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Why do live webcam models react so excitedly when some viewers join the channel? - 1/25/2020

New member. <br><br> Noticed on numerous occasions, live webcam babes are bored and don't even notice me when i sign in. <br><br> Then, all of a sudden, they'd perk up and start acting all sexy and horny like. <br><br> I noticed this often happens when another viewer joins the channel. <br><br> Why is this? Is it some special member/VIP ...

27 response(s), 13 votes
Watching porn with your partner - 1/25/2020

I was curious.....do you like to watch porn with your partner while having sex or does it distract you? I was just curious.

39 response(s), 38 votes
Anybody know what happened? - 1/25/2020

Does anybody know what happened to the contests on here with all the changes going on here do you know if they removed it? I do not know if other people are upset with everything they have changed but its getting worse.

22 response(s), 38 votes
rubb_ens3 40 M
2  questions
preferencias! para todos - 1/25/2020

No me falleis! donde os gusta correros (si soys chicos) o que se os corran (si sois chicas)? <br><br> A) dentro cara C) boca D) tetas E) culo F) Otro

5 response(s), 8 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Sex Tapes - 1/25/2020

For those who like to make them, do you ever feel like you up the performance? I feel like when I'm being filmed, I start to amp up the porn factor just a bit. Or does it not phase you?

13 response(s), 16 votes
SiOcean4 44 M
2  questions
Changing location - 1/24/2020

I’m trying to change my location for the weekend but it’s not changing chat location or matches. <br><br> Any would be appreciated.

15 response(s), 12 votes
Jaysen4moms 40 M
2  questions
Concerned about fake profiles - 1/24/2020

I think that is the one thing really holding me back from spending here. How are we able to identify profiles, is there a way to really tel or is it best guess?

34 response(s), 17 votes
supercobrapack 48 M
1  question
Blowjobs - 1/24/2020

Do must woman enjoy , or just like that there partner loves it..

21 response(s), 17 votes
Gold Membership. - 1/23/2020

Yes or no??

42 response(s), 31 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
Death and swinging - 1/23/2020

We are a member of a "travel" consisting of "couples only". The "owner" insists/requires couples only. Neither the F or M of a couple can participate in any type of activities alone. That included my wife one year when I was in the hospital on the day of a party. <br><br> Every year she hosts a St Patrick's Day party for the at her place. ...

37 response(s), 29 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
A touch of the flu - 1/23/2020

We meet with a new, slightly , couple last night [play was possible]. the F was visibly ill. She was coughing, red runny nose, and other signs. <br><br> She said she had a "touch of the flu". They didn't want to cancel and seem . We left before we were seated. <br><br> WTF is a "touch" of the flu? Personally, at my age and health, a flu virus ...

35 response(s), 21 votes
HungCOstud9 43 M
3  questions
whats the best way to find a relationship outside of marriage? - 1/22/2020

any advice or tips, other than using this site.. going into an open relationship... looking to wax some knowledge here

26 response(s), 21 votes
ChesapeakeGuy20 36 M
1  question
Meet long term or just hook ups - 1/22/2020

So do you like meet for one shots or do you go more for multi visits?

0 response(s), 0 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
Misdirected anger on Advice Line [points & standard members] - 1/22/2020

Full disclosure... the Advice Line is the main part of Swapfinder.com that we participate on. [95%]. <br><br> . We see a lot of bitching about posting for directed at the poster. Swapfinder.com encourages new standard members post on the magazine, by giving for doing so. Yes it is annoying, but.by replying you feed the trolls. Blame Swapfinder.com not someone who is actually doing what is allowed and ...

24 response(s), 15 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Gag Reflex - 1/22/2020

I'm pretty good with my gag reflex depending on how big he is. But is a gag reflex a deal breaker for anyone?

21 response(s), 21 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Sex Positions - 1/21/2020

What's your favorite? I love doggy because I love my ass being slapped while getting nailed.

35 response(s), 42 votes
Longstick983 42 M
3  questions
What’s the longest sex session have in been involved in? - 1/21/2020

Hey Swapfinder.com!! What’s the longest sex session have you had before?

37 response(s), 22 votes
Longstick983 42 M
3  questions
What’s the longest sex session have in been involved in? - 1/21/2020

Hey Swapfinder.com!! What’s the longest sex session have you had before?

3 response(s), 4 votes
Longstick983 42 M
3  questions
What’s the longest sex session have in been involved in? - 1/21/2020

Hey Swapfinder.com!! What’s the longest sex session have you had before?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Cj198375 48 M
2  questions
3way - 1/21/2020

If there’s a 3some....mmf would you guys suck a cock off after it’s fresh dip inside of a pussy to make him cum?? Why??

25 response(s), 18 votes
Cj198375 48 M
2  questions
3way - 1/21/2020

If there’s a 3some....mmf would you guys suck a cock off after it’s fresh dip inside of a pussy to make him cum?? Why??

1 response(s), 3 votes
Repeating - 1/21/2020

Do people expect a 2nd encounter? Is it usual that a Swapfinder.com person becomes a regular one?

20 response(s), 16 votes
norachang5 32 M
2  questions
sex - 1/20/2020

Oral Sex? Anal Sex? which do u like?

18 response(s), 13 votes
Condoms - 1/20/2020

Let's face it, condoms are not nearly as fun, but needed. At what point do you stop using one with a partner?

23 response(s), 17 votes
zooter1968 56 M
2  questions
Wife share - 1/20/2020

Does anyone find it strange to want to watch their wife suck a stranger's cock?

32 response(s), 27 votes
zooter1968 56 M
2  questions
Wife share - 1/20/2020

Does anyone find it strange to want to watch their wife suck a stranger's cock?

3 response(s), 4 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
When a lie has truth to it - 1/20/2020

Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br> When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not really an all out lie . <br><br> Let me give you a couple personal 'facts' that not telling the back story seems quite Spin if you will. <br><br> 1] I beat a former NFL player out as league ...

23 response(s), 27 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
When a lie has truth to it - 1/20/2020

Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br> When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not really an all out lie . <br><br> Let me give you a couple personal 'facts' that not telling the back story seems quite Spin if you will. <br><br> 1] I beat a former NFL player out as league ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
What's your best oral advice? - 1/19/2020

Curious to know your thoughts

36 response(s), 36 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
What's the best position for anal? - 1/19/2020

The hotter way for me is doggy, but I find lying on my back with my legs behind my head is a bit easier to take it. <br><br> What do you people think us the best position?

24 response(s), 33 votes
LatinLeprechaun7 53 F
8  questions
The First Five. - 1/19/2020

I was looking at all the newly posted questions from this weekend and noticed a trend. The first 5 replies to any question already have between 100- 200 "I Agree" votes Yet, if you look at the votes for the actual question it will not reflect such numbers. The newest post is " Bisexual Females" so I'm curious if it too will follow the trend. In all my years on the site I ...

36 response(s), 48 votes
Avonsenior 71 M
8  questions
Swapfinder.com ambassadors does it work? - 1/18/2020

I have received emails from ambassadors in the past and it seemed that the it was not a problem with responding. Now as a std member they are blocked just like all other members. If this is the case and they cannot help other members with questions or reach others as a person representing Swapfinder.com What does an ambassador do or why would someone want be an ambassador?

15 response(s), 32 votes
hapygoluckyguy01 38 M
1  question
How do you go about this? - 1/18/2020

Is there a better way ask and or bring this up. I had a fantasy I wanted live and kind of sprung it on her. She was stunned for awhile then day of the blue she wanted do it but in the shock of it and the worry she'd change her mind back NO you agreed. It didn't go over well both with lack of prep for self and toys while the experience didn't go well due to stuff not ...

12 response(s), 27 votes
Guy_B75 48 M
2  questions
Big clit - 1/18/2020

Am i the only one who fantasize on big clits....Any women around here have one?

