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IM - 8/7/2019
Does the IM on this site even work? I wonder if any user actually
gets my messages.
48 response(s),
51
votes
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Points? - 8/7/2019
Does this point system actually work?
35 response(s),
41
votes
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sex academy on Swapfinder.com - 8/7/2019
is Sex Academy thing free? because Swapfinder.com charged me for gold
member and i specifically made sure i didn't apply
for it
13 response(s),
25
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Browser and Point Issues - 8/7/2019
I switched to Brave Browser because I want a more secure
browser doesn't collect and share all my data.
I have noticed when I message someone, my points are
taken away but nothing happens. The message doesn't
even send. I have also noticed I am not getting points
for some things. I tried it on my phone and messaging works.
I know the Swapfinder.com has done something different lately
I ...
15 response(s),
20
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Anyone else pay by checking assount - 8/7/2019
So last week I signed up for gold online checking,
probably not my smartest move. Anyway it's been 6 days
and still not a gold member. Sent the line a message
2 days ago asking reasons why, no stinking response yet,
still not a gold member WTF, don't even know how to cancel
payment. Anybody else have these issues? Go a head trolls
start your snarky responses and yes the has
in it.
27 response(s),
25
votes
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Why don’t gold members respond to IM? - 8/7/2019
I know gold members probably get a ton of chat requests,
but with IM non gold members points would it be too
much to ask to get some kind of response?
32 response(s),
29
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erotic round robin - 8/7/2019
I enjoy reading the many stories in the Erotic section here
, some fiction some fact , it doesnt make a difference to
me its all fun and tintillating . I have posted there aswell
. But I'm not sure if its a Swapfinder.com script issue or not but sometimes
I see 2 , 3 , or 4 posts of the exact same story ? why is ?
<br><br>
I do know Swapfinder.com is terrible at posting what you type with any ...
22 response(s),
33
votes
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How Stingy Is Swapfinder.com - 8/6/2019
Why do they have a point earning system and then not give
you points?
60 response(s),
60
votes
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2 women - 8/6/2019
For many years I have thought of having 2 women in bed with
me.... first time I did see on a video I got very excited...
and thought what a luck guy he is... after see video
I want to try it myself.... but always never doing anything
about... my question is what the best way to ask for 2 women
35 response(s),
42
votes
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2 women - 8/6/2019
For many years I have thought of having 2 women in bed with
me.... first time I did see on a video I got very excited...
and thought what a luck guy he is... after see video
I want to try it myself.... but always never doing anything
about... my question is what the best way to ask for 2 women
1 response(s),
3
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2 women - 8/6/2019
For many years I have thought of having 2 women in bed with
me.... first time I did see on a video I got very excited...
and thought what a luck guy he is... after see video
I want to try it myself.... but always never doing anything
about... my question is what the best way to ask for 2 women
3 response(s),
5
votes
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Ladies is there a difference between..... - 8/6/2019
......Yoga pants and leggings? Don't get me wrong
not complaining Both types on women are sexy as hell to me!!
Just want to know if there is a difference
26 response(s),
36
votes
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3 sum - 8/6/2019
I, m looking for a hot 3sum in pa
20 response(s),
29
votes
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Whats with the point system - 8/6/2019
I'm posting, liking, commenting on other post but
haven't received a point yet for doing so??? Plus you
when you do have points (of which I use to get) and you want
to be someone's top fan they only allow you to be a top
fan once every few days to cut back on activity. If
I remember the wording correctly. Now I've posted
this question I probably still won't get a single ...
30 response(s),
31
votes
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is this real? - 8/5/2019
is this a real app
32 response(s),
33
votes
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Wtf - 8/5/2019
What do we keep doing this.
29 response(s),
36
votes
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Marking - 8/5/2019
For the past six months, I have been chatting, texting,
phone calling and exchanging pics with a girl I got to know
from this site. We still haven't met in person because
we live in different states. When we do meet in person, she
wants me to mark her. This for her means I am to pee on her.
I really can't get into the idea of doing this. Plus,
I don't want it done to me. I don't ...
27 response(s),
34
votes
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What's the Most fun any was has had with someone they meet on here? - 8/5/2019
Wanting to know what people have done and seen when they
have meet other members.
27 response(s),
19
votes
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Cam link gone from mobile app? - 8/5/2019
A of days ago I was thinking that something was different
on the mobile app. Today I figured what it was. <br><br>
The task bar at the bottom used to have icons for messages,
cams and the with the 3 lines. When you clicked that it
took you to notifications, what's , my settings
etc. <br><br>
Now the Taskbar is showing the message icon and instead
of the cam link it ...
7 response(s),
24
votes
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london females - 8/5/2019
any fems in london area want meet up tomorrow night
13 response(s),
27
votes
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Eating - 8/5/2019
Women. What would you think if the man ate you and ate his
off of you after he got done you
19 response(s),
29
votes
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Camel toe.......... - 8/5/2019
Is it sexy or not?? I think its hella sexy
myself!!!!! 😜
46 response(s),
35
votes
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IM’s Response - 8/5/2019
Have any of you get a response back from someone in IM message?
When I sent someone a message through IM, I usually get a
response back from someone. Now, there’s seems
to be less and less response through IM messages. Do you
think it had to do with recent changes on the site or maybe
they’re not interested in chatting. What do you think
everyone?
29 response(s),
21
votes
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Men that lazy or? - 8/5/2019
Yesterday briefly messenger worked, , received what
felt like generic message , I responded but no response
and showed they were on line. Today received generic
, clearly had not read my profile. As it was recering to married
women, I am single. Seriously gentlemen read the profile
and base your on profile. <br><br>
Do those emails work for anyone? Are these men lazy and lack ...
34 response(s),
36
votes
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Using a Prepaid Debit Card - 8/4/2019
Why do this site not allow us use a prepaid debit
gold membership? It would be so mush easier.
53 response(s),
53
votes
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feeling queasy? - 8/4/2019
talking about free chats and the need for points seems a
little silly in light of the shootings in ohio and el paso.
and while these events are far and away from me, i am feeling
sick, queasy. idk what more has to happen for serious change
to take place. is it guns? is it mental health? and then i
wonder why don't these type of killers just end themselves
instead of needing to destroy ...
47 response(s),
50
votes
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Where to go to meet other Bi Married guys? - 8/4/2019
Hi all, I am a married bi guy living in a small town. There are a few
larger cities nearby and I was wondering if you guys out
there in Adutlfirend finder world could give some good
advice on where I could go out in town to find some other guys
like me? Thank you!
29 response(s),
35
votes
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Too many cam viewers freezes site.. - 8/4/2019
When broadcasting on webcam and we get close to 100 viewers,
the site slows down so much it is unusable and we have to shut
down cam logout and restart. Using the Chrome browser its
the only one works for us at all. Internet connection,
CPU, or memory is not the problem. Internet cache, cookies
etc. are all cleaned before starting. <br><br>
Any one have this problem or any idea ...
26 response(s),
34
votes
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The magic number? - 8/3/2019
Whats the obsession with 9 inches? From speaking to women
and viewing profiles it always seems to be the that's
thrown but why 9 inches exactly? Why not 8' or ',
if you're going to go that rare you might as well round
up right? Why not even *cough *cough a respectable 7 and
a half? (its pretty thick too) Less than % of the population
have Johnsons a true 8 inches or above, and ...
34 response(s),
35
votes
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why 3 chats are closed - 8/3/2019
, I dont know why 3 chats are closed for the members . to initiate 1 chat need points. <br><br>
start these guys atleast 3 free chats <br><br>
Agree with
92 response(s),
98
votes
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Love these - 8/3/2019
What are the chances of actually finding love on here? Has
anyone? Or is it all about sex?
53 response(s),
53
votes
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wheres the naughtiest place you ever had sex - 8/2/2019
my naughtiest place
was on a freeway over pass pressed up against the chain leak
fence...
48 response(s),
55
votes
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wheres the naughtiest place you ever had sex - 8/2/2019
my naughtiest place
was on a freeway over pass pressed up against the chain leak
fence...
