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For real ? - 12/21/2019

wants this ass? Never been splitroasted but definitely am interested.....

3 response(s), 3 votes
HungCOstud9 43 M
3  questions
HOw do I approach my wife about wanting to swing and/or do an MMF? - 12/20/2019

I am a straight white , but I really want to share my wife with another man or swing with her so we can both experience an MMF and MFF and other such combinations... she is not the most sexual person in the world, but we have fantasized about it form time to time.. though I think she uses it more as fantasy and it has now become something I would like to try in real life. <br><br> Any ...

61 response(s), 70 votes
Just wondering? - 12/20/2019

A lot of people say Grace before they sit down to eat so before you go down on a woman to eat her out do you say anything?

67 response(s), 92 votes
So all about points - 12/20/2019

Yes most are all about points?

46 response(s), 43 votes
Group Fun - 12/20/2019

What is the best group dynamic...? Is it better to have an even of guys and girls, or better to have two girls with four or more guys- basically, 2 guys for 1 girl? I am trying to organize a little group fun in the Toronto area

28 response(s), 37 votes
HungCOstud9 43 M
3  questions
best way to find married cheaters.... - 12/19/2019

I am married/separated, it is complicated, but I am tired of waiting for her to make up her mind, I would like to find other married women to have fun with, who want to remain discreet too.

26 response(s), 33 votes
NorthMNFun 62 M
5  questions
Buy a membership incognito - 12/19/2019

I don't want to use my credit card. What's the best way to for a membership without leaving a trail? Thanks

41 response(s), 45 votes
All these questions are from guys? - 12/18/2019

So are all these questions just from guys thinking up shit to get points?

49 response(s), 61 votes
PearlRiverBiHard 50 M
1  question
Give or receive - 12/18/2019

What do most or you like, fucking or being fucked? Are any really versatile, or just have a preference what your looking for but afraid to put it on your profile?

32 response(s), 40 votes
daq2791 52 M
2  questions
Should I leave her? - 12/18/2019

I have been in a sexual relationship with another man for the last couple . We truly enjoy each others company both verbally and physically. Recently he asked leave my wife and move in with him. I love my wife but also have strong feelings for this guy. What should I do?

43 response(s), 32 votes
Why almost everyone in UK lives in Aldershot? - 12/18/2019

People from UK, Could you tell why almost all women live in Aldershot? <br><br> I have a kind of idea.

18 response(s), 21 votes
Kyguy568 56 M
1  question
Responding on I'm - 12/18/2019

Why would you send someone an I'm and then when they respond back, in a polite manner, you don't respond. If you initiate the conversation i would assume you are wanting chat with them.

26 response(s), 24 votes
Frankiesam98 44 M
1  question
Cheating - 12/17/2019

How you ever fucked someone outside your marriage and it was totally worth it?

40 response(s), 38 votes
orkfighter 53 M
1  question
Dick Sucking - 12/17/2019

Will you suck my dick if I wash it? <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> ...

33 response(s), 42 votes
Henderson855 53 M
2  questions
Here - 12/17/2019

From one to ten.. How do people honestly rate this site?

27 response(s), 26 votes
Henderson855 53 M
2  questions
Here - 12/17/2019

From one to ten.. How do people honestly rate this site?

4 response(s), 4 votes
WpgBoy204123 37 M
1  question
What is 1 + 1 - 1 x 0. - 12/17/2019

Ha. How many points i get for these things.

9 response(s), 11 votes
Wanderer1476 29 M
1  question
Have you had any problems after buying gold - 12/17/2019

thinking of getting the one month gold subscription next month through sms has anyone else done this and have problems or has everything been fine?

18 response(s), 22 votes
cuckold? - 12/17/2019

how meet someone seduce wife

30 response(s), 40 votes
Smoker728 32 M
2  questions
Meeting Locations - 12/17/2019

Where are some good places meet up someone?

27 response(s), 29 votes
Life - 12/17/2019

What do people aspire for in life?

25 response(s), 13 votes
Will68046NE 64 M
2  questions
Tell Me About Profile Views and Flirts. - 12/16/2019

I have formed a opinion on this, but I figured that I should seek the opinions of others. I join Swapfinder.com every so often, normally as a standard member without a profile picture. Within minutes, receive email from people in the local area. I haven't even finished my profile and people are wanting to meet. <br><br> Time moves on, now I am being notified that people are sending me ...

21 response(s), 24 votes
Will68046NE 64 M
2  questions
Getting your balls sucked... - 12/16/2019

If you watch enough porn, soon or later you will come across one where a woman or man is sucking on a guys balls while giving him head. I had a couple of girls try that with me, I didn't find the experience a lot of fun. To be honest, it kind of hurt. When I want to feel pain, I would ask my wife to jack me off until I came three times. <br><br> So, what does ball sucking do for ...

26 response(s), 28 votes
nimrod17 57 M
16  questions
Any Way To Delete Fans? - 12/16/2019

My profile clearly lists my sexual orientation as 'straight' and yet 2 men have made me their fans and even competed to become the top fan. I don't appreciate that women who may be reviewing my profile may get the wrong idea. Is there any way to remove unwanted people from my fan list?...

16 response(s), 25 votes
allsubbottom 71 M
2  questions
Question for Gay and Bi men... - 12/16/2019

Was wondering.. do you pefer to suck cock more than get sucked?..and why?

43 response(s), 38 votes
dwiczek69 62 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

37 response(s), 35 votes
dwiczek69 62 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

2 response(s), 4 votes
dwiczek69 62 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

3 response(s), 6 votes
Toni47250 62 M
1  question
Explain the divergence between the acceptance of by women over bi men - 12/16/2019

Why are by women more easily acceptate over by men

27 response(s), 27 votes
Leobbrj 40 F
1  question
Alguém já conseguiu ter um encontro pelo adulfriendfinder - 12/16/2019

Curioso para saber se já tiveram algum encontro com alguém deste .. contaa ... Vale a pena pagar a assinatura, gostaria de saber a sua opinião !!

5 response(s), 11 votes
How did you learn to eat pussy? - 12/15/2019

Some people learn how to eat pussy through experience, while others learn through watching porn. Some start as teens while others wait until their college years. I did neither, while I did watch porn it definitely wasn't to learn how to eat pussy. It was majorly watched so i could rub one . I actually learned how to correctly eat pussy by reading. My early to mid twenties were spent on an ...

52 response(s), 53 votes
Sudden2020 74 M
5  questions
How do you know if your IM friend really wants to meet? - 12/15/2019

Some never show up after they make a date.

46 response(s), 37 votes
Breedmyass13 52 M
1  question
Anal or not? - 12/15/2019

Is anal sex better and should penetration lead to climax in my ass?

43 response(s), 32 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
allergic - 12/14/2019

When a woman becomes allergic to her man's . Is there any hope ?

22 response(s), 30 votes
Finding mature friends - 12/14/2019

Why is it so damn hard find another mature .

26 response(s), 34 votes
albanynycouple51 63 C
8  questions
cuckold cpls n black men our ya willing to meet greet n freak ? - 12/14/2019

if so sat dec 21 meet greet n freak cuckold cpls love black men albany ny area meet over drink local bar n grill freak at hotel next too bar meet
...

26 response(s), 58 votes
What would make you leave your husband for another man - 12/14/2019

Hi ladies <br><br> You are unhappy in your marriage and are having an affair. Every day you contact that man by message or phone just to talk about your day. Not always sexual. <br><br> But though you are unhappy, loyalty or guilt stops you doing anything else. <br><br> What would push you over the edge to finally make the big decision and leave your husband.

