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biflydog 54 M
5  questions
Edited posts - 12/1/2019

Has anyone noticed that Swapfinder.com seems to mess up the erotic stories taking words out? Whether it was pasted or typed in the window, it seems just about everytime words are missing here and there. Kind of a pain, really.

12 response(s), 21 votes
Does anybody read the profiles? - 12/1/2019

What is it with some people in here they do not read your profile just look at the profile photo and start sending you messages and IM .I have men sending me messages saying things like hi sexy I have 10'' to please you and can bring some friends to give you DP. Then the ones who get on IM saying I am at a motel and horny care to come over? I just wish people would read profiles and ...

36 response(s), 68 votes
BBW/BBM - 11/30/2019

Many women say they are a BBW (big beautiful woman) but I can't find the glossary and I don't know what BBW/BBM means. Help me.

29 response(s), 35 votes
sambrennan6911 26 M
1  question
How is everyone doing? - 11/30/2019

How are you doing?

17 response(s), 27 votes
cleangdlkingreal 45 M
3  questions
Mutual masturbation to break the ice? - 11/30/2019

I'm a fan of starting off this way to give us both a chance to relax and enjoy, possibly demonstrate, etc.

28 response(s), 34 votes
cleangdlkingreal 45 M
3  questions
Manscaping? - 11/30/2019

I trim, but generally refuse to shave completely bare as a rule. I also don't ask my partners to, and moreover prefer they don't.

20 response(s), 30 votes
cleangdlkingreal 45 M
3  questions
Eating pussy on the first day - 11/30/2019

I'm down if she is. I mean, I hoping she's sitting there thinking about sucking my cock. seems only fair.

26 response(s), 26 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

14 response(s), 19 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

4 response(s), 4 votes
evar1790 32 F
1  question
Looking for fun - 11/30/2019

wanna have some fun

0 response(s), 0 votes
points - 11/30/2019

New here what do most of you find the easiest way to total up points. Tough to chat without them.

18 response(s), 15 votes
Nakedsex69mmmm69 40 M
2  questions
Ejaculation partners middlebury vermont - 11/30/2019

you be my ejaculation partner Pussy.love I need a dominatrix can feed puss and force ejaculate raw in her puss repeatedly a few times a wee.. <br><br> Vermont I own a house where you can privately allow submit and obey your sexual request and requirements <br><br> Cock torcher ...humiliation ........forced bareback or raw "no condom" ejaculation inside vagina ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
foolinaround6969 53 M
5  questions
Instant message - 11/30/2019

Does anyone else have problems with IM? It seems I have end conversation in order get a reply, if left open nothing comes through, end conversation and reply comes through.

28 response(s), 28 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Toys - 11/30/2019

Whats does everyone prefer? Vibrators or dildos?

20 response(s), 14 votes
Letslipkis 38 M
1  question
Decline in internet hooks - 11/30/2019

Maybe it's just me but the Internet hook up scene seems to be dying a slow death. Do you think people have lost interest in quick and fast hook ups.

17 response(s), 31 votes
nicco100 56 M
165  questions
Pics - 11/29/2019

For the men, what do you prefer see as the main pic in woman'sprofile??...is it a shot, pussy, boobs/breast, butt, legs, waist, eyes, lips...etc or the whole package???....

23 response(s), 35 votes
DirtyThoughts002 43 M
1  question
Favorite panty color? - 11/29/2019

What i your favorite panty color?

51 response(s), 38 votes
European nudist beach. Where a couple could have fun - 11/29/2019

Hi, <br><br> I am looking for a beach, where potentially a couple could have fun together discreetly. <br><br> I know its maybe against the law, but it is something my fwb and I are interested in. <br><br> Any suggestions where would be appreciated.

13 response(s), 26 votes
I still remember. - 11/29/2019

I still remember when I was young I would find my older brothers Playboy magazines my friends and me would look at them back then they had so much hair on there pussy you had to get there pubes in your mouth if you went down on them. I am glad it is not like that now or do people still like a hairy bush?

60 response(s), 78 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
What’s the best date you’ve had - 11/29/2019

What’s the best thing you’ve done on a date

17 response(s), 22 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
What’s the best date you’ve had - 11/29/2019

What’s the best thing you’ve done on a date

0 response(s), 1 vote
YoungHuungNow 35 M
1  question
First date in Los Angeles? - 11/29/2019

Any good suggestions?

11 response(s), 17 votes
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

26 response(s), 26 votes
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

2 response(s), 3 votes
katarinass9999 25 F
1  question
who wants sex - 11/28/2019

can anyone make me cum?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Barenaked700 63 M
1  question
Alternating the Fleshlight - 11/28/2019

Any of you guys alternate the Fleshlight? Hooking up medela breast pump to it gets good results

11 response(s), 26 votes
Gizmo197695 48 M
1  question
do women really like to watch men masturbate - 11/28/2019

ive always wondered, do women really enjoy and get turned on watching a man masturbate.

33 response(s), 49 votes
Sexy hot females how many of you love your pussy ate? - 11/27/2019

Alright sexy and gorgeous women how many of like have there pussy ate and how long is good for you do you like cum once or more then once before you get dicked down just wondering some women say they don't like that at all and alot say they love it but the question im asking how long is enough? I know I love eat a nice beautiful pussy and can last a while down there mm mm mm

30 response(s), 32 votes
Pull out cumshots - 11/27/2019

Why do guys insist on pulling out and jerking to the finish when receiving a blowjob?

68 response(s), 76 votes
Timetraveler2 61 M
1  question
Status Updates... - 11/27/2019

I was just curious if anyone else is experiencing any issues with updating their status? I have been trying for a few days and it does not take. It has been that way since the beginning of the month for me...

24 response(s), 27 votes
Flguy34654 47 M
4  questions
Straight guys wanting men - 11/27/2019

Is it me or does it seem to be more typical of men who call themselves straight , wanting to get fucked or suck a dick?

20 response(s), 25 votes
bs2019cj 45 M
1  question
why is actually meeting so hard? - 11/27/2019

Ugh been stood up 5 times lately on here. Why does meeting an actual person have to be so hard on here. I mean if you dont ever plan on meeting be upfront and honest about it at least. <br><br> <br><br> So frustrated

21 response(s), 20 votes
aanonpass 54 M
2  questions
Do people really meet up on here? - 11/27/2019

I mean a lot talk about it but do they actually do it , so many fakes !

21 response(s), 17 votes
Easiest way most women cum? - 11/27/2019

Is clit still really the easiest way to make a woman cum?

34 response(s), 25 votes
Kellly782 46 M
2  questions
Online play - 11/26/2019

Hello ladies. What are some do’s and don’t of online playing. I’m single and thinking of trying

26 response(s), 27 votes
NoVaCock94 29 M
3  questions
Is there anyway to post pictures or videos from the mobile site? - 11/26/2019

See the main question lol.

2 response(s), 7 votes
NoVaCock94 29 M
3  questions
Is there anyway to post pictures or videos from the mobile site? - 11/26/2019

See the main question lol.

0 response(s), 1 vote
NoVaCock94 29 M
3  questions
Is there anyway to post pictures or videos from the mobile site? - 11/26/2019

See the main question lol.

0 response(s), 1 vote
Hotwife - 11/26/2019

How did the conversation come up and how did you start explore?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Laksha12 31 M
7  questions
\u003ci\u003e <i> tip to improve my stemna - 11/25/2019

<i>is there any one who know the real exercise to improve sex stremna

26 response(s), 30 votes
LVMXRACER 37 M
1  question
why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks? - 11/25/2019

why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?