15 response(s), 21 votes
Guy_B75 48 M
2  questions
Anybody find difficult to talk with women in here that are not looking for money? - 1/18/2020

I see that a lot of women are actually "Working" here....Or its just me?

21 response(s), 25 votes
Coquetona5 56 F
1  question
ast Model Sig |West nude - 1/18/2020

I want to put my piture in de magazine pleas

24 response(s), 26 votes
Sex at a certain age - 1/18/2020

What is the best way to convince a woman has gone through the changes and lost interest in sex to get back into it?

24 response(s), 32 votes
???? - 1/18/2020

Vvvvv???????

14 response(s), 12 votes
backseatqueen 56 F
1  question
Given the chance how far would you drive to meet me? - 1/18/2020

Just wondering how far would an average guy drive to meet me? I have had already 2 come see me one is from Virginia, and the Pitsburgh

52 response(s), 61 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
what happened to "respond"? - 1/17/2020

I went back to my previous question to respond but it wouldn't allow me to to so. Ha to use the "quote" to respond. <br><br> To quote a song lyric..."how long has this been going on"?

19 response(s), 29 votes
yummmmmmyMe 45 M
2  questions
wasn't it more charming without "coining" for every single mail? - 1/17/2020

I so much liked the "good old days" of Swapfinder.com - writing eMails without being charged, sending messages for free, watching profiles .... I blame Swapfinder.com for not having sex on a regular base anymore! Do I really need to from now on ...? Looking forward to your highly appreciated advice!!!! ... I the following after my original posting above: ... Just had a look at your very vivid feedbacks ...

21 response(s), 32 votes
How many hours a day are you on this site? - 1/17/2020

Just curious, how much time do you think you spend on Swapfinder.com in an average day?

44 response(s), 35 votes
baladi2019 41 M
1  question
what - 1/17/2020

i want real women but here virtual

21 response(s), 21 votes
Free Points Idea - 1/17/2020

Reply here to gain free Points for replies.

57 response(s), 49 votes
What's the best way to hook up - 1/16/2020

Any suggestions on hooking up

22 response(s), 20 votes
Goldenman56x 68 M
7  questions
Blowing - 1/16/2020

Do you worry about diseases when someone is blowing you?

35 response(s), 49 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
Who is Marvin? - 1/16/2020

There is much 'in fighting' on this forum. Nothing new, it has been going on for years [over a decade in fact]. It is not uncommon for <br><br> I am recovering from another procedure and have some "free time" and decided to check out what was going on. <br><br> Missing from this round is the Tennessee Troll and the ntn profiles. {you may remember it ...

30 response(s), 41 votes
Hawkfan533333 35 M
8  questions
Why - 1/16/2020

Why do I get a ton of ppl from other states and countries constantly viewing my profile?

28 response(s), 31 votes
Hawkfan533333 35 M
8  questions
Membership - 1/16/2020

Is it worth getting a membership on here, or shld I just stick with using my points?

22 response(s), 22 votes
Imthegoodguy32 37 M
2  questions
Is it ok to hookup with new people fresh after separating from your wife? - 1/16/2020

Long story short: I just separated from my wife of 4 years. She cheated a lot and I need to get over her. I feel like booming up with a new girl would help but have heard otherwise. Should I wait or keep looking. Thoughts?

48 response(s), 32 votes
Imthegoodguy32 37 M
2  questions
Is it ok to hookup with new people fresh after separating from your wife? - 1/16/2020

Long story short: I just separated from my wife of 4 years. She cheated a lot and I need to get over her. I feel like booming up with a new girl would help but have heard otherwise. Should I wait or keep looking. Thoughts?

3 response(s), 4 votes
debra0002 29 F
1  question
Who can get free Gold Membership? - 1/16/2020

Someone told me that female profile will autometicaly get Free gold membership, is it true?

39 response(s), 46 votes
What is up with that? - 1/16/2020

There are a lot of people looking, but no action...

21 response(s), 25 votes
What is up with that? - 1/16/2020

There are a lot of people looking, but no action...

2 response(s), 2 votes
Hair or no hair - 1/15/2020

So what’s your preference hairy, bald, or well groomed?

48 response(s), 32 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
So a best guess... - 1/15/2020

as to real numbers for active members. The top blog post has around 1800 votes/replies in 29 days. So what percentage are participating as anyone gets a link to top blogs in a few places. have to assume most people see it. 5% would make it 36, 000 worldwide and 1% would make it 180, 000 worldwide members. Far cry from the millions they claim. I would bet it is south of 0K.

14 response(s), 16 votes
Freak698286 42 C
2  questions
How far is too far - 1/15/2020

What happens when someone doesn't obey your rules??

16 response(s), 20 votes
Freak698286 42 C
2  questions
How far is too far - 1/15/2020

What happens when someone doesn't obey your rules??

1 response(s), 2 votes
dangbitches 59 F
35  questions
Little Confused Bling - 1/15/2020

I read the bling manager, I don't have time to make bling at this time. I tried to use the chickens I got as a gift all that came up were the numbers. I went back to see if I copied it wrong and they are gone. When I select the bling on my profile it takes me to the maker. How can I use bling? I'm not understanding it I guess. I like my chickens they are sweet and can come in handy ...

19 response(s), 23 votes
LisaSuxDix 46 F
1  question
Why did my gold membership go away - 1/15/2020

Why did gold membership go away

33 response(s), 38 votes
Senior sizzle? - 1/15/2020

Has anyone got some information on site called " senior sizzle" ?? Thank you in advance!

23 response(s), 15 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Are douche's bad for you? - 1/15/2020

And I'm not talking about the asshole kind <br><br> I've been using douches ever since I realized I loved get nailed, but I'm hearing that they might be bad for you in the long run. I've heard that all you need is a fiber diet clean yourself so there are no accidents during . But, I'm scared not use it before I hook up. <br><br> What do you guys ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
t145m 62 M
1  question
points - 1/15/2020

what's the quickest way to pile up points

26 response(s), 22 votes
nehouguy 46 C
1  question
Free Chats? - 1/14/2020

Didn't this used to give you a few free chats , on the house, every day?

38 response(s), 34 votes
Rockforddaddie1 35 M
1  question
This is just a test. - 1/14/2020

Looking for - reply get some of your own!

25 response(s), 27 votes
thus ???? - 1/14/2020

Discussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Als

10 response(s), 13 votes
ch3rryp13 34 F
2  questions
TEST QUESTION - 1/14/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

33 response(s), 39 votes
SiteSupport 36 C
3  questions
TEST QUESTION - 1/14/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

18 response(s), 18 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
Testimonials [certifications] - 1/14/2020

Testimonial Description In promotion and of advertising, a testimonial consists of a person's written or spoken statement extolling the virtue of a product. <br><br> In this case the product is the profile. The virtue is their existence. <br><br> <br><br> One of the best ways we have used to find "real people" is sadly abused to the point of ...

16 response(s), 22 votes
Drazoth 25 M
1  question
Is the Content Filter acting up for anyone else? - 1/14/2020

I've got my content filter set "everything", yet it blocks images as if it where set "some nudity". Is this happening anyone else? Or does anyone know of a fix?

23 response(s), 15 votes
lake1997 61 M
1  question
why is it so hard to hook up on here ? - 1/14/2020

I mean really . it's even hard get someone chat on , I mean if you are on isn't that why you are on it ?

50 response(s), 37 votes
Justlookin19974 50 M
5  questions
Points???? - 1/13/2020

How does the system on here really work? I have over 1900pts and can not redeem any of them. Please help me?

39 response(s), 42 votes
Ziost113 35 M
1  question
To speak sexy or not? - 1/13/2020

Hi ladies. I'm curious when someone tries to talk to you, do you prefer them starting talking about sex on here or not? Some women seem to be angered by it even though this is a sex site. Am I wrong?

