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Why is the media infatuated with politicians' sex lives? - 7/2/2021
It seems everyday there is someone new in the news who is
having sex on the side. Why are they so hung up on this? Also,
has anyone bothered to ask Hilliary, "How's
your sex with Bill?" "Is he your only man, or
for that matter, woman?" For petes' sake, please
let it rest. A mayor is forced to resign for screwing a ,
then they find out his successor has been screwing his co-workers,
LOL.
...
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Merlot - 7/2/2021
I'm thinking of putting some grapes in my cunt, then
smashing them up a bit and seeing if they'll react with
my natural yeasts to make wine.
Sooo... What do you recommend?
Vouvray? Vaginnay?
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gf coming onto me - 7/2/2021
I have been seeing a woman for several dates now and her
who is in her early 20's is coming onto me. Asking questions
such as do I look sexy in this? Do you think my breasts are
big enough? and the kicker is when her nipples are hard and
she comes into the living room when her Mom is elsewhere
and asks if I think her nipples sick out too much...she is
hot but, I wonder if she is sincere and I ...
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unhealthy toys? - 7/2/2021
as we all know, toys have been recalled because
their lead-paint pose a treat to human health, now, what
about dildos and other sex toys? most of them are made in
china too! are they unsafe ? could they cause cervical,
vaginal or any other kind of cancer? Does anyone know? thanks
for ur feedback!
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Better sex as we get older - 7/2/2021
This may be a little off the wall, but was just wondering
if there are any other "older" members, that
think that the sex is getting better as we get older? Maybe
it's the fact that the aren't home anymore, ,
maybe not worrying about getting pregnant, , but i am more
interested in, and enjoy it more now then when i was in my
30's.
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Would you go? - 7/2/2021
I recently -after chatting for awhile-agreed to meet a
guy that was coming in from out of town for his work.The first
time he was coming to town he said he'd be in his room
by like 8-9pm, he waited to text me until 11pm-at which
point I could not go to meet w/ him-I had to work early in the
a.m. and he was 1/2hr away.He said they only come down once
a year so he'd have to wait til then to get ...
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lovers and pets.. - 7/2/2021
Thought this was kinda funny, ,, maybe weird, ,, Does
anyone out there have problems with the family or cat
being jealous of a partner, and doesn't want to leave
the bed/ bedroom? I have to usually kennel up my dogs when
my signifacant other comes over and we want to get it on.
Was kinda cute at first when they wouldn't stay off
the bed, or were always butting in between hugs, ,but then
got ...
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So cute, they're HOT! - 7/2/2021
We've seen a lot of questions on here about what celebrities
people find beautiful/hot, but we were thinking about
something a little different. What about the "cute"
people out there? Who do you think is so absolutely "cute"
that they are actually HOT!?! We thought about Goldie Hawn
and her Kate Hudson. Tell us your ideas!
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Your reactions - 7/2/2021
Sitting here tonight, a little bored, ,, thinking over
the last year or so, at how much i have changed my sexual outlook,
desires and practices, ,got wondering... if my knew
that mom has gone from mild mannered housewife and mom,
to sex craving maniac and bedroom , ,, what would
their reactions be.
Have any of you wondered, or worried that if something happened
to you, ,, and your had ...
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fourt of july - 7/1/2021
i live in a rather large neigborhood hundreds of houses, i
was raised to respect this country as i was growing up several
members of my family being in the milatary and all
on said holidays memorial the fourth vetrans day all of
them i put out my flag if im not home one of my does
it, but i can drive through out my neigborhood and only
see a handfull of flags, funny how we can forget ...
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What is too kinky - 7/1/2021
I recently lost a fuck buddy because she said I was too kinky.
We were playing out a -fantasy, and she said that was
too much. Is that too kinky
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Truck Drivers - 7/1/2021
I was once a long haul/otr truck driver. I have had one lot
lizard/ knock on my door. I did not take her up
on her offer. However it did make me think.
How many people on here would think about dating a truck
driver?
How many people on here would think about having sex with
a truck driver?
How many people on here know a truck driver?
How many people on here ...
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What does the word " generous" imply when used in a profile - 7/1/2021
So what do you think about that someone is implying when
they use the word " generous" in their profile??
example... looking for generous men..... We have always
thought it meant a ... are we wrong? Patrick Pattie
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Hey Girl Friend! - 7/1/2021
I went and picked my little nephew up... he was driving his
mom closer to crazy!  he is 9!
He gets in the car and says.... Hey girl friend! we need to
go to toys r us! I let him know that toys r us wasn't in
the budget! he says... well I hope the car wash is in the budget
girl friend! cause you got dirt back here girl friend!...
he is in the back seat... with his feet prints on the ...
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Flame Retardant to Assholes - 7/1/2021
This is an intentional post for Assholes to answer. So if
the shoe fits have at it!
Oh and by the way you Assholes come in all genders, shapes,
sizes, color and preferences.
Though we live in an intolerant society for the
most part, that does not exclude each of us from striving
to change what is acceptable.
Adaptation has been and always will be the ...
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Clue me in - 7/1/2021
While shopping today, Hanu purchased POP ROCKS for the
. we looked at each other and laughed having heard something
about using them during sex. Well it turns out that is the
only thing we know of such. So I'd like to know how the
candy comes into play? Does she have them in her mouth during
oral? Is it I that gives her head while having them in my mouth?
I'm sure it would do nothing ...
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Licking vs. Lapping..... - 7/1/2021
I was wondering how many women out there have experienced
a man who went down on them to give them a good eating out,
only to sound like a drinking water... slurping and
lapping. And after they finish, thinks the wet bed is your
pussy juices instead of all the slobber they just produced....
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Proffesionals on Swapfinder.com? - 7/1/2021
i have heard rumours that some of the profiles on here are
of proffesionals looking to expand their just wondering
if anyone has come across any if so do you have any amusing
stories to tell about it.
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What's your opinion about Swinging? - 7/1/2021
Welcome to the Swingers
Club
Is this an alternative
solution to avoid cheating on your spouse?
I was reading a book on Sex Industry and an entry on the introduction
page struck a very interesting question in my mind about
the sexual revolution ...
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Have you ever been accused of being a - 7/1/2021
I travel a lot for work. When I know that I am going to be in
an area for more than a week, I search the area for potential
play mates. I email them a month to six weeks before I get
there and we usually talk by phone a few times before I arrive.
This has worked many times but this time I had some really
strange interactions. I will describe one:
My new friend and I were scheduled to ...
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????? - 7/1/2021
JUST BECAUSE A FEMALE CHOOSES TO HAVE A FEW FRIENDS WITH
BENEFITS, DOES THIS MAKE HER A ?
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Tattoos,,the good, the bad, and the ugly... - 7/1/2021
I was reading a previous post, referencing a "
stamp". I don't want to appear dumb, , but is
this just a figure of speech, referring to all tats, , or
is there a certain tat that is considered a "
stamp"? I can see, rightfully so, where an employer would require
tats covered up, ,but on the flip side, , unless one was
to get them on their face, or some other very obvious place,
which does not ...
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Nite wear,,2 buy or not 2 buy??? - 7/1/2021
Q....I have invited a lady to go away on a lil romantic trip..Hot
tub room, 4 person shower, n buggy ride all that good
stuff.now the Q, ,, , would it be bad if i bought her a sexy
niteware?When she thinks she is to fat to wear stuff like
this!!she is a size 11-12... i think she will look great
in a lil sum thing sum thing..Or is she useing reverse psyc, on
me so i will buy her something???oh ...
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- 6/30/2021
why is this site allowing people to use it for ?
Have met several here who want to chat and meet and then ask
for three to five hundred dollars? i have reported as abuse
but they and their profiles are still there.
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Online compition what would you do if? - 6/30/2021
How would you feel if all of a sudden you found out you were
unknowingly in compition with someone online? You had no idea this person even exists until he/ she slams
you face, and pegs you as an imposter, a dirty , and
not worth the privledge of evening continuing to be online?
How would you handle the situation? Send them a personal email asking them to stop publicly
abusiung you perhapse? And ...
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Our - 6/30/2021
How can we justify being on Adult sites and tell our teens
about the crazies out there and to stay away from these sites
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The world wide web: Modern Day Confessional? - 6/30/2021
I posted an answer to a question that was swiftly deleted
before it made the A/L for some reason earlier today.
The person was warning others to watch their backs in Cyberland
as they had written something ( I presume something not
very pleasant)about another member on here and it had resulted
in consequences. They were warning others to watch out
for backstabbing.
I posted this ...
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What things should you look out for when trying to meet people on line? - 6/30/2021
For the past few years (ok more than I would like to admit)
I have been immersed into the Cyber Social Circles of various
Fetish/Kink/Lifestyle sites. In that time you would be
shocked how that common term ‘common sense’ is just not
there. Yes- we all come here to relax a bit, meet new people in hopes
that we can get a little Cyber Sunshine (or whatever you
want to call it) but ...
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Advice. Or should I just crawl back under my rock. - 6/30/2021
I have been reading your responses to questions here for
some time and have come to respect some of you for the answers
you have given. And now would like to ask you for advice for
my situation.
First off I’m married…Ok put the rocks down till I finish
K
Many years ago {18} my wife that I loved very much became
sick with a infection that left her quite mentally ...
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To Go or Not To Go - 6/30/2021
My girlfriend recently broke up with me over the decision
to have (me: no, her: unsure). While I had stated
my position within the first 3 dates notwithstanding,
we did date for 4 months. Anyway, she decides to end the relationship
because, while unsure, she wants to keep her options open
and realizes I'm not going to change my opinion. Now
she texts me and calls to ask me to come over. ...
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Have you ever had to have your "rescue" you? - 6/30/2021
Exactly what the title asks...Have you ever had to have
your rescue you out of an EMBARRASSING situation?
I finally got a day off from work yesterday, and my SO and
myself went for a joyride. Ended up by a river, , walked
in some sand, enjoyed sights and sounds, , and then had
some good old fashioned love making.What a wonderful day....
Then we leave the minimum maintenance ...
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Emailing... - 6/30/2021
After you've met someone(s) here on Swapfinder.com, exchanged
and both wish to continue the meetings/relationship
does email stop?
We've had a couple of experiences where after meeting
the emails to make plans or just converse stop; the phone
becomes the primary method of contact (not always as convenient
for us).
Just wondering if this is the "norm". Why email
when you can call kind-of ...
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Dating? - 6/30/2021
Is there such a thing as dating anymore? My
say that they aren't dating someone, they are talking.
It seems as adults, if we go out with someone it is more like
a job interview. It's like you are interviewing to
see if you are qualified to have sex with them or not. Does
anyone else feel this way? I know this is Swapfinder.com, before someone
flames my butt to remind me ...
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Porn stars vs real women - 6/30/2021
This question is directed to the men but women are more than
welcome to answer....
Im wondering after watching a couple of porn movies...is
this what is sexy...the loud yelling... the moaning..the
spitting on the penis...the choking....I mean I got excited
by the noise from the girl dont get me wrong but I dont see
my self as that extreme I do get loud I do like oral I dont spit
( ...
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A previous question that hit home for me ... the ex's pic - 6/30/2021
I'll try to make this as short as possible. I have been
seeing this guy for two years, he has custody of his two .
I have befriended his ex (mother of his ), I have invited
her into my home, I have gone out my way to help her when she
was in need; gave her food when she had no money, gave her
rides when she had no money and no other means of transportation,
took her shopping and bought her ...
