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Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Anyone else get this? - 8/21/2018

Here are your cupid matches from Swapfinder.com email content. A female way out my specified age range, another 3000 miles away when I put 200 miles or closer, and worse right on the profile picture in the email female seeking other females only yeah that will work out for me. <br><br> Their automated choices leave a lot to be desired but couldn't they at least use the info I gave them ...

16 response(s), 26 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Anyone else get this? - 8/21/2018

Here are your cupid matches from Swapfinder.com email content. A female way out my specified age range, another 3000 miles away when I put 200 miles or closer, and worse right on the profile picture in the email female seeking other females only yeah that will work out for me. <br><br> Their automated choices leave a lot to be desired but couldn't they at least use the info I gave them ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
female choices! - 8/21/2018

do the FWB women too not like oldies to check in?

17 response(s), 38 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
have a seat. .. - 8/21/2018

...or just take mine. reserved tix yesterday for a movie today. but someone was already sitting in my seat. and since it was dark in the theatre i asked the dude at the box office to double check my seat since i didn't have my 'readers'. he must have asked her to move but boy did she give me shit for it. i already felt like my movie was ruined but after that i wasn't gonna sit ...

20 response(s), 30 votes
Caring and neuroticism - 8/21/2018

Two people can do the exact same thing they care deeply they're very concerned that a positive outlook but they're very worried about the well-being of their other person. <br><br> When spouse thinks that that person is overbearing and doesn't trust them and the other spouse thinks they're the most wonderful human being in the history of the world view point ...

20 response(s), 17 votes
joekool 63 M
1  question
Inviting the neighbor - 8/20/2018

I was in a hotel earlier this year and began hearing the couple next to me enjoying themselves. I could hear the moaning, groaning, bucking and fucking. Of course it was getting me aroused.. <br><br> As I sat and listen, I wrote a note asking if they would like someone to join in. In fact, I wrote several notes. At their first break, I went into the hall and had the note just about ...

28 response(s), 64 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Eatin ain't cheatin or is it - 8/20/2018

Do you consider giving or getting oral sex cheating or does it take full penis penetration of the vagina to be a cheater. Old question I know but still a lot of new members and older ones who missed it before

32 response(s), 45 votes
Water sports - 8/20/2018

I am curious about water sports fun. Has anyone tried this? Doesn’t seem like many women are into this?

36 response(s), 45 votes
tomjoad67 57 M
8  questions
Fem Doms? - 8/18/2018

It seems that recently all I get are requests from Fem Doms who ask me if I'm into BDSM (I'm not, or don't know yet, definitely not a kink in my profile). They ask me if I want to be their slave. If I engage in the conversation, many immediately tell me to buy a months subscription to some site. I take them to be shills for Swapfinder.com and some other site they own. Others engage a little ...

26 response(s), 49 votes
lucille0405 28 F
5  questions
bị mắt ngủ vì người không hiểu - 8/18/2018

trả lời em đi

7 response(s), 17 votes
lucille0405 28 F
5  questions
phụ nữ như thế nào gọi là vợ tốt - 8/18/2018

trò chuyện

10 response(s), 12 votes
IMing on this site - 8/18/2018

What does one do when a sexy belly dancer who lives ten miles away answers an IM, but as usual, the IM dies? This is why I don't pay for this site. Frus...trat...ing...

39 response(s), 58 votes
Why are all the past erotic stories blocked ? - 8/18/2018

Also when you click on an authors past stories you get a list of titles and when you click on the story the page comes up b lank?

21 response(s), 40 votes
how to deal with a broken marriage - 8/18/2018

what is the way out of broken marriage.....if seperation is not an option?????

26 response(s), 36 votes
how to deal with a broken marriage - 8/18/2018

what is the way out of broken marriage.....if seperation is not an option?????

0 response(s), 0 votes
how to deal with a broken marriage - 8/18/2018

what is the way out of broken marriage.....if seperation is not an option?????

0 response(s), 0 votes
Ricomens67 29 M
3  questions
Chats disappear - 8/17/2018

Hey just curious if anyone noticed if there chats disappear when the. Leave the page .

16 response(s), 37 votes
lucille0405 28 F
5  questions
một người vợ dâm bạn có muốn - 8/17/2018

1- có một người vợ dâm, nhìn vợ tận hưởng vòi nước lớn của trai lại? 2- bạn đang tận hưởng vợ dâm của người khác? bạn chọn 1 hoặc 2

5 response(s), 9 votes
avidwvhunter 81 M
7  questions
Message searching - 8/17/2018

I do send a lot of initial messages. But, I do not want to be guilty of sending multiple messages to the same member. Before they changed the mail box there was a place to check to see if you had sent a message to a particular party making it possible to see what the response was. With the new system I can not find anyplace to do that. If anyone has figured that out please let me know how.

14 response(s), 23 votes
lucille0405 28 F
5  questions
một người vợ dâm bạn có muốn - 8/17/2018

hãy cho tôi biết

1 response(s), 0 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
What size breasts turn you on? - 8/16/2018

For me it is a range from 32B to 36DD. I don't like too big or too small. It is a turn off for me. Boob jobs in general turn me off as well because they look unnatural for the most part. If I had to choose it'd be the mid-range and smaller as I have more fun playing with those since they are easier to get a mouth or tongue or hands around and have a lot of visual appeal for me. ...

59 response(s), 69 votes
lucille0405 28 F
5  questions
làm sao để quan hẹ - 8/16/2018

không hiểu

9 response(s), 15 votes
jtdouglas 30 M
3  questions
Milfs - 8/16/2018

How many Milfs on here are interested in hooking up with younger guys?

21 response(s), 40 votes
The page selection buttons have disappeared - 8/16/2018

I can not go to older pages. The page selection buttons have disappeared -Why?

14 response(s), 14 votes
dandtiny 41 C
1  question
Unicorn - 8/16/2018

We are curious. Are there any couples out there that have found the elusive "Unicorn" and if so how did it work out for you.

13 response(s), 21 votes
farmboy677 66 M
1  question
points added????? - 8/16/2018

I've been reading and voting on the stories but have not been getting points added to my point count for like the last 4 months or so .... anybody know why?? sure would be nice to have those pooints added so I can use them to become a full member.....

18 response(s), 33 votes
Hawkforlife12 40 M
1  question
When/where are the get togethers? - 8/16/2018

When I 1st heard about Swapfinder.com ago I was told there were certain places (specific bar) where members would go at pre specified times on a regular basis i.e. weekly etc... does that still take place and if so where on this site is the link for said info. Or is my assumption correct in that if they are still taking place you have to be invited into the group and thus will receive a private message ...

16 response(s), 23 votes
Chrispajaxforfun 31 M
2  questions
Sites similar to Swapfinder.com and personals? - 8/15/2018

With craigslist shutting down it’s been hard to have a spontaneous meet up anymore. Are there any sites similar to craigslist personals? Or even sites that offer as much as this one? Thanks!

24 response(s), 38 votes
Teenage girls - 8/15/2018

at what age do age girls become interested in sex and what do they do about it

31 response(s), 64 votes
Extremetaste1914 49 M
3  questions
What age did you realize you love to fuck - 8/15/2018

I know the question sounds strange. Some people entered into sex reluctantly, some by organic ways. Some of us love to fuck all the time and others it has to be in the confines of a structured relationship. <br><br> So tell me when did you realize you love to fuck all the damn time?

19 response(s), 28 votes
Extremetaste1914 49 M
3  questions
Your nastiest secret - 8/15/2018

Look if we are on a website looking for matches we perhaps are very sexually open-minded and non judgmental. So what is something very nasty you have done, that either you know very few people know about or perhaps even pushed your limit?

17 response(s), 25 votes
yet another Best friend - 8/14/2018

my best friends wife is such a flirt and to be honest shes quite hot! we were playing poker a few weeks ago and her husband got up to go fix a drink and was gone fr a bit of time. She sat in his seat and played a few hands. She was seated next to me. she was dressed quite scantily and my cock was already hard when she sat down. She reached under the table and placed her hand on my rock hard ...

19 response(s), 28 votes
another best friend Question - 8/14/2018

have you ever been sexually aroused by your best friends other half and just know that there might be a spark there from them too? We all know what the correct thing to do is........

16 response(s), 17 votes
Kcfunyoungcouple 27 C
4  questions
Where to find the cougars? - 8/14/2018

its hard to find cougars on here unless im just looking in the wrong places. Are there any cougars out there interested in having some fun? if not where are some good sites to talk to cougars for free?

21 response(s), 27 votes
hot hot hot - 8/14/2018

hot weather, any help?

1 response(s), 2 votes
sexaddictdon 67 M
16  questions
Hotel or airbnb or your home? - 8/14/2018

Would you open your house to a stranger for a quick fuck, casual one time encounter or one time sexual encounter or would you use a hotel or airbnb? <br><br> ...

