year's older than I.She had 3 's 1, 2 year's older than I 1 a year younger and the youngest 9 year's younger.She taught me a few thing's and was supprised I knew what I did to be so young.Our first night together was in my car, and you talk about leather burn's we both had them.From 1:00 am to after sun up we went at it like there was ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 10 Votes ,6.17 Score
LAS VEGAS   3/16/2004

I am Michael, 41 and fit and fun. I am coming to vegas may 11th thru the 14th. Looking to join fun with a couple or group. straight man i am with a sense of humor & wit. please drop me a line after reviewing my profile and lets have fun! <br> michael


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
Email Replys, Help Ladies, Help   3/16/2004

I have been a member (gold/with picture for some time now and have sent in excess of 100 emails to ladies that match my needs. (I will not waste my time nor her time replying to profiles that do not seem to jibe with my status or what I am looking for). Ladies, is there something wrong with my profile, picture, or anything else? I realize most of you probable receive in excess of 100 ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
passion4lifetoo 56 F
2  Articles
The changes are ridiculous   3/16/2004

I have been with Swapfinder.com for over a year now, and when I first joined this site, it was easy to view profile's. Now you have to give your left arm to be able to view a profile. I won't even go into what it takes to be able to contact a member. <br> Now, if you want to have a standard member contact you, they still have to pay? As soon as my membership expires, trust me when I ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_Niceguy1289 41 M
1  Article
I think this site does not work   3/16/2004

i have emailed a number of people to just start emailing each other. I am not a scumbag who sends, "fuck me" as an email. i just would like to start to know a person. I have emailed about 20 people and i have not even got a response from any of them. At least people could do is is email me back saying not intrested. i think this site just promotes, go out and get laid, but how do you meet ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Blowjob by sis in law to elevate my mood   3/16/2004

We lost the cricket match to Pak yesterday. I was dejected. It was a day night match. After the match I could not sleep. Realizing that I was down my sis in law came to my bed room yesterday. She took the whole of my cock and took it fully in her mouth. She licked it like an ice cream. She kept licking till I came. She sucked all my cum. That was the best blow job I had experienced for a ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
RE to: FREAKS   3/16/2004

My dear 'imtohot4u', if you weren't so "bored" and thus boring and treated your profile seriously by filling it all in and with correct replies without 'joking' that your bra size is intentially incorrect, maybe, just maybe, you'd get some decent responses!!! 'Truthfully' yours, NeptunePark


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Oral only   3/15/2004

As we age we start losing our ability to stay erect for a long time. After the second orgasm we are fairly well wiped out. My question is... are there many women out there who would enjoy 2 or 3 hours of oral only. Having a tongue move from her neck to her breasts, then her pussy and anus, and then start all over again. I love giving oral to a sexy lady and can go on for hours as feeling ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
dtownromancer 57 M
2  Articles
Males and their Handles   3/13/2004

Now that I've addressed the women, I need to know how come there are soo many giys walking around Swapfinder.com with these feminine handles. It becomes very annoyig when you're in a room and some guy pops in with a feminie handle. Fellows, come on let's not walk around being called candy cane. Let's be a true man pic soe


0 Comments, 8 Views, 103 Votes ,7.62 Score
Be polite!!!!   3/13/2004

In this high tech world we live in, it becomes to easy to forget that there are people on the other end of the profiles we are viewing. With a certain amount of anonymity involved people start acting in ways that they would never think of acting in a public setting or when meeting a person face to face. There is nothing wrong with saying "I'm sorry, but I'm not intrested". Polite, simple ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 27 Votes ,8.29 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
You already answered it (Gold-silver-woodclass,who cares...)   3/13/2004

Yes , it is embarrassing but I am sitting here without being forced to type and yet... You brought up the facts that you would be allowed to type a certain (huge) amount of words in a minute , which would mean a rapid speed , severe spelling problems and noway to use that reasonable anyway , did I get that right?Right!I am one of those who wouldn't even have gotten a lifeweste on the ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 17 Votes ,0.16 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
Hi ,devious husband and thank you   3/13/2004

I was already on my way but am happy now that I am warned .If someone wrote something that makes you sit down and , wow that article must have been annoying to you, writes it down like that..omy.I would like to know what kind of a job it is your doing because if it is with others they should say thanks for being a great coworker .Actually you are a pretty lucky man .And I won't stop you ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 18 Votes ,4.49 Score
Tired of Fake Accounts?   3/13/2004

I just became a silver member, then finally got up the nerve to email someone I felt I was compatible with and low and behold, I received a reply! My heart was pounding as I read the email anxiously to see what the person had to say. She included a link to a picture of her to refresh my memory of what she looked like. I clicked on the link and it took me to a paysite with several click ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 177 Votes ,9.76 Score
Why do Fat girls say they have an average body type?   3/13/2004

What is up with Fat girls saying their body is average? If you are fat or overweight say so. If you want an average, slim, or fit body get off your ass and do something about it. Let's be honest big might be beautiful, but Fat is nasty and Unhealthy.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 50 Votes ,2.56 Score
Laser1213 44 M
1  Article
Anyone have any success?   3/13/2004

I have been on here off and on for a couple years now. I have not been successful in finding anyone from around my area interested. I was just wondering if other people have the same problems.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
Shapely423542 60 F
10  Articles
Appearance On-line Is she Manly????   3/13/2004

Why would any man respond to a woman, while having a video conversation with her, that he thought she was a man? I'm one to always make sure that anyone I do this with has tons of current photos of me, both full body and face. I usually even make it a point of sending a nice sexy voice conversation. Yet, I have recently had someone accuse me of being a male impersonator. This, after I ...


1 Comments, 28 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Shapely423542 60 F
10  Articles
How about REVIEWS?   3/13/2004

I think that there should be a section where we can review each other. Granted, there may be alot of untruths there but I would personally pay very good money to know if a sum of women hooked up with any one man and they all said, he was a liar and a jerk. Likewise, the guys could say, well she sucked in bed, she's much larger than appears on photos, whatever. I think Swapfinder.com should think ...