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Following the boogie man... - 6/30/2021
Following on from my previous question, are there any of
you out there who are the progeny of men and women who were
serial cheaters ? How did this affect you?
Was your idyllic childhood torn apart by family squabbles
and constant tension?
Did that affect how you view your own relationships and
does it affect how you reply to questions pertaining the
cheating?
To those ...
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The EX... - 6/30/2021
the questions I just asked are all about my ex... as some of you know he broke his neck on his job 8 year in to
the 21 year marriage... it left him a quad... I went to school
got the training and then some so.... I could take care of
him...
he is Bi-polar/ paranoid schizophrenic...
he goes to the hospital and meets this nurse... 2 years later
and me fighting for his rights... ...
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Health care workers! - 6/30/2021
Okay say your a heath care worker... if you have concerns
about some one that is a patient.... what is it you should
do?
should you after seeing that $$$ is there... follow them
home? move in with them? with your 3 and step dad? get them to sell off part of an annuity and pay off a house
and have it put in your name? drive this persons car?
yes... here again.... honest ...
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ABORTION BABY BETWEEN PREGNANT - 6/30/2021
To be honest I am totally deaf lady I have been babysat for
the neighbours for 9 years I love and loves to take care
of neighbours Long time ago, I met a deaf guy for the first time sex and not
expected to become a pregnant because I was scare to get
baby because of his girlfriend finds out I dont want her
to tell my mom about me being pregnant I dont have no money
to support the first I have ...
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tube tied/vasectemy? - 6/30/2021
my wife is going to be giving birth to our third pretty
soon and the doctor asked her if she wanted her tubes tied.
she is pretty certaain this will be our last . what
I want to know is anyone whio has had this done have they expereinced
any negatice side effects or are ther any health concerns
that could arise in the future from this procedure? and
my questions is the same for anyone who has ...
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The unkindest cut of all...? - 6/30/2021
After years of bleaching my hair (no I'm not a real blond)
and having two , my hair has lost all its goodness
and become straw like and dull.
So I decided to cut it off!
For me this is huge, and I'm sure for some women the cutting
of ones hair to a more "matronly" length was
just as traumatic an event...
I feel like I've lost a big piece of my identity and sexuality.
I ...
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21 years lost forever ? - 6/30/2021
This may not go over worth two hoots in
hell here in the A/L but a pal down in the articles said I should
give it a try.
Anyways, it's kinda long but bear
with it. Subtitle; Getting a bomb dropped on ya!
About 4 weeks ago I found out something that was nowhere
in my wildest of dreams I tell you. It's taken this ...
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abbrieviations - 6/30/2021
I was just curious what , Greek lessons, and french lessons
ment. Does anyone here know?
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Do others think pregnant women are hot? - 6/30/2021
I often wonder if men (or women for that matter) find the
pregnant form attractive and a turn on. I rarely hear others
mention it. I see websites and thumnail sites that have
it so it must be a large enough fetish/turn-on to be included
in those sites, but how really predominant is it? I have
never been with a pregnant woman...yup, no ...so I
am really curious about it.
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bringing up - 6/30/2021
its always thought that single parents canot bring up .
well on the outset it seems so, bt its beter 2 b single quiet
n understanding parent than a fighting cpl raising
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do u njoy peeping in a womans bath - 6/30/2021
well since we have been the xcitement to c a nakled girl,
woman or a pusy has always xcited me n do thnk it xcite most
men n watching them bathe adds to it wat u say
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deception! - 6/30/2021
how far are you willing to take it to keep your man?
my best friend amd her boyfriend have being living together
for 6 months and he move out of the house about 2 weeks ago.
she call me up ranting and raving that her bf went through
her e mails and found out that she have being still communicating
with guys on the internet.he threw a tantrum and storm out
of the house screaming ...
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r being overburdened for academics - 6/30/2021
all over der is hue n cry dat studies r becoming mor n mor burdensum,
but its not so. the major problem sems a lack of insight 2
teach systematically
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Does pussy size matter ? - 6/30/2021
When looking here always the question comes up about the
size of the cook and if it matters. Never talking about the
size of the pussy.
So here comes a thought
big pussy for big cooks and small pussys for small cooks
?
Do womans pussies vary in size ie after birth, size
of hips and so on and so for th ie after birth and a hysterectomy, do they stretch
and then shrink ...
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Breaking Up - 6/30/2021
I have been with my partner since i was 16, i am now 21. We have
a beautiful 3yr old and our own flat. We both were
each others first and from what i know she cheated on me when
we were 17. I have cheated on her on various occasions but
she knows nothing of these. I find myself lately becoming
less attracted to her and possibly dont have the same feeling
i used to. For some reason though i am ...
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the sex talk! - 6/29/2021
have you and your have this discussion?
do you preach abstinance or proper protection?
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Men & Women - 6/29/2021
Why do we (men&women)always have something negative
to say when you can't have your way? (meaning)if we
meet someone on the first date and you feel like having sex
what the hell is wrong with that?That doesnt mean the woman
is a or anything negative like that..it's no
difference then MEN wanting to get some PUSSY especially
if they have had a few drinks!! Be honest with yourself and
then youwill ...
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yes or no - 6/29/2021
One of the questions asked in a profile is do you have or want
. I have what is called by genetics as the Methuselah
gene. Witch means we tend to live a very long time. But one
out of three also have a gene that makes sperm have no tales.
So almost no chance of having other than artificial
means. should I say this in my profile? At 46 is this really
important?
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Any advice for us? We met on Swapfinder.com... - 6/29/2021
I did draft this question last week, .. but
my China-made computer frazzled before i could post it.
I met someone through Swapfinder.com. We seem to be going through the
up and down roller coaster thing with steep ups and downs,
but less downs than ups.
Whilst not tittering with laughter that people could find
their soulmate or life partner, I confess to having been ...
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Can women control their moaning? - 6/29/2021
A co-worker of mine was joking about how when he and his wife
have sex after their go to sleep. She has to cover her
mouth or put her face in the pillow so they don't wake
up the in the next room. Apparently she tries to hold
it in but says its difficult to do.
Is it really that difficult for a woman to with hold her moans
or screams when having sex?
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Happy Turkey Day CANADA! What R U Thanfull For? - 6/29/2021
Just a shout out to all my fellow canuks for happy thanksgiving
and any members in my home town of Kitchener Ontario too,
Happy Oktoberfest! But on thanksgiving I guess we all have to say what we're
thankful for right? I am very thankful for my family, both my parents and 2 darling
who are life.
So what are you all thankful for?
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grabbing the sheets..??? - 6/29/2021
I had answered a post earlier on if a woman can control her
moans..Nope... Then as i mentioned that also brings up
other uncontrollable actions, for me anyways.
How many of you get so into your pleasure, ,that you end
up with muscle spasms in the arms from grabbing the sheets
so hard? (not to mention how tore up the bed gets)
I have had to go to work after an extremely ...
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age, what does it mean? is it important? - 6/29/2021
Well I am 46, and Iam faced with a dream come true. A 20 year
old sweet little girl I work with wants to quote "fuck
me dry with the ride of my life". She is the same age
as my youngest , and to me it seems a little sick, but very
tempting. I keep telling her no but she keeps insisting
that the age difference turns her on even more. Iam not married
but have been dating someone for a long time. ...
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Parking? - 6/29/2021
When I was a we would park on the side of a country road
of in a store parking lot when we felt the erge to get it on.
Now with all the security cams the mall parking lots might
not be a good choice, so if you were going to park where would
you go to have your pivacy?
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Daddy/ Deal - 6/29/2021
Having read some ( many ) of the Daddy/ articles
I am intrigued as to how to approach the younger female members
on this subject. I don't want labeled as a pervert.
I have no desire to do such a thing with my own ! But,
think it might be fun with a willing young lady ( above the
age of 18 ) to act out this fantasy. Does any of the young ladies
have any suggestions that I might use?
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these damned pets.... - 6/29/2021
Don't get me wrong, ,, i love my little buddy. He happens
to be a Chihuahua, with a pit bull attitude. This really isn't a question, but had to share this, ,, cause
after i got done chasing this little shit around the house,
and retrieving my toy, i sat down and laughed my ass off,
and just thankful that i didn't have one of numerous
friends or relatives who "pop" in, , do just
that..."pop in". ...
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Male - did I "" these guys... I don't think so? - 6/29/2021
Ok I was reading a question about MALE and I've
had a couple of sexual scenarios were I've kinda pushed
my self on guys and had sex while were telling men no but not
stopping me- Let me paint the pictures so you know what I
mean: Me and my high school bf, who I'd had sex with over 100
times B4 this even happened, we were out in a field and had
gotten into a fight. As usual I used my sexual ...
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What would you do? - 6/29/2021
Been in the same relationship for many years, have not slept
together for almost seven of them (she snores all night)sex
has been building up to take it if you want it with out any
input. I touch her its do this or that totally unsexual(to
discourage)Communication is non existant I only get the
time it takes to eat her dinner. I have been replaced by the
television and her . She said after the ...
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If you consent to it in the end- Still conciderd ? - 6/29/2021
Ok I don't normally post this many questions in a 24
hr period, but the thing has me all mixed up... I mentioned in a response on my "MALE ..."
post that I had been several times and by servile different
men- anyways I will open up one such experience to get your
opinion one last thing regarding the issue, and than
I'll leave it alone! If you consent to it in the end IS IT STILL CONSIDERED ? ...
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A change of pace - 6/29/2021
Hypothetically, You find yourself at a house party. You
know a few of the people there but this is the first time you've
met the hosts. The hosts have some store bought amatuer
adult videos playing on the big screen TV.
Shortly into the evening while people are still getting
acquainted you hear a familiar voice you turn and look and
there on the TV is your hubby's ex getting down and ...
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brothel's - 6/29/2021
would you invest or own one?
would you permit your to work in the business(
your )?
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Inquiring Minds Want 2 KNOW... - 6/29/2021
Hey, this really is a question regarding questions. If someone posts a question that leaves you with a question
intern, do you post YOUR question to try to get some answers?
And if the responses to the question YOU posted leaves you
still wondering about few other issues, would post more
questions?
Yesterday I posted 3 questions all surrounding the same
topic of , but that's because I ...
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If It's TRUE... Dose that Make ME aBad Person? - 6/29/2021
Reguarding my last question, "MALE - did I
these guys..." I'm a bit upset to think that I violated anyone, as far
as I'm concernd they COULD have stopped me if they WANTED
TO, and since they didn't and because we carried on
the relationship of bf/ gf, lovers or friends as they cases
may be, I realy don't think that they were hurt much
by it if at all. But you'd have to know the entirety of all ...
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shit head, shit head, rolly polly shit head... - 6/29/2021
Well I guess with out my favorite shit disturber here to
stir up some fun- I'll try one on myself. Things have gotten way too serious and kinda repetitive
around here lately anyways... Have you had a poo that got stuck in your bum and it just wouldn't
get out? No matter how hard you tried and how much you begged and pleaded
it just stuck there like a little brown tail waving in the
air? Gross I ...
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Some one PLEASE answer me this... - 6/29/2021
What is so bad or wrong or however you want to put it about
being gay that parents have no problems at all with DISOWNING THEIR OWN ?
Seriously I would like an explination or some opinions
on why any one would do that.
I cant understand it. I've seen posts on here were people
have said that and I dont see how if you so called love your
all of a ...