59 response(s), 41 votes
Thanksgiving - 11/25/2019

Do you expect to have fun this week?

29 response(s), 29 votes
Do women find bi guys attractive - 11/25/2019

Just curious how women think about bi guys

36 response(s), 32 votes
Why doesn't anyone ever talk to standard members on here? - 11/25/2019

I have been on here for a year and only had one im . I am a good looking guy just looking for some fun.

53 response(s), 41 votes
How do I build up points without buying or upgrading? - 11/25/2019

I have just about exhausted my options for getting any points. Can anyone help?

42 response(s), 35 votes
66fuzzyballs66 45 M
1  question
Real or fakes - 11/25/2019

Is there any people on here anymore

25 response(s), 24 votes
ayna45 100 M
3  questions
fake profiles - 11/25/2019

I seem to get many views, flirts, and listed from so many ages 29 to 32. Most of them are gold members and always have only one pic. It so obvious there not real.I know I'm not that that these are really interested in me. So I wonder what is the point. ever these people are what is the reason and what are they trying to get of this.

9 response(s), 9 votes
prissygirl0 50 F
1  question
fake or not fake - 11/24/2019

How can you usally tell if its a fake profile or are they fake profiles on here

53 response(s), 52 votes
lombriz1963 57 M
23  questions
Messenger instantaneo - 11/24/2019

cada dia menos charlas y por puntos , , como hacen ??

17 response(s), 16 votes
1HotCuple 49 C
4  questions
Status , cant't update doesn't show on profile, anybody else with this issue?? - 11/24/2019

Anyone else's status not showing up and not updateable ? Have contacted customer service, have a bug eve, but they haven't fixed it yet..Its been a week or now that we cant post a status.

25 response(s), 20 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
One night stands - 11/24/2019

How often do u have one night stands

49 response(s), 40 votes
friends - 11/24/2019

Can free members add friends? When I try I'm redirected their profile page wanting me subscribe gold view profile

27 response(s), 28 votes
Any single women? - 11/24/2019

I'm finding most profiles from women are or they are attached looking for a porn star size penis to play with. I'm a free member and not really seeing any benefit to for a membership when there aren't any real single women near me. I did chat with a couple but they were too far away, had no transportation or were married and had no where to meet and not willing to drive although I ...

24 response(s), 33 votes
ayna45 100 M
3  questions
flirts - 11/24/2019

why do I get flirts from people that never looked at my profile.

30 response(s), 22 votes
Sondraclarksvill 34 F
1  question
dating - 11/23/2019

any success story on this site so far? I am new here and I need to know if I can find my luck here

26 response(s), 37 votes
Vgiovalval 45 M
1  question
Pissing - 11/23/2019

Is pissing something you can do your GF?

34 response(s), 34 votes
A extra woman - 11/23/2019

Why is it so hard find a extra woman join in with a ?

23 response(s), 37 votes
howdydoodyXLII 53 M
3  questions
Why can't I change my status? - 11/23/2019

I have been trying change status update thing on here, but it seems everything I type gets rejected lately. They tell the server admin or something along those lines. Most of the stuff i try put there is innocent, and I don't believe I am violating any rules. Certainly not as bad as some things I see. They may be holding a grudge against me trying slip K I K in. I don't even ...

29 response(s), 33 votes
Best place for a first meeting? - 11/23/2019

Where are your favorite spots meet a new buddy? I

50 response(s), 29 votes
Best place for a first meeting? - 11/23/2019

Where are your favorite spots meet a new buddy? I

4 response(s), 5 votes
mufdiver69er2 64 M
16  questions
those who dont date married men and are blocked from answering that post.. - 11/22/2019

put it here, if ya like...always more than one way to skin a blocking cat...

13 response(s), 37 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
STD ???? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? - 11/22/2019

Wow i talked to a guy who had contacted me ..He seem like a good guy but he mentions on his profile he has an STD. He was tricked a womam and she gave him ..He got upset that i wouldn't meet him .To me it's a run away kinda situation ..WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?

44 response(s), 44 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
STD ???? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? - 11/22/2019

Wow i talked to a guy who had contacted me ..He seem like a good guy but he mentions on his profile he has an STD. He was tricked a womam and she gave him ..He got upset that i wouldn't meet him .To me it's a run away kinda situation ..WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?

5 response(s), 5 votes
Does anyone on here actually meet? - 11/22/2019

I know that I have had very little success meeting people from here, so few and far between. How many out here actually have the luck to have met someone and started something??

57 response(s), 38 votes
Flguy34654 47 M
4  questions
Flirting and not messaging - 11/22/2019

I don’t get it, what’s the purpose of just sending a flirt and no follow up?

32 response(s), 29 votes
Iceking6996 38 M
4  questions
ice breaker? - 11/21/2019

What is the icebreaker? i saw it mentioned in a blog

26 response(s), 25 votes
Launching IM? - 11/21/2019

I have been here about or . a week ago you launched IM by pressing the button on the top right of the screen. <br><br> A week ago it started acting up and now just launches a blank page. Has anyone else experienced this and if so have you managed to resolve it and how?

35 response(s), 22 votes
Kellly782 46 M
2  questions
Chat (ladies) - 11/21/2019

As a basic member would I have the same opportunity or would my profile be ignored

13 response(s), 27 votes
Points to Message - 11/21/2019

Who thinks that not having 3 free messages a day and each message or reply costing points makes the site less friendly? <br><br> I am so much more particular on who I respond to or message due to this. I am fairly friendly, I am straight but if a guy in my area messages me then I will respond. Due to no free messages and it costing points, I don't respond? <br><br> I ...

37 response(s), 43 votes
dangbitches 59 F
35  questions
The change - 11/21/2019

I enjoy chatting, enjoy hotlisting and a flirt or two. But now I cant. But why?

29 response(s), 45 votes
stallion3301 50 M
2  questions
Men of Webcams - 11/21/2019

Do woman prefer to chat through messenger or on webcam? I perfer webcam since they can see I am a real person and not a fake. Any thoughts ?

19 response(s), 33 votes
MulleenofMelb 58 M
2  questions
Is it better to be asked....or...... - 11/20/2019

So is it better to be asked, and is it a compliment, or simply a nuisance? <br><br> Should a question of having sex... one which should never be asked, ? <br><br> instead be proposing loving.....or carnal knowledge.....or a quick rut against that wall or this.....over that table, or straddling a solidly built chair.... ?

23 response(s), 34 votes
BreedalowNhigh 43 M
1  question
Then and now - 11/20/2019

As I walk through the fog itself though thick and oppressive it may be, I look upon a land of vivid memories. All so clear as being within that very instant, yet but a glance As I saw the sparkling sheen of pure ivory so too I feel the coal underneath as all at once I feel the remanence of its purity is nothing but ash upon my fingers. The very breath foretells of its decay The very smile of ever ...

16 response(s), 19 votes
miruton81 39 M
1  question
Swapfinder.com or tinder? - 11/20/2019

So the question I have is which one is better for finding that "quick fix" that most of us are looking for. Seems like there are a lot of fake profiles on Swapfinder.com but the same goes for tinder. Unfortunately, I live in a smaller town with an older population that doesn't really seem to use tinder. So what do y'all say works better?

35 response(s), 39 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
get it up - 11/20/2019

have you gotten your xmas decorations up yet? the house up the block from me already has their tree right smack in the living room window, lights and all. and saw a few other houses with christmas wreaths on the door. can we have thanksgiving first? have you dragged your box of decorations out yet? i know december will be here soon, but i don't see what the rush is. or is this the time to get ...