1 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Where the woman at?   3/12/2004

This whole thing seems like a big sausage fest.....most of the chat rooms have ten guys for every one lady....whats up with that.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
SXXYBlonde4U2 63,1953 C
2  Articles
Why not try a couple?   3/12/2004

If you have never been in group sex or with a couple, then maybe you should try it before you condemn other people for doing it! We are all here to meet people and try and spice up our own personal sex lives, so if you dont like hat someone else does or is looking or then why dont you simply say thatyou are not interstd rather than be rude and say nasty things to them? We all have our own ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
not all singles are bad   3/12/2004

many of the couples on Swapfinder.com say NO SINGLE MEN. well not all single men are pushy, just looking for a quick one or some of the other bad things that may of happend or you thought would happen. Not all of are bad, most are down to earth and just want to have some fun. Most are probably more likely to follow any rule that you might state than most couples because they just want a chance to be ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
dtownromancer 57 M
2  Articles
Female's Handles in Swapfinder.com   3/12/2004

I have a question that I would like for someone to attempt to answer for me. HOw come 99% of the ladies in Swapfinder.com with the hottest eye catching handles, are usually bbw's or not very attractive? You could be talking to someone name sizzlinghot thinking she's going to be bad as hell, but when you get the pic, it's some 300 lb woman who you know you have no desire to talk too. Or she's so ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes
rm_GWRWV 72 M
1  Article
my scope on shaving balls   3/11/2004

Hi all, I normally keep my pubic hairs short so as not to get stuck when your dick shrinks up during a normal day and catches a hair or two. (I'm partially circumsized). I hate it when you get a hair stuck and try to act like nothings going on when it pulls and your trying to get it cleared. Anyway, I've read some articles on guys wanting to know the best way to shave their balls. I ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
snowmanhot 91 M
31  Articles
HELP I´m sleeping with....   3/10/2004

Your best friend´s man and you do not have the right to transfer your guilt onto your best friend by telling her. Of course she will be hurt if she finds out, but you should try to keep it from her while you can. If you set it up so that she finds out then you run the risk of losing her friendship for life. Work out what is imporrtant to you and then act on what you want to do with the ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 166 Votes ,7.95 Score
Re: We Are Not Sluts   3/10/2004

I am TOTALLY in agreement with the writer of the article "We Are Not Sluts"!!!!!! Why is it soooo damn wrong that women want and enjoy sex as much as men do? Why is it is WE have sex, we are dirty, cheap, etc? But men can do as many women as their "tool" can handle? I also believe there is a double standard in our society. I say...women, go for it! If you want to have sex, by all ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 161 Votes ,9.30 Score
rm_grace4u62 62 F
11  Articles
Hot and Wet   3/10/2004

......it is raining and you know i wish we were in a shower with hot steamy water raining down on our bodies , feeling our hot bodies rubbing against each other , you take soap and start lathering me all up while kissing me with that hot big tongue .i turn away with my back to you and you soap my breasts from behind , rubbing them .i lift my leg up to the side and you soap my pussy ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Birth Control   3/9/2004

Birth Control/contraception refers to the conscious regulation of the conception and birth of , also known as family planning. <br> Generally, birth control and the use of contraceptive methods are employed to limit the number of that are born or to spread out their time of birth. <br> Sometimes birth control is practiced for a specific period of time (several ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Erection   3/9/2004

An erection occurs when the soft spongy tissue in the shaft of a man's penis fills with blood, causing the penis to enlarge and stiffen. <br> Spongy spaces (technically known as corpora cavernosa and corpora spongiosa) along the length of the penis fill with blood in response to physical stimulation, psychological stimulation, or both. This process requires that the blood ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Fantasy   3/9/2004

Fantasy refers to the mental image of a person, object, or situation, often but certainly not always involving a sexual component. Fantasies may be based upon past experiences or may be entirely imaginary. Commonly they include a combination of both. It is normal for individuals to fantasize. <br> Human sexuality is a dimension of social life that is often rich with many ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Masterbation   3/9/2004

Masturbation is the deliberate stimulation of one's own genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure. It is done at least occasionally by a majority of both men and women. <br> In one recent national study, 95 percent of men and 89 percent of women reported having masturbated. It is the first overt sexual act for the majority of men and women, although more women than men ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
vampsangel 46 C
1  Article
Types of blowjobs ?   3/9/2004

? How many different types of blowjobs do you all think there are. Respond with the types that you can think of , Like a sloppy blow job, wet blow job, slow blow, ? how many can you name.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 45 Votes ,6.15 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Anal Sex   3/9/2004

Anal sex is stimulation of the anus during sexual activity. It can be done in several different ways: manually, orally or by anal intercourse. <br> Anal sex can be the primary form of sexual activity or it can accompany other types of stimulation. For instance, couples sometimes include manual stimulation of the anus (either lightly rubbing the rim or inserting a finger into ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,6.69 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Blue Balls   3/9/2004

"Blue balls" is a slang term referring to testicular aching that may occur when the blood that fills the vessels in a male's genital area during sexual arousal is not dissipated by orgasm. <br> When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Breasts   3/9/2004

Breasts are part of the anatomy of both females and males. On the inside, a woman's breast is made up of about 15-25 milk-producing sacs called milk glands, which are connected to milk ducts that converge inside the nipple. <br> The remainder of the internal breast is composed of fatty tissue and fibrous connective tissues that bind the breast together and give it shape. ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Ejaculation   3/9/2004

Ejaculation is the release of semen from the penis. It is a normal part of the male sexual response cycle. During sexual intercourse or masturbation, semen collects in the ejaculatory ducts, which are located where the ends of the vas deferentia join the seminal vesicles within the prostate gland. <br> When excitation reaches its peak, a spinal reflex causes the rhythmic ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Clitoris   3/9/2004

The clitoris is the female sexual organ found where the labia minora, or inner lips, meet. It consists of a rounded area or head, called the glans, and a longer part, called the shaft, which contains cavernous bodies similar to those of the penis. <br> The tissue of the inner lips normally covers the shaft of the clitoris, which makes a hood, or prepuce, to protect it. The only ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Fellatio   3/9/2004

Fellatio is a type of oral sex in which there is mouth contact with the penis. The term fellatio comes from the Latin word fellare, which means to suck. <br> In fellatio the head and shaft of the penis are licked, kissed and sucked. The mucous membrane inside the mouth is similar to the lining of the vagina. The moist slippery feel of the mouth and tongue on the penis can be ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
G-Spot   3/9/2004

