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Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
I want daddy dick - 3/24/2019

Whats up tonight

0 response(s), 0 votes
Wantdaddy6 34 M
14  questions
I want daddy dick - 3/24/2019

Whats up tonight

0 response(s), 0 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
DEFINE A STRAIGHT MAN ? - 3/23/2019

After being on this site am confused on what a straight guys means . There straight guys who like men what do you call them ? Gay / Bi/???? Somebody explain to me. I have talked to guys who claim to be straight but also enjoy having sex with men . May be the word STRAIGHT has a DIFFRENT meaning .

66 response(s), 84 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Hello... everyone.. - 3/23/2019

Hows every little thing(y)

10 response(s), 26 votes
oink15 66 M
1  question
shaved or hairy - 3/23/2019

im a shaved bi guy no hair below I like my men & women bald or very short hair don't like going to the dentist for a hair cut !! how about you ??

37 response(s), 63 votes
Readyhereicum469 48 M
1  question
Looking to meet new and exciting people to have a good time with - 3/21/2019

Why is it so hard to chat with people on here even when you start out the chat with respect?

19 response(s), 23 votes
4PassionandLust 55 M
2  questions
Sex pics - 3/21/2019

Ladies... when viewing a mans profile, how do you feel about seeing pics of him having sex with other women? Turn on? Turn off? Make you want be her or is it threatening? Does it make you feel like he is 'real' or does it make you feel like you might just be a number??? I would love hear your perspective on this. If you don't have anything constructive say than ...

17 response(s), 53 votes
transgirlt1000 61 T
2  questions
would you become a sissy sex slave?? - 3/20/2019

yes I became a sub to mistress her name is goddess angelina a blonde beauty will a strong will and very demanding i met her on the internet and she has taken control of my life she gave me directions to become a sissy slut for her starting by dressing like a woman wearing make up shaving my body and practicing walking and talking like a woman and living life like a woman does she commanded me to ...

33 response(s), 71 votes
transgirlt1000 61 T
2  questions
would you become a sissy sex slave?? - 3/20/2019

I became a sub to mistress her name is goddess angelina a blonde beauty will a strong will and very demanding i met her on the internet and she has taken control of my life she gave me directions to become a sissy slut for her starting by dressing like a woman wearing make up shaving my body and practicing walking and talking like a woman and living life like a woman does she commanded me to take ...

5 response(s), 4 votes
rm_castlemun1 60 C
2  questions
my previous erotic stories - 3/20/2019

I would like to view my previous stories that I posted on adult friend finders. Thank you

15 response(s), 38 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
For women only -- best non-cock techniques to please you vaginally? - 3/20/2019

Beside using my cock, I very much enjoy pleasing a woman vaginally via any mix of my tongue, lips, fingers, and even nose. <br><br> But, I've found that many women like different techniques and intensities. <br><br> This is only for women. Men please refrain from answering. Let's hear what the women have to say. <br><br> Question 1: what techniques do ...

14 response(s), 44 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Hot list - 3/19/2019

Says I my max but only have 60 says I can have 200. Upgrade to gold for 1000. Did they reduce it without changing the descriptor?

13 response(s), 41 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Hot list - 3/19/2019

Says I my max but only have 60 says I can have 200. Upgrade to gold for 1000. Did they reduce it without changing the descriptor?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Love2Pleazer 48 M
2  questions
What’s on your mind - 3/19/2019

What are we here for? I guess it depends on the person! I’m just wondering tell me about your wants and desires!

17 response(s), 33 votes
What’s the one thing sexually you’d like to try most? - 3/19/2019

For me, facesitting and gloryhole.

26 response(s), 38 votes
rockithardpleas 45 M
1  question
Boobs or Butt? - 3/19/2019

I can't decide what i like best. let me know what your preference is and why. Thanks

49 response(s), 69 votes
Sucknfuckn3 32 M
2  questions
What is the best vehicle to get down to pound town in? - 3/19/2019

So what do you think is the best vehicle for some vehicular intercourse? <br><br> Personally back of a Ford Explorer is quite roomy and not to uncomfortable lol

27 response(s), 35 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
40 yr old virgin, HELL 50, 60 70 even older Virgin - 3/19/2019

They're easy to spot and figure out. Don't these guys realize they throw off a vibe that just says "I've never had Sex! But I know how to do it!" Their profile says single or Never Married, But as soon as you start talking to them it become Crystal Clear that they don't have a clue and have spent their entire life Jacking off to bad porn or old Westerns. And you soon ...

21 response(s), 48 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
WHY DO PEOPLE STAY MARRIED OR ATTACHED AND CHEAT? - 3/19/2019

There is a high number or married and attached people on the site . Excuses excuse. " Oh am not getting enough sex at home " . If i was in a sexless relationship/ marriage i would leave. You have so much peace of mind instead of sneaking around. OH its complicated i can't leave ." . Wouldn't it be easy to live a single and free to mingle life than live a stressful ...

39 response(s), 60 votes
Squirtloverhung 47 M
1  question
How long to date after divorce - 3/18/2019

Specific

29 response(s), 37 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
faithful!! - 3/18/2019

we have seen women on cam here have sexual relations and fantasies fulfill weekly with various people on cam, can they fall in love and be faithful with one person?

28 response(s), 59 votes
balibabey 21 F
1  question
Best way to get to sleep? - 3/18/2019

So it's been a long weekend, and I'm still a little wide awake. What are the best ways to get to sleep after being up for far too long?

42 response(s), 76 votes
ManinEverett 44 M
3  questions
Profile advice for single men - 3/17/2019

If you are a single man, trying to attract a woman (or even a couple), is it better to include or not include more "hardcore" pictures or videos? <br><br> For men, we usually like something a little more provocative, but would I be turning some prospective matches away due to including that content? Why or why not?

18 response(s), 39 votes
Smoke drink and Play - 3/17/2019

Hi Guys this is a hot sexy DAmmmn. I'm looking for a casual buddy to hang out with on occasion. Open minded and crazy at times. Text Me: 8045682971...

0 response(s), 0 votes
where are the sexy married women at? - 3/17/2019

where is the place place to meet sexy married women?

10 response(s), 34 votes
ladies watching men - 3/17/2019

i am sure there used to be more ladies interested in watching so what if anything makes you naughty ladies watch guys on cam?

21 response(s), 41 votes
AstonMartin789 30 M
1  question
In Hawaii - 3/17/2019

Are there women who like prime age independent mature in shape Black men?

8 response(s), 19 votes
Travelman3355 48 M
1  question
What is the craziest thing you have done to get a girl? - 3/17/2019

I shaved my ballsack

10 response(s), 18 votes
How many here just for fantasy without intention of meeting - 3/17/2019

How many are here just to browse and fantasize and dont plan on meeting?

25 response(s), 26 votes
Does the I.M here at Swapfinder.com always work - 3/17/2019

Seems to me that sometimes messages dont go through. I know some words or links are blocked by the site, but just simple messages dont go through. Anybody else have thoughts?

19 response(s), 31 votes
Does the I.M here at Swapfinder.com always work - 3/17/2019

Seems to me that sometimes messages dont go through. I know some words or links are blocked by the site, but just simple messages dont go through. Anybody else have thoughts?

3 response(s), 0 votes
Gingaaninja69 25 M
1  question
Why - 3/17/2019

is it that guys keep asking to blow you when the profile states your straight

16 response(s), 22 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
HOW MUCH SEX DO MEN WANT OR NEED ? - 3/17/2019

I have a high affinity for sex and i want it as much as i can get it. My issue is , i seem to attract men who don't seem to want sex that much. I want a guy who can make me crave it more than i can handle. A guy that cums and keep going or wants to have it all the time . IS THERE A LIMIT ON SEX INTAKE ?

45 response(s), 62 votes
Nsty1993 26 M
1  question
Ginger - 3/16/2019

Who likes gingers

15 response(s), 24 votes
Mike74588 45 M
1  question
masterbation - 3/16/2019

Who else does it several times a day

20 response(s), 20 votes
Palsukhi88 58 C
5  questions
Sexy Interstate 5 YVR to SFO March 28 Driving thrugh Seattle Portland and stay @ Medford Hotel XXX - 3/16/2019

Lets meet looking for hot sexy guys and MF couple to play with my hotwife while I watch or Join in We will be in Bellingham 730AM then Seattle around 930AM Portland 1200 PM and stay overnite at Medford Oregon Looking for sexy clean fun on the way to California lets plan a hot time of life .

10 response(s), 20 votes
Palsukhi88 58 C
5  questions
Sexy Interstate 5 YVR to SFO March 28 Driving thrugh Seattle Portland and stay @ Medford Hotel XXX - 3/16/2019

Lets meet looking for hot sexy guys and MF couple to play with my hotwife while I watch or Join in We will be in Bellingham 730AM then Seattle around 930AM Portland 1200 PM and stay overnite at Medford Oregon Looking for sexy clean fun on the way to California lets plan a hot time of life .

