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Does IM ever work on here?? - 9/9/2019
I can never get it to load??
6 response(s),
16
votes
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Adult Entertainment near South Bend? - 9/9/2019
I'm a recent transplant to the area and would like to
hear about places near South Bend and Michiana that cater
to people looking for play partners. Any ideas? Thanks
9 response(s),
33
votes
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How Many Licks? - 9/9/2019
How many licks does it take to get to the Tootsie Roll center
of a Tootsie Pop??? <br><br>
How many of you can remember TV commercials no longer
? <br><br>
Where's the beef? Got Milk? <br><br>
Now I am thinking about them, why can I always revert
back to some type of sexual innuendo when it comes to these
commercials?
48 response(s),
76
votes
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im - 9/9/2019
why cant standard members have any IM it used to be 10 then
3 now none i used to be a gold member, there are not enough
gold to talk to bring back atleast 1 free IM a day
32 response(s),
46
votes
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Bling - 9/8/2019
How to post bling
25 response(s),
62
votes
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Bling - 9/8/2019
How to post bling
2 response(s),
13
votes
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Threesome - 9/8/2019
My wife and I are interested in finding a join us
(a unicorn). I realize they are called unicorns because
they are hard find. Has anyone had any luck capturing
a unicorn?
49 response(s),
85
votes
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Threesome - 9/8/2019
My wife and I are interested in finding a join us
(a unicorn). I realize they are called unicorns because
they are hard find. Has anyone had any luck capturing
a unicorn?
1 response(s),
3
votes
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urban dictionary - 9/8/2019
Have you ever wondered about just comes up with the definitions
? And when it is an sex act if anyone has tried it . I
saw for Magic Carpet Ride . It said if you are fucking
a woman near some stairs and about cum point her head
towards the stairs and fuck like hell . Naw that can't
be what it mean s . Oh and has anyone else been answering a
question and the whole answer just ...
21 response(s),
43
votes
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Gold - 9/8/2019
Would anyone be willing give me 4000 points? I'm not a much or a bum I want as trail. Run before I upgrade. I'm
in desperate need of sex. My dry spell has reached the 1 year
mark
25 response(s),
27
votes
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Hey Ladies! do you watch a cam? - 9/8/2019
Hello, gorgeous ladies; young, old, thick, skinny, short,
dark, or spotted... all are gorgeous.. <br><br>
Question is, do you actually watch a cam a guy puts a some crappy jerk
off show? I myself enjoy very much girls on cams no matter what they're
doing it turns me on all the time. However, i doubt very very very few women like to watch a
guys on cam... i, once in a blue moon, ...
22 response(s),
36
votes
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Y should I pay - 9/8/2019
Idk if everyone like this but people want I never hooked
up yes
29 response(s),
42
votes
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How do you do? - 9/8/2019
Anybody have fun tips on pleasuring yourself? <br><br>
Toys? <br><br>
Tools? <br><br>
Lubes? <br><br>
I want to try your approach....
11 response(s),
23
votes
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are you ready (or not)? - 9/8/2019
for some football. football season is back and it looks
like damn near all the teams are playing today. way too early
for super bowl predictions but snacks are an easy call.
for those of you have a team to watch, what is your must
have snack of choice  if you do snacks.
40 response(s),
59
votes
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Dildos - 9/8/2019
What is the strangest thing you have had in your bum or pussy?
13 response(s),
32
votes
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Are women really only looking to chat if they are on Swapfinder.com? - 9/8/2019
I find really curious when a woman (or man) is a member of
Swapfinder.com, yet they claim to be on the site only to chat. I am sure
they want more, so why the hoopla? Then again, some guys
do get rude and out of bounds. But still, does anyone find
it weird?
24 response(s),
22
votes
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sexy london venues - 9/8/2019
looking for any clubs/bars in london that I could take my
wife to that would 'get her in the mood' have had a look and seen some that look pretty , burlesque
etc. but don't want it to look too obvious that i've
taken her to such a place. ideally want her comfortable enough to let herself go and
have a little fun before we go back to the hotel. anyone been and about in london ...
9 response(s),
16
votes
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why is the new IM so bad - 9/8/2019
<br><br>
.
22 response(s),
27
votes
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Older women like this younger cock ?? - 9/7/2019
Just curious because im into older women and been thinking
to start going after them will they like young cock ?
body? Any tips
12 response(s),
17
votes
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The new IM... - 9/7/2019
Does anyone find the new IM annoying? The new IM takes up
way too much space.
16 response(s),
20
votes
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What should I do when I broadcast? - 9/7/2019
I know you have thre ability to broadcast here. The
other day I decided to try it but then got super camera shy
and didn't really know what to do or what to say. Any
advice? do I music? Should I talk? what do people like?
lol do i just jerk off on camera? any advice?
20 response(s),
25
votes
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Men with silver hair, Hot or Not - 9/7/2019
I curious what women think of silver haired men. I had had
silver hair since I was in my early thirties. I was always
told a looking man with silver hair was very sexy.
Now I'm in my 40's I feel this is the opposite
with more mature woman who are gravitating toward
men. <br><br>
Is this true or is it just me?
20 response(s),
23
votes
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b'day - 9/7/2019
sept.th is a solemn, respectful day and always will be in perpetuity. how do you continue to celebrate the birthdays
fall on day? a few friends n' family have b'days during entire week (even my own) and
i've never been able to figure it out how to celebrate without
it feeling disrespectful or wrong to do so. or do you just
get to a certain age where celebrating a b'day becomes ...
26 response(s),
27
votes
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membership question - 9/7/2019
What percentage of folks who visit this site do you think
and what percentage are, like , free riders?
13 response(s),
14
votes
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IM question - 9/7/2019
are non- members still able to get 3 free chat invites?
23 response(s),
23
votes
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HE IS LUSCIOUS BUTTTTT - 9/7/2019
I have a coworker/ friend whom i have known for many yrs .
He is such a good guy we have never had sex coz he is always
in a relationship. He ended his last relationship and for
some reason he has been communicating more . He siad he is
lonely and the way he acts around me is different. This is
a guy who changes women like his underwear nvr lasts with
one. He said he has had a crush on me ...
17 response(s),
21
votes
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Remember the old saying? - 9/7/2019
The old saying was---the customer always comes first?
So when your having sex who is the customer is it the female
or the male who should cum first?
35 response(s),
60
votes
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Best sexual experience you have ever had? - 9/6/2019
Out of all the sexual activity in your life which time was
the best? Mine was a 18 yo guy when I was 27
31 response(s),
50
votes
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Is it worth it? - 9/6/2019
Just joined and wanted to know if its worth paying for a membership.
are there a lot of fake profiles etc?
35 response(s),
43
votes
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Tinder, pof - 9/6/2019
You always see women posting videos with the caption ...me
and my tinder date....or POF date...I must be in a wired
place no women I have chatted with on tinder are wanting
fun everyone I run into wants ltr not casual fun... does
want to date but nothing serious or casual dating not mean
basically I want to meet and fuck....lol or am I the only
one who thinks that is what it means lol
21 response(s),
38
votes
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Tinder, pof - 9/6/2019
You always see women posting videos with the caption ...me
and my tinder date....or POF date...I must be in a wired
place no women I have chatted with on tinder are wanting
fun everyone I run into wants ltr not casual fun... does
want to date but nothing serious or casual dating not mean
basically I want to meet and fuck....lol or am I the only
one who thinks that is what it means lol
0 response(s),
2
votes
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Tinder, pof - 9/6/2019
You always see women posting videos with the caption ...me
and my tinder date....or POF date...I must be in a wired
place no women I have chatted with on tinder are wanting
fun everyone I run into wants ltr not casual fun... does
want to date but nothing serious or casual dating not mean
basically I want to meet and fuck....lol or am I the only
one who thinks that is what it means lol
1 response(s),
2
votes
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Tinder, pof - 9/6/2019
You always see women posting videos with the caption ...me
and my tinder date....or POF date...I must be in a wired
place no women I have chatted with on tinder are wanting
fun everyone I run into wants ltr not casual fun... does
want to date but nothing serious or casual dating not mean
basically I want to meet and fuck....lol or am I the only
one who thinks that is what it means lol
0 response(s),
2
votes
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Anyone need points? - 9/6/2019
Reply get some points
55 response(s),
40
votes
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anyone help me with a problem my cock is always hard - 9/6/2019
its literally always hard
14 response(s),
24
votes
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anyone help me with a problem my cock is always hard - 9/6/2019
its literally always hard
1 response(s),
2
votes
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anyone help me with a problem my cock is always hard - 9/6/2019
its literally always hard
1 response(s),
0
votes
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Best way for a younger guy to talk to MILFs - 9/6/2019
Hey Im 25 and want to be able to talk to older women whether its
on here or in real life. I try on here but in public i have no
idea how to approach a woman in her late s or older. Any
advice?
