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Do nice guys really finish last?? 5/21/2005
I seem to think so. I'm a pretty nice guy, opening doors
for people, sensitive to other around me, the whole ladies
first thing. I make a good impression for the ladies. But
I just can't see to get a girl friend. Not relationship
type girlfriend, like...just a friend that's a girl.
But all girls seem to think that when a guy my age, or any guy
for that matter, just wants to get into their ...
5 Comments, 99 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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relationships? 5/20/2005
why do people sign up for Swapfinder.com looking for relationships?
why dont they join a web dating service site? it doesnt make
sense to me why people would join Swapfinder.com looking for that "special
someone"
7 Comments, 210 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Shy , innocent & not wanting cyber 5/20/2005
Dude ! I just would like to have a conversation with a man
who doesn't want my words , but my body. I find no satisfaction
exchanging posts about what we " could" be doing.
I find it quite "cartoonish". I asked for locals
only for a reason. I find trying to get intimate with someone
3 states away not enjoyable at all. Let alone the little
island on the other side of "The Pond" !!
2 Comments, 115 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Bi-curious, male bashing ads clogging the system 5/20/2005
My rant is simple. Why do so many women clog up the site when
they are only interested in other women?
<br>
There are two sites available for Bi-curious, bi-sexual
and gay people, Outpersonals and Gay friend
<br>
finder.
<br>
I get so tired of clicking through profiles only to find
women who have angry profiles with bold caps
<br>
declaring NO MEN, NO ...
3 Comments, 139 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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how many really meet 5/19/2005
the ad says meet single adults but how many really do meet
in person, i am sure there are a few, but really is this just
a money scheme or what is it, i have joined a chat room have
had im on and written people have sent winks but nothing,
so if anybody really meets in person here let me know
0 Comments, 80 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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dirty pics 5/19/2005
why is it that some women put raunchy pictures of their pussy
on their profile? i mean if you have a nice, neat pussy, then
by all means put it, but if you have a nasty, discolored,
stretched out old dirty pussy, don't put it on your
profile. i mean is that supposed to attract men? because
i'm a man, and i have never liked looking at ugly pussies,
and i certainly would never try to meet one ...
8 Comments, 258 Views,
7 Votes
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why? 5/18/2005
why should we have to pay to have someone answer our email
and flirts?
0 Comments, 115 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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e-mail replys 5/18/2005
I am a nice, polite man, i joined this site for some fun
and frollics, paid for silver membership so i could contact
people, over the last 2 months i have tryed to contact 28
people, have been very polite and had 7 replys, to them
i say thankyou very much.The other 21 f--ck all.WHY? In
my profile i ask if i contact you please reply even if to say
piss off, it takes less than a minute and is ...
2 Comments, 223 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Have game players made you loose your interest in sex? 5/16/2005
My interest in sex and men use to be very high. On a scale of
1-10 it was closer to a ten. But since I've come across
a LOT of men who are game players and down right malicious
once they get what (or don't get what they want for that
matter)I've lost my interest in sex and men altogether.
Are there any other people out there who feel this way? Are
you done giving chances to anyone ...
4 Comments, 301 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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Webcameras... Hmm... 5/16/2005
Webcameras…
<br>
Didn’t they just do an update to this feature like a month
ago or something? I think they were saying they were trying
to make it faster or something to that effect. It seems pretty
glitchy though! Half of the time you try and load one, it
takes two or three minutes for it to connect and often time
won’t connect at all. I know it is not my ...
0 Comments, 88 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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what can i say, is there any hope left? 5/16/2005
well i have recently just got back with my girlfriend, we
had broke up because she was calling and going to see my best
friend at his house, so i went to her best friends house for
revenge and got more than i could chew off. within the week
that we were broke up she called me 24 7 and told me how many
women i had slept with and that she loved me and ect. what
i want to know was is did she ...
2 Comments, 71 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Where are all the BISEXUAL women at?! 5/15/2005
(Mrs. here speaking) I don't know if other women have
had the same experience or if its just me, but we are having
the worst time finding women or couples with BISEXUAL women.
Notice I did not say "bicurious", but bisexual.
I, like some women, discovered and came to terms with my
bisexuality my freshman year of high school (when I was
1 . I didn't actually have sex with a woman until a ...
2 Comments, 180 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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My discomfort with Maris Lemieux, Swapfinder.com 'sexpert' 5/14/2005
who writes this shit, college ? After all the articles
and rants and suggestions written by women and men who are
wise... and older, all they can coem up with is the same type
of shit you'd hear in a dorm room (or a high school restroom),
with the same type of 'how do i make him love me and never
leave me?' drama undercutting all of it?
<br>
The entire article, I was reminded of ...
5 Comments, 244 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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real or not 5/14/2005
Isnt it funny how some ppl post ads or get in chats and they
are not real. I know this is a "safe" enviroment
to "play', but at least be honest. and if emaile
dbe decent and have a respons.
0 Comments, 20 Views,
0 Votes
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Race 5/14/2005
I am Indian. Because of this I don't fall into any major
ethnicity as recognized by Swapfinder.com and so people with racial
preferences often neglect me. It pisses me off that so many
women on here won't even give me a first look let alone
a second because of this. I just was really pissed about
this and wanted to vent. Thanks for reading.
3 Comments, 154 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Swapfinder.com friends & family there comments & more...........!!!!! 5/13/2005
I thought, Id take time to write more about my life these
things others say. My own family has come against I &
THERE selfs . I DECIDED TO TELL YOU , BECAUSE I emailed a man
today before reading his lengthy bio. Then when , I returned
home to later read he has genitial herpes. It never seast
to amaze me at the honesty some have before or during sex.
And also at others judgement. I have ...
4 Comments, 191 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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FEMALES ON HERE 5/12/2005
WHy is is that 99.99% of all the women are here are all talk
but no action. It is just getting to me. I am sure that you
all think the same so why is it that you never contact ppl
or you plkay games when they send you a msg until thay become
disinterested...... Just a few questions.
0 Comments, 120 Views,
8 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Where are the Articles? 5/10/2005
Over the last two weeks I've written 4 articles in the
magazine and not one has shown up. There have been no violations
of Swapfinder.com TOUs. No emails saying rejected either. Swapfinder.com, what
is going on around here? The whole site is having problems
with posts, articles and threads. The groups are having
problems with threads just disappearing, why? Why are
there new things added when the old things do ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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whats the deal with gay people? 5/8/2005
i know theres a difference between gay people and pediphilia,
but all the gay people i knew were pediphiles. i think gay
people have some serious mental disorders, its not normal
to have sex with a member of the same sex, basically its mutual
masturbation, i dont think the human body is designed for
same sex intercourse. if you cant find a mate, you have problems
that need to be addressed ...
21 Comments, 537 Views,
19 Votes
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The truth about single women and "nice guys" 5/7/2005
Nice guys listen up...this may take a while, so if you have
to go to the bathroom or anything do it now.
The truth is the only woman a nice guy should be looking for
is one who's already been divorced. Good looking single
women aren't attracted to "nice guys".
I don't know why...if it's poor self esteem or
bad toilet training, or whatever. What good looking single
women are ...
0 Comments, 176 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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"Couples" 5/7/2005
Fisrt of all we are a real couple...Unlike some people not
the site. We do chat and occasionally turn on our cam. When
my husband is chatting on cam, he nevver goes throuhg all
the crap i have to take from the so called couples. You can
literally smell that thats the male part of the couple by
the words, but still claims that they are both there. Seems
they are the not being honest to their ...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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ARE WOMEN FOR REAL 5/6/2005
Once you get talking to some one and they want to meet you
or get to know you better and your talking for a while sundly
they drop off the face of the earth, thay dont owe me anything
but how about some common courtesy, me and every one else
is here to meet people and have fun I want to have how about
it? I am looking for real people not fake!
3 Comments, 277 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Does anyone else like to self suck? 5/6/2005
i'm stroking my cock now actually....i can suck my
own fairly well.......i sit on a chair, get real hard (i
have a 9" cock), and bend forward (this takes practice
and flexibility) and lick and suck the head until i cum...then
i suck the hot, sweet juice like milk through a straw...mmmmmm.
Anyone like to do the same?
Your stories would be appreciated.
1 Comments, 237 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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"You are not authorized to view the original message." 5/5/2005
oh you gotta be kidding Swapfinder.com. how can i not be authorized to
view the original message when the message was sent to me
in the first place?
<br>
and why send me that message AFTER I already hit 'send'
to reply back?
<br>
this is one of the reasons i couldn't bring myself to
pay for this site. now the mail is all screwy, again... and
there's no explanation about what ...
1 Comments, 148 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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I WAS SO PISSED! 5/4/2005
I came home from work one day. As I walked in the door I could
hear some strange noises coming from the bedroom upstairs.
"WOW" I thought. The wife is Masturbating and
I get to catch her doing it. I love doing that. Makes me real
hard. I quietly walked up stairs and crept to the bedroom
door. slighlty peeking my head in. However to my shock she
wasnt playing with herself. There she was on ...
6 Comments, 905 Views,
19 Votes
,6.16 Score
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members? 5/3/2005
How come Swapfinder.com keeps members listed that have not been active
for many months/years? How many members browse and find
an interesting profile only to find out they haven't
been on here for quite some time? I think the really inactive
members should be bounced out. Any comments? Oh yes, I sent
this idea to them, no reply. Let's see this posted!
It says rants and raves, doesn't it?
2 Comments, 126 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY!!!!!!!!!!!! 5/3/2005
This past weekend I was on cam having some fun playing. I'm
a fem. My problem is with some of the viewers. I know you can
rate from 0-5, and I didn't expect all 5's but, if
you didn't like it DON'T SIT THERE AND CONTINUE
WATCHING after your score was a 0. Do you think you are that
special? It does not make a person fill good so think before
you hit that score. Since most of you don't ...
4 Comments, 309 Views,
16 Votes
,6.21 Score
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Young Women, Older Guys, Deprived or Depraved? 5/3/2005
I must have been deprived as a youth as far as girls went.
I started reading Playboy, Penthouse and others when I
was about ten. I mean, I "really" read the articles.
Because of this, I believe, my knowledge of sex (in the "adult"
body) was far beyond what any girl my age could achieve,
or me for that matter. So, I was too, enthusiastic when it
came to sex and turned girls my age off or ...
0 Comments, 100 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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might it be me 5/2/2005
all this internet meeting and riding is nuthing its ruined
marriage ruined love and all it has done has turned most
of us into sex crazed mad ppl which is good but.....
2 Comments, 90 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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To much "hate" in this world!! 4/30/2005
I have come to notice alot of people are fighting more and
more every day! There is so much hate now its pretty scary!!
Please take a moment, look at your lucky stars!!...you
have many that sparkel!!! Peace is for everyone! I believe!!
Love @ and Peace is what this world needs now! Plz join me
to help change that!! We all deserve that! Thank-you...
Kindria xx!
2 Comments, 140 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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I for got to tell yall 4/29/2005
I may put some of the real cry babies from Swapfinder.com pics in my articles
may be not who knows who cares most of them are not the real
person and I do get to alot of tiny town papers as well a metro
politan and it will make the tiles swing in america makeing
a cum back or just cum and the cation for tne next weeks article
will be and you can see them for free in saturadys issue and
you know what ...
4 Comments, 195 Views,
2 Votes
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dumb asses all 4/29/2005
your on here you think there telling the truth hell no there
no picks of some one else telling you there 109 when they
mean 1009 size 2 when they mean 22 and the piss and moaning
ever one does hear when there petty fealing get hurt that
also why they lies so much
and I know I don't put no stinking periods and shit do
you speak that way no and if I hit a wrong key do you cerect
ever time ...
3 Comments, 207 Views,
7 Votes
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Old, old member profiles... 4/29/2005
Can nothing be done to remove profiles that haven't
been used in 2 years and over? These people are not coming
back, and it wastes my time to go through them. Also, what
is the deal with clicking a profile, and it's been removed?
If it's removed, technically, there should be nothing
of it left. Just a couple of things I wanted to bitch about.
Thanks!
4 Comments, 112 Views,
7 Votes
,6.10 Score
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Skat just flat gross' me out 4/28/2005
I am sorry, but skat just really is gross to me. years ago
at a bachelor party one of the guys brought a skat video.
<br>
Out of about 12 guys at the party, only 2 or 3 could stomach
the video. The nasty desire to be shit on just did not work
as a turn on for most of the guys.
<br>
I couldn't get past the opening scene. I am very open
to just about anything, but skat is ...
1 Comments, 148 Views,
0 Votes
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People with loose lips 4/27/2005
Hi, how many people here hate people who just cannot keep
their mouth shut about an encounter they had\almost had
with you??? They seem to feel as if they need to tell everyone
they know about something that should be keep private and
discreet. In my book I feel that my private encounters are
exactly that private. I give others respect, they should
give me the same. Even worse if they were ...
2 Comments, 141 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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why not? 4/26/2005
i am a really sexual bi man, i rerally want to experience
a t-girl, but my problem is the ones who have responded
want money, are there any t's out there who just want
to break in a newbie?
1 Comments, 83 Views,
1 Votes
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AMAZING! 4/26/2005
I have been on this site for a few months now. Mainly to find
guys for my wife to have sex with. I have found 7guys for her
since I have been on Swapfinder.com. Im amazed at how many guys dont know
how to have sex with a women. How they dont know how to please
a lady before they get off. One of these so called studs lasted
all of 3 minutes if that. Out of the 7 guys she has met only
one has satisfied ...
6 Comments, 553 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Are Things Better? 4/25/2005
It would appear that things are happening here a lot faster.
I have noticed that articles, blogs, and questions get
submitted numerous times a day now where as just a month
ago it seemed like it was sometimes every 2 or 3 days.
<br>
Does anyone else find this more useful or does it make people
have to surf more in order to find topics they like more specifically?
0 Comments, 35 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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My RANT Does size really matter? 4/25/2005
Guys, I had no idea you were all so OBSESSED with your dick
size!!!. Who would have thought that was the only thing
a man could think about. Yes obsess over.
