Just back in the Bay Area after years away and all ready to play! I'm a clean-cut, easy-going guy with a quirky sense of humor, a sexually active imagination and a smooth athletic body (5'8", 175lbs) who enjoys a growing list of sexual interests and experiences. I'm looking for someone reliable---definitely more than a one-night stand but less than a ball and chain. :) I am lucky enough to have a flexible daily schedule and in the true spirit of partnership, I am more than willing to share in the hosting duties/providing a mutually comfortable location as well as travel. I'm looking for an open-minded, enthusiastic, playful partner. In your 20s or 30s, you are someone who is intrigued by (or already appreciates!) the NSA interracial sexual change of scenery offered by an enthusiastic, skillful, and discreet asian lover. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***FOR INTERESTED COUPLES: I've had some great experiences being the other (bi)guy :D! Have just watched, been watched and stuff in between. If you think I'm what you're looking for, would love to hear what you're interested in and what role you'd like me to play. Other than my preference for fair-skin, I'm open to all other physical characteristics (e.g. skinny or curvy, taller or shorter, hair color, bust size etc.). Your perality and sexual interests are more important and arousing to me-- From previous experiences on AFF, you know as well as I do that it's all about the in-per chemistry/attraction. As long as we find some mutual interests, I keep an open mind and will gladly meet up for coffee and friendly chit-chat. Other random thoughts on what I hope you're like and the things you like to do: In general, you have a pretty good idea that sex isn't just about penetration and it doesn't just happen in the bedroom with the lights out. You're someone who likes to cum hard but is also able to have a good time hanging out or talking about this, that, and the other. I hope you like to laugh as much as you like to moan and that reading things like this turns you on at least a little bit... :-) Ideally you have some submissive tendencies/fantasies that you would like to safely/slowly explore with a fairly experienced lover who is very respectful of boundaries. I'm not at all interested in intense pain, heavy leather bondage, etc. Instead think more along the lines of exploring general obedience (but not anything really gross, degrading, or abusive), orgasm/pleasure denial, immersive role-playing, etc. Ideally you're someone who particularly enjoys receiving oral and is open to exploring anal play (both receiving and giving) as well as a variety of toys. Any idea that falls in the realm of sexual fun is fair game. I have my fantasies to share and I know you do to. It's all negotiable openmindedness. I think it's a pretty simple task: Finding a nice, generous, and eager partner for sexually creative exploration and mutual satisfaction on a convenient, semi-regular basis. Safe and reliable naughtiness! More pictures available and glad to satisfy any requests. Please don't hesitate to write or ask questions...Hope to hear from you soon and your specific desires/interests. ALL emails will be answered honestly and promptly.

My Ideal Person I'm pretty much open to all other physical characteristics (e.g. skinny or curvy, taller or shorter, hair color, bust size etc.) but I am hoping to find a great sexual match with a woman with fair/light-skin (a healthy tan is definitely nice too...).

Your personality and interests are more important and arousing to me than anything physical--
From previous experiences on Swapfinder.com, you know as well as I do that it's all about the in-person chemistry/attraction. As long as we find some mutual interests, I keep an open mind and will gladly meet up for coffee and friendly chit-chat.

Other random thoughts on what I hope you're like and the things you like to do:

In general, you have a pretty good idea that sex isn't just about penetration and it doesn't just happen in the bedroom with the lights out.

You're someone who likes to cum hard but is also able to have a good time hanging out or talking about this, that, and the other. I hope you like to laugh as much as you like to moan and that reading things like this turns you on at least a little bit...

Ideally you have some submissive tendencies/fantasies that you would like to safely/slowly explore with a fairly experienced lover who is very respectful of boundaries. I'm not at all interested in intense pain, heavy bondage, etc. Instead think more along the lines of exploring general obedience (but not anything really gross, degrading, or abusive), orgasm/pleasure denial, immersive role-playing, etc. Ideally you're someone who particularly enjoys receiving oral and is open to exploring anal play (both receiving and giving) as well as a variety of toys.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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