24 response(s),
34
votes
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Any girls in middle Georgia want to chill? - 9/6/2019
Want have fun while gf is at work
9 response(s),
23
votes
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How do you add friends as a free member? - 9/6/2019
I use to be able to send friend requests as a free member,
but I can't figure out how to do anymore. The add
friend button, on the profile quick view, just redirects
to the Order page. Although this was always the case, I use
to be able to send friend requests to online members
were on IM. Since the latest updates were made to the Instant
Messanger though, I don't see the Add Friend ...
10 response(s),
24
votes
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Qst for Girls..! What do you do, where do you go when you're horny? - 9/6/2019
Hello beautiful ladies. <br><br>
what do you ladies usually do or where do you girls go when
you feel really horny? Most men here or myself who, let's say, are single,
try to masturbate to release the heat while myself sometimes
watch some porn or come here to find a girl or to dirty chat,
or do cam. and release it... Or i very sometimes go to a popular bar and club to find a ...
12 response(s),
28
votes
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Women with curves - 9/5/2019
What turns a guy on so much about women with curves?
29 response(s),
48
votes
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how about??? - 9/5/2019
lets see if real
11 response(s),
27
votes
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buzz - 9/5/2019
i need a quite country girl that like sex in wood is this you
10 response(s),
15
votes
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V-Card Stories - 9/5/2019
So I lost my virginity to Craigslist personals in a fit of
desperation, and the guy didn't even believe that
I was a virgin, so kinda a sucky, weird experience. Anyone
wanna share their weirdass v-card stories???
7 response(s),
39
votes
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Curious - 9/5/2019
How many have had the strong desire to have a sexual encounter
with a same sex partner, but are afraid to act on it? What's
holding you back from trying it out? This goes for the guys
and also the ladies. Would you decide to try it anyway?
24 response(s),
35
votes
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Site Changes - 9/5/2019
When did they make these changes to basic member accounts?
I remember a time when there was 3 free IM chats a day and respond
to any messages was free.
33 response(s),
42
votes
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Changes Swapfinder.com - 9/5/2019
I would love to hear all the comments about the changes Swapfinder.com
is making in the last months or so.... Do you think they are
attracting more members or are they scaring them away in big numbers?? i think its the last one!!
And all of my suggestion i have mentioned to them were to
deaf ears! Inlcuding using IDEAL for the european market!!
21 response(s),
33
votes
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Anal - 9/5/2019
Does Anal hurts? Just curious because I'm willing
to give it a try
52 response(s),
60
votes
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WILL YOU BE MY APHRODISIAC? - 9/5/2019
1. When he comes up behind you when you're doing your
makeup/washing your hands/picking socks and puts
his arms around your waist and kisses your neck. This is
never not . <br><br>
2. When the cat sits on him and he pets her and she purrs. Even
though he claims to hate your cat/all cats, he obviously
is in love with your cat. <br><br>
3. When you come home and you ...
9 response(s),
41
votes
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Getting points - 9/4/2019
How can a standard member get some points.
21 response(s),
25
votes
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Fakes - 9/4/2019
Why are there so many fakes on here?
14 response(s),
31
votes
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Points - 9/4/2019
There have been a lot of points related posts. What tricks
do you have for getting points?
10 response(s),
11
votes
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What device do you use for this site? - 9/4/2019
I'm looking to see how well the site works for people
and using the information of which devices, Android phone,
iPhone, PC, MAC, Chrome, etc.. based on their device might
determine how well this site works for making connections.
15 response(s),
21
votes
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Points - 9/4/2019
Why should we have to pay to reply to a message
17 response(s),
19
votes
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Can you pay for membership with prepaid card? - 9/4/2019
I could be willing to throw out the price for a month of gold
membership to try it out, but from everything I've
experienced on the site (glitchiness, overall broken
features, etc.), it doesn't really inspire confidence
in handling my credit card info safely. Has anyone tried
with a prepaid card or been successful that way?
6 response(s),
8
votes
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Viewing profiles - 9/4/2019
Can't even view them now
8 response(s),
14
votes
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IM for Standard members - 9/4/2019
What happened to 3 IM messages a day for standard users?
Now I must spend 10 points per IM?
22 response(s),
24
votes
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IM and it's flaws - 9/4/2019
I'm often on IM chat, this used to be free many years
ago with 20 IM chats per day then it went to 3 per day and now
none unless you spend 10pt. Why is that after I spend 10pt
to chat but then there's no active chat so Swapfinder.com want another
10pt. Why is this happening?
22 response(s),
39
votes
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Is it just me or is it weird to be looking for love/a mate on this site? - 9/4/2019
Personally, and I think I can this for most people on here,
I am here looking, ultimately, for sex. I'm not looking
for a romantic relationship, I'm not looking for love,
I'm not looking for a valuable friendship. I am here
with the goal of meeting new women and hopefully having
sex with them. Now if relationships blossom from there,
I'm not going to run away, but I'm ...
8 response(s),
7
votes
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How do you tell someone the things she’s doing aren’t as sexy as she think they are? - 9/3/2019
I’ve been NSA hooking up with a gal for a month or so now,
we are fairly distant, so it only hapens when we both are
in the same area for work at the same time. She thinks the
blow jobs and hand jobs she gives are God’s gift to the
male genitalia, she makes snarky comments before starting
about how amazing she is at it, and warns me that she doesn’t
like to swallow so I’ll need to warn ...
46 response(s),
55
votes
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Want some fun fun fun with many people so if anyone else is up for it come on - 9/3/2019
Anyone
17 response(s),
30
votes
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FIRST ORGASM - 9/3/2019
GIRLS ONLY WHEN WAS YOUR FIRST TIME EXPERIENCE AN ORGASM
19 response(s),
41
votes
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Traveling and playing - 9/3/2019
When traveling out of your home area do people often
with people in the area they are traveling ? How is the
best way find couples or single people with. I
have seen several times people will say “if your not local
and just traveling through, don’t bother contacting.
“.
18 response(s),
31
votes
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being a straight asian man in Swapfinder.com - 9/3/2019
i had good experiences and memories in Swapfinder.com. But still it
is hard to be a straight asian man in sexual world. Do anyone also have difficult time to find a sexual partner?
10 response(s),
32
votes
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being a straight asian man in Swapfinder.com - 9/3/2019
i had good experiences and memories in Swapfinder.com. But still it
is hard to be a straight asian man in sexual world. Do anyone also have difficult time to find a sexual partner?
0 response(s),
1
vote
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being a straight asian man in Swapfinder.com - 9/3/2019
i had good experiences and memories in Swapfinder.com. But still it
is hard to be a straight asian man in sexual world. Do anyone also have difficult time to find a sexual partner?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Anal sex - 9/3/2019
What is the best position for first time anal?
36 response(s),
40
votes
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Did I screw up? - 9/3/2019
I accidentally told my wife my brother has a huge cock...now
she keeps asking questions
22 response(s),
25
votes
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Only users 35 and younger respond to this - 9/2/2019
So I want to ask all the users who are 35 and younger a couple
of questions. If you are 36 and older, please just ignore
this question. <br><br>
<br><br>
To users 35 and younger: <br><br>
1) How long have you been on Swapfinder.com? 2) Have you been enjoying your experience on Swapfinder.com? 3) Have you met anyone in person from Swapfinder.com? 4) How many people have you met from Swapfinder.com? 5) ...
28 response(s),
49
votes
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at what size? - 9/2/2019
at what size is a dick considered to big ?
25 response(s),
26
votes
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Wife Watch Hubby Suck - 9/2/2019
how many wives like sit back naked and watch her husband
suck cock? I love watch him take a load
35 response(s),
67
votes
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What to do here - 9/2/2019
Hey anybody having fun for labor day in Florida? <br><br>
Im ready party 😉
11 response(s),
29
votes
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LABOR DAY! - 9/2/2019
is honor the labor movement but mostly i think people
enjoy the holiday for the extra long weekend and a day
off from work, if you're lucky have off from work
today. i was thinking of going to the movies but was out late
last night; might just netflix in bed. you have any plans?
 anyone?? <br><br>
just curious. no need to panic and cause a stampede.