<br>
This week alone, in the ADVICE section Does dick size really
count posted on the following dates, April 14, April 15,
April 19, April 22, April 23, April 24, TWICE, and yet again
TODAY. Count those times guys!!!!HOW ...
10 Comments, 445 Views,
16 Votes
,4.16 Score
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truth 4/25/2005
I would like to live in a world where everyone suddenly becomes
cool about sex. 's questions are answered
as they ask them, and are taught about sex as a part of life.
Adults make any sexual arrangement they please as long
as it doesn't hurt some third party. If two people are
walking down the street and they suddenly want to fuck,
they just fuck right there, and if anyone has a problem ...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
1 Votes
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BOTH SEXES ARE EQUALLY MEAN 4/25/2005
I'M A MARRIED WOMAN AND I'VE BEEN ON THIS SITE ON
AND OFF FOR SEVERAL MONTHS. I TOO HAVE HAD FAILURES AND BEEN
LUCKY. TRUTHFULLY THERE ARE THOSE WOMEN WHO MEARLY LOOK
FOR LOOKS IN A MAN, BUT BE HONEST MEN, YOU TOO ARE GUILTY OF
THE SAME, I CAN HONESTLY SAY THATS WHAT I NEVER LOOKED AT.
I AMONG SOME OTHERS, HAVE BEEN HERE TO FIND A FRIEND. THIS
SITE I BELIEVE IS HERE NOT TO JUST FIND A F*** ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
0 Votes
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Prefer Not to Say? Then I Prefer Not To Talk 4/24/2005
I hate the 'prefer not to say' option. I see it on
a profile and my eyes roll, I groan and stomp my feet. Prefer
not to say, hmmm? Then I prefer not to answer any of YOUR questions.
We may not know EXACTLY why the Femme radar is on high alert
when we see it..but we know it's SOMEthing! Most women
I know, simply delete emails with PNTS in high importance
questions or if there are too ...
9 Comments, 236 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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WTF. WERE ARE THE REAL PEOPLE AND IF ANY OF THEM DO EXIST WERE ARE YOU ? 4/24/2005
I HAVE BEEN A MEMEBR ON THIS SITE FOR OVER 2YRS GIVE OR TAKE
AND HAVE HAD MINIMUM EXPERIENCES WITH ACTUALLY MEETING
PEOPLE ON THIS WEBSITE YET INSTILL EVERYDAY THERE ARE MILLIONS
OF PEOPLE WHO JOIN EVERYDAY SAYING THEY WANT TO MEET PEOPLE
FOR 1 ON 1 SEX OR A SECRET RELATIONSHIP. WHICH IN REALITY
IS THE SAME THING. IN MY TIME BEING ON HERE IVE LEARNED THAT
THERE ARE A LOT OF B.S MEMEBERS WHO ...
0 Comments, 146 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Such lovely minds... 4/23/2005
This is a rave, a raucous appreciation, for the lustrous
gems to be found in the sometimes impenetrable murk of these
pages, the shining wit that peeks, sparkling, from between
the lines, that hints of delicious humor and tantalizing
sensuality.
<br>
I speak, of course, of those of you whose posts light up these
columns with replies that are both sage and whimsical,
sassy, ...
1 Comments, 63 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Comprehension .... 4/23/2005
The naked trueth that most will never accept ... is ,
simply this :
Allowing control .. Accepting control ..
To explore unanswered questions of the body and soul is
of no ones true view or condemtion .
It is simply between those of mutual understanding and
comprehension.
0 Comments, 89 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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WOMEN ARE MEAN 4/23/2005
It is true. I am one of those poor souls misguided by the myth
that women were nurturing, compassionate creatures.
lol. But then I grew up. Women are too mean and cruel. Not
only on Swapfinder.com but in real life too (which is probably why guys
ended up going on Swapfinder.com in the first place).
<br>
Alot of women are mean to the nicer guys. And no matter how
respectful you may approach a woman, they ...
17 Comments, 448 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Younger guys and articles/blogs 4/20/2005
I am still greatly troubled by the lack of younger guys who
have high rated blogs/articles. The few I do see only focus
on tales of masturbation and not really sex unless it is
fu**ing like a pornstar. I know we all have different styles,
but a lot of younger guys are very arrogant about their sexual
abilities. Are they afraid some woman might tell them they
don’t know what they are ...
8 Comments, 181 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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Why do men lie about their penis size grrrrr 4/19/2005
Not too long ago I met up with someone from Swapfinder.com in his profile
it stated that he was long and thick. I read somewhere that
average size for a male's penis is around 5.5-5.75
inches. This guy was definitely no where even near average
and has several accounts on Swapfinder.com stating that he is long and
thick it really pisses me off when we've stripped down
and I've become all excited to see really ...
13 Comments, 890 Views,
14 Votes
,5.70 Score
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yeah 4/19/2005
I forgot what I was going to say
0 Comments, 33 Views,
2 Votes
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Network or Not work? 4/18/2005
I am fustrated with the network. I can't delete I can't
accept without declineing My friend added me to there network
and for 3 days i have had no luck figureing this out what the
hell am I doing wrong or? what the hell is going on
0 Comments, 43 Views,
0 Votes
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Tired of ads posing as profiles! 4/17/2005
My rant and rave is that there are many profiles that are
really ads. I get so ticked when I respond to a profile, only
to find out that I am now being invited to someones personal
webpage that requires me to join an internet adult age verification.
0 Comments, 157 Views,
10 Votes
,4.98 Score
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FOR WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING? 4/15/2005
Not the discontented wife (do what’s right and inevitable)
Not a woman fantasizes about running into Brad Pitt or George
Clooney while shopping at Vons
Not a woman that can’t extend herself enough to include
a photo in a dating advert
Not a woman that needs or relies on makeup and cosmetics
(these should be an accent not a mask)
<br>
A women that says: “I ...
1 Comments, 76 Views,
2 Votes
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Nothing to do with Swapfinder.com but the fucking river in hold 'em 4/14/2005
Sorry I just wanted to bitch for a second b/c twice this week
I have gotten beat on runner runner in fucking hold em and
both times has costed me a few hundred dollars. Some fucker
that barely knew how to play got lucky as fuck and somehow
my set of queens (pocket queens with one on the flop) and
set of kings got fucking beat the first time by the person
getting runner-runner for a ...
3 Comments, 249 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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morality? 4/12/2005
I am, I must confess, suspicious of those who denounce others
for having ''too much'' sex. At what
point does a ''healthy'' amount become
''too much''? There are, of course,
those who suffer because their desire for sex has become
compulsive; in their case the drive (loneliness, guilt)
is at fault, not the activity as such. When ''morality''
is discussed I invariably discover, halfway into ...
1 Comments, 67 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Don't Tweek and run 4/12/2005
Im sick and tired of people dropping in on me in an e mail.
Tell me that im a knock out that they love my body think im
really sexy. Tweek on me like Im the only woman at 50 they
ever seen that takes care of themselves. With all the for
and old babe your really hot crap. Express how maybe they
will change there directions in age seeking. Along with
How much you wish I wansn't something and ...
0 Comments, 94 Views,
1 Votes
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It's not if we swallow but why? 4/12/2005
Can someone please help me understand what difference
it makes if we swallow? Someone once told me that they feel
closer to their partner. To know that they have their cum
not only in their mouth but also in their stomach. That made
no sense. Is this just a mind thing or what?
9 Comments, 431 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Posting? 4/11/2005
Has anybody else had the problem where whenever you try
to reply to a post it won't post but keeps asking you
to "re-type the number"?
0 Comments, 27 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Reporting chat room abuse 4/11/2005
I have been reporting chat room abuse for several months
by clicking on "Report Abuse" highlighted
in blue that is always there when you first click on "chat"
to get to the rooms. I copied and pasted the posts of obvious
abuse and I would never get a reply back and nothing was ever
done about it. After being harassed by some women to an extreme
extent I decided to call Swapfinder.com today. I ...
4 Comments, 169 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Is it a Mistake in Location? OR? 4/10/2005
I can’t tell you how frustrating it is to have a cupid setting
come up with a local address fitting the profile of everything
your looking for. Only to find the address given is not correct.
Not even close. Example: someone in my little town of 400
has exactly what IM looking for. When I look closer into
the profile there 7, 000 miles away. What’s with this I
no they ...
0 Comments, 116 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Ever an Optimist I am 4/10/2005
When it comes to sex, I consider myself to be an optimist.
I like to make sure that both me and my partner are having
an alright time and will do just about anything to make sure
the sex (however long it takes) is at least successful.
However, when does one draw the line?
Last month I went on a date with a guy from this site and was
stoked. He seemed like fun, not bad looking, ...
2 Comments, 217 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Why do some men refuse to send face pics? 4/9/2005
I am really fed up with all the men on here that want me to meet
them but will not send me a picture of their face! And all
the claims of high profile jobs and such aren't ringing
true to me. That is really belittling to me...implying
that my work is insignificant and also very hypocritical,
you can see me so fair is fair. All I'm saying is that
if you won't send/post a facial pic then ...
12 Comments, 422 Views,
23 Votes
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Want to see wife being fucked 4/9/2005
I am from India, I have got a beautifull wife its been 14 years
since our marriage she is 34 yrs now, our sex life has come
to a standstill i.e once in a week sort. my wife is very sexy
but very orthodox.She wouldnt even think of getting into
the bed with any other person, but I have a strong desire
to see her with some one else but some one smart good looking
from a good family & ...
1 Comments, 495 Views,
4 Votes
,0.53 Score
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Why is it so hard for people to send a reply 4/9/2005
I've been on this site for about a year now, I've
browsed hundreds of womens profiles, and have responded
to a good number of them, but only a handfull have sent a reply
back, 6 to be exact, What is so hard about sending a reply,
even if your not interested, just so the sender doesn't
wounder if it even got there or not? Another thing I don't
like is those that are not real, and only want ...
3 Comments, 134 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What is up with 4/8/2005
Anybody else notice the lack of updates to the erotic stories?
<br>
<br>
I enjoy reading them, but lately have been very disapointed.
<br>
<br>
The last story ended with no conlusion, and part 2 of "fucking
the wind" has been there since I can't remember
when.
<br>
If I were a paying member, I would be even more upset.
1 Comments, 68 Views,
0 Votes
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Why don't all women swallow? 4/6/2005
In my lifetime I have had the pleasure of far too many BJs
to count. However, there is nothing so anti-climatic as
to have a woman either remove your penis from her mouth just
as you explode or get up and run to the bathroom and spit after
you have exploded. What's the big deal anyway? It's
just pure protein. The absolute best BJs I have ever experienced
were when my lover sucked me dry. ...
18 Comments, 666 Views,
22 Votes
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Don't advertise what you don't want!!! 4/6/2005
I was in chat one night just talking with others that I know.
In comes a couple (the female half to be exact) talking about
wanting to 'hook up' with another cpl that night.
This is not something that hubby and I would normally respond
to, but chose to see what they were all about. I contacted
her, emailed her, and even spoke with her on the phone.
Well, she was a fake! This couple ...
7 Comments, 361 Views,
24 Votes
,7.22 Score
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One place that worked would be nice. 4/3/2005
Recently I have been reading a lot of articles about the
many problems here. Swapfinder.com is trying so hard to get people to
sign up with all their other sites and I'm sure they
are all having the same problems.
<br>
I have sent email to customer service several times and
will get a reply from a different site. FriendFinder sent
me a reply and I have never joined there. There have also ...
3 Comments, 127 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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replying!! 4/3/2005
Why o why do people who place adverts seeking couples/singles
do not reply to those who have taken the time and effort to
read what their seeking. All you have to is no thanks or not
interested, after all its only polite or do people just
ignore the normal mail via the post dominey
1 Comments, 94 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Prefer Not to Say 4/2/2005
I find it really frustrating when you look at an add and most
of it says "prefer not to say" What is so difficult
about spending a few minutes and ticking a few boxes. Why
can people not say if they are tall or short, hair, eye colour
etc etc. I know the information given on profile is vague
to say the least but it is nice to have an idea of what a potential
friend is like before you take ...
4 Comments, 270 Views,
21 Votes
,6.22 Score
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WOW, man i really did get slammed...online by hidden faces 3/30/2005
Just had to post again, thanking you all for the over 200
responses to my artical...as your awaare many have an opinion
of there own and that I respect. So to those that think my
ego was hurt, or my age has anyything to do with everything...I
believe you are the ones that need to grow up? Further more
you all obviously lost the message in there....women are
not material items that are ...
8 Comments, 375 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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What's so scary about actually MEETING someone? 3/30/2005
What's up with all of the people on Swapfinder.com that just want
someone to chat with? Isn't that what 1-900 #'s
are for? I've talked to maybe 5 women off of Swapfinder.com and only
one of them got to the point of meeeting. And it wasn't
like the one's that decided they didn't want to
meet sent an e-mail after we talked/e-mailed saying "I
don't think we click". They just stop e-mailing/calling
when it's ...
0 Comments, 97 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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CONFUSED. 3/30/2005
I know allot of people have wriiten on here how people will
contact them and you write back and get nothing. Well Im
nothing new to that story. Most of the time I would say that
once they saw a picture of a persons face that didnt like
it and were to chcken shit to respond back and say no thank
you. Well I havnt evn had that problem. I had a couple call
me on the phone. I usally will try ...
1 Comments, 122 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Married guys unwelcome at Swapfinder.com? 3/30/2005
Starting to think that married guys looking for extracurricular
are not welcome here.
<br>
I have received some feedback to the contrary, but from
women who live a gazillion miles away (though the erotic
messages exchange were great).
<br>
Are there any women out there who have actually hooked up
through Swapfinder.com with a married man who was honest enough to identify
himself as ...
9 Comments, 268 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Does anyone else wonder if half the people here are real? 3/29/2005
Because sometimes im boggled at how little of a respoce
i get, atleast say no thanks if your not interested. Although
i know females get bombarded here and i can understand why
they don't read them all. Ok, im done ranting for now
0 Comments, 75 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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To blow or not to blow? 3/28/2005
I'm a straight male who loves any oral stimulation
with women...Its funny though how badly some chics are
afraid of cock. I will most always reciprocate the kind
act of service, but some just go through the motions or act
afraid of that hovering cock in front of ones face. Its cool
if you dont swallow or this and that...but playing timid
and afriad is just a turn off to me? Am I alone on ...
