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threating e-mails! 1/25/2006
I feel that I know and like several tof the regulaers on the
advise lines people I know I will never meet or contact,
when someone sends them a threat it angers me, and I do not
always deal well wtih my anger, there aree a lot of realy
nice women on this site I am sure I am not alone when I say I
will fight to protect anyone of them, They are here to have
a good time just as we are, they ...
3 Comments, 183 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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My Pet Peeves About This Site! 1/25/2006
Keep in mind that this article is my opinion only, and others
may feel differently.... But, if people truly are looking
for sex partners or whatever on this site - what is the deal
with absolutely NO pics and a line or two in the description
area and not answering the extra questions? I for one, am
not going to spend much time looking at a so called 'profile'
if a person can't be TRUTHFUL ...
11 Comments, 272 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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Here's a Rave! 1/22/2006
Gooooooo Seahawks! Whoo hoo! Sorry, couldn't resist...hehehe!
PSS
3 Comments, 68 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Parenthood 1/22/2006
I'm a single parent and i do love my . I just
needed to know if there are any other parents out there who
absolutely cannot stand any of their 's friends!!!
I've tried. I've thrown parties, I've had
dinners. I know all are basically the same through
time, but mostly(let me clarify)teenagers. They have
smart mouths, they give you dirty looks, they mumble things
under their breath. I don't ...
4 Comments, 103 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Deception 1/19/2006
I just got finished camming with an individual who claimed
to be a female... I am shocked to report that not only was
he not a woman, he is an idiot... First off, he sat in a dark
room with a robe on covering his tits... He (alleging to
be a woman) wanted to call and hear me, not talk but hear me...My
gaydar is twitching hetero now...After some coaxing I
was able to talk him (alleging ro be ...
3 Comments, 278 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Is Bigger Better? 1/18/2006
I've dated two women with large clits--more than an
inch long--and I assumed that would be the feminine equivalent
of the nine-incher. But these ladies definitely did not
like to be complimented on their size. If women want us to
pay attention to their clits, why do they get so offended
when we talk about them?
6 Comments, 256 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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why the hate? 1/17/2006
I have checked out a lot of articles in this magazine and
one of the most pressing questions on my mind is "why
is it that when an article or question is posted concerning
gay or bi subject matter that every narrowminded, uneducated,
crude, homophobic bastard orphan of the world has to respond
to it with hateful comments and sad oneliners desperately
reinforcing their own belief in their ...
2 Comments, 207 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Cheating!?! 1/17/2006
I am on this site and playing alone without my wife's
knowledge for reasons I will not disclose here. The point
of this note is to enlighten many of you if I can to the fact
that not everything is easy or simple or clear. I respect
people with strong opinions and I am happy for those of you
who have a nice, clean, clear environment in which to operate.
I however do not, and I suspect many ...
9 Comments, 500 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score
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I met this guy....... 1/16/2006
I met this guy on here, spent the weekend with him & had
the best sex ever!
before I ever agreed to hook up with him I asked him if he had
someone in his life.
He told me no.
Come to find out, not only does he have a wife, he has ......
He confessed it all & showed me photos of his family.
What a pig!
Here's an idea! Be honest & let me decide if or if
not I will meet you!
7 Comments, 420 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Philofecies 1/15/2006
I lick girls' rumps. I like to lick girls' rumps.
Girls like to have their rumps licked. Most girls won't
admit they've had their rump licked, let alone enjoyed
having their rump licked. But believe you me, if you lick
a girl's rump, she'll love you for life. In fact,
that was my high school yearbook quote.
<br>
My conviction to 'slurping the brown pucker'
doesn't stem from ...
9 Comments, 364 Views,
8 Votes
,5.56 Score
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magazine article responce 1/15/2006
Why is it that when i make a responce to an article, so many
times when i go back to the comments, on my response it says
delete entire response?
Am i doing somthing wrong?
2 Comments, 147 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Is Small Out? 1/15/2006
It seems every women is looking for a guy with a cock
(huge). Unfortunately, I'm blessed with, at best,
an average size dick. There must be women out there who want
something less than King Size.
0 Comments, 167 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Men say they don't know what we want! 1/14/2006
1/14/06.... You know. men keep saying they don't know
what we want... or they don't understand us, we are
so confusing. The biggest problem is they don't listen!
Look at my profile here. Look at my heading, look at my discription
and what I am looking for. I have "NO MEN" and
"If ya have a penis DON"T E_MAIL ME" It
is all plain as day and yet I get 12 e-mails from guys a day.
You wonder ...
8 Comments, 344 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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COUPLE TO SINGLE CHANGE! 1/12/2006
When I started my membership, it was my girlfriend and
I together looking for friends.Since then we ve split up
and Ive tried to change to single without any results.I
don t want to misrepresent myself, but unless I completely
drop my membership and start over, it seems that its still
going to show me as a couple.By the way still get e-mails
from men wanting to meet US.Dudes read profiles
1 Comments, 214 Views,
1 Votes
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Ladies.... Why is it that... 1/9/2006
My pen name is Theo, and before I go any further I am attached/married.
Yes I know that 96% of the ladies on this sight will now be
immediately turned off and not even look at my profile.
But let me ask this one question, why is it if a man finds himself
married to a woman who is no longer interested in having
a passionate relationship with him and he goes looking
elsewhere he's a low life ...
6 Comments, 241 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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honesty 1/8/2006
After reading so many comments about all the various subjects
, I see a pattern about women saying men arent being honest.
Heres the flip side of things , Im as honest as i can be on the
net , but when writing a profile and being honest as i was
it comes off as myself being insecure and way shy which is
a turn off to most women.I will be honest again and admit
I joined this site to get laid ...
1 Comments, 171 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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comments 1/8/2006
Thank you for all the comments and hope to hear more! I love
the fact that there is so much opinion on this matter, let
me add on one other note. My opinion after writing this article
is that the women that have read this think I'm a agry
bitter man which is just the opposite of who I am, the main
goal was a response. Again thanks for the responses!!
0 Comments, 360 Views,
0 Votes
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Party review 12/05 1/8/2006
Those who know me, are familiar with my frustration regarding
many of the folks in the swinging lifestyle. There are the
posers, those that talk a good game, those that agree to
meet and never do, and then there are the flat out liars.
If you have been doing this for any length of time I’m sure
you have run across some if not all of these personalities.
<br>
So when I got ...
0 Comments, 203 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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begging for money 1/8/2006
This article can be read in many different ways but is not
done to cause offence to anybody.
I have written a similar article last year, but since then
the problem has increased at least twofold. What I am writing
about is women from the far east especially the Philippenes
begging for money on this site.
Everytime I begin to chat to women on Instant messenger,
within 5 minutes of ...
0 Comments, 169 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Alot of hot air 1/7/2006
I have been talk to a girl that I met through Swapfinder.com. Like anyone
else we flirted and braged about how we would please eachother.
After we had been talking fro about 2 weeks and had met twice
for lunch, we decided it was time to put our money where our
mouths are. We met at my place, and quickly things got hot
and heavy. After put 45mi minutes of foreplay we began to
have sex. We started with ...
4 Comments, 281 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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no return email 1/7/2006
I have found that since being on this site and writing about
40 emails so far, that most women dont even reply. Kind of
a drag that a lot of men on here actually spend the time to
write a note , when all they want is a response. As it is only
my opinion, I feel even if a woman isnt interested she should
have the curtisy to respond back.
11 Comments, 217 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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WE LOVE THESE PEOPLE 1/6/2006
JUST A SHORT ONE TODAY. WE JUST WANT TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH WE
LOVE THE SO CALLED COUPLES THAT FOR SOME REASON THE WOMAN
IS NEVER AROUND. LOL THIS IS SO FUNNY IT MAKES MY SIDES HURT.
DO GUYS REALLY THINK THAT PEOPLE ARE THAT LAME THAT THEY
WILL FALL FOR THE OLD, SHE IS NOT AROUND RIGHT NOW. BUT SHE
SAID I COULD HAVE FUN WITH YOU AND YOUR WIFE. YET YOU NEVER
MEET OR TALK TO THE WOMAN.
LMAO ...
1 Comments, 99 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Conservative Toronto? 1/4/2006
Perhaps I run in the wrong circles, but in my experience
Torontians tend to be sexually conservative. Anyone please
disagree with me or point me in the right direction. My own
thesis is that because of the high immigrant concentration
in Toronto people tend to adhere to their old world values.
Discuss amongst yourselves.
0 Comments, 184 Views,
0 Votes
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Why do people lie? 1/3/2006
OK I am new to this site so forgive me if this isn't in
the correct format or whatever but I just wanted to know
what everyone thinks of lying when there is no need.
What I mean is why can't people just be brave enough
to be honest? It really bugs me. I know for a fact this guy
I have been seeing is lying to me and yet he can't admit
it! What really gets me is that I'm not the type to ...
4 Comments, 467 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Real People 1/2/2006
Are there any on this site? I have hooked up with a few people.
But most men on this site are afraid to meet you. Are they
here for sex or what??
4 Comments, 328 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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On Being Insincere... 1/2/2006
In the past couple of weeks I have been entertained and amazed
by the responses I have had to my article about building
relationships. In summary I was commenting on how too many
men on Swapfinder.com have a "love 'em and leave 'em"
attitude, but advertise themselves as being constant
as the Northern star!
<br>
While no one has taken the time to write a comment to the article,
in chat rooms ...
5 Comments, 148 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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A gal I talked to on Swapfinder.com chat was a . 1/1/2006
I had been chatting with an attrative gal on Swapfinder.com chat for
about a month, when I found out this gal was a . I was
mortified to find out her real profession, so I stopped
chatting with her immediately. We seemed to be very compatible
in many areas. If I wanted a , I could get one in my hometown.
But, that is not what I am looking for. Have any other guys
on Swapfinder.com had to go through this ...
7 Comments, 266 Views,
2 Votes
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Get naked, relax, sit back, and enjoy yourself 1/1/2006
I recently submitted an innocuous question in the advice
section, which I probably, should have posted here in the
articles section. However, being new to the site I honestly
just did not think about which section was more appropriate.
I merely had a question about a topic of which I am curious
and of which I just like to read the replies. A few have decided
to reply but of the initial few, ...
3 Comments, 140 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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What is the deal with this Double-Standard?!? 12/31/2005
Hello all. I'm pretty new to this site (less than a month
actually) & I haven't had time to hit the chat rooms
in depth so I don't have any major complaints or horror
stories. I'm not even sure that this is a "rant"
per se but it seemed to fit & besides...rico1986 had
the entire question column filled up w/a bunch of bullshit
questions!!! Yo, dude!! Is it quota time 4points or something?!? ...
2 Comments, 144 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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is it Swapfinder.com or my pc 12/30/2005
has anyone else had problems with viewing cams, lots of
people disconected, or limit is reached, when in fact im
only viewing one cam or even none, im a silver member and
should be able to view five.
1 Comments, 142 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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so what do you look like? 12/26/2005
Having met several guys(all have been nice I might add),
just out of curiosity, why do some guys(not all) post a
picture that represents how they looked years ago and not
the present? You talk to a guy for weeks and finally decide
to meet and he wants to send you a pic...so you view the pic
and get a vision of what you are going to meet and then....the
person you meet isn't at all what ...
5 Comments, 218 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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raves.....on communiction 12/26/2005
my wife and i talk about sex....alot.our fantasy is a threesome
w/another woman.she has made out with women b4, but thats
all.she always tells me what she wants, and that makes her
the sexiest woman in the world. i thank my stars shes the
way she is.
0 Comments, 96 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Too many heavy set females on Swapfinder.com. 12/26/2005
I have been on Swapfinder.com for about a month and a half and have noticed
the majority of the women on Swapfinder.com are obese. I guess the really
hot slim women do not have to be on Swapfinder.com., because they can
land a man without Swapfinder.com's help. I have been seeking a
slim, fit female to hook up with, but too many of the gals
I have chatted with live to far away. Or they are all talk
& know action. I am a attrative, ...
13 Comments, 610 Views,
30 Votes
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Does my profile suck? 12/25/2005
I'm just wondering why I've NEVER got an email
from a lady without me contacting her first. Is it the lack
of face pic or that standard members cant write me? Or something
about my profile content? Some of us have jobs where we can't
post our face pics up here, but I allways send it privately
with a very good response.
2 Comments, 169 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Tired of stuck up women's profiles 12/25/2005
I'm not going to lick the bottom of your feet to get in
your pants. Quit being so bitchy...remember you're
not the only woman out there. You know the profiles, nothing
but bitch bitch bitch, yea u know what I mean.
4 Comments, 166 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score
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If you're not interested, Don't reply to me 12/25/2005
If I contact you and you're in no way interested then
please stop cluttering up my mailbox with you "no
thanks", it's really starting to get annoying
to think I have 10 exciting new contacts and only 3 are interested
(not counting the gay men and shadey stuff that gets deleted
daily)
5 Comments, 239 Views,
7 Votes
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I thought this was an adult site? 12/24/2005
I was on here as pghpa_girl (gold membership). I posted
a number of erotic articles which have had thousands of
views and the highest scores consistently of virtually
any other author.
I tried to log in today and couldn't. I then got an e-mail
saying my account was deleted for no specified reasons
other than I violated one of a list of non-nos.
If my articles ...
19 Comments, 3328 Views,
66 Votes
,6.09 Score
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why we don't respond!!!!!!!! 12/24/2005
we don't have to...
<br>
do you send a "not interested" to every peice
of ad mail you get? even those addressed to you... dear citicard
company.. not interested..but thank you
i am sure it is hard to comprehend, but some of us get 100 messages
per day!
standard members have a limited number of free responses
(10)per day.. and should she spend those on people that
don't match ...