The G-spot (or Grafenberg spot) is a dime to half-dollar sized, localized area of especially high sensitivity, situated beneath the surface of a woman's vagina on the wall toward the front of her body. <br> While location varies, the G-spot is typically located about half way between the pubic bone and the cervix, about three inches into the vagina. <br> Researchers ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
LivenLifeAt28 48 M
9  Articles
Sex Toys   3/9/2004

Sex aids or sex toys are devices made to vary or enhance pleasure during sexual activity. They are used primarily on the genitals or around the genitals, but some can be used on other parts of the body as well. People use them when they are on their own or with partners. <br> On the whole, people who use sex aids do not use them every single time they engage in sex nor do they ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
Types of blow jobs answer   3/9/2004

Read several of our postings into ARTICLES section of the Swapfinder.com magazine of 28th of February of this year. You will know more than you ever tought possible


0 Comments, 58 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
To golfguy ,if he is real...(ohmylord)   3/8/2004

Do you honestly think I would write this just for you to see ? In order to make sure I make just a little fool of myself ? Forget it ! If I do , everyone may see it and ...would you please sit still for a second ?-"!SLAPPP!"! Thank you , I hope you woke up .Yes , some girls are real , some women are real too .Some don't even have an answering machine .And instead of slapping those verbally ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 93 Votes ,6.35 Score
Why all the games   3/7/2004

I have been on Swapfinder.com since 1999 and I have talked to other people who have their profile on Swapfinder.com too. What I have notice is that most people will not go for a Silver Member and will simply post a profile hopping to get an answer. oNE OF THE BIG REASONS IS THAT THERE ARE NO REAL WOMEN HERE. Most are here palying games. They will reply and tell you that you need to reply to them at another ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 23 Votes ,5.70 Score
are women for venus   3/6/2004

i don't understand how men and women are men't to be to gether because we always argue, we are always classed as lazy and they are never satisfied except when you buy them something.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
missoctobers 3d CHAT ROOM ADDICTION   3/6/2004

one last thing before i leave Swapfinder.com. ive never seen anything written here about how addictive the 3d chat rooms can be. i personally got way too involved in them. i found myself spending hours and hours there. i met some very nice men there, but at the expense of having a life. looking back, most of my emails to men were about the chat rooms, id make dates there, id be there 6 hours after i ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 76 Votes ,7.91 Score
waxing   3/6/2004

The topic of shaving has been discussed to death on this site but I haven't really heard any talk about guys waxing their penis. Has anybody tried waxing their shaft? I'm tired of shaving and looking for a new method.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
Get At Me Ladies   3/5/2004

malikone1 at yhoo com for the north jersey ladies and i'm hung like a and a freak


0 Comments, 4 Views, 12 Votes
Standard VS Premium Membership   3/5/2004

Swapfinder.com has 3 grades of membership, Gold, Silver and Standard. Now, we all would love to be a Gold member, but we all just can't for one reason or another. Or, a Silver member, who finds that they just couldn't be a standard member, but aren't sure Gold membership is where they want to be. But it is the standard member that is really at a loss. Maybe they just can't afford a membership at this ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 144 Votes ,6.94 Score
Guess What   3/4/2004

Lonely are we that we cannon walk hand and hand, sorry are we that together is a thing of the past. we love and live in lifes web as though ijt were a game and yet nobody tries to make it better. this is the time to make all things better, for we cannot keep living to make all things worse. in the beginning of a lifetime, we live within our mother for a duration of time, that we can just as ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 31 Votes ,5.16 Score
rm_cynykal1 54 M
1  Article
Is Swapfinder.com for real??   3/4/2004

How many people believe that Swapfinder.com places fake profiles on their site in order to keep you subscribing or to get you to join a porn site so you can "speak" with people that have sent you mail??


0 Comments, 2 Views, 69 Votes ,5.31 Score
why do ppl judge ppl by the way they look?   3/4/2004

why is it that when you meet someone or join a site like this one and basicly you have to sell your self with words and why do ppl judge ppl for how there look is it not more inportant to find g, s, o, h?? becouse you can never judge a book by its cover can you


0 Comments, 4 Views, 23 Votes ,5.00 Score
Regarding your "friends with benefits"   3/4/2004

This may seem really unfair, due to the fact that I don't personally know you. However in your article, you have got an ego so large it probably hurts. Perhaps you should be more explicit with your "friends" in order to keep them quiet. Maybe if the sex was as good as you claim, they would want to keep it a secret in order to hog the pleasure. Story seems a bit outlandish, but I wish I ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Kama Sutra   3/4/2004

The Love Teachings of Kama Sutra By Vatasyayana Source: "The Love Teachings of Kama Sutra" (Translated by Indra Sinha) Lying Down Positions: Lying-down Positions - Samputa Group: Positions From The Medieval Texts: Sitting Positions: Rear-Entry Positions: Standing Positions: Oral Pleasures -- Fellatio Techniques: Oral Pleasures -- Cunnilingus Techniques: Role Reversal: Love Potions and Sex ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 70 Votes ,8.71 Score
Squirting   3/4/2004

Sometimes my wife squirts a clear liquid when she climax, is she peeing or cumming?


0 Comments, 25 Views, 50 Votes ,7.32 Score
To me, size DOES matter   3/4/2004

I know alot of you will disagree with me on this one. But, i think size does matter. I want to be able to FEEL a man inside me. The longer and bigger around he is, the more that goes in and the feel of a bigger "tool" is awesome. He can really pound it in hard and deep. Of course, this IS just MY humble opinion.


0 Comments, 79 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
Cancun Anyone?   3/4/2004

Thinking about going to Cancun in April. Will be first time for us.Where are the HOT SPOTS, What should one look out for, Where are the best beaches? We like the drunk dancing, laying on the beach crowd.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
missoctober's GOOD BYE KISS {MAYBE}   3/3/2004

im thinking about leaving this site after a month of membership. ive met some really nice people here. ive had some fun. ive also had to endure a lot of things that im not sure id want to do again. dealing with the men in the 3d chat rooms has been an experiance. when i first went to the dungeon, i was completely overwhelmed. for a woman it can be, literally, like dealing with a pack of ...