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How Far Would You Let THEM Travel to Meet YOU? - 6/29/2021
I've been wondering about this for a while and I was
just wondering how far you let someone travel to meet up
you?
The reason I ask is that there are some pretty cool people
from the US who say they'd like to come and spend some
time with me. But I feel kinda bad asking them to drive or fly up to Canada
just to spend a few hours together.
I can't spend more than a couple hours ...
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Halloween ??? - 6/29/2021
G'day all, Well it had to happen last night I had 2 turn up at the
saying happy halloween, to which they got there marching
orders much to the disgust of their mum.You may say what
an arse hole but I'm in Australia not America it's
not the done thing here I've never understood what
the fuss is over it must be a big thing over there.So I'm
prompted to ask these questions what are the origins of ...
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Are married Women worth it? - 6/29/2021
Someone had wrote a few days ago about married men and it
was kinda negative i was curious about what people think
about spending time with a married woman....is it wort
the time?
Me personally, everyone has a story and sometimes its just
too expensive for the divorce....and if there's
involved then thats a whole other reason for staying....
with that said its not right, but i ...
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Christmas is coming part II - 6/29/2021
OK folks. Im not tooting a horn just telling facts and challenging
you folks that are able to do the same. As we all know, there
is a war on. whether you agree or disagree with the people
that sent our troops, lets support our troops and especially
their families. Check with the local Chamber of Commerce
to find a family of a soldier that is in the sandbox and the
folks at home are having a ...
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How do you tell your man u like women more than him? - 6/29/2021
I was about 15 when i had my first girl - girl encounter. It
was great i loved it. However i still had a steady boyfriend
here and there. over the years my sexual appetite grew stronger
for women, I just cant seem to get enough. and my current
boyfriend loves me too death we even have a together!
he knows that i am bisexual and we've never had a threesome
because i would rather have her 2 ...
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Secret Stash - 6/29/2021
Okay, hypothetically speaking ladies....you have a drawer/box/hiding
place/whatever that you keep your "special"
toys in. But you notice someone has been using one of your
toys.
You know for sure it's not your hubby/bf but you have
a 13 yr old . You are pretty much sure she is the culprit.
So, do you confront her, jokingly mention it (tell her she
owes you new batteries), buy her one of ...
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Who is more responsible? - 6/29/2021
There are many forms of birth control out today. With keeping
out of mind that VD and other forms
of luggage could be transmitted, some forms of contraception
are simple some are even dangerous. With keeping in mind
that a could be at stake, who is more responsible to
make sure that the conception is prevented!
Is it the woman that could have the end result? Is it ...
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Legalised in the UK - 6/29/2021
What do you think ? I\'d be interested to hear girls\'
thoughts on this one ... i am in favour.
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An affair ... or a ? - 6/29/2021
You are in the position where your wife is disabled and unable
to satisfy you ... which option do you choose?? I would have to go for the latter - much less complicated,
although inheritantly more expensive ...
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girls in ladies clothing ...so wrong! - 6/29/2021
i was in a local McDonalds recently and sat near to a young
mother who had her 3 with her. The oldest girl,
probably about 9 or 10, was wearing the most ridiculously
tittilating clothing, including a short skirt and an FCUK
tee shirt, which was very loose and showed most of her chest.
I tried to ignore them, but was so incensed I had to say something.
You cannot imagine the abuse I got ... which ...
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Sounds of the Season? - 6/29/2021
Christmas is swiftly aproaching, and everywhere you go
the sighns are flashing green and red with sparkling lights
and tinsle. Music plays in every mall and on every radio
station reminding us that the day is soon comming.
With all the glitz and twinklling around, sometimes it
feels too good to be true. There's always that special
sighn of Christamas for each of us, that special song ...
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Sex in the work place - 6/29/2021
If you could have sex in the work place without being fired
would you? Especially, if there was a hot new employee or
that wants you.
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need help 2 - 6/29/2021
I asked a question a few days ago and by the respondes I needed
to give more info.I have friends that flashes the wife to
me sometimes the husband will pull the covers off her when
see nude, sometimes she will flash me. about 7 months ago(this
was early in the flashing)I was over thier house and they
were sitting on a chair together she had workout cloths
on he said why don't you massage her ...
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Controversial Topic - 6/29/2021
So once again I read in my morning paper of another teacher
fired and arrested for having sex with a student. So I start
thinking to myself of ways to remedy this situation. Now
granted all situatins are different and yes I believe their
are many times when females are forced by males to do things
against their wills. But a lot of these situations where
teachers are being caught with students ...
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What is going on? - 6/29/2021
I always thought that some of the younger guys on here couldn't
handle rejection very well. But this past few weeks it seems
the older ones are taking over.
Was on IMC earlier and someone sent me a message which merely
said 'Hello'. when I checked his profile he had
no pictures and a basic profile so replied in what I thought
was a politish way 'no thanks not interested in cock
pics or ...
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What a great idea!!!!!!!! - 6/29/2021
Three men - a Canadian farmer, Osama bin Laden and a
White Trash Biker are all walking together one day.
They come across a lantern and a Genie pops out of it.
'I will give each of you one wish, which is three wishes
in total',
says the Genie.
The Canadian says, 'I am a farmer and my will also
farm. I want the land to be ...
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Which Do You Prefer ? Such a DILEMMA !!! - 6/29/2021
I know it's a tough question & i can hear most of
you saying 'How about some of both'
Question for males;which one would you prefer & why?
a- A woman who is very good at home, does great cooking, raises
the nice, takes good care of home etc.But she's
really a disaster in the bed.Probably a latex doll is more
active, when it comes to sex.She does only missionare
& nothing else, ...
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Is it supposed to be this hard? - 6/29/2021
Hey everyone I have a question about downloading things
online? I bought my a PSP for Xmas, and I'm tyrying to figure
out how to down load some cartoons, movies, music and stuff
on it B4 I give it to him so that he's all ready to go Xmas
day.
But it is INCREADABLY DIFFICULT to figure out all the mumbo
jumbo that goes allong with the process of doing this!
So I joined an 'all ...
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Which Do You Prefer ? Such a DILEMMA !!! - 6/29/2021
I know it's a tough question & i can hear most of
you saying 'How about some of both'
Question for males;which one would you prefer & why?
a- A woman who is very good at home, does great cooking, raises
the nice, takes good care of home etc.But she's
really a disaster in the bed.Probably a latex doll is more
active, when it comes to sex.She does only missionare
& nothing else, ...
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Unfair Christmas - 6/29/2021
I've got a dilemma on my hands and i'm hoping you
guys have some advice on how to handle it, i'm too mad
about the whole thing to see clearly. Here's the situation:
My 17 year old (S-jr) and my 11 year old (V) live
with my ex ( L ) . My is not my ex's , but for a dozen
reasons he stays with her most of the time.
My and my ex's best friend ( T ) had an arrangement
made early ...
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Blacks Beach, in california - 6/26/2021
Just a quick question... Am making a trip to San Diego over christmas. Have heard
both pros and cons on Blacks Beach. Is anyone on this site familiar with this beach, or been
there? From what i can find on a website, is that it is still allowed
to shed the clothing, but also have read that it is fairly
hard to get into, , as in walking distance and the steepness
of the trail. Just wondering if ...
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19 - 6/26/2021
I would like to hear different opinions on that family 18
and counting. I think having that many is horrible
in todays society. They do not go to a public or private school
where they could learn social skills. They dress like they
are stuck in the 1800's. They have to sign up for alone
time with mom and dad. I am not here to bash them I just see
it as odd and I would not want to live in that ...
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the time for giving.... - 6/26/2021
I adopted some for Christmas... not that I really can
afford to do so.... but I find that... giving... a sweet
little a good christmas is very rewarding.... the smile
on the faces... and a hug... is a good thing! so who else is
giving this year? or have done it years past?
Merry Christmas Everyone!
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Ladies, is it true - 6/26/2021
Ladies, I was told be a lady-friend of mine that most women
fantasize about getting . Isthat true?
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Labels........... - 6/26/2021
Ladies, if it wasn't for words like slut, , ,
and the derogatory meanings behind them would you be more
sexually assertive an more open about your sexuality and
exploring more?
I hear and see men and women use these phrases..(mostly
in a negative light) has anyone held themselves back and not done some things
sexual because of not wanting that label placed on them?
5 response(s),
13
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Pregnant???? - 6/26/2021
OMG!!!! Since I have been on this site, I have had the same
person email me 2 different times, wanting to get me pregnant!!!
They are very graphic, such as my breasts filling with milk,
popping out the and then trying to get pregnant all over
again. I'm a little shocked, esp because this person
is almost 30 years older than me!!! I knew there were crazies
out there, but damn!!! so, my ...
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Dear Web Cam Dream Girl... - 6/26/2021
Wow like a dumb-ass I joined your web site in hopes of finding
“ true love” and your cell number to call you, as you suggested,
but instead I found many “local” hook ups like the one in
Santa Monica, CA and I being in Bethesda Maryland! Your
charming web site refuses to refund me and keeps charging
my credit card. I assured your web site “Cam Sluts 4 ...
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On Christmas Morning.... - 6/26/2021
On Christmas morning I woke up in bed....
Starring down at my woody..
Wishing I could get some head...
I turned to my wife...
Who was still fast asleep and snoring...
I listened for the ...
Not a creature was stirring...
So, I sneeked into the bathroom...
Porn magazine in hand...
Gazzed at the hot ...
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Holiday Questions - 6/26/2021
In the day and age of every one being all politically correct,
like at work, where we're "supposed" to
only wish people Happy Holidays and have a "winter"
celebration and instead of a Christmas party and so forth
and such, what happened to acknowledging all the holidays
at this time? Now looking at all these posts I still only
see the majority of people saying Merry Christmas no Happy
Hanukkah or ...
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Having a Baby - 6/26/2021
What do you think of a guy impregnating a women without any
commitment to the , just because she wants to have
a ? Would this be a red flag for dating?
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Just wondering.... - 6/26/2021
When I signed up my credit card company called me and asked
to approve the last two transactions. The first one was
this site and they described it as adult sex/services.
Obviously they were trying to protect me from fraud but
it still gave me a chuckle. Did anyone else have their credit
card inquire about the charge?
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Waht would you do? - 6/26/2021
A co-worker of mine gave a pre New Years Eve get together
at her home last night because her and some family members
are going to Vegas to ring in the new year.So we are all talking, drinking
dancing and having a merry ole time when in walks her sister
with my friend's husband.It was obvious to all that
they were not just friends and she introduced him as her
boyfriend, and said that he would be ...
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votes
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Orgasm during birth - 6/26/2021
Did anyone watch 20 20 on friday night? They had a segment about women who have a orgasm while giving birth. My question is is there any one who has had a orgasm while giving birth?
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SIMOND&SIMOND - 6/26/2021
RICK THE HAT? AND WHAT KIND OF CAR DID HE DRIVE. # 2 WHAT
KIND OF CAR DID HE'S BROTHER DRIVE DRIVE ? NO GOOGLE
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would you be in favor - 6/26/2021
Who here is for legalizing in the US? I mean
if it was a normal taxable service, that had measures to
insure safe practices were in place, ie - manditory use
of condoms, regularly testing "workers",
test the too if they want, ect (or something of that
nature).
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JUST 45 FUCKEN MINUTES! - 6/26/2021
How many people here need just 45 minutes when they get home
to not be bothered. All day you have been pulled on, probed,
jerked off and prodded. Is it unreasonable to ask for 45
minutes when you get home away from the spouse, the ,
the commotion and all the shit! After that you can kiss and
give affection, treat them all like the royal family, but
for the first 45 minutes you need to sit and ...
