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How do I get my woman to play with my ass? - 10/22/2001

I love playing w/my ass when I masterbate, what good advice do ya'll have to get her to do it for me?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Are there any sex camps that couples can go to? - 10/21/2001

My wife wants to go to one of those sex camps we have seen on HBO. One that will enhance your sex life. Just where are these sex camps? If anyone has any information on this it would be great.

2 response(s), 0 votes
Do you women really enjoy Double Penetration, Air tight, and Gangbangs? - 10/21/2001

My fantasy women have always been uninhibited agressive women into D.P.s, Gang bangs and Mulitiple penis penetrations. Do you ladies trully enjoy this form of sex. If so where are you all at.I have experienced only two lovers into this fetish and they seemed to only enjoy it behind my back. Where and how does a guy find a women who will get off on doing it with me?

0 response(s), 0 votes
I can only come using the shower... - 10/21/2001

Hi, I hope someone can give me some good advice. I really enjoy sex and have had some intense experiences - but I can never actually cum. I have been using the shower head and using fantasies for about 8 years, and I can make myself orgasm in about 2 minutes if I want to! When I try to make myself cum using my fingers - I can spend ages but it just doesn't have the same effect. What am ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Any older ladies or couples in texas like cute young men? - 10/18/2001

I am a 20 year old attractive male that enjoys the company of older ladies or couples to keep my sex life interesting. However, why is it that most older ladies find 20 to be too young? Men hit their sexual peak at 20-21 yet they always decline based on age. I now live in texas and find no older ladies or couples that are interested in a guy my age. For that matter, i cant find swinging ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
Nymphomaniacs. Fact or Fiction - 10/14/2001

Fiction: Nymphomania as defined by websters. Excessive sexual desire by a female. In my huntings in Utah, and in visits to several states. I have never found a woman that has in any way had an excessive desire for sex. I have never met a woman who even has the same level of desire as a normal male. A man would offer himself openly and readily to any woman that struck his fancy. If ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
WHY DO WOMEN ALWAYS THINK ITS LOVE AND NOT JUST FUN??? - 9/21/2001

I've been with too many women that think they are in love with me just because the sex is great. When all I want is to have a good time and get to know someone sexually. I was taught to please a woman by a 34 yr. old lady when I was 19 and ever since then I hop in bed with a gal and its instant love for her. Why can't I just have some fun first before its love????

1 response(s), 0 votes
Are there any swinger clubs in Bombay??? - 9/20/2001

Are there any places in bombay where a guy can meet a lady and get it on...?? If so please tell me.

0 response(s), 0 votes
how to contact finallyrealized? - 9/7/2001

finallyrealized had send to me an email through Swapfinder.com and told me to contact her, unfortunatly she has blanketed her profile so it is impossible to contact her.Can you please pass on the message to her? I would really like to contact her and she could come on the chat any time between 9.30 am to 5.30 pm India time.I would be very greatful to .THANK YOU

0 response(s), 0 votes
bankerchas 73 M
1  question
Submissive women in Miami area .why can't I find them? - 8/23/2001

I am a very kinky dominant male living in the South Florida area and have noticed a severe shortage of submissive ladies in this area over the past few months. When I go to clubs in the area I only encounter Pros, other dominants, or transexuals/transvestites. The few true female submissives that I do encounter either belong to another master/mistress or are faking submission. what if ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
licklover4pussy 42 M
2  questions
Any ladies from SINGAPORE ever CUM on a guys face?DO YOU WANTS TO GIVE IT A TRY? - 8/20/2001

Whould you tell me did you ever cum while you sit and rub you pussy on a guy's face and he lick all your cums? Do you feel really good and feel like doing it again and again? please tell me how you feel and do you love it. I really love the taste of pussy cums, and i like licking pussy for long hours.i'm i normal for that? If you love to try, i can do it for you too.Please leave at least ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Facial cumshot questions need urgent reply! - 8/20/2001

How many women really like to see ejaculation in afirst person perspective? My girlfriend loves it and I want here to talk /meet some other women who dig it? It's to much cum for only her , she wants to share with other hungry women!perhaps eat cum from another young lady's ass/pussy!Now where do I go?I haven't really found any bi-girlz into cum swaping. Any suggestions greatly appreciated. ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
I AM A WOMAN WONDERING IF ALL WOMAN ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN JUST LOOKS - 8/19/2001

I AM A WOMAN AND I LOOK LIKE A TOMBOY BUT LOVE IS SO HARD TO FIND BECAUSE OTHER WOMAN LIKE ONLY OTHER FEMININE WOMAN. IS THERE WOMAN OUT THERE THAT CARE ONLY ABOUT WHAT IS IN THE HEART AND IF THIS IS YOU PLEASE FIND ME!! THANK YOU

2 response(s), 0 votes
ms909 57 F
1  question
WHAT AM i DOING WRONG? - 8/19/2001

I stumble on this site hoping to met someone to bring out my wild side. Well all I am finding is people who want nothing but sex. Any and all different kinds of sex. Where is the romance, the cuddling, the candles, and moonlite walks. Is it me? What am I doing wrong?