22 response(s), 35 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

22 response(s), 24 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

2 response(s), 4 votes
spicycuple35 38 M
1  question
Are there any real left in the world - 12/14/2019

Are there masturbate all night long do anal to themselves just wondering

15 response(s), 18 votes
33seanpaul 59 M
1  question
do women enjoy man on man sex - 12/14/2019

do women enjoy man on man sex? what about seeing 2 men turns you on?

14 response(s), 9 votes
new to swinging - 12/13/2019

we are new to swing what is the biggest piece of advice?

25 response(s), 31 votes
Shyguynyc5 47 M
1  question
Gentleman or bad guy - 12/13/2019

I don't know how to clean this up .... so I'm just gonna spit it out ! How do you tell someone your interested in that you enjoy all the time spent ! But there k!d is bad as fuck . And very rude ?

15 response(s), 22 votes
quemarlavida 30 M
2  questions
How are you? - 12/13/2019

are you really enjoy with your life?

16 response(s), 15 votes
aanonpass 54 M
2  questions
earning points - 12/13/2019

Why points keep changing the is more all the time and you get charged points even when someone doesn't respond??

26 response(s), 27 votes
tysteal 32 M
1  question
Best way to start - 12/13/2019

Ladies what’s the best way to start or contact on here to get your attention? And what makes you turn away right away? What profile things stick out

10 response(s), 24 votes
Older women? - 12/13/2019

Why is it that I have always craved older women? I have always wanted to get with an older woman but never have. I have had this feeling forever and it seems to never go away. Can I get some advice on this matter?

24 response(s), 27 votes
Profiles viewed question - 12/13/2019

The other day I went to look at my profiles viewed to look for a lady that I had found in a random search that I didn't remember what I had entered into the search parameters. What I found shocked me when I looked at the profiles viewed. According to it I've looked at a bunch of Dudes! I have not looked at any men! Not interested in dudes. So ether when I answer questions or ...

13 response(s), 16 votes
Juano201821 56 M
3  questions
Fantasias de fin de año - 12/13/2019

Tienen fantasias de fin de año? Hace años que quiero pasar ese cambio de año teniendo sexo, ojala en un balcon mienteas llefan las 12 de la noche y comienza un nuevo año mirando los fuegos artificiales y gozando con mi pareja. Alguna fantasia que quieran compartir?.

5 response(s), 9 votes
Couple2Grow69 40 C
2  questions
For the Ladies - 12/12/2019

Do you like to be in control or be controlled? Let me hear your sexy thoughts!!!

5 response(s), 23 votes
Toescurled88 40 M
1  question
Why most here start negative. - 12/12/2019

Why does a hey how are you doing today insight such a negative response or ignoring people? Is it just so normal ya negative inquiry that you all give up on humanity?

16 response(s), 19 votes
can u get points this way - 12/12/2019

can u get points by doing this ?

24 response(s), 25 votes
Flguy34654 46 M
4  questions
Points question - 12/12/2019

I think I know the answer but as a free member, isn’t there a limit as to how many points I can accumulate through pics, blogs? In other words, won’t there be a time when I’ll no longer get any points for these types of updates?

27 response(s), 39 votes
JESSWAYNE69 54 M
1  question
does this site use bots which interact similar to a person ? - 12/11/2019

could someone please tell me if its possible to receive and flirt without a profile view? since joining i have received 12 flirts and 5 views. <br><br> i will be more than happy to kindly remove myself immediately if the sort of deception is acceptable. <br><br> thanks in advance for any advice or insight

27 response(s), 31 votes
Points - 12/11/2019

Need points. me reach 500 and videos of me stroking and edging for 90 minutes will be posted here. a fellar out?

21 response(s), 38 votes
Iwannacthat 57 M
1  question
No response - 12/11/2019

I'm wondering if the women on Swapfinder.com are so swamped with texts on instant messenger that they can't respond to all IM's or do they just ignore most IM's?

36 response(s), 37 votes
casey2301 47 M
1  question
Points? - 12/11/2019

So how is a good way to earn some points?

23 response(s), 25 votes
69luv2likyou 57 M
1  question
Points! Points! Points! - 12/11/2019

Thats all these posts are turning into.. Is a way to get more points and nothin interesting.. And look at me doing the same thing!

32 response(s), 30 votes
heidelindi 51 T
16  questions
Porn Star - 12/11/2019

Some years going by and my dream is reality. And it was a first step to heaven How you think about?...

25 response(s), 39 votes
how to get points - 12/10/2019

now it seen it take 15 points to massage someone it fuck up how do you get more points i keep trying but never works

24 response(s), 22 votes
slut4fam 21 F
1  question
Have some points here - 12/10/2019

This is a good way to rack some points up, yeah?

40 response(s), 35 votes
truhottie 49 M
1  question
How do women really feel about male bi play - 12/9/2019

I would like to take a poll of how many women are turned off by the thought of MM bi play

36 response(s), 36 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
WTF???? - 12/9/2019

How does this site work for a Standard member??? Especially a guy!?! I can't even imaging it! It's like a nightmare! It's like groping in the dark, then... when you finally get your hand on a tit, its your sister. I let my subscription lapse a couple of times, so I know what Standard is like. Just not being able to see profiles is reason enough to warrant the membership . Also have to ...

50 response(s), 69 votes
advent43 68 M
13  questions
redeeming points - 12/9/2019

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised that when I attempted to redeem some points to a member an email, that option is no longer available. Did I miss something, is there another way to do this other than thru "redeem for features and prizes" ? Perhaps some nuance that I missed? It used to be 200 points to an email, now it appears that's been rescinded.

45 response(s), 36 votes
CJDOU 59 M
1  question
Does IM work? - 12/9/2019

Does IM work?

63 response(s), 45 votes
nimrod17 57 M
16  questions
Fans - 12/8/2019

When a person's profile indicates they have 'fans' does that mean they are broadcasting?

22 response(s), 16 votes
kmack3307 34 M
1  question
My girlfriend absolutely will not do oral on me! Is this a red flag or is this normal for some girls - 12/8/2019

Please answer......is this a normal thing for some women or is this a red flag and should I run for the hills? You answers would be much appreciated.

73 response(s), 55 votes
Letsdothis8078 39 C
1  question
Why does this happen? - 12/8/2019

Ok so my bf and I have been looking to bring another girl in for fun. He bought up this girl he had been with already but she doesn't like me. I told him she had feeling for him still and I didn't trust her. He replied that's not true and she wasn't trying to get him back. Well he cheated with her. I was right 😂. But my question is why does a man have to go see for himself? Why ...

58 response(s), 59 votes
PittHotWife1 35 C
1  question
Anyone - 12/8/2019

Actually read these things?

52 response(s), 52 votes
youradventurecpl 49 C
2  questions
How many pics on our profile is too few pics and too many pics? - 12/8/2019

Just want to know if we need more pics in our profile - Thanks

32 response(s), 25 votes
I’m posting this for points - 12/8/2019

Do you answer questions just to get points on this site?

24 response(s), 26 votes
Do women get turned on by cheaters? - 12/7/2019

Just curious if there are women genuinely get excited about helping a man cheat.

55 response(s), 45 votes
Couple2Grow69 40 C
2  questions
Naughty or Nice - 12/7/2019

Have you been bad? Are you going to make the naughty list like us? If so hit us up.

55 response(s), 68 votes
The Bigger The Better? - 12/7/2019

What are the perfect size boobs?

43 response(s), 38 votes
age and curiousity - 12/7/2019

So, I've been noticing that as I get older, I have begun to get more sexually curious and open-minded. I am not gay, but have been thinking about trying atleast oral sex with another man. I'm turned on by things, the a few short years ago I would have winsed at. Moreover, it seems as though I could literally masterbate 3-4 times daily. Its insatiable, and borders on obsession as of late. ...