24 response(s), 31 votes
sexaddictdon 67 M
16  questions
Hotel or airbnb? - 8/14/2018

I've had a few women here demand / suggest / infer that hosting them is required. For a short fling, a one night fuck or a casual connection it seems crazy to allow a stranger into my place (business and personal documents). <br><br> Would you suggest just a hotel room or an airbb? ...

14 response(s), 21 votes
sexaddictdon 67 M
16  questions
Hotel or airbnb? - 8/14/2018

I've had a few women here demand / suggest / infer that hosting them is required. For a short fling, a one night fuck or a casual connection it seems crazy to allow a stranger into my place (business and personal documents). <br><br> Would you suggest just a hotel room or an airbb? ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Best friend or not - 8/13/2018

If you were out with your friends and you saw another friends spouse with someone other than their spouse. Do you A. Don't ask Don't tell B. Go to that individual and ask them what's going on C. Go directly to the spouse?

32 response(s), 35 votes
cheating - 8/13/2018

If you wanted to be sexually involved with your spouse and found out your significant other cheated on you but you've been married so long that you are content with the situation you're living in who's to blame?

25 response(s), 30 votes
Alright ladies this is an easy one - 8/13/2018

Simple Spit or swallow?

14 response(s), 26 votes
What is going on with the advice line page - 8/13/2018

What's going on with the advice line page? It's been blank for a week now and the erotic story page isn't working right either. Any answers no reply from webmaster

13 response(s), 11 votes
Ryankyle8 38 M
2  questions
Meeting up IRL. - 8/13/2018

How much easier it is for paid members than standard members to meet offline?

14 response(s), 12 votes
Ryankyle8 38 M
2  questions
Meeting up IRL. - 8/13/2018

How much easier it is for paid members than standard members to meet offline?

0 response(s), 0 votes
yesyou2015 54 M
4  questions
The old age question does size matter? - 8/12/2018

I see so many people say well hung male required or average length male is required. I guess what do people see as well hung and see as average. I have had so many women say how big are you do you think they would be offended if I ask how loose/tight or wide you are hmmmm I wonder.... <br><br> So thoughts please people..

31 response(s), 30 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
Age - 8/12/2018

Do ladies prefer fucking a younger man

20 response(s), 31 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
Age - 8/12/2018

Do ladies prefer fucking a younger man

0 response(s), 0 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Why... - 8/12/2018

did I get a flirt from someone with their profile off? Is it the site running a bot just because they are in my hot list? Happened just as I logged on clicked on their profile right away from my hot list. it was from someone I used to be able to view.

19 response(s), 17 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Why... - 8/12/2018

did I get a flirt from someone with their profile off? Is it the site running a bot just because they are in my hot list? Happened just as I logged on clicked on their profile right away from my hot list. it was from someone I used to be able to view.

1 response(s), 0 votes
Email trouble or is it just me? - 8/12/2018

For the past few days I've been experiencing receiving email notifications " Profile has sent you a message" or the gold notification is shown on the upper left corner but they don't pop up in the actual message center as if they haven't messaged you in the first place. Has anyone else experienced this?

19 response(s), 8 votes
Site complaints... - 8/12/2018

Complaints about site malfunctions are pretty much a constant thing on the AL, do any of you complainers ever take the time to write customer service about it? <br><br> I know that can be frustrating in itself, but since groups have been MIA for a week I decided to write in and based on the response I got, they weren’t aware there was a problem. I found it hard to believe, but ...

19 response(s), 10 votes
Erotic stories-how to post? - 8/12/2018

I have posted a few stories about my sexual life in the past (all true), but it won't let me post more? I write the story, but when I click on the cat, it stays blank, and won't post. Anyone have any ideas?

10 response(s), 9 votes
Laksha12 31 M
7  questions
<i>tstttt - 8/12/2018

Hello tst jiiii

9 response(s), 7 votes
Is it cheating? - 8/11/2018

Is it cheating if your wife no longer likes sex so you look else where?

26 response(s), 27 votes
why is it ? - 8/11/2018

why is it just afew think they run Swapfinder.com.if you not apaid member they bitch about it an .if you ask a question thats been asked before they bitch about it.i swear to christ they got shares in Swapfinder.com

12 response(s), 16 votes
why is it ? - 8/11/2018

why is it just afew think they run Swapfinder.com.if you not apaid member they bitch about it an .if you ask a question thats been asked before they bitch about it.i swear to christ they got shares in Swapfinder.com

0 response(s), 1 vote
messy filthy anal - 8/11/2018

is anyone else into dirty messy anal like me

10 response(s), 21 votes
analific 71 M
7  questions
Pictures for members - 8/11/2018

How come people still don't put their pictures' on their sites? It's so easy.

15 response(s), 7 votes
luvhandle14 58 M
4  questions
Where have all the postings gone? - 8/11/2018

Is it just me or have some of the discussion group disappeared? Articles in less busy groups seem to have disappeared as well ...

15 response(s), 8 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
What time any way? - 8/10/2018

I got in bed at 1"45 this morning from a "Montgomery Gentry Concert" and I was discussing the time with my friend because friends do some goofy stuff. Did I go to bed late on Thursday or early on Friday. Don't rush now take your time and maybe have an adult beverage to help you along

9 response(s), 12 votes
Outforfun3166 54 C
2  questions
Opinion? - 8/10/2018

Do you like Bacon or Sausage more?

18 response(s), 19 votes
Outforfun3166 54 C
2  questions
Opinion? - 8/10/2018

Do you like Bacon or Sausage more?

0 response(s), 0 votes
sgreene1235 30 M
2  questions
How many free chats is enough? - 8/10/2018

If it were up to me, I would put standard members back to 5 chats a day. Some of us who don't have the financial means to for the gold account would certainly appreciate it. What do you think?

15 response(s), 14 votes
sgreene1235 30 M
2  questions
How many free chats is enough? - 8/10/2018

If it were up to me, I would put standard members back to 5 chats a day. Some of us who don't have the financial means to for the gold account would certainly appreciate it. What do you think?

1 response(s), 0 votes
jolleycook 60 M
1  question
whats the best way to gain points, - 8/10/2018

this points thing is tricky, when you get them when you use them and how to keep them anyi ideas?

6 response(s), 1 vote
TheShaft7070 26 M
1  question
Better ways to chat - 8/9/2018

The IM system seems to be a bit bugged on mobile, anyone have any ideas

10 response(s), 14 votes
SingerFun 44 M
1  question
Size - 8/9/2018

It seems to that most of the ladies on this site state that they are looking for large cocks when they write in their or on their profiles. Is this pretty much the consensus? Or are there some women who prefer just an averaged size cock on a guy?

10 response(s), 16 votes
Regrets? - 8/9/2018

Which do you regret more, things that you've done, or the things you wanted to do, but were afraid to do?

12 response(s), 14 votes
ericsmith98105 37 M
1  question
Who likes points and pussy? - 8/8/2018

Yay for both!

13 response(s), 24 votes
Meatpistol469 51 M
1  question
Closed - 8/8/2018

What's going on here. Site shut down?

9 response(s), 11 votes
Trapper69 67 G
29  questions
What's up with the A/L? - 8/8/2018

It's there, then it's not then it's there again then it's gone again. Over the last couple of days, this has been happening.... I don't check in every day.....has this been happening more than the last 2 days?

4 response(s), 10 votes
jtdouglas 30 M
3  questions
Personal Trainer??!! - 8/8/2018

Have you ever fucked or hooked up with your Personal Trainer?

4 response(s), 4 votes
gingeroak 37 M
1  question
cuckolding - 8/8/2018

What is it if a man is not bi/gay and is into being a submissive to a couple ONLY if female is involved?

5 response(s), 4 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
alright wh screwed up the magazine - 8/8/2018

RAJ is on the loose again

4 response(s), 17 votes
Do you miss Craigslist personals???????????????? - 8/8/2018

So this is for everyone who used to use the Craigslist personals section to find hook ups. <br><br> What did you miss most about using it? <br><br> and.... <br><br> What if there was a great alternative (there is one), would you like to know? <br><br> Thanks!!!

9 response(s), 10 votes
oralmagician6969 45 M
1  question
muffing inguinal canal - 8/7/2018

has anyone tried muffing? Muffing is done by males or transgendered males. There are two openings on each side of the penis, above the testicles. a finger or small toy can be inserted(using the scrotum as a condom, so to speak) 1) has anyone experienced pleasure doing this? 2) has anyone ejaculated or came in other ways? 3) how hard is it to find and penetrate the inguinal canal?

3 response(s), 10 votes
Discrete fun - 8/7/2018

What do you look for in a playdate?

13 response(s), 17 votes
loss of Craig list - 8/7/2018

what is everyone using since craig list personal are gone ?