0 response(s), 0 votes
Palsukhi88 58 C
5  questions
Sexy Interstate 5 YVR to SFO March 28 Driving thrugh Seattle Portland and stay @ Medford Hotel XXX - 3/16/2019

Lets meet looking for hot sexy guys and MF couple to play with my hotwife while I watch or Join in We will be in Bellingham 730AM then Seattle around 930AM Portland 1200 PM and stay overnite at Medford Oregon Looking for sexy clean fun on the way to California lets plan a hot time of life .

0 response(s), 0 votes
Palsukhi88 58 C
5  questions
Sexy Interstate 5 YVR to SFO March 28 Driving thrugh Seattle Portland and stay @ Medford Hotel XXX - 3/16/2019

Lets meet looking for hot sexy guys and MF couple to play with my hotwife while I watch or Join in We will be in Bellingham 730AM then Seattle around 930AM Portland 1200 PM and stay overnite at Medford Oregon Looking for sexy clean fun on the way to California lets plan a hot time of life .

0 response(s), 0 votes
Palsukhi88 58 C
5  questions
Sexy Interstate 5 YVR to SFO March 28 Driving thrugh Seattle Portland and stay @ Medford Hotel XXX - 3/16/2019

Lets meet looking for hot sexy guys and MF couple to play with my hotwife while I watch or Join in We will be in Bellingham 730AM then Seattle around 930AM Portland 1200 PM and stay overnite at Medford Oregon Looking for sexy clean fun on the way to California lets plan a hot time of life .

0 response(s), 1 vote
squirter4u1952 56 C
1  question
Female ejaculation - 3/16/2019

Can someone please explain to me why our picture of me squirting was declined for use on our profile, but they allow squirting videos.

24 response(s), 34 votes
Marry_Linda 28 F
1  question
Divorced Mom ✅ Looking for secret Fun - 3/16/2019

I am lonely, bored horny, no strings attached, just looking for fun.? ✅ You must be clean, ddf, sane, hwp, nice single or married does not matter, I can host.? ✅If there is a mutual attraction lets meet? text me>>>>4846925458

7 response(s), 15 votes
Otis_Good 72 M
457  questions
Standup 69 - 3/16/2019

WE have all seen it on porn but has anyone tried this ? I like my women thick so it is out of the question for me . ( chuckle chuckle )

19 response(s), 31 votes
kristenm12303 42 F
1  question
new here - 3/15/2019

kristen

8 response(s), 14 votes
AliOrbit 64 F
3  questions
Anal Sex - 3/15/2019

While I have limited experience when it comes to anal sex, what is the best lube to use? And how can I be more relaxed?

34 response(s), 63 votes
Memehaha12 56 M
1  question
sunderland - 3/15/2019

anyone know anywhere in sunderland to meet and fuck maybe we should start a club x

5 response(s), 13 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Little Boy Blue... - 3/15/2019

.. hey.... he needed the MUN nee. But seriously.. has anyone seen little blew... aka Sarge...aka Sad Sack??

16 response(s), 32 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
GREATEST SEX EVER . - 3/15/2019

I will never forget guy i met when i had just left my ex. We met on a dating site . I sent him a message didn't expect a reply . He responded and the rest is history. We had this strong sexual connection was amazing . Our first encounter was when we were driving on the highway i started to rub his dick while he fingered . We pulled over and decided we have to fuk. It was daylight his ...

20 response(s), 49 votes
Swinging - 3/15/2019

How do you get your partner to try sharing another? When in the heat of the moment and bringing it . she gets even hotter, but when you bring it later will not discuss it.

19 response(s), 35 votes
Blondefox69 38 F
1  question
Wasn't it good enough - 3/15/2019

Was the pussyfooting not good at home.anymore you had To.go.find a cheap who're for.pleasure

22 response(s), 39 votes
ManinEverett 44 M
3  questions
Tacoma, WA - Where to go for some sexy fun! - 3/14/2019

Hi All, <br><br> going to be in the Tacoma/Olympia, WA area for a work project and will have time to have some fun. Are there any locals know what I should check out or go to for some sexy fun? Would love to find a nice local couple or lady, but not sure what the bar scene is like. <br><br> Anyway, if anyone has any tips or suggestions, please respond! ...

6 response(s), 26 votes
GimmeBWD 29 F
2  questions
Why Post Professional Porn - 3/14/2019

Why do people post obviously professional porn on here, I don't see the point. We can find the exact same porn on PornHub and don't need you to repost it on Swapfinder.com. It's even worse when people try to pass it off as their self in the video. Or use photos that are not their own either. I can see if you are just on this site for the visuals, but if you're trying to meet in real life, ...

27 response(s), 64 votes
GimmeBWD 29 F
2  questions
For The Men Wanting to Impregnate Women - 3/14/2019

I have a question to to older men there. Recently, I am not sure if it’s because of Springtime or not, a large influx of men have asked me if I would want to either: every desire be pregnant, would be willing to be pregnant, or would consider having their . Of course there are some individuals there that ask that kind of question for a crazy or funny response, but a lot of them have been ...

16 response(s), 34 votes
Love2Pleazer 48 M
2  questions
Swapfinder.com, bots and fake profiles - 3/14/2019

Why is it so many fake profiles here? They are relentless to, hoping Swapfinder.com fix that soon!

16 response(s), 34 votes
99lucia 69 M
1  question
Prostate - 3/14/2019

I enjoy a good prostate massage. Questions; <br><br> For the ladies - Do you do a prostate massage or is it just not a common thing? <br><br> For the men - Do you do your own prostate massage? Do you use a prostate massager? <br><br> For the ladies and the men - Do you have a prostate massager? <br><br> ://www.lelo./hugo

10 response(s), 20 votes
she looks like a porn movie woman. - 3/14/2019

she use to talk to lives nearby, her behaviour and personality or social or status is also not even average. very often we see each other on the way or have healthy conversation. but when i saw her first time i was guessing that i have seen her somewhere. after a long time i found her ( or may be same and pesonality) in a porn movie. i do not know whether she is really the same or not. how ...

21 response(s), 40 votes
Can one Guess whether his or her partner is cheating ? - 3/14/2019

once on outdoor official tour i had sex with the hotel , and it continued for a week almost everyday till i stayed there. though this was my first experience with other . when i returned back to home, i didn't disclose it . but after a few days when in bed my wife suddenly expressed that she could not feel me exactly as she used to feel before. she said " it feels as if there is some ...

15 response(s), 29 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
Dominant, submissive, or switch? - 3/14/2019

When playing in my natural state, male, with women, passionately dominant. Love to be in-charge and control what happens. <br><br> When playing masculine or feminine with men, always submissive and love to please. Love when the guy ravishes me or wants a hot bj. <br><br> When playing feminine with women, I can either be dominant or submissive -- both can be hot. ...

25 response(s), 37 votes
plz - 3/13/2019

show me women boobs

16 response(s), 35 votes
tabooinky 48 M
1  question
Bottom-ing - 3/13/2019

What’s the best way to make someone more comfortable before a meeting? Seems like more back out when we agree to meet.

16 response(s), 28 votes
GucciGuz 25 M
1  question
How to best introduce yourself - 3/13/2019

Honestly, I've had zero luck on this website. So here I am asking the community. I get I'm not the best looking guy but surely someone would bite. I really need help with not only my profile and how to make it better, but also how to even begin a conversation on this site. I mean we're all here for the same thing right? Sex? But, whats the best way to even get a reply? Thanks for your ...

17 response(s), 28 votes
Where did they go? Do you wonder? - 3/13/2019

Have you been chatting with someone one day and the next day they have disappeared in to the great vortex of the internet? Are they truly in the cloud?

13 response(s), 20 votes
Let get off together and cum - 3/13/2019

Y no guys get more into wit sex wit more people around

12 response(s), 33 votes
wantkinkytops 55 T
3  questions
Do you get right to the point about sex , or beat around the bush, which works best? - 3/12/2019

I ask the question , because this is a sex site[ me>>> triplexxx29577 at yahoo<<<< I have always got to the point, I am on here for a hookup, be it male, female , couple , 2 males , 2 females, , cd, ts, group sex or what ever. some people act like they are afraid to even discuss meeting, if your afraid what the hell are you doing here, I am going to explore making every ...

7 response(s), 24 votes
wantkinkytops 55 T
3  questions
Do you get right to the point about sex , or beat around the bush, which works best? - 3/12/2019

I ask the question , because this is a sex site[ me>>> triplexxx29577 at yahoo<<<< I have always got to the point, I am on here for a hookup, be it male, female , couple , 2 males , 2 females, , cd, ts, group sex or what ever. some people act like they are afraid to even discuss meeting, if your afraid what the hell are you doing here, I am going to explore making every ...