45 response(s), 33 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Is he gay if he loves fucking my ass? - 1/12/2020

I have a straight and married guy that loved fuck from time time. He calls himself straight, but the dude loves ass, so I'm thinking he's bi but won't admit it. Maybe he likes being in a straight relationship but loves fucking tight ass? IT's honestly not a big deal, but I'm curious. <br><br> What do you think?

54 response(s), 40 votes
Where did you get the idea - 1/11/2020

Is there a local connection

1 response(s), 0 votes
Tiim_1979 41 M
1  question
why message if your not going to continue after "hello" - 1/11/2020

I've been getting a few IM's, then after I reply, nothing. Is this common on here? I'm not saying anything offensive. just a simple greeting returning the "hello". anyway, just seeing if anyone else has this happen a lot.

73 response(s), 73 votes
InUrReach 59 M
1  question
Do you squirt ??? - 1/11/2020

I have never had sex more than a few times with a lady where is didn't squirt. All women can , why don't more ??

73 response(s), 101 votes
LatinLeprechaun7 53 F
8  questions
Put It In A Poll - 1/10/2020

We have all read questions, here in the advice section, that would be better suited as a poll. Since, I'm the curious sort I looked in the section that had polls and it seems that unless you have a blog you can not create a poll. Am I overlooking something? Can members create a poll without having a blog? Thank you in advance for your replies. Happy New Year! Not Bling Owner...

36 response(s), 79 votes
Points contributed - 1/10/2020

Is there a function that allows someone to “” to you? Has anyone ever received from an admirer??

33 response(s), 43 votes
Finding fun on the road - 1/10/2020

Do you change your overall location or do you just put travel location in when you travel and try to find fun?

26 response(s), 39 votes
Travel - 1/10/2020

Best way to connect via Swapfinder.com when you are traveling for business? Any advice would be welcome!

23 response(s), 20 votes
Milfs - 1/10/2020

Where should I go to meet older women? It's difficult to know where to meet them when you're than they are.

30 response(s), 42 votes
Real or Otherwise - 1/10/2020

What percentage of the people are on this site do you think are genuine? The reason I ask is that the 'known' people have viewed my profile or 'hotlisted' me are ALL in the 30-35 age group and generally live thousands of miles away! Thankfully they are all women but each to their own.My guess is the genuine people on here will be lucky to be at 50-60%

36 response(s), 40 votes
MercedCouple209 53 C
3  questions
Pegging and homophobic men - 1/9/2020

In case you missed it, or this is the first time you’re hearing about this empowering sex act, pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. Usually, pegging is often reserved to describe the act between heterosexual couples, so it’s a woman flipping the traditional gender dynamic and “banging” the man. <br><br> Are you really that homophbic

42 response(s), 76 votes
Today - 1/9/2020

Is it thursday yet?

24 response(s), 31 votes
bacchettina 54 M
2  questions
group masturbation - 1/9/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

51 response(s), 72 votes
bacchettina 54 M
2  questions
group masturbation - 1/9/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

5 response(s), 6 votes
Woahseedstream 43 M
1  question
Gender fakes... a bit of curiosity. - 1/9/2020

Ok so I know from the guy perspective that when it comes to fake profiles I typically get. However, I saw this mentioned somewhere and it got me confused and curious at the same time. So are there really MALE fake profiles? If so what are some pointers to get around them.

32 response(s), 25 votes
tallcool2013 49 M
3  questions
size - 1/8/2020

do women love ten inch cocks?

25 response(s), 35 votes
tthickgirthfru 62 M
1  question
Trouble on the course - 1/8/2020

Ever get caught doing the deed <br><br> I once was on a golf course at around 3 am having fun with fiance when we realized they had started cutting the greens. We had a blankef and rolled up and played dead and evidently didnt see us but lets just say the heart beat was going. <br><br> Similar experiences?

21 response(s), 33 votes
AtxSexyChubb 40 M
3  questions
Do you believe in life after love? - 1/8/2020

I can feel something inside me say that I really don't think I'm strong enough. Am I?

19 response(s), 24 votes
Changing from vanilla - 1/8/2020

Ladies, and men too, I guess, what tips or tricks do you have to spice up otherwise vanilla missionary sex? I have a few: Women: reach down and tickle his balls when he's in Men: push in as far as she wants and just hold that position. Don't thrust, just keep it Women and men: lick their necks <br><br> Any other good ones?

37 response(s), 47 votes
Cjog78 32 M
1  question
Strapon vs cock - 1/8/2020

What’s better? A nice hard cock or a great strapon fucking from a hot woman?

40 response(s), 36 votes
AtxSexyChubb 40 M
3  questions
My Nipples Ache....What should I do? - 1/8/2020

They ache for a masculine muscular older man suck on them

36 response(s), 44 votes
dangbitches 59 F
35  questions
Oh the fakes - 1/7/2020

I know some of you are well versed on fake profiles. I'm sure I get some fake mail but how do you know they are fake? What should I look out for? I really enjoy poking around and looking at profiles if I'm able. How do you know when someone has more than one profile? Or they made a new one? Sorry about all the questions. Guess it's better than "does the IM work"

83 response(s), 72 votes
Women in Lingerie..... - 1/7/2020

I love a woman that dresses up for her man/woman. Do woman enjoy dressing in lingerie or is it done for their partner?

52 response(s), 68 votes
Chubbihorny 53 C
1  question
bisexual swingers - 1/7/2020

is there any cool and safe place in Hollywood Fl or Fort Lauderdale to meet other bisexual couples?

36 response(s), 52 votes
tallcool2013 49 M
3  questions
why? - 1/7/2020

why am i so sexy?

39 response(s), 37 votes
Timepiece201i 56 M
1  question
Women - 1/6/2020

Do you prefer young women or the more mature one?

61 response(s), 57 votes
Nostradamus - 1/6/2020

FYI, <br><br> Every once in a Blue Moon I see a member's pic that catches my eye and feel the need to leave a comment. Well, today I saw such one. When I went to leave a comment, up popped a new a new message, informing me that it now cost Standard members 10 pts to leave a comment. The site use to give you a couple of pts whenever you left a comment. I'm just as sick and ...

30 response(s), 50 votes
Throbbing - 1/6/2020

I'm throbbing

32 response(s), 41 votes
Hello - 1/6/2020

Yeah

13 response(s), 14 votes
Locals - 1/6/2020

Any B.C. locals that know of good outdoor spots to have naked fun?

21 response(s), 27 votes
robdessertrider2 67 M
5  questions
Man VS Vibrator - 1/6/2020

This is a question for persons who delight in ability to make a woman scream with delight. <br><br> I have been with a couple of women, who depend on their battery powered Hatachi Toy to climax, and honestly that dependency is a turn off to me. <br><br> I love the way women can climax in rapid peaks in a row, I wish I could feel that many orgasms without a break. I used ...

35 response(s), 34 votes
MaximumMylf 65 C
2  questions
best condom for oral - 1/6/2020

We have tried several condoms, and my Dom is unhappy with the loss of feeling of every one we have tried so far, as in loosing 80% of the feeling. Since he is taking me to blow strangers, does anyone have any suggestions for which brand of condom is best for oral???

44 response(s), 65 votes
MaximumMylf 65 C
2  questions
best condom for oral - 1/6/2020

We have tried several condoms, and my Dom is unhappy with the loss of feeling of every one we have tried so far, as in loosing 80% of the feeling. Since he is taking me to blow strangers, does anyone have any suggestions for which brand of condom is best for oral???

9 response(s), 11 votes
Crossdressers - 1/6/2020

What can i do find a real ?

30 response(s), 29 votes
wewillfuck2day 43 C
1  question
meetings - 1/6/2020

do people actually meet onhere anymore or just a bunch of piccllectors

46 response(s), 52 votes
BigMilkyTits 49 F
1  question
Standard Member Points - 1/5/2020

Whats the quickest or easiest way get more points when you're a standard member?

68 response(s), 66 votes
lookg4fun4all 65 M
1  question
does anyone read these questions? - 1/5/2020

Let me now if anyone reads these questions? If so I am curious are you happy with Swapfinder.com? The point system? The ?