20 response(s),
37
votes
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What do i get here.. - 9/2/2019
I am new here and looking for a new friend what do i need to
do to find someone here if i'm just a basic member here??
36 response(s),
40
votes
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What do i get here.. - 9/2/2019
I am new here and looking for a new friend what do i need to
do to find someone here if i'm just a basic member here??
0 response(s),
2
votes
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nut quick - 9/2/2019
do men have performance anxiety
21 response(s),
37
votes
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The scent of sex? - 9/1/2019
A long time ago I read a book on sex I think the title was "how
to fuck a woman" It covered many topics but one
kind of stuck with was the chapter on the scent or smell
of sex and how it triggers mental stimulation with Pheromones.......
One of the Tips the book suggested was to leave the sheets
unwashed between sexual encounters with your mate leave
the scent from both your ...
19 response(s),
52
votes
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Points!! - 9/1/2019
we shouldn't need points just to chat and now i need
points to tell people i'm not interested. i could just
ignore them but i feel bad for not giving an answer. any better
ideas? advice or points would
11 response(s),
19
votes
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What is sex? - 9/1/2019
>>!
21 response(s),
45
votes
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What is your favorite part of a woman's anatomy? - 9/1/2019
What drives you wild?
34 response(s),
47
votes
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Te gustaría Juguetear conmigo un Rato con la Camara????? - 8/31/2019
Creo que es algo Sano , dejarse llevar, al ser visto, y la
interacción con los demás, no necesariamente es lo mas
importante, pero el hecho ya, de ser visto es muy excitante.........
<br><br>
saludos, buen.....................fin....o buen final
FELIZ
7 response(s),
39
votes
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Points - 8/31/2019
What is the best way to earn points. If it's getting
votes and replies please do it
38 response(s),
79
votes
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Need coins - 8/30/2019
Can anyone help me with some coins
27 response(s),
54
votes
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How can you tell if a profile is active? - 8/30/2019
You used to be able to see the last time a member visited the
site. Now it seems like Swapfinder.com have done away with that for some
reason. <br><br>
Is it because they are losing members because of all the
bs changes and would rather bury their heads in the sand
than address the tech issues the site has?
24 response(s),
58
votes
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How can you tell if a profile is active? - 8/30/2019
You used to be able to see the last time a member visited the
site. Now it seems like Swapfinder.com have done away with that for some
reason. <br><br>
Is it because they are losing members because of all the
bs changes and would rather bury their heads in the sand
than address the tech issues the site has?
2 response(s),
6
votes
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what's the point - 8/30/2019
Does Swapfinder.com's greedy point system encourage people to
actually upgrade to gold membership, or encourage people
to leave because people can't see content, can't
see messages, and can't chat with other people? I made this because of all the hookup sites this
one looked legit but to new people it will probably only
look greedy and .
26 response(s),
41
votes
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what's the point - 8/30/2019
Does Swapfinder.com's greedy point system encourage people to
actually upgrade to gold membership, or encourage people
to leave because people can't see content, can't
see messages, and can't chat with other people? I made this because of all the hookup sites this
one looked legit but to new people it will probably only
look greedy and .
2 response(s),
2
votes
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How many married men love trannys and panties? - 8/30/2019
How many off you J/O to tranny porn with your significant
others panties?
36 response(s),
51
votes
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3year dry spell - 8/30/2019
So long story short I moved back to California almost 4 years ago. My girlfriend at the time decided to go back home. And I live in the middle of nowhere. No choosing of any kind of women. Its a ghost town.. so for the last three years I've pretty much tired my left hand out and I'm running out of options. So are there any tips, any advise from people that have had success on this website ...
9 response(s),
13
votes
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Hurricane Dorian advice? - 8/29/2019
As my fellow Floridians and I are battening down the hatches,
filling our gas tanks and hoarding bottled water, I'm
wondering if anyone has some little know valuable preparation
advice? One thing I do is freeze gallon jugs of water several
days prior to the storm and any power outages. Blocks of
ice melted very slowly in my freezer and lasted 4 days post-Irma.
<br><br>
No cheap ...
40 response(s),
62
votes
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how many - 8/29/2019
how many of you guys out there secretly would like to give
a blow job? lets be honest fellas!
42 response(s),
62
votes
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Top or bottom> - 8/29/2019
I find that most men on this site love to btm, but are there
any guys or cpls that love to peg and top a man?
31 response(s),
65
votes
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does it matter - 8/29/2019
Does it matter if you are attached single or married surely
most people are just looking to hook up
27 response(s),
38
votes
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how many people really meet up - 8/29/2019
<br><br>
Hi do people really meet or do they just chat
41 response(s),
48
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Top Fan Issues? - 8/29/2019
It seems I can no longer view the messages and profiles of
my top fan or those I spent points to be a top fan of. I just
get the "upgrade" screen when I try. <br><br>
Is this a glitch or a new policy, did they cancel the top fan
program?
24 response(s),
36
votes
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Top Fan Issues? - 8/29/2019
It seems I can no longer view the messages and profiles of
my top fan or those I spent points to be a top fan of. I just
get the "upgrade" screen when I try. <br><br>
Is this a glitch or a new policy, did they cancel the top fan
program?
3 response(s),
8
votes
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Asking for a friend invite - 8/28/2019
How can you ask for or send a friend invite on this "new
and improved "IM cause I don't see the send invite
button that used to be there
20 response(s),
36
votes
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Getting spanked/pain - 8/28/2019
Ladies: (for those who do) what makes you seek a good spank
and physical pain in addition to sex? Even a woman that doesnt
necessarily like pain, will enjoy a smack or two often times).
Heightened sensorial state, I understand and my question
would then be about how you separate the pain from the pleasure
in order to cum harder - do you have to separate those at all
or (as I think) a natural ...
38 response(s),
61
votes
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why - 8/27/2019
does so many people list and describe what they want and
are looking for yet when it comes down it it seems most
are just wanting a social platform on or a text buddy?
32 response(s),
42
votes
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Fakes - 8/27/2019
Why are people on here if they are just going to flake out?
38 response(s),
34
votes
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Fakes - 8/27/2019
Why are people on here if they are just going to flake out?
3 response(s),
6
votes
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Am I so wrong for thinking that married men are so hot? - 8/27/2019
Your thoughts on this please.
46 response(s),
65
votes
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Why does my access to pic and video come and go - 8/27/2019
is there some reason why sometimes I have access to pic and
videos
29 response(s),
33
votes
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Why does my access to pic and video come and go - 8/27/2019
is there some reason why sometimes I have access to pic and
videos
1 response(s),
2
votes
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Why does my access to pic and video come and go - 8/27/2019
is there some reason why sometimes I have access to pic and
videos
1 response(s),
3
votes
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Why does my access to pic and video come and go - 8/27/2019
is there some reason why sometimes I have access to pic and
videos
1 response(s),
6
votes
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Coworker? - 8/26/2019
Anyone else have an older coworker some days you’d
like to know what she’d taste like and how she’d feel
bent over her desk?
65 response(s),
66
votes
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who? - 8/26/2019
who else finds it very erotic to lick a pussy they just filled
with ?
36 response(s),
41
votes
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Drunk?? - 8/26/2019
How often do you go out and get really drunk? <br><br>
Like really let loose and just get trashed?
39 response(s),
29
votes
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How do you tell if a guy is gay or courious when out shopping? - 8/26/2019
I'd like to find a partner for casual fun time.
55 response(s),
52
votes
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Where are they - 8/26/2019
Where are all the gay black men in kansas city
19 response(s),
38
votes
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What draws women to a profile? - 8/25/2019
I've been curious about this because I've heard
so many conflicting statements. I mean it's no problem
for me attract women offline, but I am using Swapfinder.com avoid
the dating scene. <br><br>
Some profiles seem be doing great if they display dick
picks, and yet it seems be such an overused approach.
Any suggestions or feedback will be welcomed. 
40 response(s),
82
votes
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Ladies, do you like stockings and garter belts? - 8/25/2019
I have been wondering....do you ladies like to wear stockings
and garter belts or do you wear them because a partner
likes to see you in them?
27 response(s),
74
votes
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Sex with the Ex - 8/25/2019
How many of you have had sex with your ex? <br><br>
How often? <br><br>
How did it happen?