13 response(s), 15 votes
wantkinkytops 55 T
3  questions
Do you get right to the point about sex , or beat around the bush, which works best? - 3/12/2019

I ask the question , because this is a sex site[ me>>> triplexxx29577 at yahoo<<<< I have always got to the point, I am on here for a hookup, be it male, female , couple , 2 males , 2 females, , cd, ts, group sex or what ever. some people act like they are afraid to even discuss meeting, if your afraid what the hell are you doing here, I am going to explore making every ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
DATE FROM HELL.... - 3/12/2019

I know this sounds familiar with many on this site but for me it was a reality that sank in. I like working out and i talked to this guy on here. Our conversations were great and he seemed good and fun something so common. We went worked out together. Things were going great . So we decided to have dinner . Thats where things got awkward. He just went on a rampage telling me i was not sexy ...

26 response(s), 44 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
SEX WITH A COWORKER.... - 3/12/2019

I have seen many people fall in love at work. Do people still fall in lust with a coworker and make it happen ? I have had a coworker whom we had a lust and sexually friendship and it was amazing . It made coming to work more fun and exciting. It lasted 3 years . Sex during lunch time , after work and also we did hengout sometimes outside work. We were never seen together and no one knew ...

43 response(s), 104 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Hey......... - 3/11/2019

..........has everone had their daily jerk?

14 response(s), 38 votes
getting views with another dating site - 3/10/2019

anyone else getting views with this..http://Swapfinder.com.com - Sex dating. Sign Up!- ... getting annoying. block and report the ones that have a profile, but most have their profiles shut off.. Just venting off here....

21 response(s), 43 votes
Chatting - 3/10/2019

Do people not chat on the IM because of all the issues with it? I attempt to chat on there and hardly get a response. The IM just seems to be going downhill though.

29 response(s), 66 votes
Chatting - 3/10/2019

Do people not chat on the IM because of all the issues with it? I attempt to chat on there and hardly get a response. The IM just seems to be going downhill though.

3 response(s), 4 votes
lyavu 51 F
37  questions
HIGH SEX DRIVE - 3/8/2019

I have a high sex drive and it has become close to impossible to meet a guy who is accomodating or a match . I work alot but i will create time for sex . I am a garnisher, creamy and multi cummer . I want a guy who can satisfy me and also be accomodating. What should i do? Is it normal to want sex all the time ?

64 response(s), 137 votes
XXXJMBKXXX 41 C
1  question
Too many models on live cams? - 3/8/2019

I dont know about everyone else but the models asking for tips to do things or want you to go to cam.com bother me as much as guys pretending to be girls or up people you think want to meet up tell you to go to their pimps page to pay money to verify age and I wish the site would crack down on both cos its ruining it for us all. Is this site or the same other sites AFA or AdultXxxdating, which ...

20 response(s), 72 votes
slurrpie69 74 M
1  question
Are fake profiles annoying you - 3/8/2019

Are you experiencing an influx of fake profiles like . On average i get between 10 and 15 per day. They tend to be very pretty young ladies between 20 and 30 of age but the most interesting thing i find the areas they live in are non existent a ghost town and even an indigenous cultural office. They nearly all want to be contacted by gmail. I tried one of these out recently and i received a lot ...

41 response(s), 86 votes
Stoph8ten 37 M
2  questions
All About Filming - 3/8/2019

So I have never filmed before and I have a friend of mine coming over today. So should I ask? Someone with experience please shed some knowledge and advice.

23 response(s), 55 votes
prvts_investg8tr 48 M
1  question
alot or Not alot, that is the question - 3/7/2019

Hello Ladies. I have a tendancy to sometimes alot and i always wondered if that was a turn on for the ladies. Do you like a guy who cums alot, a little or normal ?

27 response(s), 57 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
oh really? - 3/6/2019

How would you feel if one of your exes(great sex together) and a few years later came out and started dating the same sex ?

48 response(s), 112 votes
slurpee1967 55 M
8  questions
Messenger issues - 3/6/2019

I have found more often lately when you message someone it doesn't show either a delivered or a read notification yet it still takes a chat credit of non standard members any one have the same problem?

43 response(s), 67 votes
Kjoffrey 28 M
3  questions
Profile views - 3/6/2019

It seems the vast majority of women who view my profile live 1000+ miles away. Is this Swapfinder.com’s way of stringing me along or are these legit views. I can’t see how my profile would come up in there search. Thanks for any feedback, KJ

20 response(s), 30 votes
Has anyone ever impregnated another woman while married .And What resulted ? - 3/6/2019

Like maybe a sister in law or an Aunt or close friend of the Wife, and was it kept secret or discovered .

21 response(s), 50 votes
1980hwl 53 M
6  questions
IM connection - 3/5/2019

I am standard, have IM as only way to meet. Any advise beyond pics, videos??

29 response(s), 52 votes
Has Anyone Slept with their Boss and What was the final Outcome. - 3/5/2019

Years ago I was employed as a Caretaker in a Large Apartment complex. There was Myself and another guy, We will call him Joe . The manager was a Lady named Lynne . We all lived on site. Anyways Lynne was going through a separation with her Husband .Everyday we would drink Coffee and talk in her Apartment which was attached to the Office. One day we went to lunch at the Large city park near where ...

33 response(s), 80 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
What's the truth about "anal" orgasms? - 3/5/2019

FOR MEN: Three times while being fucked by very attractive transgender women without any touching of my cock, it felt like I was going to have an some type of anal orgasm. But, each time, I stopped because I did not want to cum yet. I've not been able to recreate the sensation of even building to an anal orgasm. <br><br> FOR WOMEN: I also dated a woman who said that she had an ...

33 response(s), 52 votes
Elcaminjo 50 M
1  question
what nice cock size - 3/5/2019

how big does it need to b

0 response(s), 0 votes
dangbitches 59 F
35  questions
Advice Lines - 3/4/2019

I haven't been around for a few, I use to enjoy reading the advice. Has there been any good advice around here since I been gone?

19 response(s), 37 votes
Has North American life come to this? - 3/4/2019

Lovely people embracing life as they should. Public assistance patrons need not apply. Seriously, in 10 years here, I am interested in those that have internet. Dying brand and the people who love it. I am one! Others? Suggestion, if people pay for everything........different crowd. People who love free are numerous. People who pay with the free are fools......................people who will ...

33 response(s), 65 votes
Palidin6999 62 M
5  questions
Last time On Line// - 3/4/2019

Can any one tell me how to set my views to tell me when the last time a profile that I am reading was on line?

12 response(s), 25 votes
Sig got the flag........ - 3/4/2019

Man vs machine is winning with one weak point........a human arbiter

6 response(s), 18 votes
Is Sig dead? - 3/4/2019

I don't think so, but I am very curious.

9 response(s), 14 votes
Can I tie my own shoes? - 3/4/2019

So, I have been struggling..........I make a loop in one hand, cross the other lace over and pull it taught. Now when I try to make a second loop by pulling it through the knot of my first creation, it is too tight. I get very frustrated and have to loosen the first loop. When I do, it all falls apart. No matter how I try, it just ends up in a knotty mess. While I figure this out, I seek counsel ...

7 response(s), 13 votes
ParTyPlaywme 42 F
2  questions
Should a woman be required to be able to give a correct blowjob? - 3/4/2019

If a woman doesn't know how to deep throat, then it's up to men to correct this behavior.

57 response(s), 93 votes
ParTyPlaywme 42 F
2  questions
Should a woman be required to be able to give a correct blowjob? - 3/4/2019

If a woman doesn't know how to deep throat, then it's up to men to correct this behavior.

2 response(s), 3 votes
Thickcock4you386 42 M
2  questions
Best opening line text - 3/3/2019

Straight forward ....I want to fuck you or more conventional like ...hello how are you doing?!I mean we all know why we are on here. So which is the best approach?

40 response(s), 52 votes
Can blue balls be fatal? - 3/3/2019

See above.

25 response(s), 32 votes
Can blue balls be fatal? - 3/3/2019

See above.

3 response(s), 1 vote
Apjohnson1234 49 M
1  question
Thanks for post - 3/3/2019

How can these girls try and blatantly rip us off I ask them to verify themselves and they skirt the issue and say to trust them for if you verify they’ll meet...seems very fishy... what is this verify site that they use to get credit card information??

16 response(s), 22 votes
Custom Cupid Range - 3/3/2019

Less of a question and more of just some thoughts. So when using the filter for cupid preferences, we get fixed ranges. 5, , 20, 50... and so on. Though those first four numbers are a little odd to me. Some people who are maybe 28 or 27 miles out are people I still like to meet, but people 35 miles and above are a little bit of a trip. <br><br> It would be nice to have a better custom ...

23 response(s), 34 votes
Thickcock4you386 42 M
2  questions
Real people on here? - 3/2/2019

I have been on this site for a month or so now. It seems like women and couple's want to talk but when it comes down to meeting they stop answering. Is it just me?

31 response(s), 46 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
For bisexuals -- which do you like better sucking cock or breasts? - 3/2/2019

While I love sucking cock, I find that sucking and playing with nice breasts gives me even more pleasure. <br><br> I wish I knew why I get more pleasure from breasts. <br><br> Maybe it is the greater intimacy involved, or maybe it is because I find myself more attracted to women? <br><br> Question 1: Which do you like better? <br><br> Question 2: ...