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38
votes
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Question for the men on this site, women feel free too. - 6/25/2021
My question for the men: I may receive maybe one or two emails
then you guys go straight for meeting me and then get frustrated
when I say I need to know more about you before I do this. Why
do I do this? For SAFETY. A woman by herself in these times
CANNOT risk her safety by meeting strange men. Sometimes
my BS filter goes into overdrive and until I get some real
information that you're not a ...
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The age-old "Girl on Girl" question - 6/25/2021
OK... so my 19 yr old has a couple of lesbians that
live in her dorm and just asked me "Why do guys find
two girls having sex such a turn on"? I tried to explain
it to her, but I'm not quite sure she was getting it (not
quite sure how to say it anyways). So fellows (and bi-ladies,
you can chime in too), why do we like watching girls
make out and have sex?
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What the hell, she only 13 - 6/25/2021
I was listening to the radio again; the topic was sex, a 13
y/o girl called the show. She told her little story about
her b/f and her question was about giving him oral. WTF!
When we were at 13 we wanted sex, but rarely acted on
it, and if you got oral you were the luckiest guy/girl in
the world. Those who were lucky to have sex at such a young
age wouldn’t call a radio station. What ...
17 response(s),
21
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These times of economical crisis - 6/25/2021
Everyday people are loosing their jobs and their homes.
Most homes no longer consist of a traditional family where
the parents and all the are biologically related.
I saw a story about a family where the marriage was about
to end but neither could afford to move on. They decided
to keep their home, live together but separate lives. If
you’re a parent in this struggle economy, how do you help ...
12 response(s),
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votes
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35 y/o grandmothers - 6/25/2021
I was watching a documentary about England’s young grandmothers.
It followed 3 women all had in their teens. These women
were in their mid-thirties and was either a grandmother
or about to become one. The told of how they struggled to
provide for their families. They told about their lack
of opportunity for finding employment. Knowing how their
parents struggled to provide for them, the ...
5 response(s),
16
votes
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What to Charge him? - 6/25/2021
This guy on this site has a foot fetish and has emailed me
asking me if he could "entertain" himself as he worships my feet. Apart from my partner sucking my toes,
that's where it stopped. so I told him that I'd haveta charge him thinking he'd go away, but he didnt. I know he's not gonna stop with just jerking off... my question: what to charge him, and if I do I'm in
territory whayasay?
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Dear Visa... - 6/25/2021
Re: Credit from AdultFilthFinder.com Dear Visa, I would like to receive a credit to my Visa Card from AdultFilthFinder.com
(Swapfinder.com) for the six months free that they advertise on TV.
According to my bank statement, Swapfinder.com has charged me for the
next six months, in error, and I would like to have the credit
posted to my account. It is obvious that they are treating
their members like ...
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25
votes
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Pretentious Bitch Wanted!!! - 6/25/2021
Pretentious Bitch Wanted!!! Hello! I'm looking for an expensive loser!! Could
this be you? I don't ask for much these days. At my age,
the fish that used to be in the barrel are dwindling in number,
so let’s see if you stack up to my extremely high expectations:
1. Please do not have your own mode of transportation. I
expect to pick you up and drive you everywhere, including
dates ...
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25
votes
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Why do Men?? - 6/25/2021
Quite often, men stay in a marriage
where he and his wife is no longer living together. When
asked why he is still married, he states that it is for the
. Why live a life like this? Why not go ahead and divorce
and at the same time take care of the ? ...
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23
votes
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What's Your 'O' Number ??? - 6/25/2021
About 3 weeks ago, I was watching Katt
Williams new DVD, "It's Pimpin Pimpin".
While I don't think it's quite as funny as "The
Chronicles Part 1", it does have a segment on
which I thought would be a good blog post. I won't use
the language he did. The segment was about guys needing
to know their, uuummm, let's call it, O number. His
point was, as a male, you don't need to be ...
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28
votes
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Fantasies...? - 6/25/2021
I've only participated in one such thing a while back...
[group_post 2262350] and while it was fairly early in the
relationship... it also pretty much freaked me out afterwards.
During the scenario I was worried, shocked, aroused, aggressive,
and fearful. But afterwards? I was a little disturbed by
the fact that I could enjoy that sort of thing.
Over the last decade, I have found more ...
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Yikes!! Now What? - 6/25/2021
You and your partner are swingers, you go to a lot of
events and parties.
You have that are grown but don't know
aware of your lifestyle.
One day your comes home to announce he is engaged
to a wonderful girl. You set up a time to meet his new fiancee
and to your shock it is a girl you know from the clubs that
is very wild and into group sex & gang bangs. (You've
also partied with ...
17 response(s),
15
votes
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America Vs Australia - 6/25/2021
America- Lots of bitches Security guards outside McDonald's
Guys enlisting in the Armed Forces so they can murder foreigners
and Iraq women. Asshole for President who lies about
so called "Weapons Of Mass Destruction" so he can get his hands on some cheap
oil. Billion dolar a year porn industry yet everybody sues
when Janet Jackson flashes her titty during the Superbowl.
Australia- Lots ...
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votes
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Fantasy - 6/25/2021
I sometimes get emails that offer to pay me to cam or meet
for sex or well you'd be amazed. I don't respond
to those emails, but I have to admit that they do get my heart
racing. I am certain that I wouldn't really want to
be a , but the fantasy is sure enticing. Anyone
else? Is fantasizing about being a a turn on for you?
18 response(s),
26
votes
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Non-Cyber Dating Question: Where do YOU go? - 6/25/2021
Ok...this is the age of Cyber dates...I get that. But back
when I first dated you hung out with friends and went to parties
and bars.
Where do you go to meet people these days? I live on the NJ
coast and sadly all the bars are meat markets now. Are
bars cliche or are they still "in"?
Where would YOU try to meet people?
9 response(s),
11
votes
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Getting to know each other? - 6/25/2021
Ok so I have had a guy sending me messages about wanting to
screw my brains out but he refuses to chat or tell me more
about himself. So I send him a message saying it was a big
red flag when a guy refuses to even tell you the basics about
himself and that it sounds like he is hiding something..perhaps
a wife...maybe 12 without a mother... here is part
of his response
One ...
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18
votes
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Some Things Guys LOVE To Hear? - 6/25/2021
"Oh my God you're huge"
" You always make me cum"
" I just love to swallow that"
"Let's try anal"
" I don't like condoms"
"Can I bring along my best friend for a threesome?"
"Here. You can have your credit cards back"
"I'm allergic to shopping"
"We can fuck after the football game"
"I don't want to bore you so I'll ...
19 response(s),
28
votes
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Older Women And This Site? - 6/25/2021
I was thinking about the sad lady who said that this site
should be named Sicko friendfinder because of the older
women dating guys young enough to be her . I have concluded-
She doesn't have the necessary attributes to attract
any guy,
She thinks every guy has a big dick,
She sees nothing wrong in a 60 year old man dating a 25 year
old women.
Could all of the ...
10 response(s),
18
votes
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What exactly DO i want? - 6/25/2021
I am a 46 year old woman...two failed marriages behind me
and just engaged again to someone i thought i loved until
our "differences" began to encroach on our
lives together...he is completely my opposite if you get
me...9 years older...but on the plus side this makes him
very warm compassionate emotional caring and loving..but
that was after a pretty shaky start as hes been in an all but ...
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5
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Men And Women. Crucial Differences? - 6/24/2021
He's spontaneous.
She's impulsive.
He's successful with women.
She's a slut.
He's assertive.
She's bitchy.
He dresses to impress.
She looks like a .
He's a financial wizard.
She's a tight ass with money.
He is sexually adventurous.
Her best friend is her German Shepherd.
He likes lesbians. ...
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Some Things That Are Better In Fantasy Than Reality? - 6/24/2021
Owning a fast Supercar: Kind of like hiring a $1000 an hour
and watching porn on TV.
Cigars: Try to impress but they make you vomit.
A beautiful woman ruffling your hair: This means she doesn't
want to fuck you.
Ladies "Get In For Free Clubs": 100 guys with
erections looking for a woman.
Lesbian Porn:After a while you wonder when the dick is going
to appear? ...
5 response(s),
9
votes
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What Women Say And Guys Hear? - 6/24/2021
She says: Would you like to come up for coffee?
What he hears: Would you like to come up and fuck me?
She says: I don't fuck on the first date.
What he hears 'll fuck you tomorrow.
What she says: I don't like anal.
What he hears: I never found a man who could fuck me good in
the ass.
What she says: Here is my best friend Lisa.
What ...
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24
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to get engaged - 6/24/2021
to an ex that i have love for but have no want or need to be with
his one will be 18 the other will be 15. he had isuses
with drugs and had been fincially stupid. he is trying to
work it out and wants to be engaged to be married to me. umm
but i'm having fun with no stings attached but the lonely
times you know the companionship everyday i miss alot.
please only caring advice. thank you.
9 response(s),
8
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College dorms - 6/24/2021
Several colleges next year are thinking of having the on
campus dorms arranged by orientation.
Yes this is what you are thinking. They are considering
a Gay male dorm, A gay female dorm, A bi coed dorm, A strait
male dorm , And a strait female dorm.
Many students and parents are not exactly pleased at this!
Would this upset you if your 's college was considering ...
18 response(s),
22
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For the older ladies... - 6/24/2021
Okay, so for a pretty long time now I've been interested
in sleeping with older attractive woman (us refer
to them as MILFs). Not looking for a long-term relationship
like Ashton and Demi (however you say her name), just some
fun basically.
Now, I'm a pretty young (24), athletic, attractive,
etc. and sure I'm attracted to girls my age as well,
but there's something about those hot older ...
16 response(s),
18
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! ? - 6/24/2021
Do women just call other women whores most of the time
when they are trying to steal their man?
What are other reasons for women to call other women whores?
...
20 response(s),
48
votes
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Rock of Love... - 6/24/2021
I'm sure most of you may not even know what Rock of Love
is...
but I happen to watch it... just a part of being a mom... and
spending quality time with my watch her shows....
so the question... did you watch it?
and I personally think that the one that won... is the best
woman for the job.... what do you think?
and I thought the other girl was to clingy....
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26
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The ole blocking game ? - 6/24/2021
This is not an OK Coral question of any sort.
Just wondering about others here.
I posted on a question the other night that wanted just females
"only" to respond that i didn't notice
immediately. I clicked on it again and typed, "Sorry
I just noticed you wanted women only responders."
Went back, and I was blocked.
I'm blocked on this question, "female sexual ...
18 response(s),
15
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work related problem... - 6/24/2021
ok...i'm what most people call a bubbly, friendly
person...when i'm at work i go out of my way to be nice
to all my customers making sure they are happy, laughing
while at my store..i dote on their . i just am like
that. i enjoy my job and working with the public. but my problem
is that i have been getting hit on recently by quite alot
of my regular male customers....some are sweet..others
have ...
48 response(s),
20
votes
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The perfect man ! ? - 6/24/2021
The perfect man is gentle. He is never cruel or mean. He has
a beautiful smile and keeps his face so clean.
The perfect man likes and will raise them by your
side. He will be a good father as well as a good husband to
his wife/girlfriend.
The perfect man loves cooking, cleaning and vacuuming
too. He'll do anything in his power to convey his feelings
of love to his woman. ...