6 response(s),
6
votes
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Anybody a Cuckold? - 8/2/2019
How did you get a woman to cuckold you? I want one and can't
find one. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
21 response(s),
48
votes
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I m message - 8/2/2019
Is it right we don’t get 3 I m message ms any more
24 response(s),
31
votes
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Limited Prizes - 8/2/2019
Why are the prizes one can redeem points for only aimed towards
females and/or couples? Sort of one sided in my opinion.
#MenMatterToo
23 response(s),
33
votes
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Why do random words keep getting removed from my blog posts? - 8/2/2019
I’ve edited several blogs multiple times. In one instance
I’ve gone back to see the word “ten” and “member”
missing from a post. <br><br>
I just went to look at another and found random instances
of the word “that” and “an” missing and double
spaces where the words used to be. The words “, ”
“it’s, ” and “there” have also gone missing.
Just random ...
28 response(s),
37
votes
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titillating body massage - 8/1/2019
why women shy away from body massage?
25 response(s),
31
votes
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Small towns - 8/1/2019
How do people handle discreet meetings in small towns?
It seems to me that there are always too many small minded
locals who want to make everyone else's business theirs.
Scares off a lot of people.
23 response(s),
38
votes
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MIEMBROS - 7/31/2019
EXISTE UN STANDAR EN LA FORMA , LARGO Y ANCHO DEL MIEMBRO
MASCULINO?
17 response(s),
24
votes
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Chattimg - 7/31/2019
I’m just a standard member. Thought u got some free chats.
What happened?
45 response(s),
53
votes
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Deleting words. - 7/31/2019
Does anyone know why this site will randomly delete words
from articles written? It can ruin the flow of a story when
you have to figure what word is missing.
41 response(s),
46
votes
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free im - 7/31/2019
why you are not give standard member free im, ,???
47 response(s),
64
votes
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free im - 7/31/2019
why you are not give standard member free im, ,???
3 response(s),
3
votes
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Married women on Swapfinder.com - 7/31/2019
Curious, it seems like there are a ton of married men on here,
are there very many married women looking that are not looking
with their husbands or even boyfriends at that?
36 response(s),
43
votes
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Anal or vaginal fisting? - 7/31/2019
Which would you prefer to do to your partner?
22 response(s),
33
votes
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MFM Question for the Ladies..... - 7/31/2019
I totally understand the turn on in A MFM 3some for the woman
to be the center of attention. However, how many of the ladies
want to see the guys play with each other, too? <br><br>
Ladies?
22 response(s),
32
votes
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Record ejaculation ? - 7/30/2019
Is it ok to record ejaculation from wanking and put on profile
?
32 response(s),
30
votes
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FFM OR MMF - 7/30/2019
WOMEN IN A THREESOME WHAT DO YOU PREFER ?????? <br><br>
FFM OR MMF 
33 response(s),
37
votes
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older ladies - 7/30/2019
Hi do older ladies really prefer younger guys?
40 response(s),
53
votes
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Did you pay your ten points and then get cheated out of a chat? - 7/30/2019
What is going on here? I paid my ten points and instead of
the chat working it just took my points and did nothing.
Anyone else run into this problem?
79 response(s),
74
votes
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What are Your Thoughts on Nude Beaches? - 7/30/2019
My wife and I have been hitting the local clothing optional
beaches for a few years now. It's has always been fun.
We've only run into a few unsavory situations, one
such scenario was a grandma jerking off all comers. As of
late we have started to look for friends who would be interested
in hanging out and enjoying being nude and good company.
We are struggling to find people who are up ...
33 response(s),
33
votes
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I wonder - 7/30/2019
Ok Am I the only person who wonders if Swapfinder.com generates views
on my profile? I have been here a few years and the same people
or couples show up as they viewed my profile they never leave
a message or resins to a message so why keep viewing? Also
wonder when a friend shows up on the mobile app that they
viewed my profile but when I check the main web version it's
been weeks since they visited. ...
8 response(s),
14
votes
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Adult Nursing Relationships - 7/29/2019
I am lactating and I am wondering are there any older men
(my age ) enjoy breast milk or is it younger
men?
35 response(s),
41
votes
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Huge turn on? - 7/29/2019
Do you find peirced nipples on a female a huge turn on? How
about if only 1 is pierced?
31 response(s),
49
votes
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Experiencias en el transporte - 7/29/2019
Muchas veces en los diferentes tipos de transporte público
pueden pasar cosas interesantes. Algo que pasa de los simples
roses de los cuerpos, a experiencias súper cachondas
en las cuales terminas muy juntito con algún desconocido/a.
¿Alguna vez has tenido alguna experiencia de este tipo?
¿Cómo fue?
6 response(s),
17
votes
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Google Images to find fake pics - 7/29/2019
Has anyone else found a lot of fake pics there? <br><br>
It's amazing when a quick search on Images gives
results of pages and pages using those images. Why would
you use fake pics on here? We're all pretty sure we'll
see what you actually look like if we ever meet. Or is it just
trolls? <br><br>
Anyway, does anyone else use Images to spot fake
or stock porn ...
34 response(s),
48
votes
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Google Images to find fake pics - 7/29/2019
Has anyone else found a lot of fake pics there? <br><br>
It's amazing when a quick search on Images gives
results of pages and pages using those images. Why would
you use fake pics on here? We're all pretty sure we'll
see what you actually look like if we ever meet. Or is it just
trolls? <br><br>
Anyway, does anyone else use Images to spot fake
or stock porn ...
4 response(s),
5
votes
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What woman want - 7/29/2019
So what do woman actually want from this site from a guy?
I know everyone is different just wondering what most are
looking for
33 response(s),
29
votes
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I think we both want it..... - 7/29/2019
Ok, my wife likes dirty talk in bed. She loves to talk about
fucking other guys with bugger cocks than mine. I would
love to see her do it. However, I can't really tell if
its just dirty talk or not.... <br><br>
Any advice?
29 response(s),
23
votes
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Why there are no genuine women for phone sexual talks and video calls? - 7/29/2019
From past 1 year, I have lost thousand of bucks in finding
one genuine female who is willing to open up to do phone sexual
talks and video calls. Few fooled me after taking
through paytm or etc.
27 response(s),
23
votes
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who else loves the cut down fake im's from the new point system - 7/28/2019
else loves the cut down fake im's from the new point
system? bye bye the tons of bullshit ims!
40 response(s),
55
votes
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POINTS - 7/28/2019
this might sound dumb and i did try research this question
beforehand. i know someone might try slaughter me for
it but here goes. i have given "tips" and
"gift" points. and i have used that 'top
fan' to give points too. does the receiver or the member
you give the points to are they able to use them/redeem them
as well??? the research i got was about how get ...
34 response(s),
46
votes
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Porn - 7/28/2019
What kind of porn do you watch get off?
39 response(s),
50
votes
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FAKE accounts - 7/28/2019
Why are there so many "women" claim to be
anywhere but are away visiting some family member usually
in Africa? They usually seem to be ready to move right away
no matter what my age or location is! I was on the site years
ago and left due to the BS I thought it was worth a try again
and found it to be more BS ever.
34 response(s),
32
votes
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FAKE accounts - 7/28/2019
Why are there so many "women" claim to be
anywhere but are away visiting some family member usually
in Africa? They usually seem to be ready to move right away
no matter what my age or location is! I was on the site years
ago and left due to the BS I thought it was worth a try again
and found it to be more BS ever.
4 response(s),
4
votes
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Med Students - 7/27/2019
In the last year when going the doctor the doctor asks if it is okay for a med student to sit in during exam . Both
times it has been a young lady that looked like a . Both
times the doctor had me in a most embarrassing position
with my pants down around my ankles and her grabbing to the
glove . My question is do you allow medical students in the
exam room ? <br><br> ...
21 response(s),
30
votes
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??? - 7/27/2019
Would most people on here want just a sex partner or a relationship?
19 response(s),
14
votes
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Life lessons!!! - 7/27/2019
there are lots of things to learn from our elders. In our
years , we crave knowledge in the sexual department.( am
i doing this right oral..etc).I am guessing the problem
still exist today <br><br>
As we around our community, we can see the age difference
relationships and the midlife crisis etc.(for example
puff diddy sleeping with his ex girlfriend ) <br><br>
Would you ...