40 response(s),
64
votes
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Do you take enemas ? and if you do, how often ? - 8/25/2019
I usually take 2 or 3 times a week enemas and always before
I .
24 response(s),
45
votes
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Trafficking - 8/25/2019
A long time ago I saw a movie about a college student who was
trying to get from NY down to Florida hitching . She wound
up in a mobile home with an older couple . Come to find out
t the pot belly woman pussy for her husband
. . But the college student didn't know at the time
and she tore off a piece of pussy for the old man . Before the
movie ended the old man was pimping off both ...
22 response(s),
51
votes
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Married Men - 8/24/2019
How may guys her are marred but are bi and your wife does not
know?
42 response(s),
56
votes
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Have you reached anal orgasm? - 8/24/2019
Yes, anal sex can be enjoyable. And yes, anal orgasms are
totally thing
38 response(s),
67
votes
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You there what you up to - 8/24/2019
the shower
10 response(s),
29
votes
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Was everyone also shy when they joined here? - 8/24/2019
Just curious ☺️
68 response(s),
82
votes
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Want some fun fun fun - 8/24/2019
You there what you up to
11 response(s),
35
votes
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Chat issues - 8/23/2019
I know they've recently updated the chat to only requiring
points, but you'd think they'd make it less buggy.
Anyone else wish they'd allow you to refresh more often?
It seems like users only see your chats when it refreshes,
but you can't control it. Any tips?
47 response(s),
66
votes
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Gagahi - 8/23/2019
I live in Asia and have talked to a of Asian women on
here since joining a couple of days ago. But after a few messages
sent back and forth, a LOT of them have tried to get me to join
Gagahi so I can talk to them there. <br><br>
Gagahi seems to be very expensive, and I smell a con somewhere
(I'm not gonna join it), but can't work how
these girls could benefit from me paying ...
12 response(s),
24
votes
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What Does It Mean? - 8/23/2019
Lately I've noticed similar notices throughout the
site's pages, including the chat rooms and the advice
line page. <br><br>
Maybe it has something to do with the ongoing changes the
site is making. <br><br>
Just wondering. <br><br>
"ADMIN ONLY Site: Swapfinder.com Domain Cobrand quot;...
33 response(s),
69
votes
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Question is all about IM - 8/23/2019
I just wanna ask why this happened, WHY IM closed free option,
can make 1 chat per point but its huge point, from where
should these points, <br><br>
Life is boring now.. guys any one have suggestion,
30 response(s),
45
votes
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Hips, ass or tits? - 8/23/2019
When you first see a woman what do you find yourself looking
at first?
55 response(s),
58
votes
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Younger women - 8/22/2019
Do the older people...aka over 35 find that the
people on here haven't been taught what common courtesy
is it is it just ?
41 response(s),
39
votes
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To continue with the "No mouth kissing" concept .... - 8/22/2019
Kissing on the mouth can cause gum disease, pass on sexual
diseases, cavities in your teeth, cold soars, viruses,
flu, etc. <br><br> <br><br> . Anthropologist theorize kissing the forehead was the
original kissing , and it was used to determine the wellness
of the other. <br><br> <br><br> So "Kissing" [mouth to mouth] was mentioned,
and I ...
14 response(s),
30
votes
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Did they deactivate the messenger? - 8/22/2019
Did they deactivate the instant messenger function on
here for standard members? It doesn't work for me anymore.
56 response(s),
50
votes
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Be more selective with your chats - 8/22/2019
I see people complaining about chat not being fair. Don't
just try to message everyone and hope something works.
Find what you like and go for . You'll enjoy it more
as well
31 response(s),
52
votes
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NO free chats? - 8/22/2019
How many people upgraded to gold bc of no free chats and how
many just left?
49 response(s),
52
votes
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Regarding kissing.. - 8/22/2019
I read and commented on a previous post, then pondered this
Q. We have experienced a few times, couples that have the “
no kissing” rule..usually being explained as it’s
too intimate, , it’s something only we share..We get
that. Yet, the female will willingly share her most private
needs with another male..be that orally or inseminated...with
the husbands approval, yet kissing is off ...
33 response(s),
42
votes
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How important is kissing? - 8/22/2019
Do you enjoy a kiss that rocks your socks off and you
into passion? Or are you someone how would rather jump right
into body kissing. <br><br>
Thoughts?
27 response(s),
29
votes
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How important is kissing? - 8/22/2019
Do you enjoy a kiss that rocks your socks off and you
into passion? Or are you someone how would rather jump right
into body kissing. <br><br>
Thoughts?
2 response(s),
3
votes
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getting off ? and how ? - 8/21/2019
plz let me no how u do it ?
38 response(s),
47
votes
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Thicker or Longer? - 8/20/2019
So tell me ladies. Do you like them thicker, or longer?
69 response(s),
89
votes
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How Rude? - 8/20/2019
Which is worse, sending a random message to someone who
has no idea who you are or them not replying to that message?
44 response(s),
46
votes
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IM chat - 8/20/2019
It’s hard to chat with people to hook up. When u do get points
and people message u. They take points for responding to
the message
64 response(s),
77
votes
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Admin message - 8/20/2019
recently over the last week or so , I have been getting an
"admin messages" message on my account , This
started about a week ago , The messages pop up 2 maybe 3 times
per day . Yet I get no messages from admin , not even in my account email
. I've contacted support and their answer is not to
worry about it ( which is no answer ) I'm not worried
remotely about it , but I am ...
39 response(s),
48
votes
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Mood Music - 8/20/2019
What kind of music to like listening to while you are fucking?
28 response(s),
28
votes
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Mood Music - 8/20/2019
What kind of music to like listening to while you are fucking?
2 response(s),
4
votes
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Top fan - 8/20/2019
Anyone else voting t be a fan then not there couple days later?
27 response(s),
31
votes
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IM - 8/20/2019
It's not enough we have to put together pts for one
chat so now Swapfinder.com is stealing them every time the im glitches
, what a joke.
30 response(s),
46
votes
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Mistaken identity - 8/20/2019
Anyone ever been mistaken for the opposite sex on this site?
I get a lot of gay or bi men wanting to duck my cock. Which I
don't have by the way. I'm not confused, just wondering
what the hell! Okay. Thanks.
63 response(s),
98
votes
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IM s does being a friend make a difference - 8/19/2019
A lot of people are complaining and it is hard give up something
that has been there. 5 chats a day - 3 chats - or with points Does anyone know if a person can (without using 10 pts)
with a person listed as a friend?
43 response(s),
62
votes
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no more free 2 chats a day, Boycott Adultfriendfinders. - 8/19/2019
Feee chats never did much good for nonpaying so why take
them away? Most days no one ever answers anyways, almost
everyone on the search page has been on for years and never
meet. Been on more than years and never had a person meet
that I felt was a normal person so I say WHY take the 3 free
chats, we made the site like they have a lot more customers.
move on Craigslist. Just don't bother ...
65 response(s),
104
votes
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no more free 2 chats a day, Boycott Adultfriendfinders. - 8/19/2019
Feee chats never did much good for nonpaying so why take
them away? Most days no one ever answers anyways, almost
everyone on the search page has been on for years and never
meet. Been on more than years and never had a person meet
that I felt was a normal person so I say WHY take the 3 free
chats, we made the site like they have a lot more customers.
move on Craigslist. Just don't bother ...
1 response(s),
7
votes
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no more free 2 chats a day, Boycott Adultfriendfinders. - 8/19/2019
Feee chats never did much good for nonpaying so why take
them away? Most days no one ever answers anyways, almost
everyone on the search page has been on for years and never
meet. Been on more than years and never had a person meet
that I felt was a normal person so I say WHY take the 3 free
chats, we made the site like they have a lot more customers.
move on Craigslist. Just don't bother ...
0 response(s),
8
votes
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IMs - 8/18/2019
Is anyone else having problems with IMs on a regular basis?
I hate spend on points, when it seems like IMs are
done most of the time. Just curious..
53 response(s),
78
votes
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IMs - 8/18/2019
Is anyone else having problems with IMs on a regular basis?
I hate spend on points, when it seems like IMs are
done most of the time. Just curious..
3 response(s),
4
votes
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Meeting up - 8/18/2019
If you are communicating with someone here and get the
point where you want meet, do you pick a good safe place
meet or do you just throw caution the wind? I have done
both ways. Do you want see the person in a regular setting
before you get intimate?