28 response(s),
29
votes
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American Born Guys.....Cut or not? - 6/24/2021
Curious as to what the "norm/average" is. I'm
mid 60's and is early 90's and were both cut.
Suckers..................does it make a difference?
17 response(s),
9
votes
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Music that makes ya horny.... - 6/24/2021
This is a follow up on a post made yesterday. There was a post with reference to a song, and he warned not
for to hear. How true. This is a kick ass song. Found it on you tube, called First of may, sang by Johnathon
Coulton. It does put you in the mood. First of may, outdoor fucking starts today....fucking
outside... Just a couple of the lyrics. You have to listen to this. It makes ya want to ...
9 response(s),
13
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Can She Love Me? - 6/24/2021
How long does it take for a woman to know if she loves a man?
I'm 55 she's 43. We've been dating for approximately
6 months but we only see each other once, maybe twice per
week because she has two teenage .
I'm her first relationship since her divorce two years
ago. I'm crazy about this girl and I told her quite a
few times already that I love her.
I got angry the ...
13 response(s),
20
votes
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Hey Late Comer - 6/24/2021
Remarkable is the Hey Day as being earthly linked to pleasure
not seasonly
Have to get the patience by overcoming the habits
Seeing it not partial in never full natural strengths
No more randomn ejaculations as for the right heading is
captured by the left weight
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28
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just for fun... - 6/24/2021
Ok, , there has been a couple of comments about questions
and topics getting repetitive. Well, also as stated, is
bound to happen with all the new people joining.
So i thought for something just a little different, and
for a little fun, think back to your teens, junior and senior
high school days.
What were some of the "naughty" games you would
play at the parties, and what were ...
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14
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From being bad, to being mellow ? - 6/24/2021
Up until I was about 45 years old I was what you'd
call one of them "bad boys" that sometimes questions
are about here in the A/L.
During those years I got a lot of pussy through all my travels
while I was away working and at home being one. 
Now that I'm a mellowed out old god damn sorry ass motha
fucking of a bitch I don't get any pussy anymore.
What ...
18 response(s),
21
votes
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Happy Mother's Day - 6/24/2021
I hope all Mother's out there are having a great day.
I grew up without a Mother so I used to forget about this day.
However, I do have a and I can't be blessed
enough. We live too far for a visit, she's in school
so she's short on money.
However, the highlight of my day was a wonderful phone call
from my . She has a way to brighten my world even
when I'm blue. She always ...
8 response(s),
19
votes
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what does a woman do? - 6/24/2021
I have been in a relationship now for three years. The man
that I'm with is very hard working, doesn't drink
or do drugs and loves his . That in its self is important
to me. However I'm a sexual being and would love to be
intimate with him at least once or twice a week if not daily...Lately
thou our intimacy encounters are getting fewer and far
between. we hug and hold hands and have no problems ...
28 response(s),
21
votes
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My penis: it's too big! - 6/24/2021
I'm sure no one's goin to believe me but my dick is 14" long
when erect, yes thats 14" long and nearly 3" wide at its widest
point. This a real problem for me as I'm scared to have sex
because I think that it's basically not going to fit. <br>
I'm 19 years old and a virgin, and although I was the envy
of the class in the showers at school, I would not wish my
dick size on anyone. ...
3 response(s),
2
votes
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love - 6/24/2021
You run into a girl you knew in high school. Before you both
went your separate ways you where a real item. You are both
single now.
Do you see if the magic is still there or just forget about
it?
39 response(s),
50
votes
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For the ages ? - 6/24/2021
What's the youngest or oldest man/woman that you
have been with sexually even going back to your years
if need be and as an adult?
Please give your age and the other person's age. Was it good, bad, or just weird?
Feel free to expand on your experience with that....
40 response(s),
48
votes
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Is this story good? - 6/24/2021
After Tom left Darren and Susan’s house Brad told Tracy
to give him a blow job. When she leaned over to take his cock
into her mouth he halfway covered her up. He figured that
all he would have to do is finish covering her if someone
could see in. He never had to cover her completely. When they got home, Tracy was allowed to put on a coat before
having to get all the bags out of the car. ...
32 response(s),
64
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Touchy subject... - 6/23/2021
I heard this song on the radio just yesterday. It appeared
such a sweet song, softly sung by a seemingly nice bloke
with a guitar. Sounded rather like a love song.Then I listened
a bit closer to the lyrics:
Here they are:
My wicked way ( Ben Taylor band)
I just want to take you out and get you drunk so I can have my
wicked way with you I’m just being honest cause I ...
22 response(s),
30
votes
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How important is protection of minors to you? - 6/23/2021
[font face=papyrus]
Pornographic text, pictures and videos are considered
as harmful to minors and affect their evolution.
Do you for example take care about in your blogs or groups,
if your postings are visible from “the outside”?
Are these visible to members only?
Do you look out as well ...
14 response(s),
13
votes
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Sex after pregnancy - 6/23/2021
This is a question to all the couples that have become parents.
How was your sex life after the birth? How long did you wait
and is it like it used to be? How often do you find time for
sex in the months after the was born? Very curious about your replies.
14 response(s),
12
votes
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Anyone else got this bug? - 6/23/2021
Seems like I have a very isolated bug here on Swapfinder.com or maybe
not.
The bug prevents my profile from showing as to being online
when a "Who's Online" or "My Online
Matches" search is done.
Effectively that is like me turning my profile off as I can
not be seen by those that match my cupid preferences.
My views are down like 65% last two weeks or so. What I am getting
is ...
12 response(s),
14
votes
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Where is the best web site for a ? - 6/23/2021
no strings attached sex is my best solution to all of my problems....pay
for it and forget!
19 response(s),
29
votes
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Sex, Population , And global warming - 6/23/2021
I am watching a show on ABC called Earth 2100. I am very surprised this is one of the first such shows to
bring up a little talked about truth.
One of the main reasons why all our resources are disappearing.
The reason only one nation (China) so far has taken any action
to stop. We are breeding ourselves to extinction.
So many nations still refuse to do anything to control ...
23 response(s),
27
votes
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Racist People - 6/23/2021
I have a friend who in her past dated black men, and was married
to a black man. She has a beautiful by him. Her second
husband was hispanic and she had two by him.
She is single and has been for several years now. In the past
and often now she has run into white men who look down on her
and even hispanic men who do the same...for her past with
black men.
She is a member of ...
25 response(s),
17
votes
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too young for swinging? - 6/23/2021
My best friends oldest and his wife came to me. They know
I am on this site. They are both mid twenty's. And have
only been married two years.
He is interested in swinging. She is slightly interested.
I told them both they are too young to get into that life style.
They have not been married long enough either. That it takes
a very mature attitude and a very secure long term ...
17 response(s),
32
votes
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Getting caught - 6/23/2021
How old were you the first time your parents walked in on
you and your boyfriend/girlfriend having sex in their
house?
With now a days having sex at such a young age, we thought
this might be a good time to remember the days when we were
doing what we are so afraid of them doing.
19 response(s),
28
votes
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Thanks & No Thanks... - 6/23/2021
First off to everyone who
responded to my question on the 'Condoms in Porn'
question I posted yesterday, I'd like send out a great
big thank you for all your help and advice
 And I'm gonna stick to my guns on the matter!
If they can't wrap those pistols up, they'll have
some other gal to shoot with! ...
17 response(s),
35
votes
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Paying for Sex - 6/17/2021
Howdi People
This is for both sexes and I just wanted to know what your
thoughts were on this subject.
Do you think it is ok to pay for sex?
I myself think it is fine to pay for sex if you are A) Single
Looking for a Girlfriend but can't find one C) You
have held out for as long as you can but in the end you just
need to feel a womans body D) You are fed up ...
2 response(s),
3
votes
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First meeting suprises, what to do if its family or friends - 6/15/2021
Okay,
so we were thinking others have had to experienced this, ,
eak, oops, oh shit, what do we do question, , its probably
even been wrote about before here, ,
We have had a few oops we know those people incidents, like
learning one or two of our cruize the site, ,No
more pics of us here, area change, ummm age changes etc, ,
Then there is the writng trying to sort out people you ...
7 response(s),
6
votes
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Sharing Your Partner - 6/9/2021
Some couples build their relationships on loyalty and
exclusivity. Do you believe sharing your partner, female
or male, enriches a relationship and does using a condom
or not changes the situation? I am not talking about a FWB or SEX relationship, but a relationship
based on love!
49 response(s),
40
votes
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Sizzle - 6/9/2021
Do you prefer a person clothed in there profile pic or nude?
Which brings you more sizzle?
14 response(s),
5
votes
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Seek true love - 6/8/2021
I would like to ask why most men are not serious and both men
and female doesn’t trust themselves
7 response(s),
10
votes
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Truck Stop[s along I-95 - 5/8/2021
Taking a road trip up and down I-95 this summer. How can I
find what stops are the best to score at. What is or is there
some sort of equitette
28 response(s),
28
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Truck Stop[s along I-95 - 5/8/2021
Taking a road trip up and down I-95 this summer. How can I
find what stops are the best to score at. What is or is there
some sort of equitette
2 response(s),
7
votes
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which lipstick for cock sucking - 5/4/2021
i am a beginning crossdresser. i have noticed in videos,
both amateur & professional, how lipstick just stays
on and doesn't smear while cock sucking. what type
of lipstick is this? or is it lipstick at all?
27 response(s),
34
votes
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Underwear choice - 4/30/2021
What kind of underwear do you prefer for your mate to be in
(hopefully briefly)!??! Please tell me why.
53 response(s),
26
votes
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Prostate Orgasm - 3/17/2021
Over the years I've become aware of men that can achieve
"prostate orgasms" thru prostate stimulation
only. I've attempted this with various toys specifically
for this purpose without success. Any information, tips
or recommendations would be appreciated.
68 response(s),
36
votes
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Making time for fun - 2/17/2021
If this has been asked I'm sorry. I couldn't find
it. Plus, seeing as the advice page is seriously lacking
I thought I'd ask something that's been on my mind
when I get a second to relax. So my question is: how do you
make time in a busy schedule for yourself to do what you'd
like to do? Be it just relax, or to have quiet time alone with
your significant other, and not even ...
28 response(s),
28
votes
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Condoms - 2/9/2021
Anyone have experience with the condoms that numb out your
cock so you can last longer?
85 response(s),
49
votes
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BI SEXUAL - 2/4/2021
Thos has become an ongoing trend with so many having or have
had a sexual relationship or attraction to the opposite
sex . I have a friend who has been married to her hubby for
20 years. Marriage has been great sex outstanding. One
day she abruptly left work because she wasn't feeling
well . To her surprise her husband was home . So she decided
to enter through the back door of the house ...
77 response(s),
64
votes
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post, blogs and stories - 1/19/2021
Does anyone else have a problem with missing words when
you wright a story or blog.? I go back and edit it and find
more missing the next day !!
31 response(s),
31
votes
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Penile Injection - 12/23/2020
Has anyone tried penile injections?
29 response(s),
15
votes
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How do make the holidays sexy? - 12/16/2020
Tis the season to be naughty! Right? <br><br>
Well, how do make the holidays sexy?
1 response(s),
0
votes
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Censored Opinions - 12/14/2020
Have you noticed that if your post here is even mildly critical
of the website, you will be "denied due to the inclusion
of banned_topic"? It's a funny coincidence
that, isn't it?