35 response(s), 82 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
cumming!!! - 3/2/2019

could you be in a relationship with someone that rarely makes you cum/orgasm? <br><br> both are in love with each other, sex is great but most times you have to finish off yourself. could it be that they dont understand their body or medical condition.

42 response(s), 81 votes
nastykinks1914 49 M
4  questions
Overatted - 3/1/2019

So what is the most over-rated aspect of sex? What kinks do you find get too much hype?

18 response(s), 25 votes
GothicPantyhose 53 F
5  questions
Eating my .... - 3/1/2019

Out of the few things I find annoying on this website, one of the most frustrating is when I make a blog entry or a story or a group post the website will EAT my letters, and sometimes whole words. Even if I subsequently edit the post, there'll be new, different errors. <br><br> It bugs me because I try to take care with my choice of phrases but it looks like I've got drunk ...

21 response(s), 43 votes
marriednhush2 33 F
6  questions
women do you find it hard sometimes to get a good orgasm - 3/1/2019

can I please get some true answers because I have only gotten maybe 3 in the last 5 and I want to know am I the only one

26 response(s), 31 votes
nastykinks1914 49 M
4  questions
If you could fuck any place where - 2/28/2019

Would it be in the white house, or even during the press conference. <br><br> Would it be during a performance review work, while other watched? Would love to hear how your mind works?

38 response(s), 32 votes
StaciCorasco1970 54 T
1  question
anal lube - 2/28/2019

Has anyone ever used ketchup for a lube to simulate bloody anal sex ?

29 response(s), 40 votes
Has Anyone had any Funny experiences that they would like to Share in the Sex Department - 2/28/2019

My first wife Didn't know what a Blow Job was . So when I asked her for one. She said Sure and proceeded to actually Blow on it . I kinda looked at her like WTF and asked her what she was doing ? and she said giving a Blow job. I said um, You are doing it wron So I then instructed her to put it in her mouth and Suck on it , which she did. Anyways after she asked why is it called a Blow job ...

11 response(s), 23 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
When should Gold Members reply to messages? - 2/28/2019

Folks -- I have sent a bunch of messages to member who have not replied. I tried to message only people whose profiles show they'd likely be seeking someone like me. <br><br> Question 1: when should someone reply to an Swapfinder.com message? <br><br> Question 2: Would the community be better served if members receiving messages who are not interested just sent a polite ...

33 response(s), 28 votes
Solfan55 69 M
4  questions
rm_username - 2/28/2019

I keep seeing profiles that have rm and an underscore character before the username (i.e., rm_username). Do any of you fine people know what that means?

10 response(s), 19 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
What do you think... - 2/27/2019

should I txt a number I received in IM. It checks as far as area where she says she is located but profile is non-existant with a nonnude face of a cute young woman. Says she wants men and is always horny. Message was the number and asks to txt for a serious meet tonight. <br><br> Hesitant to give out my number because it could be a scam.

24 response(s), 33 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
What do you think... - 2/27/2019

should I txt a number I received in IM. It checks as far as area where she says she is located but profile is non-existant with a nonnude face of a cute young woman. Says she wants men and is always horny. Message was the number and asks to txt for a serious meet tonight. <br><br> Hesitant to give out my number because it could be a scam.

10 response(s), 4 votes
nastykinks1914 49 M
4  questions
How has your sex life changed - 2/27/2019

When thinking about what you liked when you were in college and now, what has changed? I know that I am a lot kinkier and nastier than when I first started.

18 response(s), 35 votes
nastykinks1914 49 M
4  questions
Biggest Regrets Sexaully - 2/27/2019

We all have them, but I Wonder do you regret the acts you have done or those you did not do? <br><br> I wonder was there someone you wished you would have fucked, or a sexual fetish you wish u would have tired Share please.

26 response(s), 37 votes
How many time s can I be horny in one day - 2/26/2019

Very easy all day lol love adventure clean and respectful 😎even discreet so we can get freaky between sheet

16 response(s), 26 votes
Headhunted299 33 M
1  question
Creating an interesting profile. - 2/26/2019

new this and sort of lost. I understand this is a meat market, but I only generate interest from bots an bottoms. <br><br> The crux is: can you get a human click through with an interesting profile or are all the women. So inundated with request they don't have to try? I believe the latter is true.

14 response(s), 21 votes
how often do you cum per day? - 2/26/2019

do you wish it was more?

24 response(s), 40 votes
Jirish69 37 M
1  question
Advice for actually getting a date - 2/26/2019

I have chatedwith many, honest and true tomwho i am and whatni desire. When the moment presents itself to get together, imget no reply. Any advice qis appreciated.

16 response(s), 22 votes
Is this for real? - 2/26/2019

Shaved, not shaved.......favourite position......do men like it up the a......are you joking.......is this a clique of untold.....hmmm, struggling for a word.

20 response(s), 35 votes
Is this for real? - 2/26/2019

Shaved, not shaved.......favourite position......do men like it up the a......are you joking.......is this a clique of untold.....hmmm, struggling for a word.

2 response(s), 2 votes
position - 2/26/2019

hi there, <br><br> iam really looking to have women on top position, but iam finding it difficult to proceed. <br><br> let me know how to do?

14 response(s), 25 votes
Bobceefsd 59 M
2  questions
Meeting location - 2/26/2019

What is your favorite place to meet someone for the first time from Swapfinder.com?

26 response(s), 26 votes
Azfreshout 38 M
1  question
Where are all the females and couples that like men - 2/26/2019

I'm a good looking well hung white guy how hard is it to get attention

8 response(s), 16 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Why? - 2/25/2019

So many trolls?

18 response(s), 49 votes
Solfan55 69 M
4  questions
Sexual limits - 2/25/2019

I was going to suggest that we all have some limits that we place on our sexual experiences but realized that's a pretty broad brush approach. Maybe the line in the sand is out there further than mine for more people than I think. I'm pretty sure that I will get at least one response saying that it's none of my business, but hey, I'm an inquisitive guy. <br><br> Are ...

14 response(s), 25 votes
Sucknfuckn3 32 M
2  questions
Calling all Bi people’s of the world. What’s your favorite position and with whom?? - 2/25/2019

So as I’ve been experimenting around trying new positions and things I’ve wondered what do other people enjoy and with whom? Lately I’ve been a big fan of a woman I top! Once she starts to ride I know I’m not long for this world haha so ladies and gentleman what position and with whom get you off the fastest?

21 response(s), 49 votes
LetsRide74021 53 M
3  questions
Cock Vs. Pussy Pics - 2/25/2019

Ok Im a typical male along with a dirty mind and respectful nature, but I hear so many women gripe about cock pics as their profile pics, but isn't it the same with a woman who has her pussy pic as her profile pic also? Im just as curious as the next person but a close up of a pussy is just as bad as s cock pic to me...…….. Am I wrong??????/ or right ???????

26 response(s), 59 votes
LetsRide74021 53 M
3  questions
Cock Vs. Pussy Pics - 2/25/2019

Ok Im a typical male along with a dirty mind and respectful nature, but I hear so many women gripe about cock pics as their profile pics, but isn't it the same with a woman who has her pussy pic as her profile pic also? Im just as curious as the next person but a close up of a pussy is just as bad as s cock pic to me...…….. Am I wrong??????/ or right ???????

1 response(s), 0 votes
rickdubs 47 M
3  questions
oh this site - 2/25/2019

and how u need points....????

11 response(s), 23 votes
LetsRide74021 53 M
3  questions
Call me old fashioned or raised with manners. - 2/24/2019

But what the fuck is it with all the men of all ages, old and young messaging women with Want to fuck?????????????? Or hey are you available right now?? Yes its a sex site but dam its not instant sex site, its also a dating site, I could never just as a lady to hey you wanna fuck/ Are there women out there like that?????

19 response(s), 35 votes
gDfranc 76 M
5  questions
didnt cum - 2/24/2019

after pound pussy for 20min + gave up w/o cum , , , suggestions <br><br> no Viagra or similar , ,, no drugs , ,not diabetic , ,yes hard full time

26 response(s), 35 votes
Solfan55 69 M
4  questions
Shaving - 2/24/2019

One of the most amazing experiences of foreplay for me has been trimming and shaving a woman's pubic hair. I wonder if a woman gets as turned on by trimming/ shaving her male partner prior to sex?

33 response(s), 69 votes
roman1984696 40 M
5  questions
... - 2/24/2019

i wonder if it is smart to date an esort girl...i mean, you shouold obviously insist on her getting a new job if you are to date...but , can they be trusted??? or are they just used to sleeping with a variety of men?

19 response(s), 43 votes
roman1984696 40 M
5  questions
... - 2/24/2019

i wonder if it is smart to date an esort girl...i mean, you shouold obviously insist on her getting a new job if you are to date...but , can they be trusted??? or are they just used to sleeping with a variety of men?