4 Comments, 368 Views,
22 Votes
,3.01 Score
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couples posing as single fems 12/22/2005
have all the other couples out there had problems with couples
posing as single girls on the chance that you will say ok
your partner can join in too lol ?
0 Comments, 87 Views,
0 Votes
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guys posing as girls 12/22/2005
getting sick of weeding out all the guys on Swapfinder.com that pretend
to be girls to get photos from us, does everyone have this
problem too ?
2 Comments, 129 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Bi fems for couples 12/22/2005
Is it only us or are other members having problems finding
genuine single bi girls ? We have met a few from Swapfinder.com but have
had a lot of timewasters too.It seems a lot of girls think
it is cool to say they're bi when they are really not.
3 Comments, 156 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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What's the problem with some members? 12/21/2005
What is the problem with some memebers, you try to talk to
them or send an invite and they won't answer or reply.
This is suppose to be a site where you meet people. Are most
of the members phonies or teasers? If people aren't
going to respond to you in some way, then why are they here?
This is coming from a man, so women, do men do this as well?
If people don't really want to mee t ...
7 Comments, 180 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Men Who Need to Learn to be Men 12/20/2005
So guys, what's the deal? There are a few, yes only a
chosen few, of we real women out there. But we exist. We may
not have perfect bodies or blond hair, but we still love
sex, adore the bodies we do have and want to pleasure a real
man.
<br>
My rant: Where in the hell are all of the men who are real men?
Men that work to take care of their families, who pay for
dinner, ...
9 Comments, 394 Views,
12 Votes
,2.45 Score
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This is a Rave -- for Nina Hartley's Ass!!!!! 12/20/2005
Lord, have mercy!!! I have always been in love with her ass!!!
It has always been the greatest ass on a caucasian woman
since glutals maxed out on the ancient apes. Between her
and Monica Belucci's beautiful hams, damn.. but Nina...
she's the Buffie the Body, the Ki-Toy, the Serena Williams
of caucasian women.
<br>
She told white women it's ok to have a backside and to
be ...
4 Comments, 384 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Make Me Cry!!! 12/19/2005
It takes more than the average man to make me cry! So call
me heartless! So think me scandalous! Tell me what a worthless
I am! Punish me! I won't cry if I am not made to feel
your Power, Your passions, Your Lust! It isn't what
some guy thinks of me that matters one damn bit these days!
Men Suck!! Make me cry! Master me if You have the ass to try!
Fuck you, maybe?? Love you, Not!! It takes ...
4 Comments, 169 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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REAL PEOPLE 12/18/2005
k, my husband and I joined this site to meet females that
would be interested in coming to join us for fun. Instead,
all we get are junk mails to our account telling us that they
want us to com and watch them for 39.99 a month. This is absolute
crap. Are there any real people on this website? Have any
of you met them? How do we go about better meeting someone
in Hawaii, that we find is ...
7 Comments, 285 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Married couples.....is it really for better or for worst! 12/18/2005
In my line of business I often encountered married couples
that each have their own bank accounts. These are ordinary
folks like you and me, not the filthy rich couples(which
I can understand of having separate bank accounts because
of the "gold digger" fear symtom). Ordinary
folks with limited financial resources should not have
this fear(or do you?), yet, they have separate accounts, ...
2 Comments, 122 Views,
0 Votes
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people in general 12/17/2005
Why must ppl lie about who they really are if you tell the
truth about yourself and what you are like you will get alot
farther.Especially the guys on here, they all seem to
be the best lovers and can last for hours...lol, just tell
the truth it could last two to ten minutes and it will be fun
while it lasts...lol
6 Comments, 187 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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email 12/15/2005
i know you dont want to talk with some of the people on here,
but if they pay to send you an email, at least write back to
say no thanks.
3 Comments, 82 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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aggression 12/15/2005
why do all the women on here come off in their ads as wanting
a wild man to fuck the hell out of them but then dont want to
hear about it later. what do they want?
4 Comments, 129 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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What am I supposed to think? 12/15/2005
Why is it that I seem unlovable. Not just on here, but other
dating sites, I clearly state that Im looking for a ltr.
I seem to keep attracting guys that just dont have their
shit together though. They say they've never been
married, then change that to they were married, etc. Why
is a truthful relationship so hard to find? Is all chivalry
truly dead and gone?
3 Comments, 190 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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What do women REALLY Want 12/13/2005
I'm confused about something. I am a man that believes
that women should be treated with respect. They should
not be beaten or controlled. They should be worshipped
like the goddesses that they are. I mean face it guys without
women we would have to all turn gay. And ladies, you know
that we need you and you use that to get what you want from
us. So why is it when a man goes out of his way ...
10 Comments, 218 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Ewwww 12/12/2005
You know it makes me mad that when im feeling really hot and
horny and i go to my man and he is watchin the game that he is
more focused on the game than me...Do i need to just TAKE
it, or wait?
4 Comments, 189 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Testimonials??? 12/12/2005
What is it with the testimonials like...
<br>
This is one hot woman/man/couple, she/he/they really
know how to have fun. I highly recommend this person or people.
I can't wait to meet her/him/them.
<br>
Do these people really think that is a testimonial?
<br>
Do they really think this would encourage someone to actually
meet them?
2 Comments, 123 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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New Option real or fake 12/12/2005
I recently noticed that when I come to this site I also get
a pop-up showing local women with ther pic and screen name
etc., before I even log in. This is a very nice service but
I have noticed that when I click on one of the names I go to
the same old list I get when I do a regular search after I log
in. But the real kicker is that none of these women are on
there, or at least by the ...
4 Comments, 309 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Men, stop putting up female pictures 12/12/2005
i'm speaking specifically of a dude who puts up an extremely
anonymous photo of some chick with her legs in the air, a
hairless pussy, and that's it. and then his title for
himself begins 'ladies if you have a pussy like this...'
<br>
look fool, we all have pussies like that. we don't care.
we want a discerning man, an individual man. a man who is
unafraid. a man who is ...
3 Comments, 323 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Would u go for pre-coital HIV testing if asked? 12/11/2005
Why don’t more people have this as a personal policy?
<br>
The plan is for us to meet and if we click, we must go to a place
that offers free HIV testing and we must show each other
our results and we must agree to being sexually abstinent
until we get our results. And you must agree that we will
repeat our testing and sharing of results again two months
later.
<br> ...
4 Comments, 257 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Is There Anybody Out There? 12/11/2005
I am beginning to doubt whether there really are any ladies
out there looking for no-strings sex fun. I have written
many e-mails, perhaps for every 10 I write I am lucky if I
receive one in return....This is so rude....what is wrong
with "thanks but no thanks"
I have not got a photo on my profile but every e-mail I send
is accompanied by two. I consider myself to be quite a nice-looking ...
5 Comments, 162 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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same old song mixing races? not for me to much!!! 12/11/2005
Ya know? I never dated or even thought of dating a cacasion
man, hispanic, any other race till Swapfinder.com.
I SEE why? I picked a man last week, white to add to my hotlist.
he emailed me later, sayin he read my profile, didnt think
we were a match, asked why? i put him on my hotlist etc. he
also said he worked 70 hrs, with a , other words didnt
have time. I never said, i wanted him , I WAS MERLY ...
13 Comments, 426 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Meaningless & Meaningful...happy medium 12/10/2005
I've joined this site because I'm trying to find
men who don't want a long-term relationship or want
to get married, but at the same time I would like some commonality
and friendship involved. I've seen rants here and
there on this site directed at people if they are looking
for anything except "no-strings" sex, then
they suggest that a person who wants something more go to
a "traditional" ...
2 Comments, 473 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Man Haters, the flip side 12/10/2005
After reading some of the posts I've come across on
here and even from some people outside of Swapfinder.com I've noticed
a rather common misconception. While I'm sure it spans
both sexes, it seems to be more centered with men. It's
the idea that lesbians (and some think bi women) hate men!
<br>
Besides being bi I consider myself to be very sexual and
I don't hate men at all! In fact my ...
4 Comments, 327 Views,
15 Votes
,4.66 Score
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fakes 12/9/2005
what is it with all the fakes , timewasters or whatever
you want to call them using this site. i am getting to the
stage now where im thinking of deleting my account. i am
sick and tired of spending ages chatting to a cpl only to
find out that the wife dont play or in a lot of cases don't
exist.the other thing is with people posting pics that
are when they were much younger on the rare ...
3 Comments, 179 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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I'm a sexual person, but I won't f*ck just anyone 12/7/2005
Augh! This arises more often in chat rooms then through
Swapfinder.com email, but why do so many men think that
having a profile on this site entitles them to sex with you.
I've come across so many who are so demanding of my time,
want to know why I don't respond to their emails (the
same day they compose them--I get 80-some emails a day!!)
& get downright pissed at me for not jumping ...
14 Comments, 889 Views,
30 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Am I doing something wrong or is being a bi-male that bad? 12/4/2005
Let me take a quick minute and tell you about my current situation.
After a seven year relationship, with a five month marriage,
my Wife decided to change her lifestyle and start a lesbian
relationship with a coworker. When we where together,
we had a profile on “Swapfinder.com” and got a pretty
good response. We met some great people and had a lot of fun.
So here I am, a ...
1 Comments, 226 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Both a Rant & Rave 12/4/2005
Recently my computor was hacked into by a woman I met here.
We talked via email for a while then exchanged IM's.
She installed a program on my computor while we were chatting
which let her into my computor without my knowledge. Now
it's my fault for giving her my IM id. I was here to meet
people though. My rant is that she went right into my a f f
account and came out with my credit card ...
13 Comments, 381 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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why 12/2/2005
why is it you can find a person that agrees to no strings sex,
then they end up 'falling' for you?
<br>
i understand humans need a companion and all, but seriously...
<br>
what part of no strings dont they get.
2 Comments, 87 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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To the whiners 12/1/2005
It's not the first time it's happened to me and
I know I'm not the only one.
<br>
I received a tirade from a single male that was upset because
I responded to his initial email to the effect that I didn't
feel we were compatible.
<br>
When someone puts that they 're interested in single
males in their profile, they may have (and usually do) specifics
they have in mind. ...
18 Comments, 967 Views,
49 Votes
,6.43 Score
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Ftmyersmedic 11/30/2005
I was just wondering if any of you ladies has met this man.
It seems that he has had relationships with several relationships
with women. Gained their trust and pretended to say he has
fallen in love with him. As it turns out he is a scam artist
and just takes women for their money and then disappears.
So far I have found 3 women. If you happen to be one. I would
appreciate it if you ...
10 Comments, 802 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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the same nutbar? 11/27/2005
I was wondering if any of you think these are from the same
person…bear in mind i suspect that one of the drama
queens here has been known to be letter perfect as one persona,
and a grade 4 english drop out in anther..
i am considering turning the originals over to the abuse
team..blatant harrassment..
<br>
<br>
From miss manners to my email-
U ARE TELLING ME TO ...
3 Comments, 390 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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why do women feel so insecure 11/27/2005
This is my second marriage, and i will never understand
something. Why are women so insecure about they man they
are with? In both marriages both wives are acuseing me of
sleeping with other women. I have never even considered
this and frankly I'm really considering it. I get tired
of telling her it's all in her head and that i do love
her. Ok so we don't have sex as often as i would like. ...
0 Comments, 221 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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No Photo? 11/26/2005
Is it just me, or are there far too many people on this site
without photos? Some people are looking for face pics,
some looking for body shots, whatever. But why do people
think they can get away with nothing? If you want to remain
anonomys, don't show your face. I can't be the
only one who doesn't respond to non-photo people.....
7 Comments, 224 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Viewing profile pics and other problems 11/25/2005
I have paid money to this site but have serious doubts they
have the technical know-how to handle the volume.
<br>
Nine times out of ten I cannot view pictures within profiles.
<br>
I tried a number of times to post a rant, but when it asked
me to type in the number I saw, there was no number.
<br>
Does anyone else have these problems?
2 Comments, 129 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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A view fromthe other side 11/23/2005
I constantly read complaints from women about all the men
with just pics of their cocks on their profiles. I would
like to know what everyone thinks about the women on here
whose only pic is a very close up view of their ass or pussy.
Let's face it we all know what one looks like. I for one
would love to see a pic showing off more of the whole package.
I not necessarily asking a full ...
3 Comments, 223 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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BITCHES AND HOES( MUSIC) 11/21/2005
Why do women(and some men) have so many wellingtons(beefs)about
rappers talking about "bitches and hoes" in
their music? As if you don't know any. There are some
people who treat "biches and hoes" like UFO's(While
there have been several alledged sightings of "bitches
and hoes" proof of their existance has never been
wholly substantiated). C'mon you know some "bitches
and hoes".While there ...
5 Comments, 185 Views,
5 Votes
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What are the odds??? 11/20/2005
What are the odds that your vehicle gets stolen after you
finally paid it off??
<br>
What are the odds that you get 2 flat tires???
<br>
What are the odds that you're the caller BEFORE the
winning caller???
<br>
What are the odds that first "impressions"
last more than an lifetime???
<br>
What are the odds that you have a spare tire but no jack, or
vice ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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FreeSexKey ID Scam 11/20/2005
I don't know if anyone else has noticed (particularly
the men) that occasionally one will come across a womans
profile that is word for word, sometimes slightly different,
to some other profiles with different pics, different
cities. All these girls are standard mems (all pretty ...duh)
and ask for your email.
Sometimes we are tempted for the quick reply and what seems
to be happening is ...
1 Comments, 307 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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which pics are best 11/19/2005
all right tell me this then i started out with an uperbody
face pic when i joined Swapfinder.com after 2 weeks of nothing and alot
of trying unsusfulty spinining tires in place i changed
my pic to full body shot and got some real good hits and some
leads to a few places but still not as much as i would like
so i changed to a full nude of wife and guess what have had
more hits and network invites than ...