16 Comments, 463 Views,
12 Votes
,0.15 Score
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What's the deal with some men? 3/28/2005
I have been on and off line for a few years now and it seems
like when I'm on-line all the men on here are head-over-heels
for women like me. However, when it comes to being in reality
men don't ever find women like me attractive.
Also men think women have bad mood swings. I have to laugh
at any man who says that. For the simple fact that men jump
to conclusions quicker than women do. ...
2 Comments, 238 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Read about this site before you pass judgment!!! 3/28/2005
Yes, that is right people "The Controversial One"
Your1-Nick is going to Rant again about the ignorance of
some of the people and their opinion about this site.
<br>
I have been a member of this site for close to 6 years and have
seen and experience more than any of you members can even
think of, and what pisses me off to no end is how some of you
act like you know it all about ...
8 Comments, 387 Views,
13 Votes
,1.97 Score
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Photos 3/26/2005
It may be just me, but when I see a photo submitted of a cock
with another persons body parts I simply do not wish to get
involved with that one. If you must show yourself in that
manner why are you here? Obviously you already have that
special friend . . . perhaps some like that. Another thing.
. .I just don't think the size of anyones cock makes
them a good or bad person, or the "one". Is ...
3 Comments, 188 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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Point system 3/25/2005
ok, this is half a general question and half a wee experiment.
<br>
Is this points system of participation on the site being
'rewarded' by little bits of access (as far as
i'm aware this only applies to standard members) actually
activated. A previous 'experiment' i did was
sent a refereral, which didn't work cos the person
didn't get it. Any similar thoughts from anyone? ...
8 Comments, 179 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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MEN!!!!!!!!! 3/25/2005
I have met a few people from Swapfinder.com. Most of them are good people
just looking to have fun. But some have real issues.I would
just like to say to those of you that are just looking for
sex, thats great but there are people who are looking for
more. Whan you meet such a person dont be mean or rude just
an "ok im not looking for that" is fine. The rest
is unnessesary. If you are looking for this ...
5 Comments, 390 Views,
19 Votes
,2.73 Score
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Manners. 3/24/2005
The other day I received a reply to a letter I wrote. It was
a quick response saying they weren't interested.
This had me wondering: What has happened to manners? I would
rather get a "No thanks" than no message at all.
I know that regular members have problems sending messages,
but some of these are Gold and Silver members. I wrote back
to this person, and thanked them. I'm sure that a lot ...
5 Comments, 180 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Please proof read 3/24/2005
Some of the stories here are very nice. But then there are
some that make you say what the fuck are they talking about.
Misspelled words are one thing, but when you start out talking
about one thing and in the same sentence talking about something
totally different that has nothing to do with the first
part that just ruin the hold thing. So please proof read
before you submit. Just my ...
5 Comments, 137 Views,
8 Votes
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this old book 3/24/2005
well we all heard the old saying you are as old as you feel
to this I say bull do-do.you are old as people see you.Iam
43 and I feel like 20 and ready to go.yes I know I got some miles
on me but they have been damn good miles not a one wasted.
but people now days look at an old tatered cover of a book
and think oh theres no color no thills no flash.they dont
stop and realize that there is a ...
1 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Censorship 3/23/2005
I'm going to see if Swapfinder.com posts this article. I believe
a few of my post/comments to other peoples articles on problems
with the site have been censored. Well actually not censored,
never posted, so I'll try to change my wording and see
what happens. With all the problems that many of us have
been having, I think Swapfinder.com should do something for us in return
for our patience. I'm only talking ...
3 Comments, 193 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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All this white men/black women - black men/white women 3/22/2005
What I'm going to say is with total respect, so don't
start with that racist *junk*..
After coming to Swapfinder.com I see the black/white thing is still
roaring.. and it is perfectly OK to have the preferences..
But when people like to hide their heads in the sand and say..
Raciam is not real..take a look.. there are *black colleges*/Black
beauty contest/black actors awards.. and that is ok ...
25 Comments, 905 Views,
27 Votes
,4.71 Score
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OK....so I'll give myself a RAVE! 3/21/2005
Allrighty then!
<br>
Just that after 14 months of unemployment, I start in the
AM, a new job!!
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So there!
<br>
*smile*
<br>
Mark
3 Comments, 156 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Hey guys, the jokes on us 3/21/2005
Ever look at the new member photos and find a profile that
has been inactive for a long time? Ever look at your cupid
matches and see the same thing? When you joined this site
were you impressed by all the women looking for men in your
state?
I began to wonder about this so I checked. In New York they
say there are about 28, 000 women looking for men. In actuality
there are only about 5, ...
6 Comments, 253 Views,
14 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Orgy, Anyone? 3/20/2005
I really want to get to know all of those people out there
who are running all of those sex parties, don’t you. Here
on Swapfinder.com we call them “groups” but most people refer to them
as orgies or gangbangs. Technically though, an orgy is
a party where everybody has sex with everybody else as much
as they can until they drop from exhaustion. It usually
involves copious ...
1 Comments, 164 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Dissapointed with what I paid for! 3/20/2005
I'm beging to get dissapointed in Swapfinder.com. Yes I have the
usual complaints about rude people & not getting replies
to emails that I send to people. I'm starting to wonder
if some of the emails I send are ever received. For a week
(almost) I've been back and forth with the "support
team" with problems. None of my magazine activity
nor the fact that I started a group for people in my small, ...
1 Comments, 166 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Swapfinder.com site problems.... 3/20/2005
Just frustrated this am....
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Reading more and more about Swapfinder.com'S problems, let alone
their lack of attention to their paying members...
<br>
My own example for today (the email to them has gone unanswered
for over a week now) is that I've posted 14 articles
(let alone my voting and comments) and recieved credits
for around 4....
<br>
Someone else pointed out ...
4 Comments, 185 Views,
8 Votes
,6.26 Score
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When sore loosers get nasty.. 3/19/2005
Why is it that so many males come on strong and when I tell
them I'm not attracted they try to first change my mind
and when that doesn't work they get nasty? I've
noticed this a lot in the chat rooms. Maybe they think that
if they are interested in me I should lay down a spread em?
Don't they realize that physical attraction is a non
negotiable item here? I'm not having sex with ...
10 Comments, 261 Views,
7 Votes
,6.10 Score
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Were do you get off??????????? 3/19/2005
We are new to the arizona area but in our old group from south
dakota you would get people who would come into message
boards and the only thing they ever put were put downs to
people. I guess I was wondering were do they get off just
comeing in to put others down. If you don't have nothing
nice to say sometimes shut the h*ll up no one wants to here
from you.
0 Comments, 41 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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The ebay Principle 3/18/2005
After reading a plethora of articles and responses relating
to “is there any real people” or “why people don’t answer
email” ect, ect. The thought occurred to me that if these
people were accountable for their actions or lack of, like
ebay, the laws of natural order would weed them out. Hmmmmm…why
did I just tell the world this great idea? Maybe ...
4 Comments, 133 Views,
0 Votes
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RAVE: Posts in Magazine 3/17/2005
In the past, I have noticed it took (sometimes) up to 3 days
before a post would show up on an article or advice thread
I'd posted to.
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However TONIGHT is a completely new and different story!
My posts are showing up very quickly...and a few even immediately
after I hit the post button! I am positively THRILLED!
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I don't know if this will last or not, but I ...
2 Comments, 141 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Why don't you write? 3/17/2005
Hey, I can handle it if you aren't interested but at
least send me something telling me to buzz off! If you don't
tell me to leave you alone I have no idea that I'm bothering
you so until you say something I don't know what else
to do. I wish I could see who you were writing to because it
would be nice to see the qualities that you are truly looking
for.
3 Comments, 181 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Finally other people are proving my theory to be 100% accurate... 3/17/2005
I am Ohh so Very Happy!
<br>
A long time ago I posted a few blogs and articles were I mentioned
my theory of the most intense of uterine orgasms. I clearly
said that a woman’s breasts and nipples play the key role
in that orgasm.
<br>
Lou Paget recently mentioned the same thing in one of her
recent books specifically about orgasms. I mentioned
that women often ...
2 Comments, 253 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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No excuses - not to reply 3/17/2005
I know we all complain about lack of people replying to our
e-mails. Well know we have no excuse as if you hadn't
noticed an optional quick response box has appeared when
you look at a persons profile.
<br>
So go on - at a click of a button you can say not interested
- there are loads of options to choose from, so there must
be one that will answer the e-mail sent to you.
...
2 Comments, 207 Views,
10 Votes
,6.17 Score
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does anything ever change on this site. 3/16/2005
I have been a member of this site on and off for many years,
all I might add as either a silver or gold member.Over the
years I have noticed that Swapfinder.com are eager to introduce new
things that members have to pay for, yet when it comes to
updating things personal matches, new member photos they
are extremely slow. Because of this I decided to cancel
my membership and leave it for a while.
6 ...
2 Comments, 155 Views,
13 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Swapfinder.com Is Overated 3/15/2005
I have been a member for about 4 months now. It doesn't
really seem like there are many people getting together
on this site. There are plenty of fakes (web site spammers),
flakes and talkers, but where is the action? I would love
to hear about any success stories out there.
1 Comments, 193 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Bitchin and Complainin 3/14/2005
I just wanted to say but also ask a question. For the women,
i know we can get sore from time to time. well there are times
when i get so sore that I have to stop having sex. Is this a
bad thing? I would think that it means to things, im tight
or the guy is just really big. So why do the some guys have
to complain and bitch about it. For the men, when i women
gets this way, i think that it ...
2 Comments, 118 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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some personal stauts 3/14/2005
Ok I am ranting again lol what I am really surprised is that
since I have posted my ad that most women for 1 do not read
the entire ad plus the headline? Everything about what
I want and looking for is there, I see no hidden agendas or
lies?? maybe more to the point is that if it is understood
about someone's status IE ( Married , but looking or
separated or attached ) that the others ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Votes without Comments 3/13/2005
It really bothers me when I post an article for advice, or
ask a question, and then get votes without comments. (Obviously,
if the article is just the opinion of the author, then the
votes make sense.)
But, isn't the whole point of asking for advice, or
an answer to a question, to get a RESPONSE? I post so I can
get new information, ideas, and perspectives from the
other members.
...
17 Comments, 218 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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What is wrong with people? 3/12/2005
I can understand that maybe people don't know what
they want out of life. With that said, shouldn't you
figure it out, before leading others on? If you have read
my other post, a woman stood me up. She was so immature that
it took me several phone calls to find out that she changed
her mind. Okay, it happens, but she could have at least told
me, before I made the drive to meet her. ...
3 Comments, 483 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Erotic stories 3/12/2005
Is it just me or can you only read so many erotic stories before
they all seem to become bland and blend into one?? Do we need
to know every bra size, " she had 44dd titties"
wouldnt WOW she had the biggest nicest titties i`ve ever
sucked. oooooooooooh aaaaaaaaaaaaaah, i`m cuming just
doesnt seem to turn me on anymore. How about some "i
fucked my mother/ or doggie stories.
3 Comments, 154 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Wimpy Women 3/11/2005
I just read an article, under the category "Dating",
that really annoyed me. This women states: men want her
to "go at it" when they first meet. She says she
would consider herself easy if she agrees to the sex. Then
she blames pressure from this sexually loose "society",
we supposedly live in, for making her question her attitude
towards sex on the first date. Her question to the members: ...
2 Comments, 124 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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a RAVE for the nice guys. 3/11/2005
I have been on this site for just over a year and have spent
a lot of time in the magazine. I didn't come here to find
a relationship, or even sex, to be honest I have no idea why
I ended up on this site, but i'm glad I did.
When I first came here, I had a pretty low opinion of men in
general, I didn't believe that there was such a thing
a "nice guy", they were all jerks and liars that ...
3 Comments, 221 Views,
13 Votes
,6.33 Score
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Censorship? 3/10/2005
Anyone else ever wonder about this...when we post a network
bulletin....it's always "pending approval"...?
<br>
Why?
<br>
This isn't in out in the public domain side of the site
and considering that it's an OPT IN to even be in a network....why
is an "approval" needed?
6 Comments, 274 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Why are people scared? 3/10/2005
I just want to know why when you talk to a person for quite
awhile they don't even share their name with you?I
always do if i talk to or exchange notes, it makes it more
personal.And i then like to get to know that person.
3 Comments, 150 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Irritated by people! 3/10/2005
Why is it that some people lie and lie? I have had too many
women contact me and 'pretend' to be interested
in a sexual encounter, just to turn around and say 'forget
it'. I sat down at a place that she chose and waited for
our first meeting. I began to call and call, just to finally
get a phone call back that she changed her mind! I have recently
begun to develop sympathy for what men ...
10 Comments, 335 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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I have a complaint! 3/8/2005
As a Standard member working on getting enough points to
get one month of Silver statis, I have noticed that sometimes
when I click on a name it will not only tell me all about them,
but let me write to them. I couldn't figure this out
right away, until I saw that a Gold or Silver member can pay
extra to let Standard member contact them. I thought "What
a great idea"! I have no complaints ...
3 Comments, 233 Views,
16 Votes
,4.74 Score
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contacting a member 3/8/2005
Well I have been with Swapfinder.com for a while and for the most part
I like what I see. I am kind of mislead by the fact that you
have to wait a long time to get any sort of answer when someone
is on IMC. I know that IMC may work differntly from most Instant
messengers do on other system, but it takes a long time to
see if the other person actually received the IMC. I wonder
if Swapfinder.com could do an ...
2 Comments, 115 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Swapfinder.com problems 3/6/2005
am I the only one expierencing white outs in chat rooms??
3 Comments, 90 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Continuing on "what to put on profle" topic 3/6/2005
I posted an article about being honest on your profile,
and there were many responses so I thought I would follow
up and talk about how to tell when someone is not being honest.