1 response(s), 1 vote
roman1984696 40 M
5  questions
... - 2/24/2019

i wonder if it is smart to date an esort girl...i mean, you shouold obviously insist on her getting a new job if you are to date...but , can they be trusted??? or are they just used to sleeping with a variety of men?

1 response(s), 1 vote
roman1984696 40 M
5  questions
girls - 2/24/2019

how come its so omuch impossible to get a girl on ANY of these dating sites? i must have signed up for a 100 of them if not more....not one girl actually went on a date with me......

15 response(s), 30 votes
roman1984696 40 M
5  questions
girls - 2/24/2019

how come its so omuch impossible to get a girl on ANY of these dating sites? i must have signed up for a 100 of them if not more....not one girl actually went on a date with me......

0 response(s), 1 vote
Yungstudbull25 30 M
1  question
Anyone here? - 2/24/2019

Seems to be a lot of fakes here ...or am I only one noticing that?

20 response(s), 33 votes
any female need a massage? - 2/24/2019

if so please contact me..

13 response(s), 20 votes
Stoph8ten 37 M
2  questions
Best Way To Get An Older Woman As A Young Male? - 2/23/2019

Soo Throw some ideas and or experience out there. I've never had the luck so id like to see what others think.

18 response(s), 41 votes
IM problems - 2/23/2019

Anybody having problems with IM but me. Starts and stops in the middle of the conversation. Not sure if thay even see them or not..Tks

26 response(s), 31 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
hello - 2/23/2019

.. how are you?

9 response(s), 20 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
What's the best way to earn a free Gold Membership? - 2/23/2019

I've been using Swapfinder.com for just over 1 month. I've uploaded lots of photos and videos, make blog posts, and asked 5 questions. <br><br> Swapfinder.com gave me a two-week free Gold Membership, saying it was because of my popularity and/or contribution to the site. <br><br> But, I really am not sure what I did specifically to earn the free Gold Membership. <br><br> ...

27 response(s), 36 votes
LuckyLady9112 56 F
2  questions
Honorifics - 2/23/2019

Are there acceptable honorifics for a dominant male other than Sir, Master & Daddy?

11 response(s), 31 votes
ronaldwhennen376 59 M
25  questions
women meeting for the first time - 2/23/2019

do women love to fuck when u meet for the first time

12 response(s), 34 votes
single male 10 inch cock - 2/22/2019

i have a friend that is lacking in the cock departm, ent, ive offerd some of my extra cock, should i go though with this or not >>>>>

24 response(s), 43 votes
advntrseekers2 58 C
10  questions
What is with the no profile information? - 2/22/2019

Why do guys pay for a gold membership and have zero profile information. They send a message about how interested they are and offer nothing. Click on their profile and nothing. I respond telling them there is no information listed about them. They come back with "what do you want to know?" Seriously? How about marital status, body type, something about what you would like to ...

28 response(s), 30 votes
cgame 27 M
2  questions
Introduction to threesomes - 2/22/2019

How do you start the conversation with your significant other?

24 response(s), 25 votes
cgame 27 M
2  questions
Introduction to threesomes - 2/22/2019

How do you start the conversation with your significant other?

1 response(s), 1 vote
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
What is "great" kissing? Are men or women better kissers? - 2/22/2019

I love kissing, particularly the first time. As a bi crossdresser, I've kissed woman and men, though far more women over time. <br><br> When kissing is done well, it makes me . Yes, literally elicits neurochemicals that feel oh so good. <br><br> In my experience, women are much better at kissing me in ways that feel great: soft, light tongue, hand caressing, very light ...

17 response(s), 29 votes
Stimulating2013 59 C
1  question
Couples - 2/22/2019

How many couples end up meeting a gentleman to play with?

2 response(s), 8 votes
vfr800rider 62 M
7  questions
Last visit - 2/21/2019

Where did the last visit category go. This site is listing very old profiles with no way of seeing when they were last on. Makes it hard to tell who is active and who isn't.

13 response(s), 36 votes
mtwg 73 C
4  questions
arm pit hair - 2/21/2019

what do you think of women dying their armpit hair

27 response(s), 54 votes
Where is the Strangest place you had Sex and were you Caught - 2/21/2019

I once had to hide on a Balcony after this girls boyfriend came home, and It was an 5th floor Apartment , and in the middle of winter.

37 response(s), 41 votes
HOW MANY - 2/21/2019

active male members to active female members are there

9 response(s), 15 votes
nipples - 2/21/2019

are big nipples more sensitive than small ones

12 response(s), 16 votes
is there - 2/21/2019

an average pussy size? <br><br> just wondered

6 response(s), 12 votes
when abroad - 2/21/2019

when the husbands who works on abroad and at that time the wife got interest in sex and will she ready to play and fuck

14 response(s), 24 votes
DirtyBoi1423 27 M
2  questions
Is there any mature women who like younger males? - 2/20/2019

Seems that women only like older Guys but what about the young studs huh

26 response(s), 44 votes
DirtyBoi1423 27 M
2  questions
Is there any mature women who like younger males? - 2/20/2019

Seems that women only like older Guys but what about the young studs huh

1 response(s), 0 votes
Hello - 2/19/2019

Dunno Really

27 response(s), 39 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
ass play - 2/19/2019

not into it but ladies do you like ass play

27 response(s), 50 votes
Women and glory holes - 2/19/2019

Ladies do you enjoy glory holes or is it just hyped in movies? I get that men, of course, are down for many reasons but I am curious if women enjoy truly anonymous encounters like that.

29 response(s), 58 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
Have you noticed? - 2/19/2019

It seems many of the active LONG TIME members have finally had their fill off Swapfinder.com. Their not only just not active on the A/L, blogs , or groups They have turned off or deleted their profiles. I'm not talking about the Trolls but the real people that used to be here daily. Fortunately I still keep in touch with many of them through email or on other social media. But real people on Swapfinder.com seem ...

37 response(s), 80 votes
rickdubs 47 M
3  questions
mobile IM? - 2/19/2019

what happen to the IMs on mobile after this update?

20 response(s), 34 votes
BJbitxcpl 52 C
1  question
Players best time - 2/18/2019

[/I <br><br> WHAT IS THE FASTEST CONNECTION YOU MADE WITH Swapfinder.com. RATE THAT EXPERIENCE

28 response(s), 70 votes
size question for the gals - 2/17/2019

What is the ladies definition of big and thick?

34 response(s), 71 votes
Why is IM so inconsistent? Do you think Swapfinder.com will ever get it fixed? - 2/17/2019

Does anyone else feel the same way?

36 response(s), 61 votes
Gert_B_Frobe 38 M
1  question
Is this site worth it - 2/17/2019

I'm curious, for a guy on here is it worth buying a gold membership? I think most of the woman are gifted them, because let's face it; woman in a bar or online site attract men. I ask is it worth it because I can really only IM and rarely get a response. I'm not looking to get with a married couple; I'm just looking for woman, and I've mostly been contacted by married or ...

25 response(s), 47 votes
looking for cock to suck or take which is best - 2/17/2019

a large cock or nice ass ???

10 response(s), 31 votes
Mreee38 43 M
6  questions
lets see - 2/17/2019

any women like to ride cock

19 response(s), 41 votes
cbstanj1 39 M
2  questions
Best places for semi public sex - 2/16/2019

Looking for suggestions to be adventurous. What are the best places for semi public sex that are considered risky, but too risky?

32 response(s), 39 votes
cbstanj1 39 M
2  questions
Best places for semi public sex - 2/16/2019

Looking for suggestions to be adventurous. What are the best places for semi public sex that are considered risky, but too risky?

0 response(s), 2 votes
james433433 38 M
3  questions
Watch - 2/16/2019

Do you like to watch?

17 response(s), 30 votes
timenagen 55 M
1  question
24hrs - 2/15/2019

How many times have you had sex within 24 hrs

22 response(s), 41 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
What's the difference between sex addiction and just loving sex? - 2/15/2019

I'll start with one of the official definitions of sex addiction: <br><br> "Sexual addiction refers to a preoccupation with sexual thoughts or sexual behavior to the extent that this preoccupation continues even though it causes substantial harm. This harm may include: 1) risky, dangerous, or unhealthy sexual behaviors; 2) damage to interpersonal relationships and/or the ...

25 response(s), 53 votes
Gregsturn69 49 M
1  question
Not one single response from a female - 2/15/2019

I have looked through as many profiles in a day a person could look and I responded to every single one I thought that it could be mutual or at least spike an interest I haven’t got a single response except for a couple where the hubby wrote back and said wifey isn’t intobbearded men I mean I’ve responded to at least. 50 people I bet . Surely I’m not that ugly or that creepy or Percy? ...

23 response(s), 22 votes
jolielaide 53 F
53  questions
day late and a $1 short - 2/15/2019

it's the day after valentine's and i am not throwing shade on love but it's a bogus kinda 'holiday' that perpetuates the hype of needing one day. really? one day to profess love to a beloved? what is the rest of the year for? but i get it; go all out, spend that ca$h. it leaves me wondering what other 'single' people did to get through the day. other than work i mean.