1 response(s), 2 votes
licklover4pussy 42 M
2  questions
Any ladies from SINGAPORE ever CUM on a guys face? - 8/15/2001

Whould you tell me did you ever cum while you sit and rub you pussy on a guy's face and he lick all your cums? Do you feel really good and feel like doing it again and again? please tell me how you feel and do you love it. I really love the taste of pussy cums, and i like licking pussy for long hours.i'm i normal for that?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Into Sacred Sexuality - Sexual Yoga - Authentic Tantra? - 8/13/2001

Tired or bored with an ordinary sexual experience.. mashing bodies together.. cuming in a rush.. then fading away. want to learn to be multi-orgasmic? Do you want to learn how to experience and explore sustaining an orgasm for hours.. days... learning to be comfortable with greater levels of real sustainable bliss... BLISS..(a word you don't see often).. If so, take the time to go a little ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
IF I FUCK HER ON HER PERIOD WHAT WILL HAPPEN - 8/13/2001

MY NEW GIRL FRIEND BE SO FUCKIN HORNEY WHEN WE BE KISSIN AND RUBBING ON EACH OTHER.BUT NOW SHE'S ON HER PERIOD!! WHAT SHALL I DO!! SHE WANNA FUCK SO BAD , AND THEN SHE DONT WANT TO FUCK. BUT I ALWAYS TELL HER WHAT WILL A LITTLE BLOOD DO. SO I AM WRITING U GUYS TO GIVE ME ADVICE BCUS I NEVER FUCK ANY FEMALE ON HER PERIOD!! I JUST WANNA KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN?????? SO PLEASE RESPOND BE4 ITS TO ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Married Women Do you like one night stands! - 8/10/2001

Do men enjoy a one night stand more than women. Get it and never come back. Are married people more apt to fool around when no commentment is involved? If anyone has looked in my profile, you will have noticed that I am married but not satisfied, sexually at home. I often look for possible situations where I could have a one time affair. But I can't seem to do it. I would like to hear from ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
LOOKING 4 SWINGERS CLUB IN S FLA - 8/9/2001

LOOKING FOR SWINGERS CLUBS IN MIAMI FLA AREA HELP

0 response(s), 0 votes
Are there any Swapfinder.com clubs in Toronto Canada to meet women? - 8/9/2001

Would like to meet some beautiful women in the Toronto area to share some good times and great laughter. I am 52 and look like 39. Love to dance and sing and play my guitar. Very sociable black guy who enjoys all people and culture.Heard many stories about Swapfinder.com meeting places. Would love to join in some of the excitement. Just drop me a line and I'll be inclined. <br> <br>

0 response(s), 0 votes
itching Nipples Why? - 8/7/2001

I`m a 70 year old Male who`s nipples are standing out all the time.They also itch & they feel good. Why is this happening now? God they feel good!

0 response(s), 0 votes
Where are the swingers clubs? - 8/6/2001

We are new to swinging and would like to visit a club like the ones that we have read about. Are there any in the Northwest PA or Western New York area?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Where are the swingers clubs? - 8/6/2001

We are new to swinging and would like to visit a club like the ones that we have read about. Are there any in the Northwest PA or Western New York area?

1 response(s), 0 votes
What toys are best to start with? - 8/5/2001

My girlfriend and I are having great sex. Now we are thinking to buy some toys to spice it up a bit more... <br> Which kind of toys are the best to start with? Also, any tips how to use them would be great... <br> Thx

0 response(s), 0 votes
are there any bored housewifes in east london - 8/3/2001

I seem to be unable to find any ladies in east london who need a bit of fun outside of there marriage.PLEASE somebody must be out there who knows the answers.come on wake me up.

0 response(s), 0 votes
how can i get free dick enlargement programs? - 8/3/2001

i want some free dick enlargement programs or websites please contact me if u have any. mail me atlayboy4384@yahoo.com

0 response(s), 0 votes
How do you get paid work exsposing yourself - 8/3/2001

I see lots of sites for women but how do men get work exsposing and paticipating on the net.

0 response(s), 0 votes
WisCowboy6991 56 M
1  question
Looking for sex clubs or swinger clubs in Wisconsin - 8/1/2001

I am interested in finding some swing clubs or interactive sex clubs in the Milwaukee Wis. area.

0 response(s), 1 vote
AFlange 57 M
1  question
Internet - 7/30/2001

If a guy places his details on this site, what are the chances that a female/group/couple who are/might be interested are going to contact? <br> Are there any documented cases available for me to read? Do women ever want sex like guys do?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Male Anal sex - what? - 7/26/2001

What's the best way to stimulate during anal sex with a guy? <br> Surely it's not just a matter of plunging in and humping away. What areas should be stimulated by the invading penis? How deep?

4 response(s), 0 votes
Bigger Breasts - 7/25/2001

I would like to know how to make by breasts larger by natural means. I have been told that by doing various excercises the breasts can become bigger.

0 response(s), 0 votes
How do i increase the volume of cum when i ejaculate? - 7/18/2001

I was just wondering how one increases the volume of cum when I ejaculate.Is there any special foods or vitamins I can take to let go with those 5 & 6 heavy loads.Any advise would be greatly appreciated!

1 response(s), 0 votes
Unwanted body hair - 7/16/2001

is there a way to get rid of unwanted body hair permanently? I don't want to shave it off because it would grow back too thick.

0 response(s), 0 votes
How can I tell her? - 7/14/2001

My wife and I have not been together for 2 years, and I have always had a huge crush on her mother, her mother is gorgeous. I want to fuck her so bad, how should I go about it?

0 response(s), 0 votes
underwear - 7/12/2001

im 18 and i cant help but sniff my girlfriends underwear when she is out! can any 1 tell me how to stop and y i do it?