39 response(s), 26 votes
Bmdfromjtown 62 M
1  question
Women - 1/5/2020

Can women non-paying members on Swapfinder.com?

36 response(s), 26 votes
reaper3791 52 M
3  questions
New IM points system - 1/5/2020

I really do not like how to anyone on IM it's gonna you points to start a conversation or answer an incoming page. It's difficult to maintain enough points. It's ridiculous in my opinion!

56 response(s), 61 votes
Highliffebbw 33 F
2  questions
How good is black cock - 1/4/2020

Been wanting to try one and can’t seem to get my hands on it well y’all give me some answer

48 response(s), 69 votes
Highliffebbw 33 F
2  questions
How good is black cock - 1/4/2020

Been wanting to try one and can’t seem to get my hands on it well y’all give me some answer

9 response(s), 5 votes
DvillePUSSYEATER 54 M
1  question
Who Is Wrong / Who Is Right - 1/4/2020

Me and wife have been married almost 35 yrs. never once did I get a swallowing blow job.Now she would suck on it but when I would get close she would finish me Jacking me. Also for those same of years I always preformed cunnilingus, usually 1st. but always. <br><br> <br><br> So my question is would I be wrong if I found some1 that didn't mind blowing me.

50 response(s), 52 votes
Tony28197 45 M
1  question
crave something different - 1/4/2020

Do you ever just crave something different, not quite sure what you want and your mind races around? what do you recommend? what to try to spice up life?

25 response(s), 41 votes
reaper3791 52 M
3  questions
First meeting - 1/4/2020

I've met my fair share of people on here and for me, every single first meeting ending up involving sex. Is it a common occurrence?

28 response(s), 43 votes
reaper3791 52 M
3  questions
A question for the ladies - 1/4/2020

What is your biggest turn on in a situation?

14 response(s), 28 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

44 response(s), 31 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

5 response(s), 8 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

2 response(s), 3 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

1 response(s), 5 votes
Lumbee1027 47 M
1  question
Point - 1/4/2020

Besides becoming a member. What is the best way to get points

33 response(s), 12 votes
Justlookin19974 50 M
5  questions
Instant Messenger - 1/4/2020

How many instant messages do standard members get to daily?

44 response(s), 33 votes
canasiancpl 51 C
1  question
How do you know if you are bicurious/bisexual or other...? - 1/3/2020

The life style seems to encourage people to try new things with other consenting adults. When it comes to sexuality is it normal to evolve over time or fluctuate? Be interested to hear from other men and women on this and especially couples!

68 response(s), 55 votes
Points suck - 1/3/2020

As stated points system sucks

36 response(s), 42 votes
tallcool2013 49 M
3  questions
love - 1/2/2020

whats that about?

27 response(s), 22 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
"... opened to, or up for, anything." - 1/2/2020

I was looking through some "straight" profiles and noticed a lot of them using the phrase, "...opened , or up for, anything." Gotta say, it kind of makes throw up a little bit. Makes a guy sound like a cum rag... ready sop up the semen soup. WTF is that supposed mean? Is it code let other men know he's not straight?

63 response(s), 87 votes
SeeksCams 61 M
1  question
"Superphoto" doesn't always work? - 1/2/2020

Recently I've noticed that clicking on a member's photo usually doesn't bring up a larger version - I get a blank rectangle on the bottom right of the page and nothing else. Sometimes, it does work. And, yes, there IS a larger photo. <br><br> If I go to the photo's URL and replace the word "main" at the end with "superphoto" I get the larger photo. ...

14 response(s), 30 votes
NieveNate69 58 M
1  question
Private Message - 1/1/2020

As a non-paying member, why can I sometimes read private email messages and sometimes I can't because they are blurred ?

47 response(s), 43 votes
Goodloveingman69 36 M
3  questions
Living - 1/1/2020

How long have you been without sex?

31 response(s), 29 votes
What do you do when she’s seems to strong you along? - 12/31/2019

Hey...one of the issues with this site seems to be that some women (or guys, I suspect) just talk talk talk and never want to meet? What if the person seems cool and you believe them to be legit, but they always have some reason they can’t meet up? Do you throw in the towel or just keep trying? Seems to get old. Why do people do this? We’re talking MONTHS. I feel like I’m patient.

43 response(s), 35 votes
What to do when you have no place to meet? - 12/31/2019

So, I’m always running into the issue of I can’t host and neither can she. Car sex is typically awful. Any ideas?

58 response(s), 27 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
NO ATTRACTION BUT GREAT PERSONALITY . - 12/31/2019

I am sure most of you have been in situations like that . A friend talked to a guy on the site. Great conversation and connection online ..She decided to meet the guy but down side no attraction but awesome personality. He has good sexual energy.The guy has some qualities she wanted but no attraction. She is so drawn to his persona but .... What advice would you give in such a situation?

40 response(s), 62 votes
joozee1 61 F
28  questions
Swinger Vacation Stories - 12/31/2019

Can anyone that has been on one or more lifestyle vacations, weekends, or cruises give me some hints about what to make sure I look for in the planning stage ..(thanks in advance ) ?

19 response(s), 47 votes
up4goodtimennm 50 M
3  questions
IM - 12/31/2019

Just wondering if anyone likes the new IM format? It seems that Swapfinder.com is really pushing everyone go gold. Is it just ?

35 response(s), 42 votes
Domdadda33 35 M
2  questions
Deepthroat? - 12/31/2019

Do you enjoy deepthroating, gagging, being facefucked?

37 response(s), 28 votes
Domdadda33 35 M
2  questions
Deepthroat? - 12/31/2019

Do you enjoy deepthroating, gagging, being facefucked?

4 response(s), 6 votes
nerdygirl721 34 F
7  questions
Preparing for anal - 12/30/2019

Been wanting to try anal, but don't want to get my ass torn up. What are the best ways to prepare, so I can enjoy it?

83 response(s), 73 votes
nerdygirl721 34 F
7  questions
Preparing for anal - 12/30/2019

Been wanting to try anal, but don't want to get my ass torn up. What are the best ways to prepare, so I can enjoy it?

11 response(s), 14 votes
Instant messenger - 12/30/2019

Is the i.m. working at all anymore? Cant seem to have a full conversation there.

56 response(s), 47 votes
licidtysplit 51 C
1  question
New years get together - 12/30/2019

Where's the new years party for Kentucky/Tennessee?

18 response(s), 33 votes
Justlookin19974 50 M
5  questions
Quickies? Are the they good? - 12/30/2019

So mornings when you have to work, my women sees nothing wrong with getting a sex quickie.

52 response(s), 54 votes
Building a repor - 12/29/2019

So there are people looking for friends with benefits or more... what do you do to build a stronger connection with and without sex as the center of conversation?

17 response(s), 26 votes
Sxynathong 40 M
1  question
first time 3 some - 12/29/2019

How to find the right couple to join for 3 some?

29 response(s), 41 votes
Married men - 12/29/2019

How many of you Married men wish your wife was bi and good with you being bi also?

35 response(s), 61 votes
Using toys in the bedroom - 12/29/2019

What is the best way to introduce toys in a sexual relationship with a woman?

40 response(s), 40 votes
Hishers1982 39 C
1  question
Foursomes - 12/28/2019

Are they fun?

68 response(s), 95 votes
Ass - 12/28/2019

Do women like playing with a mans ass?

35 response(s), 54 votes
Is this worth it? - 12/28/2019

If I'm not mistaken, the only way to talk to people on here is to become a gold member. The only other way is to do shit like this multiple time or broadcast (which is not working for me). Is this site really worth it and do people actually hook up, because so far no one seems to be interested?

27 response(s), 31 votes
Does anyone care anymore if their partner has pubic hair or not? - 12/28/2019

I've been with several women on this site and most are completely shaven and really nice. I was intrigued by one woman who I met here and although she was trimmed; she didn't like men who had pubic hair. She had a nice body, but was a little immature and self centered.