44 response(s),
34
votes
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Incoming instant messages - 11/28/2020
I continue to receive instant messages when I'm not
on the site. Is it because I don't log out? Also, I clear
the messages and they are gone but keep coming back, I'm
up to 80 some, why do they keep coming back? Thanks
53 response(s),
61
votes
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fruit - 11/14/2020
Whats the best sex fruit
50 response(s),
36
votes
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What grabs your attention most when instant messaging someone? - 11/7/2020
Should they send you a picture first, then talk? Do you prefer
the talking first? Should it be dirty or tame? What gets
you to seal the deal? Does the profile picture matter? Let
us guys know!
22 response(s),
18
votes
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New members email - 11/7/2020
Do new members get free messages for a period of time?
18 response(s),
24
votes
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Why can't I cum during sex? - 11/6/2020
So I've noticed in recent times that I can't seem
to orgasm during sex in recent months; now typically i've
been doing breaks between jerking it whenever I have a chance
for intimacy (expecting it some time beforehand) but still
I struggle to get a pleasing climax during/after sex. <br><br>
While it's nice for my partner who is able to benefit
from this, I am literally ...
48 response(s),
22
votes
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Orgasm issue with partner - 11/3/2020
Have you ever had problems with a sex partner because your
dick was used to the sensation it gets when you jerk off?
Did you have a hard time cumming -- or a hard time adjusting
to the rhythm or feel from your partner? If so, how did you get past it? I have new partner and lose erection while having sex.
31 response(s),
33
votes
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New Cock Ring? - 10/18/2020
Need a new cock ring any recommendations? <br><br>
Looking for a silver metal one, don't like the rubber
ones. But it has to be real metal not chromed, a silver or
stainless steel but they are harder to find at adult shop
and don't want to use amazon. Rather go to an abs and pick it up, also a reason to go check
out the booths too lol Abs is funner with a friend to shop with ...
63 response(s),
45
votes
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joining a 3sum - 10/15/2020
I always see folks posting that they want a 3rd to join them?
has anyone actually done this? I have to admit this is a huge
fantasy of mine and really would like to partake in one.
What is the actual best way to go about this?
60 response(s),
50
votes
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penis surgery ? - 10/13/2020
I've heard that penis enlargement surgery is not only
possible now but safer and more effective and now not too
much more than boob jobs ...... <br><br>
can anyone enlighten me? <br><br>
if it's true I think we will have alot more big cocks
than before <br><br>
I am happy with what I have but now and then a little stretching
is good
46 response(s),
31
votes
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Anal lube - 10/9/2020
"Non" natural lube vs. naturtal/organic lube?
Any points?
51 response(s),
24
votes
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VAGINISMUS... - 10/9/2020
I KNOW THIS IS NOT A BLOG SECTION. but is the most engaging
part of the site .. <br><br>
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY WOMEN EXPERIENCE PAIN DURING
PENETRATION? <br><br>
Vaginismus.. this is a condition where the vaginal muscles
contract making it painful to have sex. It is normal and
happens to alot of women. It is makes it hard for the vaginal
muscles to relax or expand ...
33 response(s),
31
votes
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HIGH SEX DRIVE - 9/25/2020
Hii!! i know this is something some of us have and are struggling
with is to get sexual satisfaction from the partners we
have.. I have had a high sex drive since my 20s and it has ruined
the relationships i had. I attract great guys but sexually
i never get satisfied. I ended having a sexual partner for
5yrs but he moved to philly for a job promotion. He is the
only guy that could keep ...
52 response(s),
68
votes
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Nerdy or more serious? - 9/18/2020
Ladies what do you like more from your partner? Someone
that is more serious or someone a little more nerdy. You
dont want the far end of any extreme but there is wiggle room
in the middle. What do you like?
2 response(s),
0
votes
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Do you let the apocalypse stop you from meeting? - 9/18/2020
Are you still meeting up with people and open for more now
the apocalypse hit? I believe people can still be safe and
meet. How about you?
1 response(s),
3
votes
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Sex after divorce??? - 9/13/2020
I am not sure my title is quite accurate. <br><br>
Here is the issue...I was raised a strict Catholic. I waited
until I got married to have sex. I didn't seem to have
the highest sex drive either. <br><br>
He left 5 years ago and we have been divorced for 2 years.
I would love to get back out into the dating field and frankly
I would like to not be so upright about ...
64 response(s),
41
votes
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Why in corona virus advisories... - 9/11/2020
is there no mention of dieting and exercise to lose weight
because hypertension, diabetes, and obesity itself causes
a whole host of problems beyond corona. With corona it seriously
increases your chances for a bad outcome. It is hard but
people should try to be healthier and loss weight and maintain
better habits to achieve that goal. If you want a longer
healthier life it would seem you should ...
30 response(s),
27
votes
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AGE IS NOTHING BUTTT...... - 8/30/2020
I am writting this beacuse it seems like something very
interesting. I know many of us might be experiencing it
on the site. For as long i have been on here many of the younger
guys approach me frequently . Some of us associate age with
knowledge, experience, etc .. I once had a fling with someone
younger upto almost 10yrs young and it was a blast while
it lasted. Then i dated a guy 10 years ...
93 response(s),
76
votes
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Swapfinder.com Meets - 8/24/2020
What are people's experiences of first meets and how
long it has taken them to meet with suitable singles or couples?
We'd like to try our first mmf or mfmf but dont seem to
get passed the chatting/emailing stage. Any hints or tips,
or is it one of those if it's right, it will happen? We
don't want to just jump into something for the sake
of the experience, we'd like it to ...
49 response(s),
43
votes
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Unread emails - 8/14/2020
I have 3 emails pending when I look to see unread it shows
none , how do I find the unread messages? I have looked at
the various emails that they be from refreshed the options
in the email section
29 response(s),
28
votes
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SCAMMERS - 8/14/2020
This has become annoying and frustrating to many of us .I
have been on the site for a long time and i get asked the same
question all the time. ARE YOU REAL ? i know many of us have
been scammed especially men and it is sad when you have invested
time in talking to someone only to findout they are a scam.
My best approach normally is to ask many questions, insist
on meet and greet first in a ...
76 response(s),
70
votes
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whose going covid stir crazy - 8/8/2020
tell me how your coping with the social distancing
13 response(s),
6
votes
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Quesstions - 8/7/2020
Why do my questions show up on A/L then there gone after a
while?
14 response(s),
29
votes
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Anybody else? - 7/31/2020
Is there anybody else having a problem when you go to see
who sent you a flirt? I go to it and nothing appears but a blank
screen.
71 response(s),
82
votes
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Blog vs article - 7/28/2020
I guess I’m a bit confused, what is the difference between
a blog post and an article in the “magazine” are articles
just questions? What’s the benefit to one over the other?
Does anyone know, and is this how you earn ?
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Blog vs article - 7/28/2020
I guess I’m a bit confused, what is the difference between
a blog post and an article in the “magazine” are articles
just questions? What’s the benefit to one over the other?
Does anyone know, and is this how you earn ?
3 response(s),
3
votes
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Meeting Advice - 7/21/2020
What are some good advice for meeting someone offline from
this website?
36 response(s),
33
votes
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Double Vag - Urban Legend or Perfectly Doable? - 7/19/2020
Has anyone actually done it and if so, could you recommend
the best position to do it in please? x
42 response(s),
38
votes
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IM - 7/17/2020
What is the deal with the new IM..I have mine set to distance,
as in those closest to me and all I get are people that are
worlds away..have not figured out hot to correct it yet
40 response(s),
22
votes
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Pyhsical Sexual Feats - 7/16/2020
Do you/have you ever gone to extreme for sexual sensation.
one example was holding a prone hold while having my cock
milked by perky titted mistress. another is a handstand
blow job. The mix of physical and sexual i find more intense
orgasm. Has anyone else felt this and enjoy it
4 response(s),
6
votes
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Is it a bad thing to not want to talk on the phone? - 7/15/2020
I don't feel comfortable in talking on the phone to
a man with I don't know. So because I won't talk
on the phone the guy wants nothing to do with me. It should
be my choice what I want to do not the guy's
60 response(s),
36
votes
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How do i delete certain things? Such as... - 7/14/2020
How do I delete top fans, flirts, and other undesirable
people from my page? For some odd abs unforeseen reason
I have a man as my top fan. I'm straight and I will NEVER
get with a person from the same sex. I know I could do this
very thing I'm asking about a few years ago. Sol why
can't I do this now? I find it extremely offensive and
it makes me want to delete this profile and start ...
14 response(s),
12
votes
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Should I break it off? - 7/13/2020
I am a married man that has been in a hot discrete relationship
with another man for the past 3 years. We really enjoy each
others company and most recently he wants me to leave my
wife and be with him. I told him no but I can tell he really
wants me. Should I break it off or continue it and run the
risk she may find out about us?
26 response(s),
23
votes
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Timing of Food Intake and Cleaning for Best Anal Play - 7/11/2020
Hi, <br><br>
I am bi and interested to get more comfortable bottoming
for men and pegging women or Trans-women. However, bottoming
seems to be a lot of work for me, and slightly stressful and
exhuasting before play. I'm looking for tips and insight
into other people's (women and men) approach to prepare
for anal play. What is your preparation to avoid any ...
17 response(s),
16
votes
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Broadcasting with an android phone - 7/11/2020
When broadcasting, how do i switch the camera from selfie,
front, to the back camera? I dont want to show me, i want to
show my wife in front of me.
7 response(s),
10
votes
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Why? - 7/7/2020
Why can't standard members reply to emails from gold
members??
10 response(s),
7
votes
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Point for Gold - 7/6/2020
I'm fairly new to the site and I'm sorry if this
has been touched on already. I was just curious if there
is any way to redeem your earned for gold memberships?
I think it would be an awesome incentive myself and again
I do apologize if I'm behind the times with my question.
Thank you, Ace
21 response(s),
23
votes
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Why does IM suddenly stop working? - 7/6/2020
I’m a paid gold member.. I use IM a decent amount. So, Ive
not even had my membership a week.. late last night the IM
feature stops working. The button used to send the message
is grayed out. I send a question in for the help desk but haven’t
heard. In searching around I found that I had 64 .
I bought another 1000 and its still not working.. Ive seen
comments in profiles for people ...
20 response(s),
10
votes
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Do women enjoy watching guys blow guys - 7/5/2020
I just started dating a girl who really enjoys watching
guys blow guys. Is it more of videos or do girls like watching
the real thin?
38 response(s),
21
votes
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I seen this on profiles - 7/5/2020
I seen this on profiles. can someone tell me the meaning
of #&39 ?
13 response(s),
5
votes
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Why do women close their eyes during a blow while men open their eyes during the lick? - 7/5/2020
It is a mystery that needs solving. Women for their most
parts close their eyes while the rod is down their throat
while for the men it is the opposite. Men for the most part
keep their eyes open when they are working their mouths
for the pussy. Does this difference boil down to something
evolutionary ? Are women are from Venus during the blow
and are Men from the Mars during the lick ? Your ...
30 response(s),
14
votes
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gay bar pickup question... - 6/29/2020
this question is for men that go to gay bars to pick up men, as
someone that wants to be "picked up or hit on", how
or what should i do or wear to better my odds?..and yes i'm
a bottom....thanks!
13 response(s),
25
votes
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Should the site notify when someone has blocked a user? - 6/28/2020
I have found out in a few instances like 2 or 3 that I cannot
post on someone's advice lines post and I never made
a personal attack on them. Fair's fair I will add them
to my list which contains three members. <br><br>
Another option is the site block also works both ways. they
are added to your auto-block list which I could get behind.