3 response(s), 0 votes
I cum too soon, what should I do? - 7/5/2001

I ejaculate very soon and see the discontented look on my girlfriends face, how can I improve on the time?

2 response(s), 0 votes
I have a big ass dick - 7/3/2001

I'm 17 and I have a 10 3/4 inch dick. When ever i get hard in my pants it really hurts. I find myself having to take it out and jerk off. Even in school it happens. I end up getting hard more times than im not. Does this have to do with the attraction of my older teachers? What should I do?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Ejaculation- How to quickly rebuild semen or make thicker. - 6/30/2001

I've been known to have sex two, sometimes three time a day at least four days a week. Obviously my problem is, how do I quickly rebuild my semen level or make it thicker. Sometimes that second or third time could be painful. I figure it's because there's nothing there. I see porn stars shoot clear across the room. How do I achieve this? Please help me with this question.

0 response(s), 0 votes
rm_meandu626 41 C
1  question
my man want me to give him great head and swallow - 6/22/2001

my man love for me to give him head while he is driving but he takes to long to cum and he wants me to swallow so it does not get all over.. pls help!!

4 response(s), 1 vote
rm_dreamy99 48 F
2  questions
TO HAVE SEX OR NOT? - 6/20/2001

I have a problem here and that is I love sex a lot but are afraid to contract sexual disease like HIV or other incurable disease. I have put up a ad and some guys response to me but I’m too afraid to meet them for sex. I have been without sex for 1 and half years. Because I’m quite big size so it is hard to find someone who like have sex with me. I often fantasies about having ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
Frigid girlfriend and my high sex drive - 6/19/2001

ok ive been with this woman for two years and weve been through a lot of shit ive cheated and stuff like that now she doesnt want to make love any more and i want it all the time what can i do to get her back in the mood?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Masturbation good or bad? - 6/16/2001

Is it bad to masturbate every once in a while? Is it bad for my health? Will i lose weight if i do it.

0 response(s), 0 votes
44 year old virgin desperate. - 6/16/2001

I'm 44 years old and I have never even had a girlfriend and I'm tired of being lonely. Don't know how to start a relationship with a girl as I'm too backwards. HEEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!!!!

1 response(s), 0 votes
mike3434 60 M
1  question
Where do I find sex in Minneapolis/St. Paul Area? - 6/15/2001

I was wondering Where do I find sex in Minneapolis/St. Paul Area (suburbs) WITHOUT having a hassle with the cops?

0 response(s), 0 votes
GLELLOVE25 69,1959 C
5  questions
I want very much to have sex with transvestites. - 6/15/2001

I am sexually very active and am happy with my female partners. But have urges to be with transvestites and have sex. Where and how do I find them? Please help.

4 response(s), 0 votes
how to meet sigles with hiv - 6/15/2001

do you know were to meet singles that have the virus hiv or a site that does

0 response(s), 0 votes
Swinging in Wiscounsin? Where is the best place? - 6/2/2001

Hi i would like to know if there are any places in Wiscounsin for meeting couples and/or girls, like a swinger club.I'm a horny youg male spending the summer in Wiscounsin and i just would like to know if there are any options... THANKS

0 response(s), 2 votes
How do I learn to swing? - 6/1/2001

My girl and I have disscussed the option of adding another "female" to our sexual encounters.Myself, I hav'nt experienced this "fantasy", but my girl has.My question is how do I assure her I won't stray?I love her with all of my being and I want us to share our feelings for each other honestly.But, I can't tell her that I need more sexx, what to do???

1 response(s), 0 votes
- 2001-05-31

I have always been a lesbian but i have never had an experience.I have been waiting for 20yrs. and I will be 21 in september. I was wondering for some tips on meeting women.

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How can i increase my penis size in width and length? - 5/30/2001

I would like to know how I can increase the girth of my penis. Please give great detail! More girth than length. I don't want to pay lots of money to get ripped off by some con-artist-penis-pump-add. I want the real deal. Please someone help me!!

0 response(s), 0 votes
What is wrong with him? - 5/25/2001

I have been in a so called relationship for the past year with a guy that doesn't seem to like having sex more than once or twice a week. He says that it is because he works alot of hours. BUt he is always ready for oral sex, meaning me perform on him. He doesn't do the same for me. I really don't know what is going on with him, is he just not sexually active like other men, or is he ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
your self a blow job - 5/25/2001

is it true that you can give your self a good blow job if so how can you do that I`d would like to try and see if you can is there a way. I like to jerk off some times een with the wife here she liketo watch, she help out sometimes. but I never gave one self a blow job help if you can. Than you, robert figuerido

0 response(s), 0 votes
couples watching other couples get wild - 5/23/2001

Is it weird for a couple to want to watch another couple get freaky and have them watching us too, but not getting together w/ other couple?

2 response(s), 0 votes
sdogg73 36 M
1  question
How can i get women to do stuff with me - 5/10/2001

Im a single guy from MO lots of girls tell me im handsom but they see me more as a friend than as a person they would like to date. because of that i have never even held a girls hand. are there any attractive ladies out there willing to teach me. or can any guys offer up suggestions on finding a woman.