12 response(s), 8 votes
Underscore28 41 M
1  question
best positions for guys of an averge size - 8/6/2018

what are the best position for guy with an avergae size cock

24 response(s), 37 votes
_IKanCu2_ 105 M
5  questions
The easiest to get,,, - 8/6/2018

What is the easiest to get ? <br><br> a. Someone*z co-operation ? <br><br> b. A second look ? <br><br> c. A mosquito bite ? <br><br> d. A date here @ Swapfinder.com ? <br><br> e. A rash ?

11 response(s), 29 votes
Reverse Cowgirl - Yes or No - 8/5/2018

Simply looking for whether you are for or against reverse cowgirl?

48 response(s), 69 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
What is the right pronoun? - 8/5/2018

We might get the opportunity to share some naked, skin on skin play with a transsexual. Do I call the petty lady with nice tits and a hot stiff cock "she Is it ok to call her a chick with a dick?

26 response(s), 44 votes
R3jec5ed1991 27 M
3  questions
Scranton pa Females - 8/5/2018

If there are so many of you on here into the same thing and looking for all types of fun things to do, Why do you not talk to one another and figure out a party for a bunch of people? It's not fair to be stingy with that beautiful creaminess yall got

15 response(s), 32 votes
R3jec5ed1991 27 M
3  questions
Scranton pa Females - 8/5/2018

If there are so many of you on here into the same thing and looking for all types of fun things to do, Why do you not talk to one another and figure out a party for a bunch of people? It's not fair to be stingy with that beautiful creaminess yall got

1 response(s), 0 votes
R3jec5ed1991 27 M
3  questions
Scranton pa Females - 8/5/2018

If there are so many of you on here into the same thing and looking for all types of fun things to do, Why do you not talk to one another and figure out a party for a bunch of people? It's not fair to be stingy with that beautiful creaminess yall got

0 response(s), 1 vote
masturbating - 8/5/2018

does women like to be watched as they masturbte

16 response(s), 30 votes
masturbating - 8/5/2018

does women like to be watched as they masturbte

2 response(s), 0 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
new glitches - 8/5/2018

Is anyone else having problem with some of the sites buttons and links? It seems many are not functioning or are dead. and I've done all the usual BS to fix. cleared cache history and etc

24 response(s), 30 votes
In your opinion is it worth it? - 8/4/2018

This goes out for any profile (M, F, C, etc.) since many websites have you pay to pretty much use basic features like messaging, viewing other profiles, etc. So in your opinion, for the ones who upgraded, was getting the gold membership worth the price? I personally have no issue with it but I'm curious to know other members' thoughts on this.

33 response(s), 51 votes
youngcome85 38 M
1  question
new members still having trouble connecting with people - 8/4/2018

So i've recently paid to become a gold member and it almost seems like it was a waste of money, I still cannot seem to get any messages nor do i even know if my messages send. Does anyone else have this problem, or is it just me lol.

29 response(s), 45 votes
tomjoad67 57 M
8  questions
Live member webcams? - 8/4/2018

It seems like every streaming video is a pro looking for points. What happened to actual members just streaming their live video for the fun of sharing their fun?

17 response(s), 29 votes
rickshorny64 60 M
2  questions
Husky men, self manscape or spa? - 8/4/2018

So after the first time i shaved my cock and balls i absolutely love it it feels so great to me. But as a bigger guy i cant see everything very well and its almost impossible to get everything shaved clean in the shower. no matter how hard i try, after i dry off i still find patches of hair around my undercarrige. So i was thinking of going to a spa. most of them advertise manscaping services for ...

17 response(s), 37 votes
Returning member - 8/4/2018

Has anyone else been off the site for a while then returned and not been able to use the same screen name it has happened to me just want to know if any body else had this problem.

21 response(s), 51 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
When you suck his cock.... - 8/4/2018

Does he cum in your mouth then you suck the juice until he is soft and dry?

22 response(s), 42 votes
dante8512 73 M
3  questions
sissy cumslut - 8/4/2018

was asked to become a cumslut to dress in stockings garter and a thong with a dogcolllar and leash to be trained any suggestions

17 response(s), 48 votes
dante8512 73 M
3  questions
sissy cumslut - 8/4/2018

was asked to become a cumslut to dress in stockings garter and a thong with a dogcolllar and leash to be trained any suggestions

1 response(s), 0 votes
M/M safe oral - 8/4/2018

Especially for a first time encounter, even if both are married, I figure fellatio is safe only with condoms. T/F? Opinions? TIA

14 response(s), 33 votes
Scary or Stupid? - 8/4/2018

i had an odd experience recently, i do not share my address except via text, i hate being ghosted and at least with a number i can contact someone and ask if they are showing up. <br><br> so, i met a new guy, online, he was a new member but he'd paid for the gold, only a week in and had two pictures one face, one cock, we chatted and seemed to hit it off and he said all the right ...

13 response(s), 29 votes
Flakes and ghosts? - 8/4/2018

We've all had it happen and done it to others, sometimes things are unavoidable. How do you handle it? At first i got mad, but then i realized shit happens, we're all human. most of the people I'm dealing with are cheating and sometimes they have no choice. <br><br> I try and share my text number before hand and some refuse, that does make it harder and lately i find ...

13 response(s), 23 votes
bird77tweety 47 F
5  questions
All Male Porn - 8/3/2018

I get turned on my the sound of a man moaning. So I watch all male to listen to men scream and moan. Am I the only woman that watch male porn... just to hear a man moaning. <br><br> The question isn't if you like porn, but is it a turn on hearing a man moan.......

8 response(s), 43 votes
bird77tweety 47 F
5  questions
Understanding this is a sex site - 8/3/2018

....but does that mean we can't be safe in arranging a meeting? I will not meet anyone within the first month of contact. First meet in public? Why is this a problem? Online meeting have proven to dangerous for some.

21 response(s), 55 votes
Do you know that there 70 ways to keep a man happy? - 8/3/2018

The rest are 69. Happy Friday folks. <br><br> ...

19 response(s), 45 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Which do you prefer ladies? - 8/3/2018

I have been told by some women that when a man sticks his tongue inside the rim of her vagina and suckles the vaginal lip while moving the tongue that it feels better than a clitoral tongue action. What say ladies

18 response(s), 36 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
How long is too long for a cock? - 8/3/2018

I have heard some petite and some small vagina women say that some of the mens cocks are too long and hurt their vaginas. Has any woman out there had this experience? If so what do you do?

18 response(s), 33 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
When he cums in your mouth - 8/3/2018

When you suck his cock, do you let him cum in your mouth? Do you share a nice kiss?

39 response(s), 59 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Why is Viagra so expensive? - 8/2/2018

Do the pharmacy firms really have it in for sexual encounters or do they just feel greedy? Viagra is out rageous

31 response(s), 38 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Has any one here really had out door sex? - 8/2/2018

I hear and see a lot of people on here talking about out door sex. A romp in the back yard to is fine but out door sex also means copulating in a deep woods with no houses around. aany takers here?

51 response(s), 46 votes
Is this a web of lies? - 8/2/2018

I've recently joined this site and one member caught my eye. We starting communicating via and swapped pics (no nudity). <br><br> In my mind she is way beyond my league, but I asked if she wanted to meet because we seemed to get on so well. This is when she told me she was a model and in some sort of contract which prevented any contact without approval from her "CEO" ...

22 response(s), 26 votes
AnewWoman 66 F
139  questions
Mixed up with someone else - 8/2/2018

Recently I have received a rash of emails here from men confusing me with someone else who I actually happen to know. I'm guessing they are part of the Craigs list crowd now on this site. This other gal happens to have a past like mine and for sometime we were reasonably close friends. However the path she chose to take as an and the insurmountable lying she did to hide the fact to family and ...

30 response(s), 60 votes
hotel sex - 8/1/2018

Just wondering how many women out there would sneak out in the middle of the night for HOT PASSSIONATE kisses leading to awesome foreplay and mindblowing sex?

31 response(s), 66 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
Sex - 8/1/2018

Ladies do you prefer cum in the mouth, face or pussy

28 response(s), 53 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
Sex - 8/1/2018

Ladies do you prefer cum in the mouth, face or pussy

1 response(s), 1 vote
domination1219 22 M
1  question
chicks - 7/31/2018

whats the best way to get a mature woman

36 response(s), 36 votes
weston2funny 60 M
2  questions
Large load of cum - 7/31/2018

I seam to have large loads of cum. Not sure if normal. What is the norm? I see most men in porn shoot small amount. I have video up. What do you think?

34 response(s), 60 votes
weston2funny 60 M
2  questions
Large load of cum - 7/31/2018

I seam to have large loads of cum. Not sure if normal. What is the norm? I see most men in porn shoot small amount. I have video up. What do you think?

3 response(s), 2 votes
idouudomeinbris 46 M
1  question
NSA hook ups - 7/30/2018

whats the best way to approach finding a NSA hook up for a one off or semi occaisoinal meet

36 response(s), 44 votes
adomwohwim 36 F
1  question
lovely kiss - 7/30/2018

I want to find a person for life, with whom we will create an amazing relationship. I want to be with an open and sincere person who will be honest with . I believe that care and constant attention to each other are very important. I sincerely hope to meet such a person and create a happy future together. I want to find a person for life, with whom we will create an amazing relationship. I want ...