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re::: cock size   3/3/2004

mmmmmm, , well having been blessed with a 8 1/4 " dick i can certainly say that it is appreciated, , but with that one has to also be a good lover not only with the dick but hands , fingers, and tounge, , and its nice if you can go for a couple of hours too, , guys that are 2 pump chumps , with little dicks that additionally are not good cocksamen dont get it, , its like a lot of ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
I still want the other couple.   3/2/2004

We met another couple here on Swapfinder.com, after a few e-mails and some chatting we went into web cams.This was alot of fun. Watching her give him head on while I was getting fucked was great, we couldn't wait till we could meet. We all met at a local hotel, and the fun was supposed to start. We were all nervous and didn't know what to do first, so she and I started. I didn't know I would enjoy ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 53 Votes ,7.88 Score
rm_bepep911 43 F
4  Articles
Erection Drugs   3/1/2004

Every man's worst nightmare is to realize, in the heat of a passionate moment, that he can't get an erection. Lucky for many men, we live in the twenty-first century and all the research in medicine is starting to pay-off. Today if you have erectile dysfunction, you have a variety of treatment options at your disposal, as well as quick fixer-upper drugs that can provide a temporary ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 48 Votes ,7.67 Score
Do women here really want to meet, or just looking for???????   2/29/2004

Seems like a lot of women here don`t really want to meet someone, but are just looking for cybersex, or a justification that men find them attractive. Thoughts?? Please, Just women answer. I that a lot of men would like an answer too this one!!


0 Comments, 25 Views, 22 Votes ,7.57 Score
sexyydancer 59 M
4  Articles
Emailing your network as a group   2/29/2004

What happen to the feature of emailing your network i though it was a neat feature it did help in emailing your network if you had a large one whats your view on this feature.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
The Art of Oral Sex   2/28/2004

The Art of Oral Sex By a real woman General Introduction People have been using their mouths to stimulate each other sexually for about as long as there have been people. How about kissing each other? Men have been kissing women on their necks, ears, breasts, backs, thighs, and any where else they can think of that'll arouse them sexually ever since they found out it works. It ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 133 Votes ,9.18 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
The Art of Cunnilingus part 1   2/28/2004

The Art of Cunnilingus or How to Eat Pussy Introduction This section is for men who want learn how to properly eat a woman's pussy, or who've heard that it might not be all that bad to put their face down there, and for women who want to get their man to eat them period, improvement in performance can come later. I am not an expert. I am simply a woman who knows what she likes, ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 131 Votes ,9.73 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
The Art of Cunilingus Part 2   2/28/2004

Back off for now, rest your head on her thigh and just admire the view. Learn to appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Describe what you see, in poets' words if you can, but in any way you can as long as it's with love and admiration. Positions You can give head to your woman in just about any position she can get herself into, floating on her ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 93 Votes ,9.59 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
How to suck cock? Part 1   2/28/2004

The Art of Fellatio or How to Suck Cock Introduction This chapter is for those gals who wonder what sucking a mans cock is all about, think they might like to do it, or already do it but want to learn how to both give and receive more pleasure from it. It will teach them the skills they need so that both they and their partner can receive more pleasure from fellatio. Studies show ...


2 Comments, 210 Views, 2191 Votes ,9.45 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
How to Suck Cock? Part 2   2/28/2004

Can You Take it All in? As I discussed earlier, it's man's nature to want to thrust his cock into you as far as he can get it, particularly at the moment when he cums. If he wants all of his cock in you, can you take it all in? Do you want to take it all in? Do you even need to take it all in? Well, the length of your mouth from your lips to the back of your throat is three to three and ...


2 Comments, 112 Views, 67 Votes ,9.21 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
How to suck Cock? Part 3   2/28/2004

The Real Thing It's hard to separate deepthroating and throat (face) fucking. Throat fucking is simply an extension of deepthroating, so we'll discuss some things together. One of the best positions to practice deep throating with a real live cock is to kneel in front of him with your head tilted back while he's standing. The most restful position, and the one you should use when you ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 34 Votes ,8.18 Score
voyeurs69in2003 73 C
107  Articles
Art of Oral Sex All together now Completion   2/28/2004

This is a culumination of several parts Article. Read previous first Putting it All Together Now that you've learned all the fundamentals, it's time to put them into practice. Just like your man learned to respond to your desires by reading your body language while he was giving you head, his body will talk to you. Learn to listen to it, watch his facial expressions. The way he thrusts ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 39 Votes ,8.37 Score
Virgin looking for a teacher   2/28/2004

I would like someone to fuck my girlfriend. I want it to happen sooner than later. Any age it does not matter as long as she is no longer a virgin.


1 Comments, 69 Views, 24 Votes
reply to anal sex   2/27/2004

do woman like sex. Well, mosly woman like it due shear excitement. Most woman become used to it, as u start chewing tobacco, its bitter and sour in he beginning but as u continue chewing tobacco u hardly realize ur gone addicted to it and when u dont get tobacco to chew u feel impatience and emptiness. Same is the case with anal sex both for male and female. Some women are reared with ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 94 Votes ,2.11 Score
French Kissing   2/27/2004

Why is it that some men, want to keep their tongue shoved in your mouth at all moments to a kiss. They do not even give you time to enjoy their lips. All you can think about is that tougue in there all the time. A bit turn off. I love french kissing, but not every single time. it's like oral sex. Not all the time. but is great.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 26 Votes ,3.35 Score
what to do?   2/26/2004

i was in a relationship that went bad. my ex now wants to strike up a sex only relationship and it seems to me that it may just lead to all the problems we had before. whats a guy to do.. turn down good sex or not? please help me.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
Never trust a Vegas Women   2/26/2004

Not to long ago i found a women that was from vegas, I told her i would be coming to vegas for a week or two and i asked her if we could spend time together while I was their. She asked when i was coming and I said a month or two, she said well how about i come see you. All i had to do was to pay for her aifare out here and she would stay in a hotel a stip club would put her in, so i said ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
Who is better...........   2/26/2004

I have been with both women and men and I find that men satisfy me more but I was wondering if that is the same for all women?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
hhhmmmmm   2/25/2004

I'm pregnant with my first . My boyfriend of 1 year left to work for a month while he was there he had an affair. He's still over there and supposedly the affair is on hold until he decides if he wants her or me. He's admitted this to me and admitted to having sex with her.My question is this, how can he be willing to throw our life away together for some affair. Just a few weeks ago we ...