19 response(s), 30 votes
instant messenger will not open for me - 2/15/2019

when i try to open instant messenger it won't do any thing will noy open anyone know why?

19 response(s), 23 votes
extraordinary85x 39 M
1  question
Watching others spray hot spurts of cum - 2/14/2019

When a nice cock starts spraying ropes of sperm everywhere, its just about teh greatest thing ever. Who else agrees?

23 response(s), 48 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
left behind - 2/14/2019

Valentines Day is a pretty good hotel play time. Be it only a couple or a swing party. <br><br> This got a few friends talking about hotel stay happenings. <br><br> One thing that stuck out was things "left behind". Now trying to retrieve a wallet or an electric razor is one thing but what about a "personal" item? <br><br> We left a ...

30 response(s), 50 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
threesomes rules? - 2/14/2019

are there rules during a threesome? for example... during mfm., the males should not touch the other penis . or no eye contact unless its for 5..

46 response(s), 78 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
destiny!!! - 2/14/2019

have you dated someone that insist on being in your family? Things didnt work out with you and he/she wants to date your sibling. <br><br> would you do everything to break them up or maybe its destiny?

16 response(s), 23 votes
Justforfun767722 21 M
1  question
Why doesn’t no older woman wanna fuck me ? - 2/13/2019

I have a nice sized dick and I’m fun but knowone hits me up

31 response(s), 36 votes
fungustango 71 C
4  questions
Sexual party games - 2/13/2019

We are having a sex party and are interested in new ice breakers to get the party started

21 response(s), 40 votes
fungustango 71 C
4  questions
Sexual party games - 2/13/2019

We are having a sex party and are interested in new ice breakers to get the party started

0 response(s), 0 votes
fungustango 71 C
4  questions
Sexual party games - 2/13/2019

We are having a sex party and are interested in new ice breakers to get the party started

0 response(s), 0 votes
fungustango 71 C
4  questions
Sexual party games - 2/13/2019

We are having a sex party and are interested in new ice breakers to get the party started

0 response(s), 0 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
What makes sucking cock so hot? - 2/13/2019

I love sucking and stroking cock, particularly when its owner is fit and sexy. <br><br> I've sucked the cocks of hot, ripped black guys (my favorite) and those of beautiful transgender women. I've even sucked the strapons of women and FTM transmen. <br><br> Don't get me wrong, I love kissing, being fucked, and fucking women. <br><br> But, what is it ...

24 response(s), 61 votes
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
Straight but but gay after midnight - 2/12/2019

Why does it seem like the straight guys become gay after midnight ? LOL It seems that straight? guys LOL become gay after midnight at least that's when they start sending me messages trying to hook up LMBO Is it because their drunk, their wife is asleep or thy just decide to let their true self out. Why wait until midnight to admit your gay, you might actually get some action if you show you ...

32 response(s), 74 votes
Age is just a number - 2/12/2019

Obviously there is such a thing as too young but for adults, age is just a number. Do you agree?

63 response(s), 84 votes
Bot or Not - 2/12/2019

Is there a way to identify a bot from a real member? Your thoughts.

23 response(s), 30 votes
LETSGOANDDOIT48 47 M
1  question
Looking 4 a new relationship!!! - 2/11/2019

When you are looking for a friendship, What or Where do you suggest I do?

14 response(s), 21 votes
hog1956 68 M
1  question
lubes & oils - 2/11/2019

when your bi your self or with a partner or group witch oils or lubes do you like best ?

33 response(s), 45 votes
TheBelgianGuy97 27 M
1  question
is without condom more excting - 2/10/2019

for you is it more excting?

59 response(s), 85 votes
Clara_Voyar 43 M
30  questions
Just wondering.... - 2/10/2019

Does anybody enjoy breaking wind when someone is going down on you.? Be honest....

23 response(s), 66 votes
What do you call it? - 2/10/2019

What do you call two women in a hot 69? I call it eating good in the neighborhood.

53 response(s), 109 votes
A how to question - 2/10/2019

How do you succeed on this site? <br><br> Any suggestions would be welcome

27 response(s), 47 votes
The increasing experience gaffe between youg women and men. - 2/10/2019

Is it just me or are women starting to become sexually aware younger. Much younger than mmen.

34 response(s), 42 votes
Travel notice - 2/9/2019

Is there somewhere you can post a travel notice so the public can see it? I know you can on your profile. But unless someone is looking at your profile, they wont see it. I travel 5-7 times a year. It would be great if I could post something and have locals contact me. Be it looking for a NSA hook up or just even someone to go on a date with and show me around a bit.

16 response(s), 30 votes
Maricopa singles? - 2/9/2019

how much singles? and where?

10 response(s), 27 votes
Turnaround time - 2/9/2019

I'm just wondering, what would a typical member estimate, would be a reasonable turnaround time from the day you joined to the day you actually met up with someone. A week maybe? A month perhaps? Or maybe a year. What you'll think?

15 response(s), 28 votes
why do we do it? - 2/9/2019

why do sometimes we will clear our time/day so we can chat with someone.. only to have them fall asleep and shit.. ughh that is urking..

24 response(s), 39 votes
guitar9919 52 M
15  questions
pubic hair - 2/9/2019

should i shave my pubic hair

44 response(s), 58 votes
Mreee38 43 M
6  questions
hi - 2/9/2019

what turns everyone on?

22 response(s), 23 votes
Mreee38 43 M
6  questions
hi - 2/9/2019

what turns everyone on?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Mreee38 43 M
6  questions
hi - 2/9/2019

what turns everyone on?

0 response(s), 1 vote
Mreee38 43 M
6  questions
hi - 2/9/2019

what turns everyone on?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Mreee38 43 M
6  questions
hi - 2/9/2019

what turns everyone on?

1 response(s), 1 vote
rickdubs 47 M
3  questions
Amazon Position... tried it? thoughts? - 2/8/2019

Ever tried Amazon Position?? thoughts on both sides?

19 response(s), 29 votes
IM Trouble - 2/8/2019

As far as I am concerned, Swapfinder.com sucks. You send an , the recipient may - or may not - get notified or may - or may not - even see the message in the midst of a conversation. I have had people tell me "they did get my message". As a standard member, I get 3 initiations a day. It doesn't matter if the recipient gets my post, I get charged a contact. Or if I used up my 3, I get ...

35 response(s), 46 votes
Where is the list of online members on IM - 2/8/2019

I can only see friends and active chats, no list of online members on mobile site. Is this the same everywhere?

16 response(s), 31 votes
luv2pnp 51 M
1  question
What's up with the messenger here for phones? - 2/8/2019

It's all jacked up and totally useless not that it's ever really worked well.

32 response(s), 40 votes
Points - 2/7/2019

What's the best/fastest way to earn points on the site?

24 response(s), 47 votes
doyoulikeyourpus 55 M
1  question
Hard to get! - 2/7/2019

Why do women on this site talk about sex in the profile, but when you send them a message they don't respond?

33 response(s), 44 votes
Wolflover1234 54 M
1  question
To contact or not to contact? - 2/6/2019

We were sitting around at work throwing this around, and it made me curious what advice you would give in the following situation: <br><br> <br><br> You are using a dating app (bumble is a good example as women have to contact first when you matche, and there is a finite time limit to do so), and she matches you first. You match back, but the time runs out before she ...

28 response(s), 48 votes
SimplyNaked08 38 M
1  question
Married men? - 2/6/2019

What do you think ladies?

23 response(s), 57 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
What type of men like kissing crossdressers? - 2/6/2019

Those with experience crossdressing know that many men are attracted to crossdressers because they are curious about cock, like cock, and/or get excited by the idea of fucking a submissive guy who looks girlie. <br><br> When I crossdress, the most exciting thing sexually is when the guy kisses me passionately. OMG do I love that. It makes me so horny, and motivates me to do whatever I ...

26 response(s), 49 votes
kingtot0192 27 M
1  question
How do score with my neighbor mature almost granny neighbor?? - 2/6/2019

How do I confront sexy ass neighbor that's always giving me that lets fuck look when her husband always home?

35 response(s), 57 votes
AnewWoman 66 F
139  questions
Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? - 2/6/2019

I don't get it. Questions like those about the size of a cock. Or even using myself as an example because I happen to have a trans history. What drives you to be with people who have no interest in a person such as yourself? Do you really believe with enough time you can get that person to like you?
Take the cock size questions. If the woman is a size queen, she is not going put in the ...

26 response(s), 67 votes
Discretefun12803 44 M
1  question
Role playing - 2/5/2019

How important is lingerie/outfits when role playing ?