2 response(s), 0 votes
pregnant looking for possible positions - 5/9/2001

7 months pregnant and having problems! need ideas of ways to keep the sex awsome! please help

0 response(s), 0 votes
I'm questioning my sexuality and need to find someone to help, any ideas? - 5/6/2001

I'm currently questioning wether or not I'm bisexual. I'm a 21/f in college and have always found women to be attractive. However, I have never found anyone to try things with. I just got out of a relationship and think that now would be the perfect time to expirement. Does anyone have any ideas on how to find someone who is clean, discreet, and who would understand if I found out that I ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
rm_bouncintiger 42 F
1  question
Finding the right one - 5/4/2001

every man i have dated has been abusive, they start out the sweetest thing you have ever met then you get serious and things go down hill, why? why is it so hard to find the right one?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Testicles, Why Some Hang low and some Dont? - 4/29/2001

Hi, I have a Question, My Testicles, dont hang low like other guys do, why is it that some Hang more low than others.And No I dont have undescended Testicles.I welcome any Feedback.

1 response(s), 0 votes
girlfriend broke up with me because I performed cunnilingus on her? - 4/22/2001

I don't know what happened I started to perform cunnilingus on my girl friend and she broke up with me.She said that a man that would do something sick like that is no man for her. she told me to stop watching pornos and that I was disgusting.she won't even talk to me anymore. Are there any women out there that would let me perform this on them. I am new to this but I would really ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
Too much musturbation? - 4/20/2001

I musturbate 3-4 times a week and each time it last for an hour. Am I masturbating too much. Is it wrong to imagine fucking my friends' wife when I masturbate.

1 response(s), 0 votes
women - 4/18/2001

Ilove sexy I would love to know what it fills like to eat another women and know what it fills like to be eaten by a women and use toys on one another but Im willin to do anythaing she wants

0 response(s), 0 votes
I THINK IM BISEXUAL AND WANT TO FIND OUT . - 4/16/2001

I THINK I BISEXUAL AND WOULD LOVE TO FIND OUT .IM A 26 MALE WHO LIVES IN A SMALL BACKWATER OF A TOWN IN IRELAND WHICH IS A PROBLEM. I WOULD LOVE TO MEET A COUPLE WHO ARE BOTH BISEXUAL TO LEARN FROM .BUT I DONT SEEM TO FIND ANY IN IRELAND AND WOULD LOVE TO MEET A COUPLE IN IRELAND TO HELP ME OUT

0 response(s), 0 votes
i come very soon during sex - 4/14/2001

while having sex i ejectulate very soon.i'm not able to enjoy my sex.after i come my second erection takes a very long time of 4_5 hours

0 response(s), 0 votes
30y/male looking for a woman to teach me how to bring a woman to orgasm - 4/10/2001

I am a 30 year old single white male. I am looking for a patient and understanding women to teach me how to bring a women to orgasm. through oral and straight sex. I am looking for someone honest to tell me what I am doing wright or wrong.I want to learn how to please a woman like no other.are there any women out there who are willing to help me? Age and race is not important. ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
How can I get my girlfriend comfortable with sex? - 4/9/2001

My girlfriend and I have been sexually active together for just over a year, but have been unable to achieve good sex for the past few months. At first she was a little nervous about having sex, but after a while we having a fairly good time. Recently she has become very uncomfortable with the whole idea of sex. She is so tense about the whole idea that when we try it is impossible to ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
I WANT FUCKING LAADDIES - 4/7/2001

HOW CAN I GET THE LADDIES FOR SUCKING FFUCKING AND FOR DRINK THIER SWEET LIPS AND SWEET PUSSY.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Want sexer in sg - 4/5/2001

I am 26yrs, I searching, searching for some body, but I can't get. Pl give me your contact who is interest to sex with me.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Bi-curious wanting to suck another cock - 4/4/2001

im 19 and have been wanting to try sucking another cock for a while. ive always thought it would be great to suck and to get sucked by another male, but ive never tried it. anybody else with similar thoughts?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Details of swinging clubs in Hyderabad - 4/3/2001

Want to have genuine intimate friends who are socially well placed , well educated and cultured.

0 response(s), 0 votes
male4u698 62 M
1  question
just wondering if others have the same problem - 4/3/2001

i have had a add in here for about a year, i wrote to people, but i never ever get a answer back, why dont women write back, was thinking that we are all looking for the same thing, was just wondering, thinks

10 response(s), 4 votes
Vaginal licking and sucking juice - 4/2/2001

How long I can lick a middle age woman vagina and how long I suck the sweety juice and after how many minutes I can fuck with full satisfaction. Will this licking and sucking give pleasure to woman. If any interested girls/ladies on mutual interest to contact me in my e-mail.

0 response(s), 0 votes
girl friend-how to orupose - 4/1/2001

i like a girl of my college.But i dont no how to win her as i have never talked with her and i am little shy with gals

0 response(s), 0 votes
THE BEST WAY TO PICK UP GIRLS - 3/24/2001

I WANT KNOW HOW TO GET A GIRL YOU WANT IN BED. I HAVE A LOT OF LADIES FRIEDS BUT MOST OF THE TIMES I CAN'T GET THEM INTO MY BED, SO WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO GET INTIMATE COS, I TALK TO THEM FOR HOURS BUT NOTHING COMES OUT OF IT, SHOW ME WHAT SIGNS TO LOOK FOR? PLEAEEEEEESE

0 response(s), 1 vote
How do I start a discrete relationship with a married lady? - 3/23/2001

I a married male. My wife and I don't have sex anymore. I'm looking for a female to have a discrete relationship with. I don't know where it will lead but I'm open to anything. How do I find a partner.