1 Comments, 229 Views, 26 Votes ,7.12 Score
rm_shyeyes03 46 F
1  Article
What it was like for me at a Strip Club   2/25/2004

My husband would go to strip clubs with his friend. One day I asked him about them and he told me, so then I told him nexted time I wanted to go with him. We went one night. I was vey excited. When we got none of the stripers would come up to us unless they were getting a dollar.They thought I was very cute because I am a small person. My husband asked if I wanted a lap so I said yes but ...


1 Comments, 177 Views, 59 Votes ,4.03 Score
rm_bkw478 30 M
1  Article
Piercings...down below   2/25/2004

My best friend recently got his penis pierced. I personally would never consider doing that, but I was wondering what women thought about it. I was at a bar with him and a few other friends. In the conversation, his piercing came up and one of the girls said she wanted to see it. It was Mardi Gras, and of you have ever been to New Orleans during this time of year(or met my friend before), ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 11 Votes ,5.97 Score
kittysosweet 54 F
6  Articles
Say more when you send a email....   2/24/2004

This is really starting to bug the crap out of me. When I get emails alot of the time the person just has a one liner or something like Email me back. What is up with that? Please put more of a effort in your email when someone catches your interest.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 17 Votes ,7.51 Score
gman334 47 M
4  Articles
How do you know who winked at you?   2/24/2004

I received a wink and when I clicked on it, I went to "Who's viewing you". The people who viewed me were on there for a few days, but I just received the wink today, so am I to assume that the last person on the list winked at me. Somebody please let me know.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 14 Votes ,6.34 Score
men suck cock better   2/23/2004

My wife and i are white and she has a black male friend, they love everything about each other but he always tells us that i suck his cock better than she does. She has had other men in the past and the comment's were the same do you think that more real men are turning to guys like me to satisfy them orally.


1 Comments, 148 Views, 82 Votes ,3.68 Score
zenobia678 41 F
2  Articles
Man! I feel like a woman!   2/23/2004

Man! I feel like a woman! Apparently, many men feel the same way too! Have you ever noticed that gays are having so much fun...and just for being gay. Where has heterosexuality lost its way??? Gay seems to be the way! Why, why , why are all the handsome men gay?? Why are all the jerks left for hetero-land??? First there was George Michael, and now Ricky Martin too! I just hope Enrique and ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 36 Votes
rm_OverSized 47 M
6  Articles
What are girls here looking for?   2/23/2004

I've observed this place for a little while. What approach to women want men to take here? Aggressive or casual?


0 Comments, 0 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
rm_scot196411 49 C
2  Articles
Party Game   2/22/2004

Lucky that everyone arrived early at the hotel.A snowstorm made it difficult to drive through. We had a suite for us to stay warm in.A dozen couples were greeted by nice 18y/o who was willing to fill in for my wife, who had to work.The men each made a of 100 dollars to help pay for the event.In return they recieved 1000 dollars of play money.Each of the women recieved a small box with ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_lgliang 41 M
9  Articles
Egomaniacs and God complexes.   2/22/2004

It's a generalised disease, it can affect anyone and sometimes it's sorely clear who's infected. This "I'm greater than thou" attitude is something that begs for a royal bit of buttkicking, not only does it annoy people, it also ruins just about everything. <br> I can't stand egomaniacs and I bet many of you can't too, be it your lover, your boss, your co-workers or even your ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
Here you go   2/21/2004

Here's another for you fans of my wife Amber. You know shes a hot blonde, tall and very sexy. She likes to work out three times a week and always has a killer suntan. She has great, long legs and keeps her pussy trimmed below with just a patch of hair on top. She has a sex drive that you wouldnt believe. I can wake her up at any time of the night and shes wet and ready to fuck. A couple ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
hothole001 55 F
2  Articles
Re:Is Swapfinder.com for real   2/20/2004

Why do you ask this queation?I'm the sexy lady like thousands and thousands of other female on Swapfinder.com, of course not chick, just open mind like more and new things in sex life to enjoy ourselves.I've met more than 20 guys here , even couples and men togehter .Every meeting is exciting and differnt with other.I say Swapfinder.com is really wonderful for our swingers.Try to upgrade your profle and ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 57 Votes ,5.38 Score
13 things men want from their women?   2/19/2004

Admire his achievements; let him know you're aware of the stress he's under at work. <br> <br> Keep your "honey-do" list down to a reasonable number of items. Show him special thanks when he takes care of something on the list. <br> <br> Don't second-guess him in front of the . Disagree in private. <br> <br> Ask him how you ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 83 Votes ,6.20 Score
rm_tazmania694u 57 M
23  Articles
Hot and sticky   2/19/2004

Jenny was hot. <br> It was 90 degrees outside, the air conditioner had broken down, and what's more, she hadn't had any sex for more than two weeks, her boyfriend having gone away on a business trip. It was the middle of a sweltering Saturday afternoon, and she sat alone and naked in her apartment, the heat making her body shine with sweat. <br> She thought ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 80 Votes ,8.85 Score
Praises for small breasts   2/18/2004

A particular group of women out there is really missing the boat. That is the small breasted crowd. There are alot of us out here that go crazy over small or virtually non-existent breasts. Girls, don't be ashamed of the little ones, be glad you've got them. Turn around for the camera and show them to us and don't be afraid to to list that 32 or 34 A in your profile. Not all of us are hung ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 47 Votes ,9.43 Score
"NO", I do not give oral just to please him   2/17/2004

It is a gross misconception to think women gives oral sex to her partner just to please him. In fact, most of the time I have to say it brings me as much if not MORE pleasure than my partner! Why? Because there is nothing more sensual, more loving, more giving than to take his soft cock into my warm wet mouth and gently suck until he is rock hard...moaning..begging...aching for release. ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,6.53 Score
In search of the Ultimate Sexual Experience, and finding it.   2/16/2004