28 response(s),
42
votes
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Swapfinder.com has little to no users 18-35 years old... Why? - 7/27/2019
So I seems to have ran into this issue in only a couple of days,
but there seems to hardly be anyone on here who is under 30
years old. Most of the users in my area are older than me,
and to be fair I do enjoy older women, but it seems like something
is off. <br><br>
Most of the women from 18 to 35 who have gold don't seem
to be real. Most of the flirts I get are from email ...
28 response(s),
43
votes
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Making a woman squirti - 7/27/2019
What is the best way to make a woman squirt?
22 response(s),
24
votes
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Making a woman squirti - 7/27/2019
What is the best way to make a woman squirt?
3 response(s),
6
votes
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How come orgasms a lady has is always different - 7/26/2019
Our sex life is awesome and he makes me multiple times
and different sensations the vagina is so fascinating.
Don't ya fink ??? When he starts of eating me until
it's all fat n puffy and inside popping then
his explicitly and its gush fest but each orgasm feels different
(always MINDBLOWING) but can anyone explain. Xx
32 response(s),
45
votes
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Does the lack of IMs effect how much your on the site? - 7/26/2019
Does not having 3 free IM's make it less likely that
your going to be on here?
81 response(s),
63
votes
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we meet. - 7/26/2019
that was my reply when asked, "how will i know it's
you?" the conversation started on the IM and of his
own volition he sent me a pic of himself (and his phone no.)
we had only just started talking, but i guess he thought
i would do likewise. i told him that i didn't like feeling
pressured to do something i didn't necessarily want
to do. now mind you, the first pic he asked ...
37 response(s),
47
votes
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If you could add or change this site what would you do? - 7/26/2019
So motherless, xhamster even fetlife all have tons of profiles.
What is it that that you want to have different on this site?
28 response(s),
23
votes
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No Shows - 7/26/2019
I've been on this site for several years (off and on).
And I enjoy reading about people here. Yes, ladies and gentlemen,
I do read all of the info you print down. I know, I'm a
strange guy. But I like it. By reading all this info I notice
that there are a few of you who get upset by no shows. My concern
is not with the responsible no show who calls and inform
you that they will not be ...
15 response(s),
19
votes
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Do any of you have a pierced cock - 7/26/2019
What are the pros and cons of a pierced cock and pics would
be appreciated
16 response(s),
23
votes
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3 time r finished - 7/26/2019
Why finished ?3more time for chat
12 response(s),
29
votes
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Does being with one person ever work - 7/25/2019
We all have tried it. Being with just one. Is the juice worth
the squeeze, or is it for old people
28 response(s),
32
votes
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Now that standard members get no points, other good sites to use? - 7/25/2019
It seems all of the standard members on Swapfinder.com no long get
the 3 free messages a day, making communicating impossible
unless you purchase points. <br><br>
Anyone have some good recommendations for some similar
/ better adult sites?
46 response(s),
61
votes
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Why Do You Keep Using This Site? - 7/25/2019
I don't remember when I created this profile. It's
always been here and I just keep updating it. In the time
I have been using it things have progressively gotten
worse and worse. It seems less and less is going into keeping
the site running and more is going into setting up walls
and keeping people from getting in touch with each other
without . The bots are out of control. With all ...
39 response(s),
42
votes
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What Makes for a Good Profile Pic? - 7/25/2019
What makes for a good profile pic in your opinion? Do you
prefer a closeup of the face or of the genitals? Full body
shot or hyper focusing on a bit of the action. What sort of
profile pic gets your attention and why? I prefer full body
shots with a face because it shows that the profile is ok
with all of themselves being seen. I do understand that
there are reasons why many people cannot post a ...
25 response(s),
22
votes
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tit size - 7/24/2019
do you prefer big tits or little tits
37 response(s),
42
votes
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IM - 7/24/2019
Will free IM chat ever come back?
3 response(s),
2
votes
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"Trying you out"... Women try out men, too. - 7/24/2019
Dating you, Hanging out with you, Attempting to be your
friend, Arguing with you, Joking with you, Playing sports
with you, Chatting with you, Holding your hand.......These
are some of the ways people , "Try you out". Sex
[through dating] is just another way of, "Trying
you out". <br><br> It was asked, "How many of you men
would tell their ...
11 response(s),
29
votes
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How can I generate a better responce to my profile - 7/24/2019
I need help and any advice you could offer would be appreciated
7 response(s),
20
votes
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No more free IM's? - 7/24/2019
As a standard member I used to get three free IM's a day.
Does not appear to be the case any longer? Thanks
63 response(s),
58
votes
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is cyber sex unappealing? - 7/23/2019
i love real sex. but i like it on a cam too. it's quick
and fun. however it's hard to find a partner now days...
why?
25 response(s),
19
votes
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Hypothetically - 7/23/2019
What is the best way to eat pussy? From the back or from the
front or her straddling my face mm?
2 response(s),
1
vote
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Humedad Ambiente - 7/23/2019
¿Qué cosas te la mojan? <br><br>
¿Qué cosas te la secan?...
1 response(s),
15
votes
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¡Acerca de Subas y Bajas! - 7/23/2019
¿Qué cosas te la bajan? <br><br>
¿Qué cosas te la suben?...
1 response(s),
11
votes
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Thoughts on the Sites Instant Messenger - 7/23/2019
What are your opinions on the way the Instant Messenger
is being run now. As of July 17th the Standard Members are
being required to give 10 points to converse in Instant
Messages, regardless of who starts the message, not like
before where Standard Members were given 3 instant messages
per day.
31 response(s),
29
votes
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hot - 7/23/2019
and how to stay cool?
9 response(s),
16
votes
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hot - 7/23/2019
and how to stay cool?
2 response(s),
2
votes
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why is it so hot ? - 7/23/2019
uihuihruishrihfxdf jxoigoifoifd ikxodifoifjf nofdih
dfihdf ?
10 response(s),
13
votes
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why - 7/23/2019
why is sex go hard to get ?
7 response(s),
14
votes
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Sexo virtual - 7/23/2019
Como encontrar uma mulher para um sexo virtual na Cam? <br><br>
Me ajudem ja q sexo real não arrumo
4 response(s),
7
votes
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fun to go - 7/23/2019
why can we all have sex?
12 response(s),
17
votes
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Has this site changed for the better or the worst - 7/23/2019
I am not sure the powers that be will read this but we can only
hope. What changes do they need to make to remain viable.
21 response(s),
19
votes
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Any dominant women out there - 7/23/2019
Blonde in my pic I'm eating pussy love to submit to a
true domme female any our there
11 response(s),
17
votes
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Any dominant women out there - 7/23/2019
Blonde in my pic I'm eating pussy love to submit to a
true domme female any our there
1 response(s),
2
votes
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First time - 7/22/2019
My question is if you are with someone and they do something
you have only heard of do you tell them that was a first for
you ? Or do you act like it is old hat not wanting them to know
you are inexperienced ?
20 response(s),
30
votes
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Breaking up, do you cut them off? - 7/22/2019
Do you guys cut off the person you are breaking up with? Like
no contact? If so, why?
34 response(s),
32
votes
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fast way to get points - 7/21/2019
for new comers, just click on "like" tab on pictures
and videos which appear on main page.
42 response(s),
56
votes
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viewing cam and chat - 7/21/2019
If a standard member spends 20 pts on viewing a cam is
included or is that an additional pts?
13 response(s),
20
votes
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Actually meeting people? - 7/21/2019
Have many of you had success meeting for real,
live sex?
26 response(s),
17
votes
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Confirm ID - 7/21/2019
Does comfirming your ID get more response
20 response(s),
21
votes
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being able to view parts of profiles - 7/21/2019
I wish Swapfinder.com would allow standard members view what members
are looking for and aren't from their profiles so we
can know if the people might be interested in talking or
not so we don't waste our points on IM's that will
probably go unanswered. Thoughts?
23 response(s),
23
votes
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Free Messages - 7/21/2019
Did they remove this feature....havent had 3 free messages
in days 
24 response(s),
23
votes
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Free chats - 7/21/2019
They want you use your points. I use get 3 free chats
per day and now they are gone, no explanation. So now it costs
me pts , and usually people don't respond.
Too bad we don't get the points back on non responsive
chats.
35 response(s),
33
votes
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Free chats - 7/21/2019
They want you use your points. I use get 3 free chats
per day and now they are gone, no explanation. So now it costs
me pts , and usually people don't respond.