15 response(s), 18 votes
How to enter into the gay porn industry? - 12/7/2019

Years ago, in the Kamikaze Club in NYC, I did Jeff Stryker in the bathroom. He offered to some people for me but I saw no and went on. I've regretted that decision ever since. I seriously now want to try the adult gay porn industry but have no clue where to start. What should be my first move or individual to or write? I have plenty of tapes I can for viewing and would welcome a personal ...

15 response(s), 25 votes
aim2pleaseu952 72 T
10  questions
ways to get around it - 12/6/2019

I have seen some women's profiles that say that size is important, but there are ways to get around it. For those women, if you were really attracted to a man, and found out that he's not exactly "hung like a bull", how do you get around it? What methods would you use to achieve mutual satisfaction?

27 response(s), 33 votes
Have you found your best friend and lover all in one? - 12/5/2019

I was wondering how many others have found their best friend and man all in the same person? If you haven't already you need to keep looking ..It's an amazing relationship that is built to last...

39 response(s), 67 votes
a question for points - 12/5/2019

How to earn Swapfinder.com points??

53 response(s), 51 votes
safe sex - 12/5/2019

just wondering what the general opinion was on here with regards to safe sex and the use of condoms.? <br><br> personally if you sexually active on this site its a good idea to wear condoms ! <br><br> thoughts people?

17 response(s), 19 votes
soc_solice 32 M
2  questions
Paid member - 12/5/2019

advice line post

21 response(s), 29 votes
solice_fred 67 M
2  questions
Standard member - 12/5/2019

advice line post need ?

25 response(s), 30 votes
B00biesman 42 M
1  question
Instant messenger - 12/5/2019

When will IM get a long over due update???

34 response(s), 34 votes
First times - 12/5/2019

Whats the easiest position for the first time for anal?

35 response(s), 39 votes
devilchicc24 30 F
1  question
why does no one hit me up here? - 12/5/2019

im not that ugly tho lol

16 response(s), 19 votes
Lionbone7 39 M
1  question
Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area? - 12/4/2019

Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area?

18 response(s), 22 votes
Flguy34654 46 M
4  questions
Hangover horniness - 12/4/2019

Does anyone else get extremely horny during a hangover? It’s like I can barely function but damn do I get horny as hell when hungover. Anyone?

27 response(s), 35 votes
1HotCuple 49 C
4  questions
Best/Easiest tools for Bling Makers/Creators?? - 12/4/2019

Question for the best/top bling creators......What Apps/programs do you use to make/animate bling ? Got a lot of ideas but havent found good apps to create them with. Any help with this would be greatly appreciated.!

17 response(s), 31 votes
BLACK_CHARLES 46 M
1  question
Is it ok to have a crush? - 12/3/2019

Is it ok to have a crush on someone who is dating your spouses side of the family? You both know it would be complicated, but they are so interesting.

24 response(s), 35 votes
CollegeFun98 26 M
1  question
Best main profile pics for guys? - 12/3/2019

What types of pics really turn you on from a profile?

25 response(s), 30 votes
que pasa con el sexo casual? - 12/3/2019

mucha pregunta si buscan sexo casual para que quieren tanta información si eres casado o no en que trabajas donde vives paraque

7 response(s), 9 votes
Nateformilfs10 34 M
1  question
Were are sex ladies at - 12/3/2019

Why don’t anyone hit back on here

19 response(s), 27 votes
1HotCuple 49 C
4  questions
Bling in Introduction - 12/3/2019

How do you put your bling in your introduction? Do you just use brackets around the bling id when writing your introduction? Also can you put bling in a comment, and if so how??

17 response(s), 59 votes
WyoCowboy7751 71 M
5  questions
Which Cam ?? - 12/3/2019

Suggestions on video cam use ?

19 response(s), 30 votes
giorgiaxx69 42 F
1  question
Girl looking for fun - 12/3/2019

Hi darling! If you are looking for meetings I am here! I am a serious girl looking for fun...Leave me your e- deepen our knowledge and we agree for a nice meeting. Sweet kiss!

45 response(s), 58 votes
ayna45 100 M
3  questions
Profile pic - 12/3/2019

Does any body know why some people hold up a sign in front of themself with there profile name. I don't get it whats the point.

30 response(s), 25 votes
Trapper69 67 G
29  questions
Who Wants Points? - 12/2/2019

100 people can win 100, 000 points. All they have to do is not post anyplace on this website begging for points for 1 month.

51 response(s), 68 votes
what happened to the 3 free chats? - 12/2/2019

a few months ago we had 3 free chats a day which made it easier to catch up and make new friends but with all these points stealing one has to go around begging for points. is there a way to go back to those 3 free chats?

44 response(s), 53 votes
Anal sex - 12/2/2019

Ineed a women to FUCK my ASS I am good looking and and want a women to watch me

25 response(s), 41 votes
sexyswipe 35 M
1  question
whos not afraid of anal sex? :) - 12/2/2019

whos not afraid of anal sex?

30 response(s), 31 votes
MisterXTC1000 60 M
1  question
Blogs - 12/2/2019

Does anyone here ever read the Blogs? No one ever replies and thousands show that it has been read. My guess its kinda like the women in here a mystery!!!

15 response(s), 20 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Points - 12/2/2019

Who else here is in need of points?

26 response(s), 32 votes
coffeebuddy4u 54 M
1  question
Questions and Points - 12/2/2019

How is it that after everything has been filled out, , you put pictures up, videos up and do blogs, answer question and write articles, You have to ask people for points. Why?

33 response(s), 35 votes
The new phone. - 12/2/2019

Has anybody else seen the new that has come it looks like a dildo but the problem with it is every time you the you get a busy signal and the voice says --Sorry I can not come to the right now.

19 response(s), 45 votes
What does the “rm_” mean? - 12/1/2019

I’ve seen many profiles with “rm_” pre-pended the username. What does that mean?

19 response(s), 28 votes
Lifeguardamc2 66 C
1  question
update status - 12/1/2019

Wondering if anyone else is having issues with the "status Update" on your profiles?? Mine has not worked in over a month. <br><br> Andrea

28 response(s), 36 votes
Points - 12/1/2019

Why is this system so hellbent on taking point? Sometimes you have get of a due locking up, then takes more points start messaging again. What a RIP off

40 response(s), 31 votes
biflydog 54 M
5  questions
Edited posts - 12/1/2019

Has anyone noticed that Swapfinder.com seems to mess up the erotic stories taking words out? Whether it was pasted or typed in the window, it seems just about everytime words are missing here and there. Kind of a pain, really.

12 response(s), 21 votes
Does anybody read the profiles? - 12/1/2019

What is it with some people in here they do not read your profile just look at the profile photo and start sending you messages and IM .I have men sending me messages saying things like hi sexy I have 10'' to please you and can bring some friends to give you DP. Then the ones who get on IM saying I am at a motel and horny care to come over? I just wish people would read profiles and ...

36 response(s), 68 votes
BBW/BBM - 11/30/2019

Many women say they are a BBW (big beautiful woman) but I can't find the glossary and I don't know what BBW/BBM means. Help me.

29 response(s), 35 votes
sambrennan6911 26 M
1  question
How is everyone doing? - 11/30/2019

How are you doing?

17 response(s), 27 votes
cleangdlkingreal 45 M
3  questions
Mutual masturbation to break the ice? - 11/30/2019

I'm a fan of starting off this way to give us both a chance to relax and enjoy, possibly demonstrate, etc.