You know, there are a LOT of Women looking for that eleusive Ultimate Sexual Experience. Many Women keep looking for that Super Experienced guy with a fantastic body, you know the one that knows everything there is to know, has two Homes, Fifteen Cars, is a Millionaire, and fits into the Age catagory needed for Sexual satisfaction to take place, or forget it. That One Woman Man, that it ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
hmmmmm   2/16/2004

ok here is goes....i have this friend and i met her at work and she is really cool and i like her ...she knows about my life style and all we have talked about it and she has sent me pic of her....but when i ask her ti get together and hook up 4 some play time with me she says no and im fine with that but when we talk on the phone and the computer she is all like ya would be fun ill have ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Shemale Dates   2/12/2004

If you want to date a shemale or tgirl, here is some advice. If you are married it is cheapet to get an escort. The girls that have sex for free usually steal and black male you to get what they want. Now the girls that want sex changes do not steal, but they do not let you use there cocks. It is up to you on what you decide to do. <br> Vicki


0 Comments, 259 Views, 21 Votes ,3.87 Score
Re: Thoughts on being unfaithful   2/11/2004

There are many reasons why married partners find need to be unfaithful. I agree that its unnatural for two people to only experience each other sexually for life. My ex-wife (many years ago now) had self-esteem problems due to being molested from age 6 to 10, and, in spite of counseling (she actually seduced one of her counselors!) she had to experience the "conquest" of making a strange ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
blkcollegepussy 42 F
1  Article
How to get some pussy   2/11/2004

Can any bi-women please tell me how to come on to a woman that i am attracted to?


0 Comments, 53 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
Swapfinder.com Points Prgram   2/11/2004

I just noticed that I have 0 points on my account page. I would like to know what happen to the 300 points I had accumulated. Just one day ago I had 300 points and now they are gone, back to 0 again. I think the Swapfinder.com is sorry place for meeting others when you are trying to be discreet. I have been a member for over a year now, and have not met one person to date. I will not pay for an ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
My missing Swapfinder.com Points   2/11/2004

I had 300 points earned on my account. Now all of a sudden today I noticed I did not have any. Swapfinder.com what happen to my points. I want them back. <br> Plus, I have been a member for over a year now and have not met one person. And do not have any hopes of meeting anyone.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
BBW Section - Don't you agree?   2/10/2004

Don't you agree a BBW section would assist in helping to bring together BBW and the men who find them desirable, sexy, senuous, and lovable? Title the section: BBW profiles allowing the men who are interested to go directly to that section and vice versa (BBW could view the profiles of men who are interested in meeting them.) <br> Vote for this section to be added to the site. ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 39 Votes ,9.26 Score
shyandwilling 50 C
2  Articles
Don't steal my article!   2/10/2004

About a month ago I posted an article about women going to strip clubs. Three days ago I was scrolling through and saw "Women going to Stip Clubs" and when I clicked on it I found that it was MY ARTICLE. I couldn't beleive that someone would actually cut and paste a freakn paragraph. Who is so lazy and stupid that they can't write their own? It makes me sooooo mad it was only a ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
re:Is this Swapfinder.com thing real or are the majority of the people just spam bots.   2/10/2004

there are some real people on this site, but a majority of the people on this site have webcams, or pay sites or just have spam to deliver. Like you I recieve a lot of spam, and "responses" that seem like real people but are in fact adult web cam sites. just keep trying, and the old saying is true if the person sounds too good to be true they probably are.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
My thoughts on being on display   2/9/2004

It's hard having been raised in a society where sex has always been the hush-hush subject.. I never saw my parents do anything more provacative than the customary kiss, no openmouths, no groping, although I do remember discovering my mom's secret stash of nighties and crotchless panties..oohh... and now in my adult life, never having been asked to wear lingerie or even owning any until the ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 42 Votes ,8.39 Score
We have all got bagage   2/6/2004

Do you think your special , do you feel that you have done something that has never been done before? It could be possible , but the chaces are that someone has done it before - so what! <br> Most of all, if not all, carry a certain of guilt and regret for our past actions! Its quite simple really if you can't live by your actions dont do it, as we all know our brain is our biggest ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 39 Votes ,7.88 Score
Re:The Value of A Man   2/6/2004

I agree with you on the value of a man and how to determine that value. The problems come in when you value what he has said as truth and you believe the things he has said to you. It is hard to value another man in here when the only one you chose to value as a real friend let you believe for 6 months that he is a real friend; there for you when you needed him, and once you meet him one ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 22 Votes ,5.41 Score
Thoughts on being unfaithful   2/3/2004

I just read the article by Essence about how extramarital affairs are judged by others without knowledge of the circumstances. I agree with this assessment and would like to add that we all have different things that we need and want from others. To expect one person to be our friend, business partner, lover, co-parent, etc. is oftentimes very unrealistic. We need others in our lives ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
How does a married guy get sex?   2/1/2004

Don't get me wrong, I love my wife, but she doesn't like sex like I do. Over the years, the differences have created more distance between us. I'd get a divorce, but have no where to go. I was raised without a father and don't want my to have the same life. My wife has threatened divorce many times, then says later that she doesn't mean it. She's accused me of having sex with other women ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 53 Votes ,5.71 Score
Men wanting to share wives.   2/1/2004

Why is it that men want to share their wives? My husband has this thing about seeing me with another man. Is it his love of porn coming out? Is that like a free live porno for him. I just really have no idea. I don't get it.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 46 Votes ,4.59 Score
lahotgirl4u75 52 C
4  Articles
Women Going to Strip Clubs..   1/31/2004

Most of the strip clubs are actually exactly like you've heard.. I've been to a few strip clubs around here and have gotten alot more attention than my husband did lol I sat on his lap and gave them dollars.. They are usually all up on the women at the clubs we go to... There was one club we went to where they seemed to favor just men..So we don't go there anymore lol I am guessing that ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 30 Votes ,5.79 Score
How I received my first real good blow job from sis in law   1/31/2004

I was alone in the house with my sis-in-law and we had shared sexual relationship with each other before , with each one masterbating the other. She loved kissing and during our encounter she would always be on top, kissing my lips vigorously. I pushed her one day, led her hand to my cock and asked her to caress it slowly. It would become hard and erect and dry. I whispered in her ear that ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 45 Votes ,6.66 Score
Is this Swapfinder.com thing real or are the majority of the people just spam bots.   1/31/2004