6 Comments, 225 Views,
13 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Ladies..what is it exactly do you want? Take the risk! 11/19/2005
I have been on this site now for about 5 months and must say
I am extremely disapponted! I thought bars were a waste
of time....but this is even worse! At least at a bar you get
some kind of response whether it is favorable or not. I have
sent emails asking to talk, have coffee, dinner, drinks,
whatever to woman 10 miles down the road, and receive nothing
back from them.
<br>
I ...
5 Comments, 151 Views,
7 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Accepting Network invites 11/19/2005
I am a bit confused and annoyed at the same time. I’ve been
a member for a few months now and as I have gone along I have
learnt more about this site and how best to us its facilities.
No secret that blokes out number women on this site by a massive
amount, so you have to try to stick out. But when you have
done that, you also have to try and convince them that you
aren’t a picture ...
1 Comments, 165 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Fake Profiles.... 11/18/2005
How many men pose as women on this site?
Just the other day, I was chatting with a local "Girl"
when "She" said something that did not go along
with the profile here on Swapfinder.com...so I called "her"
on it...told "her" that she was "Just
another guy posing as a young girl on here..." about
10 minutes pass and I get the reply "How did you know?"
The name and pic he was using was a former GF ...
8 Comments, 232 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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A Rave of sorts 11/17/2005
I'd like to give the site a rave for making the posting
problems better than what they were. Since I've done
my share of bitching via email, phone calls, groups, and
the magazine, I thought I'd say thanks to A F F. There
are still plenty of other problems but, this seems to be
a step in the right direction.
<br>
Thank you,
Gonzo
0 Comments, 65 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Be careful with giving out pics! 11/17/2005
This has happened to me twice, not just on here but on other
chats like ya-hoo and all. But I start chatting with a woman, then
she will ask for a nude pic, I only have a few but I will send
one, and after that never hear from her again. Well this
happened to me again here twice in one night, but of course
I got a little smart this time around. I received a messege
from a woman near my ...
1 Comments, 239 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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I am not a porn star! 11/16/2005
Well so here I am, starting to realize that this sight may
not be what I thought. Being from a smaller city, there isn't
as many people on line as say in T.O. So in saying that, I guess
my new and improved fantasy should say: Looking to accually
hook up with some one on this site. There is a certian 'I
told ya so' ringing in my head, but ya won't secceed
if you don't try right.
...
0 Comments, 285 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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IM TIRED 11/15/2005
Do all the ladies have this problem. Finding the right guy
who is either not stuck on himself or he is Quick Draw Mcgraw.
<br>
I have been here for a month and I have recived over 700emails.
Very hard to choose, but I do what I feel looks and sounds
good. I have met with 10guys. 1, thats right just 1, was what
I would call a good person as far as the sex department goes.
Im horny ...
3 Comments, 318 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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new member gallery glitch 11/13/2005
Is anyone else having a problem with the new member gallery
not letting you filter it by your cupid matches? I sent a
complaint to the help desk 3 days ago and received their
standard "we are checking on it" email but it
is still not working. I check the boxes and hit the filter
button, but the same screen pops up with members from all
over my state when my cupid preference is for within ...
3 Comments, 208 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Acting like an ass when you get turned down! 11/13/2005
RANT for all the people who cant take rejection or no thankyou
& throw tantrums, send nasty replies back & act
like asses, this is ADULT friend finders..
RAVE for all ADULTS who respond maturly & take this
site as just that (A place to meet other ADULTS for fun &
well sex  ) & who dont take it so seriously!
This is for the dumbass (& others that respond to quick
replies with ...
6 Comments, 197 Views,
11 Votes
,5.78 Score
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WOMEN OR COUPLE?!?!?!?! 11/11/2005
Before we get started here, allow us to elaborate.....
<br>
We are a couple seeking women, therefore we have no idea
if this pertains to the men profiles, only the women.
<br>
Now, what is the deal with all the profiles of gorgeous women
(advertise as a woman) that get our attention, saying that
they are seeking a couple, and turn out to be another couple?
<br>
...
1 Comments, 99 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Same old shit!!!! 11/11/2005
Well here i go agian, sent an email to one of my net freind's
and got dumped, to tell you the truth i sent 2no responce
from the second one .If a member does not respond, how in
the the hell are you supposed to get together??All my email
setting's are set right to recieve any email from these
people, but no, all i get is a autoresponce, i'll
get back to you soon, then no reply.I'm sorry i ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
0 Votes
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...sex for the young and single... 11/10/2005
no Sex for the young and single?
<br>
<br>
what is it with the few lifestyle hangouts available to
me in my little city of Canadian wintery Winnipeg; that
i'm only vaguely aware of, and their disdain for single
young men...
<br>
ok..well I guess disdain is a strong word, and to be fair
it's not just us poor young fit Canadians (*wink)But
this is the trend almost ...
0 Comments, 191 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Wake up guys! 11/8/2005
I just have a little advice for all the lonley guys out there
trying to get hooked up. There are many serious ladies on
this site that are well worth the attention you plan to shower
on them but, WAKE UP!! A super hot lady in her late teens/early
20's who can't seem to get a date in a big city like
NY or Memphis, or Nashville and has the phrase "Make
sure to leave me an e-mail address in ...
3 Comments, 199 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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How do you KNOW when a girl is Bi? 11/8/2005
I just started exploring my Bi-Sexuality a little over
a year ago...and when I am out at a club or at a party, I will
see a girl that I fing really attractive....but HOW DO YOU
KNOW? I would hate to ask something that offends her, but
then again....
HELP....
2 Comments, 144 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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does this work? 11/8/2005
just wondering why i receive no contacts and or even winks
from this site. are the woman using this site primarily
for dating?
2 Comments, 124 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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E-mail 11/6/2005
what is wrong with Swapfinder.com it says I have 7 E-mails then when i
go to look there not there.Is this what I'm paying for
heck no it isn't.so is it happening to any one else today
or just me?
5 Comments, 226 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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"Mean People Suck" 11/6/2005
I am really getting pissed off at those people on the net
who choose to be mean and spiteful just because they can.
People who have no self esteem, no social skills, hatered
towards people, and jealous they want to hide behind a computer
screen and assail innocent people. They do this because
they can. Not because they would be this way in real life,
they are trying to be someone they ...
12 Comments, 413 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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"Stalker's,Who Just Dont Get It !!!!!!!! 11/6/2005
I was just checking the blog's and saw a post from LustGoddess2469
about a Guy that is stalking Her! All Women and Real Men should
read this Blog!
<br>
As I went on to read the story about this F***N'Pyscho!
I was pretty Bent.Mainly, because it really take's
alot of trust to Hook-up with someone on this Site Be it Man
or Woman, people as this F****N' whack, Screw it up
for alot ...
4 Comments, 152 Views,
7 Votes
,5.33 Score
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People and Pics 11/5/2005
I know this has been said before but I still cannot phantom
why people continue to post pics of themselves that are
either old or not of themselves or ones that you can clearly
tell are clips from movies. You would think Swapfinder.com would notice
this also and not post their pics.
1 Comments, 37 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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to old for sex 11/5/2005
im getting a bit cheesed off with some people who think just
because you reach 60 your no good.not true , im fit, active
and can cirtainly achive what is recquided of me.there
must be a lot of other men in the same boat.give us a chance
1 Comments, 122 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Why am i here?? 11/5/2005
Well i don't quite know, or i just don't get it!!
I have a few people in my network.I've read a few articles
on here and i don't believe i'm alone on this subject.I
know that most of the time it is to be disceet, i get that
it is not a problem for me, i'm married so i have to be.Anyway's
what i'm getting to is, you or we have our freind's
on this but when you send them a email or see them ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
0 Votes
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good service for the most part! 11/4/2005
i have been reading thru a few articles and see that most
people have a problem with service. I belive Swapfinder.com does a great
job with dealing with us the customers. But i do belive that
standard members should get lee-way when it comes to contacting
others. Simply because i have been a paying member for a
while. BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU WILL ACTUALLY GET
TO MEET/TALK/WINKED AT/ OR ...
1 Comments, 155 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Extreme rudeness 11/3/2005
Rudeness. There's no call for it, is there?
<br>
We're all (well, nearly all!) on here for pretty much
the same thing, so when someone pages you on IMC, if you're
not interested at least have the common decency to say so!
Ignoring the pop-up is exactly the same as ignoring someone
that asks you a question in a public place - IT'S JUST
PLAIN RUDE!!!
<br>
The same goes for ...
4 Comments, 211 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Swapfinder.com whos online 11/2/2005
Is there any way Swapfinder.com could speed up or refresh the "who's
online" list. Its really ineffective when u go to
Im someone who's online accrodign to Swapfinder.com but then all
are offline
I propose Swapfinder.com put the last online info with a time & date
like lavalife. this is my main pick with Swapfinder.com
0 Comments, 134 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Reply? 11/2/2005
so if people on dating sites get an email, how hard is it to
reply if ur not interested, saying thanks, but no thanks..
I found lava very snobbish, hoping Swapfinder.com will be better
2 Comments, 65 Views,
1 Votes
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What "The Pledge" means to me 11/2/2005
I... not you, not we, not they, but I
PLEDGE...I do personally, solemnly vow
ALLEGIANCE...my loyalty, my fidelity
TO THE FLAG...blood-bought freedom, brave at heart
OF THE UNITED STATES...our identity inside-out
OF AMERICA...our identity outside-in
AND TO THE REPUBLIC...constitutional right
FOR WHICH IT STANDS...impartial in judgement
ONE NATION...says it all
UNDER ...
0 Comments, 315 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Can't you take a little teasing? 11/1/2005
Well, this woman couldn't. I e-mail this one woman
who was just....YIKES! In order to keep her identity secert,
I will not reveal her handle. However, here is her profile.
Mistakes and all...
<br>
Nice girl looking for a discreet relationship with a loving
and carrying man.
I can offer a lot for the right person, and expect the same
feedback from the man.
Ideal Person:
...
17 Comments, 582 Views,
11 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Would you join a group... 10/31/2005
Dear Swapfinder.com members;
<br>
How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group,
where the membership requirements are. That you must be
willing to go with a current group member or the group’s
moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within
thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test
results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...
2 Comments, 144 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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All the fakes 10/31/2005
Got this is getting annoying!!!! I am so tired of all these
fake profiles on here. I mean if you see a pic of a girl on here
that is a standard member and looks too good to be true she
probably is. So you don't send a message. Or if you don't
you always wonder if you let a hot chick pass you by. so you
reluctantly send a message. You get a reply great. she asks
you for an e-mail address. ...
1 Comments, 169 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Been There Done That???? 10/29/2005
How many of you are familiar with this scenerio? You meet
a couple that says, like you...they are looking for the
same kinds of things you want and are ready to play, All are
in agreement, things get set up and it's time to play.
You get together, everything gets going, but all of a sudden,
one or the other isn't participating. Your partner,
or you, and one half of the other couple, are ...
0 Comments, 78 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Worth it 10/28/2005
Just an article on wether all the people out ther think its
worth payin the cash. I think it might be when i get a few more
profile views. anyways just stirring ideas. Post all.
1 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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MARRIED ONES!! PLEASE!!! 10/23/2005
What you do with your life is your business.. but
<br>
I DONT DO married or attached... I get sooo many emails,
Im's, ect.. from attached men and I WILL NOT go there..
<br>
<br>
I am sorry but I do have some morals..and maybe you should
be putting that energy into your relationship....
<br>
The attention is great but, I want a man that I can go ...
7 Comments, 281 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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things are getting even worse! 10/23/2005
This site is getting worse and worse all the time. I'm
refering to the service that's supposed to be provided.
I enjoy the groups and belong to a few. It's bad enough
that during the weekdays there's at 2-5 hour posting
delay (usually) but the weekends are a nightmare. Why are
there 10 to 30 hour posting delays? I would assume the weekends
are the busiest time for this site and it's sister ...
5 Comments, 403 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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Marketing on the web 10/22/2005
How many of you have had peole on the site contact you just
to push some other adult website on you? A woman sends me
a e-mail saying she wants to get to know me better and have
some wild times. Sounds good eh? But then she says I should
reach her trough some other website which would require
me to join as a member. Now I'm all for someone trying
to make a buck but the whole point of ...
1 Comments, 98 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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It's so HARD to find a ________ woman these days. 10/22/2005
Fill in the blank with your word of choice. Either way it
doesn't matter. Single guys have about the same chance
of hooking up here as they do at a convent. Actually...maybe
even better. The very few women that are willing to meet,
usually get overwhelm by responses. Sometimes scaring
them off completely. All the others that 'say'they
are willing to meet are bots. The rest of the women ...
7 Comments, 716 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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what the hell are you on this site for 10/21/2005
Hi everyone. Attached im sure to this article is a picture
of me. But its no a full head to toe picture its a picture of
my penis.why? because i am trying to be discreet i am an attached
man which i honestly state on my profile nothing is hidden
i am completely honest on my profile yes i am looking to meet
up with people yesthat is my real age that is a picture of
MY penis if you schedule ...
4 Comments, 442 Views,
12 Votes
,1.03 Score
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Understanding and communication 10/14/2005
I'd like to share some experiences and what I took away
from them.
<br>
I was dating a great gal. We had fun. NSA, just hanging out
and occasionally some wild sex. After a few months she started
asking for a commitment. I wasn't sure I was ready to
go steady, but I wasn't seeing anyone else. I figured,
what the hell? Why not?