21 response(s), 39 votes
PussyCumsHard69 32 F
1  question
How important is sex?? - 7/30/2018

Is sex a key part of life? I think I need it everyday

54 response(s), 99 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Teaching - 7/29/2018

Taming, molding, teaching Yours something (new) to be done to Your liking. How important does being realistic in timing, outcome, n expectations matter? Have You ever pushed/ been pushed to be molded but failed? Did it continue until there was success?

21 response(s), 69 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Attention - 7/29/2018

How much attention do you require as a submissive, or do you feel neglected if you don't get as much attention as you want? What happens if you don't get "enough?"

12 response(s), 39 votes
noshymen 60 F
2  questions
Why so many nude pictures? - 7/29/2018

I am curious about why people think it is necessary to have their profile picture be of a nude body part or parts? Don't get me wrong, I love looking at all the male body parts, but it isn't necessary for me. I focus more on the person then the body. I don't have anything naked on my profile and get plenty of men talking with me, wanting to visit me and so on. I wrote out what I ...

47 response(s), 89 votes
noshymen 60 F
2  questions
Why so many nude pictures? - 7/29/2018

I am curious about why people think it is necessary to have their profile picture be of a nude body part or parts? Don't get me wrong, I love looking at all the male body parts, but it isn't necessary for me. I focus more on the person then the body. I don't have anything naked on my profile and get plenty of men talking with me, wanting to visit me and so on. I wrote out what I ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
How? - 7/29/2018

Someone in my hotlist hasn't visited since 10/4/2017 and location changed and 2 pictures were added. The site behind this? Because if the profile were updated in anyway so would the last log in date right?

23 response(s), 30 votes
GingerNFred 74 C
4  questions
"Let standard members contact you" - 7/29/2018

This isn't to promote a discussion on how much the site allows, or doesn't allow, standard members to do. ( I think that one has been done enough ) We are thinking of using some of our semi useless points to try the "standard members can contact you" option for a month.. We're just looking for any info from people that have done this.. Can any standard member initiate an ...

20 response(s), 42 votes
Swapfinder.com IM - 7/29/2018

Does anyone feel that the Swapfinder.com IM is adequate? Are you able to contact others that are listed as being available??

19 response(s), 36 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
Wahoo - 7/28/2018

Wahoo is a game that is pretty good for parties if you play the adult version . I know dominoes and some card games are good at getting the titties out in plain view . Can you suggest some other games that are easy to play and halfway entertaining ? <br><br> <br><br> Also since when do you need combat gear to play a game of monopoly ? ...

12 response(s), 26 votes
Women on IM - 7/27/2018

So, I was wondering if the women on just don't chat or if the doesn't work all the time. Any other guys have this issue?

42 response(s), 55 votes
furry kitty or shaven? - 7/27/2018

Guys, maybe a bit fashioned but I've always been a fan of a nice little furry kitten. There's something about a shaven women that makes me feel like they haven't reached puberty. Don't get me wrong I like it shaven too but just more turned in my a nice furry pussy. Your thoughts?

40 response(s), 48 votes
kevbristol 52 M
3  questions
Like it tight or loose - 7/27/2018

When it comes to the hole you are fucking, you you like it tight and hard to get in or loose and flexible to fuck?

33 response(s), 62 votes
special8friends 44 F
1  question
How to - 7/27/2018

OK so not a gold member rite... so how I suppose to contact anyone... I can't send a message, flirt, or even add a friend.... please someone explain how it works .

35 response(s), 35 votes
Bigtitlover86x 32 M
2  questions
Big tit women - 7/27/2018

Any women with big tits who'd love to share info and pics? Hit me up!

19 response(s), 34 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Choice, full or partial shave - 7/27/2018

Just a curiosity inquiry here . What do men prefer? A fully shaved shiny snatch or one partially shaved beginning at the clit and continuing down to the bottom leaving a muff on top and bare down under

25 response(s), 22 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
Me - 7/27/2018

Ladies only...... Based off my pictures do think my cock is a good size?

15 response(s), 21 votes
johnny890021 44 M
1  question
cumshots - 7/26/2018

do girls like watching?

29 response(s), 77 votes
members who last logged on logn ago - 7/26/2018

it has happened to several times.. i hot list someone and lose points, so i might connect with them only to learn their last log on was months or even over a ago. total waste. has that happened to you?

24 response(s), 42 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Mens nipples - 7/26/2018

Have any of the women out there ever worked on a mans nipples to get him hard and excited. They are sensitive too just like any other erotic spot

14 response(s), 40 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Mens nipples - 7/26/2018

Have any of the women out there ever worked on a mans nipples to get him hard and excited. They are sensitive too just like any other erotic spot

0 response(s), 0 votes
XhuntBabla 51 M
1  question
Here women of India sale sex. - 7/25/2018

I'm here since couple of years or more .Interact with lots of India sexy here through IM .But, what I experience here are not matching with Swapfinder.com term & conditions. They join the site to enjoy sex life and fulfilled their sex desires. Finally they sale or try to earn money simply by offering bed shearing offers.

13 response(s), 35 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
Where are you girls? Answer some of the questions - 7/25/2018

I read some of the questions on here but rarely do I see any female answers. Whats up?

17 response(s), 33 votes
luvgluv19 76 M
14  questions
How close is too close? - 7/25/2018

What do you consider a safe distance from your home to have a fuck buddy? Also why

14 response(s), 22 votes
Goddess424 50 F
1  question
Remote Control Vibrator?? - 7/25/2018

I see they have a vibrator that can be controlled by a smart phone and wondering if anyone has gotten one? <br><br> If you have have they worked, and what about this one. I really like the idea of logging in here and having someone with by remote control. Send a tip and I will be closer to getting one

25 response(s), 54 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
Time to put it to rest - 7/25/2018

Ladies what dick size is too small

18 response(s), 33 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
Time to put it to rest - 7/25/2018

Ladies what dick size is too small

0 response(s), 2 votes
GThom42 56 M
1  question
Getting stood up - 7/24/2018

When your pics don't turn the person away, and the interest is definitely there , and you set up a time and day to meet, and the person doesn't show up and ghosts you, is there any other good response besides just going on? How do you deal with that frustration?

29 response(s), 27 votes
freakykinky70 53 M
1  question
How do I motivate my wife - 7/24/2018

I a Bi Sexual guy who would love nothing more than to have my wife start sharing men with me. I cannot get her interested in bringing guys into our bedroom. I've been totally honest with her. Her dominating me, humiliating me, and making me have sex with a man, after she has sex with them is what I really want. What could I say or do to her to get her receptive to trying this? I ...

31 response(s), 46 votes
phone sex - 7/23/2018

are they any women here like to have phone sex every day

30 response(s), 30 votes
cock - 7/23/2018

does women like to swallow mens cock

13 response(s), 26 votes
hendrix7521 55 C
1  question
Real or fake? - 7/23/2018

Any tips on sorting them out? Everyone starts out real friendly but eventually bails out for 1 reason or another and then wants things we post we're not interested in. we're very frustrated and feel we're wasting our time.

39 response(s), 40 votes
neffy2021 41 F
3  questions
Pussy - 7/22/2018

How many lady like there pussy licked from a male or female my personal opinion I love the way the Man does it no offense women I love eating pussy the😍

29 response(s), 53 votes
Jstones33 41 C
1  question
Is it best to throw out your secrets in the beginning of the conversation or withhold? - 7/22/2018

So after talking with people on here, Im curious to know how others approach things. Its basically like when someone asks what are you into, do you immediately say, "Well, I love dressing in my wife's lingerie and i love being a sub slut sucking your dick and taking it up the ass." Or would you say something like, "we have some dom./sub kinks, very open to new ideas ...

23 response(s), 21 votes
neffy2021 41 F
3  questions
Sex 1 on 1 - 7/22/2018

How does a woman know when she orgasm

3 response(s), 5 votes
Top fans - 7/22/2018

Does anybody think top fan points are a ripoff? I mean people bid there points and then you get 10% after messaging thrm

27 response(s), 36 votes
Top fans - 7/22/2018

Does anybody think top fan points are a ripoff? I mean people bid there points and then you get 10% after messaging thrm

2 response(s), 4 votes
neffy2021 41 F
3  questions
Girls - 7/22/2018

Do guys like Big clits

29 response(s), 56 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
blood related! - 7/21/2018

would you knowingly marry your family member after growing up together(you know that you are related from birth)? for example a 2nd or 3rd cousin... <br><br> i can understand if you didnt know each other and met at a college/university and then eloped.

34 response(s), 40 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
blood related! - 7/21/2018

would you knowingly marry your family member after growing up together(you know that you are related from birth)? for example a 2nd or 3rd cousin... <br><br> i can understand if you didnt know each other and met at a college/university and then eloped.