32 response(s), 32 votes
Question for all the sexy milfs! - 11/20/2019

What are some fantasies for the milfs? Interested to hear if your fantasies have changed over time due to life experiences and what way they trended. Kinkier etc? And yes everyone is different, but interested to hear a few ladies thoughts.

25 response(s), 51 votes
Question for all the sexy milfs! - 11/20/2019

What are some fantasies for the milfs? Interested to hear if your fantasies have changed over time due to life experiences and what way they trended. Kinkier etc? And yes everyone is different, but interested to hear a few ladies thoughts.

2 response(s), 9 votes
Curvy women. - 11/20/2019

What do some people think of curvy women?

3 response(s), 1 vote
wildducky907 44 M
1  question
Messenger - 11/20/2019

Hey what's up with the messenger I send it says sent and delivered but nothing???

0 response(s), 0 votes
horsestud6969 43 M
3  questions
updating status - 11/19/2019

Please contact the service admin. This comes up when i try to update my status, anyone know what i need to do?

23 response(s), 26 votes
PowerPoint73 45 M
5  questions
Swapfinder.com (Then OR Now) - 11/19/2019

Was.Swapfinder.com better when you first started or better now?

49 response(s), 48 votes
PowerPoint73 45 M
5  questions
Swapfinder.com (Then OR Now) - 11/19/2019

Was.Swapfinder.com better when you first started or better now?

5 response(s), 6 votes
JovemBull 32 M
2  questions
Lesbians - 11/19/2019

When did you realize you were one ?

34 response(s), 48 votes
JovemBull 32 M
2  questions
Lesbians - 11/19/2019

When did you realize you were one ?

0 response(s), 3 votes
Dan_is_wild10 54 M
1  question
Why does it take so dam long to get your points when you do something to earn points - 11/19/2019

It seems with all changes on here it takes twice as long and not even get your points when you do something to earn them, I feel thats why not many come to site and enjoy it , Why cant with all technology we have get our points faster

42 response(s), 45 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Strap on fun? - 11/18/2019

What are people’s thoughts on mmf or strapon play?

46 response(s), 38 votes
Tan lines - 11/18/2019

I think tan lines are a big turn on. How do you feel about tan lines.

37 response(s), 40 votes
foolinaround6969 53 M
5  questions
Is it worth the cash here? - 11/18/2019

I am a standard member and really do not get much play. Always seems like the same people on here, I guess the question is does paying for gold membership help for meeting people or not. I can tell you standard is terrible, but don't see why paying a fee will flip a switch.

33 response(s), 37 votes
Donutms 23 M
1  question
What do people here think about sex with an Asian guy? - 11/18/2019

Please no insulting comments.

26 response(s), 26 votes
Nipple-sucking - 11/18/2019

Ladies, do you notice that guys who breast-fed as babies are better boob-suckers than those who bottle-fed? <br><br> Weird, huh?

46 response(s), 50 votes
Do ladies like cream pies, and why? - 11/17/2019

Do you ladies like cream pies, and why?

36 response(s), 39 votes
biflydog 54 M
5  questions
What do couples expect from the single guy? - 11/17/2019

Ok, so we took it way tooooo slooooow with the that we/I with, so it was never much of a question of would do what when. Plus his wife was a take-charge kind of gal, so she usually directed the action. However, for those couples meeting with a single guy for the first time, what do you want him do? Now I know there'll be some discussion beforehand of what everyone wants, but beyond ...

28 response(s), 37 votes
Which size is more important? - 11/17/2019

Length or girth?

26 response(s), 36 votes
What happened to the groups? - 11/17/2019

Is it just , or has usage of groups kind of fallen off? Seems so dead in so many groups now b

8 response(s), 16 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
TRANDGENDER.??? - 11/17/2019

I am writting out of curiosity. I have observed many men not only on the site but in general who want to be or transitioning to women . What is it about being a female fascinates them ? Being a woman encompasses alot.

17 response(s), 44 votes
Real_4u2fuk 37 M
2  questions
Swapfinder.com - 11/17/2019

How to obtain a free upgrade

20 response(s), 23 votes
DdF meaning - 11/17/2019

What does DDF stand for?

16 response(s), 17 votes
nafurescandy 49 F
3  questions
Wow since when - 11/17/2019

Wow since when does it points to reply to IM messages sent to you? Ive never encountered this until tonight. Is this because I haven't been on as much? WTF?

53 response(s), 76 votes
Fogosolover 47 M
1  question
Les gusta hacer el amor con música? - 11/16/2019

He experimentado diferentes bandas sonoras haciendo el amor y considero que influye en los ritmos, en el ánimo y sensibilidad. Estarían de acuerdo? <br><br> Con qué música prefieren hacerlo? <br><br> Saludos!!!

8 response(s), 18 votes
Points and IMs - 11/16/2019

I have points but can’t or respond IMs. What’s the deal?

37 response(s), 44 votes
Sudden2020 74 M
5  questions
What does NSA stand for? - 11/16/2019

Sometimes it is easy read what people put on their profiles and then some are very confusing. Take the above question dose it mean No Sex Available, or No Smoking Allowed, Neither of which makes any sense.

33 response(s), 30 votes
ahut1963 57 M
2  questions
What are "flirts" for anyway? - 11/16/2019

1st, no I am not just looking for points. But people here do flirt just for the fun of it. I do not like it if you flirt, tease. If you flirt, you should use the flirt show genuine interest. If you just want flirt tease, then just at profile and it alone. I am assuming that if you flirt, you want at least about it. Not cyber sex, but at least see if we like each other. But t flirt, and ...

31 response(s), 31 votes
Jaysen4moms 40 M
2  questions
Creampies? - 11/16/2019

Do I like giving them too much?

33 response(s), 40 votes
Sexual fun - 11/16/2019

I am on here to explore. I love meeting new people I want to explore new sex positions and but the points are getting in the way! Same for everyone else?

37 response(s), 61 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
parental guidance suggested - 11/16/2019

would you ever or have you ever told your parent(s) to not show up at your place? seems my older brother told our mother such a thing and i know it hurt her feelings bc she has mentioned it a couple times since. he was sick and she came bearing soup and juice; totally harmless. he later tells her to not show up unannounced. he got nerve. i feel like i wanna say something to him like "i know ...

24 response(s), 40 votes
is it okay i am addicted to sniffing panties - 11/15/2019

I love to sniff and lick used panties is that okay

47 response(s), 58 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Kansas City meet n greet! - 11/15/2019

Has anyone ever attempted such a thing here in KC? <br><br> Would anyone be up for a meet n greet? Just a wondering?

13 response(s), 41 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
got milk? - 11/14/2019

the country's largest milk producer filed for bankruptcy recently bc apparently people are not drinking as much milk these days. if you're not drinking cows milk, what are you drinking instead? do you have a dairy alternative to milk? just curious to know if, for you, it's a taste preference, a health choice, an environmental decision. or perhaps milk is for babies and you're no ...

66 response(s), 88 votes
biflydog 54 M
5  questions
Foreign women - 11/14/2019

I had a co-worker who made numerous trips to the Philippines (I never asked him to tell me everything he did there, plausible deniability you know!), and eventually brought a girl home. A few months after the marriage (and thankfully a pre-nup), she was off fucking some other guy. The divorce was shortly after that. I wasn't the only one who said "I told you so..." Personally, I ...