28 response(s), 34 votes
cleangdlkingreal 45 M
3  questions
Manscaping? - 11/30/2019

I trim, but generally refuse to shave completely bare as a rule. I also don't ask my partners to, and moreover prefer they don't.

20 response(s), 30 votes
cleangdlkingreal 45 M
3  questions
Eating pussy on the first day - 11/30/2019

I'm down if she is. I mean, I hoping she's sitting there thinking about sucking my cock. seems only fair.

26 response(s), 26 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

14 response(s), 19 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

4 response(s), 4 votes
points - 11/30/2019

New here what do most of you find the easiest way to total up points. Tough to chat without them.

18 response(s), 15 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Toys - 11/30/2019

Whats does everyone prefer? Vibrators or dildos?

20 response(s), 14 votes
Letslipkis 38 M
1  question
Decline in internet hooks - 11/30/2019

Maybe it's just me but the Internet hook up scene seems to be dying a slow death. Do you think people have lost interest in quick and fast hook ups.

17 response(s), 31 votes
nicco100 56 M
165  questions
Pics - 11/29/2019

For the men, what do you prefer see as the main pic in woman'sprofile??...is it a shot, pussy, boobs/breast, butt, legs, waist, eyes, lips...etc or the whole package???....

24 response(s), 35 votes
DirtyThoughts002 43 M
1  question
Favorite panty color? - 11/29/2019

What i your favorite panty color?

51 response(s), 38 votes
European nudist beach. Where a couple could have fun - 11/29/2019

Hi, <br><br> I am looking for a beach, where potentially a couple could have fun together discreetly. <br><br> I know its maybe against the law, but it is something my fwb and I are interested in. <br><br> Any suggestions where would be appreciated.

13 response(s), 26 votes
I still remember. - 11/29/2019

I still remember when I was young I would find my older brothers Playboy magazines my friends and me would look at them back then they had so much hair on there pussy you had to get there pubes in your mouth if you went down on them. I am glad it is not like that now or do people still like a hairy bush?

61 response(s), 78 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
What’s the best date you’ve had - 11/29/2019

What’s the best thing you’ve done on a date

17 response(s), 22 votes
YoungHuungNow 35 M
1  question
First date in Los Angeles? - 11/29/2019

Any good suggestions?

11 response(s), 17 votes
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

26 response(s), 26 votes
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

2 response(s), 3 votes
Barenaked700 63 M
1  question
Alternating the Fleshlight - 11/28/2019

Any of you guys alternate the Fleshlight? Hooking up medela breast pump to it gets good results

11 response(s), 26 votes
Gizmo197695 48 M
1  question
do women really like to watch men masturbate - 11/28/2019

ive always wondered, do women really enjoy and get turned on watching a man masturbate.

33 response(s), 49 votes
Sexy hot females how many of you love your pussy ate? - 11/27/2019

Alright sexy and gorgeous women how many of like have there pussy ate and how long is good for you do you like cum once or more then once before you get dicked down just wondering some women say they don't like that at all and alot say they love it but the question im asking how long is enough? I know I love eat a nice beautiful pussy and can last a while down there mm mm mm

30 response(s), 32 votes
Pull out cumshots - 11/27/2019

Why do guys insist on pulling out and jerking to the finish when receiving a blowjob?

68 response(s), 76 votes
Timetraveler2 61 M
1  question
Status Updates... - 11/27/2019

I was just curious if anyone else is experiencing any issues with updating their status? I have been trying for a few days and it does not take. It has been that way since the beginning of the month for me...

24 response(s), 27 votes
Flguy34654 46 M
4  questions
Straight guys wanting men - 11/27/2019

Is it me or does it seem to be more typical of men who call themselves straight , wanting to get fucked or suck a dick?

20 response(s), 25 votes
bs2019cj 45 M
1  question
why is actually meeting so hard? - 11/27/2019

Ugh been stood up 5 times lately on here. Why does meeting an actual person have to be so hard on here. I mean if you dont ever plan on meeting be upfront and honest about it at least. <br><br> <br><br> So frustrated

21 response(s), 20 votes
aanonpass 54 M
2  questions
Do people really meet up on here? - 11/27/2019

I mean a lot talk about it but do they actually do it , so many fakes !

21 response(s), 17 votes
Easiest way most women cum? - 11/27/2019

Is clit still really the easiest way to make a woman cum?

34 response(s), 25 votes
Kellly782 46 M
2  questions
Online play - 11/26/2019

Hello ladies. What are some do’s and don’t of online playing. I’m single and thinking of trying

26 response(s), 27 votes
NoVaCock94 29 M
3  questions
Is there anyway to post pictures or videos from the mobile site? - 11/26/2019

See the main question lol.

2 response(s), 7 votes
Laksha12 31 M
7  questions
\u003ci\u003e <i> tip to improve my stemna - 11/25/2019

<i>is there any one who know the real exercise to improve sex stremna

26 response(s), 30 votes
LVMXRACER 37 M
1  question
why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks? - 11/25/2019

why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?

59 response(s), 41 votes
Thanksgiving - 11/25/2019

Do you expect to have fun this week?

29 response(s), 29 votes
Do women find bi guys attractive - 11/25/2019

Just curious how women think about bi guys

36 response(s), 32 votes
Why doesn't anyone ever talk to standard members on here? - 11/25/2019

I have been on here for a year and only had one im . I am a good looking guy just looking for some fun.

53 response(s), 41 votes
How do I build up points without buying or upgrading? - 11/25/2019

I have just about exhausted my options for getting any points. Can anyone help?

42 response(s), 35 votes
66fuzzyballs66 45 M
1  question
Real or fakes - 11/25/2019

Is there any people on here anymore

25 response(s), 24 votes
ayna45 100 M
3  questions
fake profiles - 11/25/2019

I seem to get many views, flirts, and listed from so many ages 29 to 32. Most of them are gold members and always have only one pic. It so obvious there not real.I know I'm not that that these are really interested in me. So I wonder what is the point. ever these people are what is the reason and what are they trying to get of this.

9 response(s), 9 votes
prissygirl0 50 F
1  question
fake or not fake - 11/24/2019

How can you usally tell if its a fake profile or are they fake profiles on here

54 response(s), 52 votes
lombriz1963 57 M
23  questions
Messenger instantaneo - 11/24/2019

cada dia menos charlas y por puntos , , como hacen ??

17 response(s), 16 votes
1HotCuple 49 C
4  questions
Status , cant't update doesn't show on profile, anybody else with this issue?? - 11/24/2019

Anyone else's status not showing up and not updateable ? Have contacted customer service, have a bug eve, but they haven't fixed it yet..Its been a week or now that we cant post a status.

25 response(s), 20 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
One night stands - 11/24/2019

How often do u have one night stands

49 response(s), 40 votes
friends - 11/24/2019

Can free members add friends? When I try I'm redirected their profile page wanting me subscribe gold view profile

27 response(s), 28 votes
Any single women? - 11/24/2019

I'm finding most profiles from women are or they are attached looking for a porn star size penis to play with. I'm a free member and not really seeing any benefit to for a membership when there aren't any real single women near me. I did chat with a couple but they were too far away, had no transportation or were married and had no where to meet and not willing to drive although I ...

24 response(s), 33 votes
ayna45 100 M
3  questions
flirts - 11/24/2019

why do I get flirts from people that never looked at my profile.

30 response(s), 22 votes
Sondraclarksvill 34 F
1  question
dating - 11/23/2019

any success story on this site so far? I am new here and I need to know if I can find my luck here

26 response(s), 37 votes
Vgiovalval 45 M
1  question
Pissing - 11/23/2019

Is pissing something you can do your GF?