2 response(s), 2 votes
SuckMy8Plus 59 M
57  questions
Hi, Howdy and What's Up? - 7/21/2018

I get a lot of mail, but some just say" hi", "howdy", "what's up?" or just "Mmmmmm" Do You answer these messages? I don't know how to, so i don't.

21 response(s), 27 votes
jesam definitivno sam siguran - 7/21/2018

skuzio sam sve detalje

9 response(s), 11 votes
longandread 51 M
3  questions
"Messenger" really work? Or just a POINT THIEF? - 7/21/2018

First, I will state from the start that I am not a paid member, so spare me the "pay for email" responses. I have my own reasons for choosing to remain a standard member. <br><br> With that being said, as a standard member we are allowed to initiate 3 chats per day, yet we all know that it CONSTANTLY CRASHES. Get this, if it crashes, and you restart the convo with the ...

38 response(s), 64 votes
anyone? - 7/21/2018

has anyone ran into these women who ask you to email or txt or kik them and everything seems ok untill they are like i need you to sing up on this website first....

18 response(s), 20 votes
who doesnt like points - 7/21/2018

whats up with all these fake profiles here ?

18 response(s), 22 votes
what does buzzmode mean? - 7/21/2018

what does buzzmode mean?

11 response(s), 20 votes
Pixture 39 C
23  questions
Meet & Greet/Show & Tell - 7/21/2018

If you, as a single or part of a couple, was invited to a “Meet & Great” whose theme was an adult version of grade-school “Show and Tell”, what would you do for your presentation?

6 response(s), 14 votes
No_Holes_Barred_ 58 M
2  questions
How can I tell? - 7/21/2018

I have a question for all you pros out there. This is a bi or gay question , but anyone can chime in . I am a straight acting , closeted gay man, 52 yrs.old , I love looking at younger guys , cant help it . 3 months ago a very nice younger guy came to work in my area . and i started looking at him at break time . So he starts looking back at me . He even checked my crotch out on day ...

15 response(s), 26 votes
Nwsabull 46 M
1  question
Do people really meet on this site? - 7/21/2018

I have been on the site off and on fore the past 5 years. I think I have met up with 3 ladies in all that time. Do other guys out there have better frequency?

28 response(s), 30 votes
luvhandle14 58 M
4  questions
When it is too hot, to think about sex? - 7/21/2018

The UK is basking in an unusual long heat wave, apart from a few regional showers that hardly provide any relief. London had been dried up in temperatures reaching 30c or more, with the rest of the country not doing much better. My company has a dress code of suit and long shirt for the men, fortunately we are allowed to remove the tie if we don't expect any external contacts. The ladies are ...

21 response(s), 25 votes
Rope play? - 7/20/2018

What do you guys and women think about rope play? Is it more enjoyable for you? Would you try it once if you haven't already?

21 response(s), 24 votes
corncandy 44 M
6  questions
what do you call this!?? - 7/20/2018

Hi friends, below i posting part of a funny profile write up! She says Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men) Status: ANY HONEST GUY WHO CAN MAINTAIN ME AS HIS SECRET WIFE Profile: Hi i married 24 young newly married housewife i here for mature male friends secrecy and honest must no cheating..., , , , , , , <br><br> like oh my oh ...

20 response(s), 39 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
How? - 7/19/2018

Is it possible Swapfinder.com has more than the entire world's population of 8"+ dicks in the world lol. ONly .51% have 8 inches or more that's right less than half a percent. proof is this link. <br><br> https: /www. huffingtonpost/floyd-elliot/thats-not-normal-the-stat_b_4254842.html <br><br> remove the space after https: and www.

27 response(s), 34 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
How? - 7/19/2018

Is it possible Swapfinder.com has more than the entire world's population of 8"+ dicks in the world lol. ONly .51% have 8 inches or more that's right less than half a percent. proof is this link. <br><br> https: /www. huffingtonpost/floyd-elliot/thats-not-normal-the-stat_b_4254842.html <br><br> remove the space after https: and www.

6 response(s), 8 votes
sam197pulsar 38 M
71  questions
what to do??? - 7/19/2018

After 7 in A*F*F, they have lots of problems in understanding each other. He likes to s talk her, but she is non-talkative and is busy with her work and he was ignored. she is not even willing to spend time on saturday/sunday/holidays/ . she is not willing to talk to him .He is very man and feels disturbed. What to do?

17 response(s), 51 votes
camporella - 7/19/2018

che preferite scopata in auto o sul prato??fica o culo??a m piace farmelo succhiare mentre guido per arrivare al panomarama e poi scoparla i culo sul cofano

15 response(s), 20 votes
Playexplore 64 M
3  questions
Strap on - 7/18/2018

Do female think pefging a man with strap on is hot or not

33 response(s), 42 votes
Playexplore 64 M
3  questions
Mmf - 7/18/2018

Is it hot for female to be with 2 bi men

17 response(s), 51 votes
Playexplore 64 M
3  questions
Mmf - 7/18/2018

Is it hot for female to be with 2 bi men

0 response(s), 0 votes
sam197pulsar 38 M
71  questions
why is he afraid? - 7/18/2018

A 75 yr old women likes him and want to marry Him but his age is 58. . sometimes he sends her flowers and chocolate..even though she doesn't have teeth to bite or chew them. He even buys 75yr old women adult diapers. He always try to create love kind of environment around her but he doesn't want to marry a 75 old women .He is also afraid of living together. But she want to marry him .What ...

24 response(s), 35 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
Old Time Sex in a Car - 7/18/2018

How many of you remember when cars were built for having sex in them? I'm talking about the days of huge bench seats, and station wagons. I can actually now relive those days fairly easily. Those that follow me know I'm into old cars. I already had one that while small for the year it was built had huge bench seats and I just recently bought and old school station wagon. Who knows maybe ...

35 response(s), 56 votes
MDForever619 45 C
1  question
“Self Pleasure” - 7/17/2018

So, we were trolling through a cams site and see a section titled “self pleasure”. It’s videos of men who can suck their own dick. Amazing. Right? And then we wondered, not that it matters, does sucking your own cock make you gay or bi? Or would it just make one an excellent t masterbater? Yes, stupid question, but we have had our personal debate and are curious to hear others takes...

39 response(s), 62 votes
ff80717pa 38 M
1  question
sexy - 7/16/2018

like more people sexy

25 response(s), 50 votes
billfla5 71 M
1  question
Central fla - 7/16/2018

Does anyone in clermont to orlando want to get together...

11 response(s), 19 votes
Where can I find Craigslist real time personals? - 7/16/2018

Looking to meet local men, women or trans when they are looking to meet me. Craigslist was great but is no more. where do people go now?

27 response(s), 50 votes
Dirty Jokes - 7/16/2018

I've been chatting with friends lately about the best dirty jokes out there. <br><br> Anyone have any good ones to share or a preferred website that they enjoy. <br><br> Short ones, long ones, the filthier , but funnier the better! <br><br> TIA

19 response(s), 32 votes
ijustwantsex0312 38 M
2  questions
socks - 7/15/2018

what are your thoughts on socks during sex? personally I prefer them to be removed. I have a foot fetish for pretty a d clean feet so socks are such a turn off for me.

39 response(s), 55 votes
sex - 7/15/2018

whats your favorite position?? why??

19 response(s), 49 votes
1Snglguy909 43 M
2  questions
The heat is on - 7/15/2018

Feels like this summer is kicking into high gear. Cant wait for the winter to return and get back to some great cuddle weather. Lol

19 response(s), 33 votes
1Snglguy909 43 M
2  questions
The heat is on - 7/15/2018

Feels like this summer is kicking into high gear. Cant wait for the winter to return and get back to some great cuddle weather. Lol

0 response(s), 1 vote
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
beyond vanilla - 7/15/2018

has your taste for the decadent been refined beyond vanilla? it's nat'l ice cream day today! häagen has some imaginative flavors that are quite lovely; green tea, dulce de leche. and a dove bar is nothing but love; breaking that thick dip of a choc'late shell (sigh) what is your must have flavor?

32 response(s), 58 votes
sam197pulsar 38 M
71  questions
What can be done? - 7/14/2018

He always gets angry for simple things and does not give her space. He is very unstable mentally. Everytime for silly things if a person is always shouting and screaming is affecting neighbors. He is a very short tempered person but soon after shouting , he pees Himself Right in front of neighbors. What can be done?

21 response(s), 38 votes
Women's nipples - 7/14/2018

Ladies what kind of nipples do you have small -large or long ones I like them all but my favorite is the long ones like Farrah Fawcett had Jennifer Aniston has some nice ones also lets hear what you have.

23 response(s), 61 votes
Best ever 3sum - 7/14/2018

What has been your most mind blowing threesome? MFF or MFM?

26 response(s), 57 votes
trellos4u2 37 M
3  questions
point? - 7/14/2018

yes or no

12 response(s), 12 votes
Johnnybebad73 51 M
1  question
to Stroke or not to stroke - 7/14/2018

all i want to do is stroke my cock, ,, i can't stop do i need help?