Why should they have the right to ...
46 response(s),
39
votes
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Feeling shy about first meets.. - 6/20/2020
I know this seems obvious.. but does anyone else get bad
anxiety from crippling shyness the closer the date of a
meet gets! i'm a bag of nerves! does it get better?!
how do you cope? always work out or never worth the pain of
it all in the end?
43 response(s),
37
votes
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What do you do if no woman will talk to you or give you sex for 20 years - 6/19/2020
I have been on the Internet for 20 years since Jan. 1999 when
I built my company URL. Never had to work or pay a bill ever
since. So for 20 years I joined every "dating"
site I could find on the Internet because I got fooled by
my own computer into believing I could find a girlfriend
there. After 2 decades of "chatting" with "
profiles" I have never talked to any ...
27 response(s),
10
votes
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Can't broadcast privately - 6/18/2020
Our cam is working fine. We can broadcast publicly, but
we can't broadcast privately. Doesn't work when we try to send our cam in another member's
chat room, or when we try to click the public/private button
on the bottom left of our cam screen. <br><br>
What is the deal? <br><br>
Help! <br><br>
Thanks! <br><br>
CC4U
14 response(s),
16
votes
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Polite/respectful vs pushover doormat milquetoast - 6/18/2020
Is it difficult for women to tell the difference between
the two? <br><br>
My general demeanor is polite/respectful, but over the
last 20 years and primarily via internet rather than real
life where they can observe to know better, too many women,
once they get comfortable, make the mistake of assuming
they can just step on me, try to take over my life/home, chase
away my friends, ...
21 response(s),
13
votes
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Opening Lines - 6/16/2020
I recently added a couple photos to my profile and the # of
contacts increased dramatically. It's been interesting.
Why would somebody send 1 or 2 word messages? I'm sorry
but 'sup? (well not even a word) is going to be ignored
in person or online. Are these simpletons TRYING to sabotage
themselves?
24 response(s),
35
votes
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Meeting a like minded couple - 6/14/2020
Why is it so hard to meet a like minded couple?? We've
meet a few couples in person that we had great chats with.
Then once in person you realize all if not most communication
was all from one of the spouses and not both. Personality
doesn't match to their online presence. One is hot
and the other is a dud!? Personality wise.... or you get
all chat and no meet, a meet up is discussed ...
11 response(s),
14
votes
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Not much meeting going on - 6/13/2020
I've been on here for 2 years and have had one meet with
a women and it was less than stellar. I have sent to many messages
to count through email or IM and I mainly get no response
or rejected politely. Should I be more Direct in my messages
rather than the conventional ?Hello, How are you?"
I have a hard time sending expansive messages when the likelihood
of a response is low. ...
22 response(s),
16
votes
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Lost stamina - 6/12/2020
Came back from my deployment and i feel like i lost a lot if
my stamina. It hasnt improved much and i dont last as long
as i used too. Any tips?
17 response(s),
11
votes
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BECOMING CELIBATE - 6/11/2020
I just turned 47 and yes that is my body working out works
. I have been on this site for a very long time. I met very nice
guys made friends with some and also did hengout with a couple.
The last guy i met was recently.He is a guy i have always wanted
and dreamed off . Things went well until a 2 weeks ago things
changed. Communication died down and we don't hengout
anymore.He says he likes ...
26 response(s),
22
votes
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Watching your partner - 6/9/2020
Do women think it's HOT to watch their man pleasing
another woman? I love to watch the woman I am with, with another
man or woman. But she doesn't always seem to be into
it in reverse.. is this normal?
30 response(s),
17
votes
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Any luck from this site. - 6/2/2020
Is it easy to find a friend on this site. Any one had experience
with couples M/F on from this site?
55 response(s),
30
votes
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Need input from the guys on here. - 6/1/2020
I have been asked to do a photoshoot for a female model friend
of mine. She is not sure what type of shots we need to take
so I am going to throw it out there and let you all help decide.
<br><br>
What is/are your favorite shots of women... naked or dressed?
<br><br>
Examples: Upskirt, Downblouse, bent over naked, legs
crossed, holding boobs up with arms crossed, ...
38 response(s),
28
votes
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Can one cam in secret - 5/31/2020
It's undeniably easier to hide your identity as a man
when caming all the action is down below. How about us women
who want to keep our faces secret. Any tips tricks thoughts?
29 response(s),
22
votes
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Exhibitionism - 5/30/2020
If you were seen having sex, would it be more embarrassing
or exciting if its was someone you knew? If it was exciting being seen by someone you knew, who would
be most exciting to be seen by? Friend, Relation or Workmate?
14 response(s),
16
votes
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Indoor or Outdoor Sex - 5/30/2020
Do you folks have a preference for indoor or outdoor sex
and if so, is there a partiuclar reason for your choice?
<br><br>
L&G x
21 response(s),
11
votes
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How do I cum harder? - 5/30/2020
Anybody know any tricks, tips, secrets to cum harder?
24 response(s),
18
votes
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Blogs - 5/28/2020
Does anybody write on blogs anymore. I had been following
about a dozen different blogs, but nobody seems to be using
them anymore. Why is that?
19 response(s),
5
votes
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Blogs - 5/28/2020
Does anybody write on blogs anymore. I had been following
about a dozen different blogs, but nobody seems to be using
them anymore. Why is that?
1 response(s),
0
votes
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Why Anal Sex? - 5/26/2020
For the ladies in particular, men can chime in as well. What
is the fixation with anal? I once had a girl friend who liked
it. I did it to please her, only once or twice, but was not
a fan. I get notices from ladies saying they want a guy to
do it to them. How many are saying that and really want it
or just think all guys want it? Ladies, your thoughts, comments??
45 response(s),
20
votes
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Can one safely play with a partner who has herpes? - 5/25/2020
A woman I know wants IT bad but has herpes. She says she takes
a daily med and is safe with a 2% chance of contracting herpes
through sexual contact. She further claimed that the transmission
comes from skin-to-skin, not genitals. That's a 1
in 50 chance! I don't like those odds. <br><br>
Should I? And if I do what extra precautions should I take?
Serious and humorous ...
32 response(s),
34
votes
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New here--Any advice on what type of person to avoid? - 5/24/2020
I would like advice from someone more seasoned on this site.
Is there a 'tell' early on that someone might be
bad news?
13 response(s),
9
votes
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Is it just me??? - 5/23/2020
I was wondering something, and hopefully I will get some
insight into the things I find myself fantasizing about
more and more lately... Every time I am riding a cock, no matter how good it feels,
I cant stop thinking about sucking it!!like, I have to
make myself hop off of it so I can lick and suck it, it makes
me so wet to even think about it, so when i am doing it , i ...
24 response(s),
18
votes
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SEX TOYS - 5/22/2020
i have always wondered why people use toys during sex . I
have never had the interest in being aroused by the use of
toys alone or with a partner.I feel like i might get addicted
to using them more. I know many guys enjoy using them on a
woman and vice versa . I prefer to not have them. What are
the advantages and disadvantages of using sex toys ?
28 response(s),
31
votes
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Confirm you ID. Is it safe? - 5/21/2020
Question for those who gave Swapfinder.com their real name and uploaded
their government identification. Have you had any problems
from that?
30 response(s),
17
votes
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Cam Scam, what does this mean? - 5/20/2020
So I posted a pic and this was the comment, I am
not 100% sure but I think this is insinuating something
like I'm not real or a scam? Totally confused, can someone explain this? And of course, this person is blocked!!!...
22 response(s),
20
votes
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Increased Interest! - 5/19/2020
Might seem a bit of a silly question, but whats the best way
to get increased interest on here?! I've been on and
off the site for a couple of years and never managed to get
a meet or any email responses (and i must have sent 100 by
now!) except one! A girl who exchanged numbers and we got
very friendly but after i year i realised she was never going
to meet and she never did lol. Perhaps my ...
9 response(s),
8
votes
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all about the benjamins - 5/18/2020
what do i do if my partner and i always end up arguing and money?
sex is great. every thing else is great except our money
issues!!
10 response(s),
26
votes
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Instant messaging help - 5/18/2020
Where do my previous instant messages go? When I leave the
screen and come back they are all gone.
6 response(s),
15
votes
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Instant messaging help - 5/18/2020
Where do my previous instant messages go? When I leave the
screen and come back they are all gone.
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Poolboy4summerfun - 5/17/2020
I'm 40 and athletic cute and kind. I'm into older
woman like 60's how do I get them to notice me and check
me out. I want so bad to make love to a mature women this summer
I'm sure she will love the ORAL attention I give her!!!!
5 response(s),
8
votes
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Poolboy4summerfun - 5/17/2020
I'm 40 and athletic cute and kind. I'm into older
woman like 60's how do I get them to notice me and check
me out. I want so bad to make love to a mature women this summer
I'm sure she will love the ORAL attention I give her!!!!
1 response(s),
0
votes
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meeting someone - 5/16/2020
would you meet up with someone who didn't share any
kind of picture or share anything about them but that they
want your address and to fuck?
35 response(s),
17
votes
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Do we tell him or no??!!!! - 5/16/2020
So, he is minding his business, looks peaceful,
but, he is exposed... Do we tell him?...
23 response(s),
12
votes
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Sex in the time of COVID-19? - 5/14/2020
I live in NYC. Noo Yawk always has to be at the center of something,
and here I am, smack dab in the epicenter of the greatest
global pandemic since the Spanish flu. <br><br>
Not trying to make light of a horrible situation. All I hear
these days are the ambulances racing by. <br><br>
But, a girl has her needs. <br><br>
I thought I'd take to the polls: ...
38 response(s),
25
votes
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A Couple of Three - 5/14/2020
So, I'm wondering if anyone here is in a couple of three?
I've seen couples on IG and have heard of a few people
that I know that have tried it. I'm told that it works like any other relationship,
but how? lol Just curious to know anyone's experience in a threeway
relationship.
7 response(s),
8
votes
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How do you ? - 5/14/2020
When reading a Blog and you want to post a reply with an added
photo; how do you load the photo ?? I know it's probably just me; but can't figure
it out !!!
6 response(s),
2
votes
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Roleplay Ideas? - 5/13/2020
Trying to spice things up at home and thought about roleplaying.
Any good scenarios prides to share?
9 response(s),
16
votes
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quarantine time!! - 5/13/2020
your partner has a with his/her ex and decided to spend
some of the quarantine time to be closer with the .
<br><br> how would you handle this?
10 response(s),
14
votes
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Advice - 5/12/2020
Hello I am fairly new to all of this and wanted to take the
time to tell you more about me, my experiences, likes and
known dislikes. <br><br> I was born in 1981 and grew up in a family that sex wasn't
spoken about and when you did you were made to feel dirty
about it, especially whenever you touched yourself. Yes,
I was a typical that experimented with my boyfriend
at the time ...
5 response(s),
6
votes
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Spotting the fakes? New member advice please. - 5/11/2020
Morning all, <br><br>
I recently joined this site and just like other apps / sites,
I expected there to be fake profiles. However, on sign up
I instantly received 14 messages that I cannot read without
upgrading. <br><br>
Now I am not against upgrading to 'GOLD' and would
if I found this site helpful in my persuit of sexual kinks
to try (MMF, DP, etc). However, ...