85 response(s), 55 votes
Pussypleaser8269 42 M
2  questions
Is this site worth the money? - 12/28/2019

Just wondering, if anyone is having success on here. Is it worth all that it offers to become a member? Thanks

42 response(s), 39 votes
SEDUCTOR692019 29 M
8  questions
¿Que les gusta ver en un show cam de hombre? - 12/27/2019

He trasmitido en varias ocasiones y me han dado propina, lo que dice que es poco frecuente si eres hombre, pero busco la manera de potenciar mi actuación , por eso pregunto que les gusta ver en la wed cam de un hombre

9 response(s), 18 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
Just Three Questions to Ponder, as I am. - 12/27/2019

> Is life really a gift? <br><br> > Is love really a gift? . <br><br> > Would you consider an organ transplant more of gift, and maybe also a device to give you "Hearing" [for the first time]? <br><br> Maybe "Gift" is the wrong noun. For sure one of us uses the word "Gift" incorrectly when describing an ejaculation. ...

25 response(s), 56 votes
Maxbillion87 37 M
3  questions
Pleasure yourself - 12/27/2019

What is your favorite way to pleasure yourself

57 response(s), 45 votes
MercedCouple209 53 C
3  questions
Problems Uploading Video - 12/26/2019

Anyone else having problems uploading video clips Cant upload via phone or computer Anyone else having problems uploading video

33 response(s), 31 votes
MercedCouple209 53 C
3  questions
Problems Uploading Video - 12/26/2019

Anyone else having problems uploading video clips Cant upload via phone or computer Anyone else having problems uploading video

1 response(s), 4 votes
Mrdesire28 34 M
1  question
is this site really worth becoming a gold member. - 12/26/2019

I have seen sites like this before always wanting to upgrade. Its not that Im cheap. Its that is a site like this really worth the money to find people like minded that want to have fun and enjoy the erotic side of life without being judged?

55 response(s), 65 votes
1980hwl 53 M
6  questions
Keep getting points - 12/26/2019

Needing to keep secret time here, how do you get membership, cash?

37 response(s), 40 votes
My Question - 12/26/2019

isn't a question. You know what it is lol.

23 response(s), 29 votes
kotodilla25 27 M
1  question
how do you get an older womens attention - 12/26/2019

anyone have any advice on how meet an attractive cougar / milf / sexy stay at home mom / soccer mom age 35 - 60 range

45 response(s), 47 votes
ScottyEcv 53 C
3  questions
Location of profile - 12/26/2019

I seem to be getting more views, flirts, listed and messages from members that aren't in this country, my state or even close to my area. Is there a way to have my profile shown in only the area I choose or within a reasonable distance from me.

29 response(s), 31 votes
foolinaround6969 53 M
5  questions
Why so many changes? - 12/26/2019

Why are there so many changes taken place here? I mean one day an IM is pts, then to and now to . Any other sites there that may be better?

49 response(s), 51 votes
Coolhungdude 38 M
2  questions
Sex until they are sore? - 12/26/2019

Ive found that insertion after repeated sessions creates a very tight sensation and my partner doesnt seem to mind

31 response(s), 43 votes
Coolhungdude 38 M
2  questions
Cervical prodding - 12/25/2019

Yay or nay? I find it definitely increases pleasure.

16 response(s), 23 votes
Dr_Jack_99 41 M
1  question
à 3 ! c'est parfois compliqué - 12/25/2019

Vive et profiter du plaisir

7 response(s), 17 votes
SEDUCTOR692019 29 M
8  questions
¿ Que excita a una mujer por escrito? - 12/25/2019

A una mujer se le puede estimular con caricias, besos, enseñando el pene etc, pero en ocasiones uno no puede estar con ella, entonces que se le puede decir para excitarla

13 response(s), 30 votes
jay69kl 38 M
1  question
Control Freak - 12/25/2019

Do you guys prefer a control freak girl that have high sex drive?

27 response(s), 34 votes
Merry Christmas - 12/25/2019

Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas.

22 response(s), 32 votes
Qtowncouple89 47 C
1  question
Advice - 12/24/2019

How many pple would say that porn ruins relationships??

47 response(s), 39 votes
biflydog 54 M
5  questions
Do I let her use me? - 12/24/2019

Almost ago I met a young lady at work, and shortly after that first meeting saw her again. The second time she made it a point approach with a huge grin on her face and was very friendly. She is very pretty, tiny, a gorgeous smile, small tits, and a pretty cool person. Fast forward a year or so, and we run into each other again. Same huge smile, same enthusiastic greeting followed by a ...

56 response(s), 48 votes
Do you know why Santa is so jolly? - 12/24/2019

Answer: Because He knows where all the naughty girls live. Merry Christmas everyone and have a fucking New Year. I know I would. LOL <br><br> ...

39 response(s), 81 votes
Iceking6996 38 M
4  questions
Dick Profile - 12/23/2019

So I know i need to bite the bullit and just buy the gold but I was wondering if i could ask the ladies who read this a question. Does the dick pic in the profile do anything for you? or is it too much out the gate? I keep mine up cause i dont want to broadcast my face and i have a nice cock. lmk thank you

19 response(s), 31 votes
Iceking6996 38 M
4  questions
Dick Profile - 12/23/2019

So I know i need to bite the bullit and just buy the gold but I was wondering if i could ask the ladies who read this a question. Does the dick pic in the profile do anything for you? or is it too much out the gate? I keep mine up cause i dont want to broadcast my face and i have a nice cock. lmk thank you

5 response(s), 4 votes
domeoveragain 53 M
2  questions
Long Distance Flirt - 12/22/2019

So why do people who are a thousand miles away flirt?

55 response(s), 63 votes
A1TONGUEY361 34 M
1  question
Is this just like anyone site fake add? - 12/22/2019

Like I messaged I'm free gave my and offered to host nothing no answer so that's what I was wondering tired of getting credits and no one ever back hell or even wants to meet up is that how it is

50 response(s), 64 votes
Avonsenior 71 M
8  questions
Using points - 12/22/2019

I understand that at this time points are being used mainly for chatting with other members. I normally use points to become a fan of others to be able to read profiles and hopefully contact them via . What have you found to be the best use of the points on this site?

62 response(s), 70 votes
whynotlearn 40 M
1  question
Novice - 12/22/2019

Hey there! I’m super excited I found this page and what journeys lies ahead of me. With saying that I would appreciate any suggestions or guidance to what exactly I may need to do. I’ve started my profile and uploaded 2 pics. Thanks for allowing me to join. To say thrilled is an understatement. Lol ~whynotlearn~

17 response(s), 26 votes
ScottyEcv 53 C
3  questions
Swapfinder.com Security - 12/22/2019

How many fake profiles have you came across? How many times has someone attempted to scam you here? How many times has someone tried to get you to go to a different site and register? How many Bots have you found? Couldn't or shouldn't Swapfinder.com do more to protect their paying members? It would be nice if they did or could at least put a badge on suspected profiles. I don't think reporting ...

46 response(s), 46 votes
Maskfem 48 M
1  question
is wearing girl pants sexy ona guy - 12/21/2019

i like the way they feel and on ..is this fucked up or no?

44 response(s), 49 votes
RoccoBb69 41 M
1  question
Tripe a 3 ou 4 le mieux - 12/21/2019

Partager le plaisir, sans taboux et jalousie, a 3 ou 4 ?

12 response(s), 21 votes
Sudden2020 74 M
5  questions
Do you use IM for Cybersex or to Meet Other Members for Dates - 12/21/2019

It seems that a lot of members I with on IM will for a few days telling what they are going do and what they want have done them and then just before we are supposed have the special meeting of and more , they either quit messaging me or just plain stop replying. So I was wondering is cybersex another version of safe sex.

38 response(s), 34 votes
Is being a cuck sissy bad - 12/21/2019

Do women mind if their husband was turned on by sissy cuck play?