32 response(s), 59 votes
sam197pulsar 38 M
71  questions
what to do?? - 7/13/2018

He likes his big ex next door, they had even spent 3 nights together when they went outstation. since then his big ex is avoiding him . what to do??

14 response(s), 40 votes
jvw913pa 25 M
1  question
Global issue? - 7/13/2018

Trump said environment issue is just fraud, what do you think?

26 response(s), 42 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
What is the best way? - 7/13/2018

to get a woman to enjoy anal sex for the first time? I only got two attempts at it and both quit after 2-3 minutes because they said it hurt too much. Used water based lube with a condom and gently inserted and moved in and out slowly with both. <br><br> First one I was able to get her more relaxed because she would let me loosen her anus with fingers. <br><br> 2nd wanted ...

28 response(s), 29 votes
Happy Friday the 13th! - 7/13/2018

Anyone else make a joke holiday out of it? It’s as good an excuse as any other for a special Sale or celebration, no?? (Just taking my turn at making a stupid post)

18 response(s), 30 votes
ijustwantsex0312 38 M
2  questions
what's your opinion - 7/13/2018

Can a man do anything with a woman in a sexual manner that can be considered gay?

22 response(s), 33 votes
sam197pulsar 38 M
71  questions
Big ex - 7/13/2018

Hi, he and his big ex got back in touch.( No physical touch) .However since last 2 days he has started acting weird, texts his big ex at weird times in the night, is not sleeping, and what is bothering him...

20 response(s), 19 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
In sticking with other questions today ? - 7/13/2018

Why doesn't cereal come in zip lock bags ? Isn't it about time ? <br><br> Aw well, I already know why it doesn't. Its so that the cereal will go stale and you'll have to buy more. <br><br> What do you think is why cereal doesn't come in zip lock bags ? <br><br> Btw, I love Fruit Loops. <br><br> O K, ...

19 response(s), 42 votes
Why would - 7/13/2018

A man say that he is in love with you/commit to you, but never really want to be with you or care about you sexually, and doesn't want you to be with anyone else. What does it mean?

27 response(s), 23 votes
sam197pulsar 38 M
71  questions
Pizza - 7/12/2018

Why is pizza round but come in a square box?

17 response(s), 22 votes
EvanJih 41 M
1  question
Give me a coin: - 7/12/2018

Wife: What is 10 years with me? Husband: A second. Wife: What is $1,000 for me? Husband: A coin. Wife: Ok give me a coin. Husband: Wait a second. net

15 response(s), 23 votes
solice_fred 67 M
2  questions
Intelligent Husband - 7/12/2018

Husband sent a text to his wife at night, “Hi Honey! I will get late, please try and wash all my dirty clothes and make sure you prepare my favorite dish before I return.” After a while he sent another text, “And I forgot to tell you that I got an increase in my salary at the end of the month I’m getting you a new car. ”She texts back, “OMG really?” Husband replied, “No I just ...

7 response(s), 24 votes
mattjoe22 44 M
11  questions
Hooking up or just a cyber site for sex - 7/12/2018

2 years on and off Swapfinder.com.com and I have NEVER hooked up or even became friends with women in my area. I have tried and asked yet never got to connect in person! <br><br> Do people actually hook up (In Person) on this site? <br><br> If so, I am open to suggestions! <br><br> Frustrated in Mid-Missouri

18 response(s), 19 votes
mattjoe22 44 M
11  questions
Hooking up or just a cyber site for sex - 7/12/2018

2 years on and off Swapfinder.com.com and I have NEVER hooked up or even became friends with women in my area. I have tried and asked yet never got to connect in person! <br><br> Do people actually hook up (In Person) on this site? <br><br> If so, I am open to suggestions! <br><br> Frustrated in Mid-Missouri

3 response(s), 6 votes
mattjoe22 44 M
11  questions
Hooking up or just a cyber site for sex - 7/12/2018

2 years on and off Swapfinder.com.com and I have NEVER hooked up or even became friends with women in my area. I have tried and asked yet never got to connect in person! <br><br> Do people actually hook up (In Person) on this site? <br><br> If so, I am open to suggestions! <br><br> Frustrated in Mid-Missouri

0 response(s), 0 votes
This is a test post. - 7/12/2018

This is a test post made by a test account. There is a photo from the punchline of one of my favorite memes: [image]...

21 response(s), 12 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Inspection - 7/12/2018

How many of us in the lifestyle do inspections on our submissive or partner... Is inspection part of your dynamic? Is it something that occurs regularly at set times? Or does it occur occasionally? If there is an issue found is it addressed? <br><br> I do this with his chasity devices...... ...

8 response(s), 29 votes
How do you feel about others masturbating to you? - 7/12/2018

I'm sure a lot of people masturbate while looking at others or reading stories on this site. How would you feel knowing someone is masturbating while watching you or looking at your pic or reading your stories? Would it turn you on more they were same sex or opposite?

42 response(s), 41 votes
SuckMy8Plus 59 M
57  questions
Meeting or Not ? - 7/12/2018

It's Not Compulsory that you can Only be on this site if You want to Meet people. I think Most people on here are just here to Look around and Relax. Which is Great for Everyone ! Enjoy Your Self. Are YOU here to Just to Look?

27 response(s), 38 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
the great outdoors - 7/11/2018

I have seen several people going hoot hoot when someone mentions outdoor sex . So here is my question if you are outside and the rubber falls in a mud puddle before you can get it on what do you do if it's the last rubber ?

18 response(s), 24 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
the great outdoors - 7/11/2018

I have seen several people going hoot hoot when someone mentions outdoor sex . So here is my question if you are outside and the rubber falls in a mud puddle before you can get it on what do you do if it's the last rubber ?

2 response(s), 4 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Mail notification ? - 7/11/2018

Otis sent me a mail on July 4th kinda checking up on me in his swinging dick, big load, good nature man way. <br><br> Anyways I logged in on the 4th and there was a # 1 listed on the envelope on the A F F toolbar letting know I had a mail from someone, which of course is normal. <br><br> I went to the yet once again new and improved mail room to see who had mailed ...

16 response(s), 30 votes
corncandy 44 M
6  questions
Can anybody help me with toll free Customer care number for this site pleases!! - 7/11/2018

Need to have a word with the site people as i see a lot of issues are not being addressed by site admins even after reporting time and again. <br><br> thanks joe

10 response(s), 23 votes
corncandy 44 M
6  questions
How do you respond to the situations mentioned below!!?? - 7/10/2018

I have been on this site for some time now. while chatting with females and couple handles, eventually they say meeting ( mating ) not for free!! <br><br> one category says: its fun with benefits these females/ couples charge a certain amount for their time. end of the day they get the benefit and also the FUN <br><br> next category says only cam fun: This means you got to ...

34 response(s), 55 votes
lolaspires 34 T
1  question
Are you doing it the right way? - 7/10/2018

i wrong for wanting my sex nice and slow?

30 response(s), 61 votes
Ricomens67 29 M
3  questions
The IM issues - 7/9/2018

Don’t know if anyone has experienced this aswell but isn’t this sites really shotty with messagesand convos disappearing .

17 response(s), 33 votes
Ricomens67 29 M
3  questions
What’s up with the point system - 7/9/2018

Are the points even really worth it on this site ?

13 response(s), 25 votes
First time meeting - not who you thought - 7/9/2018

So how do you deal with a first meet and the person is not who you thought? Either nothing like the photo or nothing like the online/ over phone personality?

32 response(s), 55 votes
Points xxxxxxxxxxxxxx - 7/8/2018

whats is the Points mean

22 response(s), 32 votes
_Dynamic_Action_ 54 M
1  question
Husband's watching? - 7/8/2018

Do you think that a husband or boyfriend really enjoy's watching his woman be taken by another, or do you think it's the sounds she makes that really turn him on?

23 response(s), 41 votes
talentedcurve 51 M
1  question
Curved cocks.....are women a fan? - 7/8/2018

Ladies, what's been your most memorable experience with a curved cock? Do they always make you squirt?

13 response(s), 29 votes
steve468222 54 M
1  question
I dont understand - 7/8/2018

OK so you see a lot of pictures in Swapfinder.com Naughty Community and so many of them have been photoshopped up. Like Cum flying out of a guys cock. Here is where my problem is , I seen a real bad photoshop job done one a picture . So wrote in response box that it was a bad photoshopped job and they need to go back to art school . (Because it was so obviously photoshopped) What did they ...

16 response(s), 31 votes
alpha_Dauwg69 35 M
1  question
what makesa man crave for sex? - 7/8/2018

what is it that attracts men to o wild over sex?

9 response(s), 7 votes
DLbiN2thin 56 M
1  question
Question for bisexual women - 7/8/2018

Hi all. I am a recently single 50ish orally bi guy. My x and I decided to live apart after many years. We are still friends and still remain close. She is bi and was ok with/into my bisexuality and we occasionally shared others in the bedroom. That is over now and im looking again for the first time in a long time. I have dated other women and have no trouble meeting attractive women but I have ...