27 response(s),
27
votes
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What is your favorite sex toy? - 5/10/2020
Im interested in experimenting with sex toys and was just
curious which sex toy should I experiment with first. I've
never used sex toys before.
31 response(s),
15
votes
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What is your favorite sex toy? - 5/10/2020
Im interested in experimenting with sex toys and was just
curious which sex toy should I experiment with first. I've
never used sex toys before.
1 response(s),
0
votes
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How long would you wait to start meeting again after this mess? - 5/10/2020
I'm thinking two weeks after everything opens back
up. I'm still working and with the public daily. I don't
want to get tested cause I don't have any symptoms and
don't want to waste a test that someone else might need.
<br><br>
But for real I'm ready to meet right now but I got to keep
my horny sex drive in check and make sure this mess is under
control. ...
30 response(s),
14
votes
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Why is it that nice guys finish last? - 5/9/2020
I am nice guy just looking to meet people, get to know them
then have sex with him. When I do this, I never get any one
to chat or hookup with me but if I act like a or a bad boy,
I get replies out of my ears. I don't want to change who
I am so any advice for this nice guy?
12 response(s),
10
votes
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Recent friend activity - 5/9/2020
I liked somones picture long ago. Since then they constantly
show up in my current friend activity. I am not friends with
this person and i have blocked the profile to try to silence
it from taking up my feed. This person is very active and
kudos to them. But why am i seeing their content if we are
not friends and i have blocked their profile?
20 response(s),
22
votes
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help for standard members - 5/5/2020
Any tips for how standard members can make contact . messenger isn't working and neither are comments
on pictures
44 response(s),
20
votes
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caming and no show? - 5/5/2020
ok this is the deal. I am a straight guy and was on cam, fully
clothed. People pop on and off .both and female, i don't
always see who's watching since i am at work and cant
always see the list of who is watching. usually when i notice
someone and they are not what i am looking for i them
off, mainly males. This one guy was on and he did'nt
say any thing to warrant ...
1 response(s),
4
votes
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friend's profile - 5/4/2020
This weekend I discovered the Swapfinder.com profile of a friend/former
coworker and his wife. I had no idea they were into swinging.
Should I check out their profile details and send them a
message, or should I pretend that I never saw it? I'd
really like to fuck my friend's wife. What would you
do?
20 response(s),
8
votes
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Cock sleeves - 5/1/2020
So, I just discovered that cock sleeves were a thing! Has
anyone every used one? If so, how was it? Is it pleasurable
for both partners?
16 response(s),
7
votes
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Discretion is a must 🤫🤫🤫 - 4/30/2020
As I peruse over countless profiles, really fancying the
photos as well as some of the videos, I can't help but
notice a common theme amongst a lot of the profiles. Yes,
I do eventually get to the reading portion of the profile.
What I'm noticing, 🧐, is there are a lot of you whom
desire discretion to be a must. Which in itself led me to
thinking, 🤔, well is discretion not the ...
5 response(s),
1
vote
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What does it mean? - 4/29/2020
What does it mean when a profile contains I'im in
it? I know that profiles preceed with rm mean returning
member, but is the prior a bot identifier? I see it so often,
it came be a fluke. Also, why are there so many women in Taiwan
flirting with me when I live in South Carolina? Green card?
America's success at fighting the pandemic? Whst?
17 response(s),
10
votes
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cum - 4/24/2020
(SIZE) Being a reader i tend to read a lot of the erotica.
, i have written a few myself__I am curious Do people really
really love cum that much?______________so much so that
they would lick it out of their partners pussies, cocks,
bum hole??______________ Cmon help me understand
49 response(s),
28
votes
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Deja vu - 4/24/2020
I left Swapfinder.com about a year ago because the rules had been altered
to make it very difficult to talk to people without an upgraded
. I decided to give it another try and so far it is
no better. I use to get free gold due to the number of views
I received . Are there ways to get temporary upgrades now?
20 response(s),
16
votes
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GOOD PUSSY OR GOOD DICK ? - 4/24/2020
What do we like ? I like sex so much. but i don't seem to
attrart the right guy. I had a sexual partner for 5yrs he
moved to philly for a job promotion. That was the best dick
i ever had . Our connection and friendship was fun and amazing.
After he left I opted to be celibate for a while . My friends
setup the profile behind my back coz I didn't date or
look for guys. I have an ...
15 response(s),
23
votes
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What to write in a friend request... - 4/23/2020
I would like to get some advise on what to write when creating
a friend request. I have written several and I typically
keep them to a couple of sentences that either comment the
person or note a compatibility, along with a request for
friendship "if interested". I try to message
only those that show a favorable compatibility rating
and I am polite with my message. I do not add any ...
10 response(s),
9
votes
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How To Get Laid By More than one Man At A Time. - 4/23/2020
I have a fantasy I would like to fulfill. Have two men suck
one of my breasts each and then get pussy fucked by the back
by at least two men. I only want the sex to be gentle. The situation
would call for much discretion. How could I make it happen?
20 response(s),
16
votes
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Friends List - 4/22/2020
How do I take someone OFF my friends list?
6 response(s),
6
votes
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Is this normal for a woman when she cums? - 4/22/2020
Unusual question here... Let me explain... I love going
down on a woman and watching her cum as I lick her. Had a strange
situation. Twice now, a woman I was going down on, came so
hard, she momentarily lost control of her bowels. Not a
lot, just a little. Has this ever happened to any of you?
11 response(s),
11
votes
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Naked in Nature? - 4/21/2020
I Love being nude in the wilds of bushland. Do You? Why do
you think it's So Exciting to walk around Naked under
the trees?
7 response(s),
5
votes
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Why? - 4/21/2020
Why is it ok for a woman to look for more than what they are
getting at home but when a guy does he is a cheater?or no one
will talk to him? A guy can be in a sexless Marriage also!
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Contacting a member that has blocked you. - 4/19/2020
Weird question. Someone hotlisted me but it appears they
have me blocked. I’m not sure if the hotlist was legit.
Is there any way to contact a member through Swapfinder.com that has
blocked you?
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Do Men like/care/dislike/love/turned on/turned off when I meet with them and tell them exactly what - 4/18/2020
I wonder if men like it when I tell them where in the room and
how to fuck me? Example come closer to me take of your pants. Im going to
get up on this counter top and then we can change positions
in a few mins. A few mins later ok im ready turn me around bend
me over the chair and fuck me slow but hard. So I changed positions
like 6times. Does that effect performance? Turn on or turn on? Like ...
50 response(s),
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Hard time busting in a condom - 4/17/2020
So, I've been having a hard time cumming with a condom
on. I can almost get there but just cant cross the finish
line. After this point I go to semi hard then back to rock
hard and back and forth. Whats wrong with me? I just want
to CUM!
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What do you use ..... - 4/17/2020
When broadcast yourself on cam; what software do you use
? I have had an issue with Flash ! I open broadcast and cam
picture shows up but in the meantime the cam icon does not
show ! I have gone into Model Chat, find a model with one or
no viewers, engage her in private chat, tell her what issue
is and request that she open my cam, permission box will
pop up which I grant, picture for her ...
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IM Rules - 4/16/2020
How many do you need to have before you can use IM?
I have over 200 but I cannot ever reply to them. IT here has
not been helpful. Any ideas?
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When do you stop using a condom - 4/15/2020
When you’re seeing a guy semi regularly, at what point
do you stop using a condom? I’m keen to know experiences
of others
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Seeking advice on message archiving - 4/15/2020
I wanted to go back to a contact I had made some time ago. When
I tried to review the message, it was not displayed. The
oldest message archived is about 3 weeks old. Is there a
way, short of cutitng and pasting, to preserve message
threads older than 3 weeks? If so, how do I find my older messages?
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ANAL SEX ? - 4/12/2020
Anal sex has become common. I always wondered how people
got STDs through anal . So i asked my doctor. This is what
she said . The tissue and skin around the anus acts like a
protective barrier for the bottom of the digestive system
which is also connected to blood stream. The tissue inside
the anus is thinner and delicate and more likely to bleed
and tear as a result of penetration. It ...
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If It Takes Forever, I Will Wait for You - 4/11/2020
When I'm in contact with someone that seems interesting,
I'll usually ask to meet right away. Not for sex. A short
public meet for a drink or over a bucket of balls at a driving
range. Just a face to face, so we at least know we're
wasting our time on an actual person. I watched plenty of
fakes disappear the moment meeting is discussed. If that's
the case, let's get it over ...
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Well my curiosity and frustration all in one. .. - 4/8/2020
Dear Magazine, I know this may sound like a redundant question.
Yet I am having a difficult time finding a local couple or
woman. Sure I find hits but the people I find are all out of state
or even trying to distinguish those women that
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Worth it? - 4/6/2020
I have had an account now for a little over a year and I have
had zero interest reciprocated back. What is the secret
to actually making connections with people on here? I have
my profile all done, pics up, status updates but no “hits”.
Am I doing something wrong? Please advise!! <br><br>
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Sincerely, <br><br>
Sexually frustrated .
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Worth it? - 4/6/2020
I have had an account now for a little over a year and I have
had zero interest reciprocated back. What is the secret
to actually making connections with people on here? I have
my profile all done, pics up, status updates but no “hits”.
Am I doing something wrong? Please advise!! <br><br>
<br><br>
Sincerely, <br><br>
Sexually frustrated .
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Help with gag reflex. Deep throat. - 4/2/2020
I don't know how many people do it. How can I get over
the gag reflex with a I take a cock down my throat?
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Standing Out in the Crowd - 4/1/2020
Since we're all being socially distant in
the real world....you're all doing that right? I'm
sure no one here would break the guidelines our governments
are so carefully laying out just to get a little sexual healing,
would they? I'm shocked. Anyway, since most (maybe)
are keeping a safe distance, for now, it may be a good time
to work on some of the 'ole profiles and ...
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I'm Lost ...... - 3/31/2020
In the last several weeks; I have noticed Blog replies that
have just 869 or eight six nine or other numbers only !! What
is that all about ??
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SEXUAL CONNECTION OR FRIENDSHIP - 3/29/2020
I have been on the site for so long . I have talked and met so
many nice and interesting guys . There some people you have
a sexual connection and some a friendship connection.
Besude sexual connection am glad i made some good friends
too . Sexual connection can happen online but not in person
because of chemistry and attraction. Why do people get
upset when you say your not interested? I would ...
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Anal Sex - 3/28/2020
I still have my ass cherry but am considering giving it .
Do you normally cum when being ass fucked without jacking
off?
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Anal Sex - 3/28/2020
I still have my ass cherry but am considering giving it .
Do you normally cum when being ass fucked without jacking
off?
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Gold or VIP<// - 3/26/2020
What is the difference between Gold or VIP<// membership???<//
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Gold or VIP<// - 3/26/2020
What is the difference between Gold or VIP<// membership???<//
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How to get a partner here? - 3/26/2020
Hey, How get a partner here?
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Donde estan las chicas que me quieren ver en cam !! - 3/26/2020
Hay damas a las que les interese jugar cam x cam ? Aprovechemos ahora en cuarentena !!!
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labels? - 3/26/2020
When I was 15 [nearly 47 years ago] my best friend and I "experimented"
in boy boy sex. Both of us are now married women and have no desire for man man sex. Are we still labeled as "bi"? Should my profile be listed as bi? Is there a statue of limitation
on this? <br><br>
If a man only wants recieve oral is he bi/gay? We laughed
when we first heard the term ...
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