46 response(s), 41 votes
Sudden2020 74 M
5  questions
To Douche or not to Douche - 12/21/2019

Anal sex can at times become messy, therefore, it is sometimes ideal to give yourself or your partner a douche. The question then becomes when should you douche before having sex. i.e. is the day before too late.

32 response(s), 27 votes
Everyone has heard the saying. - 12/21/2019

I am sure everyone has heard the saying MILF I say we come up with a new one MILL which stands for ---mothers I like licking what is your opinion ?

72 response(s), 103 votes
For real ? - 12/21/2019

wants this ass? Never been splitroasted but definitely am interested.....

26 response(s), 39 votes
For real ? - 12/21/2019

wants this ass? Never been splitroasted but definitely am interested.....

3 response(s), 3 votes
HungCOstud9 43 M
3  questions
HOw do I approach my wife about wanting to swing and/or do an MMF? - 12/20/2019

I am a straight white , but I really want to share my wife with another man or swing with her so we can both experience an MMF and MFF and other such combinations... she is not the most sexual person in the world, but we have fantasized about it form time to time.. though I think she uses it more as fantasy and it has now become something I would like to try in real life. <br><br> Any ...

60 response(s), 70 votes
Just wondering? - 12/20/2019

A lot of people say Grace before they sit down to eat so before you go down on a woman to eat her out do you say anything?

67 response(s), 92 votes
So all about points - 12/20/2019

Yes most are all about points?

46 response(s), 43 votes
Group Fun - 12/20/2019

What is the best group dynamic...? Is it better to have an even of guys and girls, or better to have two girls with four or more guys- basically, 2 guys for 1 girl? I am trying to organize a little group fun in the Toronto area

28 response(s), 37 votes
HungCOstud9 43 M
3  questions
best way to find married cheaters.... - 12/19/2019

I am married/separated, it is complicated, but I am tired of waiting for her to make up her mind, I would like to find other married women to have fun with, who want to remain discreet too.

26 response(s), 33 votes
NorthMNFun 62 M
5  questions
Buy a membership incognito - 12/19/2019

I don't want to use my credit card. What's the best way to for a membership without leaving a trail? Thanks

41 response(s), 45 votes
All these questions are from guys? - 12/18/2019

So are all these questions just from guys thinking up shit to get points?

49 response(s), 61 votes
PearlRiverBiHard 50 M
1  question
Give or receive - 12/18/2019

What do most or you like, fucking or being fucked? Are any really versatile, or just have a preference what your looking for but afraid to put it on your profile?

32 response(s), 40 votes
daq2791 52 M
2  questions
Should I leave her? - 12/18/2019

I have been in a sexual relationship with another man for the last couple . We truly enjoy each others company both verbally and physically. Recently he asked leave my wife and move in with him. I love my wife but also have strong feelings for this guy. What should I do?

43 response(s), 32 votes
Why almost everyone in UK lives in Aldershot? - 12/18/2019

People from UK, Could you tell why almost all women live in Aldershot? <br><br> I have a kind of idea.

18 response(s), 21 votes
Kyguy568 56 M
1  question
Responding on I'm - 12/18/2019

Why would you send someone an I'm and then when they respond back, in a polite manner, you don't respond. If you initiate the conversation i would assume you are wanting chat with them.

26 response(s), 24 votes
Frankiesam98 44 M
1  question
Cheating - 12/17/2019

How you ever fucked someone outside your marriage and it was totally worth it?

40 response(s), 38 votes
orkfighter 53 M
1  question
Dick Sucking - 12/17/2019

Will you suck my dick if I wash it? <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> ...

32 response(s), 42 votes
Henderson855 53 M
2  questions
Here - 12/17/2019

From one to ten.. How do people honestly rate this site?

26 response(s), 26 votes
Henderson855 53 M
2  questions
Here - 12/17/2019

From one to ten.. How do people honestly rate this site?

4 response(s), 4 votes
WpgBoy204123 37 M
1  question
What is 1 + 1 - 1 x 0. - 12/17/2019

Ha. How many points i get for these things.

9 response(s), 11 votes
Wanderer1476 29 M
1  question
Have you had any problems after buying gold - 12/17/2019

thinking of getting the one month gold subscription next month through sms has anyone else done this and have problems or has everything been fine?

18 response(s), 22 votes
cuckold? - 12/17/2019

how meet someone seduce wife

30 response(s), 40 votes
Smoker728 32 M
2  questions
Meeting Locations - 12/17/2019

Where are some good places meet up someone?

27 response(s), 29 votes
Life - 12/17/2019

What do people aspire for in life?

25 response(s), 13 votes
Will68046NE 64 M
2  questions
Tell Me About Profile Views and Flirts. - 12/16/2019

I have formed a opinion on this, but I figured that I should seek the opinions of others. I join Swapfinder.com every so often, normally as a standard member without a profile picture. Within minutes, receive email from people in the local area. I haven't even finished my profile and people are wanting to meet. <br><br> Time moves on, now I am being notified that people are sending me ...

21 response(s), 24 votes
Will68046NE 64 M
2  questions
Getting your balls sucked... - 12/16/2019

If you watch enough porn, soon or later you will come across one where a woman or man is sucking on a guys balls while giving him head. I had a couple of girls try that with me, I didn't find the experience a lot of fun. To be honest, it kind of hurt. When I want to feel pain, I would ask my wife to jack me off until I came three times. <br><br> So, what does ball sucking do for ...

25 response(s), 28 votes
nimrod17 57 M
16  questions
Any Way To Delete Fans? - 12/16/2019

My profile clearly lists my sexual orientation as 'straight' and yet 2 men have made me their fans and even competed to become the top fan. I don't appreciate that women who may be reviewing my profile may get the wrong idea. Is there any way to remove unwanted people from my fan list?...

16 response(s), 25 votes
Eli9622 28 M
1  question
Older woman and younger guys? - 12/16/2019

Is older woman hooking with men still a popular thing? or is it ust some desire /fantasy us men think is a popular trend?

0 response(s), 0 votes
allsubbottom 71 M
2  questions
Question for Gay and Bi men... - 12/16/2019

Was wondering.. do you pefer to suck cock more than get sucked?..and why?

43 response(s), 38 votes
dwiczek69 62 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

37 response(s), 35 votes
dwiczek69 62 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

2 response(s), 4 votes
dwiczek69 62 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

3 response(s), 6 votes
Toni47250 62 M
1  question
Explain the divergence between the acceptance of by women over bi men - 12/16/2019

Why are by women more easily acceptate over by men

27 response(s), 27 votes
Leobbrj 40 F
1  question
Alguém já conseguiu ter um encontro pelo adulfriendfinder - 12/16/2019

Curioso para saber se já tiveram algum encontro com alguém deste .. contaa ... Vale a pena pagar a assinatura, gostaria de saber a sua opinião !!

5 response(s), 11 votes
How did you learn to eat pussy? - 12/15/2019

Some people learn how to eat pussy through experience, while others learn through watching porn. Some start as teens while others wait until their college years. I did neither, while I did watch porn it definitely wasn't to learn how to eat pussy. It was majorly watched so i could rub one . I actually learned how to correctly eat pussy by reading. My early to mid twenties were spent on an ...

52 response(s), 53 votes
Sabrina7244 29 F
1  question
AM SEXXY GIRL LOOKING FOR A HORNY MAN TONIGHT OR whatsapp me for xxx cum, phone xxx play - 12/15/2019

Am horny and wet now looking for someone fuck tight pussy/boobs.any age.i can travel where you as long as you provide a ticket for , please jokers stay a side, serious man also video sexxy just for a small token on +254743042392

0 response(s), 0 votes
Sudden2020 74 M
5  questions
How do you know if your IM friend really wants to meet? - 12/15/2019

Some never show up after they make a date.

46 response(s), 37 votes
Anal or not? - 12/15/2019

Is anal sex better and should penetration lead to climax in my ass?