13 response(s), 21 votes
SuckMy8Plus 59 M
57  questions
Videos - 7/7/2018

I have Loads of Self Mastubation Videos on here. Thousands of people have Viewed them. If You Post a Video, More people will View You. Are Videos a 'must' ?

16 response(s), 52 votes
funasianma1e 50 M
3  questions
question for the ladies regarding penis landscaping - 7/7/2018

men gets usually asked if they like shaved or natural bush. How about women? What do women out there generally like? natural? trimmed? shaved?

11 response(s), 28 votes
funasianma1e 50 M
3  questions
question for the ladies regarding penis - 7/7/2018

men gets usually asked if they like shaved or natural bush. How about women? What do women out there generally like? natural? trimmed? shaved?

6 response(s), 13 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Why? - 7/7/2018

This site has cookies they know my preferences yet they pin a cams advert for hot men. amp; Cant get away from the dick pics and tune them out, but that strikes me as wrong. Actually a little insulting tbh. Do they want money so much they risk offending their users?

20 response(s), 23 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Why? - 7/7/2018

This site has cookies they know my preferences yet they pin a cams advert for hot men. amp; Cant get away from the dick pics and tune them out, but that strikes me as wrong. Actually a little insulting tbh. Do they want money so much they risk offending their users?

5 response(s), 4 votes
One night stands .. - 7/7/2018

Do the work for you ... ? <br><br> Are you satisfied with a one night stand .. Or do you wish sex was on a more regular basis with that partner ..

36 response(s), 46 votes
corncandy 44 M
6  questions
how discrete is discreet!! - 7/7/2018

Just wondering what are the sure ways to keep it discreet!! <br><br> I feel, at some point or the other it would become evident that you have been seeing women/men outside your existing relationship!! <br><br> Also there might be a situation where one doesn't care where he/she is seen with different mates. But if the other is scared or doesn't want to let his/her ...

27 response(s), 51 votes
rm_bumpyd2 49 M
1  question
maturbation - 7/7/2018

i would love to masturbate for a mature woman it has always been my fantasy.get in touch with me and im yours

17 response(s), 39 votes
Thick or thin? - 7/6/2018

When you get a pizza do you like thin or thick crust?

14 response(s), 30 votes
Funniest question you have been asked by a discreet meetup before playing? - 7/6/2018

It could be an awkward question or a left field one or simply good sense of shared humour.

12 response(s), 30 votes
Swapfinder.com - 7/6/2018

do you actually get any action from this site???

25 response(s), 28 votes
Spam accounts how many have you come accross - 7/5/2018

Is it me or does Swapfinder.com seem to be getting more and more spam accounts that is accounts when you click on them they take you to a different site. Reported heaps of them but they just keep coming how do you fix this problem????

26 response(s), 32 votes
Spam accounts how many have you come accross - 7/5/2018

Is it me or does Swapfinder.com seem to be getting more and more spam accounts that is accounts when you click on them they take you to a different site. Reported heaps of them but they just keep coming how do you fix this problem????

1 response(s), 0 votes
H/She's drunk/stoned/high, still wide awake and mobile but it's a judgement call, Do You? - 7/5/2018

my friend has been drinking, smoking and having fun for hours, holding thier own but after being in the friend one for 2 years, they are coming on to you, this is a dream, they're well beyond you normally but, what the hell. in the morning it's possible they might regret it but they seem fine about it now. what would you do?

26 response(s), 46 votes
points - 7/5/2018

anyone not care about them?

13 response(s), 20 votes
elemental422 29 M
1  question
anyone from port alberni - 7/5/2018

looking for people from port alberni

9 response(s), 14 votes
robotwarrior1971 52 M
1  question
Lasting - 7/3/2018

ok, this is sort of embarrising. are there any men out there that can't last that long? what do you do to help control yourelf? what does you partner do to help?

19 response(s), 41 votes
beautiful and nasty or plain looking and sweet - 7/3/2018

Here's my conundrum, two women in my life, i love them both for very different reasons. one is sexy blue eyed blonde of my dreams with many of tumultuous relationship and extraordinary sex but she's nasty to everyone, is irrational, spends money like it grows on trees and has absolutely no idea how the world works so i spent many weeks and much money undoing her fuckups, legal and ...

32 response(s), 68 votes
indiasexyogi 57 M
1  question
Is Live-in relationship better than marriage now ??? - 7/3/2018

Hello ladies & gentleman, recently Live-in relationship allowed by law in India but perhaps it is already popular in Western countries. By this way few lesbians and gay friends got freedom to Live-in relationship here. Here I concerned about male & female friends who have started live-in relationship here also. As a new trend here I don't think any scintific study is done about its ...

20 response(s), 32 votes
Erotic Filmmaker Seeking New Talent - 7/2/2018

Hello friends! I a erotica filmmaker who has some really wild and fun visions for video content that I would like to explore with single women and couples. Any advice on where to find the people who might be interested in working together or getting paid to do a shoot?

24 response(s), 32 votes
Why do haters gotta hate - 7/2/2018

some people seem to not have a good word for anything, while others are just so sweet. How do you handle haters?

28 response(s), 38 votes
hrnybkr 59 M
1  question
Where should I shoot my cumshot? - 7/2/2018

I have a hot Date today. Were definitely going to fuck. What would you like to see??? as were going to take pics and videos.

41 response(s), 71 votes
Yellowgold1 32 F
1  question
Contest - 7/2/2018

How you do a ice breaker challenge

23 response(s), 47 votes
MrCrazyTung 49 M
1  question
I love fat girls - 7/1/2018

I love thick women I love heavy women I love large women I love fat women I love round women I love big women I love BBW women <br><br> What is the proper way to address that issue without insulting them?

26 response(s), 38 votes
heat - 7/1/2018

do you think people fuck more when its this hot out??

15 response(s), 12 votes
luvhandle14 58 M
4  questions
Are chubby men attractive to women? - 7/1/2018

Taste obviously differs and also changes over time. Women with curves, extra padding or even *gasp* fat asses and large breasts are now moving back into the public acceptance and even finding the appreciation of admirers, including mine. <br><br> But I haven't seen the same acceptance and sexiness developed on the other side of the fence, looking at the pictures and reactions ...

27 response(s), 37 votes
Is it alright for a married man to date? - 7/1/2018

My wife has told me I can date others for sex as she is not really into sex anymore. I feel odd about this as I do love her but I do enjoy sex. She has only given me a couple of requests. She does not want any details and she does not want me to entertain at our home. How do you feel about this?

36 response(s), 50 votes
Best adventure on a blind date? - 6/30/2018

What has been your sexiest and/or best blind date?

14 response(s), 17 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Spanking do you think.. - 6/30/2018

it is wrong of a woman to get angry or abusive when I refuse to spank hard enough to cause pain or leave a mark? <br><br> I have gotten you're being a "wimp' or pussy "be a man" from women that wanted me to spank them. Some were "dancers" others normal people and was about 50-50 thinking it OK to demand compliance. I would never think to degrade or ...

29 response(s), 20 votes
longandread 51 M
3  questions
IS THERE SUCH A THING AS TOO BIG? - 6/30/2018

It has happened on more than one occasion, that when I have met a woman in the "real world" and we get to the point of intimacy, the discovery of my being "overly blessed" has caused issues. The old saying that they want a big one isn't always true! "I am sorry, but thats just to much for me, " and then maybe a hand or blow job. That's a real let down. ...

25 response(s), 70 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Relationship issues - 6/30/2018

How do dynamics get out of the “ruts” of a relationship? Where everything feels like it’s falling apart....let’s see who can be honest on here or full of it

9 response(s), 28 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Relationship issues - 6/30/2018

How do dynamics get out of the “ruts” of a relationship? Where everything feels like it’s falling apart....let’s see who can be honest on here or full of it

0 response(s), 1 vote
Ladies do you think it is nasty or hot? - 6/30/2018

For the women who enjoy giving head if a man cums in your mouth after you run him head and he wants to kiss you do you think that is nasty or do you think it is hot for kissing you?

11 response(s), 42 votes
cplwantfun2018 57 C
1  question
How can one turn you on and turn you off so fast - 6/30/2018

Why is it that MOST people are turned on watching two women go at it and sickened by seeing two men going at it ....?

9 response(s), 8 votes
When sucking on a cock, do you prefer hands on or hands off? - 6/29/2018

your down there sucking a cock, he's sitting, it's upright, you can lean down and just suck, but do you play with it with your hands, play with yourself or do something else. i tend to wrap around the guys legs, kinda holding him in place.

26 response(s), 51 votes
Big ladies - 6/29/2018

My question is why is that big beautiful ladies give the best blow jobs?