Too bad we don't get the points back on non responsive
chats.
4 response(s),
4
votes
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Top Fan fraud. - 7/21/2019
As a free member I sometimes come across a member's
profile I would like to read. If I'm willing to
spend my points and become a "Top 10 Fan" of
member the site allows me to read member's profile.
Yesterday I tried to do and got the following message:
"You can be a top fan starting 07/21/20. We do this
to reduce ." Well, today is the 21st and I'm
still ...
37 response(s),
27
votes
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What percentage of your IM’s get a reply? - 7/21/2019
It’s hard to tell if a message actually gets through or
if it gets ignored. Messaging people for the first time the percentage
reply is very low.
34 response(s),
24
votes
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BJ - 7/21/2019
Is it better getting a BJ with or without a condom
25 response(s),
17
votes
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Sex - 7/21/2019
What is the benefit of oral sex?
18 response(s),
12
votes
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So who likes to get points? - 7/21/2019
What's the best way to get free points
9 response(s),
6
votes
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any 1 ? - 7/21/2019
why is ok to have sex ?
7 response(s),
13
votes
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Have you ever experenced fear as a aphrodisiac - 7/21/2019
Have you ever been in a situation when you couldn't
decide if you were excited or scared. A friend of mine was walking to her car in a heavily wooded
area after leaving a bar when someone grabbed her arm and
pulled her towards him she said her heart was pounding and
she was full of fear but couldn't decide if she was afraid
he would force her to have sex with him or afraid he ...
9 response(s),
13
votes
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sex - 7/21/2019
CAn you get too much sex????
19 response(s),
15
votes
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sex - 7/21/2019
CAn you get too much sex????
2 response(s),
1
vote
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sex - 7/21/2019
CAn you get too much sex????
1 response(s),
1
vote
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Porn preferences - 7/21/2019
Alone or together, what porn hits your spot? What are your
porn turn offs?
23 response(s),
35
votes
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Best way to have sex on vacation? - 7/20/2019
What do you think is the best way find NSA sex while on vacation?
12 response(s),
17
votes
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When a Woman is Out on a Date with Someone, or With her Husband or Boyfriend..Do You Check Her Out? - 7/20/2019
Hell yes! <br><br>
Consider this advice: <br><br>
Nothing, not even a ring on her wedding finger, should stop
you from acknowledging a woman whom you think is attractive.
You're not inviting her to cheat. You're letting
her know she has at least other option. You. <br><br>
If she wants cheat [with you], that is her business, not
yours. ...
16 response(s),
36
votes
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Abs of chest - 7/20/2019
Should man work on abs or chest more
10 response(s),
15
votes
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Has Swapfinder.com changed the rules - 7/20/2019
When I lost VIP, I thought I could get it back again by enough
likes on my pics and videos as I did just last month. Has Swapfinder.com
changed the rules and made it so a person can't get VIP
once a person loses VIP? If anyone knows, I would
like know the answer. Please and thank you.
12 response(s),
17
votes
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Is it too hot to have sex? - 7/20/2019
We are getting triple digits heat wave here in Philly. I prefer the heat over cold but over 100 degrees, that is
just crazy . But you know what? In just 5-6 more months snow is coming.
<br><br>
So enjoy the sweaty sex everyone. <br><br>
 ...
32 response(s),
33
votes
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Anyone like to... - 7/20/2019
Sex in public places! The thrill... or maybe horror for
others
12 response(s),
14
votes
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Nudity - 7/20/2019
Would love find a small that enjoys being nude together.
It would be ideal if of the members had a large property
where we all could just feel the true sense of freedom. outside
without clothing. I'm guessing it may be a bit too much to ask for.
15 response(s),
19
votes
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Help me to help you to get hard - 7/20/2019
I enjoy teasing and want your thoughts tell me what would
excite you if I were sitting above you at a sporting event
on the bleachers <br><br>
1 lose top with no bra for a easy down blouse view or under
boob view 2tight top tube top 3 sheer or mesh top with no bra 4 short skirt with sheer panties large mesh fish net or no
panties 5 short shorts with or without camel toe 6 loose ...
20 response(s),
31
votes
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Nipples - 7/20/2019
Are all women turned on by having nipples sucked or sucking
other women's nipples? I can almost cum from it.
22 response(s),
31
votes
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Nipples - 7/20/2019
Are all women turned on by having nipples sucked or sucking
other women's nipples? I can almost cum from it.
2 response(s),
1
vote
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I can't have sex without my wife getting horny - 7/19/2019
We used to have a great sex life together, acting out our
fantasies, always tried new daringly ways to please each
other, from the first time we had a threesume with my best
friend , and us three became very close and it was fantastic
to experience us two with him, to live out fantasies the
three of us , Sometimes we would just watch each other mastrubate
..if we met at public park's or ...
17 response(s),
33
votes
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Chat - 7/19/2019
Does anyone know if there’s an app for Swapfinder.com. The chat sucks
14 response(s),
19
votes
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% of fakes on Swapfinder.com - 7/19/2019
How many fake profiles you think are on here?
19 response(s),
20
votes
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Man scaping - 7/19/2019
How far should one go? Would love to hear what ladies like.
8 response(s),
13
votes
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Going Down on Her? - 7/19/2019
Ladies how long should a guy spend down licking your pussy?
28 response(s),
31
votes
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have you ever been excited to the point that you experienced an untouched orgasm - 7/19/2019
other than a wet dream were you in a public place did you feel embarrassed or relieved is it something you hope to enjoy again would you try and hide it or bring it to my attention if I was
teasing you in a public place
23 response(s),
33
votes
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Mensajería - 7/19/2019
¿Qué opinan sobre que los miembros estándar ya no pueden
iniciar conversaciones de mensajería instantánea?
9 response(s),
19
votes
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Has anyone ever been psychologically diagnosed with nymphomania - 7/19/2019
At what point does loving sex become a mania ?
7 response(s),
15
votes
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Cosa preferireste? - 7/19/2019
Una cena romantica per rompere il ghiaccio, un aperitivo
al pub, un appuntamento in una SPA, incontrarsi in un parco
o in un cinema, un appuntamento al buio in hotel?
4 response(s),
10
votes
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What is the most important part of sex - 7/18/2019
Is it orgasm intercourse or foreplay
38 response(s),
30
votes
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What is the most important part of sex - 7/18/2019
Is it orgasm intercourse or foreplay
2 response(s),
2
votes
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Chat - 7/18/2019
I wish people would respond not interested when chatting
instead of ignoring.
23 response(s),
28
votes
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Why do women skirt topics - 7/18/2019
Why is that a woman will act like she's interested only
to get what she wants? They may be and I may want to see
them naked but I dont have to fuck every woman I see. Why not
just be my friend for real if theres no interest in anything
else
21 response(s),
17
votes
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AM or PM - 7/18/2019
When is a good time sex? Morning or night afternoon?
39 response(s),
29
votes
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brealking it off? - 7/18/2019
do you tell the person what you dislike about them after
you have met/chatted with them, after you see the red flags
or just disengage communications? <br><br>
i know what i'm going to do but it's an interesting
topic to discuss.
28 response(s),
23
votes
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IM - 7/18/2019
Is IM working, if so why are free members being charged 10
points for each im, where are the free 3 ones??
18 response(s),
9
votes
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who uses Zoom? - 7/17/2019
Looking to learn how to use Zoom Any "how to set up and
use Zoom/Zoom Rooms" would be greatly aspreciated.
1 response(s),
4
votes
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Using Desktop site on phone - 7/17/2019
I don't always have access to internet on my laptop
so I usually log into desktop site through my phone so I can
read advice lines. And blogs if I can find some that are not
just pics (sooo boring) <br><br>
Either I log in on mobile and switch or log in directly to
the desktop. <br><br>
For a while now when on the full site, usually on the blog
section or the advice ...
35 response(s),
59
votes
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Whats with all the - 7/17/2019
#%& ()*^ and the bla bla in all the messages and profiles?
41 response(s),
51
votes
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Fantasies - 7/17/2019
why is it so difficult to people to admit that they have sexual
fantasies? every person on the planet (once they the
appropriate age that is) has them and if and when you fulfill
them they evolve to something new. When you have someone
wanting to try and fulfill your fantasy why is it so hard
to tell them what it is so they can decide if they want to go
there or not ?