43 response(s), 32 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
allergic - 12/14/2019

When a woman becomes allergic to her man's . Is there any hope ?

22 response(s), 30 votes
Finding mature friends - 12/14/2019

Why is it so damn hard find another mature .

26 response(s), 34 votes
albanynycouple51 63 C
8  questions
cuckold cpls n black men our ya willing to meet greet n freak ? - 12/14/2019

if so sat dec 21 meet greet n freak cuckold cpls love black men albany ny area meet over drink local bar n grill freak at hotel next too bar meet
...

26 response(s), 58 votes
What would make you leave your husband for another man - 12/14/2019

Hi ladies <br><br> You are unhappy in your marriage and are having an affair. Every day you contact that man by message or phone just to talk about your day. Not always sexual. <br><br> But though you are unhappy, loyalty or guilt stops you doing anything else. <br><br> What would push you over the edge to finally make the big decision and leave your husband.

22 response(s), 35 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

22 response(s), 24 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

2 response(s), 4 votes
spicycuple35 38 M
1  question
Are there any real left in the world - 12/14/2019

Are there masturbate all night long do anal to themselves just wondering

15 response(s), 18 votes
33seanpaul 59 M
1  question
do women enjoy man on man sex - 12/14/2019

do women enjoy man on man sex? what about seeing 2 men turns you on?

14 response(s), 9 votes
new to swinging - 12/13/2019

we are new to swing what is the biggest piece of advice?

25 response(s), 31 votes
Shyguynyc5 47 M
1  question
Gentleman or bad guy - 12/13/2019

I don't know how to clean this up .... so I'm just gonna spit it out ! How do you tell someone your interested in that you enjoy all the time spent ! But there k!d is bad as fuck . And very rude ?

15 response(s), 22 votes
quemarlavida 30 M
2  questions
How are you? - 12/13/2019

are you really enjoy with your life?

15 response(s), 15 votes
aanonpass 54 M
2  questions
earning points - 12/13/2019

Why points keep changing the is more all the time and you get charged points even when someone doesn't respond??

26 response(s), 27 votes
tysteal 32 M
1  question
Best way to start - 12/13/2019

Ladies what’s the best way to start or contact on here to get your attention? And what makes you turn away right away? What profile things stick out

10 response(s), 24 votes
Older women? - 12/13/2019

Why is it that I have always craved older women? I have always wanted to get with an older woman but never have. I have had this feeling forever and it seems to never go away. Can I get some advice on this matter?

24 response(s), 27 votes
Profiles viewed question - 12/13/2019

The other day I went to look at my profiles viewed to look for a lady that I had found in a random search that I didn't remember what I had entered into the search parameters. What I found shocked me when I looked at the profiles viewed. According to it I've looked at a bunch of Dudes! I have not looked at any men! Not interested in dudes. So ether when I answer questions or ...

13 response(s), 16 votes
Juano201821 56 M
3  questions
Fantasias de fin de año - 12/13/2019

Tienen fantasias de fin de año? Hace años que quiero pasar ese cambio de año teniendo sexo, ojala en un balcon mienteas llefan las 12 de la noche y comienza un nuevo año mirando los fuegos artificiales y gozando con mi pareja. Alguna fantasia que quieran compartir?.

5 response(s), 9 votes
Couple2Grow69 40 C
2  questions
For the Ladies - 12/12/2019

Do you like to be in control or be controlled? Let me hear your sexy thoughts!!!

5 response(s), 23 votes
Toescurled88 40 M
1  question
Why most here start negative. - 12/12/2019

Why does a hey how are you doing today insight such a negative response or ignoring people? Is it just so normal ya negative inquiry that you all give up on humanity?

16 response(s), 19 votes
can u get points this way - 12/12/2019

can u get points by doing this ?

24 response(s), 25 votes
Flguy34654 47 M
4  questions
Points question - 12/12/2019

I think I know the answer but as a free member, isn’t there a limit as to how many points I can accumulate through pics, blogs? In other words, won’t there be a time when I’ll no longer get any points for these types of updates?

27 response(s), 39 votes
JESSWAYNE69 54 M
1  question
does this site use bots which interact similar to a person ? - 12/11/2019

could someone please tell me if its possible to receive and flirt without a profile view? since joining i have received 12 flirts and 5 views. <br><br> i will be more than happy to kindly remove myself immediately if the sort of deception is acceptable. <br><br> thanks in advance for any advice or insight

27 response(s), 31 votes
Points - 12/11/2019

Need points. me reach 500 and videos of me stroking and edging for 90 minutes will be posted here. a fellar out?

21 response(s), 38 votes
Iwannacthat 57 M
1  question
No response - 12/11/2019

I'm wondering if the women on Swapfinder.com are so swamped with texts on instant messenger that they can't respond to all IM's or do they just ignore most IM's?

36 response(s), 37 votes
casey2301 47 M
1  question
Points? - 12/11/2019

So how is a good way to earn some points?

23 response(s), 25 votes
69luv2likyou 57 M
1  question
Points! Points! Points! - 12/11/2019

Thats all these posts are turning into.. Is a way to get more points and nothin interesting.. And look at me doing the same thing!

32 response(s), 30 votes
heidelindi 51 T
16  questions
Porn Star - 12/11/2019

Some years going by and my dream is reality. And it was a first step to heaven How you think about?...

25 response(s), 39 votes
how to get points - 12/10/2019

now it seen it take 15 points to massage someone it fuck up how do you get more points i keep trying but never works

24 response(s), 22 votes
slut4fam 21 F
1  question
Have some points here - 12/10/2019

This is a good way to rack some points up, yeah?

40 response(s), 35 votes
foolinaround6969 53 M
5  questions
Points - 12/10/2019

Why in chat rooms do people beg for points. Can't you get 200 points for $3 ?

12 response(s), 11 votes
truhottie 49 M
1  question
How do women really feel about male bi play - 12/9/2019

I would like to take a poll of how many women are turned off by the thought of MM bi play

35 response(s), 36 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
WTF???? - 12/9/2019

How does this site work for a Standard member??? Especially a guy!?! I can't even imaging it! It's like a nightmare! It's like groping in the dark, then... when you finally get your hand on a tit, its your sister. I let my subscription lapse a couple of times, so I know what Standard is like. Just not being able to see profiles is reason enough to warrant the membership . Also have to ...

50 response(s), 69 votes
advent43 68 M
13  questions
redeeming points - 12/9/2019

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised that when I attempted to redeem some points to a member an email, that option is no longer available. Did I miss something, is there another way to do this other than thru "redeem for features and prizes" ? Perhaps some nuance that I missed? It used to be 200 points to an email, now it appears that's been rescinded.

45 response(s), 36 votes
CJDOU 59 M
1  question
Does IM work? - 12/9/2019

Does IM work?

63 response(s), 45 votes
nimrod17 57 M
16  questions
Fans - 12/8/2019

When a person's profile indicates they have 'fans' does that mean they are broadcasting?

22 response(s), 16 votes
kmack3307 34 M
1  question
My girlfriend absolutely will not do oral on me! Is this a red flag or is this normal for some girls - 12/8/2019

Please answer......is this a normal thing for some women or is this a red flag and should I run for the hills? You answers would be much appreciated.

73 response(s), 55 votes
Letsdothis8078 39 C
1  question
Why does this happen? - 12/8/2019

Ok so my bf and I have been looking to bring another girl in for fun. He bought up this girl he had been with already but she doesn't like me. I told him she had feeling for him still and I didn't trust her. He replied that's not true and she wasn't trying to get him back. Well he cheated with her. I was right 😂. But my question is why does a man have to go see for himself? Why ...

58 response(s), 59 votes
PittHotWife1 35 C
1  question
Anyone - 12/8/2019

Actually read these things?