33 response(s),
54
votes
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How to keep sexy lingerie out of the back of the lingerie drawer? - 8/18/2019
Every now and then I get in the mood for new lingerie and the
recent post seeking lingerie sites got my mojo going. I
have to think many women are like me and purchase or receive
as a gift new lingerie and as quick as you get home the new
lingerie ends up in the back of your lingerie drawer never
to see daylight again. Maybe it doesn't fit quite right,
rubs the wrong way, too loose, too ...
44 response(s),
99
votes
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Why so mean? - 8/18/2019
I get this is sex site. So save the sermon Why is "no" not good enough for males on here?
Do you men feel like women on here should fuck you JUST because
were on here? <br><br>
Fuck the points I want an answer
55 response(s),
73
votes
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Any similar website without so many restrictions if dont pay? - 8/17/2019
Any similar website without so many restrictions if dont
?
73 response(s),
108
votes
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Do people really feel entitled to get what they want without effort of thought!? - 8/17/2019
I have been back on here for 24odd Hrs and i have read
a few blogs, questions and articles. <br><br>
It strikes me that a significant proportion are from "Single"
men just whinge and moan that they are not getting what
they want! <br><br>
Is this the case? <br><br>
The last time I was here you posted a picture/video or 2.
Said hello, chatted for a ...
22 response(s),
44
votes
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Meeting real people - 8/16/2019
Is it really that herd to find someone who will talk and then
meet up for real??
55 response(s),
70
votes
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is this a place to meet sex partners? - 8/16/2019
is this the sight
61 response(s),
64
votes
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Recent Changes - 8/16/2019
Is anyone else as frustrated with the recent changes to
the site? It seems like they are doing everything they can
to run off the non-paying members. and E- were so
flaky I let my Gold expire and now all they do is eat points
and provide nothing in return.
37 response(s),
74
votes
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Recent Changes - 8/16/2019
Is anyone else as frustrated with the recent changes to
the site? It seems like they are doing everything they can
to run off the non-paying members. and E- were so
flaky I let my Gold expire and now all they do is eat points
and provide nothing in return.
3 response(s),
8
votes
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why - 8/16/2019
I have noticed a lot of people bitching about people not
having profile pics. maybe they are DL, maybe prominent
in their area, whatever. what makes you think the pic is
even real? I prefer to talk a little to see if there is mutual
interest, then send pics. what do you think?
24 response(s),
36
votes
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why........ - 8/16/2019
why would any one take a chance (unless you don't give
a shit) on putting a pic up or using a on this site
after it was hacked a year or so ago? half the crap on here
doesn't work properly. what would make your think
they could protect your stuff, when they cant even make
the site work? I always send pics to whomever I am interested
in
16 response(s),
27
votes
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Been caught stroking? - 8/16/2019
Have you ever had someone catch you jerking off? <br><br>
Who was it? <br><br>
How did they react? <br><br>
How did you react?
52 response(s),
73
votes
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Opening - 8/15/2019
Whats your best opening line that you like to use?
39 response(s),
53
votes
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¡ser amante y enamorarse? - 8/15/2019
cuando se empieza como amante aunque uno no quiera con el
paso del tiempo se involucran sentimientos, o no
14 response(s),
29
votes
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Ghost? - 8/15/2019
Anyone else ever find someone that seems like a great match,
chat a few times, seems like a meet is coming soon and then
the profile doesn’t seem to be online again??
26 response(s),
38
votes
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Ghost? - 8/15/2019
Anyone else ever find someone that seems like a great match,
chat a few times, seems like a meet is coming soon and then
the profile doesn’t seem to be online again??
4 response(s),
8
votes
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Younger Women, Older Men - 8/15/2019
I am curious what a lady, say in her 20's would
see in a man my age 59. Been on a few times in real life and
this strikes me as odd.
59 response(s),
75
votes
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did you ever notice...... - 8/15/2019
did you ever notice in the adult rooms, no one is looking
for action! why are we on here? WTF? most people on here are
fakes or too afraid to actually meet! does anyone join this
site not looking to have sex?
30 response(s),
41
votes
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The NEW and IMPROVED Swapfinder.com - 8/15/2019
Has it really changed? Does work consistently? Looking
for feedback as I planning on upgrading to Gold based on
reviews. Thanks.
36 response(s),
49
votes
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female female male threesome? - 8/15/2019
is it normal for ur missus to want to watch u fuck another
in a FFM threesome situation?
30 response(s),
46
votes
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funny isnt it? - 8/15/2019
the site can barely keep features running, yet on your
birthday, the clock has just barely ticked over and your
age changes reflect the new..
32 response(s),
40
votes
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Swapfinder.com Points - 8/15/2019
why does Swapfinder.com decducts points initiate a IM previously
when as member we used get 3 points we could with 3
person
42 response(s),
49
votes
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Top Fan? - 8/14/2019
Can anyone explain why when I tipped to become a top fan the
person only received 10 of the 100 I tipped?? If I want to
tip points I’ve got shouldn’t the person get them all??
20 response(s),
26
votes
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get some - 8/14/2019
not bad hhhhhhhhhhoooooooooooottttttttttt .. very ty
.
8 response(s),
22
votes
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i would really like to know - 8/14/2019
more shootings in america and yet still nothing done about
it. any dickwad can roll up and buy a repeating rifle.i know
its not the gun thats the problem but why make it easy for
them to be bought
27 response(s),
43
votes
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rm at the beginning of username Customer service response. - 8/14/2019
I noticed several members asking what the em at the beginning
of an meant and this is customer service explanation.
<br><br>
<br><br>
Thank you for your email. <br><br>
The account has been deleted due to inactivity for over
two (2) years that has been change handle by the system.
10 response(s),
24
votes
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Another message question - 8/14/2019
Does this apply to everyone, or just standard member? I
have to answer the incoming to see their location
. I do not mind chatting, goal is to meet someone local. Enjoyed
it more when I could see location prior to answering. Also
seems to be really slow. Is it just me, or anyone else experiencing
this? Thanks
19 response(s),
47
votes
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Let's talk - 8/14/2019
Who near Monmouth county wants to see me?😂
13 response(s),
10
votes
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Points - 8/14/2019
How to get points
12 response(s),
12
votes
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getting flirts - 8/14/2019
I'm getting flirts from gold member women. When I check
I find them on IM try to chat with them& get no reply.
Why is this are they just a tease, does IM not really work
(just losing points), or is it something else?
29 response(s),
34
votes
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What is the best way - 8/14/2019
I am trying to think of the best way to break up with a girl
who I like but can't be with because of the things she
wants from me. And the things she wants me to do to her. Plus
she won't compromise with me on any of it. There are
many more reasons, but I don't think I need to mention
them here. Can anyone give me some advice on the best way to break up
with her? Thanks for the advice ...
37 response(s),
45
votes
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what's the deal?? - 8/14/2019
so i'm asking this to satisfy curiosity. with all the
repetitive questions about points and the IM feature,
i'm wondering what's the deal with that? a person
uses a certain number of points to chat but if that mbr doesn't
'reply', do you, as the user, lose those points,
or do the points go back to you and you attempt a IM with someone
else? i'm asking because the ...
31 response(s),
42
votes
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Why do I have to do this? - 8/13/2019
Didn't need do this before just message people
on IM. <br><br>
Oh well, here it is. Flooding the Advice Lines with junk
just for some numbers. <br><br>
Anyone else doing this?
28 response(s),
27
votes
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What does em_ in front of a name mean? - 8/13/2019
Remake master Real me
17 response(s),
22
votes
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What does em_ in front of a name mean? - 8/13/2019
Remake master Real me
2 response(s),
6
votes
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What does em_ in front of a name mean? - 8/13/2019
Remake master Real me
0 response(s),
5
votes
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How hard is it to ask a real and simple and direct question - 8/13/2019
lately it seems half the advice questions are totally rambling,
incoherent stream of consciousness blurbs that i can't
understand and see to come from a disjointed mind. <br><br>
is it possible to make a clear statement, offer a reasonable
scenario and then frame your question. even those for whom
english isn't their first or even second language,
you can still frame a clear ...
30 response(s),
39
votes
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Points sustwm. - 8/13/2019
So with this new points system how is everyone chatting?
Are y'all putting alternate ways to reach you in your
intro or just rolling the dice?
25 response(s),
30
votes
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Adding Friends? - 8/13/2019
What are the benefits of inviting a friend or accepting?