Due to poor communication it turned out that we ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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The Birth of Venus 10/13/2005
This famous painting by Sandro Botticelli, circa 1482-84
that hangs in The Uffizi Gallery depicts the voluptous
goddess standing on a giant oyster sans a single scrap of
cloth and bare-footed (gasp!!!) I'm no art critic
but that seems to me an inaccurate portrayal given the unreasonabe
love affair between women and their shoes.
<br>
Bottecelli did get one thing right though, it ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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I HATE A WEAK MAN!!!! 10/9/2005
I talked with a man for a few weeks on the phone from this site..
GRANTED THATS NOT A LONG TIME, but it was just for sex..
<br>
I even spoke with him yesterday and asked if we were still
on for today, he said yes... I told him I'd call in the
morning to get the details...
<br>
I called, got voice mail, he was online on yahoo,
I paged twice..I know he was on there cause I ...
13 Comments, 933 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Grrrrr 10/9/2005
Okay - so how do I get the clowns on the other end of the moderating
to actually understand that I do not swear (often) when
I post, my grammar ain't all bad and that I usually post
an answer that's relevant to the question ?
<br>
I have had responses rejected for no good reason when they
allow drivel and crap to be posted.
<br>
Also, when I ask them to update my magazine ...
4 Comments, 252 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Question 10/6/2005
How can I change my profile from single man to couple? My
wife says she wants to team up with me now and I cant fugure
out how to change the damn profile to read couple. Need somebodys
help please.
3 Comments, 169 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What is phony? 10/5/2005
What does one consider phony? Somebody who puts somebody
else picture on there profile? Somebody who says there
hung like a and is not? I actually met a couple who did
not have the right picture and that age was wrong also. They
said they were 43 and actually late 50's. What about
a person that puts average on her body type, but in reality
they a large? naybody run up against this problem?
3 Comments, 338 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Discrimination 10/2/2005
I have been a part of AAF for about a year now and have noticed
that unless you can fork over $150 - $250.00 per year, it
is hard meet anyone on this network.
<br>
Couldn't the fees be cut to something more reasonable
since Passion.com is so big now? If I want to answer
an ad, I like to see the full description of whom I am writing
to.
<br>
Some of us in this New ...
4 Comments, 286 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Email from fake profiles 9/29/2005
Much like everyone I get my fill of junk mail every day. Among
the mail was an invitation to join a personal site. A quick
google search shows me the site is a total scam. This is not
one of the friendfinder sites. The following are a few of
the 10 emails I have recieved in 2 days from women to entice
me to pay to respond.
<br>
Subject: Love to Dance...in your mouth!
Message: I ...
3 Comments, 181 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Why lie about your sexuality??? 9/26/2005
I recently got into a Yahoo conversation with a member from
here. I make sure to mention fully in my profile that I'm
bi-sexual. We choose to only play with cpls that have a bi-female.
I will apologize now to those that are straight, but it is
a personal desire of my own. This cpl claims in their profile
that she is bi. Oh, and that they don't 'play games'.
Great, I thought! After ...
6 Comments, 307 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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is being in the bathroom together onthe toilet right 9/26/2005
my girl insists on leaveing the toilet door open whilst
shes on the loo no matter what shes doing i`m not bothered
but i dont like leaving it open my self is it just me or should
somethings be kept private
4 Comments, 223 Views,
0 Votes
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The wrong way to ask for a threesome 9/24/2005
It was late on a Saturday and I had spent all day cleaning
the house, my boyfriend of the time said he wanted to borrow
my car to go to the store, and that he'd be back in a few...so
I welcomed the time alone, got in the shower, turned off
all the lights and relaxed finally. As I am coming out of
the bathroom I hear voices and the front door opens.
<br>
Now I am in a robe and ...
5 Comments, 1375 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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accepting Friends into your network 9/22/2005
Is anyone having a problem accepting or removing members
from your network? Whenever I do either, or even invite
for that matter, I am taken back to the login page. I have
emailed customer service but evidently there is no fix.
Anyone else?
2 Comments, 173 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Rant rant rant 9/22/2005
Look away now if profile criticism isn't your thing
- I just need to vent !
<br>
Do a lot of people use Swapfinder.com to create their profiles ? The reason
I ask is because I am getting tired of seeing the same old
comments :-
<br>
1) Not looking to change my life (well if it's so perfect
then why are you here ?)
<br>
2) I promise to send you home with a smile on ...
8 Comments, 525 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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False Flag Idol 9/21/2005
False Flag Idol
<br>
Hide behind your false flag idol preaching patriotism
to people who pretend to listen. Be puppets pretending
in a play so politicians can prosper. Enemies of ethics,
allies of an elaborate evil. Grace of God or gifts from the
government. One or the other or nothing at all. Repressing,
renouncing, rewriting religion. Guiling governments ...
1 Comments, 185 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Same old song and dance! 9/20/2005
I see alot of women that are complaining of crudeness and
such in the e-mails they are receiving. Well, as I see it
if you don't want guys to be crude and outwardly 'dirty'
then people need to change their handles and profile pictures.
I mean come on, cumonme8907, cuminme0009, needcock8643, wetopenpussy5621, lovecum8753,
[made up] these handles just scream, talk dirty to me. The
same goes ...
7 Comments, 281 Views,
17 Votes
,6.52 Score
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Here is a sexual irony for you all 9/20/2005
I joined Swapfinder.com when I was single to meet people
for fun, friendship, and sexual experiences. Ironically,
I have not hooked up with ANYONE from this site yet. I say
Ironically, because I also had joined three of the online
dating sites at the same time. I found many more women interested
in sex and friendship on those sites, than I have on Swapfinder.com.
I hooked up with several very ...
8 Comments, 356 Views,
12 Votes
,5.98 Score
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Majorly confused 9/19/2005
My friend has this guy that she's dating now. I think
she stole him out of the relationship he was in before. Anyways,
before she met this guy, she couldn't wait to have sex
and loose her virginity. Now, she's 22 years old, not
the prettiest thing in the world, has sores over most of
her overweight XXL body and she's anything but sexy.
The last guy she was with didn't want her to have sex ...
2 Comments, 238 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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MALE ATTITUDES TO WOMEN CAMMING 9/18/2005
When oh when will you single guys learn to act like a civilised
human being instead of allowing the caveman instinct to
kick in? Well, even the cavemen had respect for their elders
as well as their young and the women. Surprised? You should
be.
Apart from the regular guys/cpls/fems who watch us, there
is ALWAYS one plonker who tries to push his luck. Seems they
think that as soon as ...
0 Comments, 205 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Winks, Standard Members, Photos, Profiles 9/17/2005
Please let me apologize in advance if this gets a bit lengthy.
<br>
Let me start by saying, this "rant and rave"
is not directed at the masses, just my own personal experience.
<br>
Winks:
<br>
The whole concept of the wink is fine to express an initial
interest and to see if the receiver shares your interest.
It is not fine to annoy the shit out of someone ...
5 Comments, 481 Views,
17 Votes
,4.68 Score
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What's a single guy to do? 9/17/2005
While I'm not exactley single I am temporarily playing
alone until my wife has our baby. I usually respond to ads
for couples who are looking for single men. Or Ads of females
who are looking for single guys. At best there are a couple
messages exchanged then you never hear from them again.
What's up!!
2 Comments, 255 Views,
0 Votes
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R U REAL? 9/15/2005
For those of you that can talk the talk, but not walk the walk
need to find something else to do with your time. And those
that can talk and walk it, where are you?
5 Comments, 247 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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What's real? 9/15/2005
It's really frustrating being on a website like this.
Don't get me wrong, I realize it wasn't even possible
to meet people like this 10 years ago. But--at least as a
guy--you're always wondering who's real and
who's not. Half the time when we get a reply, the "woman"
wants your email address (only to spam you to death).
<br>
Typical cycle of improving technology to find one ...
2 Comments, 293 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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what the ???? 9/14/2005
Ok.. so who can tell me what the heck is up with people sending
emails or winks to someone without obviously having read
thier profile? Dont people think that perhaps if I read
the profile I may find out that they are not looking for _____
and I may be or have or do this thing that they do not want??
Or I may not fit thier wants or needs at all???? Hello!!!!
READ PROFILES INCLUDING THIER ...
4 Comments, 101 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Finding other folks with herpes. 9/13/2005
I'm new to this website and did a search of past articles
on herpes, being that I am a person with herpes. I am very
upfront on my profile page about my having this. I know that
out of the thousands of members on this site I'm not
the only one nor the only one whose been honest about it,
i.e. finding other articles where people have given their
stories, warnings, health suggestions and ...
1 Comments, 201 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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What is it with some men!!!! 9/13/2005
I can believe some men can be so crude. I admit i am a fairly
open minded person, but do guys think that when we open an
email from them saying "you wanna screw me"
that we find it appealing???
<br>
Or even better yet, the one i got the other day "I want
to suck your clit till you cum over my face". Yeah,
that just makes me want to meet you.
<br>
Is it just me or do ...
7 Comments, 411 Views,
15 Votes
,6.96 Score
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PGA Tour - Canadian Open 9/13/2005
Just got back from watching the Canadian Open in Vancouver.
My overall experiences of this trip is quite pleasant.
First of all, hats off to the men and women involved in the
tour to raise almost a billion $$$ for charities over the
years...second, many thanks to the tour players for witnessing
their fine shots (and not so fine shots...haha...a few
errant T-shots, club throwing, bag ...
0 Comments, 94 Views,
0 Votes
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Restart your session!!! 9/13/2005
Is it just me our does everyone else have this problem now
of your session restarting causing you to re-enter your
user name and password. I have been trying for the last 20
minutes trying to load pictures in one of my albums when
everytime it tells me I havent clicked on a link fast enough
and to re-enter username and password kicking me back out
all the way to the homepage. What gives. It ...
9 Comments, 295 Views,
13 Votes
,5.66 Score
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I don't think the chemistry is there. 9/12/2005
We were going through the people that were on line and came
across(funcplnm). We were interested, and wanted to know
more...(Because they have alot of " Prefer not to
say"). So we e-mailed them and without them even looking
at our profile they sent us an auto reply that said ( "I
don't think the chemistry is there".)We feel
that they were very rude they saw thatthe age on one of the ...
3 Comments, 359 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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Where is the action!!!!! 9/12/2005
Ok, I am in Bristol United Kingdom. My beef is that there
is no, or seems to be no action in this godforsaken town.
I have looked around for action but it seems to be non existent.
There just seems to be a hell of a lot of gay action. Not my
cup of tea, so tell me where is the action on the south west
let alone Bristol. Or is everybody hibernating, come on
whats happening?
0 Comments, 187 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Here I go!!! 9/9/2005
Ok where do I start, first of all, I am tired of people posting
rude responses and comments to questions my husband has
asked, as my husband is the one who usually post stuff on
this magazine. I do not take rudeness very well there is
no reason to be so bitter, and if you are then you have a problem
with yourself.
As I have said once before we are new to this site and still
exploring ...
5 Comments, 685 Views,
12 Votes
,0.15 Score
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Tracking cookie 9/5/2005
Yeah, they plant one. Remember to use your spyware tools.
2 Comments, 368 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Why do some men have to be pigs? 9/4/2005
You know alot of women get on cam and are not always wanting
to materbate or play. We just sinply want to chat with friends
we have made or make some new ones. So why do men have this
over whelming urge that they almost always act on, to tell
us what they want to see? I myself have this to say to them
all: If you dont talk to your mother, sister or wife that
way then why talk to me like ...
6 Comments, 564 Views,
10 Votes
,4.98 Score
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Really digging the Panic Page - ha! 9/4/2005
I rant alot, but that one is worth a rave. I cracked up the
first time I saw it. Of course, it only works visually...
your friendly neighborhood IT desk will know exactly where
you are at all times. But if you're at home, and no one's
got binocs on your address line, it saves you from having
to explain things to the kiddies or grandma 
<br>
Very nice idea, very nicely executed. ...
0 Comments, 246 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Passing by thoughtful questions 9/3/2005
I get just as irritated as the next person seeing numerous
questions posted every single day about 'is bigger
better?', 'what's wrong with my profile',
or self promotion. That is not what this post is about.
<br>
There are quite a few good questions, if you can find them
between the above mentioned ones. But it seems that most
times these good questions get very few responses ...
1 Comments, 78 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Is swinging cheating? 8/30/2005
I would like to know why so many people on this site really
dislike married men? They say if you're on the site
without your wife that your are cheating. But what is the
difference between cheating and swinging? If you both
took vows in marriage to only be with your spouse and you
are having sex with someone else wouldn't that still
be considered cheating. I don't care if their spouse
gave ...
7 Comments, 439 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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i'm poor! 8/30/2005
This sucks! There's no way for me to get points -->
no way to contact girls! I'm a starving student and
refuse to pay to get "points." No way man. So
i guess unless a girl wants to contact me, i'm up shit
creek. Woe is me
4 Comments, 219 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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where are cams???? 8/29/2005
for th uptenth million times cams are not working on this
site.. is it just us or is everyone getting upset with this
always happeingin?
1 Comments, 114 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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I judt don't get it 8/28/2005
I feel I have to get this off my chest and what better place
to bitch then somewhere that hardly anyone will read it
first off my luck with women is terrible. When I say terrible
I mean I can't hardly get one to return a smile. This
is the number one I don't get, I mean I am far from hideous.
I may not be brad pitt of someone of that caliber but at the
same time I am not the male version ...
3 Comments, 290 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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The futility of argument on a sex site. 8/27/2005
Are you on here to meet people? Trying to get laid? Looking
for a husband/wife/mate? What are you here for?
<br>
Questions that some of the people on this site need to figure
out!
<br>
I've watched people argue when you tell them no, argue
over a comment in advice line, vehemently disagree when
the opposite sex posts (mainly men in disagrement with
women) over ...