52 response(s), 52 votes
youradventurecpl 49 C
2  questions
How many pics on our profile is too few pics and too many pics? - 12/8/2019

Just want to know if we need more pics in our profile - Thanks

32 response(s), 25 votes
I’m posting this for points - 12/8/2019

Do you answer questions just to get points on this site?

24 response(s), 26 votes
Do women get turned on by cheaters? - 12/7/2019

Just curious if there are women genuinely get excited about helping a man cheat.

55 response(s), 45 votes
Couple2Grow69 40 C
2  questions
Naughty or Nice - 12/7/2019

Have you been bad? Are you going to make the naughty list like us? If so hit us up.

55 response(s), 68 votes
The Bigger The Better? - 12/7/2019

What are the perfect size boobs?

43 response(s), 38 votes
age and curiousity - 12/7/2019

So, I've been noticing that as I get older, I have begun to get more sexually curious and open-minded. I am not gay, but have been thinking about trying atleast oral sex with another man. I'm turned on by things, the a few short years ago I would have winsed at. Moreover, it seems as though I could literally masterbate 3-4 times daily. Its insatiable, and borders on obsession as of late. ...

15 response(s), 18 votes
How to enter into the gay porn industry? - 12/7/2019

Years ago, in the Kamikaze Club in NYC, I did Jeff Stryker in the bathroom. He offered to some people for me but I saw no and went on. I've regretted that decision ever since. I seriously now want to try the adult gay porn industry but have no clue where to start. What should be my first move or individual to or write? I have plenty of tapes I can for viewing and would welcome a personal ...

14 response(s), 25 votes
aim2pleaseu952 72 T
10  questions
ways to get around it - 12/6/2019

I have seen some women's profiles that say that size is important, but there are ways to get around it. For those women, if you were really attracted to a man, and found out that he's not exactly "hung like a bull", how do you get around it? What methods would you use to achieve mutual satisfaction?

27 response(s), 33 votes
aim2pleaseu952 72 T
10  questions
ways to get around it - 12/6/2019

I have seen some women's profiles that say that size is important, but there are ways to get around it. For those women, if you were really attracted to a man, and found out that he's not exactly "hung like a bull", how do you get around it? What methods would you use to achieve mutual satisfaction?

0 response(s), 4 votes
Doing this for the points - 12/6/2019

Comment to grab some points

0 response(s), 0 votes
Have you found your best friend and lover all in one? - 12/5/2019

I was wondering how many others have found their best friend and man all in the same person? If you haven't already you need to keep looking ..It's an amazing relationship that is built to last...

39 response(s), 67 votes
a question for points - 12/5/2019

How to earn Swapfinder.com points??

53 response(s), 51 votes
safe sex - 12/5/2019

just wondering what the general opinion was on here with regards to safe sex and the use of condoms.? <br><br> personally if you sexually active on this site its a good idea to wear condoms ! <br><br> thoughts people?

17 response(s), 19 votes
soc_solice 32 M
2  questions
Paid member - 12/5/2019

advice line post

20 response(s), 29 votes
solice_fred 67 M
2  questions
Standard member - 12/5/2019

advice line post need ?

24 response(s), 30 votes
B00biesman 42 M
1  question
Instant messenger - 12/5/2019

When will IM get a long over due update???

33 response(s), 34 votes
First times - 12/5/2019

Whats the easiest position for the first time for anal?

34 response(s), 39 votes
devilchicc24 30 F
1  question
why does no one hit me up here? - 12/5/2019

im not that ugly tho lol

16 response(s), 19 votes
Lionbone7 39 M
1  question
Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area? - 12/4/2019

Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area?

18 response(s), 22 votes
foolinaround6969 53 M
5  questions
A question for women - 12/4/2019

Would you rather have sex missionary or doggie style, which feels better? More fulfilling?

23 response(s), 30 votes
Flguy34654 47 M
4  questions
Hangover horniness - 12/4/2019

Does anyone else get extremely horny during a hangover? It’s like I can barely function but damn do I get horny as hell when hungover. Anyone?

27 response(s), 35 votes
1HotCuple 49 C
4  questions
Best/Easiest tools for Bling Makers/Creators?? - 12/4/2019

Question for the best/top bling creators......What Apps/programs do you use to make/animate bling ? Got a lot of ideas but havent found good apps to create them with. Any help with this would be greatly appreciated.!

17 response(s), 31 votes
BLACK_CHARLES 46 M
1  question
Is it ok to have a crush? - 12/3/2019

Is it ok to have a crush on someone who is dating your spouses side of the family? You both know it would be complicated, but they are so interesting.

24 response(s), 35 votes
CollegeFun98 26 M
1  question
Best main profile pics for guys? - 12/3/2019

What types of pics really turn you on from a profile?

25 response(s), 30 votes
que pasa con el sexo casual? - 12/3/2019

mucha pregunta si buscan sexo casual para que quieren tanta información si eres casado o no en que trabajas donde vives paraque

7 response(s), 9 votes
Nateformilfs10 34 M
1  question
Were are sex ladies at - 12/3/2019

Why don’t anyone hit back on here

19 response(s), 27 votes
1HotCuple 49 C
4  questions
Bling in Introduction - 12/3/2019

How do you put your bling in your introduction? Do you just use brackets around the bling id when writing your introduction? Also can you put bling in a comment, and if so how??

17 response(s), 59 votes
WyoCowboy7751 71 M
5  questions
Which Cam ?? - 12/3/2019

Suggestions on video cam use ?

19 response(s), 30 votes
giorgiaxx69 42 F
1  question
Girl looking for fun - 12/3/2019

Hi darling! If you are looking for meetings I am here! I am a serious girl looking for fun...Leave me your e- deepen our knowledge and we agree for a nice meeting. Sweet kiss!

45 response(s), 58 votes
ayna45 100 M
3  questions
Profile pic - 12/3/2019

Does any body know why some people hold up a sign in front of themself with there profile name. I don't get it whats the point.

29 response(s), 25 votes
Trapper69 67 G
29  questions
Who Wants Points? - 12/2/2019

100 people can win 100, 000 points. All they have to do is not post anyplace on this website begging for points for 1 month.

50 response(s), 68 votes
what happened to the 3 free chats? - 12/2/2019

a few months ago we had 3 free chats a day which made it easier to catch up and make new friends but with all these points stealing one has to go around begging for points. is there a way to go back to those 3 free chats?

44 response(s), 53 votes
Anal sex - 12/2/2019

Ineed a women to FUCK my ASS I am good looking and and want a women to watch me

25 response(s), 41 votes
sexyswipe 35 M
1  question
whos not afraid of anal sex? :) - 12/2/2019

whos not afraid of anal sex?

29 response(s), 31 votes
MisterXTC1000 60 M
1  question
Blogs - 12/2/2019

Does anyone here ever read the Blogs? No one ever replies and thousands show that it has been read. My guess its kinda like the women in here a mystery!!!

15 response(s), 20 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Points - 12/2/2019

Who else here is in need of points?

26 response(s), 32 votes
coffeebuddy4u 54 M
1  question
Questions and Points - 12/2/2019

How is it that after everything has been filled out, , you put pictures up, videos up and do blogs, answer question and write articles, You have to ask people for points. Why?

33 response(s), 35 votes
The new phone. - 12/2/2019

Has anybody else seen the new that has come it looks like a dildo but the problem with it is every time you the you get a busy signal and the voice says --Sorry I can not come to the right now.

18 response(s), 45 votes
What does the “rm_” mean? - 12/1/2019

I’ve seen many profiles with “rm_” pre-pended the username. What does that mean?

19 response(s), 28 votes
Lifeguardamc2 66 C
1  question
update status - 12/1/2019

Wondering if anyone else is having issues with the "status Update" on your profiles?? Mine has not worked in over a month. <br><br> Andrea

28 response(s), 36 votes
Points - 12/1/2019

Why is this system so hellbent on taking point? Sometimes you have get of a due locking up, then takes more points start messaging again. What a RIP off

40 response(s), 31 votes