I would say 85% of the time I send an email to a standard member i will give out an email address i created just for this type of thing. (so they can contact me). Now the only thing I recieve to that email acct. is a bucnch of spam bullshit, and it is always immediatly after i give out the address. That leads me to belive that alot of the people pictured in Swapfinder.com are not real, just fucking ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 28 Votes ,7.86 Score
Which positions do women feel make them cum faster   1/30/2004

I've been wondering about this for a while and i know when a woman is having a orgasm(for the guys that don't know it's a fact that a womans vagina will contract in and out when there cumming or having an orgasm) but i'm curious on what women feel is the best position for them to have a quicker climax..does it take longer for you to cum when your on top or do you cum quick when it's ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 21 Votes ,6.59 Score
re: Is it that bad?   1/29/2004

quoting: Is it that bad? (General Article) I mean really girls, is going down on a guy that bad ? Its like so many women think its such a huge deal to go down on a guy and most guys will go down on a woman if she even halfways hints about it being okay. I mean where is the double stands going to stop i mean seriously. I would like to find a woman that sees it just as oral sex, just as ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Where Did The Sex GO! reply   1/29/2004

Maybe you have just struck "unlucky" and your wife is not sexually needy! I've been married 25 years to the same guy and the sex was fantastic at the beginning and now it is stupendous!!! Try talking to her and finding out what she fantasises about.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 17 Votes ,6.80 Score
Size does not matter.....   1/29/2004

I have never really been concerned about the "does size matter' question. Recently I had an experience with a gentleman whose endowment was less then average...and he was by far the best lover I have ever had...and as a added bonus, giving him a blow job...WooHoo...I loved it....I even thought of putting a request for smaller in my profile but thought that might be too limiting....as the ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 45 Votes ,8.92 Score
nightstick008 45 M
1  Article
Is Swapfinder.com for real?   1/28/2004

I'm a good looking and successful guy. I earn enough money to pay my bills and stash a little away. <br> I love the bar scene but because of my job I hate the thought of having a few pops and getting pulled over or worse. <br> Long story short, I love woman and I thought this place would be the place to hook up. <br> I think for some reason that Swapfinder.com is not ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 21 Votes ,6.96 Score
NastyintheNW 44 C
5  Articles
Blowjob question   1/28/2004

Most men LOVE to eat pussy for the pure pleasure it brings to yourself and your partner. How many woman actually enjoy sucking cock for the pure pleasure of it, or do you mainly do it for your partners pleasure not caring to much for it?


0 Comments, 22 Views, 16 Votes ,6.21 Score
what a joke!   1/28/2004

this site is a joke! Glad i didn't upgrade to silver or gold! It is nothin but Hookers and links to pay sites, from what i have read! I haven't received 1 reply in 3 months, have invited many to join network, used up all possible points contacting and reading profiles, to no avail! I will delete my profile, have a better chance of meeting someone at the laundry or supermarket!


0 Comments, 3 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
rm_5069103 61 M
3  Articles
RE: Wet pussy's and butt plugs...AND A SEX LIFE!!!   1/28/2004

I'm sure that if my ex let me explore here--rather than shun sex after she got the 2 childern she wanted--we might STILL be married!!!


0 Comments, 72 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
fake   1/27/2004

is it just me or is everyone on this site fake? i get messages from bots non stop to the point i have to block most emails. all i want is a hot girl who is real. is this too much to ask for?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_fitfirm37 50 M
6  Articles
Lucky to meet   1/25/2004

I've met a lot of people in my life but none have been like "T". I met her when I was 21. She was 34 and married with two but her husband was stepping out and into things that were pretty dangerous. "T" needed someone to talk with and to show her that she wasn't something to be cast aside for whenever. Tall, sexy, blonde and in perfect shape, she was just what I needed also. Our nine ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
Re: Women in Strip Clubs   1/22/2004

MY husband talked me into going too strips clubs with him about a year ago. I had never been and in the beginning it was not exciting. After a few visits too the same club they get too know you and the dancers are no longer intimidated by a woman. Some of the first few clubs we went too the dancers werent friendly. Try another club. It can be very erotic for the man and the woman. ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
jeffjay 51 M
1  Article
what are you looking for?   1/21/2004

When we look at this site title we think of finding a friend and most will agree that exactly what we are searching for. truth in the matter is we are looking for a companion to fulfill our physical needs more so then our mental ones. physical appearance is the first thing we notice and admire before we actually begin the mental phase of any conversation or meeting. Looking for friends is ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Cryderman 41 M
18  Articles
Hey Hey   1/20/2004

I like reading the articles in Stuff becasue you they tell you all the stuff not to do and you do the oposite and you get the girl


0 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Younger Guy Older Woman   1/19/2004

I read a'lot of articels about fun with younger guys, I'm one of them, and all my life I've been dreaming about expirience lady over 40. I feel they are the best in sex game, but unforetunetly, I've moved to Florida from Europe, and I don't have any older girlfirnd here. I love to Admire all of them. <br> If any body knows the way I can meet one, help me. Thanks.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
WildSucculence 56 F
1  Article
Gathering on February 28th in Denver   1/19/2004