34 response(s), 34 votes
A extra woman - 11/23/2019

Why is it so hard find a extra woman join in with a ?

23 response(s), 37 votes
howdydoodyXLII 53 M
3  questions
Why can't I change my status? - 11/23/2019

I have been trying change status update thing on here, but it seems everything I type gets rejected lately. They tell the server admin or something along those lines. Most of the stuff i try put there is innocent, and I don't believe I am violating any rules. Certainly not as bad as some things I see. They may be holding a grudge against me trying slip K I K in. I don't even ...

29 response(s), 33 votes
Best place for a first meeting? - 11/23/2019

Where are your favorite spots meet a new buddy? I

50 response(s), 29 votes
Best place for a first meeting? - 11/23/2019

Where are your favorite spots meet a new buddy? I

4 response(s), 5 votes
mufdiver69er2 64 M
16  questions
those who dont date married men and are blocked from answering that post.. - 11/22/2019

put it here, if ya like...always more than one way to skin a blocking cat...

13 response(s), 37 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
STD ???? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? - 11/22/2019

Wow i talked to a guy who had contacted me ..He seem like a good guy but he mentions on his profile he has an STD. He was tricked a womam and she gave him ..He got upset that i wouldn't meet him .To me it's a run away kinda situation ..WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?

44 response(s), 44 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
STD ???? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? - 11/22/2019

Wow i talked to a guy who had contacted me ..He seem like a good guy but he mentions on his profile he has an STD. He was tricked a womam and she gave him ..He got upset that i wouldn't meet him .To me it's a run away kinda situation ..WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?

5 response(s), 5 votes
Does anyone on here actually meet? - 11/22/2019

I know that I have had very little success meeting people from here, so few and far between. How many out here actually have the luck to have met someone and started something??

57 response(s), 38 votes
Flguy34654 46 M
4  questions
Flirting and not messaging - 11/22/2019

I don’t get it, what’s the purpose of just sending a flirt and no follow up?

32 response(s), 29 votes
Iceking6996 38 M
4  questions
ice breaker? - 11/21/2019

What is the icebreaker? i saw it mentioned in a blog

26 response(s), 25 votes
Launching IM? - 11/21/2019

I have been here about or . a week ago you launched IM by pressing the button on the top right of the screen. <br><br> A week ago it started acting up and now just launches a blank page. Has anyone else experienced this and if so have you managed to resolve it and how?

35 response(s), 22 votes
Kellly782 46 M
2  questions
Chat (ladies) - 11/21/2019

As a basic member would I have the same opportunity or would my profile be ignored

13 response(s), 27 votes
Points to Message - 11/21/2019

Who thinks that not having 3 free messages a day and each message or reply costing points makes the site less friendly? <br><br> I am so much more particular on who I respond to or message due to this. I am fairly friendly, I am straight but if a guy in my area messages me then I will respond. Due to no free messages and it costing points, I don't respond? <br><br> I ...

37 response(s), 43 votes
dangbitches 59 F
35  questions
The change - 11/21/2019

I enjoy chatting, enjoy hotlisting and a flirt or two. But now I cant. But why?

29 response(s), 45 votes
stallion3301 49 M
2  questions
Men of Webcams - 11/21/2019

Do woman prefer to chat through messenger or on webcam? I perfer webcam since they can see I am a real person and not a fake. Any thoughts ?

19 response(s), 33 votes
MulleenofMelb 58 M
2  questions
Is it better to be asked....or...... - 11/20/2019

So is it better to be asked, and is it a compliment, or simply a nuisance? <br><br> Should a question of having sex... one which should never be asked, ? <br><br> instead be proposing loving.....or carnal knowledge.....or a quick rut against that wall or this.....over that table, or straddling a solidly built chair.... ?

23 response(s), 34 votes
BreedalowNhigh 43 M
1  question
Then and now - 11/20/2019

As I walk through the fog itself though thick and oppressive it may be, I look upon a land of vivid memories. All so clear as being within that very instant, yet but a glance As I saw the sparkling sheen of pure ivory so too I feel the coal underneath as all at once I feel the remanence of its purity is nothing but ash upon my fingers. The very breath foretells of its decay The very smile of ever ...

16 response(s), 19 votes
miruton81 39 M
1  question
Swapfinder.com or tinder? - 11/20/2019

So the question I have is which one is better for finding that "quick fix" that most of us are looking for. Seems like there are a lot of fake profiles on Swapfinder.com but the same goes for tinder. Unfortunately, I live in a smaller town with an older population that doesn't really seem to use tinder. So what do y'all say works better?

35 response(s), 39 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
get it up - 11/20/2019

have you gotten your xmas decorations up yet? the house up the block from me already has their tree right smack in the living room window, lights and all. and saw a few other houses with christmas wreaths on the door. can we have thanksgiving first? have you dragged your box of decorations out yet? i know december will be here soon, but i don't see what the rush is. or is this the time to get ...

32 response(s), 32 votes
Question for all the sexy milfs! - 11/20/2019

What are some fantasies for the milfs? Interested to hear if your fantasies have changed over time due to life experiences and what way they trended. Kinkier etc? And yes everyone is different, but interested to hear a few ladies thoughts.

25 response(s), 51 votes
Question for all the sexy milfs! - 11/20/2019

What are some fantasies for the milfs? Interested to hear if your fantasies have changed over time due to life experiences and what way they trended. Kinkier etc? And yes everyone is different, but interested to hear a few ladies thoughts.

2 response(s), 9 votes
Curvy women. - 11/20/2019

What do some people think of curvy women?

4 response(s), 1 vote
horsestud6969 43 M
3  questions
updating status - 11/19/2019

Please contact the service admin. This comes up when i try to update my status, anyone know what i need to do?

23 response(s), 26 votes
PowerPoint73 45 M
5  questions
Swapfinder.com (Then OR Now) - 11/19/2019

Was.Swapfinder.com better when you first started or better now?

50 response(s), 48 votes
PowerPoint73 45 M
5  questions
Swapfinder.com (Then OR Now) - 11/19/2019

Was.Swapfinder.com better when you first started or better now?

5 response(s), 6 votes
JovemBull 32 M
2  questions
Lesbians - 11/19/2019

When did you realize you were one ?

34 response(s), 48 votes
Dan_is_wild10 54 M
1  question
Why does it take so dam long to get your points when you do something to earn points - 11/19/2019

It seems with all changes on here it takes twice as long and not even get your points when you do something to earn them, I feel thats why not many come to site and enjoy it , Why cant with all technology we have get our points faster

42 response(s), 45 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Strap on fun? - 11/18/2019

What are people’s thoughts on mmf or strapon play?

46 response(s), 38 votes
Tan lines - 11/18/2019

I think tan lines are a big turn on. How do you feel about tan lines.

37 response(s), 40 votes
Donutms 23 M
1  question
What do people here think about sex with an Asian guy? - 11/18/2019

Please no insulting comments.

26 response(s), 26 votes
Nipple-sucking - 11/18/2019

Ladies, do you notice that guys who breast-fed as babies are better boob-suckers than those who bottle-fed? <br><br> Weird, huh?

46 response(s), 50 votes
Do ladies like cream pies, and why? - 11/17/2019

Do you ladies like cream pies, and why?

36 response(s), 39 votes
biflydog 54 M
5  questions
What do couples expect from the single guy? - 11/17/2019

Ok, so we took it way tooooo slooooow with the that we/I with, so it was never much of a question of would do what when. Plus his wife was a take-charge kind of gal, so she usually directed the action. However, for those couples meeting with a single guy for the first time, what do you want him do? Now I know there'll be some discussion beforehand of what everyone wants, but beyond ...

