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rm_BiSalemOR 57 / M
"Strap-on women? Looking for switch strapon women."
Salem, Oregon, United States
 
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rm_BiSalemOR 57/M
Salem, Oregon
Introduction
I'm a straight guy that has had various curiousities and interests in the past. I'm pretty much the average guy. I'm open to new things. I'm looking for different types of relationships. I could always new friends however it would be nice to have a relationship. Like most people I'd enjoy finding a sexual relationship however if I find a serious relationship it will be monogamous. I do not believe in cheating and could hope in a serious relationship the person I'm with doesn't either.

My Ideal Person What I'm looking for has changed recently. Ok, not really. I really want a relationship with women. That could mean a friendship only or perhaps even a friendship with benefits. I'd like to have as many friends as possible(sex not required) but if I am in a serious relationship then all friendships would have no fringe benefits. The type of friendship that it is will depend on both of us. If you say no serious relationship then no serious relationship. If you say friendship only then thats exactly what it means.

I think friendship and serious relationship definitions pretty much speak for themselves. For anything sexual then it gets a little blurry. I am straight but I have to say that I am curious and open to multiple possibilites. I'd like to explore what can be offered. I am very oral and I love to please. Although I would like it to be mutual its my main desire to give pleasure. I guess you could say that I want to find someone that will use me to please them or others. I wouldn't quite call myself a sub or a dom, I've always been a mix of the 2 but lean towards dom. However, I'd like to find someone that can bring out and use my sub side. Even though I refer to it as a sub side its not the type of sub that will take orders (ok maybe a couple minor ones). I think of myself as sub in more of a there to offer myself to give pleasure. I want to find a nice hot woman that can have me do what she needs and wants. The hotter she is the more likely she can get me to do things that I normally wouldn't do.

Even though I'm straight I am curious as to why women love having sex with guys and even though I'm not sure if I want it and it does scare me I think I would like to try it in the same fashion a woman does.

The type of women and even men that would interest me are the ones with a nice hot flat belly. For sex I would take 18-40 but for relationship I think I'd prefer 25-37. I'd prefer if the guy is younger, 18-25 if possible. I really enjoy little to no body hair and I prefer small chest although I've been curious about larger breast.

I'd love to find bi friendly and bi curious and bi people. I am not asking for anything to be done to me even though it would be nice so that means I can give pleasure to those that have no desire to return the favor and if its with guys then I prefer that. If the woman sets me up with a guy I would like to have prior knowledge and approve the guy. I'm curious and interested in what a woman can think up for me to do. Does she want strapon? Does she want me to satisfy more than one person a night?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Besides the standard 2 women and me I've had one about 10 (maybe more or less) guys having their way with me. Basically, its my birthday and the only way they can orgasm is if its in me. I want to have them start with the smallest and use their cum as lube until they get to the last guy that is really really huge. And while that end is getting satisfied my mouth is busy sucking their cum out of them until I feel full. Its not really feasible but it gets me really hot wanting it. My more feasible one is that I'm getting fucked while I fuck a girl and then probably eating it out of her but probably best if I only eat her while getting fucked.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Think its been all women so far. Sandra Bullock, Jennifer Love Hewitt(not a fan of big breasts at all but her smile and face could get me to do so many things). There are others but can't really think of them. As for guys I'd say probably Lex on Smallville and maybe even Clark. When I'm not horny I almost never think sexually about guys

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 57 / male
  • Salem, Oregon, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-curious
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: July 4, 1967
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Education: Prefer not to say
Occupation: Other
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Other
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English