1 response(s), 0 votes
giving oral sex to women whats the best technique? - 3/22/2001

Can the women out there please give a beginner some tips for giving mind-boggeling oral sex to a women Thank you for your time!

1 response(s), 0 votes
how do i win her heart - 3/15/2001

this girl is cute, were freinds infact we got for lunhc often with another close friend of mine and hers and he is setting me up, but the thing is i am not sure she likes me how do i do this and she does not get easily satisfied as in gifts and stuff dont really bothe her i have come to a astage where i want to ask her to be mine but i am not sure it will work. she is very open and i think ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
What do men like when they get head? - 3/13/2001

I am trying to figure out, what i can do to plz my man better... when i give him a blow job? I want to plz him better ? what can i do ? SexyLatinGal~

4 response(s), 0 votes
any matured women from malaysia ??? - 3/10/2001

i'm male aged 26 years old seeking for matured women from malaysia....anyone....housewifes, widows or....anyone.....if their aged is older than me....pls reply.....bye!!!

0 response(s), 0 votes
jackoff another? Is it worth it? - 3/10/2001

I've been offered to join a group of very attractive women for loads of fun [their video is proof]. They have all been together several times and in different combinations but have never had a guy involved in their parties. Now they want to but there is one catch. The 2 guys [me and another] can do with them as we wish BUT they want to watch us jerk each other off while they are getting ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
supernaut_uk 59 M
1  question
Men's Butts - Do women really find them sexy ???? - 3/6/2001

Do women really find a 'nice' Butt on a man a turn on ?? Or is it just another myth ?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Does it count as cheating? - 3/1/2001

Do you consider it cheating when bam9366 has linked to this site while his wife is sitting at home waiting for him? They don't swing so what is he looking for if not someone else to have sex with. She never turns him away, she is always there for him. She thinks he loves and wants only her. So, what is up, bam9366?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Need Help Getting My Man Interested!!!!!! - 2/27/2001

I have been married for 9 years and I have never been able to have an orgasim with anyone. I had one with my husband a long time ago. He is always interested in trying new things and I have never been very sexually active until now. I have learned things about having an orgasim but I have to do it myself. He has been on the internet seeking discreet affairs and emailing other women. He says ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
SEXYBABE12122 43 F
4  questions
Circumsized or not circumsized? - 2/24/2001

whats the difference between a circumsized or non circumsized penis? Which is better?

0 response(s), 0 votes
SEXYBABE12122 43 F
4  questions
Whats the difference? - 2/21/2001

Whats the difference between circumsized and non- circumsized penises? Is one better than the other?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Huge Cock with No use! - 2/18/2001

I am from a place where Sex is a taboo. If you are unmarried there is no other way than masterbation for your sexual needs. Though I have a huge impressive dick, I have never used it my life. It is used only for pissing for the last 40 years. What to do?

1 response(s), 4 votes
funtime24sexxx 40 C
2  questions
Swinging in Oregon????? - 2/16/2001

Where are the good places to go in Oregon. We are new at this so it would be helpfull to know where to go to see if we are into this type of thing and maybe get started

1 response(s), 0 votes
Girlfriend is far away...? is it worth it? - 2/4/2001

I have been dating the same girl for about half a year now, but for most of that time we have not even been in the same state or country. We started out as close friends in school, but hooked up before she left to go study in a foreign country. I just got back from visiting her and some things had changed about her (like her apperance)that has sort of made me feel ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Embarrassed with my Long Thick One! - 2/2/2001

I was having normal penis before. I thought it is better to have a very long and thick one and tried different kind of techniques and wasted a lot of money. Nothing worked well. However recently I went for a new system, and it worked. Now my penis is 9" long anf 5 inch in girth. The prblem is that even when it is not erect it is almost 6" and huge. I can't go to swimming pool and beach. ...

11 response(s), 1 vote
Why do I lose erection during sex? - 1/30/2001

My question is why I lose erection sometimes during sex. I have a strong history of masturbating since i was in junior high school. But I had sex for the first time when I was 25. I lost my erection during this intercourse. I thought it was because I was nervous. But twice so far with my girlfriend, it got soft on me before I would even cum. What are some reasons that I would lose ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
rm_ronniep123 46 C
1  question
Why do men like to see their wives make love to other men? - 1/25/2001

I have often wondered about this desire of mine to see my wife with another man or another woman. This is not something which most people can understand but knowing that there are similar people out there I make this endeavour to find out as to what is the psychology behind this kind of desire. More so when generally the lady feels offended and let down with the thought of her husband ...

12 response(s), 7 votes
can,you help me cross dress in lingerie? - 12/19/2000

I love dressing in lingerie, it feels so goodon my skin. very beautiful colors, and prints.

0 response(s), 0 votes
SEXYBABE12122 43 F
4  questions
Does it hurt the first time? - 12/5/2000

Is the first time having sex painful for females?If so is it easier after that?

0 response(s), 1 vote
ORAL SEX WITH ANOTHER FEM - 10/31/2000

Should I try to give up my taste for another woman when I love it so good because I can't find any in my area who truly want to lay back and let another woman eat her off ? And, maybe eat a little pussy herself? Most just have husbands who want to watch and they will do it to please them. Thats not what I want. How do I let another woman I see on the street know that I'd Like to make ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
looking to swing - 10/31/2000

I'm from the chicago area and would like to find some swinger hangouts for my wife and I hope someone out there can help.

