Tall (6'3"), 41 years old, and of average build (softer in some areas than I'd like, and working on them). I'm well employed in a career I enjoy, and I also do freelance writing on the side. I'm a completely single father with over half custody of my , who are a huge part of my life. I enjoy reading (mostly fantasy/scifi), watching movies (have an extensive dvd collection), and putting things in parentheses (because I type in stream of consciousness :p). I’m articulate, educated (MBS), and my sense of humor is diverse, ranging from the silliest (i.e. Jim Carrey, 70’s Steve Martin) to the most complex and sublime (John Cleese, 90’s Steve Martin). I laugh at myself often, if only to keep my friends from having to laugh at me alone. I’m affectionate, passionate, romantic, loving, accessible, and one of those men who prefers to bond with a few people very tightly then have a large number of friends. I'm a "grown up" in as far as my bills are taken care of, but my think I'm goofy and I take that as a compliment of the highest caliber. I love all animals (well, except spiders), but prefer cats over dogs. I hiked Europe in my youth and have a very broad view of the world. I am told I have an "old soul", am somewhat intense, and enjoy eye contact.

My Ideal Person Funny, articulate, affectionate, completely available, sensual, passionate, and confident. You have a job and are financially responsible, but your job is not your life. You’re close to my age, have kids or not, don't mind my kids, and don't want any new ones. You’re relatively fit (I’m not a BBM, and not looking for a BBW), and STD free. You have time in your schedule to fit us in comfortably. You enjoy public displays of affection, such as holding hands and kissing, without feeling embarrassed or concerned what others might think. You enjoy cuddling a lot, and the idea of sitting on opposite ends of a couch, playing footsies under a blanket while we read in front of a fire sounds like a nice way to spend an evening. You enjoy doing a lot of different things but don’t feel the pressure to just “do something” in order to be happy, so "doing nothing” now and again is ok as long as it’s with the right person. You have tattoos or not, piercings or not, and feel comfortable in your own skin without needing to pack Earl Scheib amounts (i.e. layer upon layer) of makeup on your face or bathe in perfume to feel like a woman. You're looking for someone to spend time with that entertains, comforts and challenges you, and reminds you why you're alive, and, more importantly, that you're a woman. You have a healthy libido and interest in intimacy with the right partner, and find that opportunity can “knock”, in this context, in the strangest of places and times. You have a rich sense of humor, enjoy a good straight man and don’t mind making fun (playfully) of the rest of the world, as they are never “in” on the joke anyway.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I tend to enjoy sex in public places, and my favorite fantasy is having sex with a stranger atop the Eiffel tower, with her clutching the rail, leaning over away from me, gazing down into the city while I drive into her from behind, feeling the tower sway in the wind and knowing we could get caught.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
It depends upon my mood...I'd love to have sex with Nicole Kidman in a very romantic, elegant setting. I'd enjoy exciting, urgent, angry sex with Jenny McCarthy in a closet at my office. I'd enjoy corrupting the Olsen Twins. It all depends upon my mood at the time.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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