21 response(s), 33 votes
sexygeo336 42 M
5  questions
when dating a trans is it important to not only show u care but u would do anything??? - 2/5/2019

Just wonderin when datin a transgender or transsexual I know it is important to love and expect them for who they r but is it also important to show that not only u care but that u would do anything to defend them when ppl r sayin things that would make them feel rejected?? Just wonderin

16 response(s), 39 votes
psylckr520 40 M
2  questions
for points - 2/5/2019

but since we're here. seen any good movies lately?

36 response(s), 70 votes
Does size matter - 2/5/2019

I have seen my wife have her most intense body shaking orgasms from men with very big penis. (Granted knowing how to use It also matters). I have seen her have orgasms with other men, however not as intense as with bigger men. She says size doesn't matter perhaps because she will make me feel bad. I am only average. Thoughts and comments are appreciated. Thank you.

37 response(s), 82 votes
Toys - 2/4/2019

What is your favorite sex toy? and why?...

53 response(s), 61 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
Who's attracted to crossdressers, why,and for what? - 2/4/2019

As a part-time crossdresser using Swapfinder.com to find women, male, or couples as partners, learning about the wide array of people interested in crossdressers; and, the different things they want. <br><br> Please share what you like about crossdressers, what types of crossdressers you prefer (e.g. how feminine & what types of feminine traits), and what you like to do with them sexually ...

31 response(s), 57 votes
aim2pleaseu952 72 T
10  questions
What's with /////////////// ? - 2/3/2019

Lately, I've seen a lot of profiles with several lines of /////////////. Does anybody know what that's about?

30 response(s), 53 votes
Hungun69 46 M
2  questions
Bling - 2/3/2019

Can someone explain to me how bling works??

15 response(s), 46 votes
She turned 65. - 2/3/2019

Christie Brinkley turned 65 the other day and wow she looks so amazing for her age. some people age very well and some do not and I understand people get plastic surgery and I am sure she had some done. So what is your opinion on her or any one that is 65 and still looks that great?

34 response(s), 63 votes
LuckyLady9112 56 F
2  questions
Awakening of Submissive Desires - 2/3/2019

I've always liked rough sex but have never had a partner really into it. After recently meeting a dominant male online & having some deep discussions with him, I have discovered a deep desire to be a submissive. What thoughts and advice would anyone share with me about starting this journey? Where do I start? Protocol? Etiquette? All legitimate feedback is greatly appreciated.

22 response(s), 45 votes
Penis shape - 2/2/2019

What do you guys think is the most appealing shape of a penis? <br><br> What is the best size aspect?

35 response(s), 55 votes
HappyBeachBoy 64 M
2  questions
What makes a great set of tits? - 2/2/2019

Don't get me wrong. Tits are great, no matter who they are attached to. However, there are just some sets which really capture people's imaginations. Simply asking here, IN YOUR VIEW, what is it about a great set of tits, which makes them a "great" set of tits? <br><br> All views welcome here.

45 response(s), 77 votes
Hungun69 46 M
2  questions
New - 2/2/2019

New here and wondering if anyone else is getting fake profile messages and/or improper solicitation request?

17 response(s), 26 votes
Electr1cc 24 M
1  question
What should I do? - 2/2/2019

I recently have been craving sex with guys and trying new things and what not, And I stumbled upon a a guy in his 20's and we talked for around 5-6 hours and called and wants to meet up this weekend and try things, I would love to meet up and try it, It's just I've never bottomed before and wondering if i should try it?

24 response(s), 33 votes
Fukm3nowallrite 53 M
1  question
3sums - 2/2/2019

Why is it so difficult to find a lady to join in a 3sum?

21 response(s), 38 votes
why do guys - 2/1/2019

I have on my profile no guys over 26 but still hounded by guys 50+ are they thick,

27 response(s), 33 votes
Boybuttlover 53 M
1  question
Totally outta control gay sex - 2/1/2019

I'm a bisexual 53 year old man who loves girls & boys but the other night I had a 4 some with 4 hot young college studs 21 & up! Why do I love young guys? I was I heaven giving them oral taken & giving them anal & kissing & dancing for them

22 response(s), 48 votes
luvtoshare122 61 C
1  question
After Craigslist - 1/31/2019

Hey everyone. I was just wondering what you were using to replace the now defunct Craigslist personals section? And any luck ?

46 response(s), 74 votes
Time for some naughty adventures - 1/31/2019

How do I get my wife involved in some swing activities? Anyn groups in and around North Bay

20 response(s), 43 votes
shogun_269u_II 62 M
2  questions
Face sitting - 1/31/2019

I absolutely luv the idea of having a sexy lady straddle my face and ride my mouth for her pleasure! My current wifey will not do it and really finds all oral sex gross ( why I stay married to her ... another question ). If you are a lady do you enjoy this type of fun? If you are a guy do like having a lady ride your face?

34 response(s), 54 votes
ridemeraw88 45 M
4  questions
Ashley Madison - 1/30/2019

Hello everyone has anyone had any experience with Ashley Madison good bad or indifferent or is it just like them Thanks Have fun Ride

41 response(s), 65 votes
231spyder 46 M
4  questions
Buuurrrrrrrr, Baby its cold outsdie. - 1/30/2019

I know this is supposed to be sex related, but dang its cold, single digits and wind chilles of well below zero. Not really complaining but... hows everyone keeping warm? Got a raging fire in the fireplace myself.

31 response(s), 48 votes
More bots than not? - 1/30/2019

I come and got on this site depending upon my libido and how bored I am. In my current iteration I notice I have been getting messages and flirts from more bots than ever before. Attractive 32-year-olds from everywhere from Ohio to Finland telling me how much they want a soulmate and family. I mean they outnumber the legit members, in my case, by a 10 to one ratio. Are there in fact more fake ...

23 response(s), 56 votes
Black Supremacy - 1/30/2019

Has anyone heard or seen information on Black Supremacy or Black Superiority. i am interested in learning, but haven't seen very much about it[

21 response(s), 50 votes
jemrdy 59 M
2  questions
Bi Curious concern - 1/30/2019

I have always been hetero, into women and never been it situation with another man, however lately I have been turned on watching other guys on cam and jerking along with them. Why is that hot to me?

33 response(s), 50 votes
Ass Play - 1/29/2019

Wondering about a man's responsibility when having gay sex for the first time. Clean of course, but after that what else?

19 response(s), 38 votes
Value to gold membership? - 1/29/2019

I've been a standard member for now and have had some luck at meeting people and enjoy the cams. My question is if there is VALUE to the gold membership? What are you thoughts and opinions?

33 response(s), 59 votes
AliOrbit 64 F
3  questions
Hotlisting - 1/29/2019

Why do people hotlist you when you have never even exchanged a greeting?

42 response(s), 68 votes
biggerdave6766 57 M
2  questions
so what is a good place for a date - 1/28/2019

so what is a good place for a first date besides coffee or drinks

19 response(s), 24 votes
biggerdave6766 57 M
2  questions
so what is a good place for a date - 1/28/2019

so what is a good place for a first date besides coffee or drinks

3 response(s), 4 votes
The2ofus2002 52 C
1  question
chat room access - 1/27/2019

My husband and I once enjoyed the entertainment of the "Girls watching Guys on Cam" room - Lately when we try to enter it - we no longer have the option to... does anyone have any advice?

31 response(s), 69 votes
I just had to laugh. - 1/27/2019

Last night my hubby and I were both very horny we started off by me sitting on his face while he went down on me .I thought he said something so I raised up and asked him what he was trying to say and he said ---It is kind of hard to tell you I love you when your sitting on my face it made me laugh so much.

33 response(s), 141 votes
Older for younger - 1/27/2019

Hello to all, My question is simple...how can I get a younger woman to commit to an encounter? I've been told that I look like I'm in my thirties, not fifties. I'm probably more knowledgeable than younger men, and know that pleasing a woman comes first. Ideas?

29 response(s), 45 votes
cynthiasghost101 61 F
121  questions
The advice lines - 1/27/2019

Have gotten completely off track. It's full of trollish behavior and trolls. That's why I hardly come here. It's not the same. Complaining and blocking have proven to be in effective. We need to get these trolls laid. Any ideas on how?

24 response(s), 60 votes
moonfish 57 M
1  question
mother/ - 1/27/2019

One of my fantasies has always been to have sex with a mother and her . maybe in her twenties and the mother in her forties or fifties. Or maybe have a relationship with one and secret affair with the other. Has anyone ever done something similar and has a story to tell?

11 response(s), 41 votes
Divealaska 53 M
1  question
Tip function - 1/26/2019

What is the tip function for... How does it work?

12 response(s), 26 votes
RandiNirish 37 C
1  question
is - 1/26/2019

can u be a top and bottom

18 response(s), 38 votes
robdessertrider2 67 M
5  questions
Creampie or Facial? - 1/26/2019

When watching porn which would you prefer to see, Creampie finish or are you really turned on by Facial? I know in sex in my personal preference is I love creampie, and find it extremely difficult to withdraw as I reach climax. It is easier when using condoms to pull out and do a facial or skin cream for the belly or butt cheeks. If happens to be me getting creamed I still prefer internal, I ...