Again, this is just me, so you are free to disagree. I also
think the honest issue is different for different age groups.
<br>
There are many reasons why someone would be dishonest:
1. Desperate: someone ...
2 Comments, 93 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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A Rant - Winks Disappearing Fast 3/6/2005
Hi, All
<br>
I used to get winks and people checking out my profile on
a daily basis.
<br>
A good number of people added me to their Hotlists too.
<br>
Since I've joined private groups I hardly have anyone
look at my profile and as a result I'm losing winks fast.
<br>
It doesn't make sense that fewer people are looking
at my profile since I joined ...
6 Comments, 239 Views,
1 Votes
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Exlover 3/5/2005
I have been talking to a man that I used to date about 10 years
ago. He had recently found me through an email from a mutual
friend. Although we are both married now, it was great to
hear from him. We immediately started talking and viewing
each other on the webcam as much as we could. The chemisty
that we felt between us was so hot. All I could think about
was getting my hands on him. I ...
1 Comments, 157 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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the good and the gabbs of Swapfinder.com 3/5/2005
this is soley in response to howmany aka lovesex's
article
being a Swapfinder.com member for many years now
have been very exciting but for all the ladies and guys cumminacation
is soley important alot of hit and miss are out there but
for the most part when responding to an add never be vulgar
in response or to be pushy be honest goes along way
0 Comments, 47 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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What happened to being polite??? 3/4/2005
This of course is a rant!!! Why cant a guy, that you have taken
the time out of your day(or evening) to meet, at least have
the balls to say "Thanks-- but no thanks!"??
I am really ticked off about this, this guy and I wrote and
spoke on the phone numerous times, I didnt lie and tell him
I was Miss America or anything. He still insisted we meet---
so I took off work, arranged my schedule ...
14 Comments, 432 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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Rediculous 3/2/2005
I think that it is absolutely absurd to for a bunch of women
to join a chat room that they refuse to chat in. I mean why
waste good money or time on something that you have no intentions
on going through with
2 Comments, 97 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Do Penis pics really break the ice with ladies? 3/2/2005
I find it interesting how most guys attempt to make initial
contact with prospective females by sending a "howdy"
and a "Woody"! I suppose the mans' thought
is that women are as visual as they are and that they are only
surfing Swapfinder.com for the "Dick Pics". My experience
has usually been that most women need to know at least a something
more about the entire "Package" before they
unwrap the ...
6 Comments, 226 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Feral Redemption 3/2/2005
Feral Redemption
<br>
<br>
There are times, recently, that I would tear my heart from
my chest. The sanctity of life is sometimes not worth the
pain of suffering. No, I do not speak of the pain of the flesh.
I do not make reference to that subtle difference that one
of my kind has between the realms of pleasure and torment.
I refer to the soul shaking murder that one ...
2 Comments, 58 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Why Are The Rules Different For Men And Women 2/28/2005
Can someone with some insight please clear this up. Why
is it that if a man has multiple sex partners, he is patted
on the back by his mates and congratulated, called a stud.
<br>
Yet, if a woman has multiple sex partners, she`s calle a
, or ?
<br>
Not really fair in my eyes, if it all about fun, the same congratulations
should go to both ladies and gents.
<br> ...
7 Comments, 226 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Swapfinder.com Web Site Reliability 2/25/2005
I would like to know if anyone else has notice how S-L-O-W
this web site is compared to most web sites. Recently I have
experienced "white outs" on chat pages and
get kicked out all together from time to time. This does
not make me want to "upgrade" to the next level
of membership. What gives?
5 Comments, 143 Views,
8 Votes
,6.03 Score
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When did no become yes?! 2/25/2005
Some guys understand no. However...some guys are still
under that "ohhh she's saying no but she means
yes" thing. I really hate that. It ruins the mood,
cuts my sexual flow and makes my body tense up. Somehow the
signs just don't get through. Maybe it's my soft
voice. Maybe...some guys find the need to be aggressive
because of it. Good God. Some women enjoy a good bite on the
nipples or ...
1 Comments, 26 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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I lost twenty pounds on the sex diet 2/25/2005
I lost twenty pounds on the sex diet
Current mood: nostalgic
<br>
So, I was talking to a friend about how many people I have
had sex with. My number is pretty low, but the reverse of
that is that the number of times I have had sex is overwelming.
I am voracious once I'm engaged in a sexual relationship.
<br>
Like... after little over a month of sex with my ex we ...
1 Comments, 140 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Why I could never be a lesbian even though I love them 2/25/2005
Why I love Lesbians or Why some of my best friends are Lezzies!
<br>
So... I love lesbians (and Bisexual women) because there
is a real appreciate for a woman in all her glory. Not just
the physical, emotional, or personality, but also in combination
and the wholistic aspect of her nature.
<br>
All that aside, I totally love to cuddle with my female friends
and it ...
1 Comments, 119 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Stop playing games! 2/23/2005
Why is it you get mail from some one who want's to meet
and once you try to set up a date they chicken out and don't
show up. It seems they don't have the nerve to at least
E mail you and let you know they may have changed their mind.
4 Comments, 110 Views,
9 Votes
,6.42 Score
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NEWS FLASH>> Should All Sex Toy's Be Banned?? 2/23/2005
I'm sure all of you have heard the news.. about the question
- Should all sex toy's be banned? with three states
voting YES, so far..
Ok women get out your vibrators..Wonder what they are going
to give us for turning in our toy's.. In Los Angeles,
every time a gun was turned in, they handed out a *turkey*..
Just think, if a gun is worth a turkey, what we might get for
our vibrators.. ...
19 Comments, 420 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Getting Points 2/23/2005
i've done the max for voting about articles and for
joining sites, but yet i have almost zero points for those
two categories.
<br>
i followed the link from the right page, but i think some
links are broken.
<br>
getting these points is such a headache. even after following
the directions a bunch of points aren't logged into
the account.
<br>
why aren't ...
3 Comments, 184 Views,
12 Votes
,5.10 Score
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ConfirmID 2/22/2005
This is a good idea in concept, but if I were running the show,
I would change something here. I don't have the money
right now for a Gold or Silver membership, so earning as
many points as I can is top priority. I don't have any
ink in my printer and think that there must be plenty of people
that don't even have a printer. So what I would do is
make it possible for members to get a ...
3 Comments, 88 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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I can't stand it anymore 2/22/2005
1.You are=You're not Your
2.Discreet is spelled Discreet not Discrete
3.Disappointed is spelled Disappointed not Disapointed
and I usually am especially if you can't spell.
5.One woman=woman(singular). Two women=women (plural).
4.Pictures of just your Hairy Cock is a total turn off. If
you have to send it, at least shave!
13 Comments, 607 Views,
28 Votes
,4.88 Score
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READ MY LIPS and my profile 2/22/2005
Why do we bother writing a profile when most people dont
seem to read, understand or digest what is written.
How honest can we be.....WE DONT FULL SWAP and yet they still
come......lets chat they say, swap pics they say, then
....... when can we meet and shag you 2
Are we the only honest couple (except for a few) that tell
the truth...surely not. So many couples tell us that others ...
4 Comments, 171 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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them ass shots 2/21/2005
How about them nice tan asses in g-strings and boyshorts,
bent over even better!!! Thats all I have to say!!!
0 Comments, 100 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Is anybody serious? 2/21/2005
Is there anybody serious? What a question to ask. If you
were a couple looking for a male, or a single female looking
for a male. it would be inconcievable to think you couldn't
get that done in less than 10 minutes.we're a couple,
looking for a single female and no ones serious and cant
find one after three months. we've even clicked on
single females looking for couples which turn out to ...
2 Comments, 110 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Married Men - Please Read a Profile Before Emailing.... 2/21/2005
Is there anything I can do with my profile to stop married
men from contacting me? It is a waste of my time and theirs.
I am not interested in breaking up anybody's marriage.
It states on my profile that I am not interested in married
men, yet, I get quite few on weekly basis. Please, I am not
going to respond to you, so it would be appreciated if you
all of you would cease to contact me.
12 Comments, 303 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Married but not dead 2/21/2005
I have been a member of Swapfinder.com for awhile now. I am looking for
a lady that just wants to have fun a couple times per month.
I am married and not looking to replace my wife. I am just
looking to add some excitement into my life and into hers.
Age is not important. I do believe in treating a woman like
a lady. Is this site the wrong site and I should just be going
to an service or am I doing ...
2 Comments, 134 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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R u 4 Real? 2/21/2005
I have been a member of this site for some time now and and
member of multiple groups. The same theme seems to be in
every group. "All talk, no action" People if
you aren't serious about hooking up then why waste
people's time?
1 Comments, 78 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Why go through all that? 2/20/2005
I got stood up tonight. If it had been a normal no-show, I
wouldn't be so freaking pissed...
I got the room (yes, I paid for the room...) and sent time
a text message with the room number to him. That was at 8:12pm.
Twenty minutes later he sends a message "I'll
be there in 30 minutes". At 9:00 I ask him if he's
on his way; his answer is "yes". At 9:30, "I'll
be right there". At ...
10 Comments, 529 Views,
17 Votes
,6.24 Score
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Honesty question 2/20/2005
I recently posted a question on the advice lines about honesty.
Most of the responses were good ones, and yes I could have
phrased my original question slightly different I believe.
Although there is one response that did offend me seriously,
I am not naming names, because I am not that way, and the person
knows who they are.
<br>
I am the way I am with honesty due to past ...
2 Comments, 128 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Why do guys try not to cum? 2/20/2005
Why does it seem like guys try their hardest to prolong ejaculation
as long as possible? If I'm going down on a guy and he
blows his load in 30 seconds, that's like best compliment
he could ever give me. So why do they usually stop me? Personally
I don't enjoy being ridden for hours on end, long past
when I have finished. 15 minutes (or less) is ideal. Why
do so many guys look at it as a ...
10 Comments, 421 Views,
13 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Men - LEARN TO READ 2/19/2005
Do you guys reaise how much it pisses us women off when we
clearly state that we are looking for other women and then
find our mailboxes full of guys saying " if you ever
want a BIG cock on the side"?
<br>
Get a grip guys. You're only making us stear more clear
of ever being with a guy again
7 Comments, 193 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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Let me see how many ladies I piss off with this one. 2/19/2005
OK here is my rant for the week.
<br>
This morning my wife unloaded on me about me being in the
chat room talking to everyone and flirting with my lady
friends.
Yes, she knew that I was a member and I've never held
this back from her and I've had her watch me chat in the
room. No I didn't change the way I chatted just because
she was watching me.
I have told her I'm in the ...
10 Comments, 528 Views,
12 Votes
,3.68 Score
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why bi 2/17/2005
why do so many women say they are bi but never want a man surely
that means they are lesbians ( dosnt it?)Can ANYONE explain
?
2 Comments, 146 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Gender specific questions 2/16/2005
I hope this is the "oppropriate place" to post
my "subjective" opinion.
<br>
It's getting pretty old and tired to read through the
opinions to question. One's that I have a general interest
in knowing what other people think and to keep running across
the crap. Someone who is not answering the question, but
uses the space to try to demean the person asking the question
because ...
3 Comments, 150 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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WHY DO THE LADIES PASS ON MARRIED MEN 2/16/2005
Well it seems we are mostly here for the same reason.
I browse all of the hot photos of women, and read a lot of hot
profiles.
It seems most are willing to talk and lead you on, but then
refuse to meet because I am still married. I always tell
them up front.
What am I doing wrong?
6 Comments, 278 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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Stupid emails 2/16/2005
I got an email from a lady. This is it:
<br>
"ummmmm...if you dont want sex....then get the fuck
off the sex site! What about us horney hot women who see your
profile and just want SEX. Apply for "walkintheparkwith
subtance" channel instead of here!"
<br>
Strange that her own profile states that she is looking
for bondage/discipline, role playing, and other ...
5 Comments, 297 Views,
14 Votes
,5.38 Score
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Only a sex site? 2/16/2005
I just read a respons to someones question that made me start
thinking about something.
Part of the respons had something like "relax dude,
it's only a sex site" in it.
It made me realize that I've seen that type of comments
before. Not only in here but also in the chat rooms.
<br>
It seems like people are mitigating what this is. I know
that some people in the chatrooms blurt ...
4 Comments, 445 Views,
23 Votes
,5.93 Score
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FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND PORNOGRAPHY 2/15/2005
There is an article of someone posting Swapfinder.com Rules..
In which there is an article that says: vi) displays ***pornographic
or sexually explicit material
of any kind;***
Also saying the words *P***y* and *F**K* are not to be used..
I have no objection to this as I rarely cuss.. I consider
hell/and damn big time cussing words.. I save the sexual
words for late night use..
Now my ...
4 Comments, 333 Views,
9 Votes
,5.35 Score
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O why will my poor web cam not work with Adulit Friend Finder 2/15/2005
O why will my poor web cam not work on hear or work in the messanger,
my web cam is sad at that cus all the other places it works
so a hugg fore my web cam dont feel sad i know you miss being
on but it is ok fore one day you will work on hear with charm.
<br>
Aneyone know why some of us members are having problems
brodcasting our cams on the site and on the messenger my
cam works ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
0 Votes
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Friends From Afar 2/15/2005
It has been my experience that the loveliest, most Human
and most touching correspondence that I've received
has been from people impossibly far away to ever meet.
<br>
I've met terrific local people too, to be sure. Yet,
there seems to be something about distance that allows
people to open up and say what they really think and give
their honest responses to a profile or post that ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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HAPPY I LOVE YOU DAY TO ALL! 2/14/2005
This is a rave about the members of Swapfinder.com.
<br>
In the few months that I've been a member I've met
great lovers and made terrific friends, many of them from
all over the globe. Additionally, I've read I don't
know how many articles and posts that really made me think
and from which I learned a great deal about Human sexuality
and Human nature in general.
<br>
The ...
3 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Posting on area boards. Can it be done? 2/14/2005
Ok now lets see, I need to tell my friends in my are about a
party, where do I go? The local boards that I'm a part
of.
