Here I am a single guy (widower),looking for good friends in the Northern Virginia area and beyond. I need someone to get out of the house with and to do some fun things. We should be able to find plenty of things in common that we like to do together. I am in fine health and look much younger (I think) than my chronological age) in case that is bothering you. My characteristics include being somewhat of a computer geek, enjoying traveling local and further, enjoying a fulfilling sensual life by trying new and interesting things, and many other indoor and outdoor activities. I would love to find a woman who admits loving sex and who is not shut down to anything but woman4man in the missionary position. There is much more to sex than that and the woman on here who show some spirit and are open minded should be congratulated for breaking out of the mold society wants them to be in now. Those are the woman I really want to meet by coming to this site. I am not sex crazed and have gone without for a long time since I am a widower, but I do not want to have to continue to meet and ultimately reject woman after woman who cannot avoid showing their fear of sex, their rigid attitudes, and other cold water characteristics There MUST be some hot blooded women out in singles land

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is hot to trot. Otherwise I would be watching TV or something. I am looking for someone who is reasonably active and doesn't mind doing a little work to have a good time. I believe a monogamous long term relationship works best, but am willing to discuss that with the right person. I play with adult toys for both genders and once in awhile play dress up. I love nice lingerie for you. You should be a person with both social skills and interests beyond the obvious ones of this site. I figure if you are on here you know what is going on in the world today. If you have interests that don't match mine or if I have some you don't have, that can be easily dealt with in a conversation. You should be willing to email and to phone pretty soon in the process of meeting.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have been in threesomes, but only with women. I would love to have a couple with me in my nice king size bed or perhaps at a particularly sexy resort. Beyond three it gets kind of complicated and difficult to keep track of everyone. I have trouble just keeping up with the porno stars in their group orgies. What's he doing? To who? What is she sucking on? Complicated, but probably fun.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, Hot tub with others in the night

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Always willing to try yours, I love oral and like to wear lingerie in bed

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Everything should be mutually agreed upon

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Right now, I guess it would have to be J Lo and there is nothing that I would not want to do with her. Anything she asked, she would get. Of course I would have a rock hard 10 inches that kept spurting out cum all night.

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