5 Comments, 324 Views,
13 Votes
,5.66 Score
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testing cam 8/26/2005
I'll tell you from the top im not gay, why is it when
im testing my cam to get the right lightingill get males
to popup watching menot just for a second it seem like the
whole time im on their there.ill stresi t again im not gay
so guys if you happen to be one of the lookers give me a breat
if females wanna look thats grat othrs wise chill.
2 Comments, 315 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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ladies lets gwet real 8/25/2005
I guess my favorite saying is get grip sometimes we put our
foot in our mouths with out really trying .Ladies some of
your profiles are unreal I thought you were tring to attract
the man instead of shot him down.
You could be missing the best thing ever right out there
amoung the crowed rooms for once let your hair down be real
and remember just cause hes rich doesent make him better ...
0 Comments, 210 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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ALL OR NOTHING 8/23/2005
When coming to sex I believe In giving my all and I thought
the women I was with believe In the same thing, but everytime
we have sex she always have some kind of excuse why she don't
like doing different position. Our sex life starting to
feel routine and I don't like that at all. We lay down
I try to do some foreplay, she stop me, I ask her to turn this
way or that way she have a problem ...
0 Comments, 185 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Is it better left to your imagination? 8/21/2005
So we all have fantacies in our heads then get us off. I have
had a few experiences now that have seriously lacked anything
that I had going in my head.
<br>
The question that I pose is: Are these things left better
to the imagination?
<br>
How many gang bangs have people there you realy don't
want to be with? How many times are the lovers disapointing?
How often was it ...
1 Comments, 306 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Rooselvelt And Bush. History Repeats? (Revised) 8/21/2005
Did he know about Pearl Harbor(9/11) before it happened?
Why are we in Germany (Iraq) when Japan (Al Qiada) attacted
us? The war in Germany (Iraq) is just a diversion whe should
be fighting Japan (Al Qiada). I
spoke with one vetrean who said that Rooselvelt (Bush)
was just dying to find an excuse to fight the Nazis (Iraqi
Guard), and pearl harbor(9/11) was provoked by the United
States. ...
4 Comments, 217 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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I do madly 8/20/2005
Dont you just love the female race of this world.
<br>
They rant and rave and what about the girls who are obsessive.
They always want you to be touching them and will give u the
death stare if you oggle longer than a blink at another womens
breast. Eye candy is good it helps with bloody circulation
i tell you
1 Comments, 96 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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sex with another woman 8/20/2005
I've had 3somes with another girl involved but never
really got to try the girl out I would really love to try being
with another girl. The female body has always turned me
on. More so than the man's body. I'm not sure why.
I mean I love men, but just looking at a beautiful naked woman
just absolutely does it for me. I masturbate thinking about
women, or looking at women. I know I'm not ...
2 Comments, 291 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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This site gets worse as time goes by 8/20/2005
This site is a joke. Nothing ever works and the powers to
be introduce rules in an ad hoc way just for the sake of it
by the look of things. Every time you click on members webcam
site you get the message 'video not available'
on every single name, then to cap it all after you try to access
more you are sent a message saying you have reached your
limit of five and the only way to access ...
1 Comments, 226 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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pics 8/19/2005
When i log on, i see immediate pics of girls and, good god,
some of the hottest pics i've seen! Playboy gives us
ideal women in ideal settings, but to see pics of girls who
are making themselves available and are really into it.....man,
really does it for me! Am i totally wrong here?? I'm
seriously impressed!
1 Comments, 198 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Rooselvelt And Bush. History Repeats? 8/19/2005
Did he know about Pearl Harbor(9/11) before it happened?
Why are we in Germany (Iraq) when Japan (Al Qiada) attacted
us? The war in Germany (Iraq) is just a diversion whe should
be fighting Japan (Al Qiada). I spoke with one vetrean who
said that Rooselvelt (Bush) was just dying to find an excuse
to fight the Nazis (Iraqi Guard), and pearl harbor (9/11)
was provoked by the United States. ...
4 Comments, 131 Views,
7 Votes
,1.77 Score
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If you don't want someone to know about Swapfinder.com 8/17/2005
Ok I have never posted an article before but I feel that this
needs to be said. If you are a member on this web site and you
do not want the person you are with knowing about it at least
try to hide it. If they have access to your computer erase
your browser history, don't list Swapfinder.com in a favorites
column, and don't have the site save your password.
I just got a call from a woman asking me ...
2 Comments, 428 Views,
15 Votes
,6.96 Score
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so hard to get an older woman 8/16/2005
Why is it so hard for a younger guy to get an older woman? Are
older women not attracted to younger guys? Don't they
have fantasies about being with a younger guy? What's
the best way to approach them?
10 Comments, 388 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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why some women don't reply. 8/14/2005
They accepted the invitation to join the network. The strange
thing is that, you won't get any reply from her. And
when you send her a 2nd email. The same thing happen. They
just don't have the decent courtesy to reply back.
So what is the use of joining a network if you don't want
to be in contact with the people you're connected with,
even through Swapfinder.com.com email system. cunt.
6 Comments, 521 Views,
18 Votes
,2.44 Score
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Remember How We Met Someone B4 The Keyboard? 8/14/2005
I was married for 8 years. After my seperation, I began dating,
playing, yada, yada, yada, just like before my marriage.
It felt good to be free, whether it was "one weekend
stand", several weeks, or longer. I enjoyed meeting
new girlfriends, 2:00AM calls in need of rescue after a
bad date, or just entertaining and enjoying women as friends(Yes
2 sexual, attractive people can have a good ...
0 Comments, 82 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Cheating!!!! 8/13/2005
I came to this site pretty much like everybody else, looking
mainly for one thing. Does it matter to anybody why? If I
am married and I want to find something on the side, it is
my and the other persons business. Are you people on here
trying to tell me now I am immoral and I shouldn't be
doing this? Maybe I should just stick to paying a private
or something? Isn't there also willing ...
8 Comments, 463 Views,
15 Votes
,3.74 Score
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Post a picture Please 8/12/2005
Average, A little extra padding, Athletic, Ample; all
of these things are relative. I have seen women type themselves
as "average" when I think by their picture they
are "slim petite". If there is no picture then
we are guessing.
<br>
I know many people that are overweight even if it's
just a little don't want to post a pic. I am one of them,
but I did.
<br>
You can hide ...
2 Comments, 203 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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WHY IS IT? 8/12/2005
Why is it so hard for certain people to beleive me that my
wife is okay with me being on this site. We have been married
for over 15yrs and like allot of marriages it got boring.
She has her own profile along with me and we like to compare
notes on the people that we have met. This has made our relationship
more exciting. I give her advice she gives me advice. She
tells me on how certain ...
1 Comments, 204 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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This site seems to support sexist and shallow men 8/12/2005
On a few occasions I have commented on statemens that some
men have made about women's appearance or roles that
some men seem to think we SHOULD have to them. An example
is the comment just recently about "A little extra
padding", and another man's comment several
weeks ago about a woman's DUTY to serve a man in whatever
way he wants.
<br>
My beef is that I have made responses ...
4 Comments, 242 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Whats with the clothes? 8/11/2005
Ever notice how some women like to wear the wrong clothes?
I mean clothes dont make the person but they help a little.
I mean sexy women will try to hide under long loose clothes
, but, worst of all, portly women will try to squeeze into
clothes made for a much more slender woman. Yesterday at
the mall I saw this young, but overweight, young blond in
a denim jacket and skirt combo. She ...
6 Comments, 198 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Attraction is Relative 8/11/2005
I have noticed a certain trend while on this website. Everyone
in their ad claims to be attractive(confidence & good
self esteem are qualities we all seek in a mate) but wouldn't
you say that attraction is relative? I have seen women describe
themselves as curvy(which in a majority of cases indicates
she is overweight to say the least) yet how does one define
curvy. Curvy to you may be ...
2 Comments, 112 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Is anyone else getting gipped out of points? 8/5/2005
I've found another error in this error filled site.
You are supposed to gain points for doing various activities
on this site like posting pics, voting on articles, submitting
articles, etc. I've voted on about 10 articles and
I get no additional points. I looked on my points history
and I'm not over the limit(I have 60 points for article
voting), so what gives? I was wondering if anyone ...
3 Comments, 1650 Views,
14 Votes
,6.18 Score
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a pair of panties does not a transvestite make 8/4/2005
Maybe this article should go under first dates, I don't
know.
First let me apologize to anyone I might offend, but I'd
like to address a dishonesty that happens in our world.
(Our gay world)
I'm a bisexual man who loves to feel like a woman. LOL,
I hear u laughing out there.
I'm newly into the life, and joined Swapfinder.com in May of 2005.
As my sexuality developed, I became a ...
2 Comments, 978 Views,
17 Votes
,6.38 Score
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Anyone else have this problem? 8/4/2005
Sometimes when I take a break from sorting through the hundreds
of e-mails I get, (ha, ha, ha) I check out members vidios.
But for the last two months they haven't worked. Either
they don't play at all or if they do the image will play
three seconds and then freeze up for what seems like a minute.
I've complained but nothing has changed.
So I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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just unloading my thoughts 8/2/2005
You know, Im fairly new to this site, and so far its been pretty
good. Well, except when the connection problems start
right in the middle of something good.
As I have spent today bored out of my mind, and reading all
the questions posted (asked some myself, thanks for the
advice!) I have noticed a theme with the men and women on
a few things.
Like penis size. GEEZ!, this debate is ...
1 Comments, 480 Views,
11 Votes
,6.72 Score
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Why is it 8/1/2005
Why is it that so many guys here are Bi but put straight on
their profiles? Why can't eveyone here admit openly
what they are looking for? It makes it harder for people
to find each other. When someone reads your profile they
are judging whether or not to contact you based on what's
in your profile, so why not tell everyone what you're
looking for? This is a site meant for adults to meet ...
9 Comments, 358 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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for those who despair 7/31/2005
just thought i would give a bit of an up date for those who
are complaining about a lack of responses:
<br>
<br>
when i came on here i expected immediate success, but alas
reality quickly set in. i started to browse the magazine
and read the posts about profiles and even had the courage
to post a few ideas myself.
<br>
<br>
i took a few shots ...
2 Comments, 160 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Late replies 7/30/2005
I had a reply from someone I wrote to 3 days a go. According
to her profile the last time she had signed on was the day
i sent her a message. Why did it take three days to get her
reply when apparently she sent it the last time she was on?
2 Comments, 98 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Burn In Hell 7/29/2005
Whether anyone else chooses to believe it or not, I am a smart
person ; not stupid. Yet from the older crowd (35 and up)on
this failed site, I have gotten nothing but disdain, disapproval
and condescension and patronization ------- all merely
because of the presumption that just because I'm a
young buck that it automatically means that I must be stupid,
ignorant, unworthy, or inferior. That ...
9 Comments, 403 Views,
12 Votes
,0.33 Score
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Men: Why be gold? 7/29/2005
I've been a gold and silver member and there is (imo)
no advantage in being a gold member.
Think of it this way. There are thousands of female standard
members, who don't pay a dime, having a hell of a lot
more fun then you are. So why pay the extra money? It only
helps to fund their free ride.
7 Comments, 364 Views,
14 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Marking - What You think of An Article 7/28/2005
I have noticed since being a member that there are some reader's
that are not only polite when they like your article. But
they also have the courtesy to write a comment if they disliked
your article.
<br>
To me these people are most important reader's..
<br>
Why? Because they voice in opinion.. ANd leave some idea
of why? This can only make you get better as a writer.
...
5 Comments, 129 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Doing what I always do 7/27/2005
I Posted an article in this magazine about the beginnig
of July...
<br>
I removed it do to the fact that a reader misunderstood..
<br>
You see there are people that will do anything possible
to ruin your reputation. If allowed..
<br>
I was even informed that it was insulting. To a reader..
And I have always held a position That if such thing occurs
from ...
0 Comments, 283 Views,
1 Votes
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Pre-Marital Sex 7/27/2005
First of all, I'm not knocking pre-marital sex, just
dissecting and examining it. The concept of remaining
a virgin until one's wedding night is a good theory,
I suppose, but unfortunately, it's not a realistic
one, either. Truth is, we're not just non-sexual until
our wedding night ; we're sexual from day one. People
can't truly be expected to remain celibate until they
have found true ...
1 Comments, 48 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Thoughts about poser's 7/26/2005
This is a word a learned maybe just a few years back between
a 2 teenagers they got it so I understand.. And could actually
call some one a poser..
<br>
You see a poser is a new age name for some one pretending to
be some one or something they are not..
<br>
But like any other kind of word for liar this one has a little
better flair.. I think it is a more insulting way ...
2 Comments, 106 Views,
4 Votes
,0.14 Score
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PORNO! Now that I have your attention... 7/24/2005
I'd like to give you my commentary on them. I feel most
adult movies are degrading to women. The prime example:
The money shot. Where the guy jerks himself off on the woman's
face. I think if a guy does that she should be allowed to piss
on his. Unless he likes that kind of thing. Then something
equally disgusting. If most guys did that to their girlfriend/wife/fuck
buddy, they wouldn't be ...
9 Comments, 209 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Just a little of my mind 7/23/2005
I abolish all that is surreal. It is only me and the invisible
army. Amass my breatheren. Amass. I do not hate life, life
has taken who I am, Its done this ever since I've been
born. why stop now? It begins to convince a persona that
the choices they make are not their own. Ergo, we do nothing
about this. Why, I plea, Why. Statement, not question.
Think about this and shoot yourself. Thats ...
2 Comments, 381 Views,
5 Votes
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Be warned 7/23/2005
Friendfinder has changed it's name to Various inc.
and moved it's corporate hq. to St. Kitts island. The
result is that when you renew your membership you will be
charged a foreign transaction fee on your credit card.