37 response(s),
36
votes
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At what point is an insatiable appetite for sex become unhealthy? - 7/17/2019
When would you consider it unhealthy to have an insatiable
sexual appetite
20 response(s),
26
votes
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At what point is an insatiable appetite for sex become unhealthy? - 7/17/2019
When would you consider it unhealthy to have an insatiable
sexual appetite
0 response(s),
2
votes
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is it bad? - 7/17/2019
when a couple decide to invite a guy to join them in the bedroom
is it bad to ask the guy to provide the room? i.e. you provide
the venue and we provide the entertainment. until you get
to know them well enough to be able to comfortably invite
them to you house or you go to their house?
21 response(s),
19
votes
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Erotic or not? - 7/17/2019
ok guys, so you have been chatting with a couple and you all
decide to meet at a local park that has several secluded
walking trails. Would it be erotic for you that when you
meet she shows up wearing something sexy like a teddy and
pantyhose with heals on. or would that be too much and possibly
intimidating? how about if she was wearing a leotard?
28 response(s),
19
votes
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no more free chats? - 7/16/2019
use to get three free chats on i.m....today wont let me.
new change or just a bug?
56 response(s),
50
votes
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Messanger / I'm - 7/16/2019
Hi, <br><br>
Sometimes I click on messanger as it says I have messages
but it won't let me read them. I gather as this is because
I am a free member. Yet, sometimes I can log in and then be
able to reply to them via messanger and as soon as they reply,
again it becomes blocked? <br><br>
I know that before you could get free gold trials based on
how popular / active you ...
31 response(s),
45
votes
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Masturbation Action ? - 7/15/2019
As you can tell by my profile picture, i masturbate in Different
ways the usual action. Do You Do the thing every time,
or do you Do something 'different' occasionally
<br><br>
?
23 response(s),
38
votes
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What's a good way to get lots of free ppints? - 7/14/2019
Looking for lots of free points.
35 response(s),
47
votes
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Who is crude, who is refined? The publisher of their pic, or the person commenting on the picture? - 7/14/2019
..and why should the person commenting get kicked? <br><br>
A hundred years ago, putting ones naked picture on public
display was crude, certainly not refined, behavior. <br><br>
Just how are you not crude, for telling someone you masturbate
to their pictures? ha.. Is there a refined way to say, "I
masturbate to your pictures"? <br><br> ...
19 response(s),
55
votes
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Best way to earn more points - 7/14/2019
I'm trying to figure out how to earn more points or possibly
earn a free trial as a gold member any advice would be helpful
thank you
42 response(s),
53
votes
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Threesomes - 7/14/2019
Who had met for a threesome man and a couple.. and was
how you found out you were bi because when they played she
also wanted to see her man with a man and you did not object,
and enjoyed it all.
23 response(s),
29
votes
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Where are the swinger clubs in Springfield Missouri? - 7/14/2019
I have been in Springfield Missouri for the past several
years and now am single and looking. Does anyone know where
the swing clubs are ?
7 response(s),
35
votes
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Cam - 7/14/2019
lately I have not been able to send my cam to others on .
Has this feature been discontinued?
7 response(s),
26
votes
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Are you bi? - 7/14/2019
I consider myself to be str8. I find the idea of kissing another
guy repulsive and I would not go down on one, however I would
probably let a guy give me a blow job. Does mean
I'm bi? My favorite sex act is going down on a woman either
with or without reciprocation.
31 response(s),
30
votes
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Sunday Question - 7/14/2019
How long can a well fit older man well healthy can last longer
in bed during Summer?
52 response(s),
57
votes
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12 month vs 1 month - 7/14/2019
Is it really worth it to pay the 12 months? Or only month by
month skipping months that are dead? Thoughts? Thinking
of finally going premium
20 response(s),
22
votes
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How come ..... - 7/14/2019
How come it seems the only guys on these sites are the ones
that want someone on the side, on the DL, and discreet??
why is it so difficult to meet a genuine honest loving guy, that
isn't cheating on his woman? Are there no men left with
values or that are willing to give the time&effort
to have something good in a relationship?
23 response(s),
28
votes
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How much hair... - 7/13/2019
Does it matter if I wax and if so how much should be removed?
37 response(s),
31
votes
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tunred on - 7/13/2019
Who gets turned on by sex in public?
12 response(s),
15
votes
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Who cums first? - 7/13/2019
It’s my understanding a woman should always cum first.
You agree or disagree?
46 response(s),
34
votes
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why is it that i am unable to get genuine response? - 7/12/2019
It feels so disappointing when you dont get good response
online as well. One may get feeling of dejection. Can any
one help how to improve ones own chance of getting good and genuine response
here.
17 response(s),
23
votes
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gangbang at office? - 7/11/2019
how many of you working in a small office, suddenly, got
involved in a nice gang bang with your coworkers? <br><br>
maybe you are the girl willing it to happen, with some involuntary
signals, and your male colleagues surprised you one day,
or maybe you are one of the guys who have been talking with
your other male colleagues about a female coworker you
have been watching for long, ...
34 response(s),
44
votes
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What percentage do you think really want to meet? - 7/11/2019
What percentage of people here do you think really want
to meet for physical contact NSA encounters? Seems like
quite a few just in it for the chatting. Loneliness perhaps?
46 response(s),
35
votes
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People in your city? - 7/11/2019
Just curious how often do you guys get to meet with people
in your city? It seems all the interesting conversations
I had in here are from either the states or somewhere else
20 response(s),
19
votes
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DTF? - 7/10/2019
When you are and about in public, how do you discreetly
let others know you are DTF?
24 response(s),
31
votes
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DTF? - 7/10/2019
When you are and about in public, how do you discreetly
let others know you are DTF?
4 response(s),
3
votes
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Affording this site - 7/10/2019
What is the best way besides spending my hard earned cash
to keep our site going???
20 response(s),
34
votes
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Fffhhiojvcc - 7/9/2019
Ddrkmbvxghv
16 response(s),
15
votes
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my partner - 7/9/2019
Is having a cousin as your partner inappropriate?????
22 response(s),
26
votes
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free gold after camming? - 7/9/2019
Hey all, it used be the case that you could earn a couple
of weeks of free gold after camming for a while. At least
if your show attracted enough viewers  But this seems
be no longer the case. Did this change?
23 response(s),
32
votes
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Who is up for it - 7/9/2019
Do I want it
12 response(s),
17
votes
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Does everyone cheat? - 7/9/2019
I feel like everyone has cheated at least once and with one
person they were with. Would you consider harmless flirting
to be cheating? Talking to other people of the opposite
sex? Sneaky or anonymous dating apps? Is it possible
to be faithful in today society?
48 response(s),
46
votes
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Writing this to get points - 7/9/2019
Grr need points
31 response(s),
32
votes
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The young male asked us: "Is 18 too young of an age to be on here? " - 7/8/2019
This is advice I didn't get to say due to the 25-limit:
<br><br>
Age 18 is not too young to be here. But should you be here?
Probably not. <br><br>
Your profile seems to invite all kinds of queer individuals
to take interest in you, more so than the women. Are you sure
you want that queer stuff on your profile? <br><br>
If I was 18 today, I would be ...
19 response(s),
38
votes
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Getting verified - 7/8/2019
I've been trying to get verified for a while now but
evidently I'm doing something wrong. Do I have to be
confirmed before I can get verified? I've tried to
send my picture with my username but the site doesn't
seem to download it Help!!!
12 response(s),
23
votes
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How to introduce yourself - 7/8/2019
Let's not always be brash as some people are shy and
dont respond well to dominant people... it's a fun
community but different backgrounds and different triggers
so let's all try n look out of the box to build a diverse
community and one without hate... this site is fun and dont
wanna see assholes ruin it
23 response(s),
35
votes
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Dinner? - 7/8/2019
Does just cooking for someone lead to sex?! My experience it doesn't!
27 response(s),
25
votes
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Anyone else afraid to meet? - 7/8/2019
I'll admit I've been talking to some great people
on here but I am too afraid to meet. I mean you never really
know who youre really talking to, they could be sane and
cool or insane and dangerous. Does anyone else feel this
way?