Yea right if it were only that easy. Hell I've tried
to post the same info 5 times in the last two weeks about the
first M&G in my area and for some reason it's not getting
posted.
Heck as standard members are we now limited on this too?
I can invite people to my ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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You people . . . 2/13/2005
I read some of the posts with interest. You women talking
about being stood up, the men being selfish, the this and
that. You men talking about the women wondering why you
are so blunt and honest with responses, whatever. Don't
you people get the fact that we are just seen as bodyparts.
No one cares about who we really are or what we really need.
We are body parts and those related ...
8 Comments, 589 Views,
25 Votes
,3.57 Score
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Why? Why? Why must you! 2/13/2005
all aspects of our relationships, permanent or temporary,
what is wrong with being honest? We have to use "handles"
because society requires us to hide our identities. In
writing our profiles, do we generally describe who we really
are? I doubt it, there's always some inflated ego involved,
it's human nature! Would you REALLY respond, IF everyone
gave a "true" description of themselves? Be ...
3 Comments, 85 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Adios, one and all!!! 2/12/2005
Just popping my head in one last time to say goodbye to all
the folks on Swapfinder.com. I have decided to cancel my basic membership
because I feel Swapfinder.com is a crock of shit.
Why? Because I recently sent them an e-mail pointing out
two fake profiles on the system. They said they'd look
into it, but fuck all has happened. Not only have the profiles
not been deleted, but one of the pics has been ...
2 Comments, 339 Views,
21 Votes
,6.34 Score
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Attracting the unwanted most of the time.... 2/11/2005
It seems I tend to attract mostly largely overweight women,
ultra-worried women, women who intiate but later don't
reply, and women in thier fifties. I am fairly open-minded
but is it my destiny to never meet a woman that am VERY interested
in? I'm told by some that I have a great body and a humble
heart and can make them laugh and I treat women right. It
just feels so wrong. It must be my ...
8 Comments, 322 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Big Nose, Big Hose? 2/11/2005
Big Nose, Big Hose? Not necessarily. While we've all
heard tales about beefy hands, noses and earlobes being
surefire signs that a huge dick is waiting in the wings,
thousands of measurements over the years show no correlation.
Penis size is very much a product of heredity and genetics,
not the size of your loafers.
1 Comments, 108 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Is There Actually Such A Thing As A Totally Straight Penis? 2/11/2005
The Straight Penis? No matter what, straight or queer,
every penis enters the backdoor!
<br>
<br>
Ah, the lure of eager labial folds, welcoming the hung hetero
in their moist embrace. From the days of testosterone-driven
youth, the straight penis hungers for shelter. It can be
the drowny frottage of a pillow from L.L.Bean. A juicy blowjob
with it's Maybelline ...
0 Comments, 81 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Camming 2/11/2005
Not sure if it just us or some of you have noticed that every
night there are the same people who have listed in their
profiles as couples but the other hal is never there. Wouldnt
it be easier just to register on the site, as male or female?
Is it some of scam? This is pure deception to the people who
are looking for couples either for real meets or cam fun.
It is such a shame that people ...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Circumcision (The Truth About The Foreskin) 2/11/2005
Ever wonder what happens to the foreskin of the penis? Well
the truth is hospitals do not actually throw away the foreskin.
Instead they "sell" it to medical researchers
to be used in various medical studies such as skin graphing,
and burn treatment to name just a few of them. The reasons
these companies buy the foreskin is because it contains
more "fresh" skin cells then any other part ...
2 Comments, 133 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Profiles That Request Specifics.... 2/11/2005
I'm sure you've come across at least 1 profile
that states something to the fact:
<br>
"Will respond to messages with photos; if you don't
send a photo, no reply!"
<br>
or requesting specific information or photos overall.
Since you were kind of enough to read the profile & make
sure you could follow up with their request you send them
a message meeting their ...
4 Comments, 127 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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I Know You're Out There! 2/10/2005
I've spent the last week waiting for a return email
from a couple (any couple) looking for a bisexual guy to
join them. Still waiting, and waiting, and waiting, .....etc.
You get the point.
<br>
Gentlemen, I am not out to turn you gay or steal you away from
your wife.
<br>
Ladies, I am not out to turn your husband gay or steal away
your husband.
<br>
You ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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dishonest y......... 2/10/2005
I have met up with quite a few men on here and have slept with
a handful of them. Every single one that I liked enough to
see again bailed. No phone call, no IM, no email........
I specify what I'm looking for upfront: A FRIEND WITH
BENEFITS. Every single one of these men have stated that
they want the very same thing. They seem to have a good time
with me: they laugh, they cuddle, they ...
5 Comments, 340 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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Read this: Not sure I can take this anymore 2/10/2005
I have been looking for a woman that is real. And I was to assume
that the women on this site are what they say they are. But
for the last 2 1/2 months, I have not gotten any play. The
women that I have talked to are just that, talk. They also
don't represent themselves acurately. The average
women on here are looking for men out of their league that
may not want them entirely or honestly. ...
1 Comments, 119 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Am I the only one with (Billing Issues)!!!! 2/10/2005
Am I the only one with billing issues? my membership expired
Feb 6th, And I had yet to decide if I wanted to renew, so I had
my auto renew set to OFF, So I log on Feb 8th and it was renewed
for me ( what the **** ?) Not only was it renewed but renewed
for 14 months, I can't believe that ! Oh wait ! On this
site? Yes I can.
4 Comments, 138 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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What's a guy to do with no money? 2/8/2005
It has become painfully obvious to me that I really can't
do much of anything here without money, or at least a credit
card number. Not being the sort of guy to steal identities
(and a complete lack of opportunities), what options are
there for a guy like me who's trying everything he can
and still gets shot down at every turn? I've tried the
chat rooms, and unless you already know people ...
5 Comments, 208 Views,
6 Votes
,0.23 Score
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What Is Wrong With People 2/8/2005
Looked at the calendar today and it said 2005. Not 1955 but
I was confused... because we still are flooded in this world
with narrow minded people who lack the ability to be open
and honest about themselves and sexuality. Why is it then
that people have made so little progress in the way they
think about these things.
Growing tired of the fakes and the phonies on this site who
just use ...
4 Comments, 474 Views,
17 Votes
,4.68 Score
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so frustrating... 2/8/2005
At least 4 times it's happened. I try to log on to chat
and it says my profile hasn't been approved. What BS!
I've been an approved member for months!
1 Comments, 58 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Winks.... Won't Get Fooled Again 2/7/2005
I have been a member on a number to sites such as Swapfinder.com. They
all have a similiar feature, the introduction. At Swapfinder.com they
are called winks. The wink is supposed to be used as a barometer
to determine if someone might be interested in you. Do people
really repond to winks or are they just a ploy to get people
to join as a paying member? Any thoughts, opinions or personal
experiences regarding ...
8 Comments, 317 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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why oh why 2/6/2005
you take the time to search, you find , you send out e-mails
, you get them in your friends section, then you never
hear from them again, why why, i they are interested in
you enough to become a friend, then why no replies, girls
, woman, if your not interested dont join up on friends, we
keep trying to get ahold of you then we starty to feel like
stalkers, and that is not why we are here, ...
1 Comments, 125 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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mad nice guy. 2/5/2005
ok so why do girls only go for bad boys. Guys who will treat
them bad, piss them off, and leave them. Im a nice guy. I open
doors, pull out chairs, and help put her jacket on. I seem
to always end up in the "just a friend" catagory.
So just what makes the cocky agagent jerk get all the laides?
I would love for some one to tell me.
8 Comments, 178 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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copycat 2/3/2005
hmmmmmm....some people obviously don't have any
advice to give themselves so they take what somebody else
has said, re-write it a little and then post it. I just had
this happened to me. No big deal really but it looks ridiculous.
The person is saying the exact same thing I'm saying
but in different words. I doubt her thoughts on the subject
could be the same as mine.
How about some ...
4 Comments, 336 Views,
16 Votes
,3.86 Score
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As it should be... 2/3/2005
A few days ago I made contact with an Swapfinder.com female. We winked,
checked out each others profiles, exchanged contact info
and then ACTUALLY SPOKE. Though I find Cupid to be generally
unreliable in his matchological science, we hit it off.
After some laughs the convo steered round to "so,
when can I see you?"
<br>
"I'm putting my shoes on right now." She
said.
"Ha-ha, no really..." I ...
4 Comments, 268 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Why the deception? Oh wait, I know why!!! 2/3/2005
It came to my attention within a week of joining this site
that a very large percentage of the profiles for women seeking
men on this site are nothing more than bait for some of the
men here to bite on for the purpose of making money for some
website. This has to be the lowest form of fraud I've
personally ever seen, and I speak from some real experience
on this one.
<br>
I ...
11 Comments, 468 Views,
15 Votes
,6.50 Score
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IMC 2/3/2005
Why is it some members never have the nerve to tell you that
you are not what they are looking for. But then it seems that
alot dont read profiles. Then send you an IM and they have
to "go" suddenly? We are all adults here (except
for afew). Why do you send an IM when you know you have to leave
in the next 2 mins? Before we reply to an IM we always read
the profiles and it doesnt hurt, ...
1 Comments, 126 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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What do women want from us? 2/3/2005
Ok I not a english major so if my grammer and sentence structure
is not to your liking, oh well. What is the deal with Swapfinder.com these
days? Every woman wants some guy built like a greek god,
with a 12inch dick, that can fuck for 2 days straight without
busting a nut. Oh yea he also has to be a sensitive boy scout,
with a rough side, that can write poetry one minute and rescue
her from her ...
6 Comments, 216 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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replys to emails 2/3/2005
why is it that when we take time and interest to look at other
members and decide to send them an email trying to make contact
and maybe meet up, the other person or couple can't
even be bothered to send a reply even a short no thanks would
be nice , so come on all you out there who get emails please
reply even a no thanks could make someones day.
6 Comments, 206 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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A crazy thought about being place here by aliens.... 2/2/2005
I recently ran across an article that stated it is our genetic
makeup to seek a higher power. Well, if that were true would
it not contribute to the hypothesis that we were placed
here by aliens!?
We are inferior physically to all creatures in the animal
kingdom. Think about it. A can smell a termite, a cheetah
can run 70 mph, an ant can lift 10 times it's body weight,
a ...
3 Comments, 101 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Ladies and gents help me out I'm new!!!! 2/2/2005
I'm curious of what to expect from this site and how
to get more profile views and a better replies. I seriously
would like to know how swamped you ladies are with emails
probably 90% of the profiles I view I can't even understand
what her agenda is. Now I understand that a lot of people
are shy, I for one am not. Guess I need some help with spotting
the fakers or not so serious people. ...
4 Comments, 107 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Cease Fire, Please!!! 2/1/2005
What the hell is going on here lately? In the recent weeks,
the level of hostility on this board has been off the charts.
I'm not talking about healthy disagreements or differences
of opinion, i'm talking about outright hostility,
bitterness, anger, name-calling, and attacks on people's
character. Look, I enjoy a spirited debate as much as anyone
else, and we're all entitled to our ...
8 Comments, 451 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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reading ads. 2/1/2005
Ok I know that this is kind of stupid to say, but why is it that
when someone contacts you and says that they are interested
and then while talk to them they ask something that you already
made clear it becomes an issue? do people actually ready
peoples ads. Am I wrong??
4 Comments, 147 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Generalizations 1/31/2005
Quite often there are questions posted in the various sections
that read something like: "What do women want?",
What age do women want their men to be?", What size
dick do women like?", "What are women on here
looking for?" and so on....
<br>
Guys, have you yet not figured out that NO one person is alike,
think alike, walk alike, talk alike, look alike? Why would
women in ...
2 Comments, 175 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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A RAVE about the people on Swapfinder.com 1/30/2005
Yes, a rave... I'm being positive instead of negative.
Just wanted to make sure that was clear 
<br>
Since coming to this site, I have had my eyes opened about
the site and the people here. My attitudes and opinions
about the people on here have done a complete 180 degree
turn. Ever since my first posting, there have been a number
of people who have responded to my letters and ...
3 Comments, 207 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Profile pics! 1/30/2005
As an Swapfinder.com member I enjoy browsing profiles from time to time.
I guess my big pet peeve is with respect to the pics posted.
I have come across numerous profiles with pics clearly
downloaded from internet sites and have even come across
numerous profiles with folks all using the same pic! Come
on folks!! If we want this site to work lets stop hiding behind
fake pics so we know who we are ...
3 Comments, 198 Views,
14 Votes
,6.50 Score
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response to hotthousewife 1/29/2005
the rant and rave was great! it would be even better if she
didnt leave out the reason why i called her whitetrash.
according to her, it was because she told me in a nice and
truthfull way that she wasnt interested. and me not being
able to deal with rejection called her names. hahahhahah
. no. she left out the part of where she replies to me and says
i look like a psycho who took a picture ...
6 Comments, 393 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Rant on talking like a first grader 1/28/2005
Man, I was getting my oil changed the other day, and these
girls come into the tune up place. They aren't even
attractive and they are doing to whole valley girl thing.
It was insane! They couldn't go a sentence without
using the work "like." " I mean, like so,
like I said to him, like, ummmm, like we are so totally breaking
up." I am not really a stickler for looks or grammar,
but oh ...
1 Comments, 111 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Cyber ass holes and stalkers. 1/28/2005
Hold onto your shorts ladies, Guys do cyber stalk other
guys.
I must admit that I was shocked that I now have a guy that want's
to kick my ass. Why you ask? Well I stuck up for a lady friend
of mine after he called her a and a .
Yes she loves sex and likes getting freaky when she can,
all of us that talk to her know this about her and have no problem
with it. If some do they just keep ...
1 Comments, 143 Views,
6 Votes
,5.64 Score
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Unreliable "Friends" 1/28/2005
How many of you people out there seem to have the same problem?
The minute you think youve found a decent 'buddy'
it turns out you were wrong. I dont want to be your g/f, I dont
want to be your wife, I just want you to fk the hell out of me
on a regular basis. Not JUST when its convienent for you.
Why the hell cant I find someone mature enough to do this?
I cant find someone willing ...