28 response(s), 37 votes
Which size is more important? - 11/17/2019

Length or girth?

26 response(s), 36 votes
What happened to the groups? - 11/17/2019

Is it just , or has usage of groups kind of fallen off? Seems so dead in so many groups now b

8 response(s), 16 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
TRANDGENDER.??? - 11/17/2019

I am writting out of curiosity. I have observed many men not only on the site but in general who want to be or transitioning to women . What is it about being a female fascinates them ? Being a woman encompasses alot.

17 response(s), 44 votes
Real_4u2fuk 37 M
2  questions
Swapfinder.com - 11/17/2019

How to obtain a free upgrade

20 response(s), 23 votes
DdF meaning - 11/17/2019

What does DDF stand for?

17 response(s), 17 votes
nafurescandy 49 F
3  questions
Wow since when - 11/17/2019

Wow since when does it points to reply to IM messages sent to you? Ive never encountered this until tonight. Is this because I haven't been on as much? WTF?

54 response(s), 76 votes
Fogosolover 47 M
1  question
Les gusta hacer el amor con música? - 11/16/2019

He experimentado diferentes bandas sonoras haciendo el amor y considero que influye en los ritmos, en el ánimo y sensibilidad. Estarían de acuerdo? <br><br> Con qué música prefieren hacerlo? <br><br> Saludos!!!

8 response(s), 18 votes
Points and IMs - 11/16/2019

I have points but can’t or respond IMs. What’s the deal?

37 response(s), 44 votes
Sudden2020 74 M
5  questions
What does NSA stand for? - 11/16/2019

Sometimes it is easy read what people put on their profiles and then some are very confusing. Take the above question dose it mean No Sex Available, or No Smoking Allowed, Neither of which makes any sense.

33 response(s), 30 votes
ahut1963 57 M
2  questions
What are "flirts" for anyway? - 11/16/2019

1st, no I am not just looking for points. But people here do flirt just for the fun of it. I do not like it if you flirt, tease. If you flirt, you should use the flirt show genuine interest. If you just want flirt tease, then just at profile and it alone. I am assuming that if you flirt, you want at least about it. Not cyber sex, but at least see if we like each other. But t flirt, and ...

31 response(s), 31 votes
Jaysen4moms 40 M
2  questions
Creampies? - 11/16/2019

Do I like giving them too much?

33 response(s), 40 votes
Sexual fun - 11/16/2019

I am on here to explore. I love meeting new people I want to explore new sex positions and but the points are getting in the way! Same for everyone else?

37 response(s), 61 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
parental guidance suggested - 11/16/2019

would you ever or have you ever told your parent(s) to not show up at your place? seems my older brother told our mother such a thing and i know it hurt her feelings bc she has mentioned it a couple times since. he was sick and she came bearing soup and juice; totally harmless. he later tells her to not show up unannounced. he got nerve. i feel like i wanna say something to him like "i know ...

24 response(s), 40 votes
is it okay i am addicted to sniffing panties - 11/15/2019

I love to sniff and lick used panties is that okay

47 response(s), 58 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Kansas City meet n greet! - 11/15/2019

Has anyone ever attempted such a thing here in KC? <br><br> Would anyone be up for a meet n greet? Just a wondering?

13 response(s), 41 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
got milk? - 11/14/2019

the country's largest milk producer filed for bankruptcy recently bc apparently people are not drinking as much milk these days. if you're not drinking cows milk, what are you drinking instead? do you have a dairy alternative to milk? just curious to know if, for you, it's a taste preference, a health choice, an environmental decision. or perhaps milk is for babies and you're no ...

66 response(s), 88 votes
biflydog 54 M
5  questions
Foreign women - 11/14/2019

I had a co-worker who made numerous trips to the Philippines (I never asked him to tell me everything he did there, plausible deniability you know!), and eventually brought a girl home. A few months after the marriage (and thankfully a pre-nup), she was off fucking some other guy. The divorce was shortly after that. I wasn't the only one who said "I told you so..." Personally, I ...

33 response(s), 82 votes
silk_petal_rose 60 F
1  question
Gay question - 11/13/2019

Often now in the chat room we have a lot of gay/bisexual guys........... saying this ///////// bi versatile bottom seeking a bi versatile top <br><br> <br><br> what does this ""even mean""

46 response(s), 66 votes
sexoalcoldrog 45 M
1  question
realmente hay probabilidades? - 11/13/2019

si o no de tener citas y algo mas?

12 response(s), 52 votes
dan_is_wild9 54 M
1  question
Which is better to do - 11/13/2019

Which is better to have a woman with whip cream on her breasts or some kind of food on her. I think best thing is what ever you can get your hands on .I best thing is carmel sauce all over her chest so i can lick it off cause its so sticky

26 response(s), 28 votes
Are you real! - 11/12/2019

Where are all the real women down for fun on here?

48 response(s), 74 votes
New here! - 11/12/2019

Hi All. New guy here looking forward to meeti g new people! Any help is appreciated!

21 response(s), 39 votes
Nastyasfuck1914 48 M
2  questions
Race Play in this environment - 11/12/2019

Now for over 12 years I have loved raceplay and have met plenty of black women who enjoy that kink. But I wonder if its different in this Trump era?

29 response(s), 35 votes
Nastyasfuck1914 48 M
2  questions
Does it still work..this site - 11/12/2019

I see now that they have upped the ante to 11 points for messaeges, so they are cracking down on just meeting people through IM. That sucks

26 response(s), 40 votes
benja1407 40 M
1  question
¿ Cuál es la razón por la que entraste a amigos calientes?¿ qué te llevó a tomar esa decisión? - 11/12/2019

Muchos dirán que a buscar sexo, eso es más o menos obvio. Esta pregunta está orientada más a los motivos personales de cada miembro, que cosa que vivieron en su día a día los trajo a esta comunidad. A mí las ganas de conocer a muchas mujeres y conversar con ellas y tratar de lograr salir a tener sexo

16 response(s), 31 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

31 response(s), 41 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

2 response(s), 4 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

2 response(s), 7 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

1 response(s), 4 votes
marty26622 58 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

8 response(s), 6 votes
romeo_01_one 40 M
2  questions
points - 11/11/2019

hey there i was wondering if any of you knew how to get points. seems like everything here needs points, even to talk to a friend. that definately sucks. any strategies you all know about? please share the love thanks. <br><br> also I have ablog on my profile maybe you can comment on it give your opinion.. thanks

60 response(s), 60 votes
romeo_01_one 40 M
2  questions
points - 11/11/2019

hey there i was wondering if any of you knew how to get points. seems like everything here needs points, even to talk to a friend. that definately sucks. any strategies you all know about? please share the love thanks. <br><br> also I have ablog on my profile maybe you can comment on it give your opinion.. thanks

10 response(s), 8 votes
how are you - 11/11/2019

the question is always, how are you, but really how are you?

23 response(s), 35 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
POSTING POLICE! - 11/11/2019

It never fails but everytime I post something there is always someone critiquing everything I post instead of just responding to what the post is really about! <br><br> So with that being said, let the posting police get to work!

37 response(s), 68 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Strapons - 11/11/2019

What do people think about strapon fun?

35 response(s), 33 votes
It sucks man - 11/11/2019

what is going on here is that normal you get flirted and hotlisted by somebody and when you them on IM they don't even say " hI , there" is anybody here is real?

33 response(s), 32 votes
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
Black labels or tags for membership - 11/10/2019

So I have been noticing as I scan profiles as best I can. That some profiles have this black label or black icon. What does that exactly mean?