33 response(s), 82 votes
silk_petal_rose 60 F
1  question
Gay question - 11/13/2019

Often now in the chat room we have a lot of gay/bisexual guys........... saying this ///////// bi versatile bottom seeking a bi versatile top <br><br> <br><br> what does this ""even mean""

46 response(s), 66 votes
sexoalcoldrog 45 M
1  question
realmente hay probabilidades? - 11/13/2019

si o no de tener citas y algo mas?

12 response(s), 52 votes
dan_is_wild9 54 M
1  question
Which is better to do - 11/13/2019

Which is better to have a woman with whip cream on her breasts or some kind of food on her. I think best thing is what ever you can get your hands on .I best thing is carmel sauce all over her chest so i can lick it off cause its so sticky

26 response(s), 28 votes
Are you real! - 11/12/2019

Where are all the real women down for fun on here?

48 response(s), 74 votes
New here! - 11/12/2019

Hi All. New guy here looking forward to meeti g new people! Any help is appreciated!

21 response(s), 39 votes
Nastyasfuck1914 48 M
2  questions
Race Play in this environment - 11/12/2019

Now for over 12 years I have loved raceplay and have met plenty of black women who enjoy that kink. But I wonder if its different in this Trump era?

29 response(s), 35 votes
Nastyasfuck1914 48 M
2  questions
Does it still work..this site - 11/12/2019

I see now that they have upped the ante to 11 points for messaeges, so they are cracking down on just meeting people through IM. That sucks

26 response(s), 40 votes
benja1407 40 M
1  question
¿ Cuál es la razón por la que entraste a amigos calientes?¿ qué te llevó a tomar esa decisión? - 11/12/2019

Muchos dirán que a buscar sexo, eso es más o menos obvio. Esta pregunta está orientada más a los motivos personales de cada miembro, que cosa que vivieron en su día a día los trajo a esta comunidad. A mí las ganas de conocer a muchas mujeres y conversar con ellas y tratar de lograr salir a tener sexo

16 response(s), 31 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

31 response(s), 41 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

2 response(s), 4 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

2 response(s), 7 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 1 vote
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

1 response(s), 4 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 2 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 5 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 1 vote
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

8 response(s), 6 votes
romeo_01_one 40 M
2  questions
points - 11/11/2019

hey there i was wondering if any of you knew how to get points. seems like everything here needs points, even to talk to a friend. that definately sucks. any strategies you all know about? please share the love thanks. <br><br> also I have ablog on my profile maybe you can comment on it give your opinion.. thanks

60 response(s), 60 votes
romeo_01_one 40 M
2  questions
points - 11/11/2019

hey there i was wondering if any of you knew how to get points. seems like everything here needs points, even to talk to a friend. that definately sucks. any strategies you all know about? please share the love thanks. <br><br> also I have ablog on my profile maybe you can comment on it give your opinion.. thanks

10 response(s), 8 votes
how are you - 11/11/2019

the question is always, how are you, but really how are you?

23 response(s), 35 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
POSTING POLICE! - 11/11/2019

It never fails but everytime I post something there is always someone critiquing everything I post instead of just responding to what the post is really about! <br><br> So with that being said, let the posting police get to work!

37 response(s), 68 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Strapons - 11/11/2019

What do people think about strapon fun?

34 response(s), 33 votes
It sucks man - 11/11/2019

what is going on here is that normal you get flirted and hotlisted by somebody and when you them on IM they don't even say " hI , there" is anybody here is real?

33 response(s), 32 votes
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
Black labels or tags for membership - 11/10/2019

So I have been noticing as I scan profiles as best I can. That some profiles have this black label or black icon. What does that exactly mean?

8 response(s), 26 votes
JamesHowlett8771 36 M
1  question
How to get a response in IM. - 11/10/2019

Hello everyone. I was wondering if you have any advice in getting a response an initial text in the IM. I understand it can be crazy especially for girls inboxes, but was just wondering what tends be the best way of communication on this website and if there is a better way initiate conversations on IM. I am currently just trying be courteous with, ", How are you tonight?" or ...

31 response(s), 39 votes
Biggmike272 45 M
2  questions
What do most prefer - 11/10/2019

Do most women prefer to be pounded deep and hard? Does that really get you off?

25 response(s), 32 votes
Goldenman56x 68 M
7  questions
How do you find real - 11/10/2019

How do you find people that are really interested and not just talkers or fakes? What things do you look for?

19 response(s), 27 votes
kimdan4fun 41 C
6  questions
Pubic hair and shaving - 11/10/2019

It use to be that people would ask for the female to be shaved and now most couples insist on both male and female be shaved. We always were neatly trimmed so why the insistence on bare runways. Beavers are dying all over America soon to be extinct.

53 response(s), 66 votes
FantasyMan532 64 M
4  questions
Silver Membership - 11/10/2019

was on here when they had the Silver membership and thinks they should bring it back it was like $.00 cheaper and there was not a big difference between gold and silver

17 response(s), 21 votes
FantasyMan532 64 M
4  questions
Silver Membership - 11/10/2019

was on here when they had the Silver membership and thinks they should bring it back it was like $.00 cheaper and there was not a big difference between gold and silver

3 response(s), 7 votes
wildcatr27 52 F
46  questions
Ok some men complain - 11/9/2019

Ok some men complain about having women first because we want equally. So I have tried contacting men first & get nothing. I am just trying understand why guys don't respond, but they complain when women don't all the time. <br><br> Oh & if you want say nasty things about , I will you Reiki, love and light

52 response(s), 81 votes
Sexchat - 11/9/2019

would any woman agrees sexchat (on webcam) with a guy she just meet online ? let me know what you think and why

26 response(s), 39 votes
Real_4u2fuk 37 M
2  questions
How to get laid - 11/9/2019

Best tactic on this site

39 response(s), 43 votes
lifes4living1975 49 M
1  question
Question for the ladies - 11/8/2019

How important is mental stimulation for you? <br><br> Fore play and building up to sex is often cut short or ignored, and quite frankly if i cant spend hours teasing mentally the sex isnt as good. <br><br> Thoughts please. x

26 response(s), 50 votes
Groups - 11/8/2019

How hard is it to find a and would anyone like to make one with/ for us? Others of course may participate.

12 response(s), 26 votes
holgfr 55 M
3  questions
sex in the morning, noon, afternoon, evening and night? - 11/8/2019

sex in the morning, noon, afternoon, evening and night?

55 response(s), 51 votes
holgfr 55 M
3  questions
outdoor sex ? - 11/8/2019

outdoor sex ?

53 response(s), 46 votes
holgfr 55 M
3  questions
let's have sex this night ? - 11/8/2019

let's have sex this night ?

18 response(s), 31 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Hawaiian Islands - 11/8/2019

Which one would you go visit and why?

11 response(s), 20 votes
G Spot orgasm - 11/8/2019

So what is the best way to make a woman have a g spot orgasm.

26 response(s), 23 votes
G Spot orgasm - 11/8/2019

So what is the best way to make a woman have a g spot orgasm.

3 response(s), 1 vote
Goldenman56x 68 M
7  questions
Sucking balls - 11/7/2019

Do you like sucking balls? A lady did it to me and it was fantastic.

42 response(s), 70 votes
Bilaljohn001 30 M
2  questions
Gangbang.. - 11/7/2019

How many of you like a gangbang..??

24 response(s), 51 votes
Goldenman56x 68 M
7  questions
Response - 11/7/2019

Why do gold members do not give a response like am not interested when someone sends them a message? Is it because they get so many? If I got another interested I will not message them again wasting points. I never know if I should try again another time.