5 Comments, 216 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Why do people accept invites, then never contact you again. 1/28/2005
That's my problem and I just don't understand
it. I understand not replying (the women are overwhelmed
with emails), but I wish a simple declination would be cool
or simple email, no thanks.
However, I just don't understand why a woman would
accept an invite and then never talk to you either by email
or IM (when paged).
Thanks for anyone who has answers.
3 Comments, 109 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Still receiving invites from Single Males 1/27/2005
We kept on receiving "invites to join my network"
from single males. The last thing we don't want to do
is to turn down any invites or ignore the person. Now before
any single males here get offended, we included a portion
of what we have written in our profile >>>SINGLE/LONE
MALES PLS. NO NEED to contact us (nothing personal) but
I'm not ready yet for a "menage`a trois"
in an ...
1 Comments, 160 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Insecure males...... 1/27/2005
Drive me nuts. All the time men are complaining about women
who worry about their appearance and have self esteem issues.
What about you fellas? Do you know how many times I have to
reassure my partners? Am I expected to just do this and ignore
the fact that its just as irritating for me to have to deal
with it as it is for a guy to hear a woman call herself fat?
Enough already. If I ...
4 Comments, 155 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Race Issues 1/27/2005
Alright let's rant shall we?
<br>
Well I'm writing this because I want to say that as a
Black Female..there is nothing more peeving to me than
men who are non-Black (whatever race you may be) that will
email me looking for a "hookup" with a "sista".
<br>
And I always know because if you look at their profile, then
you can see that that little box that's marked "race"
is ...
14 Comments, 762 Views,
22 Votes
,6.73 Score
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shave 'at dawg an' teach it ta hunt... 1/26/2005
Seriously guys, some of you need to learn how to either take
a good pic or have some one else do it for you! & (men)
trim that ugly beast!!! You'd be suprised how much
longer & more attractive it will make your little man
look.
PS - It wouldn't hurt if you all actually struck a pose
in those pics either...Just take ALL the clothes off for
a min & pose for the camera already!!!
5 Comments, 154 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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pictures on Swapfinder.com 1/25/2005
i have notice that some of the pics on Swapfinder.com are the same for
different people. cant any of them use their own pics instead
of some one elses. are they lying about who they are. are
they ashame of what they got. can anyone tell me.
6 Comments, 202 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Webcam Broadcast And Messnger 1/25/2005
Is it just us or does anyone have problems with being disconnected
while broadcasting? We can only manage to stay on for like
10 minutes. We got very good internet speed. Then there
is the messenger that basically works when it feels like
but we have to wait like forever. Is there any solution to
this or is it Swapfinder.com that has the problem? Someone please tell
us. It is getting boring to cam coz ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Network Pic's 1/23/2005
I am soooooo tired of putting new pictures on my profile
and having them approved, and still have to see my old pic's
are still on my profile!! Or the new one's will be on
for a day, just to have the old one's back the next day!!
What Gives????
Recently I deleted my main pic completely and it is still
showing up weeks after, So basicly I have no control over
my web page...does anybody ...
2 Comments, 130 Views,
10 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Sex or Romance what's your view? 1/23/2005
There are a lot of articles on here that seem to revolve around
mens high sex drive and womens lack of it.
Is it really that
Women lose the sex drive ....
or is it that men
Men lose the romance drive....
There used to be an old song with the lyrics
"a man chases a girl until she catches him*
Does she catch him and then lose interest or does he stop
chasing?
3 Comments, 74 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Lakies, does seeing a profile photo of a Guy's Penis really influence you to Contact him? 1/23/2005
I’m sorry, I’m sure that this question
has been asked many times before, but do women really
like (enjoy) seeing all these photos of mens Johnsons as
profile photos on Swapfinder.com??? I’m really
interested in hearing the opinions of you ladies here at
Swapfinder.com! I’ve got to tell you that as a straight male,
I really don’t care to see all these penises as I’m
reading through the ...
8 Comments, 262 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Single No shows 1/23/2005
Ok all you single guys that keep standing up the people you
agree to meet-STOP IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. It is hard enough
to get people, especially couples, to meet with single
guys. But to have to be punished because some jerk failed
to show for a scheduled meet is making things way more difficult
than they need to be. I for the life of me cannot imagine why
a person would go to all the ...
1 Comments, 116 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Why is it this is an adult site and the actions are of teenagers 1/22/2005
What's up with all the disrespect?????????????????
If you try to set up a meeting, people automatically assume
you want to jump their bones, and to assume is to make an ass
of u and me, (ass-u-me). It's reallly a turn off to
think people think so "highly" of themselves
that without meeting you we'd just have sex with you,
and we know alot of them do but not us so don't assume.
Ask, ...
1 Comments, 189 Views,
13 Votes
,6.33 Score
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Can anyone say ‘text editor’? 1/22/2005
I know when first joining you want to rush through and get
to the good stuff. But for goodness sake, after about a week
please rewrite your profile using a text editor such as
Word (can you say cut and paste?). There is no way you are
going to get a quality response when someone has to decrypt
your profile. And if the person is looking for intelligence,
well I think you get the picture. ...
0 Comments, 46 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Getting stood up... 1/22/2005
Ok, I'm a single mom. I have a really limited amount
of time I can meet people because of this, but when I arrange
to met someone I am *always* there. This weekend I was stood
up twice, by two different people, and as a result my entire
weekend is wasted. Instead of having fun I am sitting here
on my ass on a Saturday night (after doing the exact same
thing last night). It's far too late ...
17 Comments, 470 Views,
16 Votes
,7.10 Score
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Patience is a Virtue 1/21/2005
<rant>
I'm really sick of the complete lack of patience displayed
constantly here. That's what's wrong with society
today. We're completely predisposed to 'instant
gratification'. ESCPECIALLY on the internet. With
the advent of today's faster and faster network technology,
we're used to 'point-click-done', and apparently
people are expecting the same type of response on ...
7 Comments, 373 Views,
14 Votes
,6.98 Score
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Choices 1/20/2005
The world is a complicated place. Now, I know with that one
line, those six words, I lost some of my audience. There
is an extremely good possibility that you, dear reader,
are thinking something like: “You’re born, you live, you
die. What’s so complicated?” or “The world is simple; ‘survival
of the fittest.’” Or you may have another ...
1 Comments, 110 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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What is a "person of European descent"??? 1/20/2005
Okay. I've seen this term, or ones like it, in a few profiles,
and I just had to go off on a bit of a rant (bear with me, it's
actually kinda funny, and maybe useful).
<br>
When you say "I'm looking for a person of European
descent", you might as well say "I'm looking
for someone from the homo sapiens species". Could
you narrow it down a bit?
<br>
"European" could ...
1 Comments, 118 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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I want to be fucked (Women's headline) 1/20/2005
Women list that they want to be just fucked by young to older
men. Then when you look at their profile no matter what age
they are you're not in their age range. What gives??
If you just want to fucked, then unless the guys is not: good
looking, bad breath, no dick or in his 80's what's
wrong with at least responding to the guy and telling him
why not!!!!
3 Comments, 200 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Alter ego's on Swapfinder.com. 1/18/2005
OK, let's see how many reply to this one with a real Swapfinder.com
profile with a REAL photo.
Now I know that most of us have other sign in names just in
case we want to see what is going on in a chat room and not talk
to everyone.
I know some do this so if they get banned by Swapfinder.com for some reason
they can still chat and goof off.
I know that some abuse this by coming into a chat room and ...
5 Comments, 331 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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Stop the madness..... 1/18/2005
This disturbing news item just in....Republicans are
actually having sex and are...gasp, puke...reproducing.
This cannot be allowed to happen. These toady little sons
of bitches cannot be allowed to increase their numbers.
I know in some norther states they have mandated hunts to
thin the herds of deer and elk. What about a mandated hunt
to thin the herds of Republican? I mean, for the most ...
11 Comments, 347 Views,
14 Votes
,2.50 Score
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The problem is communication! 1/18/2005
All I read about is generalizations. The girls bitch because
all they get are trashy emails, the guys bitch because they
never get a response. What is this? High School?? I have
noticed that A LOT of girls write trashy profiles, so what
kind of letters are they expecting to receive? Even writing
a more appropriate profile I know the girls will still receive
their fare share of garbage, ...
18 Comments, 441 Views,
19 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Something's wrong the Swapfinder.com e-mail system! 1/17/2005
What I'd like to talk about is that everytime I try to
get in contact with a girl, It never seems that they don't
even get it. Whenever I go to my Inbox on Yahoo! I get an e-mail
saying that I have a message in my Swapfinder.com Inbox, but when I go
to Swapfinder.com to see it... there are absolutely no messages whatsoever.
If this is a site of getting together and having fun, how
are we to fulfill what people ...
0 Comments, 93 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Like a drunk Alice in Wonderland.. 1/17/2005
Let's all say it together...ready?..NO ONE OF THIS
REAL. NOT THE PICTURES OR THE STORIES OR THE PROFILES....Like
a bunch of coked-up gerbils on a mechanized wheel of pain,
we speed past sanity and reason and jump right on that motherfucking
train on wishful thinking. AAHH..if only life could be
like this, if only all the women were sexually frustrated
and could only be satisfied by the ...
4 Comments, 172 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Talking to people at the right time. 1/17/2005
As a member off and on for two years now, as with my past articles, all
I can is be respectful to everyone here, no matter what
response you get.As in real life, for example, I could
talk to a woman at work and tell her she looks sexy in those
jeans today, but make the same comment next week, if she
is not in a good mood(somebody else pissed her off earlier), then
its not in good taste.I ...
1 Comments, 65 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Now you tell me... 1/17/2005
Now you tell me, you selfish bitch. Now you tell me that razor
blades are bad. After all we've been through in the
last 10 minutes, now you tell me that all of a sudden they
are freaking you out. Good lord...look they're not
really that shar....FFUUUCCCKK. Help me, goddammit.
Help me. Hey wait, where the fuck are you going? I'm
bleeding here. Three words: 9-1-1. FFFFUUUCCCKKK, that
hurts. ...
2 Comments, 142 Views,
8 Votes
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a message from the church... 1/17/2005
I represent the most Holy Church of the Forgotten Jesus,
here in Greenville, SC. We are a full service church. We
even have a smoking section for our Sunday service.
Now to my word: What is up with this horrible, sinful web-page?
What Hell and Damnation are you wicked people bringing
down upon yourself? Listen to me brethren. Find the Lord,
turn your life over to Jesus and get away from ...
1 Comments, 252 Views,
15 Votes
,2.52 Score
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Non-Hypricritical Bi Virgin 1/17/2005
To those of you who have read the four other articles i've
written and the two advice questions i posted then you know
that i am a 18 year old virgin who doesn't know wheither
she's bi-courious or bi-sexual who has had three serious
relationships only one of which i consider that i was really
in love the other i was really in lust. One of them i was dumped
bc my bf needed to concentrate on ...
2 Comments, 140 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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What pisses me off (and I'm sure I'm not alone) 1/17/2005
What really pisses me off, here or on any other site, is women
who reply to your initial mail/ wink/ whatever, you chat
with them for a while via e-mail, everything seems to be
going well... then she up and drops off the face of the planet???
WHAT GIVES???
<br>
You know, women want to find their "knight in shining
armour" or whatever, and have all these criteria
as to how we're ...
5 Comments, 187 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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trying to figure it out... 1/16/2005
This is a sex and swingers web-site. Right? And the people
who are on here are looking for just one thing, right? So
why do so many women act as if you've farted in their
faces when you get a little graphic in your e-mail to them?
This woman has a red hot profile ("I like to fellate
cattle and boy scouts"), and a picture of herself
inserting a cucumber in her snatch..but let me say that
I ...
6 Comments, 531 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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my profile!!!!!!!!!! 1/16/2005
My profile is the problem? I don't think so. A woman
who's posted a picture of herself with a carrot up her
ass, is going to tell me that my profile might not be sensitive
enough. I don't really think so....
3 Comments, 302 Views,
17 Votes
,5.53 Score
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I can't believe I signed up for this abuse 1/16/2005
I signed up to this net work, just so I could talk to people.
I'm the type of person that is always working. I don't
have time.. to go out to the bars and hang outs. I'm a
clean cut man and have very old stardards (that might be
my problem). All I want to do is talk and get to know people.
I would also talk to men because this is a very large world
in size. But it is very small when you add ...
2 Comments, 120 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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bi- 1/16/2005
Ach du leiber!!! Muy bueno!!!! Sacre Bleau!!!! Just trying
to impress you women with my multilingualism. Oh yea, I
said multilingualism. You know what that means? Oh yea....that's
right.
0 Comments, 35 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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WHAT PISSES ME OFF 1/16/2005
You know what pisses me off the most is this guy 10 years younger
than me, wrote asking to meet with me, and I was going to
and my car broke down.He was fine with that.My husbands
uncle died I couldn't write him back til later and he
just started to cuz me out saying I did'nt mean what
I promissed.Come on my hubbys uncle died what am I soppost
to do go fuck this guy or go with my husband?
5 Comments, 279 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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PLEASE ANSWER YOUR MAIL 1/15/2005
The main object of this forum is to meet new friends with
similar interests.
<br>
I would like to try to overcome the main concern of many members.
That is the lack of response to their efforts to make new
friends.
<br>
Mostly, those contacted completely ignore the wink or
the invitation to meet and just leave the sender waiting
and waiting and waiting and ...
6 Comments, 182 Views,
11 Votes
,5.41 Score
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don't get me started..... 1/15/2005
As far as I can tell this is a web-site for sex and swingers.
That's what the banner screams across the top of the
page. But all the women on here are looking for Mr. Right,
their Prince Charming. And even the ones who write these
real hot, saucy profiles act insulted if you write back
asking for some basic sex or sexual information. What is
this place: e-harmony???
How about some truth ...
6 Comments, 143 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Please Tell Me 1/14/2005
Have you ever experienced this:
<br>
You log on, run a search, get all sorts of results, many of
which advertise that they (women) are looking for "no
strings sex", some of the women you see are married
or attached, are very "encouraging" in their
profile/ad, you then write to them and they write back only
to have this whole thing wind up going nowhere?