I thought you might be able to communicate with them and
share pics but that doesnt seem to be the case. thanks
22 response(s),
36
votes
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Fantasies - 8/13/2019
What kind of fantasies are people’s favourite?
28 response(s),
37
votes
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Domi or sub - 8/12/2019
This can be either m or f just seeing what most people prefer
and what type they prefer their partners be . This isnt a pole as much just curiosty . For self Im bi thats heavily
into sub in mm and with mf sometimes I find it hard to make a transition to domi if required , Do
others share this ?
39 response(s),
53
votes
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Attractions - 8/12/2019
How well of knowing - is it good.
23 response(s),
41
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ass shots - 8/12/2019
can some one plz tell me what im missing with anal sex? ive
never done it before but ive been asked alot i need details!!
(duh i know what it is just never tried it)
34 response(s),
35
votes
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What do you use to message? - 8/12/2019
I was wondering what you guys use for discrete messaging
because I'm not sure how to recommend any safe messaging
to continue the conversation without seeming creepy
or scammy haha. Any suggestions?
20 response(s),
27
votes
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Ghosting - 8/12/2019
Have you ever been ghosted? As a single it happens to
me semi regularly. To combat thus I chat with folks for a
bit before committing to a meet. It is not foolproof but
it has cut back on it some. What do you do to ensure a meet and
greet is on the up and up?
28 response(s),
30
votes
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Looking for a mom to please - 8/12/2019
I am looking for a mom to please around San Jose, CA area.
I am also open for kink. Any one interested?
26 response(s),
32
votes
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IM?? - 8/12/2019
Do you think IM will ever go back to the way it was? <br><br>
Are gold members having any problems with IM?
38 response(s),
33
votes
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IS HE /SHE REAL ? - 8/12/2019
I have read so many artickes and chat with many people on
the site . Everyone complains about people being .
I have had experiences where you talk to someone all goes
well and then they rattle about how people are . So you
agree to meet him. Then the common excuse i can't make
it . Same day same time you were to meet he is on IM chatting
What is interesting the ones complaining are the ...
46 response(s),
74
votes
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Couples fantasy - 8/12/2019
Can never find a couple 's bi or verse I just think
a real dick would feel better then a strap on . I'd like to find and female couple to try , female
and female, debating on to guys but If your going to experience
you might as well go big or go home right do it all so then you
said you why not live life to its fullest right but still
haven't been able to find any way to me or ...
17 response(s),
26
votes
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1969 - 8/12/2019
Whatever happened to free love balence equality hope .
What happened to knowing the truth behind the lies of the
government. Deception hopeless worthless the government
if youlook at the Constitution you can see if we feel
our government is under tire any which look at what they're
doing to taking we're going to be with you keep control
over everything because they're q* scared ...
8 response(s),
23
votes
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What ever happened to the three free chats a day - 8/12/2019
I think it was a good thing now there's multiple accounts
from same person . It's dragging this sites process.
Why all the dam glitchy crap happens with instant messenger
missing ims I can go on but irelivent. Bring back three free
chats !!!
21 response(s),
37
votes
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new - 8/11/2019
anyone else new on here?
2 response(s),
1
vote
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new - 8/11/2019
anyone else new on here?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Anyone in the central Florida area ? - 8/11/2019
Looking for some fun in their vacation? I see so many sexy
tourists out here mmm
11 response(s),
16
votes
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instant messenger - 8/10/2019
why are there so many bots on IM?
46 response(s),
51
votes
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CAM SHOWS - 8/10/2019
I love to perform on cam for men or women and groups, in fact
times the more who watch the hornier I become!. Do you
like to be in a position to tell the cam person what to do for
you or let them do what they think in the hope you will enjoy
the show?..Interested to know your views and if anyone
wants a private cam show let me know and maybe after 2 weeks
when my are all back to I can find ...
18 response(s),
26
votes
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Geez people it's just "Hey" - 8/10/2019
I don't know why people are so put-off with , "Hey",
as an opening salutation on I.M. [or an email header]. <br><br>
What's the first thing you do when you answer your cellphone/landline?
You say, "Hello". One word. <br><br>
Symbolically, what's the ringtone saying [or whatever
noise your device makes] ....it is basically saying , ...
30 response(s),
56
votes
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Are shaved genitals more fun or not? - 8/10/2019
I find being hairless is cleaner and more erogenous....
51 response(s),
54
votes
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Best conversation starters? - 8/9/2019
What’s the best way to start a conversation on here? A
hello is too simple, but there’s not always much to go
off of in a profile. So what ways have you found success in
getting to know someone here?
33 response(s),
40
votes
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Best conversation starters? - 8/9/2019
What’s the best way to start a conversation on here? A
hello is too simple, but there’s not always much to go
off of in a profile. So what ways have you found success in
getting to know someone here?
0 response(s),
2
votes
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New point and IM rules - 8/9/2019
How long is Swapfinder.com keeping the new point an IM rules?
42 response(s),
66
votes
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New point and IM rules - 8/9/2019
How long is Swapfinder.com keeping the new point an IM rules?
6 response(s),
6
votes
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When - 8/9/2019
It seems like with all the changes on this site that there
is seldom meets now. I met someone about 2 months ago after
talking off and on for a couple of years. How long has it been
since you have met someone in person on this site?
20 response(s),
24
votes
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what is the best type of 3some or orgy??? - 8/9/2019
I was wondering what type of threesomes or orgies you all
would prefer... I personally like to be either between two or men or maybe
a couple of men and a transgender, but what do you guys think???
36 response(s),
44
votes
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what is the best type of 3some or orgy??? - 8/9/2019
I was wondering what type of threesomes or orgies you all
would prefer... I personally like to be either between two or men or maybe
a couple of men and a transgender, but what do you guys think???
0 response(s),
1
vote
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what is the best type of 3some or orgy??? - 8/9/2019
I was wondering what type of threesomes or orgies you all
would prefer... I personally like to be either between two or men or maybe
a couple of men and a transgender, but what do you guys think???
0 response(s),
1
vote
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Events - 8/9/2019
Is there a place on this site where events are posted (i.e.,
house parties, club theme nights, others looking to meet)?
31 response(s),
55
votes
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Confirmed members - 8/9/2019
Is it just or are most of the "Confirmed" members
on here are web cam people? They send you a link to their personal
cam site!
33 response(s),
44
votes
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Confirmed members - 8/9/2019
Is it just or are most of the "Confirmed" members
on here are web cam people?
2 response(s),
2
votes
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Men with shaved heads...Hot or Not? - 8/9/2019
just curious what the ladies out there think....
30 response(s),
27
votes
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no te pasa k la gente mas interesante o k te pretende la mayor de las veces esta muy lejos - 8/9/2019
HOLA SALUDOS , A Swapfinder.com , Y A LA PAGINA. DESDE
GUADALAJARA JALISCO--MEXICO MI TEMA ES , , Que la pagina a cambiado mucho., ,, Y también
las personas, CREO K DEBEN DE TENER UN CHAT MAS DIVERTIDO Y SIN TANTA RESTRICCION.
O PEDIR TANTOS PUNTOS O HACERLO GRATIS VARIAS HORAS EN HORARIOS DE CADA PAIS-
CUAL ES T OPINION? DEJA MENSAJE, , Y DI LO QUE TE ...
4 response(s),
12
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Cam watching - 8/8/2019
HI Ladies and men!!, <br><br>
I love to play on webcam and as a submissive love to obey your
orders..who would like to when we can USE me as a sub on cam
for their pleasure?..I like to stroke cum and eat it, willing
to wear lingerie if that float's your boat..get in
touch and we can have some fun and if you are close to me why
not do it for real?
12 response(s),
26
votes
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Cuddly lovers - 8/8/2019
Do people enjoy time spent with more rounded males and/or
females. sadly some of us will never be of the trim, taut
and terrific bodytype, yet some seem to think the idea of
enjoying pleasure with those of us who are overweight (undertall
 is not good. Unfortunately it appears to me that males
are discriminated more than females in this respect. I
would welcome Swapfinder.com members thoughts on this.
17 response(s),
25
votes
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What’s up with am or per? - 8/8/2019
Have you ever noticed that if you truly have a brain and can
discern fake ass shit, that all fake ass shit here involving
females have the term am or per in the profile? “Am looking
for massive cock, you, love” blah. Or Per. WTF does per
represent?..I ain’t that fukkin old..lol....so why
the hell are we indunuated with this shit?