25 response(s), 31 votes
Goldenman56x 68 M
7  questions
Response - 11/7/2019

Why do gold members do not give a response like am not interested when someone sends them a message? Is it because they get so many? If I got another interested I will not message them again wasting points. I never know if I should try again another time.

4 response(s), 7 votes
Morning, noon or night - 11/7/2019

So would you rather have sex morning , noon or night .....

46 response(s), 58 votes
Morning, noon or night - 11/7/2019

So would you rather have sex morning , noon or night .....

1 response(s), 2 votes
GASOGA2 33 M
2  questions
Señoritas, les gusta greñudo o rasurado el pito? - 11/6/2019

por higiene y/o estética, se debería de rasurar uno sus partes genitales, pero no siempre se tiene esa idea; mi pregunta para las señoritas es esa.

8 response(s), 33 votes
GASOGA2 33 M
2  questions
Señoritas, les gusta greñudo o rasurado el pito? - 11/6/2019

por higiene y/o estética, se debería de rasurar uno sus partes genitales, pero no siempre se tiene esa idea; mi pregunta para las señoritas es esa.

1 response(s), 4 votes
ahut1963 57 M
2  questions
Finding a versatile CD or TV, why so hard? - 11/6/2019

I am a regular guy that happens to have a big passion for CD's and TV's. However it is hard to find a gurl who likes to go both ways, to be switch, or versatile. I like a who can get hard, who likes to go down on , but likes it just as much as when i go down on her. I don't really do this in a 'sub' role, more as a lover. Yes, I do also like to be topped by a CD, but I like ...

14 response(s), 34 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Anyone under 30 - 11/6/2019

Ever respond questions or polls posted on this site?

17 response(s), 48 votes
Regrets or No Regrets - 11/6/2019

Has anyone ever shared their wife then regretted it later?

29 response(s), 61 votes
jj10113 44 M
1  question
We’re you more horny when pregnant ? - 11/6/2019

Ladies - were you more or less horny when pregnant ? And what did you do about it ?

18 response(s), 58 votes
rm_sweet2b4 59 C
1  question
Blow jobs spit or swallow - 11/6/2019

I love suck cock but I don't let guys cum in my mouth. Most guys say that women are spitters or swallowers so what's the term for this?

56 response(s), 109 votes
mamadaddy2021 37 C
1  question
Squirting - 11/6/2019

Would you agree to sex with a woman that insisted on squirting on you every time you had sex?

52 response(s), 71 votes
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
bareback or raw what’s the difference? - 11/6/2019

Maybe this is a stupid question I don’t know... I have been noticing a trend of 2 different names for what I always thought I understood. So I have heard people talk about going “ bare” or going “ raw “.... So what is the difference?

30 response(s), 45 votes
2cuerzedel 55 M
2  questions
MADURO vs JOVEN - 11/5/2019

Ultimanente me a tocado charlar con chicas jovenes que les gustas los hombres maduros y yo me pregunto, ESTO SERA UNA MODA?

13 response(s), 42 votes
ddeebraa 27 F
1  question
Regarding Standard member Popularity Privileges? - 11/5/2019

I have read this in Swapfinder.com help page - "Popularity Privileges reward Standard members for having many other members view your profile. Specifically, if a certain number of members view your profile within a three-day period, you'll automatically be given access to 50 member profiles. (Ordinarily, Standard members are restricted to viewing a limited number of profiles per day.)"[COLOR ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Bilaljohn001 30 M
2  questions
69 best or not - 11/5/2019

What do you think guys, 69 is best or not in a sex relation..

57 response(s), 81 votes
Newbie here - 11/5/2019

Hi. New guy here. Any advice for success?

3 response(s), 1 vote
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
Ok, Fisting, Stag / Vixen , cuckholding, pegging, and Breeding? - 11/4/2019

Sorry if this sounds redundant or idiotic. I am just left with curiosity and misguided understanding. Well that and Urban Dictionary and google are not helping to explain these recent terms. Well to me they are recent. For example ... I thought I knew what breeding was but apparently it has something to do with guy on guy stuff, Which I am confused about as I thought it just focused around ...

23 response(s), 50 votes
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
Anal Sex.... WHY? - 11/4/2019

So even though I have done this in the past. As I have been looking here I begun to notice an extreme growing fascination with Anal. The thought occurred to me at this point, What is the fascination or obsession with anal sex? I am having a difficult time trying grasp this concept as I know the process is very dangerous if done incorrectly, that is another thing that baffles me is why does ...

33 response(s), 68 votes
Weary1923 24 M
2  questions
Married - 11/4/2019

How many guys on here are married?

29 response(s), 53 votes
Nakedsex69mmmm69 40 M
2  questions
Will you be my ejaculation partner - 11/4/2019

2/3 time a week...

22 response(s), 53 votes
Best cheesy pick up lines? - 11/4/2019

Common ladies lets hear the best and worst you've heard?

20 response(s), 39 votes
Pegging - 11/4/2019

Do women like to peg men or do they do it just to please them?

22 response(s), 32 votes
sexynfun01 60 C
3  questions
Do you enjoy rimming? - 11/4/2019

How far is too far when it comes to rimming?

54 response(s), 76 votes
Wife - 11/4/2019

Nervous to ask my wife about trying swinging. Any suggestions on how to bring it up?

23 response(s), 43 votes
sexynfun01 60 C
3  questions
Size - 11/4/2019

A huge penis can be fun for penetration but when it comes to anal and oral do you still want huge? Or do you prefer different sizes depending on where it's going to end up?

35 response(s), 62 votes
FantasyMan532 64 M
4  questions
Cock Rings - 11/4/2019

I have a friend he had a heart attack a little less then a year ago he says he can only get semi hard he can not take Viagra cause his heart wants to know if a cock ring would help him be able to penetrate his wife any advise on this could help and Please no ASSHOLE COMMENTS

30 response(s), 31 votes
Anth101976 47 M
1  question
Can and does NSA work? - 11/4/2019

I've asked myself this loads of times.... When you find your NSA friend and the sex is great there must come a time when it becomes more than just NSA?

35 response(s), 47 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
bet you haven't seen this asked before - 11/3/2019

Is it the woman's cervix fluids or her arousal fluids that determines the taste of her pussy ?

18 response(s), 32 votes
Lostcherry4u 41 F
1  question
MFM 3some - 11/3/2019

In a 3some with 2 men should the female be used and accommodate the 2 men or should they accommodate her and her needs before they use her?

49 response(s), 61 votes
MulleenofMelb 58 M
2  questions
Intelligence or Looks? - 11/3/2019

Do you seek a lover looks right make love, or do you seek a lover is intelligent enough make good loving?

19 response(s), 31 votes
prettylights4321 34 M
1  question
Is Using Swapfinder.com cheating - 11/3/2019

Is using Swapfinder.com cheating?

17 response(s), 34 votes
2guysforyou 38 GC
1  question
ladies, cut or uncut - 11/3/2019

any preference? cons and pros?

20 response(s), 37 votes
Invests - 11/3/2019

So.... invests in bitcoin and how’s that going for ya?

13 response(s), 22 votes
swman2 53 M
1  question
Gold - 11/3/2019

Can a good member message a standard members and give them a free reply ?

14 response(s), 27 votes
boredlookingfor 39 M
4  questions
Is gold worth it - 11/3/2019

Thinking about getting gold again but rethinking it as well the instant msg thing never seems to work and I always get logged out

30 response(s), 44 votes
Weary1923 24 M
2  questions
Nuts - 11/3/2019

Do you like your balls sucked on?