1 response(s), 0 votes
rm_Pogi55 64 M
1  question
Sensual and erotic e-cards - 10/30/2000

Does anyone know of some good sites that have sensual and erotic e-cards or poems you can send to your lover? I know of a number such as: <br> <br> http://www.cheek2cheek.com/ http://cards.lovingyou.com/ http://www.naughtycards.com/ http://www.fineartnude.com/card.html http://andrea2001.homestead.com/thechainreaction.html <br> as well as Swapfinder.com's own nude cards ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
bueller2000 65 M
1  question
What's better for women, oral or intercourse? - 10/23/2000

What do women like better-A guy to lick and tongue their pussy or the average dick inside them? Some women need you to rub their clits while you have intercourse. Is this because they have lost some sesitivity?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Penis strengthening-Piston-pumping power or limp biscuit? - 10/16/2000

I keep seeing these ads online about adding inches to your penis through exercises. Is there anyone out there who has tried this technique. If so, were there any positive results acquired. Just Wondering!

1 response(s), 0 votes
rm_dmcc445465 57 M
1  question
Is it possible for me to help wife try swinging? - 10/12/2000

I'm adventurous and she isn't as much. We've been married for about 10 years now. Sexually, she loves me to suck her clit for hours on end. She doesn't like to give me head because of my penis size. I've already told her my fantasy was to watch her with another man, woman, or couple. She says I've already fullfilled all of her fantasies. I'm her first and only so far. She's admitted in the ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
rm_mrshy34 50 M
1  question
I,M a frist time swinger in chicago! - 9/24/2000

I need to advice on how and where to find Africa America females swingers in Chicago?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Is wife cheating? - 9/22/2000

I just got back from a 7 month tour of duty in Bosnia. I've got this felling my wife fooled around when I was gone....My question is there any sure fire ways to find out???

2 response(s), 0 votes
Help! Help! I need to be saved!!! - 9/17/2000

Is it possible for American Blonde to be saved by an "Arabian Knight" for and evening of limitless pleasures living in the N.Y. area??

1 response(s), 0 votes
laidbacknforth 54 M
1  question
How do I get attractive women to go out with somone as ugly as me? - 9/11/2000

I can't figue out how to get dates with attractive women. My problem is, I'm not blessed with any good looks or a good body or lots of intelligence. I don't have to date a model, just someone attractive and nice.

1 response(s), 1 vote
i want a bigger and thicker dick how could i do it?? - 9/11/2000

what is the best way to make my cock bigger and thicker i am not against pills but if you have a natural method tellme

1 response(s), 1 vote
Are there any adult clubs in Southern Ohio - 9/8/2000

We are looking for adult swing clubs in the southern Ohio or Northern KY area can anyone help us?

0 response(s), 0 votes
love/sex/? - 9/6/2000

given one choice, what would you choose to live with all ur life, love or sex? It you were told you cant have both? what would be your choice?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Any swinger clubs in Myrtle Beach ????? - 9/4/2000

Will soon vacation at Myrtle Beach and want to introduce my spouse to the swinger lifestyle. Are there any clubs or bars in the area that we should visit to inhance our sex life ????

0 response(s), 0 votes
new jersey swingersclubs - 8/31/2000

is there any swingersclubs in new jersey, if so email tony5075, thanks

0 response(s), 0 votes
Bf's Dad- how can i get him? - 8/7/2000

i'm sexually attracted to my boyfriends dad.hes just 46 years old and so fit. he has a good sense of humor and everytime i met him i got to like him more and more. he's no longer married coz hes separated. i want to start a sexual relationship with him but i'm afraid he'll not go for it coz i'm his sons girl?i really want him and will do anything so i can taste him. help me please. what ...

6 response(s), 3 votes
rm_big_ern_mc 47 M
1  question
Lets set up a list of women from this service that we have actually hooked up with by state! - 8/1/2000

I'm willing to make a webpage(very basic) that will have a list of womens profile names from this service that you have hooked up with. Any suggestions? I will listen to them all. The list would be by the US states only. You can have an open discussion here.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Where is the best place ot find a bi-sexual female - 7/22/2000

I'm a 28bm looking for a bifemale for my wife. She has been curious about being a female for 3yrs. I'll like to a get her curiousity solve. Please help I'm located in central florida area, or email me trinnie39@yahoo.com

0 response(s), 0 votes
rm_Jasontan100 40 M
1  question
Problem? Cunnilingus vs. Penetration. - 7/21/2000

Is it a problem when most of my sex fantasies focused on cunnilingus instead of penetration? I fantasized on seeing females fingering themselves, & cunnilingus, a lot more often than other ?activities?. It just seems to me that ?licking? is more enjoyable than ?entering?. It may due to that I?m still a VIRGIN(I really don?t know) or is it actually a problem?

1 response(s), 0 votes
ISLANDGIRL1 49 F
1  question
what makes u bi-sexual - 7/19/2000

hi im from the caribbean, i always fantasized about being with woman, then i use to watch woman on woman porn, it turns me on to see them go at it, i finally did a threesome with my bf a few months ago it was great now i want to do it alot more but not all the time, im not a lesbian , i like men more than woman , but i love having sex with both men and women, so my question is am i bi , is ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Sex with groups - 7/18/2000

Since joining Swapfinder.com, groups have made contact for me to join them in motels when i go away, we all chip in for food and wine, and go for it..but I am not too sure if it safe..what shell i do, I love the experiance but need help///wolf

0 response(s), 0 votes
CLEAN ANAL SEX??? - 7/13/2000

My girl loves anal sex, whether it's my cock or toys. How can we have anal and not end up with "dirty" bits and pieces? It can be a bit of a turn off!