Saturday, February 28th at 8pm, there will be a gathering of locals and travelers at Heartthrobs in East Denver. Although the motivation is to celebrate RDY_4_Rgt1 and WildSucculence's birthdays, having an open-minded group like ours meet, is almost always enough reason to come together. <br> Please mark this event on your calendars. If you have any questions or curiosities, ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
HOW BIG IS BIG ENOUGH ?!? FOR LADIES ONLY TO ANSWER !!! (Guys, you can read only!)   1/18/2004

~~~~~~~First of all, this is to be answered by WOMEN ONLY!! Guys, you can READ it, but don't answer it!! If you do, you're only taking valuable info away from you and everybody else! IF YOU ARE A GUY, THEN DO NOT ANSWER THIS QUESTION~~~~~~~~~ <br> ~ <br> ~ This is pretty simple. Ladies, I'm going to give you five different sizes in inches to choose from. Now, the way ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
WHY NO REPLY   1/17/2004

All i wont is one message from some one in melbourne aust to prove to me this this is not all fake i've written alot of messages to so called horny women with no reply which leads me to belive to stis site is full of shit i wont be renewing my membership if thing don't pick up.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
M/F ANAL SEX   1/17/2004

I HAVE NEVER HAD ANAL SEX B-4. I AM WONDERING IF A WOMAN "REALLY" ENJOYS IT?


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GROW A BIGGER DICK PILLS   1/17/2004

HOW WOULD "YOU" RESPOND TO YOUR PARTNER SAYING THAT HE WAS GOING TO TAKE PENIS ENLARGMENT PILLS??


0 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
ISN'T Swapfinder.com ALL ABOUT SEX??   1/17/2004

I THOUGHT THAT WE ALL WERE HERE TO FIND SOME ONE OR SOME PEOPLE WHO WERE LOOKING FOR SEX IN SOME FORM OR ANOTHER? IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP OR A "FRIEND" MAYBE YOU SHOULD CHECK OUT ONE OF Swapfinder.com. PARTNER SITES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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massageguy1969 54 M
1  Article
What insite can you get from a picture,that's just genitalia   1/17/2004

Hi, I'm just curious about why everyone posts pictures of their genitalia? Maybe it's just me, but I don't see the point of posting a picture of just a vigina, or just a penis. I mean, what does that tell me...that you have one. I guess I just don't get it. Does anyone agree?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
why is it?   1/17/2004

why is it when you have no one to go home to you cant find anyone yet if you have someone to go home to there are always plenty more that want to go home with you also why is that can women sence that you are taken and tease you just because they can or what


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LIGHT BONDAGE , ASKING MEN ONLY , HEH :)~   1/16/2004

OK...This is a very , sterile , harmless question , but maybe only a few brave souls ( those that aren't part of the lifestyle ) will answer this , as they won't see this as abherrant behavior.Or will kinda turn them on , hopefully , mmmmm. How many guys could honestly say they like being lightly restrained by a woman , during sexual activity , ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
shyandwilling 50 C
2  Articles
women going to strip clubs   1/15/2004

I have been very curious about women and I heard that women at strip clubs get the most attenetion. So when my guy friends mentioned going of course they asked me to join, I pretended to not want to go, but I was soooooo excited. We got there and no one talked to me, they wouldn't even make eye contact. The only attention I got was Hi, I m Candy and two bumps from her right cheek for my ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 232 Votes ,7.28 Score
rm_Dougger2 60 C
1  Article
Voyeur's Delight   1/14/2004

When I was married to my second wife, we used to party with the neighbor accross the street. He had all the necessary items in stock, and we never left there without a good buzz on. One night, while I was drinking some beers, a friend of the neighbor came over. He was quite taken by my wife, so it seemed. They danced to the music coming from the stereo, and gave each other shotguns from ...


1 Comments, 209 Views, 312 Votes ,8.44 Score
miottin 40 M
1  Article
Trying to find someone (2)   1/14/2004

[..]This website is to find a fuckbuddy or a lover. That is why we are all supposed to be here in the first place[...] <br> That's right! I agree with that, we want to fuck, for different reasons, in different ways, but we all want the same thing: A Big Strong Fuck! As much we can, and as long as we can. We need to eat ! We need to drink ! We need to sleep ! We need to go to ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 176 Votes ,7.63 Score
rm_pepsi693 52 M
1  Article
IS THIS SITE FOR REAL   1/14/2004

I was just wondering if there are any real people out there using this site, or if I got suckered into paying for something that is totally useless. I have been on here for a little while now and it seems like all anybody wants to do is talk. They never want to do what they say in their profile. If there are any women who really do what they say please get back to me and let me know!! ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 49 Votes ,8.07 Score
RE to : "Fronts are good to have . . ."   1/14/2004

I hope everyone sees this and after reading your article and seeing your handle, never sends you another message! It is people like you who are WASTING everyone's time & money!! Why don't you just have your waiter at a restaurant explain the specials in detail knowing you're only going to order the early bird special? Or have a realtor show you a house when you know you can't even make the ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
rm_bepep911 43 F
4  Articles
Volkskrankheit Erektionsstörung - Was Sie darüber wissen sollten   1/14/2004

50 Prozent der Deutschen haben laut aktuellen Umfragen wenigstens einmal in der Woche Sex. Also alles klar in unseren Betten? Leider nein! Oft genug ist tote Hose im Schlafzimmer. Fast jeder fünfte Mann über 30 leidet heute unter Erektionsstörungen. Tendenz im Alter: steigend. <br> Die Berliner Charité befragte jetzt 6000 Männer aus der Hauptstadt im Alter von 40 bis 79 ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 57 Votes ,6.10 Score
A Bed workout!   1/14/2004

Hey people! <br> There are lots of reasons why you should be making out more often than you already do. You could build a stronger immune system. Pennsylvania psychologists have found that people who have sex once or twice a week have elevated levels of an immune protein found in human saliva, compared to those who abstain from sex completely. The protein, immunoglobulin A is ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 136 Votes ,8.51 Score
SPORT A SMASHING REAR   1/14/2004

From the word bootylicious being included in the Oxford English dictionary to pop numbers that bellow 'I see you baby, shaking your arse', the bottom-line is that the bum is an international obsession. It is not just something you plonk your body weight on when you sit it's the primary force behind sexual appeal. <br> Check out singer Jennifer Lopez and her actor boyfriend Ben ...


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whats wrong with people   1/13/2004

i don't know why people join this site if there shy were all here mostlly for the same reason and that is to enjoy and have as much sex as possible so why are most of the women i write to shy or don't even have the nerve to reply it's getting very boring.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 144 Votes ,7.52 Score
rm_sexyruffryda 39 M
10  Articles
gold membership   1/13/2004

i am thinking of getting a gold membership, now ive heard some bad stories on the message boards think its worth a 3 month membership??


0 Comments, 39 Views, 48 Votes ,2.26 Score
rm_sexyruffryda 39 M
10  Articles
other sites   1/13/2004

this seems to be the biggest site on the net concerning this stuff, but does any1 think there is a bigger and even better site than this?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 27 Votes ,7.34 Score