31 response(s), 46 votes
Daddydaks 48 M
1  question
Does it realy matter - 11/3/2019

If u would meet me for a heated night in the bed ....reply with. A hell

25 response(s), 41 votes
platinum_gigolo 53 M
5  questions
Groups on Swapfinder.com - 11/2/2019

Are there any ppl that still use the groups on here or is it just for the none paying members to play on?

17 response(s), 29 votes
newest4g63 38 M
2  questions
Who wants to fuck - 11/2/2019

Has to be my way of

20 response(s), 38 votes
hi I seek dome with huge strapon tits and ass - 11/2/2019

I seek dome with huge strapon tits and ass

15 response(s), 26 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
And now the rest of the story - 11/2/2019

Paul Harvey use to have on his radio show " now the rest of the story " So here is mine it is more of a request than a story . Can one of you that is endlessly telling standard members to buy a gold membership get on the horn ( phone ) with this site that you are always promoting and find out why now there is only 25 responses to a question . ? It is not like they don't ...

13 response(s), 28 votes
Goldenman56x 68 M
7  questions
How to get older ladies? - 11/2/2019

I am an older gent in a large apartment with older ladies. I am married but wife is not much interest in sex. How do I find if a lady might be interested in my building?

34 response(s), 50 votes
LovingDominant71 53 M
2  questions
I've always wondered if I was alone on this one. - 11/2/2019

Since the first day I logged into my first porn site on the old interwebs and seen my first Asian porn scene I have a tendency to see every Asian woman I see in public as a porn star. am I alone on that?

32 response(s), 61 votes
Interesting - 11/2/2019

What do you do?

21 response(s), 38 votes
Do people actually really want to meet and go for it or?? - 11/1/2019

For me ( only me ), I would prefer to push aside all the questions, games, "meet and greets" and just get right down to business. Do you believe that can be done???

70 response(s), 83 votes
Sgt_Tarado 32 M
1  question
O que procuram aqui? - 11/1/2019

O que realmente procuram aqui? Ja encontraram?

8 response(s), 22 votes
69fwbtg69 50 M
2  questions
Lucky - 11/1/2019

How many people are getting lucky on here

22 response(s), 43 votes
If I let her use a strapon does that make me her bitch? - 11/1/2019

She is into fucking guys in the ass. If I let her use a strap on does that make me her bitch?

39 response(s), 51 votes
Fido3429 50 M
2  questions
What's better? - 11/1/2019

Is an hour of love making better or is an hour of straight fucking better?

44 response(s), 58 votes
Fido3429 50 M
2  questions
What's better? - 11/1/2019

Is an hour of love making better or is an hour of straight fucking better?

9 response(s), 9 votes
LovingDominant71 53 M
2  questions
Can a masochist feel happy when their not receiving pain? - 11/1/2019

I often get these questions that pop into my head from time to time that will keep me up for hours. Tonight, as I flipped through some material on sadomasochism I wondered if a masochist felt joy outside of pain.

13 response(s), 34 votes
Biggmike272 45 M
2  questions
Do you prefer girth or length? - 10/31/2019

What do you prefer and what’s the biggest you have seen?

24 response(s), 60 votes
69fwbtg69 50 M
2  questions
Lucky - 10/31/2019

Who getting lucky on here.

16 response(s), 26 votes
BubbleButtB007 41 F
1  question
Should I go for it? - 10/31/2019

I'm very attracted to an older female colleague. We don't wok in the same department, but we see each other around the building. She's about 25 years older than me. I don't know for certain her sexual orientation, but it really feels like there is definitely some sexual energy when we interact with each other. Historically, I've been spot on more than not in being able to ...

63 response(s), 76 votes
tomjoad67 57 M
8  questions
Friend request sent - 10/31/2019

In the past if I had sent a friend request to someone it would show when I view their profile. In the spot that says friend it would say friend request sent. Now I don't know if I have previously sent a friend request to someone. I don't wish to barrage someone with friend requests if they are not interested, but I don't know if I have sent a friend request previously and it was ...

23 response(s), 45 votes
Msmealsonheels 29 F
1  question
Peeking advice - 10/30/2019

Anyone here have some great peeking advice for a (Peeking) newbie? <br><br> <br><br> Wow - 60 replies... I wasn't expecting that kind of response from a post that was just a -play- (On words.) I can only see the first 25 replies though - that might be something to do with my browser and the website. So I can't even see the last 35 replies...

62 response(s), 109 votes
Wigglingwell001 39 M
1  question
Pegging advice - 10/30/2019

Anyone here have some great pegging advice for a newbie?

32 response(s), 70 votes
May to December - 10/30/2019

What is it about older men or women that attracts you who are younger? Or vice-versa, what is about a younger lady or man that attracts you who are older?

24 response(s), 35 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
The irony of gold members... - 10/30/2019

having the ability to read profiles but don't. Still sending me IMs every time I'm on and they are an older couple which I'm not into age of 48 I have mine 18-36. I even changed my status to say Only thin to average women 18-36. I'm not about to spend points to answer and after at least a dozen tries you'd think they would get a clue. I even have a suspicion its just a single ...

23 response(s), 65 votes
What's the best lube for anal sex? - 10/30/2019

What is the best and cheapest lube . ? Is Wet Platnium good?

32 response(s), 32 votes
What's the best lube for anal sex? - 10/30/2019

What is the best and cheapest lube . ? Is Wet Platnium good?

1 response(s), 7 votes
What's the best lube for anal sex? - 10/30/2019

What is the best and cheapest lube . ? Is Wet Platnium good?

0 response(s), 4 votes
funsextingnice 24 M
1  question
points - 10/29/2019

they are annoying

14 response(s), 18 votes
First time anal. - 10/29/2019

How do you get past the nerves when you try it for the first time?I've tried but I couldn't loosen up enough for it to work?

13 response(s), 24 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
get some im real lets play r u game - 10/29/2019

any 1 for real ? let s get off?

10 response(s), 38 votes
Anyone interested in working on a webcam site? - 10/29/2019

I'd love to try it out if any Dom's are interested. Thinking that it might be best job ever.....

5 response(s), 29 votes
Does meth really make anal feel better? - 10/29/2019

Just asking I know it definitely makes me feel horny as hell.

20 response(s), 36 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
have fun it s just sex - 10/29/2019

any 1 want to have sex?

7 response(s), 35 votes
Any older Dom's or MM couples need a sub? - 10/29/2019

I prefer older and hung. Love verbal abuse and light bondage......

4 response(s), 19 votes
Is Wet Platnium lube good for anal? - 10/29/2019

Got a bottle jerked off with it and it's so slick I imagine a huge cock will slide in no problem. Has any one used it?

6 response(s), 17 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
its art!!!! - 10/29/2019

you have been dating your partner for two years and there is a piece of artwork (photo) in the bathroom/bedroom of a naked torso..you love the pic until you found its was an ex to years ago. <br><br> would you ask him/her to replace it?

18 response(s), 44 votes
Points Missing/Be Taken - 10/29/2019

This has happen to twice. Is anyone else experiencing this?

13 response(s), 31 votes
wantingmore40216 64 M
1  question
Very curious - 10/29/2019

Hello all. Im a married man that has recently become Very interested in what it would be like be with another man. Have been sucked by a man before. And I truly did enjoy it. What would you all say is the best Discreet way meet that's safe.

18 response(s), 33 votes
WanderingMan71 53 M
1  question
Younger women - 10/29/2019

What do women look for older men?