22 response(s), 53 votes
Big ladies - 6/29/2018

My question is why is that big beautiful ladies give the best blow jobs?

2 response(s), 2 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
cheers (drink to that) - 6/29/2018

cheers to the freakin' weekend. i drink to that, yeah yeah. oh, let the jameson sink in. i drink to that, yeah yeah - riri is anyone doing anything amazing this weekend??

17 response(s), 24 votes
What's the most shocking thing that's ever happened to you during sex?? - 6/29/2018

Stories!

15 response(s), 8 votes
ChattWillie 60 M
5  questions
Soft, sweet and cute - 6/29/2018

Would you sleep with a man who fit this description?

12 response(s), 21 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Where was the weirdest place you've had sex? - 6/29/2018

For me it was on a farm back behind the barn so it wasn't visible from the street during the daylight 80 degrees out with an elevated freeway bridge in the distance. Pretty sure they couldn't see but who knows. Was a random hookup with a chick I had just met in a park in Warren. Ah Danielle. She said she knew a place and yes we weren't allowed to be there.

31 response(s), 33 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Got a question for the men in the A/L - 6/28/2018

What is the longest inanimate object you have fucked your self in the ass with. <br><br> How far did you get it in you asshole. <br><br> How long did you fuck yourself. <br><br> Did you remember to clean the shit off from the Object?

20 response(s), 51 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Got a question for the men in the A/L - 6/28/2018

What is the longest inanimate object you have fucked your self in the ass with. <br><br> How far did you get it in you asshole. <br><br> How long did you fuck yourself. <br><br> Did you remember to clean the shit off from the Object?

0 response(s), 1 vote
lateacher77 49 M
1  question
What Do You Do When He/She is not who you expected? - 6/28/2018

This may not apply to dates, but what about situations where it is supposed to be simply an anonymous sexual encounter. We can all trade descriptions and pics, but sometimes when you meet face to face, he or she may not be what is expected. Do you go on with the encounter? Politely excuse yourself? Something in between? Just wondering.....

29 response(s), 39 votes
Crazy - 6/28/2018

Are u crazy for cock and pussy?

16 response(s), 23 votes
Sexy - 6/28/2018

Do u consider ts/tv’s sexy?

9 response(s), 19 votes
Fun - 6/28/2018

What is the most fun sex you’ve ever had?

6 response(s), 14 votes
Dick - 6/28/2018

How do u know if you luv dick?

4 response(s), 17 votes
Mothmandude 28 M
1  question
What's your favorite porn to wank to? - 6/28/2018

Ever have something you constantly return to because of how sexy it is to you? Well, now's the time to share! <br><br> Mine changes a lot, but right now, it's this <br><br> https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph588898f597ad8 \8 \8 \8 ...\8

7 response(s), 9 votes
Sexxytoybabe 44 F
1  question
iM - 6/27/2018

has IM broken itself?

14 response(s), 16 votes
Why do they call it a ? - 6/27/2018

Why do they call it a blowjob when your not blowing it your sucking it always wondered that they can call it anything they want to as long as she enjoys doing it.

15 response(s), 35 votes
Jimmyjmmy88 57 M
2  questions
Blow job - 6/27/2018

Looking for a good time for you to lick my dick and and let me lick your pussy

12 response(s), 34 votes
Jimmyjmmy88 57 M
2  questions
Blow job - 6/27/2018

Looking for a good time for you to lick my dick and and let me lick your pussy

0 response(s), 1 vote
ChattWillie 60 M
5  questions
Why? - 6/26/2018

The last three days I have received messages from very beautiful 35 year old women. I have responded they reply back like the are interested in getting to know me. Why? I am married, 54 years old, fat and going hairless.

22 response(s), 19 votes
ChattWillie 60 M
5  questions
Why? - 6/26/2018

The last three days I have received messages from very beautiful 35 year old women. I have responded they reply back like the are interested in getting to know me. Why? I am married, 54 years old, fat and going hairless.

0 response(s), 1 vote
ChattWillie 60 M
5  questions
Why? - 6/26/2018

The last three days I have received messages from very beautiful 35 year old women. I have responded they reply back like the are interested in getting to know me. Why? I am married, 54 years old, fat and going hairless.

0 response(s), 2 votes
ChattWillie 60 M
5  questions
Why? - 6/26/2018

The last three days I have received messages from very beautiful 35 year old women. I have responded they reply back like the are interested in getting to know me. Why? I am married, 54 years old, fat and going hairless.

0 response(s), 1 vote
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
BDSM lifestyle - 6/26/2018

Is BDSM lifestyle subjective? Are there criterias to meet within this lifestyle in order to meet the standard? Please tell me why or why not, support Y/your answer.

14 response(s), 45 votes
shogun_269u_II 62 M
2  questions
Supplements for sexual health - fenugreek - 6/26/2018

Has anyone ever used fenugreek for sexual health? Or any other supplements for that matter? I have used Maca on and off for some time but recently have tried fenugreek. Sadly all I have experienced so far is a headache...I have used a tsp of fenugreek in my smoothie a few times now. No real change in desire just a headache. Anyone else use this? Any luck? Any other suggestions? What I ...

20 response(s), 30 votes
Bdr4sumfun69 41 M
2  questions
Erotic v. Kinky - 6/25/2018

What is the difference between erotic and kinky? Erotic is using the feather. Kinky is using the whole chicken.

22 response(s), 43 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
Five O - 6/25/2018

A woman I know got a ticket last week for speeding she jokingly said I bet I could have gotten out of it if I have sucked his dick . So I asked a policeman if anyone has ever offered to suck his dick to get out of a ticket ? He said a few times but he gave them the ticket what with body cams and all nowadays .So My question is what have you done or said to get out of a ticket ? ...

17 response(s), 24 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Can anyone give me an idea? - 6/25/2018

Why a profile that is a female looking only for females both single and couple for her and her man views my profile? I am a man seeking only women. A fake?

20 response(s), 31 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Role play - 6/25/2018

For those of you that are looking for daddy’s or use the role play. Littles: Are you always in little mindset, or does it come and go? What triggers it? How do you deal with punishment when in little space?

19 response(s), 51 votes
an unknown third - 6/24/2018

So a little advice is needed. <br><br> There you having had a great date, and you are back a your dates apartment, things are going very well, when in walks another gentleman whom you know nothing about. <br><br> Seems cool, but just wants to jump right in and join the fun. Your partner seems to have been expecting this, but there's been no discussion, no boundaries ...

37 response(s), 57 votes
Hardnsolo 48 M
1  question
Best sex toy for a guy? - 6/24/2018

So I've been single for far too long and thinking about purchasing my first sex toy. Looking for something that feels good/is pleasurable. Would be nice if it were a toy I could use in the shower but doesn't have to be as long as it cleans up well. Also I like to cam a lot so is there anything you ladies would want to watch a guy play with on cam? Hit me up with suggestions....Thanks

38 response(s), 66 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
user names - 6/24/2018

What does the "rm" at the start of a user name mean?

18 response(s), 38 votes
Question - 6/23/2018

Why is it sooo hard to meet and have fun. Everybody says they want to play but won’t even answer IMs

30 response(s), 46 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Part time kinks - 6/23/2018

For those in a bedroom only dynamic, do Y/you carry any protocols outside of the bedroom at all or does it stop once the bedroom doors are open?

27 response(s), 52 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Tickle torture - 6/23/2018

Tickle Torture can be playful, erotic, or downright cruel. I like it to be a combination of the three <br><br> How do you feel about it?...

16 response(s), 32 votes
Do People Respect Privacy/Discretion - 6/23/2018

Most of us are here for the same thing, so I don't need to know a lot about about your situation other than what's relevant. I think meeting somewhere public first makes sense just to see if who you're chatting with actually matches (it hasn't before). Then discussion about who's place to meet or if we're getting a hotel. Also why do people have a hard time sharing ? If ...

20 response(s), 33 votes
Looking to get me wife to do threesome - 6/22/2018

Can any Couples give me any ideas to get her to try. She’s interested but nervous

30 response(s), 45 votes
SyelkytBoop 44 C
3  questions
Married Sex - 6/21/2018

6 Reasons Married Sex is Better. <br><br> 1. It doesn't require Elaborate Lingerie 2. It doesn't require Condoms 3. You can tell him what you want and love in bed, and chances are he knows how it's d 4. Wondering whether he'll again and worrying what he'll think when he sees you thight in brond daylight cease to be the enormous worries ...

28 response(s), 72 votes
Tinosturn 39 M
1  question
World Cup cheekiness - 6/20/2018

I don’t know about you but “watching the World Cup” has been a great excuse for 90 minutes of uninterrupted Swapfinder.com naughtiness!?!

14 response(s), 28 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
Are men still men? - 6/19/2018

Do guys still get turned on seeing a sexy woman driving a convertible?

28 response(s), 81 votes
What do women want to be asked on IM? - 6/19/2018

I would like to know what women want to be asked when trying to IM?

25 response(s), 27 votes