10 response(s),
27
votes
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Any luck? - 8/8/2019
Anyone having much luck with the IM lately? <br><br>
Seems like no one chats
20 response(s),
23
votes
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Any luck? - 8/8/2019
Anyone having much luck with the IM lately? <br><br>
Seems like no one chats
4 response(s),
6
votes
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Do all ladies like watching dick on can - 8/8/2019
Tell me ladies do you like watching bbc on can and what you
likje for us to do
33 response(s),
29
votes
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What is the weirdest reason you didn't get a hookup - 8/8/2019
Mine just happened tonight and she asked about my calf muscles
to start off so i went and measured them inches around.
She liked my photos and torso shot, said I was cute then
had me take a picture of my calves flexed together which
was hard to do btw. Then nothing she stopped texting. Guess
they weren't ripped enough for her. I walk like 70 miles
a week and don't work my legs with ...
25 response(s),
36
votes
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What is the weirdest reason you didn't get a hookup - 8/8/2019
Mine just happened tonight and she asked about my calf muscles
to start off so I went and measured them inches around. <br><br>
She liked my photos and torso shot, said I was cute then had me take a picture of my calves flexed together which
was hard to do btw. Then nothing she stopped texting. Guess
they weren't ripped enough for her. I walk like 70 miles
a week and don't ...
15 response(s),
3
votes
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Chest Hair? - 8/7/2019
Yes or no? If no, then....shave, wax or laser?
33 response(s),
29
votes
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Helo hello halo - 8/7/2019
Whats up sexy people. Here in Fargo ND looking at the beautiful
people just seeing what is going on and who is going on. You
are all beautiful.
15 response(s),
25
votes
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Blackmail - 8/7/2019
Anyone else on here had someone try to blackmail them?
21 response(s),
24
votes
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Sex? - 8/7/2019
I know there are a ton more guys than women and couples here,
but is it really this difficult to have fun?
51 response(s),
45
votes
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IM - 8/7/2019
Does the IM on this site even work? I wonder if any user actually
gets my messages.
48 response(s),
51
votes
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Points? - 8/7/2019
Does this point system actually work?
35 response(s),
41
votes
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sex academy on Swapfinder.com - 8/7/2019
is Sex Academy thing free? because Swapfinder.com charged me for gold
member and i specifically made sure i didn't apply
for it
13 response(s),
25
votes
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Browser and Point Issues - 8/7/2019
I switched to Brave Browser because I want a more secure
browser doesn't collect and share all my data.
I have noticed when I message someone, my points are
taken away but nothing happens. The message doesn't
even send. I have also noticed I am not getting points
for some things. I tried it on my phone and messaging works.
I know the Swapfinder.com has done something different lately
I ...
15 response(s),
20
votes
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Anyone else pay by checking assount - 8/7/2019
So last week I signed up for gold online checking,
probably not my smartest move. Anyway it's been 6 days
and still not a gold member. Sent the line a message
2 days ago asking reasons why, no stinking response yet,
still not a gold member WTF, don't even know how to cancel
payment. Anybody else have these issues? Go a head trolls
start your snarky responses and yes the has
in it.
27 response(s),
25
votes
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Why don’t gold members respond to IM? - 8/7/2019
I know gold members probably get a ton of chat requests,
but with IM non gold members points would it be too
much to ask to get some kind of response?
32 response(s),
29
votes
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erotic round robin - 8/7/2019
I enjoy reading the many stories in the Erotic section here
, some fiction some fact , it doesnt make a difference to
me its all fun and tintillating . I have posted there aswell
. But I'm not sure if its a Swapfinder.com script issue or not but sometimes
I see 2 , 3 , or 4 posts of the exact same story ? why is ?
<br><br>
I do know Swapfinder.com is terrible at posting what you type with any ...
22 response(s),
33
votes
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How Stingy Is Swapfinder.com - 8/6/2019
Why do they have a point earning system and then not give
you points?
61 response(s),
60
votes
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2 women - 8/6/2019
For many years I have thought of having 2 women in bed with
me.... first time I did see on a video I got very excited...
and thought what a luck guy he is... after see video
I want to try it myself.... but always never doing anything
about... my question is what the best way to ask for 2 women
35 response(s),
42
votes
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2 women - 8/6/2019
For many years I have thought of having 2 women in bed with
me.... first time I did see on a video I got very excited...
and thought what a luck guy he is... after see video
I want to try it myself.... but always never doing anything
about... my question is what the best way to ask for 2 women
1 response(s),
3
votes
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2 women - 8/6/2019
For many years I have thought of having 2 women in bed with
me.... first time I did see on a video I got very excited...
and thought what a luck guy he is... after see video
I want to try it myself.... but always never doing anything
about... my question is what the best way to ask for 2 women
3 response(s),
5
votes
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2 women - 8/6/2019
For many years I have thought of having 2 women in bed with
me.... first time I did see on a video I got very excited...
and thought what a luck guy he is... after see video
I want to try it myself.... but always never doing anything
about... my question is what the best way to ask for 2 women
0 response(s),
3
votes
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Birthday sex - 8/6/2019
Should I ask for sex on my birthday ? Its been a while
31 response(s),
35
votes
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Ladies is there a difference between..... - 8/6/2019
......Yoga pants and leggings? Don't get me wrong
not complaining Both types on women are sexy as hell to me!!
Just want to know if there is a difference
26 response(s),
36
votes
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3 sum - 8/6/2019
I, m looking for a hot 3sum in pa
20 response(s),
29
votes
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Whats with the point system - 8/6/2019
I'm posting, liking, commenting on other post but
haven't received a point yet for doing so??? Plus you
when you do have points (of which I use to get) and you want
to be someone's top fan they only allow you to be a top
fan once every few days to cut back on activity. If
I remember the wording correctly. Now I've posted
this question I probably still won't get a single ...
30 response(s),
31
votes
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is this real? - 8/5/2019
is this a real app
32 response(s),
33
votes
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Wtf - 8/5/2019
What do we keep doing this.
30 response(s),
36
votes
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Marking - 8/5/2019
For the past six months, I have been chatting, texting,
phone calling and exchanging pics with a girl I got to know
from this site. We still haven't met in person because
we live in different states. When we do meet in person, she
wants me to mark her. This for her means I am to pee on her.
I really can't get into the idea of doing this. Plus,
I don't want it done to me. I don't ...
27 response(s),
34
votes
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What's the Most fun any was has had with someone they meet on here? - 8/5/2019
Wanting to know what people have done and seen when they
have meet other members.
27 response(s),
19
votes
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Cam link gone from mobile app? - 8/5/2019
A of days ago I was thinking that something was different
on the mobile app. Today I figured what it was. <br><br>
The task bar at the bottom used to have icons for messages,
cams and the with the 3 lines. When you clicked that it
took you to notifications, what's , my settings
etc. <br><br>
Now the Taskbar is showing the message icon and instead
of the cam link it ...
8 response(s),
24
votes
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london females - 8/5/2019
any fems in london area want meet up tomorrow night
13 response(s),
27
votes
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Eating - 8/5/2019
Women. What would you think if the man ate you and ate his
off of you after he got done you
19 response(s),
29
votes
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Camel toe.......... - 8/5/2019
Is it sexy or not?? I think its hella sexy
myself!!!!! 😜
46 response(s),
35
votes
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IM’s Response - 8/5/2019
Have any of you get a response back from someone in IM message?
When I sent someone a message through IM, I usually get a
response back from someone. Now, there’s seems
to be less and less response through IM messages. Do you
think it had to do with recent changes on the site or maybe
they’re not interested in chatting. What do you think
everyone?
29 response(s),
21
votes
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Men that lazy or? - 8/5/2019
Yesterday briefly messenger worked, , received what
felt like generic message , I responded but no response
and showed they were on line. Today received generic
, clearly had not read my profile. As it was recering to married
women, I am single. Seriously gentlemen read the profile
and base your on profile. <br><br>
Do those emails work for anyone? Are these men lazy and lack ...
34 response(s),
36
votes
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Using a Prepaid Debit Card - 8/4/2019
Why do this site not allow us use a prepaid debit
gold membership? It would be so mush easier.
53 response(s),
53
votes
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feeling queasy? - 8/4/2019
talking about free chats and the need for points seems a
little silly in light of the shootings in ohio and el paso.
and while these events are far and away from me, i am feeling
sick, queasy. idk what more has to happen for serious change
to take place. is it guns? is it mental health? and then i
wonder why don't these type of killers just end themselves
instead of needing to destroy ...