28 response(s), 39 votes
Swinging - 10/29/2019

How do I ask wife if she would like try and bring others into our sex life?

27 response(s), 27 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
Chat - 10/28/2019

Anyone wanting to send me a message of their so we can talk

18 response(s), 39 votes
thatguyluke1018 39 M
1  question
Free Points - 10/28/2019

Why did they three free Instant Messenger chats away you used get day! Now you have do pointless things try earn points as a standard member because we can't send any members actual messages either!

50 response(s), 93 votes
Jd989812 42 M
1  question
Any older women want to talk to a guy younger than them - 10/28/2019

Been looking to talk to sexy older women but having a hard time. Any there?

27 response(s), 53 votes
srqsucker 60 M
1  question
why do men look but not act ? - 10/28/2019

we see you looking at our profiles - you look often sometimes - why not - nothing to loose - except maybe a few fluid ounces .

28 response(s), 42 votes
FantasyMan532 64 M
4  questions
STANDARD MEMBER CANNOT READ ANY MESSAGES - 10/28/2019

I get 3 or 4 messages in my inbox from Gold members and it clearly states right off I can not read them in my profile I have 3 that a every other day and have never viewed my profile. I have been blocked by my bank from using my card because they say there is to much fraud going on with this site. SO WHY IS IT THEY WOULD KEEP SENDING MESSAGES AND NOT LOOKING TO SEE THIS AND NOT WASTE THEIR ...

34 response(s), 43 votes
debbra2019 28 F
2  questions
How do I tell about my "POSTBOX" to all members so they can message me private? - 10/27/2019

I have created my own private POSTBOX to receive members message and also reply. <br><br> But i don't how i will tell all members that i have a POSTBOX to receive or reply message privately. <br><br> Can anyone answer my question???

14 response(s), 25 votes
debbra2019 28 F
2  questions
For "Standard member Popularity Privileges" how many profile views need within a three-day period? - 10/27/2019

I have read this on page "Popularity Privileges reward Standard members for having many other members view your profile. Specifically, if a certain of members view your profile within a three-day period, you'll automatically be given access to 50 member profiles." <br><br> So i just need answer about how many profile views required in a 3 days period for getting ...

27 response(s), 68 votes
Tongue4fun2000 60 M
1  question
Why ??? - 10/27/2019

Why is it every time I say hi nice day or just try and chat with a female they never respond back. It doesn't hurt to be nice and just reply back. Then on top of it it takes away points for it and if you leave the chat and then try to say something to the same person again they want more points. What a bunch of crap. It should be that if you use your points to try and chat with someone ...

35 response(s), 65 votes
does this place work? - 10/27/2019

Who's had success here? If you have offer me best tips how to go about things here.

35 response(s), 43 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
sex outdoors - 10/27/2019

likes sex outdoors

52 response(s), 65 votes
1HotCuple 49 C
4  questions
Age difference in couples, how do you get over them? - 10/27/2019

I'm 44 wife is 38 and we keep finding couples with men over 50 with younger wives , or attractive couples are older than us. Not so much a problem for me but she has trouble finding The to 20 year age difference between her and men acceptable.Any thoughts on what to do?

44 response(s), 59 votes
This section so far - 10/26/2019

I'm new here, but it seems like this section is: HeY i HaVe A sTuPiD qUeStIoN aNd CaN oBtAiN pOiNtS tHiS wAy!!!! <br><br> Do I have this right? <br><br> #Trolling #NotTrolling #YouDecide

62 response(s), 121 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
sex - 10/26/2019

is sex good for you

30 response(s), 48 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
sex - 10/26/2019

is sex good for you

4 response(s), 5 votes
UltimateSlutCD 56 T
1  question
Be A Normal CD - 10/26/2019

Why can't i just be a normal cross dresser? I can't just have normal sex and be satisfied. I have to be a total filthy little slut. I have to be submissive, cause I crave to be controlled and dominated. Can ANYONE, please explain this to me?UltimateSlutCD...

21 response(s), 34 votes
Pussypleaser8269 42 M
2  questions
Relationship status - 10/26/2019

Does it matter to you if the person you are hooking up with is single or not?

25 response(s), 28 votes
hotjamaican79 44 M
1  question
Hook up - 10/26/2019

Are you ladies looking to really get together

17 response(s), 30 votes
heidelindi 51 T
16  questions
As Masochist i feel here good... - 10/26/2019

...i become many positive feedback, they me to grow, and i can show my site and say who i'm, a realy perv pig addicted to powerfull site of sexual life, but many poeople are full of angry and cant' see how great is work for love, and real master are comming soon. ...

12 response(s), 20 votes
Points Disappearing - 10/26/2019

Is this happening to anybody else?

31 response(s), 39 votes
Mcscsd1 53 M
1  question
Black and white - 10/26/2019

Do black women that like white men, do to the taboo? Or other reasons?

26 response(s), 37 votes
Gaining Points - 10/26/2019

Just wondering guys, what is the easiest and quickest ways to accumulate points?

19 response(s), 25 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
yes - 10/25/2019

...……………………………..…….. , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ………………...………………………….. ...

19 response(s), 40 votes
Are the bots and friend collectors scammers or part of the site staff? - 10/25/2019

Are the bots and friend collectors scammers or part of the site staff?

9 response(s), 10 votes
letmesukit1 51 M
1  question
Whats it mean - 10/25/2019

Im standard member. What does it mean when i have no points but can akways with certain person? There is guy i have been doing this with. But everyone else it takes points. Im friends with peopl so thats not it. Hotlisted each other with several people. So not sure why this one guy i can with no points. Have not net him in oerson yet but plan too soon i hope.

19 response(s), 54 votes
newklrbeckatgmai 41 M
1  question
Who's in Brisbane australia - 10/25/2019

Who's in Brisbane australia

21 response(s), 28 votes
A threesome question - 10/25/2019

So I'm a bit curious strait guy who fantasy is to play with a couple receive then for my first time perform a blow job. To me this seems like super hot fun. But it seems the couple's on here only want a female. Pretty hard for a single guy. My question then is. Is it that rare for a couple to have a bi male

45 response(s), 54 votes
Fun8699 58 M
1  question
Sex is great value - 10/25/2019

<br><br> A) It is true during inter course, making a lot noise, partner feel more . <br><br> It is true, Taller women has a deeper length puissy hole?

19 response(s), 36 votes
nimrod17 57 M
16  questions
Top Fan - 10/25/2019

What does a white on a blue background indicate on your home page next to top fans?

13 response(s), 25 votes
nimrod17 57 M
16  questions
Top Fan - 10/25/2019

What does a white on a blue background indicate on your home page next to top fans?

2 response(s), 6 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
good sex - 10/25/2019

when is the best time for sex

31 response(s), 39 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
good sex - 10/25/2019

when is the best time for sex

2 response(s), 3 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
good sex - 10/25/2019

when is the best time for sex

1 response(s), 2 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
sexuality - 10/25/2019

if you watch gay porn do u think i am bi

27 response(s), 29 votes
LickUFwb69 54 M
1  question
Games People Play - 10/25/2019

I enjoy chatting and having a fun time. Things that happen on this site on a regular occasion. My problem is with the people that play games. Either chat briefly and then disappear leaving you hanging or in the worst case, making a plan and then dropping you at the last minute. This is annoying and a complete waste of time for everyone. My questions is why do these losers bother to waste peoples ...