8 response(s), 26 votes
JamesHowlett8771 36 M
1  question
How to get a response in IM. - 11/10/2019

Hello everyone. I was wondering if you have any advice in getting a response an initial text in the IM. I understand it can be crazy especially for girls inboxes, but was just wondering what tends be the best way of communication on this website and if there is a better way initiate conversations on IM. I am currently just trying be courteous with, ", How are you tonight?" or ...

31 response(s), 39 votes
Biggmike272 45 M
2  questions
What do most prefer - 11/10/2019

Do most women prefer to be pounded deep and hard? Does that really get you off?

25 response(s), 32 votes
Goldenman56x 67 M
7  questions
How do you find real - 11/10/2019

How do you find people that are really interested and not just talkers or fakes? What things do you look for?

19 response(s), 27 votes
kimdan4fun 41 C
6  questions
Pubic hair and shaving - 11/10/2019

It use to be that people would ask for the female to be shaved and now most couples insist on both male and female be shaved. We always were neatly trimmed so why the insistence on bare runways. Beavers are dying all over America soon to be extinct.

53 response(s), 66 votes
FantasyMan532 64 M
4  questions
Silver Membership - 11/10/2019

was on here when they had the Silver membership and thinks they should bring it back it was like $.00 cheaper and there was not a big difference between gold and silver

17 response(s), 21 votes
FantasyMan532 64 M
4  questions
Silver Membership - 11/10/2019

was on here when they had the Silver membership and thinks they should bring it back it was like $.00 cheaper and there was not a big difference between gold and silver

3 response(s), 7 votes
wildcatr27 52 F
46  questions
Ok some men complain - 11/9/2019

Ok some men complain about having women first because we want equally. So I have tried contacting men first & get nothing. I am just trying understand why guys don't respond, but they complain when women don't all the time. <br><br> Oh & if you want say nasty things about , I will you Reiki, love and light

52 response(s), 81 votes
Sexchat - 11/9/2019

would any woman agrees sexchat (on webcam) with a guy she just meet online ? let me know what you think and why

26 response(s), 39 votes
Real_4u2fuk 37 M
2  questions
How to get laid - 11/9/2019

Best tactic on this site

39 response(s), 43 votes
lifes4living1975 49 M
1  question
Question for the ladies - 11/8/2019

How important is mental stimulation for you? <br><br> Fore play and building up to sex is often cut short or ignored, and quite frankly if i cant spend hours teasing mentally the sex isnt as good. <br><br> Thoughts please. x

26 response(s), 50 votes
Groups - 11/8/2019

How hard is it to find a and would anyone like to make one with/ for us? Others of course may participate.

12 response(s), 26 votes
holgfr 54 M
3  questions
sex in the morning, noon, afternoon, evening and night? - 11/8/2019

sex in the morning, noon, afternoon, evening and night?

55 response(s), 51 votes
holgfr 54 M
3  questions
outdoor sex ? - 11/8/2019

outdoor sex ?

53 response(s), 46 votes
holgfr 54 M
3  questions
let's have sex this night ? - 11/8/2019

let's have sex this night ?

18 response(s), 31 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Hawaiian Islands - 11/8/2019

Which one would you go visit and why?

11 response(s), 20 votes
G Spot orgasm - 11/8/2019

So what is the best way to make a woman have a g spot orgasm.

26 response(s), 23 votes
G Spot orgasm - 11/8/2019

So what is the best way to make a woman have a g spot orgasm.

3 response(s), 1 vote
Goldenman56x 67 M
7  questions
Sucking balls - 11/7/2019

Do you like sucking balls? A lady did it to me and it was fantastic.

42 response(s), 70 votes
Bilaljohn001 30 M
2  questions
Gangbang.. - 11/7/2019

How many of you like a gangbang..??

24 response(s), 51 votes
Goldenman56x 67 M
7  questions
Response - 11/7/2019

Why do gold members do not give a response like am not interested when someone sends them a message? Is it because they get so many? If I got another interested I will not message them again wasting points. I never know if I should try again another time.

25 response(s), 31 votes
Goldenman56x 67 M
7  questions
Response - 11/7/2019

Why do gold members do not give a response like am not interested when someone sends them a message? Is it because they get so many? If I got another interested I will not message them again wasting points. I never know if I should try again another time.

4 response(s), 7 votes
Morning, noon or night - 11/7/2019

So would you rather have sex morning , noon or night .....

46 response(s), 58 votes
Morning, noon or night - 11/7/2019

So would you rather have sex morning , noon or night .....

1 response(s), 2 votes
GASOGA2 33 M
2  questions
Señoritas, les gusta greñudo o rasurado el pito? - 11/6/2019

por higiene y/o estética, se debería de rasurar uno sus partes genitales, pero no siempre se tiene esa idea; mi pregunta para las señoritas es esa.

8 response(s), 33 votes
GASOGA2 33 M
2  questions
Señoritas, les gusta greñudo o rasurado el pito? - 11/6/2019

por higiene y/o estética, se debería de rasurar uno sus partes genitales, pero no siempre se tiene esa idea; mi pregunta para las señoritas es esa.

1 response(s), 4 votes
ahut1963 57 M
2  questions
Finding a versatile CD or TV, why so hard? - 11/6/2019

I am a regular guy that happens to have a big passion for CD's and TV's. However it is hard to find a gurl who likes to go both ways, to be switch, or versatile. I like a who can get hard, who likes to go down on , but likes it just as much as when i go down on her. I don't really do this in a 'sub' role, more as a lover. Yes, I do also like to be topped by a CD, but I like ...

14 response(s), 34 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 52 M
12  questions
Anyone under 30 - 11/6/2019

Ever respond questions or polls posted on this site?

17 response(s), 48 votes
Regrets or No Regrets - 11/6/2019

Has anyone ever shared their wife then regretted it later?

29 response(s), 61 votes
jj10113 44 M
1  question
We’re you more horny when pregnant ? - 11/6/2019

Ladies - were you more or less horny when pregnant ? And what did you do about it ?

18 response(s), 58 votes
rm_sweet2b4 59 C
1  question
Blow jobs spit or swallow - 11/6/2019

I love suck cock but I don't let guys cum in my mouth. Most guys say that women are spitters or swallowers so what's the term for this?

56 response(s), 109 votes
mamadaddy2021 37 C
1  question
Squirting - 11/6/2019

Would you agree to sex with a woman that insisted on squirting on you every time you had sex?

53 response(s), 71 votes
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
bareback or raw what’s the difference? - 11/6/2019

Maybe this is a stupid question I don’t know... I have been noticing a trend of 2 different names for what I always thought I understood. So I have heard people talk about going “ bare” or going “ raw “.... So what is the difference?

30 response(s), 45 votes
2cuerzedel 55 M
2  questions
MADURO vs JOVEN - 11/5/2019

Ultimanente me a tocado charlar con chicas jovenes que les gustas los hombres maduros y yo me pregunto, ESTO SERA UNA MODA?

13 response(s), 42 votes
Bilaljohn001 30 M
2  questions
69 best or not - 11/5/2019

What do you think guys, 69 is best or not in a sex relation..

58 response(s), 81 votes
Newbie here - 11/5/2019

Hi. New guy here. Any advice for success?

3 response(s), 1 vote
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
Ok, Fisting, Stag / Vixen , cuckholding, pegging, and Breeding? - 11/4/2019

Sorry if this sounds redundant or idiotic. I am just left with curiosity and misguided understanding. Well that and Urban Dictionary and google are not helping to explain these recent terms. Well to me they are recent. For example ... I thought I knew what breeding was but apparently it has something to do with guy on guy stuff, Which I am confused about as I thought it just focused around ...