On my card it was a 3% fee.
Just so you know.
8 Comments, 262 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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getting highjacked 7/22/2005
i submitted three questions for the magazine.
<br>
one was posted.
<br>
the nest day i got a notice that my submissions have been
approved and posted at Xmatch.com.
<br>
WTF!??
<br>
i sent Swapfinder.com an email asking why did they highjack my questions
and what the hell is Xmatch? they replied that it is exactly
the same as Swapfinder.com but without the sexually ...
4 Comments, 158 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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The Myth of the Missing Good Men 7/20/2005
Men are pigs. There aren't any good men left. Mr. right
is an illusion. Men are only interested in one thing. All
men are the same. Men treat women like animals. Men lie.
Men cheat. Men steal. Men take advantage of women. Men hurt
women and abuse them. Where have all the good men gone? H-O-R-S-E-S-H-I-T
ladies...PURE AND SIMPLE STINKING MAGGOTY HORSESHIT!!!
The man bashing world relies upon ...
5 Comments, 194 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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Lazy or What? 7/19/2005
Why is it that no one who contacts you bothers to read your
profile You state an age limit of ...say 30 to 60 and your
inundated with idiots of 18 plus all clamering for photos
but have none of their own (or so they say)
Is it that they're too lazy to bother reading what you
want or can't they read. I do know that a lot of them can't
spell or punctuate their mail.
<br>
Still ...
1 Comments, 105 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Are there any woman on here looking to meet for real in OHIO? 7/19/2005
All I have run across is woman that are just looking for email
fun or just out to see how far they can get........I am for
reall and if you are please read my profile and if you like
it than get in touch with me. Thanks
0 Comments, 40 Views,
0 Votes
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Why this question. 7/18/2005
It seems as though everytime I get an email from someone
or talk to them in chat they always seem to ask. So why are
you on Swapfinder.com. Well my question is why do you think everyone
is on Swapfinder.com. It is a sex and swinger website and if you read my
profile it will show you what I am looking for. I know it shouldnt
bother me, but it does, I get asked this question everyday
in every email. And if you ...
2 Comments, 165 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Is there such a thing as consistant married/relationship sex? 7/18/2005
Hi there,
Just a quick question and a few comments. Q: Do women really
exist that enjoy consistent, (once a day) sex within a marriage?
<br>
My first wife was all show and no go! She even got to the point
where she would use sex as a bargaining tool as a way to control
me.
<br>
I have been single again for almost 4 yrs and have heard the
same story line over and over ...
7 Comments, 206 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Standard Membership 7/17/2005
This has bothered me since I joined Swapfinder.com. I am still a Standard
Member that is MY choice. I am not interested in upgrading
it.
Why is it that standard members can not RESPOND to another
memeber when they are contacted either by wink, email,
etc.?
This seems very very rude and insensitive to the standard
membership here.
7 Comments, 204 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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erotic chat and e-mail 7/17/2005
I've always wondered about this. And I've learned
over the years that when a woman puts this at the top of the
things she's looking for on her profile, it's
probably all she's here for.
So what is it about erotic chat and e-mail? I personally
have no interest in it, and I don't think many men would
either.(just my opinion)
So my question is: Ladies, what do you get out of it? and if ...
2 Comments, 790 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Women 7/16/2005
Got a question for everyone out there and maybe I can find
out whats going on. I have several women who have joined
my group of friends and I have emailed them also, but yet
have heard a single word from them. It would even be nice
to hear please remove me from your group so I would know whats
going on. Can anyone tell me what a women is thinking when
they dont even say no thanks ?????
3 Comments, 129 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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What is the deal with those damn pre-employment personality tests?! 7/15/2005
I read a recent article in my local newspaper titled 'Hiring
In Mind' discussing the popularity that these pre-employment
personality "surveys" have been gaining with
employers. It got me thinking back to my own experiences
I have had with these things before. These "surveys"
are total bullshit. Prior to employment with some companies
or places of work, an applicant receives a form with ...
10 Comments, 178 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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just watchin...................... mysterious prfls 7/15/2005
We finally got our 1st comp 4 months ago, thinkin, in our
"innocence" it would be relatively easier
than the actual magazine version of contacting people.
We duly filled in our prfl, got cam and mic & began to
search. As we enjoy camming we luv peeps watchin us&/or
me doin the biz! BUT why oh why do peeps NOT PUT PICS in prfl?
Cpls, fems whatever, ANY pic will do, doesnt have to be ...
1 Comments, 164 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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E-mail responses 7/15/2005
Okay, let's be real. I'm a 55 year old guy. I don't
EXPECT very many people to be terribly interested in me,
your loss AND mine. Still, it's rude not to answer your
mail even if it's just to say "go to hell".
Swapfinder.com doesn't run the best e-mail server ... I think we
can all agree on that point ...and I do realize that some
of you are overwhelmed by e-mail. Would it kill you to post
an ...
10 Comments, 203 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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The long and short of it 7/14/2005
I would like to ask all the short women on this site a question:
why are you looking for tall men? Again and again, I find
women under 5'2 on dating sites, including this one,
looking for me 6-10 inches taller than them. Is there an
urban legend out there which equates height with cock size
or ability to sexually satisfy a woman? Do people still
think shoe size is an indicator of cock ...
3 Comments, 279 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The open house of Sex! 7/13/2005
I have a little problem here I am a 30 yr old mom with 2 girls
and a live in bf as well my gay father and his lovers..Sex
in my house is talked about openly..Which worries me with
the girls what will they do and how will they act when they
see my dad kiss his partner. will it an effect on them plus
they have seen men in and out of my life So I'm scared
how they will turn out I want to be ...
3 Comments, 195 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Cum And Get Me/I Want You 7/12/2005
Why, ladies, have these as your introduction lines when
most of you won't live upto that promise? I've
had my membership for nearly two months now and I've
done my searches (for Irish women) and I keep getting a lot
of profiles that have introduction lines reading similar
to the above. I know the "promise" is just there
to grab male attention but please, give us better credit
than that. ...
3 Comments, 103 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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THE PERFECT PEOPLE (KEN AND BARBIE) 7/11/2005
WE HAVE A GROUP OF GREAT PEOPLE THAT PLAY ALL THE TIME. THEY
ARE THE GREATEST PEOPLE YOU WOULD EVER WANT TO BE AROUND.
GUESS WHAT WE ARE NOT PERFECT, SOME OF US ARE BIG SOME OF US
ARE SMALL, BUT WE PLAY TOGETHER BECAUSE WE LIKE AND RESPECT
ONE ANOTHER. SO TO YOU PERFECT PEOPLE WAITING FOR YOUR FUN
TO START. WE FEEL SORRY FOR YOU, IT'S JUST A VERY VERY
SAD STORY. OH BY THE WAY IF YOU WANT ...
0 Comments, 147 Views,
2 Votes
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TECHSTEVE, I AM A FEM MOD - LETS DANCE 7/10/2005
LISTEN UP BUCCO !!!!!!!!!!
<br>
I am a female moderator and damn good one !!!!!!!
<br>
In fact I am a moderator of a bunch of men, wonderful handsome,
intelligent men !!!!!!!!
<br>
"LONG HAIRED MEN!!" - Check it out!!!!
<br>
Noone, I mean noone (male or female) has disrespect for
anyone in that group... NOONE in that group plays games,
I will not permit ...
20 Comments, 505 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site????????? 7/10/2005
First of all, is this a SEX & SWINGERS Site or a DATING
Site? You tell me. What the hell does 1 on 1 sex mean? That
your going to fuck on the honeymoon, it sure seems like a
lot of people think this when they see the question WHAT
ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?
<br>
Second of all, I'm wet and horny, looking for anything,
ECT. Ever seen this before? If you got this in your listing
and no ...
5 Comments, 229 Views,
17 Votes
,3.55 Score
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married or not 7/9/2005
Tell me this why is it okay for a married women to cheat but
if a married man wants to do it it is so wrong. Dont get me wrong
i think what is good for the goose is good for the gander
5 Comments, 142 Views,
3 Votes
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cams 7/9/2005
I just want to whine a moment about the men that are listed
as couples in cam rooms if its just you dude say so, adds an
element of dishonesty that I find a right turn off.
0 Comments, 51 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Yet another post on how compose appealing reading material. 7/8/2005
Hello all. I am one of many new, young members on this site.(20
years old to be exact) For the most part I agree with most
of the comments I have read on different posts about misspelling
words, and using such poor sentence structure, etc. I was
raised to use proper english. Not to slur my words, and in
turn appear to be completely ignorant. However, as the
years have gone by, I am no ...
1 Comments, 176 Views,
11 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Does COLOR Really Matter? 7/7/2005
Whats UP to everyone in Swapfinder.com WORLD. As of yesterday I had a
very interesting encounter. First let me just say that
color doesn't even matter to me, I don't even see
it, I just look at a person disposition and attitude which
then tells me every thing else, for it isn't fair to
judge the book which you haven't even read by it's
cover only because your not digging the color; however
it's ...
3 Comments, 192 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Where is everybody? 7/7/2005
Why is it that the women on this site are so damn quiet? I only
get emails and responses from men, never women. I know part
of it is attraction and all that but come on.. Women in couple
situations have no problem talking but whats w/the single
ones?
4 Comments, 93 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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STRAIGHT 7/6/2005
WE are getting sick and tired of men and couples saying they
are straight and are not! If a man sucks another man , HE
IS NOT STRAIGHT! Talking to a straight couple for days,
then the man offers to suck you off is bullshit. Get you head
out of your ass!
0 Comments, 134 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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reply not showing up ?? 7/6/2005
I submitted a reply to a question, not once but twice and
it still isn't showing up.I didn't use foul language
or anything so I don't know what to think ??
1 Comments, 47 Views,
0 Votes
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"freesites" 7/5/2005
ihate free porn sites that claim they're free and require
no credit card and as soon as u go to sign p they ask for a credit
card
2 Comments, 81 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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guys watching my cam 7/5/2005
Stop it, im straight, dont ask to cam with me.
5 Comments, 198 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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not here for sex 7/4/2005
i really would like to meet women who are here for sex.i think
99% of the ladies dont know what they want.if this makes
you upset then im sorry, please dont be.
6 Comments, 209 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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the english language 7/4/2005
it never ceases to amaze me how many ways a person can find
to mangle the english language. try typing you post into
a word program, run spell check, make corrections and then
copy and paste onto here and people won't have to try
to decipher what you are trying to say.
<br>
proofread your post before you click submit. i know the
language is difficult, but please give it a try. a ...
8 Comments, 189 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Lack of information 7/1/2005
I'm wondering, is there a reason for the questions
on the friendfinder profiles? I've noticed so many
members out there don't bother with a photo or to even
answer the questions about themselves, such as body type,
height, race, etc. I don't know about everyone else,
but I want to have at least some idea of what the person on
the profile is like. It seems to me if they are really looking ...
3 Comments, 137 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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WHY R WOMEN SO NARROW MINDED? 7/1/2005
Why do LADYs Run a mile when I say I am DISABLED! At least I
am honest!! More than can be said for some people!
5 Comments, 312 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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Too Much Data 7/1/2005
Why does this site seem to store and endless amout of 'old'
information. I have noted members who have changed their
tag, but still use the same photo's. Also, many members
no longer visit the site. I suggest that if no-one has logged
on for more than 12 months, they should be deleted to make
navigation quicker. That would mean that all 'searches'
result in current interested ...
1 Comments, 59 Views,
8 Votes
,6.03 Score
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Big rave to the 40+ women on web cam 6/30/2005
Love watching you, all the people jumping on the twenty
somethings don't know what their missing.
You are beautiful!
1 Comments, 134 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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What is it with Republicans on this site?? 6/30/2005
Recently, I tried to make contact with a couple and their
response was pretty interesting and I don’t mean savvy
or pleasant. I believe they said something like, "We're
Republicans, we don't like Hippies peace out"
in response to my handle which trust me doesn't have
much to do with my personality. It struck me as odd that they
were even on here to begin with.
<br>
Now, I am ...
6 Comments, 194 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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How many profiles are fake here? 6/30/2005
Who else thinks that there are a good portion of these profiles
that are fake?
4 Comments, 106 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Lights, Camera, Action 6/30/2005
The camera in our house goes on a lot late at night. We like
to have fun teasing, and showing off, and really like knowing
people are watching. However the real mood killer are constant
ims from people telling us to do this, show that, and sometimes
they are really weird. So heres my rant: STOP DIRECTING!!!!
Most people and couples, we've spoken to, whom get
on cam complain that after a ...
2 Comments, 203 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Why can't people just tell it like it is? 6/30/2005
If you aren't interested in someone, isn't it
better to come right out and say so rather than play games
stringing him/her along just to wind up really letting
them down? For example, don't say "I'll
call you" when what you really mean is "don't
bother me, I'm not interested." Why send mixed
messages like that? Why is this candid honesty so rare and
feared between people when it comes ...
4 Comments, 113 Views,
8 Votes
,6.03 Score
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Why can't i talk to people in my friends network 6/29/2005
It really pisses me off that i can't converse or look
at the profiles of people in my friends network.
<br>
It is just another way the owners are making money from our
relationships.
<br>
We do the ahrd work and they cream the profit.
<br>
I think we should have total access to anyone who wants to
be our friends.
<br>
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?
2 Comments, 99 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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WHY???? 6/29/2005
Why do most men think that they have to put a picture of their
"stuff" on here rather than a face pic?? Do men
think that is all a woman wants from them?? I would also like
to know what a man looks like ~ especially if I was thinking
about making love with him. He may have a very generous offering
down there, but a woman has to look in a man's face at
times when making love. Am I right ...