27 response(s), 31 votes
boredlookingfor 39 M
4  questions
Looking for - 10/24/2019

Looking for people talk seems the instant message acts up

18 response(s), 28 votes
boredlookingfor 39 M
4  questions
Looking for - 10/24/2019

Looking for people talk seems the instant message acts up

3 response(s), 4 votes
boredlookingfor 39 M
4  questions
Looking for - 10/24/2019

Looking for people talk seems the instant message acts up

1 response(s), 4 votes
singlefuntime 42 M
1  question
point sytem - 10/24/2019

what do you think of this new point system to answer or talk to some one if you are not a gold memeber use to be at lease u got 3 aday for free now u have to buy points or go gold

23 response(s), 41 votes
Thickster20 43 M
1  question
Fantasy or reality - 10/24/2019

My question for everyone is how do you cum hardest. When experiencing the reality of sex of fantasizing about sex?

20 response(s), 29 votes
Does anyone have luck on here? - 10/24/2019

Typically asking guys looking for chicks. There seems to be a lot of fakes out there

32 response(s), 30 votes
Madwoman2019 60 F
1  question
New To This - 10/24/2019

I actually have several questions and will be grateful for any or advice: <br><br> Are there real people on this site? <br><br> How does the IM work? <br><br> Is a gold membership worth it?

40 response(s), 56 votes
pjfriendly082 42 M
2  questions
What to do in the Swing room? - 10/24/2019

What are your preferences, things to do when you are playing in a room full of naked people.? <br><br> Would you be playing porn? Would you be recording video or taking pictures? How many would be serving drinks or snacks in between go sessions? <br><br> Ive seen a few different scenarios. Nothing hotter than being the show for me. I may not be the hottest one to look at, ...

12 response(s), 27 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
get some im real lets play r u game - 10/24/2019

have some fun

16 response(s), 31 votes
ridemybodytoday 60 M
3  questions
Going from the friend zone - 10/24/2019

I work with a cute sexy Spanish lady who is 48 and married with 5 and catholic. I know she loves her husband and I love my wife so I know that neither of us would want a change in our marital status. I am 55. We have kinda flirted some but I would love to be able to get her to go to a hotel room with me sometime when we are working together. I know her spouse and she knows mine so we do have a ...

26 response(s), 26 votes
Swingers4wet1 36 C
1  question
anal? - 10/24/2019

How did you get wife interested in anal sex?

44 response(s), 47 votes
buddy98111111 54 M
8  questions
yes - 10/23/2019

let s have fun any 1 ?

21 response(s), 38 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
Talk Dirty to Me - 10/23/2019

I've been contacted by a "woman" here. Honestly, her picture looks very much like a crossdressed male. More interesting is the fact that her messages have been EXTREMELY graphic... from the first. Going on about anal sex, and asking me to respond with detailed information about "what I like." Personally, I don't want to talk dirty to anyone I haven't met yet. Why ...

54 response(s), 93 votes
Jformeets 23 M
2  questions
IM - 10/23/2019

Why can people not saying, 'Sorry, not interested' when people send an IM. I feel that some give mixed messages such as a lot of profile views, adding to a hotlist and then flirting but then won't respond on IM. Also had an initial conversation asking me to top fan them so we can talk, after I did, they wouldn't reply to PM or IM.. <br><br> Anyone else experience this?

41 response(s), 67 votes
Smthng818 34 M
2  questions
Points - 10/23/2019

What’s the easiest way to get max points

29 response(s), 42 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
The smell of desperation??? - 10/22/2019

No not the guys and ladies that use the site but the site itself. Now instead of being auto-logged I have to manually log and it takes you to a page for buying gold to enter credit information etc with only a small homepage icon to get to the main site. This site might not be long for the world if they are pulling out stops like this. <br><br> Edit to add <br><br> 1. To ...

28 response(s), 54 votes
Cuck Without Wife Knowing - 10/22/2019

Am I just wasting my time? Married wannabe cuck, but wife would never go for it, so trying to find a dominant guy who would like chatting about her in my area, meet up, be made fun of by him, etc. But, not looking to suck dick or anything like that. Am I ever going to make this happen and know what the experience of being face to face with someone who knows this about me is like?

32 response(s), 58 votes
Smthng818 34 M
2  questions
points - 10/22/2019

whats the best way to get some

29 response(s), 38 votes
does the site actually work - 10/22/2019

Been on here for a month and was wondering if it does really work ?

37 response(s), 45 votes
Erotic Stories - 10/22/2019

I have noticed my story submissions are often missing words -- somewhat randomly the systems seems to drop words. I've edit the same stories a few times and still words are missing. Has anyone else encountered this problem? (It makes it look like I can't write! )

20 response(s), 39 votes
Does this work? - 10/22/2019

Has anyone actually met on this?

28 response(s), 29 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
where did everyone go? - 10/22/2019

does anyone know how you find blogs today? there are people i watch but it seems like the recent or most recent blogs, like the ones for today and preceding are not listed. they got the polls, and the new bloggers divided by gender. i know people are blogging but how are you supposed to find them or am i the only one that noticed when you go to the blogs that even that page is different.

50 response(s), 60 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
Knock Knock - 10/22/2019

After chatting with a few men, I think it's safe say they have a whole different perspective on personal safety than women. Many men have given me their HOME address. I've seen men wanting "car sex". Meet in some dark parking lot? Really....??? With all the posts about men pretending be women, fakes, scammers, etc. I get that most men aren't afraid of handling themselves ...

57 response(s), 92 votes
Por que estan en este sitio? - 10/21/2019

Parece que me explique mal, según mi experiencia la mayoría esta aquí por calentura, morbo, pero no van a dar el paso de tener encuentros, he chateado con muchas mujeres y la mayoría no concreta encuentros, no es lo que buscan, por eso la pregunta, por que están en este sitio?

13 response(s), 33 votes
need points - 10/21/2019

need points

36 response(s), 62 votes
I have heard that drinking pineapple makes cum taste nicer - 10/21/2019

I have tried it and it maybe true lol

32 response(s), 53 votes
Chat issues - 10/21/2019

Is it me or is there something not right with chat. There are numerous folks that show up in chat that are within my profiles parameters but don’t show in profile search sorted by last viewed...they should be and it seems that any messages I send appear not to be delivered. Could these be from affiliated sites owned by Swapfinder.com or am I missing something...and I know they may not want to respond but ...

30 response(s), 43 votes
Active profiles - 10/21/2019

One of the things that keeps me from becoming a gold member again is the small number of active (last viewed) profiles. The millions of profiles may be true but active and within a distance I will travel is small and generally the same for long periods of time...anyone feel similarly?

12 response(s), 27 votes
Initial view - 10/21/2019

I know this is a question for the profile, but not being able to read them, thought I would ask. Whats the first thing do you look when meeting someone?

11 response(s), 14 votes
Initial view - 10/21/2019

I know this is a question for the profile, but not being able to read them, thought I would ask. Whats the first thing do you look when meeting someone?

2 response(s), 7 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
what's THAT? - 10/21/2019

did anyone notice the new feature link at the very end next the What's Hot at the top?? it's blue letters say New App. idk what it's for and i already know i won't use it, the same way i don't use the Swapfinder.com App on my phone. just wondering if anyone has seen it and/or tried clicking on it ( of curiosity) themselves

35 response(s), 39 votes
MagnumCole39 45 M
2  questions
Louisiana female - 10/21/2019

How many Louisiana female looking for a FWB

20 response(s), 32 votes
MagnumCole39 45 M
2  questions
Louisiana female - 10/21/2019

How many Louisiana female looking for a FWB

0 response(s), 7 votes