42 response(s),
47
votes
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Nipple stimulation - 7/8/2019
I love my nipples being played with can anyone help?
22 response(s),
45
votes
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Nipple stimulation - 7/8/2019
I love my nipples being played with can anyone help?
5 response(s),
3
votes
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Im not lookin for a BF.... basically a fukbuddy situation ha. Thats it, then msg me 2678236038 - 7/7/2019
Im not lookin for a BF.... basically a fukbuddy situation ha. Thats it, then msg me
2 response(s),
0
votes
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I WAS WRONG!!!!!!! - 7/6/2019
i should have figured it was a site glitch. LOL. <br><br>
It WAS NOT a rude comment and I need stop thinking the worst.
I recently went thru health issues and am just getting around
to feeling better this year. I was so tired from being sick
I felt I was never going to feel good again. But I am a little
more every . <br><br>
Sorry for being such a downer and thinking ...
27 response(s),
56
votes
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anal sex - 7/6/2019
how do woman enjoy anal sex,
28 response(s),
48
votes
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When to put politics aside - 7/6/2019
This morning on the IM here I had an interesting chat. Kind
of wish I copied and saved the thing, but I will try my best
to convey what was said.
This 51yr old single guy with a couples profile, gold member,
was chatting me up and after some initial compliments on
my profile he said "Before we go any further, do you
agree the current administration is an embarrassment
to our nation and ...
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HE IS HOTT AS FUCK - 7/6/2019
I met him 10 yrs ago when i was ending a relationship. I made
the first move on a dating site didn't expect a response
but he did respond. He is attractive, laid back and intelligent.
He made me wait a longtime to get intimate because he wanted
to get aquainted. Finally it happened and i wanted more
and more and ihe gave me all the sex i wanted . Then he moved
out of state for a job ...
36 response(s),
57
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Bravery - 7/6/2019
How to you find the courage to go through with the nsa that
you so deserve and desire?
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15
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Apes - 7/5/2019
What if this was run by planet of the apes? Could it b worse
or better? Oh you filthy ape.
13 response(s),
24
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Chat - 7/5/2019
Y foes it take s point to then like one or two later
I'd pops up for one point?
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25
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Cold feet at the last second, or something else? - 7/5/2019
So, I've been talking with this woman for the past week
or so, very light and CASUAL conversations, until the 3rd
of july. She got flirty and so did I, she exchanged pics with
me. She IS a premium member, and I am not, though this really
shouldn't be an issue. We got to the point where she finally gave me her number so
we can instead of using the WONKY IM chat, around 5pm
that day when ...
27 response(s),
33
votes
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Profile advice - 7/5/2019
As the 90, 000, 000th single guy joining this site all
competing for the attention of one of the single girls,
I was curious about any advice for creating my profile.
I see a lot of guys with dick pics as their main profile pic
and crude stuff in their bio. I tried to design my profile
rather genuinely and somewhat less obscene.... but I'm
not sure if that is not gonna work on a site like ...
11 response(s),
18
votes
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Thers a profile from someone I know casually.. - 7/5/2019
Its her and her fiancé. I only met her this march before
they got back together.When we met the chemistry was really
good and we flirted a good bit. Shes much younger, the both
list bi in the profile. I'd like to pursue this and see
what happens. How/when do I let her know who I am. We are fb
friends as well.
19 response(s),
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Just want the real you. - 7/5/2019
When some one shows nude pictures and you want to say, I just
want to fuck you hard, when is the right time to say that?
12 response(s),
21
votes
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Hi - 7/5/2019
Does anyone else luv shaved fat black pussy
5 response(s),
18
votes
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Hello - 7/5/2019
Is anyone as horny as I am.
7 response(s),
19
votes
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i was wondering if anyone else gets intense sexual dreams - 7/5/2019
like ive been having some really harsh sexual dreams where
i actually wake up after i jiz LMFAO but anyways this is jus
really weird as they appear to happen more frequent due
to time? like idk can anyone else relate?
20 response(s),
31
votes
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Is Swapfinder.com the best site? - 7/4/2019
Is Swapfinder.com the best site for meeting and fucking?
12 response(s),
15
votes
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Anyone like outdoor sex? - 7/4/2019
Looking for fun couples that like outdoor sex.
21 response(s),
28
votes
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Disabled or di interested partner - 7/4/2019
My wife has health issues, causing lost interest in sex.
Has been years of almost zero, Nd years with no oral. The
time without has pushed me to explore bi guys to get some.
Should I share with my partner my desires for bi men and wanting
more?
19 response(s),
18
votes
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Disabled or di interested partner - 7/4/2019
My wife has health issues, causing lost interest in sex.
Has been years of almost zero, Nd years with no oral. The
time without has pushed me to explore bi guys to get some.
Should I share with my partner my desires for bi men and wanting
more?
1 response(s),
4
votes
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Do people really hook up on here? - 7/4/2019
Anybody have luck hooking up??
40 response(s),
38
votes
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Best anal lube? - 7/4/2019
Any suggestions?
21 response(s),
33
votes
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Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019
Lincolncpl I can't begin to tell you how much I want
to fuck your girl!!! Almost as much as I want to see your bbc
in her pretty white pussy!!!
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23
votes
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Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019
There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't
have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you
see this. DAMN I want you!!!!
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0
votes
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Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019
There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't
have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you
see this. DAMN I want you!!!!
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1
vote
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Hi - 7/3/2019
How is everyone
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17
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Non member struggles , no nut deployment:( - 7/3/2019
Anyone who is not a member can probably feel my struggles
but a man I just trying to bust a nut but 90% of the time I send
an IM, which I only get 3 a day they don't even read it,
it's mad im possible to get laid almost, only time I
did get satisfaction out of it was when someone tipped me
a few points and got lucky. On deployment just trying to
get my nut off in Australia, SOS
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32
votes
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wtf - 7/3/2019
y is everyone fuking fakes on here?? ...
25 response(s),
20
votes
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who understands oneself situation? - 7/3/2019
I found that mostly who is in the same situation than me understand
and respect me more than others...
9 response(s),
15
votes
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duties and responsibilites - 7/2/2019
how many times when you have met someone online has called
you greedy because you don't quit with your duties
and responsibilities when there is not warranty the other
would do so?
9 response(s),
11
votes
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Profile Denied - 7/2/2019
[Hello everyone, <br><br>
I submitted an update to my Auto-Reply in the message center
the other day. I logged in today and there is the beautiful yellow banner
across the top of the page saying my profile has been denied.
Hmmmmm...... that's interesting because I have not
made any changes to my profile. I check my message center and the update for my Auto-Reply ...
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15
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Ladies/Gents what about a man arouses you the most? Muscles?Size/Girth Of Cock? Or Looks? - 7/1/2019
I know there is more just looks and muscles etc such as the character of a man etc. But from those three choices.
What would matter the most you? If you choose muscles state whether the size of them matters more or the definition
of the muscles. If you choose cock. Is it the length that
matters more or the girth. If looks as in regards their
<br><br>
Men are welcome answer also ...
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Ladies/Gents what about a man arouses you the most? Muscles?Size/Girth Of Cock? Or Looks? - 7/1/2019
I know there is more just looks and muscles etc such as
the character of a man etc. But from those three choices.
What would matter the most you? If you choose muscles
state whether the size of them matters more or the definition
of the muscles. If you choose cock. Is it the length that
matters more or the girth. If looks as in regards
<br><br>
Men are welcome answer also what ...
6 response(s),
3
votes
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My first real experience - 6/30/2019
I had a fine lady invite over to her home for my first experience
on here and man o man did she not disappoint..... i guess
that there are real women there that no how to please
a man.... I wish we can spend more time doing that in the future
but this site does work...
33 response(s),
51
votes
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IM system - 6/30/2019
The IM system seems really buggy on my computer. If you close
the chat once do all the previous messages disapear? Is
there any way to get them back?
10 response(s),
12
votes
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Points system - 6/30/2019
So I saw something that showed everything you could do and
get a total of 4000 free point. When I try doing what it says
I don't get points or I get less than what it said. Did
the poin system change recently or does it take a while to
get the points?