2 response(s), 1 vote
Measuring Dick Size - 6/22/2000

What is the standard or accepted way to measure your dick? Is there a proper way? I hear a lot about dick size and I was wondering how do you measure it. Thanks!

0 response(s), 0 votes
MY WIFE LOVES THE SEX< BUT THAN FEELS GUILTY - 6/15/2000

My wife has had a couple of swinginging encounters with another guys while I watched. She absolutely loved the sex. She had multiple orgasms each time. However, a couple of days after she always feels guilty. She says she is married and it is morally wrong. I enjoy seeing her have this sexual fulfillment and don't feel threatened. Could it be because of her Catholic upbringing. How do I ...

0 response(s), 3 votes
69Licker007 41 F
1  question
Bi/Gay Women-How do I find them? - 6/8/2000

I am a 20 year old bicurious female and I have tried everything to meet women who would be interested in having sex with me. I don't know how to do it because I haven't met one to date. It makes me mad because everyone I know talks about bi/gay females like they are a dime a dozen. My problem is that I'm trying to be discreet because I have a boyfriend. Is there any advice for a ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
Friends, But I want more - 6/6/2000

Ok here is my scenario. I have been friends with this girl since high school. The way we became friends is that she dated one of my lifetime buddies for a long time. He is now married to another girl if I might add. All through high school andcollege we have dated diffrent people and gave each other advice on each others problems in ourrelationships. We have done everything ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
sandtrap1 68 M
1  question
safe sex and oral sex,,conflict?? - 5/11/2000

people say they are very concerned about having safe sex. at the same time the say they enjoy oral sex (bidirectionally), and are looking for partners. how does one ensure safe sex, when given orally? does the male wear a condom? and the female? does she get shrinkwrapped?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Any advice to get my girl to try anal sex? - 4/26/2000

One of my biggest fantasies is anal sex but I've never been able to try it. My girl won't have anything to do with it. Anyone got any ideas on how to get her to try it.

1 response(s), 0 votes
Wives girlfriend flirts.. - 4/20/2000

My Wifes girlfriend flirts with me all the time. She is also married. She grabs my ass when the wife isn't looking. <br> Should I make a move? ?

2 response(s), 0 votes
conejito00 46 M
1  question
WHERE CAN I FIND MARRIED WOMEN FOR DISCREET REALATIONSHIPS IN JAPAN - 4/11/2000

MATURE WOMEN ALWAYS FASCINATED ME BECAUSE OF THEIR EXPERIENCE AND CARE...I NEED SOME ATTENTION

1 response(s), 1 vote
MY BEST FRIENDS BOYFRIEND--HOW DO I TELL HER - 4/1/2000

EVERYONE THINKS ME AND MY BESTFRIENDS BOYFRIEND HAVE SOMETHING GOING ON, BECAUSE HE AND I ARE LIKE BROTHER AND SISTER. BUT I DONT SEE HIM IN THAT WAY ANYMORE AND EVERYONE WE WORK WITH MAKES STUPID, ANNOYING COMMENTS THAT MAKE ME MAD. I WOULD NOT PUT MY FRIENDSHIP WITH HER OR HIM ON THE LINE FOR ANYTHING. BUT HOW DO I TELL EVERYONE ELSE THAT, AND GET THEM TO STOP SAYING THINGS?? MY ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Performing anal sex on a woman - 2/24/2000

Are their any possibilities that a woman can be hurt during anal sex. What is the best way to go about it so that it is most pleasing for both people.

1 response(s), 0 votes
BBW? do men really like fat women? - 2/18/2000

Everyone knows losing weight is almost impossible for an older woman...but I'm doing it and want to reward myself with sex - pound for pound! <br> I'd like to know if men really like fat women because now that I've had sex after a long hiatus, I want /more/ than sex - how does a BBW know if a guy is truly interested in her for both sex and companionship...I want a guy ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Witness 53 M
1  question
IUD's, Are they safe and sure? - 2/15/2000

Girlfriend's having a IUD (Internal uterary device) as a form of birth control. Has any women had the proceedure who can tell me if it's safe as well if it's an effective form of Birth Control?

3 response(s), 1 vote
Wife won't talk about fantasies - 2/8/2000

I'm unable to get my wife to talk about her fantasies and desires and I'm looking for suggestions. She was brought up that sex was a dirty thing not to be talked about and finds it difficult and embarrassing to talk about what she wants. She has no problem asking what I want and is pretty willing, but for the life of me I can't get out of her what she wants so I can fulfill it. Any ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
rm_cleo2298 47 F
1  question
How to get sex? - 1/17/2000

I'm 22 and a virgin. I'm a horny girl and want some. I'm overweight and can't find anybody to have sex with me.Whether it's male or female I don't care, as long as I can get some.Help ME!