3 Comments, 193 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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Long Rant 6/28/2005
So I was sitting here thinking.
<br>
I have posted my profile, basically open to experiment;
meet a couple people off here. Had a few moments of pleasure
but here is my observations.
<br>
1) If you are a women "looking for a friend first and
then maybe more later." WTF are you doing on a swinger's
site? This site is about sex. There are other friendfinder
sites for just ...
0 Comments, 189 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score
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Anal = Exit only 6/28/2005
Im not discriminative against people who like anal and
the like but my rant is guys sticking their fingers up my
ass without a word of warning! Sorry but my G-spot isnt in
the same place as yours....and what makes me even madder
is that they attempt to stick the same fingers in my well
maintained pussy....H-Y-G-I-E-N-E people....sure
im up for new experiences but can we please just repect ...
4 Comments, 366 Views,
9 Votes
,5.35 Score
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The Erotic Stories are not too erotic! 6/27/2005
Thanks to review buy some prunds and laywers the so called
"Erotic Stories, " are anything but.
<br>
If it is an Adult Site, let it be so.
<br>
Come on now, that is why we are here to have some erotic fun!!
2 Comments, 116 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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Why waiste your time! 6/27/2005
O.K. so heres the deal, I became a member of this site to meet
with women and have sex or send e-mails back and forth. So
why is it that when I browse threw the sit i see that some people
havent checked-in in over a month or two. Also why would
you sign up for a site like this if you have no intentions
of hooking up with anyone. All your doing is waisting your
time and mine.
I look ...
0 Comments, 66 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Couples listed as women 6/26/2005
What the hell is with couples having accounts where its
listed as only a woman (instead of as a couple). We are interested
in a THREESOME with a WOMAN ONLY. Yet when we search, we get
almost 20 women in our area who are set up as just a woman,
but turn out to be a couple. Why can't people just register
as what they are? If they are really looking for a couple
who wants to swap, they are ...
3 Comments, 97 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Please send reply to EMAILS! 6/23/2005
I no that that every one is not compatable but it gets me when
you send out an email to someone and you do not even get a reply.My
understanding that this is a place where people are looking
for sex. It seems to me that the person who emailed may not
be what your looking for but It would be nice to just get a
reply back.If you are just looking for a long term relationship
with one person ...
2 Comments, 159 Views,
14 Votes
,3.94 Score
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I wish I were a ... 6/22/2005
Do you ever wonder what you did or didn't do today or
yesterday to make a smile appear on your face?
I smiled - a lot and I keep searching for a way to feel comfortable
with that. Some just are afraid of those curled lips.
0 Comments, 51 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Confused and would like some feedback.............. 6/22/2005
My hubby and I have recently enjoyed the company of another
couple. It seems that the female part of the other couple
is totally against any noise during sex. Heck, they don't
even put music on and the house is totally quiet. I'm
not saying that I enjoy a woman over-exaggerating a scream,
but what's wrong with the sensual moans and such? Hubby
has told me since this came up that he gets ...
10 Comments, 270 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Gentlemen prefer blondes??? Says who???!! 6/21/2005
Thumb through almost any high-priced men's magazine
or anywhere else advertisements are found, and it seems
the dillweeds who produced them would honestly expect
you to believe that a woman can only be sexy if the color of
her hair is blonde.(one of the biggest crocks of shit, ever.)It's
time for us to get past that archaic way of thinking. This
is NOTHING against all the women out there ...
6 Comments, 161 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Why cant we..? 6/20/2005
I was thinking that it doesnt make any sence why Standard
members cant contact other Standard members. They are
all in the same "group" per say, so why cant we
contact them? I dont even see why we cant contact groups
that are "higher" than us because they pay for
it? Is that just me or do others feel the same way?
6 Comments, 253 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Huh? You liked it? What ? 6/19/2005
I'm sooo confused!!
<br>
When I first posted my profile, I simply said that I was looking
for Black men and under "Ideal Person" I put
"Black men, etc etc." <br>
I got as many responses from white men as I did from black
men.
<br>
Then I changed it to include "NO WHITE MEN. I DON'T
WANT WHITE MEN SO DON'T WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS CONTACTING
ME."
<br>
Then ...
9 Comments, 434 Views,
11 Votes
,6.53 Score
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Let Me Respond 6/19/2005
There was a young lady from Kentucky that sparked an interest
in me. I used to be stationed in Kentucky, but I am back in
North Carolina now. She replied to my email and asked me
for a photo. I replied that I don't send photos due to
fact that I am married. She goes off about my being weak and
all this other stuff. Then she BLOCKS my email so I cannot
respond. If you are going to ...
2 Comments, 195 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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This is getting out of hand. 6/18/2005
I am sick and tired of the women on this site who just sit and
complain about the men they are with. It has been passed
down through generations that women are to be subservient
to men. If a man wants sex he gets sex. If a man wants his messages
returned, his messages are returned. The women on this
site should be on their hands and knees thanking the good
lord that they can get a man to ...
7 Comments, 324 Views,
10 Votes
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Date From Hell 6/18/2005
Recently I met a man from this site. He seemed very normal
through our e-mails and Chats on the phone. I invited him
down for the weekend. When he arrived we went out for breakfast
and he made no attempt to pay the bill. Not that I'm cheap.
I guess he felt that he drove to me 2 hours and paid for the
gas, that I should pay for breakfast. To make a long story
short, the next evening we went ...
10 Comments, 706 Views,
15 Votes
,4.36 Score
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Men, stop whining! 6/18/2005
DAMN!! I have never run into such a bunch of whiny ass sissy
men as I have on this site.
<br>
Waah waah, how come the women can't at least say 'no
thank you' when I contact them? Why do they ignore me?
Waah waaah! I want my mommy!!
<br>
Dudes! First of all, if you don't meet her preferences,
you probably got filtered and she didn't have to read
yet another message from ...
8 Comments, 320 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Neither rant nor rave 6/17/2005
As I finally get the courage to leave this site in ten days,
I'd like to share some observations from the three
years I've spent here.
First, I've only came in face to face contact with one
woman, and she fibbed about her age and body type. So I decided
to consentrate on only those with some kind of picture.
Turns out there was not many around. Not AFFs fault, it's
just where I live. ...
2 Comments, 244 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Please stop the repetitive questions! 6/17/2005
I enjoy the magazine section, reading posts from people
trying to increase their knowledge, giving my opinions
and advice when I can. What I'm really tired of is seeing
the same tired questions over and over again. Why aren't
women responding to my profile? Why can't people respond
to my emails, even with a polite no thanks? Why don't
people put pictures on their profiles? All the ...
2 Comments, 99 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Ant love a bitch ? 6/17/2005
It's just my luck, I finally meet and fall in love with
the ladie of my dreams, And it turns out she is Mentaly ill.
P P D paranoid personality dissorder. Ant love a bitch.
thebomb2112
0 Comments, 106 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Jealousy and insecurities 6/17/2005
Okay ladies, I have one little problem, may actually be
a big one. I can get, at times, very jealous and insecure.
Now I'm not psycho about it, I try to keep it in check.
My husband and I do this Swapfinder.com thing together, and I keep my
chats and cams for when he's here with me, but I can't
stand it when he wants to do it alone. How do I get over myself?
3 Comments, 114 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Hello Stranger 6/16/2005
Say hi and make a new friend. I know everyone has a different
idea of what Swapfinder.com chat rooms are for but it doesn’t hurt to
say hello. I’m sure you’ve seen people typing away hoping
to get a response back from anyone. Some even come right
out and plead for any recognition. So give a stranger a “Hey”.
They may end up being a wonderful lover.
3 Comments, 121 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Don't Lie on This Site!!! 6/16/2005
Simple and honest is the best way to meet people. If you have
no intention on meeting people face to face, then don't
get on a date/sex site - both of which require meeting in
person, to meet people! If it's not your pic, don't
put it up there! How far do you really think you're gonna
get using someone elses dick/pussy to advertise yourself?
That is the dumbest thing I have ever seen, ...
2 Comments, 109 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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No pic profiles 6/16/2005
I was browsing around looking at profiles today, and encountered
something that baffled me. There are quite a few profiles
without pics where the profile is basicly: "I think
I'm really hot. I'm looking for someone to have
fun with."
<br>
Now, I have nothing against profiles without pics. As of
this writing, I have no pics posted. (Don't worry,
I had a photo session this ...
3 Comments, 213 Views,
19 Votes
,5.23 Score
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Are we just playing around? 6/15/2005
I joined this site to meet guys. In the last three months,
I have met 2, one of which was only looking to play head games,
been stood up three times, and others just look to talk on
a messenger and never step up for a meeting. Why are you here?
I just don't get it, we are all adults here.
1 Comments, 128 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Not naming names, but you know who you are, 6/15/2005
I have only recently began posting a few questions and articles
in the magazine. And yes, I know there will be times that
some won't like or agree with what I have to say.
<br>
But when does not liking what someone has to say cross over
into blatant disrespect? When someone calls you names?
Well, I quit doing that in the 7th grade, I assumed everyone
else had also.
<br> ...
37 Comments, 1077 Views,
14 Votes
,5.70 Score
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HAIRY PUSSIES!!!! 6/14/2005
OMFG PLEASE LADIES SHAVE THEM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please.
11 Comments, 306 Views,
8 Votes
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Rave: The Albuquerque Swapfinder.com group 6/13/2005
I just want to thank the members of the Albuquerque Swapfinder.com group
for the time and effort they put into this past saturday's
Theme Night. It was a lot of fun, everyone was warm, every
face was friendly, and every question was answered. The
vibe was about being at ease. I apologize that I could not
stay for the entire evening, or roll through the other parties
mentioned later that night for ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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What is it with these women? 6/13/2005
After being on here a long time, I finally though I was going
to meet somebody, and it wasn't one, but two different
women. A week later, I was left wondering what is it with
the women on here. The first one wanted to go out, so I drove
about an hour to get to her place. When I got there, she said
she wasn't feeling well, and didn't want to go
out. So we talked a little while, and I went ...
2 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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What am I doing wrong? 6/11/2005
Someone tell me the truth. Be Blunt as you want to. I'm
not that sensitive.
<br>
I haven't been on this site that long. I heard about
it from a friend who is going thru a divorce. He posted on
here and got immediate responses. He hooked up with a young
lady from this site, and even thought she wanted him to meet
her parents that next weekend (which he declined of course,
too much ...
13 Comments, 341 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Why cant I go to chatrooms sometimes? 6/10/2005
Seems at least twice a week I get this message when i try to
enter a chatroom ... "You may not enter this room until
your profile has been approved by our review team. "
<br>
I havent made any changes to my profile, yet they deny me
access because they have to "approve" my profile?
<br>
Does anyone else run into this?
4 Comments, 118 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Swapfinder.com Scam? BE CAREFUL! 6/10/2005
I went to the appropriate page to turn my renewal off. When
I do this that page shows "OFF", yet my homepage
still shows "ON".
This happened last month and I was charged. I wrote requesting
a refund and my letter was ignored.
LOOKS LIKE A SCAM TO ME
1 Comments, 149 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Swapfinder.com -- racist or just fucking around with the controls again? 6/9/2005
so i'm logging back in and i get this major shock when
i see 4 male profiles with the exact same photoshopped caucasian
face-shot. so i'm like, hell no.
<br>
<br>
i hit refresh just to see if it's a fluke. great, normal
photos. hit refresh again.... and there's Mr. Photoshopped
Caucasian Face-Shot at the very end of the row. Alrighty
then.
<br>
Hit refresh ...
4 Comments, 304 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Swapfinder.com Needs to Change it... 6/9/2005
Swapfinder.com has been around for a long time now…
<br>
Out of all the things wrong here there is only one thing that
truly annoys me…
<br>
It only asks if you are circumcised or uncircumcised on
the drop down box for men. I am half-and-half… I can not label
myself as uncut because I am partially cut and I can not label
myself as cut because some of the ...
1 Comments, 166 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Chatting 6/8/2005
I was wondering if I am the only one that believes that you
should chat with one person at a time. (Unless you are camming)
<br>
I feel that it is rude to attempt to have more than one conversation
at a time, it would be like having two telephone conversations
going at once, and not able to fully concentrate on either.
Am I out of line in thinking this or do others have the same ...
7 Comments, 301 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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What is so wrong about masturbation? 6/8/2005
After millions of years of evolution, civilization, and
history, why do people still roll their eyes, groan in disgust,
giggle uncontollably and generally become unduly grossed
out at the mere mention of the topic of masturbation? I never
have been able to understand why everyone is so down on masturbation
and pathological aversed to it. Let's face facts,
masturbation is a human function ...
4 Comments, 201 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Making empty promises... 6/7/2005
I have been an Swapfinder.com member for a few years now, and have had
great experiences for the most part. HOWEVER.... I was
planning an exciting trip from my "po-dunk"
Wyoming town to New York.. I eagerly searched the listings
for my kinda fella in that area. I could not wait for my nasty,
sexual trip to the "Big City"!! I exchanged
emails with a few people before making my selection. A man ...
3 Comments, 154 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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just a lttle brain twister! 6/7/2005
I seem to be stuck in this weird box wit doors that lead to
doors upon doors, I've been lost for days only to find
my self still in the same box, I've met interesting
and strnge characters on this journey but I just can't
stop that nagging feeling the world is passing me by while
I sit in this box, Every new door at first was a way out to me, it
took a while to realize that they all lead ...
2 Comments, 74 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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PROFILES!!!!!!!! 6/7/2005
Here Is My Question...Why is it When I Get E-mail From Men
Stating That They Are Interested In Getting Together,
I Read Their Profile And It Clearly States That I Am Nothing
Like What They Are Looking For, Example: This One Guy Stated
That He Prefer A White, Asian or Hispanic Women Only!!!!