23 response(s), 50 votes
Woahmanseeding 43 M
4  questions
Anal Sex.... WHY? - 11/4/2019

So even though I have done this in the past. As I have been looking here I begun to notice an extreme growing fascination with Anal. The thought occurred to me at this point, What is the fascination or obsession with anal sex? I am having a difficult time trying grasp this concept as I know the process is very dangerous if done incorrectly, that is another thing that baffles me is why does ...

33 response(s), 68 votes
Weary1923 24 M
2  questions
Married - 11/4/2019

How many guys on here are married?

29 response(s), 53 votes
Nakedsex69mmmm69 40 M
2  questions
Will you be my ejaculation partner - 11/4/2019

2/3 time a week...

22 response(s), 53 votes
Best cheesy pick up lines? - 11/4/2019

Common ladies lets hear the best and worst you've heard?

20 response(s), 39 votes
Pegging - 11/4/2019

Do women like to peg men or do they do it just to please them?

22 response(s), 32 votes
sexynfun01 60 C
3  questions
Do you enjoy rimming? - 11/4/2019

How far is too far when it comes to rimming?

54 response(s), 76 votes
Wife - 11/4/2019

Nervous to ask my wife about trying swinging. Any suggestions on how to bring it up?

23 response(s), 43 votes
sexynfun01 60 C
3  questions
Size - 11/4/2019

A huge penis can be fun for penetration but when it comes to anal and oral do you still want huge? Or do you prefer different sizes depending on where it's going to end up?

35 response(s), 62 votes
FantasyMan532 64 M
4  questions
Cock Rings - 11/4/2019

I have a friend he had a heart attack a little less then a year ago he says he can only get semi hard he can not take Viagra cause his heart wants to know if a cock ring would help him be able to penetrate his wife any advise on this could help and Please no ASSHOLE COMMENTS

30 response(s), 31 votes
Anth101976 47 M
1  question
Can and does NSA work? - 11/4/2019

I've asked myself this loads of times.... When you find your NSA friend and the sex is great there must come a time when it becomes more than just NSA?

35 response(s), 47 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
bet you haven't seen this asked before - 11/3/2019

Is it the woman's cervix fluids or her arousal fluids that determines the taste of her pussy ?

18 response(s), 32 votes
Lostcherry4u 41 F
1  question
MFM 3some - 11/3/2019

In a 3some with 2 men should the female be used and accommodate the 2 men or should they accommodate her and her needs before they use her?

50 response(s), 61 votes
MulleenofMelb 58 M
2  questions
Intelligence or Looks? - 11/3/2019

Do you seek a lover looks right make love, or do you seek a lover is intelligent enough make good loving?

19 response(s), 31 votes
prettylights4321 34 M
1  question
Is Using Swapfinder.com cheating - 11/3/2019

Is using Swapfinder.com cheating?

17 response(s), 34 votes
2guysforyou 38 GC
1  question
ladies, cut or uncut - 11/3/2019

any preference? cons and pros?

20 response(s), 37 votes
Invests - 11/3/2019

So.... invests in bitcoin and how’s that going for ya?

13 response(s), 22 votes
swman2 53 M
1  question
Gold - 11/3/2019

Can a good member message a standard members and give them a free reply ?

14 response(s), 27 votes
boredlookingfor 38 M
4  questions
Is gold worth it - 11/3/2019

Thinking about getting gold again but rethinking it as well the instant msg thing never seems to work and I always get logged out

30 response(s), 44 votes
Weary1923 24 M
2  questions
Nuts - 11/3/2019

Do you like your balls sucked on?

32 response(s), 46 votes
Daddydaks 48 M
1  question
Does it realy matter - 11/3/2019

If u would meet me for a heated night in the bed ....reply with. A hell

25 response(s), 41 votes
platinum_gigolo 53 M
5  questions
Groups on Swapfinder.com - 11/2/2019

Are there any ppl that still use the groups on here or is it just for the none paying members to play on?

17 response(s), 29 votes
newest4g63 38 M
2  questions
Who wants to fuck - 11/2/2019

Has to be my way of

20 response(s), 38 votes
hi I seek dome with huge strapon tits and ass - 11/2/2019

I seek dome with huge strapon tits and ass

15 response(s), 26 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
And now the rest of the story - 11/2/2019

Paul Harvey use to have on his radio show " now the rest of the story " So here is mine it is more of a request than a story . Can one of you that is endlessly telling standard members to buy a gold membership get on the horn ( phone ) with this site that you are always promoting and find out why now there is only 25 responses to a question . ? It is not like they don't ...

13 response(s), 28 votes
Goldenman56x 67 M
7  questions
How to get older ladies? - 11/2/2019

I am an older gent in a large apartment with older ladies. I am married but wife is not much interest in sex. How do I find if a lady might be interested in my building?

34 response(s), 50 votes
LovingDominant71 53 M
2  questions
I've always wondered if I was alone on this one. - 11/2/2019

Since the first day I logged into my first porn site on the old interwebs and seen my first Asian porn scene I have a tendency to see every Asian woman I see in public as a porn star. am I alone on that?

32 response(s), 61 votes
Interesting - 11/2/2019

What do you do?

21 response(s), 38 votes
Do people actually really want to meet and go for it or?? - 11/1/2019

For me ( only me ), I would prefer to push aside all the questions, games, "meet and greets" and just get right down to business. Do you believe that can be done???

70 response(s), 83 votes
Sgt_Tarado 32 M
1  question
O que procuram aqui? - 11/1/2019

O que realmente procuram aqui? Ja encontraram?

8 response(s), 22 votes
69fwbtg69 50 M
2  questions
Lucky - 11/1/2019

How many people are getting lucky on here

22 response(s), 43 votes
If I let her use a strapon does that make me her bitch? - 11/1/2019

She is into fucking guys in the ass. If I let her use a strap on does that make me her bitch?

39 response(s), 51 votes
Fido3429 50 M
2  questions
What's better? - 11/1/2019

Is an hour of love making better or is an hour of straight fucking better?

44 response(s), 58 votes
Fido3429 50 M
2  questions
What's better? - 11/1/2019

Is an hour of love making better or is an hour of straight fucking better?

9 response(s), 9 votes
LovingDominant71 53 M
2  questions
Can a masochist feel happy when their not receiving pain? - 11/1/2019

I often get these questions that pop into my head from time to time that will keep me up for hours. Tonight, as I flipped through some material on sadomasochism I wondered if a masochist felt joy outside of pain.

13 response(s), 34 votes
Biggmike272 45 M
2  questions
Do you prefer girth or length? - 10/31/2019

What do you prefer and what’s the biggest you have seen?

24 response(s), 60 votes
69fwbtg69 50 M
2  questions
Lucky - 10/31/2019

Who getting lucky on here.

16 response(s), 26 votes
BubbleButtB007 41 F
1  question
Should I go for it? - 10/31/2019

I'm very attracted to an older female colleague. We don't wok in the same department, but we see each other around the building. She's about 25 years older than me. I don't know for certain her sexual orientation, but it really feels like there is definitely some sexual energy when we interact with each other. Historically, I've been spot on more than not in being able to ...

63 response(s), 76 votes
tomjoad67 57 M
8  questions
Friend request sent - 10/31/2019

In the past if I had sent a friend request to someone it would show when I view their profile. In the spot that says friend it would say friend request sent. Now I don't know if I have previously sent a friend request to someone. I don't wish to barrage someone with friend requests if they are not interested, but I don't know if I have sent a friend request previously and it was ...

23 response(s), 45 votes