12 response(s),
13
votes
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Why does the I’m have so many problems - 6/30/2019
Question in the title
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11
votes
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Free member - 6/30/2019
So as a free member on this site what should I be doing to look
for people. It seems like other than my 3 IMs I can start a
day (none of which usually respond) there is no way to connect
with people. Does this site work at all if you don't
pay?
9 response(s),
10
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whatever happened to the old "What is fuck"? dude? - 6/30/2019
Cause this page could use his intellect , it seems.
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Who should get oral first? The man or the woman? - 6/30/2019
I say I as a man should go down on a woman first as in my opinion
it takes more time getting a woman to orgasm. Sometimes
i have to eat pussy for 20 minutes straight till she
gets all squirmy and has her first orgasm. The following
orgasms are easy as long as you keep the mood and pace going
<br><br>
What do you guys think  or  ...
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54
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I just got banned by utfrangrl the moderator of Swapfinder.com NAughty for no reason at all - 6/30/2019
I got banned for stating facts about global warming by the
moderator utfrangrl who also has a blog lol. I didnt say
anything derogatory or any nasty comments or anything.
She even liked my previous post on their and directly commented
on my post where i shared the womans breast i fucked. Her
size breast were 55. She stated in my thing she loved
the breast and proceeded to look my profile. ...
23 response(s),
39
votes
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Why is there an influx of scammers? There is a scammer using a number 632 - 6/30/2019
I keep getting an instant message from a scammer using the
number 632 i have texted number and i did up and til they
sent a fake photo. Each question you ask its like a bot is
answering it lol with auto generated text! BE WARE OF THE SCAMMERS DONT FALL FOR IT <br><br>
They get on my nerves  ...
21 response(s),
25
votes
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Weed or alcohol - 6/29/2019
Which do you prefer before sex. Weed, alcohol or both? And
why
33 response(s),
41
votes
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Reporting - 6/29/2019
I am inundated daily with flirts and IMs from ladies in their
20s. I realize that they are fakes/bots but I never report
them. I am interested in how other members handle this situation.
28 response(s),
28
votes
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Bisexual guys - 6/29/2019
Do bisexual guys get a bad rep?
37 response(s),
45
votes
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Deepthroat Skills - 6/28/2019
What’s the best deepthroat skill you can share?
21 response(s),
33
votes
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Deepthroat Skills - 6/28/2019
What’s the best deepthroat skill you can share?
5 response(s),
6
votes
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IM problems - 6/28/2019
Why does instant message go to busy all on its own?
29 response(s),
42
votes
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any one have anal play ??????????? - 6/28/2019
when you have anal dose make you hard and want to cumm???????????//
26 response(s),
40
votes
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do u think u could shoot up.... - 6/27/2019
do u think u could shoot up cum / piss ??? i heard u can.. haha
let me no if u have  ...
35 response(s),
43
votes
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I’m audio and camera - 6/27/2019
Why is it now wanting to access your camera and mic if you
try to chat if you click no it cancel it out
9 response(s),
21
votes
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hot or not in my area? - 6/27/2019
when I look through the hot or not section...it brings up
people not even close to my area anymore....can I choose
the area I want to view?
18 response(s),
40
votes
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SEXUAL TOYS - 6/27/2019
Listen to a psychologist on a radio
station sexual to say that disapproves sex toys because there is a tendency to abandon intimacy with the couple.
The truth gave me a lot of laughter. Erotic toys are never going to replace
the couple and I think that in this sexual game I will say that the more sex have, more usually want to think clear is my opinion ...
51 response(s),
77
votes
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Real people - 6/27/2019
Is it just me or does it seem like there are a lot of fake profiles
here?
27 response(s),
35
votes
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Whybitch - 6/27/2019
I hate that womwn think they can say stupid shit like just
stfu and fuck Just so assumptive its sucks the life outts relationship
Does anyone agree
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24
votes
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Why - 6/27/2019
I hate that womwn think they can say stupid shit like just
stfu and fuck Just so assumptive its sucks the life outts relationship
Does anyone agree
12 response(s),
15
votes
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Dentures - 6/27/2019
I have met this very nice gentleman a while back. He has a
good job, a nice paying job. He dresses nice and smells good.
He messages me every now and then and asks if I want to hang
out but I always find an excuse not to. When I went out with
him months ago I realized he has dentures when we were kissing.
That really grossed me out. Sometimes men can be pushy about
going out with them and I find ...
28 response(s),
25
votes
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How Do You Want It? - 6/26/2019
Would love to hear from everyone!!
1 response(s),
0
votes
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Addicted to eating pussy - 6/26/2019
I love eating pussy, and i would sometimes rather eat pussy
than fuck. Am i just that turned on by it?
30 response(s),
26
votes
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What makes an Swapfinder.com profile the hottest? - 6/26/2019
Obviously, the hotter the pics and videos, the hotter the
profile. <br><br>
But, besides a fit sex bodies, what makes pics and videos
the hottest? Please post links to some of your favorite
pics and vids. <br><br>
What makes the written portion of the profile hot? Love
to see examples. <br><br>
Finally, if you won't be too harsh, please constructively ...
28 response(s),
41
votes
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test 123 - 6/26/2019
option1 option2 option3 option4
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6
votes
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sfsfsgggge - 6/26/2019
sfasffswrwrrqr
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7
votes
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test test test - 6/26/2019
test1
test2
test3
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22
votes
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Swapfinder.com Trolls - 6/25/2019
A local BBW woman on here that we were chatting with last
night asked us what's the best way to deal with Swapfinder.com Trolls
like Heathen_G who repeatedly attacks and leaves rude
comments on blogs of BBW woman left a very rude and hateful
comment on her blog. <br><br>
I think my husband had the best answer "Just Block
Them" and move on because no matter what if its Swapfinder.com, ...
35 response(s),
39
votes
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Mobile or Desktop? - 6/25/2019
How many of you only use Swapfinder.com on your phone or your desktop?
35 response(s),
28
votes
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Is it okay to enjoy watching porn and playing with myself then with my bf - 6/25/2019
I enjoy saving pictures and watching videos of other men.
Sex with my bf is nice, but I am really turned on by other men,
especially when they're hot and I know its wrong.
40 response(s),
37
votes
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sex - 6/25/2019
why r most on here full of it ?
19 response(s),
21
votes
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sex - 6/25/2019
why r most on here full of it ?
1 response(s),
1
vote
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Why doesn't my blog show ump among the most recent - 6/23/2019
Anybody know why my blog isn't showing up? It is called
the right mistake.. maybe I am mistaken, maybe i am a spaz,
, but any ideas? I'm getting views but have no idea why
it is not showing up. Thanks
9 response(s),
15
votes
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Have your sexual preferences changed over the years? - 6/23/2019
Fellow students. Sexual cravings can be evolutionary
based on life experiences and the search for the new. Any of these resonate? Is there more kink now? Craving Asians or other interracial relationships? Experimenting with the same sex. although as Robin Williams
noted, "after a while with no matter who it is, it's
always the same sex." Leaning toward BDSM? Gert me the blindfold ...
22 response(s),
38
votes
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ONE OR MORE SEXUAL PARTNERS? - 6/22/2019
I have been on the site for a while and met a few guys. Most
expressed interest in sexual partner but the mood or
stories change when you meet in person. I have always wondered
are people on the site looking for or more sexual partners.
Anytime i mention am looking for sexual partner it seems
drive guys away . Is it a bad thing seek partner,
or do people prefer having multiple sexual ...
43 response(s),
60
votes
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Where Do I Start With Erotica? - 6/22/2019
I have finished a of very short erotic stories; I
am just wondering when and where I can submit them for opinion
and possible publication. <br><br>
Very best regards, Bret Berry "Zar Will Not"
3 response(s),
22
votes
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recover account - 6/22/2019
is it possible to recover a deleted account on here?
9 response(s),
26
votes
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I LOVE YOU BUT... - 6/21/2019
I LOVE YOU BUT I SEEK TO PLEASE IN ANOTHER PERSON When these needs are not met, the risk of infidelity grows
They may be sexually attracted and still love their partners!
Will it be possible? <br><br>
<br><br>
TE QUIERO PERO BUSCO PLACER EN OTRA PERSONA
cuando estas necesidades no están satisfechas, crece
el riesgo de infidelidad ¡Podrían sentirse ...