Hey I am Black And Also Stated That He ONLY!!!! Liked Woman
With Breast Size A Or B Cup...I Am A ...
5 Comments, 264 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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i dont understand 6/7/2005
i get guy that wink at my or put my on there hot list i email
them back and nothing happens people shold at least wrighy
back and say that they are no longer intersted , this should
also go for regualer email sometime i gotten a couple of
emails back then nothing all i really want is to suck some
cock mayba a nice big black one
0 Comments, 45 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Dont move in 6/7/2005
I moved in with a woman about two years ago and it's the
worst. You get yourself into a situation that is impossible
to get out of, you ubuy furniture, pets, and a house. The
you say fuck it and suck up the monetary loss for your personal
freedom....there is a means to an end, and its only money
2 Comments, 103 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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You don't like me??? Get over it!!!! 6/7/2005
This is who I am. I am a sexual woman, who happens to be a full
figured woman. Does that make me any less sexy? Does it perhaps
make me less sexy??? Maybe in some people’s eyes, I should
hide away somewhere, because I am not a size 2, or even a size
8. Does my size make me less likely to be able to please my
partner, be it male or female? I wonder if you saw me on the
street would ...
3 Comments, 184 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Not a Rant or a Rave, just posting this where I was told 6/6/2005
I have a question.. and if the person that told me to not post
these types of questions in the advice column..but post
them in the RANTS N RAVE section is just wanting to see me
get laughed at, well, HE WILL BE SORRY>.... and so will
the wizard!! hahaha
<br>
Ok.. Someone surely is an expert at this site.. maybe there
are lots of experts that will help me...
<br>
I ...
9 Comments, 331 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Dear StevenWonder 6/6/2005
The following is your my response to your email, and below
it is the email itself I was addressing. Unfortunately,
I got the lovely red lettering that you had blocked me. If
you wish to block, you wish to block, and that's cool.
<br>
I understand. I think. But I still want to give you the chance
to read it. Maybe later tonight, when things aren't
so slow for Swapfinder.com, mountain ...
8 Comments, 325 Views,
6 Votes
,1.09 Score
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Bullshit from the Tonight Show 6/6/2005
I'm a pretty big fan of the Tonight Show w/ Jay Leno and
I think it's usually quite good for some laughs just
before catching some z's. I still can't help but
think that a lot of the reports used for joke material in
the monolouge are fabricated bullshit, especially if
it's a slow newsday. But the one, singlemost, on-going
joke on the show that has me continuously rolling my eyes
each and ...
1 Comments, 108 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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You don't like me??? Get over it!!!! 6/5/2005
This is who I am. I am a sexual woman, who happens to be a full
figured woman. Does that make me any less sexy? Does it perhaps
make me less sexy??? Maybe in some people’s eyes, I should
hide away somewhere, because I am not a size 2, or even a size
8. Does my size make me less likely to be able to please my
partner, be it male or female? I wonder if you saw me on the
street would ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
0 Votes
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Getting in touch as a Standard Member 6/5/2005
Does it bother anyone else that the only way you can contact
people is if you upgrade your membership? You can earn point
to contact people but why not pay a small fee to just use the
e-mail! Its like a catch-22, you have to pay a big fee to contact,
you want to meet people but most everyone on the site is a
standard member. Is everyone just afraid to let a charge
show up on a credit ...
3 Comments, 159 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Can't we all please stop being so finicky about nudity? 6/5/2005
You know, I can remember seeing the British film, 28 Days
Later in the theater when it was first released. No one in
the audience seemed to be too bothered by all the flesh-eating,
blood puking, and animal torture, yet when the male protaginist
is shown in a brief scene with his penis in full view, people
in the theater could be heard gasping softly. What the hell
is the big deal?! It's ...
3 Comments, 73 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Good Manners, Please! 6/5/2005
Some sore points:
1) I know that some guys like to put on shows for others. That's
their thing and I am cool with it. I like to turn my cam on and
get into a dialogue with someone. Then, if I feel like it,
I might take it all off. What I hate is first message: Hi.
Second like of message: show me your cock. To me, that is
just plain rude.
<br>
2) I have messaged a few guys ...
1 Comments, 83 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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The size is amazing! 6/5/2005
I haven't been a member of Swapfinder.com for very long, but I have
already experienced the size and quality of the website.
I have belonged to other websites who claim to do the same
thing, but Swapfinder.com far surpasses my expectations in meeting
people who share the same interests and want the same outcome
as myself. I think my favourite part of the site is that we
have the "magazine" where you don't feel ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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relationships 6/5/2005
over rated-everything would be much better if everyone
would just decide to be fuck buddys-no?
2 Comments, 77 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Suggestions for FriendFinders Submitted. 6/4/2005
I just submitted these few suggestions to the FriendFinders
Inc. and think that your opinions would be nice to hear in
concern of them.
<br>
Copy of Suggestions that were sent:
<br>
Suggestions for the FriendFinders Site that may be of use.
<br>
Site Major Upgrades:
<br>
Inform the members of major upgrades to the site by adding
a text box (cell box) ...
8 Comments, 264 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Women on Swapfinder.com 6/3/2005
It seems like this site is filled with guys just looking
for some sex, but most of the women are either promoting
some porn site or get some sick sense of satisfaction by
making guys think that they are going to get some ass. I'm
sure that there are some real women out there looking for
a good time, but unfortunately, I haven't ran into
too many of them on here.
5 Comments, 114 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Jerry Springer guests... 6/2/2005
It's funny, I've met a few women around the area
(none from the site yet) and I swear it just seems they're
slightly screwed in the head or cant return calls or only
wanna hang out when its convenient for themselves. Really
makes you want to just grab them by the shoulders and say
HEY!! This is a two way deal here, bunky! Is it SO much to ask
for to find someone to hang out with that can ...
1 Comments, 143 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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If you want a GQ man, you MUST be a VOGUE woman! 6/1/2005
How silly is it for a woman to dump a man because he's
not paid, riding in a benz, completely single and not taking
her out to eat everyday when she's broke as hell?
If you can't bring anything to the table, at least help
build it.
6 Comments, 228 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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Spam Profiles 6/1/2005
When are the site administrators going to do something
about the rising number of spam profiles on Swapfinder.com. There are
so many now, with people claiming to be from separate locations
and requesting to open up the additional info for an e mail
address, to then show it is the same addy for most of the women.
I am not sure whether you ladies or couples have experienced
a similar thing. It would be ...
6 Comments, 164 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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-r u people serious, or what? 5/31/2005
Alot of people I've noticed since I've been on
this site, say they just want to have fun. They say that they
r looking for, for example: one man, well why when there
is a guy in ur area talking or trying to talk to u, u either
don't pay attention or talk to some other guy like 500
klicks away? this makes no sense to me soif u think u have
the answer or if u do please explain, because i am ...
2 Comments, 118 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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"timewasters" who they may b 5/31/2005
ok.most people read profile 1st b4 contacting&/or
viewing.yes not all single guys are d--k h--ds.most can
even read!BUT what about the cpls who r timewasters? we
chat on cam, meet once get on GREAT & decide since theyre
new we'll take it easy till theyre comfy & relaxed, ok
do far. long story short we r up for 8hrs while she/he gets
pissed enough for the (ordeal?)+my partner gets ignored ...
0 Comments, 113 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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no replies 5/31/2005
When people join nes group but never answer any mails sent,
whats the point in joining in the first place!! also having
joined they then nolong contactable, so please just a short
note to say how to contact you or say your nolonger interested.
I look forwards to hearing from other people who have the
same complaint
dominey
1 Comments, 44 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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A Rave: Thank you, MFC39. 5/30/2005
I do a lot of bitching around here, but I saw something early
Sunday morning that really put a smile on my face.
<br>
Well, first, it puzzled the hell out of me (but in a good way).
That something was MFC39's profile, as featured in
the members currently signed on section on the front page/home
page.
<br>
The puzzlement was the choice of picture.
<br>
Ignore ...
1 Comments, 280 Views,
11 Votes
,0.92 Score
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A waste of Swapfinder.com space? 5/30/2005
Okay, I've known for years that I need to learn when
to let shit go, but I haven't quite come close to mastering
the art yet, so here's something Swapfinder.com-related, on which
I've been dwelling for months.
<br>
I posted a question here, both in the articles section AND
the advice section, because I wanted some advice on a marketing
issue with a great deal of political overtones. I ...
2 Comments, 199 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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big fat old guys with skinny women 5/29/2005
I like to look at nice bodies, both male and female. So what
is the deal with men looking like crap, while we ladies always
feel the need to look great? Are we women competing with
each other? Even if we are hitched, we still like to look
like we are attracted to other men/women. As for men, it
seems the sloppier they are, the more beautiful a lady they
get. This is shown a lot in hip ...
10 Comments, 231 Views,
7 Votes
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Other Pay Site's Invisible Carrot on a Stick. 5/28/2005
OK...here's the latest theory....non-paying male
members are smothered with emails from "too good
to be true" profiles and pictures from non-existant
facilitators of an erotic wet dream so unbelieveable that
you almost pay the outrageous monthly access price for
the opportunity to lick her boot heels. Then, one night
when knocked a few too many back, you reach into the lonely
chasm of ...
0 Comments, 122 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Again ...Profile reading 5/27/2005
I know lots of people have written articles about it but....
When you clearly state what you want on profile alot of people
seem to ignore that. Then you got the people, thinking "since
they are a couple and he is not there maybe she will show her
pussy or tits to me"!...We are a couple and i (the female
part) dont think i owe anyone anything. We pay for our own
membership and when people ...
0 Comments, 80 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Not all men are dogs. 5/27/2005
Hey ladies, Can you please chill out and take a deep breath
before you pass judgement on men in general. I know alot
of guys can and will be bastards, but some of us men are actualy
honest and nice and YES, we do have feelings. So give us a
chance to show our true colors, Thanks for your time. thebomb2112
5 Comments, 167 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Rants from a Virgin 5/27/2005
Lemme put MY 2 cent in this mix of rampant sexuality.
<br>
First off I am a REAL-LIFE Virgin, who has always been into
the foot fetish scene dominatrix Couples/Lez...just
about everything. However I have NEVER had a chance to do
anything at all.
<br>
So basically any tips/trick/stories about anything sexual
would be greatly appreciated.
<br>
I am a ...
2 Comments, 91 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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I'm Aggrevated!! 5/25/2005
What is going on with the site lately? Swapfinder.com keeps making so
called improvments and things are getting worse. Since
the introduction of the request review button, group have
been denied, whole threads in groups disappear and posts
never make it to the boards. This button does not belong
in the groups, that is the moderators job. The links to return
to where you were after posting have ...
7 Comments, 175 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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What I really want, and what I really get... 5/24/2005
My life, I've been constantly fulfilling what my family
desires of me. Constantly doing as they ask, and pleasing
them. Then I recently start doing things the way I want it
done, while also fulfilling their requirements. But...it's
starting to not work anymore...my own dreams and their
expectations aren't close to being the same anymore.
On june 4th, I get to take a written exam to gain ...
2 Comments, 115 Views,
0 Votes
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Men and their criteria 5/24/2005
I've noticed that many single men have it in their profiles
that they are looking for single/married/attached women.
Personally these men would never even get a date with me
regarless of compatibility.
<br>
I detest cheating with a vengance and it sickens me to see
so many married men on here thinks that it is okay to cheat.
They are not embarrased about it at all and assume that ...
7 Comments, 295 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Spell Check 5/23/2005
How hard is it to click the check spelling button? I can’t
be the only one put off by the fourth-grade level spelling
in so many profiles. I’m only a fair speller and a lousy typist
so I always use it but apparently many people can’t spell
and don’t care how that makes them look. Also, has anyone
else found that when they click the check spelling button
for e-mail they get results ...
5 Comments, 108 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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What would you do? 5/22/2005
My husband died in a MC accident. We had been 2gether 21yrs.
1/2 my life. 3mos. later I had to move after 12yrs. A friend
of my husbands contacted me at Xmas willing to help me, he
knew what I was going thru becuz he lost both his parents
in a train accident 1yr. B4. I began sleeping w/him &
did things I never did B4. It was a way of not dealing w/ my
husbands death. He was storing a car ...
3 Comments, 346 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Sex with transgendered 5/21/2005
I get tired of men that are afraid of their sexuallity and
think transgenders are a way of having gay sex without feeling
guilt. I get hit on by lots of "straight" men
all the time. They want to date me and practically beg for
a date. When it comes to a first meeting in public (a girl
has to be careful) they usually don't show up. That
is not only rude but also makes me feel bad. I've tried ...
2 Comments, 428 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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More negotiation than the UN 5/21/2005
I just love this site and keep finding new things about it.
Like this chance to tell a story. I recently arranged a meet
with a member but he cancelled almost at the last minute.
There was some indication that he was more hesitant than
I, but I just kept going. After all, what I wanted was sex.
I thought that was what he wanted. After all, why else would
one be on a site like this (and ...
1 Comments, 122 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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People and their misunderstandings of legal materials 5/21/2005
There seems to be some misunderstandings amongst people
on various subjects.
<br>
While Swapfinder.com does not allow the copying of written works, they
do clearly state that they allow “fair use”.
<br>
To not allow “fair Use” would be a violation of the Federal
Law as “Fair Use” rules under federal copyright laws and
“no ...
4 Comments, 105 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Location, Location, Location 5/21/2005
Trying to pick local partners is a problem on this site.
I live in Drummoyne, Sydney, Australia. The 90% of the Sydney
siders just list Sydney as the location. Given than it is
a huge city containgin millions of people and hundereds
of suburds leaving out the suburb is about as useful for
judging location and distance as an ashtray in a motorbike.
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