<br>
Hey ...
1 Comments, 189 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Takes three to make a threesome 1/13/2005
Why is it, when you ask to meet couples for threesomes, that
single (well, married and advertising for a little on the
side) men write to you asking for a date?
<br>
I finally started replying and saying that I want couples
only and asked if they would like to bring their wives.
<br>
Most answered that their wives were either frigid or old
fashioned and didn't like oral ...
2 Comments, 93 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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hosting.... 1/13/2005
hello everyone,
We have talked about having a party at our home for a long
time now, and this last new years eve, we decided to have
our first swingers party, guessing that would have make
us the HOSTS of the party , we talked about what we would
do(if anything ) at the party, and decided we wouldn't
play, just make sure everyone was having a good time, and
things did'nt get out of ...
0 Comments, 100 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Why 1/13/2005
Why is it when a guy does something that women think is wrong
there just playing mind games. But if the woman does the
same thing it ok and there not playing mind games. I am tire
of women saying lets chat and never hearing from them, or
heres my e-mail address and it dosen't exist. Why the
double standard.
2 Comments, 114 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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What a Sham! 1/13/2005
I have been an Swapfinder.com member about a year now and was wondering
how many others have noticed that when you bring up "your
most recent matches" that after the first couple
of entries, the people listed havent logged on to the site
in over a year or more, some havent been onsite since before
I became a member! How can they be considered "most
recent"? Its bullshit and I think we are having the ...
6 Comments, 280 Views,
16 Votes
,7.24 Score
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A rant AND a rave! 1/12/2005
After several years of membership to this site, including
several subscriptions of Gold and Silver Membership,
I have come to the conclusion that this site is the internet
equivalent of a bowl of granola. It's loaded with fruits,
nuts, and flakes. It is at times, however, very entertaining.
1 Comments, 241 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Seems to be working properly 1/12/2005
Hey Swapfinder.com, you seem to be updating the point total a lot faster
than before, and advice questions/responses are no longer
disappearing. Good job.
1 Comments, 33 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Common Courtesy 1/12/2005
I only have one thing to say, ....if someone takes the time
to send youa note and a picture(ladies)you sould at least
take the time to bkow him off proper.......at least in the
bar I can get a "no thank you" to my face..........the
minimum couols also be expected here on line.
13 Comments, 291 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Learn English! 1/12/2005
I am amazed at the number of profiles of people who are looking
for "discrete" relationships. The word is
"DISCREET". They mean two different things
(actually, two discrete things). "Discrete"
means - separate, different, distinct; while "discreet"
means restrained, unobtrusive, not obvious.
<br>
The other one at the top of my list are the men who say they
know how to treat ...
18 Comments, 491 Views,
18 Votes
,5.44 Score
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Join a Dynamic Group 1/11/2005
When I joined my first group I wrote a small article, the
content of which, was of such insignificance I have forgotten
what I actually wrote about. It was more or less just an introductory
attempt to solicit some remarks and to let the rest of the
group know that I was there. The article briefly appeared
then disappeared. I am not sure if it was monitored out or
if it was just one of ...
1 Comments, 61 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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MEETINGS 1/11/2005
I am curious about a few things, One. when you go thru the
process of winking, e-mailing exchanging photos where
you both know what each other look like. Why do some just
not show for coffee or lunch or whatever you setup? Two.
Since living in a small town are folks less likely to get
together because they might actually know or know about
you? Curious about other members experiences or ...
5 Comments, 119 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Why cant i talk to ppl from where im from!! 1/11/2005
Well for one this website sucks bc im only a standard member
and i cant do crap so when im trying to see ppl to talk to i can
do nothing so ive been busting my ass to try and put up articles
so i can get enough points to become a silver member but im
just starting to say f it. Is there anybetter sites out there
that make it a hell of alot easier?
4 Comments, 139 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score
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why are woman alway's free 1/11/2005
Some times i wonder why women always get free this and free
that WHY? Any dating club you join it's alway's
the same BS women free guy's gotta PAY, WHY? Why don't
us guy's ever get a break and guy's free for a change.
I've noticed a lot of couples that say they are looking
for a guy are't really serious, so why waste someones
time and money. If you are serious FINE and if your not i really ...
6 Comments, 126 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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it's insane... 1/11/2005
Do any of these women actually exist? It is insane. I work
this room as hard as anyone. And zilch, nada, nothing. No
one will even write back to tell me to fuck off. I'm really
losing heart here, and will probably not renew my membership.
Why should I? Hell I can be ignored without paying a fucking
membership.
6 Comments, 174 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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For the guys.....this is why! 1/11/2005
This is for those men out there who are having a hard time
understanding that some of you do treat the women on this
site like nothing more than a sperm depository, and for
those of you that can't understand why you get rude
responses!
This is an actual email that I recieved earlier today. I
never heard anything from this guy until I got this email.
<br>
<br>
"When ...
20 Comments, 729 Views,
30 Votes
,5.40 Score
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Shaved pussies rule 1/11/2005
Shaved pussies are so much nicer. I wish all girls were shaved.
Some girls think it's freaky. I guess some girls thought
it was freaky when they first started shaving their arm-pits.
I believe women look and seem so much cleaner with NO body
hair.
9 Comments, 253 Views,
16 Votes
,3.27 Score
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Rumors and the aholes that start them. 1/11/2005
Call be what you want but why is it that some people on Swapfinder.com
just can't keep that mouth shut? It seems that some
people just have to come into the chat roomand stir some
chit up because they have nothing better to do.
We are all supposed to be adults on this site so why can't
some members act like it. If you social life is so lame that
you need to come on here and start chit do us all a ...
15 Comments, 330 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Leg Humpers in the chat room. 1/11/2005
What is it with all the Leg Humpers (LH's) in the chat
rooms?
Yes you know this type of person, the faceless guy that comes
into the chat room and doesn't talk. They come in with
great lines like, Wanna suck my ****?, Wanna ****?, Got
a 9 inch **** and know how to use it, Looking for a hoe to bang
and other great lines.
It must be me but I think if you wanted to win a lady over you'd ...
6 Comments, 201 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Chat 1/10/2005
I've been a member for a couple and haven't used
the site much untill recently but here is my biggest gripe
so far. I hope someone can answer it.
<br>
Why do so maney, (I'd say about 70% that I've viewed)
members, (Women in this case) indicate that they want erotic
Chat or e-mails then don't get on IM or respond to the
mails??
1 Comments, 97 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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E-mails: Guys some of you are messing things up! 1/10/2005
If you are going to e-mail a woman be nice. Unless she asks
you not to be in her "Ideal Person" area. You
catch a lot more flies with honey.
<br>
And those of you who disagree with a womans self-image keep
it to yourself. I have only been here a short while and don't
remember appointing or assigning my judgement to any of
you. If I dis agree with how a woman describes herself ...
13 Comments, 318 Views,
8 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Age sm-age!! Who cares 1/9/2005
I love it and hate it. Why is it that so many women/couples
want a change of pace but still have some many barriers?
These women are looking to explore and want new men. I want
guys that are in shape, and last more than two minutes....Myself,
and probably others, are kinda tired of it. Look, instead
of looking in the same boring group, try younger!! Cause
I am sure some of us younger ...
2 Comments, 147 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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My Rant/Rave 1/9/2005
WooHoo! Hey, 12 views in less than 24 hours of signing up
- makes me smile 
<br>
Now, if only they'd take that first step and e-mail.
. . !
<br>
I know, not much to say, and it's prolly small crap to
most of you, but it works for me.
1 Comments, 31 Views,
0 Votes
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Fed up with complaints! 1/9/2005
I don't know about every one else in America but I'm
tired of people imagrating to our country and as soon as
the get citzenship start bitching about our way of life.
It isn't that I don't like imagrants, because,
after all this IS America where people can come to be "free".
But if all you can do is complain about our way of life and
say how you do things in your country, and can't really ...
4 Comments, 102 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Chat test. 1/9/2005
I have a fun little test for you to do the next time you're
board.
Go to a chat room(let's say the pacific room) and write
down all the females that you see in the room.
Go back the next day and compare your list to the women in
the room.
Wait 3 days and go back to the room and compare the names on
your list to those in the room.
Wait a week and do it again.
Wait a month and repeat. ...
7 Comments, 304 Views,
16 Votes
,5.92 Score
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FARENFUCK 911? 1/8/2005
My impression is that many people are at least dimly aware
of the facts of what has transpired over the past four years,
and they suffer from a visceral desire to place their trust
in their government. Therefore, I'm left with the
belief that much of our country is suffering under the grip
of a mass delusion, prompted by the horrific events of 9/11
and reinforced with fear conjured up by ...
2 Comments, 289 Views,
18 Votes
,3.40 Score
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Adultery on Swapfinder.com 1/8/2005
I notice that they're so called married women here
on Swapfinder.com seeking men for sexual relationships, because "my
husband is away on business a lot". Are these women
for real or are they the fake profiles people are trying
to avoid? If these women are for real, does your husband
know you're on Swapfinder.com looking for sex behind his back?
How would you feel if your husband, who is away on "business", ...
7 Comments, 272 Views,
10 Votes
,1.00 Score
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Spelling 1/8/2005
Ok. Just a short Rant/Rave here.
<br>
Is it to much trouble for people to use some for of spell-check
before posting a profile, magazine article, or a reply
to either? Hey, this the the 'Tech age'. There
are spell check programs out there for just about everything.
<br>
True, these programs do not check for the proper use of a
properly spelled word, that is up to ...
6 Comments, 168 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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meetings and wasting time. 1/7/2005
I just wanted this known from my point of view. I know that
is just was view, but I think that a lot of people feel the
same. Swapfinder.com is a great site and do not get me wrong, but for some
of the posting that are out, I find it hard for me to figure
out who the real people and the porn website bots. Also,
I am a poster of Swapfinder.com and I try to post a straight forward ad
and make the ones that read it ...
3 Comments, 298 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score
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Crap Swapfinder.com site 1/6/2005
Well, on the 1st of Jan we wrote a complaint regarding our
profile having been deleted, and other issues concerning
this site. We also submitted an e-mail to Swapfinder.com to ask them
to restore the profile, or at least put us back on as a couple.
<br>
<br>
Today is the 6th, and neither has been actioned. The complaint
did not appear here, and the Swapfinder.com guys did nothing about our ...
1 Comments, 177 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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The language issue - for those who rant. 1/6/2005
Recently there have been several articles written on the
issue of language on Swapfinder.com. It seems that there are a lot of
people who complain about "forgein" articles.
Well, i have a few pointers for those with these views, which
i hope will straighten things out.
<br>
1) I have seen the idea of this being an "American speaking"
site - "American" is not a language.
<br>
...
2 Comments, 117 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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The picture thing 1/6/2005
I don't know about anyone else, but personally, "Kas"
and I are getting really sick of people who send pictures
of their genitalia only. It's not that we mind the pics,
because we wouldn't be at this site, if we did. However,
the five main pics on our profile are all of us fully clothed
and, for the most part, from the waist up. In other words,
we are neither proud nor ashamed of who and ...
3 Comments, 112 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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What this site is for 1/6/2005
There have been a couple of questions here concerning whether
it's alright to use this site as a place to do traditional
dating, as opposed to the no-strings sex one usually seeks
and/or finds here. Some people actually had the nerve to
say no, to say that the asker needed a different website.
I can not believe the audacity of such thinking. Sure, you're
here for no-strings sex, but that ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Hate mail 1/6/2005
My lover and I used our cam on Swapfinder.com for others to view for the
first time yesterday. He is so hot and sexy!! Got tons of
great emails, IMs and posts thanks to all of u. One man decided
to email us and tell him how dare he do things he did to me and
for all the world to see. I f you knew me i am a very strong willed
woman and can handle my own. If there is something i dont
like ro dont wanna ...
5 Comments, 160 Views,
9 Votes
,6.20 Score
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The bottom line on same-sex marriage in USA 1/6/2005
This country is founded on the basis of freedoms. One of
those freedoms is freedom of religion and worship. This
is supposed to mean that you can worship whatever god you
want to worship, without fear of prosecution and persecution
from anyone who disagrees with you. Wicca is a new age pagan
religion based on a lot of old world pagan practices. It
worships the God and Goddess, rather ...
6 Comments, 79 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Friends on Swapfinder.com 1/6/2005
This is just one of the many problems I have with the standard
membership on Swapfinder.com. Sure, everyone has the same complaints
about not being able to see pics, initiate contact, or,
in some cases, even see some profiles, but what about those
times when you actually do find a friend through winking
or chat rooms or something, and you can't communicate
with them? I search the new matches on ...
7 Comments, 220 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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What Does It Take???? 1/6/2005
I've been on Swapfinder.com on and off for about a year now. I'm
interested in having an interracial fling with a caucasian
woman. What does it take for this to happen? Don't get
me wrong, I love African Amer. women, but I would like to
experience making love to a caucasian woman just once.
I realize that prejudice still exist even in the year 2005.
I also realize that everybody has prefferences ...
0 Comments, 98 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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E-mail and how to handle them 1/6/2005
This is my first article here. It is listed under rants and
raves because it is a pet peave.
<br>
E-mails are a compliment. I know that all of the attractive
women and the younger buff guys are probably getting many
of these unsolicited e-mails a day. Regardless of how many
you receive each and everyone is a compliment.
<br>
I personally sent out a lot of them ...
11 Comments, 249 Views,
16 Votes
,6.07 Score
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The Age of Digital Imaging 1/5/2005
Rarely do I bitch about the shit people do. I mean, who am
I to judge anyone? But there is this one glaring problem
that I cannot understand.
The age of digital imaging has been around now for a few years,
but why is it that people are still taking pictures of themselves
in a damn mirror? Can’t they tell that the flash washes away
almost anything desirable to look at? People, you ...