31 response(s),
67
votes
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run in with scammers - 6/21/2019
first time and last fell for a scammer to give my email. did
so she sent picss, then the dreaded dating . messed
with them when figured . phillipines, wanted to wire
had a ball with that one! what are some of your stories
25 response(s),
34
votes
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im 54, divorced. if i wanted to have a one night fling, how would you go about it? - 6/21/2019
ok, been of dating thing for 30 years. If a older guy wants
a one nighter, how do i go about it?
19 response(s),
29
votes
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Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019
So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf
for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs
. I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one
to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole
looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her
or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this
site. Now its been about a yr and I ...
34 response(s),
68
votes
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Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019
So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf
for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs
. I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one
to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole
looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her
or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this
site. Now its been about a yr and I ...
1 response(s),
1
vote
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Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019
So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf
for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs
. I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one
to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole
looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her
or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this
site. Now its been about a yr and I ...
1 response(s),
0
votes
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Why do Cougars like younger? - 6/21/2019
Wyd do they like younger men is it a bucket list for them or
does it make them feel young again?
46 response(s),
65
votes
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getting married with more of 1 partner? - 6/20/2019
if your partner is fine to get married with one more partner,
would you accept it? if yes, you did it, how did your life change? <br><br>
in here I am not talking one about 1 man getting married with
2 or more women, I am also asking for 1 woman getting married
with 2 or more men, even mix. So it is about polylove experiences.
21 response(s),
31
votes
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Straight guys: Would you take a BJ from a guy or a cd? - 6/20/2019
Straight guys: Would you take a BJ from a guy or a cd? <br><br>
If you were horny enough, even just curious, would you take
a bj from a guy or a cd if it meant you do not have to suck back
and the pleasure it totally for you?
3 response(s),
2
votes
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The future of adult sites - 6/20/2019
Swapfinder.com has not changed much all in the past decade, I mean
the format and the features, if not the members. What is
the evolutionary path of this and other sites like it and
what suggestions would you make to improve these sites?
In my geographical location there are simply not enough
women available online and I have noticed a definite drop
off in gold members in my area. Including me. This site ...
21 response(s),
43
votes
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Does it work? - 6/20/2019
Build your own Private Postbox Receive Readable Messages
and Reply *Special note: Darling Annette gave me permission to repost
this exactly as she formatted it, complete with providing
me the necessary information, to help communicate the
helpful message of setting up your own postbox. <br><br>
Anyone can set up their own Postbox message system at AF.
The setup runs via AF Blogs. ...
19 response(s),
39
votes
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Can't wait for Swapfinder.com 18-39 year old to launch! - 6/19/2019
I'm just too excited to keep the secret anymore, but
Swapfinder.com is going to be launching a version of
their platform for users -39! <br><br>
<br><br>
From what I gathered after getting the scoop from some of
the web developers I found on linkedin, there was a huge
shortage of users from ages -30 on the site. Apparently,
most of them had been driven away by ...
46 response(s),
58
votes
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Issues With Swapfinder.com Messenger - 6/19/2019
, I have not been on this site long but I was wondering if anyone
has any issues with chatting through the sites messenger,
or is it just not working for me??
55 response(s),
56
votes
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Drugs and sex: When do we legalize Marijuana in PA? - 6/19/2019
We heard there is a bill in Harrisburg for legalizing recreational
weed in PA similar NJ. Does anyone know when this will be put for a vote? <br><br>
Sex is just enhanced more when I have this prior. Hubby say
I tend be willing try different things and open more
single males or I get more horny. LOL <br><br>
 ...
35 response(s),
46
votes
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Dominican Republic - 6/18/2019
People dropping like flies. Does anybody have a guess as
to what is killing the tourist ? <br><br>
<br><br>
<br><br>
 ...
22 response(s),
40
votes
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PHYSICAL ATTRACTION - 6/17/2019
Ugly or beauty are extremely concepts of a lot of controversy. Surely you have heard some once the popular saying of "for tastes colors".
Why while for a person a person may seem attractive, Maybe for another it is not so much. Surely who has a genetic
favorable attracts more, nor how to deny it, who thinks
otherwise your statement is false but that does not mean conquer to all people, ...
63 response(s),
86
votes
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Anal - 6/17/2019
Is anal considered a fetish or just a different method of
swing/sex ? Just wondering 😎
29 response(s),
51
votes
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Anal - 6/17/2019
Is anal considered a fetish or just a different method of
swing/sex ? Just wondering 😎
2 response(s),
5
votes
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what do the letters rm mean - 6/17/2019
I see the letters rm in the front of a lot of members handles,
what do these letters stand for?
17 response(s),
40
votes
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To recap on hotbibabe's post: ...."Do you expect sex on first date...".. - 6/16/2019
My answer:___You should always expect sex on a first "Date".
No sex? Not a date. <br><br>
The problem? __ You both referred to a "First meeting"
as a "Date". When you refer to it as "Date",
this develops certain expectations of what is to happen.
The next problem...you probably plan an evening for the
meeting. Don't do that. ...
26 response(s),
58
votes
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Dating - 6/16/2019
What should do on first date?
27 response(s),
19
votes
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What part of Swapfinder.com has been the most helpful and what has been the most difficult? - 6/16/2019
I am new to the site and the moment a non-paying member.
Before I decide to actually upgrade my membership, I would
love to hear from some of about your Swapfinder.com experience. Particularly
features of the site have been the most helpful. Hope
to get some feedback. Thanks!
29 response(s),
47
votes
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Do you all expect SEX on the first Date - 6/16/2019
Can we just meet first and have a conversation and a drink
before having sex? Is too much to ask? Do we have to fuck every person we meet on here? Is a requirement? What if we meet and there is something we don’t like about
each other? Can we just meet have a laugh and move on if it’s not the
right Fit? <br><br>
Why do people think if they took the time to meet you then
you ...
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Happy Fathers Day! - 6/16/2019
Happy Fathers Day to all you fathers out there. And remember
to use a condom ... unless you want to become a father again.
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Has anyone actually found any love on here - 6/15/2019
Just wondering if like the touching and the sex and the sneaking
around and the meeting in motel rooms and romance has caused
anybody to fall in love with each other on this site...
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Anyone out there? - 6/15/2019
Although some people will get on talk and or cam it seems
like there isn't a lot of people who choose to meet up.
Is there any advice on how to these people? How do
we show we are serious about swinging??
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Denver - 6/15/2019
Are there actual clubs or places where there is a regular
get together? Or just somewhere we can go to learn more about
how to incorporate this into our relationship?
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Newbie - 6/15/2019
What advice would you tell a newbie or a newbie couple?
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How much you Love the Nature and Us? - 6/15/2019
Love begins with the nature. We are just another creature
or thing or product of the nature. If you too think and feel
that you too are belong to the nature you will love all constructive
and productive thing in the nature with no discrimination.
So that you will love us and our caliber traits as we love
you and your caliber traits unconditionally and altruistically,
because we are not dreaming ...
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Is getting a gold membership actually worth it? - 6/15/2019
Or nah
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The Baker Should Sue for being Harassed. - 6/15/2019
I find it ironic that a transsexual would be asking about
how spot fakes. ha.. oh well he blocked , which is just
fine. Anyway, I was thinking about that baker in Lakewood Colorado
is being sued a 3rd time for not making a cake that goes against his religious convictions. A guy changed his appearance sorta as a woman wanted a cake celebrate his new . The baker said he couldn't do ...
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POINTS ? - 6/14/2019
Mine have ALL Dissappeared. Has This happened to You?
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Your experiences with adult nursing relationships - 6/14/2019
Folks, <br><br>
Whenever I come across ANR videos I get excited and intrigued.
I particularly like when two women are involved. <br><br>
Please share your experiences with actual adult nursing.
<br><br>
If you are a women, please let us know if you were giving or
receiving; and, what you enjoyed and didn't like.
<br><br>
Also, where are Swapfinder.com can ...
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Site changes - 6/13/2019
So many changes, instant messenger, seems slow and can
not view profiles while there. Even the magazine has changed. Think I liked the older versions
better. What about you like the old or the new?
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Sex - 6/13/2019
Can sa face sex oral?
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