2 response(s), 0 votes
rm_rick3456 43 M
1  question
Eating Out Women - 1/13/2000

I need everyones help please, my girlfriend loves to be eaten out but Ive only ever doneit to one girl before. Is there any special way to do it. What drives them wild? Girls I would love to hear your advice especially, because your the ones who know best

2 response(s), 1 vote
Sex During Pregnancy??? - 1/11/2000

Is it alright for a couple to continue having sex while she is pregnant? My girlfriend is 2 months pregnant so I'm worried now for her and the fetus. I've heard sex can still be possible but not as often as when she's not pregnant. What are some (or the best) position(s) to have sex. How long can we still continue to have sex before we have to refrain from it completely until she has ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
ANONGUEST 46 C
1  question
interested in a threesome. - 12/14/1999

I have had the same girl for about a year now. Honestly i am getting a little bored. i was wondering if anyone had any tips on how i could go about asking her if she is interested.

3 response(s), 2 votes
girlfriend isn't good at oral sex-hints? - 12/6/1999

My girlfriend isn't very good at giving oral sex and doesn't like to do it. She tries occasionally but I don't feel much arousal. Does anyone have advice on how to help her improve without upsetting her? She is a very petite girl and doesn't have a real large mouth. She wants to learn but is embarassed.

0 response(s), 0 votes
rm_ChadJC1 53 M
1  question
Is there anyone out there??? - 11/28/1999

I have been with Swapfinder.com for about a year now and I have not rec ieved any mail from anyone out there. I have posted a pictu re and filled out, what I thought to be a good description o f myself and what I'm looking for. But judging from my resp onses, or lack there of, I must be doing something wrong. I also have been e-mailing women that interest me but also ha ve not recieved any ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
Is intercourse very important? - 11/8/1999

Is intercourse very important....? or is it just a natural ending to a sexal experience...?

1 response(s), 0 votes
first with woman---what do start - 10/31/1999

we both are new to this/ one older , one younger neither ever had done this before one have an idea but do not want to scare the other one away ...supposed to meet ..where do you start once you meet

0 response(s), 0 votes
Foot fetish - do women mind? - 10/27/1999

I'm a male with a foot fetish. 99.9% of womens feet don't do anything for me - but then some feet just turn me on. I like to masturbate using these wonderful feet. Do women mind and just go along - or do they find it a turn on?

2 response(s), 1 vote
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rm_Clio23 49 F
1  question
Photos-Where do I get them - 9/21/1999

I want photos done, but can't travel too far. Can anyone help???

0 response(s), 0 votes
Finding a bi/curious female-whats the best way? - 8/25/1999

I want to try being with another woman in a sexual way? How should I approach someone if I don't know they are interested in that?

0 response(s), 0 votes
How/where do we learn more about B&D stuff? - 8/23/1999

We're a couple, reasonably attractive, publicly very conservative, who've been playing around & experimenting with B&D privately. He's dominant, she's submissive. The further we go, the more we like it. Discretion is paramount for us. We don't know any other couples (or do we? who might open some doors to new experiences and share their knowledge, and maybe even their playrooms, ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Fisting-Is It for REAL? - 7/7/1999

I have seen videos that women are fist-fucked by another person {(usually a female)} Are these women with the worlds biggest pussies or WHAT? Also, what about ass-fisting, is it dangerouse, as in ruptures or tears? IF not, what is a good technique to follow?

7 response(s), 2 votes
What's a married man to do? - 6/17/1999

I'm a married man who is in a sexless marriage. My wife and I have not been intimate for over a year and I am going crazy. I've been chatting with women in my area about possible intimate get togethers. I tell them all up front that I am married and what my circumstances are. When I do this, I'm shut down and lose any chance of having sex. I'm not looking for a divorce. I'm not ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
orallyyours69ak 75 C
1  question
Cum drinkers - how many are there? - 6/14/1999

We don't consider ourselves kinky, but we love oral sex - especially to completion. I drink my wife's squirt, and she drinks my cum. We are wondering how many people out there love the heterosexual act of swallowing all of the cum after sucking someone to completion. Does the average woman like sucking men to completion? Does she swallow it or spit it out? Does the average man drink the sexual ...

11 response(s), 9 votes
Discreet locations -- where and how? - 4/8/1999

In cases where one or more of the parties desiring sexual relations is attached, location is a big problem. When there isn't a location readily available, what should we do? There's always in the car, but there is the problem of where to park without arousing suspicion. And a car can sometimes get a little uncomfortable and restrictive. Hotels seem like a good alternative, but ...

8 response(s), 3 votes
Why do we have to be so frustrated in India? - 3/5/1999

We call it the land of Kamasutra. Our ancestors perfected the art of love. But what has happened now? Why are we all hiding, running away? Its unbelievable that all 80 million people cringe their nose at the mention of sex. Comeon, its just as beautiful an emotion as love itself. Why restrict it to forced marriges? Why not comeout and experiment? It isn't just a metaphor, that people call 'having ...

9 response(s), 5 votes
How can I change the taste of my honey's sperm? - 2/28/1999

I love to have oral sex with my honey. He is very good at eating me until I scream and I love to suck his dick. His sperm tastes like bleach and everyone I've asked said their husband or boyfriend has the same taste. Can I change his diet? Can I eat or drink something right before we do it, please help.

29 response(s), 19 votes
Andrew 56 M
2  questions
How do you start a threesome? - 2/25/1999

I've been seeing this guy now for about three months but I miss my last boyfriend. My last boyfriend and I still talk on the phone and I want to sleep with him again. I think my current boyfriend is open minded but I dont want to mess up our relationship. I am thinking about proposing a threesome but don't know how to do it.

24 response(s), 7 votes