2 Comments, 87 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Honesty 1/5/2005
I want to know what happened to the phrase "Honesty
is the best policy".I am finding that on this site
that doesn't exist.I find that honest people are hard
to find on here.They either Vanish and just leave you hanging
in thin air.If there is honest people on here it is a bonus
if not oh well LOL.I for one is a very honest person, i may
not be perfect looking but i am sincere.And i don't ...
0 Comments, 123 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Distances 1/5/2005
As a member of Swapfinder.com for almost a year now, I am amazed at how
many offers I get from folks out of state. And they call themselves
serious inquires. Do they honestly expect to travel 500
plus miles for sex? I know I am not interested in traveling
more than 20 miles to meet anyone. I would appreciate it
if folks would check out the mileage part of profiles before
emailing.
1 Comments, 264 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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People are strange....when you're a stranger... 1/5/2005
I know this is a silly question, but, Does anyone ever notice
how many socially backward people there are out there?
<br>
These People are dumbfounded when people make eye contact
or actually address them in any manner. In my experiences,
this is not a one or two time thing, but happens several times
whenever I'm out and about.
<br>
When I see or personally ...
1 Comments, 91 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Site has gone to HELL 1/4/2005
This site at one time was interesting, Now, they rarely
update any of the stories in the magazine and what stories
are there are in some foreign language. Who gives a damn
what a person from another thinks or says and who the hell
can read these damn things. When my sub. is up, I'm out.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
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Lanuage Problems In The Magazine Section 1/4/2005
Lets face it, the majority of the readers on this site write
and read English. Recently there has been a large portion
of the people submitting articles in a foreign language
and I commend them for doing so. For the people who want to
post these stories in French German and Spanish or any other
language for that matter; maybe Swapfinder.com should start a seperate
heading "Erotic Stories / Foreign ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Foreign language 1/4/2005
Why is there a mix of languages in the stories? Does anyone
else see this? I rechecked my preferences and it still did
not change it.
1 Comments, 135 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Masquerading on Swapfinder.com 1/4/2005
This rant is well founded. Recently, I have IM'ed and
chatted with young ladies here on the site and have been
propositioned in a sly way. Never coming out and saying, "I'll
meet you and do this for this amount of money" but,
instead, I have received vailed comments. Each one alluding
to sex for a PRICE. Has anyone else besides me experienced
something of this nature. Yes, I come on ...
2 Comments, 89 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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truth 1/4/2005
waht the deal with ppl here being so shady..tehy tell you
what they think you want to her and when push comes to shove
it was total shit...this DRIVES me mental..why can everyone
just be honest and stop wasting one anothers time
2 Comments, 106 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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sick bastards 1/3/2005
this is a real serious rant+rave+its going out to the sick
basterds that have been emailing the frends+familys of
ppl caught up in the asian tsunami to send emails to frends+family
of the missing ppl from tsunami pretending to be government
officals telling them there lovedones are dead is sick
beyond sick+not that far from being a nonce+the same applies
to the dirty theiving scumbag that ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Females, single or not ???? 1/3/2005
I have been in and out of scene for a number of years and If
there is one thing that realy, really, really annoys me
!!!! it is so called single females that turn out to be part
of a couple. Why is this done? do they think that they won't
get contacted if they say that they are part of a couple?.
Oh and the slave girls that put themsleves down as single
aswell !! come on ladies get a grip, ...
2 Comments, 35 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Foregn language stories 1/3/2005
I'm sure that these stories are absolutely magnificent
but I would have no clue! Why are there so many foreign language
stories lately? It's only been since recent that these
stories appear. From Dec 29- Jan 2. 2005 there were only
9 stories published and None in English Why? All of the money
that is paid to this site surely they should have a translation
program or something. I wrote Swapfinder.com ...
0 Comments, 49 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Blocked emails rant 1/3/2005
I'm going to be traveling quite a bit to California
as part of my new business plan and decided to try to build
up a network of new female friends out there. I created a
rather tight search and put all of the interesting profiles
on my Hotlist and started sending out network invites a
few at a time. All of a sudden I'm getting a message that
I'm blocked from emailing or inviting a fairly ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
0 Votes
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why can't i get in? 1/2/2005
not raving so much as aking, but why is it that every other
day i come on here, i can't join in the chat rooms? i always
get this "profile not yet been approved" when
i haven't changed my profile since i joined! is it just
me or does this happen to everyone (or everyone who doesn't
pay to join)?
1 Comments, 19 Views,
1 Votes
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It takes a little time to hook up! 1/2/2005
Why is it that once a guy gets talking to a lady on this site
he thinks that she should be able to run right out to meet
him? Sure we all want to meet people or we would not be posting
profiles.
Guys you need to remember that we ladies have lives to, and
that we have jobs and demands on our time also. So if we don't
get right back to you or if we have to wait a few days or even
a week ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Web cams make it easier for jerk-offs to be jerks... 1/2/2005
Why is it that so many of these guys who page the viewer(s)
of their whack-off cam in order to engage in cyber-sex talk
can't even say thank you??? When I've spent time
helping a guy get his load off he can't even say "thanks"
before turning off the camera and signing out of the chat
room??? Give me a break! No wonder these guys spend so much
time jerking off - with their lack of manners on ...
1 Comments, 59 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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how do you decide? 1/2/2005
i see so many profiles that state they are looking for people
of a specific age only. i wonder how do you decide the age?
i see age ranges of "only between 21 and 36...or 24
to 49 etc. what is it that would make someone say 37 y/o not
meet your needs? how different is someone 49 from someone
50? i can understand larger age gaps but this has me scratching
my head.
1 Comments, 21 Views,
0 Votes
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my input on a common issue 12/31/2004
There seem to be alot of posts about lack of responces. Now
I'll admit when I first joined some of the messages
I sent people may have been too straight forward or perhaps
viewed as demeaning. Non the less, isn't this a SEX
& SWINGER PERSONALS site? What do women want, a line
of crap or a blatently honest responce. Furthermore, if
you're just bored & not looking to physicaly meet
anyone ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Rude and fake people 12/30/2004
whats up with all the fakes and rude people ? I was browsing
adds and saw pictures on profiles that were from websites.Then
theres the rude pushy people who dont get not interested, You
block them only to find out they have 4 or 5 more accounts.
2 Comments, 81 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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only English for English 12/30/2004
Hi I`m wantinnow2 I`m writeing to see if there is a way for
you to keep the different, langues
seperet, I can`t read Spanish, or German, an lately it seems
that, s all the stories are.
Mag is very good, just need English for us readers that only
know that.
Thank you
0 Comments, 73 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score
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what happened to meeting a person? 12/30/2004
You know i find funny about Swapfinder.com people is that a person sends
messages upon messages back and forth, maybe trade pics
and sometimes personal info.But when it comes down to actually
wanting to meet they suddenly vanish.It happens to me all
the time, so i don't even think of maybe wanting to
meet.Or a person finally meets up with the other then they
send you a message saying that they want no ...
1 Comments, 109 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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Swapfinder.com problems continue 12/29/2004
I know this has happened to others, so I've been told,
and I'm just blowing off steam for us all. On two incidents
after writting articles I have lost my work after hitting
the submit button due to the inadequate server Swapfinder.com is using.
This is what I was told, was the reason anyway. You try to
go from one page to the next only to have to go back and reload
again and again and again!
0 Comments, 12 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Is it true? 12/29/2004
Can any Female tell me, are you guys pulling our chains?
It seems that everytime I send an interest, that I get no
response. It seems that no female here really wants sex.
I mean, they never respond at all. How come? Do you really
want good sex or are you just an exhibitionest, and like
to show off on sites like this? please respond to me, and
let me know the truth!!!!
3 Comments, 79 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Why can't peopl take the time to answer an e-mail 12/29/2004
Why can't people take the simple time to answer e-mails.
Also I am not talking about the simple one liners that several
idiots send out. I am talkign about e-mails that obviously
some time was spent on. I am also not talking within 24 hours
or something like that, but just reply. Even if you are not
interested, just replay back with two words. "NO
Thanks" I would be very happy with ...
1 Comments, 107 Views,
8 Votes
,6.26 Score
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what happened to all that great bush 12/28/2004
Today as I finished up work I sloshed (it was raining hard)
my way to the locker room to shower and change. Being a blue
collar worker in an industrial plant can get very dirty,
so in my opinion cleaning up after work is a must. Plus I have
the place all to myself because I am the only guy that works
a standard 8 hour day, so I tend to take it slow and easy to
unwind a bit. So as I was ...
3 Comments, 89 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Not Another Cock Shot… 12/27/2004
While I do understand the need for anonymity, a pic of your
chest, would do the same. Or how about a pic of man fully clothed,
pair of tight jeans to accentuate the shape of your ass?
You can always hide your face. Some women do like men in suits
by the way.
<br>
Personally, I have got to say that most women would prefer
a pic of more than just a cock. These pictures ...
14 Comments, 130 Views,
35 Votes
,7.20 Score
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What the hell is wrong with people? 12/27/2004
I was just wondering.......why don't alot of people
see this site through? I can understand being here for fun,
but if you're gonna contact someone why dissappear
after talking abit? Can't people just be honest and
say that they're not here looking for the real deal
or at least end the correspondance honourably?
7 Comments, 36 Views,
14 Votes
,4.42 Score
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Tell Me Why? 12/27/2004
Tell me why people who keep saying they want "friends
who are similarly minded" don't put pics or fill
out the interest survey. Maybe it's just me, but if
you want "similarly minded, " you might want
to know what they are interested in! Don't get me wrong,
people looking for only sex are fine, just don't say
you want "friends or more, " and then don't
tell anything about yourself or show ...
1 Comments, 39 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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STOP BITCHING UNLESS YOU'RE SERIOUS 12/27/2004
Ok, I got a HUGE beef with the single guys on here. We've
met like 6 now, and not a damn one of them was serious. To all
the single guys posting complaints about how people never
want to meet you, HERE'S A REASON WHY!!!
<br>
We meet this guy. Everything is cool and we all get along.
The sparks are flying and we call up for the play date. This
is supposed to be the date every guy ...
3 Comments, 71 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Webcam 12/26/2004
We broadcasted our webcam, so we can meet new people hopefully
someone who also had a cam. I was disappointed in alot of
responses we were getting. Quite a few of the people wanted
to see us having sex, oral, nudity. Now I would of considered
it had it been a person actually interested in meeting us.
But most of them wanted to see, well Porn. I felt like, Ill
show you mine, but youll show ...
4 Comments, 28 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Real contacts 12/25/2004
Did you make real contacts here ?
I mean, people who chat, mail or see you in real regularly
?
I find, maybe I'm wrong, that it's very virtual...
maybe if I was searching for a man, I will have more chance
lol 
Then where are real women ?
9 Comments, 128 Views,
19 Votes
,2.73 Score
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Delay between posting a reply and actually seeing it 12/24/2004
We post replies to some of the issues raised here, and then
wait 24 to 48 hours for it to actually appear on the site.
<br>
Are we alone in this, or do others experience it too?
<br>
Casalaltoastral
9 Comments, 122 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Older v. Younger 12/24/2004
Okay, I find this interesting, and a little disturbing.
I've been a member on Swapfinder.com for about 2 years, and I've
had my age on my profile all through that time. I'm 25.
Why is it that the most hits that I get on my profile (and actual
e-mails) are from guys my grandfather's age. I've
gotten e-mails from 70 year old guys wondering if I'd
like to get together. NO! You're almost 3 times my ...
9 Comments, 316 Views,
20 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Giving a deserving lady her praise 12/23/2004
My wife, she's all a man can ask for.... Beautiful,
sexy (yes there's a difference) intelligent, talented,
graceful, understanding, and my best friend. I'm
sure if you were too ask her she wouldn't be too far off
of that in her opinion of me. When we came here it wasn't
to fill needs that weren't being met in our sex life,
it wasn't even to fulfill any fetishes that were festering ...
1 Comments, 58 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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IM Chat - Advice for Single Guys 12/23/2004
Being a couple, we sometimes get VERY frustrated with single
guys IMing us on Swapfinder.com. We've seen everything from "I
want to fuck your wife" to the standard "Hello
Wanna chat." Recently a single guy came to our attention
through Swapfinder.com IM and got us thinking about how to cath a person's
eye.
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The page said simply "Go ahead and hit decline".
I have to admit that for the first few ...
5 Comments, 168 Views,
18 Votes
,5.85 Score
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Men are just as emotional as women 12/22/2004
In my expereince, I have found that men can be just as emotional
and sensitive as women and I do not find this endearing at
all. In fact I find it iritating. I am looking for no strings
attached sex as my profile clearly states, however, several
of the men I end up having sex with have gotten offended because
I only see him as a dick with a man attached to it and only make
contact when I am ...
9 Comments, 203 Views,
12 Votes
,5.80 Score
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mail? 12/22/2004
i am constantly having a problem with not getting some of
my email...i had a woman a few weeks ago email me wondering
if i was still interested in her because she sent me several
emails and i never replied...i told he that i had never received
any email from her...anyone else had this problem?
2 Comments, 79 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Pics 12/21/2004
Many of the women on this site say they don't want to
see pics of men's tools, ok that is fair, but these same
ones show pics of their cunts, so fair is fair ladies leave
something to our imaginations and something to discover
when we finally get together with you. Remember that discovery
is half the fun.
7 Comments, 119 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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Too many fake people 12/21/2004
There are too many people pretending to be something they
are not, lets be honest people.
4 Comments, 93 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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MFM Threesome - a RAVE 12/21/2004
a few weeks ago I posted about wanting a bi-curious threesome
with my husband and a select single bi guy. Well, that still
hasn't happened. BUT!!! We recently had a threesome
with one of hubby's hetero co-workers, a co-worker
I have had a crush on for quite some time now. Let me tell you
girls! If you ever get this chance, GO FOR IT!
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I was so nervous about actually doing ...
0 Comments, 439 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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what has happen to humor !!!!!!!!!! 12/21/2004
what can I say, there is a lot of hostility out there. Please
unwind you tight underwear!! This sight is for open minded
people, but I do sometimes wonder. I love some of the articles,
but if iI don't, why get into a state, just relax and
take it in yor stride and read the next. happy hunting!!
4 Comments, 88 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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