47 response(s),
50
votes
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Where to go to meet other Bi Married guys? - 8/4/2019
Hi all, I am a married bi guy living in a small town. There are a few
larger cities nearby and I was wondering if you guys out
there in Adutlfirend finder world could give some good
advice on where I could go out in town to find some other guys
like me? Thank you!
29 response(s),
35
votes
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Too many cam viewers freezes site.. - 8/4/2019
When broadcasting on webcam and we get close to 100 viewers,
the site slows down so much it is unusable and we have to shut
down cam logout and restart. Using the Chrome browser its
the only one works for us at all. Internet connection,
CPU, or memory is not the problem. Internet cache, cookies
etc. are all cleaned before starting. <br><br>
Any one have this problem or any idea ...
26 response(s),
34
votes
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The magic number? - 8/3/2019
Whats the obsession with 9 inches? From speaking to women
and viewing profiles it always seems to be the that's
thrown but why 9 inches exactly? Why not 8' or ',
if you're going to go that rare you might as well round
up right? Why not even *cough *cough a respectable 7 and
a half? (its pretty thick too) Less than % of the population
have Johnsons a true 8 inches or above, and ...
34 response(s),
35
votes
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why 3 chats are closed - 8/3/2019
, I dont know why 3 chats are closed for the members . to initiate 1 chat need points. <br><br>
start these guys atleast 3 free chats <br><br>
Agree with
92 response(s),
98
votes
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Love these - 8/3/2019
What are the chances of actually finding love on here? Has
anyone? Or is it all about sex?
53 response(s),
53
votes
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wheres the naughtiest place you ever had sex - 8/2/2019
my naughtiest place
was on a freeway over pass pressed up against the chain leak
fence...
48 response(s),
55
votes
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wheres the naughtiest place you ever had sex - 8/2/2019
my naughtiest place
was on a freeway over pass pressed up against the chain leak
fence...
6 response(s),
6
votes
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Anybody a Cuckold? - 8/2/2019
How did you get a woman to cuckold you? I want one and can't
find one. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
21 response(s),
48
votes
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I m message - 8/2/2019
Is it right we don’t get 3 I m message ms any more
24 response(s),
31
votes
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too attached - 8/2/2019
has anyone had someone get too attached? this is supposed
to be just fun right?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Limited Prizes - 8/2/2019
Why are the prizes one can redeem points for only aimed towards
females and/or couples? Sort of one sided in my opinion.
#MenMatterToo
23 response(s),
33
votes
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Why do random words keep getting removed from my blog posts? - 8/2/2019
I’ve edited several blogs multiple times. In one instance
I’ve gone back to see the word “ten” and “member”
missing from a post. <br><br>
I just went to look at another and found random instances
of the word “that” and “an” missing and double
spaces where the words used to be. The words “, ”
“it’s, ” and “there” have also gone missing.
Just random ...
28 response(s),
37
votes
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titillating body massage - 8/1/2019
why women shy away from body massage?
25 response(s),
31
votes
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Small towns - 8/1/2019
How do people handle discreet meetings in small towns?
It seems to me that there are always too many small minded
locals who want to make everyone else's business theirs.
Scares off a lot of people.
23 response(s),
38
votes
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MIEMBROS - 7/31/2019
EXISTE UN STANDAR EN LA FORMA , LARGO Y ANCHO DEL MIEMBRO
MASCULINO?
17 response(s),
24
votes
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Do IMs work - 7/31/2019
Or no?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Chattimg - 7/31/2019
I’m just a standard member. Thought u got some free chats.
What happened?
45 response(s),
53
votes
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Deleting words. - 7/31/2019
Does anyone know why this site will randomly delete words
from articles written? It can ruin the flow of a story when
you have to figure what word is missing.
41 response(s),
46
votes
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free im - 7/31/2019
why you are not give standard member free im, ,???
47 response(s),
64
votes
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free im - 7/31/2019
why you are not give standard member free im, ,???
3 response(s),
3
votes
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Married women on Swapfinder.com - 7/31/2019
Curious, it seems like there are a ton of married men on here,
are there very many married women looking that are not looking
with their husbands or even boyfriends at that?
36 response(s),
43
votes
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Anal or vaginal fisting? - 7/31/2019
Which would you prefer to do to your partner?
22 response(s),
33
votes
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MFM Question for the Ladies..... - 7/31/2019
I totally understand the turn on in A MFM 3some for the woman
to be the center of attention. However, how many of the ladies
want to see the guys play with each other, too? <br><br>
Ladies?
22 response(s),
32
votes
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Record ejaculation ? - 7/30/2019
Is it ok to record ejaculation from wanking and put on profile
?
32 response(s),
30
votes
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FFM OR MMF - 7/30/2019
WOMEN IN A THREESOME WHAT DO YOU PREFER ?????? <br><br>
FFM OR MMF
33 response(s),
37
votes
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older ladies - 7/30/2019
Hi do older ladies really prefer younger guys?
40 response(s),
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Did you pay your ten points and then get cheated out of a chat? - 7/30/2019
What is going on here? I paid my ten points and instead of
the chat working it just took my points and did nothing.
Anyone else run into this problem?
80 response(s),
74
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What are Your Thoughts on Nude Beaches? - 7/30/2019
My wife and I have been hitting the local clothing optional
beaches for a few years now. It's has always been fun.
We've only run into a few unsavory situations, one
such scenario was a grandma jerking off all comers. As of
late we have started to look for friends who would be interested
in hanging out and enjoying being nude and good company.
We are struggling to find people who are up ...
33 response(s),
33
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I wonder - 7/30/2019
Ok Am I the only person who wonders if Swapfinder.com generates views
on my profile? I have been here a few years and the same people
or couples show up as they viewed my profile they never leave
a message or resins to a message so why keep viewing? Also
wonder when a friend shows up on the mobile app that they
viewed my profile but when I check the main web version it's
been weeks since they visited. ...
8 response(s),
14
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Adult Nursing Relationships - 7/29/2019
I am lactating and I am wondering are there any older men
(my age ) enjoy breast milk or is it younger
men?
35 response(s),
41
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Huge turn on? - 7/29/2019
Do you find peirced nipples on a female a huge turn on? How
about if only 1 is pierced?
31 response(s),
49
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Experiencias en el transporte - 7/29/2019
Muchas veces en los diferentes tipos de transporte público
pueden pasar cosas interesantes. Algo que pasa de los simples
roses de los cuerpos, a experiencias súper cachondas
en las cuales terminas muy juntito con algún desconocido/a.
¿Alguna vez has tenido alguna experiencia de este tipo?
¿Cómo fue?
6 response(s),
17
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Google Images to find fake pics - 7/29/2019
Has anyone else found a lot of fake pics there? <br><br>
It's amazing when a quick search on Images gives
results of pages and pages using those images. Why would
you use fake pics on here? We're all pretty sure we'll
see what you actually look like if we ever meet. Or is it just
trolls? <br><br>
Anyway, does anyone else use Images to spot fake
or stock porn ...
34 response(s),
48
votes
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Google Images to find fake pics - 7/29/2019
Has anyone else found a lot of fake pics there? <br><br>
It's amazing when a quick search on Images gives
results of pages and pages using those images. Why would
you use fake pics on here? We're all pretty sure we'll
see what you actually look like if we ever meet. Or is it just
trolls? <br><br>
Anyway, does anyone else use Images to spot fake
or stock porn ...
4 response(s),
5
votes
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What woman want - 7/29/2019
So what do woman actually want from this site from a guy?
I know everyone is different just wondering what most are
looking for
33 response(s),
29
votes
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I think we both want it..... - 7/29/2019
Ok, my wife likes dirty talk in bed. She loves to talk about
fucking other guys with bugger cocks than mine. I would
love to see her do it. However, I can't really tell if
its just dirty talk or not.... <br><br>
Any advice?
29 response(s),
23
votes
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Why there are no genuine women for phone sexual talks and video calls? - 7/29/2019
From past 1 year, I have lost thousand of bucks in finding
one genuine female who is willing to open up to do phone sexual
talks and video calls. Few fooled me after taking
through paytm or etc.
27 response(s),
23
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who else loves the cut down fake im's from the new point system - 7/28/2019
else loves the cut down fake im's from the new point
system? bye bye the tons of bullshit ims!
41 response(s),
55
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