40 response(s), 53 votes
jerri1999 58 M
2  questions
Plying around, but very serious. - 1/26/2019

How is possible that technology is not being use to stop spammers and all kind of different critters populating this site; every time I sign in to hopefully find sexy or horney people I can see that Swapfinder.com it's populated with the same garbage from the day before and the same that will be found tomorrow. My suggestion is clean the place, keep the garbage out, we don't need creatures from ...

14 response(s), 37 votes
jerri1999 58 M
2  questions
Plying around, but very serious. - 1/26/2019

How is possible that technology is not being use to stop spammers and all kind of different critters populating this site; every time I sign in to hopefully find sexy or horney people I can see that Swapfinder.com it's populated with the same garbage from the day before and the same that will be found tomorrow. My suggestion is clean the place, keep the garbage out, we don't need creatures from ...

0 response(s), 4 votes
n2udeep00 44 M
4  questions
Asian woman - 1/26/2019

Are Asian really different?

34 response(s), 60 votes
fepsiano2018 25 M
1  question
A girl in Egypt? - 1/26/2019

Are there anyone ready to have a serious relation in Cairo?

10 response(s), 25 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
Seen anything .. - 1/24/2019

funny in profiles? Just saw one in a woman's asking for another female clean smelling and tasting only. Lol can she get a serious answer with that. Many of the woman I have been with have no desire to taste their own juice to begin with. Those that do are going to say they taste clean anyway lol. <br><br> So would you even contact a person with outlandish or even silly criteria? I ...

24 response(s), 55 votes
sonibac 35 C
1  question
Where can a indian girl safely wear a bikini in india? - 1/24/2019

Can anyone wear bikini in kovalam or goa beaches? Especially if she is Indian. Any experience regarding that?

15 response(s), 36 votes
funcpl913 40 C
1  question
what is the question ? - 1/24/2019

what is the answer?

34 response(s), 47 votes
Stevenztaylor 46 M
3  questions
Safety - 1/24/2019

Do people really practice safe sex

26 response(s), 34 votes
Stevenztaylor 46 M
3  questions
Looking to chat possibly meet - 1/24/2019

Any ladies on here just want dirty chat?

16 response(s), 22 votes
Stevenztaylor 46 M
3  questions
Looking to chat possibly meet - 1/24/2019

Any ladies on here just want dirty chat?

0 response(s), 3 votes
humbocksha1 61 M
3  questions
50 Shades - 1/24/2019

The 50 shades books turned my wife into a fuckbuddy freak. i love it. wish there were more to the series. anyone have suggestions of other similar/erotic books? doesn't have to BDSM based.

10 response(s), 35 votes
humbocksha1 61 M
3  questions
Glory Hole - 1/24/2019

What are your views about going to a glory hole that is set up at a private residence?

28 response(s), 40 votes
Laura1959 61 F
1  question
I love anal sex - 1/23/2019

I want to put my piture in the magasineLauraaAsteyeta...

34 response(s), 73 votes
Should single men be banned from Swapfinder.com? - 1/22/2019

So I was talking with a woman who was logged into her couple's account. We had a short chat where I got some of the most transparent thoughts on what she felt was wrong with this site. She suggested that 90% of the single men on here will never get any action because women aren't interested. Now I know that is a bit much to say, but from a woman in her 50s who suggested she has had a lot ...

54 response(s), 87 votes
Question for a friend that I have known for over 30 years - 1/22/2019

I have a friend of mine who is in married now for 7 years to a woman that he loves. He had been very unhappy and unsatisfied of late because he and his wife have not had sex for 6 years now. He says he tried to initiate, but she has turned him down each time and he is very frustrated. There may have been some health issues one year, but she is currently fine. <br><br> He has been ...

26 response(s), 26 votes
10timz10 106 M
2  questions
big dick - 1/22/2019

has anyone here tryed phalogentics seems unlikly to work never thought pills would im a littel above average but do believe girls like realy big cocks

17 response(s), 34 votes
10timz10 106 M
2  questions
big dick - 1/22/2019

has anyone here tryed phalogentics seems unlikly to work never thought pills would im a littel above average but do believe girls like realy big cocks

1 response(s), 1 vote
MsCarlalee 61 T
146  questions
Begging for it but too sorry to get it - 1/22/2019

Come on Loosers! Why beg for it then not want to provide the place to meet? Your the one contacting us Then you don't want to provide a room or or your place. Why the hell should we let you know where we live? So you can stalk us? No FREAKIN wonder shy you still in your Mom's house!

19 response(s), 48 votes
Grocery store pickup - 1/21/2019

Has anyone gotten laid after meeting someone at the grocery store? If so, how did it come about?

31 response(s), 39 votes
HappyBeachBoy 64 M
2  questions
In Your View, What is the BEST thing about receiving "Road Head" - 1/21/2019

Everyone like Road head right? Of course they do. Aside from the adventure, in your view, what is the BEST thing about getting or giving road head?

33 response(s), 34 votes
Jjj835 25 M
13  questions
black dicks - 1/21/2019

do ladies prefer blacks didcks to any other

12 response(s), 50 votes
Brrrr.... Its 12 degrees below freezing in Philly. How do you get warm? - 1/21/2019

To my hubby: remind me again why we moved here from California ? ...

27 response(s), 32 votes
Bigmmm3939 44 M
2  questions
Who here has had fun. - 1/21/2019

How many of you have actually met up and had fun? I hope you all have had some good times.

31 response(s), 40 votes
Bigmmm3939 44 M
2  questions
Who here has had fun. - 1/21/2019

How many of you have actually met up and had fun? I hope you all have had some good times.

0 response(s), 1 vote
NottyNum50 56 M
1  question
hotlist quirk - 1/21/2019

anyone gone to access their hotlist and found like 10-15 profiles that they didn't add and cant remove permanently in their hotlist ?

15 response(s), 27 votes
psylckr520 40 M
2  questions
Joke - 1/21/2019

Did you hear that Lorena Bobbitt almost died in a car crash recently? <br><br> Some dick cut her off.

6 response(s), 21 votes
Mwn25813 29 M
2  questions
Is anyone real - 1/21/2019

Why does everyone on here seem fake

38 response(s), 49 votes
Mwn25813 29 M
2  questions
Is anyone real - 1/21/2019

Why does everyone on here seem fake

1 response(s), 3 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

28 response(s), 47 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

0 response(s), 0 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

0 response(s), 0 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

0 response(s), 0 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

0 response(s), 0 votes
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

1 response(s), 1 vote
bobbybest523 71 M
14  questions
Do not understand...what members are up to - 1/20/2019

a lot of members say interested in chat ...accept friends request.....but never chat on IM. They send messages...but never say what actually they want....why cant be people honest and say what they are up to...as they do not have to reveal who they are and can only reveal their identity after the are comfortable and trust the opposite person.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Crystaltite100 35 T
1  question
Why do secret flings feel so good? - 1/20/2019

I don't know what it is but having a secret sex partner who nobody knows about is so damn hot

42 response(s), 42 votes
What would upset you more? - 1/20/2019

OK for the men first what would upset you more if your wife left you for another man or she left you for another women? For the women what would upset you more if your husband left you for another women or for another man?

45 response(s), 52 votes
Skippy975369 44 M
1  question
Girth. Or length? - 1/20/2019

Dying to know ladies..

44 response(s), 46 votes
howdydoodyXLII 53 M
3  questions
I want to get back at Olivia (if that's her real name) - 1/19/2019

Almost 4 years ago I was taken advantage of by a woman I started chatting with here on Swapfinder.com. Her name was Olivia. I was so naive back then, thinking I was actually going to get something out of it besides an empty wallet. It was one of your basic situations where she lied about living close to me and wanted to meet me, but first she had to leave the country on a "business trip". Turns ...

32 response(s), 42 votes
Ambassador Rant - 1/19/2019

According to Swapfinder.com you recently viewed my profile. Although you did not reach out to me I (Andrea) wanted to acknowledge that you at least looked. I appreciate you looking however per my very specific profile criteria I am not interested. But thanks again for looking. <br><br> I looked at their pictures. I look at a lot of pictures. That doesn't mean I'm the least bit ...

40 response(s), 44 votes
fandangochick 47 F
2  questions
Married Men and Women - 1/19/2019

Should married men and women share details of past sexual experiences? <br><br> It can be a turn on of course...what do you all think.

39 response(s), 50 votes
fandangochick 47 F
2  questions
Married Men and Women - 1/19/2019

Should married men and women share details of past sexual experiences? <br><br> It can be a turn on of course...what do you all think.

2 response(s), 1 vote
Bobceefsd 59 M
2  questions
Couples that aren’t really couple. - 1/19/2019

I am always interested in connecting with a male/female couple. It seems like most of the m/f couple that will chat with me immediately go to “are you bi”. Then go further asking to play solo. Then finally say my wife doesn’t play any more. Why not just have an accurate profile? Has anyone else ran into this or is it just me?

23 response(s), 26 votes